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Fundamentals Boosteddreamer/r/seduction07/08/24 10:05 PM
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Field ReportBoosteddreamer/r/seduction04/03/24 03:27 AM
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Fundamentals Boosteddreamer/r/seduction30/09/24 04:05 AM
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Escalation & CalibrationBoosteddreamer/r/seduction24/04/24 04:10 AM
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Fundamentals Boosteddreamer/r/seduction12/06/24 03:22 AM
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Fundamentals Boosteddreamer/r/seduction22/09/24 11:44 PM
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Fundamentals Boosteddreamer/r/seduction09/09/24 01:32 AM
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Escalation & CalibrationBoosteddreamer/r/seduction24/04/24 11:43 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationBoosteddreamer/r/seduction24/05/24 07:25 PM
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6

I’m sure some are playing hard to get, but plenty of them just don’t know how to say no. They’ll say anything besides a direct no.
/r/seduction20/01/25 07:49 PM
2

Do you live in the city or rural? 6 miles is close in a lot of areas
/r/seduction02/01/25 04:39 PM
1

Ask again, if she’s busy and doesn’t try to reschedule just move on.
/r/seduction20/12/24 10:02 PM
11

If your interested just flirt. Some won’t show any interest even when they are, and others will flirt just for fun. There’s no real way to tell other then trying to move things forward.
/r/seduction02/11/24 08:29 PM
-2

Don’t wait to be introduced, just talk to her next time you see her
/r/seduction31/10/24 02:44 AM
1

Just flirt with her, only way to know. Also for the social anxiety, start talking to more strangers it’ll take awhile but it will go away. You sound young, deal with it now so it isn’t a life long issue.
/r/seduction03/10/24 01:45 AM
7

Did you read anything I wrote?
/r/seduction30/09/24 04:36 AM
2

Looking at your posts, you have a lot of work to do mentally. To answer your question, just go say hi to them and start a conversation, especially if their girls you know. Most people won’t start a conversation but they’ll continue one if you initiate. You just need to be able to read them to a certain extend and realize when they’re trying to end it, so you don’t hang out and overstay your welcome.
/r/seduction26/09/24 01:16 AM
1

I usually am the one that’ll say something, sometimes they kill the conversation and sometimes they won’t stop talking.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:06 AM
1

It’s only been a couple days. Either give it some time, or wait until you can actually meet and set something up.
/r/seduction16/09/24 12:52 AM
1

Dude calm down 1.5hrs is nothing. Give it a day or two if this is just some random girl you just met
/r/seduction11/09/24 07:56 PM
17

Just ask her out
/r/seduction11/09/24 06:23 PM
1

Did you notice a change in how many matches you were getting or just the quality?
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:16 PM
17

Wait you met her on a sugar daddy site and your worked up because she’s talking to other guys? Think about what you’re saying.
/r/seduction26/08/24 03:12 AM
2

Makes more sense lol
/r/seduction25/08/24 01:46 AM
7

Break up with your boyfriend and just do as you please?
/r/seduction25/08/24 01:30 AM
3

There is a middle ground between asking her out and just ignoring her. Talk to her and see how it goes, but just ignoring her because you’re not sure it’ll work is crazy.
/r/seduction24/08/24 05:21 AM
1

Honestly if your that messed up socially I’d start with ready “How to win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie. It’ll at least give you a good starting point. It really depends on the person and interaction though, sometime you’ll meet people that will talk about anything, other times their closed off and won’t talk. You need to learn to read the situation.
/r/seduction23/08/24 04:43 AM
3

Should have probably pushed more, but it’s always tough to judge. We were already together so it’s not like we met up for a date.
/r/seduction08/08/24 05:39 PM
2

You’re 2 years into this, no need to drag this out any longer. Just get your answer and move on.
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:38 PM
1

You can ask her out again if you really want to, but if she’s not showing any interest just unfollow and forget about her.
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:03 PM
2

Don’t really have an answer for you, other than people say things they don’t mean all the time. Don’t send a follow up text.
/r/seduction05/08/24 02:03 PM
2

If they won’t go on a date, why would they go on a trip with you? Need to find someone that actually wants to go out with you first.
/r/seduction29/07/24 02:06 AM
1

You don’t care but you took the time to ask Reddit if it would make a difference?
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:39 PM
2

Why play games, just make everyone’s life easier… Just ask him out or ask when he’s going to take you on that picnic. He’s already done most of the work, just act like you actually want to see him.
/r/seduction16/07/24 07:13 PM
2

Tough to tell the difference between uninterested and playing hard to get. So no it doesn’t make me like her more, actually makes me want to cut them off.
/r/seduction16/07/24 06:54 PM
3

There’s nothing to tell you, just buy the book and read it.
/r/seduction14/07/24 11:31 PM
56

Read “The charisma myth” by Olivia fox, it’ll explain it better then anything you’ll read on here.
/r/seduction14/07/24 10:53 PM
15

Won’t hurt to follow up, but with that response it’s unlikely to go anywhere.
/r/seduction10/07/24 11:29 PM
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You should get a response within a day, but if you’re interested it might be worth reaching out in a week or two to try again. If you don’t get a response to the second message you have your answer.
/r/seduction09/07/24 10:33 PM
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Just call or text her, if she’s not interested it’s not like it’ll make things any worse.
/r/seduction05/07/24 03:19 PM
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Having things come up and canceling beforehand is one thing, but if their just completely flaking there’s no reason to give them multiple chances.
/r/seduction30/06/24 05:53 PM
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If you want advice, move on she isn’t interested, your way over invested in someone that you’ve never met. Anyone that won’t meet within a couple of weeks isn’t interested and there’s no reason to continue pursuing.
/r/seduction29/06/24 06:16 PM
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Your right that there aren’t any guarantees but your wrong about a lot of this. Other people’s view of you, especially strangers, is just an interpretation of your vibe. How do you dress, are you in shape, how do you carry yourself, what’s your personality? All of these are things that you can control. Yes it’s hard and yes you need to go out a meet a lot of people to find a few that you click with. Bitching online about how unfair it isn’t going to change anything, it’s still hard for all of us…
/r/seduction19/06/24 05:16 PM
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At some point you need to go out and just get real life experience. Continually searching for more videos to watch and books to read is a waste of time if you’re never going to use what you learned.
/r/seduction19/06/24 03:59 PM
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Kind of tough to say without seeing the conversation. Just ask her out, if she’s interested she’ll make time.
/r/seduction18/06/24 03:28 PM
8

Stop with the excuses, everyone is busy and 45 mins isn’t far. Just ask her out, why would you wait 2 months to see her?
/r/seduction17/06/24 06:08 PM
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You don’t have to open a message to “read” it
/r/seduction16/06/24 04:32 AM
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The first part of what you wrote was probably the issue. There was definitely flirting but nothing sexual or really anything that created tension.
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:26 PM
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Do you do anything beside comment bs on Reddit all day?
/r/seduction12/06/24 02:36 PM
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If they want you to know they’ll tell you.
/r/seduction10/06/24 04:51 AM
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Just ask her to grab drinks or something, don’t make a big deal out of it.
/r/seduction08/06/24 05:12 PM
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What do you consider slow? Also as long as it’s a somewhat reasonable amount of time I don’t think it really means anything. If shes showing up to dates and it’s probably not an issue.
/r/seduction07/06/24 09:35 PM
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Following you around doesn’t mean she wants to fuck you. I guess she could, but it’s far from a clear sign… Either way have some morals and don’t be a piece of shit.
/r/seduction06/06/24 06:30 PM
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How did you decide that she wants to sleep with you?
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:26 PM
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Go get some mental help, you’re fucked.
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:02 PM
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Short answer, no it’s not a personality trait you’re stuck with. For me it’s just reps, I used to be the same way but after talking to a ton of strangers you’ll realize no one cares. Some people want to talk, others don’t but I’ve yet to have any bad interactions with someone. Once you realize you’re the only one making a big deal out of the interaction it becomes a lot easier. If I can go out, have a couple decent interactions with people to start the night, and get myself in the mood to social…
/r/seduction03/06/24 01:28 AM
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If shes actually lying about family dying and using it as an excuse just realize you’re lucky to end things this quickly before you’re too involved. You don’t want to be around anyone that’s willing to lie like that to get out of things.
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:19 PM
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I feel like you’re looking way too deep into this, how can she know you like her if neither of you talk to each other? She’s probably just trying to do her job. To answer your initial question, you already know the answer, work on your social skills. If you have anxiety to the point that you can barely talk the only answer is to work on that until it becomes a non issues.
/r/seduction31/05/24 08:12 PM
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Literally any reason, you don’t have to be a dick but if you want out of a convo you can say pretty much anything and walk away.
/r/seduction31/05/24 08:03 PM
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First off learn to deal with your anxiety, everyone has it you need to stop using it as an excuse. Other than that just talk to her and have an actual conversation, you don’t need to ask her out right away. How can you be sure she has a thing for you if you never talk?
/r/seduction31/05/24 05:20 PM
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Work on getting yourself together financially, it just makes life less stressful. To answer your question though, no there’s plenty of broke guys going on dates.
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:44 PM
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It’ll just depend on the person, some people will overlook it others won’t… Work on your social skills, even the way you write this makes it seem like you don’t understand social interactions.
/r/seduction28/05/24 02:10 AM
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This isn’t even seduction just work on your social skills. You said some wild shit to her, she blocked you, then you hit her up later on a different platform asking if she remembered you. Clearly she remembered what you said and still doesn’t want to talk. The first message was bad and the second wasn’t much better. She already sees you as a creep you’re not going to win her over by messaging some more.
/r/seduction27/05/24 03:41 PM
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You told some girl that you barely knew that you’re into anal and you’re not sure what the issue is? You might find a girl that’ll go along with it but most of them are going to give you the same response that this one gave you.
/r/seduction27/05/24 04:16 AM
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Why are you going after a girl that’s engaged to begin with, just move on and find a single girl. Even if she were to breakup with her bf for you do you really want to be with a girl thats willing to entertain other guys while she’s in a relationship?
/r/seduction21/05/24 09:29 PM
0

Only thing to add to this is invite people to do things, don’t just wait to be invited. Most people won’t plan things but they’ll tag along if you invite them out.
/r/seduction19/05/24 06:42 PM
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Let me check my schedule or I’m busy and I’ll let you know is a no 99% of the time. Nothing wrong with following up later, there’s definitely outliers and things change but most of the time they’re just not interested.
/r/seduction19/05/24 03:53 PM
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Just go up to her and introduce yourself like you would with anyone else. Start at small conversation and build from there.
/r/seduction12/05/24 05:24 AM
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It’s something to do with how you carry yourself and the conversation. I notice it with myself, there’s times when I can’t get a conversation going at all and there’s other times when I can talk to anyone. Usually the only difference is my mood.
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:47 AM
2

Is this the same girl you’ve been making posts about for months? Stop overthinking things and just go.
/r/seduction11/05/24 05:11 PM
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I wish I could point you in a better direction but read into some psychology on that. Basically when people think like that, they’ll look for little things to prove themselves right. Whether it’s consciously or subconsciously it becomes a self fulfilling cycle.
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:10 PM
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If you don’t enjoy talking and hanging out with these girls what’s the point? If your not having fun dealing with these girls find a different one, or if it’s the same issues every time it’s probably you. Also you’re going to continue to have issues if you can’t trust anyone. Don’t just blindly believe everything, but if you can’t trust them you’ll start to look for and create problems that don’t exist. Whether this girl is sick or not is kind of irrelevant, you getting frustrated because she’s …
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:47 PM
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If you like the challenge why didn’t you just spend that time trying to meet girls that are actually interested? All your other comments you say you don’t want to be needy setting up another date, but getting hung up on one girl that you’ve never met for two months is already the definition of needy.
/r/seduction06/05/24 03:33 PM
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Flaking on the date isn’t really the issue, but why would you spend two months chasing after someone who is difficult and cold? I get it, finding decent girls can be tough, but why chase after someone for this long that isn’t interested.
/r/seduction06/05/24 01:36 AM
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Save yourself the hassle and move on, why would you spend two months talking to a girl who is difficult and cold? I get it, finding decent girls can be difficult but why would you keep chasing after someone that isn’t interested.
/r/seduction06/05/24 01:35 AM
1

Bang her and send him snaps from her phone?
/r/seduction05/05/24 03:02 PM
1

If your not sure if you’ll see her again just get her contact info from here friends and go from there.
/r/seduction05/05/24 12:17 AM
7

If you’re into her just go for it, but it’s a personal choice no one online can tell you what’s right for you. Like someone else said loosing your virginity isn’t really a big deal, it’ll be awkward and you won’t know what you’re doing, but you’ll be more confident the next time you meet someone.
/r/seduction04/05/24 07:27 PM
3

Just go talk to her in person, there’s no reason to get approval from her friends and make a big deal about asking her out.
/r/seduction04/05/24 05:54 PM
4

Honestly waiting to follow her insta after she gave it to you is weirder than just adding it right away.
/r/seduction04/05/24 05:06 AM
3

I guess I wasn’t clear enough, I’m talking about neutral girls not uninterested.
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:21 AM
1

Mostly just some arm touch or high 5’s when we were talking or doing activities, not a lot and nothing over the top. It’s just odd how closed off she is when it’s just us together.
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:56 PM
1

I mean I have been trying to from the start, it wasn’t like this was the first time we’ve met. There was definitely rapport, along with some flirting and teasing before we went out. She just seemed more nervous and physically closed off when it was just us vs with the group.
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:52 PM
1

Serious question, do you ever leave your house or do you just comment on Reddit all day? There’s no way you talk to people irl with all the time you spending posting worthless comments on here.
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:34 PM
2

Why would you block her, if she doesn’t respond to your messages anyways what does blocking her do? Also if you moved to another country who cares, just move on.
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:26 PM
1

Just spend a couple nights trying out different places and see what you like. No reason to overthink this.
/r/seduction21/04/24 03:11 AM
37

How much interest are you really showing? Especially since it’s at work he might just be nervous since he’s not sure if he’s reading the situation wrong.
/r/seduction18/04/24 08:34 PM
33

Don’t worry about being inexperienced, just don’t make a big deal about being a virgin and enjoy things. No matter how much you read online your still going to me nervous and feel like you don’t know what your doing when the time comes.
/r/seduction17/04/24 05:30 PM
7

Talk to girls in real life and realize they all have issues just like anyone else. Unless these are girls you’re trying to set up a real date with who cares, it’s just a stranger on the internet.
/r/seduction12/04/24 03:38 PM
2

I had the opposite problem, I always struggled with small talk but could hold a conversation once it got going. I could see that being an issue with short convos in retail. Most people want to talk, and like to talk so if you keep asking them questions they’ll continue the conversation. It’s not an interview so don’t just fire off question after question, more along the lines of add to the conversation and ask something to build on what they’re already talking about.
/r/seduction12/04/24 12:23 AM
1

You still need to put effort in and continue to improve, just showing up with a shitty attitude everyday isn’t going to help.
/r/seduction12/04/24 12:08 AM
19

Don’t say anything, go find a girl that’s single.
/r/seduction11/04/24 01:16 AM
11

Go get a job that forces you to be social, it’s not seduction but it will help you improve your social skills.
/r/seduction10/04/24 10:10 PM
28

Just message her, worst case she doesn’t respond.
/r/seduction04/04/24 08:19 PM
12

Grab her by the pussy
/r/seduction31/03/24 05:25 PM
12

The best thing you can do is to get out of the house and talk to people. I think it’s helpful to understand psychology but you can only learn so much from reading.
/r/seduction31/03/24 02:52 AM
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You already know the answer to your question, you just want it to be easier. Stop waiting for the “urge”, go out work on your social skills and meet people. Going to Reddit looking for people to spoon feed you isn’t going to work, you need to get out of your comfort zone and go out into the real world.
/r/seduction21/03/24 06:39 PM
2

Just talk to more women and stop putting them on a pedestal. Really just start talking to more people in general, talk to everyone and you’ll start to get more comfortable.
/r/seduction14/03/24 01:55 AM
0

It really doesn’t matter how you open people, but you need to get them to talk. Most people love to talk so ask questions that get them to open up and go from there. Not interview questions bouncing around, things that build on what they say.
/r/seduction10/03/24 03:15 PM
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Best thing you can do is start now, I wish I forced myself to be more social when I was younger. There’s really no secret to it, just keep starting conversations with strangers and you’ll get more and more comfortable talking to them. “The charisma myth” is a good book on interacting with people.
/r/seduction10/03/24 03:05 PM
3

Maybe try therapy. I’m no expert on this stuff and don’t know your issues, but there’s clearly something going on. I didn’t have the issues you have but what helped me was moving away from home and doing my own thing. Just getting older and learning how things actually work, and also reading some psychology books to to learn how the brain actually works.
/r/seduction09/03/24 05:37 AM
8

All these issues sound like someone with internal issues acting out. Not sure what they are, but deal with them and then you can start working on how you present yourself.
/r/seduction09/03/24 05:25 AM
1

Confidently like you already know them. It’s kind of weird but if you’ve ever been around someone that does that or seen it happen it just seems natural.
/r/seduction07/03/24 03:42 AM
2

Some people will ask, but no one really seems to care. Even if they do that’s their problem, you probably won’t see most of this people again so their option doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction04/03/24 03:16 PM
1

If this is that big of a issue to you, you have some personal issues you need to work out.
/r/seduction02/03/24 06:12 PM
4

The biggest thing that helped me get better at conversation was just talking to more people. Reading books and watching videos will help some, but nothing will be better then just going out and talking to strangers.
/r/seduction29/02/24 03:43 PM
10

Anything that forces you to regularly talk to a lot of people. Waiter, bartender, sales jobs, etc.
/r/seduction29/02/24 03:19 PM
5

Are you autistic or did you try to learn social skills from reading PUA material?
/r/seduction24/02/24 06:07 PM
3

Start talking to her and see how it goes. If your leaving in 2 months it doesn’t really matter if you get rejected, your not going to see her again. Just don’t be a dick about it.
/r/seduction15/02/24 01:43 AM
2

Banter, flirty, easy to continue the conversation. My texts are short and dry so definitely not the person to ask.
/r/seduction13/02/24 08:16 PM
12

There’s a lot of people that are great at text and can barely carry a conversation in person. Being good or bad at texting doesn’t really mean anything.
/r/seduction12/02/24 10:02 PM
17

Your a few months in with a girl that doesn’t want to hang out with you? Cut her off and move on. Also start working on yourself, just reading this your all over the place and sound like your needy and difficult to deal with.
/r/seduction12/02/24 03:55 PM
3

I’d agree that it’s probably a internal issue that’s become external. If you think they have a negative view of you going into it your going to prove them right just by the way you act.
/r/seduction06/02/24 02:46 PM
2

Personally I think it’s situational, there could be real reasons why they reject the first time. To keep chasing after 5+ rejections is wild.
/r/seduction03/02/24 05:51 PM
1

Being in line is the easiest part, just talk to whoever is around you. Also not sure why it would matter to security. I’m pretty introverted and I’ve gone out by myself a few times and had a good time. Just talk to everyone and you’ll meet some people to hang out with.
/r/seduction01/02/24 01:39 AM
1

Being in line is the easiest part, just talk to whoever is around you. Also not sure why it would matter to security. I’m pretty introverted and I’ve gone out by myself a few times and had a good time. Just talk to everyone and you’ll meet some people to hang out with.
/r/seduction01/02/24 01:38 AM
1

Its active now and I’ve had profiles off and on for the last 6-7 years. Age would make the most sense, because nothing else seems to make a difference.
/r/seduction12/12/23 05:33 PM
3

I’ve never done great with OLD, but it’s gone to complete shit this year. My profile obviously isn’t great but I’d say it’s the best one I’ve had and I’ve gone from getting a handful of matches to literally nothing. Not sure what’s changed, I have better pictures and prompts, and somehow it’s worse then any of the other profiles I’ve had.
/r/seduction12/12/23 05:18 PM
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