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I respect you and your point I just don’t see this often at all. I’m a single father and at one point before we split I paid all the bills and cooked and cleaned. Most of thr fathers I know come home and do plenty of house work and work with the kids. Maybe it’s cultural, I see a lot of white men who don’t do shit and a lot of white women who work mind you still have lazy husbands! But most of the time it just doesn’t make sense or even sound realistic. How are you on kid number 3 and jist reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:52 PM
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Ok you got this one. I’m always begging women to be honest about stuff so I’ll definitely own up to this one. I don’t think I’m a Chad or in that top 1% of men cuz I’m regular person broke lmao but I don’t struggle with dates and you’re right about the women that are “good enough” but that doesn’t mean take advantage of. It means we can have sex, date, hangout and still get to know each other. Most men don’t have a problem getting with women “below their league” it’s just that many women love sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:21 PM
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See now I agree with this whole heartedly. A solution that’s not about male hate and will force society as a whole to see value in both male and female perspectives and i guess the perspectives of people on the LGBTQ spectrum so by the time they are adults they are more aware of each groups problems and how they operate. Good call!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:28 PM
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Well I was talking about America so,sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:48 AM
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Men are also used for sex, please please please get over yourself. In what world do you see where guys aren’t pumped and dumped too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:46 AM
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I say that because most of the concerns with dating from both sides is being used for xyz. This way more people go into relationships knowing they don’t need each other for anything. Far as Tha dating stuff that’s the point of the solutions right? I’m tryna be open minded, and realistically anything can be frauded if you try hard enough. Obviously women will have to want to go to these things that’s why I literally said make it a way where both sides have control of the events. I’m not a woman b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:21 AM
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A solution I have would be to bring back home economics and classes like shop into schools. Teach taxes at schools. Thai way everyone grows up with the same base knowledge of so many things that crush gender norms people would start to lean more into compatibility. As for gown men and women promote blind dates, speed dates and a version of this for sexual partners as well. Make it incentivized so that both women and men feel like they have control of the setting. Heavy security and clear rules a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:44 AM
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In reference to dating it does. That’s like saying in an effort to save space and water we will now be making all restrooms have 1 toilet and the rest urinals regardless of gender then claiming that that would not marginalize women. How can you not see that, plus where would all these extra resources come from? Certainly not a random man’s paycheck?! Y’all have to get serious at some point please.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:35 AM
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Lmao we all hate AI and synthetic things until it’s time to make a baby right? This is wild to me. Wouldnt the natural way be the safest and most productive. It’s like I’m screaming into the abyss, society has decided that men are so bad that we have to now seriously have a conversation about proactively seeking single motherhood and simulating pregnancy and some of y’all don’t see a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:31 AM
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I mean obviously not to this scale lmao otherwise we wouldn’t be in the “ugly man epidemic” look I was lucky to be just like your husband and I still have my struggles from time to time. I would straight up be a liar if I didn’t notice what my shirt and ugly and broke bros go thru vs my short and ugly and broke female friends. Night and day difference. I’m happy you didn’t have to settle tho but realistically most people will and that’s ok. Love isn’t about being perfect in every way. It’s about…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:23 AM
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I’d like to prove that point wrong by showing the line of our messages you could not prove anything you were saying, and I proved that in my previous rebuttal lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:18 PM
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I respect your experience but I have to think that you and people similar to you have to live in a bad area or just an abnormal amount of bad men near you. This behavior is not normal. Most men/ people do not do what you say happens to you. This convo get messy because your truth is your truth but so is ours. Most men don’t tolerate that in any of our friend groups or from family so it’s really hard to hear this because I would hope you wouldn’t lie and a lot of women say this but I and many lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:16 PM
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Exactly bro. They just be sayin some bs that makes them feel good. The reality is that this is the dating market that women have created after hammering us in the head with do’s and don’t (mostly donts) for the last 10-15 years. I’m not saying is bad women stood up for themselves and said no more to the genuinely shitty guys but they overstepped when they made that out to be like 95% of men. And if they aren’t a shitty man then they are ugly or god forbid both. This is where we are after men hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:09 PM
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Cool. Take your L on this debate sub….thats supposed to be where people debate, preferably with facts, lmao have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:01 PM
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Ok well I see a whole bunch of good dads and complaining women. Am I now down sort of truth sayer? I want y’all to get real, you threw an underhanded insult that didn’t even help your argument. That would still be a plus in the man column. And since we talking about, women/women relationships statistically last the shortest and although many people misinterpreted the article that said they have the highest domestic violence rates, lived experience from what I’ve seen says that people actually in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:57 PM
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Wow. Here we go again, have to attack a man’s sexuality for being a good dad? Are you serious rn? That’s disgusting. And it’s even more disgusting that you think like that. Now I gotta have a bunch of recorded evidence to prove you wrong? This is why men literally don’t know what y’all want anymore. And to use homosexuality that way is also disturbing, gay dads can be bad dads too lmao wtf? Anyway when women complain about house work and mental load men never take it seriously and if they do it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:48 PM
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No. Actually date people you like for them being themselves. If y’all want kids plan o it what that looks like. If one of y’all job is more important or better earning than the other, guess who’s gonna handle more stuff at home? It’s not this complicated at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:44 PM
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Right. I’ve yet to see how women glorify having a stay at home husband and how they give him play money. The hypocrisy is literally thick all around us and they refuse to acknowledge it. The idea of even having a stay at home husband disgusts most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:35 PM
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Just wanna add the “mental and domestic load” is kinda bs. I have yet to see man that doesn’t cook,clean and take care of the kids when he gets home. Most couples both people work and cannot afford daycare so who do y’all think has the kids when mom is at work lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:34 PM
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I disagree that you keep referring to it as a male ego death. Both genders need an ego death and quite frankly men have been living it the last 30-40 years. Y’all don’t need us,y’all can get your own degree, own house, pay your own bills and provide for your own children. Men seem like the only ones that want relationships with any normalcy anymore. Most women will only get into a relationship if the man is providing their every meed both financially and emotionally and they aren’t required to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:31 PM
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Sorry. I was agreeing but I understand the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:18 AM
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Same thing you just “debated” with monochromatic prism. I’m not gonna just repeat everything he just said but yea. My comment pretty much sums up what happens and what you just did albeit you did it in a way where you come off very educated and I can appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:42 PM
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Good work boss. Crushed with facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:27 PM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:23 PM
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Lmao you can’t argue a single thing he said so now you’re talking nonsense and about personal stuff. This is a perfect example of what men have been trying to say in this sub for years at this point. Not you personally but women just need to take accountability or be quiet fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:22 PM
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So women don’t want regular and safe sex from a person they love and trust? Wild take!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:28 AM
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Better yet how about I describe just having a gf or a girl you’re out with. You want a water? Make that 2. Bag of skittles? 2 now. Normally you would buy 2-3 drinks for yourself but not you’re at 4-6. New hoodie? Get 2 or it’s just hers. These are all little things that add up quick and regularly. Maybe she reciprocates or maybe if you don’t do “the little things” she thinks I hate her now lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 04:45 AM
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This is the hardest reality for people to grasp. It’s not meant to be mean or demeaning or even disrespectful but when it comes down to it a lot of women expect and need to be treated like children in some capacity. Why you think we save women and children first, and we say women before we say children? Do we not need men equally to reproduce lmao? It’s because men and women are different and fill different roles. Sometimes men can be like children when it comes to certain things and for the mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:22 PM
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So yea this is basically baseline. Hobbies and interests, politics and ways you get along all go into whether or not the relationship will be successful from the man’s side. But yes, most men feel exactly what you described it’s just realistically there aren’t that many women for the average guy to actually find and then want to fuck him as enthusiastically as a woman he’s put time, money and energy into. It balances
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:52 PM
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Love this but then plenty of people chime in like “I don’t want a transactional relationship” lmao life in itself is transactional, literally a law of physics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:49 PM
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Hell yea. I’m one of the family members of pros that didn’t go pro lmao and I’ve been close enough to the sun to touch the heat. The truth is the truth, women are hypergamous af. Young or old it matter very little. Normal guys just wish they were more honest about it. Women will argue you down about how they aren’t gonna put up with sharing their man but let that man be a pro athlete or a rapper or whatever and then you start seeing the truth. If he’s high value enough the “rules” go out the win…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:30 PM
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Absolutely correct. There is a difference between niceties and lying. Men are nice when using “game” or just discussing this topic, women will lie to look good and then tell the truth to their friends and family. Women will argue you down about how size doesn’t matter but as soon as you smash a girl who hasn’t had a big dick in a while all she tells you is how awesome it is and how she loved this last guy but he couldn’t satisfy her. You think she told him that!? Y’all gotta just stop lying to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:09 PM
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Although I don’t totally disagree with you, being weaker than literally half the population and being at risk for rape constantly is a pretty goddamn big disadvantage my guy. Plus let’s be honest, some people act like women don’t exist unless they are fucking them, that’s not cool at all. I agree that most women have shit easier for a plethora of reasons but that doesn’t mean life is easy for them at all and again I’d rather deal with all the shit I go thru as a man than to be at risk to sickos …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:38 PM
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I think that this is an honest statement that sheds light onto many issues. I think many women require more from a relationship than men do. I think bare minimum both parties want love, respect, reliability and sex. It obviously varies from person to person and relationships but it makes sense when you see how many women in relationships get bored or don’t feel “fulfilled” while many meant get stagnant and aren’t looking for “more”. Very Interesting and another reason why compatibility is a huge…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:25 PM
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How not? Money is always more than half the reason anybody does anything realistically. Especially in reference to dating or marriage or casual sex. That is directly what we are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:06 PM
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Yea bringin down the cost of living. It’s all connected to the ability to take care of oneself and/or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:45 AM
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Where y’all at?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:14 PM
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A lot of that boils down to what we see in society today as far as gender/sex relations. Women have a hard time being honest about what they want and what they say they want. Rather what they know that they actually will/wont tolerate and these ideas of what they are supposed to want or should be able to deal with. Women are way more idealistic when it comes to these topics and violently react when these contradictions are exposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:10 PM
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It absolutely does not contradict. If every time you go to cook your husband comes in and slowly takes over you will either fight back as in kick him out the kitchen, try and keep a balance so both of you do equal shares or back off and just let him be the cook for now on. My point clearly suggests that if women insist upon doing things their way and most men allow it, that does not equate to men being bad at those tasks or not wanting to do them entirely. I think you are conflating the two. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:25 PM
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My topic is actually all encompassing the things you mentioned. My point is that it is a fallacy that society accepts the notion that men don’t help in the house. I would even go as far to say with the exception of high earners, high skilled fields and maybe politics, women gravitate and prefer to do more domestic work. Not saying 100% of the house work but most of it. It’s often downplayed that the man “doesn’t do it right” or uses weaponized ignorance to avoid tasks but in reality people do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:16 PM
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My counter to that argument, which I can see why so many think that, is why are those men in relationships. Let’s be honest people judge a book by the cover all the time. Why is it that those men specifically, the ones who don’t do any house work, child rearing or work/life balance are always the ones in relationships and never seem to get divorced until after 15-20 years of “hell”. I say this all the time and I’ve made a post or 2 about how irresponsible it is of anybody to not really learn the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 06:02 PM
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This is kinda my point too. Maybe super hard red pilled right wing men don’t do shit for the kids or the house but most men I know cook more than half the week, do laundry, clean, help the kids all the time. Maybe I’m an outlier but women and men who are active in their family life do most shit evenly or they do what they are good at, and then the woman still complains way more than the man. And I’m talking like the most left and liberal of couples, women just really like to complain. It makes s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:27 PM
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Nailed this one. I was agreeing with both of you until now. It’s on both sides. Women’s problems with men have fault on both sides so why is it so hard to believe that men’s problems with women has faults on both sides? Some of the most misogynistic and homophonic people I’ve ever met are mothers, sisters, teachers and what not. Not saying that they are bad people or bad women but a life long of hearing things from women about what a “real man” is has affects and it’s so frustrating that women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:53 PM
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Lmao bro you dunked on them this whole thread I love it. My brother is bi and he used to cry to me about this. He likes women 80/20 but it’s so bad that he keeps his sexuality to himself because he knows it will automatically cancel more than half the room of women talking to him. It’s called being fake and hypocritical. Yes the people you were talking to made good points but you crushed em bro that’s why they stopped replying. The truth is that women are way more homophobic on this topic at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:09 AM
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It’s wild too man. Obviously we ain’t finna force nobody to have kids. But at what point do we stop ourselves from becoming Japan in a sense that there are more elderly than young people and at some point all the olds will either die or become a burden. Then just thinking about humanity, we don’t want the only kids to be from countries where women had no rights and were forced to have the kids of a monster. We have to make childbirth safer, fix this goddamn economy and then we can address if wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:44 AM
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Agreed. A small part I need to add tho is the economy. Men used to drop out of the 5th grade and still have enough money to support a family of 5 kids plus a wife plus a secret side family 2 counties over. So yea modern men are definitely upset about not having the same access to women and women needing them as our ancestors did but a huge part of that is also many women have a hard bare minimum line of what they are willing to accept for a man financially. Women still hold onto “traditional” va…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:17 AM
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That’s true! Woman don’t just wanna be the sexy pumpkin. Men also don’t want to be a stable table that will eventually get told it’s not good enough even tho it’s doing its job as a table lol. I think this is where compatibility comes into play. If it’s that hard to just talk or have a moment without feeling liek a piece of meat or feeling like a drama sponge then maybe yall shouldn’t be together
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:01 AM
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Not trying to lol. We just want the bullshit answers to stop. Stop trying to justify that you’re just not attracted to the guy! You have that right to not think anyone in particular is attractive. The part that men hate is all the fake reasoning as to how to change that truth. If you don’t like short fat guys there ain’t shit that can make you wanna fuck them besides not being short and fat. Telling men that housework, personality, hobbies is the key is just a lie. That’s the only problem most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:56 AM
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Fair but how many times does the man fee like the adult and the woman is childlike based on simple factors like not being able to control their emotions, having string dislikes or “Icks” but cannot explain them, overall bad attitude when things don’t go their way. Men still will fuck their childish ass, selfish ass wives
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:44 AM
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Do you have any advice or an answer to OPs hypothetical question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:35 PM
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You were almost right with the first half, the. You just gay bombed the guy smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:04 PM
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Everyone uses everyone, that’s not the problem. The problem is women acting like they have a higher horse when the topic comes up. Also the problem is that men get villainized for their honest and realistic part of the exchange/relationship but the even bigger problem is that women act like they don’t enjoy sex with men either lmao. If that was the case we would never have these hot topics about hook up culture, husband material etc. women love sex jist as much as men but apparently talking abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:15 PM
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Fantastically and beautifully said. Women don’t enter relationships as much because they don’t need to. Translation is definitely because they cannot find a use for a man. At least men are upfront with sex and love being the reason they want a gf/wife. It’s as if love and companionship means nothing to the modern woman unless she is Ina relationship where she is ultimately the one in a more advantageous position. Obviously not all women but most women of today feel this sentiment on some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:45 AM
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Not to be like that but if you’re a woman you probably wont ever see it truly and if you’re a man, if you don’t have a mother or sisters or a gf/wife and you seriously don’t know what I’m talking about then you more than likely aren’t seen as reliable or “manly” to them. It’s like opening doors, regardless of the rules and knowing we should not have to, it’s regularly expected of men to open the doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:35 PM
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One of the best posts I’ve seen on PPD ever. Not to say there aren’t some men like this, but even those men know 9/10 they are gonna be doing the heavy lifting when it comes to regulating (her) feelings and bad habits that can’t be called out otherwise you lose the relationship altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:59 PM
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Great post but this is exactly what OP was talking about. The house will not burn down if the dishes aren’t done. Idc what anybody says, multitasking is literally just juggling neglect over however many things you’re doing. If you are cleaning the dishes properly there will be moment where you aren’t watching the kid, which can be dangerous, then you are neglecting the kid or you are doing a shit job at the dishes. Don’t get me wrong it’s ok to not have your eyes on your kid 24/7 but sometimes w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:55 AM
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So all fat people are low in the look category? Idk I was kinda with you but you’re starting to lose me. I think that more women know they can get a better man both looks and personality wise, for the average or below average man they take what they can get, even knowing they are settling or aren’t really that attracted to the woman. It’s not fair to her at all but it’s like like being homeless and hungry, you may fuckin hate apples but that’s all people are giving you. So would you starve or wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:37 AM
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What? Nobody is. These were examples I was using to try and create understanding. I’m literally agreeing with you but adding that what op said is also true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:10 PM
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That’s not what he is saying. Women should have 100% autonomy and control over themselves and their lives. Full stop. It’s similar to him saying if we all had 8 more hours of guaranteed sleep the world would be a better place but it’s not earths fault that we rotate on a 24 hour schedule, it’s still just true. Same goes for if men had more of a desire to play with and raise children, the world would be a better and easier place to live, it’s not men’s fault that most of us are wired to go and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:01 PM
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This is true bro but let’s stop gaslighting our smaller brethren. You would make your dick smaller for your gf/wife would you? Neither would I lol. So yes what you are saying is ultimately correct dont downplay these guys like that. You’re struggling with success and you want these guys to feel for you. That’s like when rich kids cry about not knowing what the pressure of having an affluent family is like, I’m sure there are hard times but it’s always gonna beat being dirt poor lmao. We gotta be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:46 AM
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Bad take lol. SAHM is not a job. It’s stuff that has to be done regardless of if mom or dad does it. That’s like saying you’re mad because you didn’t get a bonus for cutting your own grass lmao. Oh no the kids that I made are loud and hungry, I hope I get that time and a half for raising my own kids! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:54 AM
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You know what you’re right. I didn’t like the sound of that when I first read it but we’re ultimately saying the same thing. I don’t think being mean in general is bad but it’s good in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:30 PM
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lol no he’s saying be honest. If a guy is being overly nice and shit and you can tell it’s not genuine then why play along? If you know that y’all wouldnt be friends anyway then why watch him bend over backwards for an unattainable goal? Just call him a creep or whatever or if you’re feeling nice jist say that y’all don’t have similar interests. Ultimately the guy should figure out her feelings and quick and move on. Just to point out tho, how do you become friends with someone? It’s just as OP …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:05 PM
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Jealousy is a good word choice. If I could film myself getting of all day and get paid like how some of these girls do I would. But I can’t so boom lol. And yea if someone was gonna pay all my bills and the kids bills no questions asked I would absolutely cook and clean and fuck them whenever feasible that’s not on some abusive shit with a smile on my face. So yea I think you’re right about some men but nowhere near the number you’re thinking. I think most men would happily be sahm if they knew …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:10 AM
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Exactly. It’s one thing to be able to get gussied up when the time calls, it’s totally different if that’s your whole personality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:10 PM
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Maybe my view is skewed cuz I’m a single dad but WTF are y’all talking about when it comes to sahm. Most of y’all ask if not outright demand to stay home with the kids. I don’t know a single man who would stop you from putting the kids in daycare after a certain age (like 1-2yo) and get a job. Especially if that job is for bills around the house and not just your play money. If roles were revered men would love all of it for the most part. And honestly yea it’s hard by myself but I get everythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:45 PM
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False. Please ladies just put on some sneakers and clean cloths. That’s literally all we want. Make up is NOT for men. Y’all compete with y’all internal demons and other women lmao. The purse and heels, what man is that for? Guys show up to dates just regular af, no man is shutting down a date because you came in a sweatsuit and sketchers 😂😂😂y’all lie so damn much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:39 PM
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You’re damn right! It’s crazy too cuz all of this could be solved by just giving a damn. We finna end our species cuz we’re too stupid to make the people who birth other people comfortable and safe smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:35 AM
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Very valid point. A lot of people joke that the bar is hell for men but in reality it’s the opposite. Because men want to fuck above all other drives we let a lot of shit slide and deal with it later. Men date bums who never had a job, couch surfers who mooch off of everything close to them, general bad people who like to hurt others all because of tits and ass and mouth and coochie. If men did a better job picking so many women would not have this bs high horse to sit on the skews so many thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:33 AM
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This is true. Even if you have a roommate. It can be family like a brother or a cousin the same energy is received. They don’t outright deny you but you are definitely bumped down a category or 2. Same goes for if you have kids and actually have custody or see them often. Super uneasy and hesitant about it. Like more so than how society and how red pill views say men don’t want single moms. That’s totally not true. On the flip side even if you are a good dad and it was the mothers fault for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 03:28 AM
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Not listening. It’s not that doing those things aren’t a part a friendship. It’s the way in which it’s done. I’m done talking to you tho. Have a good life!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:06 PM
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Then you don’t know what I’m takin about. A purse is a very minor thing and was just an example. And yes, there are limits to intimacy for each relationship. You wouldn’t kiss your kid the same way you kiss your wife/husband. Stop playing dumb. You wouldn’t cry to your mom about he same stuff and in the same way you would cry to your very close coworkers so yea. You just choose to be obtuse rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:31 PM
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Make friendship doesn’t work like that. We bond, we hug, we may share bad experiences and cry but the thing is, we ain’t doin that shit every time we meet up. It’s a few and far between deal and honestly nobody is hurt from that. We don’t see the bros as someone to get intimately involved with relationship wise. And deny it all you want women are great at using men even if it’s not malicious. Like after the 3 or 4th time holding your purse things are now questionable. I’ll hold my moms or my gf/…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:20 PM
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Lmao semantics now? Are we not better than that? Regardless if you meant men, women, nonbinary or whatever you still said and assumes something that had nothing to do with the convo and added zero value, just negativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:44 PM
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Nobody said that lol. You don’t have to answer OPs question if you felt like it wasn’t yours or somebody else’s job to do. Please only contribute to the discussion. Comments like these are what continue the misunderstanding and hate between men and women. So many men already feel like zero woman give af about them. Reading this might be the last nail in the coffin for some uneducated or inexperienced little boy out there. Making the problem worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:31 PM
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I definitely agree with this take. It’s not the same as same sex friendships fr but can be great
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:20 PM
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I can’t say if you’re right or wrong but many man have super closer friendships with other men and they don’t feel the need to fix is car, take out his trash or buy his bro a super expensive bday gift otherwise he won’t feel appreciated. Men have intimate relationships with their male friends but it usually doesn’t cost them as much money or effort to maintain that relationship like it would to maintain That same level platonic relationship as he would with a woman. Not all men not all women yad…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:50 PM
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Partially true. I’m with you up until the end here. What happens more than not is the platonic relationship turns into one where the man is doing all the husband and boyfriend shit and not expected to start catching feelings. They cry on you, expect nice gifts on birthdays and holidays, enter relationships with bad people end expect you to pick up the pieces. That hard topic do when you actually like somebody and they have expressed that it will never happen. Most rational people aren’t gonna ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:43 PM
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This is all PPD is and is about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:48 PM
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Lmao I love women so much I promise I do but y’all are so full of shit on this sub man I tell you. Yes, y’all love big dicks. Most women would rather be with a man who’s dick is slightly too big than a man who’s is slightly too small. They would prefer taller not shorter and yes money can alleviate almost all of that. We always have these shitty debates cuz y’all won’t tell the truth. Yes men can be really shitty but now all of them so yes although I’m sure most women are cool some of y’all can …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:50 AM
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Hell yea. These girls be full of shit. I drive for a ride share company from time to time, the exact type of thing you should never hit on women while doing it doesn’t matter the context. I’m lucky enough to be that “I wanna fuck you pretty soon” type of attractive. I wouldn’t say that women are primarily attracted to me but it’s like 60% primal and I gotta talk the rest of the way to get there but it’s much easier for me than some of the stories I’ve heard or terrible at bats I’ve seen my frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:40 AM
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Honestly this is the real answer. Regardless of the reason and truthfully taking as much nastiness and misogyny out of this, woman want men who can provide financially. That’s it. If she makes $5M a year she wants a man that’s makes $10M at a minimum. (Blah blah yes yes not all women, almost nothing applies to 100% of any group) I think men and women have definitely changed over time. I see this time period in history as forcing/giving women the ability to learn what they really want. Some absol…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 09:24 PM
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Absolutely. Even more so I would say in minority groups. Apply the added difficulty in finding a job, stable housing, if you have parents what their financial ability to even help you is, how early you had to take on adult roles and so on. In the black community it is often the eldest girl (cuz of misogyny for the most part) that becomes jr mom and looks after the younger kids and helps the parents (unfortunately just mom a lot of the time). By the time she is an adult woman, whether she became …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 08:16 PM
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Something super important you said has a major effect on today that is constantly being overlooked. In the 60s-90s a boy could drop out of school and still be able to afford a house and to take care of his family. Regardless of all the girl boss shit (I think that’s it’s good women can become financial equals) most women still want a man to be a provider and usually in the traditional sense. She won’t take a broke man seriously. That’s just facts. In todays age, even tho we all know how hard it …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:53 PM
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Hate to say it but I definitely get where you are coming from. My dad mostly raised me to respect women and to treat them like princesses really. 2nd marriage and I love my step mom but when I lived with them it absolutely the kind of marriage I would for myself. My bio mom on the other told me equal right equal fights (I don’t hit girls) but she basically taught me that they are just people but more likely than not they are shitty people lol. I’m still definitely progressive and blue pill leani…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:32 AM
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This is so crazy that most people on here can agree. Anytime a man, not so much a woman, talks about both sexes having privileges and that we can work together to make each other more comfortable when dealing with them, one side flat out denies that they have any advantages whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:10 AM
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Hate to say it but yea. That why average or broke men get so pissed because it’s literally the same behavior but men have to make so much more to even have those options. Not saying it’s right but it’s true. That why broke girls who can’t make up for it with looks have better “personalities” or “aren’t caught up in looks that much”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:26 PM
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I can’t say I agree with all of this but the double standard on having your own place is real af. A woman could be 33 years old and live with her parents for one reason or another but if a man does it for any reason besides one of his parents is on their death bed he is looked at like a loser. Kinda same with being overall great at every aspect of sex. Woman love bringing up how most of them can’t come from piv and also act like no man has ever wanted to listen to them in the bedroom. How about …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:50 PM
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Absolutely not. It should be a legal document just like everything else we have in today’s society. If she can prove thru text or recording or witness statements that he was on board then nail his ass to the goddamn cross. Nobody should be able to shirk responsibility off to anyone else. It’s not perfect but it’s better than what we have now. He can’t mislead her and she can’t puppet him. It’s way more equitable than just letting one person decide for three peoples lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:05 PM
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lol so you agree but you just had to get a personal shot in right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:03 PM
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Straight up. If we both don’t wanna be parents that cool. Abort. If you don’t believe in abortion then allow me to financially abort and whatever you do after that has nun to do with me. Women don’t like that cuz they want to control the baby dadddy pockets even if they aren’t together. If a woman can’t afford to take care of a kid herself then she shouldn’t be able to force a man who is no longer or never was interested in a family with her to have to. That crazy af.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:15 PM
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Perfect! People are so fake with their wishy washy mess. It’s really simple, if she can leave it then so can he. If she don’t want it he should have to pay for it. He shouldn’t have to be forced to do anything jist like we aren’t forcing women to do anything. It’s just not fair simply put.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:00 PM
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At the very most her reply was to counter argue and somewhat agree that there are many misconceptions, many that oppose the point op was tryna make. And you seem upset. You said you weren’t. Ok then that’s it. I didn’t tell you how you felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:27 PM
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No she did not and even if she did you didn’t answer my question. Don’t you think some women are just simply too unattractive to you and their complaints come off as whining? It’s not a personal attack on all men. I don’t agree with her entire thought process but for this arguments sake she nailed it. Why are you upset about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:20 PM
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It’s not an insult bro. There are in fact, undesirable men who rant and throw tantrums. She ain’t say all men, are you gonna deny that there are some shitty guys who bitch and moan about women? We all know that is indeed a factual statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:06 PM
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Lmao this is perfect! Crushed this argument very cleanly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:10 PM
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That’s a difficult one. My uncle was false accused by my little cousin. She was from out of state and she actually lived with us. She said he made her perform oral and threatened to kill her. She told my parents and my other aunts. They called the police immediately and then called my uncle over. It was super shitty. They arrested him then questioned him separate from the officers that questioned her and all the cops were female. They immediately could tell she was lying and she basically admitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:18 PM
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I would like to say many women have said that they look at men who they aren’t attracted to with indifference or that they are almost invisible. Not disgusted. I would like to call out bullshit or say that men have finally gotten a small victory in the semantics and bullshit Olympics! One of the biggest topics that I hear women gripe about is how men basically ignore all the women they don’t wanna fuck and y’all are loud about how shitty you think that is, yet here, when OP basically calls out w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:00 AM
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Yes everyone should be paid fairly, full stop. The truth is however that most women want a provided man anyway. Women with degrees, women with businesses, women who inherited wealth, women athletes, whatever category you choose to look at the overwhelming majority of women want to be taken care of financially. Regardless of it being a social construct the fact remains that most women want their man to pay their bills and be financially stable for children and when women make more most of them st…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:19 AM
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Damn spot on!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:49 PM
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I like that our names are related I like more that your answer makes sense and is true. I’m not tryna get the ladies to love their “swamp” lmao just admit that’s it’s a better spot to be in than a desert. Your analogy was perfect for the bros who were white knighting down there too. Those with the supply will always be ahead of those in the demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:46 PM
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False for many reasons. It’s ok to lose a debate I don’t think you’re a bad person but you gotta take that L. We are talking about the dating pool, presumably in America, with adults who are actively looking to date. The world pop has nun to do with this. Have a good day tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:53 AM
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Lmao I’ll take that as a W.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:51 AM
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That’s the thing y’all are choosing to miss. You ain’t gotta do shit with the carrot juice. We just want you to admit you have a bunch when men don’t. That’s all. Nobody care what you do with the juice, you’re just lying and saying that you don’t have it when you do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:37 AM
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Lmao y’all go so far to just not see what’s in front of you. Do I want to get spat on? No. I’m assuming you don’t either, that’s makes no difference to all the people who want to get spat on. So yes, to them, you are wildly privileged. It don’t matter if you like it or not, it’s a privilege. I’m big and black and decently handsome, sometimes due to stereotypes I get attention from women. No I don’t like being approached as a fetish but I’m not gonna lie to myself and act like there are some men …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:31 AM
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This is just the truth and they hate to admit it bro. lol there is no malice in what he is tryna tell y’all. Not one bit, the fact that the compliment thing doesn’t get y’all to understand is why the whole swamp vs desert convo happens to begin with. Cookies are not good for you. I would rather have an infinite amount of cookies vs not having any food at all. I also don’t like cookies very much. Convo is that simple. Regardless of if you like it or not, having a near endless supply of something …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:23 AM
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Y’all hate to read and comprehend. It doesn’t matter if you like it or not. You have the advantage of being able to without any sort of heavy lifting in your part. The dangers are very real but it it still something that can be filtered out or acknowledged. Men who get zero women can’t filter out shit cuz the number is zero. I love manicures btw and yes that would still be a privilege to that guy because many other men and women like you mentioned would fuckin love free manicures for life, just …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:20 AM
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Very true. And if not for equality than at least equity. There is nothing a man can do that equals having a baby and we get that but equity would mean legally and financially absolving that man if he doesn’t agree to have the kid. The women who think this is unfair really have no argument other than them wanting to put the man on child support for revenge or for spite. Other laws like maternity vs paternity leave. It should just be parental leave and be treated equally to each persons respective…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:57 AM
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Fantastic points. I totally agree about the father having reproductive rights too. It should be totally equal where everyone choice and autonomy are respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:03 AM
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Nothing you said here is actually wrong. But my porn is that with everything you said it is still in fact, much easier for women to filter out the bad than it is for men because they have nothing to filter. It’s terrible that it’s tough on both sides but that doesn’t take away that it just easier for y’all. Doesn’t mean that I’m saying it’s easy overall, just easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:58 AM
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Yes and yes. People look better and are healthier and there are physically more people and we have the ability to see people all over the world so yes. People look better and yes women can still, maybe even easier than in the past find a man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:54 AM
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That makes a lot of sense actually. It definitely has to be hard and overwhelming the second you turn the app on you’re flooded with no sense. I do genuinely empathize with that but again, I have to stress, most men would happily welcome that over no water at all. I do have to point out that another commenter said that men are picky too and that’s true to an extent but most men are looking for relationships. The guys that are just looking for hookups are dramatically lowering their standards and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:50 AM
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Lmao you got me there. I can see the “swampy” energy with that one but still most men aren’t doin that crazy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:46 AM
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Again you are agreeing that the difficulty you have in the dating field is one of your own making. I respect your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:33 AM
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It’s genuinely the economy with capitalism. No more third spaces to chill. Almost every moment is dedicated to making money or the pressure to force yourself to have fun cuz you don’t get many chances which in turn almost guarantees you do the same shit you know you will get comfort or fun out of. Women are really losing their rights but at the same time men have been demonized for being men. It’s complicated for sure with blame on Botha sides but the only way to start to Hal is with being hones…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:30 AM
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Thank you. Fully agree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:07 AM
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Again proving my point. You’re not even willing to talk to one of them in the dm, have a conversation, shit even swipe on them to dig deeper. Maybe he’s bad at pics but you won’t even talk to him to find out. It seems worse for you but you’re not even trying. Proving my point again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:51 PM
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Please give me a point. Both are “stranded and need to survive” survival is dating. How is the analogy broken down?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:45 PM
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Thank you. Again, my point made!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:38 PM
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The only argument here is that having options(albeit mostly bad) is still better than not having any options or only bad options and few or far between. The only hang up is that you have to do more work to sift thru where as for most men there is nothing to sift.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:37 PM
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Lmao no women came up with 2 of those premises and the last one is just factual. Look your best for the best result, men just used the data to come up with what y’all prove is the best look for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:34 PM
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I’m like you where in a since I’ve been blessed with most things women want but that doesn’t make me blind to how they behave. I’m been in the room with men who were more successful than me, better car/cloths and were genuinely nicer and better people than me but got shit on based on looks/height. I’m 6’4 and black, even tho most women who aren’t black view me with some sort of fetish in mind, I’m not blind that most men would literally undergo surgery or sacrifice a lot of money to be in my pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:32 PM
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Yes. This is my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:24 PM
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Again you are proving my point a little. Objectively speaking being in a swamp and gaining access to water and then DOING THE WORK to filter and clean it is still much much easier than wondering ANY desert for clean drinking water. That is my argument and the ladies have been making it vehemently clear that I am correct!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:10 PM
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Again I respect your honesty but to me it’s like a cop out. Another way to say that you want an unattainable man or that top 5% Now imagine if every single woman was just like you. Now imagine if every man was just like you. We would all die lol. But seriously tho I’m not mad at you because you are taking on the responsibility. As long as you aren’t out here bashing men for you not getting a “spark” you’re golden in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:00 PM
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Very true. That’s why I said drinking the blood of a lizard. It’s not good, but it’s more moisture than we had. It getting water from a cactus, prolly gonna get hurt and it might even poison you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:48 PM
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This is all we want bro. You worded that eloquently and very straightforward! It’s funny this is the thing she stopped replying to!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:47 PM
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Well now you’re taking it out of pocket a little bit. If you’re a person that hard to date or you need some sort of unspoken and untrainable quality that’s cool but don’t put that on most women and please don’t give men the idea that it’s something they are at fault of if they don’t have. When y’all say stuff like that men can’t help but think it’s another excuse of just wanting the top 1% of men but you’re too scared to say it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:42 PM
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I again I like y’all cuz y’all being honest and keeping it real. You all aren’t blaming men or the “swamp” you are taking accountability and saying hey “I just didn’t get that spark” and that’s perfectly valid. I love how you aren’t slam dunking all men as if they are the problem. Y’all are having a good convo!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:39 PM
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Honesty is acceptable here! You make it clear that it’s on you and although you acknowledge the “swamp” you make it clear that you have a problem with attraction so I thank you for your honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:36 PM
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Lmao do y’all not understand the word privilege? It doesn’t matter if you like it or not you still have the privilege of having the option. It’s really that simple. Most white people have privileges that allow them to advance farther than any other people, that’s doesn’t mean they use them to their advantage or even like having them but we all agree that they still exist. It’s why I agree with women on safety concerns and self defense when it comes to men and dating. Most men are strong enough t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 10:03 AM
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Bravisimo very good post. All true as well. I hate that it’s so hard to get them to understand our perspective. We understand the swamp Jesus Christ we get it! You can still get water, boil it and save up so much that swamp water is essentially a non factor. You can’t do any of that shit in a desert. You have to squeeze the blood out of any lowly lizard you come across ( this is why women who are 5s and below can still fuck about 70% percent of the guys they want and lock down maybe about 40%) s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:00 AM
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You buggin. If the average man went from making 30k to 100k you can bet your ass dating would begin to calm down and make more sense. Not all women are gold digging whores. Just flip the roles, why fuck a broke guy you love when you can wait to find a guy with money who you love. Yea less likely but it’s the same mindset of people who play the lotto but chicks have better odds albeit not much better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:43 AM
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I love how women like to flip the biological argument when it helps them but it’s stupid when we use it. If we’re going on biology as the reasoning then you would be happy to be in a harem? Like your thought process is half baked. Even the finest and most beautiful woman would just be 1 of many to a rich and attractive man if we were cool with the biology excuse. Regular men wouldnt be in the conversation for the most part and regular women would either starve themselves hoping on a star that a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:51 AM
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Also very reasonable. And true, there is probably as many men who used patriarchy against women as there are that have used it to protect and nurture them. And I don’t know what to say about the number of modern women who would still choose to go back to being in traditional roles if they could find a rich,good looking and nice man, that’s still means something tho. Idk if we blame it on years of patriarchy or just common sense but that factors into this alleged swamp that we just debunked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:45 AM
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This is what I like and I love honest women like yourself. And to answer your question, you shouldn’t but it is a nice thing to do lol. And no most men wouldnt even dream of giving up that luxury yacht, full time and with monogamy at least! That being said thing would still be better if most women were honest as you are, would save a lot of time and heartbreak on the male side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:40 AM
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Thank you. If you weren’t forced to do any of this then it’s a choice you made willingly. It’s a hard situation and there should be something else but honestly this is where dating and learning your partner becomes important. Too many stories are off of the backbone of people who only dated 1-5 years and never lived together and yet they are surprised that they actually don’t get along! Man or woman who chooses to stay home instead of make it as close to 50-50 as possible should really take a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:01 PM
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Right as if women cannot enjoy sex lmao. Like women don’t have the agency to guide or control their sexual experience smh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:49 PM
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Missed the whole point. I’m sorry not to be rude b it I hate when the topic of a discussion is thrown off with outside factors that aren’t being included. It’s different from using an example vs totally changing what the debate is about. To start there are obviously more choices than these 2 kinds of men but this is for arguments sake. Is it better for you to be sexually involved with a man who makes it clear that he doesn’t really give a shit about you or your relationship, he just wants good s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:28 PM
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Perfect point. It would save a lot of time and honestly pain for both sexes if the idea that “nothing you do will make me attracted to you” was more prevalent. Yes all the other factors like personality and beliefs are important but it’s not more important than physical attraction for the beginning of relationships (doesn’t matter as much* in longer relationships of like a decade or more) and the more people fake like those other things are more important the longer this problem will exist. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:24 PM
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Although I disagree with the sentiment I still think nice guys would be better in this scenario. Do you wanted to be treated like a princess you should barely even be looked at or like a concubine who’s sole purpose is to get fucked!? Both suck but there is obviously a better choice. But for a large group of women they don’t mind being treated like a sex doll if the man is attractive enough. Nice guys are just fighting with the tools they have but somehow that seen as less genuine and creepy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:14 PM
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Perfectly said!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:52 AM
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Jesus No Pill Christ thank you for saying what any sane person is thinking. The best route for a healthy and loving relationship is friendship first. The problem is when the guy spills his guts about his feeling and they aren’t mutual, women are usually the first to change the relationship for the worst. Like you don’t tell all of your friends about a random hookup with a guy you don’t even really know. Just the ones you know would appreciate it right, so then why is the friendzoned guy who just…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:49 AM
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Most accurate take. Problems on both sides. Women as a majority haven’t figured out how bad that constant and consistent rejection can be and in Les just don’t get it. Like this same Original post can be applied to incels who refuse to change their “standards”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:57 AM
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See then you say shit like that to give friendzoned 3’s slivers of hope to turn around and say they were misogynistic pigs who only cared to get in your pants. Pick a lane damn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:31 AM
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This is so much funnier that what I assume the average redditer and even understand lmao. Thi is truly funny af, this is where the status and money aspect come into play cuz I know these bitches wasn’t gettin wet by looking at beans 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:35 PM
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This is true. OP is speaking truth too in a way. Honestly it’s competition and yes a lot of nuances are bullshit and unfair but men and women both have their advantages and disadvantages. Crying about it on either side makes you look silly and weak
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:12 PM
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My only complaint is that is she is allowed to terminate on her own (totally fine btw) then he should be able to state that I would like to terminate and obviously if she refuses then he shouldn’t be financially responsible. If she can’t afford it on her own (including help from financial sevices) then unfortunately the child should be placed somewhere close by until she can. We need to reform many of these things to help single parents more but if the mindset of equality and equity. There shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:55 AM
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Lmao they are actively participating in not getting it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:38 AM
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??? Huh. Never said anything about men having low standards. What are you on about? This goes for everyone but I’m a man so I can more easily speak for men and from a man’s perspective. I’ve seen more women deal with stupid shit that men but I’ve seen more men be miserable because they can’t get their dream girl so all of the sudden all girls are bad now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 04:58 AM
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Yea that’s true too. A lot of men take what they can get even tho they don’t have to live or date like that. Brutal cycle of loneliness to avoid being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:35 PM
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Good for you for getting healthy but I bet you’re not as ugly as you think and again, I’d give my left arm if I got a million women in a poll and they all said you’re too ugly and fat and short to date/love. The math proves that you aren’t unlovable and your confidence is the key to unlocking that math. Also getting in shape can’t hurt bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:34 PM
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Right!! Beggars can’t be choosers and shouldn’t be begging to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:42 AM
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Yea it wasn’t for him. I’m no wordsmith but people on this post are proving that we all don’t really understand “settling” vs taking whatever scraps are available lol. Nobody can build their perfect mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:31 AM
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No lmao. Or Costco. They look like they have more money and that’s maybe try but ugly and hot all over the place. Maybe in rich people stores we don’t know about tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:29 AM
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This is all true. But a lot of people conflate that inner voice with the idea that somebody doesn’t want to eat the same food every Sunday night. Or that they don’t wanna go back to your home town and visit your parents for every holiday. That kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:28 AM
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Great minds think alike! No further arguments lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:27 AM
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Again tho youre making my point. I use the world settle because that what people understand. If a sport’s preference can make or break your relationship then again, prolly not ready to be dating anybody right? And love is hilarious. You don’t know who you love until you spend time with them. You may be so stuck on the fact that they hate basketball that you miss that they are great in everything else. But to some people that means settling and oh no, settle bad! We just need to grow up a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:26 AM
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You are literally making my point. Settling has a bad ring to it but not settling means you’re a person who can’t operate until they get exactly what they want. Like these guys who cry cuz that can’t get a specific type of woman. Or these women who do the same if not worse. They are all babies who aren’t mature enough to date. I’m not saying marry a jobless porn addict but I am sayin you’re prolly not gonna meet a millionaire porn star mode who only wants to fuck you and give you money. Honestly…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 02:08 AM
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I love Walmart but it’s a good example. All kinds of people shop there, not just the beautiful ones lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:36 AM
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lol I hear ya but then don’t cry about being alone and “only 20% of men get pussy” ya da ya da
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:30 AM
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This is very true. I love your posts in this thread btw! But yea many men are afraid of the dumping backlash and will really talk themselves back into the relationship. Shorty got dumped 4 times before buddy made it back home and told her he loves her like any other day. The reality is that, like you said before, many men would much rather wait to get dumped and just slowly become worse and worse partners or realize that no matter what he does she ain’t finna leave so they marry her and just do …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 01:04 AM
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This right here. Sorry but that’s just how it is, that simple. Don’t take it to heart because it’s not personal. Men do it too and it’s not personal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:39 AM
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<image> Yea. When do we see men doing this to women all day and nobody steps in?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:07 PM
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What a feminist red pill?! I’ve never seen this before I would actually like to know more about how you think because I actually agree with you! I’m just now getting into the flairs and shit and I also just got banned from r/askfeminists so I can’t really exchange ideas and talk with the group I want to learn more from. Can I ask a similar topic question? If you believe in alpha males and what comes with them, where does your feminism line start? Like if he’s attractive and rich and single. Is h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:01 PM
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That’s something you can’t say here tho. It’s different when men don’t want to hear about how a woman feels or her day to day life or women specific topics but a lot of women refuse to allow men an opinion on situations where we can all literally SEE daily interactions with men and women all with different ranks and seniorities at work and other places. When I said it’s almost never seen I meant that. Maybe these situations happen when women are isolated by their male bosses or family or underli…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:51 PM
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Sick bastards. Against her will is so fuckin nasty bro. That’s like way worse than “you didn’t have clear consent” that’s like forceful. They should have made those answers public smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:42 PM
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I was almost with you lol. It’s disingenuous to say that toxic feminity is the same as internalized misogyny because it’s not. And yes a part of being a man is the pressure to protect and provide for your family. Even if it’s discussed and your wife doesn’t wanna be a SAHM she can and often has changed her mind. At that point what is a man who wants to keep his family together supposed to do besides keep working and work harder. That’s beside the point, OP never said all SAHM just quit their job…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:40 PM
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It’s really not tho and most people would agree that’s it’s not acceptable although it still happens. If most people were to see a racist doing racist shit they will call it out but there are still millions of racists alive and well. This doesn’t make it socially acceptable just because a lot of people do it. Txting and driving, drinking and driving, domestic abuse. None of these things that happen today are socially acceptable but they still happen. Now that we all understand this we can all sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:34 PM
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Yoooo wtf. That’s crazy and sick. What was the rewording?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:24 PM
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No because not all situations are child support situations. If the court can establish a relationship that determines the father intended or contributed to a lifestyle or whatnot like in a marriage then yes child support that mfkr. Same goes for parents who just break up and need custody agreements or for when crime or abuse is in play. But two people who have the power to stop the responsibility of a child and one forcing it onto the other is wrong and it’s a different thing. It’s like jobs tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:06 AM
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Partly that but we’re talking about legality. Not morals or human nature. If both people can create a responsibility yet one person is in control of said responsibility coming into fruition or not, then it stands within reason that the other party should have an out or an option that doesn’t leave their future out of their hands. Both parties should have a way to say no. Only one party does. The mom should alert the father in a reasonable time that still allows for abortion. If the mom wants to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:56 AM
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A woman’s choice to keep or abort should not also be a man’s choice to provide, given he is willing to release all parenting and custodial rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:36 AM
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None of that matters. The father should legally be able to resolve himself from any financial or legal rights and repercussions if they both agree to it. Nobody should be forced to have a kid. Period. That’s it. Women can make the choice if life happens or not and that’s their right! It should also be the right of the other procreator to have a say in if they would like to be involved more in said procreation’s life. The only obvious recourse is to allow dads the right to deny financial fatherho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:35 AM
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This doesn’t make sense. Once that person is an adult they have the right to learn about their biological heritage. If a grown child wants to deal with an absentee parent that’s their business. People keep thinking this is about punishing women or the children. It’s about a fairness in choice. What you’re suggesting would result in situation that didn’t need to happen. If a child needs blood or and organ should the biological dad still not be contacted? It’s not tit for tat. It’s just for fairne…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:28 AM
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Bro I just caught a 10 day ban because I replied to post. Was told I can only reply to comments, immediately replied to comment then got banned. DM the mod and basically talked in circles. Smh like who does that help
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:39 PM
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Exactly bro! Worse part is that we want to be able to talk to women about this! Real men with commen decency and a soul pretty much leave all men groups because eventually they turn into woman hating circlejerking echo chambers. We wanna tell women what we go through but can’t because it’s like most women have a hive mind defensive mechanism and naturally reaaaach to make most women right in most situations no matter the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:00 PM
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Then you don’t be with a person who refuses to live in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:51 PM
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This is the way. Ain’t shit free in life. I can love you til I’m blue don’t mean I gotta fw you. Any and all healthy relationships have a give and take. If you don’t understand that then you aren’t mature enough for sex or a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:23 PM
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People with really high standards often fall far below them when looking to date. I think k it’s a mix of fear, used to being spoiled and straight up arrogance to think you can just wait and find the person to your exact specifications. Some of the best parts about interacting with real life, irl people is that most people have vast differences and you get exposed to new shit usually via something you weren’t fully in control of. Many people allow their inner control freak to set up their dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 11:31 AM
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OP missed the whole point smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:32 PM
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I was with some of that. Again bro we can’t say 100% of any group cuz you have met 4 billion or so of the worlds women. I feel where you are coming from but this period won’t last. Men and women need each other. People are slowly starting to realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:40 AM
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What whoa. Please don’t try and degrade CC. They are actually just as good as some universities minus all the capitalism and gross misuse of student driven revenue. You sound mad son.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:22 AM
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Yes it does, it’s called being a HUMAN BEING. If other people bother you so much then go live minimalist in the woods or sumn. Out of all of those interactions with specifically men, how many were just saying hello vs how many were cat calling/ogling you or even saying disrespectful shit like “damn ma that ass lookin fat!” I’m not saying these assholes don’t exist but you’re making your life about everything and everyone else but yourself. Question if you have the time. This is for you and any o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:16 AM
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Yea pretty much. From the moments we start to realize are dicks do other things than pee it’s kinda like a drop of a hat and throw random boners in there, it is literally something you have no choice other to control yourself and your urges or ruin your life and maybe the others around you. It’s not as difficult as some men make it seem but it isn’t as easy as many women believe it to be. It’s not like just flipping your phone over, on the same breath it’s not as hard as swimming across an ocean…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:28 AM
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Oh gtfoh wit this nonsense. “If you looking for a problem, you’ll find one”. Everytime you go outside you have a problem with men specifically? It’s you then. There are so many different types of men out there and you’re saying they ALL give you problems? You’re the common denominator. And using your logic stfu again because that means you have no idea what it feels like to be a man walking alone at night. We are easier targets because most men ain’t finna go rob a woman, plus if we say our stor…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:18 AM
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This is both saddening and beautifully truthful. Put in the simplest words that apply perfectly. It’s hard to describe women’s privilege sometimes because they always blame men in turn or literally just ignore facts. It easy to see how men have certain privileges even when it’s not necessarily something you want to do but we can and women can’t. The part I get mad about is that most men can see where we have a privilege that a woman doesn’t but getting the average women to admit that it goes bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:04 AM
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Also “oppression Olympics” is annoying to hear but I get where you’re coming from. Black propel have to deal with this all the time. Our problems shouldn’t effect another groups problems but that doesn’t mean that other groups problems are worse. Example is many trans people have to build up the courage to change how they look, in my opinion they do some of this to themselves because of how drastically they changed their appearance. As a black person, we are literally born with an appearance som…
/r/BlackPillScience11/11/23 07:41 AM
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Disagree bro. I definitely believe in a lot of feminist points because they are true but that don’t women are angels. The risk of becoming a sex slave is much higher for women but that don’t mean I have to live my life acting as if I’m as non threatening as possible to make others comfortable. Women still follow the money as far as dating and marriage but that doesn’t mean some women aren’t abused by partners who make more than them. A lot of it is dumb but not all of it. I do think there are pl…
/r/BlackPillScience11/11/23 06:57 AM
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I think it’s hilarious how in the same breath men ain’t shit but this mindset of needing a rich man is still super prevalent. I think all people would like a rich good looking spouse but guess which group makes it a personality trait? Ps the patriarchy is a real thing but just like many things in this world the people complaining the most about it conveniently forget to remove their benefits from their solution
/r/BlackPillScience11/11/23 06:47 AM
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Prolly a long shot but If you realllyyyy wanna see what’s up ask for a chance to talk to the friend without your gf. It sounds like she’s lying tho bro. Don’t let her mistakes be something you blame all women for. We hate when they do that shit to us so don’t become a part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:40 AM
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Yea the doctors are buggin on that one. I work I. The medical field and I see it all the time. Men, especially the old ones have hella pride issues and they project it onto everyone else. Also cultural misogyny is a big factor too. Not gotta put this in one group of people but some doctors are offended when a female nurse has input on something he does. That being said, taking more serious issues out of the equation, I would say more women overreact to things like relationship issues, money mana…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:50 AM
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No I mean number 3 specifically for many many many women. Some women literally need to say the same story as many times as they can to as many people as they can to ensure that everyone is on her side, lord forbid you disagree then it turns into “men just can’t understand what it’s like!!!” We understand and we think you are overreacting. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:01 AM
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I was with you for a bit but on average women do this waaaaaaaay more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:49 AM
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I definitely can see dudes with Robo women but I can see the same for women. I think that prostitution will come with goods and bads. Women could cheat on their husbands too. It’ll help the economy a ton I bet and regulation would keep those who follow them child and disease free. Throw in the proper paperwork for pregnancies and security and boom, bigger industry. Our employers don’t give af about us or our bodies. This will give more people the choice to use themselves before they let a giant …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:51 AM
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Yea that’s the case for most people. We gotta stop acting like we know everything and every soul on earth. I’d best there are some people who are genuinely happy alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 06:23 AM
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Although I have no source I do think that’s interesting. If the world was more open to prostitution I believe there would be a decent sized chunk of women that’ll be left out in the cold similarly to how a bunch of incel groups are now. Might even even out this dating nonsense. I just don’t like the idea that many young boys and girls will see it as their only was as soon as they are legal. Also hate how predators will essentially have an nfl draft team trying to get young people to sign up with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:13 AM
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This is most accurate. It’s not about hate, it’s about personal opinions and prejudices that are prevalent in our society. Men love sex worker but refuse to be IN LOVE with them. Women can easily love an ugly shirt fucker but they REFUSE to do so. No matter how you put it people tend to think highly of themselves and the idea with being with a promiscuous spouse or a “less than ideal man” man is a straight killer for most people. If men were shamed for having a lot of bodies women would be just …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:45 AM
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Great post. Guys try this shit out and remember worse case scenario she just says no and you keep living. After reading most of these comments I think you guys are just lazy or expect women to be placed gently in your lap, sized up to your detailed specifications. Live in reality fellow bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:18 AM
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I’d probably be better off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:18 AM
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Yes like this but in reverse too. Men don’t want the women that they are interested to be the “whore” for everyone else but themselves. Like you said it’s awesome to be a cherished loved one and a personal little sex freak all in one bundle for your SO. But in an attempt to “take this guy serious” she holds off on sex with him but let’s it be known she hasn’t always held off. In this scenario she wants him to be her Madonna and also make her his, all the while he is aware of her “whore” side but…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:37 AM
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I’d argue that those women, some at least, don’t love their husbands. Just like many husbands don’t love their wives. They are comfortable and they love they things they get out of the relationship. And most of the time what they get vs what they have to deal with is worth it because they don’t leave. Unfortunately a lot of women like to double dip and avoid accountability for several things. Most men who like big tits aren’t gonna lie or be ashamed if they choose to not date women without big t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:23 AM
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I can easily say the same in reverse, does that now absolve all men from being scumbags because “women should just accept the differences in a male’s sexuality”? Sounds dumb right? All jokes aside you have a point but you missed the target. Some things are truths, most men wanna fuck more ok cool. Some things are lies, men don’t value women unless they are related or sexually involved. Some things are just what you said, a difference plain and simple. You don’t have to like it nor does it have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:09 AM
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I can agree to this to a point. I’ve always been fat but I’ve been blessed with genetics to be muscular as well. One of those rare body types where I could definitely afford to lose a few pounds but you can still see the Bi’s tri’s and chest real good. I’ve never really had too many problems with women after I accepts myself and my body. That being said I know for a fact dating would be that much easier if I knocked off about 100 pounds. I’m 6’4 so I don’t look too fat either besides the belly b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:24 PM
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I’ve definitely been the tall guy that gets to smash a lot after a failed relationship and with more than one person. I really feel for my short/fat/bald chads who have to deal with this shit and still keep a good heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:34 PM
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Jesus Christ. Soon as I start feeling like maybe I’m allowing myself to fall into a women hating mindset and that the internet is just getting to me I see some shit like this 😂😂😂 like they are genuinely looking for sympathy after they are fucking some poor woman’s husband but men are the enemy??? It probably sucks being a woman trying to tell other women they are wrong smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:31 PM
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Problem is that a lot of women think that because homie wanted to fuck or have an intimate relationship that he didn’t care about anything else from the start. Some people like to get to know people before they spill their guts or establish if they really are interested in the other. Idk what planet you guys are on but it’s a normal thing to befriend a person before you ask them out. Literally seeing what interests a person has. Why do this instead of coming flat out and saying “I wanna bang you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:02 AM
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My 2 cents on this is that although women have had it very rough in the past as far as being used like property and treated like children which can make life shitty af, for the most part, even in some terrible and awfully abusive situations, women are still being taken care of. Nobody gives a fuck if Johnny couldn’t get a job or a girl and then offs himself because it is increasingly harder for any individual to look after all of their own needs, specially when we’re talking financially. Susie m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:23 AM
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This is literally the perfect explanation. Men and women are different and do have different struggles in society but take away violence from each party and you hit the nail on the head wit this one. Stop crying all the time like a bitch and make yourself happy. If you find that you can’t, get some goddamn therapy and maybe medication and take charge of your own fuckin life for once. We all know shit is hard for everyone, yes the problems are different and affect us all differently but if you ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:02 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:53 AM
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Interesting perspective but this sounds like bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:54 PM
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This is truly an awesome take. I feel it should be the same for men. Don’t settle and just pick any girl. We all should get the partner we want. I do think it’ll be a big change for society. More older mothers. More people doing “single shit” for longer terms. A lot of last minute “this is the best I’ll get” relationships but I think in the future it will be better as a whole when it balances out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:12 AM
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That’s not what im saying at all. I’m literally saying both things can be achieved without making it look like men a more scumbags because we don’t lie about how important sex actually is. To most men who work on emotional maturity, social interactions and just making time in their lives to meet new people, the concept of dating is almost always a net loss in some way. You go date and she’s dry af the whole night, lost money time and a little dignity. She’s into you but makes it clear she has a …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:21 AM
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But that’s the problem dude. You’re not a duck boy he can use y’all didn’t come to a consensus on what your situation is. I forget the psychologist but intimacy is like a human need for your mental capacity. You’re not the devil because you wanna have sex. You’re also smart for not making sex the key component to a potential relationship. Men and women agree a healthy sex life is essential to any relationship/marriage. The disconnect is the women somehow see it as wrong for men to want o have se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:07 PM
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Wish everyone did this. I’m a guy who believe most situations people should just do them and not judge others. The OLD topic is frustrating because everyone is mad for being judged by their profile, yet we judge profiles with out thumb in less than a second. Some folks like to elevate themselves from the group to be better than online daters but somehow still feel like they can participate and make conclusions and that’s not it chief lol. You’re def not doin this and I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:09 AM
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I love this answer the most. I feel like a lot of men feel this way we just have to eat all the insults that come with it (not saying women dont) but it’s just hard to get anyone to acknowledge it. I definitely am someone who’s lust increases the more time I spend with you too! I think what you said made something click for me just now OLD comes off as an intentional, step by step process with but a few expected results. So it’s jarring/annoying when I hear people complain about it because in my…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:28 AM
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I respect your answer. But I said what I said because you’ve just kind of admitted it. You have sex when you want to and that fine. That is reason enough. Men don’t get that same courtesy of it being ok tho. Not only am I already labeled as “he just wants sex” my valid reasons for sexual interest immediately gets dismissed and it’s back to being a “dog”. When women say that in terms of a man being unfaithful or devious in how he lies about dates, it’s kind of ironic because a dog is gonna love w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:55 AM
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I wish more people can talk about this without being so triggered. I love the fact that women work more, I love freedom and equality and equity. The facts are still facts. Women aren’t evolving into their “equality” role as fast as they are pointing out the mistakes of the patriarchy. You gave a perfect example. A woman can leave school and start a job making 60k and she will be an above average earner for most states throughout America, man or woman, then she has the NERVE to cherry pick when s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:36 AM
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I disagree with your first point but it was hilarious. I think most men want to fuck quick because we’ve already decided you were attractive enough to per sue a sexual relationship for 1. You seem to at least find me attractive enough to engage in conversation so I need to find out how attractive you think I am because that will immediately tell me how that woman is going to treat me. (Literally the hotter she thinks a guy is the more bullshit she will take and the more effort she will put in an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:21 AM
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I personally think this thought process is some reverse placebo or just flat out bullshit statement to just sound like less of a hypocrite. You meet guy A online and he ticks all the boxes and you decide “let’s not rush into sex, but he’s qualified to sleep with I’ll just make him wait”. Guy B you meet through socializing or at a bar, you talk for one night and he’s not your cup of tea exactly but you still bang guy B for one simple reason. You’re deluded! (Not you per say but a lot of women in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:13 AM
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Al least you are being honest. Some things won’t balance out fairly. This is how I believe most women see things, even if they aren’t smart enough to realize or articulate. This is actually fine and it makes sense. I barely could articulate it like you did. All that being said the fact is that women want to live in both states of modern and traditional living and men are navigating how to do this but are real insistent upon the equality change. It’s awesome you make more money so now I don’t hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:47 AM
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Lmao so true. Not all but definitely most. They didn’t even have it in them to argue with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:26 AM
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Idk it’s like you’re just pulling things out of thin air. No one is saying it has to be expensive at all or there has to be any “filling up on food and alcohol”. You just keep making my point that no matter what you want to keep your money In your pocket. You are no here for common ground. You want your time purchased. It’s ok. Just stop lying to yourself and everyone else about it. It doesn’t matter man or woman, everyone want alone time with someone they perceive as special. You’re literally g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:23 AM
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No problem there. It’s just what you’re a saying isn’t really accurate and it’s still a lie. If you spend time with a guy in your social circle, not strangers, and you both want to actually go on a date just you and him. 9/10 you still expect him to pay for the whole thing or you will view him differently next time you’re out in your social circles. (Idk you personally but I’m saying this is the case with a lot of women who try and use your ideology) it’s just fake shit. It’s ok to be choosy in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:57 PM
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Lmao but it’s the women who are the ones saying “good men” are hard to find and all that other stuff. It’s not that complicated, we are equals and we should equally put in the effort to date each other. The action is asking if there is an attraction strong enough to spend time together. Date goes good. We date again. Date goes super good. We bang. Where in that do you think you can justify men should expect to use their money for a sex gamble? How do you not see from a man’s shoes that I’m rolli…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:21 PM
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Lol yea because they broke up with someone who wasn’t workin out and now are putting more effort into the type of person they want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:13 PM
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Exactly my point. Y’all are the ones who are flabbergasted that guys don’t wanna pay for the whole shit anymore. If any ya tantrums are thrown it’s from women who are shocked that we don’t wanna pay for you to eat then blow us off. Or judge if it’s a cheap restaurant. Half the time dates don’t have to cost money at all but those things are shot down. Nobody is entitled to you or your body but the game is gonna be played on both sides. Guys wanna fuck and women wanna see if the guy has enough val…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:54 PM
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Yea on my phone and multitask posting sorry. Simple small words, men are cleaner than you think, most people don’t actually explain to their partner what “50/50” means to them and that leads to issues and lastly if he’s gone most of the day and comes home and helps clean everyday he is essentially cleaning your mess or the kids mess. SAHM sign up for this. If you work and I work then we both would just be responsible for the kids and depending upon timing everyone might get home within the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 12:28 PM
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This right here. Dudes can get a new nursing home or hospital job like nothing cuz they are gonna give us the ex cons, former wife beaters, racist and super string former military dementia patients. Everything has stuck in trade off. Some are fair, some aren’t and like this case, some just make the most sense regardless of fairness or equality. Financial side, send all your female workers to selfie defense and strength trading class? Or hire people who are naturally stronger/bigger than most pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:49 AM
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This is the best answer. Unfortunately life just ain’t fair. As bad as the patriarchy is, there are a plethora of this that modern men didn’t create but are actually held up to by women more so than other men. A lot of successful and “regular” men find attraction to several “types” of women. Tall, short, fat, skinny. Hell most men, even the best looking ones are just great full a woman wants to touch us and if we find out she actually LOVES us, we do shit like try and kill a wooly mammoth. More …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:39 AM
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What do you guys think it means to be a lady then? Same rules as OP. I’m just asking because if dudes were to walk around saying this shit it would be a problem lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:28 AM
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I agree but to an extent. Idk how many grown men women actually know and hang out with in those mens’ homes but y’all think we all literary live in pigsties. Like how are men these huh womanizing sluts and dirty nasty bastards at the same time? What I think is that the couple isn’t clear on what 50/50 means and also a lot of time people don’t live together before they get married. Ben cleans Monday Wednesday and Friday. Sarah cleans everything everyday and since she’s home one and a half more da…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:18 AM
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The position you are defending if that money shouldn’t be that big of a deal in a partnership or alliance but that is easily said by the person who isn’t spending most of their money, usually the woman. Like the other person said, everything don’t gotta be 50/50 but the fact that so many women are offended but the mere suggestion is something worth talking about. And most of the time it’s a selfish double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:07 AM
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I love how you put that together but your whole point is basically blown up when you assume lent and women date for the same reasons. Like you said, stranger dick isn’t worth Pennies to most women and for men, who somehow have been assigned the role of creating the start of the relationship have unfortunately grown to say “stranger pussy is probably worth this $80 date, however because she behaved similarly to me as far as wanting to meet a stranger to possibly get to know them for a chance at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:50 AM
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