Bluefoxcrush Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
87	Don’t mess with a queen. Or- hear me out- let the royal family be dragged down and removed altogether	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/21 04:20 AM
14	Your preference of not dating single fathers, is valid. I’ve noticed men will lie about having children. If this is important to you, please vet for this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/07/21 05:20 AM
291	Poor Britney. There’s not much else to say. What is scary to me is that if this can happen to a rich, white, thin, famous attractive woman, what is stoping it from happening to me? Or any one of us?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/21 09:43 AM
8	Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting me Yeah I wonder how much this really reflects reality. “Impulsively bought a dog that behaves well without training” could actually be, “I did tons of research about low maintenance dogs, interviewed seven breeders and five shelters, but didn’t ask my boyfriend for his opinion.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/21 12:26 AM
16	I refuse to believe this is real but if it is… Holy Moly They definitely took pics - or worse- got them directly from the bf.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/21 10:09 AM
124	Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job. Yeah, after they break up, she won’t be subsidizing his lifestyle anymore. Instead of sharing a $2,000 apartment, she’ll have roommates in a $1600 and he’ll be lying all $2,000 himself (I’m making up numbers here). She will be better off, and he will be worse off.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/06/21 02:39 AM
27	"He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest) I’d like to point out that you received the compliment but then put yourself down. Please don’t do that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 02:11 AM
27	That's why. In my experience, they get caught in this pattern where they only see their own value in how men see them. So they never develop the skills to be truly independent and coast on the people around them. I’ve seen it work out where a pretty woman divorced a man and got half the company and is a millionaire. I’ve also seen it where a woman had children by a series of men an are discarded every few years. And as her beauty has withered, so has the quality of man she is able to pull so she now leeches…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 07:12 AM
10	TW: Hot take, liberal feminism and the glorification of "Sex work" will signficiantly increase the number of woman mental health issues/suicides in the next 5-10 years. Only fans is accelerating a trend that has already started. Porn stars already have this issue. The numbers will unfortunately increase.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 01:46 AM
44	Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy? Passing on their genes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 07:10 PM
33	The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉 I think LeBlanc would look younger if he sat up straight and dyed his hair. He may also be a bit heavier than typical for Hollywood. Notice all the women have great posture and most likely dyed hair. It makes a big difference.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/21 07:58 AM
142	True crime and age gaps I had a short relationship with a guy that didn’t see his kids anymore because of his ‘crazy ex wife’. After we broke up, I searched for him in court records and was horrified at what I found. So many pieces fell into place. Do the background check when you start dating.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/21 06:52 PM
2	Having children with an HVM is STILL hard - protect yourself against LVM at all costs! Not a parent, but having bio children is far from selfish. You are still investing in the future of another person / set of people.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 10:39 AM
6	More food for thought <333 Same. When I went from a tomboy to presenting femme, my interactions with people changed rather dramatically. I got more attention from clerks, more people hitting on me, and so on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 11:02 PM
10	(Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working! I’m sure he’d also think the worst of women that sleep with a lot of men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 05:06 AM
52	I got my coworkers to tell on themselves; a translation of the male mind I’ve notice some men trash talk about their woman partner because they can’t tell a guy how they really feel. I can imagine some men doing this so they don’t get teased.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/21 06:34 AM
53	Ok, which one of you did this?? I had to take a speech class and one assignment was to teach the class something you know. Or to persuade the class. Could be something like that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/04/21 01:02 AM
137	Honestly never though of it this way, I love it! Like how some say that Eve wasn’t the first woman made for Adam, Lilith was. But she didn’t make a suitable partner. Wonder why...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 02:04 AM
14	Why is everything related to female identity made pornographic? It’s a Reddit rule. When you link to another sub, it tracks back to here so if a lot of people from here post about how their sub sucks, it is call brigading and is considered harassment. That can get a sub shut down.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 10:50 PM
31	Women rate themselves as less confident than men until their mid-40s -- but women realize they become more effective leaders later in their careers, surpassing men by late 50s! Strong disagree. We really, really need your awesomeness.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 09:56 PM
4	How long did you wait before being proposed to? His respecting your need for your own independence is key. That means he sees your life as important as his.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 09:53 PM
10	Wealthy heiress asks for advice about assets/retiring with broke LVM, scrote calls her old and tells her to have babies with said broke LVM. ON FINANCIAL FREEDOM SUBREDDIT. It’s weird- you’d think her family would have drilled into her that she needs to protect her wealth, aka prenup.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 07:36 AM
10	Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits” Me too! I want this cat!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 06:40 AM
1	Gross! 🤮 Surely there are chairs for this? Support the mother with room for the baby to come?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 01:48 AM
36	A clown in his natural habitat Western air conditioning is set up to keep men wearing business suits comfortable- so it is too cold for most women. if a woman is giving you a hand job, that means you don’t have to do yourself. That is better than nothing, yeah? Also, it is easier to get a man off with hands only than mouth only, so it is also more work for the giver. Also can we not normalize giving handjobs at 14, please?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 04:59 PM
5	And they say marriage is bad for men. Who tf think washing dishes is a suprise?? 🔥🔥🔥	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 10:01 AM
27	I think they’re onto something I worked with one such ‘leftover’ woman that met and married an American Investment Banker. She was hot af, funny, and a wonderful hostess. How the hell was she not snatched up? Maybe because she didn’t put up with shit. Jokes on them, she is in America now with her rich husband.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 09:40 AM
10	I want to release all women, especially those trapped in religion and cultural driven misogyny, of these “struggleships”. Being with him when he’s broke is not a badge of honor, constant fighting and cheating aren’t the “ups and downs” of relationships Isn’t this just a way to try to convince black women to not have standards so that they will settle for too little?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/21 10:29 AM
54	I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question. Repeating this because it is that important men remembering details about who you are and what you care about is non-negotiable!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 10:18 AM
44	Older women aren't taking men's BS after divorce and widowhood. It's so affirming to see older women enjoying lives that aren't centered around men. I think we're going to see a lot more of this as these next generations reach retirement age Aren’t we already seeing this in younger generations of women like those in Japan that aren’t marrying or having children?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/21 03:17 AM
19	If men are "biologically" attracted to teens, they need to stop being teachers I’m sorry that adults violated you. But thank you for sharing the lovely example of the teaching taking care of you and inspiring you. That was inspiring.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 07:48 AM
28	Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both. “This has made me realize that I do want a family, I just didn't want one with my ex, as I felt his priorities were off.” I wonder how much gaming is leading to declining birth rates because other women feel the same.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 09:01 PM
7	Cynics are LV and boring That is so beautiful! Please brighten the world with your inner joy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 12:29 PM
32	Remember not to date or stay with a pornsick loser. Remember they can convince you that you like it too and that watching it together is your idea. Remember that they can ruin your life. Remember that sex with a pornsick loser is subpar at best, damaging or deadly at worst. My guess it is a negging / weeding technique. If the woman keeps responding to him, then she is showing that she’ll put up with his bullshit. It will likely make her feel insecure, too, and let him more easily sail past her boundaries.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/21 03:08 PM
1	Show them the same amount of respect they show you! That’s okay too. You have to take care of yourself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/21 01:16 AM
29	Be aware What could be harder than being a woman? Being a mother.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 05:03 PM
6	I turn 18 this week and after reading this article, I feel sick and scared Craig Ferguson had a great explanation why we need more empathy for Brittany: https://youtu.be/7ZVWIELHQQY And that video is over ten years old.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 01:08 AM
14	Queen Energy These are great. Thanks for posting!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/21 06:15 PM
14	TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy. My ex and I moved thousands of miles away from where we grew up. You know what my nvm ex did when I left him? He figured out someone else to leach onto. (She dumped his ass, too.) Not my problem anymore. Be gracious (to a point). Have tact. Walk away with your head held high so when you look back your only regret is that you didn’t know to do it sooner.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/20 01:07 PM
22	Just think of the relief the ex wife must feel. How utterly embarrassing for everyone involved. Great question. It could be that he ‘self radicalized’ - where he trained himself to be this way without meaning to. This might fall under your definition of education.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/20 05:07 PM
3	Am i the only one whos experienced a NVM get angry if i study my degree, or read? A HVM will love seeing you grow and celebrate your successes with you- even if he doesn’t have an education like yours.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 08:43 AM
9	Do male strangers act like you should mother them? “He looks around, spots the sign, asks me why I didn't point it out to him and says if I had he would have stayed six feet apart.” That’s exactly what you were doing when you said he cut in front of you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/12/20 08:35 AM
32	Subtle red flags to watch out for Surprise him after you are married	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/20 01:26 AM
61	Imagine thinking consent is a turn off Do people not want to ask because it takes effort, or is it because they don’t want to hear a ‘no’ or let their partner think a ‘no’ is okay?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/20 11:50 PM
41	"HVM" who only want sons? Rich does not mean high value.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/20 08:46 AM
22	Subtle but still gotta get called out Thanks for pushing back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/20 06:15 AM
6	Being aware of what generational pressure is Her empathy for her mother was touching. Either her parents loved her despite not being ready, or she’s over come some trauma herself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 11:01 AM
79	Our daily reminder that dating older men will get you absolutely nowhere I suspect they never realized that they were mutually compatible, but he instead said, “marriage is just a piece of paper. We don’t need that, right baby?” and her 19 year old self just said yes to seem cool	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/20 01:02 PM
47	Shout out to Ellen Pao, CEO of Reddit in 2014, first leader to ban revenge porn and unauthorized nude photos. Ellen Pao sued venture capital firm Kleiner Perkins for gender discrimination, and calls out companies like Pinterest for sexism in the workplace. Round of applause for an all around queen. Ellen was totally hired to fail. I’m pretty sure she knew that coming in.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 03:40 AM
10	If he wants a casual date, then you should casually drop him ❤️ With Olga. Forget the men	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/20 07:36 AM
8	I used FDS in my career. Dealing with a recruiter. Gross!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 11:28 AM
76	Study shows both men and women prefer someone who is not so easily available (medium) for long term relationship. Being easily available makes you casual sex material. My sister once made a joke in front of her friend’s dad that she was a cheap date. He corrected her, saying at the very least she was a reasonable date, and should be fine with being an expensive one.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 11:23 AM
17	Monday Vibes: 👸 One of my nieces is a dork and 11 and developing early. Such a combination! I don’t think she has anyone around her that likes science like she does. I tell her she’ll find her people in college and/or in her career. I haven’t found my people, but I have found people that pay me well to do the things I’m good at. Move on until you find them!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 10:10 PM
3	Another story about age gap Thanks for this reminder! So true.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 06:19 PM
5	Any stories about how toxic exes are doing years after? My ex husband got tested for fertility shortly after our divorce and found out he could never have children without assistance. He is now married with two children that don’t look like him and best of all he lives with his mom and his wife lives with her parents.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/20 03:22 AM
75	The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful! I was on keto and hiking with my boyfriend. I didn’t have enough electrolytes so I was exhausted on an uphill climb. A woman at the top of the hill waited twenty minutes for me to get to the top to make sure I was okay. I am really glad she was there for me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 09:09 PM
41	So a HVM is just a decent good person. That’s what I’ve learned from reading FDS. What percentage of men are decent good people, and what percent are assholes? I’m not sure anyone can answer what percentage of guys that are scum bags. I can say right now with covid makes dating (and thus FDS) skew a bit higher on male assholery. Why would I say that? If you aren’t able to meet new people in your day to day life, and you want to date, you turn towards online dating. In OLD, men can act lazy in ways they can’t around people they know. Asking a random woman for sex on OLD generally means that at the worst he’ll be blocked but at the best he’ll get sex. Sc…	/r/askFDS	15/08/20 11:59 PM
8	When someone shows you who they are the first time and all signs point to him being a LVM, don't let emotions dictate your logic and Queen energy. Walk away with grace and don't engage. He knows what he did and he thought he could get away with it, but that's not who you are anymore! <3 I’m proud of you ladies leveling up! It is hard but you can do it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 07:25 PM
20	I often feel like the black sheep of the family being single, but when I compare it to my sisters… I mean she already took out the trash so she has a head start.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 05:57 AM
14	"Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more" In addition to the other great responses you’ve received, I would also turn it around- who cares if he wants you- do you even want him? Do you want a man that can’t understand your value and beauty and grace and talents and personality? Don’t worry about what he thinks of you, try to work out if you even like him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 10:22 PM
6	A Simple Exercise for Objectively Evaluating Men Having standards is promoting hate. Huh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 09:59 PM
4	If you haven’t watched this yet, please do 🤣 “What It Takes for a Man to Get Called Crazy” - Whitney Cummings Wait so all those people that vouch for predators- some may have never seen problematic behavior? Hmm. (Of course some have)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 07:58 PM
47	No, I am NOT the crazy one. Gotta wonder why she “ghosted” him- maybe because she didn’t feel safe telling him the truth?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 07:44 PM
5	This woman’s bf found out his ex was engaged. Immediately flys into a rage and wants to send a photo of her hand with a ring to the ex. I agree and would also add that when I think of past relationships I think of things I would do differently now, because I’ve grown	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 07:13 PM
16	We don't need men, they need us. I agree with gift- keep being cynical. Then if a man that is worthy of you comes along, he’ll be attracted to your Queen energy. Live a full life!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/20 04:31 AM
23	Pretty much all of the comments were telling her she needs to COmMuNiCaTe Yeah dated two guys into video games. The second one made okay money but wanted to do nothing but work and play games. He had a 35 hour a week job and I worked 50 hours, minimum. I’d leave the apartment, he’d be asleep. Come home, he’s playing video games and doesn’t want to go out. Never again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/20 07:03 PM
9	I....... I’ve been getting a lot of “hi!” on Meetup, of all places.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 06:56 AM
6	I....... One of my former coworkers recommends Bumble for networking with guys in power jobs. So it might be an actual thing? But maybe not.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/07/20 06:55 AM
22	It’s alarming how men treat powerless women Because mere existing outside her sphere made a woman without virtue or value.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/20 11:41 PM
5	When a man ghosts you, remember to BLOCK and move on! Don’t do any of this, no matter how tempting it may be ... 😂 He’s taking himself out of your life, like a man taking out the trash. Just keep going.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 09:09 AM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 26 2020 Keep that exit strategy no matter what! Having options let’s you keep your head up high and he will always know it so he will treat you right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/20 06:43 AM
9	Another vintage gem from Craigslist (circa 2007) pretty sure he's still single “I think women ought to vote, receive equal pay for equal work etc. etc.” So he’s a feminist. Cool. “I don't date women who are avowed feminists.” Wait what? You can be rah rah women’s rights but your partner can’t?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 08:19 PM
7	What is your advice on dealing with insecurity about your looks? What is your opinion on the concept of "looksmaxxing"? I am relatively attractive, but not being "good enough" for a partner is a big fear of mine. I feel it's my responsibility to be perfect looking or else it's my fault if he strays. “work on improving your love for yourself” Just wanted to highlight again the important part. As you love yourself for yourself, the insecurity is minimized	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 07:52 PM
12	Yet another example of the importance of abiding by the FDS rules - woman goes beyond her way to prepare nice date and ends up being used like a sex doll by NVM “ I have the book why men love bitches, and in it is says when you invite a guy over never cook.” I also followed her advice. My sister didn’t. Her husband expects three meals cooked a day. I almost never cook for my man (basically he gets cookies when he’s good). No ring on my finger so that’s how it will remain.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 12:59 AM
39	Gay men are proof that men are perfectly capable of understanding how to groom themselves to be more physically attractive, it’s just that straight men don’t give a single fuck how women feel and figured out its easier to just collectively bully us to lower our standards. I love the love they have for everyone. I especially loved the one about the sisters that owned a barbecue. They were fabulous and the guys just drew it out of them. I really liked how they did that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/20 09:13 PM
18	Advice/thoughts on the 90 days before sex rule? I also recommend her book for her take on how to handle it. She also advises to give the impression (only if it true of course!) that you are attracted but just not ready yet. So avoiding the situations where sex is easy is key. Don’t invite him over. Don’t go over to his place. But compliment him if you want.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/06/20 09:50 PM
24	Level up sis! Good for you! Work it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/20 07:34 AM
4	Excusing a male rocket scientist for making his wife who had just given birth get up and take care of kids because he was too tired from watching his wife birth his child. "Hahahaha he can't even warm soup for himself he's such a sillybilly. Luckily he has lots of women to take care of him." That sounds lovely and reasonable.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/20 05:29 AM
26	PSA About Age Gap Relationships I agree with the other ladies. Once you are free and clear and have had some time to recover, the sparkle in your eyes will be a beacon to the world.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/06/20 01:10 AM
9	I cringed 😬 “Who care why” I believe is key. Spinning yourself into circles trying to figure it out takes your efforts and puts into a place that isn’t effective.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/20 10:15 PM
109	Prime example of pickmeisha’s being a disease. A grown man harassed a minor and his girlfriend defended him by calling the little girl a slut. When you see girls defending their bf’s degenerate behavior, this is how they grow up to be She also looked younger than him so maybe she’s upset that she’s aged out of his age range?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 08:35 PM
18	And this is where “the wall” comes from! And he left the royalty for her	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/20 08:09 PM
3	Seeking advice, trying to see if I have a LVM in HVM clothing... Yeah the cooking and activity thing seems more like something you have to be fine with, forever. At least he’s honest with you when you ask. My sister has to cook almost every meal because her husband expect a hot meal three times a day. That’s what you’d be in for. He is terrible at the victim blaming though. Would he be okay with his wife or child being raped for merely existing? Plus someone can do all the “right things” and still be raped. Why are only perfect people allowed to have full rig…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/20 08:57 AM
2	Protect your most valuable resource: your time! “ I’ve been selling myself short with entry level jobs (retail, waitressing, bartending) my whole life so it feels good to be learning a skill that’ll earn me a decent amount of money and I won’t feel self conscious when people ask what I do for a living.” I totally get this- I had a ton of shitty jobs when I was younger. Truth is, people in programming jobs (And office jobs) expect that you act differently than in retail jobs. Like it is a red flag for many employers if a prospective office emp…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/20 01:55 AM
14	Scrotes deny being predatory and encourage large age gaps! There is a material difference between a partner who is in their late twenties versus their early twenties. I’m actually almost ten years younger than my partner but we met when I was 32. I had already lived on my own, had a degree, and so on. When I was 20 I was still living with family having only worked shitty jobs. I was actually dating another man when I met my partner. The other guy was a much older man who wanted me to quit my job and live with him. I knew enough by 32 to nope out of that…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/20 08:11 AM
14	Male Depravity - Boyfriend won't propose unless OP loses weight, he compares her body to p0rnstars. Seems to me that she will be more successful at finding a better man if she is single. She is overweight, but doesn’t say by how much. Let’s assume she’s very overweight. There is still a man out that that will treat her like a queen. Will the same number of men be lining up to audition if she were normal weight? Nope, but she only needs one man, not a hoard. She is ill. That isn’t a deal breaker to most men if she is on maintenance mode. After all, we all get sick sometime. She has emotional ba…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 03:32 PM
26	Or- better yet, don’t reply. Yeah just keep going on with your bad self. Don’t be surprised if your ex notices and tries to win you back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/20 10:54 PM
5	Does this constitute abuse or is it just really LVM behavior? He was not a great partner to you, but I’m not sure you are in a place where you can have a healthy relationship even now. I recommend that you focus on yourself for at least a year and discover what you want to achieve in the next few years. Go to school? Work towards a specific career? This will help you set better boundaries next time (“No, I can’t do x because I have to [work on achieving a goal]”. I’d start practicing it in your life now when opportunity comes up. “I am not comfortable with…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 07:04 AM
12	How do you exude femininity? There is a lot going on here. You say men don’t approach you, but that may not be related to your supposed stiffness. It could be that you don’t appear to be open to advances. Do you make eye contact and smile at men that you find appealing? That is one sign men use to approach you. Also when you say “stiff,” do you mean by posture or by personality? Either way, I’m not sure that is something you need to change. If you are stiff, it may be that you are uncomfortable with the situation. If so, th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/20 06:39 AM
2	On Trauma and Men Good for you for taking steps to heal. Good for you for cutting him out of your life. Please take care of yourself- there is a good chance he won’t take it well. I wish you well!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 01:39 PM
6	If he wants you, you will know. Also it does convey legal status and protection to the wife. She has a right to his property if he dies or to visit and make decisions for him if he is hospitalized. He may be wanting to make sure that happens no matter what. After all a wedding is just one day.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 12:29 PM
33	Major makeup brand posts this on Facebook with the caption “hey, at least it’s the thought that counts??”. Chaos ensues in the comments. My brother-in-law is the epitome of this. He pretends to be helpless so he doesn’t have to do the things that are below him. And almost everything is below him. They almost divorce like every 18 months. I don’t know how my sister handles it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 12:03 PM
4	Always look into a man's background! Depends on where you live, but generally you can search on the county website. There might be a fee.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 12:00 PM
47	Always look into a man's background! I dated a guy for a few months. He was previously married. His family was having a Fourth of July party and he invited me along. But then his brother called him up- his ex wife was coming, so he couldn’t. I thought that was weird. Turns out his ex had a restraining order. Learned to do background checks after that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/20 03:44 AM