I've been reading many of the posts and replies; it just seems that many of you don't get it. Seduction isn't about a magic phrase or tricks that get ONE girl; actually, the more you get into seduction the more you'll realize it has very little to do with women at all, its about making you the best you can be regardless of your surroundings.

From my experience, I've been both the outgoing charismatic smiling guy to the strong confidant and independent guy; both are effective but you have to shift and change according to the situation. I find that the more confidant you are the less you need to be the outgoing smiling guy as you're the one that people are going to and trying to get to smile, you're always the prize but sometimes you have to open people's eyes to that.

I mention this because I read suggestions for people to "always smile" which has its place but the more you become the dominant male the less you need to try and impress and the more others try to impress you; be genuine, have fun and smile when you actually are, but make fun when you're bored.

Don't sit in the back and do nothing. Don't confuse being dominant with being the quiet guy sipping his beer in the back, go out and see people, talk with everyone and establish yourself as the important figure in the room.

This style isn't for everyone; you need to be "alpha" to do it. This means putting in time to build your body, to build your mind, to make your confidance unwaivering, to be independent, to have pride in yourself your community and your work, to have good hygiene and grooming skills, to be socially strong and to be the one people go to. Most aren't there, most aren't even close; many believe themselves to be though. Always challenge yourself, I used to think that I was great at something but its pushing yourself past your limits that changes you.

Getting laid is awesome but not everything; if your only focus is to get laid it makes it harder to get any. Live an exciting life; go on adventures, learn a new skill, wrestle stronger opponents in whatever skills you feel lacking in and keep healthy.

The more action you get the easier it is to get more. Ever wonder why you have a dry streek for so long then suddenly flocks of women want you? Its because others can tell when someone is desired; the more you're desired the more they want you. The more you want others the less they want you.

The better looking you are the easier this becomes; however the more confidance and social skills you have the more likely you'll succeed. I believe any guy can get any girl but it sure is easier if you're in great shape than if you're overweight; read the FR of guys that get women but have terrible game and you'll understand. Its more important to be confidant but looks help a lot.

Its a long and difficult journey; one where you can stop at any time, but keep pushing yourself and maybe you be a legend.

I wanted to go into more; particularly texting but I ran out of space, next post I will try to add more about that topic.