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DiscussionBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:24 PM
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CMVBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:12 PM
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CMVBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:14 AM
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DiscussionBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:10 AM
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DiscussionBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:47 PM
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Question For WomenBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:25 PM
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CMVBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:00 AM
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DiscussionBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:55 PM
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Question For WomenBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:53 AM
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DiscussionBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 12:32 PM
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Question For WomenBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:00 PM
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CMVBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:45 PM
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DiscussionBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:33 PM
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DiscussionBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:14 PM
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Question For WomenBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:49 PM
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CMVBittererWegwerf/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:41 PM
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i coomed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:33 PM
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dudes rock
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:31 PM
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I think your question boils down to. Why would anyone work if there is no profit? Again this would need a long answer that i can't provide since i just drank an irish car bomb. But this video is excellent on the topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O9CFP_58mBc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:23 PM
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This needs a long answer that i can't provide since i just arrived at my NYE party and gonna start drinking. This video summarizes alot of things pretty well from a US-centric viewpoint. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVuCZMLeWko
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:14 PM
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Saving that level of vulnerability for someone I love and trust completely and has promised to spend his life with me Thats so sweet and lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:25 PM
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80% is top picture, 20% is bottom picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:21 PM
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First thick white girl. But just because i'm a sucker for pale skin and black hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:19 PM
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Isn't this what Norah Vincent tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:13 PM
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What do you like best about waiting until marriage? Also what do you like most about Jesus?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:12 PM
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No one wants to take away someones summer house or grandmas extra flat she uses to supplement her pension. The problem arises when a commodity, such as housing, becomes subject to market forces. In essence, most housing should be public housing or cooperative partnerships that work for the common good. Since housing is scarce, allocation still needs to be regulated by price. But this price cannot be artificially inflated by bad faith economic actors that only enter a market to extract value. Of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:07 PM
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sorry i'm not knowledgeable about this topics but can't we apply the same logic to other human needs like food, water etc? Yes we can and should. i mean buying a house is actually really hard work as well unless you freely inherited it from your family. Most landlords are either big vulture capitalist funds like BlackRock that buy up properties just to hike rent prices or they are loan-lease landlords which means they take out loans in order to buy properties and then use your rent to pay off th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:44 PM
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Being a landlord is inherently predatory. As shelter is considered a need and requirement for life, profiteering off of it should not be something favored by society. They earn money from tenants due to property rights, not work. Landlords make their money while sleeping, or visiting the mailbox to pick up your rent checks, while you clock in and out of work. All while not living there and being able to charge you and dictate terms on how you live there. This is known in economics as rent seekin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:17 PM
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I wouldnt date a 21 year old because she is just too young. As a 30 year old guy i don't wanna deal with early 20s bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:04 PM
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No war but the class war. You assume too much intelligence. People downvoted me when i said i would never date a landlord. Dating a leech on society is low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:00 PM
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Thats why he is such a hit with the ladies. He doesn't shower so the natural pheromones don't get washed away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:58 PM
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Jannies be jannying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:16 PM
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lol. I got banned from r/dating for posting in PPD. also datingoverthirty doesn't let you post until you've become a contributing member for a month. Also if your post is too similar to another post they just delete it. We complain about the jannies here but they are way way worse in the mainstream dating subs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:11 PM
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If you have money. Yeah sure
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:42 PM
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Looks: 2. Deformed and extremely obese Income: Unemployed living in my grandmas broom closet Height: 4'6".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:33 PM
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Pornposting is boring. We've got so many subreddits for that already. Give me moar ragebait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:39 PM
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basé
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:13 AM
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I went offline for a couple of hourse and the sub has turned to r/braincels
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:17 AM
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The learning channel. Seriously that what TLC stands for. But in actuality its the home of shows such as "My 600lbs life"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:50 AM
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It does matter. But i myself am pretty fit so thats my perspective at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:44 AM
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Damn i'm jealous. Its my goal to learn french and then move there. Its not far away so shouldnt be too hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:42 AM
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This is a quality shitpost
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:59 AM
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Guess i'll stick with my original goal of 12% bf then and see how it feels. Lowest i got so far is 18%
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:58 AM
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Well i mean everyone is different. Some guys can get away with higher bf% because they're attractivenes is just way higher. They way the fat deposits itself around your body is heavily influenced by genetic factors as well so one man may have a leaner looking face at a higher bf%
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:57 AM
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Presumably?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:55 AM
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Right now the notion of a second date doesn't appeal so much. Then unless she makes an effort, don't sweat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:52 AM
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Now you got me curious. But idk if i really wanna slog down to below 10% bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:47 AM
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Did the date go well? Continue talking with her and schedule a second date if you like her. If yes, then start escalating during the second date. Don't necessarily try for sex. Try touching tho and getting close to her physically. See how she responds. If its positive try for a kiss at the end of the night but see how the vibe is beforehand. If the vibe is off don't go for a kiss.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:44 AM
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You don't have tell me. I lost 70lbs this year (christmas gave me some back) and got really into fitness. Like the difference in treatment is kind of insane. I haven't really done anything with it yet except check how many matches i get on Tinder now. They Quadrupled. But generally. Stares, flirting, touching, many compliments about how good i look, double entendres, wanting to "hang out" etc. Its like a different world than before. Even just platonically, i suddenly became way more interesting …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:35 AM
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In that state i got laid more with hotter women. Needlessly to say the sex sucked because my sex hormones where in the dumpster, but that has been my experience I mean yeah it helped getting hotter women but the sex sucked. So i think the deficiencies did make up for it. Unless you only wanna satisfy your ego, i'd go with more general life enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:26 AM
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Try to go on more dates so it bothers you less. Proceed normally with the 6-date woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:18 AM
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I mean yeah, crazy low bf% does that. 10-12% is widely reported to be the sweetspot between most reasonable attractiveness gains and and a maintainable life situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:17 AM
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I prefer french women. Don't matter what ethnicity. As long as she smokes and is condescending she will have my undying love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:30 PM
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This says alot about society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:18 PM
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Wow, thats actually interesting. So it doesn't belong on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:11 PM
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Those aren't true brexit geezers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:59 PM
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her head looks disproportionately small in relation to her body. Kind of uncanny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:58 PM
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If i was a teenage guy in the Legend of Korra universe i'd be simpin hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:57 PM
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As a man: :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:55 PM
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It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:54 PM
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The ancient greeks were based.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:39 PM
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oof
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:29 PM
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For your respectful bow i name you Earl of Glastwycomcestershiresexham
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:28 PM
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How fat are we talkin here? TLC level or just somewhat overweight?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:25 PM
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Thats a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:24 PM
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You the royal family or something? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:21 PM
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A true gentleman always returns the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:18 PM
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Gay son. Because i wanna have a son. Doesn't matter that he's gay. He just has to make sure they use his sperm when he and his husband do a surrogate pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:16 PM
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Thats why i always eat lots of pineapple ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:11 PM
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Just do BJs on the first date. BJs don't count for n-count. Win-Win situation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:09 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:06 PM
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Actual motivational messages is not why i come to PPD. I want doom and gloom goddamnit!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:01 PM
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Good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:55 PM
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I don't think listing positive attributes about myself would be very useful. I mean yeah, i could think about all the good qualities that i believe i have. But realistically i know i have flaws. Many people i know that are objectively horrible are in relationships. Many good people i know are quite lonely. I don't think qualifying ourselves makes a difference. I've experienced the excitement but not the mundanity. So all evidence points towards that, in the end, i must not be relationship materi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:53 PM
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Can't keep dudes from rocking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:40 PM
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thats an empty platitude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:38 PM
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Hard to describe really. Like everyone glorifies the most exciting parts of a relationship. The Honeymoon phase, having lots of sex etc. I would like to experience the mundanity of love. The parts where you both decide that going out is too exhausting and you rather stay home and order take-out. Being each others priority even tho you are annoyed at the way they do the dishes. Idk, kind of weird to put it into words.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:37 PM
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Solid middle. I'm satsfied so far. But there is still room to grow. Gives me motivation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:30 PM
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Lolz, put me in there pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:24 PM
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What do you base these rankings on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:21 PM
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The other day i realized i'm no ones favorite person. Yeah, many people like me, appreciate me, are very good and even best friends. But at the end of the day their Gfs/Bfs/Partner comes always comes first. I mean a situationship/affair/whatever here or there is nice and all but its not fulfilling in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:20 PM
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If i like/know someone and find out they only wanna settle for me because the person they actually wanted rejected them or whatever i'd rather stay single and find someone who actually thinks i'm awesome and not a consolation price.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:34 PM
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Men should too. I know i have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:30 PM
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CMV: You should never accept being the second choice and just rather stay single EDIT: Since everyone chooses to interpret this in the dumbest way. Lets give a hypothetical: You know Person A and Person B. You are Friends/Coworkers. You like Person A and get softly rejected. Person A tries to date Person B. Person B rejects/whatever Person A. Person A is now ready to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:26 PM
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I coomed my pants just from the pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:49 AM
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Considering the inflated body standards that Superhero movies set, they kinda did as well
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:54 AM
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I maybe an atypical dude in that i actually prefer erotica over hardcore porn these days. This is just what i noticed from reading stuff on sites such as literotica
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:12 AM
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You're not the only one brother
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:49 AM
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Some of the stuff she says is pretty based tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:21 AM
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Easily accessible internet porn has ruined all of our expectations. This includes erotica. Who do you see in porn films. Big boobs, tight asses etc. What do men in erotica look like. 6'5, mega ripped and 9 inch cock. Of course so many people have body image issues nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:20 AM
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I don't think they meant you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:15 AM
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several of the women who have rejected me just told me that they aren't attracted to women, a couple men have said they are in relationships, one man said he isn't attracted to women, a few non-binary people have said I'm either too young, they're not single or that they aren't into women. There you have it. It seems its not you its them, literally. I'm not really sure how to sus out that information. You can't really if you don't know them beforehand Do you usually ask someone their sexuality b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:49 PM
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Well then you're really young, so in all honestly i wouldnt be too concerned right now. You will have plenty of opportunities in college. Approaching people while out shopping is probably not a good idea because most people just wanna shop and not be bothered. Also if you are talking with someone thats older than you they probably don't wanna date a minor. Or you are misjudging the connection you have with the person. Are you making sure the women you approach are attracted to women? I make bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:26 PM
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First, i hope you don't mind me looking at your account, you are reasonably attractive. I don't think that is the issue. How old are you? What kind of environment are you in regularly? Where do you approach these women/NBs/men? I'm confident, I try to make jokes, I'm fairly direct too. These are all good things but they do not guarantee success. In what ways do you show your confidence? What kind of jokes do you make? Do you try to make funny references that people around you don't get for examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:10 PM
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I don't think you could call most things on this sub "advice". But if you want i can give you some advice if you wanna tell me about whats bothering you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:42 PM
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Solid 7
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:40 PM
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I agree. I'm still a lil bitch sometimes but i recognize it now and stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:10 PM
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Some of it is lowkey hilarious i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:04 PM
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https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Cock%20Count Doesn't seem different to me unless n-count has always meant something different and i didn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:27 PM
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The inc**s call it juggernaut law
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:55 PM
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How is that different from n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:46 PM
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I thought so as well but i think the proliferation of trauma and mental health issues is a deep issue that goes way beyond the dating realm. Medication is not the solution. I recommend "Capitalist Realism" by Mark Fisher.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:38 PM
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then 6’3” would become the new standard. It already is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:33 PM
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whats that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:31 PM
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Since you say "affair partner" i assume you mean they cheated. I would wanna know so i can divorce them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:28 PM
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Every woman i desire should have an n-count of 1. And this 1 is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:28 PM
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I just became a manlet apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:04 AM
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It isn't inconceivable. I know a guy who says stuff like that about his wife. But he is pretty happy generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:03 AM
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No one would be happy with a partner they ultimately do not desire. You just can't force yourself to be attracted to someone, its a visceral reaction. Just browse r/deadbedrooms for a while and connect the dots. So while i do not fundamentally disagree with your viewpoint i'm going to challenge it anyway. Number one: Men would be happier with a partner that is uglier because they can always think "i can do better" which raises their self-esteem. Its not nice but i could see that happening. Numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:52 AM
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Andrew Tate is either a giant troll. Or he is the greatest subversive performance artist of our time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:08 PM
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Hella based sigma grindset #misogyllionaire mindset EDIT: /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:04 PM
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as another former fatty, i concur
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:00 PM
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Aren't swimmers like in really good shape? I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:42 PM
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Whats a "beau"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:41 PM
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I am not particularly fond of you and i do not value your presence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:40 PM
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I don't think 30 to early 30s is too old. However, what i've experienced, is that oftentimes many aspects need to be rushed. Me and my friends have experienced many cases where the woman's main priority was their biological clock. Which then doesn't really give the relationship room to really grow for a while because there simply isn't enough time. I don't wanna talk about marriage and children six months into dating and then the pressure builds etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:29 PM
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Maybe its more apparent but most "hobbies" nowadays that people pursue are centered around consuming shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:35 PM
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most people are pretty bland if you really think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:31 PM
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Goes to the clubs every week , Hangs around other women that are hoes, Drinks a lot of booze, Entertains a lot of men, Is a "party girl" Add in heavy makeup, tattoos, piercings, thirst trap instagram and you got a former friend of mine. Why is she a former friend? Because of some bullshit emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 03:14 PM
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With all the talk about height preferences we are forgetting the real reason why being taller is a better feeling. Because you can literally look down on people. I'm only 6' (which is only slightly above average in northern central europe) and i can only really look down on about 40% of people. That makes me sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:23 PM
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I'm 6' (I actually measured myself as accurately as possible) and feel smol tho, but in my country 6' is just slightly above average. I'd rather be at least 6'3
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:41 AM
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All men i've seen wearing these were drug addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:49 PM
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Did it tho? I rarely meet any guys who know about this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:48 PM
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Jannies gonna janny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:47 PM
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inb4 this gets nuked EDIT: I knew it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 08:30 PM
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DAE just get a very sensitive nose from time to time? Like you have uncontrollable sneezing attacks that just leave you completely exhausted and drained?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:14 PM
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Is the kind of cheese important? Like do women prefer a smokey cheddar or a smooth brier?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:29 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:27 PM
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You want a sub to jerk off other incels I didn't say you were an incel Clearly you did. Anyways, i'm not gonna argue in bad faith. You assuming that i would dismiss womens opinion due to sexism is not appreciated. I'm not gonna argue against it because proving a negative is futile. I was trying to say that if we knew for example that the guy who is calling all women sluts for example turns out to be a 15 year old kid who doesn't leave his basement then we didn't need to be so enraged. But i'm do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:56 PM
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Woah that is a pretty hostile assumption to make about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:47 PM
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I mean more like if you see a particular outrageous statement for example and then see the commenter is 13 then you can easily dismiss it as nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:42 PM
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The only way to have a reasonable debate here is for everyone to have a flair that contains: Sex, Sexual orientation, BMI, Body Fat percentage, age, relationship status, average attractiveness rating, bodycount and the average attractiveness of the bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:33 PM
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(Capitalist) Society is a conspiracy [...] by top men to exploit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:37 PM
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For me personally: Society came to my house and stole my xbox. Society is the nickname of my cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:32 PM
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I think the effects are the same for men and women. Men are just more horny and down bad on average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:30 PM
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lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:08 PM
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I just gorged myself on christmas sweets i feel like a fat fuck. I gained two pounds in the last two weeks because i get so many christmas sweets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:42 PM
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As i said, its not insane. Its not like they're throwing themselves at me. Also i have big problems capitalizing on it because i'm still a fat bastard emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:04 AM
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Could be better honestly. Its not insanse or anything. Maybe a strong 6 or a weak 7
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:58 AM
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Same tbh and i'm a dude. I would like to just skip the dating part and just be in a healthy relationship where you're comfortable enough to fart around each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:29 PM
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Its really annoying how the daily doesn't sort by new automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:52 PM
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Its about maximizing as many social avenues as possible. So give it some time. You're not going to walk into a social club or sport club and immediately be everybodies best friend either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:46 PM
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If you have 10 people of one group and one of those ten is attractive then 10% of the group is attractive. If you have 100 people and 10 are attractive you still got 10%. Relative attractiveness didn't change
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:40 PM
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Cherrypicked models are not really indicative of relative attractiveness in an ethnicity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:33 PM
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There are a couple of ways. Pick a social hobby, something where you actually meet and hang out with people and pursue it regularly. Not a weekly DnD group but something like dancing, art, literature or whatever. Pick an active social hobby, something sporty like climbing or football or something. Co-Ed if possible. Become a regular at a social spot such as a café or bar and slowly get to know the people there. Going clubbing is also possible if you're so inclined
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:13 PM
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Posting this under automod because i agree with your points. What people don't get when they say "OLD isn't real life" is that they misunderstand how real life is similar in many ways that aren't immediately obvious. The biggest point is. Regardless if your on OLD or in real life. Initial attraction is key and that means Looks. People really don't appreciate how superficial everyone is. I used to be close to 80lbs overweight and then lost that weight. Women that knew me for years at that point s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 09:06 PM
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Being the big fish in a small pond is what everyone should wanna be
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:55 PM
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There are some days where i'm just filled with resentment, bitterness and loneliness. I recognize this is toxic and i just try to isolate myself from others. But that usually makes me feel worse. How do you deal with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:55 PM
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I feel like the only way for me to move beyond my bitterness is by either finding a genuinely loving relationship or do everything i can and become a raging manslut.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:40 PM
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I still wanna keep some of my morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:17 PM
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you can hear things even her husband hasn't heard. As someone who has heard stuff like that. I advice against it. It feels absolutely awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 01:06 PM
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Men like LTRs too and would start lying about stuff like that as well. The question is, if the woman lies about her n-count and the truth comes out at some point. Should the man be upset? What about the reverse? (Doesn't need to be n-count)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:30 AM
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Men already lying to the heavens to get a shag For a shag probably. But i think the only reason a woman would lie about her n-count is because she wants an ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:17 AM
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If we normalize lying for women we also need to normalize lying for men. Lets fucking burn this market to the ground and make everything so unbearable that humanity goes extinct. We had our chance. We obviously can't handle our own freedom. We should never have left the jungle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 10:12 AM
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Either she is lying or her plastic surgeon is a literal magician
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 08:43 PM
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More testosterone = more gym gainz nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:55 PM
1

Its still an appeal to authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:46 PM
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Landlord
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:44 PM
2

The argument is still the same tho. "Because X does Y, its ok"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:41 PM
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mega star millionaire kanye west has become unhinged and praises nazi germany. What exactly is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:37 PM
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Without the daily 2-minutes hate the system would collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:19 PM
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I feel you man. There is this sweet, kind, awesome girl that is totally into me. We have so much in common and personality wise we would be very compatible. But i just don't find her physically attractive at all. I also feel like a shallow piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:06 PM
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Porn is mental opium.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:54 PM
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I'm not bald, at most i have norwood 1, genetically tho thats exactly how everyones hair in my family is so its unlikely that its ever gonna become worse and every old guy in my family still has a strong head of hair even at 80. And i'm out of my 20s so it likely would have started already if it ever did. But i'm ngl. If i ever actually started to go bald i would save up for hair transplants
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:52 PM
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Kinky is wanting to do some (step?)in**t roleplay. Perverted is actually wanting to bang your sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:49 PM
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If you have deep seated issues therapy can help just by having someone to talk to and going through the root causes of the issue. But therapy will never solve your actual physical problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:21 PM
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I don't find that question particularly interesting because it is obviously a gotcha question. So it is irrelevant what kind of answer i would give.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:47 PM
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Ask any question and i'll answer it right now. Within reason of course
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:29 PM
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Boston. Get yourself an irish lass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:28 PM
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3-year old and 5-month old Codenames for your FBI handlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:17 PM
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Howler monkeys are rad af tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:09 PM
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I'm special. My mom said so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:08 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:08 PM
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Probably true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:07 PM
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Ok drop a truth please
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:46 PM
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Lol who honestly thinks this is real tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:18 PM
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wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:17 PM
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Damn too bad. Well, try to let her down easy at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:02 PM
1

Ok so whats the problem exactly? Also what is the countdown?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:59 PM
2

I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:54 PM
1

Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:52 PM
1

fantasy is the same as rape What does that mean? Like fantasizing about having sex with someone is rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:48 PM
1

Women absolutely care how big your dongerelly is. Whats a good size? Also how hard it gets, refractory period, and how long you can last at hard/fast pump mode. Read Mantak Chia Size isn't all the matters, but if you have a better one than others then she is less likely to leave you for greener pastures. What are the stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:47 PM
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Me, my bitterness is more pointed inwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:39 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y1Lfn3cZPAc But seriously, being comfortable going places alone and genuinely enjoying yourself is an important skill. Most people lack this and just don't do something they'd like to do because no one wants to go with them. I include myself in that because i've certainly not done something because i didn't wanna go alone. You have to point out tho that as a lone person you can be at a severe disadvantage in situations where everyone is already with a group. Many …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:37 PM
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Pretty relatable for me. I know this girl who has a habit of not even "reading" my messages, which i know she does because she reads most messages on her homescreen and then just swipes away the notification. I think its pretty rude to just not respond to questions and then expect other people to not be insulted. But when i reply with a short "k" because i'm busy then suddenly i'm a dickhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:10 PM
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I wouldn't care about their presence on PPD. interests, values and wants in life beyond the surface level This is most important. Wether or not someone posts on PPD, 4Chan or whatever isn't really that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:56 PM
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Can confirm. Lost 70lbs and the difference, even in general treatment, is very stark. It didn't solve my loveshyness but its a work in progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:41 PM
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This is one of the hottest takes i've seen on here and that says alot. To challenge tho. To raise your children, protect them, provide for them and give them the best possible start in life is one of the most masculine things you can do. Provided they are your children. Of course nowadays there are too many weak schlubby dads around but that isn't really inherently something that one is predisposed for. Same way a guy that runs from responsibility by abandoning the mother of his children is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:38 PM
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I had a similar experience. I always thought of myself as average at most but then i went on tinder and had a similar experience, even tho my pictures were dogshit. So since i confirmed that its not my looks i have to work on my crippling anxiety lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:49 PM
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That must be it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:30 PM
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Women bad amirite guys? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:30 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:04 PM
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Actually that might lower the competition......carry on with your porn then. I think watching alot of porn is perfectly natural. Everyone should watch alot of porn. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 10:24 AM
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is this a turn off? Turn on more like. But then again i might be in the minority for being really into sporty women. Not just fit and skinny but actual real athleticism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:44 PM
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Naruto themed sexting has a sublime quality. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:39 PM
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Don't forget to teach him math. A Chad whos good at math will be unstoppable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:28 PM
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I promise i won't judge. I'm just interested in some interesting recommendations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:25 PM
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wasn't body count disprefferred because it sounds too much like kill count?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:24 PM
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Probably not more embarrassing than some of the stuff i listen to sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:23 PM
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I secretly enjoy those kinds of songs. Do you have some recommendations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:15 PM
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I have no specific hangups about genre taste. Almost every genre has some good stuff. But if she unironically only listens to music about partying and hooking up then imma disqualify them as an ltr option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:51 PM
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Just world fallacy. If someone is an incel they must be horrible in some way, while the reality most often is that people that qualify as incels are just below average dudes with social anxiety that feel very sad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:48 PM
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Do i have ADD or why do i prefer shitposting in the daily instead of listening to my lecture?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:37 PM
2

what term would you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:15 PM
2

She recognized your baldness but wasn't familiar with bald code. Did you show her the secret handshake? I'm not bald, i just assume there is some sort of ritual
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:14 PM
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Quality over quantity is what i always say
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:03 PM
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they balance it out with mature hobbies Most don't
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:02 PM
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many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:52 PM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:28 PM
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They are also very comfortable posting about their exploits 60% chance its a LARP account
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:27 PM
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You're probably not ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:20 PM
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I can appreciate the skill if it is actually skillful. If its too obvious then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:20 PM
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I grew up in a household of only women. I was the only son. Due to this i'm quite good at makeup and i can spot it quite easily. So i appreciate a natural look even if it is touched up with some basic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:09 PM
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two friends of mine. One only wears makeup if she dresses up and she is quite good at it. The other always wears heavy makeup (bordering complete fakeness), some days heavier than others. Personality wise the first one is more pleasant. Idk what kind of point i'm trying to make with this. Just an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:06 PM
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I'll be thinking: Damn girl you so fine. Then i see her without makeup: -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:57 PM
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Make your own damn money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:55 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:55 PM
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Either its a man larping or this woman has some thinly veiled sociopathic tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:44 PM
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Care to link some of those stats and sciences? I'm a nerd for anthropology stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:41 PM
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Yeah but that is exactly the problem isn't it. A man that unifies all desirable qualities of an "Alpha" with all desirable qualities of a "Beta" is what all men truly aspire to be , myself included, but for one reason or another fall short.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:56 PM
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Depends on age and mix of n-count. Someone at 30 who has an n-count of 25. But those 25 are more like failed relationships, where they were dating with the intention of turning things into an ltr, and maybe like 1-3 genuine hookups. If we consider the range from 16-30 then we would only average about 1-3 per year. Which isn't all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:35 PM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:01 PM
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actual last
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:52 AM
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I am a man dying of hunger listening to someone complain about having had to much to eat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:48 AM
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Nah its gonna be like that Rick and Morty episode with the planet with the sexbots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 09:55 PM
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His profile is very based and a based woman will see that and immediately fall in love /s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:17 AM
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Comments are automatically sorted by NEW LIES!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:15 AM
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Hard to say really. A fit muscular body is definitely more attractive but if it really helps if you got a fucked up face is debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:53 AM
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Gymcel is used to describe an ugly to below average guy that is muscular thinking it attracts women but his face is still ugly so it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:27 AM
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I can attest to this somewhat. When i was 70lbs overweight my quirks were weird and offputting. Now that i lost 70lbs and became somewhat fit my quirks are funny and unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:05 PM
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cthusband and rswives
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 10:18 PM
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The schmuck is lacking information which prevents him from making an informed decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:29 PM
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Whos the fool? The schmuck who has no idea or the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:26 PM
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I wish it weren't so common
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:20 PM
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So by fucking hookers men would have constant post-nut clarity is what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:19 PM
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If you like sex then aren't you just making yourself worse when you make a man you're dating wait for sex? You're missing out on something you like doing. If you had sex with him earlier then you would have done more things you enjoy. Bold of you to assume that they, in this scenario, don't have a side guy they fuck while still dating the other schmuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:14 PM
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TRP is making a huge mistake not including fucking hookers as part of the toolbox In what ways is fucking hookers beneficial for maximizing your own dating outcomes? I mean thats what TRP is essentially about. So if you say fucking hookers should be part of the toolbox then what specific purpose does it serve in this context. TRP recommends lifting and taking care of your appearance. This increases your attractiveness and gives you better odds to date the hot women you want to date, so the purpo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:12 PM
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I lost 70lbs and have almost visible abs but when i look in the mirror i see a fat fuck. So you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:54 PM
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Holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:52 PM
1

What about human trafficking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:51 PM
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how fat are we talkin here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 07:51 PM
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lol nytimes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:37 PM
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I remembered he was such a dip shit nine years ago. I only really talk to him now because he apologized What did he do that an apology was even necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:51 PM
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depends on how attractive you look
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:49 PM
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I was being sarcastic because the previous commenter said 5'7-5'10 was short
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:48 PM
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shorter men around 5”7-5”10 lmao Yes that is the short man range. Everything below 5'7 is literally dwarfism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:40 PM
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30-hour work-a-thon! What? 30 hours straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:39 PM
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I think at least 70% of the people that talk trash about simps would turn into megasimps if simping actually worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:37 PM
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Literally 1984
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:35 PM
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I refuse to recognize "rizz" as a term. I don't usually don't mind youth slang but "rizz" just gives me a sick feeling in my gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:23 AM
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I can attest to this somewhat. When i was 70lbs overweight my quirks were weird and offputting. Now that i lost 70lbs and became somewhat fit my quirks are funny and unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:25 AM
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30+ and still inexperienced? Well you're definitely not going to appeal to an oestrus/in heat woman anymore, or be able to satiate her with your penis now losing it's prowess. If you're feeling ready to move on to long term commitment with or without family life then by all means do so but for the rest of us, date exclusively non-menogamous. Don't bring any standards or expectations to your dating game, but just one box to check off: do I like her and do we vibe? What exactly are you trying to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:23 AM
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Thats true. But the inflated hypergamy would still be an issue. Its actually insane. I know this walking red flag of a woman that thinks she is the total shit because some thirsty dudes on instagram like her thirsty insta pics. Trust me, the difference between her pictures and her irl is pretty big. Not complete photoshop big but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:54 PM
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Make it 100 men and it could work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:50 PM
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If one average man and one average woman are locked together in a house. Would it be inevitable that they sleep together? This scenario assumes that they have everything they need in the house, such as food, warm water etc. and that there won't be any shit such as SA or worse. Also assuming that both are attracted to the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:48 PM
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Its certainly great for the one guy. But the species will still go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:36 PM
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Social media was such a big mistake. Ironic that i'm sharing this opinion on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:35 PM
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Situation A means extinction. Situation B also means extinction it just takes a bit longer. If one man has children with 100 women all of those children will have the same father. An extreme genetic bottleneck that leaves the population extremely vulnerable to changing living factors such as diseases, environment and more. Also all further children will be inbred.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:33 PM
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degenerate TV
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:05 PM
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I want my future wife to see me as husband material and as casual sex material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:07 PM
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I feel like i talk too much. Is talking alot as a man unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:20 PM
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11 Seriously go see a doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:50 PM
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See thats the problem. Not only do you feel the need to test the loyalty of your gf, which has to have a reason, you also expect your "friends" to try something, as if that is a normal thing you do when you hang out with your "friends" gf. EDIT: If i knew my "friend" tried to seduce my gf and she stayed loyal i wouldn't think: "Yay she is loyal" I would think: "Wtf kinda friends do i have?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:45 PM
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Drop those shitty friends bruv. The people that i consider actual friends would never think about trying anything with my gf. If they did i would call them out and drop them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:34 PM
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Considering my own age i wouldnt wanna date a 20 year old. Like i don't want to know what is happening on tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:41 PM
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She's could learn a trade and go to nightschool. Maybe downgrade living arrangements so she doesn't need as much money. She is still young, attractive and has no kids. She can still do absolutely fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:31 PM
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The order thing in this thread is fucked again. It defaults to best instead of new
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:07 PM
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Imv if you want an LTR dating casually is a waste of time and you can vet for sexual compatibility without fucking multiple people in the same timeframe. At least there are some sane people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:06 PM
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we should bully yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:30 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:28 AM
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I don't expect anyone to actually read that. Its a pretty good read tho actually
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:13 PM
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You hold out until she used the bathroom so she isn't going in after you. You say you have to freshen up a bit. Then you turn up her hairdryer and blast music as loud as possible from your cellphone. Then evacuate your bowels as fast and as quietly as possible. Then fill the room with deodorant, close the door and hope she doesn't notice anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:52 PM
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Read this: https://readingfromtheleft.com/PDF/EngelsOrigin.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:49 PM
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Damn, i knew it wasn't a coincidence that i feel smarter and more focussed when i fast. I knew about autophagy but damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:47 PM
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One guy had that convo with me 2 weeks into dating. How did that turn out?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:45 PM
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At what point should the exclusivity talk come in your opinion? I personally do not appreciate dating someone for weeks only to find out they've been screwing other guys because technically we never said we were exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:38 PM
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Basic idea pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:36 PM
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Ladies and gentleman. We gottem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:35 PM
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No, men having muscles and the ability to protect is a huge turn off. Every man should be weak and pudgy. Except for me of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:13 PM
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This hits deep right now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:49 PM
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i feel like this is sensationalised
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:07 PM
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no because those guys still had a high enough elo score to even be shown to you. You closed the app after you came up on the serial killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:05 PM
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I lost 70lbs this year, but before then i didn't have an excuse. I just felt more sad. Tbh, last december there was just kind off a light switch that turned on and i got to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:02 PM
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6th 90% of men who are not hot enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 09:02 PM
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wyd when sadness hits?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:54 PM
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I don't know how to answer that question. I have body image issues. I feel ugly most times but i get plenty compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:42 PM
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Ok i guess. I experienced a hookup turned ltr in college. It was great at first but turned volatile quickly because she developed a drinking problem and cheated on me. A friend of mine had an ONS turn into a fwb situation and then ltr. He got used and emotionally abused until she dropped him when she found someone else, she didn't cheat tho as far as i know. My last ltr started as a bonding "friendship" of sorts through mutual interests and then blossomed into a mutual crush and this ltr was the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:39 PM
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Yeah thats my argument. Your subjective experience is a reflection of your own actions and choices and prone to extreme bias. Therefore your assessment is flawed and i disagree with your viewpoint. My own experiences do not support your viewpoint because they are decidedly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:27 PM
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I'm jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:23 PM
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You are making absolute general statements based on your own subjective experience. Thats what i get from your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:22 PM
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M30. Used Tinder for the first time recently without putting in much effort for my profile. Used it for about three weeks. Got about 40 matches but i wasn't really interested in meeting anyone from Tinder. I just wanted an ego boost after a bad experience. Had some nice chats tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:20 PM
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Agree to disagree then. I don't see how your arguments are necessarily exclusive to hookups or are even mostly true. But you do you i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:16 PM
1

My biggest dream is to be a deadbeat dad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:11 PM
1

I want 5 kids from two different mothers so 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:07 PM
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I agree in the sense that should not form a bond before you've found out if you're sexually compatible. But going down the hookup culture route in order to find an ltr is also not wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:06 PM
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I agree. I'm not looking a potential roommate so if my sexual needs aren't met i don't see a future for a relationship. Emotional connection is very very important, i have to stress this, but it cannot replace a healthy sex life in a relationship. If anything an emotional connection should enhance it. You can love someone deeply withouth being in a formal relationship with them so why call dead bedroom situations relationships? The biggest problem with dead bedrooms is really the denial. Because…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:59 PM
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Yeah legally it isn't that simple in my country if you are not married to the mother. Of course i would try to avoid marriage but its very important to me that my children have my family name so i would bite the bullet in that case, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:52 PM
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Well shame on you, you toxic motherf****. Fuck you're right. As repentance i will read the complete works of Judith Butler.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:50 PM
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There is a middle ground between casual and marriage. The only reason i see to get married is really this: When i want children and i want those children to carry my family name, thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:48 PM
1

Thats not what i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:45 PM
2

You're right. Lets call each other toxic instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:43 PM
3

Thats why you don't enter a formal relationship unless the sex life is satisfying. No one is obligated to stay with someone if your needs aren't met. People call me harsh, but in your love life you have to be ruthlessly self-interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:42 PM
1

I agree with you on the point that marriage isn't what its supposed to be, but that is true regardless of who you marry. You have no control over the other person so you ultimately cannot prevent divorce. My take is this. Why get married at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:39 PM
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Nothing in life is permanent. All joy is temporary, but so is all pain. You might change circumstances in your favor so you may enjoy the things you hold dear longer, but that doesn't change that you ultimately have no control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:33 PM
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Hasn't ever? Unless you're below 18, good luck. To answer your question: No. I prefer a real connection
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:25 PM
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it seems like there’s a bit of jealousy going on. Its a natural human emotion, one that women experience as well if you ever looked into femcel or female forever alone subs We should stop shaming each other for having natural emotions. We can work on moving past them, but they are still a visceral part of ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:20 PM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:02 PM
1

Holding people to higher standards is oppression actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:21 PM
1

What turns you off the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:34 PM
1

Is it only the face piercings?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:33 PM
1

While Chris Hemsworth's physique isn't necessarily unattainable naturally, it is still not realistic to achieve a physique like this in the short amount of time they're claiming in interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:26 PM
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Q4A: Would you date this person? Looks: Somewhat chubby but still a somewhat decent figure. Heavy tattoos on arms, legs, belly and hips. Septum ring, studs on nose, cheekbone and chest. Average face, with fake eyelashes, fake freckles, fake nails + Heavy makeup as a woman or really heavy grooming or whatever a male equivalent would be as a man. Lifestyle: High n-count, very promiscous, heavy drinking when going out, smoker, likes other drugs occasionally as well. Partying frequently otherwise no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:20 PM
1

Yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:13 AM
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I'm mostly angry with myself. This woman is a high n-count party girl that doesn't want to be tied down. She is bratty, loud, obnoxious and thinks she is the shit even tho she is at most average maybe a bit higher with heavy makeup on, which she almost always has. She drinks often and when she goes out she gets fucked up drunk, she smokes and likes weed alot. Fake eyelashes, nails and freckles, heavy rouge countouring that anyone with a bit of knowledge can see a mile away. Fully tatted up leg, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:42 AM
2

spiders
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:28 AM
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Bruh i've been acknowledging this problem for months now and i've taken steps to distance myself from this girl as much as possible, which isn't entirely possible because we sometimes work together which i also can't always avoid. Still my general state of patheticness persists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:17 PM
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Subconsciously they must think "This guy is so pathetic he has to pay, so no one else must want him and therefore i don't want him"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:04 PM
1

Not keeping appropriate eye contact when i'm having a conversation with them and not being appreciative when i help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:02 PM
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The women i know all wouldn't because of the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:54 PM
2

You don't have to be misogynistic to be dark triad. Narcicissm, Machiavellianism and Psychopathy don't predispose someone to be misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:52 PM
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God i'm so pathetic. I have to be frank with myself. This girl sees me as an orbiter and i still am. Just now she texted me because of a problem she has and like a good boy i helped her immediately because being helpful is in my nature. Now back to ignoring me i guess and having fun living her party girl lifestyle with the guys she actually likes. I hate how i have these emotions that my rational mind just can't expunge. Its actually gross how pathetic i am.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 10:49 PM
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Its an interesting development for sure but not really useful as a topic because any significant effects wont be visible until way into the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:13 PM
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My lowest was 18% (Bulked up a bit due to christmas) butbi still completely hated how fat my face still looked, tbf i apparently have body dismorphia and facial dismorphia
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:57 PM
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Except for the larger penis there are certain ways. You could add an inch of height with certain shoes, you can increase your testosterone natutally to naturally get a deeper voice and for hair you can use minoxidil if you are going bald
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:47 PM
1

What hairstyles would you recommend for maximum hotness?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:44 PM
1

What lookism subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:43 PM
1

Do you think 10-12% Bf is the maximum amount of hotness? What about some muscle or is that irrelevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:43 PM
1

I just wanna be a really hot guy. What areas are changeable enough to increase my hotness?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:46 PM
1

Yeah i totally agree. I'm also not well off financially and it is readily apparent that this is hurting my chances considering i garner plenty of interest otherwise. In a society where our meeting our basic needs is guaranteed there wouldn't be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:50 PM
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I'd be more depressed about it, but we just got fusion to work and I can't be depressed with limitless clean energy. When did we do that? Only thing i heard recently is that there is one test reactor that made a miniscule amount of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:00 PM
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Its kinda funny how many Red and Blackpillers harp on about the supposed "Golden Age" of dating and marriage that was the 1950s. The 1950s, the way it concerns economics, was actually America right out of a wartime economy coming into a huge boom following the New Deal. Strong unions, strong government programs and funding for infrastructure, healthcare and education. It was America at its most social democratic i.e. democratic socialist (I mean this purely from an economic standpoint) People wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:57 PM
1

If i went to my dentist and said i want braces he would laugh at me and tell me to go home because my teeth are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:10 PM
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I think you overestimate the impact braces make due to insufficient sample size. Also no serious dentist is going to give someone braces if they don't need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:37 PM
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Was just about to say. Like bro if you make your relationship into your lifes purpose what you do if it fails?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:31 PM
1

guess i'm an alpha male lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:54 PM
1

lucky you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:05 PM
1

i certainly hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:54 PM
2

No and i'm not circumcised. I'm not going to violate the bodily autonomy of my newborn son. If later in life he wants to get circumcised it will be his own decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:14 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUe3DMXBx2E Asking women what kind of money they expect in a man and then they get shown how many men actually make that much. Tl;Dw: Most expect a man to make upwards of 100-150k after tax. In their chosen age ranges this meant 1% of men made that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:09 PM
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Answer to Q1: A former female friend of mine tried to set me up with a friend of hers. My former friend knew what kind of women i'm into. So she tried to set me up with the complete opposite and i didn't find her friend even remotely attractive. Thats not the reason why she is a former friend tho. Answer to Q2: I had a friend who tried to wingman me by telling the women stuff about me of how great i am. He sucked at it tho because much of the stuff he said was lowkey embarrassing and didn't help…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:57 PM
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I mean the AI counterparts got fucked. But the real people just got a match
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:20 AM
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How was she not your type? Well, she just wasn't attractive and obviously didn't take care of herself. I mean some women carry some extra weight pretty well. She didn't and had some extra. I don't wanna come off as shallow but as someone that takes health and fitness pretty seriously this was already a dealbreaker. Hmmm . . . . maybe she knew you were her friend's type? If she wanted to help her friend she shouldve done her due dilligence
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:15 AM
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Idk man, my former female friend/colleague/"crush" (stupid story) tried to set me up once. Not even remotely my type and she should've known that. Since it was the first time someone tried to set me up it was pretty difficult to get out of that situation, because i didn't wanna come off as shallow. Tbh i was pretty disappointed that she thought i should go for this woman. I know that sounds arrogant but idk how else to describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:56 PM
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Height: y=x10 Intelligence: y=x-2 Experience: y=2x
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 01:32 PM
3

Try to quit your vices for 90 days and see how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:57 AM
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Don't we all, deep inside, wish we would find that special someone? To find true love? Isn't all this sexual strategy stuff just a maladaptation to our crushed dreams?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:52 AM
2

Its true that everyone always forgets slovenia.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:25 PM
1

Which is a convention derived from german.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:11 PM
3

Browsing PPD instead of being productive at work. I've trully hit bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:01 PM
1

Cool beans
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:40 AM
1

You're takin it too literally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:40 AM
2

An acronym for "Federal Unemployment Tax Act," FUTA is legislation that allows the government to tax businesses with employees for the purpose of collecting revenue that is then allocated to state unemployment agencies and paid to unemployed workers who are eligible to claim unemployment insurance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:15 PM
1

Lee being fat was such a dumb plot point because it was completely pointless and he was shredded again the next season.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:09 PM
2

O
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:06 PM
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Yeah no shit. This video sums up my thoughts on the matter. Lee Adama should have been demoted at least for literally dumping 50% of their military assets into the dumpster.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:03 PM
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When i swipe on Tinder, i'm matching very rarely with people i'm really into. Most matches i'm meh about. Its like i'm not swiping on everyone and really looking at the profiles and get a decent amount of matches. And then i oftentimes see a profile and be like "hmm, ,eah idk maybe" and its almost always a match when i swip right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:46 AM
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If i'm having an actual conversation with someone i'm keeping eye contact. But what about side conversations you may be having at work or someplace else where you are otherwise preoccupied?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:29 PM
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And then someone posts the headline: "Bowling alley closes and lays off it's entire staff due to outrage over controversial video" Top comment: "Wholesome 100 chungus moment"redditgold
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:01 PM
0

You realized she was even more beautiful and only uses make-up because of societal pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:56 PM
1

Cheating gives me a serious ick, like idk a revulsion in my stomach. Can't help it. Unless they have a very good reason i would say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:44 PM
1

I think you make some good points but what exactly would you recommend in such a case?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:17 AM
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Care to enlighten me on how to improve in that category? Off the top of my hat i would say: Get noticeably muscular and lean, wear clothes that emphasize your body, some decent tattoos on the muscular arms and a fuckboy haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:00 AM
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If you knew me irl you wouldn't guess that i'm actually a pretty shy guy. Metric wise i have a lot of things going for me. I'm 6'1, people tell me i'm very handsome, i have no trouble making friends male or female, i have interesting hobbies and talents that most people are interested in and everyone says i'm an all around great funny guy. This is just what people tell me and what i notice objectively. Problem is, i used to be pretty fat, like almost 300lbs. I only recently reached my goalweight…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:39 PM
1

Choose two
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:25 PM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:49 PM
2

So looking like a doll is the goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:35 PM
1

With how much photo enhancement can you get away with on OLD without being deceiving?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:22 PM
2

The final pill is to stop looking at women Take the monastery pill
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:18 PM
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what are you doing in ppd then? Get outta here you rascal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:52 PM
1

I am not a narcicisst.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:47 PM
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100% of women should only be interested in me. Every other man is only a consolation price. I think thats just fair because i am so fucking awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:41 PM
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Too many people cry about the loss of social cohesion and communities but don't understand that isolation of everyone is pretty much what neoliberal capitalism wants. If people were economically secure and we still had regular places of socialisation that are not commodified to hell, like nightclubs for example, then dating and socialisation would happen organically. Thats why the communists in the eastern bloc, while curtailing the religions, replaced them with something else like the youth cor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:51 PM
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How do you know her bodycount?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:54 PM
2

I'm not a scientist. This is just my limited understanding of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:38 PM
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and the guys who think it’s too much work to pick up a weight are going to somehow become “the wingman for all men!” Which post is that referencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:34 PM
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If i understand those studies correctly its more about Oxytocin sensitivity. Oxytocin is basically the bonding hormone. During Sex you release heavy amounts of it and bond with the person you are having sex with. Doing it with many different people diminishes you sensitivity for it and therefore makes bonding with the next person more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:29 PM
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why does this make so much sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:15 PM
2

Question those that want you to question those that want you to question what you believe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:01 PM
1

It really is true that satire is impossible on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:18 AM
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If reading this sub has taught me anything then all women have their DMs full of mega hot gigachads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:53 PM
2

If just getting laid is the goal then i agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:51 PM
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If i married this woman then it wasn't just for her looks, maybe thats what initially attracted me to her i give you that, but for love and marriage i need more than just good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:47 PM
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You love your wife .
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:31 PM
3

If given the chance many men will always simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:59 PM
1

Thats lip synced?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:52 PM
3

Women bad, men good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:49 PM
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I know plenty of girls who are on the heavier side. They are not more forgving in most cases. They're realistic at most. Some are also delusional. Most also seem to have a chip on their shoulder regarding it, because they say the meanest shit and wear their insecurity on their sleeves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 04:44 PM
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Do they really take it serious when one of their girlfriends says "You're so hot" etc.? I mean me and my guy friends compliment and insult each other but we don't get an ego because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:38 PM
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I'm with you on that but a relationship is always two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:32 PM
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I think you have some good points but its mostly a fundamental flaw in the way our capitalistic society is structured. Our hyperindividualistic capitalistic society pushes us to live in little boxes and consume shit. We've turned from creators to consumers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:31 PM
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Sex for recreation is just flesh assisted masturbation. It fries your reward centers. You do you tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:24 PM
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There will always be FOMO. Relationships that last a lifetime are basically unicorns at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:22 PM
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There is no solution that wouldn't require a severe restriction of freedom for one or both sexes. Cats out of the bag. Its a free market now and some people just don't make the cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:19 PM
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I mean this sub is pretty much useless tbh because everyone is just circlejerking around their own beliefs or demonizing someone else for not sharing them. Its just good entertainment at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:14 PM
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Its disheartaning to see someone you like date someone else. But that should only tell you that you've become too emotionally invested. Never emotionally invest into someone you would like to date but are not dating already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:26 PM
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If i did actually consider myself a red pill guy then i would never admit it. Did i have some issues that some redpillish content helped me with? Sure, but then again you always have to think critically about what is actually helpful and what is just toxic. There is a line between "Work out and become assertive" and "Make her feel easily replaceable" The first thing should be common sense but isn't. The second one is just petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:23 PM
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Something you hear very often is that to solve the problem of male sexlessness we should legalize prostitution. But then wouldn't we need to worry way more about STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:40 AM
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This is really the best answer i have read on the topic. There is always a deep seated reason that, if unadressed, will always resurface past tendencies. I've seen it happen to me and people i know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:33 AM
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Unless he mentions specific people, there is really no way of knowing. Some Red Pill talking points have even become mainstream so thats no indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:10 AM
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I'd rather not hear about their dating exploits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:03 PM
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I don't see a meaningful difference there. I'd rather not be one of the girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:02 PM
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Exactly, might as well be a ghost
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:02 PM
1

Acknowleding other people as hot is not the same thing as talking about your dating strategies, gossipping or asking dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:57 PM
1

That you were already dating her completely changes the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:47 PM
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My point exactly. If they did find you attractive they wouldn't talk about that in your presence. Attractive in the sense that they are interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:45 PM
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CMV: If women in your presence, at work or in a friendship group, talk about other men they are attracted to or would like to fuck, they essentially see you as an asexual eunuch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:34 PM
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I think it doesn't go that deep. I think most women don't see it as an excuse because they genuinely believe they are telling the truth when they say "I'm not ready to date/for a relationship" etc. Sexual and romantic attraction are instincts tho, you can't logic yourself into finding someone attractive or desirable, so when the right guy comes along they are suddenly ready for a relationship, which doesn't mean their earlier statement was an excuse because they believed it was the truth at that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:54 PM
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The result is the same so why does the reason matter? Even if it is genuine. Do you wanna wait around on the off chance that she at some point feels ready to date and chooses you? I personally don't like to waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:45 PM
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From a womans perspective plenty of fish just do that already. As long as they're satisfied with what they are getting there is no reason to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:50 PM
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Why would a fisherman learn how to actually fish if the fishes in his river/lake just jump into his net on their own? Even if there were arguably better fish somewhere else that are harder to catch, as long as the fisherman is satisfied with what he is getting there is no reason for him to do anything differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:40 PM
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Ok, so i'm 6'1, have a broad built, get complimented on my looks pretty regularly since i lost weight, have been complimented on my speaking ability and my singing voice, sung and played guitar in a band and been complimented for my writing, humor and creativity, i am certified not autistic. For the inhibition i would give myself a 2 because it really depends on my mood. So i would score a 7 in a good mood or an 8 in a bad mood. When i was obese i would've scored 11 which doesn't make sense beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:27 PM
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In fact, I created a quick and completely arbitrary Masculine Advantage Attractiveness Calculator here. There are 7 attributes to tick off. This is self-reported so pretty much useless. I can by definition not be objective about myself except for the height thing and maybe how broad my build is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:59 PM
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Only valuing appearance is obviously stupid. On the other hand you have to be attracted to your partner physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:29 PM
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Is it because of the linked video? Because otherwise i didn't reference blackpill stuff or incl talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:32 PM
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I meant it in the context of forming healthy longterm romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 02:51 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:53 PM
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I think the recent posts with named characters to represent certain archetypes are great. We should add more. How about Shorty Shawn, Tall Tim, Buff Barry, Regular Regina, Promiscuos Patty, Fuckboy Francesco etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:46 PM
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Lmao. Shouldve read your other comments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:06 PM
4

What if he had a good reason for wearing insoles? There are certain feet and ankle conditions that make the use of certain insoles necessary to correct certain maladies. They also give a small height boost. Like an inch or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:57 PM
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What would you say if you found out the guy you're dating is wearing insoles that boost him an inch but he needs to wear them for medical reasons? Just interested if the reasons matter to you or if you would immediately assume insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:54 PM
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Most shoes, except for some really flat ones, give you about an inch of extra height just because of sole thickness. Adding one inch shoe lifts isn't really noticable. Anything further becomes noticeable and is going to hurt in the long run once the woman finds out you wear them. I know this because i have a foot condition that makes it necessary to wear soles that slightly adjust my foot positioning in my shoes to make it short. Bit more complicated actually. As a side effect they give me about…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:44 PM
1

Its because in the mirror you see yourself reversed essentially. You get used to your mirror image. Then when you see a picture of yourself, its like you see yourself the same way someone else sees you everyday, it can be jarring. If you part you hair to the right side of your head in the mirror, someone else looking at you sees it parted to the left because its mirrored.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:42 PM
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1) have sex if you’re still a virgin, ideally with someone more experienced. This will give you a starting point to figure out what sex is like, get over your initial nerves, and find out what you do, and don’t like. 1) Don’t lower your standards. It is conceivable that those two things could be mutually exclusive in certain cases 2) During these learning stages do not attempt to “play”, people, nor should you be emotionally invested yourself. It will get messy. The emotional investment part is …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:19 AM
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Because it would offer you experience, and why would it hurt your self esteem, it's a temporary measure. I can understand it hurting your self esteem if after sleeping with an escort you were unsucsessful in the dating realm, but if you just use it as a stepping stone I don't see why you'd feel ashamed. Tons of men have done that throughout history princes and noblemen regularly lost their virginity via prostitutes, and today I've heard of several rappers who lost their virginity via prostitutes…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 11:18 PM
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Judging by the comments in this thread he wouldn't be entirely wrong. But this is PPD, i don't really know what i expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:08 PM
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I was thinking more of a guy that was obese, depressed and didn't leave his house much. But now he has become fit, outgoing and has way less depression. He just didn't try to date for a number of years. To respond to your Edit, I don't think the guy you are describing is "average" at all. Average in most ways i guess apart from the dating aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:55 PM
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then the advice to which I was replying is redundant. A bit yeah. Thats why i put an EDIT in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:44 PM
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Lie about imaginary ex girlfriends IF and only if she asks. This kinda falls apart as soon as she meets friends and family that know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:35 PM
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Getting a prostitute would do nothing to solve the underlying issue so i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:34 PM
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I agree that some of the comment your responding to misses the point a bit, i think you are also assuming too much regarding my question. We have a hypothetical dude who, for some reason, hasn't even considered dating during his 20s, but now he wants it. Okay, weird. But OP asks us to assume it. Many different reasons could apply here. Now you're adding that he suddenly becomes interested enough in whatever he enjoys to pursue it in a sort of club, which he presumably wasn't doing before. That h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 08:31 PM
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How would getting an escort help? Wouldn't that make it worse, to know that you literally had to pay money so someone would go on a date with you and have sex with you i mean. And when you say younger what do you mean exactly? 18-19? In my experience young women like that generally go for men closer to their age and not 5-10 years older. Also it seems weird even tho technically they are adults at 18
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:48 PM
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Rule 11 means Blackpill. So i'm guessing you would recommend looksmaxxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:47 PM
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Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 03:40 PM
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The comments depress me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:12 PM
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Its kind of funny actually. My mom used to work nights as a cab driver and she was a bartender in a night club. She has seen it all. Judging from previous conversations, she basically agrees with 90% of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:44 AM
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I concurr, to a degree i guess. I had an experience recently where i was hardcore attracted to a woman that i knew quite well. Then i found her instagram account. Complete thirst trap account and the woman on the pictures, while it was clear it was supposed to be her, wasn't really her. If you know what i mean. While she didn't outright use photoshop it was clear that she was "enhanced". Then i found out she has fake eyebrows, fake eyelashes, fake freckles, fake eye color and uses way more make …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:04 AM
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Is PPD considered a Redpill/Blackpill/Pinkpill/Toxic sub? Do people get banned on other dating subs for posting and commenting here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:27 PM
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freestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:45 PM
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I never learned how to properly dance. I can probably stay on beat and do a two step and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:43 PM
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Gonna be going to a nightclub tomorrow for the first time in almost 7 years, on thursdays it is special university student day because most don't have classes early on friday. Gonna go with a group of mostly female friends. In the past i was always either the guy being on the sidelines or way too drunk. Mostly not fond memories that soured the whole clubbing experience for me, which is why i wasn't particularly keen on going out to clubs for the last 7 years. Any tips? Should i try to approach o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:38 PM
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Seems like she just likes your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:35 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 07:02 AM
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doesn’t like hookups and communicates that She knows i don't like ONS or hookups. I think i'm just gonna stick with my principles and stop worrying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:39 PM
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Fuck. If she is drunk i'm gonna decline either way. Too risky in our current climate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:21 PM
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hmm, damn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:14 PM
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:(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:11 PM
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But if your longtime friend has propositioned you for a hookup I would assume she just wants to hookup and would be turned off if you involved emotions. That sucks Is she open to a relationship or does she only want a hookup? In an unrelated conversation she said she isn't ready or wants a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:06 PM
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if shes looking for a hookup shell go look elsewhere, So in such a case there wasn't more than a hookup in the cards anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:02 PM
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Ok now i'm completely confused. If i would want to pursue something deeper with someone i've known for sometime and she propositioned me for a hookup. If i decline because of my aforementioned reasoning she apparently is either gonna be offended and loose all interest in me or find it attractive? So there essentially is no answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:52 PM
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fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:44 PM
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So as a man you have to do it if you are interested in the woman and she wants it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:40 PM
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Do you lose interest in a man if he refuses a hookup because he wants more than just sex and wants to take things slower? What if you've known him for a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:29 PM
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Yeah i know. Its just all so weird right now. Last year i was fat and completely invisible to every woman. Now the vibe has shifted and i get overwhelmed by the shift in behaviours. It just gets to me sometimes and i get overly attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:33 PM
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So i guess my best course of action is to limit our interactions to what is necessary? I never really seriously considered her for dating. I just had some confusing thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:25 PM
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Let that one go bro. I don't actually wanna date her. go flirt with someone else. Since she is a friend i asked for her help with that, she even tried to set me up with someone, who was not my type, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:49 PM
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i'm asking if i'm her orbiter. She flirts with me but then is super flakey over text. She says she wants to meet up to help me get my dating profile into shape but then never actually commits to a time and place. Problem is that for a little bit, because of her flirting, i did get some thoughts about her and maybe acted like an orbiter to some degree. Even tho i don't simp for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:47 PM
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Am i being an orbiter? I have a friend/coworker. We sometimes hang out in group settings. She is rather promiscous and has a weird relationship status. Since ive lost 60lbs and built some muscle she has become flirty and touchy with me. I always only saw her as a friend at most. But i gotta admit that the flirting somewhat got to me and maybe acted a bit too needy with her. I didn't do anything really tho. I don't constantly text her, like her instagram or anything, or try to help her with every…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:23 PM
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I heard that in America its much more common to be married with kids in your early to mid 20s. Here in Western Europe its much more relaxed. Its not uncommon to still actively date in your later 30s early 40s. And i hope the american sentiments stop seeping over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:21 PM
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I relate. This kind of connection i hard to find in our times unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 11:02 PM
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The feeling that i understand them deeply, that i want them on every level. Not just physically but emotionally as well. And the feeling that this is reciprocated Your three points are spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:38 PM
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Ayo wtf. Of course it doesn't count. Jesus Christ how is this even a question? Consent is paramount. SA is probably one of the most horrible things that can happen to someone. How could anyone hold that against someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:42 PM
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If i knew i wouln't have asked the same question basically in the discussion thread. Lmao. Funny how this post happened at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 06:40 PM
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If you put it like that then yeah, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:58 PM
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You are not there to fill the void. Too much downside. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:44 PM
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I think your formatting is broken. The bold letters don't show up here but showed up in my messages tab. You will be just another notch in her count at worst, at best she will be missing one of her hookups and at times compare you to them consciously or subconsciously at least once in a while, is that what you want? Pretty much what i'm worried about. Right now it seems she is into me, but what if i actually go for it? Hows it gonna be in 4-5 months? Since you can get ONS I mean yeah, but i don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:43 PM
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Does this make any sense? Context: We've always been friendly but its kinda different now. She stares at me, teases me, stands very close to me, touches my shoulder, always asks if i'm gonna be at gatherings and she even wants to organize something for my birthday that is coming up and she jokes about doing a striptease for me. It might seem obvious, but firstly, we're coworkers and i still need this job at least for a while and i don't want drama there. Secondly, idk specifics and it has been a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:20 PM
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The Wall exists for people that take their youth and health for granted. But the body cant compensate unhealthy lifestyles forever. If you take the correct measures early enough you can stay very much desirable for longer than people would claim post-wall. This goes for men an women, since men also age and most oftentimes not very gracefully
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:01 PM
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Thanks for your thorough answer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:45 PM
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Possible? Sure. Likely? No. The problem is that the underlying social norm of the dominant provider husband is still upheld even tho most women earn their own paychecks. Lets be honest. Working mostly sucks, having der pressure of providing for a family sucks. Most women i've met don't want that. It can build an insidious kind of resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:09 AM
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This is it. For so many people the amount of effort they have to put in doesn't reap any proportional rewards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:11 PM
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"starting on nightmare difficulty after skipping the tutorial" seems like a fitting analogy i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:04 PM
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what's left are the undesirables So people like me. Lmao I still say it is better to have the expanded social network though because I'd stump for my single guys friends to single ladies. Yes of course. I rather have more friends and connections. But as you said, either way you're kinda fucked. OLD is shit, social circle has no single people (this includes hobby groups i guess) and cold approach is also kinda dead. Especially if you're looking for more than a simple hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:44 PM
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Yeah, sucks tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:14 AM
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Would make sense. I agree. It would fix alot of the issues. However, unless you can get a bunch of altruistic rich coders on it, that code and pay for the servers, maintenance and security, it won't happen. Almost all Dating Apps and Services exist for one reason only. Making money. If they actually worked well then the customer base would be gone and they would no longer make any money. The people that make dating apps are disincentivized to make them anything more than the minimum viable produ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:39 PM
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This seems accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:32 PM
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I'm not complaining about socializing. I'm saying that the common advice "date within you social circle/warm approach" isnt actually good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:07 PM
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Expecting your friends to actively get/give you sex is really cold, exploitative, and transactional, and not to mention not the actual purpose of friendship Yo, wherever did i say that? You're making alot of assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:58 PM
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Not talkin bout hookups here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:21 PM
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Didn't mean married, just single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:59 PM
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When he was low income he probably was no consideration for most women and those good catches (such as you i reckon) that would've had considered him, probably weren't single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 09:58 PM
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I've had the opposite experience. I'm kind of a slow dater and i had cases where the women would be turned off if i didn't try something by the third date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:51 AM
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I think sometimes people are busy and have shit to do. So waiting a few hours for a reply isn't that bad, especially if you text during work hours. If it takes days to reply however then its very clear. Everyone has their phone with them, everyone checks their notifications at least once a day. If you know your message came through and she hasn't even read it after a day, it means she chose to not even look at it and keep it as a notification. Even when i'm really busy during the day, after my w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:10 AM
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That is exactly what i meant. Its not the surface level circumstance that should be critical but the reason for it. If i meet someone who lives at home with not Job and its because, for example, they were Ill and lost their job but they are now getting back on their feet and taking action I wouldn't be like: "No Job, No House? You are unworthy". If they actually are just a lazy person that wants to do nothing but sit around, not work, and be catered to by their parents, thats a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:07 PM
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I do have a job and no i don't live with my mother. I live near tho. As does the rest of my family. But yes, i did have harder times in the past and a strong connection to my family. I'm just not the kind of person that wants to assume the worst You are certainly entitled to your standards and i'm not trying to date you so it doesn't really matter now does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:40 PM
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I don't think standards are getting us anywhere tbh. Call me a bluepilled romantic but i wouldn't discount people for surface level stuff. No Job? Instead of immediately thinking: "They must be an unemployed loser" i would try to find out why it is like this. Did they recently lose a job and are still searching in a field that is hurting? Are they trying to find a new career path and looking for an opportunity? Many reasons that don't scream loser. If they actually just do nothing, fair enough. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:31 PM
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better safe than sorry, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:18 PM
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Tbh, if some random woman dm'd me on reddit acting all sweet and stuff. I would immediately assume catfish
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:22 PM
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Thanks but at most i'm a 5 now because i'm still pretty chubby. I only mentioned it because i noticed some differences in treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:29 PM
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1: I don't think in those numbers. My friends say i often go for women they would consider semi-attractive, plain or even somewhat unattractive, lookswise i mean. I guess a 4-5, if we wanna use numbers, is my most likely range i guess. 2: Same as Number 1 i guess. 3: When i was 260lbs a 3 at most. Now at 205lbs i could maybe say a weak 5 normally or a strong 5 if i dress well and do my hair. Once i reach my desired BF % (at 23% right now goal is at least 15%) then who knows. Could be that i have…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:25 PM
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While this approach is certainly sensible it would fail because of the Nash Equilibrium. Man 1 and Man 2 don't know each other but they have two choices in regards to online dating. Number one: Do what you describe. Number two: Pretend, get sex and get out. This gives us three scenarios. Scenario One: Both do what you describe and everything goes well and men and women are overall happier: Scenario Two: Both just pretend, get sex, women unhappy (probably) and it changes intersexual dynamics to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:53 PM
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Who knew it could be this easy!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:30 PM
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Yeah, happens too often for my taste tbh. Just recently i got all these good vibes from someone only for it to turn really awkward when i actually asked her out and working with her was awkward for a few days until the awkwardness cooled down. I generally try to think like this: What do i have to loose by gambling? It depends on the context. At work? Could be very problematic. Social/friends circle? Better but also a bit risky if it doesn't go well. Gatherings or Clubs? Nothing to loose so just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:59 AM
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I don't get why this is Q4W, but i'll comment under automod just in case. You say he is 23 years old and on his way to become rich? Easy. Hair Transplant, Shoe lifts, and potentially cosmetic surgery to fix the face, even tho i would hold of on that until we realized this guys potential without any super invasive surgeries. Its always better to have your body in peak physical condition as opposed to the alternative. Not gonna say it'll be easy for him. But not hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 11:21 AM
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If that never happens there could be something serious going on or your just very short? I'm like 6'4 though so take what I say with a grain of whey powder. I'm 6' without shoes and 6'1 with my normal shoes. I think my height ain't gonna doom me, but it ain't gonna save me either. I'll take it with a pretty big grain of salt if you don't mind. 6'4 is like the height i wish i had.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:02 PM
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you're almost there! Yeah but thats the question isn't it? Where is "there"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:52 PM
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What is your diet like? I'm pescetarian. Plenty of healthy fats. Fruits and veggies. Almost no processed sugars or fats of any kind. Good proteins and fiber. I don't drink softdrinks or eat any snacks such as crisps or biscuits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:50 PM
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6' barefoot but its in the post already
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:45 PM
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I do. I'll edit that in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:43 PM
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Not considering that i have feelings. The odd comments on which guy they think is hot and why, while its clear i don't look like that. The way i'm treated as an accessory sometimes. The way i'm sometimes only there to serve a purpose or perform a service. The way i have to perform their image of what a man is suppossed to be and do instead being able to be my authentic self. The way how its almost always bad if i am not putting on the facade of being charming, friendly and funny. It hurts. It re…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:06 PM
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Dating for me is the phase of getting to know one another, the earliest stages where both people are not quite sure about each other yet. What this entails can be different for everyone because everyone is different. Things that are common in my dating life are mind games, flaky responses, hidden expectations, ghosting, general flakiness, ditching someone immediately once a more exciting option comes around, red flags, unreasonable expectations the list goes on. I don't find those things very en…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:21 PM
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I don't particularly enjoy dating. So no. I enjoy companionship, sex and building a life together. Dating is the thing you have to do in order to maybe get those things. Most of the time its just stupid and unnecessarily stressful. Individual dates can be fun tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:50 AM
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The entire hate comes from the unspoken implication that none of them wanted to be that type of person to begin with, While i'm not a red piller i still had to adopt certain mannerisms that suppressed my innate tendencies becaus they were bad for my dating life. And i am not gonna lie that i am still a bit resentful. I just wanted to be nice and sweet forever but that was a turn-off and got me a lot of heartbreak
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:01 AM
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Yur husband should be treatin you like a queen girl. Divorce him immediately. Jk, sounds pretty good. Hope all goes well with you and you'll soon make the money you deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:03 PM
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Not OP but i had a similar experience. My always fit friends basically neglected nutrition almost completely because since they played football (not american football) all their lives they could eat like shit and still be fit. Of course some advice like, eat more healthy was in there, but nothing that really worked for someone whos metabolism and insulin was completely out of whack. Also they did many high impact or high duration exercises like running. I obviously couldn't keep up, out of breat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:17 AM
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Same tbh. Same situation basically and all the advice my always fit and skinny friends told me didn't work. Didn't know any formerly fat people but certain youtube channels had those guys and they recommended intermittent fasting and exercises designed to get a workout in without immediately hitting my limit, which always happened when i tried running. Guess what, it did work and i've lost 80lbs so far. So yeah, only people that know your struggle can give you advice on your struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:03 AM
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In my view you can only ever really take advice from someone who is on your level. If i'm looking for dating advice and listen to a super goodlooking guy and he says "Just be yourself" he is telling the truth because being himself is actually working for him. But it won't work for an average dude like me. Same goes for advice most women in my circle go for. They say what they think oughta work, but they are removed from the realities that govern the modern landscape for an average dude so it mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:40 PM
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Question is, are most men interesting to women on a sexual level, As long as you're not super ugly, you are bound to find some at least. The difficult part is learning to recognize this and acting accordingly. Which is why you need that baseline confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:43 PM
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Personally, i think you should use whatever you want to motivate you. Wanting to be more attractive and desirable to the opposite sex is a perfectly valid reason and imo one of the strongest motivators out there. Why else would people ask "How did losing weight/gaining muscle/dressing better/having money improve your dating life?" so often on here and other sites?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:17 AM
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I personally have grown up with two sisters and didn't need to have sex with any of them Uhm, ok lol. But yeah, while i think that most men need to have some period of time where they realize that they actually are interesting to women on a sexual level just to build their basic dating confidence. I think learning that we are all human is necessary to build lasting relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:13 AM
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Used to be really fat around 280lbs on a 6' frame. Slimmed down to 200lbs now going down to at least 180 or 10-15% bodyfat depending on muscle growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 11:10 AM
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Makes more sense maybe. Not gonna happen tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 11:00 AM
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Maybe even tho there is an emotional attraction, a primal part of the brain still needs some physical attraction in order for the emotional bond to form into anything sexual. Idk tho just thinking out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:10 PM
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Yeah its something learned the hard way. You most often can't use your personality for dating. I think its like steps on a stairwell, first you have to pass the looks thresshold in order for your personality to really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:31 PM
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What can you do? Nothing really i guess. Just sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:25 PM
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Too bad really, makes it harder for the few of us that are actually sincere apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:07 PM
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I agree, thats why i added the edit that there needs to be a baseline attraction first, be it friendship attraction or romantic attraction. No one just introduces their single friends to people they don't like that much or they just don't think they're attractive enough for them. When i was at my heaviest, like pretty obese (280lbs), i had a theater group with mostly women and we got along really well and i was pretty popular (as in funny and competent and stuff) and while i didn't do it to meet…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:02 PM
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I largely agree but with some caveats. First, doing something interesting (going to meetups, joining clubs, doing classes) just to meet women is in my experience not a good idea because there are certain expectations that can easily be dissapointed. Secondly, the social circle might not always be receptive to dating within or it could result in a lot of drama. For example if you try dating someone from work and it doesn't work out or you make a fool out of yourself. Or what if all women you know…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 11:44 AM
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I'm happy it worked out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:52 PM
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Hell no! Yeah, unfortunately thats what i thought as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:30 PM
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If the relationship has been established in close distance a good time before. So, lets say, a month and a half is probably not enough time then? And the Long Distance is either temporary, Lets also say its 2,5 years at minimum regular enough visits can be worked out and arranged And its at least a 7 hour drive, the horrendous gas prices notwithstanding
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 12:08 PM
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Yeah but 1 month is definitely not enough time. Just to confirm for reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:49 AM
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I was forced to start my relationship long-distance (we had met before, but were just friends). Care to elaborate? I think we benefitted in some ways, actually. In what ways? I wouldn't recommend it as it's emotionally difficult but it doesn't spell certain doom. What were your strategies to deal with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:46 AM
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We probably would have broke up before going off to college to tell you the truth. Yeah, unfortunately that seems about right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:42 AM
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I probably wouldn’t have bothered if it had been only a month<< Yeah, thats what i thought unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:40 AM
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Would you say that it also would've worked out if you had only been dating for, lets say, a month and a half? Or would you just not have bothered at all if you knew they would be gone in a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:22 AM
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Because then it wasn't a new relationship. What if you had only been dating a few months before going long-distance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:13 AM
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Did you date a significant amount of time before going long-distance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:10 AM
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Before you lived together did you date a significant amount of time? Or did you start dating while living together?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:00 AM
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How did the LDR come about? Did you date a siginificant amount of time before going long-distance? Was the long-distance a permament thing or did it end eventually? How far away was the distance? Every second week can be very expensive depending on how far away you are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:49 AM
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Yeah but you're away from home, not living somewhere completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:24 AM
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Maybe i misphrased it, thats not what i meant. I meant if your partner is literally somewhere else for the vast majority of time and you literally cannot see them in person. I didnt mean you need to spend 80% of your time with them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:18 AM
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I gotta agree with this. "Nice Guys" don't come from nowhere. This post basically summed up my dating life. I just can't help being nice and i was always heavily penalized socially if i either wasn't nice at the moment or if i made it seem like i was sexually attracted someone. Women generally like me, but they don't like me sexually. Not being nice feels alien to me. I tried doing stuff that the seduction community recommends like teasing and shit just to not fall into the "friendzone". But it …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:06 PM
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It wasn't cmv when i posted this. It was discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:05 PM
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I gotta agree with this. "Nice Guys" don't come from nowhere. This post basically summed up my dating life. I just can't help being nice and i was always heavily penalized socially if i either wasn't nice at the moment or if i made it seem like i was sexually attracted someone. Women generally like me, but they don't like me sexually. Not being nice feels alien to me. I tried doing stuff that the seduction community recommends like teasing and shit. But it just feels wrong. Idk. I do have some g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:02 PM
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Work and social circle is dry. Damn, thats like 50% of normal dating avenues gone. I mean this is gonna sound like a platitude and it essentially is, but what about your interests and hobbies? Maybe there are groups in your area where you can connect with people with similar interests. Of course there is no guarantee that the hypothetical men there are single or interested. Otherwise there are always dating apps, as bad as they are, they do have a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:30 PM
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Shyness shouldn't be too big of an issue. There are some strategies out there where you, as a shy woman, can still show the potential man that you are interested without putting the complete risk of rejection solely in your hands. Men, especially very considerate men, are somewhat risk averse often and need some indicators of interest before making a move. For example you hypothetically meet someone at work, this man ticks all your boxes and is looking for the same thing you are. But he doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:12 PM
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You'll be fine. Don't take this sub too seriously when it comes to stuff like "29 years means you're old and undesirable". Of course you may have to sort through some shitty options while finding the right person that is compatible. Some guys definitely do promise stuff like love, marriage and children just to get you into bed. You may also need to know if you prioritize good personality traits or good looks. Men that combine both and tick all the right boxes are very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:01 PM
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I'll tell you once i've lost another 30lbs and see if anything changes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:46 PM
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I agree, which is why i clarified that i have no trouble "shooting my shot" with women i don't have so many stakes with and where i don't necessarily have to see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:03 PM
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but the point is that you don't want to risk getting it wrong and being called a creep or developing a reputation. Thats exactly what would happen in my situation. I can almost guarantee it. I know how they talk amongst each other at my workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:01 PM
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yea. it unfortunately seems that way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:04 PM
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At our work there is plenty of time to have conversations of any kind. Its not a particularly demanding job mentally. Trust me she is way different when talking to the female colleagues. She is single that is confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:50 PM
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I'm none of those things anymore, but that has been a somewhat recent change
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:34 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Tho it may even be less than that. She kind of ignores me and gives one word disinterested answers. Idk im probably coping hard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:33 PM
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Make it her idea. How exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:13 PM
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Its an entertainment job with wildly varying schedules. There is no real lunch break.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:55 PM
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Thats gonna be another 6 months at least since i'm only gonna start my new career in october at the earliest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:13 PM
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There a certain factors that could complicate it. For one i'm 29 and she just turned 20, i know that shouldnt be an issue but age gaps of this kind are somewhat scorned upon where i'm at. The workplace is 95% women that like to heavily gossip. The supervisor is super feminist and protective of this particular colleague and this colleague is good friends with many other female colleagues, i'm also treated very good but not like i'm their friend. Lets just say, if i do just ask her out like that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:09 PM
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Try to tag along during lunch or ask her out to happy hour/dinner. Thats not reall a thing where i work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:40 AM
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There aren't really any out-of-work events atm unfortunately. We work alone together sometimes tho, but in those situations she is very reserved towards me. Most good interactions happen when other colleagues are around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:40 AM
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If you are sure then could you say which books you'd recommend then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:53 PM
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Without any attraction at all from anyone? Probably not. Unless they are just not attracted to their sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:18 PM
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but (should) have your job, finances and body in better shape 1 and 2 are pretty iffy atm due to things that happened in my life that didn't go as planned, i mean i'm not unemployed but well my living situation is pretty shit and i have to change careers due to unrelated reason. #3 is coming along nicely tho even tho idk if i can get a "better" shape considering the damage i did to myself by staying overweight for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:54 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:24 PM
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Both men and women really only have two to three shots at getting an LTR right in their 20s. There comes a point where the ship has sailed As a 29 year old dude. I'm depressed now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 07:17 PM
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While i would describe 90% of relationships i have with women (that includes colleagues, friends and family) as very positive. If you really pay attention and get them to be really honest about things like their preferences and choices. Then you will encounter that many viewpoints could be coming straight out of the Blackpill or Redpill ideologies. For me personally it really grounded me in reality and innoculated me from putting women on a pedestal, because they are just people like me. Even th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:33 PM
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Stop working out? Become fat (functioning) alcoholics mostly Stop moving up the career ladder? Yes How do you know they aren’t just rolling in dough after working hard for a decade so now they’re finally beginning to enjoy the fruits of their labor by traveling, relaxing, and taking it easy?? They're not. I know alotta people and 95% of them don't travel, relax or take it easy, even if they are in an LTR. They're the same desperate men happy for any morsel of attention, while they let themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:56 PM
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Imo. All these situations heavily depend on context and compatability. While it is generally good advice to not view your workplace/neighbors/other obligatory places as a dating pool. You also shouldn't rule out that the person you could build a happy and fulfilling life with is there. Of course you need to be pretty sure its not gonna blow up in your face because trying to ask someone out or dating someone in those situations can indeed make things awkward and bad. A friend of mine tried asking…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:37 PM
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I'm 29. Most guys my age that i know really have stopped trying. I saw that and decided to do the exact opposite, even if it is just to fulfill my own narcissistic tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:29 PM
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Don't get married if you don't want to, no one is forcing you. I, myself, am not avoiding marriage in particular. Its more because finding someone you would actually marry is hard. Its not about having good sex and getting the material things you want. Its about partnership. The institution of marriage, has been transactional for a long time. Men used to want regular access to sex and companionship while alot of women had to make the rational choice to choose a provider. Trouble is, transactiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:57 PM
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You shouldnt watch porn at all. Ever. Now i'm not a NOFAP dude. You can masturbate if you want. But do it without porn and only to release pent up energy if you cant put this energy to better use. Porn is a hyperstumulus that messes with your brain chemistry. Most of it is extremely degrading to women (and men to some degree) and the industry itself is rotten to the core. 95% of porn content isnt even remotely close to what healthy sex is like. Its a performance, nothing more. So to answer your …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:32 PM
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There is an inherent sadness in being realistic. Being realistic means being honest that you won't get what you "really" want. It is settling. At the beginning stages, if you make the rational choice that your man is "the rational choice", it means you're not inherently excited about him. The lack of true desire and excitement is what is sad. Yes, these can be stable, healthy, great and full of love. But its still sad to know that deep down, the spark wasn't really there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:01 PM
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Mainly luck. For the average dude there is an average amount of attention and attraction. Most women might not like them but some do, the average guys have to know when to make a move on the right woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:55 PM
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This is only half true. Yes, of course you're not gonna find anybody if you sit in your room all day and don't talk to anyone. On the other hand, for many people putting yourself out there is like if you multiply a 0 by whatever. Its still 0. I've known super introverted guys who had that certain something that made them interesting regardless and i've known super outgoing types that are seen as entertainment for a laugh or two but nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:51 PM
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You can always become financially stable, your attractiveness level however is heavily determined by factors you cannot control, apart from your fitness level. Therefore i'd rather be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:07 PM
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Do you view her as “easier” and therefore not wife material? Or are you attracted by the confidence and would want to match her efforts? I wouldn't view them as easier. Having this kind of confidence is inherently attractive to me. Afterwards it depends on the person tho. It depends on what happens after the first move. I might be in the minority here but sex isn't what i'm primarily focussed on. because society encourages men to make the first move This imo depends on the context. In a cold app…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:19 PM
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I just feel like taking advantage/leveraging this Smart, just don't be evil i guess. hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:13 PM
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Seeking an understanding. Many other places only offer ideology and half truths. This sub has many different valuable viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:12 PM
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Bruh, no. I'm not gonna abandon the woman i love because, for example, Emily Ratajkowski wants me. Idk about other guys but i'm concerned if this is the kind of world we wanna create, where everyone is just a bunch of metrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:18 PM
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thats pretty much what i'm doing but thermodynamically it is impossible to lose weight without having a calorie deficiti
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:56 AM
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if you have a neurotic, spergy demeanor Could you clarify this in more specific ways? I have the impression that i'm normally perceived as neurotypical. I have an easy time making friends and being a normal guy people like to talk to, also people say i'm pretty funny. I still have some social anxiety tho, especially in social situations before the ice is broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 01:50 AM
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Won't i have a lot of loose skin? Idk, skin flaps aren't really attractive i reckon. Tummy tucks are too expensive for me atm. I mean 12% body fat is pretty hardcore for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:25 PM
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Just to clarify. I went from 127kg (280lbs) to 110kg (242lbs) about three years ago and held that weight with a bit of a weight gain to 112kg(246lbs). I did not workout during this period or did strength training. This was all diet. Since middle of december i went from 112kg (246lbs) down to 102kg (224lbs), which i do with a combination of not eating sweets or drinking sodas and eating more healthy and a bit less, eating more protein. Also i regularly exercise now with a combination of low impac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:30 PM
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damn, what a transformation. Its like its two different people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:30 PM
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60 pound difference is still significant imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:21 PM
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Shes back with her ex i'm pretty sure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 11:08 PM
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Sitting alone, being alone. Feeling sad because i've missed my window with that one girl i liked. Also feeling bad because they told me "I'm one of the good ones". Which basically translates to: "I see you as a sexless eunuch" Gonna move on soon, but right now gonna feel bad on this wretched non-holiday
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 10:51 PM
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Does whether you meet a woman on a dating app or in person affect how seriously you take her? Depends on how serious she is. All things being equal, do you hold women you meet IRL in higher esteem? Not really no. Depends on what kind of person she is. Even after getting to know a woman you met online, are you more likely to consider a woman you met in person for a serious relationship/marriage? If i meet someone at a concert or meet them online doesn't matter that much in the grand scheme of thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:51 PM
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So i probably have to bite the bullet and just have an account with some posts, just to have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 11:00 PM
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Well, i'm 29 and never had an Instagram account. I used to have Facebook but deleted that years ago. I'm not the kind of person who wants to narcicistally post stuff and present some sort of persona. Also i would feel like a hypocrite tbh. But i also do not want to give myself any unnecessary handicaps if i could just make an account and post some stuff occasionally. Just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:59 PM
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I don't get what you're saying. Most women i meet are not "conventionally" attractive. They all have their faults when it comes to looks. They only time they are "conventionally" attractive is when you look at their profile pics where they have impeccable make up, lighting, angles etc. Doesn't mean i don't find them attractive. If i was chasing the kind of image i see in the profile pics then i would just set myself up for dissapointment. Also conventionally attractive doesn't mean anything. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:53 PM
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I don't think in terms of what or what isn't attractive by Hollywood standards. I assumed you mean unattractive for me personally. Also Hollywood looks aren't real. Its a horrible image to compare oneself to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:48 PM
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Looks unfortunately do matter. Its unfair to everyone. I've had women not reciprocate attraction because they simply did not find me sexually attractive. They liked my personality but thats it. I've had the reverse where someone i didn't find appealing was into me but they would have been great partners probably. Trouble is, a relationship has some sexual components, we can try to dissavow this as much as we want but in the end, us humans, we are sexual creatures. So as long as you're not comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:41 PM
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You said in the other comment that OF Girl has mental illnesses and or trauma. This sounds like BPD. I would change my answer to the high N-count one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:46 PM
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Do we assume that all else is equal, like personality and life goal wise they are good matches? Do we also assume that i am attracted to them and they reciprocate that attraction? Its a tough question because on the one hand you have someone who has gotten so many Dopamine Kicks from the OF attention that their brain could be maladapted to dopamine rushes which is bad for very many reasons. On the other hand the wilder past one probably has significantly decreased potential for pair-bonding and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:57 PM
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Not a woman, just wanna comment that the way they dubbed over the scene is horrendous. It sounds like they are in a closet trying to speak naturally into a microphone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:47 PM
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unless a man makes it very clear he is feeling a woman Ok what are ways a man can do that? Lets say you work together so you can't really make it too obvious or otherwise risk humiliation because technically she is your superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 02:37 PM
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As a dude: If the things i've seen on FDS are in any way predictors of attitudes and behaviours in this hypothetical woman then i would not pursue anymore. I don't need someone who evaluates me along arbitrary lines of "High Value" and shit. If that makes me "Low Value" so be it. I honestly don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:02 AM
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No. I do not want a traditional woman in the old christian conservative sense. Would i like my partner to be loyal? Of course. Cheating is a dealbreaker. Would i want her to be caring? Yes, when i'm down i would like to have her support and care the same way i would do for her. Does she need to be submissive? Idk what that means anymore. I don't need a lapdog or someone who doesn't think for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:57 AM
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Nah its all good. Its just that i was kinda deluding myself a bit into thinking someone might've been into me (i am into her), but all the evidence is stacked against that so i just have to deal with it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:29 AM
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Make sure to call out your buddies when they pull stuff like this, hold them accountable, and make sure the women they are preying upon are OK. I don't have buddies like that anymore. My current guy friend group is very respectful, even if it means never taking the initiative ( Which is part of why i asked the OP question in the first place) and all those that were predatory were kicked out. We are still a bunch of idiot shitbags tho. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:08 AM
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If they knew this and sided with the guy then thats horrible. I'm sorry this happened to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:52 AM
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Men are fucked up, tbh. Alot are i agree. I'm not gonna throw my whole gender under the bus tho. At this point I'm honestly numb to being groped. Like, it's a red flag and I'll avoid the guy, but I'm so desensitized to low level sexual violence that I just shrug it off. I'm sorry it came to this for you. I hope you have better experiences in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:52 AM
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They stare at you like you're crazy. I've been told I'm "unladylike", which is comical to hear from someone at a bar. "You're not supposed to do that" Weird how these attitudes still persist so much. Personally in my circle no one would react that way. But i guess i must live in a bubble. a very lonely one lmao Oh, and then they'll get handsy later and act like I gave them consent to grope me by asking them out, but all I did was suggest we get coffee. Thats fucked up. I now only go out with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:12 AM
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I think the biggest thing is that I text them more than I probably should and I try to hang out with them more than I probably should and I definitely sus out their relationship status. I hear about this pattern regularly. Very Interesting. But also sad for me because of reasons :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:08 AM
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Unfortunately, many men find it intimidating. How does that manifest in their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:58 PM
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Ya but the point is the message is always hi or hey. Thats it. Its very bland, yes. Whereas women are constantly saying men need to be interesting and unique in their initial message... Idk man, i'm super unique in my messages but when i do my suicide and depression jokes then suddenly "I need help" and "Should seek therapy". Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:54 PM
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Men I messaged accused me of being a robot? While there are genuine cases of bots or paid catfish accounts deployed to just keep men on the app longer. Outright accusations are unreasonable without actually gathering evidence or clues. Some guys view women who message them as being desperate or sexually aggressive? Weird how that is a thing. Why not view it as another person having agency and taking charge for their interests? Guys replied, exchanged messages with a purposeful fade out without m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:51 PM
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To be honest, someone not wanting me in the way I desire them to is the maximum turnoff - So if I make my intentions known and they don't reciprocate I've wasted a very little amount of time on my crush. I agree, its a valuable perspective. That being said, I haven't met someone in my adult life I liked enough to make the first move on. Let's hope you do, or not you could be approached as well which is probably more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:27 PM
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Do you think it didn't work out because you were the one to initiate? Or were the people just not good matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:20 PM
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Did these experiences make you consider never making the first move again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:17 PM
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Height and Face. If you workout and take care of yourself then you've unlocked all your potential lookswise. You can't workout your facial bones or your leg bones to make them bigger. Surgeries are either really expensive or in case of leg lengthening can even put you in a wheelchair if it goes wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 08:20 PM
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just about Reddit men in general I mean yeah. Thats why i am specifically asking about the contexts in which the "Role Reversal", if you wanna call it that, happened. In my experience guys that complain that they have to take the initiative are either very boring and plain so they don't stand out at all to anyone who might me interested or open to them, or they are just not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:51 PM
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Any guy who complains that men are expected to always take the initiative to ask girls out is giving themselves away. I'm not complaining, just asking a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:45 PM
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wym by hover?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:45 PM
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In what ways do you make it obvious? Are we talking subtle stuff an average guy could construe as friendliness or something only a guy who actively chooses to not interpret the signs could not get?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:44 PM
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I’m happy now though, and my strategy of flirting doesn’t always work out but it did this time so I intend to stay with my BF as long as he’ll have me. Thats nice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:10 PM
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Doing things like standing near a guy hoping he chats you up If existing in the vicinity of someone i like counts as an approach then i've approached 10x more women than i think lol. or typing “hi :)” in Bumble so he can take lead of the conversation count as approaches, right? On Bumble the woman has to do the first message regardless or am i wrong? XD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:51 PM
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No, unless you count getting to know them until I felt I should ask them out. I don't see the point in "making it obvious" when I could just make it really obvious by asking them out. Thank you for the clear answer. Most of the time the consensus i've heard was that if the woman has to do the asking out its because the guy is a grade A obvlivious dumbass or a chickenshit shy guy. They need to be in the >90% of people my age I find attractive enough to not be put off by their looks to date them (…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:44 PM
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I felt strongly enough about them to ask them out, if I felt pretty neutral I wouldn't have bothered. Did you do certain things or make it obvious in order for them to try to approach you first? I found them physically attractive enough to ask them out but that wasn't why I did it. So they had to pass a certain looks threshold in order for you to consider making a move?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:32 PM
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I see this attitude a lot as well and i can't help but think that this mentality is holding us back. I don't mean your mentality because its just a natural consequence of our socialization, but i mean the guys who think its "trashy" or "slutty" for a woman to make the first move. I just try to be different i guess. Be the change you wanna see in the world and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:29 PM
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Lol. How do you distinguish it from actual bullying? Do you trust the other person doesn't just start disliking you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:26 PM
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I make myself available In what way do you do that? Do you make it obvious for a guy or create opportunities for him to make the first move? Or do you exist in his general vicinity and wait until he just makes a move? which is more than enough Why? Pursuing gets you low effort relationships and is thus inefficient In what way has this manifested in your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:23 PM
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Same tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:16 PM
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Congrats on actually finding someone decent on Tinder :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:11 PM
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Were you physically attracted to them or was it personality that made you consider making the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:04 PM
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What if the guy doesnt have instagram or any social media you could do that with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:01 PM
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So in a way these kinds of guys are ruining it for the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:00 PM
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I feel like people who expect romantic/sexual attention are going to be disappointed (and it probably explains why there are so many nice guys). You don't have to start off asking someone on a date right away, just hang out and see if you two fit first. In my experience. If there was no amount of attraction at first from one party then this only solidifies a purely platonic relationship. As you said it explains why there are so many nice guys. Any attempt to make the platonic relationship into m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:57 PM
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I empowered myself to take the lead and snatch him up, and ended up getting played like a damn fiddle. Aww man, i'm sorry. Never made the first move with a guy again after that. Understandable but still a shame. That guy must've really been something awful. I’ve seen other women go through the same motions and it has solidified my belief that men should be the pursuers. Do you think that maybe you've given up some agency by doing that? If you really like someone for example but you don't want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:53 PM
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There was no romantic attraction between us first, but I left a note on his desk asking about anime. How is that making the first move? I mean, my dumb ass, would just think you're being friendly or genuinely interested in Anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:45 PM
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Yes. They've been friends or acquaintances, I got a few rejections and the last is my partner. I don't see the point in waiting around helplessly for them to do it, especially as they may not. Did you feel strongly about them or did you just think like "Yeah, they could be a good match, whatever". Did you find them physically attractive? I've also not done it a few times for people who I knew would say no How did you know they would say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:44 PM
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I'm demi, Same but tbh, i can't count on that especially when most are not like that and developing feelings for someone who considers you as only a friend is very complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:31 PM
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Can you tell me what exactly types of insoles you got and if they prevented the odd walking? Well the ones my doc gave me were worn out years ago and they were really expensive. I asked my doc if there were any cheaper alternatives and showed him some generic height raising insoles that just give my heels a lift of about 2-3cm. It basically forces me to lift and angle my feet correctly so it rolls the ankle normally. He said its good enough and once i wore them for a while they evened out becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:57 PM
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lol, yeah its weird. I mean common wisdom in this sub is that if you're 6' you're golden but in my experience the women i go for are either as tall or very close to my height. Which is a problem because they tell me i'm too short for them often.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:14 PM
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I think its somewhat deceptive i guess. Kinda depends on how large the difference is though imo. Most people can't see the difference between a inch with the naked eye. I have a weird walk for example, i walk like a duck basically. So in order to properly roll my ankles and prevent longterm knee problem my foot doctor said i should wear insoles that raise my height by about an inch. I am almost exactly 6' and i'm not gonna lie that i am a bit self-conscious when it comes to height. But that coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:58 PM
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I had this realization a while ago. While i think i find a larger percentage of women in general attractive than the average woman would in the reverse. If every woman i see daily or on OLD would come on to me i would probably reject 90%. Its a sad reality that we all do not want acknowledge our own biases and the fact that women have problems just the same as men. Men don't get sex and Women get used for sex. The problems are not better or worse. They're just different. I think of some of my fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:06 AM
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1) "fills in" those spaces with muscle. Yes. Good tip 2) the ability to gain muscle AND the tendon strength to support muscle, requires time (tendons take 2x longer to keep up with muscle growth - so go slow). Didnt even think about tendons. Damn, Good tip 3) it increases metabolism, which includes the ability for the body to process waste, including dead cells - i.e.: skin cells. Can you recommend any articles that go into this more? I mean its common wisdom that Muscles burn more fat but how m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 01:33 PM
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Definitely focus on weights, flexibility, and mobility. It helps with skin staying tight as you lose weight. Care to elaborate. Loose skin is one of my biggest concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:35 AM
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Went from 275 lbs to 230 in the span of 1,5 years. At 6' this still makes me somewhat obese but less obese than before. So far i haven't noticed any differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 11:28 AM
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The inherent problem is that any OLD dating service is still operating under a profit motive. It would just add to the commodification of relationships, which is exactly what got us into the mess that is modern OLD. A service that would work the way you intend would've have to be completely non-profit and people would have to be obligated to participate in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:34 PM
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The stigma naturally arises out of a consequence of what using such a service represents. The only reason to use such a service is because you're unable to find someone by yourself. While plenty of people are able to find someone, you, for whatever reason, are unable to do so. Therefore you use the service made for people who can't cut it. The only way i could think off to remove the stigma is to rapidly increase the user base so the "loser" stigma averages out. But you can't do that as long as …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:21 PM
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a significant vetting process to make sure all users are looking for something that isn't just causal. I mean we have that. Its Professional Matchmaking. Used to be bigger before Dating Apps took over. But it had the same stigma that Pre-Tinder OLD had. I.e. You only use a service like that because you are a mega loser
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:15 PM
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