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| 12 | Mind of a LVM - Ex Goes Off About Gifts 🙄This was not even an essay sis, this was a temper tantrum diatribe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 06:29 PM |
| 14 | Dating men with daughters and the Madonna/Whore complexOnly 5% of unmarried men over 40 will ever get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Man sleeps with over 400 women and it broke his sexuality. I think it’s not just porn that’s the problem...I’m not surprised. This is the tune they always sing after being with over a hundred partners. It’s always regret and realizing they were trying to fill a void in their lives they could never fill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:05 AM |
| 10 | "You're being sex negative!" is so insulting to women. True sex positivity for women is impossible to achieve in a patriarchal world. Requiring women to be "sex positive" before dismantling patriarchy is such a "fuck you" to women.Tbh I would not like finding out my partner did that in the past either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 04:23 AM |
| 81 | SeX PoSiTiVe writers in mainstream media are honestly the WORST and LEAST qualified people to be giving sex advice most of the time.The term lovemaking is made fun of. “Why are you attaching meaning to sex? It’s just fucking”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 87 | As she should 😩Mine said he would never be able to look at me again because he’s soooo ashamed of himself. Almost right after though, he said it was all an act and he is not even sorry, he’s entitled to get attention from other women if I don’t give him any, and I should be able to forgive and forget magically over a few days. The mindfuckery of the whole relationship was unprecedented, he would make up lies every day as he betrayed me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 09:05 PM |
| 6 | The #bussitchallange: A Scrotes DreamThis. Where are the men who get all dressed up, shake their asses and compete for female attention? This trend is not empowering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 11:48 PM |
| 28 | Interpreting men's social media useLVM use social media platforms as dating apps and there is no coincidence with anyone they follow. Potential love interests. Then they cry “you’re being controlling” if you ask them about all the random half naked women he follows, or says “I do what I want”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 7 | LVM don’t like it when you know HVM existThey always try to convince others that life’s bleak! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:13 AM |
| 37 | LVM don’t like it when you know HVM existHe thinks verbal abuse is real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 09:55 PM |
| 4 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?I actually flip this on them and don’t allow myself to be an option anymore in their heads. I would respond with “I am not looking for this kind of relationship. Don’t contact me again, thanks.” and then I block. They pull these bizarre power moves to try to have a bunch of women they can text when they’re bored and I make it clear they’re not welcome to try with me ever again, no matter how busy they are. This text is rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:50 PM |
| 10 | Does he have female role models that AREN'T his mother?I’ve seen Greta Thunberg fans, but I believe it’s only because they identified with having Asperger’s, so it doesn’t count. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 4 | The delusion. The scrotacity lolOn OLD, a huge chunk of the men who write 30-38 and 40-45 are in their 40s and 50s. They shave off 5-10 years minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 12 | I don’t understand the obsession with wanting to live with menI don’t get the comments that say living with a man is an important step to marriage either. That is a roommate situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:01 AM |
| 16 | "He knows if you're the one within a day/week/month of meeting/dating you." Propaganda or reality?Women’s intentions are usually genuine and love. For men, it’s often sex, sometimes romance or love. The two intersect in a relationship, with the woman in it for love, and the man in it for...he knows what he’s in it for, but either way he’s going to say love and definitely not “you’re a forever gf”. With intentions obscured on his side, women are not the ones who “just know” right away, but vet. Men know if they at least are considering a relationship from day 1. There is a huge difference bet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:38 AM |
| 18 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?I never heard of that before until the LVM was vocal about it. It never would have occurred to me he was looking for a masturbation prop! He even said his other male friends do it too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:35 AM |
| 5 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?Just to ruin my year sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:30 AM |
| 10 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?They are not confident enough to admit the relationship is over and end it with class. They go the cowardly route and pretend you misinterpreted everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:42 AM |
| 16 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?I don’t know how someone could go through life lying like that. He could’ve said that it won’t work out anymore and left it at that when we broke up, but he acted like he never said or meant any of those things just to knock me down a few pegs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:24 AM |
| 14 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?The lie that confuses me is when marriage is brought up. There’s no way I could misinterpret what they mean by marriage, but they just lie so easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:20 AM |
| 5 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?Lol what? His friend is trying to ruin your new relationship by saying your ex got you a nicer ring? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:07 AM |
| 6 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?Did you tell her? How did you find out his age? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:04 AM |
| 38 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?It’s amazing you got to see who he is before marriage. Imagine being married to that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:40 PM |
| 26 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?Sis, I want to be mad at myself for falling for LVM, but I can’t because of things like this! I say these things straight to their faces, and they still deny and lie. I’m not one to read into things like “omg he called me pretty”, but if you tell me you want to get married and we go ring shopping, idk what else to think. Who would lie like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:30 PM |
| 25 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?Exactly!! I feel disgusted I ever put up with it, but I said this to his face (it doesn’t feel like I’m unique to you) and he denied it. I’m sorry, I’m not used to bold-faced liars?? This has me so discouraged like what kind of human lies to another like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:11 PM |
| 100 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?I’ve gotten the perfume thing too, and it’s a fetish-he later said he loves to just keep a bottle of perfume around even when single, and spray it all over his bed to pretend women were there. Then he fantasizes. It’s not about us or our perfume, it’s a fetish where he pretends he gets laid. This is the type of man who buys used women’s clothing. A normal man would ask you what perfume you wear so he could get you some. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:53 PM |
| 80 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?I had this feeling with an ex where I felt like the replacement gf and he was saying what he would say to any gf and not me specifically. They need professional psychological help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:48 PM |
| 167 | What's the most misleading thing a man has said to you before he told you he wasn't interested?Where do I start? “I can’t wait to marry you” “You’re my soulmate” “I love you forever” “No one could ever care about you more than I do” “You’re everything to me” “Mrs. (Last name)” “You are the perfect woman” “You are everything I could ever want in a woman” “I can’t wait to make you my wife” “I’m going to propose to you soon” Talking about where our honeymoon would be Ring shopping “My mom wants to go dress shopping with you” All lies 🤡 You took this too seriously! Came next. I didn’t mean it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:42 PM |
| 2 | PIV sex: a thought exerciseI’m taking being not being into my exes anymore as a good sign! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | PIV sex: a thought exerciseDoes it go away? I hope it did not do anything permanent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 11:12 PM |
| 9 | Don’t fall for the halo effect, girls! Looking at his face you may think Henry Cavill is the perfect man but unfortunately he has a cognitive dysfunction that makes him confuse rape with flirt! In conclusion, a rotten apple might still have shiny skin.He is unwell mentally to be thinking like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:25 PM |
| 25 | Straight from the horse’s mouth. A man explaining why women should hold out on sleeping with romantic prospects.Pickmes still would say we don’t know their LVM like that and he’s really a good guy, but he just connects through sex on the third date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 9 | Just typical OLD LVM - when you have a pleasant conversation and then they show you their true colours 🤡 Thanks to this sub I know now how to handle these clowns instead entertaining them as I would in my old pickmeisha daysAnd the ellipsis (...) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 24 | Just typical OLD LVM - when you have a pleasant conversation and then they show you their true colours 🤡 Thanks to this sub I know now how to handle these clowns instead entertaining them as I would in my old pickmeisha daysLiterally he just projected his favorite snacks on her and his Netflix and Chill fantasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 10 | Just typical OLD LVM - when you have a pleasant conversation and then they show you their true colours 🤡 Thanks to this sub I know now how to handle these clowns instead entertaining them as I would in my old pickmeisha daysNever have I ever had a decent relationship with a man who uses ellipses like that. ...... .... bad news! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:20 PM |
| 19 | PIV sex: a thought exerciseAfter I stopped taking the birth control pill, I was absolutely baffled by the dating choices I made while on it. It really messed with my natural intuition and partner choice. It also can give someone a false sense of security to be more relaxed and have lower standards if you know you won’t get pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:19 PM |
| 26 | PIV sex: a thought exerciseI am going to be single my entire life if it means never having mediocre sex again. It’s not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | He doesn't respect my opinion about porn and thinks getting coffee with a female coworker is okayIt’s not okay, he wouldn’t look twice at her if he wasn’t attracted and you and I know it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:14 PM |
| 211 | 31yo is upset he can't go to college parties. Weird obsession with "young love" and immature, vulnerable girlsThis is why age difference relationships can never work. He admits he has arrested development and psychological issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 08:07 PM |
| 3 | It’s the last day to use this flair! At the start of the year I NEVER thought I’d have the strength to do it, yet here I am single and thriving thanks to this sub. How many queens were able to KickHimOut2020?!I kicked him out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 04:23 AM |
| 32 | Imagine having a mother in law like this 🤮 how about you tell your musty, dusty son to cook instead. Women like this raise the LOWEST of the LVM...this is where the bums and leaches come from.I’m not auditioning for any mother-in-law. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 04:22 AM |
| 11 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.The last text my ex sent me was offensive, he acted like he was the one who dumped me for something I did instead of the other way around. I was so tempted to respond to it with a long paragraph, but instead responded essentially with “OK bye”. I know he is probably still seething about it. OP made the best move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:06 PM |
| 17 | As a young Indian woman it boggles my mind how distractive this culture is...here men abuse and exploit their women for decades and get praised for doing one normal thing once in lifetime (judging by all the warmfuzzies she's getting it seems to me that she's gonna birth one more monkey for her NVM)It’s a Hindi term of endearment for kids, so none of the racist connotations like in the western world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 20 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.He sounds like an idiot. You know the truth and so would anyone who knows what happened during your relationship, it doesn’t matter if he wants to pretend it was nothing now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:09 PM |
| 6 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortI dated a guy before who told me it was refreshing to meet someone smart and idealized me. By the end of the relationship, he devalued me and blurted out he thinks I’m not intellectually on his level, which was insane because the opposite is true. He literally would redirect every convo to sex like an idiot, so how would he even know what I think about anything? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:19 AM |
| 18 | Any Powerful Men (like CEOs) that married DreamGirl? Or do these men just chase after status and bangmaids?What’s the sweet spot? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:26 AM |
| 9 | Only 5% of bachelors over 40 ever marryIt’s worth the read. It is about the personality types of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:10 AM |
| 21 | The "Aspergers" talk. TWI’ve had this talk with a LVM before and he said it’s too late to change or be diagnosed with anything at his age, callousness is just a personality trait of his he knows about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:26 PM |
| 63 | One track mindImagine being enslaved to your genitals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | r/NiceGirls is mad we don’t respond to thinly veiled sex attemptsHe’s just being nIcE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:19 PM |
| 15 | This guy is just wasting her time and wants advice on how to continue wasting it. Upset that people are taking "her side". Trying so hard to be the victim.The prospect of not having access to convenient sex anymore is tearing him apart! The horror! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:19 AM |
| 26 | Why do men keep insisting that they’re visual and that women don’t care about looks?That’s not the visual they mean, it’s a euphemism for sexual attraction. They view women as sex objects and not complete human beings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:13 AM |
| 11 | Why do men keep insisting that they’re visual and that women don’t care about looks?It’s because that’s their view of the world OP. They objectify, dehumanize, and reduce everything to whether they’re turned on or not. It’s true, women don’t care about looks like that. We don’t view men as objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:09 AM |
| 52 | r/NiceGirls is mad we don’t respond to thinly veiled sex attemptsHow about all the comments from pickmes saying they would love this kind of date? 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:51 PM |
| 41 | r/NiceGirls is mad we don’t respond to thinly veiled sex attempts“Then we could take it to the field and have a picnic” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do these questions rub me the wrong way?No, they will call you boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do these questions rub me the wrong way?I have an ex who tried to hoover me and told me his current gf knows everything about me. I would never tolerate hearing man talk about his ex like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:38 PM |
| 4 | The older man conWhat other red flags have you seen? I am trying to avoid these clowns and teach my friends how. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do these questions rub me the wrong way?It’s disgusting. I know if I tell them I like to read or educate myself they’d say something fucked to like “you must be fun at parties”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:23 PM |
| 14 | The older man conMy older ex strung his ex along from 27-32. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:03 AM |
| 17 | The older man conThis is the truth, and "focusing on career" is no excuse either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on marriage in 2020? Will it ever be equal/worth it?I can't wait for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 48 | Ladies, what are your thoughts on marriage in 2020? Will it ever be equal/worth it?Who would marry them at 50? 45 is probably the absolute latest they could get away with their just haven’t met the right person story convincing a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 3 | When men lie about their age to get their foot through the door with younger women🤮this age group the worst🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:48 AM |
| 54 | The guy “friend” who secretly likes youThat’s not a friend, that’s a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:51 AM |
| 28 | Woman, 26, takes her boyfriend to COURT for not marrying her after eight years of dating and a child togetherThe top comment is from a pickme saying marriage doesn’t mean anything and that she’s been with her partner for 12 years. She’s advising the woman to propose to him herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:33 AM |
| 10 | Because a Dr. Pickme thinks this is “science” (notice 0 discussion of socialization or how from a “scientific perspective” women should also desire younger men)What’s your take on 38+ men who never married at all? They are out here wasting everyone’s time pretending to want commitment but being too self-absorbed to change their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:32 PM |
| 17 | Because a Dr. Pickme thinks this is “science” (notice 0 discussion of socialization or how from a “scientific perspective” women should also desire younger men)If he is over forty and has no kids but wants them, you should run because he is delusional and selfish. These kinds of men have the idea that money is enough to be a father. They think their savings and the inheritance their kids will get is going to mean more than being an active father who doesn’t lose his breath going up a flight of stairs when he’s 50. They expect their younger wife to do all of the housework while they “provide” and they never really love her. It’s another box to check off… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 3 | When we stand up for ourselves, we are standing up for all women. Likewise, when we degrade ourselves, we are degrading all women.I bet your ex is trying to pressure a new woman into sending him selfies as we speak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:56 PM |
| 28 | Because a Dr. Pickme thinks this is “science” (notice 0 discussion of socialization or how from a “scientific perspective” women should also desire younger men)The catch is that no guy gets to old age single if he really doesn’t play games and treat women like disposable options. If he has not committed or settled down by mid to late 30s it means that he precisely is the final boss of all fuckboys. He is more trained in the fuckboy ways than men in their 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:54 PM |
| 9 | How many years do you count?I thought we were all post-wall /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:01 AM |
| 18 | How can you tell if a man’s relationship with his mom is healthy versus a man who has “mommy-itis”??She sounds so delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:00 AM |
| 16 | I’m not a child who is incapable of making decisions 🙄This is creepy and delusional behavior. He thinks he can talk his way into anything and ignore the fact you don’t want to speak to him. He insulted women with his “smarts are rare” comment as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:40 AM |
| 5 | As a veteran (recovered) PickMeisha, I gotta say the first 🚩is the warm up to the whole fucking LVM red flag parade that the 🤡 be warming you up for. 🗣️ DISRESPECT IS NEVER A RESOLVABLE ISSUE 🗣️He was trying to assert dominance like a clown and make it known his plans are more important than yours. I had an ex do the same, but he paid for the train to get there so slightly less of a clown. He pretended to have work to do right as I was about to leave too. That’s no way to treat someone who made an effort to be there, and it speaks volumes about their character. It almost sounds like the same guy word for word right down to the liking pics and calling me manipulative. How did you feel o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020I too am immensely disgusted by this behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:38 AM |
| 6 | Hang in thereWhere did you meet him and how did you get over your past disappointments? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:21 PM |
| 60 | As a veteran (recovered) PickMeisha, I gotta say the first 🚩is the warm up to the whole fucking LVM red flag parade that the 🤡 be warming you up for. 🗣️ DISRESPECT IS NEVER A RESOLVABLE ISSUE 🗣️The weekend trip should’ve been his opportunity to treat you like a queen, and he failed. Good riddance. You were also sick and he should’ve taken care of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:44 PM |
| 53 | Do not let him gaslight you! You're not crazy, it's your intuition saying something's up, follow it.They didn’t “forget to delete the account”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?Your ex sounds like trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:35 AM |
| 3 | What are some strategies and tactics to put off intimacy for as long as possible?Don’t accept invites to his place, don’t go in his car, don’t be alone with him in a secluded place ever. Always meet in public places and end the dates when you want to, and get home safely. Keep all your dates in public and don’t feel pressured to stay. Make it known you live with family or roommates. If he is sexualizing the conversation, act confused and ask him what he thought this was or what he is looking for. If he says a fwb or “see where things go” he is a NVM and you should cut him of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:22 AM |
| 28 | there is so much wrong I don’t know where to startMother enmeshment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:04 AM |
| 63 | there is so much wrong I don’t know where to startThis man has over 11 years of more experience on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:04 AM |
| 23 | Men as always excusing their objectification of women by claiming they are "visual creatures"Don’t cater to the male gaze anymore. I have stopped and started living for me and wearing what I want, and I feel so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020So much audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:04 AM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Is anyone else turned off by the lack of masculinity today? LVM don’t seem ashamed for not accomplishing things, and they enjoy being irresponsible and selfish. It’s the biggest turn off. I feel like I have more masculine traits than a lot of weak LVM these days just by keeping my word, being confident, and working hard. It’s beginning to make me feel unfeminine because every LVM I meet is lazier than I am and expects to be waited on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:01 AM |
| 7 | Have you ever experience having disturbance in your monthly cycles with you were with an LVM/NVM?I have experienced this. Still waiting for it to return normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:48 AM |
| 6 | Is stinginess related to job?This makes a lot of sense. My question is what is the line between being ambitious and being disordered? If people are driven into high income fields and make money, are they well-adjusted if they spend it like a normal person? Now that you mention it, a lot of their parents were stingy IME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 12:48 AM |
| 14 | Is stinginess related to job?That’s disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 11 | Is stinginess related to job?What the fuck??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 11:01 PM |
| 13 | Is stinginess related to job?Why though? What makes them like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:29 PM |
| 39 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Just came across an ex on OLD. He is now looking for a “drama-free” woman who won’t take up too much of his time because he is just so important and busy and he is already in a dead bedroom relationship. He needs someone who understands that. I guess this is what happens when you call someone out for never being available during a committed relationship due to all of his cheating, and you advise him to just be honest with women in the future (what a drama queen I am). LVM just double down on the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 09:33 PM |
| 85 | They fail to see the irony that that is the most Logical and rational way of actually doing it. No blood shed no killing. If you disagree with a country you just move on. That's literally the goal to world peace! Yet they think it's laughable #menarethelogicalonesmyassThese clowns dominate discourse, it's a shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:32 PM |
| 2 | A lesson learned.no offense to your therapist, but it sounds like she has no idea how to best support you or other women who are trying to level up. Rehashing the past is never a good idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:53 PM |
| 28 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?dead eyes that look thru you instead of a normal gaze. How would you describe dead eyes? I know exactly what you're talking about and I know every woman does too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 06:15 PM |
| 42 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?The heels obsession is ridiculous. It is not practical for women to wear heels everywhere they go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?It's absolutely disgusting. Are there any good guys in the city at all? Why do they aspire to be such fuckboy douchebags? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 7 | What does this mean?I needed to hear this, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?Can we commiserate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 6 | What are the little red flags you look back on and realize you should have paid more attention to?100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:37 PM |
| 7 | He’s at the top 10% on the income bracket, I am no where near that... help, please.Being rich does not mean he is a HVM. Read about my experience with a white collar rich POS: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ibdr79/has_anyone_else_encountered_the_white_collar_city/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 19 | What are the little red flags you look back on and realize you should have paid more attention to?His haircut is a fuckboy haircut, and they could just see the arrogance on his face I guess. He wears jewelry too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:45 PM |
| 14 | Just saw my ex on a dating app after 6 months apart.My ex is using not just using the same pics, but using the selfies he sent me during our relationship and told me he took for me. They were for his dating profiles. Soooooo classy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 37 | Just saw my ex on a dating app after 6 months apart.Your ex sounds horrible af. Always lying and passing the buck to avoid taking responsibility. You've inspired me to vent too if you don't mind. Sis, during quarantine, I have seen almost every one of my exes on dating apps, and they all lie about themselves. During our relationships, they prided themselves on honesty LMFAO. It's crazy. Let me tell you- My most recent ex, ex-fiance who pretended to be faithful, then I found him on dating apps, didn't waste any time. He remained on them and create… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:28 PM |
| 13 | Any stories about how toxic exes are doing years after?So he's not really thriving then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?Now that I moved out of the city and back with my parents but still work remotely in this job, I realize how meaningless this work is and how ridiculous that lifestyle was lol. Just absolutely nuts. It sounds like you've had a spiritual awakening! How did you realize that all the city slickers are wasting their years trying to show off? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:55 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?If I didn't know any better I'd say we had the same ex. It drove me crazy and finally clicked when I realized all the performative things he did for other people. He would be extra polite to employees so that they think he is a saint. I witnessed him calling back a receptionist once to apologize for his tone. When he speaks out of line, have I ever received an apology for his tone? lmao, no. He apparently donated to food to the homeless yet made a big commotion about getting his younger and less… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:49 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?I should have known my ex was like this given his 'status' and the way he looks, but get this-he presented himself to me as a sensitive, loyal, introverted bookworm who couldn't hurt a fly. His alter ego from Bateman was being a tOrTuReD aRtIsTe. No lie. All I can do is cringe looking back, who was I even dating? So many fake personalities he has to keep up. Anyone who vaguely reminds me of him is a red flag. Their type is obvious!!! These guys usually dislike me because I won't have vapid conve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:42 AM |
| 12 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?This is so true. They're all like clones of each other, talking about their travels, buying the same clothes. They really are motivated to be vindictive in the sneakiest of ways. My ex did tell me he thought pursuing me was a game he wanted to win, and it did not seem to register when I told him I am a human with my own feelings and not something to be won. They are not alphas, like I wrote in the post, their behavior is essentially toxic-feminine in that they like to gossip all the time, take t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:45 PM |
| 11 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?I’m delighted to say that I’m about to take a job earning more than him. Yaaaaaaas sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?That med student!!!! He is a walking meme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:29 PM |
| 12 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?Do you have any details to add that I missed? They are so trashy, I don't care how well they dress, their personalities are such shit. I used to have a crush on a guy I knew, I barely knew him, but he seemed like a HVM in my memory, he had lots of cool hobbies like playing guitar, writing, skiing. Looked him up and saw he's now an investment banker douchebag who reposts their douchey inside jokes. What a shame. They are all so desperate to conform. Seems like therapy is in order. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:34 PM |
| 53 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?For women with access to these types, we have to remember that it’s entirely possible for a man to present perfectly and be the devil. Totally agree. On paper, the ex seems like the perfect man. Until you realize he is a shell of a person without a soul or empathy. These types are vindictive and will keep track of your moods so they can start telling people you're crazy. Or if you drink a glass of wine they will start whispering about an alcohol problem. They hide their assets before marriage an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:09 PM |
| 13 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?They definitely do that, but I counted that as manipulation already in my head lmao. If it's fake, the volunteering doesn't count and doesn't deserve a mention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:47 PM |
| 15 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?This. They want naive sheltered women who can't see the emotional abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:46 PM |
| 21 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?Don’t mistake financial and social status for qualities that make someone an empathetic human, like I did in the past for so long. This is so important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 34 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?They are all into BDSM. Why the fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How do HVM "create" chemistry?Have you considered that feeling emotionally distant and disconnected, i.e. not feeling or generating chemistry could be a sign of something deeper? Such as Asperger's Syndrome, or schizoid disorder? Mr. Rogers, consistently robotically "nice" is a sign of that. Why not read up on Asperger's in relationships and see if that pertains to you? https://www.thehartcentre.com.au/could-aspergers-explain-your-relationship-difficulties/ | /r/askFDS | 11/07/20 09:17 AM |
| 1 | What is an accurate way to find out where you stand appearance-wise?Show us what the notes said! | /r/askFDS | 11/06/20 10:38 PM |
| 3 | What is an accurate way to find out where you stand appearance-wise?You could ask if anyone would be willing to rate you there and then personally PM them. Photofeeler.com gives you anonymous ratings too. | /r/askFDS | 09/06/20 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Thank you! Sent you a chat :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Is romance an act men use to get sex?Big romantic stuff that seems like he's done it before. I briefly dated one guy who was too much too soon and he also did romantic shit that I'm positive he'd done with other women. Like he bought me a dress and shoes for a surprise dinner and they were my size but absolutely not my style. Another guy I dated used to have his assistant send me stuff, like I couldn't tell, sometimes I'd mention something about the gift that wasn't true and he had no idea because he hadn't even chosen the gift. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Is romance an act men use to get sex?The long con is what concerns me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Need some outside perspective on a LDRTalk to him about the relationship and why he’s like this. Tell him you’re unhappy and unimpressed. And you have other men that are interested in you that you’re going to go on dates with. This will either get his ass up to do more for you, make him angry, or he’ll agree and probably also date other people as well. He got angry, flipped it on me, and said that my high expectations and being high maintenance is ridiculous and how dare I have the audacity to ask for more affection from him. The co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Need some outside perspective on a LDRDon’t even waste your time trying to work things out with this guy. He doesn’t treat you like a real partner, just someone to sooth his ego and make him feel less lonely without making any actual investment in your relationship. Just stop answering his calls. I answered last night and instead of being lovey-dovey he went off on me for not being more available for him. Lol. How right you are. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Need some outside perspective on a LDRI didn't even get a chance to confront him or ask him about his lack of effort. When we had our nightly call last night he just went off on me for not answering the phone earlier because I was busy. It's heartbreaking how right you all are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Need some outside perspective on a LDRI know, I feel so stupid typing all this out. I know I look dumb right now. Has he actually made the plans? Picked the dates? Bought the tickets? If the answer to any of those is “no”, then he is not your boyfriend. Yes, he is currently pushing to make these plans, but I am hesitant now that I am rethinking the whole relationship. Should I go and give him one last shot? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:40 AM |
| 0 | Need some outside perspective on a LDRYou're probably right. I am going to confront him and update what happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 01:43 AM |
| -2 | Need some outside perspective on a LDRWhat makes you say that? What's the tell? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 01:36 AM |
| 6 | Need some outside perspective on a LDRThank you for your honesty. I needed to hear this. I legit thought he may be a high-functioning, financially-successful autist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Need some outside perspective on a LDRWe are bf/gf! It's too late to do the single to engaged method, unfortunately. Is there a way to open the relationship back up and be like, until I have a ring I am just going to keep my options open? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 12:51 AM |
| 6 | Need some LDR AdviceI don't even do that myself, and I'm the younger one. My parents don't know shit except we're very happy lol. I think that's the mature way to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:25 AM |
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