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Outer Game Borednudes/r/seduction06/11/20 01:43 PM
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Inner Game Borednudes/r/seduction30/10/20 05:21 PM
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Inner Game Borednudes/r/seduction11/08/20 02:15 PM
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72% of the time it works every time. All jokes aside, yeah it’s written more to make a point, maybe I should have just written “Most or some” instead as a more general term.
/r/seduction07/11/20 08:50 AM
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Build it man, it wasn’t around when I started, I got on the forums, messaged people who were active and looked like they were serious about getting better. There’s guys on here who you could make a WhatsApp chat with or so something, just chat to them, then introduce the idea. Good luck man.
/r/seduction07/11/20 08:37 AM
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Damn, thank you man. For the past month I’ve been taking some time to really reflect on myself and my life. My posts are kind of a way for me to make sense of the stuff that I’ve been thinking hard about. I just take an hour every day and tackle a problem head on. Often times I sit there and rewrite what I’m saying until I get to the core of what’s wrong and it’s through that, I find clarity and understanding. Glad you guys can also find some value in that.
/r/seduction07/11/20 08:33 AM
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Exactly that man 👍
/r/seduction06/11/20 02:07 PM
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What do you do when you are alone? That’s who you truly are, you should aim to interact with others as though you were alone. Do whatever little quirks you do when you are alone, talk about the topics that you think about most often. Understanding who you are comes from removing this gap between the self and the other. Bring up that subject that’s been on your mind, share your opinion, express how you feel. Check out my profile for a detailed post on exactly this.
/r/seduction05/11/20 09:30 AM
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I personally hate the ghosting culture, if I spend an evening with a women and we connect well. Even if things don't work out, she still has a higher place than most in my life. I'll communicate honestly with her and probably continue chatting to her every now and then. "Hey, I'm kind of hung up on what happened, I thought things were going well and I'm a little confused as to why we didn't continue things, I'd really like to know if it was something I did/said or something else" Nothing wrong w…
/r/seduction03/11/20 11:01 AM
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Why not man? That’s definitely something I’d be proud of achieving
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:42 AM
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I meant my max maintainable speed which is only around 10kph so not that fast.
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:39 AM
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Yeah, definitely, just take it all the way. Play it until it hurts everyday, then play another 30 minutes.
/r/seduction03/11/20 12:05 AM
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I'd recommend taking some time to read books like My Secret Garden, learn about what women fantasize about. They don't want to be approached, in the sense of the average guy who goes up and just says "You're beautiful". What they want is emotional connection and excitement. The emotional connection comes from being able to make her feel a certain way, you say something funny and she can't help but laugh. The excitement comes from wondering where things might end up if she spends more time with y…
/r/seduction02/11/20 11:39 AM
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Taking action isn't about success, it's about acting the way you want in the interaction. It's about developing authenticity, it's about not shying away from that part of yourself. When you are with a girl who you are really attracted to and you want to kiss her, you need to do it. It's an expression of yourself and you will become more centered and confident the more you do this. The outcome doesn't matter, your success as a man should be defined by whether you are living your life in accordanc…
/r/seduction02/11/20 10:36 AM
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The shotgun approach is wrong and always has been, beginners need to focus more on depth than breadth. Go further with each interaction, push things beyond what you are comfortable with in every interaction. You don't get results in the gym by doing the same shit for a 100 days. You increase the load constantly.
/r/seduction01/11/20 11:51 PM
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For a start don't think of them as objectively beautiful, like they are some kind of high status individual based on looks alone. You find them attractive, that's all that matters. Once you stop viewing her as this goddess that society puts on a pedestal and just someone who fits your sexual preferences, your nerves will go and you'll actually find it way easier to interact with these girls. Your attraction towards her is something you should be okay with expressing as well. You aren't being hon…
/r/seduction01/11/20 11:44 PM
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I wouldn't bother reading The Game. When I read it, I really wasn't impressed with it. He hypes up what Mystery and that did in his writing but the reality was they were a niche group of pretty fringe guys, doing some really weird shit. None of them really had a grasp on what they were doing and it's all pretty redundant nowadays, you'll most likely lead yourself astray by reading that book as a beginner. You don't want to be like them. Neil even put out a book that directly contradicts The Game…
/r/seduction01/11/20 10:51 PM
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Feel free to dm man
/r/seduction31/10/20 02:34 PM
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Everyone's a natural, we all have the genetic information to mate. Pickup is a vehicle to get men out there so they can realise this themselves. It's purpose is to give guys the realisation of "Oh, there's nothing wrong with me, women will like me, sex is a perfectly natural thing and really not that big of a deal, it's just two people getting each other off". You then outgrow pickup and leave it behind as you come to that realisation. My story is very similar to yours, I was a natural. When I w…
/r/seduction31/10/20 12:02 PM
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I somewhat agree but I still think you’ve got the wrong idea, I’ve been around game for a long time. Almost a decade now, i started back when it was just underground forums of guys posting infields. At some point your going to outgrow the things you learn here, you stop being this guy who is thinking of techniques and you truly start internalising what you learn, it becomes natural. I don’t think about technique at all when I’m with a girl, I just do the stuff I learned back then naturally. It’s…
/r/seduction31/10/20 10:58 AM
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I appreciate that, the date was actually really good aside from it not working out in the end. I can’t claim to know why and can only make assumptions about it. We met up at 5pm and the date went on until 2am, we continued drinking back at her place, the whole time I wanted to make things more intimate because I really liked her and got the impression she liked me too. I just struggled to actually do it due to my anxiety and inexperience, I assume that’s why things didn’t continue because she wa…
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:51 PM
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Of course, this is very specific to me and what I struggled with. I didn’t include any details of the date but I could clearly tell she was into me and really enjoying enjoying it, only, I found myself totally paralysed to make any kind of move. Honestly, I’m not sure why you are assuming I’m incapable of reading other people, this is much more focused on the fear of taking action. This post doesn’t say anything about telling people what they want either, I meant to communicate the opposite, tha…
/r/seduction18/10/20 08:46 PM
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Yeah, I'm not beating myself up too much, I'm just aware of the kind of motivation that makes me take action. I'm more frustrated that I wanted to approach her but didn't, on some level there was an insecurity holding me back which I need to address. I'm like 80-90% sure she was showing signs of interest and if I'm interested too, why didn't I open if it's what I wanted to do? something held me back and that's the lesson here. Time to reflect on what that insecurity is and fix it. For me, I thin…
/r/seduction11/08/20 03:32 PM
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