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| 1 | Men should just refuse to get marriedWomen are the ones who should refuse to get married. It's scientifically proven that married women earn less, are less healthy and less happy than their single counterparts. Besides, married women do more housework than single women. On the other hand, married men earn more, are happier and healthier. And they do less housework than single men. Marriage to women is like going to jail and being a slave. It's definitely a scam. Women are the ones who should refuse to get married. Single women thri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.I always find ironic when men say 25 year old women have hit the wall when most of them nowadays have a beer belly and a receding hair line before they turn 25. Also: most of them don't have enough money to pay for their own expenses and cannot hold a conversation that goes beyond soccer and video games. Also: men are those who are more likely to die alone and miserable while women usually thrive when they're single. Who's really hitting the wall here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 01:11 AM |
| 3 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingI've given up dating many men exactly because they were too lazy to pursue me or were pretending to be nonchalant. You're correct, OP. | /r/seduction | 22/08/23 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Reason why men with high need count isn't seen as red flag is bcz women don't care about itI actually do care about it. If I learn that the guy I'm dating has had sex with hundreds of women I don't want to mess with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How do women benefit from having a hoe phase?They only risk getting pregnant / getting a STD / being emotionally neglected and/or abused. Hookup culture is a scam for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Who else doesn't date people from broken homes and crappy families?I bet it does. It's never good for either men or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Who else doesn't date people from broken homes and crappy families?I'm just like you. I've dated a bunch of men who had divorced parents and/or abusive parents and the psychological damage inflicted on them was severe and perhaps irreparable. Because many men still refuse to go to therapy, they will have deep emotional wounds that will affect all their relationships . Perhaps if my exes went to therapy , things would be easier, but they refused to see a therapist. Nowadays, a man comes from a dysfunctional family I'll avoid dating him, unless I realize he's VER… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Who else doesn't date people from broken homes and crappy families?So you think unstable homes are ideal for a child to acquire resilience and character? That makes no sense. Stable homes are were children can feel safer and the best environment to teach the about the challenges they will face in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | When a man blatantly says he's the jealous type, you better believe he's a toxic, controlling and manipulative man.He actually had plans with his friends, I saw it on his Instagram. But I doubt he'd ever cancel his plans to be with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 04:11 PM |
| 46 | When a man blatantly says he's the jealous type, you better believe he's a toxic, controlling and manipulative man.I did. Gladly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | New to me LVM tacticThis a game to gauge your level of interest in him. An interested woman will suggest she wants to go there, an uninterested woman won't say anything. He's also using the push / pull technique : he suggests something nice to you and then pulls back to create attraction and manipulate you. Typical fuckboy move. Run for the hills. I've also noticed that some men like to gradually downgrade date ideas as they talk more and more to you. On the first day texting he may say he'll take out to have dinne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 04:13 AM |
| 15 | Is this a red flag?It's probably related to their upbringing, unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 03:57 AM |
| 4 | Is this a red flag?Unfortunately he was probably raised in a sexist home where women are supposed to clean and men are supposed to do nothing. His upbringing must have been very shitty and he's probably a spoiled momma's boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 03:57 AM |
| 10 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!Look at the amount of awards that post got. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 03:54 AM |
| 22 | Piggybacking off of the not clapping back at men who neg you post. What are some examples of negging that men have done to you?The first one is a CLASSIC, TEXTBOOK negging strategy, straight out from manosphere blogs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 10:40 AM |
| 125 | Piggybacking off of the not clapping back at men who neg you post. What are some examples of negging that men have done to you?Taking the last sentence into consideration, I hope that was the third and last date you had with a guy. He's a walking red flag and probably has many issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 10:37 AM |
| 85 | Piggybacking off of the not clapping back at men who neg you post. What are some examples of negging that men have done to you?I'm an ophthalmologist and I've been chatting with this very succesful lawyer for a while. He's a Pisces and I told him that's my favorite Zodiac sign and then he joked saying he'd give a fish bowl since I love fishes. Then I told him I used to have fishes before but I bought a female fish by accident and she was pregnant. She gave birth to many baby fishes and I didn't know what to do with them. Then he says "wow. An Ophthalmologist who doesn't know how to tell the difference between male and f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | “If she doesn’t put out by the third date, she’s not into you bro.”These men are so stupid that they won't even realize that if many women are not willing to have sex so soon, they'll spend a lot of time wining and dining MANY WOMEN in order to have sex soon but sex won't happen. They'll rotate among more women who are not willing to have sex with them within 3 dates and spend MORE AND MORE MONEY instead of just being a grown man, thinking with their brains and not his penis, and WAIT until that woman is comfortable to have sex with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Have you dated a man that can actually clean up?My father cleans up the entire house for my mom.. There are men who can clean up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:14 PM |
| 102 | Do not date men who are “separated”.I don't date men who are separated, divorced or who have children. I don't need extra problems in my life besides the inherent hassle of dating a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:13 PM |
| 143 | Never beg a man to marry youThis poor woman will never understand this man married her not out of love, but out of convenience. He never truly wanted to get married to begin with. It will either be a miserable marriage or divorce will come very soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:12 PM |
| 8 | Do not accept negging at all. It's always made to make you feel insecure so that you emotionally depend on them for validation.I'm an ophthalmologist and I've been chatting with this very succesful lawyer for a while. He's a Pisces and then he joked saying he'd give a fish bowl since I love fishes. Then I told him I used to have fishes before but I bought a female fish by accident and she was pregnant. She gave birth to many baby fishes and I didn't know what to do with them. Then he says "wow. An Ophthalmologist who doesn't know how to tell the difference between male and female fishes? Funny story." I answered: "I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 10:03 PM |
| 84 | Kinds of men that should be a deal-breaker but aren't, for majority of women, idk why. Note: some are a mix of all these.I'll add to this list men who are way too close to their mothers men who have resentment against their fathers men who are way too close to his male friends and most of his friends are single and party hard men who don't have any hobbies or passions men who don't have any goals for the future men who make very bad grammar mistakes men who think deep conversations are boring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 08:02 PM |
| 108 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manThis is 100% true. I've dated grown men who treated his friends as if they were still in their university days and it's very stressful. These men dedicate their time and affection to their male friends, not women. And this is not the only disadvantage. Every move this man makes in a relationship with you is always discussed with his friends and everything he does to you needs to be approved by his friends. If he has any redpilled, jealous or generally mean male friend, this friend will do everyt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 07:58 PM |
| 63 | “Communicating” gives LVM the perfect opportunity to gaslight youThat's why the minute I see a man being NVM I block and delete him and if he starts pulling away I don't say anything. If he doesn't reach out, it's because he's not interested. If he's not interested, I'm not interested either. I don't need to teach men how to be polite and dignified. I'm not their mother. Men don't do that to women, either. Men don't call out women. Women should not call out men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 02:46 AM |
| 424 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen."I even broke off contact with another girl I had a date with to give this a real shot" Wow, what a great dude. He's not even ashamed to say that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:20 PM |
| 13 | Do NOT procreate with bum ass men!That's why I refuse to have sex outside a committed relationship. I only commit to HVM. If I ever get pregnant, I know a HVM will be the father of my child, not an irresponsible manchild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 11:37 AM |
| 4 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.My lifestyle makes OLD the only way to meet men. And yes there are many LVM online but there are many LVM offline as well. And honestly? I'd rather meet a man online and talk about his interests and values before meeting him in person than meeting a man organically at a bar or nightclub where the likelihood of meeting a NVM is super high. Vetting is the key, you should always vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 11:36 AM |
| 17 | Testing for "sexual compatibility" is a bullshit lie to cross boundaries and get sexI agree. The likelihood of having orgasm in PIV sex is much higher if a woman has a strong emotional connection with a man. Hookup culture is harmful to women for several reasons and this is only one of them. Casual sex only benefits men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 07:06 PM |
| 22 | Testing for "sexual compatibility" is a bullshit lie to cross boundaries and get sexExactly. Considering that men have orgasms in PIV sex much more often than women, women are the ones who should be concerned about sexual compatibility, not men. Men cum after sex 99,999% of times. Meanwhile many women have never had an orgasm from penetration. And men know that. Casual sex is much less risky and more pleasurable to men than women. Men should cut the BS and stop trying to pretend they're the vulnerable ones if sex isn't good because even if sex is sub-par they cum and they don't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 06:06 PM |
| 87 | Testing for "sexual compatibility" is a bullshit lie to cross boundaries and get sexIt's funny how men say they need sex to see if they're willing to commit or not but a woman is ignored when she says she needs exclusivity and commitment before having sex. These men act as if it would be impossible for them to make a woman his girlfriend. This is insane. It's like Evan Marc Katz says, if the worst possibility happens, and sex sucks tremendously, you can always break up. And these men know that. But they're not willing to lose the privilege of dating multiple women only to figur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 11:52 AM |
| 5 | Y’all do not be hating LVM enough for me.Some women - like me - have very busy schedules and there's simply no way to meet a man organically in my case. Unfortunately I have to turn to OLD because my area is terrible to meet anyone. That being said, actively pursuing a relationship is not bad if that doesn't make you suffer or if that isn't preventing you from enjoying the other aspects of your life. I am a very happy single woman but I'm also actively searching for someone and it's fine. If it doesn't work, it's fine as well. The most… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 11:47 AM |
| 279 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Men will get offended by menstrual blood but a woman has to clean this kind of mess?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 11:40 AM |
| 9 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!He only said that after the 3rd date, that's why I thought he was boyfriend material before. I dropped him quickly after the 3rd date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 07:59 PM |
| 15 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!Thank you sooo much for the gold, I'm glad I could help. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:16 AM |
| 20 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!I only have one thing to add on the fading away. He probably found another girl to start over the same process and keeps you as a back up. They don’t really disappear when they can’t manipulate you they’re to weak. They disappear when they have another option. I'm sorry you had to go through all of this. It really sucks. And Exactly. The reason why he disappeared during the weekends was probably because he was dating another girl and I was the backup because I wouldn't have sex with him. Also: n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:52 AM |
| 28 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!Yeah I think what's most important here is to check if his attitudes match his words. It doesn't matter if he tells you he loves you, it doesn't matter if he claims you're his girlfriend - is he acting like a boyfriend? Is he being consistent? DO HIS WORDS MATCH HIS ATTITUDE? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:44 AM |
| 25 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!I've done it because this kind of man is very dangerous and honestly I could only dodge a bullet because I've met a very dangerous narcissist before (luckily, I also didn't have sex with him) so I quickly knew what kind of man I was dealing with. I'm glad I could be helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:42 AM |
| 55 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!Mirroring is a very classic strategy, and fuckboys and narcissists use it very often. They'll fake compatibility, emotional closeness and they'll also mirror the way you speak and express yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:41 AM |
| 22 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!I don't know HG Tudor, thanks for the recommendation. I agree with you, he has very clear narcissistic traits. If he really adored me and found me so incredible, he wouldn't have pulled away so quickly like he did. He was just one very fake bastard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:40 AM |
| 48 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!EXACTLY. They want the chase and they want to know they made a HVW have sex with them. They want to be sure they managed to deceive her. It's sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:38 AM |
| 21 | Beware of fuckboys who pretend to be HVM - mistakes I've made and how I dodged a bullet!I've never met a man who tried to have sex with me in the movies, only kiss and make out - which is fine to me, as long as he doesn't try to do anything explicitly sexual. Honestly I don't usually meet a man and immediately tell him about my sexual boundaries. I only do that when men pressure me to have sex with them, and then I'll tell them what I expect from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:37 AM |
| 55 | "Do you want to hang out sometime?"I've heard this multiple times and lots of variations. "Tell me when you're free so that we can have coffee or lunch" "If you're free this Saturday you could ask me out" "If you wish call me in this number and we can make plans" No, dude. I don't wish anything. Stop trying to MAKE ME work for something that YOU WANT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 06:09 AM |
| 7 | I experienced a switcheroo by a soft boy who ended up extorting my emotional investmentWow. I'm shocked. It seems like we have dated the same guy. (If you want to see my story, it's here). Men are now used to manipulating women into thinking they're boyfriend material and that they're willing to become exclusive, when in fact they're not. They just want to fake intimacy and make you trust them enough so that you have sex with them and they'll kick you to the curb. When they realize you're not going to have sex with them so soon, they may answer "oh that's fine. I'm willing to wait… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 11:58 AM |
| 6 | How do you deal with HVM that know they have options?Warning: some manipulative, narcissistic men can fake very well the "fuck yes" attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 10:19 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with HVM that know they have options?If he's a HVM he won't cheat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 10:13 PM |
| 32 | “Scrote’s response to: “What sacrifice have you made to save for a down payment?”The way he says it with no remorse shows he's a psychopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 03:24 PM |
| 10 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.That's the clearest sign a man has good intentions: he will wanting to see you even after you tell him you won't have sex outside a relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 03:17 PM |
| 21 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.Yes and we have to know if the guy isn't a jerk, a STD filled mess or a psychopath. These men should understand that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 02:23 PM |
| 13 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.Also: that's why we need to stick our sex boundaries. If a man treats you like shit because you didn't have sex with him, he's spoiled and entitled. Imagine what he would do if you actually had sex with him. I pity these women who are willing to do that. Men nowadays say they want traditional conservative women but they bail when they find a woman with standards. Go figure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 02:22 PM |
| 14 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.Thank you so much for posting this. I really needed to read it. And what's worse: sometimes we feel guilty and think maybe there's something wrong with us or that perhaps we did something wrong to them. When in fact their sudden change of behavior has nothing to do with us, they were just playing with us. They also fake intimacy and make us give them emotional support when they don't even deserve it. And it hurts, because they cut contact even if you were kind and generous to them. They don't gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 02:20 PM |
| 10 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.You're more than good enough for a serious relationship. Men with their pornified brains hardwired to abuse women are not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Thank you very much, I will check it out :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:53 AM |
| 8 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Yeah, you're right. He just wanted me as a source of knowledge (and sex). He didn't want to develop any kind of emotional connection with me. Now thinking retrospectively, he barely asked things about me. He was never truly interested in me as a person, only in what I could provide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:53 AM |
| 6 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Yeah he was REALLY HOT, and making out with him felt amazing. Like any other player, he knows very well how to kiss, flirt and turn on a Woman. But he doesn't know how to behave like a man. He mentioned sex numerous times. He wanted to sext me numerous times but I didn't fall into that trap. I'm glad I resisted his advances, and honestly it's not hard for me to do it. I get horny but I'm very rational. My only issue is that I create expectations in my mind and I give too much emotional support a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:49 AM |
| 10 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Yes. And honestly I believe that if a man is truly interested in you, he will INVEST in that relationship. He won't simply give up after 4 dates. These guys want quick sex and that's it. They don't want to spend money on a Woman who won't have sex with them as quickly as they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 10:50 PM |
| 8 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Well while I was making out with him and things got steamy he asked me if I wanted to go to his place and I refused. He then decided to slow things down because it was clear he had an erection (sorry for the explicit details but yeah, I had to explain how it went) so we just kept kissing here and there and talking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:53 PM |
| 8 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Do you know any post here in FDS that says more about Red Pill Tactics? I've been searching a few things and also reading the handbook but I didn't find much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | common redflags in f*ckboys"acting like he just saw jesus weeping through your pupils" Thanks for the amazing post and the great laugh I had right now by reading this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 08:18 PM |
| 13 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Yeah you're spot on. I think he's both. He's immature and he found a pickmeisha to have sex with. Now I can only imagine the psychological trauma that poor woman will go through after having sex with this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 38 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.You're absolutely right. We must have sexual AND emotional boundaries. And refuse to do what a girlfriend would do - give emotional support. If we're not their girlfriends, we shouldn't do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:16 PM |
| 25 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.So this note taking crap is a common trick? Wtf... Seriously what's wrong with men these days? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 05:55 PM |
| 16 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Wow that's quite devastating. I've never been in a FWB situationship but to think that men would reject having a FWB only because they feel good about degrading a woman is sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 05:52 PM |
| 33 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Agreed. Any man who's manipulative like that is definitely not a good person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:57 PM |
| 16 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.I'm glad you've realized he's already manipulating you and trying to create a false sense of intimacy. Just run as fast as you can. Having sex with this man and becoming closer and closer to him will only make your life miserable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:56 PM |
| 86 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Also: a prostitute doesn't give them the thrill of the chase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:16 PM |
| 44 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.We were talking about how to deal with anxiety and I was giving him tips on how to do it. He was taking notes on that. He also took notes when I talked to him about the spiritual values I learned throughout my life. Now looking retrospectively I realize what a greatly deceiving and manipulative man he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:14 PM |
| 64 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Yeah, same. I think he was VERY interested in me. That means: VERY interested in having sex with me, as well. But he's probably very spoiled and selfish, so he isn't willing to wait, he isn't willing to respect my boundaries and he has no patience to get to know me better. Men can be very interested in a woman and think she's super hot, interesting and intelligent, but at the same time they don't get emotionally invested - no matter how much they pretend they are. So yeah, they can invest a lot … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:12 PM |
| 115 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Yeah, I see where you're coming from. I think women should refrain from being too emotionally available to men at the beginning for the following reasons: He'll think you're too available to him and that you don't have anything more useful to do than giving him emotional support for hours; He'll think you're more invested in the relationship than him. He didn't do anything significant to earn this attention from you and yet you're giving it freely. (I'm a very generous and helpful person. I'm a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:02 PM |
| 87 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Yes it is. It's like a free date. They won't take you out to talk you over coffee so they talk to you for free on FaceTime until you feel safe enough to have sex with them. The moment I told him I would only have sex with a man I really trusted, he decided to FaceTime me everyday. Of course it was a trap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 02:24 PM |
| 53 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Yeah I'm over him already. It's done. Lesson learned. I'll stick to my sexual boundaries. And I'm glad I did so. And now I've learned I have to cut the bullshit right from the beginning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 02:23 PM |
| 41 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Hmm I get your point, I hadn't realized that. You're absolutely right. Perhaps the fact I was very attracted to him really made me not see things clearly. But anyway... At least I didn't have sex with him. That's why we should NEVER have sex soon. And I'm pretty sure he had at least an ounce of dignity he would never have answered me "soon". A serious man would be eager to meet me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 02:22 PM |
| 40 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Also: yeah I could see the game behind his "I miss you". That's why I asked him when. I wanted to see what he would do, if he would bail or not. I would never EVER ask him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:56 PM |
| 97 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.You're absolutely right. Thank you for your advice. But I'm not gonna lie, I was very attracted to him and we were having a very interesting conversation. But yeah, I should have known better. At least I didn't have sex with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:54 PM |
| 53 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.It is indeed. Especially for an immature man like him. He still has the mindset of a horny frat boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:51 PM |
| 48 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Yeah, this is a classic one. They'll act as if they're boyfriend material at the beginning, say things like "when you meet my parents" and so it goes... Then they'll say "oh I'm open to a serious relationship, sure, of course I am." When he said that, I saw the red flags everywhere. But I had already made my decision, I wouldn't have sex with him outside a relationship so I decided to see where it would go. Well, I have my answer now. A bullet has been dodged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:49 PM |
| 190 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Exactly. And this guy is 31 years old. If a grown man is still spending his weekends hungover I'll consider it a major red flag. It's like this guy is still trying to live the way he lived during his sorority days. You've already graduated, dude. Get your shit together. PS - i don't even think he was actually hungover, I think he was having sex with someone else. But anyway, he was either a player or just plain immature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:44 PM |
| 9 | Before deleting the number of a LVM who was being hot and cold and using TRP strategies on me, I called him out. It was fantastic.I know. I just needed to tell this specific guy a few words. I don't regret doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Why are the women doing all the work?! (linked article)Aaaand that's why I am a volcel. I don't want sex, I don't want to be married, I don't want to be in a relationship with a man in 2021. Too much hassle and no rewards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 01:44 AM |
| 13 | PSA: You don’t owe anyone analSame goes for blow Jobs and swallowing cum. Cum is not tasty. We don't have have to swallow anything only because some porn star does that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 01:35 AM |
| 5 | PSA: You don’t owe anyone analFirst things first: you don't owe anyone SEX. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 01:34 AM |
| 5 | What in the holy pickmeisha gaslit denial is this horror show that I am reading???I'm laughing out loud here. This pickmeisha really thinks her bf didn't cheat on her. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 8 | What are your thoughts on Cardi B & Meg thee Stallion’s WAP?It has pickmeisha energy too. If you want to desperately show a man you are good in bed and that he will love your p**** and whatever, well... This kind of desperate attitude is something a pickmeisha would have too. A woman can be confident about her sexual abilities without being desperate to brag about them only to attract or please men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:37 AM |
| 1 | If a man is evil against women, he is EVIL as a whole. I've once met a psychopath and today I found the proof he is a horrible person AND a racist.He's Spanish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 06:05 AM |
| 5 | Everytime you think about your ex or that man who hurts you, direct this energy to find something about your life that must be improved.I mentioned world travel as an example, like I said, many people have their own ambitions, aspirations and also limitations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 03:28 AM |
| 5 | Everytime you think about your ex or that man who hurts you, direct this energy to find something about your life that must be improved.Wow I'm really happy for you and your self-improvement! Our confidence and self-love are great shields to protect us against these predators. Once we learn how to love ourselves and feel good about ourselves, we don't need validation from anybody else and we're not vulnerable to the tactics of dangerous men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:08 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] The majority of women are not principled, they chose what benefits them the mostBut many men are contradictory in their expectations of what women should do in a relationship as well. Many men expect the woman to take care of the house, have children and take care of them, cook, have sex whenever they want (traditional values). However, although they expect the woman to have a traditional role at home, they don't want to play THEIR PART in the traditional roleplaying - which means, they don't want to be the providers and pay for the house bills, pick up the tab, and etc. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:50 AM |
| 16 | I Still Can’t Tell If Y’all Think Women Should be MORE Selective Or LessEvery human being should be selective about who they have sex with in 2020. Sex involves risking getting someone pregnant, getting a STD, being raped, BEING MURDERED, being abused, being dumped later on... It's the most intimate connection a human can have with another human. It shouldn't be taken lightly. We should ALL be more selective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:45 AM |
| 6 | Men dont really believe "Sex comes before commitment" or "Sex comes before love" do they?I read your comment and saw your username and thought "wow, is this a guy? HE REALLY GETS WOMEN! WTF! SUCH A RARE SPECIMEN!" and then I was skimming through your comment history and could see you're a woman. Of course. No man could have such deep understanding of a woman's nature, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Men dont really believe "Sex comes before commitment" or "Sex comes before love" do they?I don't like DiCaprio. Let's say I prefer Sam Rockwell. And I wouldn't have sex with him just after I met him. Not my thing. I don't even know his values, who he really is, what he believes in. I don't have sex with strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Men dont really believe "Sex comes before commitment" or "Sex comes before love" do they?You're absolutely right. Whenever a woman has sex with a man, she risks being raped , harassed, getting a STD, becoming pregnant and not having child support, being ignored right after that one night stand, etc. Many women are tired of the neglect and the feeling of being used, that's why they refuse to have sex early on a relationship until they find a real emotional connection and until they FEEL the guy doesn't see her solely as a sex object and nothing else. There's nothing worse for a woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Everytime you think about your ex or that man who hurts you, direct this energy to find something about your life that must be improved.Do it! I can assure you it will calm you down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Everytime you think about your ex or that man who hurts you, direct this energy to find something about your life that must be improved.Yeah you're right. I had been wallowing for a long long time before I realized that was no dignified life to be lived. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Everytime you think about your ex or that man who hurts you, direct this energy to find something about your life that must be improved.No one can ‘teach’ that; you either believe it or you don’t. I totally agree. We only change when we're READY to change. Nobody can do that work for us. We all have the right time to experience things and the right time to process them and learn from them. It's a waste of time to try to convince an unwilling woman that she has a lot to learn about life and relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 01:15 AM |
| 7 | Everytime you think about your ex or that man who hurts you, direct this energy to find something about your life that must be improved.ly I've realized that I would like to try exploring the world as a solo traveller, or with friends. It would be a great learning experience. I have been embracing being single and enjoying my own company. That's the best decision you could make! Also, traveling solo is an amazing shortcut to self-knowledge! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 01:13 AM |
| 30 | This woman learnt that men will date/make out with her if she asks them out *shocking*I saw this on that cesspool called DatingOver30. Many men in the thread encouraging that poor woman to ask men out. Of course they'd do that. They don't even have to stand up and detach their asses from their chairs to approach a woman. They know the silly LVW will approach them, desperate for their attention while all they have to give in return is neglect, stupidity, boring conversations and mediocre, reckless sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:41 PM |
| 19 | A cautionary tale of a narcissistic finance broHe's a textbook narcissist. I'm grossed out about what he told you after that makeout session. This guy is a sick pervert. Also, when he said he need time to decide which girl to choose.... Really? This guy ego's is sky-high. And I'm not surprised because he's an investment banker and men who have highly paid professions such as bankers, traders, doctors, lawyers, politicians, entertainment moguls, etc usually have huge egos and are dangerous narcissists. I'm a medical doctor myself and I've nev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:37 PM |
| 19 | Make 👏🏼your👏🏼own👏🏼food!I call this kind of men pseudo-conservatives. They demand conservative and traditional values from women because it benefits them - who doesn't like a free maid to clean your house, do your dishes and then have sex with you? But when it comes to their duties as a providers, they quickly become liberals and even "FEMINISTS" and claim that a woman should split the bills because after all "eQuAl rIGhTs". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:42 PM |
| 27 | I am finally kicking my husband to the curb this weekend and he doesn't know.I am so happy you're getting rid of him. He will ruin your finances if you don't do it. My father retired from his job and after that my mother found out he had a 300k credit card debit. YES. A 300K CREDIT CARD DEBT. She had to pay for everything. Then she found out my father owed 100k In taxes he had never paid and was risking going to jail. She had to pay for it again because otherwise she would lose her house. Anyway. She spent 400k on my father's mistakes. Now she made him find a new job, ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:13 PM |
| 58 | These two tweets sum up perfectly why “not being like other girls” is NOT a compliment!When a man says that, if also means that he sees other women in a demeaning way. Huge red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:09 PM |
| 39 | He wouldn't walk me to my carwere raised by neanderthals and sadly darwinism didnt get to them yet. LMAO I SCREAMED HERE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:59 AM |
| 31 | He wouldn't walk me to my carWHAT AN ASSHOLE, FOR FUCK'S SAKE. Seriously, this really literally made me choke on my coffee. You really have to come the deepest depths of assholeness and ridiculousness to act like this guy did. IF IT'S A SAFE AREA WHY DIDN'T HE WALK YOU TO YOUR CAR? Coward. Loser. Wimp. Seriously, I'm mad at this guy right now. Men nowadays are literally a joke. You really, really dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020not only that - you're seeing that there's a good amount of women who are MAD AT HIM. Imagine what he's been doing to all these women! Don't be his next prey! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020I'm sorry that you're experiencing such a thing. Asian women are easily fetishized by men and it's disgusting how racist and sexist they can be. I'm not Asian, but I'm Brazilian and I have to deal with a good amount of fetishization myself from American men and foreign men. The minute they know I'm Brazilian they start making assumptions, thinking that I can dance samba, asking me inappropriate things such as "so is it true that Brazilians are better at sex?" "what's this whole Brazilian wax thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:49 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020I'd ask him "what do you mean by "chill" ? And see where he goes from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020Almost an utopia, I'd say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:35 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/20/2020We ran into the girl he was seeing before meeting me and she wasn't happy to see him. Some random girl he used to date back in November drunk dialed him one night when we were together. MAJOR RED FLAG. Run for the hills. This guy is a professional player. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:32 AM |
| 7 | No, I don't want no scrubs / A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me /Hangin' out the passenger side of his best friend's ride / Trying to holla at meMany men nowadays don't have the car AND don't have the dick. And yet they act as if they had both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:28 AM |
| 19 | Anyone else notice that men are slowly making the word “porn” a synonym for “obsession”? I’m seeing in everywhere .. “food porn”, “word porn” and now “cabin porn”? How can we call this depravity out, and STOP IT?!Yeah, I've noticed this pornification of popular culture, either in expressions, memes, etc. I'm not surprised because in a depraved society ruled by pornsick men, things like that would be inevitable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:27 AM |
| 11 | Time to join FDS, sis!Sometimes if they do, they'll like 6 other girls' selfies as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:26 AM |
| 41 | We are really expected to be work mules from birthGirl isn't even born and is expected to be a housemaid already. I have no hopes for the modern man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:25 AM |
| 98 | We are really expected to be work mules from birthThis is provably one of the most devastating stories I have ever read in Reddit. I hope things work out in a better way for your cousin and that she find a way to have higher education. No family has the right to waste a woman's potential to develop her intelligence and her career. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:24 AM |
| 2 | THIS.You're welcome! I've been in very dark places punishing myself for my past mistakes and I've learned it's not worth it. You don't deserve this kind of self flagellation either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Infuriating moviesYeah, same. But you know, this movie was written and directed by Noah Baumbach who experienced his parents' divorce and his own breakup with actress Jennifer Jason Leigh. I don't expect a MAN to tell a story about divorce without a HUGE bias to support the male point of view. But it's insane how the movie depicts women in a toxic way. Not only the wife is depicted as the villain, her attorney is shown in a bad way too. They show that she's vile, shallow, wears inappropriate clothes in the courtr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 03:09 AM |
| 17 | He madImagining reducing yourself to the supposed (and, by the way, false) tricks you can do with your tongue only to have sex with a woman. And then men will say WE WOMEN subject ourselves to degrading acts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.If she got cheated 4 times and didn't change her attitude, there's a deep deep psychological issue that she has to work on. No mentally healthy person can endure such kind of abuse for such a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 55 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡THERE ARE SO MANY REASONS WHY a woman shouldn't have sex with a man on the first date. And I'm not talking about being a prude or whatever. I'm talking about PROTECTING yourself. You should NEVER have sex with a man on the first date (or the second, or the third, or the fourth, which means, NOT BEFORE you know who he really is, where he works, his friends, family, values, etc, because): - YOU DON'T KNOW HE'S A SERIAL KILLER OR A PSYCHOPATH (this should be the main reason why you don't get a laid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 40 | LibFems: A real man won’t judge you for sleeping with him on the first night! So go ahead and hand over your body to a man right away*before* you know if he’s a real man or not and spend the next few days trying to figure out if you made the right choice! It’s empowering to take chances on LVM! 🤡Apparently these libfems never visited TRP and saw how men there talk about "plates" and "plate spinning" strategies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 30 | First time being actually single>Thank you for keeping my standards high. You have to thank YOURSELF for the effort, sis! YOU DID it, not FDS. Congratulations for that, and I'm really happy for you! As someone who's been 100% single for 5 years, I must tell you that being truly single is addictive. You experience a kind of freedom and confidence you never did before. Being completely single is a great opportunity to embark on a REAL JOURNEY of self-knowledge and self-development. You'll truly know who you really are, what you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:33 PM |
| 2 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.I also think that just because a guy is respectful doesn’t mean he still does not see a woman as just a placeholder. That’s why it’s important to look at actions. EXACTLY! Some men are not evil or players or whatever. They simply decide they're not in the mood for a serious relationship. They simply make up their minds they DO NOT want that girl as their girlfriends, for numerous reasons, and that's it, they won't change their reasoning, most of the time. It's useless to try to convert a FWB int… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:27 PM |
| 3 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.I don't even have sex with a guy with whom I don't have an emotional connection, so I totally get where you're coming from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:24 PM |
| 5 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.In general a guy has to be extremely attractive for me to want casual sex, and also have a personality I like, so by the time I'm letting him do it I've already had a huge crush. So now I just dont. They have to care about me so I dont get hurt. And I've had many only see me as a something to use and throw me away. Even guys I have a crush on I normally wouldnt date due to other huge red flags, if I had sex with them I would suddenly feel attached. This caused me lots of unnecessary pain. I coul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.Oh of course I by no means want to make an absolute generalization here. I was just bringing biological reasoning that can be used as evidence for male behavior in relationships. I'm happy for you that things had a satisfactory ending! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | THIS.And that's the right way to look at your mistakes. Some people become depressed and start a self-deprecating journey instead of learning from your bad choices. It's impossible to live this life without having disappointments and making mistakes. So the only way to survive without trauma - or minimal trauma - is to learn how to outgrow them and learn from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:16 PM |
| 5 | THIS.We've all been there, sis. that's why we're here, improving step by step... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:04 PM |
| 11 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.SO MANY men can't handle that you don't want to date them or don't see them as boyfriend material and become ruthless afterwards. Exactly. Some men only see women as givers - they must give them attention, love, sex, house chores, etc. When we tell them we're not willing to be their givers, they'll show their true colors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.Yes! More power to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:03 PM |
| 4 | THIS.I was really stupid at that age, too. I would beg for a guy to talk to me. We usually do this kind of things at this age. But these experiences and mistakes help us mature and grow into better women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:02 PM |
| 4 | THIS.Don't judge yourself, it's not worth it. You did what you found to be the best possible decision back then. Now you're a different person and you're making better choices. It's not worth it punishing yourself with this kind of thoughts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:02 PM |
| 3 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.I'm sorry you had to go through such a bad experience. Men deal with feelings and emotions in a very different way women do. I'm not saying they're incapable of falling in love and connecting with someone but they're really practical. When they decide a girl is not a keeper, they very rarely change their mind. Meanwhile, the girl is falling in love with a guy who never wanted something serious with her... The perfect formula for a disaster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:01 PM |
| 5 | THIS.Which is a HUGE MISTAKE. You don't give validation to a man who hurt you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:59 PM |
| 6 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.Another piece of evidence that proves men think like that is The Red Pill and how they decide a woman will be a "plate" or a "keeper". One of their main rules is - never promote a "plate" to a "keeper". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:58 PM |
| 13 | "Trad" pickme says she'd even accept a silicone engagement ring and that OP oughtn't expect to have a say in her ring. Turns out she's a forever girlfriend!Yes, pickmeishas. Do conform with the silicone ring. That will allow him to save money, money he'll spend with his mistress in a few years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:50 PM |
| 6 | why I'm against paid nudesYes. And this commoditization of women, when voluntarily done by women, only reinforces the idea, perpetrated by men, that women are useful for nothing but sex, and that women themselves don't think they're more than sexual objects. That since our bodies and our intimacy can be bought, a man is entitled to have sex with us, because sex is no part of our individuality or dignity, but just a "thing" they can buy and demand from us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 05:46 PM |
| 4 | THIS.YES, because most of them are narcissistic or have some narcissistic traits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 05:44 PM |
| 39 | She’s got her priorities straightMake sure you put the noisy and smelly creature that makes your house dirtier and messier and only thinks about sleeping and eating all day long in the backseat. So choose the man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | If we are being generous...Men make EVERYWHERE look dirtier and messier. And 99,9% of them are incapable of making a woman orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:32 PM |
| 26 | why I'm against paid nudesIt's not ethical porn. It still portrays women's bodies and women's intimacy as a commodity that can be bought, evaluated and consumed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 25 | Infuriating movies"Marriage Story". Adam Driver's character is a f-ing asshole who can't accept the fact that his wife wants to improve her career but yet he's portrayed as the damn victim of the situation the whole movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 10 | I can't tell if he just called himself a dog or thinks I see him as one... but point is: he completely missed MY point. 🚮🚮🚮He's gaslighting you and portraying himself as the victim - he's only a poor dog begging for your attention and you refuse to do it. Not a surprise, considering that men usually take for granted women's complaints and will always twist the situation in their favor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:20 PM |
| 33 | Him: i love her as a friend! Yeh she has a nice body and she’s a flirt... but we’ve known each other for years!"She’s a bit of a slut but she’s a nice girl” That sentence itself is a good reason to dump his ass. I'm glad you're not dating him anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:17 PM |
| 10 | LibFems really convinced an entire generation of women that porn was healthy, normal, & empowering while claiming to want to end rape culture. Because porn has always been respectful of women’s bodies and boundaries and a *great* model for establishing consent! 🤡They also created this abomination called "feminist porn". There is no way to be a feminist and make porn at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:08 PM |
| 80 | Many pickmeisha traits are nothing more than repackaged narcissism. Reject this in yourself before it is too late, and keep it gone.Pickmeishas are usually co-dependents of a relationship with a narcissistic man. They are desperate for validation and they submit themselves to the most degrading and humiliating acts only to get some crumbs the narcissistic man throws at her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:07 PM |
| 13 | Dumped the FWB LVM Last NightYes! More power to you! Enough with being free prostitutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 55 | When Pickmeisha's and FDS'ers meet in the wildLol sometimes I catch myself looking at couples in the mall or something like that and I start thinking how miserable I'd be dating that stupid man and then the woman looks at me livid thinking I'm actually flirting with the guy when I'm actually thinking "wtf girl, why are you wasting your time with this stinky ass of a man" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:03 PM |
| 19 | Can relateThe most common fetish among men, y'all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 66 | To all my lovely cat ladies out there!I love it when people say "if you keep acting like this, you'll scare men away" Uhh.... That's the point!!!??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:56 PM |
| 9 | Here we go with some more LVM "logic". Why are they so textbook?This is vile in so many ways. First, "reformed slut". Then, notice how he talks about self respect but never about a woman's right to have self respect as well. And obviously, he sees no need to respect her, either. And then he thinks women are not willing to have sex with him not because they want to try a different relationship dynamics but because they want to PROVE him they're virginal or prudes or whatever. These pornheads think everything we do is to please them and please them only. WOMEN… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 05:40 AM |
| 18 | Nope. A man who’s interested will post you on social media, don’t try to justify their actions like thisI would find that disturbing. It's really odd that a man doesn't find anything worth posting but his girlfriend, looks like an unhealthy obsession to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | A thank you to the Red Pill man I datedI feel you, sis. Met a red pill guy before. He helped me build the strong woman I am today. I sent him a "thank you" message last year to close the emotional cycle in my mind and he seemed puzzled. He will never know how much he made me stronger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 05:07 AM |
| 62 | Nope. A man who’s interested will post you on social media, don’t try to justify their actions like thisIf he never NEVER posts anything of his personal life, family, etc, only landscapes, okay. But if he posts pics with his family and all his friends but never posts a Pic with you... The red flag is here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:59 AM |
| 10 | Not dating related but wtf..This is sexism at workplace at its best and this shows how vile men are to women in the professional world. If a woman doesn't follow the implicit rules of man in the workplace, she will be excluded. She will have to silently accept comments about her appearance, blatant flirtatious comments in the workplace, mockery and harassment otherwise this will undermine her career. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:17 AM |
| 10 | i was told to lower my standards...againIt's because most women are socially programmed to accept to marry a man as fast as they can before they turn 30. Most women are dead afraid of the idea of becoming a 30-and-something single lady and have no interesting hobbies or ambitions to pursue but to find a man whose underwear they will be washing for years to come. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:12 AM |
| 29 | Met a guy on tinder and showed him who’s bossHow can men be so impolite nowadays only because we set boundaries? If he doesn't respect you before he even meets you, he never will. You dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Healthy dating and marriage should not be this exhaustingThis is RedPillWomen in a nutshell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:05 AM |
| 55 | TrueMy dream TV show would be one where a woman talks about how her SO is horrible and then the TV show recruits all the man's ex gfs to confront him and talk about his behavior right in front of the couple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:03 AM |
| 69 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.That's what I decided to do 5 years ago. Never dated anyone ever since and I have never been better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:01 AM |
| 33 | I struggle with this myself, but don't ever let a LVM occupy your mind. Never give them this kind of power over you.Yay, a Stoic friend! 👏 Nothing like some Stoic wisdom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Women who standard-shame other womenI'm a medical doctor and I told my female medical doctor colleagues that I hated male doctors and I wanted something better for me. They told me I am insufferable and that I will not find anyone. Well, better alone than with a male doctor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:35 PM |
| 17 | I am too 18th century and I need help!!Not online and disseminated porn but there were already erotic novels and erotic cartoons. Eg : Édouard Henri-Avril, a famous French illustrator from the 19th century who produced a huge amount of erotic illustrations and paintings. His work is vile and he even portrays a man raping a goat. Like I said, men have always been prone to fall into debauchery, but society and women back then would not enable them to do this publicly. Now women and society not only encourage men to display their deprav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:29 PM |
| 16 | Feeling like a clown today 🤡Sure! And this happened in 2015. We never talked since then. Thanks for your concern! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:24 PM |
| 6 | To every woman who needs this today. Stay strong! 💪I've reached the "Girl why you stressing. With global warming, coronavirus and nuclear war threats humankind has 100 more years in the most OPTISMIC SCENARIO. Stop trying to meet men and do something for yourself" phase | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:33 PM |
| 28 | How to sniff if he's sexually competent: the quiet confidence of BIG DICK ENERGYI have met men like these and can confirm they are good in bed, but they can also be narcissistic, manipulative psychopaths. So girls, be aware. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:31 PM |
| 69 | Feeling like a clown today 🤡Yeah, after that he sent me numerous messages apologizing for what he did and asking me out once again, giving me the "This time I promise I will make it work" bullshit. He is a self centered prick who thinks he can get away with anything because he is a lawyer at UN and earns a six-figure salary. Well, that didn't work with me. I told him not to bother texting me again because I wasn't interested in meeting him anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:28 PM |
| 32 | Feeling like a clown today 🤡Yeah I was there for a week. He was leading me on for a f-ing week. I suspect he's either married or engaged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 63 | Pickme wants sex with model who requested specific bed sheets and a shaven vagina. Oh and her gut is saying he’s controlling, but that’s ok because he’s SooO HoTtt! 🙄He is treating her like a free prostitute but he requires 5-star hotel service. And she's allowing him to have this kind of behavior. WE WOMEN MUST STOP ENABLING MEN LIKE THIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:15 PM |
| 10 | I am not sure if my personality is too feminine or too masculine, regardless I feel like it isn't appealingYou sound like me when I was your age. I first kissed a boy when I was 19. I was an introvert and a nerd myself, and nowadays I am way way more attractive than I used to be, at 33 years old. Don't worry, you're doing just fine. You're just an introvert and you're finding out things about yourself. You don't have to be the stereotypical girly girl to attract boys. And don't let their expectations of what a girl should be ruin your authentic self. A man has to Like you for who you really are. Inte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:05 PM |
| 35 | I am too 18th century and I need help!!These are your hormones talking, your brain is trying to make you breed. It's all biological. Forget the crap you read Jane Austen's books. And remember - men were still perverts in the 18th and 19th century. It's not that they were innocent romantic lads back then and nowadays they became perverts. They were filthy back then, and the whole romance part with romantic letters only happened because BACK THEN women wouldn't be willing to have sex with a man if he didn't show the woman some of his v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:56 PM |
| 5 | It’s still abusive.If a man ever did this to my expensive makeup, I would do the same thing to his phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 10 | He can cook for himself.... And that's why I'm never getting married and I'm never cooking for a man. I'm not a housemaid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:40 PM |
| 119 | Feeling like a clown today 🤡Girl, some years ago I used to talk online to a guy from NYC. He is a lawyer at United Nations, and super clever, career-oriented and etc. We always planned to meet and he seemed very eager to see me, but we live very far from each other. Until one day I had the opportunity to visit a friend in NYC and told him about that. He asked me out to have dinner with him, he told me to message him as soon as I got in NYC so that we could arrange the meeting. Anyway, I got there and messaged him. He told … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:34 PM |
| 6 | The TRUTHI'm 33 and you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 11:23 AM |
| 10 | Scrote forces his girlfriend to swallow when she explicitly stated she didn’t want to and then gets mad she dribbles over him. Comments are encouraging her to “jUsT TalK to HiM”, forgetting the fact he sexually assaulted herThe girl has to swallow his cum but he freaks out if she accidentally coughs it out on his lap. If I were this girl, I would kick him in the balls and leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:18 AM |
| 47 | Shows how stupid some men are in 2020You know only a sick porn addict would think about his daughter's vagina and compare it to the sandwich he is about to eat, all at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:15 AM |
| 41 | The TRUTHI Will NEVER GET MARRIED and I'm happy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:42 AM |
| 7 | You do not "miss sex." You miss a fantasy.There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:39 AM |
| 7 | You do not "miss sex." You miss a fantasy.The problem with uncut dicks is that men don't wash them properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:38 AM |
| 15 | You do not "miss sex." You miss a fantasy.I haven't had sex for 5 years. I don't miss it a little bit. I don't masturbate, either. I decided to focus this sexual energy on more productive things - reading, studying, my career, self-knowledge. Women have been taught to solely focus on breeding (aka sex) and housekeeping. We have been wasting PRECIOUS ENERGY on pleasing men as their free prostitutes and housemaids. It's time to change this and focus on things that will actually compensate us for the effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:32 AM |
| 141 | You are not a free or low cost prostituteMy mother always taught me this : "if a man is willing to wine and dine a prostitute but not YOU, he sees you as less than a prostitute" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:27 AM |
| 1 | "H*e culture is wonderful" --> Can we dump this narrative in 2020?Well at least the professional sex workers have their dinner paid by these jerks... Women who are not sex workers have to split the bill even though men want them to behave like experienced sex workers in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Don't kneecap your sentences.And we as women don't need to smile all the time or say sorry for everything we do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:45 AM |
| 5 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENThis is gold. Seriously. I agree with all the points mentioned, 100%. I've been single for years and I quit dating years ago. I have never regretted my decision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 02:08 AM |
| 27 | REMINDER: WHY We Should Never Give Sex Away Easily. Commitment First Ladies !Now why would I want to settle down with a 40 and something man with saggy butt, saggy balls and a penis that has been everywhere and maybe has contracted all kinds of STDs? No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Wife permanently alters appearance for husband, he hates it and she thinks she should now apologise??? Wtf.He himself found the idea of making permanent changes to her body only to please him STUPID. MEN KNOW WHEN YOU'RE BEING STUPID AND BASICALLY LICKING THE FLOOR THEY WALK ON. Don't be stupid. Don't change yourself for a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:21 AM |
| 5 | I’ve never related more to a tweet in my life 🤣This has been my mood for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:18 AM |
| 46 | So called “Conservative” and “Trad-Con” men don’t want to financially support their wivesOh I've noticed it a while ago. Especially the new generation of tradcon men (essentially white men and sometimes incels) want a woman who cleans the house and works 9 to 5 while they don't want to pay one single bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:14 AM |
| 10 | It's over.The attachment is mostly a neurochemical thing. We women release more oxytocin when we're in love which creates attachment, whether in amazing, stalled, boring or even abusive relationships. This kind of neurochemical attachment takes a while to go away, but eventually you'll be free of this hormonal and emotional turmoil where you are right now. Regarding the "pickmeisha" attitude, I guess all women here have had this attitude in the past and perhaps sometimes have it in the present, for variou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:11 AM |
| 85 | You’re not boring, so why would you date boring LVM? 🤷🏽♀️This is the classic "seem unavailable" bullshit men do. They will not only pretend they're busy in their mediocre lives, they will also take years to answer one single "how are you?" message because they want to see busy, interesting and oh so disputed. To me they only seem impolite, childish and mediocre. I dump men like that on the spot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:33 PM |
| 16 | Pick me pleaseCornelia Grey doesn't know one thing called POLITENESS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Don't write that paragraph to that jerk. He won't give a damn. Block him and move on.Wow he really did that? What a real jerk. You're really, really better off without him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 06:30 PM |
| 137 | PSA: Saying we’ll be “single and lonely” is not an insult. It’s better to be alone then in bad company.I have been single for years. And when I say single, I mean no relationship at all, not even the casual ones. I don't think I have chosen loneliness. I think I have chosen freedom. Loneliness is loving someone and not being loved back. It's expecting closure and never getting it. It's being cheated on, manipulated, ridiculed, disrespected, taken for granted. It's being with a man and feeling miserable. It's missing your single days. Freedom is having a job, a stable professional life, a nice sal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 10 | Don't write that paragraph to that jerk. He won't give a damn. Block him and move on.And that's the right thing to do!!! Asking for their closure is a big big mistake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:07 AM |
| 28 | Don't write that paragraph to that jerk. He won't give a damn. Block him and move on.You did the right thing, sis. Spend your time and energy with things that matter. Ungrateful and impolite men are not one of them. I mean, he may not like you but is it too much to ask for POLITENESS? DOES IT HURT TO BE POLITE AND GIVE CLOSURE? But yes, for these porn addicted jerks, it hurts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 08:22 PM |
| 11 | Husband ignores wife’s efforts to do all his favourite things for V-day...because she didn’t have sex with him. Consider what man you’re busting a gut for. LVM have only one thing on their mind.It breaks my heart to see her questioning herself, thinking she should have fought against her own exhaustion, stayed awake and had sex that would feel more like marital rape than anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:39 PM |
| 97 | You’ve heard of Big Tech and Big Pharma, now we gotta worry about BIG CONDOM.I've heard men say they don't wear condoms for religious reasons. But apparently having sex before marriage is completely fine for the religious dudes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:36 PM |
| 5 | We’re going out for Saturday night drinks and out of nowhere he says ‘my flat mate is really sexy’ I go back home. My friend says I overreacted and I should be coolerYou didn't overreact. You did the right thing. Why? Because he was either testing the waters to see how you react or he was just very tactless to say something like that. Either way, you don't want to be with a man this childish and this manipulative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:33 PM |
| 18 | What I’ve been saying!Same for me here. Never been curious about that. And look, I'm really tough when it comes to seeing disgusting images (bugs, diseases, etc). But the only time I felt like throwing up and had nausea for hours was when I had the terrible idea to Google "anal prolapse". Never again. NEVER AGAIN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Pretty Much All of Reddit Whenever We Post about Porn being a recurring and pervasive problem in sex and relationship quality.Men dump women for having a tattoo. So I'm sure I can dump a man for watching porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Everyone, I'm a florist and this is HELLI've never thought about that. Florists definitely have the busiest day of the year on Valentine's Day! All the power and patience to you! At least you'll fill your pockets with money! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:02 AM |
| 98 | What I’ve been saying!Pickmeishas made these 3 mainstream. They're the ones who enabled men to think all women will be willing to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:01 AM |
| 132 | What I’ve been saying!Making women think they should have anal sex (a practice that can lead to fecal incontinence, anal prolapse, anal fissures and greater risk of contracting a STD) is not sexually liberating. It's inducing women to engage in abusive relationships and self-harming practices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 02:00 AM |
| 29 | Why are men so unattractive (cough cough UGLY) in comparison to women on dating appsTHEY KNOW there are plenty of LVW out there willing to date their crusty asses; THEY THINK all women in OLD websites are LVW so they don't feel compelled to show us a decent picture in which he looks presentable and not like a drunk, sweat-covered, dirty and smelly frat boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:31 AM |
| 13 | Please stay woke about the current Male mental health debate- manipulative low value men WILL use this to their advantageAbsolutely no genuine guy tryna stick around is going to flood you with his ‘childhood trauma’ or ‘ex from hell’ story within 3months because he wants to earn your trust, see if HE can trust you first and also isn’t going anywhere fast so he’s not in a rush to tell you everything. My nicest ex yet took a good 6-8 months to really let me on his vulnerable side like that. Exactly! And usually normal men don't open up to women and don't expose their vulnerabilities because they actually fear they'l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:25 AM |
| 4 | Why Men with a High N Count are Low ValueYes THEY INDEED ARE low value. Not only because of the aspects you wisely pointed out, but also because of ... STDs. If they're promiscuous, they have greater chances to have a STD and that really irks me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:20 AM |
| 14 | "Does she expect you to read her mind?" Yep, next question>so he orders her a mushroom pizza. Sure, she technically said he could order whatever. Sure, she never explicitly said she doesn't like mushrooms. But it's really not an unreasonable expectation that the guy would figure this out. MEN DON'T LISTEN TO WOMEN. They don't give a shit about what we say, most of the time. They'll only pay attention to us if where giving them clues on how they can manipulate us. But they don't care about our ambitions, taste, preferences, goals. They don't care, so th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:16 AM |
| 24 | Ladies, if a man tells you this, RUN!! Isolation enables abusive behavior with no means of escape. Complete BS.That's the classic strategy of the narcissistic man to isolate and manipulate the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:14 AM |
| 17 | This is why EVERY woman needs FDSA man will never GIVE A SHIT if you're playing a Stepford Wife when you're not even married to him. And if you ever ask him to be more grateful for your efforts, he will mercilessly tell you "you did all that because YOU WANTED TO, never asked you to." NEVER PLAY WIFE IF YOU'RE NOT MARRIED And even if you're a wife, you don't need to become a housemaid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:12 AM |
| 65 | it be that way on OLD stay strong sistersThat's why I quit online dating and quit dating altogether. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:10 AM |
| 29 | Please stay woke about the current Male mental health debate- manipulative low value men WILL use this to their advantageThere are many ways a man can manipulate a woman into feeling sorry for him. How can you spot this kind of manipulative man, who usually has narcissistic traits? RIGHT AT THE BEGINNING OF THE RELATIONSHIP (and pay attention to this, I'll elaborate on why this time frame is important later on) - If he has children or have children around him (siblings, nephews, little cousins, etc) he'll always brag about how much he loves taking care of them, send you millions of pics of them and with them (noth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:06 AM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Trust me, the concept we women have of a high quality woman is completely different from the concept MEN have of a high quality woman. We think a HVW is independent, confident, has boundaries, self respect etc. Men think a HVW is a woman who is available to pamper his ego whenever he wants ; is smart but not smarter than him ; is cute but not smoking hot because he fears being cheated on ; has sex with him and is available to have sex in different ways with him ONLY WHEN HE WANTS HER TO, because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:17 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Yes, you're doing this right. I'm just like you and I get zero dates most of the time as well. We women have to realize nowadays 99,9% of all men are LVM, thanks to their lack of integrity and respect for women (most important reason), porn culture and LVW who enable their behavior. They didn't pursue you because they didn't see you as an easy target. They just want an easy target, a LVW who will put her life in danger by going to the idiot's house on a first date and eat a cold slice of pizza a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:12 AM |
| 36 | Don’t commit to a man who chooses other women over you.Same goes for men who like many pics of Instagram models while he's dating you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Might be a repost, but just in case it hasn’t been here before:Apparently I'm spinster and I love it. And I plan to keep being that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Don’t lose hope, there are still some good ones out there.Exactly. I don't trust men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 36 | So disappointed.Almost ALL MEN nowadays consume porn. I found out my father is a porn addict who used to jerk off on a daily basis in our home while me and my mother were out. Porn is the proof men are in blatant moral and mental decay in the 21st century. That's why I'm single and plan to keep that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:02 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)Can someone please answer my question? What do you say when a man doesn't want to pick the bill and justifies it by saying "aren't you a feminist? Why don't you split it?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:24 PM |
| 7 | Angela Basset at Age 61. What “wall”? MGTOW Please Sit Your Quarantined A**es down. 🪑Helen Mirren is 70+ and hot as fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:22 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.I have tried my best to please a man once, he said I was basic. So yeah, I am never going to do that again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 03:22 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)What do I respond when I tell a man I'm not splitting the bill and he pulls the "but aren't you a feminist?" card? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Not worth it. Undeservingly boosts his ego while costing you sanity AND bomb ass skinThankfully this is what i did during my 6 years in med school+university and 5 years of ophthalmology residency | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | What are you willing to sacrifice for a partner?Nothing, just like I don't want my partner to sacrifice anything for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Awalt is a hilarious concept when you consider your mom.I think the real word here should be - AHALT - all humans are like that. Humankind is really predictable as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | “I’d rather be the woman he wants when he has it all than be the woman he needs to help him because he has nothing” female beta buxSome people want everything served on a silver tray for them. Some people want to chase what they want. To each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | If the father was adamant about not wanting a child would you still want it ?No. I want a father to be present and willing to the raise the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Sigma MalesSomeone has to STOP reducing people to Greek letters, for God's sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 01:31 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] How is AWALT any different from saying "Men are trash"?All generalizations are stupid. I guess people should know that by now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Quite a simple question: Is the core foundation of a monogamous relationship, sex?That does not mean sex is the core foundation of a monogamous relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Religions werent created to obtain Power. Religions were used to obtain Power. And then you think you can point out fallacies in my speech. That was not a straw Man my dear. You actually said it but you can backpedal as much as you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are more women than men interested ( As an "interest" ) in serial killers?Where is the source of this bullshit? I usually see with a frequency of up to 1 in 15 women stating they either like reading about serial killers, or criminal psychology, or something of that nature. PS - What YOU see is not a source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Quite a simple question: Is the core foundation of a monogamous relationship, sex?No, it isn't. A monogamous relationship can only be solid if it involves true frienship, similar goals and values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Telling young men to settleYoung men shoudn't be settling ..they should be trying to get the best for themselves. Why are young men so eager to defend their right to have casual sex? Is anyone preventing them from doing it? Society praises the stud. It's not like anyone is forcing men to get married. If you want to have casual sex, them have casual sex. Geez. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Is there a difference between “who you are”’ and “what you do”.What is the distinction that is trying to be made between the way men and women “love”? Any sane person will say that there is no distinction when it comes to the love felt by men and women. Only terpers believe there is actually a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?People have religious beliefs because of "social rewards" it May offer? What do you imply by saying that? That one of the rewards was getting more pussy? Not only this is perhaps the most simplistic "theory" on why religions exist but it is Also insane. It is interesting to see that you terpers want to desperately show that you don't need validation from women yet everything for you - even religions! - revolve around getting more pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 01:11 PM |
| 0 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?I was being sarcastic, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/18 11:08 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?I have given you plenty of them, but it's hard to argue with someone who ignores History. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 11:33 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Yeah, you basically live in a bubble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 10:56 PM |
| 5 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?You know, the wheel, the paleolithic and neolithic tools, the pyramids, the 7 world wonders were all built as an attempt to get more pussy. The development of ancient civilizations was like a big frat party that involved lifting very heavy rocks and blocks of marble in the name of vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:58 PM |
| 7 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Also, men here complain about "hypergamy" but that definitely does not exist in the way they describe it, when we all know that most high-class men DO NOT marry poor women. Like you said, most people end up dating people in their socioeconomic class. I don't know why terpers believe real life Cinderellas are still a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:55 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?As it stands, women in the "west" have gained the same rights as men, but not the same duties. Exactly, the modern contemporary woman usually has more duties than a man : have a job, take care of the children and do house chores. It started because of that, together with the need to survive (of which "vaginas" are an integral part btw). Actually no, civilizations grew thanks to rudimentary religious beliefs and agriculture development. Please read some History books. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:51 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Actually no, men did not create civilizations or money or democracy to be able to have sex with women. Men created civilizations to spread power and control over territories. And this desire for power and control comes more from religious roots and agriculture development than the desire to stick a penis up a vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustActually it is not as common as you think. The Western world is not solely composed of developed countries. And even in developed countries there are still women who are treated as second-category citizens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:47 PM |
| 2 | 1 CMV: Between a patriarchal and a feminist culture, a feminist culture is much better for a red pilled manIn a radical feminist society the only guys who will be able to attract women will be Red Pill bad boys. LMAO. In a radical feminist society most men would be single but most women wouldn't want to be with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 09:45 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?I am a radical feminist. No need to use quotation marks here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 08:49 PM |
| 3 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?I guess i do, because on the planet i live, women can do these things. Not all women in the world can do these things. However, all men in the world can do these things. So yes, sexism is still a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustThis is anecdotal, but I don't think we should all be so quick to dismiss anecdotes. Your anecdote does not mean that this is worldwide, spread phenomenom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:49 PM |
| 5 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Sure, you can say: "No, they did that for themself" and you would be right, but "for themself" (if you talk about men) almost always includes "getting pussy". Nice to see that your argument is basically: democracy and politics and basically the whole Western civilization was built because men wanted to penetrate vaginas. This is so absurd that I won't even waste my time debulking it. And even in a society built by men, woman always had various degrees of indirect influence on it. So you think wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?Everything revolved around them. Care to give examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | The wall is the biggest cope. Post-wall women still have a higher value than most average men, CMV.I don't believe in this "wall" bullshit. But anyway. Elderly women manage to be lonely much easier than men do. That's a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 05:31 PM |
| -1 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?It wasn't built by men but emerged organically given the incentives Men have built the economical and political system. Women have never been included in the development of the modern society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | 1 CMV: Between a patriarchal and a feminist culture, a feminist culture is much better for a red pilled manBy feminist you mean "liberal feminist" cultures right? Because let us be honest here, liberal feminism basically kisses patriarchy's ass everyday. In a radical feminist society, terpers would freak out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 04:23 PM |
| 7 | [Q4M] Do you wish women weren’t so obsessed with money and status?The whole capitalist system was built by men and you think women are the ones obsessed with money and status? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 04:22 PM |
| 2 | With women entering the workforce, is a blue pill strategy tending to redundant?Women of all socio-economic and socio-political strata (and I use those terms very specifically) have access to higher education and are part of the workforce I wont waste my time answering someone who says this. You either Live in Mars or some kind of parallel reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustYou have the right to think whatever you want of me, that doesn't mean you're right. I'm very good, thanks for your concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A guy who has been cheated on has poor partner prospectsI am against porn as whole. It completely distorts our views on sex, and our expectations towards how our partners should look and behave. I am not a moralist, lemme make it clear. I just am 100% against porn, all types of porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustThroughout history men have been jackasses to other men. I hold no resentment towards modern men for their jackass ancestors. Sorry but... if you were a little bit wise, you should. You’re full of resentment from taking the claim to your ancestors struggles and a desire to seek revenge. Easy, babe. I am not plotting to murder men. I just think most men are jackasses to women, and its not even their fault. Society has built them that way. Perhaps if we all lived in a matriarchal society, men coul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lust(lol of course you don't hold resentment towards women, you're a man) You don't have to pity me. Though men have been absurd jackasses to women for centuries, I have a pretty satisfactory life, thank God. Direct your pity towards women who are being mutilated in Africa or women who don't have the right to go to school in Middle Eastern countries, for example. Better yet, direct your concern towards them, because pity to me is a little bit arrogant in a way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustAttractive women are objectified by their attractiveness Men are objectified by their fortune. Some men use women for their purposes, some women use men for their purposes. You can't say "men are being objectified" simply because some men meet opportunistic women. Theoretically, we couldn't say "women are being objectified" only because some men sexually objectify them, either. I am not talking about "some people" here. I am talking about society as whole. Men haven't been seen as walking wallet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A guy who has been cheated on has poor partner prospectsYes, it objectifies women - and men (though in a much lesser extent than women - I'd say men are way more objectified in gay porn). It disseminates the idea that women should act and look like porn actresses. It affects the way men and boys look at women and what they expect from them. Moreover, the damaging effects of porn on one's brain (and there's pretty much evidence on that, that itself justifies the end of porn). If a man (or a woman!) chooses a dangerous job that may kill or maim, is thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:22 AM |
| 0 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustI am not taking credit for anything, I am just telling you what women have suffered over the centuries. I mean, you can ignore History if you want to, but my way of looking at the world is not toxic, it's just realistic. Sorry, the world itself IS toxic. I really wish I could say women have not been oppressed over the years, but they have been, and they still are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A guy who has been cheated on has poor partner prospectsThe thing is, porn should never be fine. It's a toxic environment for women, period. There's no such a thing as "feminist porn", for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:10 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Women's selfishness opposes polygynyI see what you mean, but I don't interpret her manifesto as a life's user guide. I don't think she wrote it in a way that people should build a society that way. I see it more like an inspiring text than a way to build society - a society like the way SCUM describes it is impossible to be achieved. However, I must say that I agree with almost everything she says about men and men's role in humankind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustYes, many literally are. Is their money preventing them from getting jobs or being promoted? Is their money preventing them from not being taken seriously? Are people judging them for being rich? Because if they were being "objectified" for being rich, that's exactly what should be happening. Was that before or after cleopatra? Before and after, I may say. Is this oppression Olympics? No, it's just History. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Women's selfishness opposes polygynyShulie Firestone No I haven't! But I definitely want to. My favorite radfem is definitely Valerie Solanas. Yes, she attempted to murder Andy Warhol and I don't condone murder. But I do love her ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A guy who has been cheated on has poor partner prospectsSadness, that sex-positive feminism got combined with male sexuality and capitalism to produce a sort of compulsory sexuality - if you're truly sexually liberated, you ought to be able to do whatever the hell you want with consenting partners. What can I say? I couldn't have said it better myself. Liberal feminism was basically idealized by men, not women. It is just kissing patriarchy's ass, it's not fighting against it. What libfems call "sexual liberation" is basically "act and look like porn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustIt is the contrary. For many women a man is mostly worth on how much money he can bring on the table. Men are not treated by SOCIETY as a walking wallet. Women for centuries have been treated by society as a cleaning machine with a vagina. Are men raped? much less often than women Are men sexually harassed? much less often than women Are men not judged by their "size"? much less often than women Are men judged by their sexual status/ability? much less often than women Are men body shamed? much l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:43 AM |
| 0 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustHave been men regarded FOR CENTURIES as a mere pieces of meat that exist only to give sexual pleasure? I don't think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustHow do you need examples? What kind of way are women objectified? Looks? Ability to provide sex? Sex Objects? Yes, I want you to show me concrete proof that men are sexually objectified. Men are also objectified by their status and financial ability. Are they being demeaned and treated like a second-category citizen for being rich or successful? I thought it was just the contrary. Are you heterosexual? Do you have physical standards(requirements?) in men? Would you consider dating someone really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustcare to give examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | N-count question.. Would you be completely comfortable dating a man who disclosed that in between relationships when he was single, he was regularly visiting prostitutes and having safe sex? No because I don't believe in 100% safe sex. People get drunk, people forget to use condoms. I'd be disgusted and run away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What does everyone think about polyamory?I'm asexual, so... Having sexual relationships with ONE person is a waste of time and overwhelming already. Now dealing with many sex partners? Talk about the real life version of Dante's Inferno. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Being Fully Comitted To a Man is the WORST thing Women Can do. Branch Swing Forever.Being Committed To a Man is the WORST thing Women Can do. FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/18 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4w could you ever be with someone who didn't want to get married?Yes, because I'd never want to get married. But then I'm asexual, but before I acknowledged that I never wanted to get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:59 PM |
| 3 | (CMV) Women's selfishness opposes polygynyIf men want to fuck bazillions of women all at once, may they do that until their penises fall off, it's not my problem. The only unfair thing is that when they want to have a polygamous relationship and the only ones who don't know they're polygamous is their wives. Cheating is not okay. It's never okay. Now if they're not cheating on anybody and they want to fuck 3 different women everyday, I couldn't care less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Why the saying 'treat women like you would anyone else' means nothingThis sentence does not talk about flirting or romantic intentions. It means that men should not have a patronizing/condescending/sexist attitude when talking to and dealing with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A guy who has been cheated on has poor partner prospectsI understand them completely. And honestly the safest environment for a woman is a women-only environment. I am not saying it's 100% safe, BUT, it is safer (and more peaceful aka doesn't drive a woman crazy) than a mixed-genre environment. But honestly I've never got in touch with a group of separatist feminists. All my friends are radfems and it's a mixed group, there are straight women and lesbians there (and I'm asexual). ETA- Are you a woman? Feminist as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:54 PM |
| 1 | With women entering the workforce, is a blue pill strategy tending to redundant?women now have practically equal number of positions in education, white-collar employment and women can now independently use, own, inherit, transfer and earn from property as well as income. You're talking about developed, first world countries, right? Because if you consider THE REST OF THE WORLD, you're blatantly wrong. And even in first world countries, sexism and wage gap in workplace is still a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | If sexual strategy is amoral, then why do redpillers moralize female sexual strategyBecause they're all self centered and never see things from perspective. I've never seen a terper putting himself in a woman's shoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Monogamy not so uncommon when you are in love?Of course falling in love makes you more prone to choose monogamy. It releases oxycitocin that creates emotional bonding and makes people more trusting. No big deal here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there is a reason why almost all of r/tinder posts are from males.Yes. They are frustrated because most women there don't tolerate their bullshit/their awkwardness/their creepiness. So they vent in Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Men face 'double standard' over celebrity lustHow exactly do women objectify men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | [28F] "I don't have time to waste on something that will mean nothing. I'm a picky woman, I know what I want and need and what I don't want and need. I'm the type of woman you are lucky enough to come across once in a lifetime don't blow it, I promise you will regret it."Did she dump you? You sound pissed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/05/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion about the marriage scene in USA in the next 10 years?People will get married and reproduce less and less, which is a good thing considering our climatic and environmental conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 02:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Average women nowadays have to pursue men (in real life) (for a relationship not casual sex)If a woman wants a high value man Is there such a thing these days? If a woman wants to find a good husband, she has to pursue him. There's no such a thing as a "good husband". You cannot guess who's gonna be a good husband and who isn't. I've seen love stories that ended up with the husband murdering the wife. But anyway, thanks to sexual liberation and liberal feminist propaganda, men are used to easy sex. Of course they won't chase anymore, they don't have to. But you don't need to chase them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Thinking going mgtow because current f/26 girlfriend M/29On paper she is my ideal women banging body good looks and can cook plus educated and makes her own money not like some women in London Whos mentality is so fucked up it’s just her clingy personality is draining me This paragraph creeped me out for both content AND lack of punctuation. Dude, you're 29. Gimme a break. There are plenty of women out there. Sorry for saying that, your reaction is being pretty childish. You'll meet other women. Relax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 02:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The Redpill is turning into MGTOWwhen you try to understand why they whine so much, you realize that they actually dislike or hate women You only realized that now? Redpill isn't so much about the male imperative anymore, it's more about 'I hate women how can I dedicate my life to piss them off'. It's always been like that, darling. I believe now you have some perspective - thank God! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Is Marriage Only for the Rich and Well-Educated?No. Marriage is only for the fools. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Who is Chad anyway?The collective delirious imagination of the terpers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 01:50 AM |
| 1 | [Q4Women] In a scale of 1 to 10 to men, what is the score most common? how much is the percentage of these in the total? you can take a guessUsually I give all men a mere 4, and if they're good enough, 6. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 01:50 AM |
| 2 | CMV: A guy who has been cheated on has poor partner prospectsYou're comparing the emotional baggage aka TRAUMA a woman has after being raped with a man being cheated on? Seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 01:48 AM |
| -4 | Fresh off tinder this morning. Cheating with no shame or guilt. All thots are like that.Yes, many. Just create a fake profile of a girl and you'll see. | /r/MGTOW | 30/10/17 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Fresh off tinder this morning. Cheating with no shame or guilt. All thots are like that.Yes, because there aren't men who cheat on their wives on Tinder. Wow, you guys really are stupid. | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/17 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Sexbots. Just another form of masturbation, nobody cares.One time she told me she had thought about going to a bad area to try to get raped for real because roleplay wasn't doing much for her anymore If your girlfriend has a psychological issue that makes she want to be raped, that does not mean all women want the same thing. I'm not going to pretend that this exceptional psycho bitch was normal but it's really funny to see BPers squirming and pretending that people like this don't exist There are people who kill their own children out there. Every bi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Do feminine hobbies and domestic skill enhance a woman's attractiveness? Why?I like traditional gender roles and the more my husband and I take them on and stop trying to practice gender equality in every task the happier we are. If that's what makes you happy, good for you. Like it or not we are biologically different and will have differences in what we excel at or enjoy because of it. Wrong. Men and women have the same ability to perform many tasks and activities. Most psychological and physiological studies have proved this already. Just saying. Though they may diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?Making good money is not a responsibility at all. Most people don't. Actually it is. We need money to pay for our things. And, yes, it absolutely does provide good value. Not to a relationship, only to yourself. Your argument was that things are as easy for men (or even easier) than they are for women. Women just need to exist. Women need to be pretty, to cook, to sew, to be good mothers, to clean the house, to have a career, to raise children, to endure sexism, sexual harassment and stupid cat-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 09:25 PM |
| 2 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?I have a good job. I make good money and I'm a responsible adult. This does not provide value to a relationship, this is just your obligation as an adult. It is hard to get laid. It took me years to figure out the club scene enough where I could pull consistently (if I wanted to). I can do it because I have a system that works. Which means all men can get laid with a little bit of effort. You're just supporting my argument. most women have wildly unrealistic expectations in what they want in a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Will all women will hoe out for the right man?the Chaddest of Chads I can't believe I have read this. Does anyone believe it's much possible or likely to get a Chad to fall in love with a woman or settle down for her without her offering sex quickly? Yes. Many of these highly disputed men have it very easy when it comes to sex. They eventually get bored. The woman who won't give in easily is a challenge for them. They eventually get attracted to and fall in love with these women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What do you think about high N men?The only thing I care about when dating a high N man is the risk of catching a STD. I demand all serological tests before having sex with such a man - in fact, I demand serological tests in all sexual relationships I engage. Apart from that, having a high N count does not mean he's necessarily a douchebag, a bad person, etc etc. It doesn't gross me out either. I just don't want him to cheat on me and I want him to respect my boundaries and relative unexperience. Apart from that, it's fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 08:10 PM |
| 24 | Heightened male aggression toward sexualized women following romantic rejection: The mediating role of sex goal activationSo basically the "sexualized" condition is a strapless blouse that basically shows zero cleavage. Who wrote this article, an Amish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Do feminine hobbies and domestic skill enhance a woman's attractiveness? Why?Why are baking/sewing/knitting feminine hobbies to you? Many famous bakers are actually men. Many men do sew and knit as well. Gender stereotypes again. Sigh. But anyway, patriarchal views of what women should or should not do are responsible for this whole "approval" of women who can actually cook/clean/knit/etc. Patriarchal society believes in gender roles and to a patriarchal society a valuable woman is supposed to be excellent at cooking, cleaning, sewing, decorating, etc. Any man who disval… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Do women wear makeup to attract male attention?Short answer: NO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 07:55 PM |
| 2 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?I'm supposed to ruin my good credit on a woman good credit? Are we born with credits now? Where did this absurd theory come from? You don't have "good credit". Nobody has. A woman can find you amazing and the next one can find you a loser. Gimme a break. I'm supposed to provide value for someone that provides me with no value? And why do you think you provide value? Do you apply this kind of criticism to yourself? I'm not talking in terms of getting laid. I can do that by spending a few hours at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 07:50 PM |
| 3 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?From your point of view I can see why men like you find it Hard for men to get laid. You guys really don't understand women or genuinely like them. Not even close. Women can sense that. That's why men like you find it Hard to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 07:18 PM |
| 2 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?Men don't suffer from sexism. They don't have to conform with the same beauty standards most women have to. Many women nowadays arent having satiafactory relationships. Problem is, you are looking at women's situation from a masculine point of view. Most women are not looking for a dick to be thrusted into their vagina. Of course a woman can easily get that. She can even be paid to have that. But most single women want satisfactory, mature relationships and they cannot find it. Women have it as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?My karma is 33k+. Do I look like a troll to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 05:47 PM |
| 2 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?Much easier for women. Sure. In your bizarro world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Sexbots. Just another form of masturbation, nobody cares.Rape roleplay is different from real rape. Moreover, most women do not have rape fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 05:01 PM |
| 0 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?Unattractive guys can easily have sex, of course it's not easy for them to have sex with attractive women. They could have sex if they wanted, however. Though it's not everytime with the women they wished they had. This is the awful truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?Yes, unattractive guys can EASILY have sex. Problem is - are they willing to have sex with who is willing to have sex with them? They have their standards and it's totally fine, but they have to understand people also have their own standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 02:34 PM |
| 0 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?If your theory was remotely true only attractive guys would have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Sexbots. Just another form of masturbation, nobody cares.You probably never had sex with a woman to say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Sexbots. Just another form of masturbation, nobody cares.I dont think we can answer that. But I would rather think creeps are fucking dolls and not real women. I dont understand The whole big deal about sex bots. Sex dolls have existed for ages. They are just more realistic now. I dont feel offended if a creep is fucking a doll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 02:10 PM |
| 1 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?Ugly guys can easily have sex. If they're not having sex it's because they're either douchebags, losers or plain disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Who benefits from polyamory more, men or women?Men. After a while women tend to fall in love with the guy and freak out with jealousy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 12:02 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of people who have low or no interest in sex at all?I haven't had sex for a while and I don't care about having it either. Lust can be sublimated into other activities and it's completely fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 12:01 PM |
| 1 | What are some things unattractive guys cant do?Are we still saying that life is hard for ugly guys? For God's sake. Women are much more required to be attractive than men. An ugly guy can have sucess at every area of his life with the right tools and attitude. (an ugly woman too, just saying) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 12:00 PM |
| 5 | Sexbots. Just another form of masturbation, nobody cares.I honestly wish every misogynistic, potentially rapist creep had his own sex bot. These weirdos must leave women alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Which sex has it easier?Nobody has it "easier". This is real life, not a Disney cartoon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Why Do Posters Here Think Men Have Low Expectations?I have my nails frequently manicured, but this is not the point. The point is - these guys I work with will complain if your nail polish is chipped while their beards are covering their necks and they have disgusting sweat stains on their armpits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Why Do Posters Here Think Men Have Low Expectations?I keep my nails clean and neat, but I can't keep nail polish on to save my life. Unless a woman is a millionaire socialite who does nothing during the entire week, it's IMPOSSIBLE to have your nails perfect all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Happily partnered women are overly represented here, and happily partnered men are underrepresented. Why?I honestly think this is Internet and everybody can say whatever they want, and we'll never know if it's fiction or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 12:27 AM |
| -1 | Why Do Posters Here Think Men Have Low Expectations?Men who work with me complain about women who don't have their nails properly polished or that some women have a "too thick skin". I don't think men usually have low standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Q4BP: Why do women love assholes? (Legit assholes)Most women are not emotionally unstable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How I know if a dating culture is out of whack.Hey, I had never heard of that! Thanks. I googled it and read about the Mosuo culture. As far as I could understand, it's kind of a serial monogamous relationship. The man has sex with another woman at night, but they always come back to their own families. It's like an open marriage in a way, huh? Very interesting topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 02:53 AM |
| 2 | "Women go for what they like" and the "do I, do you, does he, does she deserve xy"-mindsetI look for a man who I LIKE (I have to admire him) and who DESERVES me as well (I know what I can bring to the table in a relationship and I want to be with a man who appreciates my effort too). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How I know if a dating culture is out of whack.Perhaps. This is a very complex/controversial topic. This is /r/futurology material to be honest. But I particularly have a more romantic view of life as a whole, so I believe in monogamous relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 02:45 AM |
| 0 | How I know if a dating culture is out of whack.t would be fucked up for you be fucked up for everyone? No, that's what I said, my personal convictions don't mean anything to the world. A person can be happy having casual sex. Btw, a person can be happy having casual sex her whole life. If someone only enjoys casual sex, that doesn't mean that person is bad, shallow or unreliable in any way. It's just their personal preference. But speaking of the civilization as a whole, casual sex, if adopted by the majority of people, will be impacting. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 02:40 AM |
| 0 | How I know if a dating culture is out of whack.I don't mean to say my personal view of relationships is the correct view. But to me casual sex is inherently fucked up in all contexts among all kinds of people or sexual orientations... For a bunch of reasons that are not relevant , since these are part of my own values, and I don't mean to be judgmental or to say that my values are the only right ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Why not date a Single Mother? Here’s a good reasonWith a single mother your priority will never be first in the relationship and worse yet it takes a backseat to a child that isn't even yours. Well if you aren't willing to accept a woman taking care of her child, I hope you don't complain about women who refuse to date men who have children too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 12:21 AM |
| 0 | How I know if a dating culture is out of whack.These other things you've mentioned are fucked up as well. But having immediate sex with someone you met online is IMO much more bizarre and dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 11:01 PM |
| 1 | What will dating look like 20 years from now?People will only care about casual sex. - Those who do care about real sex, of course. Many people will be busy with their own sex bots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 09:09 PM |
| 2 | How I know if a dating culture is out of whack.People are screwing each other when they have just met ONLINE. It's obviously this dating culture is fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: Why do women love assholes? (Legit assholes)Emotionally stable women DO NOT love assholes. Only dependent, troublesome, unstable women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Why not date a Single Mother? Here’s a good reasonAnyone who has this mindset is not ready to have children either. Even if you marry a childless mother, when she has your child that baby will become her #1 priority as well. If you can't deal with that, you're not ready to become a father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 09:07 PM |
| 2 | What is your stance on flirting?I'm good at it, I'm just too lazy for it. I can't stand pretending to be fascinating to make a man love me. I am not fascinating. I am human. I make mistakes. I wear pajamas. I don't feel like being adorable and flirtatious and fun all the time. I don't feel like saying interesting witty things all the time. Flirting is tiring as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/17 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Barring sex, what are the benefits of a relationship that you don't feel you could ever get through family and close friends?If one can't see the benefits of a romantic relationship, one has never felt/understood romantic love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/17 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Women: what is your relationship with your 'male friends' like?Most of my male friends are gay men. We cook together, go to the movies, talk a lot, laugh a lot, go shopping, go to art exhibitions, etc, etc. Pretty much fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/17 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Single mothers often marry attractive alpha menI have to disagree with you. But I'll talk from my personal experience: ALL single mothers I know are still single. Guys usually just date them for casual sex and eventually break up with them. I'll disagree with TRP when they say that if a woman is a single mother, her chances to find a LTR are over. Not true. HOWEVER, her chances decrease absurdly - and it's not even because men think the girl with a child is a slut (most guys, fortunately, do not think this), but because they're not ready to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Manosphere ContradictionOf course I have realized this. That's when I realized the whole TRP theory is bullshit. I can't deal with hypocritical ways of thinking. If a woman actually defends men's rights, she's a unicorn and unicorns don't exist - AWALT, she's no different from any other. If a woman fights against sexism - AWALT, she's a feminist bitch. Either way, women are ALWAYS wrong to them. Fact is, many of these guys refuse to admit that their love/sexual life is lame thanks to their own attitudes and thoughts, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What confuses you the most about this purple pill/red pill/blue pill/black pill stuff?I don't understand black pillers that much. I don't know very well what they believe in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever been accused of being a "nice guy" or a "nice girl"? If so, do you think it was warranted?Agreed. And to be honest I've seen guys who don't even know TRP and have this mentality. I think it's a 21st century mentality - to put sex above everything else. People don't want to get to know people anymore, they just want someone to fulfill their desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Desire for Commitment/Sex between the genders. What we 'Present' vs. the RealityAnd you're not the only one to do that. It's quite sad to realize we live in a world that puts sex before actual relationships. People don't care about getting to know each other very well anymore, they just want sex . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Desire for Commitment/Sex between the genders. What we 'Present' vs. the RealityYes, but what I'm saying is - some guys will dump a girl for the mere fact she wants to wait till they have sex, which is quite unfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 12:18 AM |
| 0 | Desire for Commitment/Sex between the genders. What we 'Present' vs. the RealityThat wasn't exactly the case because I made it clear I was attracted to the guy, but not ready to have sex at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Most men here think women can get any guy they want with no effort, women, what are your views on this?I've been rejected by men for being: too tall; too "opinionated"; a medical doctor; wearing red lipstick; too nice; not using emojis. (I swear I heard this once). And then men say women never get rejected. I've been rejected for absurdly stupid reasons and I'm sure many other women have had similar experiences. Maybe they were finding excuses to break up with me, I don't know. They should at least have been honest! How do you feel about these views? Does it change your perception of the men here… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL What is creepy female behavior to you?I know you didn't say it was a big deal. I was just making an observation, not a correction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL What is creepy female behavior to you?Yeah, though what they said is not a big deal, it's quite inappropriate to say that to a patient who's also someone they barely know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 10:33 PM |
| 1 | On Wedding CostsThank God I don't give a damn about weddings. If I ever get married, I just want to sign that piece of paper, have lunch with our families and go straight to our honeymoon destination. I don't need a stupid reception to feel married or loved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | How important is a man's voice in determining SMV?I don't believe in SMV. I'll just say high-pitched voices for men sound weird, but I don't like extremely deep voices either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Desire for Commitment/Sex between the genders. What we 'Present' vs. the RealityHonestly, hormones play a part in human behavior, but to say a man's choices are solely because of hormones is a stretch. If hormones were the only reason why we behave in a certain way, all men and all women would behave the same way because they share the same hormones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Desire for Commitment/Sex between the genders. What we 'Present' vs. the RealitySo you start off casually meeting someone and see if you fit into each other's life ok. I think this formula is great for people who don't care about having casual sex. In my case, I would only have sex with a guy if we were in a committed, exclusive relationship. So some guys break up with me because nothing happens during the "casual" period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever been accused of being a "nice guy" or a "nice girl"? If so, do you think it was warranted?I was accused of being a "too nice girl" but what the guy really meant was that he found me boring as hell because I was too nice. Basically he said that after he realized I was not going to have sex with him. When he started hitting on me --> I was the most interesting woman around. When he realized I wouldn't have sex with him --> "You're too nice and boring". So yeah. I don't give a damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL What is creepy female behavior to you?At the doctor's office, two of the receptionists asked me why I didn't bring them chocolates. They were probably just joking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL What is creepy female behavior to you?Women can be creepy for the same reasons a man can be - stalking, sending many messages even after being ignored, harassing, lying etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What supposed "romantic" gesture do you find off-putting and weird?Actually, yes. sigh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/17 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What supposed "romantic" gesture do you find off-putting and weird?https://www.amazon.com/Emoji-Book-Eva-Magdalena-Seiser/dp/153360357X I can't believe Gutenberg published the first book only to see centuries later a book about emojis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/17 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What supposed "romantic" gesture do you find off-putting and weird?There's a EMOJI BOOK? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/17 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What supposed "romantic" gesture do you find off-putting and weird?Stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/17 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What supposed "romantic" gesture do you find off-putting and weird?So I guess you are not seeing that emoji movie? The idea of making a emoji movie is indecent already. That one month anniversary thing seems a bit weird. I'd be creeped out two if a woman I was dating wanted to do that. As a woman I can say I've seen men wishing to celebrate monthly anniversaries and... NO THANKS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/17 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Why when women try to be beautiful, they blame society, but if men try to be handsome, its toxic masculinity?but if a guy feels pressured to be a manly dude, it's the fault of his own toxic and fragile masculinity. Which are generated by patriarchy as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What's the problem with older men (30-45) dating younger women (18-23)?I think this prejudice comes from American culture. Where I live (an European country), nobody cares about age gap the way Americans do. Most European and South American people don't care about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What supposed "romantic" gesture do you find off-putting and weird?Pet names. Emojis. Hate them all. Giving gifts (when there's no special occasion to justify them) at the beginning of the relationship. (less than 3 months old) Celebrating monthly anniversaries. I don't give a damn if we've been dating for 1 or 2 months. I am NOT going to celebrate it every month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: How true do you think the statement "it's only creepy if they are unattractive" is?Actually, yes. You don't need to be a sexual person to be creepy. But why are you asking that anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Question for all pills: How would you get over oneitis/a crush?I have this amazing gift from God that I get tired REAL FAST when things don't go the way I want. I get fed up with the whole situation. So if I like a guy and he doesn't like me back, I'll get fed up with him soon enough and get over him quite easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Q4all: How true do you think the statement "it's only creepy if they are unattractive" is?I've met creepy hot guys and creepy ugly guys. They were both creepy as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 02:54 AM |
| 0 | How do you feel when it's clear that your date is "out of your league"?"Eh. Fine." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 02:54 AM |
| 1 | The Collapse of DatingI agree with everything you said, OP. Congratulations for your post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 04:54 AM |
| 1 | People who have happy relationships or a satisfactory dating life in general, how is it?I'm single and it's quite satisfactory as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn't society just tell boys/men what girls/women want?There's no scientific study that disproves it either. Dating and sex is too complicated for that. So how can you act like TRP is objectively wrong? TRP is a phenomenon of THIS CENTURY. It contradicts common sense regarding relationships, love, and psychological dynamics with pseudo-scientific bullshit. The only valid part of TRP is the fitness/health encouragement, but like I said, the motivation of it IS WRONG, because it revolves around women. And if a pseudocientific subreddit tells a guy "If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn't society just tell boys/men what girls/women want?Cool anecdotes You talking about men who are happy because of TRP... These are anecdotes as well. I am sorry my friend, there is no scientific study available to prove what you're trying to defend. I'm just using logic, personal experience and common sense here. If these guys were really happy with themselves their feelings wouldn't be so controlled by hatred. And how much energy is being used just by posting on a subreddit? Or by going out and looking for casual sex using techniques you persona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn't society just tell boys/men what girls/women want?If it leads to success consistently You mean success like that super successful and exciting life Roosh V shows in his videos? Honestly, I've seen many guys who you'd call "betas" be WAY WAY WAY happier than him, with lives WAY more fulfilled than his. He looks miserable and unhappy as hell. The hatred and misogyny shown in TRP already show that most of those guys are miserable as well. It's impossible to live a genuinely happy life when you spend too much energy hating on the opposite sex or tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Why doesn't society just tell boys/men what girls/women want?TRP is not a path for men to improve. It basically teaches men to suppress their own emotions to believe in pseudo-scientific theories such as "AWALT" and applying "dread" and using psychological manipulation to get what they want in a relationship. This is no life to live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Friendzone vs Fuckzone is a huge double standardThat's quite predictable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't society just tell boys/men what girls/women want?Who said that? Did I say that? No, you've mentioned TRP first, implying that it's men's path to improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't society just tell boys/men what girls/women want?And through fitness, fashion advice, and general strategies for flirting. Their general strategies for flirting are lame, just saying. But anyway, the fitness/health part is the only thing tolerable about TRP, BUT IT'S NOT EXCLUSIVE OF TRP. So to say that TRP is the only path to self improvement a man can choose is BULLSHIT. And regarding incels, they do not want to improve by any means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 11:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Friendzone vs Fuckzone is a huge double standardDid he confess this or something? Yes. And he does this to many other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn't society just tell boys/men what girls/women want?By "spinning plates" and using techniques like "dread" to manipulate women through psychological manipulation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 11:42 PM |
| 0 | Are posters here living in two different worlds when it comes to the romantic success of the average man ?autism, physical ugliness, shortness. If these 3 aspects prevented a man from getting dates, we'd never see ugly or short or autistic men dating anyone. The only one among the 3 things you've mentioned that can really decrease a man's chances to find a woman is autism. But honestly? Everything nowadays is labelled as autism when people don't even have a proper diagnosis. And to say being short or ugly prevents you from getting dates is quite a stretch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't society just tell boys/men what girls/women want?Blaming women and a "gynocentric society" for their singledom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 11:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Friendzone vs Fuckzone is a huge double standardYes. Doesn't mean I had sex with him, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Are posters here living in two different worlds when it comes to the romantic success of the average man ?I don't think this a chat room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Are posters here living in two different worlds when it comes to the romantic success of the average man ?Are you trying to defend an argument or to make passive-aggressive remarks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Markers of Patriarchy/Markers of MatriarchyI think what OP was saying is that parents encourage their sons to be bold and to break the rules (boys be boys) If that's what he meant, I can agree to an extent. But I still fail to see where he said that. I interpreted it in a different way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 04:08 PM |
| -1 | Are posters here living in two different worlds when it comes to the romantic success of the average man ?Because this group of men here: 2) And there are the ones who go: "Being an average man in today's dating market is hopeless. Women all want a man with an eight figure account, the personality of Jesus, and the body of a Chad." Don't want to acknowledge the fact that the reason why they can't find a woman is ALL THEIR FAULT. It has nothing to do with women being hypergamous or whatever, it has everything to do with the fact that there is something in them that repels women, and instead of doing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss female body hair1.Do you think women with body hair (hairy legs, vagina etc.) are inherently unattractive? NO, especially pubic hair. Or is it viewed as unattractive because of social conditioning? YES. Are men attracted to children's bodies? I don't think these men are actually pedophiles or attracted to actual children's bodies (I hope so) but it's true that many of what RP considers attractive in a woman is a woman with a childlike face and an all-shaved body (and I didn't say that myself, you can see this i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Markers of Patriarchy/Markers of MatriarchyYou said you had yet to meet a father who encouraged his son to rebel. I have met one. Yes, of course there are exceptions to the rule. I have met many men like the ones you've mentioned yourself - unstable men who encouraged their children to be unstable as well. But to say fathers generally encourage their kids to rebel is a stretch. You mean those people who protested the Vietnam war and rebelled against everything? Not all people during the 60s actually rebelled against the Vietnam war, just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 03:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Friendzone vs Fuckzone is a huge double standardYou gotta be a troll, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Markers of Patriarchy/Markers of Matriarchylegit encouraged him to bring heroine back from Morocco and in general he also modeled behaviors of using drugs and drunk driving. Well, I don't think you ex-boyfriend's father can be used an example here. I don't mean to be rude but he clearly has a substance problem or an addiction. It's obvious that his priorities will be twisted. Most parents teach authority and the respect for authority. Anyone here who was born in the 80s have fathers who were raised by men who fought WWII or the Vietnam W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 03:37 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Hitting the gym as a guy is not enough to increase your SMV. You have to drank out in other ways.a. Girls who were ugly ducklings that wanted to enter a higher league. These girls will only look at bodybuilder types who are also tall and handsome. Honestly girls go to the gym because they want to be fit. And if you just said physique means nothing to women, why are you saying "these girls will only look at bodybuilder types", if being fit isn't everything a woman wants in a man? b. Girls who are insecure and will only date a dude way below their league lookswise so that they have power in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Why doesn't society just tell boys/men what girls/women want?We live in a world that pressures you to be the best version of yourself, not because it would benefit you, but because it would PLEASE other people. So the motivation is wrong. So expecting "society" to teach you anything is quite naive. But anyway, men are ADULTS. Most people nowadays have internet, and if they don't they live in the real world and they have the tools and ways to fulfill their goals. If you're fat, you know that if you eat less (especially less carbs) and do exercises you will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Markers of Patriarchy/Markers of MatriarchyMale parents tend to insight inquisition and rebellion when needed. I'm here waiting to meet a father who actually teaches their kids to be rebels. Just saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 03:21 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pille Rage (x-post from RedPillWomen)you have a sex drive doesnt mean you need to be a woman of loosr morals. What makes your mother a woman of looser morals? The fact she may have had sex with other men before your father? What is so immoral about that anyway, considering you're not a conservative religious man? Men with a high number of sexual partners are less likely to be affected by it. The still risk catching STDs and getting other women pregnant, just saying. Both men and women who sleep around need to be socially ostracized… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 03:19 PM |
| 7 | The Red Pille Rage (x-post from RedPillWomen)how I'd never date high N men, because I do think it's a little gross... Same. At least where I live, these high-N-count men usually don't wear condoms and I'm not here to risk catching a STD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 03:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Friendzone vs Fuckzone is a huge double standardHow often does this actually happen? All the time. Also, how is a man supposed to know if he wants a 'serious' relationship with a woman before he's even had sex with her? Women usually know that they want a serious relationship with men before even having sex with them. Some men do that, as well. It's called life goals. You want a serious relationship and you look for one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 02:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Friendzone vs Fuckzone is a huge double standardThat's why you act genuine, you tell what you want in the future thatd you'd commit, but you leave out you're thinking of another chick when you say it. Doing that in a few weeks is EXACTLY what players do. When it's too good to be true, it's because it is. Like I said.. Players are easy to spot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 02:56 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Friendzone vs Fuckzone is a huge double standardThey wouldn't get laid Men play the game to win, sorry not sorry. I know. That's why they manipulate women. And that's why society judges them. It's emotional betrayal and opportunistic as hell. But only inexperienced women really fall for these tactics. With a little experience and effort a woman can spot a player. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 12:17 AM |
| 18 | The Red Pille Rage (x-post from RedPillWomen)I totally agree. It's scary, in fact. It's some kind of "Oedipus complex" red flag. Saying you're not able to love your mother because she's an actual human being with a sex drive and with a previous sex life before meeting your father is one of the most selfish and absurd things I've seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 10:51 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pille Rage (x-post from RedPillWomen)Yes, it is impossible for me to love my mother and my sisters. My mother, to my knowledge has been loyal and married to my father for 32 or 33 years now. Something like. Not my anniversary so I don't have to know the exact number of years, but it doesn't change the fact she too rode the cock carousel for years before meeting him. So you find it impossible to love your mother because you found out she's actually a human being with a sex drive and had a sexual life before meeting your father. Soun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 10:47 PM |
| 3 | The same logical fallacies and ignorance of evidence keep coming upI've never been asked by anyone about wiping my butt. You didn't get the memo? CDC now wants you to keep a butt-wiping journal. Write down when you did it, how many times you did it, and if you're sure you did it well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 10:40 PM |
| 3 | The same logical fallacies and ignorance of evidence keep coming upThank you for saying this. Seriously. I've been trying to explain this to some people here, but you've worded it better than I did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 10:38 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Friendzone vs Fuckzone is a huge double standardPeople don't blame men for only wanting sex from a woman. People blame men for manipulating women into thinking they want a serious relationship with them only to have sex with them. It's for these stupid mind games and manipulation that we call these men scumbags. If they were honest right from the beginning stating that they wanted sex and nothing else, it would be a whole different thing. People wouldn't criticize their honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 10:34 PM |
| 3 | SMV Scale Starts at 5 for Not Obese WomenWHATEVER You say. If he doesnt know them that doesnt mean it doesnt exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Tactics are Identical to Panhandler Tactics on the StreetsAlright, kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Tactics are Identical to Panhandler Tactics on the StreetsNow it sounds way better, phew!/s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 05:44 AM |
| 3 | SMV Scale Starts at 5 for Not Obese WomenI have. They exist. And they're not that rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 05:39 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Tactics are Identical to Panhandler Tactics on the StreetsWhores Forget it. Impossible to have a reasonable talk with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 05:38 AM |
| 3 | SMV Scale Starts at 5 for Not Obese WomenThere are chubby chasers. There's a porn category called BBW. There are men who love big women. Seriously? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 04:47 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill Tactics are Identical to Panhandler Tactics on the StreetsI don't think you understood what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Tactics are Identical to Panhandler Tactics on the StreetsDread = fear of loss. Anything that has value carries fear of loss. Automatically. LMR = literally any hesitation. You can fuck most girls by just being authentically ok with them not being comfortable yet. Negging = teasing. If you believe women can't be teased you are the one who thinks of them as children. Or mental deficients, because frankly I can tease my 5 year old nieces and nephews. Plate spinning = not dating exclusively. Really dude? If this is abuse basically all women are abusers. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 04:04 AM |
| 19 | If making friends with people is supposed to help you go on dates then why does the term 'friendzoned' exist?Making friends gives you a network through which you'll meet other people, by going to parties, by being introduced to new people and friends in common, etc etc. It's not that people make friends expecting to find dates in their friends circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 02:58 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Post Wall Women Have It Pretty GoodIt is indeed dangerous, but I'm just saying it's still a possibility for many 40-year-old women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 02:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Post Wall Women Have It Pretty GoodI've seen women over 40 having kids, just saying. And redpillers already said I'm post wall because I'm 30 shrugs I don't give a damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 01:54 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?Because I READ WOMEN'S MAGAZINES. I know. And you can see the pressure on women not only in women's magazines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?For God's sake, I don't need to google anything. I live in the real world, just like you. If you can't see my point, you're in absolute denial, which is something that doesn't surprise me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?A quick search shows that women's magazine covers focus on fashion and sex appeal over motherhood, business careers, or being a housewife. A quick search shows you're wrong. But you tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:59 AM |
| 2 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?He is disconnected indeed. I'm still waiting to see who's gonna pay for my bills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?I don't think you understood my point. I'm talking about the fact that women are expected to be perfect all the time. Perfect lovers, mothers, businesswomen, housewives. Any cover of any women's magazine will show you that. And to make it clear, I live in Europe. I know very well how life is in a 1st world country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?No, the opposite How exactly you think women are being treated by society, then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?You don't even make sense. Can you actually answer what I'm asking you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?You call me sexist and misogynistic You can be in denial. It's alright. Here's one: that society and the media today in first world countries push heavily for women to be perfect housewives and perfect mothers You mean you're trying to defend this point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?You call me vague and yet you're not defending any point so far. Only thing you did is trying to imply that I'm not able to debate since I come from a 3rd world country. I can see that you have no arguments at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?Your post history is enough material. Now, before you keep on with the random meaningless sentences, what point are you trying to defend anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:36 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?I am not offending you when I call you a sexist. I am describing you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?And you wonder why people who don't live in 3rd world countries find your broad statements to be incorrect when applied outside of them? Actually, only misogynistic sexist people like you disagree with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:29 AM |
| 1 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?And you probably live in another planet. But I'll let you have your daily dose of ad hominem attacks since you have no arguments to refute what I said. And yes, I live in a 3rd world country, and I have no reasons to be ashamed of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:26 AM |
| 1 | SMV Scale Starts at 5 for Not Obese WomenIf there are more men who appreciate fat woman than vice versa, how are woman more fat shamed than men? I didn't say more men appreciate fat women than vice versa. I said both parts have a hard time finding partners. But women have it worse because they're more often fat-shamed than men. Read everything before twisting my words. Also fat shaming as a whole is probably for the better. Okay, being fat is a risk factor for many diseases. So is drinking alcohol. So is eating too much sugar. So is sm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:24 AM |
| 2 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?21st century, when women are still being pressured by society, media and men to be at the same time perfect housewives, businesswomen, lovers and mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:20 AM |
| 2 | SMV Scale Starts at 5 for Not Obese WomenNo I'm not going to make a tinder you thick fuck You're mad now. Aw. I'm giving you the option of putting yourself in the shoes of a man and maybe gaining some empathy. It's funny that you're talking about empathy when you just called me a thick fuck. It's just a fact a fat woman is a lot more desirable than a fat man. Yes, THERE ARE MEN WHO APPRECIATE FAT WOMEN. Did I ever disagree with you on that? But fat women are way more fat shamed than men. Women are more shamed than men. You tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:14 AM |
| 2 | How much does the burden of performance relate to men's gender-related complaints?The major difference is women are rarely punished for failing at one of these roles the same way men are. Women have had been pressured by society, media and men to be both perfect housewives and lovers and mothers for centuries. You're absurdly wrong. A snide comment about an untidy house is different than being called a "man child" or a "deadbeat". It can actually be very offensive to some women to hear that her house is untidy or her food tastes like crap. Or that she's a bad mother. A hurt e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 12:10 AM |
| 0 | SMV Scale Starts at 5 for Not Obese WomenBUT my question is do they have an equally hard time as fat men? Yes. wedding videos, like a few antecdotes mean anything. Videos of real people getting married are not anecdotes, they're real life. Quite differently from the fan fictions entitled "field report" in TRP. make a profile as a fat man, then with a fat woman, and don't find a significant difference in matches, I will literally become a feminist. Do it. I dare you. Lemme find in my schedule the time I will spend to do what you're dari… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 11:59 PM |
| 0 | SMV Scale Starts at 5 for Not Obese WomenI am going to resist calling you names. Aw, thanks! You almost seem like a decent human being. Maybe I'm in the wrong You're wrong. doubt the fact that a fat woman would have like double or triple the sexual options of an equally fat man on say, tinder? Both fat men and women find it more difficult to find partners. But at least fat men are not so often fat-shamed. There is no such thing as a "big beautiful man" type that I know of at least. Just google some wedding videos and see how many of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 11:45 PM |
| 0 | SMV Scale Starts at 5 for Not Obese Womenan equally fat man has no body positivity movements to fall back on and would actually have to pay for sex. Actually, not. Society doesn't put so much pressure on men to stay fit and be beautiful as it does on women. Nice try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Like I said... you to believe fat women have bad hygiene. Believe that. You need to rationalize your hate. Do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Right. Whatever you say. You need a stupid reason to justify your fat shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?HEALTH =/= HYGIENE. Poor hygiene may lead to bad health, that does not mean poor health equals bad hygiene. Wow, people are lacking basic concepts there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Assuming that this stupid "SMV standpoint" is a real thing, huh? I don't live in the RP universe, I live in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 09:52 PM |
| 6 | SMV Scale Starts at 5 for Not Obese WomenWhy RP men are so reluctant to admit that many men find fat women attractive? Why do they have so much anger against fat women? I'm not fat myself, but I'm always amazed by the amount of unwarranted hate. I fortunately don't have this kind of hate against fat people at all. It must be exhausting. That being said, a fat woman can totally be a 10. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men want to protect women in public anymore?I'm not even talking about chivalry here. I'm talking about basic human decency. Humankind is losing it. Nowadays we see cases like that one that happened in Florida, a man drowned in a lake and teenagers were filming everything until the man died - and they didn't even call 911. This case here: men will sexually harass women, and other men don't care to step in and stop this behavior. Is exactly the same thing. Men usually defend each other, even if "the other" is harassing and/or attacking a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?fat woman is equivalent to the gross weirdo creep on the spectrum with bad hygiene. No. The female equivalent of a male gross weirdo creep on the spectrum with bad hygiene is a female gross weirdo creep on the spectrum with bad hygiene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 09:37 PM |
| 3 | I just don't know what to doNo, women's attraction rely much less on physical aspects than men's attraction. Of course, a good-looking guy will catch a woman's eye, but to say that a woman will be willing to date him just because he's good-looking is a whole different story. Most guys who I fell in love with weren't even a 7 in the looks department, but it was their attitude that caught me. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/17 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?fat people are unhealthy, therefore they have bad hygiene. Many fat people HAVE EXTREMELY GOOD hygiene. Please, find another reasons to continue with your fat shaming because this one is not working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Morbidly obese women get men because men are that thirsty What about skinny women who date Fat men? Is it because they hypergamous or because they are thirsty too? I am confused now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 06:17 PM |
| 0 | The Chemist's Big book of StatsThere is massive evidence this 80/20 theory is bullshit as well. So? We will never know the right answer. We are not talking about Clinical trials here. I think men who support The 80/20 theory are those losers who dont work on self improvement and Blame women's supposed hypergamous behavior for being incels. Sorry not Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 06:16 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Post Wall Women Have It Pretty GoodAccording to delluded RP men, Because I am 30, I am post Wall. Lol. I am much happier now than when I was 20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Yes, yes there is similarity there. You are wrong and I am right. That is a very Clever attitude in a debate,especially when you are comparing Fat women with gross, creepy People. The fact that there are fat women in marriages and relationships doesn't mean they're getting sex, or that the men in them are really really sexually attracted to them, OH so now you know what every Fat woman's sex life is like?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Because obesity in women in similar in unattractiveness to grossness, weirdness, creepiness, autism, and poor hygiene in men. No. There is no similarity at all. Fat women, grossly obese women, are sexually unattractive to men. IF this stupidity was true every Fat woman would be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Oh okay. You are comparing obese women with gross, weird creeps. Really. I CANNOT even imagine why you are single. ETA - ok, you are not single. You are just shameful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?No, I'm comparing fat women with gross, weird creeps on the spectrum with bad hygiene. I have no idea why you are still single. Bad hygiene has nothing to do with being Fat or thin. Bad hygiene has a lot do with health and how you take care of yourself. Fat people do not have bad hygiene habits. Drop this comparison. It is ridiculous. Nobody is willing to date someone with bad hygiene, including you. Now Fat women? There are beautiful Fat women out there. There are men very Happy with their Fat … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?You are comparing Fat women with People with bad hygiene. If that isn't Fat shaming I dont know what is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?A girl who is obese isn't available? You dont think she wants to date? Wow. you have to pass the attractiveness threshold before you get consideration. If you're not even baseline attractive, you're not in the running and therefore "not available". So, like I said, if you cant find a partner it is not because all women are rejecting you, it is because OF your standards. You are not willing to date those willing to date you. Are you really telling us that men need to date grossly fat obese women?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:34 PM |
| 5 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Available girls include obese girls they are not willing to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?It wouldnt be Hard if they were willing to date available girls. They are the ones who are making it Hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Just ask your friends who actually Live a life and dont just nag on Reddit. They will probably agree with me. It is not Hard to find a date, problem is, everybody has standards. Available girls May not exactly please a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?If you get off Internet you will see it is not that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There too much focus on getting casual sex by low smv men in all this red/blue/black pill talk compared to finding a long term relationship.I have seen RP men here actually claiming they want to commit. The denial is astounding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Male Financial Status and AttractivenessHis financial status wouldnt be the reason to leave him No. I HAVE dumped rich men before. I dont care about money, I earn mine No. Actually it makes me expect he will probably be an arrogant douchebag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Q4W Are there any unattractive women among us? How's dating been for you?I think I am attractive, people who know me think I am attractive as well. I am not interested in dating right Now, though I have options if I wished to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Have you seen other women come to this realization?I totally agree. I think both married and single women can be very Happy or very miserable, it all depends on how you Live and see your life. Problem is..Society thinks being married is the only path to happiness for a woman. Ironically enough this same society thinks singledom is the only path to happiness for a man. So this is why we have a sick society : single women wishing they were married, married men wishing they were single. Women have to learn singledom equals happiness as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 02:20 PM |
| 1 | The Chemist's Big book of StatsBehavior in Tinder =/= Behavior in real life. Quite ridiculous comparison tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?you feminists thinking female on male rape isn't an issue. never said that. And I was more contradicting you on your claim of men being the primary rapists. is it a lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?You clearly do not understand my point. Forget it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:44 AM |
| 1 | The Chemist's Big book of Stats[insert facepalm.gif here] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:23 AM |
| 1 | The Chemist's Big book of StatsTinder Study. Let's cancel real social studies, Tinder studies are here to stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If you believe that men aren't any better than women, just better at being men, then why do you also believe that women want someone who is better than her, and not just better at being a man?I agree with you. Sexism is everywhere. And feminism is exposing it , not hiding from it. Too bad sexists are feeling offended. They're the ones who hiding from their own prejudice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If you believe that men aren't any better than women, just better at being men, then why do you also believe that women want someone who is better than her, and not just better at being a man?Your sexism is showing. Carry on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If you believe that men aren't any better than women, just better at being men, then why do you also believe that women want someone who is better than her, and not just better at being a man?That's your belief, to be honest. Most psychologists and social researchers nowadays would disagree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If you believe that men aren't any better than women, just better at being men, then why do you also believe that women want someone who is better than her, and not just better at being a man?Masculinity and femininity are just the gendered sides of humans. Gender =/= gender role. They don't dictate roles! So I'm confused. Genders do not dictate gender roles. Society does. I will quote the most appropriate definition of gender roles, IMO: Gender roles are "socially and culturally defined prescriptions and beliefs about the behavior and emotions of men and women" gender roles are closely linked with gender stereotypes. Stereotypes are "overgeneralized beliefs about people based on the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If you believe that men aren't any better than women, just better at being men, then why do you also believe that women want someone who is better than her, and not just better at being a man?I don't understand why you deny both genders instead of Embracing both genders. Who said I'm denying genders? I am rejecting gender roles, which is a totally different thing. This makes zero sense. It makes sense to many people who believe in gender roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If you believe that men aren't any better than women, just better at being men, then why do you also believe that women want someone who is better than her, and not just better at being a man?No, YOU and people who think like you are just reinforcing the same inaccurate bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?Alright, I have read it before you edited it. Now I get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If you believe that men aren't any better than women, just better at being men, then why do you also believe that women want someone who is better than her, and not just better at being a man?It does not make sense. It just perpetrates the same gender role bullshit. Human traits are HUMAN traits, period. Saying being helpful is feminine makes young boys believe a helpful guy or someone who helps with the house chores is a sissy, for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?I did not say that. I said most rapists are men. Please read what I said before saying inaccuracies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?Like I said, you cannot compare FEMINISM with SEXISM. Feminism is a social movement with its ramifications. I am as feminist as a radfem, that does not mean I will believe in all the same things she does, but the core beliefs are the same - we want social justice, equal rights, etc. Sexism is prejudice. Just like racism. Not a social movement. No ramifications. Gotcha? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?What point are you trying to make anyway? What did anger you so much about my remarks? You're trying to "contradict" me when in fact I didn't even mention that men are not raped. I don't even know what kind of antagonism you're trying to show, if it's against ideas I didn't even mention. It's like you're arguing with yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?Actually your remarks were a clear attempt to offend me. But I do not feel offended, I'm just perpetually rolling my eyes at your immature replies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?I agree with you. A feminist woman is a feminist, period. She believes in feminism. What are you even trying to say? Feminist is a social movement. Sexism is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?Its more the university labeling men as rapists when women rape men as well. But various feminists don't think women can rape men Women can rape as well. But we all know most perpetrators of sexual violence in college campi are men, not women. And it's a VAST majority if you compare male rapists vs female rapists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?Ad hominem attacks. Nice try to have a decent debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?Just because a man is sexist doesn't mean he is going to be sexist in the same way as the next sexist man. By that I mean one sexist man could be sexist in one way while another sexist man could be sexist in another. Sexism IS sexism. There isn't some kind of spectrum here. There's no way to be more or less sexist. A sexist man cannot be more or sexist than the other. It's just like racism. You can't be more or less racist. Meaning you can have a man that sexist towards women when it comes to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?Sexual misconduct is not rape. It's almost like you wish it was though. Gotta wring those hands! Sexual misconduct includes rape, sexual abuse, harassment and etc. Look it up before saying inaccuracies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?Read my entire sentence. You're not even making sense at this point. You're just writing random sentences. Calm. Down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?I don't think you know what you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.How does he control when it's time to commit when your examples of it are him asking? He asks when he thinks it's the right to commit. It's quite obvious. He decides when it's the right time. Not the woman. Fnally, internet porn - while it serves a purpose of relieving pent up sexual frustration, it isn't anywhere near as good as the real thing. That doesn't mean some men out there actually prefer porn over having a real relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?PRINCETON HAS A BIGGER VIOLENCE PROBLEM THAN AMERICAN PRISONS! Did I ever say that? You're the one who mentioned rape in American prisons. Calm down, drop the caps lock. Nobody is attacking you, this is just reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If you believe that men aren't any better than women, just better at being men, then why do you also believe that women want someone who is better than her, and not just better at being a man?Male: Ambitious Respected Competent Risk-taking Strong Emotionally stable Brave Dominant Funny Female: Nurturing Youthful Helpful Conscientious Polite Tidy Beautiful Chaste Kind Bubbly Submissive Why are we still dividing HUMAN traits into feminine and masculine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?Why are you even comparing one thing with the other? Wow, they should just use federal prisons as college campuses because they are safer! Who knew our best and brightest were 5x more violent than your average federal prisoner! When you decide to drop the sarcasm, let me know. Then we can have a proper debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?Not only rape. Rape, sexual harassment and sexual misconducts. According to a 2016 SHARE survey, 25 percent of undergraduate women and 16 percent of graduate women at Princeton experienced some type of sexual misconduct during the previous school year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Princeton U. has a new "men's engagement manager" to battle male aggressiveness. Please explain how men are supposed to have a positive self-image when they are continually smeared as hostile and sexist?If you're not a rapist or a rapist-wannabe, there's no reason why you should be offended if the university is trying to fight against rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:25 PM |
| 5 | My opinion towards the red pill.Men who are so angry towards women can never be alpha. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/17 09:21 PM |
| 3 | I just don't know what to doThat cliché "If you don't love yourself, you cannot love somebody else" is indeed a cliché, but it's true. Honestly you seem to be a VERY insecure person. Insecure people ARE NOT attractive. You don't believe in yourself. If you don't believe in yourself, chances are you're not acting in a spontaneous, confident, relaxed way - so, that means you could never seem to be an interesting, pleasant men. Insecure people - be them men or women - find it hard to find relationships because they give off a… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/17 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.You "argue" like a teenager. Honestly, a waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.I definitely do not hate men. I just find it very unpleasant to have this whole useless debate with men like you, who project and find the first opportunity to engage on ad hominem attacks. I prefer clever debates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.I am not projecting. I am pretty aware that not all men do that. I'm talking about men who'd get into a relationship only to get easy sex. Did you read the entire sentence? Listen, calm down, this is just Reddit and it's just me, someone who has a different view of things. Relax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.Of course women are picking men who won't commit, because women only date up. Many millennial men do not want to commit, period. Even if they're dating women worse than them. There are plenty of men who would happily commit to these women, but they are not interested in those men. That's because they'd get easy sex, not because they actually want to be in a committed relationship. If they could spin plates, they would. It's quite obvious, I don't understand how you don't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.I mean, no, that's not really true - she holds almost all the cards there. It's his commitment versus her access to sex, and her access to sex card beats his commitment card every time. She controls access to sex. He controls when it's time to commit. Men propose to women. Men ask if they want to be their girlfriends. It's quite... OBVIOUS. I like how I, a man, am continuing to be lectured to about what it is like to be a man and what some of us "prefer." Good stuff, right there. I am not a man,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.I was sort of this guy in the past, but... then I discovered red pill, and one thing they're spot-on about is that men's only power over women, which is relatively weak comparatively, is commitment. Men SHOULD withhold it. They DO withhold it. If they didn't, women wouldn't have to have the whole "let's define the relationship" talk. Men are the ones who decide if the relationship will take a step further, not women. Only men who don't feel confident enough to have casual sex are willing to comm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.I could say the same thing about you. You're projecting your own beliefs onto society, instead of analyzing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.No, they're willing to commit, while men are resisting commitment. It's quite obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.Whatever you believe in. In romantic relationships, men is usually the one who decides if the relationship will take one step further or not. Women are the ones having the "let's define the relationship" talk because men are the ones resisting to commit. But you have the right to believe whatever you want to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | The Chemist's Big book of StatsAnd EP is debately a pseudoscience and certainly a shit show of a field. Their studies are generally with small groups that put no real effort into making them reliable. Most of them just sample 100 psychology majors. Then they draw amazingly lofty conclusions from their shit data. I was horrified to see that Evolutionary psychologists claim that 30-60% of people cheat, based on a study that asked a few hundred people in the Baltimore airport. Yes, I agree. All these studies based on reports and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How do male camaraderie and female camaraderie compare?The aspects of female and male camaraderie may change in different cultures, age groups, countries etc etc. It's a waste of time to discuss about this is a generalized way, to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.Oh, and I'm not the only one to say that. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/elite-daily/a-generation-of-men-unwilling_b_1812232.html Could mention more sources, but honestly I have more things to do. Anyway, stop projecting your needs. It's not because you're willing to commit that most men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.I'm getting the sense that you really have no fucking idea what an average man's sex life is like, which is not remotely surprising to me. A man not having sex that often does not mean he's willing to commit that easily. And RP men would spin plates if they could. And most of them are definitely not looking for girlfriends, only casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | The Chemist's Big book of StatsI totally agree with you. These studies are not clinical trials and their data is not 100% reliable. However, considering RP takes their info from so called "studies", it's good to see there are other studies that completely contradict their misconceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.I think you and I have different concepts of what an "average" man is. Even RedPill advocates a man should never commit, only spin plates. Your argument is invalid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.The average man readily commits because the average man doesn't think he has options. The average man nowadays knows he has many options on the palm of his hand, eg: Tinder. It's the age of non commitment, casual relationships, FWB, hook-ups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:20 PM |
| 2 | The Chemist's Big book of StatsYes, it does. Educated women have more chances to have a happy marriage. If they're educated, and assuming they're hypergamous like RP advocates, they would not be happy in their marriages at all. They wouldn't even GET married, because they only want to date down. However the study shows The percent of women currently married in their first marriage increases with education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:12 PM |
| 2 | The Chemist's Big book of StatsThe percent of women currently married in their first marriage increases with education; 37% of high school drop outs are married compared to 63% with a master’s degree or higher Education in women is a better predictor of marital success than men; 39% of women who were high school dropouts were still married after 20 years compared to 78% with a college degree. For men, this trend is 54% and 65% respectively. This pretty much contradicts what you just said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | The Chemist's Big book of StatsYou're talking about real data, they're talking about THEIR assumptions of the world, which doesn't mean they're true. Don't worry, you're not crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | The Chemist's Big book of StatsThe percent of women currently married in their first marriage increases with education; 37% of high school drop outs are married compared to 63% with a master’s degree or higher Education in women is a better predictor of marital success than men; 39% of women who were high school dropouts were still married after 20 years compared to 78% with a college degree. For men, this trend is 54% and 65% respectively. I guess this pretty much shows women ARE NOT hypergamous and shows how the 80/20 theor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: When dating, does his or her selection of beer, wine or other drink have an impact on your decision to continue dating?The only way his selection of alcohol would have an impact on my decision to continue dating was if I realized he was an alcoholic. I don't even drink so I honestly couldn't give a damn. HOWEVER, many men have told me I was very uninteresting for the fact I don't drink alcohol at all, which I find ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Do beautiful people have to work harder to be approachable even if they have good personalities?I agree with you on the fact that being beautiful does not make things easier. Some men think a very attractive woman is out of her league and will never approach her. Others have the very sexist view that women who are extremely attractive are probably slutty and they don't want to be with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:03 PM |
| 11 | I just want closure. Women, I have one question for you. Please.Honestly, many things made me change my mind, I could write multi-paragraph essays on that. But the TL;DR version of it would be : I have realized the RedPill "wave" is absurdly hypocritical and unrealistic. Hypocritical because RedPill men expect women to display traditional values, while they themselves want to spin plates and not commit to any woman. Hypocritical because at the same time they're yelling at men to become better versions of themselves, it's a cult that doesn't allow men to actu… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/17 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.Most men commit far too quickly, fearful that they're not going to be able to find anything better. What kind of men are we talking about here? I'm talking about the average man. Listen, even hikikomori, who are recluse men in Japan who basically never leave their basements, refuse to commit to a real woman. We live in the age of the non-commitment. Don't try to tell me otherwise. Men definitely do not commit as easily as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 06:34 PM |
| 1 | "Misogyny" is just hatred of female sexualityMainstream, progressive, more-that-slightly-feminist society gave them a set of social scripts and messages, and these messages spectacularly failed to lead these people anywhere. No. These were all values spread by patriarchal media. There's no feminism in that at all. men only want sex and/or intimacy because society told them they want it, and they'd be perfectly happy with celibacy and loneliness if not for the "patriarchy". I don't think men only want sex because society told them, HOWEVER,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?Almost everyone hates feminists though, with good reason. I won't waste my time trying to argue with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?they'd realize that there are tons of quality guys out there just waiting to reject them XD Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?It is not that bad to normal guys. Now to men like Roosh V, who I doubt has ever had sex, It is hard because they are creepy and obnoxious as hell. But then they will post videos on YouTube with Fan fictions about How many women they fucked in Eastern Europe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Giving a crush something elaborate is something beta and a bad idea.I would find It weird since You are not even friends with her. Not "Beta" because i dont believe in This kind of bullshit. Just weird. You are not close to her enough to give her presents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Should men protect themselves from false accusations the way women protect themselves from being assaulted?The cases we are talking about are rape cases. Sex was involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?You dont even make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?Sexist men are ALL the same regarding their sexism. Do not pretend You dont get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 12:00 PM |
| 13 | I just want closure. Women, I have one question for you. Please.Woman here. So, women, I'm going to ask you a question out of mercy. This is the only way to find out. Women of reddit, are all of you hypergamous? No. We want men who are our equals, not better than us. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/17 05:19 AM |
| 3 | What is the most abusive thing someone has ever done to you?Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 02:55 AM |
| 3 | What is the most abusive thing someone has ever done to you?I won't move to another city because I like my job here, and it's very hard to find another job where I live. Also, they don't work with me anymore. I don't like the idea of having my reputation damaged by them at all. Luckily for me, some of these colleagues who actually believed in them don't work with them anymore. Some still do. In order to keep my sanity intact, I decide not to give a fuck if they either believe in me or in them. I know my reliability, I know I work hard and I know I'm a ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 02:45 AM |
| 2 | What is the most abusive thing someone has ever done to you?One of them has moved to other state, and the other one is not working with me anymore (though he still works in the same company), and honestly, I am glad I don't have to see their faces. But like I said, damage is done already. Many colleagues still DO NOT trust me, they don't think I'm competent or reliable because they have spread absurdly offensive and damaging rumors about me. ETA - Thanks for the nice words! And the hug :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 02:33 AM |
| 1 | "Misogyny" is just hatred of female sexualitymale dysfunction, bitterness and modern-type misogyny? These are caused by patriarchal values that spread toxic masculinity. Men who have sociopathic tendencies, who don't show emotions, who earn a six figure salaries, who have a six pack, who are bulky, who have sex with 10 different women every week, etc, etc, these are the ones valued by the patriarchy, not the guy who works hard, has a decent job, a normal body, and is faithful to his wife. Boys are growing up with the idea that being like t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Should men protect themselves from false accusations the way women protect themselves from being assaulted?if they were raped they should go to the police or i dont care and dotn think any crime happened That's a very simplistic view of crime. Also, it shows a lack of empathy. Like I said, I have been robbed and I didn't report. That doesn't mean a crime didn't happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 02:20 AM |
| 3 | What is the most abusive thing someone has ever done to you?why do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Should men protect themselves from false accusations the way women protect themselves from being assaulted?If it wasn't consensual it was actually a crime. But you have the right to interpret the way you want, since it happened to you. That doesn't mean those other girls weren't raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 02:17 AM |
| 3 | What is the most abusive thing someone has ever done to you?A little bit, to be honest. But not only that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Should men protect themselves from false accusations the way women protect themselves from being assaulted?I am a woman and I was "date raped" when I was 16. So, was it or wasn't it a crime to you? Do you have title ix campus rape tribunals in your country? Not that I am aware of. Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 02:05 AM |
| 4 | What is the most abusive thing someone has ever done to you?I was both sexually and emotionally harassed by two co-workers. When they saw I would not accept their advancements, they started to spread rumors about my reliability as a professional, trying to damage my reputation. I have suffered months of what I call now emotional breakdown, feeling fear and anxiety everyday for just having to go to work. Sometimes I would turn on my cell phone with my heart almost coming out of my mouth because I knew there would be harassing messages sent to me there. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Should men protect themselves from false accusations the way women protect themselves from being assaulted?I have friends who were raped in college. They did not go to the police. Yet, it is a crime. What you don't understand, though, is that women don't report rape for a bazillion of reasons. They fear retaliation, harassment, being bullied. Being in college is NOT EASY. Imagine if you were a girl, and someone drugged you and raped you - having the guts to report the fact to the police is something VERY hard. The rapist may very well retaliate or even kill you, people may say you're lying and that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Should men protect themselves from false accusations the way women protect themselves from being assaulted?I don't know what your concept of rape is, rape is any kind of sexual advance that is not consented. So what you call "campus date rape" is indeed "criminal rape". ETA - Regarding American law - I am not American, I had written that based on another article I have read, and I have corrected it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men&Women: What are some of the sexiest things you do to attract a potential partner or tease the opposite sex?I don't do anything in order to look SEXY. I just do me. I try to be fun, outgoing, empathetic. Just like I try to be to anyone else. Trying to look sexy sounds a little bit desperate to me. I honestly don't have this kind of need. I like to wear nice clothes and makeup, but I do it for myself, not to please anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 01:51 AM |
| 8 | Should men protect themselves from false accusations the way women protect themselves from being assaulted?Marital rape wasn't not even illegal in some American states some years ago, so of course some men would never be prosecuted. That doesn't mean rape didn't happen. But if you want data: http://www.wikigender.org/wiki/marital-rape/ Until 1976, marital rape was legal in every state in the United States. Although marital rape is now a crime in all 50 states in the U.S., and the first marital rape case to reach the U.S. court system took place in 1978 in New Jersey, where Daniel Morrison was found g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 01:47 AM |
| 4 | Should men protect themselves from false accusations the way women protect themselves from being assaulted?"Rape" as we discuss it here stops existing outside of college so stop fucking worrying about it There's even marital rape. Rape is not a college illusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 01:20 AM |
| 8 | Should men protect themselves from false accusations the way women protect themselves from being assaulted?Who has it worse? Women who are sexually assaulted, or men who are falsely accused of sexual assault? Are you even in doubt about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 01:18 AM |
| 7 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?I am talking about sexist men. Gotcha? They're all the same - sexist. To make it clear: sexist men are sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?To these men, women never get it right. I am pretty sure I did not generalize men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 12:42 AM |
| 7 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?Exactly. Women are always being taken for granted, no matter what they believe in and what they do. If a woman is traditional, cleans the house, takes care of children, respects husband -> "lol the only thing they know is how to wash the dishes anyway" If a woman is independent, hardworking, knows she must be respected and her needs must be acknowledged -> "damn I hate these opinionated bitchy feminists" If a woman is conservative, wants to wait till marriage to have sex -> "these frigid church … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Do women have more fun in life than men? Does it depend on SMV? Does it depend on age?This is GOLDEN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Do women have more fun in life than men? Does it depend on SMV? Does it depend on age?Just imagine the fun that they must have flirting, being beautiful, wearing beautiful dresses/heels/hairstyles, being joyous/effervescent/fun, getting men excited/turned-on/horny, getting men wrapped around their finger, getting men in the palm of their hand, and having endless on-demand as-much-as-you-want orgasmic sex with hot/cool/smart partners. Newsflash: a woman's life is not a Sex and The City episode. We'd love it to be, but it's not. getting men wrapped around their finger, getting men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: We know "Chad" represents personified insecurity to men, and "Stacy" represents the hot girls that ignored men. Do women have a female personified form of insecurity ("Zooey")? If no, why not? If yes, what is she like?The Cool Girl doesn't even care about being in a relationship, tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think about people who act like women have identical views?This comes from toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity and patriarchy believe everything feminine is toxic and should be fought against, no matter if it comes from a traditional woman, a feminist, a trans woman, etc etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 11:03 PM |
| 4 | Have you seen other women come to this realization?I am the last single woman among my lady friends. Why? Because I haven't met the right guy, I'm not obsessed with meeting the right guy, and my life is pretty much fulfilled. I don't miss having a relationship at all. My past days of having relationships were filled with anxiety and stress. If I meet THE ONE guy, I'll settle down. If not, you better be sure I AM VERY HAPPY with my single life. And I look at my friends' marriages and honestly? I'm glad I'm single. I don't envy them. At all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.it's bullshit to suggest that without also noting the reverse - men also commit instantly. WHAT? IF they commit, they may commit instantly, but most men DON'T even commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, do you know of a chad in real life? If you do, what would you say makes them so appealing?They could hit on women for an entire evening and laugh at every rejection, until they met someone with whom they clicked. Yes. They're usually suave. And confident. It's nothing to do with a fit body or money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD, do you know of a chad in real life? If you do, what would you say makes them so appealing?If it's true, it is a story about a man who is such an extreme outlier that no real conclusions can be drawn from it, other than he's an outlier. But OP only asked about women and their experiences/opinions. Nobody is trying to draw a conclusion from anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Women of PPD, do you know of a chad in real life? If you do, what would you say makes them so appealing?Men who look and act like that get laid, sometimes often. But not 100+. I call bullshit. You can call it anything you want,that doesn't mean she is lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Women of PPD, do you know of a chad in real life? If you do, what would you say makes them so appealing?I have never seen This is what I said. I am talking about my experience. And OP is asking about our experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.Women will just go for an increasingly elite group of men at the top, or they'll just date women. Have you ever heard the testimonies of single women in Japan?Most of them claim to be single because men are not interested in dating them. And men themselves agree with this statement. So, honestly you're wrong. Women usually are very willing to be in a relationship. Resistance comes from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 02:19 PM |
| 9 | Women of PPD, do you know of a chad in real life? If you do, what would you say makes them so appealing?Not a triple digit N. That doesn't happen in any realm of reality, unless most of them are hookers. I know many men who are like the one she described who easily have a triple digit N count. You're not living his life to know. Exceptionally charming and fucking hilarious men get laid. They can, sometimes, not usually, get laid often. But not to the tune of 100+ women over a lifetime. Does. Not. Happen. That's YOUR assumption, it's not real life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 02:18 PM |
| 17 | Women of PPD, do you know of a chad in real life? If you do, what would you say makes them so appealing?If you have never met a guy like the one she described who has sex quite often, you don't live in planet Earth. For once and for all, IN ORDER TO HAVE SEX OFTEN YOU DO NOT NEED, AS A MAN,TO BE BULKY,TO HAVE A SIX PACK AND TO HAVE A SIX FIGURE SALARY. exceptionally charming and fucking hilarious This is what probably makes it so easy for him to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD, do you know of a chad in real life? If you do, what would you say makes them so appealing?I don't disagree with you. Most men only care about sex, hence their poor life and partner choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Why do red pillers complain about women not settling down and getting married while simultaneously refusing to ever get married?I wouldn't like it if women waited till marriage for sex; but I probably would have more respect for women and would be less sexist if that was the case. The fact that you'd be "less sexist" only if a woman made you wait makes you even more sexist,just saying. I think having sex in a monogamous bf/gf relationship is perfectly fine. Which is what most people do. You're no snowflake here. I honestly would rather have sex with the same woman who I love then engage in a bunch of casual encounters wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Women of PPD, do you know of a chad in real life? If you do, what would you say makes them so appealing?Lol those women have plenty of worth to him though. Chads only worry about vaginas,so I'm quite aware of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Why do red pillers complain about women not settling down and getting married while simultaneously refusing to ever get married?I personally am probably gonna find myself an Eastern European woman to marry when I want to settle down and have kids. Polish women in particular I like. Not only are the gorgeous, they're usually very well educated, intelligent, homely, feminine, and lack the kind of shitty bitchy attitude that women in the western world have. Have you ever been to Polland or any Eastern European country at all? I am sorry to disappoint you,but we are in the year of 2017, most women from European countries hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 01:50 PM |
| 2 | "Misogyny" is just hatred of female sexualityLinks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 12:30 PM |
| 1 | What would happen to sexual and dating dynamics if the welfare state was completely eliminated?If MGTOWs didn't have to pay for alimony anymore, guess what guess what - they would still hate on women, they would just find another stupid excuse to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 12:28 PM |
| 2 | How important is the quality of sex to you?I don't give a damn about sex at all if the guy I'm dating is a good person, a good friend, smart,can make me laugh and doesn't treat me like garbage or cheat on me. Sex is necessary to a relationship? Yes. Does it need to be Babylonian-wild? No. Does the penis need to be huge? No. Is reciprocation necessary in terms of sexual activities? Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 12:27 PM |
| 8 | Women of PPD, do you know of a chad in real life? If you do, what would you say makes them so appealing?The only "Chads" I have met in real life are obnoxious men who find it easy to get laid with women - women with no self esteem or dignity because they accept the poorest behavior from them. I have never seen one of these "Chads" with women who are actually interesting and/or have some kind of sense of self worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.The majority of men have about 50 to 100 years before they're socially, politically, and economically obsolete. Why do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 12:22 PM |
| 2 | "Misogyny" is just hatred of female sexualityDoes feminism, especially in its modern form, actually foster more appreciation and respect towards women? Do the activities and demands of feminists really help create better gender relations? Yes. Feminism is giving women the courage to fight for their rights,to have voice against sexism and patriarchal environments. Problem is - some men do not respect feminists because patriarchy is very useful to them. That's the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 12:21 PM |
| 2 | "Misogyny" is just hatred of female sexualitygender roles are ingrained in our DNA. That's a very absurd thing to say if there's no scientific evidence of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 12:20 PM |
| 3 | "Misogyny" is just hatred of female sexualityI think some of them hate traditionalist women because they hate ALL WOMEN. But I've seen MGTOW actually wishing to find a woman who's more like a Stepford Wife that doesn't talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 12:19 PM |
| 5 | Why do red pillers complain about women not settling down and getting married while simultaneously refusing to ever get married?If all women decided not to have sex till marriage I mean yeah that would suck but I would still like and respect that kind of girl more than girls today. Guys tend to dump women who want to wait till marriage nowadays. Drop the hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Why do red pillers complain about women not settling down and getting married while simultaneously refusing to ever get married?BUT, because of the sexual revolution, that dream has been ruined. What dream of yours has exactly been ruined by sexual revolution? How did it exactly ruin your dream for you? there is no longer marriage worth-women, What is a marriage worth-woman for you today? And what makes YOU think YOU are a marriage-worth man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Men's view of women's competencyWhat I enjoy the most about this thread is that men are basically writing multi-paragraph essays to mansplain their mansplaining. Fascinating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Men's view of women's competencyMen have gigantic egos, but their egos burst as easily as a bubble. Glad you've realized that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Speculations about the future of human sexuality.Look at Japan. The whole world will become Japan. People will be more interested in having sex with sex bots, jerking off to hentai and posting pics on Instagram instead of having a real relationship. I see asexual people in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: Adult heterosexual men being attracted to adolescent girls is completely normal and healthyNow someone out there is trying to normalize pedophilia and the likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: "Women are like children, taking them seriously is often a mistake." Is this a misogynistic statement? Is this a sexist statement?It's both of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 03:39 AM |
| 3 | "Misogyny" is just hatred of female sexualityLet us just notice that 68% voted for the killing of women in that poll you posted, OP. This is the reason why we need feminism. These men were brought up by patriarchal society that infested their minds with toxic masculinity. They feel CHALLENGED when they see women having voices and power. I have read in other website an angry MGTOW say "we want women who cook for us, take care of us, comfort us.... but they look like men in skirts now". It's such an absurd remark! Men can't see women are sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL How do you define the heart of masculinity and femininity? A look at The Damsel in DistressI'm better than her in every masculine way. Whatever you say. I'm not in your relationship to argue on that. I just found your previous comment, and this one, very cringe-worthy. love of nature and animals. Loving nature and animals makes you a decent person, not feminine. my masculinity is stronger, her femininity is stronger, as it should be, because we're biologically designed that way. And here comes the gender role bullshit again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Religion isn't the only factor but it's easily the biggest What makes you say that? And Asia has more than 10 religions, so I honestly don't think you have a point here. ETA - I still doubt you're Asian. Any Asian knows not every Asian is a Buddhist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL How do you define the heart of masculinity and femininity? A look at The Damsel in DistressThis is a misconception of what a traditional power dynamic and relationship is like. It's not. We've had centuries of traditional relationships. They were far from being egalitarian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL How do you define the heart of masculinity and femininity? A look at The Damsel in DistressShe knows I'm superior, and love hates it haha. Yuck. Whatever you wish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Rising sexual inequality among males could have disastrous political and social consequences for Western societies.Lots of men without potential mates Lemme correct it for you: Lots of men unwilling to commit to women nowadays. Source: TRP and MGTOW, groups that believe a man should never commit to a woman at all,and that only reflect the neo-sexist ideas that have influenced millennial men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:10 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Rising sexual inequality among males could have disastrous political and social consequences for Western societies.Japan is one of the richest nations with the most productive employees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL How do you define the heart of masculinity and femininity? A look at The Damsel in DistressShe much prefers I take the lead and she brings up concerns as she has them. That sounds pretty much egalitarian to me. In a non-egalitarian relationship, she wouldn't be allowed to bring up her concerns at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?It's not a symptom. IT IS A DISEASE. It's listed in the DSM-5, and in the ICD. You wanna say medicine is wrong for enlisting depression as a disease now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Bots have the typical millennial generation dating profile down to a T. Means it must be the vast majority now.I honestly have this conspiracy theory that Tinder makes the whole matching process so shitty to make people pay for Tinder Plus so that they can "super like" people. But that's just a guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Culture doesn't exist to you? Yes, which doesn't mean a whole continent has the same culture. Do you think most of Europe is more dissimilar than similar? Dissimilar, for sure. Does religion influence culture massively? Yes. Do Asian cultures have a history of Buddhist influence? That does not mean religion is the only factor that influences a culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL How do you define the heart of masculinity and femininity? A look at The Damsel in Distressand she likes it way more than when we did things more egalitarian. Care to elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL How do you define the heart of masculinity and femininity? A look at The Damsel in DistressDisclaimer: my reply is not about what you wrote, which is accurate considering what society believes in, I just want to leave some thoughts here. Honestly, I do understand your argument completely, but I DO hate to see that traits like "Nurturing, tolerant, cooperative, open-minded" are considered feminine. They reflect the idea that being nice is acting like a girl, and it only encourages toxic masculinity. We see it on Reddit for example. If a guy suddenly starts defending a girl when she's b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL How do you define the heart of masculinity and femininity? A look at The Damsel in DistressYou have in both of them, well developed masculinity and femininity, but each sex shines their sex's side most strongly. You're talking about traditional gender roles and I don't believe in that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you have many friends of the opposite sex?Yes. Most of my friends are gay men. They have helped make my life more complete, more fun, more joyful, more inspiring, just like good friends do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 11:42 PM |
| 7 | Q4women re: the importance of physical attractiveness/penis sizeA big penis doesn't mean a good performance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 11:42 PM |
| 5 | Q4women re: the importance of physical attractiveness/penis sizeYou are told he has an average sized penis, 5 1/2 inches erect. However, this contestant LOVES giving oral sex and is a master at it, his tongue is the stuff of legends among women. Otherwise he is exactly the same as Contestant A. Obvious choice. I don't even know why you thought women would be in doubt here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 11:41 PM |
| 0 | Q4Women: What do you think are the messages of the Disney movies that you watched as a child? What were the messages exactly? And how much of an impact do you think these messages had on your life?Beauty and the Beast? A violent abusive man and a condescending gold digger. HAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA Thanks for the laugh! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What do you think are the messages of the Disney movies that you watched as a child? What were the messages exactly? And how much of an impact do you think these messages had on your life?Messages conveyed by Disney movies to young girls: A man will be your savior; Your only value to the world is your beauty and performing talents such as singing/dancing/etc; aka your only function in society is to entertain; Women are usually feeble and sloppy, which is what makes them so adorable; Men are the smart, sensible ones, so trust them everytime and let them make all decisions, since you can't make them yourself; If you don't end up with a man falling in love with you, you're a social … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Like I'm focusing on how they approach relationships, love, and their general attitudes. Honestly, I'm no Asian and not pretending to be one, I'm just using logic here. To say more than 4 billion asians approach relationships the same way - to say that more than 45 countries have similar approaches is a gross generalization to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Guess Pinterest wasn't your thing eh? Nice argument. Keep doing that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?haha no? That's not even that much of a controversial opinion. Depression and suicide are completely rational. You're underestimating the impact of depression in such a way that's even offensive to whoever has suffered from depression, including myself. I can't believe that you lack so much empathy. Oh, I'm not saying people with "psychological disorders" are good for the economy. I'm just saying they're not "ill". That's one of the most insensitive and cruel things one could ever say. I hope yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?As a "Latina" myself, I'm not jealous of anything. And frankly my dear, the fact that a random Reddit user likes to insert his penis in brunettes, blondes or giraffes doesn't disturb my sleep at night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Wow, you're underestimating the impact of psychological disorders on a human being now? You don't think depression is a disorder? And I'm not even mentioning the economical impact of psychiatric disorders. Thank God those who are really in charge of public heath systems and organizations don't think like you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Considering psychology has a heavy problem with repeatability and any real evidence for any of it's conclusions, and the fact that it has barely had any practical use in society, it's not to absurd to call it a pseudo-science. I am a biased STEM-god though. You're using the term "pseudo-science" to say that psychoanalysis is bullshit and has no reliability to be mentioned on a debate. We were not talking about numbers, we were talking about human behavior - in fact, you started the conversation.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Are you sure you're Asian? I've just showed my Asian friend the things you're saying and she's appalled at your misconceptions. Also, I'm pretty sure many other Asians would disagree with you, I know many Asian people and the best thing you can do to offend them is to put them in the same bag to judge their character or their cultures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?I can cite other pseudo-scientific bullshit too, doesn't really change anything. So psychoanalysis and Freud are pseudo-science now? Okay. You have the total right to disagree with Freud and his theories - like many psychoanalysts have done and still do until today - but to call his work pseudoscience is absurd. You need to educate yourself before saying this kind of thing. blah blah egotistical notions my ass. It's "unhealthy" to be accepted by others, you shouldn't even be on the internet. Go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you believe bitchy women are more likely to succeed (in work and relationships) than nice women?Like what? Hard-working, commitment, loyalty, willingness to learn new things, etc, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Hardly that unique for it to matter. http://fusion.kinja.com/not-all-asians-are-the-same-heres-why-thinking-that-way-1793861710 I think this article proves it actually does matter when you think all Asians are alike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Whatever your definition of "healthy" is is where your argument stands and dies. No one cares what YOU think is healthy. You're the one who first messaged me trying to prove me what's wrong or right. Honestly, no one cares what YOU think is wrong or right either. Egotistical purposes drive most neurotic behaviors. Any psychoanalytical book will teach you that. There's a whole field called ego psychology, which was rooted in Freud's model of mind, not MY MODEL. Of course you could analyze psychol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you believe bitchy women are more likely to succeed (in work and relationships) than nice women?If they make good decisions, why not? People with low IQs don't make as many good decisions as people with high IQs. I am not talking about exceptions to the rule here. There's just too many anecdotes and stories of normal people doing well Like I said, being smart - only smart - is not enough. Also it's obvious that some people have traits that compensate for their low IQ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?I mean. I'm Asian. So I know first hand. Alright, if you say so. You and I have different concepts of what being "romantic" is. Also, I'm pretty shocked that you as an Asian put all Asian countries in the same bag to judge their culture. Asian countries have very different and unique cultures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you believe bitchy women are more likely to succeed (in work and relationships) than nice women?Hell, some great people have had less than 100 IQ. And you honestly think most of these people will have GREAT SUCCESS in life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?The fact that people want to be accepted by others drives pretty much everything that goes down in society. And it is not healthy, because it is an egotistical motivation. Everyone has egotistical motivations, that doesn't mean they're healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?I love Latinas. Why? Idk. Probably highly dissimilar blood. Is that racist? Yes. I love how romantic Latin culture is. I hate how devoid of romance Asian culture is. You have a pretty much stereotypical view of cultures. Also, I don't even know how you came to the conclusion Asian culture is devoid of romance. Many famous romantic stories come from Asia, for example. And many Asian countries believe in the purity and innocence of romantic relationships. That's pretty romantic to me. There's much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you believe bitchy women are more likely to succeed (in work and relationships) than nice women?Smartness is irrelevant. Don't think a dumb person would survive in most corporate environments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Bots have the typical millennial generation dating profile down to a T. Means it must be the vast majority now.What really annoyed about Tinder was the huge amount of matches who never messaged the people they matched with. I'll never get it. Sometimes I'd match with a guy and send him a message, and he wouldn't reply. Of course there are million reasons why he wouldn't reply, but to me if you match with someone, you're interested in taking things further (aka - talking and meeting) with that person. Am I right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Looking for validation in anything or anyone but yourself is not healthy. Not talking about sanity, but about healthy behaviors. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?I still fail to see what's your point and what exactly you want to talk about, so I cannot say much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Desire is one thing, obsession is the other. It applies to anything. What point are you trying to make? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Yes. I am no moralist, but if you have the absurd necessity to compulsively have sex with many different people in order to be satisfied, something is not exactly right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:12 PM |
| 0 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?I am not. It was a racist remark. I'm sorry if you're in denial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?Racist as well, since most 3rd world countries are either Latin, African or Asian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you believe bitchy women are more likely to succeed (in work and relationships) than nice women?Are doormats stupid? Not necessarily. I didn't say that. I said that to be sucessful you have to smart, confident and not to be a doormat. You can't be an asshole or a bitch without confidence and being assertive. Wrong. There are bitches with low self esteem out there, disguised as contempt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?It adds to it. It's one thing to only read or watch stuff about women of other cultures. It's entirely more to experience them and desire them in person This whole "men desire women of different cultures because they're of different cultures and they're curious" thing sounds pretty much racist to me. Sorry, I don't think you meant it that way but it made my stomach churn and I hope it's not the case. Most men I've heard talking to me about cheating or things I've read etc show me men usually che… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Do you believe bitchy women are more likely to succeed (in work and relationships) than nice women?The person with no boundaries doesn't succeed. I think you and I are talking about different things. Only people who knows their boundaries and how to set them succeed. You don't need to be an asshole to prevent people from taking advantage of you, you just need to be smart. Smart, confident and assertive people are sucessful. Not assholes. There are assholes who have these 3 traits as well, that's why they're successful. But there are broke ass assholes out there as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?so when they're ready for a wife or LTR, they better know what they want Someone may very well marry with the partner of their dreams and cheat on that person later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Know what makes it harder? Multiculturalism. There are men of different races and cultures as well, but women don't display the same wish to have sex with different men all the time, so I doubt it's because of multiculturalism or the fact that there are different kinds of women out there that men want to have sex with lots of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Q4ALL: Do you believe bitchy women are more likely to succeed (in work and relationships) than nice women?No, this is the heart of someone who knows their boundaries. Being bitchy is a whole different thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?The thrill of the conquest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Does sex have to be withheld from men for the betterment of society?No. Men must learn they're not entitled to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Bots have the typical millennial generation dating profile down to a T. Means it must be the vast majority now.Used to be on Tinder. Guys used to think I was a bot until I proved them I wasn't. My conclusion after years of using Tinder - Tinder is a huge waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: pick just 2 of the following in an SO: sane, hot, or smartSane and smart. Hotness is just stupid. I don't even like the "hot" type of guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Should we semi-sterilize humans at birth and un-sterilize them when they pass a test to be a parent?You know, there's one thing called contraceptive methods. They "semi-sterilize" people until they're prepared to become parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Do you believe bitchy women are more likely to succeed (in work and relationships) than nice women?Smart, confident, not-taking-any-kind-of-bullshit women are the most likely to succeed. And these traits can be present in both bitchy and nice women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Genuinely sexy/attractive/beautiful males are WAY rarer than genuinely sexy/attractive/beautiful females.I've seen many genuinely sexy and attractive beautiful adorable males in my life. Most of them were gay, but I've met some fascinating straight men too. An argument my personal experience does not make, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Toxic masculinity. And their shattered egos need this absurd amount of sex with many different women to compensate for their lack of self esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?Actually, you said that me being a 3rd world country doctor couldn't possibly be smart. That's pretty much racist to be honest. I never called you dumb. You need professional help. You've been throwing tantrums and overreacting when talking to many people in here. Your ego is way too invested. Get help. Blocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?Actually you did. You made racist remarks. And you condone rape. And you think women who were raped shouldn't complain. As a woman, I'm pretty much offended. No problem, I've already reported you. ETA - Stop editing your answers and using things I've told you in them. It's pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What common things that are said on this sub make you sad?"Women throw tantrums when talking about rape, abuse, social disparities". It will take a long time until some people finally get the real point of feminism and stop projecting their angst on a movement that only asks for equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:38 PM |
| 12 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.Women should suck it up with bad sex life and satisfaction too. Also, they should stop bitching about getting rape, Hope you don't see any real person being raped. That person would be very miserable to have someone like you around her. because rape wouldn't even exist if women wanted men as much as men want women. Why don't women suck it up and stop bitching? Now I get the tantrum. I couldn't have a decent argument with someone who condones rape. That's not the majority of men's problem, becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:28 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.I didn't offend you, with stuff you called ad hominem, if you feel offended, that's not my problem. Suck it up. You should do the same thing, because you've been throwing a tantrum over what I said for a while now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.I wasted a lot of time on your posting history and should "educate myself" instead wasn't ad hominem No, I did not offend you. If you feel offended, it's not my problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.Ad hominem attacks now? Didn't know my past life was debate-worthy. And then I'm the one who's projecting. Look, relax. You don't have to like every idea you read on Reddit, but don't be so fazed by them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.Everybody is delusional. Human kind is delusional. But when I'm talking about men, and the fact that they're sometimes delusional, I use the words: "Men are delusional". Got it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.I think you're the one who's projecting here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.You're trying to say porn leads to break ups. I never said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.I'm not cherry picking anything. I'm a medical doctor. I've worked in an OB/GYN department for years. I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them?Really sorry to read that. I hope you're over this terrible period of your life and the he finally left you alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 11:04 PM |
| 6 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them?He lacks empathy. And he seems to have a magical solution for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 11:03 PM |
| 3 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them?HAHHAHAHAHAHA! 100% accurate tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.Good for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 10:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.No woman has ever been concerned if my enjoyment was sincere. So you broke up with every woman you've met? If you did escape those relationships, good for you! Now you gotta understand that not everybody is you. LIke I said, you need empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 10:13 PM |
| 5 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them?Oh, thank you very much for your nice words. It's alright. I fortunately am a hard candy, and I could deal with that very well. I won't deny it made me quite cautious regarding men but overall my mother is a great mother and she always taught me to stop the good guys, even if my father wasn't the best male parent figure around. I feel sorry for my mother for having dealt with such tremendous amount of bullshit, she's basically a saint for having endured that and still keeping her chin up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 10:11 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.No woman has ever been concerned if my enjoyment was sincere. I often times fake enjoyment just to excite her and to bring her to climax. No woman has ever questioned this "acting." I will use your own logic to enlighten you: why don't you simply stop being a cry-baby and tell her? Or... break up with her? Grow up! Stop complaining! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 10:07 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.I don't mean that women had to deal with ALL the things I have mentioned. But yes, many women - including myself - have dealt with one or more things I have listed. I've listed these points because to say women have a SUPER PLEASANT sexual experience - like OP said - is a mistake. Usually, it's just... okay. Men tend to imagine women having multiple orgasms in every sexual intercourse and squirting and moaning like a sexual goddess but we all know this is not what happens, and this delusion is p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 09:33 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.I can see you have no more arguments, so you'll use the "oh you victimized women" trick you had hidden in your sleeve. Boy, get out of your bubble and go practice some empathy. You need it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 09:28 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.They are not the norm. They are the reality. I've worked in a OB/GYN department AS a medical doctor for years. I have heard many stories, and cases. Get yourself out of your bubble and at least try to have some SYMPATHY for women who have a miserable sex life. There are many of them out there. You're a man, you couldn't possibly know what if feels like for a woman. Drop the mansplaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 09:17 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.Patriarcal society has taught women that the sex they get from their partners is the best sex they could possibly get. First of all, until some years ago it would be very shameful for a woman to admit she had an orgasm. An orgasm used to be regarded as something only whores would have. So, some women even feel ASHAMED for having an orgasm. So if they don't have it, they think it's completely fine. Then, some women wished they had orgasms, but they feel ashamed to tell their partners what they wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 09:15 PM |
| 9 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.Many women do. Some of them don't even realize it's abuse. Some of them don't even realize these things are weird, they think it's normal and part of the female sexual experience. Source: Medical doctor. Worked as a OB/GYN assistant for years. I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 09:08 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.You're a man, so it's impossible for you to know what sex feels like for a woman. Like I said, the best you can do is educate yourself, and accept the fact many women have to deal with one or more points I've mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 09:07 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.Are you a man or a woman? ETA - By looking at your previous posts, I assume you're a straight man. So, from your male perspective, you couldn't possibly know what the sexual experience feels like for a woman. The best thing you can do is read this, educate yourself, and accept it is a reality for a good amount of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 09:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.Didn't know my sex life was debate-worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.I didn't notice a preference until well into my adult life, and my psychoanalysing of myself thinks that maybe having a daughter, and changing/bathing her has subconsciously ruined or killed that being a sexy look to me. I totally get the feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:53 PM |
| 5 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them?Yes, I'm glad I could learn how to spot potentially abusive men just by looking at my father. Thank you for your empathy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:49 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.I honestly don't think a discussion regarding women's sexuality is over the top. It's clear some people here are clueless about what sex feels like for a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:46 PM |
| 10 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.If any woman has to deal with any of the points in your comment, she has an incredibly shitty asshole as a "partner". What you describe is like, the exact opposite of an idealized world. I don't know what kind of world you live in,but women usually have to deal with at least one of the things I've mentioned. And how you like to keep your vagina's hair, it's none of my business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:44 PM |
| 10 | What's the worst thing a man has done to you while you were with them?I don't have many unfortunate stories to tell, because I fortunately knew how to dodge bullets and avoid douchebags. But lemme tell you the story about my father and what he did to my mother. One - when they were dating, he used to work in a company and my mother applied for a job as a secretary, in the same department my father used to work. It would be a great opportunity for my mother's career. My mother got the job, but when she went to the office to sign the contract, she found out another … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:43 PM |
| 15 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.Well, like you said "ASSUMING THAT SHE ORGASMS"... You're talking about an ideal scenario, but we don't live in ideal scenarios, we live in reality. In the real world, a woman, while having sex, has to deal with: the fact that she probably won't have a vaginal orgasm at all; the fact that the guy may feel "disgusted" to go down on her; but on the other hand, he will want her to go down on him, and it doesn't matter if he's not trimmed, if his balls stink, if he has disgusting bodily substances a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Does male sexuality disgust you?inducing sex and the city and other stuff like that isn't depraved surrealistic porn for women. I don't think Sex and The City is as depraved as gonzo porn or those prolapsed anus porn videos that men usually watch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Does male sexuality disgust you?For instance, there are a TON of guys in red pill right now (and probably 90+% of the incel community) who cannot understand or discern the boundaries around what is understood to be "creepy" behavior by society at large. This is a major social failing on their part. This is the best thing I have read in PPD. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Does male sexuality disgust you?Yes. Men are absurdly simplistic and shallow when it comes to sexuality and relationships. It doesn't simply disgust me, it disappoints me as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Does male sexuality disgust you?--women enjoying being ravished/near raped/jackhammered to death by very attractive men --women with fantasies about being raped, having threesome with unknown men --women cheating on husbands with much more attractive men --women admitting candidly that they don't find their husbands sexually attractive --women candidly admitting they love hooking up with very sexually attractive men --women casually and callously dumping faithful husbands for unhaaaaaaappiness --millions on millions of women d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Has social media created a society of narcisst?We human beings are narcissists by default. Social media only enables us to show how horribly narcissistic we can be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 07:56 PM |
| 3 | What's the worst thing a woman has done to you while dating her?Well crack open a cold sparkling water, sit down and kick up your feet because good ol' cxj has a tale for you! I read it as if Samuel L Jackson's character in Django Unchained was saying it and it made my day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Men can have sex as often as they want, they won't be judged for that, they won't be called sluts, people won't think they're more prone to cheating; Men are seen as more reliable and smart in professional and academic contexts; Men still earn more money than women; Men's salaries are still higher than women's; Men are less likely to be raped, stalked, victim of revenge porn, experience intimate partner violence; Men are less likely to suffer sexual harassment; Men are less likely to be interrup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Weird cause I was raised in a culture where men and women had completely equal rights, yet I was unaware I live in a Patriarchy! Where can I get some male privilege, I'm waiting for it You have plenty of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?No, I am not. Patriarchy damages both men and women. Go read a little bit about toxic masculinity and the expectations patriarcal society have from men. Go watch the documentary "The mask you live in" or read some books by Phillip Zimbardo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:24 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW is the way to go (from an average man). My theory on why this is the case is that for almost all of human history sex was the only real way for a man to have great pleasure, as well as fufilling his desires. Now we have porn, sex toys, an endless supply of TV shows and movies for entertainment, anonymous forums to have deep conversations, and drugs to make you feel good/get a rush. The MGTOW movement will only grow as men can fufill all of the needs a relationship fills (cheaper) in the consumption market along with the rise of recr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Women shouldn't judge men for being virgins either. Patriarchy makes: sexually liberated women be seen as sluts. virgin men be seen as despicable and losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?A woman having many sexual partners is doing no wrong to nobody, so she shouldn't be judged harshly for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Discussion: Do people have an obligation to become monogamous and breed in order to benefit society? Should they?Most single women DID NOT decide to remain single because of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Its pathetic you take so much offense to a word. I have nothing against sluts, they're actually pretty great. I'd just never date/marry one and neither would a lot of men. You're a MAN, so, you cannot understand how offensive it can be to a woman. But it is. Imagine society saying that you become garbage only because you do what humans do : have sex. And then men are praised for it, and women are seen as garbage. Respect the women's right to have sex and respect them if they do it. They're not g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:05 AM |
| 5 | Discussion: Do people have an obligation to become monogamous and breed in order to benefit society? Should they?Being single has nothing to do with having sex. It has to do with not wanting to have a partner at that moment. I think you focus on sex way too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?I am not saying that, I am just saying that it's pathetic when you say women who are sexually liberated are sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Your arguments don't make sense because they're barely there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Do people have an obligation to become monogamous and breed in order to benefit society? Should they?What makes you think that being a single woman means "taking dick every weekend"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Feminists and BP's are ignorant to what most women want which is a partner with a steady incomeStudies about relationships are not reliable because they are solely based on polls and reports, which are not reliable sources of data because people LIE. Look at what they found: that a majority of women state that a steady income is an essential trait in a partner. Yes, that's what these women are looking for in a partner, IF THEY ARE LOOKING FOR A PARTNER. But are ALL women looking for a partner? Also, does anyone want to be a with a broke person? Men don't want to date a woman who has a tre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?I'm not attracted to sluts, you're not attracted to incels. How can you say what I am or am not attracted to? Imagine if I said "what makes you think all women are as narrow minded as you. Women love misogynist wife beating men. Stop judging" That doesn't even make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Mansplaininghttp://www.hitc.com/en-gb/2014/12/12/need-scientific-proof-men-are-stupider-we-got-that/ That males are more likely to engage in risk-seeking behavior and face emergency hospital admissions as a result has already been well-documented, but a new study published in British medical journal BMJ also noted that men excel at a special class of truly "idiotic" risk. | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/17 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Just because women have different standards in men than men do towards women doesn't make one right or wrong. Don't you think it's a very flawed society we live in , for judging women for having sex partners but praising men for the same thing? Aren't we all human beings in the end? And what makes you think all men are as narrow-minded as you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:46 AM |
| 1 | There is no WGTOW because women need men more than men need womenThere's no WGTOW because what you call WGTOW are in fact radfems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?I am not attracted to virgin men or sexually liberated men or whatever men. I am not attracted to labels. I am attracted to MEN. If a man I'm attracted to is a virgin, fine. If he's not a virgin, fine. I don't care. Couldn't care. Oh, and I don't believe in studies regarding relationships, because like I said, they solely depend on polls and reports,which can be flawed, since people sometimes lie. But since YOU are quoting studies, there are MANY of them - in fact most of them regarding cheating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Do people have an obligation to become monogamous and breed in order to benefit society? Should they?Yes. There is some kind of "social obligation" to get married and have children. But nowadays, I don't think it has anything to do with morals or religion to EVERYBODY. Religion and morals play a part, but to most people they don't. Nowadays, I think people get married purely because they want to have that ego trip. Especially when it comes to women. Unfortunately, many women nowadays still have that sexist notion that a woman's only worthy and respectable when she found a man who wanted to marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Yes, I have realized that. But then they'll say they do not feel threatened by any of them.. The delusion! Thanks for the support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?You know very well all these studies regarding relationships can very well be failed. All of their data is based on what people REPORTED them. Some people lie, some people pretend. It's never a very reliable source. It's not a clinical trial. How can you be so sure that, if you marry a virgin, she won't cheat on you either? That's a very flawed logic to be honest. What is so bad about being a girl's 20th partner? Many women are a man's 100th or 200th partner and are not making a fuss about it. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Definitely not, most people here who are saying "sluts" are a lost cause. But at least I'm trying to give some insight, calling sexually liberated women "sluts" is very pathetic in 2017. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Pretty solid IMO. Lock and key. Used car with miles or new one? Are women cars now? What makes a woman who has had more sex partners than you expected her to so invaluable to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:06 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most of the time a guy is called creepy he is making a bold move on a girl way out of his leagueSo your saying whether or not someone consents to something has nothing to do with physical attractiveness? Exactly. ETA: Every female male interaction doesn't involve consent. You can't even get consent to tell a girl she is hot or beautiful. You can TELL her anything you want, but we are talking about ACTIONS and MOVES, not words. And even if you tell her what you want, you'll have to deal with consequences regarding what you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?No one is allowed to call a woman slut only because she had more sex partners than you wanted her to. Men have as many sex partners as they want and they don't have to be called such an offensive word. In fact, they're highly praised for having many sex partners. You calling sexually active women "sluts" comes from the premise that women who have many sex partners are less valuable for a relationship than the ones who doesn't. And that, my friend, is a very shitty argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Calling women who have had more sex partners than you wanted them to "sluts" is more than shitty to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?I made a shitty one inspired by you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:55 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have the power in both sex and relationships.Nowadays if a woman wants to save herself for marriage --> prude, guys kick her butt. If she wants to have sex freely and wildly like men do --> slut, guys kick her butt. I don't know what kind of power this is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?No one wants to become monogamous with a known slut. I don't think this is very 2050. Sounds more like 1950. Or 1850. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What percentages of your friends "ride the cock carousel"? Do/Did you?Why are we still referring to women with many sex partners in here as sluts? Am I in the 50s or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them.And what I see is western men as a whole falling behind in the most important area of life: education. The structure of society nowadays is not preventing men from getting good education and a good academic performance. Toxic masculinity and patriarchy are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:48 AM |
| 0 | Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them.I'm glad you were offended. I am here to debate. Not to offend. Let alone be offended. Good luck with your whole MGTOW thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Follow up discussion on Google Data expert's porn findingsthey absolutely do. A man who controls and obsesses over them is the ideal personality. Didn't know women liked creeps. But of course, you, as MAN, know very well what WOMEN want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do women want to see men cry so badly?Women want to see flashes of good father and protector Behavior under the shell of a hard masculine man that is Comfort building. I think it's pleasant when men, being them "traditionally masculine" or not cry and/or feel comfortable with their own emotions. It's not like "masculine"men are allowed to do it but "unmasculine men" can't carry it off. There's no such a thing as masculine man or unmasculine man, and one is not better or worse than the other. We have our own personal identities, labe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do women want to see men cry so badly?I don't have a crying fetish and I don't exactly want to see men cry. I just wished we lived in a society that taught men how to deal with their emotions, and not repress them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you guys know any people who are STUNNINGLY good-looking but have serious mental disorders or serious social difficulties or both?Yes. Stunning people have mental issues (sometimes even more severe than the ones of not-so-stunning people), they do drugs, they shit, they fart, they vomit, they shart. Life is not a romantic comedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Have you ever misread someone's niceness as flirting?No. I usually do the contrary - I misread someone's flirting as niceness. I think it's quite pretentious to think people are flirting with me, so I'd rather just think they're nice, decent people. However, I was mistaken a few times. I'm quite slow, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 03:58 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Most of the time a guy is called creepy he is making a bold move on a girl way out of his leagueA guy is creepy when he's making any kind of move without consent or reciprocation. There's nothing to do with physical appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them.Despite the fact they are to an extent. But I guess its easier to blame men than women, heaven forbid women are blamed for anything. That's the problem, the resentment against female empowerment will never go away if men still believe women are emasculating them. I am not blaming men. Feminists are not blaming men for feeling emasculated. We're blaming patriarcal society for that. Patriarchy affects both men and women. Toxic masculinity, anyone? men being displaced by women. Women can be the bre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them.Instead of actually looking at society, laws or the overall culture, you just say "welp men can't handle it, they are a bunch of pussies". Imagine if men said that about women. "Guess you need to take that raping like a real woman". That is the TL:DR of your entire post with the genders flipped. It is clear to me you have no compassion at all for men. You comparing a change of social dynamics with RAPE is the most simplistic and offensive thing I have read today. ETA - Oh, you're MGTOW. Never mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them.I mean if it was women staying behind at education it would be sexism, but now that it's men, it's because men are lost. When a previously prominent and privileged gender steps down to a less prominent and privileged role in terms of academic and professional achievement, you know there's something wrong. And it's not because women are preventing men from accomplishing things (something which MGTOW and some movements are trying to convince men) , it's because men are lost about what their roles … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them.Ever stopped to think this gender equality stuff is actually making things worse for everyone because that's def what I see. Unhappy men and women everywhere I am a very happy woman regarding gender equality, to be honest. Only sexist people are unhappy atm. I got my low n trad feminine unicorn so I don't even have a dog in this fight. I was part of leftist movements and I saw this stuff coming years ago Good luck!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them.As far as I know, during the last millennia men always had the prominent role in Western Civilization. I do think they're the gender who have less reasons to complain about anything. they're less likely to be killed or convicted of the same crime and if they do get convicted of a crime, they're not going to get as much jail time Where are your data? Are you comparing the same kinds of felony? when areas where men are disadvantaged are acknowledged by pop feminist websites like Slate, Guardian, X… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them.Your last paragraph suggests projection. You claim to find modern masculinity disturbing and problematic, which I'm reading as a roundabout way of saying "threatening". So you assume that men must feel the same about modern femininity. Dehumanizing men by calling us creatures shows that you're probably a bit resentful yourself. Ad hominem attacks? Really? It's a common feminist meme that men are threatened by "strong willed independent career focused women". It's a narcissistic belief, an attemp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them.That's the problem. Women are not emasculating men. Men are feeling emasculated. That's their own problem. If they can't deal with the fact women are finally claiming for equal rights, if they cannot understand why they're doing without feeling bitter or resentful, they need some psychological treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How do you deal with insecurity and the question of what your value is in this world?I know I could be the most perfect woman in the world and my boyfriend could very well cheat on me just the same. How do I not give a fuck about it? Because I love myself first, and I am NOT afraid to be lonely. Thing is, my boyfriend may watch porn, may check out other women, may even be talking to women, but I BETTER NOT FIND IT OUT. If I do, I'll simply dump him. I am not willing to be with someone who doesn't see me as a priority, because I always see my boyfriend as a priority. The moment a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 11:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Healthy adult women are responsible for their own emotions and healthy adult men are responsible for their own ego in relationships.If everyone would learn and struggle to fulfill themselves FIRST, they'd be less disappointed in relationships and what the opposite gender does. Women need to grow up and learn emotional coping techniques. Men need to grow up and find something to DO that will give them the ego satisfaction they crave. Period. slow applause | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Q4 All: Problems men face and what to do about them.What are your top concerns for men in the West and what do you think should be done about them? Right now I think men - some men - feel emasculated when having to face how women have gained a bigger role in society and how we perform better in universities, schools and many other jobs. It's an identity crisis and a huge impact on the traditional masculinity and the male role. This has been widely and wisely discussed by Dr Phillip Zimbardo, who has written the book "Men: Interrupted" and also sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: "Emotional Connection," "Presence," ..what does it all mean?I'm a woman, and I personally don't relate to what women mean when they say they "need an emotional connection" to find a guy attractive or find themselves aroused by him. I don't need an emotional connection to find a guy attractive, but I do need it to fall in love with him and/or actually want to date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Follow up discussion on Google Data expert's porn findingsWomen desire male dominance. Male dominance =/= Physical violence. Moreover : women don't like DOMINANCE. Women like a confident, intelligent, emotionally balanced man. Just like a man likes a confident, intelligent, emotionally balanced woman (well, at least a man who's psychologically healthy does). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of toxic femininity?Thanks to the feminist movement, women have been saddled with the idea that they can do it all. It is NOT AN IDEA. Women can do it all. Just look at the amount of women who are single mothers, housewives and business women all at the same time. THEY ARE DOING IT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Marriage should be abolished, humans were never meant to be strictly monogamousHumans should be free to choose whatever kind of relationship they wish to have. Your logic may seem open-minded but ti is kind of old-fashioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 06:13 PM |
| 1 | [Let's Watch] A feminist movie about toxic masculinity: The Mask You Live InI have recommended this movie before right here, it's amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is generally unable to accept any information that contradicts TRP ideologyThat shithole is an echo chamber. We all know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Should unattractive/ugly men consider plastic surgery to increase their SMV?If it makes them happy, why not? I believe in doing everything that makes you happy if it doesn't damage or disrespect anybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Can we discuss the gender inequality of suicide?Toxic masculinity. Men have to conform more and more to standards of what a man should be like, how they should behave, etc etc. It's pretty much due to societal pressure, weak or no support from friends or family, etc etc. There's a very interesting documentary on this called "The Mask You Live In", I highly recommend it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 11:29 PM |
| 4 | Why not ALL heart disease?Women have heart attacks usually at an older age than men, most probably during the post-menopausal period, because the levels of estrogen plummet, and estrogens are hormones that protect against atherosclerosis. That being said, before menopause, women have much lower risk to have a heart attack than men,because of the estrogen protection against coronary heart disease. After menopause, the rates of heart attack in men and women and pretty much similar. However, a woman's symptoms are often dif… | /r/MensRights | 28/12/16 01:18 PM |
| – | Feminist Mother Rejects Infant Son Because of His GenderIf she's a feminist, she's probably pro-choice, so why didn't she abort the baby? I mean, it would be better for the kid. I feel terrible for this little boy. He has a monster as a mother. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/16 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Woman puts on weight, husband loses attraction, husband forced to have sex with her at all costs. (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)Ever heard of psychological manipulation? That's what she's been doing to him. She's pressuring him to have sex with her when he's clearly stated he doesn't want to. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/16 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Woman puts on weight, husband loses attraction, husband forced to have sex with her at all costs. (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)Ever heard of psychological manipulation? That's what she's been doing to him. She's pressuring him to have sex with her when he's clearly stated he doesn't want to. Now if roles were reversed, everybody would be freaking out and screaming "marital rape". Now because it's man being forced to have intercourse with his wife, people don't give a damn? Ridiculous double standard. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/16 09:54 AM |
| 22 | Woman puts on weight, husband loses attraction, husband forced to have sex with her at all costs. (x-post /r/tumblrinaction)no man is entitled to sex FTFY /s | /r/MensRights | 26/12/16 05:02 AM |
| 4 | Are people really this out of touch?Yep. It's all about pretending to have a lifestyle you actually don't have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/16 03:47 AM |
| 7 | 'At some point, they have to arrest me': Homeless man wants to go to jail to stay warm - ManitobaI've seen it in a TV show once about foster houses, a long time ago, but there are some articles about this, like this one: http://economix.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/01/25/black-babies-boys-less-likely-to-be-adopted/?_r=0 Black babies and boys are neglected and less likely to be adopted, both by straight and gay couples. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/16 02:33 AM |
| 6 | Are people really this out of touch?OP, thanks for making such an interesting thread, which allows us to analyze the issue from a philosophical perspective. Lemme analyze the situation considering not only people who use dating websites, but society as a whole. Things is - it's not that these people are not aware that they're fat and disgusting and want a super model with them - no, they're fully aware of it, but they feel they HAVE to pretend they're super confident. We live in the era of internet, social media, Instagram... we l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/16 09:17 PM |
| 15 | 'At some point, they have to arrest me': Homeless man wants to go to jail to stay warm - ManitobaJust like boys are much more neglected than girls when in foster homes, the same thing happens when it comes to homeless people. Nobody pities a homeless man and everybody thinks he's a lazy bum and/or a drunk. Very sad double standard. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/16 09:04 PM |
| 1 | What's the most inspiring/badass thing your partners have ever done?I don't think my mother is a heroine. I think she's a great example of forgiveness, but I wouldn't do what she did. In fact, at those times I told her I'd never have forgiven my father for what he did, and I wouldn't have let him live in her house anymore. As for men who forgive their cheating wives, my opinion remains the same. I have zero tolerance for cheating. I admire those who forgive the cheater, but I wouldn't do that myself. Or maybe I'd forgive, but not forget or make amends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/16 10:28 AM |
| 1 | So much for "Equality"yes | /r/MensRights | 21/12/16 03:17 PM |
| 5 | What's the most inspiring/badass thing your partners have ever done?My father had the talent to generate a credit card debt of 200k, risking losing our house and making my mother have to pay for his debts and get rid of the money she had saved for years. However, she managed to regain the money she lost on my father's debts, because she worked very hard for it. Also, when she found out my father had cheated on her she forgave him because he had left the house, but his mistress kicked him out of her house and my father became homeless and my mother let him live i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/16 12:58 PM |
| 1 | How can physical beauty possibly be a woman's greatest asset?Humans as a whole have no greatest asset, let us be honest. We're just some genes apart from being a bunch of monkeys. Your beauty doesn't matter anything. Your effort, your hardworking, your education doesn't matter anything either. That's true for both men and women. Let us stop with this whole "WHAT IS SOMEONE'S GREATEST ASSET?" because this whole thing is subjective as hell. What is valuable to me, may not be valuable to you and vice-versa. I'm a woman and I don't give a damn if people think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/16 12:53 PM |
| 4 | So much for "Equality"Right? That's it! I mean, when Jessica Simpson and Christina Aguilera were overweight, I don't think guys would dump them for that. However, even if Amy Schumer had Jessica Biel's body, I think many guys would dump her. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/16 11:59 AM |
| 3 | So much for "Equality"Steve Buscemi yes, Gilbert Godfrey yes, Marilyn Manson, Willem Dafoe, Adrien Brody, Nicolas Cage, etc | /r/MensRights | 21/12/16 11:52 AM |
| – | So much for "Equality"I don't know, ugly is ugly to me. And honestly I've seen some thin ugly guys who are way creepier than the overweight ones. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/16 01:21 AM |
| 69 | So much for "Equality"Also, as a woman, I think his body is COMPLETELY fine. I'd totally date a guy with a body like his. Ripped abs are overrated, IMO. They don't look bad, but I couldn't care less about them. If the guy is attractive already, they make no difference. And if the guy is ugly, ripped abs won't fix the ugliness. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/16 10:13 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Sex cannot liberate women.Actually, even feminists have different views about it. There are sex-positive and sex-negative feminists. Some feminists think sex is not empowering AT ALL. They're the ones who say doggy style represses women, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/16 09:08 PM |
| 3 | They're joking, right?This guy made the right choice and put her in the right lists: https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CzkOhDuUkAAcXxV.jpg:large | /r/MensRights | 14/12/16 03:26 AM |
| 2 | They're joking, right?Women are the ones who most do the thread thing. Example here: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/woman-tweets-story-uber-driver_us_584f02aae4b0e05aded51939 I think men should start using expressions such as "ladysplaining", "ladyspreading" and "ladythreading" as well. If women can be offensive and passive-aggressive, men can be offensive and passive-aggressive too. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/16 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Oxford Students Told to Call Each Other ‘Ze’ Instead of ‘He’ and ‘She’: Feminist compliance tests used to weed out those who question the narrative.I am so tired to have to accept people's psychiatric conditions and crazy figments of their own disturbed imaginations and be obliged to deal with them because they're now regarded as "social justice". Please, everybody who uses "ze" should go strictly to a mental asylum. This whole bullshit is getting out of hand. Damn morons. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/16 03:10 AM |
| 4 | Huffington Post: Asking a woman to smile is basically rape but you should bother men while they are working.This girl who took the Uber ride... Damn.. It made me so mad... And it made me cringe for so many reasons... How desperate and thirsty this woman is? Seriously, leave your charger on purpose in a Uber, expecting to have sex with the driver? Pathetic to say the least. She's so dumb that she doesn't know that Uber's guidelines make it very clear that DRIVERS CANNOT FLIRT WITH, HAVE PERSONAL CONVERSATION WITH, OR SEX WITH PASSENGERS. This is from the Uber website: We all value our personal space an… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/16 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Girl gang sex attack on footballer: Women stripped star naked and filmed ordealIt won't even reach mainstream media because THEY CAN'T DESTROY THE NARRATIVE | /r/MensRights | 14/12/16 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why is friendlessness so unattractive/creepy?I totally agree. If someone has too many friends, it's because this person pleases many different kinds of people, and it's usually because this person is manipulative and fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Why is friendlessness so unattractive/creepy?if I'm going to become friends with someone it's going to be one on one first, and I could easily not even realize that they don't have many or any friends. And if I'm interacting with them enough to want to be their friend then I've already seen some merit in them. And on the other hand I've met awkward or annoying people with many friends, which is good for them, but it doesn't mean that I want to become their friend as well. I totally agree. Thank you for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why is friendlessness so unattractive/creepy?I know plenty of people who have no friends except for their relatives or significant others. If you live in a big city you'll bump into many of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 02:39 AM |
| 18 | Hmmmm.Just like you guys don't know how to show your emotions, you know nothing about hairstyles either. /s | /r/MensRights | 14/12/16 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Why is friendlessness so unattractive/creepy?I don't understand why friendlessness is creepy. Nowadays, it's much easier to be friendless than to have true friendships. Humankind has reached a new peak in terms of individualism. We're losing friends more and more easily and everyday it's more difficult to make new friends. Also, being friendlessness does not mean lacking social skills, being a creep, etc etc. I know amazing people who have no friends, exactly because they're kind, generous, social,and are tired of being taken advantage of.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 02:30 AM |
| 2 | For women who dislike prostitution, where does your aversion come from?I wouldn't be repulsed in any of these situations. One single hookup or one single night with a prostitute, they're all the same to me. It's nothing. Though we can catch a STD in one single sexual relationship, the risk increases with promiscuity. I wouldn't want to be with an absurdly promiscuous man, not because of any moral reasons, but because of my concerns over STDs. Of course, if I met the right guy and he had a promiscuous past, that would not prevent me from having a relationship with h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Hmmmm.If the barber shop has been slammed it is because someone is complaining about it. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/16 02:01 AM |
| 2 | For women who dislike prostitution, where does your aversion come from?What irks you more the guy who can charm and sleep with 1000 women or the man who has slept with only 1 prostitute who has in turn only slept with 100 men. Hm, no. Both situations irk me the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 01:30 AM |
| 71 | Hmmmm.This is so ridiculous. What would a woman do in a barber's shop anyway? Why are they complaining about this? | /r/MensRights | 14/12/16 12:15 AM |
| 48 | InterestingLet's not forget that women are the ones who most kill their own spouses. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/16 12:13 AM |
| 5 | For women who dislike prostitution, where does your aversion come from?I don't have anything against prostitution, IMO it should be legal and those whores should pay taxes like everybody else. I just wouldn't like my partner to have sex with a prostitute because there's the STD risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/16 11:49 PM |
| 1 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.There have been men who have been accused of rape and arrested for it only because a woman said they have raped them, with no concrete evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/16 12:17 AM |
| 2 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I don't like assholes yelling at me on the street either but this is .... too overreaching. Couldn't have said it better. Do I find it classy when a man cat-calls me? No. Does it really offend me in a way I would want a man to be fined? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/16 12:06 AM |
| 3 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.How this is not yet protected by laws against moral harassment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 09:53 PM |
| 2 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.The aim of this law is not to prevent rape, it's to prevent catcalling. Do you not understand how catcalling itself is harmful? How is catcalling itself harmful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 09:42 PM |
| 2 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.If you ever go to a college or university in Argentina and talk to women there, you'll change your mind about "flirtation is much more open and accepted in latin culture than north american culture." It used to be this way. It's not like this anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 04:28 PM |
| 3 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I know the Latin Culture very well. Latin countries have been using the feminist narrative for a long time. The common latin citizen may not think cat-calling is offensive (especially older people), but most teenagers and college students do. The same hysteria that's happening in the US is happening in Latin America as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 04:21 PM |
| 4 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I think it will reinforce the idea that a woman can make a man get a fine if ANY comment he makes about her makes her feel uncomfortable. I think the social impact of such law is much more important than the actual legislative power of it, but I could be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 04:12 PM |
| 4 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I think it's generally normalized, but just like what's been happening worldwide, feminist movement is pushing the narrative against cat-calling and portraying it as "verbal rape". Listen, this movement against cat-calling was basically organized by feminist organizations in Argentina. And it was only approved because the mayor of Buenos Aires was considered to be sexist already and doesn't want to lose public approval. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 04:10 PM |
| 8 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I don't think you understand social implications of a law. I don't think you understand about case law either. Laws can be applied to many situations in different ways, and a woman can totally make a man be fined by using this law to her benefit. If ONE woman in Argentina makes a man get a fine only because he made a comment about her face that will legally allow many other women to do exactly the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 04:02 PM |
| 3 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.Another one here: http://www.lanacion.com.ar/1965046-por-ley-se-podra-multar-a-quienes-cometan-acoso-sexual-callejero-en-la-ciudad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:56 PM |
| 11 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.The original article in English does not say that, but the article in a newspaper from Argentina does say that. Here's the article in Spanish: http://www.lanacion.com.ar/1965046-por-ley-se-podra-multar-a-quienes-cometan-acoso-sexual-callejero-en-la-ciudad So that's what they say about the law: También indica que este tipo de acoso callejero puede manifestarse a través de conductas como "comentarios sexuales, directos o indirectos al cuerpo; fotografías y grabaciones no consentidas a partes íntim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:56 PM |
| 3 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.Exactly. "Let us shut these feminists' mouths so that they can leave us alone. " | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:50 PM |
| 5 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.Because after the murder and rape of that teenager, feminists protested heavily against the government. Also the mayor of Buenos Aires, Mauricio Macri, was heavily criticized by feminists because he once said that women like to be catcalled. This law was only created to pacify the spirits. It's not that Argentina really cares about rapes, if the government really cared about it there would be concrete improvements in security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:49 PM |
| 3 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I have posted here before many cases of men who spent years in jail just because the woman ACCUSED them of rape but didn't have any concrete evidence of it. You think the same thing won't happen when it comes to a mere catcall? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:47 PM |
| 7 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.No, because she's now legally protected. Also, the social narrative nowadays supports any woman who accuses a man of harassment or rape, no matter if she has evidence of it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:46 PM |
| 6 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.The law punishes direct or indirect comments about one's body. So if a guy says "Wow, you have such a pretty face!", he can totally be fined for that, if the woman FEELS she's being harassed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:44 PM |
| 3 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I'm also in favour of the laws banning taking photos of someone in public without the individual's consent and think these should be expanded outside of a sexual context. In this modern age where everyone has cameras on their phones and tablets and an internet where once you upload something it's up there forever, this is an important step to protect individual privacy. I support laws that protect individual privacy as well, and I think taking pics of someone in public should be banned too, BUT … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:43 PM |
| 3 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.So you think the scenario I described to you is not gonna happen? Trust me, it's very likely to happen. Any woman can basically make a man be fined for anything he says now. If she FEELS she is being harassed, she can make a man be fined, and that's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:42 PM |
| 6 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I agree. It will just make men paranoid and hostile, because this law just give support to that stupid narrative that all men are potential rapists. Because honestly, just like most men are not rapists, most men who cat-call women are not rapists either. There's an enormous difference between cat-calling a woman AND raping a woman. Also, there already are laws against moral and physical harassment in Argentina. So, what really pisses me off is when laws are created to support the feminist narrat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:40 PM |
| 11 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.They don't want to ban flirting. You won't get fined for regular approaches. Well, that's what the law says, but what will really happen? Imagine this situation: A guy approaches a girl at a bar. "Hey cutie, want a drink?" Girl says no. Guy says: "Oh come, on, give me a chance! You're too pretty to say no!" Girl thinks this is harassment. Girl reports the guy's behavior. Guy has to pay a fine. Will anyone be against the girl's word? I don't think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:37 PM |
| 3 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.I've been to Buenos Aires a few times and yes, men do catcall women there, but I've never seen anything offensive happen. It's a dangerous city, though, there are many robbers there. But I don't think this law will be useful. It won't prevent rapists from raping women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:33 PM |
| 2 | So now in Argentina if you cat-call a woman, you'll be fined for that.Done! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Is being asked out by a stranger as bad as cat-calling?Guys throw out their principles for hot girls, too, but the difference is that we don't endlessly complain about how dare average women wear sexy clothing. Yes, men's argument has at least some consistency. But these women's logic is purely solipsistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (11 December 2016)So Amy Schumer said she'd move to Canada if Trump won... Why isn't she living there already? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | If an unattractive man is unsuccessful in dating, the best solution is to lower his physical standards and appreciate unconventional beautyhttps://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/comments/4df4iq/i_dont_understand_why_my_life_is_so_different/ I'll always take Reddit threads with a grain of salt, but anyway. I have read the post and though this guy should be praised for his effort, his effort to be physically fit and more social/extroverted is not enough. Why? He's 5'3. I'm sorry, but honestly this is the physical trait that prevents him from meeting more women. Most women want men who are as tall as they are or taller than themselves.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 05:12 PM |
| 1 | red pill advocates a man dating or marrying a woman hotter than him, then emotionally abusing her into thinking she's too ugly to leave him..I've met many who do that, so your theory that "NO woman would dress sexy clothes solely for men attention" is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | red pill advocates a man dating or marrying a woman hotter than him, then emotionally abusing her into thinking she's too ugly to leave him..I never said that ALL WOMEN wear sexy clothes solely for male attention. Some women do, though. What I'm really saying is that some women in their relationships play dread game as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | If an unattractive man is unsuccessful in dating, the best solution is to lower his physical standards and appreciate unconventional beautyThere's always the chance that they'll fail even so. Everybody can fail. Even a physically attractive man can find it difficult to have sex with women, for many reasons. But honestly? I have never seen a man who has truly improved himself and didn't have ANY success with women later. If you know any story like that feel free to share. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 03:35 PM |
| 2 | red pill advocates a man dating or marrying a woman hotter than him, then emotionally abusing her into thinking she's too ugly to leave him..n't soley wear mini skirts and grow boobs for men right? Like maybe it's just a hot day. Maybe she just likes the way she looks in it. I didn't say that, did I? Did you read what I wrote, and the context in which I wrote it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 03:29 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing LESS shallow than judging potential mates on their looksAnyone who says beauty or physical attraction does not matter in a romantic relationship is a hypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 01:49 PM |
| 2 | If an unattractive man is unsuccessful in dating, the best solution is to lower his physical standards and appreciate unconventional beautyI don't think most obese women think they're "just curvy". I don't know all obese women. I am fairly aware that not all obese women think they're only curvy, but trust me, many of them do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 01:43 PM |
| 2 | How would TRP account for a woman like me?Look, I'm sorry if I sound offensive or rude, I didn't mean to be rude, what I'm trying to prove you and make you understand is that you're not different from any other woman just because you don't like penetration or masculine men. I'm sorry you've been through a bad relationship, look at my previous reply and you'll understand my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 01:40 PM |
| 3 | How would TRP account for a woman like me?The circumstances that made you break up with him don't matter. That's not the point. What I'm trying to say is - the concept of AWALT is not "all women like to be penetrated, submissive in bed and love ripped guys with bulky bodies". The AWALT concept is more about hypergamy and how women will NOT tolerate men who depend on them or who can't take the lead of the relationship. If you ever face a man who doesn't take the lead, someone who makes you make the important choices and decide everything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 01:37 PM |
| 2 | How would TRP account for a woman like me?Have you ever been through a situation in which you were dating a guy you felt was a complete loser? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 01:29 PM |
| 3 | How would TRP account for a woman like me?Have you read the post I linked you to? Read it first and then you'll understand what I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 01:27 PM |
| 4 | How would TRP account for a woman like me?I don't think you truly know what the AWALT concept is all about. If you want more info you should read this, it's a very good text: https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/586/the_facets_of_awalt That being said, the fact that you like feminine men and don't like PIV does not invalidate the RP theory and does not make you an unicorn, a snow flake, or an exception. When TRP says AWALT nobody is saying all women are submissive and/or like guys who look like Channing Tatum. There are many Red Pill Wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 01:26 PM |
| 3 | If an unattractive man is unsuccessful in dating, the best solution is to lower his physical standards and appreciate unconventional beautyOP, some ugly men can't even have sex with ugly women, because usually ugly women think they're much more attractive than they really are, and think they deserve a super attractive guy. Many women have NO acknowledgement of how ugly or fat they are. I've seen morbidly obese women saying they were only "curvy" and comparing their bodies to Jennifer Lopez's. I honestly think that if a man is ugly, so ugly that he cannot get women to have sex with him, he should work on self improvement. Lose weigh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 01:06 PM |
| 5 | Is being asked out by a stranger as bad as cat-calling?Being asked out by a stranger is something that has been part of the social culture for decades. I don't find it offensive at all. I don't find cat-calling offensive either. As long as it's not a blatantly offensive expression, I don't mind it if a man says "hey cutie" out of nowhere, I'll find it a bit tacky, but that's only about it. Any woman who thinks being approached by a stranger is offensive needs psychiatric help. But we all know these women who have this kind of "DON'T TALK TO ME, IT'S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 01:00 PM |
| 8 | red pill advocates a man dating or marrying a woman hotter than him, then emotionally abusing her into thinking she's too ugly to leave him..No, it isn't. Dread game is basically showing the woman that you're not worshipping her like a goddess or a savior. Basic dread game means being an attractive, interesting man. His wife will think "well he could have many other women, I better not screw up". Hardcore dread game is applied to "dead bedrooms" situations. But let's not be liars, women play the dread game all the time. I've seen many married women going out of their houses wearing mini skirts and huge cleavages only to attract male … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 12:55 PM |
| 1 | The Ultimate Wife TestUh, if I was married to a man, it was because I really loved him. So if I really love the man, I see no problem in giving my husband, the man I love, a blow job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 12:50 PM |
| 2 | How would TRP account for a woman like me?I had the same reaction. Right. Not a troll post. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/16 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Pornography: good or bad?Would you rather have guys never look at porn,and never masturbate, and hence have more drive, especially a stronger sex drive? Or would you rather men be more sedate, and never bother or hit on you? I have nothing against masturbation. If my boyfriend masturbated every now and then, I'd be okay with it, so long it's not an addiction. But I wouldn't want him to watch porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 10:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If you, while not intoxicated, cannot verbally express a lack of consent or desire to cease sexual activity, you should not be sexually active.Everyday many men go to jail because of false rape accusations. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/11912748/Guilty-until-proven-innocent-life-after-a-false-rape-accusation.html http://ijr.com/2014/12/225065-2-video-of-man-falsely-accused-highlights-the-sensitive-issues-of-rape-and-its-allegations/ THIS MAN SPENT 28 YEARS IN JAIL BECAUSE OF FALSE RAPE ALLEGATIONS AND LOOK HOW BEAUTIFUL EVERYTHING WAS: "Moses-EL was convicted after the victim identified him, saying his face came to her in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 10:17 PM |
| 3 | CMV: If you, while not intoxicated, cannot verbally express a lack of consent or desire to cease sexual activity, you should not be sexually active.In all honesty, if I were a man about to have a ONS with a woman, I'd make her sign a contract where she expressed her WRITTEN AND FORMAL consent to have a sexual relationship with me. Things are so crazy nowadays that a mere allegation (with no substantial proof) can put a man in jail. So boys, bring the contracts for the girls to sign! You need legal protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 12:32 AM |
| 9 | CMV: If you, while not intoxicated, cannot verbally express a lack of consent or desire to cease sexual activity, you should not be sexually active.If she looks like she's in pain/tenses up How do you tell if a woman's in pain or having an orgasm just by looking at her face? Seriously. Especially if the man is having sex with the girl for the first time. How is he gonna guess that is her "pain face" and not her "orgasm face"? woman in pain: http://www.medicalnegligenceassist.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/12308346_l.jpg woman having an orgasm: http://www.englishforum.ch/attachments/family-matters-health/27077d1305535919-two-pathways-woman-s-clima… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 12:26 AM |
| 8 | CMV: If you, while not intoxicated, cannot verbally express a lack of consent or desire to cease sexual activity, you should not be sexually active.So basically a man, during sexual intercourse, has to stop enjoying said activity to gauge the woman's interest and consent every minute? Wouldn't it be much easier if the woman simply SAID that she didn't agree with a doing a certain act? Listen, BDSM world, for example, only exists because of safe words. Sex is something very attention-consuming and distracting. Nobody during a BDSM practice has time/enough focus to actually look into the partner's face and evaluate his/her body language to se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you think that monogamy is a social construct & that polyamory could become normalized?http://healthland.time.com/2013/07/30/the-reason-for-monogamy-researchers-disagree/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/16 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Inexperienced women jealous of their male partner's past - what hope for them?These women are way too stupid to care about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/16 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Asking women to lower their standards: is it possible, or just a dead bedroom in the making?That means....? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/16 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Anyone who wants a girl should just approach more girlsSo basically if a man approaches any stranger to whom he's attracted, he's sexually harassing her? Do you even know the definition of sexual harassment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/16 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who wants a girl should just approach more girlsIf you've failed to make and maintain any meaningful friendships and relationships after all of these opportunities, then you should probably take a long, hard look at yourself, before you start sexually harassing random strangers on the street. Please don't change the subject here. My question here - as a woman, am I allowed to approach men on the street if I solely want to have sex with them? Will that be sexual harassment for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/16 02:13 AM |
| 1 | The 5 men every woman should date. (According to Match.Com)I like the emphasis on EVERY WOMAN SHOULD DATE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/16 02:04 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who wants a girl should just approach more girlsA man approaching a random woman on the street - purely with the motivation of having sex with her - is clearly sexually harassing her. So talking is sexual harassment now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/16 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who wants a girl should just approach more girlsThere's a very big difference between initiating a conversation with a stranger and HARASSING that person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/16 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who wants a girl should just approach more girlsI am a woman who was bullied from junior high to college. So you think the blame is on me because I didn't manage to build strong friendships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | If Alimony didn't exist men would be more likely to swap wives for younger onesHaving an affair is different from abandoning your wife to go live with another woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/16 12:39 AM |
| 1 | If Alimony didn't exist men would be more likely to swap wives for younger onesI don't think I made my argument clear. I never said that men don't like younger women. Of course they do. What I mean is - men don't like younger women for the mere fact they're younger. They like them because they're attractive, more attractive than older women, because most women age terribly. However, if a woman ages well, is fit, is attractive, is not bitter for new relationships, has a healthy libido, she'll still be able to find very interesting men who are willing to date her. So, it's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 08:26 PM |
| 1 | If Alimony didn't exist men would be more likely to swap wives for younger onesIf you think this is uncivilized don't ever set foot inside a man's lockerroom. i don't get women. They say they want equality and then when they get equality and are treated like men they want the kiddie gloves to get back on lol. I am not a feminist. So you don't need to use your anti-feminist speech against me. I am not inside a man's lockerroom. I'm in a website, a forum. Everybody here has the right to have their own opinion. However, you have no right to bring up my mother in this conversa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | If Alimony didn't exist men would be more likely to swap wives for younger onesI never said that. I said that men are not willing to divorce only to hunt younger and/or attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | If Alimony didn't exist men would be more likely to swap wives for younger onesWe're going in circles with this. But anyway I respectfully disagree with your opinion. And please don't be offensive enough to mention my mother. Have some respect and keep the discussion civilized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | If Alimony didn't exist men would be more likely to swap wives for younger onesIf you think so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | If Alimony didn't exist men would be more likely to swap wives for younger onesThey won't divorce their wives because they'll get slagged with child-support and alimony that will result in them living in fucking huts lololol. Given the chance to leave their wives without being financially destroyed by it - most would take it. But you just mentioned super rich men who hire escorts. If they're rich enough they wouldn't be scared to pay alimony so why they don't simply divorce their wives? No, she doesn't. Its very easy to see people's age by looking at them. And looking 30 i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Describe the perfect Match.com/Okcupid first dateHe is clever, has a good sense of humor, is decent-looking and asks me out on a date. It's either a lunch date or some coffee. We're both on time, or not too late (nothing beyond 15 min late). He seems happy and thrilled to meet me, and vice-versa. He asks me how I feel today. He tries to get to know me better. He mentions things I have put in my profile and makes me explain them, elaborate them. He seems very interested, genuinely interested about me. When I ask him about his life, he seems exc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 01:36 PM |
| 4 | If Alimony didn't exist men would be more likely to swap wives for younger onesYounger women are more mature than older women. Younger women concern themselves with having fun and living in the moment. Older women are thinking crap like, ''is this relationship going anywhere?'' ''can he become a good dad?'' '' does he have a good job?'' You think younger women don't have this kind of thought? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 01:30 PM |
| 3 | If Alimony didn't exist men would be more likely to swap wives for younger onesI am not saying men are not attracted to younger women. I am saying that men are not willing to destroy their marriages for a young woman. Men like attractive women. Not necessarily younger women. The bias here is - most attractive women are young, because women usually age terribly. But it's not about age, it's about looks. Men want ATTRACTIVE women, not YOUNGER women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 01:29 PM |
| 7 | If Alimony didn't exist men would be more likely to swap wives for younger onesSo to you Men fap to younger women ----> men will abandon their families to marry them? That doesn't even make sense. Men are not abandoning their wives for younger women. 1. For the reasons I have already explained; 2. Because they're not attractive enough to catch a young woman. If we really accepted your logic as real, we could say that women would abandon their husbands if they could and run away with attractive and rich men, because that's what is most attractive to a woman's eyes. Also, cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 12:06 PM |
| 3 | TRPs fear of marriage isn't rationalI agree with this 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 11:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Jerk, asshole, nice and similar words are just describing the feeling you're having towards a personI agree what is creepy to me may not be creepy to someone else, but there are kinds of behavior that are generally considered morally or ethically wrong by most people in the Western society, such as cheating on your spouse, abandoning your children, stealing, commiting murder, etc. So yes, I see where you're coming from but you can't use your relativism in everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Even the Bible doesn't expect women to love menYou're wrong. Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Ephesians 5:22-23 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/16 11:37 AM |
| 1 | (Q4W) Have you ever felt like you have to act ignorant to be liked?No. I never had to play "dumb" to be recognized. Women who think they have to play dumb to be praised are probably being insufferable, that's why men despise them. They don't even notice that other WOMEN despise them as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/16 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Are we attracted to people who are similar to our parents?Not in my case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/16 11:40 PM |
| 4 | CMV: it rather depends on your parents' efforts than yours, whether you can be sexually successful or notI do, as well. Many men see how stupid and mediocre their own fathers are and don't want to repeat the mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/16 11:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Is it possible to stop having a toxic view of women after swallowing TRP?Reading this on a day-to-day basis makes it seem like women only want men who are the absolute pinnacle of masculinity. He has to be 6"2. He has to have a $750k net worth and make six figures by age 28. He needs to dress like a Ralph Lauren model and have the chiseled abs/muscles of Ryan Reynolds or a Greek God. He has to be a devil may care James Bond like character that's Alpha but, sensitive and caring, who always knows the right thing to say and do but, never breaks frame at any point and ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/16 10:32 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Is it possible to stop having a toxic view of women after swallowing TRP?This is ABSURDLY correct. Thank you so much for saying this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/16 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Women don't like jerks, but are willing to put up with jerk behavior from otherwise attractive men.I partially agree and partially disagree with your statement. It's not that women will put up with jerk behavior from attractive men. Women will never tolerate jerk behavior. Ever. Problem is - women - most of them - can't tell the difference between being in love with a man vs being sexually attracted to a man. They mix up both feelings ALL THE TIME. So sometimes a woman will meet a hot guy who's obviously an asshole and she will be sexually attracted to him and she'll immediately translate tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/16 10:01 PM |
| 5 | CMV: it rather depends on your parents' efforts than yours, whether you can be sexually successful or notI disagree. I know many men who are losers, while their parents are very successful and their fathers are real alpha males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/16 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Asking women to lower their standards: is it possible, or just a dead bedroom in the making?Women's standards nowadays are low already. Just see how promiscuous most women are nowadays and you'll see it's impossible for their standards to get any lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/16 09:50 PM |
| 2 | How common is it to find guys in their 30s who are dating hot girls in their 20s?Very common. Reverse is common as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/16 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what is a "good" man?Good man: - Rational yet sensitive when it's necessary; - Considerate; - Understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/16 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Do you like big colourful tattoos?http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2013/07/02/article-2353445-1A9DB9AE000005DC-217_634x867.jpg http://i3.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article5700698.ece/ALTERNATES/s615b/Isobel-Varley.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/5d/05/02/5d0502f931ee49cd2cae0872ab44fab7.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/16 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you like big colourful tattoos?Agreed. The stitches tattoo on his mouth... That thing is unacceptable. He ruined his life with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/16 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Can someone explain what "sexualizing" someone means?Honestly I have never heard that, the closest thing I heard was "Wow, do you work as a model?" I sincerely man don't mean to be sexist or offensive when they say "You're so pretty, why are you working?" , they think it's flattering, it's a kind of pickup line, implying that if you're a beautiful girl you'll soon find a man who is a provider and you'll never have to work again. I've seen women talk to very attractive men in a very offensive way as well. I have a guy friend who's really attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/16 03:13 PM |
| 1 | The Power of 'Yes' ChallengeI don't have a SO right now, but I'll definitely try to do this with my relatives and close friends and see how it goes. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 10:04 PM |
| 3 | There's no such thing as an objective scale: Even identical twins may disagree on their perceptions of beauty.Women Are Wonderful Effect. Never heard of this expression. What is it all about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/16 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What do women bring to the table?Relationships are all about exchanges. Both men and women have to bring their values and good qualities to the table to make it work. A woman will enrich the relationship as much as the man will, since both of them will share their sense of humor, knowledge, values, principles, life experience. However, there's something about the nurturing and open-hearted quality of a woman that is 100% unique of women. Just bring a woman to your house, and if she's feminine enough, you'll see the house become… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/16 04:53 PM |
| 4 | There's no such thing as an objective scale: Even identical twins may disagree on their perceptions of beauty.HUMANS objectify other HUMANS when it comes to physical, sexual attraction. It's human nature. Not male nature or female nature. PHYSICAL attraction is all about PHYSICAL traits, so it's impossible not to objectify the person we're attracted to. Let's drop this subject already, it's getting old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/16 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: The Cat-Calling DebateITA. Only a very small segment of society actually does the catcalling thing. Feminists generalize everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/16 04:11 PM |
| 2 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.I am quite New to Reddit tbh. Glad someone finally understands me! LET us be friends then :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/16 01:35 AM |
| 2 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.I know. I repeat what I have said before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 07:52 PM |
| 7 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.Agreed. TRUTH IS - Nowadays there are 3 kinds of women: Women who will gladly be a full time housewife and are happy about it; Women who for some reason have to work outside their homes all day long, but feel pressured/ashamed for not being a housewife / not spending more time with their children / etc; Women who are NOT housewives and are happy about it. This whole "WOMEN ARE PRESSURED BY MEN TO STAY AT HOME" speech comes from women type 2 (described above). In fact they're the ones who think t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 07:42 PM |
| 3 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.Aren't most RP women strong advocates that women need to stay home, that society would be better off if women stayed home? Well, you just supported my argument. It's not because of MEN that women spend all day long at home, it's because WOMEN THEMSELVES want that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 07:36 PM |
| 8 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.No, being insufferable is being rude, judgmental, picky, etc etc. Just like women call women AND men call men "assholes" all the time, men and women call women "bitches" all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 05:34 PM |
| 8 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.Women who are very driven are often called 'bitches' and told they are 'abrasive'. I have never seen a man call a woman a bitch because she's very driven. Men and women call women bitches when they're being insufferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 05:26 PM |
| 1 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.I would have to collect many articles, copy and paste them here, since one single article is not enough evidence. I will do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 05:22 PM |
| 2 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.Don't show just ONE article to prove that. Please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 05:21 PM |
| 5 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.Men are very, very uncomfortable with women who are more aggressive, more ambitious (that is, who do not suck up to the top man like Ivanka does), more sexually liberated etc. Who said that? I, as a woman, personally never heard or saw a man uncomfortable with my ambition or professional drive. I also don't have any female colleague who experienced that either. The fact is, many women are incompetent and blame men and "sexism" for not accomplishing what they wanted to. I also never have felt pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 05:21 PM |
| 3 | TRP is not a cult, but it's cult likeIf TRP is cult like, so the whole SJW/politically correct speech is a cult as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 05:10 PM |
| 2 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.Agreed. It was the social establishment of that time. Also, there are inherent biological and behavioral differences between both sexes, but leftists and politically correct people can't acknowledge that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 05:09 PM |
| 16 | 'Men and women are different' is true, but has always been twisted by men to push for societal norms which limit women's influence.What societal norms are exactly limiting women's influence nowadays? I am a woman and I don't feel men or society are limiting me in ANYTHING. I am a successful professional, I have some stupid coworkers who treat me like shit, not because of sexism, but because they lack decency. I have female coworkers who treat me terribly as well, proving that it's not a SEXIST issue. (By the way, the worst sexist people I have ever met were WOMEN, not men) Men never said women should stay home with the kids… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Does the word "Misogynist" make any sense for you?It seems every white male is a misogynist Fixed that for you, using the feminists' super logical logic /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should have the right to "Legal Abortion" where they are signed off from all rights and responsibilities of their childI am against abortion (except in cases of life-threatening pregnancies, fetal malformation or rape), so I am against legal abortion for men as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/16 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?What about funny women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?What about funny women? Do you like them or find them annoying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?What about funny women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Setting Boundaries With Guys You LikeIf a guy is making out with you and you feel he wants to have sex with you - and you don't want to - simply be direct but say it nicely : "Hey, I really like you and I'm really attracted to you, but I'm just not the kind of girl who has sex this soon. Why don't we take things a little bit slow?" That way you show you're not rejecting him, but at the same time you show you have boundaries. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/16 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Do men really like smart women?Why the cough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. I agree 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What is the perfect wife in your eyes?I did it when one day I was getting ready for a BARBECUE at his boss's and I was wearing jeans, a tank top and high heels - and then he said "You're gonna go there looking like this? Jeans? Really?" and I said "What's wrong about jeans in a barbecue?" to which he replied "MY BOSS LIVES IN [Insert a very upscale neighborhood here] , DO YOU REALLY THINK JEANS IS APPROPRIATE?" . I told him "You know what? I think this relationship IS NOT appropriate for me. I don't need a guy who wants me to be his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 10:32 PM |
| 2 | What is the perfect wife in your eyes?I am just reproducing what my ex used to say "Babe you look like you didn't sleep all night when you don't wear makeup". He'd use this sweet tone to say it to hide the rudeness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?If you ever notice that a woman is actually smarter than you, would that turn you on or off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Do men really like smart women?I ain't fucking a gargamel looking woman with the brains of bruce banner. I cracked up. :D Once I have heard from a guy that he would never approach a too pretty and too smart woman because she would have absurdly high standards and he doesn't have time for that. Usually the so-called intelligence you talk about comes with the woman constantly challenging the man in a non-constructive way and thus making the guy feel stupid, which doesn't quite help. Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?So if a woman is too smart when compared to a guy, do you think she should slow down a little bit and don't show off how smart she is, so that he doesn't feel dumb? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:36 PM |
| 2 | What is the perfect wife in your eyes?female hobbies bore the shit out of men and they dont even care about them. the only time my h cares about my quilting is when i drape a finished quilt over him when hes sleeping. men dont give a fuck if women have "hobbies" I cracked up. It's the awful truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?Some (generally, insecure) guys like their smart girl to play dumb in public. That made me cringe. Seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?Probably because men are usually visual creatures who tend to value physical aspects above all when it comes to attraction, while women tend to value more "invisible" traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Do men really like smart women?But what about women who are smarter than the guy they're dating? Do you think this is a turn off or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Do men really like smart women?Yeah, he ended up being a narcissist bigot and I broke up with him, you're right. But I have to say that men seem to be attracted by women who they think are smarter than they are, but when they really are dating that woman, they like her to be less smart than they are. Am I wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Do men really like smart women?by being Chad and having casual sex with her. As someone who has many smart super attractive friends, no, this is not the way you "bone"such a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?I saw a paragraph in the article I've mentioned above that says this: many men are only comfortable when they can have the last word. These alpha types might seek to avoid partners who compete with them intellectually, looking instead for someone to bolster their ego, rather than destroy it. Do you agree with this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Do men really like smart women?You think most men don't care about almost every woman's traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?I don't think pretending to be something else is ever valid. Also, I don't think being with someone only to get something from that person (sex, money, etc) and give nothing in return is valid either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Do men really like smart women?So you think clever women have way too high standards? Do you think men, when meeting a super clever+super attractive woman will think "Damn, this one is too out of reach. Better leave this sinking ship ASAP"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Do men really like smart women?I'm asking you this because I consider myself a polite and respectful person, and I would never disagree with someone in a way that makes the person feel dumb or 'emasculated'. That being said I used to date a guy who's absurdly clever, but sometimes he'd make statements about my area of knowledge that were wrong and I'd politely tell him his statements were wrong, and he would get INFURIATED, he'd never ever tolerate when I told him he was wrong about something. What I am trying to say here is,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?So you think it's okay for a woman to play dumb if she wants money from a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men really like smart women?I agree that a woman should not worry if a guy is threatened by her cleverness or not. If the guy is scared only because she's clever (and is not showing it off), he may very well get lost. A woman should never pretend she's dumb only to attract guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Do men really like smart women?Very good pov. Thank you for that. What they don't want is a woman who emasculates them by talking over them, condescending to them, or making them feel dumb. That's what I thought... But can you tell me how a woman can disagree with a guy's point of view or telling him that he's wrong about a specific issue without making him feel emasculated or dumb? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:08 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women would be happier without makeup and pushup brasYeah, I know. But what I mean is, all women have different tastes, personalities, etc. Not all women like the same things or behave the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Do men really like smart women?You should probably go with a guy in Mensa or someone lonely who can't find a mate. I am not looking for relationship advice. I am not even making a post myself. I am just looking for clever discussion on a topic I have doubts about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:06 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women would be happier without makeup and pushup brasAll human beings are unique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Male Sexuality is inherently toxic according to r/relationshipsHonestly he wasn't being masculine. He was just being a douche. Negging women, leading them on, making them think you want a LTR when you actually don't, etc etc doesn't make you more manly. It just shows you're an asshole. Being a true man is not about being an assole. It's about being confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 08:29 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Women would be happier without makeup and pushup brasI disagree. Woman here. I can live without pushup bras because I don't think I need them, but I love makeup. Not because I NEED makeup to feel beautiful, but because I really love it, artistically and technically speaking. I love putting on makeup, I am a certified professional make up artist and it's my hobby. It's something I enjoy. You can't speak for all women, you can't say "women would be happier with this or that". All women are unique. I love makeup, some women don't. And it's okay. I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 08:26 PM |
| 3 | What is the perfect wife in your eyes?But, if you really have no intention of keeping that up when "being yourself" at home? It would probably be in your best interests to show that side of yourself to some extent early on. That'll give the guy a chance to see it for himself, and decide if he's cool with it. If all you do while dating is come dressed to the nines, you can't get too angry that he's surprised and maybe put off by the version of you that sits around the house. :p But come on, everybody does that. I mean, I don't know a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 08:13 PM |
| 1 | What is the perfect wife in your eyes?But I love wearing make up! sobs Seriously, I love wearing make up, and I can assure you I don't cake my face like a Kardashian. It's a natural look, but I wear make up to enhance my features. However, I have dark circles around my eyes, so without concealer I actually look like I am sick and/or exhausted. But this guy I used to date wanted me to look like a beauty pageant contester all the time. It was exhausting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 07:58 PM |
| 1 | What is the perfect wife in your eyes?I think /u/bookwormjane assumed that all women would be couched ice creamers and that all men would be annoyed by that. That was just a poor example I gave. What I meant is that when you're 100% yourself you risk becoming selfish and have a kind a behavior that will not please your SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 07:50 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Men] How to avoid being used as a "starter wife"?Yeah, I can agree with that. Women are obsessed with changing the way their husbands act or behave. Damn, woman. You had those years before getting married to realize if you really wanted to marry that guy. When you met him, he was already like that. Don't try to change him NOW that you're married. I hate it when women do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 07:49 PM |
| 5 | What is the perfect wife in your eyes?Well that's because you're a guy who like natural beauties and natural-looking women. So your wife is lucky. Many guys are NOT like you. I used to date a man who whenever I was wearing no makeup he'd pull his concerned face and ask "Are you feeling well today?". One day he saw my unpolished hands and said, in a tone you use to talk to children "Well, well, well this is not what a lady's hand should look like". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | [Q4Men] How to avoid being used as a "starter wife"?I think it's very hard and naive to put the blame solely in one gender. A relationship - and especially a marriage - will only be happy and healthy if both parts are willing to give in, to make some sacrifices, and to be generous. If one part is not willing to make the relationship work, it won't work. That being said, I don't think any woman would reject her husband only for the sake of doing it. Except for cases when the woman is simply cheating on someone else or never loved her husband at al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 07:40 PM |
| 2 | [Q4Men] How to avoid being used as a "starter wife"?Yes, men do decide they don't want to be married to their wives. But most of those men don't end the marriages. Most of them stay and tough it out. Hm, now I see your point. I can agree with that. But honestly, many of these guys decide to cheat on their wives, which technically ends the marriage as well. And many more women reject their husbands than men reject their wives. You mean sexually? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 07:28 PM |
| 4 | What is the perfect wife in your eyes?not give him reason to complain "Not giving him reason to complain" doesn't sound like being spontaneous and/or "being yourself" to me. Sounds like always walking on eggshells tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How would you act if your partner got fat?I'd be concerned. I'd tell him I am concerned about his health and that he should lose weight. If he didn't listen to me, if he still kept eating and eating and not doing a single thing about it, until he was disgustingly obese, I'd dump him. One thing is putting on weight for a specific reason but doing something about it. Another thing is becoming a disgustingly obese person and not listening to any kind of plead or advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 06:44 PM |
| 4 | What is the perfect wife in your eyes?this post from yesterday Don't you think the "Always be yourself" line is a double-edged sword? Do men really want their wives to always be themselves? I mean, REALLY? Because sometimes all a woman wants is to be in pajamas eating ice cream and watching TV all day long. Women don't feel like grooming and being beautiful and having sex everyday. So if she's really gonna be herself all the time, I am sure sooner or later the husband WILL complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What is the perfect wife in your eyes?Here for the RedPillers' answers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 06:38 PM |
| 2 | [Q4Men] How to avoid being used as a "starter wife"?Agreed, but don't you think the contrary is true as well? Some men also don't want to be married to their wives anymore, for multiple reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4All What are something that don't make a person attractive to you BUT will make them more attractive?Ripped abs. Honestly, I don't give a damn if a man has ripped abs or not. If a guy has ripped abs and a horrible personality, I will not want to be with him. If he's nice, cute, polite, sensible AND has ripped abs, good for him. But if he didn't I'd love him the same way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 04:37 PM |
| 1 | [Q4Men] How to avoid being used as a "starter wife"?This is ridiculous - most marriages don't start or end that way, never have, never will. Why do you think most marriages end nowadays? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP] Why are there sluts if slut shaming exists?Came here to say this. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 04:32 PM |
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