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| 42 | To the women in this sub why do you participate in men’s advocacy? Just curious because I really love to hear your side of the story.Justice is a core value for me, and this issue isn't being taken seriously by society. That makes me mad. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/26 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Why many women, if not most women, believe that feminism is about gender equality?Well put! Couldn't agree more! I think women are taught, from a young age, that they're being oppressed. And what could be more convenient than blaming and hating on an entire people group whenever something doesn't go your way? It must be the fault of a group of mustache twirling, evil men! And surely all men are secretly on that team. :p | /r/MensRights | 07/04/26 09:07 PM |
| 1 | What kind of women usually date autistic men?Are there any neurodivergent groups in your area? That might be a good place to look. I'm a female neurodivergent, and that's my plan. As a creative, hyper, geeky person, I'm quite fond of guys who are that way too. (I'm not flirting, as I'm quite a bit older that you.) But that might be a good place to look. | /r/MensRights | 05/04/26 06:59 PM |
| 21 | Are there any women here?Female MRA here. I'm so sorry. Feminists seem so cruel, and very few of them want to listen to anyone who points out that men have struggles. I guess it threatens their claim of being oppressed. You're awesome btw! | /r/MensRights | 27/03/26 10:35 PM |
| 7 | Help me not become a misogynistI'm so sorry you went through that. I think what you're feeling is righteous anger, and that's not wrong. We should all be angry about injustice, but perhaps you could focus that anger into helping the MRA movement, instead of into hating women. More women are joining the MRA movement every day. It will take time, but things can get better. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/26 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Why don't we have a sub like AskMRAs?I like this idea, and will join if you create it, though the feminists might see it as another opportunity for bullying. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/26 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Are women more gullible than men?Could be because women are more likely to be interested in supplements and natural remedies. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/26 04:08 AM |
| 24 | It never happened for centuries.While there were times in the past where women lacked certain rights, and that wasn't okay, I agree that they're making the situation sound a lot worse than it was. For most of history, life sucked for everyone. Both men and women worked hard each day, men out in physically stressful jobs, women at home. Once more modern jobs became available, men started having more options. Some dreamed big and got to actually enjoy life. That's when women pointed out that they were still trapped in one role, … | /r/MensRights | 24/01/26 07:44 AM |
| 7 | Question for the women who are on this sub and support it.Because justice is one of my core values, and I don't approve of the way society is treating you guys. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/26 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Men currently have no reproductive rights once a pregnancy happens — and that’s a problemTHIS! | /r/MensRights | 22/01/26 06:54 PM |
| 12 | A Man’s Right To Have A Say Without Moderation by FeministsSister, actually, but thanks. As a childfree person, the individual right, to not be a parent is very important to me. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/26 09:06 PM |
| 12 | A Man’s Right To Have A Say Without Moderation by FeministsTHIS! | /r/MensRights | 14/01/26 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm curiousFor most of history, life sucked for everyone. Both men and women worked hard each day, men out physically stressful jobs, women at home. Once more modern jobs became available, men started having more options. Some dreamed big and got to actually enjoy life. That's when women pointed out that they were still trapped in one role, and they wanted options and freedom too. This received pushback, because lots of men didn't think women would be as good at working. Kinda makes sense that they'd wonde… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/26 08:57 AM |
| 14 | Far right aren't the solution for mens rightsBoth sides suck. The right pushes tradition, trying to force gender roles. The left pushes modern feminism. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/25 03:07 AM |
| 22 | Am I the only one that hates the fact that wanting gender equality is called "feminism" and not something like "equalism"I think that's because modern feminism secretly doesn't want equality. They want women to be completely free from the gendered box that society created for them, while still retaining all the benefits of being in the box. All the while, they want to ensure that men stay in a gendered "man box," while losing all the benefits the man box once afforded them. E.G. They want to be able to say that women should make as much money as men, but the man still has to pay for everything. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/25 08:52 PM |
| 17 | Patriarchy; what patriarchy..?There never was a patriarchy. Yes, the world used to be set up with specific gender roles, and that sucked, but that was only because life had been difficult for thousands of years. Survival mode often leads to a certain arrangement. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | For the men in this group: what are some negative things men get told that women don't?Women aren't told how to be a "real woman" and, if they were, whoever said it would be in trouble. | /r/MensRights | 18/10/25 06:07 PM |
| 8 | How society taught women to hate men.Oh, wow! That was amazing! Really put into words a lot of the problems with the feminist movement. The only part I disagree with, is the notion that men were "born to" be a certain way. People are individuals, and should be admired for it. If a guy's weird, I'd think that was great, cuz it'd means we had something in common! XD | /r/MensRights | 15/10/25 06:32 AM |
| 1 | On male reproductive rightsThis! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/09/25 07:43 AM |
| 7 | Any childfree guys hereJustice is a core value of mine, and men's rights are one of those big issues that isn't acknowledged by most of society. So I just kinda lurk around in places like this, getting ideas about what I can do to help. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/25 08:29 PM |
| 9 | Any childfree guys hereFemale childfree person here. There are lots of us, OP. If you mention that you don't want kids, some girls will be thrilled. | /r/MensRights | 17/09/25 08:15 PM |
| 12 | How did you get into Men's Rights?I watched a YouTube video about what made life difficult for men. It was shocking. I had known a few of the issues, (child support, dads on TV always being portrayed as dumb, etc.) but that video really opened my eyes to just how bad guys have it. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhoodPersonally, I think either parent should have the right to opt out, regardless of abortion being legal. No one's forcing the woman to keep, care for or pay for the child, so no one should force the man. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhoodI love this idea, though I think the option to opt out should be available for more than the first few weeks of pregnancy. Not sure how long exactly. Maybe a few months after the man is informed of the pregnancy. And the woman has to inform him in such a way that there's legal proof that he was told. | /r/MensRights | 09/07/25 05:40 PM |
| 34 | "I can't be with you unless you say it is an objective fact that women have it harder than men."Short answer: You can do better, dude. If you really want her to understand, have her listen to the YouTube videos of Reddit questions, about how hard it is to be a man. If she won't, or doesn't take to heart what she hears, she's not a caring or honest individual, and you can do better. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/25 02:59 AM |
| 1 | We don’t even know who we are anymore. We just become whoever the world lets us be.This makes me sad. The world would be so much more fun if everyone felt safe to be their awesome, geeky selves. I'm leaving a small pile of hugs here for anyone needing one. Note: These hugs are for the real you. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/25 06:36 PM |
| 2 | To All the Feminist Women Out There - A Heartfelt ApologyI love this. Perfectly worded. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/25 01:07 AM |
| 6 | How can women make dating/relationships better/more fair for men?That really is sad. I can't help but wonder how things would be different if the shoe were on the other foot. I'm not sure that I ever met a guy who expected a woman to read his mind. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/25 11:51 PM |
| 6 | How can women make dating/relationships better/more fair for men?I think a lot of women expect men to be magical creatures who solve all their problems, always know what to do, and can read women's minds, because romance novels. Then they're disappointed when they find themselves in a real relationship with a gasp human being. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/25 11:42 PM |
| 10 | How can women make dating/relationships better/more fair for men?Thank you. The things you listed sound like basic decency. Dating really sounds terrible for men. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/25 09:26 PM |
| 10 | Do men and women express emotions differently? If so, why is the female way of expressing emotions seen as the default?I (F) think the women's version is considered the default, because women are expected/encouraged to share their emotions more. When men do it, and it doesn't look the same as what people are used to seeing, people assume that men just must be bad at it. And being told that they're doing it wrong, can make men less likely to share in the future. It's an annoying cycle. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/25 08:59 PM |
| 120 | Dear women on this sub, what was your "red pill moment"?While I had always noticed some very concerning things, such as: 1: Dads on TV are always portrayed as stupid. 2: Women are allowed to hit men. 3: Men are told who they're allowed to be. 4: Child support. I didn't realize how bad it was, until about a year ago. I watched a few Reddit stories about what life is like for men. Those were hard to read. I want to make sure I never make anyone feel like that. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Am I the only one who just doesn’t like the concept of “masculinity”?This! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/05/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Why most women(from my experience) are feminist?This. | /r/MensRights | 26/03/25 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Why most women(from my experience) are feminist?I once asked the question, on the childfree form, "Why do people assume I'm a feminist, when they find out I'm childfree?" Everyone responded to this question with intense hostility. The fact that I wasn't a feminist, was, apparently, unthinkably demonic. I asked why they were freaking out, and was told that I was, by default, anti equality and anti women, if I didn't specifically identify as a feminist. I pointed out, that I am a female, and that I do, in fact, firmly believe in equality. I was… | /r/MensRights | 26/03/25 08:20 PM |
| 1 | You wake up tomorrow, as a woman, but still have all the memories of what life is like for men. What are you going to do to help the MRA movement, as a woman?I'm imagining a gender reversed version of that scene from 'Jumanji: Welcome to the Jungle.' XD | /r/MensRights | 21/02/25 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Isn't it unfair that men have no choice in parenthood, while women do?This! | /r/MensRights | 01/02/25 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Just as women can choose whether or not to have a child, men should also have a choice?Agreed! Personally, I'd like to see required paternity test take place just after birth, then, if it's his, the dude gets to choose if he wants to sign the birth certificate or not. If he doesn't, he has no rights to the kid and owns nothing to them, nor the mother. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/25 01:18 AM |
| 7 | i cannot stand "incel" term.Yeah, it really is a terrible thing to call someone. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/25 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys tell people you're an MRA/male advocate?Thank you :) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/24 03:56 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys tell people you're an MRA/male advocate?Those are good points! Thank you. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/24 04:48 AM |
| 13 | How do you guys tell people you're an MRA/male advocate?When I first found out what men had to deal with, I was shocked that no one was making a big deal of it. One of the first things I did, was going to the few people I was close with and asked them if they'd heard about these things. Two of the three had, and were on, more or less, the same page that I was. The third didn't know about it, but I explained and she found it very upsetting that men were treated that way. Never had a partner to tell. That's actually something I'm curious about. How do … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/24 11:36 PM |
| 8 | Women in Male Advocacy?Thanks. The three who were in complete agreement had already begun to notice these things themselves, so I didn't really convince them, so much as realize that we were on the same page. The one who I had to explain it to was glad I told her because she's a very kind person who doesn't want to hurt anyone. She's a bit older, though, so I think it didn't make quite as much sense, as she grew up with everyone just playing along with the role they were handed, and no one questioning it. | /r/MensRights | 18/11/24 09:08 PM |
| 29 | Women in Male Advocacy?I'm a bio female who doesn't relate to either gender, so I'm not sure if I count or not. LOL I first found out about the struggles that men face, a few years ago on YouTube. They were reading a list of Reddit replies to the question: "What's a struggle men face?" I was shocked by the answers. Justice is one of my core values, so I was horrified to know that such things were normal. The response I've gotten, when I've pointed these things out, have been a mixed bag. Women usually get mad when I p… | /r/MensRights | 18/11/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How did you realize you don't live in a real patriarchy?I guess it depends on how it's defined. I'm able to care about people and to find them interesting. But spending time with people, even those I care about, feels like nothing. I have occasionally met people that I 'click' well with and I'll be very curious to know how it feels to hang out with them once I have my issues sorted. Right now, it really doesn't feel like much. I'm working with a therapist to try to get my emotions to work better. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/24 02:42 AM |
| 1 | How did you realize you don't live in a real patriarchy?That doesn't sound transphobic at all. That's actually a really good thought. I think that would explain it for a lot of people. I agree with your friend too, that societal constructs and expectations shouldn't lead to people to ask about her gender identity. I'm kind of a weird case, though. For me, I think those things led me to see gender as irrelevant and to distance myself from my parents' pushy religion, but I'm not sure that that's why I feel the way I do about myself. See, I never really… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/24 02:08 AM |
| 1 | How did you realize you don't live in a real patriarchy?I think I'd probably be considered agendered, but I'm chill about it. People call me 'she', and I'm fine with that. I don't think gender should be a big deal. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/24 08:10 PM |
| 2 | How did you realize you don't live in a real patriarchy?Yes, I'm female. I don't relate much to either gender, though, so I'm kinda in the nonbinary-ish category. And thank you. :) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/24 06:46 PM |
| 15 | How did you realize you don't live in a real patriarchy?While I never agreed with the feminist movement, I didn't realize just how wrong they were, or how bad guys had it, until a few years ago. (Age 33-34?) I had started watching YouTube videos where they read comments about what men were saying that they liked and disliked about various things. It really opened my eyes. I had no idea you guys had it that bad. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/11/24 08:47 AM |
| 10 | How many women here support MRM and why?I'm a bio female who doesn't relate to either gender, so I'm not sure if I count or not, but yes. I strongly support men's rights and want to see them treated better. Edit: I forgot the "and why" part. Because justice is a core value of mine and it makes me angry to see people mistreated. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/24 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that when a woman supports men’s rights she instantly becomes a “pick me”?I've always wondered this. I have too many issues to consider a relationship anytime soon, but justice is a core value of mine and it makes me angry to see anyone mistreated. And men's rights is a huge problem that's being overlooked, so it's a cause that means a lot to me. I want guys to know that they're not alone in this battle. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/24 08:23 PM |
| 15 | What is the most hypocritical thing about feminism?When they complain, claiming that men are always paid more, just for being male, and how messed up that is. They go on to say how strong and independent they are, that they do things for themselves, then they turn around and say that they'd never date a guy who didn't make more than them. :p | /r/MensRights | 20/09/24 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Your body your choice, my money my choiceI first heard about child support and what it meant, when I was about 11. My first reaction was, "That's not fair." But, as I was in the car with older women, I was immediately "corrected" and told that it was fair. I assumed that I must just be missing something and would understand it better when I grew up. I've grown up. It's still not fair. It's a messed up practice and it needs to stop. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/24 05:15 AM |
| 10 | I don’t think I want to call myself a feminist anymoreHigh five from a fellow female MRA! | /r/MensRights | 22/08/24 05:46 PM |
| 2 | The real end goal of modern feminism is the exclusion and segregation of unattractive men.And men (or anyone else) who points out their hypocritical crap. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/24 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Curious about the demographics hereSo I'm never sure if I should put woman or non binary. I don't relate to gender, but I also don't think much of gender, so meh. I answered 'woman', simply because I go by she, but I mostly go by she because, as a bio female, that's what people tend to call me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/24 01:04 AM |
| 3 | How do I win an argument against dumb feminists?I usually just avoid them. Most can't be reasoned with & everyone nearby will likely take their side. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/24 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Why women always trying to prove that they are better than us?Modern feminism pushes the idea that men think of women as lesser, so they encourage girls to prove otherwise. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/24 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Is it normal for men to be degraded and disrespected by their wife?I'm sorry you're going through that. It's a common problem but that doesn't make it normal. Not in a healthy relationship, anyway. If she won't listen when you try to discuss the problem, maybe couples therapy could help. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 10:28 PM |
| 6 | I noticed how people teach young boys to respect girls, but people never teach young girls to respect boys.I'm probably more of a chaotic neutral but thanks XD And I think it's because girls are taught, from a young age, that guys want to oppress them, so whenever a guy does anything they don't like, that's what they think is happening. People like believing that they're being oppressed. It keeps them from feeling guilty when they're mean. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 06:43 PM |
| 32 | I noticed how people teach young boys to respect girls, but people never teach young girls to respect boys.Can confirm. Growing up, I always heard my male friends being told to always be kind, brave, respectful, etc. Myself and my female friends, while we were taught manners, mostly got talks about making sure to end up with a guy who was kind, brave, respectful, etc. rather than to actually work on being those things ourselves. It's really sad. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/24 05:05 AM |
| 14 | Why is there more discrimination against gay men than lesbians?Sadly, I think it's because it's the discrimination against the LGBTQ+ community, being added to the discrimination against men. I've heard that male to female trans people have it worse too. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 02:20 AM |
| 40 | Is there any country where men actually "have it better"?I've wondered about this before too. In the few places that come to mind, the men have more rights but things are difficult and dangerous for both genders in most of those places. I think it's going to be an uphill battle to make things better, regardless of where we live. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 06:42 PM |
| 9 | How politically united is the Men's Rights Movement?The only problem I see, would be that there may be two different views on what the problem is. Right wingers may say the problem is that men are being pressured to stop being masculine and stop fulfilling the traditional role in the family. Left wingers may say that the problem is that men are being scolded for treating women like equals, when that's what women say they want, and being scolded for having emotions, after being told that they should share their emotions more. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/24 03:31 AM |
| 3 | How Would You Balance Feminism And Men's Rights?I think you would have gotten a better response if you' said "women's rights vs men's rights," and left feminism out of it. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 08:07 PM |
| 9 | How Would You Balance Feminism And Men's Rights?I'm female, but here's my take on it. I think one of the biggest changes that would be helpful, is if anyone getting in trouble for mistreating someone else, was punished based on the harm they caused, without gender coming into the argument. That way, women who abuse/rape men, would be held to the same standard as men who mistreat women. I'd also like to see equality when it comes to reproductive rights. Anyone 18+, regardless of gender, should have the right to be sterilized. And (I know this … | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 04:11 AM |
| 3 | How can I hate feminism without hating women in general?Well, crap. I saw the title and was going to say something funny, then I read the rest of your message. I'm so sorry you went through that. I'm not sure what the solution is, just know that I'm not the only girl who's joined the MRA movement. There are quite a few of us now and we're on your team. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/24 06:16 AM |
| 13 | I'm female. These are the only times I've faced any form of sexism or gender based inappropriate behavior.I'm sure it depends a lot of the individual person and situations. Wasn't meaning to make light of anyone else's struggles. And thanks for voicing your thought in a way that didn't involve biting my head off. XD | /r/MensRights | 16/12/23 06:21 AM |
| 44 | Men are taught how to treat women, but women are taught what to expect from a man.Can confirm. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/23 03:46 AM |
| 7 | Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys.I didn't know that men were being abused by their partners, then ignored or blamed when they tried to report it. That was the biggest one for me; that men were getting injured and raped by women and no one was doing or saying anything when it was reported. If anything, they were laughed at. I even heard about a few cases where a man was terribly mutilated by partner and, while some action was taken, everyone who heard the story laughed about it. And the woman didn't get in nearly as much trouble… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys.Mostly in person. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 06:34 AM |
| 10 | Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys.To be fair, I do try but feminists bite my head off quite a lot. :p | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 06:05 AM |
| 59 | Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys.I watched a YouTube video that read the responses to an 'ask reddit' question. The question related to the sexism and double standards that men face. I hadn't realized most of the things that were pointed out. After looking into it and finding that these things were indeed common problems, I was horrified. How can our modern society treat anyone like that? To make matters even sillier, everyone carries on about how unfairly women are treated. Being female and not having experienced much in the w… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 04:40 AM |
| 10 | Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys.This is more in general. Not one specific guy. Every now and then something is said and I wonder if I should mention it. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 04:06 AM |
| 55 | How is it possible there is such a divide in regards to acknowledging men are oppressed?Girls grow up being told that men want to opress them and prevent them from going places in life, so whenever a man says something rude, even if it's unintentional, it's seen as proof of this. When guys complain about the treatment of men, it's seen similarly to to a wealthy or attractive person complaining about how hard life is. They make simulators to show men what it's like to have periods or be pregnant. They should make a TV show where women are dressed up to look like men for the day, so … | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 03:27 AM |
| 5 | Yesterday i posted a list of ways males are priviliged i found online. I also posted a list of how women are priviliged in the R/feminism reddit group, to see if people react differently. The outcome:It's not all men on this side and women on the other. I'm here with you guys because (most of) you are reasonable people who are being treated terribly by society. The feminists haven't been kind to me at all and of them seem to be offended by everything. But yeah, I'd love it if everyone was nice and worked together. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/23 11:57 PM |
| 144 | Why are more men not standing up against feminism and the way women are today?Because girls tend to gang up on you and bite your head off when you try. I'm female and I try to stand up for men, but even I'm not safe from the craziness that follows. You'd think that I could get away with it more easily, but nope. I am, apparently, a traitor to women's rights. Why else would I say that men deserve the same rights and respect as women? :p But yes, I agree that the mens movement should be more of a thing. Perhaps we could choose an issue or two to raise awareness about on Int… | /r/MensRights | 17/11/23 06:59 AM |
| 2 | If legal paternal surrender is a good idea, does that mean that you should be able to walk out on a child after consenting to becoming a parent? I say no, but it is complicated.The awesome level of fairness! Yes, I know it's been said before, but before coming to this subreddit, I was the only person I knew who had this general idea. I'm female and grew up in a very conservative family. Whenever I would hear about a man leaving his pregnant girlfriend, then being forced to cover the kid's expenses, despite not wanting the kid, I was on the dude's side. (Which, apparently, is a sign that I'm a terrible person) And everyone would argue that the child was still the man's … | /r/MensRights | 11/11/23 08:31 PM |
| 0 | If legal paternal surrender is a good idea, does that mean that you should be able to walk out on a child after consenting to becoming a parent? I say no, but it is complicated.Love this idea! | /r/MensRights | 10/11/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | What's a common thing that girls do, that's annoying/insulting without them realizing it?Epic reply! XD | /r/MensRights | 09/11/23 06:11 PM |
| 2 | What's a common thing that girls do, that's annoying/insulting without them realizing it?Admittedly, yes. A guy online had asked if any girls preferred short guys and I had answered that I did. I then got a ton of questions about why. I replied that I didn't know why, that it's just what I was naturally attracted to. When pressed further, I had said said something that included the word, 'cute.' They all started down voting that comment and I quickly apologized, asking if I had said something offensive. It took a while before someone to explained it to me and I facepalmed pretty har… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/23 06:10 PM |
| 7 | What's a common thing that girls do, that's annoying/insulting without them realizing it?Yep. :p LOL | /r/MensRights | 09/11/23 04:54 AM |
| 8 | What's a common thing that girls do, that's annoying/insulting without them realizing it?Good point. That's sad that it's so often that way. I guess I could phrase the question differently, but it would end up being something like: "I'm a ginormous geek, who's never been in a relationship, but I'd someday like to find a really fun person to go to battle games with and maybe be romantic with. The trouble is, I'm not used to talking to guys, or anyone else, for that matter, so I don't know if I'm any good at it. But I'm also working through a ton of stuff right now, and am not quite r… | /r/MensRights | 09/11/23 04:51 AM |
| 17 | What's a common thing that girls do, that's annoying/insulting without them realizing it?I was meaning the kinds of things that really could be accidents. For instance, a guy recently told me that it can be offensive when a guy is called cute. I think a lot of girls use that wording and have no idea. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/23 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Why are women ignoring men's issues?I'm (f) a bit of an introvert, so I don't spend much time out & about and, admittedly, don't know what to do to be helpful sometimes... But I care a great deal. I think the reason that some don't, relates to the way most forms of media pushes women's struggles and never acknowledges that men even have struggles. That's all I can think of. I didn't know about the issues that men face before I was on Reddit. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | This entire movement seems more and more uselessPerhaps you guys could put together a list of the movement's central beliefs and goals. Then form a march or something? I'm really not sure how this sort of thing works. :p But I'm with you guys! | /r/MensRights | 14/10/23 03:30 AM |
| 15 | Feminists call any woman who disagrees with them a pick me because they cannot fathom a woman being a non-feminist.Have been accused of this myself. Which is pretty funny, seeing as I've literally never dated or looked for a relationship. I just want to see the people around me treated fairly. Injustice bothers me. I also don't get why they assume men's rights to be a right wing thing. Most of the right wing people I know, strongly push the idea that men should just "be providers" and "shouldn't cry or show emotions." This problem affects both sides. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/23 01:08 AM |
| 13 | On struggles at schoolI'm female & I actually think you guys have it worse. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/23 12:11 AM |
| 3 | The Princess TreatmentSomeone should make a gender bent version of that video, with the link to the original under it, then ask what the difference is. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/23 09:45 PM |
| 1 | If you were to write the ten commandments of how you want to be treated better as guys, what would be on the list?I guess I'm missing what you're meaning then... But I hope you find someone who loves & appreciates you in a healthy way. | /r/MensRights | 27/09/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | If you were to write the ten commandments of how you want to be treated better as guys, what would be on the list?It sounds like you've dealt with some crappy girls. I'm so sorry to hear that. I can actually give some advice here though. Have you ever heard of minimalism? If you find a girl who's a minimalist, that's a good sign that she's not looking for money or stuff. Source: Is a minimalist girl. (I'm not flirting.) I honestly couldn't care less how much a guy makes. I'd just want an awesome partner to have fun with. I think this viewpoint is more common in minimalism, as many of us don't focus on havin… | /r/MensRights | 27/09/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Most women still enforce gender rolesShe & I met because we were both fan girling over Loki, so now it's an inside joke that we only date villains. XD We made tier lists a while back, just to keep track of our favorites. Loki was at the top of mine & I think Lucius Malfoy was at the top of hers. Edit to clarify: Just for the record, we weren't ranking physical appearance, but awesome villain-ness. Edit 2: That's not to say that Loki & Lucius aren't hot, but there are some on our list who... Well, I'll just say that Dr. Doofenshmirt… | /r/MensRights | 20/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Most women still enforce gender rolesThen there are the weirdos like me & my friends. My friend: Tells me she has a new boyfriend. Me: "Ooo! Is he hot? Is he a super villain? Is he a hot super villain?" | /r/MensRights | 20/09/23 03:27 AM |
| 74 | Most women still enforce gender rolesAs dumb as this will sound, I think a lot of them don't even know how much of a contradiction it is. They think they're entitled to it all, because pop culture told them that they were. Plus, I think the common view is, "All guys care about is sex, so why shouldn't they have to work harder to keep me around." :p | /r/MensRights | 19/09/23 06:49 PM |
| 270 | Most women still enforce gender rolesI've (f) noticed this too. It seems that most girls want to make as much as men, yet want to make sure to only date one who makes more than them. No idea how that's supposed to work. I think it may be code for, "You can't treat me different just because I'm a girl! Wait, he's still got to provide for me because I'm the girl!" :p | /r/MensRights | 19/09/23 05:39 PM |
| 17 | Are there any women here?I found out about this movement by watching an Ask Reddit video on YouTube that was talking about how unfairly men were treated. The more I thought about it, the more I realized how true it was. Women/girls are encouraged to be themselves & try new things, even if those things aren't traditionally 'for girls.' Whereas men/boys are still forced into a tiny box & criticized whenever they step outside it. I neither have nor want children. It just really makes me mad to see anyone treated unjustly. … | /r/MensRights | 15/09/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | You should be able to opt out of financial responsibility to an unwanted child.That would be awesome if things were actually set up this way. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/23 05:12 AM |
| 5 | I need advice on complimenting men.That's a good point. You mentioned fashion & I've been sitting here trying to remember the last time I even noticed or thought about what someone was wearing. I honestly think the only time I think about clothes is at comic con. If a guy is dressed as a super villain, he's for sure getting a compliment. LOL | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 01:02 AM |
| 43 | Double standards and high expectationsAlso female. Agreed. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/23 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Time for Some Positivity About MenThis might sound dumb but, on the very rare occasion that I actually find people who are willing to play Nerf war with me, they're always guys. This whole "being a grown up" thing sucks but there are at least a few guys who still enjoy a good battle game. (Hope it's okay for me to be leaving an answer here, as I'm technically not a guy. XD ) | /r/MensRights | 12/08/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What would you like to see change about the way society treats men?This! | /r/MensRights | 09/08/23 10:20 PM |
| 3 | What would you like to see change about the way society treats men?This! | /r/MensRights | 08/08/23 10:18 PM |
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