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Fuck I hate the internet sometimes. Enough of it for me for today then.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 01:22 AM
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Its not cucking its hotwifing. You call it whatever you want. If you knew anything about this subreddit, you would realize that your situation is exactly what everyone here is trying to avoid, not embracing. You want to live that way? Your life, you live it. You want advice on how to live that way? Go to /r/sex . I guarantee nobody here can help you.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 01:04 AM
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That's because she has no respect for you. You're a loud yelling asshole for letting her do what she wants, then getting angry at her for doing it. I honestly think you're only real solution at this point is to ditch the bitch and find one that doesn't need 3 cocks at once.... Do yourself a huge favor. Go to /r/TheRedPill and fill the fuck up on sidebar material. Then, in a could months you should be able to come up with the beginnings of a concrete plan to un-cuck youself.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 12:59 AM
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I would say 99% of the men here would never have even let this start, never mind go multiple years. The fact you are worrying about her 'rebelling' tells me all I need to know about who is really in charge of this relationship.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 12:46 AM
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Dude, I don't know where to even begin. I don't see how you can possibly agree to share your wife, then come here asking for advice because you are jealous. Everything you posted flies in the face of what RP and MRP talk about all the time. You are, quite literally, letting your wife ride the cock carousel. Now, either own your shit, put the brakes on all this and get on with being married or cut her the fuck loose already. Good god - have some respect for yourself.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 12:40 AM
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Thanks. Having a couple of kids of my own is a plus.
/r/askMRP14/12/16 01:43 AM
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So she say she will raise her own son her way (More or less saying that my rules dont mean shit) her son and i dont even talk to each other and the tension is beating up on our relationship. But her son just cant do anything wrong in her eyes no matter what i say. Should i tell them to shape up or ship out? I just re-read your comment and this really stood out at the end. I don't know how serious this relationship is but from this side of the internet, if you aren't considering spending the rest…
/r/askMRP14/12/16 01:34 AM
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Don't worry - you'll get it. You've been dealing with the kid since he was 14 now. That means he knows you well too. When he goes to his mom to complain, what he's really doing (consciously or not) is trying to drive a wedge between the two of you. You scare him because you have stronger frame. That's good, and something you can build on. You've missed the young years where your kids learn to respect your authority, so you will need to go down the friend path first, and you have to remember he's…
/r/askMRP14/12/16 01:04 AM
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I can't really tell you what to do, but to me there is no mystery here about why it's happening. He's crying because his mom caves in every time he does. Good example is in your own post - "tells me its not right to tell him to go outside if he doesn't want to". He's never had a strong male role model in his life to push him to be better, only his mom that feels bad so never makes him do anything. His whole life, he's essentially acted like the only role model he had (a woman), and acting like t…
/r/askMRP14/12/16 12:31 AM
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That's funny. You do realize that Men's Rights exists because of feminist propoganda? Kinda hard to avoid talking about it....
/r/MensRights28/09/16 07:50 PM
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My point is that abuse is not always carried out with fists and feet. Death is just one possible result that I used to make that point more clear
/r/MensRights28/09/16 02:48 PM
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female on male abuse is remotely akin to male on female abuse is a fucking joke. Just because "a woman slaps a man sometimes". You people are daft. Seriously?? Give a woman a weapon (knife, pipe wrench, baseball bat, even a high heel shoe) and she can kill a man just as easily as a man can kill a woman. Open your fucking eyes.
/r/MensRights28/09/16 02:41 PM
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Women aren't animals who have zero control over what they do But according to feminist propaganda, Men ARE animals who can't control themselves. That's why we all need to be taught to not rape a woman......
/r/MensRights28/09/16 02:33 PM
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Nah - I would say troll but it seems he's more like an asshole who likes to jerk off to his own ego: Good thread. I am over 50 and I am an ultra high status male. Other high status men will not like you, we will use you and laugh at you and you will never be invited to any of the great places we go. High status males only respect status, drive, creativity and ambition. I really can't help but be a dick. It's my personality and I fucking love it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 12:19 PM
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Now, I know the usual canned response to this type of relationship problem is "You need to communicate your feelings and concerns to her.. communication is key!!" It's obvious you haven't been here long. This is just about the last thing anyone here will tell you. That's the shit that /r/relationships and /r/sex blathers on about - not MRP
/r/askMRP22/06/16 01:26 AM
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Research. Plan ahead if you have time. Spending some time before the project understanding how something works and/or why they make things a certain way will go a LONG way towards making you handy. In addition to the countless home improvement shows, there are lots of great websites (like instructables) that will help you get the foot in the door when you have a specific project in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 10:33 PM
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At the moment, I'm approaching this by withdrawing attention and affection when she pulls this. For example, this morning, I go to leave the house without giving her a goodbye kiss. As I get to the door, she says to our 2 year old "I guess Daddy's not talking to me". I respond with "No, I am. Good bye." She follows with "Well don't I get a goodbye kiss?" I respond with "If you want one, come over here." She storms off, and I leave for work. Not a great response, but I've done worse. I had some s…
/r/askMRP19/04/16 02:07 AM
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Apparently they would. It's dropped a little more since then. Unless this is the new plan to eliminate TRP? start forcefully unsubbing people?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 06:04 PM
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I agree, but some support can be better than nothing.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:47 PM
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Judging by your post history, you really need to find a life outside of the internet. Looks like posting here is all you do. Why don't you get out and look for women instead of posting to reddit all the time? Oh maybe it's because you're jerkin it too much?
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:43 PM
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You just keep doin' you bro. Doesn't seem like you understand much else.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 06:16 AM
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Then you're the exception that proves the rule.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:48 AM
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Keep jerking it who gives a fuck. If you keep jerkin it, you won't give a fuck about women. At that point, why the fuck bother coming here?
/r/askTRP12/12/15 01:56 AM
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Go to /r/nofap Start small. Skip one day. Just one. Then see if you can do it again. and again. When you fail, dare yourself to do better next time and don't be mad at yourself for failing. You're human just like the rest of us and you are gonna make mistakes. Use your guilt/grief/fear to motivate you to keep trying, because as a human, you really can do just about anything with enough will and enough time. Some will take more time than others, even the smart ones, because anyone can get stuck i…
/r/askTRP11/12/15 11:47 PM
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No, that IS bad. Once or twice a week isn't that bad. Jerkin it every day will seriously impede his desire to go out and talk to women. Does he want to be an orbiter or an alpha?
/r/askTRP11/12/15 11:35 PM
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"Don't worry about me wanting sex with you. Worry about the day when I no longer want sex with you." Now that you mention it, what do you do when you're married and you've hit that point? Where you just can't even be bothered to initiate anymore?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 09:39 PM
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We're there more time whores. Did they have regular sized egos Don't want to point the spelling, but somehow this came out sounding scotish in my head.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 12:59 PM
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a 51 year old, fat, sweaty bear of a man at 3 in the morning. Who no doubt told them he was an HBO producer. He went from fat, sweaty bear to movie star in a flash. I bet that guy felt the breeze from her juices rushing at hearing about what he did for a living.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 11:33 PM
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You're welcome! I wish you the best of luck in your endeavor. Remember this is TRP on hard mode.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:40 PM
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i only used that as a snarky remark Snarky remarks just give her reasons not to do as you ask. Stop it. It's just giving her hamster ammunition against you. It's obvious how apathetic you are to her right now. You need to get over the anger phase of TheRedPill ASAP.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:36 PM
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Ah but I think you ARE angry. You don't mistrust her, you want to punish her. Punish her for all the covert contracts over the years that she has failed. I think you are also afraid that she won't change. That she can't be the woman you want her to be (more covert contracts BTW). That you aren't man enough to handle her. So I will remind you of the immortal words of Yoda: Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering. If you want to move for…
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:29 PM
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I live within a fairly conservative Christian sphere of influence This is probably why she's averse blow jobs. I htink you need to stop pushing it so much at least for now. Let her settle into living with this new you first. Right now she thinks you have changed your spots completely and doesn't know what to do. She may want to please you but just the though of the BJ is emotionally hurting her. I had a girlfriend in high school just like this. Stop nuking your relationship until you have read m…
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:15 PM
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Communication to let her know i wasnt hit by a car? Not too sure if she just wanted to keep track of me or actually cares for safety. I doubt it is the latter. Nothing wrong with the Captain of the ship letting his crew know what his timetable is. To give a brief example - if she is cooking dinner how will she know when to have it ready for? You need to keep communicating the normal stuff, just STFU when it comes to shit tests and and urges to whine about ANYTHING. Listening to her when she talk…
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:09 PM
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All good points. Very well said.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:01 PM
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by 'Friends' she means the cadre of hamsters spinning their wheels inside her head. You've turned her world on it's head and she doesn't know how to get her power back. Oh and where are you in Athol's book? He's very clear in it that you need to be alpha and beta when married. What you have done is slaughtered the beta and only show her alpha, which is making her crazy thinking you are on your way out the door. It's not the position you want to be in unless you really are on your way out the doo…
/r/askMRP02/10/15 10:53 PM
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I would have jumped up to close the door and then slowly walked back to bed Agreed - This is the 'isolate' part of the seduction mantra.
/r/askMRP01/10/15 08:48 PM
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Time to hard next her. She's flakey and she's playing you for a fool right now. Complete radio silence is the only option. Don't even go back to that well in 3 months. It's not worth it.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:59 PM
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Pure pragmatism outed you as some guy who got laid and now thinks he is alpha-as-fuck-bro Are you confusing me with the guy who actually slept with his friends GF? Makes sense or not, this shit is happening all around you. IF you want to be an alpha with morals, that's fine. Most of my argument is based on the fact that you can't expect others to follow your own moral codes.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 02:28 PM
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An Alpha doesn't fuck his "friend's" gf. Ever. Where do you get this? This is YOUR morality. YOUR bro-code. A true Alpha learns the truths of a situation so he can play the game to win. This is the reality you live in. Getting mad at the rules of the game does you no good. IF you want to win, play the pieces as you are given them, not as you imaging how things should be. Real life has not morality. Wake up from your Disney dreams
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 09:20 PM
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Do i sense some feminist shaming tactics Yup. Seems old habits are dying hard with this one.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 09:15 PM
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Yup. Lots of beta boys around here that are just raging about him taking advantage of her, when both he and this girl are just doing what they are biologically programmed to do. He didn't ask her to fall on his dick, he's just enjoying the ride.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 09:08 PM
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And here you are, white knighting for this loser douchebag. Hey pot - are you calling the kettle black again? You are defining White Knight with your little angry tirade about morality. Don't like what he did? Too bad. Stop empathizing with people who have ZERO impact on your life. Focus on the lesson of his story, not the fact he is violating some bullshit Bro-code. Look after your own shit before you start raging on others. It's the boyfriends fault for not being a high enough value man, not O…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 09:03 PM
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I see a lot of butthurt folks taking stabs at your character here but all I'm hearing is the cries of anguished Beta Boys that are still unplugging as they are spoon fed horror stories of other men getting screwed over. Their empathy for these faceless, unknown men are a direct result of their fear of being in the situation where their girl is fucking around on them with some other Chad. Bottom line is that you are just a dick she's falling on because she's following her biological imperative be…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:33 PM
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Yes, young Jedi. let the anger flow. Soon you will realize that this is not the OP's fault that his friends girls is cheating with him - it's the boyfriends for not being a high enough value man to prevent this from happening.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:31 PM
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Fucking right. And yet a workplace consisting of only women can barely function. My own wife spilled some redpill truth about this one day. She's a manager at a retail chain and the checkout area consisted of only women. To combat the cattiness and general poor way these 'women' all treated each other, she begged the store manager to hire a couple guys to 'cut the estrogen level down a peg'. This move ended up being a resounding success - all the bitchiness stopped in it;s tracks and the departm…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:54 PM
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perhaps the RP man hates the BP man more than anyone else because he sees in the BP his former self and is ashamed You hit the nail on the head here. This fact is true of people in general, and not just men/women.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:48 PM
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When real rape victims start seeing that their cases in court take ages/ are of little priority/ don't do them justice, then these women will tear the feminists apart apart. Nope. They will do their best to hamster away why it's all a man's fault this happened.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:12 PM
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"Abby told me she quit and her boss didn't say anything about the police, just asked if she was sure." This line says it all for me. Her 'boss' has this much control and then gives up without even TRYING to keep her around? Without mentioning the evidence at all? Absolute Bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 02:46 AM
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Sure there is some "women are the enemy" vibes I get, but I honestly think at the core this is about being a better man. Nothing much to add to what everyone else here has said. Just anted to say good on you for reading enough around here to get this point. Most everyone else always keys in on the bad, but in the case of TRP, you have to take the bad with the good because both sides are important.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 07:37 PM
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You can find pieces of this 'story' all over the relationship subreddits. Always the same basic story with some minor variations. Truly sad how formulaic they all are. Lots of poor bastards that don't realize their own self worth.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 12:30 AM
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He doesn't even say she's broken things off with the other guy. Actually, in one of the previous posts he tells how he forced this girl (I won't call her his GF) to quit her new job after finding out about the cheating. I flat out tell her right up front when I see her that for me to even consider going forward with this that she has to cut this other guy off period. She tells me that is impossible because they work together and I tell her that I'm sorry but I won't even consider it if she is go…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:24 PM
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Update 7: Even though the kid isn't mine, I'm going to keep on taking care of him. It's not the kids fault mommy was a hoe, so I'm going to spend all my limited resources taking care of Chad's kid. Then he can grow up and bang bitches like his dear old daddy did.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:14 PM
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Exactly. I will not be one of those 'hands off' parents that let the girls get away with everything. I am already holding her (along with her brother) accountable for her own actions which I think is the most important thing a parent can do. Parenting is very much like orchestrating a battle. Sometimes you give ground here to gain more there, and sometimes you hold the line. The rest of the time it's "Why? Because I said so. Now go"
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 11:14 PM
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I've read TBP and it astounds me just how badly they miss the entire point of TRP. It's hard to see the big picture when all you can see to your left and right are blinders
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 08:56 PM
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Posted this in that thread, copying it here: They cannot stomach thinking a man is entitled to have sex with his wife. That is like rape to these people. Do all of you see that now? Let me post some of my VERY recent conversation history from this thread that backups this up even more: janus_marine : /u/kevinuscm, this is the experienced and thoughtful adult of the thread. If you are taking advice (which is ill advised anyway), these are the types of comments to look for. Not because it supports…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 08:52 PM
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They cannot stomach thinking a man is entitled to have sex with his wife. That is like rape to these people. Do all of you see that now? Let me post some of my VERY recent conversation history from this thread that backups this up even more: janus_marine : /u/kevinuscm, this is the experienced and thoughtful adult of the thread. If you are taking advice (which is ill advised anyway), these are the types of comments to look for. Not because it supports the gf but because it supports an empathetic…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 08:46 PM
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That is definitely a possibility. You can bet your ass I will be doing what I can to prevent that though. AWALT, but that doesn't mean they all ride the CC.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 06:44 PM
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I have a feeling his girlfriend's family is a matriarchy with the sister and mom, with the dad having no balls That's an excellent point. As a dad to a soon-to-be-teenage daughter, if I was aware that she was dating someone for 3 years and something traumatic happened like what happened here, I would tell the guy what was going on, and try and include him in the recovery process. Provided I actually approved of said BF though ;P
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 03:46 PM
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Can we please sticky this? Fantastic beginners post.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 02:02 PM
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Her: I'm going to bed. (Getting up and walking away) Me: To sleep? You're so afraid of the consequences you messed this one up right at the beginning. At this point in the conversation you should have said something to the effect of, "alright! about time! Lets get ready to rumble!", then jumped up and started to follow her to the bedroom. Maybe with a playful grab or slap or two along the way. Make her laugh and smile if possible. You see the difference? When you say "To sleep?" you sound like y…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 02:09 PM
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If only there was only one... There's a few ham-beasts showing off their inflated wares in that pic.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:58 PM
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Beware - NSFW picture in that link
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 12:49 PM
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It is supposed to be impossible to get a ban notice unless you have accrued karma in this subreddit. Does anyone else see this? Maybe it's been too long since I was a programmer, but it looks to me like you could write a script to find all subscribed members TRP and ban them. That's some Communist China shit right there - who cares where the guilt lies.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 09:50 PM
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Me: I am not going to the gym for you. I am going to the gym for me. Perfect response. You did well grasshopper. Just refrain from saying anything more than this at this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 07:52 PM
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If man is the car, women are the drivers. I know what you are trying to say but it's flawed. TRP is about teaching men to drive themselves instead of letting women drive them.
/r/ThankTRP27/04/15 02:58 PM
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decided by the hivemind You have witnessed the hamster hard at work creating logic where there is none to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 09:06 PM
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For women, that's where the abuse started. For men, it was from the two previous posts.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:33 PM
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I'm subbed there since I am married too but don't spend a lot of time on reddit in general. I find that the problem with MRP is that it looks just like /r/asktrp. It's full of questions from guys wanting their hands held as they learn to walk the path. It's starting to look like Athol's forums.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 04:04 AM
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It didn't. Don't apologize. In fact, wipe that word from your vocabulary. It's not your fault that he seemed to take some fault with your message.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:43 PM
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Um. Just so you know, most of us here have used women in the same way. This isn't some martyrs club. Nobody here believes this is a martyr's club. Pointing this out is.... Pointless. It's no better than when women chime in to point out that they are the exception to whatever statement you are making. It comes across as an attempt to invalidate what the poster said.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:39 PM
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Nobody is saying you did. But this is the tone used in most of the Red Pill subs, so you'd best get used to it. We tend to speak bluntly and matter-of-factly.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 09:06 PM
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It's quite simple really. If, at any point, your wife is not happy with the sex, she can have you arrested for raping her. Yes, you heard that right. Your wife can bring you up on rape charges and ruin your life. Being married is no protection for this at all. I mean, you could be abusing her, thus justifying the rape charge.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 07:58 PM
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if one partner doesn't like what the other does during sex This isn't about what she does/doesn't like during sex. This is about her controlling the entire interaction. Using your logic, she could suddenly say "I don't like sex anymore at all" and there's nothing you can do about because you've already agreed that what you want is disgusting to her. I think you still need to unplug dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 05:06 PM
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I love the idea but I think this would be better as a sticky advising guys to follow this format when first posting about their problems. Whether you like MMSL forums or not, those triage questions really help focus users responses into something that more people can work with when responding.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/15 04:36 PM
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don't have a partner count that numbers more than your age. Great response. I would say though, that this number should be half of this at least, depending on their age of course.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 01:29 AM
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Is this the /r/deadbedrooms theme song?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 06:12 AM
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'You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink" You have to wait for him to want the information before he will listen to anything you tell him.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 08:54 PM
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I feel so fortunate that I have never seen a grown ass woman flopping around on the floor like a 4 year old in the middle of a temper tantrum. Be firm and stay the course. But given her reactions so far, you need to start getting prepared to pull the plug on this marriage. Next time she behaves this way, film her. Do that EVERY time. Build a body of evidence of her outbursts. If you don't, and she starts claiming that you abuse her, you'll be screwed. I really hope I'm wrong, but I think she's p…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 01:54 PM
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It's simple - I enjoy them for what they are. Entertainment. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/14 07:15 AM
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Sex is not how we will amend this situation. I would like to talk things out first. If I don't feel emotionally content and respected in this relationship then we are not ready to have sex. I am so hurt, by the way you handled things yesterday and do not feel respected in this relationship or that you want to make it better. If you want things to remain the way that they are, then let me know and I will head to my parents for the weekend. I can't bare living like this.... 1) Translation: You're …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 08:51 PM
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16 got a giggle out of me. What women DOESN'T go blabbing about their relationships to their friends? Yet this chick wants US to invoke the cone of silence about our relationship? What a Hippo-crit!
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:22 PM
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You beat the system and found sexual pleasure without having to deal with women. Have you SEEN the kind of drama that a gay man can create? They may be men biologically but a lot of them, like women, are ruled by their 'feels'
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 01:50 PM
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Good on you for looking at the bright side to this. You're right, maybe this small burn in the grand scheme of things helps prevent more stupidity later on. Kinda like immunization that way really.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 01:45 PM
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I mean, is this an example of how women act or is this just someone whos got a personality disorder? This is a textbook example of the hamster spinning it's wheels furiously. She's doing everything in her power to justify her 'feels' in the face of all logic and reason.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 01:43 PM
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Yet another reason to love being Canadian!
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:16 PM
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You're hanging off every word from this girl. Forget her.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 10:57 PM
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Fair enough - you were pretty brief but your choice to use the term 'poor wife' sounded very condescending. Are you running your own map right now? Does it include working out? If so - try and do it together. Don't take no for an answer either. Exercise is a proven depression fighter thanks to the endorphins that are released. You need to tackle this first before you can expect any TRP stuff to start working.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 06:07 PM
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She is now on antidepressants because she feels like a failure as a wife Why does she feel this way? Because shit's not getting done? Because you are always on her case about shit? Your tone in what you posted sounds like you are acting more like a dictator than a captain in your marriage. Have you ready the 'Married man's sex life primer' yet? If not then you need to get your hands on a copy ASAP and read the shit out of it.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 04:49 PM
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Her:'Can I have a bite' *Me: 'are you sure you can handle a bone that size?' FTFY
/r/askTRP13/09/14 04:27 PM
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This chick wants her beta orbiter back. If you want to try and 'use' her for her friends all you are gonna do is fall back into old habits. If you want access to her social group find another way in. This way isn't worth the risk considering your past history. Give yourself some time and other pussy before you talk to her.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 03:56 PM
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This woman's child's parents deserve some blame for this behavior. She wouldn't be acting like this if it didn't get results in her past. I have a young daughter, and video's like these strengthen my resolve to ensure she doesn't grow up to be a spoiled princess like this.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:16 PM
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Everyone makes mistakes. At least this dude seems to have realized it. I pity all the poor saps that never do...
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 01:19 PM
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I bet dollars to doughnuts that she's mentioned you in unfavorable terms to her friends, which is why she went to the trouble of introducing you, so they can see whatever shit it was she was talking about. Stop validating her by attempting to get closer to her socially. Be polite when required but ignore the fuck out of her all other times.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 12:49 PM
-3

All women lose attraction Attraction, yes. But Loyalty is another matter. It is possible that a woman, especially ones with fewer options, will stick by their spouse. This happens far more often outside of north america, where more red pill ideals are the norm.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:23 AM
5

If (when) it doesn't work out, you can walk away without the strings of government interference leading to the burden and depression that Williams endured. You don't need to be officially married anymore for them to take you to the cleaners. All it takes is to live together to cross that 'common-law' marriage threshold...
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 07:37 PM
1

You're welcome. It's easy enough to understand how you confused seduction methodology with redpill but I think you can see how 'agree and amplify' only works when attempting to attract a woman. Once she's walked the path your brothers ex has walked, any further relationship should be all business first, keeping your frame and not responding to their attempts to entice you to negative actions. Have you read 'No More Mr Nice Guy' or 'Married Man Sex Life Primer yet?' If not, go and order them on A…
/r/ThankTRP30/07/14 01:15 AM
1

You say, "Yes, her discipline has been poor recently, she is 4, but she acts more like your other daughter than she does any child in our family, you need to work on your parenting skills." No. This is still playing by her rules. YOU need to set the rules. He should have said: "That's funny, at my house she's a perfect angel. Don't know what to say." This enforces that any behavior that happens is HER problem, not yours.
/r/ThankTRP29/07/14 03:24 AM
9

That is why women need a strong man to keep the hamster in check. To protect them from themselves. Of course, even with that some women will still make the wrong choices - that is life.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 01:46 AM
15

she claimed she 'was over drinking, she was 27 and didn't want to act like a college kid anymore'. I'm stopping at this sentence before continuing. I can guarantee that this was obviously what she told herself every time she felt the urge to do just that.... Trying to convince herself.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 11:08 PM
4

Wow and here I thought you were this guy that posted to /r/relationships last year sometime whose ex had left an ipad paired with her iphone and all texts were received on both devices. He was keeping it alive as evidence for the divorce too. Still - good job!
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 11:05 PM
1

Let's look at this objectively. she said "you crossed the line...it felt really good, but separated people don't have sex" At first glance it looks like she's trying to re-establish a prevously agreed on boundary. But she didn't have to mention it felt good. She could have said 'last night' and gotten her point across just as easily. So that makes this a shit test. She wants to see if you're worthy enough for another go. I told her "I beg to differ, separated people fuck all the time...besides, …
/r/askTRP26/06/14 01:51 AM
5

You're forgetting that we speak in generalities here. Just because you happened to find a woman willing to make the first move does not mean we should all expect to find someone similar. I myself have NEVER been with a woman willing to make the first move. To elaborate further - I could easily contrast your small point with a story of my ex wife who would tell me stories of exes who 'almost raped' her in an effort to get me to initiate in a more 'Red Pill' way. Does my single point disprove your…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 10:10 PM
1

Or gaming the wrong hen.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 11:30 PM
7

This was said to me almost verbatim more than a few times way back in high school.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 11:44 PM
1

And these people would be women? Men?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 03:02 AM
1

I don't know you well enough to answer that question. You could be a huge fuck up IRL ;p Seriously though, The only thing I am saying is you don't have to say sorry every time you make a mistake, not that you make mistakes often.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 12:17 PM
1

You can acknowledge mistakes without constantly saying 'sorry' for them. Sorry has it's place, just not very often.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 02:38 AM
3

Very true words. I was relatively open with my wife when I started swallowing the red pill. It made things very tense for a while until I relaxed a bit and lied to her that I wasn't following 'that stuff' anymore. I chilled out for a few weeks and then slowly started implementing it consciously again after her guard was down, but by this time she was far more used to my changed behavior and things have been awesome since.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:42 PM
1

This is true up to a point. You have to give them some sense of security for a LTR to succeed. Otherwise it will simply get too much for them and they will lash out in unexpected and possibly damaging ways.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:31 PM
1

Because society rewards the selfish, we are headed towards a dark future. Careful there - it's not necessarily being selfish that society rewards, it's being self-assertive. They look the same from the outside looking in, but at the heart of the matter they are fundamentally different.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 04:23 PM
-1

This so fucking much!!!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 04:18 PM
1

I've also been thrown into harshly self-critical hatred and locked into obsessing over past mistakes. I've been smoking for a long time and I've found this will depend on the strain. The mellow "Cess" strains are the relaxing, creative highs where the "hydro" strains are a crapshoot of negative emotions.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 03:49 PM
1

I don't see a reason to withhold that from a woman because she's a woman. Good. Because that isn't the point. The point is to not say sorry to anyone, especially women, not excluding men.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 03:43 PM
13

This is the difference between how men and women see sex. The reason I'd never take advice on the sex balance in a relationship from a woman is the same reason I'd never take advice on finding a dealer who won't rip me off from Snoop dogg. It's asking for a solution to a problem from someone who lives in a world where said problem doesn't exist. This was beautiful dude. Honestly.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 02:16 AM
3

This should be higher up - good point
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 08:40 PM
1

Knowledge is the true power.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 08:09 PM
23

IF she thought highly enough about this other man to ask for a break, then she's already pretty far along the branch swinging phase of hypergamy. Unless I was already married to her, I would ditch the bitch.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 09:03 PM
25

if it really does takes a "misogynist"/"jerk" to be successful with women. There is a lot here, but I think you summed it up in the beginning. This is where your problem lies. Forget this mindset. This isn't about being an asshole. This is about you respecting yourself first and foremost. You may FEEL like an ass at first, because the concepts are pretty foreign, but once you truly understand the hows and why's it will get easier and become more a reflex than a conscious effort. Don't these goal…
/r/askTRP26/03/14 02:56 PM
1

That's the best way to look at it. We are all only human after all.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 04:35 AM
1

Blue balls?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 07:25 PM
4

Did I ever imply that I don't approach? Or that women aren't a part of my life because I'm self-absorbed? I did not take that from his response. The fact that you thought this smacks of solipsism. His response wasn't about you, but rather expanding on what you said. You need to realize that what works for you "I have days when I can approach a woman in a club, give her a smile and a wink, a nod toward the door, and I'm in her bed." simply won't work for every guy for a number of reasons.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:56 PM
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most men will go along to get along. Of course - most advice for other men in a marriage is "Happy wife happy life" without any further explanation. Since we are such literal creatures almost unanimously we take this to mean that we need to do whatever it takes to make her happy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 05:20 PM
9

BITCH BITCH BITCH SCREECH BARGL BLURP SCREEEE" I always imagine it sounds like Charlie Brown's teacher: "Wa Wah, wa wah wah wah waha wawa wa"
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/14 05:17 PM
1

All three look interesting - Which one would be easiest to learn first if you have no prior experience with dancing?
/r/askTRP10/03/14 02:59 PM
4

Kicking punching or slapping you. Just to add some more to this one point - Sometimes this is just playful and isn't a bad thing. My own wife will hit me as a way of 'hitting on me' sometimes. I just growl at her and tell her she's gonna get it later in bed and she will smile and hit me again.
/r/askTRP10/03/14 02:06 PM
3

they enjoy the feeling of confidence through others (males with high smv) I think what you are saying is spot on, but I don't think this is limited to just being with confident men. They attach to anyone who is more confident than them - women included. That's why so often you see the fat/ugly chick with the good looking one. It's not just so that the hotter one can feel good about herself having by having a lower SMV female at her side, it's also because the other girl enjoys being around someo…
/r/askTRP10/03/14 12:48 PM
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So how does one handle a situation where they are at fault? You're not at fault. Just correct the situation and move on. Be sure you don't bend over backwards while you do it.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 12:15 AM
1

OK. I like you. I think you deserve a red pill relationship. You remind me of my wife and her BFF. They tend to be realistic and pragmatic as you appear to be. If you aren't part of /r/redpillwomen yet then you should go there. You shouldn't treat women (or men) like petulant children, or violent assholes, or money grubbing cheaters before you even know them. This is definitely a message I can endorse to a degree. I'm 40 and trying to red pill my marriage so I'm not all about plate spinning. I w…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 05:07 AM
1

beta males will love unconditionally. Wrong. They love unconditionally because they have very low self-worth. They spend far too many hours serving others because they don't want to focus on themselves and how insignificant they are.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 07:05 PM
1

The one piece of advice that he gave me was that what ever you do, never marry an extremely good looking woman. This reminded me of This Song.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 07:00 PM
3

What's that word for "only thinking for yourself" The word for what you describe is selfish or placing yourself above others around you. You may recognize that a situation has nothing to do with you but you may try and influence it to your advantage. The word you are alluding to is solipsism, and it describes the act of making everything that happens about you even when it's not - everything in your world revolves around you. I consider them similar but different concepts.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:46 PM
1

I think if they could see that some women out there are also disgusted with the injustices against men I wish I traveled in your circles, because I have yet to meet a woman that actually gave two shits about men's rights that wasn't just lip service, and this includes my wife. They just don't see it as their problem because they aren't men. I've read through all your posts and I have come to the conclusion that you are trying to argue that NAWALT (Not All Women Are Like That). I disagree. All of…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 03:41 PM
1

That must confuse the fuck out of them. If only it did! Their male hamsters engage and then they just see it as "all those poor oppressed women are just lashing out at everyone because they've had it SO DAMN BAD. That's OK M'ladies, just vent your frustrations out on us, it's OK, We UNDERSTAND"
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 07:24 PM
3

Sour grapes. They can't have the man so their hamsters are working overtime to find reasons that he's inferior mate material. That's all fine and good but then they open their mouths and spread the raving hamster madness.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 03:13 PM
9

Wow - I'm surprised there was that much info in the adoption papers.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 02:50 PM
1

Reddit fudges the numbers on purpose so -1 on a comment could just be reddit doing it's thing. The other option is - downvoting brigades from other subs happen. No need to worry about it - just upvote what you think is good material.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 11:11 PM
3

A father stands against his child's emotional outbursts because he has the child's best interests at heart. He is a benevolent leader. He rewards good behavior and punishes bad behavior. He uses his superior experience and vision to help guide his child toward becoming the best grown-up the child can be. This is exactly how I parent my kids.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 10:45 PM
1

I'm pretty sure I talked to you before. It seems like your end goal is still focused on your wife instead of yourself. Listen to /u/Enpheugo. You need to relax and find other things in your life that make you happy and give her a chance to follow your lead rather than pushing it down her throat. Also - MMSL isn't a bible. Athol Kay took YEARS to figure things out and years more to make all the changes.
/r/askTRP05/03/14 05:58 AM
4

Certainly I can appreciate what she is trying to do. That being said, with the way she looks in that picture, the only men she is going to attract are the ones who like her the way she is right now, so won't be motivated to push her to change. If she wants to start attracting more fit men, then she needs to start changing herself first. It's exactly what we are trying to teach the men here and it applies equally to both sexes.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 04:26 AM
1

I feel that just by being invited to this sub makes us "TRP endorsed".
/r/AlreadyRed03/03/14 07:16 PM
25

I am working out, but I'm still a little big. I want someone who is into physical fitness Translation: I don't have the willpower to improve on my own so I want a BF who will make me go do for my own good. It's just too hard making myself do anything so I need a man to make me do it. My wife (former fattie) was the same way for years. Then she found her motivation on her own and lost a lot of weight. I joined her whenever she went to the gym and since then I lift weights and run on a semi-regula…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 05:28 PM
1

Seems like you roped one in there.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 05:21 PM
2

Who cares? She's helping all you single guys out with this article. Someone should print this shit out and start posting it all over university campuses.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 05:17 PM
1

With his tongue...
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 04:50 PM
0

Fantastic Silence of the Lambs quote. Fucking love it!
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 04:16 PM
2

When you focus revenge, you give them power over you.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 02:55 AM
8

The double standard is glaring these women in the face but they don't see it. Reality is too much for them to handle. Denial is a powerful drug for both sexes. "I'm not a hamplanet, I'm just big boned'. "I'm not going to take care of myself because any man worth having will love me no matter what I look like".
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 02:45 PM
5

Seeking a little external validation isn't always a bad thing. The problems start when we start putting more weight on others validation of us than out own validation of ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 02:42 PM
7

The problem is that some people will post those PM's for everyone to see and you'll be outed as a backstabbing hypocrite. Use those laws with care my friend...
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 02:39 PM
7

Solopsism. Ain't it grand?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 02:36 PM
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What I love is the threads on reddit where some guy posts there picture and the girls are ALL OVER THEM. Examples I have seen recently: "Can I objectify you? Well I'm going to anyways. You're hot" (imagine saying this to a woman on reddit... ya I don't want to either) "Cute guy, good with animals, sense of humor. Where do I get an application to be your GF?" This was followed by many responses to the effect of "I'd like one too please" or 'Dayum, me wanty" (many women would be creeped the fuck o…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 02:35 PM
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I laughed at this because it's so fucking true. I think the hamster starts substituting words they read to get some hamster wheel momentum built up. Then they just fly off the wheel when they are shot down. Damn I can't find that .gif of the hamster flying off the wheel I laughed at the other day. Anyone got it?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 02:17 PM
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Because women can't have conversations like that without their 'feelz' getting in the way. They have emotional reactions to things that were never meant to be taken in an emotional way. OP's thread is a perfect example. Chicky-poo didn't like the feeling she got when she read OP's response so immediately lashed out at him. She then later apologized, but only AFTER reddit put her in her place and put that stupid hamster back in it's cage.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 02:12 PM
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It's the brainwashing. ANYTHING that even remotely could be construed as being negative towards ANY women is automatically slapped with the label "misogynistic". It's really making me sick to hear all these women parroting what they hear and thinking they know the meaning of things without looking the information up themselves. It's pathetic really. Interesting note - My google spell check recognizes 'misogyny' and 'misogynistic' but doesn't even know the word 'misandry'. I guess everyone just l…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 02:06 PM
2

"living a happy life is the best revenge" so they say This is more than a saying. It's 100% true no matter the circumstance.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 12:05 PM
2

I live in a Canada too and I've heard from divorced guys at work that it depends more on the individual judges. One has custody but the rest don't. So according to them It's possible to get custody as a man but it's more luck of the draw than how good your lawyer is.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 12:00 PM
1

Wolves actually switch between alpha/beta depending on what is needed. Thanks for pointing this out. I was aware of this before and I feel that this is actually a much BETTER example to follow than the myth. Beta isn't bad, it just needs to be used carefully.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:50 PM
1

Agreed. I didn't really understand until I read MMSL. Reading that the beta traits don't need to be squashed but incorporated into the 'new you' really gave a nice shot in the arm for my self worth and confidence.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:46 PM
4

I'm older and married and still going down TRP path but I'd like to share two tips with you on what I am doing to make myself feel more confident: Walk tall. Straighten up, relax your shoulders but pull them back just a bit. Especially when I'm done lifting this REALLY makes me feel powerful and able to take on the world. Make a list of what you're good at. I made myself a list, called it "you're fucking awesome" and saved it to my desktop. Just being there reminds me and if I'm having an especi…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:40 PM
1

Great line - where did you find it?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 07:08 PM
1

It should be about understanding Human behavior and bettering ourselves. Love this statement! Just needed a little tweak. We may talk about women all the time here but at it's core what we are really doing understanding the underlying psychology of our species and using that knowledge instead of sitting on it.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 06:56 PM
2

I hear ya bro - women are better softer than all muscled up. Not fat though.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 04:19 PM
2

Honestly I am giving you some good Redpill advice here, ask her for sexual favors! TRP describes relationships between normal, healthy people. In OP's case, asexuality is a known disorder and well outside the norm that we normally see around here. He's far more versed (and closer) to the subject than you are. I think the problem here is you see TRP as a tool for getting more sex but in reality it's a set of tools for getting what you want out of life in general. Everyone takes what tools they ne…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 04:28 PM
2

The usual "Can you fix my computer cos it's slow and virus filled" crap. I work in IT too and this is one of the reason I don't have many friends. I think that too many beta's are out there spreading the word that 'working on computers is easy' and getting easy validation by being helpful. These people then spread this message and soon enough I have people who dislike me because I won't fix their shit for them - I only tell them what they need to do. Fuck them if they think my time is worth less…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 04:15 PM
2

It makes sense. Searching for validation gets much harder for women as they get older. IF he's a good enough charmer, The old lady would probably start cleaning his apartment for him just to be validated by him.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 11:33 PM
6

option 3 is walk slower while they catch up. Option 4 is you say "Hey I'm leaving you behind back there"
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 01:25 PM
3

And drives away any snooping women that don't have the stomach for it. It hurts their delicate sensibilities ;p
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 03:31 PM
2

Wow. You just brought back a lot of memories from school. I remember that was how things were over 20 years ago too. You sound like a middle/high school teacher and I gotta applaud you for dealing with shit like rape accusations every day. It boggles my mind that anybody could actually think that we aren't programmed to be this way. Being in IT, I like to think of it as this is our 'BIOS' and TRP is like upgrading the BIOS. It won't change any of the physical hardware, but we can redefine how/wh…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 10:55 PM
2

Oh and I must say it's interesting to see a teacher here in TRP. I know my own observations with my kids seems to prove the theories, but how is it on the 'front lines'? With so many more examples, can you see all this stuff in action too?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 09:59 PM
-1

This isn't just 'dad-speak' when I say I know that she's a cutie at 8 years old. My MiL and FiL (who see her every day after school) both need to be reminded on a constant basis to not spoil the shit out of her. Random strangers (mostly women) spoil her when I'm out just because they see me being a hard ass. I feel sometimes like I have to be extra hard on her (I'm not) just to undo the damage but the reality is I'm the only one in her life that holds her accountable for her actions. So ya, if i…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 09:55 PM
1

I actually like most Disney movies quite a bit myself but I don't think kids understand that they are taking the wrong life lessons from them. I sure as hell know that I did....
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 09:45 PM
0

I'm not surprised. To be fair to my daughter though, I caught my wife's parents teaching her to lie to them on multiple occasions when she was 3 or 4 years old, thinking it was SO funny to have her do it. I gave them a piece of my mind about it but they babysit quite a bit so I couldn't control what happened at their house.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 09:42 PM
2

My daughter is already extremely manipulative when in trouble (me, her brother, both grandfathers) whereas my son is more a stoic take his punishment kid - they spend more time with their mother than with me. My kids are exactly the same temperament. I tell my son to do something, it gets done. I tell my daughter to do something, she forces me to follow up on it to ensure it gets done. She has no problem lying and making up stories to get what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 02:11 PM
0

YES. I have one boy and one girl and they will be learning how all this shit works. It will give my son a leg up with women and it will help my daughter understand that to attract a QUALITY man, she will need to become a QUALITY woman. It may not work and she may still become a carousel rider, but I will be secure in the knowledge that I tried.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 02:09 PM
2

Why should I? That's evolutions way of ensuring that she has a strong man in her life. Don't like it? Don't get involved with women.
/r/askTRP12/02/14 08:39 PM
1

Actually I've cut way back on reddit time already. I don't even go into that subreddit anymore but a link from the front page lured me in the other day.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 12:27 PM
2

It's possible. Get yourself read up on Married Man Sex Life Primer. It's cheap and Amazon will deliver it to your door.
/r/askTRP12/02/14 04:48 AM
3

No. Girls just do this naturally starting from when they are young. My daughter shit tests constantly
/r/askTRP11/02/14 11:21 PM
1

True. I've recently been proven wrong with some recent posts in /r/relationships too. I think either I'm finally understanding how to talk about this stuff without offending people or more and more are buying into it.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 11:06 PM
6

Try having kids. Especially daughters. That's 18+ years of shit tests
/r/askTRP11/02/14 06:31 PM
3

She got mad and called me an asshole. The only response to this is "YES. I'm an asshole sometimes."
/r/askTRP11/02/14 06:21 PM
1

If she wants you to talk, repeat that line about wanting more passion again. I just want to highlight this a little more. That line is ALL THAT YOU SAY. Do not engage in any discussions about it. She tries to talk about it, that is your canned response every time. Do not vary from the script. Let her hamster.
/r/askTRP11/02/14 06:17 PM
1

Oh I don't expect anything all from Reddit except to be persecuted for spreading the truth.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 06:05 PM
4

Your welcome! As I said, I've been fortunate in that I had already been working towards OI and other goals before I read the books, so I feel this is given me a leg up on the MAP. One note before I respond further - I did edit my original response a couple times just in case you missed some of it. Going in for the ten-second kiss and getting rebuffed when I am pulling in (either with pursed lips, a 'bonk' on the nose) or trying to be a little mean ("come back here and kiss me properly") and gett…
/r/askTRP11/02/14 03:43 PM
5

I've read both the books you have and this struck me as odd: Reading up on NMMNG and MMSL and attempting principles therein with success, but I have found myself subconciously self sabotaging bigger 'events' (such as not being outcome independent for intimacy attemps, revealing aspects of a DHV which negate it entirely) In the NMMNG book it specifically says why this happens. If you can't initiate without getting all butthurt when she says no, then maybe you need to give up sex (as it says in th…
/r/askTRP11/02/14 01:55 PM
3

Fully half of our boys grow up without fathers. And of those who don't, many of them have fathers who grew up without fathers. My dad came to North America after WW2. He was the second youngest of 5 kids, his dad disappeared and his mom died during childbirth before the war was over. I came to realize later in life (but before I came here) that he never taught my brother and I how to be men because he just didn't know how to be one himself. He just muddled through as best he could.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 07:37 PM
3

strategy is to debase men That's the standard strategy in all politics no? Rather than convince voters you are better, they convince them instead that the other guy is bad. Fuck I hate politics
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 07:31 PM
1

I wonder if there is STILL some fresh 'white guilt' to be had simply because the majority of men in US prisons are not white? Like maybe it's still our fault they are in this position in the first place? I know I still get the impression from some people that white's are still the enemy.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:58 PM
2

Yes I agree it's sad. I've had a couple black friends in my past and they were like you. When we used to meet 'normal' blacks they would eventually start insulting him, asking him why he was the 'whitest black brother they eva seen?" Usually at some point they started mockingly imitate them too. Most patient guys I have ever met though. They would just sigh and ignore it as best as possible.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:53 PM
0

At least this mod told him why he was banned. I've been banned from /r/offmychest with no explanation given whatsoever. All I did was try and give the poor beta orbiter 'freindzoned' guy some encouragement to 'go for it' after a night they both got drunk and has sex.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:46 PM
1

You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy. Obi-Wan Kenobi Yup. The misogyny just seeps into your soul through your eyeballs as you read through the posts here.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:41 PM
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Not if I have any say in it! Lots of goo rock and heavy metal tunes that are very motivating and good to workout to.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:38 PM
1

I went looking for the '48 Laws of Power" but I found it in the business section. Is it really business focused?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:36 PM
1

This creates in our minds, the belief that a trend is true and for fear of not being in the trendy in-group we spend our money to wear fedoras, thick rimmed glasses and argue about iPhone or Android. Or see armies of college girls wearing the ugliest shoes ever thought up, with a name that matches - Uggs.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:06 PM
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we all want to be better men This is the hardest part of TRP. Not meeting women. Not getting laid. This is about realizing you haven't been living up to your potential, and that the only one standing in front of your dreams is YOU. Not your GF/WIFE/MOM/DAD/SIBLINGS/LIFE. It's time to stop being victims to society.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:00 PM
2

Where did you find this?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 07:01 PM
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There ARE legitimate reasons why sex drives tank, particularly after children. However, that is not an excuse to not try and fix the problem. Loved this response myself. She has a healthy respect for a mans sex drive: Girl !!?? find the mood, do not be offended, be smart, attend your husband in that, or you know, lots of husbands, (not yours) but alot of them if they dont get the sex they want from their wives, They Will Look Elswhere if they are not strong enough to wait for you, do not keep th…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 11:24 AM
1

LOL! I should have known. Fucking autofilter fail LOL!
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 01:02 AM
2

You're not alpha. You're just a dick. What the Fuck does this have to do with redpill? God damn FTFY. No point filtering your language around here
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 12:53 AM
1

That's why going redpill while in a LTR is refered to as 'hard-mode'. I can attest that it ain't easy at all since I'm currently in one and trying to redpill it.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 09:59 PM
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Yup. Deciding to not be gentleman when it comes to holding doors is the kind of passive aggressive bullshit that women fucking love to do.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 06:43 PM
6

Guys will at the very least look you in the eyes nod. A good non-verbal acknowledgement that you are doing something for them. Women either: say "thanks", Give you dagger eyes, look down (maybe mumble something too), treat you like part of the scenery or I have even seen them use the other fucking door just to avoid accepting your assistance. Unreal.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 06:01 PM
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I think Moh7's point is that you shouldn't be letting negative reactions to holding a door open stop you from doing so. If someone give you shit, well then tell them "you're fucking rude", but don't let that stop you from being a gentleman.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 05:53 PM
5

Just be prepared for the sex to stop in 3 years Only if he loses his frame and goes beta on her.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 05:21 PM
1

To expand on this, On multiple occasions I have been shopping with my kids and had random women buy them treats after I already said no. My daughter (7) just can't help but ask for everything she sees so I rarely say yes. I have to give my mother in law crap a couple times a year about encouraging this behavior by buying them stuff all the time, then complaining to me that they always ask for stuff. Well DUH ma, you keep rewarding them! Anyways , yesterday I went, grabbed my kids from the babysi…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 03:58 PM
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Men have things done for them so rarely they actually appreciate it. Women get used to expecting it, and gosh, they just KNOW that the only reason you're holding that door is because you want to eye rape them.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 01:59 PM
1

Most major cities have homeless shelters that you can volunteer at. Toronto, for example, has the Good Sheppard Refuge. I knew a guy 15 years ago that would take care of mentally disabled people sometimes. That guy had MANY great stories of getting laid, let me tell you. He dressed nice, had some money, drove a nice sports car and, oh BTW, he's got a heart of gold. He swam in a sea of pussy whenever he felt the urge. And when he wanted to challenge his mind he came and played Magic the Gathering…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 01:16 AM
2

I did this. I didn't even TRY anything because I was such a good boy. She must have been confused and thought I was just too good to care about her pussy because the next day, when I went out on during a blizzard to buy 200 worth of flowers for her, she said 'lets go to Vegas and get married'. I said "sure, lets do it" and the dare was on. We went to vegas, got married, and before a year had passed she left my sorry ass. I don't miss her, but I miss those massive tits she had on her small frame.…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 06:09 PM
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Anger is one of the phases that men go through as they discover the truth. You just need to learn to filter it out because neither myself nor others are going to tone down our language for political correctness.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 05:00 PM
2

You have to jump into the market with both feet. Take the risk to try and earn the reward.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 04:46 PM
2

Solipsism and hamstering prevent them from seeing the truth.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 04:37 PM
2

You need to stop viewing those 4 years as wasted time dude. Don't blame yourself for not knowing better earlier on. Just move forward with your new outlook and stop regretting the time before you learned.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 02:49 PM
1

Anything that can take away desire for your LTR is not encouraged, but ultimately it's up to you. You need to be focused on seducing her, not thinking about the red light district.
/r/askTRP05/02/14 12:08 PM
2

Seconded! This book will explain how women really work and how to attract them.
/r/askTRP05/02/14 12:03 PM
1

Reading Married Man Sex life really allowed me to calm down and relax. Whenever I start to get uptight I remind myself that this is a process, and I need to be patient.
/r/askTRP05/02/14 12:02 PM
1

No way. I agree with my dad - CFL should become the 'minor leagues' for NFL. It would be a great partnership - the NFL can afford to upgrade all the CFL facilities and seeing young stars turn into big stars in the NFL would increase their viewership outside the US. Then after a few years they start expanding into certain 'key markets' like Toronto, Vancouver, Calgary and MAYBE Quebec/Montreal (Expos fiasco will temper there opinion).
/r/ThankTRP04/02/14 10:52 PM
1

The first book you need to read is No More Mr Nice Guy. It will teach you how to respect yourself and make everything after it easier.
/r/askTRP04/02/14 09:56 PM
3

The bigger the SMV the bigger the shit tests they will throw you way.
/r/askTRP04/02/14 04:41 PM
1

From what I hear if you score like 140+ on an IQ test Well I guess I'll never be a cop then...
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 02:47 PM
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Go read /r/relationships for a while. You'll be disgusted with the depths people will sink to. I mean honestly, there was this one woman that was on there hamstering to the world about going on a trip to visit some other dude for sex but she didn't want to leave her SO - she just rammed an 'Open Relationship' down his throat sideways. I'm not sure if it was the same story or not, but at one point this cunt was sitting in a hotel room with her lover, on the motherfucking phone with her BF who was…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 12:08 AM
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That is some seriously scorched earth there dude. I personally believe in never burning bridges.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 12:00 AM
1

daughters these days seem to be subject to more pampering Honestly I'm not so sure about this. I've seen plenty of pampered and entitled little boys too. Some future nice guys in the making for sure - including my son. I've talked to a lot of the older guys at work and every single one of them warned me about how difficult girls were at all stages of development. I see how TRP works all around me in real time. It's like they are programmed from birth to be difficult and shit test.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 11:47 PM
1

Hey I saw you posting in that thread too. It was hilarious how you were getting downvoted just for mentioning the word 'redpill'. Oh and happy cake day!
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 05:49 PM
1

My work blocks /r/sex (don't know why) so I can't link but for that example of "doing it wrong" the OP actually posted an update following that post. Basically he read No More Mr Nice Guy and decides to start enacting a plan based on what he read in the book. I posted in that thread arguing with a woman that insisted on turning it back on OP's wife at every opportunity. I'll summarize just in case other are blocked from /r/sex like me: Her: "Step 3 is finding her needs to meet". Me: "No. He's al…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 05:32 PM
1

betas usually live longer. They take less risks in life. It's easier to live longer with less risk
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 05:24 PM
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Thirded. Since spending a lot of time here and reading the material I'm finding myself challenging people in different subreddits much more than before. I'm actually PROUD now when something I comment gets karma-nuked. That just means I hit a nerve...
/r/ThankTRP03/02/14 05:16 PM
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In the last year, they've started considering me to be the best with women, and they come to me for advice on what to do with the women in their lives. I guess they listen as long as you don't mention where the advice come from huh? Sounds like they are willingly putting on the blinders LOL. Congrats!
/r/ThankTRP03/02/14 05:10 PM
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When they have an NFL team in Canada I might start caring about football. Until then I'll enjoy hockey and baseball on those few occasions I'm at the bar or home with nothing to do while the game is on. And maybe if basketball players weren't a super-entitled bunch of whiny bitches I would enjoy the sport too. Or at least I would watch it if the Raptors could actually put a winning team on the court....
/r/ThankTRP03/02/14 05:08 PM
1

You're welcome! I love my kids and have really learned so much just by trying to be a good, stable dad to them. I also tell them all the time "My job as your dad is to prepare you to become an adult. Nothing more, nothing less."
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 02:18 PM
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Thank you! Children are the ultimate shit-testers And they do it CONSTANTLY, especially my daughter. She always tried to come up with reason why she can't do something I've asked like cleaning her room. Some examples of how she tries: "I have a headache", "my tummy hurts" (these will be said after she was just playing and laughing not even 10 minutes before), or "I miss Nona" (usually after strike 2), etc. Unless she is obviously unwell (I can tell) it's just the same as the LMR shit testing. An…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 02:13 PM
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I'd much prefer to see "how to keep frame" and "maintain attraction" and be the boss in the relationship while playing hardmode - with children, and how to achieve that goal. I hope I answered this a little in my post for OP
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 01:51 AM
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I am in constant conflict with myself because I am a amiable and meek person at heart and I know that this will slowly kill attraction. It's happened in LTRs before. You are what you believe you are. You need to change this image of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 01:51 AM
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Thanks for the article. It really sums up the biological reason well.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 01:41 AM
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I'm 40, have 2 children and discovered TRP a few months ago. I'm not sure if you're asking if you should have kids or how to maintain frame once you have them or what. In that case I'll address 'Frame and Children' and some of the points that you mention: is a task mostly women deal with. This is a myth. It's important to your child's development to be actively involved in the parenting. Little boys and girls need to see examples of masculinity and femininity so they can emulate it easier when t…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 12:15 AM
1

Now that I think about it, at 7 I didn't even care for the lego people. I was more interested in building defensive forts and then smashing them when I got bored with it. I loved lego as a kid. I built castles for my knights, boats for the bathtub (they always sank but that was half the fun) and when I was older I made guns that I wrapped in electrical tape as props for the imagination adventures a friend and I went on. My daughter is 7. She has some interest in LEGO. But she didn't want the boy…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 11:20 PM
1

But it's more fun with moving targets :(
/r/askTRP02/02/14 09:29 PM
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This is interesting. 6 months ago I felt exactly how you do and would have agreed with you 100%. Now I do not. I can certainly see how you have gotten the opinion that we all think women are "manipulative, bitchy and bossy" though. There is a lot of bashing for sure. But you have to expect that here. It's men talking to men. I've seen the shit that jezebel posts and believe me it's no better and possibly even worse. It's not like most of us ACTUALLY think this way about women. Any given women is…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 02:42 AM
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Actually, if you take a look at that 7 part series, they mention that the reason that men's brains are wired differently is due to it being bathed in Testosterone while in the womb.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 07:30 PM
1

All I heard here was blah blah blah, people are special and individual and unique snowflakes blah blah blah. We are all individuals, yes. But a person is special for what they do and accomplish in life. Not for simply existing. It honestly seems like every time a woman weighs in, they feel compelled to point out all the exceptions to the 'rules'. But these exceptions do not disprove the rule at all. You can't look at outliers and base your assumptions around them. In general, all these are truth…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 07:27 PM
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he has so much status and social proof, and she would need constant re-assurance that she was good enough. Girls have pedestals too.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 01:05 AM
2

Just be cool. Remember that no matter how much you like her, she's not a special snowflake and she can take care of herself. DO NOT BABY her and DO NOT HANG ON HER EVERY WORD. Don't start doing random nice things for her just because you feel like it. If this relationship has a chance of ever being more than just sex then you need to earn her respect by being 'manly' and not putting up with her shit tests. You are the leader of the band, and you need to lead your relationship the same way - list…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 08:39 PM
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Being fat in europe still sticks out and not in a positive way. I'm sure in germany all the guys are looking at her and saying "Fett amerikanischen Wal"
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:23 PM
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TL;DR: hamsta's gonna hamsta
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:20 PM
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Good for you! And for the record, I've seen the people that formed the bands kicked out too. Glad you didn't have to deal with that.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 06:13 PM
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That mans getting pegged. Yuck.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 04:42 PM
1

Worked for the US in WW 2 when they overwhelmed the German Panzer divisions with Sherman tanks that were FAR inferior. Their advantage was quick production times and cheap/easy to maintain.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 02:19 PM
1

I prefer 'douchecanoe' myself
/r/askTRP30/01/14 12:30 PM
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to be fair all her friends like me and she saw something very different in me (built high rapport) that's what i got from the body language and the fact that i'm the only one they socialize with like an actual person, because everyone else is just an asshole and they see right through that. Because you're just one of the girls. They all know you have the hots for their friend and are letting you orbit her. This is not where you want to be. You need to get away from them for a bit, work on yourse…
/r/askTRP30/01/14 04:37 AM
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That article should be titled - Husband Husbandry - How to manipulate your man to give you what you want without giving anything back!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 04:02 AM
2

Me and her are FUCKING GREAT now. Every chance we get, we bang. SHe doesn't get her feelings hurt by me as much because I know how to frame everything I say in a non-angry, yet still firm and masculine way.... Can you give an example of the difference in how you say things? Additionally, how long have you been taking TRP and how quickly did things start to change?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 02:53 AM
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Fucked up is what it is. Reality is fucked up. Media does a great job selling the blue pill dream doesn't it?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 12:56 AM
2

I understand what you were getting at, but in your scenario, these girls would only be exposed to a minimal number of potential mates (everyones too shy to meet right?) before choosing, if they could even choose any at all. Such a society would likely not be able to sustain it's own population without some driving force to get them out there meeting new potential mates. Without attraction their is less motivation to have sex. On the other hand, if at sometime in the future, her social circle exp…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 12:15 AM
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Honestly I would just drop it and find someone else unless you want to risk getting kicked out of the band. I've seen it happen too many times to friends when I was younger. You've got some serious oneitis going on there so it's gonna take some work. Read through the material in the sidebar and then look at her whole life and see if you notice any red flags. Hopefully that will make it easier on you. You have value. All of us do. Time to look at yourself in the mirror and recognize that you are …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:52 PM
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No. Don't think for a second that this is about an over saturated market. Even teenage girls like more alpha boys. Because of how we all evolved, they get gina tingles when they are shown displays of masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:37 PM
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I'd just warn her that if she pulls that bullshit you're NOT going to defend her. Your ass shouldn't pay for the shit her mouth is generating.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:34 PM
2

If you read Married Man Sex Life Primer you'll see that for a LTR some 'Beta' skills are essential to keeping your wife feeling comfortable in your relationship. He argues that manliness isn't about killing the beta to become the alpha, but is instead about adding the alpha while keeping the useful beta traits. Interesting stuff.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 07:00 PM
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I suppose the anger stems from me being a beta and being a white knight. Sounds like you've heard of the saying "What we hate in others is what we're ashamed of in ourselves"
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:39 PM
4

Stephen Hooton's comment there was pure gold "@Aprilrose - Fuck off, you're exactly what he was talking about. You came on this site to make everything about you."
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 04:25 PM
2

I think the 35k subscribed TRP users is the real reason to not give up hope for Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:45 PM
1

The hamster likes to stay hidden
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 05:25 AM
1

I knew it looked a little wrong!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:06 AM
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No worries - I haven't even seen this woman for over 12 years now. I stopped really regretting her when I moved on to my current wife, and in time came to be thankful of the lessons I learned while with her. TRP just gave me some additional peace of mind about all this - by helping to understand what happened really. The entire relationship started with a trip to Vegas to get married where she tried to give me the coles notes on 'Her" during the whole 2 day drive down there. I spent the next 1.5…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:03 AM
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My ex-wife said that we were at 'different stages'. Man I wasted a golden fucking pussy there. She tried to tell me red pill truths in that indirect way women do to ask for what they want but I just wasn't primed to listen at the time. I didn't know what to think when she hinted with her stories about her exes just taking her when they wanted her, like almost raping her. She also tried to fix my posture, dress nicer, and be more confident....
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 02:36 AM
1

Then I remember every woman who I wouldn't touch with a ten-foot poll who has sneered at me for having preferences they couldn't hope to match. I prefer to think of all the women that get offended when I list what I want in a woman. And this is usually after they just stopped doing the same thing....
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:16 PM
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also wanted to add that video games trick your mind into experiencing benefits (chemical, neurological). You're getting the same feeling of landing a skateboarding trick without any of the benefits of learning how to skateboard, making friends, looking cool, traveling, building frame, and so on. Video games are a shell you're building your life on. I've been playing video games for over 30 years. Yet somehow taking the red pill has killed my enthusiasm for playing. It just feels like a waste of …
/r/askTRP28/01/14 07:51 PM
2

You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy.
/r/askTRP28/01/14 07:45 PM
1

Our time is worth something. It's not wrong to demand value in return for value. To do otherwise risks turning yourself into a doormat serving everyone else's needs instead of our own. What is wrong is others manipulating you to give them something that they have not earned.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 06:46 PM
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Shhh.... leave the white knight alone. He's had a long day killing dragons in Skyrim
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 02:49 PM
2

High Intensity Training. You go full out for a set amount of time, rest, go again. Repeat until goal sets/reps/time completed.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 05:06 AM
6

Hypergamy rules all women yet they rationalization hamster so they don't realize.
/r/askTRP26/01/14 01:02 PM
2

Oh man I'm so sorry dude. At least now you know...
/r/askTRP26/01/14 12:17 PM
1

Dude. I think that so far I am the closest person to your situation that has responded so I hope I can help out a little bit here. Two years ago I got the "There is something wrong with me" speech in the middle of her suddenly going out with the girls to 'find herself'. Like you, I chose to believe everything was OK and she couldn't POSSBILE be cheating on me. But my gut instincts were sounding the alarm. So I snooped in her phone and found that she was flirting and starting an emotional affair …
/r/askTRP24/01/14 07:57 PM
3

Oh I didn't think it bothered you, but I think it's best to break the habit of saying it reflexively. I understand how automatically it comes though - I'm Canadian and saying "Sorry" at the drop of a hat is like wired into our heads from birth. Regardless though, it's still a word best avoided whenever possible.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 06:12 PM
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I'm sorry it displeased you. No need to be sorry. You said it, you meant it, now own it. Don't let anyone cow you like that. Not even GayLubeOil ;)
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 01:51 PM
2

You can live TRP and still be a decent person. Most of the guys here are trying to help each other out which speaks volumes in terms of character regardless of how controversial the subject matter is. Once you take the pill, all the hate from around the rest of reddit (and even the rest of the world at times) almost makes me feel like this is a brotherhood of sorts. I've never been a part of anything like that before and I must admit I kinda like it.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 01:47 PM
5

My god That's what SHE said!
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 03:51 AM
4

This is true so often here, It truly amazes me that so many people see only the bitterness. I guess that's due to solipsism and hamstering though
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 04:25 PM
6

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/14 02:17 PM
1

I hear you - I've been horribly shy with women in the past and somehow I still had relationships despite being heavily beta. Looking back I realize now that all these women chased me, not I them. I suspect (after taking TRP) that they took my shyness and and my lack of desire to conform to any social groups as the qualities of an "lone-wolf" Alpha. Then when I eventually got attached and went full Beta on them they lost interest and left.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 06:21 PM
5

Sometimes growing up and becoming wiser happens in quick and sparsely spaced out moments of realization. This is how taking the Red Pill has been for me. A whirlwind of understanding and connecting the dots in my past failed relationships. The end result has been a strange sort of peace. True understanding has a profound effect...
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 12:23 AM
2

I found an interesting article when I googled Men are the Romantics. The whole article is worth a read but this bit stood out: Who Suffers More From a Breakup? Men! The men felt lonelier, more depressed, unloved, and least free after a split. The men reported that they found it extremely hard to accept that they were no longer loved and that she had really gone. What disturbed them most was that they felt there was nothing they could do about it. They were plagued with the hope that if only they…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/14 11:50 PM
3

So true! Yet so many woman INSIST that they find male vulnerability attractive. Total and utter BS.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 04:56 PM
3

I wouldn't say that. It's not always really about becoming a man. It's about following the male body agenda, getting his dick wet and spreading his genes. The problem is when they start building an unrealistic vision of the person by desiring them from afar, so afraid to make the wrong move because they are emotionally invested in a fantasy girl. And then when that vision is smashed they tend to feel especially scorned because they've invested time and commitment with no end rewards.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 06:17 AM
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I think that the depths of a mans feelings plays a role here, as well as the reasons for the breakup. For example - My first chased me, and as a result I was never really emotionally attached to her. She was nice and I would ofter take her somewhere quiet and fuck. We were together for about 6 months before she developed a new crush. After a shamefully beta display of begging, I spent the next week hardly able to sleep at night, plotting how best to kill this other guy. The following week I took…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/14 05:30 AM
1

I'm going to offer a vague compromise. One of them said you can say "Hey amanda, wearing booty shorts makes me uncomfortable" but not "Hey amanda, change your pants" because then you're overly controlling her...? I propose that he knew it was gonna be touchy before he opened his mouth, thus the "cute butt" comment first, before he asked. In that case, he should simply have said, "Baby, that ass is too fine to share with my room mate - he might wet his pants. Can you save him the embarrasment and…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 12:52 AM
2

I want this one
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 11:15 PM
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Any concession is too much if you haven't established any modicum of authority in a relationship. Vocal feminists expect YOU to make all the concessions in a relationship. You're only a man after all....
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 01:10 PM
2

Arguing your beliefs against others re-enforces them and gets your message out there regardless. Every time TRP is highlighted negatively and the subscribers jump up is a good example of this.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 01:10 PM
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What has reddit ever given good advice on? TRP gives good advice. It really warms my heart a little every time one of these guys who gets shit on in places like /r/relationship shows up here. Has anyone sent this guy a PM yet?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 01:08 PM
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Holy crap! Even in the depths of my blue-pill days I would have been completely on this guys side. 1) Room mate is NOT his GF. He doesn't have the same investment in him. 2) Boy shorts are like mini yoga pants that leave nothing to the imagination while still revealing PLENTY of skin. 3) He has a right to feel uncomfortable in this situation, and if she respected him she would be trying to sympathize instead of seeing it as an attempt to control her All those poster are on fucking blue-pill crac…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 01:05 PM
1

Guilt is so beta, and it's what my soul feeds on. I'm learning to count my blessings rather than count my failures. I'm learning that I do have value, and that I control my own fate. No one else. I think this will be the hardest demon for me to slay as well. My parents were MASTERS of the guilt trip. In my weak moments were my frame slips I definitely feel it. If you're new here, read everything. Then, eat the parts you need. I rarely post here, because there's not much need. I still lurk, thoug…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 04:26 AM
2

I have to ask - how long have you been making the changes for now? How satisfied are you with what you have accomplished?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 03:51 AM
2

That's a good question. I've gone years between crying so it's hard to say. The last time was almost two years ago, and I was too busy skimming all the feel good, politically correct blue pill blogs and doing everything in my power to please my wife so I was doing multiple things wrong at the time.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 03:33 AM
5

I have children. When they cry, my wife goes and comforts them. On the very few occasions when I have cried in front of her, my wife looks vaguely confused and sits there staring at me because she just doesn't know how to handle it. She just can't help her natural response to see it as weakness so instead of getting angry that she wasn't there for me, I resolved to become less weak so that would not happen again.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 07:11 PM
3

My father never taught me any of this stuff, the same for a great many men nowadays. Don't worry about it. Regretting does no good. So go and learn what you need to know now.
/r/askTRP15/01/14 12:24 PM
13

Yes we don't!!
/r/seduction15/01/14 06:36 AM
-1

Welcome! I tried to help you out a bit in that thread there after it went south- I'm just reading through MMSL now myself. Unfortunately, it seems like most people tend to crowd source their belief structure now instead of coming up with their own....
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 07:56 PM
12

The problem is most men are asking the deer how it wants to be hunted rather than asking the hunters how best to catch deer. OF course the deer is going to mislead them. It wants to live.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 07:29 PM
10

.... only once the old timers have beat the proper message into our heads LOL.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 07:27 PM
2

As I always say, for every 1 butthurt dumbass, under the radar, we get 5 men who knows what's up and hit the subscribe. I didn't know what was up when I started reading this sub but I have always had an open mind for new/fresh ideas. Knowledge IS power.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 07:25 PM
2

I was banned from posting to /r/offmychest because I posted this comment to that thread: I wish there was a more masculine way of saying, "You hurt my >feelings." Guess what - It doesn't matter even if there was. All she will hear is "I'm weak" no matter how you say it. Now if you like this girl, man-up and make an honest to god play for her attention right now, while she's all confused, before she puts you all the way back in the friendzone. I'm pretty sure I've posted similar comments there be…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 05:52 PM
1

I get pretty anxious just trying to think of things to say. Are there any tricks to help get the mouth moving at all? I tend to get 'stuck' and then I have rely on the other person to keep the convo going which leads to awkward silences...
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 04:45 PM
2

Ya my self worth was pretty low back then. She also had issues religious and daddy issues for sure. She went away to university for 4 years and during the first year she was gone I had no less than 4 women attempt to corner me and seduce me (one literally!) in the first year she was gone and I rebuffed them all. 6 dry years later I came to my senses.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 05:13 PM
2

Although I agree with you that the hubby seems a little insecure, I think you're missing the point that OP has taken it open herself to try and determine what blame she has in these situations, so is asking for advice. I know your opinion is that she has none, and while that very well may be the case, she's still doing her homework and making sure.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/14 02:28 PM
2

Good on you for rising above that shit! I spent a good part of my life believing I was shit because my father would take his work frustrations out on me every night he came home. Yet here I am trying to rise above that crap just like you. If you lived closer, I'd buy you a drink.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 02:09 AM
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Which one of you posted this? no!! the bad boy rockstar dirtbag of her dreams will come along any minute now, and instead of fucking and chucking her, he will Give her a fairy tale wedding Pure gold!
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 01:19 AM
1

Also brave for running through the jungle to save a fellow soldier. I don't presume to give hi credit for this at all. It's one thing to understand the danger yet still go back, but that statement didn't apply to him at all.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 12:51 AM
1

She hadn't hit the wall yet so wasn't ready for the Beta Bux. I don't feel bad for either of them - She was just acting out her evolutionary biology and he was too stupid to give a shit. In his case, ignorance really was bliss!
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 12:48 AM
6

He's not sharing my gender. I'm not a mangina anymore LOL
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 12:41 AM
1

That site is not even active, along with several others in that list. I don't think the info there has been updated in a good long while
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 12:38 AM
-2

That's just the rationalization hamster hard at work mentally justifying what their body wants.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 10:18 PM
1

You're right of course. I've just started reading MMSL.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 10:04 PM
-1

That's why TRP exists - to help men keep their woman in line for their own good.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 03:45 PM
5

Yes it has! It takes a level of intelligence and cunning provided by a better brain for a physically weaker animal to kill a physically stronger animal and we've been doing that since at LEAST the cave man days of hunting wooly mammoths.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 01:56 PM
1

Indeed! It's when they go Beta bux that they start settling for what they don't actually want.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 01:51 PM
1

I waited for sex from a girl for 7 years.... from 17 - 24.... never did get laid. Thank god I woke up and dumped the bitch eventually.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 07:09 PM
2

TRP is an extreme view, make no mistake about it. You shouldn't concern yourself with how it looks from the outside - feminists aren't washing down their message, so why should we?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 05:14 PM
12

Maybe ID badges on a lanyard? Or a forehead tattoo. Microchips. Works for my cats, it will work for feminist pussy too.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 03:44 PM
1

Oh ya No More Mr Nice Guy was also in the order - thanks for reminding me
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 04:50 AM
1

How much do you want a woman? No really. If you're sitting in your room jerking it all the time you're never going to have the drive to go out there and find one. Start with some no fap and some basic exercise and see where that leads you. You won't even have to interact with anyone as a bonus.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 04:43 AM
2

My copies of MMSL and MAP will be arriving in the mail tomorrow. I'm fucking stoked!
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 04:29 AM
1

There is a perceivable difference between a genuine smile and a fake one. With a little direction and practice anyone can make a fake smile look very real.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:56 PM
1

Well obviously it's because an emo can't smile.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:54 PM
0

OMG That deer caught in the headlights look on that Beta Smile pic had me struggling not to laugh in front of my co-workers- thanks for that!
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:52 PM
1

It's hard to see past the programming unless you have a reason too. If his brain tells him it's steak, then it's steak, even if it's only tofu and bovril.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:17 PM
1

No - they are like the countless nameless masses in that movie that don't even recognize the truth when it's in right in front of them.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 04:15 PM
1

Try the 'over 30' clubs to start. You should at least be able to find some people at these places that can recommend better places to go. I know of one near me but I live in Canada.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 02:46 PM
6

I guess some part of my brain doesn't want to believe just how fucking right you guys are about everything. When that part of your brain does start to accept, I mean REALLY accept, beware of the bitterness that comes with it...
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 05:52 PM
2

Henry and the other guy in the car try to justify her actions Why? To keep the status quo between their two friends. Which keeps them both in misery. Ahh the sweet ignorance of youth....
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 05:04 PM
1

I agree completely. But I would be tempted...
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 11:33 PM
1

I have two young kids that epitome this statement.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 08:17 PM
3

Good on you. If I were you, after the way she twisted that knife in school, I would be tempted to send her a text: "Hey Babe! You wanted assholes when I wanted you. Now you want me but I'm an asshole. Thanks for reminiscing with me ;)"
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 05:02 PM
0

No I think you saw clearly through the OP's words here. Don't apologize when you believe you are right, only when you are proven wrong. PhiloxSophia was agreeing with you as well.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 03:07 PM
4

You choose the lens you view your reality through. I think this is the reality of the red pill. It's just another lens to see the world through.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 03:01 PM
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never Take a woman seriously. This knowledge would have save my first marriage. She tried to tell me how she was and what she liked but it was all BS. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 04:55 AM
10

Women who say TRP guys are awful are one of two types: Fat/Unattractive Non-laid Feminists. Just ignore them. Nothing they post should bother you. You're playing their game when you stoop to their level.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 05:59 AM
3

There were no life lessons, and when he would try to 'teach' me some of his skills, it turned into me watching him swear at inanimate objects while he did everything himself and taught jack shit. He can be very much an immature asshole. This sums up my dad far better than that article did. I taught myself how to shave by watching Gillette commercials.... I eventually grew up to be so beta that my ex-wife seriously asked me if I was gay :\
/r/becomeaman12/12/13 04:15 AM
1

My dad did too. Family of 5 kids growing up in the war and he was the second youngest. His dad "fucked off and left the family" (maybe was killed though) and his mom died giving birth to his younger brother when he was 5 or 6 years old. As a result, he had no true adult role models growing up and on top of that he saw some bad shit that he still doesn't like to talk about. I hated him well into my 20's but learned to forgive him later. The man made mistakes but he always tried to do right by sup…
/r/becomeaman12/12/13 03:47 AM
14

I've been lurking here for all of a week now and my introductions was similar to yours - I got into a disagreement with another user who was calling all the posters on /r/seduction idiots. I investigated and eventually came here. The level of maturity when handling all the hatred against this sub has really impressed me. Stooping to name-calling and insults is what you do before you grow up and learn to have rational discussions. I would say that I'm starting to take the Red Pill at the moment. …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 03:34 AM
1

We pretty much never fight anymore, we have more sex than ever. We simply get along WAY better. A lot of that is due to things I've read in this forum. Are there any specific things that stand out in your mind?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/13 01:25 AM
1

That's too bad... The Stand is still worth the read at 1400 pages
/r/seduction24/06/13 11:32 AM
1

The appropriate response here is: "Hell No! Shit happens. Give me a ring when you have some time so we can hang out and I can get to know you better."
/r/seduction19/04/13 04:53 PM
1

Like southern New York is all that much warmer?
/r/seduction09/03/13 03:03 PM
1

lmFao
/r/seduction12/04/12 02:05 AM
4

Maybe the dude was her SO and liked be cuckolded... only reasonable explanation I can see...
/r/seduction22/03/12 05:51 PM
8

But not a dick... Fine line I know...
/r/seduction28/01/12 07:02 AM
2

Sorry dude... I can't agree. I love 'em shaved...
/r/seduction13/01/12 01:28 AM
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