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They say I over-analyse it. If I want pussy, I should just go up and get it. Quick example, I was telling them about how pupil dilation is a sign of attraction, and can be used to create attraction. So I asked my cousin who is a pharmacist if he has any idea what dilates pupils. I told him why and he basically told me i'm an idiot lol. What do you mean "Girls part"? I think I am just going to start to fly solo. My problem is with outcome independence...
/r/seduction10/06/13 05:04 AM
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Wow tha-.... that is... wow. I cou.... Word for word, exactly how I feel. I try to tell them how intresting it is to work on game and study behavior and such, but they call me a fag for it. You are exactly right. You gotta get up and get your own. I have a friend who is interested in gaming with me, but honestly... I almost would rather just go alone. Thanks for the comment
/r/seduction10/06/13 04:40 AM
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Ho man I never thought I would even consider going to the mall by myself, let alone to pick up and hit on girls... This, I will consider. Baby steps, any other ideas where I can practice?
/r/seduction10/06/13 12:59 AM
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This is exactly what I want to do, but I have no backup. None of my friends seem at all interested in driving 20 minutes to the mall and working on game. It's pathetic, I need new friends. Maybe I will just got by myself. All that I've loved, I've loved alone...
/r/seduction09/06/13 04:45 AM
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Yes, but I have walked by thousands of women in my life time, non of which I have slobbered all over, and still haven't see a result. It can't be that simple. Something is missing here.
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:24 PM
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Beautiful, like reading poetry. Just answer me one thing: How do you become special and separate yourself from all the other men who are slobbering all over her?
/r/seduction08/06/13 06:32 AM
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I would say yeah, you are right. The only thing I would question is that very last sentence. Some women are just so shallow that they only care about the opinions of others and what others can do for them. Some women just leech off of that lusty attention. I like to think that you are right though and that they do search for something more, but I don't think I have ever seen such a girl at the gym.
/r/seduction08/06/13 06:31 AM
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I never approach girls at the gym, and I doubt I ever will. I go to the gym to workout, not meet women. I could care less about what my friend does. What interest me is the way she thinks and what stirs her emotions. I care more for the psychology behind it all than anything else because that is what interest me the most. And you are exactly right. Unless she is interested, it is valueless. Either approach, get shot down and never waste another ounce of energy on her, or approach and have some s…
/r/seduction08/06/13 06:29 AM
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I think you hit it right on the head. The trick is the eye contact. You do not need to talk to them, just smack em real good with that "Oh hey" sort of gaze, and then take it away faster than you gave it to her. Bonus points if you can find another girl to hit on in front of her, Get that jealously to go to work. This is why I think it is better to have a female wing-women than a guy wing-man. And I just really quickly want to dabble on something you mentioned. Most girls do go to the gym for th…
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:56 AM
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I am always hitting these dead ends. The reality of it is to keep it simple and not over-think things. If you are so inclined to make a move on this girl, do it and pull out as soon as you are done and never look back until she is begging or has given up.
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:37 AM
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I have spent the past two semester of College "Analysising" myself in every possible way. I examined my appearance, changed my style of clothing, began using the gym, ate different foods, read books on communication, tried different approaches to women, ignored people, allowed others into my life, thought about her emotions, what she would like, how to please her, I even refrained from masturbation to "Increase my alpha male testosterone levels" In the end, it was a 1 step forward, 2 step back s…
/r/seduction11/05/13 10:00 PM
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Well done! You are absolutely right. I have step 1 down to a science. It's amazing how much I have grown with talking to random people. I can carry a conversation with anyone in this world, with one exception, women (Especially the hot ones). You may have opened my eyes here a bit. Women are not ambiguous, they are all the same. I think I will make a habit of just chatting up the ones that don't interest me, and slowly work my way into the hotties. And to your last point, I thought of that very …
/r/seduction23/04/13 12:49 AM
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with all respect where it is due, you are about the 100th person on this subreddit to tell me to "Just do it". I believe you guys, it does work and I know this because it has worked for me in the past; But to the majority of those who have difficulty w/ AA, it's pretty terrible advice. They need something more, little strategies to keep themselves busy until they are strong enough to stand on their own. However, with that said, I agree with you. It is a workaround in every aspect.
/r/seduction22/04/13 09:50 PM
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Okay. You are telling me to basically ignore the cultural backgrounds of different people? I get it, systematically, women are the same. However, last week, I met an Indian girl. At the time, I didn't know that in India, it is an insult to shake hands with your right hand, which I did. Now if I were to ask seddit about Indian women ahead of time, maybe I could have avoided the whole situation. Regardless, I want to hear the communities experience with women of Asian descent. Of course, seddit do…
/r/seduction18/04/13 03:39 AM
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Losing mindset? I understand what you are attempting to imply. I'm interested and curious with the communities experience. If what you say is true, then all 119,157 members of this sub-reddit who are in search of advice are also indicating a losing mindset.
/r/seduction18/04/13 02:40 AM
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in my experience, I never seem to have enough time to yawn or do some other cue. I look around, I see her and we make eye contact for a second or two; Hardly enough time to yawn or make any physical motion
/r/seduction15/04/13 01:40 AM
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This Subreddit pisses me off. The people here downvote for reasons like yours, and they get pissed when someone has a question.
/r/seduction10/04/13 01:12 AM
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I like this. My main concern although is that... Well there is the wild, fun side of me that only comes out when i'm having fun, i'm confident and a wee bit drunk, and then there is the quite side of me. I guess what I am getting at is i may be afraid to let my guard down in front of a girl. For the most part, most of my social experiences that night were with close guy friends. I have no problem running up to a guy friend and start acting like an idiot, but to do that in front of a girl is... h…
/r/seduction09/04/13 03:58 AM
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Whew yes! wow thank you, you just answered a very important question that I have had in my mind forever. So to play the aloof card, interest must be stimulated first by interaction and intentions must be laid down. Beautiful. But this brings me to my original problem, when I go on the offensive, I always seem to goof (Or feel like I goofed). Maybe i'm just being overly self-aware. In all honesty, I will justify my actions by saying that my goal wasn't to get pussy or make any major moves that ni…
/r/seduction09/04/13 02:44 AM
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My game was... Wow. Perfect that night. I have never been so skillful with my words and my body language. It's just living proof that confidence is king. I could control every word, every articulation, every touch, almost like I could slow time. No one know can say for sure what she is thinking, but I think you definitely exposed a very real possibility. As for the opinion opener, can you give me an example? I've never heard of this trick, but sounds like a good tactic. Obviously, I'm gonna assu…
/r/seduction09/04/13 01:31 AM
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I don't know why someone down-voted you, this is a really good comment. I understand that feel. My theory is that when approaching, we are attempting to quailfy. We are thinking "Are we good enough. Am I doing this right?" it takes us out of character and makes us something we aren't. I'm not quite sure how to fix this. Sure, people will say "Hey man, just be yourself". Yeah if I could, believe me, I would. It happens unconsciously, at least that is the case in my experience. So far, I FEEL like…
/r/seduction09/04/13 01:03 AM
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You should stop being a dick and contribute something useful.
/r/seduction07/04/13 07:45 PM
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And this still gets down-voted for unknown reasons... My poor poor internet points
/r/seduction06/04/13 08:47 PM
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You are so right. This sub-reddit reinforces the fact that most of all women think the same. This means that if one girl thinks you're cute, most of all girls think you are cute. Brilliant...
/r/seduction06/04/13 04:15 PM
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I understand what you are trying to say, but ultimately, it comes down to her. If she wants to throw away her relationship for a night with me, that is her decision. Of course, I hold the power of whether or not I let that happen, but if she is willing to hook up with another guy, then she shouldn't be dating him to begin with. Their relationship is none of my concern, but my relationship with her is all of my concern. However, I agree with you. I'm not about committing robberies. "What do we sa…
/r/seduction06/04/13 04:13 PM
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Oh the string... Ahhhh damn you one cold ass bitch
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:24 AM
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A1, A2?
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:23 AM
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Ahhhh, the eyes! Perfect perfect perfect!!!!!
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:20 AM
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I respect that but I feel like the guys at that subreddit over do it, a lot!
/r/seduction06/04/13 05:15 AM
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As far as dressing goes, what would you recommend for a party? I am 6ft 2in, 170s, skinny but muscular. I usually dress pretty well. Polos, stripped long sleeve shirts, tight t-shirts. I can rock a sleeveless shirt too. And any comment on pants? Jeans, PJs, or sweatpants?
/r/seduction05/04/13 06:28 PM
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The only thing that worries me with beer pong is how to Kino. I have always been "respectable" of people's space and rarely would invade it. I'm more than ready to begin learning Kino, but could definitely use a few more examples of "Good" kino. Like, yeah, High-fives and hugs, I understand that; Just something feels.. Off here. As odd as it is, I feel like I'd be more comfortable smacking her ass after she makes a shot than to give her a high-five. Any advice?
/r/seduction05/04/13 06:23 PM
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perfect. I will be honest, I've have always been a little shy with Kino, but this is a great opportunity to learn. What about everything regarding women? I have heard that it is smart to hit it off with one chick, then at the climax of your interaction with her, remove yourself and then, at some point, make sure she sees you having fun with another girl. Any comments to that strategy?
/r/seduction05/04/13 06:16 PM
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Cause a guy blowing one out his ass is causing you so much harm, right? People like you are always putting others down. Instead of calling this guy out and embarrassing him, I made a joke of it. I become a better speaker, and he feels better about himself.
/r/seduction02/04/13 03:45 AM
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Step 1: If you are self-conscious, improve your ego. Step 2: Flirt
/r/seduction02/04/13 02:20 AM
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I agree. I am the same way. I talk to everyone, about everything. In fact, I was in the gym locker room today and some guy ripped ass. He tried to play it off as if it wasn't him and I looked at him and said "Niceeee" and slowly nodded. He laughed and we talked about how awesome lettin' loose is and how in my house it's a competition. You can honestly talk to anyone about everything.
/r/seduction02/04/13 02:14 AM
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Sounds interesting, no doubt; But I think I enjoy the experience of not knowing her thoughts or intentions. It makes everything so much more exciting and gives worth to knowing you just improved your relationship with her after a successful action.
/r/seduction01/04/13 03:40 AM
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You we're right. Saw her there today, again. Odd that I see her once a month, then suddenly twice in two days... Anyways, you are right. I pussied out. However, I am using my pussiness as an excuse for needing practice. The hope is to approach other girls first before I go for the gold. We'll see..
/r/seduction29/03/13 01:32 AM
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Then why are you on Reddit, contributing useless information.
/r/seduction28/03/13 09:41 PM
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Yes, I do know you well. You are nobody special. Even when I challenged you to prove me wrong, you came up short.
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:40 PM
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First, you're like everyone else I know. Second, I too have class at 8:00am like most college students. Third, Congrats, you'd beat me in a video game. And last, no one cares. ps. You should really not be such a key board warrior on Reddit
/r/seduction28/03/13 01:41 PM
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You know what, you are right. I thought I was being cleverer tonight, but I think I just rationalized this whole "Investment" as a way of excusing my pussy attitude. And when you say "Perfect Situation to do it" can you specify when? Thanks B.
/r/seduction28/03/13 03:13 AM
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Wow hell yeah, great advice. Thanks. Let me ask you this... What if last February, I talked to HB8 and created a solid, lasting impression (Like that will ever happen). How would you have approached tonight if I did talk to her in Feb? I feel like this would have been the best strategy, had I talked to her earlier, but since she doesn't have any formal contact with me (And assuming she has no interest with me) I created 0 influence tonight. Also, Given my state, what would you recommend for the …
/r/seduction28/03/13 03:11 AM
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Hah yes! I was in this same position a month or two ago. She has a boy fiend, but that doesn't mean you can't practice. You did well my dude, Invite her to the friend zone. Women can be powerful tools. Damn, I wish I had some female friends at my disposal.. lol
/r/seduction27/03/13 09:46 PM
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What a cliche answer. If you are like anyone else I know, "Being Yourself" involves playing Fifa, sleeping in till 12, and lacking the ball sack to say hey to the average chick. Prove to me that I am wrong
/r/seduction27/03/13 09:11 PM
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This is why I get a little upset when people downvote question post. As much as I like to read about other people's experiences, I'd much rather have a community that can help provide advice and solutions to the problems the community is facing. This Reddit would rather sculpt off of other people's experiences rather than aid you in being yourself. A little sad, honestly. I agree with you OP, I honestly don't give two shits about FRs, I'd rather just raise a problem and see what the community ha…
/r/seduction27/03/13 09:07 PM
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Simple. Step 1: She takes off bra. Step 2: You fuck her.
/r/seduction27/03/13 05:51 PM
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Understandable, I know exactly how you feel. The call is yours my dude, but as for her, if you find it feasible, I think you should just tell her you don't want contact with her so that way she isn't guessing. As always, it is your choice OP.
/r/seduction27/03/13 02:18 PM
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Fantastic. This is exactly what I was looking for. Well done sir, have some karma
/r/seduction27/03/13 01:35 PM
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By all means my dude
/r/seduction27/03/13 05:13 AM
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I'll give you my hoodie if you give me your bra. Done deal
/r/seduction27/03/13 05:03 AM
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I agree with you. OP knows what it feels like to be neglected, but now he feels powerful because he is the one doing the neglecting. It's like finding an animal bleeding out. It's wrong to just walk away. If you want to nurse it back to health, do it. If you don't, find a stick and bash it's head in. But whatever you do, don't pull up a lawn chair and grab a lemonade and watch the thing bleed out.
/r/seduction27/03/13 04:59 AM
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I think you need to consider your choice here. Yeah, it feels great to know that someone is looking up at you. It's great to know that you hold the ability to influence their emotions. It's great to consider your options and all that jazz, but it sounds like this girl feels for you. If you don't want anything to do with her, I think it would be best just to crush her heart so she doesn't have to do it herself. If you want to game her, yeah, I think your making one of several possible right moves…
/r/seduction27/03/13 04:55 AM
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Let's consider motives here. If she's asking you if you suck dick, she is wondering one thing: Your sexual orientation. If you are gay, you are off limits. If you are straight, you are fair game. I ask girls if they have boyfriends all the time because I don't want to put effort into something with no pay off. Honestly, I see no other reason why she should care if you like the dick or not other than to gauge her chances with you. It's not like your sexual orientation is going to make a matter in…
/r/seduction22/03/13 04:26 AM
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And here, we have the dick who points out one piece of an entire post that could be misunderstood. I think you understand what OP is trying to say, try to use your imagination, alright?
/r/seduction21/03/13 09:08 PM
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Does this only apply for when she is being flirtatious, issuing shit-test or other more or less "rhetorical" questions? I understand the principle. You are deflecting her question by giving her an indirect response. This way, she doesn't feel satisfied and wants to know more, yatta yata. Makes sense, but can this be applied to more formal conversations? For ex: I don't quite understand how you would apply Aloofness to something like "How did you do on that test?".
/r/seduction21/03/13 08:45 PM
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I know that feel bro. The best way to avoid this is keep your expectations as reasonable as possible. I often wonder what it'd be like bashing butts with the girls i'm hitting it off with, but when a few days go by and I realize we still haven't fucked, I get upset. So, the best way to fix this is never compare what is happening to what you want to happen.
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:31 AM
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Brilliant... Absolutely Brilliant. Have some karma. My only question is... We use to be best friends. Then, I dated a girl and she came between us. Like a fool, I threw my invaluable friendship away for a relationship. This was 1 or 2 years ago. Since then, I have slowly been trying to contact this girl. The 18th was the first time we really talked after months upon months of silence. Do you think I should get a few more days of talking to her before asking her on a date?
/r/seduction20/03/13 04:32 AM
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Wow you guys really think I have the green light to escalate? I'll be honest, I thought I had some more work to do. Can somebody say a few words on my replies? How is my flow? Is my tone consistent throughout the conversation? How about the time between each text? It's difficult to interpret what I've said because I've been thinking about it for so long. Comments are greatly appreciated everyone. Thank you, hope this conversation helps you out in your endeavors.
/r/seduction20/03/13 04:24 AM
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Look, I understand what you are trying to say. This guy is... No, not a master, by any means. I don't want to be anything like him to be honest. He has very, very low standards as far as I can tell and picks up chicks with liquor on their breath. He fails to analysis human psyche and to teach us anything. "Be Brave, Don't give a fuck!" Like I haven't heard that before. In my eyes, LeBron needed to learn how to dribble a ball before he could shoot. Was Jordan on his mind, sure, but never in the f…
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:36 AM
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Problem: Solved.
/r/seduction19/03/13 02:46 AM
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Spending money on coffee?
/r/seduction19/03/13 12:17 AM
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I feel your pain my dude. Same situation and all my friends still have class. It's torturous.
/r/seduction19/03/13 12:16 AM
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Law 5 So Much Depends on Reputation – Guard it with your Life Reputation is the cornerstone of power. Through reputation alone you can intimidate and win; once you slip, however, you are vulnerable, and will be attacked on all sides. Make your reputation unassailable. Always be alert to potential attacks and thwart them before they happen. Meanwhile, learn to destroy your enemies by opening holes in their own reputations. Then stand aside and let public opinion hang them.
/r/seduction19/03/13 12:14 AM
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Alright, so to put this in comparison: What if instead of sending a man to the moon in '50s, would it have made more sense to instead attempt to send a man to Pluto? No, not at all. If we could hardly get a man into space, let alone reach the moon, why the hell would we skip straight to Pluto? This shit is linear, it works in a process. You don't skip all the shit in between just because you can. I mean by all means, try it, that'll make a fantastic FR on what not to do.
/r/seduction18/03/13 08:34 PM
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Hah, sure it is. Hence the reason why you are so worried, right?
/r/seduction18/03/13 12:35 AM
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Fair enough; However, I think there is more than just confidence coming into play here. I get drunk at parties and I have all the Beer Confidence in the world, yet this shit never happens. Regardless, this material is irrelevant to Seddit. Very, Very few possess the ability to pull this off and should not be set as a standard or goal when half the readers on here, like I said above, suffer from AA.
/r/seduction17/03/13 03:22 PM
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It tells me that he possess something that 99% of us don't, and if any one of us we're to try this, we would fail without doubt. I think it is a bit skewed to present this to a forum in which half of the people are still learning how to say "Hi".
/r/seduction17/03/13 03:20 PM
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Talk to her. Sit her down and tell her everthing you've jsut told us. If she refuses to listen, you can always starve her of attention a bit. Create value through scarcity.
/r/seduction17/03/13 05:10 AM
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Half these chicks are drunk, and the other half don't have the ego to stand up for themselves and tell this guy to fuck off. I get it, he's got a sack and is bold; But walking up to random chicks, throwing your arms around her, kissing her and picking her up all in 2 minutes is probably a good way to get maced.
/r/seduction17/03/13 05:01 AM
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Fantastic. I got a whole note-card of Kino ideas that i'm going to study for a bit before talking to her. Thank you very very much for the personal help, I appreciate it. I'm feeling much better about this. It is do-able!!!
/r/seduction14/03/13 12:36 PM
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Good call, I have heard that lunch is often a "No-No" from many sources. The only problem is I commute to school and dinner really isn't a possibility, and would seem sorta strong (Or am I wrong?).
/r/seduction14/03/13 03:02 AM
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Yes, you are right; but Kino will definitely increase her disposition towards me if done right, right? I want to better my odds here, rather than risk a solid set up on my terrible ability to spit out words. You bring up a great point. Confidence through language is huge. Thank you
/r/seduction14/03/13 02:58 AM
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Ah it just feels so awkward. Great tips, i'm slowly gathering ideas here. I just can't figure out when a good time would be. She is always late to class but will sit next to me if I save a seat for her. But in that situation, I feel like she would be greeting me, and it could be risky interrupting the class. I've considered the idea of asking for her pencil and touching her hand in the process. The other idea I had was walking her out after class. I would ask her how she did on her quiz (She nor…
/r/seduction14/03/13 02:56 AM
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Well done sir. Just goes to show that girls want what they can't have.
/r/seduction10/03/13 04:43 AM
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Definitely, I completely agree with you; But as for someone who is reserved and and finds it hard to approach, I think this is a fair tactic
/r/seduction06/03/13 12:27 AM
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I once posted on r/Askwomen whether or not they appreciate random compliments. I would say that for everyone 100 girls who commented, 98 of them said they hate it. In their defense, they said it is shallow and makes them feel like a sack of meat. Moral of the story, Pick your words wisely and timing is key
/r/seduction25/02/13 06:01 AM
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Easy there, Socrates...
/r/seduction28/11/12 03:46 AM
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