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ComprehensiveBoxgineer111/r/seduction01/05/21 01:23 AM
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He who blames others has a long way to go on his journey. He who blames himself is halfway there. He who blames no one has arrived. - Chinese proverb -
/r/seduction04/06/21 08:05 PM
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Sounds amazing, gotta try!
/r/seduction20/05/21 09:38 PM
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Actually those two sentences are more related than you think bro
/r/seduction13/05/21 08:43 AM
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telling her you're going to rewatch her nude videos is just a tad bit creepy Yeah but it was Instagram my man, it already notifies you when you watch someone's videos for the second time. So in that moment I thought it would be better to say it lol ​ And you missed out on a fuck buddy, at best :0) That'd be really good for me though, since last time I had sex was last summer
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:28 AM
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Great line, King. It radiates confidence and it is funny too, so you didn't sound like a (real) jerk. I want to talk about my experience, not to "one-up" you, but to talk about how can shit-tests come in different shapes. Usually girls test me by using sex as bait. If you bite the bait too early, now you are just a regular sex-deprived guy who'd do anything for it. Bite it too late and you're either in friendzone or you're weird, or gay. So it is tricky. Last test I failed was like this: Matched…
/r/seduction11/05/21 02:35 AM
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It's sad to see people downvoting this
/r/seduction10/05/21 11:21 AM
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Not that you don't make valid points but still I'd say that's coping. Rejection feels fucking awful. But it is healthier to feel and process that emotion without repressing it. Hamstering away and supressing bad feelings ALWAYS take a toll on you.
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:31 AM
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I don't know, humor works great for me. Until I overdo it or do it in wrong situations. Calibration is key
/r/seduction08/05/21 04:30 PM
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Actually a wise suggestion. Also run away when you see the crazy eyes.
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:52 AM
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Why we try so hard to ignore the fact that if a girl isn't attracted to you, NOTHING you do or say will matter, is completely beyond me It's ego and denial my man.
/r/seduction01/05/21 04:45 PM
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Yes; being fit, finding your style, learning how to dress up etc. Keep working on them my man, it is really worth it 🤙
/r/seduction01/05/21 10:09 AM
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Firstly who told you I am a materialist? Secondly this is not the place to debate religion.
/r/seduction01/05/21 10:07 AM
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I actually heard from another friend of mine. He styles his hair in such a way that it still looks good but looks "low effort" also. He likes suits, jackets, etc but he wears funny socks with suits lol. Low effort seems to attract people.
/r/seduction01/05/21 10:03 AM
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So? It's like "Men and Women 101". It contributes very little value, I'm sure you can do better
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:45 AM
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True, this reminds me of something. I was talking to this girl online, she was responding but it was like one of that "meh" kind of interactions. I was plowing through and I mentioned I was cooking, she got interested. I told her about the all kinds of stuff I could cook and she was hooked. After that point she was investing, was even talking about coming over lol.
/r/seduction16/04/21 02:18 AM
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Sorry to hear man, I know exactly how it feels like. What I do in such situations is using that emotional pain as a catalyst for my growth. It would give you more energy and courage to get out of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction03/03/21 05:19 AM
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A real man's dick hang below his balls, right babe?
/r/seduction02/03/21 07:35 PM
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I'd certainly like to see a guy acting like a poop slinging monkey just to prove a point
/r/seduction26/02/21 08:25 PM
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Nah, that app is shit for men who are not conventionally attractive. At least that was my experience.
/r/seduction26/02/21 06:27 PM
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Not to mention it is ancient
/r/seduction26/02/21 06:25 PM
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Figured out*
/r/seduction26/02/21 06:24 PM
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I am 28, what would you suggest for me? I have my career and physique handled, but I lack a social circle because I moved to a different city.
/r/seduction25/02/21 03:18 PM
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I'm giving this three finger snaps
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:55 AM
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You do you, man. As long as it serves you. If it doesn't serve you, let it go. Wash, rinse, and repeat. I am 28 years old and personally I look at it from a more different perspective. We know that most girls sleep around. It is impossible not to in this time and circumstances, just put yourself in women's shoes (not literally) and think about it. So here's an allegory: She runs a lemonade stand. You see her giving free lemonades to all Jacks and Johns here and there. They just come, take their …
/r/seduction22/02/21 08:11 PM
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True that, but some people are just too clingy or hellbent to extract some kind of value from you. After dealing with many people who are like that, I have realized that you cannot fight it. Every time you reply to them you are giving them stones to step on. When you stop responding they lose their footing.
/r/seduction13/02/21 04:36 PM
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Healthy women do not do that consciously. Yet they still do it because primitive part of their psyche wants to see if they are with a capable male or not. A man they can easily shake is weak. A man who gets pissed off is weak too.
/r/seduction13/02/21 04:32 PM
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Wouldn't you though?
/r/seduction13/02/21 04:22 PM
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So what's wrong with that, handsome?
/r/seduction31/01/21 10:29 AM
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I think since you are very very rich, you should use that money to invest in yourself. As an example off the top of my head, if I had more money I would get a hair transplant surgery and laser eye surgery right away. They are guaranteed to make me more attractive. You can hire the best fitness and dating coaches too. When it comes to escorts, I think most guys are right when it comes to gaining inital experience in sex. But later in game, it might do you harm when you are going through dry spell…
/r/seduction31/01/21 10:26 AM
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It's very sensible advice. Since he mentioned his "size" and he was filthy rich, he can even get a penis enlargement surgery.
/r/seduction31/01/21 10:18 AM
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I agree. I literally don't remember what the hell I yapped about in my successful approaches. It just flows, if you're in the zone.
/r/seduction27/01/21 02:01 PM
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Some women are like that, yeah. They feel insecure and threatened. Because they want you to be in THEIR orbit, not other women's. Or they don't want you to get a girlfriend who will -naturally- hate her. They prefer you to stay a lonely miserable beta who will provide for her in the future, when she initiates "Plan C: I Loved You All Along My Bestfriend". Let me know if I'm being too dark Edit: Thanks for letting me know
/r/seduction26/01/21 08:56 PM
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Well my mom once told me "Stop being so weak, women hate that!! Never show weakness!!". She's lovelier than she sounds and I am grateful for her lol. Edit: I just remembered she said I was being disgusting/repelling to women by being weak. As I said, lovely gal
/r/seduction26/01/21 08:51 PM
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You go guy!
/r/seduction26/01/21 11:15 AM
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I hear you man, sometimes I feel like that too. And I can be dumb and dull when I am tired lol. What you can do is to exercise it by socializing more, then you will perform better and for longer durations. Also there is no shame in getting help, no matter what it is. So know that it is okay to see a therapist, a tutor (for body language and voice), a dating coach or whatever.
/r/seduction25/01/21 07:57 AM
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It's interesting. What do you think might be the reason for that?
/r/seduction24/01/21 07:43 PM
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You're golden if you can get sex anytime you want. Otherwise, it just doesn't work (at least for me).
/r/seduction24/01/21 05:22 PM
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Well, almost everyone has someone crushing on them, whether they are aware of it or not. At least this is what I have seen so far.
/r/seduction24/01/21 04:52 PM
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Ahem social skills
/r/seduction24/01/21 04:50 PM
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I still console myself by saying "There is only one letter difference between lover and loser".
/r/seduction24/01/21 10:33 AM
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Yeah, come on man, look at all those guys who have girlfriends. If a guy just wants a girlfriend and is ready to settle for a fat/boring/clingy/annoying/crazy one, he can just have a gf "like that", in the blink of an eye. It's hard to get quality girls.
/r/seduction24/01/21 10:32 AM
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It heavily depends on the context. Sometimes I keep insisting for the sole purpose of fun (and if that's not creeping her out). But really, a woman who don't "like me at first" is welcome to try any other man. The door is open all the way through. I don't intend to start a relationship on lower ground, guys insist too much and they settle for being under some girl's thumb. I want to be in equal footing.
/r/seduction22/01/21 02:50 PM
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The "etc" part really is the selling point
/r/seduction22/01/21 02:42 PM
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It completely goes against my 'style' but then my style hasn't exactly gotten me far. This is an excellent realization. I am commited to do what works, not being the persona I have became over the years.
/r/seduction21/01/21 06:05 PM
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ILY
/r/seduction18/01/21 08:39 PM
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Just slip a 69 in there and it'll be a new copypasta bruh
/r/seduction18/01/21 08:38 PM
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What do you mean by "new"
/r/seduction18/01/21 08:36 PM
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Yeah, it's possible I've gone a little too far. But my point stands, women have far more sexual options on average.
/r/seduction03/01/21 09:05 AM
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Thanks mate, I didn't mean that I am actively resenting that fact, when I think about men and women's advantages and disadvantages in game, I realize there is nothing to resent. Nobody's having it too good or too bad. It's a "grass is greener" kind of perspective and I am trying not to fall into that viewpoint. Loneliness sucks sometimes, but I have no option besides going through with it. I don't dislike it very much, I like doing things alone too. That's my personality. But not getting to sati…
/r/seduction03/01/21 09:04 AM
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Great post. I want to add something for all those who struggle with approach anxiety. You might feel like you are doing something "weird" by approaching, but almost all women get approached daily. And many of those approaches are weird, out of nowhere, non-calibrated, et cetera. So basically you're worrying that going up to a girl and saying hello would be weird, while she frequently gets texts like "I want to suck your toes" from guys she never met before.
/r/seduction02/01/21 08:09 PM
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We're wired like that. When I confront the fact that other people are fucking like rabbits while I am trying to keep myself from seeing an escort after a few months of lonesome sexless agony, it motivates me to step up. When I step up I talk to more women and increase my chances. Emotionally, I resent the fact that women can have sex any time, with anyone they want and men have to work hard for sex. But with high social value and good game, it is possible for men to possess such power. OR even a…
/r/seduction02/01/21 08:00 PM
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A lovely reminder, u/STD_Tyler
/r/seduction02/01/21 07:43 PM
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We relate to that
/r/seduction02/01/21 07:43 PM
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But I think this place was supposed to be a Mongolian basket-weaving forum.
/r/seduction20/12/20 07:00 PM
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Thanks for great insight. I recently realized something similar, after the end of my relationship. We met online, and she was very into me. Basically she was escalating more than I did, in the start. Everything was going fine. But I believe I commited too early or I was kinda eager. Then our relationship started to fall apart. Here is the revelation: It all boils down to our actions. I am still the same guy, before and after. That means the man who have figuratively dropped her panties, and the …
/r/seduction13/12/20 11:19 AM
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You know what is old? Eating.
/r/seduction10/12/20 10:02 AM
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Thx
/r/seduction09/12/20 04:43 AM
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I just laughed out loud when I saw this thread. To thank you for it, I will give you a tip: You are a girl. You need to take it a bit slower. Sperm rushes to ovum and not the other way around. Just let the guy chase you next time, we actually like the rush.
/r/seduction08/12/20 08:40 AM
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Yeah, "awkward" was the exact word in my mind. Wherever I look, I see couples! One advice is to befriend the alpha male of the group (AMOG) and then you can have easy access to girls. Single girls or guys might tag along with couples after all.
/r/seduction07/12/20 06:11 PM
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What a monster
/r/seduction06/12/20 01:30 PM
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Grown up kisses dont go past the teeth that often at all. Man that sounds boring, no offense. French is life
/r/seduction05/12/20 07:20 AM
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Thanks man, it wasn't like I was head over heels for her but the whole breakup/rejection situations make me tense and it used to cloud my judgement. Neediness used to cloud my judgement too. It's not like I am laying chicks left and right but seems like I have improved as a person and I am happy about it.
/r/seduction30/11/20 05:01 PM
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Yeah man I needed to see this. I was in a new relationship and things started to go south. I felt both of our attraction faded out so I tried to communicate that to her, you know, like a normal healthy person. And now she's between dodging it at all cost and relieving her conscience by texting me every now and then. She just leaves me at seen when she sees something she doesn't like. Well I'm out. I dislike ghosting people so I won't do that, but I don't think I'll ever text her or reply to her …
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:18 PM
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Man, there are some guys who are laying different girls every night of the week and I am trying not to shit myself when just thinking about doing some cold approaches in real life. Of course there is competition and a difference between me and the guys who are better than me. Best guy gets best women and lesser men are stuck with the leftovers. A man can rise above others with creating more sexual market value and getting good game. Create all the value, it is worthless without game and have the…
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:31 PM
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There was a line on the movie Pornopung (great movie btw). A pick-up artist was telling to the nice guy the phrase "be yourself" is such BS and "what if you are just a boring, pathetic nerd?". My view towards the phrase was like that too. But lately, I have realized the real value and the meaning behind "be yourself". What if real you is NOT a boring, pathetic nerd? What if real you is awesome beyond words? You just need to peel the layers of BS on your being, to get to real you. So you can "be …
/r/seduction27/11/20 09:47 AM
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Bro you're so above us you should live on the moon
/r/seduction22/11/20 06:50 PM
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Bro you need to stop making "vulnerable and unethical" sound so delicious
/r/seduction22/11/20 06:46 PM
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I am sorry if you have gone through that. Don't forget that it's not about you, it's just narcissistic people are everywhere. When I ghost someone I feel guilt and emotional pain no matter how the person was being to me. Also the suspense about whether they'd stalk me or not lol. But narcissists derive pleasure from ghosting people, they need to feel "above" in order to be able to feel good. That is sad when you think about it.
/r/seduction22/11/20 06:37 PM
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I say "I am sorry, you are great but I don't like you that way. I would like to remain your friend if you would also like it too" if we have really invested into the conversation at some point. Which might happen even if you don't like them sexually. Else I just throw in the phrase "I am not looking for a relationship right now, I am looking for new experiences" because I think I shouldn't reject someone in a rude manner if they are being polite to me. "Sorry I don't like you" sounds kinda rude.…
/r/seduction22/11/20 06:21 PM
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I will offer a different opinion and tell you that some people needs to be ghosted. If they don't care about the signals you give them, if they are ignoring the fact that you don't want a relationship or sex, if they are being invasive, sticky or overall just shitty, if they come with a really heavy emotional baggage it's just better to ghost them. I am not proud of it but I have ghosted some people for those reasons. And I ghosted them because I wanted to cut it clean for both sides. In fact I …
/r/seduction20/11/20 07:58 PM
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Hi, thanks for the great insight. I think it's very crucial to make women feel safe because many men do awkward and threatening things and everything goes sideways after that. Nowadays if I talk to a girl on an app like Tinder et cetera, I don't even ask for Instagram or numbers. If I do it prematurely they feel uncomfortable and interaction dies. I just try to escalate it to a date. Numbers or social media don't mean anything and since I'm not asking they feel safer. Now I'm texting a girl who …
/r/seduction17/11/20 06:52 PM
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Amen to that. When your life is in order, you feel real confidence and it shows. Because you love your life, your body, your mind, your family and social circle, your career, et cetera. It radiates. You appear worthy because you sincerely believe you are worthy. I have most of my life in order but I moved to a different city and I almost have no circle here. That needs to be handled. Rookie question; do you usually open sets directly or indirectly?
/r/seduction07/11/20 02:55 PM
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Hell yeah man. I am very familiar with that "I've made a BIG mistake" look of women who rejected me. A tip from your future version; don't give them any chance when they come back crawling. Because if they have liked you in the first place they wouldn't reject you. Now they're acting on jealousy, which is surprisingly is not a good place to start a relationship with someone. Just laugh in her face and move on, I couldn't and I paid the price.
/r/seduction17/12/18 01:07 PM
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I think, yes, this action is more mean-spiritedness than lack of self-esteem. But there's a reason bullies are the way they are. It's the constant pursuit of validition because they're unable to give it themselves. When it comes to low self-esteem and self-hate, most people (especially women) act spiteful to people who are in love with them. It's interesting, they might like the person before clear signals of their love but when they become sure of it attraction goes away and they start to see t…
/r/seduction13/12/18 06:34 AM
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Why would someone hate people who like them? For example, let's call him Brian, Brian might hate Trump supporters because he hates Trump. Same logic applies here, people who hate those who are interested in them actually hate themselves. It's subtle but it's the reason for most people's suffering.
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:26 PM
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Wo-manchild
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:23 PM
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It's crazy how they don't try to fix those problems. I have a close friend and she is a STUNNER, yet she has very low self-esteem. Yesterday she was sending me some yoga chick's pics on Whatsapp, asking if her body was like her or not. Left her on read. I had a "oneitis" situation as you guys call it, I really became disillusioned when I realized how much of a human trainwreck she was. Because I can't imagine stringing someone along for validition, I can't imagine NEEDING the validition of someo…
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:51 PM
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It's really fuggin sad when you think about it.
/r/seduction12/12/18 07:40 PM
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True. It's not a case of "oneitis" but in my first years of college I had met with a girl. Blonde, busty, petite, bubbly, warm,.. I thought. Lol. Thank God things lead to being friends with her and not lovers, I saw what kind of a narcissistic, solipsistic, sorry mess of a human being she was. Eventually ended my friendship with her too. I was kinda smitten over her at the start but after I got to know her.. ew.
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