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Red Pill TheoryBlackMarmoset/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 04:49 PM
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Rant/VentingBlackMarmoset/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:16 PM
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Men's RightsBlackMarmoset/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 08:24 PM
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BlackMarmoset/r/askTRP27/04/17 01:04 PM
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I have been working in big companies and slowly improving my career, moved to countries with higher salary and generally I make more then most of the people of my generation, even though I'm far from being rich. I also live well below my means and I have in investments what many of my friends have in debt. As I was improving my career I noted that I started attracting the "gold digger" kind of girls. My solution has been: - never say anyone how much you make - never say anyone how much you have …
/r/askTRP04/06/21 08:00 AM
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That's my "stable plate status", which may be exclusive (on my side only) or not. If she has the potential to go toward the LTR she may upgrade, otherwise if she's not good enough she just stays there until she wants something more, I say no, and we stop seeing. I don't exclude LTR, but I have (maybe too) high standards. Usually it's a 3-6 months period before the next one, with few exceptions. Much less time consuming than ONS, and I can "model" the relationship and sex as I see fit.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:22 PM
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The key is creating a habit. Don't put sex at the center but include it into a date. For example, with one plate we meet for dinner, we watch an Avengers movie and we sleep together. We don't meet up explicitly for sex, but she knows what's up. Find an activity you two like doing and make it a regular thing: she knows you're meeting for sex, but you want to cultivate more than just sex as hobby if you want to keep her around for more than a week (up to 6 months). That way you don't need to escal…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:05 AM
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Honestly I find the pictures redundant and boring: similar poses, similar style, no smile. They all feel "staged" and intense. It's hard to give advice based on one picture, because it's the profile that matters. It should tell a story of who you are and what you love to do, not just how hot you look: you're not Chris Hemsworth or Henry Cavill. If any of us was, we wouldn't be here. My advice is to build a portfolio of interesting pictures: travel, sport, cool activities, friends, animals, passi…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 03:00 PM
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It's a good sign: it means that she wants to show you that she is seen as attractive. I would tease her with something like: - "Pay attention honey, the loss of taste is one of the Covid-19 symptoms!" - "If you didn't, you wouldn't be with me" - "Next time you get offered free food or drinks, count me in!" - "Dressed like THAT?!?"
/r/askTRP16/12/20 11:39 AM
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There are two possibilities: - They forgot about you, and therefore you count as new to them - They remember you, but they don't care or they changed their mind In both cases you have nothing to gain from reminding them that they already discarded you once, so just treat the encounter as if it was new and hopefully interact better this time!
/r/seduction24/11/20 04:38 PM
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Make it multi-thread: keep multiple parallel conversations going (usually 2-3 depending on the "heaviness of it"). Whenever one is about to die, riderect it with a joke to something more interesting. It works best with Whatsapp or Telegram where you can quote her last message without her loosing track of the topic. Messages should be a mix of flirting, funny, get to know and conversational, but never too much of one (i.e. too conversational is boring, too flirty is needy).
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:08 PM
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Those are unusual time: cute girls had unlimited access to attention and sex, but now with the lockdown in most countries they're getting as desperate as men.
/r/seduction05/04/20 10:04 AM
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It means you're doing good and they feel like they can keep their ASD down with you. Don't fuck it up.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 02:47 PM
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Young girls lucky with genetics are naturally fit in their early 20s, but rapidly fall back if unchecked. Improve your SMV, you'll eventually get attention to hotter girls, and then: - she'll be motivated to compete - you can have an upgrade Also having hot female friends can be helpful.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:24 PM
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Don't go for rough or choke the first time, just focus on making them enjoy sex. Once you have a connection and she feels she can be a slut with you, you can start introducing it. Ps: bsdm with strangers is very dangerous both ways.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:00 AM
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It looks better according to modern Western European / North America beauty standards and indeed applies to white / mixed white who can get a tan. People working in lower-tier jobs such as bricklayer or road worker tend to have a bad tan (T-shirt, tank top, just the face etc.) as opposed to those in white collar jobs.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 07:57 PM
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Why do you still speak with your ex? Move on, it's over, you can find better. Ghost her and if you happen to cross, be politely disinterested at best.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:32 PM
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Years ago being pale was a status symbol: it meant you hadn't to work outside or work at all. Nowadays the tan is a status symbol: it means you have time to waste at the beach and often the money to afford the beach lifestyle.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:32 AM
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I've been paradoxically in the opposite situation with my ex. When we broke up we kept hooking up, I thought I could make her fall for me again through sex and she used my emotional attachment to get laid whenever she wanted. My only take is that she was using me for sex while looking for a replacement, but I'm open for other assessments.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 11:18 PM
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I never drink, and it's one of the things I'm known for among friends and co-workers. I always get shit tested anytime I'm out, but I simply don't care. When my friends take beer or wine, I just take hot or cold tea and very rarely alcohol free drinks, same when I'm out with girls. Usually my go-to line is: "Omg, you don't drink?" "It's what real men drink" "lol, they drink hot tea...?" "They drink whatever the fuck they want" smirking Just don't make a big deal of it, I answer to jokes and I of…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:24 PM
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I always record after sex conversation the first encounters. I just grab my phone, turn the recorder on and then leave it on the bed.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:02 AM
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Normal conversation then you say "cool let's grab a drink", and if she's responsive on the date you can pull her home without worrying too much.
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:29 PM
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Rather than moving to another city / country for girls, I would for career / social reasons. Girls are a plus.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 09:41 PM
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When I was younger I used to take my LTRs out with my friends. I always felt like since they were "part of my life" I had to share my friends. Thing is that I always did my best to make them accepted into my groups but I was never accepted into theirs. ​ So whenever I was breaking up with a LTR drama would start in my groups. Some of my "friends" would hit on them, others would side with them and refuse to go out again with me, invite my ex instead of me and so on.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 01:15 PM
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I would embrace it. When I was younger I was doing crazy beta stuff for girls, I used to disappear anytime I had a girlfriend. I started noticing my behavior and I gradually changed from "guy who drops the friends for a girl" to "guy who doesn't need hitting on girls when out with friends".
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:14 PM
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Don't lower it below what you think is fuckable: training to fatties to hit on models is like playing softball to hit the major league.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:10 PM
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I like the approach, I don't like hitting girls at your gym.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:07 PM
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The problem is that if you're not in the top 20% with the qualities you can show her, it doesn't really matter if you're in the top 1% beneath the surface. I think it's more a weighted than a standard average.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 05:58 PM
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Remember that the master has failed more times than the apprentice ever tried.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 09:42 AM
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You don't wanna bet that the store manager who hits on girls.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:04 PM
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Then leave the kids out. Show them you have a fun life, friends, cool places, etc.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:44 AM
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Are you looking for a step mother or for a girl to have fun with?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:32 AM
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"tonight, me, you, dish you're good at cooking, bottle of wine and tv series that you like"
/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:30 AM
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The number is a mean, the date is the goal. I usually take hers once the date is set, and then write her the day before just to confirm and give mine.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:35 AM
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sending her nudes to her dad and brother It's more likely you'll make her famous rather than shame. If you want to get revenge over her, become a man she'll regret dumping.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:11 PM
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Depends how bad the illness is. I knew a guy with the Down Syndrome and he could recognise others with his same disability.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:12 PM
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There is a reason if we call it Sex Market Value (SMV), it's about offer and demand. When a girl distances herself, she's lowering her availability (offer) to the specific guy. If the guy chases her, he increases his demand for that specific girl. Now the girl see herself as much higher value than she is while the guy loses it, and she thinks she made the right choice dumping him. If if things play out this way, she did. Always keep the demand low, a beautiful girl should be a plus in your life,…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 02:09 PM
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You gave away your power by discovering your cards. It was obvious that you liked her since you approached her, so you could have gone for the push-pull (you approaching being the pull, you mocking her the push). Something like "ask me in few drinks", "I'm not drunk enough to answer nicely" or "A gentlemen would never say a girl is not attractive", and then changed the topic to something more interesting . Also, you're not a girl, stop seek validation from girls you approach.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:40 AM
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Invite her at your place to play checkers.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 11:38 AM
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On one hand I envy you, for you have access to easy and "free" sex. On the other hand I think it would make me lazy. I would lose interest in gaming girls, get rusty and lose touch in bed, as a prostitute wouldn't care how good you are. That's said, as long as you're happy and aware, it's a life choice.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:35 AM
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You're doing well, it's up to you now not to fuck it.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 01:11 PM
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If you were to become a professional soccer player, would you start asap or you would wait to be 18 so you can play in a professional team?
/r/askTRP19/08/18 09:59 AM
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Theres two girls i havent seen in awhile. I think they were both interested. Were is the key word here, but you still got their numbers. She replied with " Hey! How are you? " this morning. I haven't replied yet. What's the best way to schedule something? I was wanting to grab a bite or something. You have two options: Go straight for it: "It has been a while, let's catch up on Tuesday for a coffee" Small talk and then close: "Great, what are you doing this summer?" - I don't really care whateve…
/r/askTRP19/08/18 01:01 AM
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I would approach the situation the same way I approach the situation with any Ex: polite disinterestedness. If you cross her down the road you say hi without stopping, if she comes to speak with you when you can't or don't want to leave just keep the conversation as short as you can. That's a good example
/r/askTRP14/08/18 11:05 PM
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The mission should be doing something you love and that gives you a good life. Some profession that allow for a good living: Surgeon / doctor; Manager; IT professions. But it could also be something less "common" such as professional football / basket player or actor.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:23 PM
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With women, often less is more. You are on the path of losing her.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 12:09 PM
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You can compromise, but doing something you don't want to do is simply bending to her will.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:51 AM
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The problem is not that you spent 1-2 hours watching a movie you didn't like, it's that the message that passes is that she can make you do stuff you don't want to. Wouldn't you abuse a person that makes you do whatever you want without consequences?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:48 AM
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Actually it's the best part of the girl. You keep the body, you get to change her behavior and personality.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 06:09 PM
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Why you say this: The sex was great (3 times until now) but I'm thinking of not going for more sex until she put off the bra, is a stupid and beta situation. And then this: I like the butt, the breasts is not important and i don't care. You're contradicting yourself. If she doesn't feel like showing them off, why do you care so much? She's giving you sex, she has an A cup... In this point idk the best approach. The best approach is keep fucking her good until she feels like she can show off her …
/r/askTRP11/08/18 08:01 PM
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she's pretty distant from me in terms of genetics (avg 1.5% shared DNA lol) makes me feel lusty about her. You can fuck your cousin, just don't get her pregnant. As others pointed out, it's more a problem whether fucking her will have family repercussions or not, but that's your call.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 12:44 PM
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I usually follow this sequence: playfully touch her in a neutral spot briefly after a joke (shoulder or arm); push/pull her around (e.g. to change direction); get more confident and start touching her purposely (arm on shoulder, hand playing with her hair, and so on); once she accepts you in her space (you can stay in physical contact with her for no apparent reason or getting really close to her) you can go for the kiss. I prefer to pull her to me rather than leaning, is more dominant and easie…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 12:40 PM
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You are a man, you don't need to explain yourself for your actions except in real danger situation (e.g. police is involved). There are many ways you can answer a question without really saying anything. If I find the question uninteresting, I just come up with some bullshit story. In your case: "Why you shaved your beard?" "One of the best thing about being a man is that no matter how many times you shave it, it keeps growing"
/r/askTRP11/08/18 12:22 PM
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Long answer: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8ntlth/how_to_really_succeed_at_tinder_not_just_another/ Short answer: In general, your bio doesn't matter. She really only looks at your pictures which are all that matter. If your pictures are good enough, then she might glance at your profile just to make sure you are a real person. Your bio will not help you at all. It can only hurt you. Since you have all to lose and nothing to gain, you need to keep your bio short and to the point. …
/r/askTRP11/08/18 07:54 AM
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The problems are: 1- she is married , 2- we work at the same place. Stop thinking with your dick, if you have no control over your instincts you're no better than a dog.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:19 PM
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Reading, playing an instrument, singing, crosswords, chess, cooking. Basically anything intellectual or self improving. I'd rather look for negative hobbies, since nowadays most women have no hobbies other than partying and making selfies.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:16 PM
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I'd rather animalize rather than objectify. A women is like a cat: once it has food and comfort, it has no reason to walk away. Unless a better owner comes along, but that's another story.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:14 PM
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The question here is: do you like her?
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:10 PM
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You can't be liked by everyone, sometimes you just have to deal with it. But since he has a say in your future, I think you have two options: Get closer to him anytime you have the chance, grab lunch together, laugh at his jokes, be open to his requests, etc. In general you wanna appear as the "good guy who was in the wrong place in the wrong time" or as if the reason why he dislikes you is a simple misunderstanding. Basically you make him feel like a jerk; Treat him as there is no reason for yo…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 11:00 PM
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Marriage or LTR's are not necessarily "bad". What is bad, according to Red Pill philosophy, is turning into basically a slave for sex and attention from your ONEitis (GF/Wife). I think it is discouraged, simply because most men are not ready for that kind of challenge. Marriage is more a war of attrition which is often not worth fighting: women lose SMV much quicker than men and give increasingly more trouble.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:46 PM
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Its day 2 of knowing her by adding her randomly on fb Dude, calm down. You didn't even meet her in person yet and you're already freaking out. But since you're looking for the fish rather than for fishing tips, the answer is: "I don't know, let's grab a coffee and find it out".
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:38 PM
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Sounds like the definition of it.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:35 PM
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You don't have to choose. Hit the gym, dress well, go for a haircut that values you, improve yourself, have a good career. Don't feel limited by what you have right now, there is always room for improvement.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 05:34 PM
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The best answer for me is polite disinterestedness. If you cross her down the road you say hi without stopping, if she comes to speak with you when you can't or don't want to leave just keep the conversation as short as you can. That's a good example
/r/askTRP06/08/18 12:01 PM
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I'd wait a week at least, the fact that she was up to meet yesterday and you didn't meet is playing against you. Women are naturally good at playing guys, so there is no doubt that she plays / tests you. As for the phone number, it's just a mean like Facebook, sometimes girls prefer giving their Facebook rather than the number. I think she put you in the "guy who tried to hit her on Facebook" zone. Don't lower yourself, go out and meet real people who are interested in you.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 11:54 AM
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I would just learn from that experience and move on, maybe she was bored that day and wanted to chat, or maybe today she's in a bad mood. Either way you came off as too needy, so if you wanna keep trying you have to show much less interest than what you're doing now. Also you want to get the number to see her, but if you have Facebook you don't need it. Next time just say something in the line of "I like talking to you but I have a thing for live interactions, let's grab a coffee".
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:50 AM
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As rule of thumb, if you say a joke and everyone laugh they all accepted what you just said regardless of how rude or inappropriate it was, which make jokes a great way to say what you think without exposing yourself too much. That's said, it's more about how you want to appear, I don't mind being known as someone who's not afraid to make a joke that speaks what I'm thinking, few people have the guts to do that constantly.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:45 AM
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My point is that you didn't really "hit" on her, so you are overthinking it. If you bump into her just say hi, if she starts to talk just keep the conversation light and go for small talks.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 08:38 AM
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Sounds like you are 10. You tried to hit on a girl, it didn't work out, just move on. Also, you don't "talk about your feelings and if you both like each others she becomes your GF". You take her out for a coffee, ice-cream or tea, if you hit off you take her out to a movie or a dinner, and you keep seeing her (not more often than twice a week, better once a week in the beginning), until you feel confident enough to grab her and kiss her.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:11 PM
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I need some fundamental advice because I'm bad at escalation. You need practice, you don't become good following other people advice on reddit. so we met up at her place after work one night She invited you at her place, that's a big green flag. tried it didnt really take I assume you tried to close and she rejected you, it ain't clear. messaged her a few days later, no answer, then 3 days after i messaged her i she messaged me back and we started chatting again. Doesn't look good, you have anot…
/r/askTRP05/08/18 09:56 PM
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How old are you guys?
/r/askTRP05/08/18 09:38 PM
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It's part of the cycle, you wouldn't enjoy good times if you never had bad ones. There are two ways you need to spend time for: - improve yourself; - enjoy yourself. Anything else is just time wasted.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:47 PM
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Focus on yourself. The past is the past, take this as an opportunity to improve and not make the same mistakes again. The only person who's gonna be with you your whole life is you, act accordingly.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 11:53 AM
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Chasing a girl is like chasing a cat: the more you try catch her, the more she runs away. I would slow down the conversation, writing always less then her and replying after more time. Most likely she already nexted you, just move on.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:15 PM
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When I was younger I dreamed of a nice girl capable of being a slut only for me. After some, I realized all girls are capable of being sluts for the right guy. I wish I could say the same for loyalty.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 09:51 AM
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Women have no motivation to get physically or emotionally strong. Society nowadays provides security and comfort to any woman just because she has a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 09:59 PM
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Why get physically strong when you can easily make men do the heavy work for you?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 11:39 AM
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Dumping a girl is like stepping on a snail on a rainy day. You feel sorry for it but you wouldn't call a veterinary. It's just how life goes.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:46 PM
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And also I don't want to hurt my image as a GMAT trainer. Then simply don't shit where you eat. But that's not something it can be taught, it's something it has to be experienced. Any ideas on how I approach her without it backfiring on my profession would be great. Go for a softer approach, instead of inviting her out immediately start by chatting her and hint that would be cool to see each other outside school. You say something like "I enjoy our talks, we should get a coffee sometimes". Then …
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:34 PM
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I have a serious addiction to fucking new people and I have minimal interest in them after I've had sex with them 3+ times. As long as you manage to always get new girls, I don't see the problem.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:16 PM
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Women are like cats. They look and act cute when in need of food or cuddles, but they don't think twice about slicing a mouse just for the fun of it. Men are no different: if we could we'd fuck any hot girl with cross path with. It's just the human nature to fall victim of our instincts, you can't change it.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:12 PM
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It's more about improving than getting laid, but I guess going straight to logistic has it benefits. Probably just setting a better interaction before getting the number will solve the issue. Thanks for the advice!
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:56 PM
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I'm confident of my face to face conversational skills, even when she's playing bitchy. I'm less confident via text, unless she's obviously into me. As I got better approaching through practice, I'm working on text game too, that's why I'd rather avoid the "easy" answer.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:52 PM
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On one hand I totally agree, on the other I think that saying "I was fine, it was her" is not gonna improve my game. In the end it's my job to make her crazy for me.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:46 PM
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True, but I find it annoying when I have a good face to face interaction, I get the number and then I get no reply or low effort reply. I know it's part of the game, but I'm wonder if I'm playing it right noticing the frequency.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:39 PM
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And what if she stops replying? I can't put less effort then none!
/r/askTRP09/07/18 10:36 PM
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Going to logistic seems like a high risk high reward move: she could easily decline or not answer at all, but it's much easier than coming up with something funny or witty. Do you adapt your response time to her? I usually wait at least 10-15 min to reply, more if I'm working / busy.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:11 PM
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And then you move on and soft next them The thing is that she nexted me, not the other way around. If she gave me the number, she's somehow interested, or at least she was when she did. I suck at text game, so I like to practice.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:08 PM
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Somebody with a scarcity mentality would think you turned town an easy lay for nothing. Somebody with abundance mentality would see that you were being offered something you already have (free access of sex) in exchange for giving up something you wanted to do and making something she wanted to do. I find fascinating how accepting that simple exchange would have resulted in her learning that she can buy you off with sex, and consequently making you lose frame and likely her in the long run. No n…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 06:10 PM
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It's more about how you compliment her (e.g. "your eyes are so beautiful" sucks, "I like when you look at me with the eyes of a men eater" is better). As rule of thumb: when she deserves it (e.g. you wanna promote a good behaviour); when you want to show interest / flirt (but I usually I prefer push-pull style).
/r/askTRP08/07/18 11:27 AM
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There are many signals in body language, but rarely you can draw a conclusion only by seeing one. That said, I would assume she either thinks she's dressing inappropriately or she's nervous for some reason, either way I would just ignore it if I'm not close to her. If I am intimate enough to her I may point it out in a jokingly manner and try to find out more.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:38 PM
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Right now I’m planning on ghosting her for a few days and seeing what she comes up with to try to talk to me. When she does I’m going to say something along the lines of “I don’t have time for games, and my standards are higher than you. If you want to hang out with other guys, I think you should be single.” No, you don't owe her any explanation. You're leaving the door open for her, just move on. There were no warning signs early on except that she still was acquainted with her ex-plate (or wha…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:34 PM
2

Fat girls to men is equivalent to what Beta males are to females. Actually no. A beta can have a lot of uses for a woman who can manipulate him: money, validation, emotional support or backup. What use does have a fat girl for a man? She can't even introduce you to her friends because they're probably uglier than her.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 07:40 PM
6

Yeah, also hold her purse and your testicles while she chats with other guys.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:11 PM
1

I probably misused "consent": what I meant is that she would agree to kiss (in this case). Very good points on kissing though.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 11:27 PM
6

No, it was the first time we were taking a coffee together and I didn't kiss or had sex with her before that. Which is why the episode was so useful: it hinted me she was ready to escalate.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/17 06:48 PM
1

Women can only be counted as a "plate" if you've actually having sex with them on a recurring basis. I've always taken this one as definition. It's true I didn't fuck her yet, but I'm not much into one night stands and I'd rather make up my mind before.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:56 PM
1

I agree they are different things, but I've always seen it as "ranking": - One night stand; - Plate; - LTR. If I like the girl enough at the first encounter, I go for the number and then date. If I like her enough I'll have sex with her once, and so on. So technically a LTR has got through the plate stage if I'm still making up my mind but I like her enough to keep fucking her.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 09:55 PM
18

I actually use this type of line a lot. Me with an engaged guy: "My girlfriend would freak out if she'd catch me staring at another girl's ass." "Well, there are two types of girls: those who don't mind me appreciating a good ass, and those I don't hang out with." You can't force the other person to do or think as you like, but you can choose who you spend your time with. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP19/08/17 12:32 AM
2

I agree with /u/undehdd, sex with LTR was definitely the highest quality. The best thing about a LTR is growing the girl, particularly when they are young.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 12:49 PM
1

You'll find plenty of interesting women during your life, don't assume she's special. It's pointless waiting 4 months without even having the guarantee that she'll be back and she'll be willing to create something with you. Let her go, work on improving yourself and meet other girls. If she comes back, you'll decide what do to then.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 12:55 PM
1

She would probably push with the "what if I was doing it?" to convince you that it's wrong. The thing is that if she was doing it she would rationalise it with "it's just a friend". If you let her dictate who you can talk to, be prepared to see her talking with tons of "just friends".
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:56 AM
1

I don't see the question, so I'll be the one asking. Why are you so attached to a FwB?
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:52 AM
2

fair enough she's 1 of 3.5bil Nope, she's just like any other HB 8-9.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 10:16 PM
4

Well, she's my best friend's GF, I always tried to keep relationship at best. The weird thing is that she chose the side of my ex, while the other two invited me for other occasions.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:12 PM
1

We moved abroad together, we broke, we came back roughly in the same period, but we live in different cities. The group meets occasionally, mostly for birthdays, but since the last year after we broke I kept seeing them, so I was expecting no different for the other girl's birthday. Yeah, I agree that the fact I'm gonna be living in another country doesn't play well for me, but considering the frequency we meet I could participate considering I'm often back, plus the other two guys chose to invi…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:10 PM
3

Get used to stay at the centre of the attention. Start with close family members, then with friends and soon you'll be able to do the same with strangers. Doesn't matter if it's a joke, a story, videogames or simply an opinion, try to speak fluently, clearly and understandably.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 02:23 PM
5

actually the other two invited me instead my ex for other events, so I don't feel like cutting them out. Pretty annoying she is my best friend's GF.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 02:00 PM
5

Depends where he lives. For example in the country I am now, she must be 14+, or 16+ if you're an authoritarian figure for her. Despite that, it's socially acceptable to have sex with a 18+ girl. I mean, as acceptable as older hoes accept you're going for a younger and hotter version of them.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 09:23 AM
1

It is. If you moved on, it won't hurt you replying that you're not interested.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 09:18 AM
1

Cheating is the result of a relationship not working, a symptom, not a cause.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:38 PM
6

Depending on where you live, this may work: Asking for nudes
/r/askTRP29/05/17 12:02 PM
1

Have you tried escalating before getting to bed?
/r/askTRP29/05/17 01:47 AM
17

You don't owe her a closure. If she's been your LTR, you didn't break because she cheated on your or something, I don't see why she doesn't deserve a reply. Something in the line of "the past is the past, there is no need to talk about it". If she pushes, then ignoring is fine. I know TRP is supposed to be ruthless, but I still believe in good manners if someone deserves it.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 01:46 AM
1

From how you described it, sounds like a "look at me" posture. I agree posture is important, but it's not about looking the bigger in the room. Showing you're not afraid to make eye contact, being relaxed, confident and open, definitely makes you start any interaction much better.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:31 PM
35

The first one was in my bed and we were hooking up and I asked her if he wanted to have sex, or asked her if I should get a condom, we were both pretty drunk. You don't ask her, you wear a condom for yourself. God, you pulled a girl you met on Tinder home the first date.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 10:21 PM
2

If you can't change it, you have to accept it. I have as well some sort of "skin disease" which I cannot cover. When I was a kid I was ashamed of it, always trying to cover it awkwardly and I've been called disgusting a number of times. Build a social circle, act like you're completely normal, if someone points that out don't start cringing like a kid, nobody wanna hear that. Come out with a joke or an absurd story: "When I was a kid my friend's house was on fire, his dog was still inside and I …
/r/askTRP24/05/17 09:53 AM
1

Perfect plan, if you want every girl you sleep with to sell her soul to get pregnant of you.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 09:41 AM
3

Some girls I slept with found normal for the girl not to come during sex. I found that particularly true for demanding girls. On the one hand most guys don't care about making sex enjoyable for the girl, assuming they just do it to make them happy, on the other for some girls coming is so difficult that they rationalise it's something they save for true love. Plus society shames girls for enjoying sex and from exploring it. I always found that ironic: I really like sex, but I never got even clos…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 12:58 AM
26

If men can get an acceptable sexual experience from these robots, then who would care to put up with women? Us. If these things become reality, for us is gonna be much better. Less competition from guys, more demand for real sex from women. And by the way, if I end up being worse in bed than a robot, I can just shoot myself.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 08:59 AM
6

Actually happened to me once: a girl said something in the line of "we should meet on Thursdays so my period is over instead of Monday" and I told her something like "I'm sorry but I still love my ex", which sounded fairly beta-diplomatic to me. But no, she screamed at me for saying that. Does anyone have any idea how to reject a woman without ending in tragedy?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 08:30 AM
1

Different girls can vary really much for stamina, sensibility, position preferences. Some scream for nothing, some bite, some like leaving love-marks. If I don't like something that she loves, it's a pretty dead end.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 01:15 PM
2

My ex and I have a terrible and toxic relationship and always have. What more do you need to know? Go out, make friends, improve yourself, fuck somebody worth your time.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 08:59 PM
1

Depends when you see you don't like her. If I decide to cut before kissing (or sex if you wish), I can still be friends as she may introduce me to her friends. If we had sex already I just ghost her. It's not healthy to keep girls you had a past with in your life. As: It may tempt you to give her another chance; You don't apply abundance mentality. In life good and bad things happen, take what you've learned and move on.
/r/askTRP10/05/17 03:33 PM
19

I never stop screening a girl. Generally I screen from the beginning to see: If she's worth approaching (I like her aesthetically and has a good first impact); If she's worth chatting casually (she's likeable, not dumb nor boring, doesn't smoke); If she's worth a coffee (doesn't expect me to pay, the date goes smoothly); If she's worth a drink (she doesn't have an high count, doesn't excessively drink or party); If she's worth a fuck (she has a good hygiene, doesn't have weird perversions, swall…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 01:31 PM
8

Have you ever heard of the say "when there is doubt, there is no doubt"?
/r/askTRP04/05/17 01:38 PM
5

The few minutes I had to wait for the reply were some of the longest of my life. "Christ... is this girl gonna try and press charges or something? I went WAAAAY too far... I shouldn't have any of said that..." You realised you went too far, yet you are suggesting us to do the same. It's like having sex without condom: you can do it and it'll be better than using one, but would you advise others to do the same after you came into her but luckily she didn't get pregnant?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:48 PM
17

I'm getting the habit of recording post-sex conversations: it's easy to do in the cuddle phase and it often involves talks about (easily driven to) what just happened. I often feel like that's the only moment a girl is honest with you.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 11:31 PM
1

Then the classic ignore / amplify works even though I'm gonna contradict myself?
/r/askTRP27/04/17 08:14 PM
5

Why would he listen? A kid won't understand the danger until he got hurt. Once he saw with his own eyes, he'll be ready to join us, but not before then.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 02:32 PM
3

I almost want to reach out to that guy and shake some sense into him. Why? For some ignorance is bliss.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 01:22 AM
2

What stroke me the most of that story is that Nick is the creepy. Well played Angela.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 01:38 PM
1

Since when splitting the bill is Herbivore and paying is masculine? Interesting video though.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:01 PM
1

If she has a place fairly quiet, you could offer to cook her something there.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 01:32 AM
1

Girls are flexible, when they give birth a baby can get through it, doesn't mean she'll be that lose for her whole life. It can obviously vary between girls, but I generally think every girl has a certain size which can vary according to the partner and the sexual activity. A girl tend to be tighter if not having sex for a while, but it doesn't mean a girl who is not tight is a slut. Makes sense?
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:13 PM
11

I disagree with both OP and /u/Flpgneves. OP wanted to fuck multiple girls, one plate didn't want and misbehaved, but in the end he came off as dominant and she accepted his terms. On the other hand, /u/Flpgneves is right because the girl misbehaved and inviting OP to her place doesn't seem a punishment. Maybe cutting contacts for a bit could be a good compromise?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:48 PM
3

my ex-girlfriend left for another guy about a year ago
/r/askTRP04/04/17 05:06 PM
4

It may help: Setting the date close to your place / a place where you're going anyway; Getting her number, write her 10 min before that you'll be 5-10 minute late: if she doesn't replay she'll flake. Doesn't matter what happened, if a girl I met on tinder flakes on first date I next her.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:17 AM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:13 PM
37

You know, being a player isn't cute Cute is for babies, not for men. Nobody wanna fuck cute.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 04:12 PM
2

I really like Russell Brand and Trump way of framing. Although they are very different, they frame the interaction making their opponents look like they want (often jerks). Russel Brand with Tv anchors Trump during republican debates Also, I'd recommend Charisma on Command channel, a lot of great examples.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 03:00 PM
5

If you want to feed her ego, go ahead and swipe right.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:52 PM
14

In fact the easiest way to spot a lesbian is to look for male traits, whereas to spot a gay you look for female traits.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:43 PM
1

I don't use FB to look cool, I use it to stay in touch with friends in other countries or other cities, so I'd rather not delete it.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:29 PM
1

I'd suggest to find a way to catch him, if you have close social circles or you live in a small city (NOTE: I'm not suggesting to stalk him). If you can't, just start a casual conversation and see how it goes.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:20 AM
-1

True, the reasons you listed are correct but from a story-line context and a movie doesn't only transmits concepts overtly. I believe there are multiple attempts of leverage on Logan's sense of fatherhood by Xavier and the nurse, insisting that she's Wolderine's biological child. What was the need of pressing, when all the reasons you listed were enough? As I think product placement works if you're not aware of it, some may assume that somebody born using your DNA must be your son. I'm not sayin…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 10:22 PM
-3

If there was an equivalent for the female pill, I'd definitely consider it. The thing is that every new technology has a price, which may not be seen in the short terms. Let's thing about mobile phones: we found out that radiations can be dangerous for men. Same goes for printers, they should stay in a separate room.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 03:07 PM
2

Women also hate other women who make themselves too easily available for men. For example dressing boobs out at work, flirting with any attractive man and generally making the first move overtly. They try to disqualify this behavior with "she's a slut" and "she's so cheap" because they see a lower value woman capable of attracting higher value man only because of her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:25 PM
2

I'm not 100% sure about the first one, as she responded well, but I definitely agree on the second one.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 01:31 PM
2

Yeah I should have froze out, but at the time I never had a LMR before so I never read anything specific about it. Still, I believe I should have not tried so early.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 01:30 PM
4

I always thought that being slightly early or on time was a sign of respect that everyone deserve. Flake after flake, I gave up this way of thinking for dates: a girl can be half an hour late or flake without even sending you a message, because her time (in her eyes) is more important than yours and there is also the stereotype of girls being always late (pure bullshit, they simply don't give a fuck). I usually am slightly late for dates, but I send a message simply saying I'm late without apolo…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 05:56 PM
4

You got lucky. My former LTR was 21 and never had a BF or kissed a guy before. On one hand is a lot of work, since she has no experience of relationship, on the other hand she's good material for a LTR. Just don't think she's a unicorn: she may have an unusual past but she's still a woman.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 05:41 PM
29

very naive That's what I thought of you reading your post. You still see women as innocent creatures, you didn't fully unplug yet.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 04:28 PM
1

Depends how often you have sex. I think the more intense (and pleasuring, and lasting) is, the more exhausting. When I was younger I used to have sex as much as you do, now I'd rather have sex 3-4 times a week than 9-12.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 03:43 PM
6

Don't see escalation as "I touch her knee, then I touch her hand, then I touch her back, then I touch her ass". During the date look for or create situations to close space between you. You could make a joke about her, push her away and then hug her saying "poor little thing, come here I was kidding". Imagine you are with an old friend, do you have to justify yourself? As general rules: If she over reacts play it cool, mock her if you want but don't apologize; If you escalate to a certain point …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 02:27 PM
9

I'm wondering if I should just say fuck it, and try to close every first date with a kiss? Don't try to kiss at the end of the date, if you fail you have no way to come back and it will be awkward. Really realized that my sticking points are, I have no idea when I'm getting the signal to go with for the k-close or when to do it. Get her comfortable with you "invading" her space. During the date escalate physically until it's natural for you two to be at 0-distance. Once she accepts you in her sp…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 03:13 AM
8

10/17/16 You Americans and your need to change everything in something incomprehensible for everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 01:06 AM
7

I wouldn't consider it a win, since I don't see why a man should pay for a child his wife had with somebody else. But given the world we're in, hurrah!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 12:22 AM
1

I'm not following. If my girl praises another guy more buffed than me publicly in my presence, why should I reward her increasing my SMV?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 07:29 PM
1

Regarding setting your terms when talking, should deciding where and when always up to you and not her? If yes, in case she pulls the "or like that or nothing", you just choose nothing I suppose.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 03:46 AM
2

You are a man, rationalize. Do you hate a cat for what it does to a mouse when it catches it? Every predator, including humans, in nature is ruthless: spiders, snakes, lions, hyenas and even dogs. You can pet them, but they're still beasts. Women are no different, they want to survive. Understand and accept them for what they are, like you should do for yourself.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:55 PM
7

So I turned around and cussed them out and called them out for being racist. Yeah, the good old "you're racist" card. You didn't described what you said, you didn't described what they said, you just described how you "black knighted" them for not liking you. And for the records: it's not black knighting, it's being a jerk. Yet, white women still treat me like some kind of a joke You are a joke. You're saying that every woman should like you, unless they're racist, who you think you are? Pretty …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 09:23 PM
1

Think how it is with your friends and family: there is not always the need to talk, sometimes you can tell how comfortable you are with somebody simply seeing how comfortable you are with silence. If she freaks out and breaks it, you have the edge, otherwise you can take your time and talk when you have something to say.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:38 AM
1

What I meant is: it's going good, I'm escalating and got to the making out, but I don't feel like going for the kill right now. Will I burn all the chances if I pull her to my place and don't go further?
/r/askTRP06/03/17 05:14 PM
62

Tinder values 95% looks. If you watch infields, you can see guys at best 5-6 pulling hoes 8-9, because they have the opportunity to show how alpha they are. Unless you're a model you'll get matches from low SMV girls, unless you superlike, in which case you're putting her above you even before starting.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 02:24 AM
3

RP is about understanding. Nobody is saying you should go out and bang a different girl every night, you're free to use this knowledge to improve your LTR or your life. To answer your question, yes, it is bad. I'm from a country like USA: everyone outside think it's great to live in, but you live there and you see what most people don't. Not everyone is ready to see the truth. I do and there is nothing I can do to help others. The question is: do you rather be an happy ignorant or aware but sad?
/r/askTRP05/03/17 08:34 PM
3

Would something like "Sex? I'm a virgin / waiting marriage" do the trick as well? Or it's not good to emphasize about sex?
/r/askTRP05/03/17 02:05 PM
7

If you're losing weight to get other's approval, you're doing it wrong. You should be losing it for yourself.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 01:05 PM
10

P.S. Notice how I got her chasing simply by not REACTING to her, this had a positive influence on her attraction level.....after I got her chasing and the girls came in, I didn't push the issue and left it alone for the time being.... we'll see what comes of this situation. The only thing I noticed is that you wanted to grab a coffee with her and you ended up not grabbing it.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 04:06 PM
34

Spoiler: they'll have a child, she'll get bored of her husband, she'll use the fact that he fucked the co-worker as excuse for breakup (nobody would believe she suggested it) and she'll take more than half of everything he has.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 02:33 PM
63

My favorites are those with the "I'm not here for hookups" text and boobs / ass out in all their pictures.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 01:27 PM
1

Ikr, but feels like such a waste to give up great sex...
/r/askTRP02/03/17 04:00 PM
4

"I was drunk" is the eldest girl's excuse ever to act slutty with no consequences.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:19 PM
14

Woke up to him telling me how they briefly kissed and she slept in his bed (didn't want her in mine, since both of them were drunk). They didn't have sex or anything. If he / she specified they didn't have sex, they probably did. You seriously think they spent the night cuddling? My friend apologized about the brief kissing the next day, saying how he will never go out with her again and rambled on about how if she wasn't a plate of mine he'd have feelings for her. I'm way more uninvested than h…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:17 PM
1

A very good friend of mine used to spin multiple plates. Until a new one joined the rotation and she was cool with him seeing other girls. Then she made him meet her friends, then she convinced him to spend weekends together, then she made him meet her family by "accident", then she bond with his friends and suddenly they are a couple. And now, the best part, she's settling all his friends who used to game with him with her friends. Women are not like us. We may think as war as blitzkrieg but it…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:52 AM
1

Most girls join gyms seeking for attention and most of the guys are happy to give them, including personal trainers. You would simply be an orbiter and it would make you workout less. And there is no need to call them bitches, we're not rappers.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:33 AM
8

I consider Asian culture, in particular south Asia, close to East Europe. They're not as advanced as west Europe / USA, women are still behind and look more for a provider (economical or of citizenship). Once she got it and her rights are safe thanks to a child or a marriage, she just loses interest and star looking around.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:50 PM
-1

If you want your hand held and to be told everything's ok Take a shit-test as example. You can read a guide and learn how to reply to the "I have a boyfriend" with "I'm not jealous" and say that all the time or understand what is a shit test and what to convey with your reply. Most of LMR posts and forums I've read give you an answer like "walk away", "freeze out", "nod and continue", "kick her out" and so on and so forth. None of them fits me and I was asking for some feedback, not for a "go ou…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:49 AM
1

DO NOT COLD APPROACH. Cold approaching strangers is hard, but if you have a good memory you could easily approach a girl that was in primary school with you, an old family friend and often also friends of former friends. In small cities everyone knows everyone, you can use it at your advantage to get closer to girls who are not directly friends of yours.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:31 AM
1

Once I was with a friend at the mall and we were warming up asking girls random questions. There was this girl in front of me on the escalator: "Hey" she turns looking at me already disgusted, I pretend nothing happened "My friend thinks that for girls height is not important, would you date a shorter guy?" She looked around her, like she was looking for a way out "I don't know you" I think cold approaching is doable if done in a soft way. You can't go to a girl and being too direct (e.g. Todd w…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 02:24 AM
-1

Is that how you treat newbies, bullying them? Jeez, no wonder you got trolls. Conceiving that you understand how the game works and that you've been there before is used in other stages. I've read the techniques but I don't like them particularly, thus I asked if somebody tried something different.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 01:40 AM
1

It sucks man. Reminds me of this great BP movie: Are You Gonna Marry Me?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 06:00 PM
5

I'm speaking as "we" as society. Successful men should be after successful women, not bartenders. They have a vagina so they deserve a great man by default, we all know that. I just don't like how everything was normalized by our society.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 05:31 PM
3

Seriously, how fucked are we if a semi-successful guy has to chase after a milf bartender and he also gets turned down?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:11 PM
1

Exactly, what I meant is that she goes with the classic "we shouldn't do this" or "I don't have sex the first date", and you simply say something like "look, it's obvious you want to fuck me, don't you think you pretended enough?"
/r/askTRP27/02/17 02:48 PM
-5

Did you actually read before answering?
/r/askTRP27/02/17 02:47 PM
1

I didn't catch it, what was the name of that girl again?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 09:41 PM
1

Since now I've only gamed girls I find attractive. It doesn't mean I'm not myself around girls I don't like or I don't want to game, it just means I don't tease, kino, and so on. Thanks for the answers, I'll think about it next time I get to it.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 12:54 AM
8

Don't commit the mistake of thinking that only because she's fucking you the relationship is okay.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 10:51 PM
26

It's the perfect example of truth that nobody wants to listen.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 01:42 PM
2

Man, don't lose your mind for a LTR of 1 month. Even assuming you manage to keep it, she'll always use it against you anytime you'll argue.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:01 PM
1

I'd say that if you get fucked by a lot of women in 20s and 30s is gonna be hard to settle.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:49 PM
9

She declined a sure fuck with you for another guy. Whether she fucked him or not that night doesn't matter, you're out. Just move on, next time you fuck before you cuddle, don't start by cuddling to escalate to sex.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:47 PM
0

We never really talked about it, so just to be clear - can we see other people or no? I find it ironic. Most guys don't even care if the girl comes, you fuck the hell out of her and she's asking you if you're bothered if she fucks around. Looks like no matter what we do, we'll never be "enough".
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 10:32 AM
7

The greatest conquest for feminists and women in general was making socially acceptable for them to use their body to extract resources from a man without having to give anything in return.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 01:48 PM
1

True. Also I think it's worth pointing out that a woman gains value showing interest or being particularly responsive. If my threshold is 8 for approaching a girl, but I end up in a conversation with a 7 I may consider her. I'd say she overcame the aesthetic gap by showing other values.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 01:41 PM
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Anytime I get approached by a girl I'm always suspicious: she failed attracting men covertly and so she does it overtly. And you don't always want to know why she failed covertly.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 09:27 PM
13

If you get a date through Tinder it's really hard not to close, they're dating you for that. Nice post and well done though.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 08:30 PM
2

Let me get this straight: after such a long relationship you're supposed to settle with her. The question is: do you think she's the right one to settle with or not? If the answer is yes, keep working on your relationship. If the answer is no, move on ASAP because it'll only get worse with time. Don't be afraid of moving on if you think there is no future, you're still young and with time and effort you'll find another girl worth settling with.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 05:09 PM
1

It's not the number of sexual partners that matters. You've been in a very long LTR with your current GF, which means that you may end marrying her because you've been stuck with her for so long and you think you're not gonna find a better girl. I'm not saying you're nearly done, but you're in your peak, the time to move on is now. Why bother with a girl that proven herself disloyal so early? You deserve better.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 04:20 PM
1

You're too young. I don't usually date blond / brunette but I kinda like you / I may make an exception if you're interesting enough. She tries to disqualify you, disqualify her back. You're too young. My mummy told me I'm grown enough to speak with girls. You could also amplify, but I think "fighting" back is more effective.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 04:13 PM
2

I'd avoid getting involved with family friends. Any girl which is: ex of a friend, family friend, flatmate, classmate or co-worker is off limit. You want the freedom to dump her without heavy repercussions on your life, don't risk it.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 04:07 PM
12

We can summarize hamstering as: I hooked a guy on OkC who was clearly after ONS, I give it to him but then I stalk his ex because I don't understand why she's more worth than me.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 11:29 PM
1

Usually the advice I read for onities is to completely wipe them off your life. Isn't not contacting her enough? Some refer as an addiction you should stay away from, but isn't accepting better than fleeing?
/r/askTRP18/02/17 06:56 PM
1

Shouldn't we accept and understand that things went this way with our oneities instead?
/r/askTRP18/02/17 06:37 PM
3

The power is maintained by whom is more willing to walk away if the other misbehaves. If having higher SMV than in your LTM was a good thing, nobody would date HB10 and even HB5 would be all taken, don't you think? Doesn't make to settle with somebody less worthy than you, we're not Doctors Without Borders.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 05:55 PM
4

Just avoid TRP conversations, you can still talk to them about anything else, I don't see why you should stop seeing them.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 02:49 PM
5

I've been seeing this chickenhead exclusively for about 4 months So you're in LTR, or at least exclusive. I have a higher SMV Why are you dating her then? She begins to say how her friends babys dad was unable to come get the kid and they just decided to stay home. She tells me how her and her friend got ahold of some coke and just had a girls night in. Wait, they did coke with the kid? The only good thing I read about her in your post is her age. Sure you can't find any better?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:14 PM
9

Why are you wasting time with a cheap slut? Stop justifying her, she's on the CC.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:08 PM
6

I think you're too static in judging the situation. We all know that buying drinks is a Beta behavior, but you don't see the context. He's buying drinks to a girl on a date: it's not about showing his wealth, it's about showing how valuable he is compared to the guy she is dating.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:59 PM
1

Still, it means that you should have no problem getting her topless next time. Thing is that when you get this close to fuck a girl, she knows for sure you'll have sex next time you see each others. Next time try to overcome LMR with some techniques, I usually have sex on third date without problems if things went like you described the first two dates.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:37 PM
3

Well you can't do much and it's frustrating when you see the obvious that others don't wanna see. I can't blame you.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:34 PM
3

You're the prize, hence she should be contacting you. If you chase her too much she'll feel like you don't have any other option. Don't put too much effort, you got her completely naked and you didn't fuck her (weird), so next time you should escalate to sex or ghost her.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:28 PM
0

In my country it's not so common to cold approach, I'd say they're quite behind for this kind of stuff. I don't confirm plans if we have already settled time and location, shouldn't I be confident that if I setup a coffee or a beer, the other person shows up after agreeing?
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:54 PM
0

Exactly. No message, no phone call. I usually wait 15 min and then simply leave.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:33 PM
1

No, I meant that we don't get the chance to cross each others again as we don't work / study. The problem is building value from a cold approach and be worthy enough to get to a date another day. Maybe just go for the insta-date or nothing?
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:17 PM
4

Why do you have a GF if you want to spin other plates?
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:12 PM
2

As other said, you're doing good. It's a sign that she feels like you still have options: it's important to show you're ready to walk away. I think you cannot comfort her, she must deal with the fact that she must work her ass off to win you, and you'll never show she did.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 08:59 PM
3

I think we're missing something: a woman in her late 50s married for 30 years is committed. I doubt she'd leave him if she had no other option. For your question, you cannot do much. When happened to my parents I didn't want to know anything about it: I decided it was not something concerning me. I doubt there is anything you can do other than staying close to them.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:38 PM
3

I think you're fine. She has the age to have a Bachelor and start working, you're probably already settled for the work. As long as she doesn't work with you, you're fine. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:28 PM
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