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None of it. "man sleeps with a woman and then immediately afterwards decides that he was kind of just in it for the sex" "is no longer interested in pursuing a relationship with her when he originally WAS interested" Precisely, the point is that he doesn't decide anything afterwards, nor is no longer interested, because the fact is that he never have been interested in you as a person. The only thing he was interested in was to make his dick wet. And once that's done... well, that's done... he's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 06:55 PM
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It's just there's a huge difference between settling for someone whose interests don't quite match yours or who isn't physically perfect, and settling for a relationship where you'll be enduring abuse, manipulative behaviour and/or laziness. THIS. It's exactly that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:18 AM
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"First: I never said men don’t also release oxytocin" Good for you, but I never said that you didn't say it.. "Second, it’s funny that you ask me for sources while you cite mra/Incel websites" I'm glad for you if you can have fun... But I'm sorry that this whole post nut clarity bullshit, excuse me, "syndrom" is... well some sexist and misogynistic nonsense. "Third..." Well... I don't make you do the "research", because when you explain to everybody that what you say is litteraly science... It's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:14 AM
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No one schould feel the Need.. to feel desirable. "Everyone wants to be loved." That's a huge part of the problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:28 AM
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Oh yes... And this post is pretty concerning...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:26 AM
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That's not my point. To feel the need to be desired is concerning, as you seek validation outside of yourselve. That's why I pointed the contradiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:08 AM
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Of course... And that's why there's an obvious contradiction...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:05 AM
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Get a look to relationship advice, breaking mom, narcissistic abuse, deadbedrooms, and all reddit finally... and you really understand how you schould never settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:31 AM
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Thank you! Your post resume everything and is a really good reminder. ​ I see commitment as something men have to convince me to do for them, not something that I have to convince men I’m worthy of. FDS is a filtering strategy. Not a fishing strategy. We aren’t trying to impress these men we are trying to weed them out and take care of ourselves. ​ You have say it all.. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:28 AM
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desirable without validation by men Ok... But desirable by who? Unless you're a lesbian (and want to be desired by a women) or want to be desired by yourself... You mean desirable by men... So you contradict yourself, by saying that "you are all desirable without validation by men". Because if you're hetereosexual, and feel the need to be desired by somebody, you want to be desired by... men. So maybe it's better to avoid to push women in that kind of double bind... Women need to feel good about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 12:11 AM
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This is no science, sorry... "Science says" doesn't mean anything... Give us some studies and your sources. All that I can say is what you say is pseudosciensce, the misunderstanding of how our brain and hormones work, and this is all the nonsense I read all day long on mra/incel etc. websites. Don't fool yourself, please. Both males and females release octocyn. And of course... enverybody ( men or women) think less about chasing orgasms once they have orgasm... The problem is that women don't o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:39 PM
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Post nut clarity is complete bullshit. I I find it very concerning to read this on fds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:24 PM
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Yes absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:10 PM
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Thank you for pointing this. I agree 100% with you. Women chase after men for emotional suply after sex, only because they don't orgasm nor feel really satisfied. It's a kind of consolation prize... It's sad but it's completely true. If women don't want to feel attached after sex, they schould help themselves by acting more selfish in bed and reclaiming their right to pleasure. When they do orgasm and ave a very fulfilling sexual relationship, they think very (very) clearly, and just want to smo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:09 PM
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I wish women could have a churh in wich they could stand up for themselves, grown, raise their conciousness, discuss about their goals, their purpose in life, share happiness, sisterhood, clues, strenghts etc. A woman-centered place, in wich no discussions about men are allowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:16 AM
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"Doesn't talk to woman of low quality"... ewww What? Sorry but no so-called "high value woman" talk like that. No strong, assertive and proud women, throw other women under the bus in face of men. Never. It's a "not like other girls" pick-me move. My God. I really don't understand what's happening on FDS since a few days. But it's really concerning if we are at some point where we have to remind such basinc things. Sorry but this post is counter productive, and doesn't belong here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:33 AM
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I love this woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:58 PM
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Yes absolutely... It's a very good test.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:01 AM
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Respond: I dislike you hair even if it's yours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:42 AM
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I would never be with a "man" (and never have been, of course) that I need to ask to do the dishes or the clean up, and certainly not several times. I want an adult partner, not a child I need to educate and tell how or when to do do things. Please, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:36 AM
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The comments... my god...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:25 AM
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The comments under the post are truly pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:24 AM
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You speak the truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:45 AM
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For my part, I prefer to discover what's under the mask sooner than later. I don't want to loose my time, and discover ten years later that my partner is an idiot. Too much women discover once they become pregnant or married, and are stuck with the dude, that they so called HVM is in reality a narcissistic selfish useless idiot. I prefer to give him one or two informations (not the important ones) and then watch at him and his reactions. As as soon as he use something of my past or whatever agai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 01:15 AM
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Dump Him... And of course fire your therapist...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:48 PM
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These woman have understand everything. T!ey are so inspiring. Would you get married? Ummm... No... They rocks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:08 PM
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I thought I was the only one who has noticed that. I made some comments about HVM does not equates Money maker. That's really concerning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:26 PM
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Thanks for sharing !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:37 AM
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Thank You... I can't stop laughing, omg! It brightened my day and My depression is gone! Thank you! This dude... I cry... 😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:01 AM
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He doesn't desserve you and you deserve of course to be treated better. Dump him without any kind of remorse or doubts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:25 PM
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"To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom the admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom the imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:35 AM
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Reading to you story, let me tell you that it has nothing to do with age gap. This dude was just an abusive partner, a really abusive one, manipulative and manipulative AF. Sure he could have done exactly the same thing to a same age or older partner. Of course these kind of dudes are searching for the easy pickings... And age can be a way to do so... but age is just one criterion amon many...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:35 AM
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She lied to me, she said she would not be able to move on for months. Yes... It summarises everythin... lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:18 PM
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It's a passive-agressive, but pretty clear way to express "I dont' love you, I don't care about you, you mean nothing to me, you don't worth it" So sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:17 PM
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I really hope so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:13 PM
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In Italy, a dude killed his girlfriend who was a nurse, besause he thought that she has infested him with COVID 19 (what was completely false) Here, we have a woman thanking her boybriend who infected her with covid 19, and asking how she can reward him beacause he is doing the bare minimum, by takin care of her while she's ill What a gender gap... WOW!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 12:28 PM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:33 AM
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glad that you know better now... because I feel like they expect me to clean up Only no value man will expect you to do that... And no matter what they expect from you, it's your responsibility to establish boundaries. A relationship does not involve such things. And beyond that, you have every right to avoid relationships with men for many reasons. And there are plenty reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:47 AM
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That is why I cook the meals, lmao. I don't understand why you feel the need to cook... He's not a child... If he choose to eat triple cooked chicken it's his choice, and his problem... If you are annoyed whith that, and choose to cook for him, that's your choice... But it's not an obligation in the relationship, nor in any relationship of course
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:40 AM
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Yes absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:30 AM
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Financial security... Hum... It's just financial responsibility... And it's only when you want to have a family... So of course if you are a responsible grown woman (and man I hope so...) you will try to find a partner who can provide, contribute, do his own part, and built with you an healthy and secure family... It's exacty how any responsible people would choose a business partner to create a company.... If you don't want to built a family, the way that you choose your partner could be way mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:29 AM
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Thank you! I completely agree with you... Notion that women don't care about sex is complete bullshit... And the thought that women must depend financially on men is bullshit as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:12 AM
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I don't understand... Why are you cooking for him i the first place? He's not a child... If he can't cook, or cook so so bad? That is not supposed to be your problem... why doesn't he take you out to get some food or order for some? It's not your responsibility to cook for him or both of us unlesss you are married or in a commited relationship where you can fairly share tasks. You are just doing too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:23 PM
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You're right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:22 PM
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you rocks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 10:19 PM
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And the comments are... delihgtful... It's worth the trip...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:33 AM
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Very good reminder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:36 AM
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To me it's not even queen shit, it's jus basic self respect. I would not take any time to respond to that kind of dude unless it's to report him to the police for harrasment. Fuck that shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:06 PM
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I don't understand. And I really don't have time to... Because I'm too busy to keep men away, which are trying, so bad..., to keep me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:13 PM
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Yes! And once you've got to that point, you can't go backwards. Luckily...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:47 PM
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Continue... you're on the right way! Some women feel bad even serving their most basic needs Absolutely, it's so so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:43 PM
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Women are human beings, so as women beings, women have worth no matter how old they are. Men have always feel superior, and because of that, entitled, to say what woman are, can do, can feel, and schould consider themselfes. Who do they think they are to define reality, define us and our lifes by saying that we are worthless when we get old? Nothing... Aging have made me more aware, more wise, more fulfilled, more powerful, more happy, more educated, more beautiful and so much more positive thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:00 PM
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Can't stop laughing... lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:49 PM
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These dudes are so delusional... They imagine that all women do is related to them... Women are not playing hard to get, they are not interesded, or they are hard to get because they are self-confident and fulfilled women whose life does not revolve around men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:46 PM
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I think asking this sort of question is unhelpful and corrosive to women and the goals/point of this subreddit. You're unnecessarily flipping the focus of this subreddit. I completely agree with you... This Whole post sounds like MRA's bullshit. ​ How much more likely men are to abandon their spouse than women??? That's the question... In my country a feminist group does the countdown of all feminicides who are happening, day by day. A certain amount of these crimes concern elderly women . They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 04:31 AM
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Answer to you edit; No, of course they don't care nor give a fuck. By the way, I don't know what happen today, but it's the 4th post I see today, that disturbs me a a lot, and who seems to be irrelevant, creepy, and don't belong here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:28 AM
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But what you don't seem to undersand... is that our ability to give birth is the reason why men have done everything for centuries to control women's bodies... Th'ats the only reason why patriarchy exists... Control women's bodies, sexuality, and ability to give birth. And men are terribly aware, and jealous, of the power it represents. So... of course women suffer of this ability in patriarchy, because men makes it difficult on purpose... And I understand that you could see it like that, as a b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:31 AM
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So true... Check your bro's because for most of them it's "Dick before bro's..." Word to the wise...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:43 AM
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This man is not an HVM... At all... No HVM would behave like this with his wife, a woman he has commited to, and that he schould highly respect and love. You are confusing a rich/succesful etc. man with an HVM... Sorry but you makes too much excuses for him... And I don't understand why. He doesn't deserve it. He's a grown man... He choosed to marry that woman... You sounds like h'es a poor victim, but he's not. She is. He, as you describes..., benefits a lot from the relationship. As a lot of m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:26 AM
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LVM? of course, absolutely... Your behaviour is narcissistic, self-centered and selfish. Please, stay away from her, she deserves better, and I hope she'll soon find a better guy.
/r/askFDS01/04/20 11:06 PM
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"lmaooo i'm not french" Nobody's perfect! lmao just kidding... "many of my french friends have many FDS notions" Of course they are... We have some pickmeishas, of course, but at core... french women are some kind of bad bitches, lmao "no wonder why "why men love bitchs" was wrote by a french women XD" You already know... lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:01 PM
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I have been mistrustful about men since childhood, because of my personnal history, but I experienced it also at some level. Once you have reached that point you can't go backwards. It's really enlightning and empowering. You'll see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:23 PM
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My god!!! Thank you for sharing, this song remember me so much good memories! Listen to this song from a french singer named Jain, the clip is pretty Awesome and empowering. https://youtu.be/MARsW26KXQg French girls are born FDS ! Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:08 PM
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"LVM's confession and compliments will always be finalised at sussing you out and seeing if you're a sucker for them. If you do not reply in the same vein, they will keep insisting until they have slid into every aspect of your life and you cannot HELP but think about them. " This is so true... I couldn't have say it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:29 PM
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I completely agree with you... Tell them, and their reaction to it, gonna be a precious clue to determine what kind of person they really are, behind the mask. No Hvm nor good man, no man who really love you and care about you, would dump you for being raped... No woman schould be with a man with that kind of mindset. And, for sure, you must better know it sooner than later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:53 AM
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Answer to the question: Not my problem, I don't care...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 08:15 PM
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For men, it is about approaching as many women as possible. For women, it is about rejecting as many men as is necessary. I can't stop laugthing... because this is so true! And no, that is not the same thing as hatred. But for men... Women saying NO commit a hate crime...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:36 PM
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For sure, my son's safety and mine first. Thank you for your answer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:14 PM
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Complicated... He’s a childhood friend I reconnected with a few years ago. We had sex only 3 times (In more than a year...). It was never about getting in a relationship. I can't imagine he can become a stalker, but, in the same time, he's really obssesive about me. I don't know what to think. But clearly I felt weird about that, and I don't like at all what he let me know about his mentality. And I don't want to maintain him in a "happily ever after" delusion, which will never happen. Even if i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:07 PM
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Most women are honestly better off alone. Absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 12:07 PM
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It's exactly that... Your comment summarize perfectly the storytime I have posted here just a few minuts ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:06 PM
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It's female socialization... And there is nothing more threatening for a men than an independant women, and to realize that women don't need them, and can live happily their best life away from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 02:20 PM
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"Tactless"... This post should be used by teatchers to explain what an euphemism is...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:53 PM
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Since I'm twelve, thanks to our sex education lessons in our biology class, I know what andropause (male menopause) is... Furthermore, from the age of 30, levels of testosterone starts to decrease, each year. And, from the age of 40 sperm quality, starts to decrease, and can cause chromosomic anomalies in the foetus. So, it's not only "badmenanatomy"... It's men living their best lives in their fantasy world...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:45 AM
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