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Need SupportBmoreBigLos/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 07:58 PM
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RantBmoreBigLos/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 12:40 AM
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BmoreBigLos/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 05:28 AM
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Dealing with the Ex / STBXBmoreBigLos/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 02:38 AM
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Screw that bro!! Fight for your kids best interest. They know what they want, you know what they need, and they will be happier with you. Keep fighting, you will be blessed with them all the time
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/25 04:51 PM
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Update: Thank you all for the advice and messages. I have decided that I will NOT be buying her flowers but instead sending some money to my kids to get flowers from them and my youngest has said he wants to cook him, his brother, and mother dinner, so I’m gonna send a little extra to buy some food and he can make them dinner. I hate the fact that people thought I was “simping”… when did simping become another word for caring? It’s ridiculous but whatever. I still and will always care and love h…
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 12:00 AM
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You’re right man…. I do still love her, and probably always will. Like you said though, I think she still loves me but not in love with me and just tolerates me because of the kids and the history we have together. I’m just stuck in this phase where I want the love we once had, but I know it is gone. I don’t know if I will ever get over that.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 06:00 PM
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How it so easy for some guys to let go? Everyone is saying let go, let go. But I find it so hard to let go of the one I thought would be my end all be all. How do I let her go?
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 05:56 PM
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Thanks… yea I do feel like I’m stuck in the past and hoping for a future a know will never come to be. I guess I just haven’t gotten over the fact that she was my one. I need more time to fix me.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 05:54 PM
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She was my soulmate. She was my everything, and i messed up. But I still want her to know that I’m still in her life and care for her
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 05:17 AM
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She left me, but I caused the situation. We both still have love for each other and I think about her all the time. I don’t know how much she thinks of me, but I wonder.. That’s why I want to get her flowers. Because then she will see that I’m still thinking about her and that she still is the woman that has my heart. As far as soulmates.. we were each other’s soulmates. There was so much love between us and I fucked it up. But even after that she didn’t want to try and salvage the relationship.…
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 05:15 AM
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You might be right. It might be a bad deal financially, but I am looking at it as the relationship I have with my kids is getting stronger by the day and money can be earned. I want the kids to look at it as if I didn’t give up on them. Unlike the way she just gave up on us. The kids are smart enough and can see that I’m doing everything I can to support them and in the long run that’s all I want. For them to be happy, successful, and thrive through this shitty time.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 10:05 PM
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Yea a couple of my friends are divorced and I look at there situation and say “what the hell are you doing?” They cause so much drama and stress for themselves and the kids.. just doesn’t seem worth all that. I want the relationship between me and her to be at a point where we can co parent the kids for the teenage stretch that is ensuring and then after that we have to figure out what to do with the house. Sell, split the mortgage, etc. I just want the kids to look at this situation as me not b…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 10:01 PM
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Your right. Child support is modifiable but when the judge looks at the books he will see that she makes more than me and that we pay just about the same amount a month (I pay the mortgage) she pays for everything else. Utilities, cell and internet, etc. plus the kids go to private school and that ain’t cheap either. She makes low 6 figures and I make just slightly less than that
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 09:55 PM
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Cause in my state, like most others, the kids stay with the mom. She’s the one who filed for divorce and kicked me out. She’s is the main breadwinner but not too much more.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 09:52 PM
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Yea that’s my thinking too.. money can be earned back and I make enough now that I can recoup it if we sell the house and some. I’m doing it for the kids. I’m trying to keep there lives as normal as possible during this transition time and if they have to move they lose schools, friends, and trust. It makes it easier to co parent and for them. As far as me and her are concerned, there no immediate hope of getting back together but 10-15 years down the line.., maybe. But I’m not gonna bank on tha…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 09:48 PM
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As for the “guy” that might show up. I will cross that bridge when it comes but I don’t think she gonna have some mothafucka just living in our house like that. My boys won’t allow that shit. They got too much respect for me and what I do for them to allow that to happen. Plus my sons are both big guys (6 ft at 13 yrs old and 5’6 at 11) they don’t fuck around… lol
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 09:39 PM
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No WE get to sell the house and split the earnings 50/50. But we have in our wills that we want to hand the house down to the kids. And that is the intention and goal. If I lose my job there is a nest egg in place to keep the payments going for about 6 months. Then shit will hit the fan. She pays for the utilities, healthcare for the boys and herself, there private school schooling, and any other factors that may come up from time to time. She makes 6 figures
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 09:36 PM
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Yea we split it 50/50 since we both own it 50/50.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 03:10 AM
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I kept my 401k 100% and she kept hers 100% and she cannot go back to the courts to get Alimony at all. We split the savings we had 50/50 and if we sell the house (which we both don’t want to do) then we split that 50/50 as well.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 03:09 AM
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Im here with you too bro. Literally going through the same thing as we speak. I have found that focusing my energy on being the best father I can be to my sons is the way to live. I can’t keep thinking she will come back to me or we will fall in love again. Hell my ex expedited the divorce just so we can be done quicker. I stay out of her business and she stays out of mine. We only talk about the well-being and welfare of the kids but ultimately that’s it. You gotta find a hobby that makes you h…
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 02:06 AM
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This is money!! Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/24 05:41 AM
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Thank you all for the suggestions, building on hell of a playlist
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/24 05:41 AM
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Happy birthday bro... Im not looking forward to that later this year, Nov 9th
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 12:55 AM
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