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Field ReportBouncyShroom/r/seduction03/01/22 03:32 AM
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BouncyShroom/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:20 PM
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BouncyShroom/r/seduction09/01/18 02:34 PM
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FundamentalsBouncyShroom/r/seduction06/01/22 05:49 PM
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ConversationBouncyShroom/r/seduction04/01/21 06:02 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationBouncyShroom/r/seduction07/01/22 09:40 AM
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Field ReportBouncyShroom/r/seduction09/01/22 08:48 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationBouncyShroom/r/seduction02/03/22 01:21 AM
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ConversationBouncyShroom/r/seduction10/01/22 05:31 PM
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BouncyShroom/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:42 PM
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Congratulations my dude, but I hope you wore protection. This isn't even from a STD perspective, I'd be terrified to get someone pregnant that I don't even know due to sexual inexperience, and you don't know her preference if that was to happen. I understand this is your first pussy, and these things are the last thoughts in your mind - but it's really worth considering.
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:44 AM
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Scarcity at it's finest OP, no offence. If you had a selection of attractive girls in your life, you'd run away from this one in an instant. You know the relationship isn't right, because your on here asking for advice. Please don't take offence, because I once was like you and oblivious to the red flags because she was hot. I'm assuming your wearing a condom. Have you asked her what would happen if she fell pregnant?
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:20 PM
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I'm 6ft and mid 20's, but I'm pretty overweight ATM combined with excess skin, fat rolls and have pretty large man boobs (I piled a lot of weight on since summer 2021). Regardless, I carried myself around like I'm genuinely the prize and it has paid off. My new girlfriend is slim, ex cheerleader and most of all head over heels in love with me. She was the one and still is pursuing me in the courtship. I'd rate her a 9.5. Shortly prior to meeting her, I was dating a really cute girl and before th…
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:54 PM
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If I met a woman like that, it would be a massive red flag.
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:28 AM
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I was going to send her a custom card saying yes I do, I said I'd tell her in my own special way because I don't do basic and bland
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:28 AM
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I was going to send her a custom card saying yes I do, I said I'd tell her in my own special way because I don't do basic and bland
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:27 AM
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I was going to send her a custom card saying yes I do, I said I'd tell her in my own special way because I don't do basic and bland
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:27 AM
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Fair point, but there is almost no woman out there who's in her 20's without Instagram or social media. I'm speaking this from experience, in an ideal world she won't have social media but unfortunately everyone does.
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:37 PM
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This is a good post, and a genuine serious question so I appreciate OP posting this - because it seems like a topic most of us will have encountered. I'm seeing a girl for the past few weeks who is literally doing 80% of the chasing, pursuing e.c.t and I get the feeling she's going to prop the exclusivity question in the next few weeks. There is really good chemistry. I'm not a big texter, and she initiates most of the texts and messages me 'good morning' pretty much every day. A few days ago, s…
/r/seduction02/02/22 12:33 PM
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How do you suggest I respond? I was just going to tell her I was busy, but I'm curious if there's a better way. Not sure if it's worthwhile telling her that I look forwards seeing her on the weekend
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:58 PM
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'Told her I had a good time with her and to let me know when she wants to grab dinner' - no reply back I had a similar situation recently, although she responded after the date. I'd expect her to at least acknowledge what you said if she enjoyed the date. The fact that she's not said anything says a lot. I'd go no contact for a week or so (or even longer), and see if she reaches out. If you text her again, you may come across as needy. I understand the urge to text her again - trust me, I'm in a…
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:47 PM
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She doesn't smoke, but only when out drinking/drunk. Perhaps you are right, maybe I did give the impression on my face (although I tried not to). I texted her I had a good night, and hope she got home safe (like on our 1st date) Her interest was pretty high all throughout, till this mess up at the end of the 2nd date. Perhaps I'll just mentally move on and see if she gets back in touch - if she's interested, she'll text me
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:07 PM
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I've been with a bipolar girl before, and agree The night I met her (before the dates) was a major red flag for me. I just brushed it under the carpet as a 1 off. The dates went so well otherwise and she's so quiet/timid so it didn't mash up. I've never been in a situation like this before, and we share a mutual friend. I wonder how it'll turn out.
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:36 PM
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What I find baffling is how things changed around so quickly, but it would be foolish of me to chase her. I find it interesting, because it was her who was chasing me when we first met. Things were fine till we went to the 2nd bar - then things just went south.
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:25 PM
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I just don't understand how things switched from one extreme to the other. She's such a timid and quiet girl, this is what I can't comprehend - especially considering how our interactions went beforehand
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:35 PM
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Your right, at the moment things do seem effortless. I suggested we get together and make dinner together and watch a movie this weekend at her place over a bottle of wine. She seemed more than up for it. After I confirmed plans and said it'll be good to see her again ,she replied with a 😘 so touch wood things seem good so far! I last text her on Tuesday, and meeting her Saturday. Does she expect me to text her in-between? I see the advice is texting is only for logistics, however is that really…
/r/seduction05/01/22 08:05 AM
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Your right, at the moment things do seem effortless. I suggested we get together and make dinner together and watch a movie this weekend at her place over a bottle of wine. She seemed more than up for it. After I confirmed plans and said it'll be good to see her again ,she replied with a 😘 so touch wood things seem good so far! I last text her on Tuesday, and meeting her Saturday. Does she expect me to text her in-between? I see the advice is texting is only for logistics, however is that really…
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:58 AM
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I suggested we get together and make dinner together and watch a movie this weekend at her place over a bottle of wine. She seemed more than up for it. After I confirmed plans and said it'll be good to see her again ,she replied with a 😘 so touch wood things seem good so far! I can't really cool, so it'll probably be takeaway
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:51 AM
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I suggested we get together and make dinner together and watch a movie this weekend over a bottle of wine. She seemed more than up for it. After I confirmed plans and said it'll be good to see her again ,she replied with a 😘 so touch wood things seem good so far!
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:49 AM
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Hey, yes I did. I suggested we get together and make dinner together and watch a movie this weekend over a bottle of wine. She seemed more than up for it. After I confirmed plans and said it'll be good to see her again ,she replied with a 😘 so things look good
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:47 AM
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Thanks for the reply. Do you feel it's okay if I suggest we watch a movie at her place after getting Starbucks? I'm calling her tonight - do I tell her the movie at her place plan at the same time, or tell her at Starbucks that lets go to hers after?
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:18 PM
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Hey, thanks for this. We've texting a bit this morning. I've already said I'd call her tonight (with the intention of setting the next date) She works from home 2 days a week - although she will get her rota tomorrow. Is it sensible to speak for a bit, and ask her to let me know tomorrow when she finds out when she's working from home, or should I arrange a date tonight (probs over the weekend) when I call anyways.
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:44 PM
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Today is a national holiday in my country - we both are off work and back in tomorrow. Is it wise to suggest we do something today (along the lines of movie date at hers e.c.t) considering our date was yesterday - or should I give it a few days or just do it next weekend
/r/seduction03/01/22 11:47 AM
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If I meet her again for drinks next weekend - I guess I can try a bit more. How would going back to her house work if we went on a hike/walk date Saturday afternoon? I don't know how to engineer the her house thing
/r/seduction03/01/22 11:14 AM
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Not really. In the past, I've ruined encounters/dates because I've not picked up on signals. On this occasion, I've been given too many - making me confused. I'm still learning this stuff and dating in general. If I don't ask questions like this, I'll never improve myself.
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:55 AM
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Thanks, and this was my intention too. The comment above suggests she's leaning towards a relationship but idk. It's 5am now, how do you suggest I tackle the text aspect of it on the morning? I already said I had a good time via text last night
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:05 AM
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I agree, and I'm looking for something with substance too. Another important thing to note, she doesn't frequent nightclubs which was a really attractive point for me - I told her this. I just didn't know if she wanted me to escalate sex on the first date (seeing how touchy feely she was) - I remember during the date thinking to myself she's giving girlfriend vibes, especially with her running hands through my hair
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:50 AM
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Asif, I've read your 'book' and it's amazing. Do the hard work, especially when you don't feel like it. Something I'm going to internalise. Which mediation app did you use?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 12:43 AM
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How would you phrase that? I was thinking of saying the below 'We should talk more some time soon, I've not heard your voice in a while. Have you still got the same number?'
/r/seduction04/01/21 06:24 PM
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I am 95% sure it's the same number, as it's still active on WhatsApp. I just know if I should call her out the blue after 2 years of not hearing her voice. She was the one who initiated contact via messenger 2 weeks ago.
/r/seduction04/01/21 06:12 PM
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We've been speaking on messenger for 2 weeks consistently. If I was to connect with someone, I'd choose messenger over text personally
/r/seduction04/01/21 06:10 PM
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Whatever choice you make, you CANNOT make amends with her. She is gone out of your life,
/r/askTRP21/10/19 06:59 PM
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Speaking from dating a fat girl for a couple of months, I strongly advise against it. Why? ​ She will be insecure about her looks. This was a massive problem for me, because if any girl even looked at me whilst we were out together, it was "My fault" Personally, I felt ashamed to introduce her to any of my friends or parents. I would worry if I was seen in public with her in areas I know I'f bump into people I know I was the process of losing weight & eating healthy. She didn't care about her he…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 08:55 PM
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I was going through something similar too Around 6 months ago pre-LTR, I was lifting and taking care of my health. I am was in the process of losing weight, and things were going good and I was feeling amazing mentally. Somehow ended up in a LTR with a girl, who didn't really match my goals. She was large, and smoked a load of weed. I'd kicked those habits ages ago because they only had a detrimental impact to me. In those 4 months we'd been together, I had stopped exercise. My diet went south b…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 08:42 PM
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Yes, she was not what you thought she was. I thought TRP was full of BS for a while, even when I saw some aspects of it in my life giving me proof that it was true. My recent experience (Very similar to yours) along with interacting with people has proved to me that TRP is real. I've learnt now, that no matter how much of an angel you think she is, no matter how much she tells you she's different from other girls, you must exercise AWALT. It's a very hard truth to swallow, because even I don't w…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 08:03 PM
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May this be a lesson for you Never let your guard down, Even if you are convinced your girl is a genuine angel. I have just made the same mistake with I girl I knew for 4 months, things were going so well until I let my guard drop. I truly believed this girl was different from the others, so I dropped my frame. Things just fucked up after then. We're still young, so use this as experience. AWALT, even if you don't realize it now. You will in time.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 08:21 PM
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I had a FWB who had the IUD It's the best feeling ever, but you need to ask yourself the question if you'll be happy knocking this particular chick up
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:32 PM
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I somewhat agree Reading the rational male, you'd assume from whatever is written there that Rollo would be some sort of absolute alpha even in terms of looks It's a shock to actually see the real guy, I can understand why some people would start questioning him. It's like if a guy ran a very popular fitness site giving the impression that the guy behind it must be a muscular and athletic god preaching all this advice, when in reality the guy looks like rollo. You'd question everything.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:31 PM
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Could someone elaborate on the signs she's borderline? Girl who I used to have a thing with Told me she was a sociopath (diagnosed apparently) and was was vocal about it like she was proud Said she couldn't feel anything Has self harm scars on her wrist Does a lot of coke, loves to drink a little too much Told by someone she'd threaten to cut and kill herself over something Got into a LTR with someone a month after I broke it off and had an argument Is obsessed with validation ​ Hanging with thi…
/r/askTRP08/07/19 08:19 PM
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Funny thing is a few months back I actually would have gone out of my way to do that. I'm debating on just ignoring the text or saying no, I'm at work.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:15 PM
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So she's definitely at the bar where her bf works. I'm just gonna not even reply. I can't understand why she's asking me though, after we've had history together. I've not met her bf (but she says I should meet him in the past) almost like she was trying to justify him to me. Like if someone made a bad deal, and he was trying to justify it to his boss. That was the vibe I got from it last time.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:04 PM
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I was thinking of saying "I'm at work/another city, if you want to hang out you need to let me know in advance"
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:57 PM
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Would you elaborate on what you saw?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:33 PM
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This 200%, Watch what they do, not what they say Had a girl who I was newly friends with, she pretty much always said she'd only date black guys and she loves blacks and isn't attracted to anyone else. I was still in the beta mindset back then and actually bought it, and never really escalated because I genuinely thought she'd only want a black guy. Long story short, she told me she always found me attractive after I began to escalate. Ended up dating her for a bit. Watch what they do, not what …
/r/askTRP07/07/19 11:11 PM
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Personally, It is essential that a man priorities his career first and I'm saying this from my experience Women come and go, even the "unicorns" or the ones you think a ltr would work with. If you don't make money and your career a major priority then you are playing a very risky game. A woman can switch to another man at the snap of the finger. If you make her a bigger priority than your job, or get indulged with her a little too much it can be detrimental if you begin to pause with your own li…
/r/askTRP06/07/19 03:45 PM
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Mine was a genuine rollercoaster, 4 months since our breakup when she got a new bf It sounds pathetic, but this girl is in my thoughts 24/7. I hope I can move on
/r/askTRP04/07/19 06:38 PM
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I'm in the exact same position, and I've also considered doing it and have fallen in some deep depression. But, I realized after all these fucking years what my insecurities were. It's like someone fucking smacked me with a bat and I woke up. Basically I came to the conclusion I need to focus on my career, make money and lift so I look attractive. The rest will fall in place.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 05:56 PM
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Not me, but my best friends girlfriend (which I was also friends with) My buddy didn't like going clubs, so her gf and her friends used to go for "girls night out" Gf met a new guy at the club, and so did her friend. She told me that she was cheating on him for a while after she broke up with my friend
/r/askTRP04/07/19 05:34 PM
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Thank you for the reply, I really appreciate it I just told her that I preferred it to just be us both, and she said its fine with a smiley. So just me and her going to the zoo. Should I joke prior to driving that "this sorta like a date" How do you recommend I escalate this whilst I'm there? Some kino e.c.t? This sounds stupid af but so far only I've tickled her a few times and rubbed her stomach since the one time she's been at mine, getting these niceguy traits out is hard. Last thing I want …
/r/seduction09/01/18 03:18 PM
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