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Debbie downer AFC post.
/r/seduction08/07/26 12:30 PM
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Can’t disagree. Would suggest a few trips to visit different spots and test the waters. Thats what I always did before a move.
/r/seduction08/07/26 05:30 AM
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Did a big seminar and boot camp there years ago. It was great. But the women in Az by ASU=blew them away. I’m old and married now, only do 1on1s and teach Real Life Game which is mostly. So haven’t been to the same spots in a few years. But had to be close to the same.
/r/seduction08/07/26 05:29 AM
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Az Tempe and Scottsdale were the best I ever found. And taught all over the US. It also depends on the type of women you want because right now I live close to Gilbert, Arizona and if you’re more into a girl next-door, traditional types this is the best place I’ve ever seen in my life!
/r/seduction06/07/26 05:32 PM
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If /when I do it will be when I retire from teaching... I havent written anything like that because when I got into this stuff, everyone had ebooks and it was so much fluff and guys who could write were treated better than guys who could do and teach well
/r/seduction16/06/26 01:20 AM
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1-10 is a dumb scale. Its binary Do I dig her or not? 1 or 0 And then it’s Triangular Theory of love Passion Intimacy Commitment Get all 3 = she’s a keeper!
/r/seduction10/06/26 02:18 AM
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You just need to have a better response that. “I don’t use it” is the big issue. Be a step ahead of the convo. And to me. It’s a green flag.
/r/seduction09/05/26 03:13 PM
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Confidence is king. They are conveying that and stepping up to the plate.
/r/seduction30/04/26 08:22 PM
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The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time is right now. The past is the past, but if you don’t start fixing this and make the most of the present, your future is gonna suck and it will be completely wasted
/r/seduction28/04/26 01:52 PM
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This is your HERO’s JOURNEY you make your story and come back so epic that you don’t even have time to waste thinking about the past is the answer. Normally, I don’t like to offer too much of my coaching services, but if you really wanna make the most of it and get as good as fast as possible, I would highly suggest getting some professional help. If not for me then from someone else you can’t waste any more time, man.
/r/seduction27/04/26 04:45 AM
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This is where my old number close routine came from. I was in a similar situation years ago. Flip it to where the woman offers you her number. THATS how you know it is a rock solid number close. The Bravo Number Close
/r/seduction27/04/26 04:41 AM
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It’s very easy if you have even a little skill/ rizz and aren’t horrible looking. I’m proof!
/r/seduction26/04/26 07:48 PM
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Do things that trigger haters, feminists, liberals. It makes life more fun! They are miserable F’s. You aren’t living a good life unless they are crying.
/r/seduction15/04/26 02:37 PM
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So you are like a fat chick who is working angles and filters. Lame
/r/seduction10/04/26 07:21 PM
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Pic of you with your pipe to judge. You are either awesome and old school, or a fedora wearing Jabaroni
/r/seduction07/04/26 01:54 AM
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Thats a way I explain "getting lucky" or legit winning Like poker relying on luck to win vs a pro poker player who has skill they can play the same cards against the same people and get different results
/r/seduction06/04/26 05:07 PM
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She either has and is trying to protect her ego by lying. Or Hasn’t and was wanting to finally do it. And you were the guy that she chose to do it with. Either because you are Mr Right. Or Mr right now. If you do this for a bit. You’ll exp both. Enjoy Wrap up!
/r/seduction06/04/26 02:50 PM
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What do people do while on the bus/ mass transit? Play with their phones. Can’t do that while driving. More $$ in the bank, prob means less time on social media. Not owning a car, less $. Prob more likely on social media. Just common sense hunches.
/r/seduction27/03/26 11:04 PM
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I never said it was mandatory. And someone riding the Bush probably cares more about social media than other people. So you’re 50-50 math may not be accurate. Those all sound like good reads, but if the first review I saw on Amazon was “too long didn’t read. Can you summarize it?” I would think that person isn’t too sharp.
/r/seduction27/03/26 02:36 PM
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What a weak response. I liked this post. If reading it is too hard for you= putting in the work will never happen, and that’s prob why you are here.
/r/seduction27/03/26 05:49 AM
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DONT become a pro PUA / dating coach!!!
/r/seduction13/03/26 08:29 PM
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First rule of my online dating coaching program. Online game is not a replacement for real life pick up
/r/seduction12/02/26 04:37 PM
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Most aren’t qualified to teach, and never were that good in the 1st place at dating, but want to coach for the ego/brag/flex. Except for some of the newest guys, I knew basically everyone and only a handful are legit.
/r/seduction16/01/26 07:19 PM
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Agreed!
/r/seduction16/01/26 07:18 PM
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I’ve only met a few, low single digit guys who teach/taught who were actually good dudes. Trust your gut on them. If something feels off. It usually is. The ones I ignored that feeling, or tried to look past because they were popular… all turned out to be very wacky dudes, I’d never want around my family, or even around me. Just because someone is good at BJJ, lifting, or putting out entertaining content it doesn’t mean they are role models. Just offer some advice that is helpful to guys who don…
/r/seduction26/11/25 01:03 PM
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Rusty Trombone
/r/seduction29/10/25 07:22 PM
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"Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and fans fires." -Francois de La Rochefoucauld
/r/seduction18/10/25 10:40 AM
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"Bragging about banging chicks, is only cool to the guys who can't bang chicks" Something I say when coaching. It was cool in the HS locker room when only a few guys got some P, and everyone else was still a virgin- just like tons of movies have in the story. Then when you get older, and a cool chick, you NEVER talk about that stuff with other guys. The PUA/seduction world is a bubble of those guys who never evolved past that phase, because they didnt get laid. So are stuck there... Until they s…
/r/seduction12/10/25 05:28 PM
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I got more girls than I ever dreamed of being cocky and over the top. But how many of them were actual keepers, the type I wanted to have a family with. Zero What is the point of all of this if not to eventually find real love, start a family, and grow old with?
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:33 PM
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I see your point but disagree, usually the nice guy rages and gets super butt hurt when his lame attempts of being a nice guy get him nowhere. Or he just keeps eating it every day. It is a pathetic slug. A good guy realizes someone else isn’t a good person and either chooses not to deal with them anymore, or even better, doesn’t let their poor attitude, control who they are as a man. So they keep being a good guy.
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:31 PM
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Never read it. Is it good?
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:28 AM
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And that goes into the Good Guy vs Nice Guy archetype The nice guy does stuff because he thinks it’ll get him something, the good guy does good stuff because that’s who he is and doesn’t care about the reward. Many people can instantly feel the difference between the two, some nice guys even convince themselves that they are actually good guys. But they aren’t.
/r/seduction11/10/25 05:01 PM
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You are getting closer. But making the same mistake many guys do. A doesn’t work so let me try Z It worked. Kind of. So Z is the way!!! No. There is a wide spectrum in between. The moral is Women don’t like wimps/ AFCs / Nice guys. Don’t be a wimp Don’t be a POS Be confident. Have fun the way you like to. Don’t expect anything. Appreciate everything. Don’t give others more opportunities to treat you like trash. Be a man. Lead. So they can be a woman.
/r/seduction11/10/25 03:21 PM
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As a general rule NEVER trust anyone who cold calls. Flip side Guys have to apply to work with me, since 2010.
/r/seduction05/10/25 01:58 AM
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Not if they are into you. You are imaging a negative. I have years of experience to base my comment on.
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:08 PM
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Kids are cute Women are sexy.
/r/seduction19/09/25 09:23 PM
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You don’t. You just own it. Don’t wear baggy clothes. Dress well. Be confident. Be cool. And you will get tons of p
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:13 AM
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You approach You get out of the house You go to places people go, you talk to pretty women You get online and spend a little time swiping. You go out and find cool places. Talk to women there or take your dates there. Then you be cool, interesting and interested, and ABC. Always Be Closing
/r/seduction05/09/25 04:16 PM
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I’m sorry about some of those Stylelife missions….
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:21 AM
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3 that I had saved and used. A morning of awkwardness is better than a night of loneliness I love women. I have all their albums. the pussy never lies The last one. Girl from infield vid, we hooked up. Later she was gonna go back and get with her girlfriends. I wanted round 2. I reached down, pointed out how excited she was and used that quote. And she says “you’re right, ok but we got to be fast”. :)
/r/seduction16/08/25 01:32 AM
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It’s a tv show With that said, I got a lot of great lines from it! That I used for years
/r/seduction15/08/25 08:39 PM
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Doing something wrong thousands of time only proves doing it wrong doesn’t work.
/r/seduction15/08/25 12:50 AM
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You stop living in the past and letting BS from when you were 12 have control over your life. Reach out if you want me help
/r/seduction06/08/25 04:42 AM
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Many guys, including Mystery would just sit and make a joke about being late. This is what I came up with years ago. A few small additions, but much more effective. https://stephengrosch.com/is-this-seat-taken-opener Hard to share this story without trying to brag buuuuut. Style, Mystery and I were all talking about this at Neil/Styles house and he was telling Mystery how much better this was - my first time really hanging with the 2 of them. Pretty cool moment for me. :)
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:22 PM
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Mystery explained it perfectly on my FB page years ago. “And neg is a statement or action to briefly disqualify oneself from being considered a potential suitor. The result of an neg is laughter. It is not an insult. They are used to build comfort with a girl, so that she knows you are not specifically interested in bedding her right away” - Mystery It’s in the comments of this post. https://www.facebook.com/100001326782119/posts/657990877566795/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v Neil/ Style described i…
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:00 PM
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My move, is I treat the guys like you would prison. Never disrespect them because they feel like they have to respond. And what I would always do is ask them in front of the girl, how long they’ve been dating or if they’re a couple, anything like that. So from the guys perspective, I’m assuming they’re together, but then 90/95% of the time the woman would always very quickly correct him and say we’re not dating, or sometimes things like oh yuck we’re not dating we’re friends. And I let the woman…
/r/seduction02/08/25 04:39 PM
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If you are misfiring, or running on E, what women is going to be into that? Pick up is the LAST thing you should be thinking about, and instead you need to get some real help and work things out first.
/r/seduction31/07/25 12:57 AM
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I bet your profile isn’t as good as you say it is. Send me screenshots and I’ll critique for you.
/r/seduction28/07/25 08:26 AM
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Why not get pics of you being awesome that are legit? Why not get a pic in your friends Lamborghini? Or a picture of you wearing your friends firefighter gear as well?
/r/seduction21/07/25 01:29 PM
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This is when you need to shift gears into MAN gear. Your world, your reality, the things you like, calling out BS when it happens (not a temper tantrum), being thoughtful because you want to. You are the captain you call the shots. Then it is easy, she is either with you, or gone
/r/seduction19/07/25 01:25 AM
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Bar bet Magic trick A joke "what do you call a cult that is hard to get into? Difficult" Stuff that is interesting to you. My old wing, when he would try a "new magic trick I am working on" then fail/drop/mess it up= it almost worked even better than when he nailed it.
/r/seduction17/07/25 09:03 PM
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Solid advice Rolling cigs= smart, can def see that working. Offering value, doing your thing, being cool. This is the way!
/r/seduction17/07/25 09:00 PM
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Yes. But it has to be funny. Like in my OG training vid. “Please do not message me if - you are a bartender - if you are an actress - if you have implants - if you are a Scorpio It never works…. Then I would get women on the list messaging me to argue I why I should give them a chance.
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:05 PM
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Power of Now Stop living in the future that doesn’t exist. Many guys are stuck living in the negative past. Both doom you and ruin the present. Which then ruins the past and future. The way
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:00 PM
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Don't treat them like a girlfriend. More like a part time job, that when I clock out I don't think about until I clock back in days later.
/r/seduction02/07/25 10:12 PM
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I would ask her what's up. Then would stop giving her attention if it wasnt something positive and moved us forward.
/r/seduction02/07/25 10:00 PM
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How about you post example of what you did, and then ask for help, instead of making everyone guess?
/r/seduction02/07/25 09:58 PM
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Triangular Theory of Love Passion Intimacy Commitment What did you do to build passion or intimacy?
/r/seduction26/06/25 02:35 PM
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Real life Approached women whenever I saw one I liked, in places I liked. = instantly something in common and Online, for tons of women I never would meet IRL
/r/seduction21/06/25 12:55 AM
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Should have joked about asking their weight. Then why. Makes more sense, cuts deeper Funnier
/r/seduction19/06/25 02:01 PM
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A vid I recently made covers this. The 5 W’s The last one, WHY is the key. Why= emotional So instead of just collecting data points. How old are you Where are you from What is your fav food Asking a WHY about any of those after, or just asking about feelings / emotional in general is the key. https://youtube.com/shorts/bf16HtgHjLE?si=KgEjsh3fRb6zbfo6
/r/seduction18/06/25 05:11 PM
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6, and I married the 6th. And I dated a lot…a LOT of women. But that was a big sign when I knew I didn’t want to date anyone else at the time, and just invest in them/us/the future we may have. How to handle? Sometimes I didn’t But later, just learned to control myself, not move too fast, not be dumb, etc…because that usually ruined things. Which sucked, the ones you care about are the ones where the AFC self control matters most, and is the hardest to control. Then later, because of experience,…
/r/seduction18/06/25 05:06 PM
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Observation opener about something I noticed. About her or the environment. Of just 100% direct. Like this guy. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DK2QqTbMjEa/?igsh=dDE4dDFyemFycGxx Works basically everywhere.
/r/seduction16/06/25 08:29 PM
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It’s what women do And Douche bags You can convey you are in shape in 100x better pics that convey more of a story. Why post a pic that just shows 1 thing. When you can DHV that 1 thing and 3 other things in another pic? When you post a pic that douche bags do. She will think you are one.
/r/seduction12/06/25 09:21 PM
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"But I was thinking that maybe I am getting a bit too old, and it might come off as too creepy." Just calibrate and stay in your lane, and shouldnt be an issue. I am 45, married, a dad... I just did a 1on1 last weekend I was demo'ing all weekend hitting on 19 year olds and up, day game at mall, and they all loved it! Video from student, will prob post longer one later today or tomorrow https://www.youtube.com/shorts/CD1eGqtH5mM
/r/seduction12/06/25 07:12 PM
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text for logistics or to keep the fire of attraction burning, just like a camp fire/ throw a log on if you need to
/r/seduction12/06/25 07:08 PM
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No Never ever post a shirtless selfie Ever Now a picture of you at the beach, with your shirt off a pic of you rock climbing with a tank top etc is great because it conveys a story, not just you trying to show some skin
/r/seduction12/06/25 07:06 PM
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Be comfortable Be cool Act like you’ve been to this dance before Open, but then steer the convo to something you can have a cool convo about. Find something you like about her, and give a SOI Steer the convo to things she likes to plan a cool date. Number close. Use number to keep fire of attraction burning and logistics.
/r/seduction02/06/25 04:55 PM
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This is what routines are suppose to lead to. Being confident, congruent, and owning your shit. Well done and keep going further down this path. Great things await!
/r/seduction02/04/25 10:24 PM
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You should do some coaching and I can help you plan on the best way to invest in yourself. https://stephengrosch.com
/r/seduction07/03/25 06:45 AM
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Staples girl FR from years ago- been into this chick for a little bit at staples, very cute and has a fucking great attitude. Mexican chick with the most amazing long black hair down past her ass. 5'4-5'5 and nice little tight body, 20 yrs old. Have flirted with her the last few times I stopped by, this time I had to # close. Last time she searched the whole store for a tiny SHARPIE marker for me and found 1. Joked with her during this treasure hunt. I am buying a stack of paper this time and af…
/r/seduction05/03/25 10:27 PM
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If you get them turned on and know what you are doing. You can do it anywhere. I’ve picked up and had fun very quickly after at bars, a girl working at apt complex when I was looking for new place to live, girl working at staples ringing me up when I was buying paper .Etc
/r/seduction04/03/25 01:59 PM
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https://stephengrosch.com/about-stephen
/r/seduction22/02/25 04:41 PM
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I coached a very famous one. Hung out with him and some of his buddies. Knew several others and women The guys got laid, but only from porn stars. Creepy weird super sexual way over top groping. But worked on the porn stars who also acted dumb like that. Seriously doubt any regular woman would let slide- all would prob call cops. Very creepy. Stayed away after I saw.
/r/seduction04/02/25 03:04 AM
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No recordings. Tons of notes and homework they do that sets them up for success ( not hard) And we go infield and prove things work. https://youtube.com/shorts/asHTbxJ4Xug?si=AOlO10SM7Ec4KGqZ
/r/seduction12/01/25 02:26 PM
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"a long time ago the PUA's wouldn't spend a millisecond talking about gym etc because their idea was that you could be a 5ft 70 year old slob and still pull any 18 year old girl you wanted using 'game')" Only scammers and liars claimed anything like that. There are old ugly guys who got young girls, and I saw them first hand. But didnt happen that often, but it doesnt need to if she sticks around! Most of the guys moved on, a good analogy is like chemo, only take it as long as you have to. Just …
/r/seduction06/01/25 08:52 PM
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Or you could spend the money on leveling up permanently, instead of just leveling up for some pictures which then you are still the same guy after the pictures were taken….
/r/seduction27/12/24 04:24 PM
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PUA coach. Getting paid to go out and hit on girls on hidden camera was cool
/r/seduction10/12/24 03:19 AM
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“Ah… now it makes sense why a cool chick like you is still single…. Gotta stop going after boys and find a man. “
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:22 PM
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I don't think about and don't live in the past That is a recipe for a bad life
/r/seduction20/11/24 11:19 PM
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Cool online game should only take a few mins in morning, at night, on the can...a day then you message women back, just like normal text game I am a pretty busy guy and online dating worked best for me with me odd schedule. So the only reason I think you dont have time nor patience= you are doing it wrong. Eg. like the guy who says he cant find time to work out because it takes hours at the gym, vs the guy who does a 15 min HITT work out a few times a week and looks great
/r/seduction18/11/24 08:38 PM
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I never did. But ones I know do go out to them. Just very. Very rarely. So chances of meeting them very slim. That’s why real life pick up is best. Just doing the cool stuff you already do and shopping at the places you already do. Is best. You’ll meet someone with similar interest. And if you don’t have any of those spots already, then that’s a huge red flag and makes it clear that you need to level up. Lastly, try online dating that’s the other best way.
/r/seduction18/11/24 04:44 PM
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For many, this is the time to reach out and get some private coaching... But quick answer, you are creeping them out/pushing them away or Not actually building a connection aka your interaction is the same as a gay guy who could get the same results... It isnt a man/woman thing
/r/seduction15/11/24 01:16 AM
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I have been really thinking about it the last few months....
/r/seduction15/11/24 01:13 AM
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Same thing I did for cold approach HIGH level observation, then tossing out the stuff that everyone else noticed or said, and talking about something that they all missed. Or, calling out the line that everyone else did and thought they were first/clever eg. girl is a nurse or teacher "How many lame messages have you gotten today from guys saying they wish you were their teacher growing up/their nurse last time they were in hospital?
/r/seduction14/11/24 11:53 PM
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Solid!
/r/seduction14/11/24 11:51 PM
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Lots, lots of fun from cold approach But best GFs, most epic LRs, and best realationships and my wife= all from Online Dating!
/r/seduction14/11/24 11:51 PM
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Thats funny, I like!
/r/seduction14/11/24 11:50 PM
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My all time fav= "I like you" That's it, vid with more info on it and why I like it so much https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8sOQ7U6VvMY
/r/seduction14/11/24 11:50 PM
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You actually don’t know that. Negative assumptions. Which means weak inner game. Occam‘s razor, does she do that for everyone or is it the simple answer, that I’m just that awesome.
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:12 PM
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Fools mate= bad mindset Fools mate is when you win because your opponent is horrible and plays the worst moves they can. A fast F close is because she chose you. If you truly believe you are the prize. It’s a girl looking at you and just thinking. JACKPOT
/r/seduction05/11/24 05:58 AM
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The book is organized via explorations of the four agreements: "Be impeccable with your word" "Do not take anything personally" "Do not make assumptions" "Always do your best"
/r/seduction29/10/24 11:08 PM
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https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=what+are+the+four+agreements
/r/seduction29/10/24 11:07 PM
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The fact you are resentful/angry bastard = is a HUGE reason WOMEN DONT WANT TO BE AROUND YOU You are angry, creepy, threatening You are putting out the worst vibes you can, ones that women have to be extra careful to trust their gut on, because those are the vibes sexual predators and murderers put out! Read AS A MAN THINKETH And start following The Four Agreements for starters
/r/seduction29/10/24 07:53 PM
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Yes, I still havent peaked!
/r/seduction29/10/24 12:05 AM
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The book was just Neil's story, later Neil wrote RULES OF THE GAME and that had more routines and step by step guide. But I was never a huge fan of the book, even though I am in it... The best is to just start going out and approaching and doing your best for a bit, THEN get online and look for tips= it will make much more sense after you have 50-100 approaches under your belt
/r/seduction22/10/24 11:08 PM
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I use to always seed and try to lock down dates face to face. Then use text for logistics and keeping attraction fire burning.
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:48 PM
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No. Thats just basic planning. The date should be a DHV date that helps her say yes to a night out with you. Something cool/fun/new/ exciting. Even if cheap and lowkey.
/r/seduction18/09/24 07:47 PM
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I turned the burner phone on a few months ago. Still worked.
/r/seduction11/09/24 11:40 PM
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Phone number. Texting. Voice calls. To verify if needed.
/r/seduction11/09/24 08:02 PM
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I was banned on several and got back on all with android burner with new gmail addy and google voice number
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:35 PM
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I was banned from tinder. Bumble. PoF. Ok Cupid and another one. All part of my testing for my Online Game Program. Had to cross the line to know where it was. Coffee meets bagel still worked. Just got an old android from a buddy. Wiped. Made gmail account. Google voice. Used from home and got back on all a few years ago. It was easy.
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:34 PM
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You don’t even need all that in my exp. Just a used android, same WiFi. Same pics. Same everything. Just not same email to set up phone and different number to confirm. Used google voice.
/r/seduction11/09/24 03:59 PM
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They become funny stories and learning lessons. When life is going great, you don’t have time to live in the past!
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:04 AM
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Do other attractive women flirt with you? If no….. Then the pretty girls who work on tips are prob just working ya
/r/seduction06/09/24 02:28 AM
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This is what helped me. https://thebravohood.com/how-i-got-over-my-approach-anxiety
/r/seduction04/09/24 05:18 PM
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The same stuff is happening online, they just swipe left and you dont see it Also they are on the apps to FIND A GUY It isnt translate it to person, it is just "learn game"
/r/seduction21/08/24 03:12 PM
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AFC moves and logic and it hasn't gone away.... Move on, stop living in the past
/r/seduction21/08/24 03:11 PM
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First homework assignment I give every guy is to go out and do 20 approaches in a week. Then let me know what you did and how they went. It lets me know who I am dealing with and where you are, depending on what you did. If you actually could do it. If you did it all in 1 day instead of breaking up into days. Who you talked to What you said How things went That is what I would recommend, then hit me back up and let me know how everything went, then I can give you a few pointers.
/r/seduction21/08/24 03:10 PM
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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take! Awesome job stepping up!
/r/seduction16/08/24 12:52 AM
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Yes. Dumb 2nd question.
/r/seduction14/08/24 01:50 PM
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So…. Peacocking….
/r/seduction14/08/24 01:30 PM
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You can be picky, when you have choices.
/r/seduction14/08/24 01:24 PM
1

Do you ever hear "My best friend doesnt even know this about me"? If not, you arent asking the right questions....
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:01 AM
73

Triangular theory of love You want more than just passion, you want a legacy Awesome I was in exactly the same boat, and now that I am married and have a kid= it's the hardest and BEST thing I have ever done in my life! So, you have the skills to attract, now need to work on deep connection, and commitment. Start approaching women that are more than just looks, screen them and see if you guys legit vibe. No more teenagers. Time for a WOMAN
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:00 AM
1

Not a dream, and if that isn’t your ultimate goal, you’re not doing a right kid. The point of this is to have choices, and eventually every girl I met was submitting a girlfriend application to see if they’re cool enough for me because I’m the most important person in my world!
/r/seduction05/08/24 02:52 AM
1

They don't I reject THEM!
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:46 PM
9

You are living in fantasy world. You are only looking at current physical beauty to know if she’s “the one”. And have 0% legit experience. So. AFC logic
/r/seduction29/07/24 11:06 PM
0

What specifically do they say?
/r/seduction24/07/24 05:49 PM
2

yes, but be careful shitting where you eat and use the drink offer as a root for a date "I can't drink while on the clock, but we can def go somewhere cool this week and have a drink ;)"
/r/seduction23/07/24 09:40 PM
2

Are you trying to tell me you are a bartender?
/r/seduction23/07/24 08:24 PM
2

How many times has a girl come up and offered to buy you shots, or handed you a shot to take with her?
/r/seduction23/07/24 08:09 PM
2

Exactly! Which is why I train/teach martial arts outdoors, in my garage, in the grass, in the rocks, with normal clothes on, with my firearm and knives on me. :)
/r/seduction23/07/24 08:03 PM
7

No booze when learning a new skill set. You don’t do shots before a guitar lesson or martial arts class…
/r/seduction23/07/24 07:27 PM
1

Text her 2 cool coffee spots on yelp and tell her to pick one, to see if she picked the same one.
/r/seduction20/07/24 11:26 PM
0

Nope! Because= https://www.instagram.com/reel/C9KTX7xSwca/?igsh=aHhteTQ1eWZ5dWJ2
/r/seduction14/07/24 09:22 PM
8

Disqualification.
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:48 PM
1

Triangular Theory of Love What are you missing? https://thebravohood.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/06/Triangular-Theory-of-Love.jpg Triangular Theory of Love
/r/seduction01/07/24 03:38 AM
1

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
/r/seduction30/06/24 06:15 PM
1

I don’t “cope”. I accept reality and move on
/r/seduction27/06/24 07:00 PM
0

This reads like a crazy TwoX post.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/24 05:04 PM
1

Your definition of "win" is wrong and short sighted. Win - epic long life, loved ones, family, kids, grandkids...etc = just because someone is better looking and has some advantages in some ways, doesnt me they WIN. And poker= no 2 hands are ever the same. But a professional poker player could play the same hands you get dealt- and eventually win the jackpot, while you lose. So wrong again- it's a GREAT analogy! :)
/r/seduction20/06/24 09:08 PM
1

Video game analogy is good. I usually say surfing, or BJJ. Something that is active and takes work.
/r/seduction19/06/24 04:33 PM
3

You sound crazy
/r/PussyPassDenied19/06/24 05:04 AM
8

It’s a numbers game when learning. Later it’s a skills thing. This is like a guy saying you need to play a ton of poker hands to eventually get lucky Vs. A professional poker player
/r/seduction17/06/24 01:57 PM
1

Just start hanging out with her, making plans more often with her.
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:01 AM
-5

This isn’t new. No one is going to come and save you. This isn’t a men’s right thing. It’s a reality thing. Don’t outsource your personal security to others. We all read the news and see bad things happen to good people every day. If you don’t train and prepare to defend yourself then you are just hoping things go OK. Hope isn’t a good plan. -and you are lucky. If it was worse. People would have swarmed you and filmed. Even if you were dying. People film people last moments for the internet all …
/r/MensRights16/06/24 02:46 PM
5

Bars and clubs are ONLY good to go sarge at IF You love going to bars and clubs and love bar/club chicks You aren't comfortable there, and are trying to expand your comfort zone. Bootcamps- lots of guys and need sets to open. Other than that= I have NEVER met a chick I legit connected with, at a bar or club. Just ones for short term fun- which is low level
/r/seduction15/06/24 05:53 PM
5

Like many (liberals) she is using it as victimhood currency When you exploded= wrong way to bring it up Should have dumped her way before you lost it!
/r/MensRights15/06/24 05:43 PM
1

Bumble, Tinder, Hinge and even POF= use for free don’t pay, and 3 tips for Online Game= https://www.instagram.com/reel/C7wmJvDRrJU/?igsh=dnJubXhoNzFnOTN0
/r/seduction14/06/24 07:28 PM
0

You don’t HAVE to do anything But You run the risk of friend zoning yourself, letting her attention get filled elsewhere, and losing your shot by not. I use to go for kisses at the start of the date :)
/r/seduction14/06/24 07:25 PM
-1

That’s one reason, the other is they are delusional/dumb - and just like gays protesting on behalf of Hamas here in the US- out of touch with reality. Getting wrecked= https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=GET%20WRECKED
/r/MensRights14/06/24 02:39 AM
-2

No need to explain Countless posts in here of guys getting wrecked over the fact some women chose the bear Only a weak guy would let them trigger /effect them And then a really weak boy runs online to bitch about it= my point I was tagging onto your point
/r/MensRights14/06/24 02:23 AM
-2

Only weak boys get triggered over BEAR talk. Which, there are a lot of them in here….
/r/MensRights14/06/24 02:15 AM
5

You didnt say how you were meeting them A phone call with someone you aren’t even sure if you are into= is a BIG ask and time suck for girls who have guys lining up… I still called. A lot. But it was usually after we were texting a bit, things were getting a little sexual, then I would just call. When they answered, some were surprised, most weren’t. And then I would just say, “ok we can keep texting for the next 4 hours, or have like a 5 mins convo and get so much more out of it…
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:08 AM
9

If they think the bear is a better choice. Then yes. Calling a spade. A spade. Something that everyone else in their life doesn’t do = a good thing. And that’s all these dummies deserve. Mockery and ridicule. They aren’t intelligent. They aren’t logical. You can’t reason with them.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 12:59 PM
1

No. The dumb question didn’t “raid a sacred relationship”. It exposed your cousin as a dummy. And the fact that you were going down the same path. Being a dummy. But this, something inside knows how dumb it is. So there is hope for you. Don’t listen to liberals. Don’t date them. Don’t be one. Be a man. An awesome one and only invest your time and energy in people who appreciate THAT
/r/MensRights12/06/24 12:24 PM
-1

Here’s a vid of me breaking it down a bit. https://youtu.be/62d6kfLau98?si=ve44VYodjT9vfxu_
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:10 AM
94

I’m in a rush, give me your number so I can hit on you later. “Don’t copy me” when in line at somewhere like Chipotle or Subway, then I turn around and said WTH every time they got the same thing I had just got.
/r/seduction10/06/24 10:10 PM
3

You vibe turned her off. She was right. Then you doubled down on the creep. The fix= you need to level up
/r/seduction10/06/24 06:55 PM
2

How would you treat a person saying “I don’t owe you a billion dollars”. “Ya. You don’t”…. Same energy and mindset. And good red flag they are nuts to even bring it up. So thank them for showing you they are crazy.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 06:32 PM
1

“Cool. Let me know when you are free to take me out and make it up to me”. Then wait. Either she does, and it works. She does and things fizzle. Or she doesn’t and it’s done. But make her earn your time back.
/r/seduction09/06/24 06:30 PM
1

Instead of specific lines, think about more like. Being curious. Someone is looking at, or already grabbed something you haven’t tried but are thinking about. Or just asking them if they have tried if they are in close proximity. Eg. The taco kit, the frozen nugs that are suppose to be as cool as chick fila. Etc Offering insight on something they are looking at that you know about. -the other side of coin for first one. Those would be situational openers. Spontaneous opener, something that is un…
/r/seduction09/06/24 02:04 PM
0

That’s why only an idiot listens to anything a liberal/feminist/commie/lgbtq/ etc has to say.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 12:56 PM
1

You are living in the past, because you aren’t excited and looking towards the future. Which you do by making the most of the present. You are living the life you earned right now. Very, very bad moves you are making. If you want help. Reach out. Getting new girls to hook up with is EASY. Fixing your mindset and creating a life you enjoy= that will be a bit of work.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 12:51 PM
1

I air fry my food!
/r/PussyPassDenied08/06/24 03:23 AM
3

I’m married now But before I was I assumed every woman loved me, they all just didn’t know it yet! See the difference?
/r/seduction07/06/24 06:10 PM
2

The fact you are even considering this… You are more in the sexual predator zone than seduction zone. Don’t be a POS.
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:27 PM
1

No. Everyone changes. Most just don’t know or chose which path of change they are on.
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:39 PM
2

Smile, chill energy, come in with a joke or instant line to prevent any tension from being built. Don’t crowd or hover over them.
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:38 PM
-4

just lefties
/r/MensRights07/06/24 03:05 AM
1

No, not when I found my wife. I had enough fun and exp to know exactly what is out there and I am not "missing" anything except for a different body. Now the fact she is a mom, created life= the best thing that has ever happened to me, and she still is awesome I ain't missing Sheeeeeeeeeeiiit https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=70eU840lc38
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:49 AM
1

I’d put my old bootcamps up against anyone’s. But after all the PUA cancel culture BS. Everything moved to private 1on1s. And, I’ll put my 1on1’s up against anyone’s. DM me if you want info.
/r/seduction06/06/24 08:56 PM
1

Miami is just another city. I am NOT. Miami dude, and we went there to film infield video and got tons of great stuff. It actually was one of the better places to pick up at
/r/seduction05/06/24 09:08 PM
3

Give a man a fish…
/r/seduction04/06/24 03:01 PM
1

An example for which one? Understanding things on a deeper level is key.
/r/seduction04/06/24 02:02 PM
0

I thought I did.
/r/seduction04/06/24 01:55 PM
1

Because they are C’s and evil.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 09:46 PM
16

Your x is with a new guy, getting railed right now, and they are laughing about you (it’s over. Don’t go back). -I’ve been the new guy. Can confirm. Never let a wee lie get in the way of a great tale. If forget the 3rd. But it was basically. Cocky /funny energy.
/r/seduction03/06/24 09:44 PM
24

1 of 2 "naturals" I know, told me he was a giant AFC and got his heart broken by and x. Then a fellow bartender took him under his wing and taught him some tricks...and he just used them so often they looked natural... He only told me years after I got into this stuff and loved what I do for others
/r/seduction03/06/24 08:00 PM
32

You are leaving things up to luck, and waiting hours for a response= not the way. Plan things out ahead of time Or text with a time constraint. "let me know if you are free tonight, gonna do X and got an extra ticket, texting you and a few other friends, who ever gets back to me first gets it" ticket can be a $1 comedy show, then when you get a taker, text the others back, they missed out.
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:35 PM
1

F Buddy
/r/seduction31/05/24 05:39 PM
0

It’s only “weird” to have sex with someone you aren’t sexually attracted to. If that’s there. Then FB or FWB can easily occur.
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:00 PM
1

There isn’t in/out. You are always in, but just choose not to flirt/escalate if you aren’t into her or it’s somewhere like work. Or when in a relationship, or married. It’s your upgraded, social, fun, positive mode for now on.
/r/seduction30/05/24 08:17 PM
2

"I struggle with approaching women because in my mind I don’t want them to think I’m hitting on them." But you are hitting on them, why do you have such an issue with them knowing what your intentions are?
/r/seduction30/05/24 07:38 PM
1

Voice to text typo. Dumb response.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 08:58 PM
5

Try writing a clear post so people can help you then
/r/MensRights28/05/24 01:36 PM
6

Huh?
/r/MensRights28/05/24 01:14 PM
0

Number one are they friends or are they just long-term acquaintances? Number two you were probably going down the same path because you were the average of the five people you hang out with, but fortunately broke free and they all got sucked down the drain into simpville
/r/MensRights27/05/24 03:28 AM
2

I’ve done it with all. Online, cold approach, day game. What is being “advanced”? Is a big part of it being really really good at the basics?
/r/seduction27/05/24 02:45 AM
6

Yes and on phone, talking.
/r/seduction26/05/24 11:06 PM
11

Very basic What I liked to do As much kino as I can, as FAST as I can, WITHOUT creeping her out! So for some women, this is a kiss at the end of the night, for others this was a full close within the first few mins of the date. The key is calibration, and how turned on you got her before the date.
/r/seduction26/05/24 11:00 PM
5

I am fine with my guys using dating apps, just as long as they arent paying for them, only do a little swiping and 1st messages in the morning and night, and during the day only are RESPONDING to messages. That should max things out pretty quickly, and then dont be "penpals". Only message women you dig and always be working towards your goal= getting them off the app and on a date.
/r/seduction26/05/24 10:55 PM
3

Once a girl is done/disgusted/over/creeped out by you, there is almost no going back. Unless you pull off the Ugly Duckling Routine.
/r/seduction24/05/24 05:43 PM
2

The club is like the bating cage or driving range when you need to hit a bucket of balls and focus on a few things. Once you learn those lessons, only go there if you enjoy it. Or if running a bootcamp = the only reason I would go to them years later. If you aren't a "club guy" and you are acting like one, and meet a "club girl" when she finds out you arent really a club guy...she isnt going to like that. Be congruent and pick up girls along the way as you live your life. But level up your life,…
/r/seduction24/05/24 05:42 PM
-2

That isn’t just women. Countless guys become “long time local sports fans” once they are in the championship games. Thats just dumb people / followers. People trying to be cool
/r/MensRights22/05/24 06:09 PM
5

I dont get rejected, I just find out they have bad taste! https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6fOmOIJwte/
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:05 AM
1

Because if those on the left didn’t have double standards, they wouldn’t have any standards at all!
/r/MensRights21/05/24 06:40 PM
27

Short term- as in them driving to my place, and only hooking up. I did. It was fun at the time. But then wouldn’t even do that anymore. Got sick of proving her wrong. “Women are just as strong and fast as men”. Pull up Olympic records and proved her wrong. Then she talked to her women’s studies professor. “The only reason men have higher records is because they are encouraged to train younger, and women aren’t.” Pull up examples of women who grew up in families that trained so they got as much o…
/r/MensRights21/05/24 01:52 PM
-1

DM me a pic of you so I have a better idea of what you are putting out
/r/seduction20/05/24 04:25 PM
1

Men by doing things like that to try and get some P
/r/MensRights19/05/24 01:08 AM
-1

You sound like a feminist. “Slut shaming is a despicable practice” Or like a guy trying to impress girls to get laid. Being a slut is something that should be looked down upon. You REALLY want a chick who’s been with 100s of random dudes. All yours!
/r/MensRights18/05/24 11:36 PM
2

What would you do if it was your GF or wife, just ignore her? No you go back in like you belong, ask the guy who he is, say excuse me as you get back to your spot, and either talk to him a little or let him know it was nice to meet him but you are back to talk to your date. He prob saw you leave and shit in. He’s low value. Don’t give him any respect. If your date is into you, you have nothing to worry about. If she’d rather be with him. Let her. But you have to not take it like a B otherwise yo…
/r/seduction18/05/24 01:37 PM
1

my advice= stop thinking like a retard you sound like a shitty husband
/r/seduction17/05/24 05:17 PM
-1

Lots of guys in here are angry little bitches. Just as bad, or worse, than feminists. Because they can’t get a girl, they anger increases, then they think they are reclaiming control of their situation by saying. I don’t need a woman anyways! It’s like Jordan P says. You can’t be a good man, if you aren’t capable of violence. So weak men wearing their weakness as a badge to try and feel good = when that is their only option. Both pathetic. And not what a Real Man would do.
/r/MensRights17/05/24 04:09 PM
1

Perhaps, but it’s been going on, so I think the mods are deep in it with them
/r/MensRights16/05/24 06:11 PM
-4

I’ve been saying this for months. Guys in here acting like retards, or dumb bitches= worse than feminists.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 02:03 PM
4

When women have that perspective- many look down upon them. They just might not get it as bad if they are hot. Men who have a similar perspective are also looked down upon. As they BOTH should be.
/r/MensRights16/05/24 12:57 AM
2

thanks for the detailed response
/r/MensRights13/05/24 05:30 PM
-2

Was the suicide rate higher or lower for men, a few generations ago, when life was MUCH MUCH harder?
/r/MensRights13/05/24 04:23 PM
2

I have a feeling you took a bit of work to even get to where you are, and would be VERY easy to drop down a few points if you got lazy. Guys dont realize how just putting even a little effort in how they look and dress= HUGE improvement
/r/seduction12/05/24 07:29 PM
1

50% is good but when you start leading more, and filtering more, mine was up to almost 100% of the time. Very very rare to not have sex, usually on 1st date.
/r/seduction12/05/24 07:27 PM
2

How many of these women were amazing? Ones you were supper attracted to, thought had a good head on their shoulders, and you really vibed with? Guessing not many... So, basically, you werent crazy eating a ton of fast food, and now dont want to hit the drive thru anymore. Stop going for quantity, and focus on quality. Top level steaks, sushi, or italian...different story, you just have to find them now.
/r/seduction12/05/24 07:23 PM
1

https://thebravohood.com/coaching
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:34 PM
-7

Can’t change user name I’ve had for years. And all I did was give advice. So either use it, or be a little bitch and complain. Like a feminist. Your call.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 01:54 PM
-8

So don’t just say “hello”. Be the exception. Very VERY EASY to get girls online. Just have to not be a retard, creepy, or little bitch (aka liberal)
/r/MensRights10/05/24 12:57 AM
1

Stop chit chatting with him, stop anything that might even hint that you are into him. Text logistics and dirty
/r/seduction09/05/24 02:53 AM
3

You have to cross the line to know where the line is. The line is WAY past where you probably think it is!
/r/seduction09/05/24 02:52 AM
0

It’s funny. Only a tightass or liberal (both) would be triggered about this.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 07:25 PM
3

Life isn’t fair. Just like a video game character, max your levels in the areas you CAN control, and you can still have a blast playing the game of life!
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:09 PM
3

Good thing you had another kid if you’d been thinking about this for years….
/r/MensRights06/05/24 07:23 AM
1

Agreed = "If there is doubt, there is no doubt". What I use to do, if any doubt or "long game" they got moved to social media and then it would social proof me because of all the attractive women I was friends with, comments and posts I had, and then that would help me later when I gamed online, or with a new social media close that wasnt solid. So it either works, or I put them to work for me!
/r/seduction05/05/24 02:34 PM
1

How I handled rejection= https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6fOmOIJwte/
/r/seduction05/05/24 02:29 PM
1

Doing a private 1on1 this Friday- Sunday. My student hasnt gotten rejected once so far, just found a few girls that didnt dig him. But since we walked past 100s of women he didnt dig = thats life
/r/seduction05/05/24 02:28 PM
1

Just dont go on lame dinner dates= the takeaway. Dinner dates are great, if you know how to do them. And was just putting up a quick vid tip on my social media in about an hour about what I liked to do for them. Look up TheBravohood if you want to watch it
/r/seduction05/05/24 02:27 PM
6

Why are you letting his limiting belief sour your day? Weak
/r/seduction04/05/24 09:56 PM
-9

Stop playing a pathetic game. Stop using the voice chat in the game to bitch about how unfair life is. Pathetic behavior. Grow up.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 03:54 PM
-4

You sound like a “nice guy” simp. Who couldn’t nice guy his way into some P. Now are making excuses to be a loser. Pathetic. Lots of awesome women out there. Just have to find them.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 04:23 AM
-13

What a sad take on this. Just like when someone tells me they are pro gun control, pro abortion, or against free speech. I’m thankful! Now I know they are an idiot and not worth my time, and may even be an enemy. So fuck them.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 01:53 PM
9

You sound like a dumb retard in your texts
/r/seduction02/05/24 01:51 PM
0

you seem as smart as one...
/r/MensRights01/05/24 10:10 PM
1

genocide noun "The systematic killing of a racial or cultural group." Killing vs. Murder What's the Difference? Killing and murder are two distinct actions that involve the taking of someone's life, but they differ in terms of intent and legality. Killing refers to the act of causing someone's death, which can occur in various circumstances such as self-defense, accidents, or during war. It does not necessarily imply wrongdoing or criminal intent. On the other hand, murder is the intentional and…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 10:02 PM
1

Genocide is MURDER on a large scale. So you are saying “if you do a lot more of what you said. It’s worse”. That’s a retarded point.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:04 PM
1

There is no such thing as Toxic Masculinity. Thats like saying Racist Love. Real masculinity is amazing. Legit bad stuff, isn’t masculine.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 04:12 PM
5

“Inappropriate comments” how many men fit into that stat now? You are already being brainwashed. If you don’t stop, you will live the sad life you deserve.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 01:28 PM
2

Your GF is dumb Don’t let dumb people influence you and control you. Your goal in life should be strength. Not what liberals push which is weakness. Train martial arts. Be healthy. Be good at being social. Be a man of your word. Of action. Of self control. Level up, at least a little, every day. Learn to cook and clean, and how to take care of your stuff. Learn how to protect yourself and your loved ones. How to kill criminals if you need to, how to save someone’s life with first aid. And figure…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 01:26 PM
1

Weak troll
/r/MensRights01/05/24 01:19 PM
-5

I have more 1st experience and knowledge about this topic than anyone you know. So either the online dating expert= me, is wrong. Or a bunch of whiney bitches who are just as bad and XX are the ones who are wrong. easy answer.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 12:05 AM
-7

The convo is about Bumble and how they have to message guys first (changing). Keep up
/r/MensRights01/05/24 12:04 AM
-18

Set up an attractive female profile. Log in and wait a few mins. Tell me what happens. I did it. Several times over the years. Last time I had 100s of matches, so many it maxed it out, in less than 2 hours. Guys sending the most cringe, creepy, f-ed up messages. Guys who sent multiple messages, then insulted me for not responding. So totally different reality for women when it comes to dating and dating sites. Her cracking the door for you is her giving you the green light, to hit on her and sho…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 06:26 PM
-23

What a sad sad perspective. The woman initiating the conversation, turning it "on" and taking even the smallest amount of effort to send a few letters = HUGE green flag that she is ready for you to sweep her off her feet. If you profile is dialed in, then saves you TONS of time, and filters out women who arent digging you. I am permanently banned on bumble (and married now) so I have more reason to hate bumble and the dumb chick who own it more than anyone. But it was the best app for meeting wo…
/r/MensRights30/04/24 05:42 PM
1

its a "superstition" that men can easily get women pregnant very often, and it is much more difficult and time consuming for women to get pregnant? are you dumb or just playing dumb?
/r/MensRights29/04/24 11:10 PM
0

15 seasons of a video game fake sports means only 1 thing. Loser
/r/MensRights29/04/24 08:20 PM
0

Ya, snowflakes don’t appreciate how much of a straight shooter I am.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 08:20 PM
1

Projecting? I use my account here to help men. To get guys out of their loser/bitch mindset and onto a better path. Guys, other guys who read this and don’t respond, but it resonates with them, at the guys I’m speaking to. Very rarely will a liberal, feminist, or angry men’s rights/MGTOW/virgin nerd listen and become better. Which group are you?
/r/MensRights29/04/24 07:06 PM
-2

imagining things I didnt write to argue with= weak and "real world example" = you are a dummy, common sense tells you it is possible. What is the record number of children produced by 1 man vs the record number of children produced by 1 female= I will wait...
/r/MensRights29/04/24 06:32 PM
0

different point, weak to try and move goal post
/r/MensRights29/04/24 06:29 PM
-6

How many years can a male get a female pregnant? How many years can a female get pregnant in her life? How many days can a guy get a random girl pregnant? How many days a year can a female actually get pregnant on? When a female is pregnant, how long is she then out of commission for, before she can get pregnant again? You may want to re-think your "by the same logic" point...because you either dont get it, or need to take a basic sex ed class again...
/r/MensRights29/04/24 05:58 PM
-1

The only moron here is the guy who doesnt understand on average a healthy guy can easily impregnate 100-1000s of women, but a woman can only get pregnant a handful of times if everything works in her favor.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 05:55 PM
-8

The concept/belief/tradition is whats important. It has to continually be followed to work. Or in a generation we are F-ed
/r/MensRights29/04/24 05:02 PM
-21

Logic fail. A few men can run around and impregnate multiple women. Women then need 1-2 years to be able to have another child. So need WAY more women to keep humans going than men.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 05:00 PM
-51

Women are the ones who can have children. Without children your people/species is doomed. So ya, bigger picture thinking, the ones who keep humans going= need more protection and security.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 03:58 PM
-2

Once this clicked in my head, it was a GAME CHANGER! In the long run, it is more painful to not approach, than to approach. a few seconds of awkwardness vs hours and hours of pain, regret, and remoarse. SIMPLE choice! Later it evolved into something even better Approach EXCITEMENT! https://thebravohood.com/how-i-got-over-my-approach-anxiety
/r/seduction29/04/24 03:42 PM
3

Instant gratification all about you, your needs, exactly when you want them you would rather have a cold frozen pizza, than a ribeye from a steakhouse all juvenile thoughts and your inability to control yourself= really just sounds like you need to evolve and be more than just living in your lame bubble.
/r/seduction29/04/24 02:26 AM
-1

Not surprised being downvoted here. The guy raped and impregnated an underage girl. Then threatened her and her family. He should be put down. Only someone as dumb as a feminist would be against this PoS being treated like the dirtbag he is. Which a lot of you guys are the flip side of that crazy coin.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 01:32 AM
-4

His punishment should be worse. Rape and murder are the 2 worst crimes. So the punishment should be worse.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 03:34 PM
0

Oh boy… Just work on approaching and not being a POS for now.
/r/seduction28/04/24 03:30 PM
2

You aren’t building a connection. Just flash game and it fizzles. I did the same when first starting out. Then I came up with the Bravo Number Close as a test and it helped me figure out what I was doing wrong. https://thebravohood.com/the-bravo-number-close-updated
/r/seduction28/04/24 03:28 PM
0

3 ways of dealing with= how I teach Force vs Force- which is what you do, you may win the battle but loose the war Redirect - redirect it to something you want, and positive Preemptive - work on fixing it, bring it up before they get a chance to, be steps ahead of them
/r/seduction28/04/24 02:29 AM
1

Yes. I believe in what I teach. And the thousands and thousands of guys I’ve helped over the last 18+ years teaching…
/r/seduction27/04/24 01:36 PM
1

Generally, when I teach someone who doesn’t get something, it is a little more complicated than just telling them one simple sentence for it to click in their head, stories are a great way to accomplish that
/r/seduction27/04/24 02:16 AM
3

I’m still around. Just after all the cancel culture stuff, almost everything I do nowadays is on the down low with students. Also married. Family. Teaching martial arts and weapons= so diversified. :)
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:07 PM
1

Unless she hasn’t. Then it’s on. Take your shot, just don’t do anything that can get you reported or screenshot and look bad!
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:05 PM
20

Should have done it face to face. Now, look at her profile and see if she seems single. Then just take your shot. -hey you seemed cool when we met, and I should have done this in person, so if you are single and ever want to grab a drink or a bite sometime. Here’s my number If not, no worries. Won’t message you again.
/r/seduction26/04/24 09:13 PM
12

"it fizzled out once I tried to get us exclusive." Generally I always let them be the ones to push for the exclusive title. If they dont push for it= that tells you everything you need to know If they do, it makes it much more solid. Triangular theory of love, she prob had some of it met but not all, so when you tried to tack on commitment, it pushed her away
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:41 PM
3

"Confidence isn't gained from success but from being unaffected to rejection." rest of the post was good but this line i have to disagree with competence breeds confidence you can't suck your way to confidence, you need to start understanding what works and why, as you start getting wins under your belt, even small wins then you become confident because you are unaffected from rejection because you KNOW that you will do well in the future, which is more than just hope. Same with martial arts Sam…
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:30 PM
7

"a legion of women..in the palm of my hands...over the course of a simple month" as soon as I read this, it sounded like you are going for quantity over quality I remember when I first started going out with some guys I met on the local forum years ago... My wing and I were already getting a name for ourselves, and 1 guy (who later stole one of my stories and posted online) tried to compete with me one night while debriefing. "Hey Bravo, how many sets did you open tonight"? 4 "HA! I did 10!....H…
/r/seduction26/04/24 05:26 PM
1

“And all that bullshit no one cares about”. So you were being dishonest and inauthentic. How about you trying being real. Once I started letting girls know exactly what I was thinking and feeling. And what I wanted to do to them in that dark stairwell. They loved it and the adventure I had….
/r/seduction24/04/24 01:33 PM
2

Her:I'm actually deleting it Me: that's extreme I'm just trying to talk= horrible -Perfect timing then, because it doesnt get better than me!
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:27 PM
2

Stop playing video games. Start walking a little away from campus. Start talking to women. It never gets easier, but like lifting or running, you get better. And then, it gets FUN. -right now you are a 800 pound fat chick asking how to lose weight. The answer is right in front of you. YOJ have to do it. No one can help you follow thru. -tons of totally free advice all over my website waiting there for you to help. Under blog https://thebravohood.com
/r/seduction20/04/24 01:31 PM
6

I hear ya. But. It keeps getting worse and worse.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/04/24 08:02 PM
1

This is why Mystery teaches the 7 hours of comfort. I don’t need nearly that long. But many guys prob do. A hook up after drinking isn’t “seduction”.
/r/seduction19/04/24 01:01 PM
1

I was dating a serial rapist and they raped me. I was dating a drug addict and they did drugs. I was dating someone with mental issues and they kept acting crazy. See the issue. The 3rd is example is you.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 12:58 PM
21

DEI is the issue. When you lower the standards to fill quotas you get problems.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/04/24 12:56 PM
1

After seeing some of the posts in here, and seeing how many vote liberal= yes. More than 1/2 of men are that stupid.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 12:47 PM
4

Who cares what that stupid broad thinks! Why post it in here like an angry feminist….
/r/MensRights16/04/24 03:23 PM
0

Stupid question And if it worked, unhealthy results. Being a good person is a lot cooler.
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:41 PM
1

The only reason to get married is if you are having kids. If you aren’t no need to. And no need to convince her. Your beliefs and feelings matter. Create such a strong reality, that she just knows it’s your way or the highway and let HER accept it.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 01:39 PM
1

Expand on “verbal game”. And if it is ON, the best move is to realize you are in a different spot forward and make most of it. Don’t miss out on a home run to practice your bunt.
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:37 PM
1

What is your goal, to have as many convos as you can? Or to close? Or to meet someone you really click with? Good job if your goal was just to talk a lot....
/r/seduction15/04/24 11:55 PM
1

Limiting belief, just make is something you have fun with and you can make it work. When RULES OF THE GAME came out, we did a mini series for MySpace TV (when it was huge just before FB) and had Bud Bundy (Dave ) in a hidden camera dating competition with Corin Nemic, and Dave was out dressed gay in roller skates and hot pants, on crutches, and 1 with a dildo strapped to his head vs Corin who had everything cool working for him. and Dave got numbers and girls into him every time, Corin (the tall…
/r/seduction14/04/24 05:42 PM
1

But you arent a man, you are a angry bitch... and just like every other spade, I call a bitch, a bitch.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 05:34 PM
1

See. Total little bitch responses. Some of you guys are just as bad as BLM and feminists. Predicting the future isn’t me crying, just an example that I clearly know what I am talking about. So much so, I can predict future events. There is a reason TONS of the PUA guys get shit. They deserve it. There is a reason if you look me up. There isn’t 1 negative post anywhere from anyone who’s ever learned from me. Just lots of success stories. Most seem unbelievable! Only people that talk shit are the …
/r/MensRights14/04/24 01:26 PM
0

Not an ad. If it was I would have linked to my site. I just posted. Knowing I would get voted down in here (by angry bitches). To try and break his limiting belief. Many paths to the top of the mountain. If guys only milk my free stuff and never pay me a penny. And improve. I’m happy.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 09:33 PM
-31

lots of negatives that maybe true for your current reality..but dont have to be. Im helping an asian immigrant virgin crush it with online dating this week = MULTIPLE women he is talking to and planning dates right now!
/r/MensRights13/04/24 04:33 AM
1

Stop being annoying/a know it all and people won’t see you as “smart” as you think is the view they get.
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:14 PM
1

Who cares if people stare. If that’s all it takes to get you to stop doing what you want, to live the life you want, you don’t want it bad enough! Let them stare. Get that number. Turn around and smile to the haters
/r/MensRights12/04/24 12:33 PM
-10

Sounds like you married a chick who is cool with murdering kids.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 03:02 AM
1

Mystery defined what a NEG is on my FB page a few years ago. “And neg is a statement or action to briefly disqualify oneself from being considered a potential suitor. The result of an neg is laughter. It is not an insult. They are used to build comfort with a girl, so that she knows you are not specifically interested in bedding her right away.” - Mystery So again he and you don’t know what a Neg is
/r/seduction07/04/24 11:11 PM
3

what if they aren't and you arent calibrated enough to know if they are/are not= like this post?
/r/seduction07/04/24 04:42 PM
0

It isn’t MY reality. It’s just. Reality
/r/MensRights07/04/24 03:06 AM
4

Liberals, esp liberal women, are the worst.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 01:57 PM
0

Having fun with them Enjoying what they have to say, their thoughts, if they are funny. A girl you think is pretty, that you enjoy looking at. That makes you feel good spending time with her. Is alllllll value they offer you= and why they get your time. If you don’t have any of those, then people won’t invest their time in you. It’s really simple. It’s not difficult once your get it. You can try and convince yourself you don’t do this. But it’s a lie or delusion.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 01:26 PM
-35

You will be. Once you provide value. You wouldn’t spend all that $ on a phone or PS5 if it didn’t provide value to you. You wouldn’t date a woman who didn’t provide you value. So don’t act like it’s unfair for others to expect the same.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 05:24 PM
1

If you ever want to stop being “forever alone”. I’ll coach you and fix that. But first you have to apologize. Then man up and admit your life is your fault and own it. Until then. All the best
/r/MensRights04/04/24 01:06 AM
1

No wonder we live in a utopia. after that= all you deserve is to be mocked.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 12:01 AM
1

No one said those things. The bottom line, since this is the MENs right sub. And guys bitching about women doing this is weak. If you don’t want women to have this power, exhibit self control and it stops it from ever happening. We can control ourselves. Not others.
/r/MensRights29/03/24 10:14 PM
-1

Bitching about women who stream on twitch, then blaming them, and not the MEN who watch them, give them their power, their money, and their time = cope out. It has never been so easy as it is now to be an attention whore. The attention they get is from MEN. As a man you can only truly control yourself. If more men controlled themselves, this wouldn’t be an issue. Saying “it isn’t my fault, they put it out there for me to see” is a bitch move. Don’t be a bitch = the way.
/r/MensRights28/03/24 02:06 PM
1

Don’t respond like a stupid liberal. Eg. I carry a gun. Oh so you think felons should have automatic guns to kill kids at schools. —- Be better
/r/MensRights28/03/24 02:24 AM
-1

Who are the VAST majority of viewers Trannies are what % of the population….? Weasel response.
/r/MensRights28/03/24 02:20 AM
0

Right. Those “children” need to man up.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 07:32 PM
2

I think it’s “some people” or illegals. Otherwise it would be “white men attacking women” on every headline…
/r/MensRights27/03/24 05:51 PM
2

Diet
/r/seduction27/03/24 02:27 PM
13

When I winked at a girl at the bar. Only did it once. 1/2 Japanese girl who later worked at Hooters. We had fun for a bit. So = 100% success rate!
/r/seduction27/03/24 02:21 PM
2

Because they watch it! Stop giving whores your time. Then they disappear.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 04:58 PM
0

Men are the ones who look at and pay $ to these whores. Soooo…. If men controlled themselves they would lose all their attention. Also women have children, children keep our species going. So bigger picture = why they live first.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 04:57 PM
3

Of course. They are liars, manipulators, and POS. Why would anyone be surprised they are hypocrites?
/r/MensRights22/03/24 03:55 PM
3

Who doesn’t “allow” you to have emotions? If you are a bitch/pussy or creepy you will be ridiculed - which is good. I only value the opinion of those I value. I’ve had horrible shit said to me from every angle, some just in this sub. A man doesn’t let losers define what feelings or emotions he is allowed to have, by bitches.
/r/MensRights22/03/24 03:53 PM
1

I actually am really humble. -that means I’m even more awesome than you can imagine. When losers in here start taking shots, saying things they would never say to another man face to face, ya I bust their balls. Suck it up. Buttercups.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 07:38 PM
1

Don’t vote for liberals or rhinos. Sex change. Move
/r/MensRights21/03/24 04:40 PM
0

Google my user name. Mens Dating coach for almost 20 years. And so many bitches in here. Throwing around “I bet you are an abuser” accusations. Just like crazy feminists. The longer I’m around, the more I see many here as the flip side of the same crazy bitch feminist coin.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 03:55 AM
-1

I’m divorce. I’ve coached and helped lots of guys with divorces. So…more exp than you.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 03:10 AM
-1

Both are bad. The dad failed to protect himself and his kids. So he’s pathetic. She’s a criminal and 100x worse.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 11:22 PM
-2

It isn’t an A B that you imagine. Another option is NEVER start a family with such a crazy C. Divorce her when she starts this. Before kids. Divorce her and have proof she’s dangerous and get custody. Only a loser imagines 2 loser choices.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 11:21 PM
-6

Something tells me you have paid a woman to take a dump on you. A few times.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 11:19 PM
9

Women are wired to want to procreate. Only a dummy would trust them with safe sex. Ones you don’t know, you 100% can’t trust. Since high school I always checked them for holes after (in sink with water) then balled up in TP and flushed. Firstly so evidence was gone so no family member would find it. Later to prevent them from using later. During their cycle they are more likely to “risk” getting pregnant because they want to. Later when reality sets in, they don’t want it, that’s why they are pr…
/r/MensRights20/03/24 06:42 PM
-20

A lot of assumptions they are big boy. I’m just calling a spade a spade. If a woman took a dump on your head and you stayed with her you would also be pathetic.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 06:37 PM
-34

Pathetic
/r/MensRights20/03/24 05:26 PM
-1

I’ve given more out than taken.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 04:47 PM
1

No. It’s biology. Reality. Only someone who is weak, like a woman, would write what you just did.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 04:47 PM
0

It isn’t “forced”. It’s nature. Every animal has mating rituals. Bitch about them, or get good at them. Only 2 choices. As a guy who got really good at them, I’d recommend that. Much more fun, not an angry little bitch boy, and then have choice when it comes to starting a family.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 03:45 PM
-1

Dumb perspective. This is like WW2 Fight, or at least suppprt those who do, or your people get conquered. (Killed. Raped. Erased from history) You are one of those who want the benefit of those who fight, but run when they are called. Pathetic. If any of you had a man card. I’d revoke it.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 03:38 PM
-1

“Toxic masculinity” When others are trying to take over your people and land, you have to stand and fight. Or beg for mercy. It’s clear which one you are.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 01:54 PM
-5

Good luck with that logic. Hippy
/r/MensRights20/03/24 01:39 PM
-7

"It’s a heavy burden being the apex predator on earth." Go transition then, so you can stunning and brave and someones wife.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 01:50 AM
3

Yes But liberal men ruined it
/r/MensRights20/03/24 12:54 AM
-20

Go run away with the women and children. Pussy
/r/MensRights19/03/24 09:53 PM
-24

Someone’s got to fight, if you aren’t willing to take up arms and defend your community, you don’t deserve it. It’s our job as men to fight when needed. It always has been, no matter what liberals say (that women are equal). It’s a heavy burden being the apex predator on earth.
/r/MensRights19/03/24 07:12 PM
1

Post a pic. I have a feeling I know why people feel like they can talk shit to you…
/r/MensRights18/03/24 01:18 PM
-5

It isn’t “culture”. It’s nature. Every animal has its mating rituals. For humans. We have ours. You listed a lot of stuff that isn’t part of it, and inaccurate. “SHE will decide if she wants to go out again”. -so again this just looks like a weak male bitch fest post. Women are awesome, just not all of them. And a family is the BEST thing we as humans get to have.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 01:15 PM
-1

Why would a troll “humble” you? F them
/r/seduction12/03/24 07:36 PM
2

Why would I care what a Liberal who looks like THAT thinks about anything? Let alone me? Her opinion is poison and I won’t even allow my ears to hear it. Bitching about it, makes you almost as bad as her.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 01:52 PM
0

Sexual deviants…acting like deviants. No surprise there. And liberals give them a pass. If the liberals didn’t, it would be handled pretty quit. So like almost everything. It’s liberals fault. I was a waiter in HS and got hit on my more old gay creepy guys than I can remember. When I got into PUA. I just used the stores and exp to connect with hot waitresses. They get hit by the same type of guy, just not gay. (Old and creepy). So I learned. Don’t be creepy. And, had lots of fun with waitresses,…
/r/MensRights02/03/24 01:17 PM
1

Has this happened? If so, how many times?
/r/seduction27/02/24 04:50 PM
18

Gangsta rap thug, turns out to be a POS? Why is this here?
/r/MensRights27/02/24 04:42 PM
0

Common sense. Loser animals die off pretty quickly, and are forgotten about. It’s a shame that some dude (me) wants you to have a better life than YOU want for yourself…
/r/MensRights24/02/24 11:23 PM
1

Exactly. And you can keep bragging about and acting like you’re free. Others may even support. Just like dudes who dress up and say they are women. But doesn’t make real, or a good thing.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 10:05 PM
1

1/2 of that is being a winner. But if using loser logic. Will be a fail
/r/MensRights24/02/24 09:54 PM
0

They aren’t their standards. They are natures and God’s standards.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 09:54 PM
0

I am not a fan of him, and only seen >5mins of him speak. -and I went from a miscarriage, divorce, x tried to commit suicide after, = broken. To a dating coach. Now have a family and been helping other men level up for almost 20 years level up. Def not rich. But busted my A to get what I have. And if I can do it= and if you can do it!
/r/MensRights24/02/24 07:18 PM
0

It is when others sacrificed and fought for your life, then you waste it. Pathetic.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 07:16 PM
1

He said most guys don’t know better/what they are doing is well meaning. I said most of them aren’t well meaning and do know better. Similar. Same outcome. But different.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 02:50 PM
-1

Any single one of them, even the women, lived a harder and more challenging life, and accomplished more. Any parent will get this. Any spoiled child quitter, won’t.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 02:48 PM
1

You say that. And you may even believe it, for now. But quitters are losers, and no one cares about or remembers losers. Short term, instant gratification is the road to misery. And to being worse than a liberal feminist.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 02:47 PM
-12

You can be happy you quit. But no one else will. You are an embarrassment to all your ancestors and everything they did to give you life.
/r/MensRights24/02/24 02:32 AM
32

Disagree. They think it will get them something/somewhere by being “feminist”. It’s liberal currency. Then when it doesn’t, they double down, and become even worse.
/r/MensRights23/02/24 01:24 PM
-1

Only weak men would think this. Just like other animals in the world, males have certain responsibilities. Females have others. To be against this is to be against nature. Instead of just accepting reality, and getting good at the cards we are dealt. You are angry and posting weak sauce rants online. Toughen up buttercup. Man up!
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:26 PM
-4

1st off MGTOW is a loser move. “I’ll show those crazy liberals, I’ll be alone forever, then they’ll be sorry”! What a low IQ move. Success is always the best revenge And think it has more to do with the way the world is changing and people having social anxiety and men becoming pussies (because of liberals).
/r/MensRights22/02/24 02:24 PM
-1

Only if you choose it to be the case. You are the master of your reality. Choose to be, then be, better.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 10:19 PM
-1

You sound odd. Maybe for the best.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 01:56 PM
32

I read the article. My biggest takeaways Women are starting to realize they screwed themselves with their attacks on men. Countless women are out there just waiting, paying money to make more likely = meet a good man. So boys, there is work to be done, they need us!
/r/MensRights21/02/24 01:47 PM
1

my family life/childhood...every student I have ever coached= mine was worse. I am married with a family and kid now So...proof that your limiting belieft is BS.
/r/MensRights19/02/24 07:29 PM
1

Stopped using PUA term and teachings years ago, but my ama and history with this account = keep it. What I teach now is 1000x better!
/r/MensRights19/02/24 06:48 PM
4

Don’t let idiots and family from the past STILL control you. F them. Also sounds like your attitude and energy are the issue. Be fun, slightly cocky, playful, and a flirt. Understand women are a different culture. Just like Japanese people. Different customs, clothes, language, traditions. Etc. Spend time learning about it and you will enjoy it a lot more. Or be like an American guy who thinks different cultures are dumb and say you will just never travel. Same mindset and you will miss out on a…
/r/MensRights19/02/24 01:28 PM
-1

Extreme ownership “What did you do to cause this?” It is your fault! You married and sponsored a POS. Why didn’t you get her better?
/r/MensRights30/12/23 08:44 PM
4

Of course. And many of them are lying. Once they find a guy they are attracted to, they fantasize about him finding them attractive and having fun with their body. -unless they are full insane. I know for a 100% fact this is true!
/r/MensRights12/12/23 01:37 PM
65

Because Pussy Pass use to mean a chick getting a pass because she’s a chick. Now. Liberals are trying to brainwash us into thinking women can have dicks. So pussypassdenied should also be called transpenispassdenied = but it isn’t. Yet. They are the new low man on victimhood totem pole. So they are still getting passes.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/12/23 01:42 PM
1

Did she go to church each week?
/r/MensRights01/12/23 03:53 AM
2

Why were you dating a POS like this for so long?
/r/MensRights30/11/23 07:23 PM
-6

Who cares what some dumb teenager chick thinks about men!!?? So weak to even allow this to be something you care about…
/r/MensRights20/11/23 06:11 AM
-2

It isnt just women, dumb liberal men say the same thing! " women can do everything that men can do". But that is a different point. And you fight so YOU and the people YOU care about dont get enslaved/tortured/killed by the enemy. And so your people survive. If America was really 1/2 as bad as you think it is, then move. Find a new people to live among and that you would be willing to fight for.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 05:44 PM
1

Some, sure But the ones who are in line with you as they run away. The legit ones would also fight or support, as much as they can. Just like older children may have to, IF it gets to that point
/r/MensRights12/11/23 05:41 PM
-1

Exactly. You that is part of the requirements for a man card. You are lacking. And most don’t WANT to fight in a war (I never said that. Stop listening and twisting words like a chick). But we will fight if we have to. Those who run and hide are pathetic and don’t deserve the protection from those who fight. If that’s you. You are a parasite.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 04:57 PM
-8

If you aren’t willing to step up and fight when called. For the protection of your people. You don’t deserve any protection from them. You can go be a pussy off in the mountains somewhere alone. If something like what happened to Israel happened to you area and you didn’t try and stand up and fight back. What good are you? You aren’t. You failed your job.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 04:07 PM
-7

Ukraine right now. Various ethnic groups in Middle East and Africa. For years and years. Chinese with the Xinjiang right now. Gaza right now.. “When was the last time” is the argument emotional dummies try to always make as if that somehow prevents it from ever happening AGAIN. The fact it did happen is proof it can happen again and again.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 04:05 PM
-20

But men don’t create life, and if women aren’t protected so they can do that. Your entire people will be wiped out. Being a man is hard. Part of that burden is showing up to fight when others want to destroy you and your people. That’s the job.
/r/MensRights12/11/23 02:33 PM
-1

Stop acting like a crazy chick. Be a man. Control yourself.
/r/MensRights04/11/23 05:05 AM
1

If you are going to insult someones intelligence, don't have typos in the insult. Dumb dumb
/r/MensRights29/10/23 02:23 AM
-2

Start small. With yourself. You aren’t a man.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 07:38 PM
19

I’ve responded back with this when I get those attacks. “I don’t hate women, I LOVE women. I just hate dumb feminists”.
/r/MensRights27/10/23 01:42 PM
1

Exactly…
/r/MensRights21/10/23 08:55 PM
-11

Do you look like a serial killer in your pics?
/r/MensRights21/10/23 04:37 PM
1

How have you “protected” them?
/r/MensRights21/10/23 03:38 AM
-2

I meant YOU can’t. And never will. Pathetic = trying to weasel an answer like this in, to prove your weak logic and justify it.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 09:50 PM
-4

“Strong man” = him not being a “strong” man, means he doesn’t get it. And his opinion is as valid as a woman’s on this topic. :)
/r/MensRights20/10/23 09:49 PM
3

That was stupid
/r/MensRights20/10/23 08:04 PM
-8

Strong men, who are capable of protecting others, should. You don’t qualify, so don’t worry about it.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 07:59 PM
-3

What a pathetic, weak response. And. No you can’t.
/r/MensRights20/10/23 07:58 PM
-4

So level up Just like every other animal on the planet. There are mating rituals and competition. Some males have to fight to the death for the privilege of passing on their DNA. Other males bitch online about…
/r/MensRights20/10/23 04:01 PM
3

Be authentic is what you should do. After you fix all your inner game shit. Be yourself is horrible advice. When “yourself” sucks. So stop sucking. Then be yourself.
/r/seduction09/10/23 02:47 AM
11

Who cares what some dumb bitch says. What a snowflake move getting worked up about this.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 06:19 PM
-11

Nudists are weirdos This is just as bad as crazy chick posts.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 02:34 PM
24

No. Because what people say they want and what they really want are 2 different things. And when things actually matter, the world needs men. So letting them live in their little delusion bubble is my gift to them, and easily filters out people I don’t want to be around. Go do some hard stuff and you will meet people who respect strong men.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 02:03 PM
-9

Weak Guys who feel like they are being followed may do the same thing. She was trusting her gut and didn’t confront you or do anything except go into a store. Stop being so sensitive.
/r/MensRights24/09/23 02:01 PM
8

They aren’t men, and never will be. They are confused/mental, cross dressers, or have mutilated their body= or somewhere in between.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 02:09 PM
23

Should have told the 2nd chick to STFU and mind her own business.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 05:00 PM
14

She checks out https://i.imgur.com/pjdRhe0.jpg
/r/MensRights11/06/23 01:10 PM
14

I had my fun. Figured out what I liked/didn’t like. Leveled up as a man And most importantly dated a lot, so I knew how awesome my wife is when I first met her. All those crash and burns getting over AA All those nights out All those dates To be ready for when it mattered most! -just like training marital arts for years. For that moment in a dark parking lot when you will need it 5 years from now!
/r/seduction10/06/23 11:38 PM
2

Yes. But it depends on what “going out” means. If it’s leaving the house, living a DHV life and being social along the way, while also using online game to augment your dating life. Still really easy to meet and date cool women.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:49 PM
3

I think one day they just shut it down…and I hoped that a lot of the guys already were connected online elsewhere. But it was dying out for years before. When you have a big forum when the guy who’s name is at the top of the page, never contributes, it’s always doomed.
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:32 PM
5

I was on/still in quite a few “large” FB groups. But most were just that, online circle jerks. Very small % actually ever even met face to face. Neil’s old forum that I ran for years had like 350,000 + of members. Very rarely did anyone do more than just post..
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:22 PM
6

I was/am involved with all this stuff way more than almost anyone, travelled around the world teaching, lived in Hollywood in the “golden age”. Neil Strauss wrote about me in his book, he and many of the other main guys thanked me in the back of their books and vouched for me when I went solo teaching. Know basically everyone who is anyone is this field. There really was never a Pick Up “community”. What’s your background/experience? I’ll wait. :)
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:43 PM
5

So you were with some of the “small groups that would meet up”. Cool Relax…
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:23 PM
3

I still teach full time, things just pivoted for me from boot camps to private 1on1’s. Because no one wants others to know they had to learn this stuff/associated it with. There really never was a “community”. There were forums and small groups of guys around the US /world that would meet up…but most learned what they needed too and moved on. Silly to be going to PUA meet ups when you have a family at home.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:11 PM
1

What I wrote, and “confidence” are mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:25 AM
4

The cool thing is that you can improve in those areas. It’s really hard for women to improve their looks dramatically, unless they’re really overweight.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:18 PM
9

Yes. Leveling up in life, confidence, social skills, etc is the way. Women don’t fantasize about being with a goofy, awkward, weirdo, with no confidence.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:17 PM
2

Where did you get “rejection is never about you”? If you are creepy or lame= it is about you.
/r/seduction29/10/19 06:59 AM
10

You kinda like her. But she doesn’t like you enough to forget her X. You struck out.
/r/seduction28/10/19 03:02 PM
3

Especially at the start. ITS ALL EMOTION!!! Aka the opposite of logic.
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:05 PM
1

I always have women help me move. Cleaning. Packing/unpacking. Painting. They love it!!
/r/seduction22/08/19 08:58 PM
2

Crazy bitch after = Yet she walked free from court in August after being handed a 12-month sentence suspended for two years, 80 hours of community service and ordered to go on an anger management course. Thomas, who was fired from her job as a result of her actions, has now been hauled back before the same court after breaking the terms of her ‘compliance sessions’ three times However Judge John Harrow, who sentenced her four months ago, said he was prepared to give Thomas ‘a chance’ and allow h…
/r/MensRights19/08/19 03:51 PM
11

Now he def looks like expected!
/r/MensRights12/08/19 02:28 PM
1

13+ years as my job 9+ running own company Never even knew this was a real job, never thought it would be mine. Helping guys around the world, using all the rough shit I went thru for positives now= amazing
/r/seduction07/08/19 04:33 PM
1

Solid And I didn’t say it was impossible. Just a lot easier.
/r/seduction07/08/19 04:01 PM
3

How to be cool and confident, live in the present, be positive, helped push thru his negative and imagined beliefs, helped him become a leveled up version of himself, and that he is the prize.
/r/seduction07/08/19 04:00 PM
3

100% One of my students= https://i.imgur.com/7yDy1Db.jpg 5’1” and last GF was like 5’10-5’11” and current one is like 5’8” :)
/r/seduction07/08/19 08:59 AM
0

Yes. But it’s a lot easier if you aren’t a short fatty with a shitty job
/r/seduction07/08/19 07:20 AM
2

Like Dean from Supernatural and Hawkeye from Avengers. Is what I get told. ;)
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 11:39 PM
9

Because they are emotional and illogical.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 08:23 PM
1

ATF site There are a few exceptions. :)
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 08:22 PM
1

Recently moved back to Phx. Was in Flag last few years. :)
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 06:25 PM
3

You’d be mistaken x2 In Arizona, anyone who is not prohibited from owning a firearm and is at least 21 years old can carry a concealed weapon without a permit as of July 29, 2010.[8] Arizona was the third state in modern U.S. history (after Vermont and Alaska, followed by Wyoming) to allow the carrying of concealed weapons without a permit, and it is the first state with a large urban population to do so.[9][10]
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 06:25 PM
16

What a shit hole! When my Canadian buddies visit here in AZ. I have a glock 19 and IWB holster waiting for them. CCW without a permit here. As God intended.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 03:40 PM
23

A gun isn’t for those times. It’s for when you or others can’t.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 03:39 PM
15

IF you are lucky. It could be someone who got a lot of “bonus points” while getting hired, and had even lower standards they passed.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 03:38 PM
101

Once you realize police can’t get into trouble for not helping you, they are 10-12 mins away if you can even call, and need them once. You’ll come around. Hopefully it won’t be too late. Firearms instructor since 2000. I have heard this story more times than I can count.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/19 02:46 PM
35

Guy friend zoned himself and good example of how chicks give bad dating advice. -this was fun. You should do this. But it didn’t work on me.
/r/seduction10/05/19 05:45 PM
5

I wish I found love like that!
/r/PussyPassDenied21/04/19 07:49 AM
1

It’s what I had to force myself to do, when I moved to LA and started working for Style at Stylelife Working in an office, with 3-5 other PUAs all day, pick up wasn’t fun anymore. So I would go solo, make excuses to quickly swing into places, and get a few approaches in. To practice and work my mojo.
/r/seduction11/04/19 06:19 AM
2

What I have my guys do= give yourself 10-30 mins min. to get some social work in before/after your stuff. Run into a grocery store for some milk (for a protein shake), or a coffee shop. Do a few approaches, then back to going
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:24 AM
3

I travel a lot, I have been teaching this stuff since 2006. dozens and dozens of times I will get a friend/student/fell coach's phone, tweak their profile, and hours later they will start having matches roll in. NY, LA, Az, small towns, Tx, big cities, Utah/mormon vill...
/r/seduction11/04/19 03:23 AM
3

First rule of online dating. Don’t let it be a replacement for real life 2nd. I only swipe in morning, at night (about 10 mins). On the can. I only respond back to messages during rest of the day. That way I don’t spend too much time on. 3rd. Pics. Pics have to be solid. Have to DHV you. If you don’t have DHV pics, get them.
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:16 PM
1

Your profile clearly sucks. But don’t worry. Even “legit” dating coaches I know who crush it in field. Suck online.
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:14 PM
1

I hate divorce. But you prob need to upgrade to a newer model!
/r/MensRights10/04/19 08:04 AM
85

https://i.imgur.com/8rXMa8o.jpg
/r/PussyPassDenied05/04/19 08:08 PM
7

2 things I’ve seen countless times throughout the years. Guy gets into this stuff, doesn’t calibrate and creeps out his friends. They all then have a negative view on this stuff, and maybe even talk shit about how he “changed”. And they have reason too. Later if/when you get solid..it doesn’t matter. Damage was done. 2nd. Guy starts taking action and trying to improve his situation. Other friends don’t like because it shows them what is possible/ they are lazy. Or they like the OLD version. New …
/r/seduction02/04/19 07:53 PM
24

He should have studied Kenjitsu
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/19 05:00 PM
1

Can’t they be legally shot for that in Texas? https://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/jilted-john-acquitted-texas-prostitute-death-article-1.1365975
/r/MensRights08/03/19 12:18 AM
2

He didn’t say, and only a few people I know can realistically think this. Most AFC nerds should start training.
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:19 PM
11

Drain-O needs to do a commercial about being better women.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/19 06:59 AM
1

Wait until they see an old guy drying his balls with the hand dryer machine.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/01/19 07:41 AM
0

all depends on connection and their arousal level (which you can influence) I've had multiple chicks come over, strip naked, get in bed, and sex within seconds/mins others need a date to not feel like a "slut"
/r/seduction18/11/18 06:00 PM
1

When I read that I took it as a good line She’s right. IF she does. It will. But impossible IF
/r/MensRights30/08/18 07:35 PM
20

What a shithole
/r/MensRights18/08/18 04:17 PM
0

Not the ONLY advice, but great advice. Zan is a great guy and clearly walks the walk. One of the few.
/r/seduction10/12/17 04:21 PM
3

“Instead of canned openers” try this canned opener Hi/hey is the universal canned opener.
/r/seduction01/12/17 05:05 PM
1

What would that principle be?
/r/seduction22/11/17 07:35 AM
1

Been teaching this stuff for 12 years professionally. Think I have a good gauge on that. :)
/r/seduction22/11/17 07:34 AM
1

correct but who even HAS a home phone anymore? -also his stuff is a bit dated IMO, things happen much faster now vs 20 years ago
/r/seduction20/11/17 08:58 PM
1

just pointing out that some of his advice is dated
/r/seduction20/11/17 08:54 PM
45

Strike while iron is hot. Wait too long. They cool down or meet someone else. Esp of online game. I try to meet in person offline ASAP. Cold approach. 1-2 days if possible. And don’t blow your wad on the phone chit chatting.
/r/seduction19/11/17 09:08 PM
8

Doesn’t he also recommend getting their HOME phone number?
/r/seduction19/11/17 09:07 PM
2

Learn it. Internalize it. Then go out and have fun and find out what works best for you. Then just do you. It's pretty awesome when you get to that point. :)
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:20 AM
4

She should get more than 10 But we will take it as a win
/r/MensRights24/08/17 04:48 PM
1

Have each pic DHV you. About me should be light hearted, something funny and cool in it. My 2 favorite openers currently are You look like trouble And I like you. -and all same rules apply as my 21 Convention talk about PoF Also, I like bumble better now than tinder or PoF
/r/seduction21/08/17 09:20 AM
1

Read THE GAME. It changed my life
/r/seduction30/06/17 06:09 AM
4

ABC Always Be Closing As you are having fun getting to know more about each other and talking, move it off tinder to text. On text find out where around town she is, what food and drinks she likes, and what cool stuff she wants to do but hasn't. Girl last week drove 1.5 hours to meet me for Sushi and learn about it (DHV date teaching her stuff she doesn't know) great drink that she had to try, and then the observatory where we saw Jupiter thru the telescope. Then my place to watch IT FOLLOWS. Sh…
/r/seduction29/06/17 02:48 PM
1

Another angle, shirtless followed them for 30 seconds as they walk away before she "punched" him https://youtu.be/UOl3jTbFZx4
/r/PussyPassDenied20/06/17 01:51 PM
2

How to handle flakes Bravo One of the most misunderstood and most difficult to overcome sticking points for new guys. Flakes The fear of the approach is so powerful, that it quickly filters out the guys who aren’t committed to learning this stuff. But new guys who have very little experience getting numbers and getting dates start encountering “flakes” and their resolve and self confidence can get a bit shaky. Lucky for you, I am going to break this down so you can instantly understand what is g…
/r/seduction29/03/17 04:11 AM
2

Correct There aren't 1-7 steps that can get you any girl. Just a way of thinking about the situation. It's like getting asked how to defend a rear naked choke, when the guy is sinking it in. (Which is a question I hear all the time in martial arts) Much easier to defend against it every step of the way BEFORE that point and the further along in the process, the harder it will be to recover.
/r/seduction17/01/17 08:24 AM
2

Well once you know text me, and if I'm not busy by then, we can try and make it work". Convey that you won't be sitting around waiting. But REALLY, what this tells me is you aren't building enough attraction/connection before. If you are having trouble at step 7, it's because steps 1-6 weren't done well. So when you run solid "game" this isn't an issue.
/r/seduction16/01/17 03:58 PM
-1

Idiot on twitter thinks their opinion matters and offers it without being asked. Welcome to the internet. Nothing to do with sex. Dumb cunts.
/r/MensRights09/10/16 02:23 PM
12

Then her life was ruined. She had to go to SAFE HOUSES and use burner phones. :) Dumb cunt https://www.wired.com/2016/02/cancelcolbert-what-happened/
/r/MensRights10/09/16 04:33 PM
8

"As you are all well aware, I am the one who spoke at the David Horowitz event this past Monday May 10, 2010. Allow me to begin by stating that I do NOT condone murder, I do NOT condone genocide, and I do NOT condone racism under any circumstance whatsoever against Jews or anyone else. These accusations are lies that I refuse to allow David Horowitz and his allies to perpetuate in their irresponsible and hateful smear campaign against those who disagree with or differ from them." "Towards the en…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/08/16 06:34 PM
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"As you are all well aware, I am the one who spoke at the David Horowitz event this past Monday May 10, 2010. Allow me to begin by stating that I do NOT condone murder, I do NOT condone genocide, and I do NOT condone racism under any circumstance whatsoever against Jews or anyone else. These accusations are lies that I refuse to allow David Horowitz and his allies to perpetuate in their irresponsible and hateful smear campaign against those who disagree with or differ from them." "Towards the en…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/08/16 06:34 PM
2

I don't like the term SHIT TEST. Just think of it as a congruency test. A real confident man, would have 0% trouble with a little something from the girl. But a guy who is PRETENDING to be cool and confident, cracks will eventually show thru. There are different way in handling them, and best to do so in YOUR style. The problem is you might not know your style yet. Example "Do you come up and say that to every girl you see? only the pretty ones -you're a girl? -if I feel like it -ya, sometimes -…
/r/seduction22/08/16 03:19 PM
111

Then she came out with a blog post later trying to claim things were taken out of context and she didn't do/say anything wrong.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/08/16 03:03 PM
1

Demonstrations of Higher Value Basically conveying you are awesome, but not in a jabroni/bragging way.
/r/seduction29/07/16 03:31 AM
1

it is, but it isn't just need to go the places and things that women will be at even if just WHOLE FOODS after work (or 1 hour after most get off work so girls can get a yoga class in THEN go shopping) Just have to think about it tactically and make moves to help you. Then it's simple!
/r/seduction28/07/16 06:50 PM
3

Great job getting good interactions with this. When guys start having these type of revelations, they really start seeing the matrix. Hi / hello is the UNIVERSAL OPENER. ANYTHING can be an opener. The opener is the smallest, but for many the hardest, piece of the puzzle. But once you get good at it, you realize what you SAY NEXT is really the part that matters. I figured out how to conversation steer towards cool topics, DHVs, or topics that she is into and hook. Then steer towards a DHV date sp…
/r/seduction28/07/16 02:49 PM
1

...
/r/seduction24/07/16 06:01 PM
0

All of this because you missed the point of an analogy? Again. Good luck with that mindset kid. You're arguing with a guy you don't know, about something over your head, on the Internet. Let me know when you do an AMA here or start running/charging for your advice. I would love to see more of this. :)
/r/seduction23/07/16 10:21 PM
0

again, just proving my point Me= one of the FEW legit guys who has been teaching this for years, trying to offer some insight to the question, and I get a cunt like response like that from you. It also shows how much you still have left to learn kid. Good luck with your negative numbers game mindset!
/r/seduction23/07/16 08:46 PM
0

it also isn't about chips and cards...it's an analogy. =and this is a great example of what I said above, I offer some advice and galactic jabroni wants to argue instead of even trying to see my point....
/r/seduction23/07/16 07:27 AM
1

I dig!
/r/seduction23/07/16 07:25 AM
1

I only have 3 rules on my forum, and it seems to have worked pretty well for last 6 years. Rule #1 Don't spam or use the forum to promote your shitty PUA products Rule #2 Don't be a dickhole Rule #3 No Girls Some may not like rule 3. But I've been around too long, and seen too many newbies listen to a girl JIST because she's a chick. Or fall for her. In my exp. I've never met 1 girl who can REALLY teach this stuff.
/r/seduction22/07/16 06:04 PM
0

Me? But I also say that a solid PUA is like a professional poker player. He can win a pot with a hand that another guy would lose with... So it's NOT just a numbers game. It's a skills game.
/r/seduction22/07/16 04:30 PM
2

We try. Then guys want to start arguing with us. It gets old FAST. What's the motivation for a LEGIT guy to stick around? AND this topic is another good point for why. No-namers spamming it almost all the time= conveys the quality of the group. Why even be part of a group that allows this? I have my own forum and site, for me to want to volunteer my time...has to be a good reason.
/r/seduction22/07/16 04:28 PM
1

I embraced and practiced at, all the things I wanted to be good at= and wasnt. Success breeds confidence Got good with guns and knives (and now teach) Got good at picking up chicks (and now teach that and so much more) and never would have believed it, but going thru all of the rough parts to get to where I am now= was the MOST FUN AND ENJOYABLE part of my life! I am currently searching for something else I suck and am scared of, to enjoy the process again with.
/r/seduction10/05/16 07:19 PM
1

Only because you take it that way. I took it as an accomplishment. I also knew that the minutes, hours, days, weeks, and years of being alone was MORE painful
/r/seduction02/05/16 12:54 AM
7

Also the few seconds of awkwardness can lead to sex or a girlfriend. Or at least you can look yourself in the mirror as a man for trying.
/r/seduction30/04/16 03:20 PM
48

Once it clicked in my head that NOT APPROACHING was worse than approaching, my AA disappeared. What's worse. A few seconds of awkwardness. Or hour and hours of pain and regret? You miss 100% of the shots you don't take -Wayne Gretzky Never let the fear of striking out prevent you from stepping up to the plate. Babe Ruth
/r/seduction30/04/16 03:19 PM
2

You have probably already read enough. I read THE GAME and got good. Then read more later. You don't get solid by reading and reading. Just like you don't learn to swim by reading and thinking about it. So highly suggest you go out and practice 95% more than you read.
/r/seduction28/04/16 08:18 AM
2

Of course But OF COURSE having your life and shit squared away= a game multiplier. I remember years ago watching old interview with Kevin Bacon, he said that he got more girls when he was a poor bartender and would bang them in the back stock room then he did when he became an actor.
/r/seduction15/04/16 05:54 PM
2

I've had lots of guys tell me about doing this....but it never made sense to me. Go out and REALLY try. You WILL get rejected enough, at the beginning, no need to actively seek it. and practice makes permanent, so why even install that into muscle memory.... makes 0% sense to me AND all the guys who went out and did this, never really got good later...
/r/seduction31/03/16 06:16 PM
1

A confident man knows he looks good. So it's easy to just accept a complement. Just like someone saying its a nice day. Thank you and smile. It's only when someone tells you something you DONT believe that the true insecurity comes out. Wow. I love you hair REALLY? I just woke up and ran out the door and didn't even have time to do it...I thought it was looking horrible.
/r/seduction18/03/16 06:07 PM
1

BravoPUA.com
/r/seduction17/03/16 04:12 PM
1

Or they all could be correct, depending on the circumstances. Life is dynamic unfolding chaos. Learn to thrive in this chaos. It's like a UFC fight. Something that could be the PERFECT MOVE/counter at a specific millisecond in time, can be the exact worse thing to do .02 seconds later. And another round or another fight/with different fighters= completely different situation again. One fighters goal is to take it to the ground. Another a head kick. All we can do is train. Train for different sit…
/r/seduction16/03/16 07:30 AM
1

Not if you get some cool pics Then girls message you first. Source= me
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:11 PM
1

your GUT got you to where you were try NEW things, things you are almost 100% sure won't work, step out of your comfort zone THEN when you have leveled up from experience, then start trusting your GUT 4 levels of mastery and you are still at step 2...so by definition shouldn't trust your GUT -and of course this doesnt apply to anything illegal
/r/seduction14/03/16 06:57 PM
1

Are you a big fat skipper?
/r/seduction14/03/16 04:05 PM
-1

Or I can coach/post the way I like. I didn't tell you how to post. I also don't tell guys what they want to hear. I tell them what they NEED to hear. Men thank me Boys get their feeling hurt. :(
/r/seduction14/03/16 03:51 PM
-1

I gave him what he needed to hear. Many (usually those who CANT do what I do) love to tell me how I SHOULD coach. Oh and chicks, chicks love to tell me how I should coach guys as well. Interesting enough, neither can actually successfully do it.
/r/seduction14/03/16 03:50 PM
-2

My forum on my site. Few thousand. All word of mouth 0% advertising for it and my events (my own successful company for 6+ years) This is my job not a side hobby, like all but a handful of coaches. Before that Stylelife forum with 100,000+ members. :)
/r/seduction14/03/16 03:48 PM
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I usually wait for the guy to understand what I'm pointing out, then ASK for some advice, before I give it to them. Otherwise, I've learned from years of teaching this stuff, that usually the advice and my time, will be wasted. (However, every point I covered IS actually advice for those smart enough to get it) I also get tired of posts like this here, and I my forum. Where a guy runs weak game, causes a bad interaction, then tries to inspire other guys. When he really should just worry about wh…
/r/seduction14/03/16 02:30 PM
0

"Excuse me" = weak Then a awkward line about covering her name tag? Then no smooth follow up when she called you out on hitting on her friend. And shitting where you eat Ya, guys BE CAREFUL If you do all this weak shit, you might make a girl uncomfortable!
/r/seduction14/03/16 02:09 PM
2

It's funny to think back to/talk about now. But damn...did it suck. Fortunately we learned from this, and can laugh at guys who do it now. ;)
/r/seduction08/03/16 04:30 PM
-2

Fuck her Cut her off and don't accept this shitty behavior anymore And wrote a whole blog post about this http://bravopua.com/blog/2014/04/28/how-to-handle-flakes/
/r/seduction08/03/16 02:45 PM
43

Wonder if they will charge her with murder, like they did in that college case where the gay guy was filmed doing some gay stuff, then the roommate and another showed people the video-they were charged. -and of course they won't.
/r/MensRights08/03/16 02:37 PM
2

So level up your pics! You can't expect awesome results with shit work you put in. It's easy to dial in. Once you understand it. I legit just posted like 5 screen shots from last few days, of hot chicks messaging my first in Casanova Crew FB group the other day. I'm a bit above average in looks, but the cool shit I've spent time investing and leading. Clearly is conveyed in my pics. So if you aren't a awesome product yet, then make yourself one and the pics will naturally convey that. ...but tha…
/r/seduction03/03/16 04:20 PM
3

Wrong About me section is key Pics get you a look. About me gets you a message. Watch my Online Game video from the 21 Convention on YouTube. Tons of guys without great pics, get laid with it. And free!
/r/seduction02/03/16 07:23 AM
2

I had a handful of hot chicks message me first on tinder in the last few days. I never get approached by women Both are awesome. If you can pull them off. Also your success rate is shit Must mean your game is also shit. Level it up and watch both numbers increase!
/r/seduction02/03/16 05:02 AM
1

VU I see it all the time. Unfortunately...
/r/seduction22/02/16 05:11 AM
1

I wish you all the happiness and success you deserve.
/r/seduction22/02/16 05:10 AM
1

Bravo Cracking the code to online dating http://youtu.be/65fRrFJnrBg Over 100,000+ views. = it has brought me tons of customers. :D
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:19 AM
8

She bribed him And that doesn't excuse her behavior, or would be a choice of a man did this
/r/MensRights21/01/16 04:43 PM
34

She assaulted him She destroyed his property He was justified in hitting her and didn't When she cried, she was let go That's the pussy pass you dumb fuck
/r/MensRights21/01/16 04:24 PM
1

Watch both vids in link 2nd one. She explains what she did and why. Maybe that's why she doesn't show any remorse in first vid. IF true
/r/PussyPassDenied18/01/16 03:15 PM
0

I know. I'm taser instructor certified. Them TRYING to use the taser shows they tried to stop him before shooting him. So. Could be justified.
/r/MensRights17/01/16 12:48 AM
16

Big football player, 2:30am "The woman inside answered, thinking it was her husband coming home late from work. When she saw Ferrell, she shut the door and called police. Monroe said he didn't think the unarmed Ferrell made threats. Officers responding to the breaking and entering call found Ferrell on a road that only leads to the neighborhood's pool. Ferrell ran toward the officers, who tried to stop him with a Taser. Police said he continued to run toward them when Kerrick shot him. Ferrell d…
/r/MensRights16/01/16 02:49 PM
0

Or Speaking from exp on dealing with negative thinking dudes who get into pick up... It's all connected. The same mindset that thinks talking shit about someone they don't know. Someone trying to do good. Is the same negative thinking that's causing other issues in your life and making it difficult with women. I know that first hand. If talking shit about me makes any of you feel better. Go for it. Doesn't phase me. :)
/r/seduction06/01/16 10:56 PM
1

Havent read, but when I saw emotional vomit, I popped in to help. Some, not all a little not a lot no one needs to hear all your past BS, it doesnt help at ALL -even if you think it might help, to get it "out there" it doesnt and is just sad Hypnotica- "step into a moment of vulnerability" a moment that is it too much= vomiting
/r/seduction06/01/16 05:46 PM
1

They are MOVIES!!! Are Steve Segal movies real? They were written by, or FOR, women! Vince Vaughn in Swingers is a better movie and character to model than romantic comedy BS!
/r/seduction06/01/16 05:44 PM
0

Funny to some. Awesome to others. So sad that random guys take the time to post negative shit about a guy they don't know who's just trying to help others. And you guys wonder why you have problems with women and life...
/r/seduction06/01/16 04:35 PM
-11

My girlfriend, the thousands of guys on my forum, the hundreds of thousands of guys I coached in person or online throughout the years, and all the PUA legends from The Game, all think I am pretty cool. I am crushed that a random guy on reddit thinks my hair and body is not up to his standard. -and I was crowned the resident alpha male when teaching for Style, because of the whole firearms/tactical, martial arts, cage fight thing I use to do before pick up...
/r/seduction06/01/16 12:46 AM
0

That's one door, the other would be put those things on hold for a few days and make enough money to buy a house and the car. Sick days, play hooky, quit, and I've gone a few days without sleep when needed. It's all in how bad you want something, how much value it has (and when you do the math 100 bucks an approach adds up FAST) -and lastly, it's a teaching point, but good waste of time picking out one part to be a negative bitch about
/r/seduction06/01/16 12:43 AM
2

Sure! Go here and get some coaching. http://bravopua.com/blog/coaching/
/r/seduction05/01/16 08:31 PM
7

I just gave you a few examples. Just make up some more. Then change them up Don't be lazy!
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:49 PM
44

When I started out, I'd set a different goal each night. Eg. 10 approaches one night 2 SOLID number closes another night Deep isolation with one girl and try to build a deep connection one night. An infield make out another Originally I did this because I wanted to challenge myself and I got bored just doing 10 approaches each night. I figured out later, by having different goals each night, my tactics and screening skills were totally different. Which then helped me develop a complete skillet t…
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:56 PM
169

During a bootcamp, number closed a chick by having her write her name and number on my hand. Next set, girl I've talked to for only a few mins, thinks I don't notice....she very naturally puts her thumb up to her mouth and wets it. Several seconds later she tries to wipe the number off my hand with her spit. When I ask her what the hell she's doing and how nasty that is AND that its permanent marker She says "You shouldn't call that girl you should get my number and call ME!" Your thinking like …
/r/seduction05/01/16 02:20 PM
1

:)
/r/seduction04/01/16 08:01 PM
1

Sorry let me clarify. 10 years professionally teaching pick up. Me= A great coach, a great example, and most importantly a great friend and mentor to every student -Neil Strauss ( Style ) To say that Bravo has “skills” as a Dating Coach or as an engaging and articulate seminar speaker is an understatement. His presentation, at my –Becoming A Powerful Man Workshop, was filled with so much user-friendly material and practical advice that anyone could start using the information to immediately impr…
/r/seduction04/01/16 08:00 PM
1

Been there. 10 years teaching pick up. Most guys don't.
/r/seduction04/01/16 06:12 PM
2

Friends have to WANT to join in. Most guys don't. That's their choice.
/r/seduction04/01/16 05:49 PM
10

You have to calibrate. You aren't taking your friends emotions and needs into account. You found a new toy and want to play with it and they think the new behavior (especially if you aren't GOOD at pick up yet) is weird /creepy. The way I did it= Don't talk about fight club Practice with PUA wings and sarge at places you normally don't hang at. Then when I got good and it was just naturally happening all the time, friends and acquaintances would all say they noticed I've changed. I'm now confide…
/r/seduction04/01/16 05:49 PM
2

If going direct, yes it should. That is the difference between direct game and indirect game. Direct you are planning an enough of your passive and instant value to carry you thru, to disarm he trained rejection responses, and the fact that you are DHVing so much by going direct (which most guys don't have the balls to do) that it will get her interested in you. When you have this dialed in, you can pick up girls with the universal owner, or even with something like a wink. Which I have. Higher …
/r/seduction29/12/15 03:43 PM
1

Funny But then your are removing your SOI and the part that is making it clear what your intentions are. Aka direct game.
/r/seduction29/12/15 03:15 AM
6

Id cut out some of the fluff ""Hi, I saw you, and to be honest you are very beautiful so I wanted to introduce myself. My name is heretogetbetter..." (extend hand)"
/r/seduction28/12/15 11:11 PM
2

it all just depends..... but here is a blog post I wrote about this a bit ago, and a video of me demo'ing a DHV story (with DHV spikes breakdowns) from a Stylelife conference I taught at.
/r/seduction24/12/15 07:02 PM
1

Interesting to you. Or to them? Just like Chris Rock tweaks his jokes for his audience (eg a SONY Xmas party vs The Apollo theater full of black people who will laugh at his N jokes) You should tweak the story for your audience. Sometimes parts I think are small and pointless are the DHV spikes that hit the hardest. Other times, because I know a girl is into certain things, I stress other points of the story. One of the hardest things I had to learn about storytelling. Is we aren't giving a swor…
/r/seduction24/12/15 04:05 PM
1

I agree. And the way I talk to people NOW is different than the way I'd talk to them a few years ago.
/r/seduction17/12/15 05:02 AM
2

Good example But just being"yourself" in that moment is too limiting. Becoming a better version of yourself, one the girl might actually want to get to know, and one with more than just one friend on the other side, and multiple other hallways to other awesome things= is more of the point of my post.
/r/seduction16/12/15 04:17 PM
1

From my post- "Being “yourself” is an evolving and ever changing reality. I am still ME 20 years after hearing this, I am just an older, wiser, tougher, better looking, and more confident version of myself now. 😀" There are different variations of "being yourself" the key is to become the BEST version of yourself you can.
/r/seduction16/12/15 04:14 PM
1

Posted this last night, and getting some positive responses already, so thought I would share here as well, which I normally don't do. Wish someone taught me this years ago...
/r/seduction16/12/15 03:01 PM
1

I didn't get "men in general" from "large swath"
/r/MensRights14/12/15 09:40 PM
1

You don't have to be those things to "talk to women" But you do if you want to attract and have sex with them. And yes, TONS of guys who get into this stuff are "creepy" and are trying to instead learn how to be "cool". Source- I've taught this stuff for almost 10 years professionally.
/r/MensRights10/12/15 03:56 PM
18

The girl kicked her And it was more of a head push kick
/r/PussyPassDenied02/12/15 01:06 AM
2

Links to original vids of dumb feminists saying this at UN?
/r/MensRights29/09/15 03:47 PM
6

Wrong. Been married and divorced. What got me into pick up. Had a girl that I loved before moving to Hollywood to work for Style. 1 when I worked for Stylelife. And 1 now, I've been dating for almost 3 years. Just moved to a new city with her. I've loved. Been loved. And love. What I'm not is a little AFC bitch who ruins someone's wedding by only thinking about myself and how much of a pussy I am. :)
/r/seduction27/09/15 04:19 AM
18

In the seduction section. You should know. Or at least know how to google it. Read THE GAME Average Frustrated Chump
/r/seduction26/09/15 03:43 PM
88

Horrible move for a "friend" to pull on her wedding! Making it about you instead of her and her husband. Total AFC bitch move. Don't post advice, you aren't qualified to give any.
/r/seduction26/09/15 03:04 PM
2

Impossible. You can't become the best version of yourself without learning the skills you would acquire from approaching and dating some chicks.
/r/seduction19/09/15 03:19 AM
6

No means NO you dumb cunts
/r/PussyPassDenied17/09/15 02:05 AM
2

I'm very fortunate. I made it and it's awesome. But so many guys try..and just can't. But being my own boss. Traveling. Helping others. Invited to 3 weddings already this year. I'm in a very happy place in my life. :)
/r/seduction01/08/15 04:14 AM
2

BravoPUA But best /most helpful thing I do is my blog and forum. Thousands of guys on it. 100% free. 0 ads And many of my guys have said my FREE forum taught them more than paying the other guys...
/r/seduction23/07/15 04:55 PM
6

Amazing adventures. Teaching Pick Up internationally Working with all the top guys. New career for last 9+ years. And coolest GF I've ever had, moving to dream city next month with her. So= :D
/r/seduction20/07/15 05:05 AM
1

Easily could have brought up the FACEBOOK STALKER opener in the book. Asked them their thoughts on it. (Then told me how well my routine worked for ya. ) :D But seriously would play it safe with drunk chicks. Can cause a lot of problems later..
/r/seduction20/07/15 05:02 AM
5

Be a charming ass mother fucker. If you already are, double it. A rising tide raises all ships. Use their looks to help you, then be 10x more awesome than them!
/r/seduction16/07/15 02:58 PM
1

A rising tide raises all ships. If he isn't helping you rise, he's helping you sink. I'd talk to him. Make it clear that you don't think this is cool. Also that it makes him look like a POS friend in front of strangers because he DLVs you. If he doesn't change his ways. Cut him out.
/r/seduction02/07/15 02:15 PM
1

make sure your browser is going to the full link maybe cut and paste just testing in incognito mode, works think thats why guys DV you http://bravopua.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=12023
/r/seduction26/06/15 02:49 PM
31

Works for me...my site. It's up
/r/seduction26/06/15 12:17 AM
-2

:)
/r/seduction25/06/15 09:09 PM
1

you OPEN with 5 oceans, not with a "Hi I thought" opener
/r/seduction23/06/15 04:35 AM
1

5 oceans opener...first time I heard it I thought it was shit. Then we tested it. It is not the go to canned opener I teach, because it works so well. Anyone who rips on it, hasnt tested it, or isnt good enough to make it work.
/r/seduction23/06/15 04:35 AM
4

I teach my guys, at the start, to start steering the convo to a DHV topic. But first you have to transition. I teach 3 ways. But here are 2 you can practice. 1 linear. This is the one you can plan out ahead of time. Eg 5 oceans. Then transition into how they changed the name of the last ocean to southern/ so things we learned in school are wrong now. Like Pluto is no longer a planet. Planets-astrology and then DHV about astrology and your sign/cold read her sign. Or Cut n go Which is just stoppi…
/r/seduction22/06/15 03:45 PM
108

Guys are like dogs. A girl can say or pretend she will take us for a walk and we get all excited. And they can do it daily and it still works!
/r/seduction17/06/15 02:16 PM
2

Smile and enjoy the show! -then make fun of him later with her. :)
/r/seduction16/06/15 02:59 PM
14

Also those sites didn't fail you. You failed yourself.
/r/seduction12/06/15 05:58 AM
1

With numbers like that your profile sucks. Your pics probably really suck. First rule in my online game program is= online game is NOT a replacement for cold approach pick up. So because you suck at cold approach, you probably think online is the way to go...but tons of other guys had the same idea and you are getting grouped in with them (from the woman's perspective). So test different angles in your about me, in another area if you don't want to burn your town. Think about each pic you post a…
/r/seduction12/06/15 05:57 AM
-1

I always assume she's single, or will recognize that I'm cooler and want to dump him for me. Worked for 7+ years and 0 black eyes. :)
/r/seduction11/06/15 03:22 PM
1

hence the JOKE! FM
/r/MensRights04/06/15 09:05 PM
0

That's 2 strikes then! Very easy to google me and see pics. I'm legit. :)
/r/MensRights04/06/15 02:29 PM
-5

Nice moral high horse- spell checker- hope that works well for you.
/r/MensRights04/06/15 04:19 AM
-8

Thousands of guys I've coached across the world, many who are my forum, disagree. :)
/r/MensRights04/06/15 02:32 AM
-2

It's reddit...
/r/MensRights04/06/15 01:10 AM
-10

I'm also a firearms and edged weapons instructor...use to people not getting the way I think. -multiple students of mine have had their lives ruined by false rape accusations, I also have been personally attacked by crazy feminists because I teach guys to be awesome and to get laid. Didn't think anyone HERE would take issue with that...
/r/MensRights04/06/15 12:46 AM
-12

I can touch my toes...and co founded a yoga studio here in Phx
/r/MensRights04/06/15 12:35 AM
-52

To be fair...a male yoga instructor would probably invite underage boys into the room :)
/r/MensRights03/06/15 07:59 PM
4

I've seen it first hand ruin a few lives of guys I know /coached. Scared me so much I put a security camera in my apartment to back up my story- if ever needed. Still have all pics/vids it's ever taken!
/r/MensRights02/06/15 02:20 PM
0

Fuck a handful of them. PROVE it is wrong
/r/seduction26/05/15 03:31 PM
3

I'm in Rules of The Game (and thanked in back). It's OK. The Game opened my eyes. And there is actually a lot of pick up theory in it. Which I noticed the 2nd time I read it. Once I knew I could fly- I sarged. Going out 3-4 nights a week. Up until 2-3am debriefing after. THAT is what taught me. Guys always ask about what books to read. Me chiming in saying I only read The Game and SOME of Mystery's book is my way of trying to convey don't worry so much about the book. Focus more on practice. Tha…
/r/seduction21/05/15 10:25 PM
5

I read THE GAME and some of Mystery's first book. Think it's-how to attract beautiful women. Then I went and did work, which really is the key to how I made it. If I can make it to where I am, anyone can. :D
/r/seduction21/05/15 06:36 PM
1

didn't say NOT to contact women..just that when you dial in your page women will come to you
/r/seduction18/05/15 03:39 PM
-3

They are pretty awesome once you figure them out. Dial in your page. Cool/funny/short about me. Cool DHV pics And women will come to YOU First rule of my Online Dating program= online dating is NOT a replacement for cold approach pick up! https://youtu.be/Bnb5iX9aunc Full talk from 21 Convention. Enjoy -edit, this is just a link to 21 talk, not my chanel, not selling anything, just full vid that quite a few guys have watched and got some good intel from :)
/r/seduction18/05/15 02:47 PM
2

Send it IF you want her to think you are a giant pussy.
/r/seduction07/05/15 12:29 AM
2

"If you're already a PUA Coach on here, instead of promoting yourself, perhaps instead tell us who you respect as a coach that is not yourself." I really never have promoted myself- 0% adds, 0% affiliate, just do my thing Simple way to see who is good/legit in the PUA world= MY Facebook page! If they are someone I comment on their stuff, they comment on my stuff, and pics of us hanging out = then I think they are stand up guys. Pricing= speaking for myself- I moved to another state, volunteered …
/r/seduction05/05/15 09:41 PM
11

It true. I was hanging out with the 3 of them in Vegas a few months ago. They all seemed quite happy and I wish the the best. :)
/r/seduction16/04/15 04:54 AM
1

I wrote this about flakes several months ago. http://bravopua.com/blog/2014/04/28/how-to-handle-flakes/
/r/seduction15/04/15 12:13 AM
1

Hope all the years I spent picking up chicks online, and the tips I learned. Can help you on your journey. :)
/r/seduction29/01/15 09:44 PM
1

Gareth Jones and I just discussed this in Vegas a few days ago. Right after my talk at Johnny Soporno's Successfulness talk http://youtu.be/9-Ql50u3PVk Vid isn't even on my account. But think this has some helpful stuff in it. Including what I said to my future GF who I met online. :)
/r/seduction29/01/15 04:31 PM
7

Shit test = congruency test. She is seeing if you REALLY are a cool and confident guy who can handle her. You getting annoyed/bothered by this, clearly shows that you aren't. You should react the same way to this, as a 3 year old calling you a poopy head. It should roll right off of you. It affected you because your inner game isn't squared away yet. How would Brad Pitt or Leo DiCaprio respond to this?
/r/seduction06/01/15 04:43 PM
2

agreed!
/r/seduction04/01/15 01:03 AM
2

Hopefully this gets a lot of attention, Zan is a GREAT guy and gives awesome advice/insight. I always try to catch his talks.
/r/seduction04/01/15 01:02 AM
1

That is one route. When I was 18 (and younger) that is NOT the route I took...and I did pretty well. Fast forward 10 years and I'm still a man who isn't trying to be coy with my intentions, and teaching pick up for Style across the US. (And 4+ year doing it solo) But what do I know...
/r/seduction28/08/14 12:19 AM
7

yes do EXACTLY this controlling the frame and making it CLEAR that you are sexually interested in her, and that is the way you want the iteration to go is what a confident man does... -letter her live in the illusion that "cuddle party USA" is cool in your book- is AFC, much better to let her know whats up, and then either make it happen, or not waste any more of your time
/r/seduction27/08/14 06:37 PM
8

Make your intentions clear earlier. Don't allow it to be a cuddle night- in her head, then try to change it.
/r/seduction27/08/14 05:24 PM
1

It's the only (creepy) approach available (with this one girl) ATM. If I told you I would give you 100 dollars for each approach you did in the next 48 hours. You could make yourself a millionaire. Instead you can gain something worth more than money. Self confidence and a future mother of your children (or multiple dirty sluts, whatever floats your boat...or both). Too bad you are focusing on THIS ONE GIRL, who you already blew multiple shots with. Stop living in the past. Live in the now and g…
/r/seduction27/08/14 03:56 PM
2

Should have done the foundation work before. Been cool, touching base with her_etc. Swooping in now is super AFC, and don't want to be of those guys. Run into her, be awesome, and invite her to something cool= the way I'd do it. Also don't use social media for online gaming, using online dating sites/apps. Lastly, thinking about "this one girl" is again, super AFC and coming from a pussy scarcity mindset.
/r/seduction27/08/14 03:22 PM
1

Figure out other options besides just going out LATE at night. Even if it is just hitting the mall for a pack of socks from H&M, you can do 10-20 approaches easy, then head home. When I worked for Stylelife (before starting my own thing) I would try and make the effort to do something every day, that would allow me to meet some hotties. Most of the time that was just hitting THE GROVE, or a Whole Foods. Or it could be a cool coffee shop or sushi bar that gets busy during happy hour. The only way…
/r/seduction07/08/14 07:09 AM
1

again, assuming you know WHAT I teach you don't Just like a different martial art style. Similarly to what Steve P. teaches, guys with 0% real experience think they can sum it up by saying he makes chicks squirt. But once I actually was there in person and helped out at a class, I realized how much more there was. Just like when I did a Systema seminar with Vlad. A shame to have an ego that prevents you from accepting that. Getting mine in check (eg. marital arts after doing BJJ and a few cage f…
/r/seduction26/04/14 05:42 PM
1

I don't "show guys all the techniques..." I help them along the path of finding and being their best self. "competence breeds confidence" I help them become competent and prepare them for any of those ego jabs they might encounter, which then helps them develop their confidence simple concept and easy to see from the guys on my forum= works again, you really don't know what I am about or how I teach, so assuming that I am like the other guys you think you know about (how many of them have you ac…
/r/seduction26/04/14 05:01 AM
1

thanks...I guess? the big red flag on this for you should be...if allllll the other stuff I talk about makes sense and you agree (tactical martial arts etc) maybe I am right about this stuff? my perspective on this was forged from years of teaching pick up professionally, fulltime for Style. more than any of the other PUA coaches do (bootcamp here, new DVD launch to make some $$) I have more hours coaching pick up under my belt than most guys will ever get in their lives. Just because you (and I…
/r/seduction26/04/14 12:44 AM
1

22 years of LEGIT pick up experience, or 22 years of chasing tail? Krav Maga is neat stuff...but not even close to a BJJ/Kali mix IMO -I've been paid to teach guys like FBI+ DEA SWAT how to kill people with a knife, stick, or belt + tie (flexible weapons course here in AZ, back a few years when they were flying over to some of the 'stans and were wanting to know how to fight if their hands were bound because they were taken hostage) Shooting once a month= awesome, probably better than most cops …
/r/seduction25/04/14 11:59 PM
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You are trying to read WAY too much into what I am typing. Not trying to sell anything or imply that I could could anyone's ass. Simply stating my unique background give added weight to my perspective. Pick Up is VERY similar to learning martial arts or tactical shooting - if you did either you would see the similarities. But since you clearly DON'T, another analogy I use is saying it is like playing a musical instrument. Learning how to properly HOLD a guitar, and strum 1 string is something a …
/r/seduction25/04/14 08:12 PM
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where is the sales pitch? I'm allowed to have an opinion on this stuff and the best way to learn. I am speaking from...9 years of personal exp in the PUA world, the top level of that world. That is just a fact and me adding that to the post isn't me pitching. A sales pitch would be me trying to link to my stuff, saying guys need it, offering a reddit discount, then when guys go to my page, having some annoying pop up. Guy's who want to work with me in person have to apply to. So me stating facts…
/r/seduction25/04/14 07:22 PM
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Then you must live in some crazy place where vh1 shows those episodes again and again...or a bar that a few wannabe PUAs are over sarging. That is not the norm, I have gone, and demo classic lines all the time and never get called out or see students get called out- just to disprove what you are saying. Have done from NY to LA. If it ever happens just transition to " I didn't think that stuff worked, but just had to try it....what do you guys think about that stuff?" And plow on. A bunch of guys…
/r/seduction25/04/14 03:20 PM
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did it REALLY get overused or did it just get talked about so much that people think it is overused? from MY perspective, when you actually read what Mystery defines it as (which he did again in the above link on my FB page) you could call negging- friendly ball busting the real issue is insecure guys with 0% calibration, read about it, went out and started dropping neg bombs, and were calling themselves PUAs(when they didn't actually have any LEGIT training) and now it has a bad rap. when we we…
/r/seduction25/04/14 08:27 AM
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Things that new guys (or we had to) learn aren't retarded when you need them. They can be looked at with disdain, once you don't need them anymore. But AFC thinking isn't there yet- so breaking things down can still help THEM with that said- negging= straight from the horses mouth https://www.facebook.com/BravoPUA/posts/657990877566795?comment_id=6769445&offset=0&total_comments=6 "And neg is a statement or action to briefly disqualify oneself from being considered a potential suitor. The result …
/r/seduction25/04/14 01:21 AM
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dig down deep and find your motivation I was WAY lower than you, and because my motivation was so strong, I never once doubted this journey. Posting a link to the blog post I wrote about this years ago, don't want to copy/paste the whole thing here (first time I've done this here) So what is your motivation? http://bravopua.com/blog/2010/03/18/so-what-is-your-motivation/
/r/seduction04/04/14 12:34 AM
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And I'm sure you're ones of those guys who always has to get the last word...
/r/seduction23/02/14 03:46 AM
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That's one theory Another is I am legit and what I do works... Occam's razor
/r/seduction22/02/14 11:00 PM
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Nope- I had just been studying SHIT and he wasn't locked into the limited paradigm I was It was actually one of the coolest A-HA moments of my life! By the end of the class I was back to being better- like IT SHOULD BE!!! ;) I don't make anything up- do some poking around, my word is solid and my bond and to clarify again, I said I committed years to it, THEN took a course, THEN committed MORE years to training- and now help teach SWAT guys and shit. It wasn't a poor leap of logic, it was poor r…
/r/seduction22/02/14 03:04 PM
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thats how quite a few guys business model operates and they charge accordingly for it then there are guy...LEGIT guys...guys who have cool shit they have developed themselves, that isn't publicly available - let alone FREE, who can then charge what they feel is fair for that knowledge. (I being one of them) It's the same as a guy training with Rickson Gracie, then the best knife fighters, then the best stick fighter, then the best strikers and then have a legit fighting record of their own- who …
/r/seduction22/02/14 02:59 PM
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I could see how that could read a bit confusing. What I was trying to convey was= I could have spent years on my own trying to figure out how it works, or, attend a class where a pro would teach me all that shit - what would have taken me years to figure out- in a few days I took the class, and it legit saved me YEARS of training. I don't post too much around here...so assume you guys would see other posts in this thread by me like this one http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1y9owp/i_jus…
/r/seduction22/02/14 02:45 PM
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spend the years that I did building the rep I have, and maybe you have a shot...but I doubt it.
/r/seduction22/02/14 06:21 AM
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my follow up comment= I was joking
/r/seduction22/02/14 06:20 AM
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it was an analogy- I didn't do it and actually said "(and not something I would ever purchase)" so scratching my head at how you got to that conclusion and for the record.... I spent a few YEARS studying aiki-jujitsu and ken-jitsu basically the forerunner to aikido...samurai style martial arts then I took a 2 day edged weapon course at Gunsite, got paired up with an old guy to do some knife sparring (padded knives going basically 100%) I was thinking to myself...I am going to mop the floor with …
/r/seduction22/02/14 06:17 AM
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"if you're trying to tell me that your weekend seminar at Apache Joe's knife fighting school taught you how to fight as well as someone who's been training for years, you're not only an idiot, but you've demonstrated that you're incredibly easy to sell to." where the hell did you get that from what I said was this "Sayoc Kali does a similar thing- 10 hours of training for $3,000, with 1 of 2 of the head guys To YOU that might be crazy...and to many others...but to someone who is serious about it…
/r/seduction22/02/14 06:08 AM
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good rule to live by in life! -and further proves that getting rid of TV and just streaming or torrenting the shows I want= smart move! :)
/r/seduction22/02/14 01:17 AM
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I've only seen the commercials but isn't DeVry a better choice than most 4 year degrees???
/r/seduction22/02/14 01:16 AM
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I don't charge anyone $20,000 dollars to learn from me. if you are going to try and have an adult discussion about this, please at least attempt to be honest and accurate or are you just another anonymous internet poster who just wants to throw in their (uneducated) 2 cents and run? I will assume it's not the latter -maybe because I come from a tactical / martial arts background...I never questioned this. it's very simple- if someone has a skillset that someone else wants to learn, you have to p…
/r/seduction22/02/14 01:12 AM
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couldn't the same argument be made for ANY skillset that people take time to learn? and to clarify, the stuff in my brain isn't stuff that you can just figure out on your own..some of it= of course, that is how I did it. But I also spent a LOT of time and $$ learning all the stuff I have, and skipping ahead of the learning curve Me travelling the ...WORLD to practice this stuff. Maxing out 2 credit cards. Moving to LA to work for Style...and put up with some pretty crazy stuff... While working t…
/r/seduction21/02/14 10:17 PM
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You get what you pay for When you compare the feedback I get from the guys I work with, and my resume....not too many guys who can even come close... :)
/r/seduction21/02/14 04:38 PM
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Want to build confidence? Competence builds confidence do the things you aren't confident about, step out of your comfort zone, keep doing them, get advice/feedback from others when you need it, keep doing it...do it better and then you will be confident that confidence spills over from 1 container into other containers in your life...and pretty soon you are a confident mother fucker :)
/r/seduction12/02/14 03:32 PM
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"they always seem to do" who?? a few guys on youtube crazy to think that is something that is super common -instead of asking about it, you should go out and test it for yourself
/r/seduction12/02/14 03:29 PM
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just saw this -why not work on that stuff and pick up? going to the salon or going shopping really only takes a few hours out of your week tips? go to places that have cool clothes or people with style that you dig, then ask them to DO THEIR JOB AND HELP YOU with your hair and clothes they will ask them questions ask for advice and pay attention= what I did!
/r/seduction12/02/14 03:28 PM
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-this is legit my GF and after we talked about this thread last night, and saw this question this morning, thought it would be cool if she chimed in :D
/r/seduction23/10/13 08:55 PM
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;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 08:46 PM
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the way I use pick up on women, is just to convey my awesomeness in a smooth and non-creepy way, to help them realize that hanging out with me is a great thing if they pass- their loss! ;) -sociopath? does that mean you need to fake your own death and become a lumberjack?
/r/seduction23/10/13 04:59 PM
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thank you! I do my best ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 04:57 PM
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I joke posted on FB a bit ago how every PUA "intern" gets fucked over Because I'm not sleazy, am honest, a straight shooter, and can keep a secret= I have heard more fucking crazy stories about PUA coaches than I can keep straight! The shit I have heard about big name guys....fuck me I've heard and seem some crazy stuff...but 100% sure that the stories I have about my old boss...let's just say I have never lost when we compare crazy stories!
/r/seduction23/10/13 04:56 PM
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nope- was trying to get him an another guy who asked me about AA to role play a few things out and then I help him arrive to the same lessons I learned about crushing AA. I've been around the block I've seen how MANY other guys teach how to try and deal with AA. None of that shit ever worked for me, this did. Now 6+ years later I have never heard anyone else cover it the way I do. and was going to share it with him for free, if he just responded was trying to get him to invest in this exercise a…
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:13 PM
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1- GREAT name! 2 - my awesome girlfriend would beg to differ will see if she will chime in later I will say that I have had deeper, more caring, more honest relationships SINCE my divorce and getting into pick up, than before I actually am on speaking, good, or very good terms with quite a few girls I have dated Which was something that NEVER happened before pre-PUA days if a relationship ended then it was personal and screw them!!! now= we didn't work out, no big deal- wish them all the best! -…
/r/seduction23/10/13 06:56 AM
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I am NOT with Stylelife!!! I have a 100% free forum where I am the #1 poster on with TONS of other awesome guys on it join there if you want, dont spend a penny :)
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:49 AM
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just me but this might help http://bravopua.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=6620 TIPS ON LEADERSHIP from Bravo
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:48 AM
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"I(hopefully) will go to the mall tomorrow(If I don't chicken out)" fuck that make the choice RIGHT NOW to do this to go to the mall and open dont HOPEFULLY choose to do it tomorrow or while you are there sack up, use those balls swinging between your legs for once and COMMIT TO THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!! did that help?
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:46 AM
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make the choice right now to open at the mall not when you are THERE thats insane just like me going to IN&OUT right now I dont make the choice to eat a burger in the drive thru line I make it before I get in my motherfucking car!!!
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:32 AM
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I hear ya but copy/pasting "I'm not sure about you" to a handful of chicks on PoF while I am on my iPhone taking a dump then most of them responding 1-3 messages later doing a number exchange then meeting up with them is how I usually roll I even get them messaging me FIRST because of my profile THAT is what I am getting at being as efficient and effective as possible aka being lazy ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:30 AM
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I spent about 10 mins thinking about negs SUCH a small piece of the puzzle and that time would be spent better elsewhere IMO -and we really dont talk
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:28 AM
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hahaha!!! What was your forum name back then? there were a few guys that were hilarious, 1 in particular even had a few trolls that made me laugh my ass off -but to be honest ESP. at the start, a LOT of guys I banned- I was told to ban Someone else didn't want THEIR name behind a forum ban, so I was told to do the dirty work. A lot of shit that went down, especially with the launch of Stylelife and so many angry customers and threads on the forum back then...all could have been smoothed out by 1…
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:24 AM
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I am logical and honest so impossible! ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:18 AM
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"blow your mother fucking mind" ICP magnets joke ;) My filters do come down though after a few drinks....one BIG reason I dont drink around "students" the stuff that can spill out is worse than finding out the wizard is an old guy behind a curtain, or like letting a kid know Santa isn't real
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:17 AM
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Style "training us" never really happened We were hired as coaches and did our thing. Some of the marketing emails really rubbed me the wrong way and glad I don't do stuff like that. When things went down and a lot of us left some of us still talked and hung out Over the last few years, some of us have touched base with each other, have hung out with a few of them a few times and earcaraxe a lot (he did a AMA on here years ago) a little bit of it sucks because a few of the guys I really got alon…
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:15 AM
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actually Mystery was just on my FB page the other day and defined a proper neg https://www.facebook.com/BravoPUA/posts/657990877566795 "And neg is a statement or action to briefly disqualify oneself from being considered a potential suitor. The result of an neg is laughter. It is not an insult. They are used to build comfort with a girl, so that she knows you are not specifically interested in bedding her right away." - Mystery that is breaking negs down WAY more than I ever do how I look at it=…
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:07 AM
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quit making excuses you can afford 6 bucks a month for hosting- or worst case use wordpress's free site until you can get one or do what I did when I needed more money, work 2 jobs!
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:02 AM
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are you in a rush, I want to hit on you can work anywhere ;) not a fan of are you available to meet someone new girls dont fantasize about a guy saying that kind of shit one of my goals is to give her an experience that she can tell all of her girlfriends and make them jealous :D
/r/seduction23/10/13 03:01 AM
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I could care less about up/down votes was really just trying to use this as a chance to enlighten a few more who hate this stuff -like I said though, I don't blame them, most of it is bad->horrible
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:59 AM
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DEAL!
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:51 AM
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that works but have a feeling that the same amount of time and effort could reap BIGGER gains on a dating site
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:50 AM
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WHAT??? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CsbYx6hevoQ glad you dug it! ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:49 AM
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I was also around when he wrote some of his newer books I proof read a few I am thanked in the back of a few I KNOW how much is a story and what was left out once that clicked...I started re-thinking a lot of THE GAME then getting to know guys who are in it, hearing THEIR versions....WAY different picture but to be fair no one had a clue this shit would blow up like this the book isn't an encyclopedia and most of us wouldnt be here if it wasnt for that book :)
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:46 AM
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get a whiskey or 2 in me some time if we ever cross paths and wil blow your mother fucking MIND
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:44 AM
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love your response
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:43 AM
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easy way to see who I like is by seeing who I hang out with and comment back and forth with on my FB page. even though many of them dont like the PUA term Steve P is one of the guys I am closest too, great guy, knows his shit, White Tiger Tantra is fucking epic, and he was one of the first guys to ask me to speak at an outside event after going solo Steve P, Hypnotica and me on the same stage...pretty fucking awesome!
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:42 AM
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guys who have a 90% flake rate means they are just doing a numbers game that works, but not my style who is better, the PUA who approaches 20 sets in 1 night, gets 10 numbers, gets 5 on the phone and then gets 3 dates and has sex with 1 of them or the other guy who does 1-2 approaches then rails her? I have a LR on my forum, BRAVO HAD AA (last time I called it AA) 11pm at night, I just finished a BJJ class, smelly, sweaty , stinking like feet, dressed in black one of the hottest chicks I have ev…
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:39 AM
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he could he could also be dealing with crushing AA and slunk away (Larry David reference) and go home, feel like a loser, and never approach a girl again -what a pathetic loser he must be!!! ;) I don't try live in the future and what if things to death more than likely it will blow him out if it doesnt I will then respond with something then IF I run into a problem again and again, then I will break it down, try and figure out WHY I am, and then come up with shit to do to solve it next time eg. …
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:33 AM
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keep me updated! hit me up on FB or my forum/blog and remind me I showed you this vid here and what happened since
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:29 AM
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donit hit the nail on the head -Ive seen guys coach and have their students practice getting rejected that's FULL RETARD IMO go out and practice hitting on girls, you will get rejected enough along the way! ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:28 AM
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be safe brother!
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:25 AM
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couldn't tell ya never been on one with them I would just find out what the refund policy is, that way if you aren't happy you can get one if solid, then really nothing to lose a friend Gareth use to work for ABCs- too bad he wasnt there- great stuff and great guy
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:25 AM
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I watched some of it, from what I saw I dug
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:24 AM
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"simplest way to think about escalation and kino as much as you can, as sexual as you can, as fast as you can, WITHOUT creeping her out that is the hard part and that is where your calibration comes in" posting that again also watch the Little Miss Sunshine youtube clip I posted .....if only I was in HS again!!!
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:23 AM
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I require everyone who wants to learn to read the book Then I get them to go out and approach Read thru this AMA, I've dropped so many tips- feel like they almost all will help ya
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:22 AM
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thanks man I try I try (I also try to make up for so much BAD PUA advice and coaches that are out there!)
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:19 AM
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chill bars / lounges are great not a fan of CLUBS (where I cant hear) so many things to do in the store one of my favorites at Whole Foods when I was getting a salad or a sandwich made was to say stuff like -thats a good looking salad isnt it? -keep an eye on this sandwich they are making me, it's going to blow your mind and then stuff like -good looking sandwich isnt it? DONT COPY ME! whatever I want, to have fun laughter is contagious my goal is to either to get her turned on, or to get her to…
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:18 AM
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if we ever cross paths you can tell me your most embarrassing story over a beer if it gets me to laugh, beer is on me!
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:15 AM
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nice! also you can't fuck a phone number the goal with this isnt instant gratification by getting a number the number is just a square on the board that you MIGHT need to advance around -which goes into a similar issue where guys get TONS of numbers but then never call them...because they are worried about losing that I WON feeling from the number close and replacing it with the SHE FLAKED feeling
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:14 AM
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you have honored me with your mouse click or tap on your touch pad ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:12 AM
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so much I could say...but no way I can bring things up without running the risk of looking like a disgruntled x employee and also it would cause SO much drama.... don't need to web traffic that bad ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:11 AM
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again SOOO many things that could have happened but if she was INTO you, she would be calling you to make plans... instead of ignoring her why dont you invite her out put the moves on her and see what happens bold moves can sometimes bring it back around worst case it fizzles and you lose her anyways -and in my exp. it's usually guys playing it TOO nice and NOT making it sexual that ruins it
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:06 AM
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push a little bit farther than you think you can get away with it's amazing how many times I could have gone SO much further if I just went for it! Sometimes you get rebuffed, but you learn from it so big picture easily worth it just dont do anything illegal ...or anything that she CAN later claim is illegal without video taping! ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:04 AM
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confident with women? never as confident as I wanted, part of why I got married and tried to ignore RED FLAGS, I didnt have to confidence that I deserved better and that I would be able to find another "better" girl- kind like a dumb manager on Kitchen Nightmares who wont listen to Gordon when they want to change the menu! Success breeds confidence, so I went out and practiced until I succeeded...a lot Perception is reality I know there are people who see me like that, but that is because in the…
/r/seduction23/10/13 02:02 AM
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also dont think about that as OTHER GUY DESTROYERS just think about it as getting the guy to just leave you alone
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:58 AM
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was wondering where you were going with that analogy ;) You can isolate, but I just prefer to be confident and make happen what I want...happen "hey man, I am trying to hit on this girl right now and can you do me a solid and give me some room to do my thing" love saying shit like that in front of a girl lets her know so much about me, and hard for any guy to come back to that- esp if the girl wants me to hit on her :)
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:57 AM
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heard a good line from Matador years ago -not sure if he invented or not "on a scale from 1-10 how good of a kissser are you?" a X...well lets find out -but a confident guy doesnt ask permission, or use a little gambit to get a kiss I go for it when I think she won't shove me away the fact she is on a date with me usually leads me to believe she would like me to kiss her at some point...so I do I would ALWAYS rather be the guy who goes for the kiss and gets the cheek, goes for the boob squeeze a…
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:55 AM
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ya, my buddy (and former student) did that and it turned out great My GF wanted to swing by the bars and see the bootcamp in action. I've never done that before, and kept my GFs away from it because so many other coaches have a girl there and ditch the students. OR she could get her feelings hurt because I am ignoring her (sorry babe, here for the students) so she swung by and we ironed shit out 2 students hit on her, didn't plan it or anything it actually was great because her perspective on 1 …
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:52 AM
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wow thats a LOT of different shit simplest way to think about escalation and kino as much as you can, as sexual as you can, as fast as you can, WITHOUT creeping her out that is the hard part and that is where your calibration comes in
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:48 AM
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it's OK I am pretty awesome and am use to it ;) seriously guys come up to me after every event I speak at and tell me how different I am and how the dig my shit I remember what it was like to be crushed and desperate I couldn't live with myself if I took advantage of someone in that state Think so many other PUA "coaches" got into this stuff for the wrong reasons or forgot what it was like. I never will :)
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:46 AM
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telling me a girl is "semi-interested" tells me basically nothing only that YOU think she is semi interested in you....and most guys calibration system on girls interest level is WAY off that is basically like me being a mechanic and you asked me that your car runs kinda OK and what to do to make it 100% reliable. It could need an engine rebuild or just some fresh gas NO way for me to know unless I have WAY more details...and not just details you think are important- ones that you don't even kno…
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:44 AM
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it's not his AMA has his real name this is a friend trying to bust my balls or someone trolling either was hilarious Have a feeling Neil will never comment on anything I ever write...after our last convo
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:38 AM
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SOOOOOOOO much you left out, why is she fading away, what did I do to cause it what didnt I do maybe she just doesnt dig my shit I would just try to self diagnosis and improve for the next date When I started out, I didnt care about THIS DATE or THIS ONE GIRL I cared about getting my dating and romance life in order and gave myself a year before I would judge my performance 3-4 months it started to click
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:36 AM
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think about how each picture DHVs you like REALLY DHVs you one I get a lot is "well this pic shows that I have friends and am social and have fun" whereas when I look at the pic I see you looking like a dork, drunk, drinking a beer, with a couple of your goofy buddies who are also drunk, watching football, at a shitty bar one thing I teach is to always look at something from HER perspective so do that, truly try to see what you are conveying in the pictures then try to get even better ones
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:34 AM
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when in doubt whip it out but in this case, whip out your real feeling and emotions in my exp. women would always rather have that, a guy who is honest and can express himself, even if awkward- than a guy who is pretending to be something he's not (which is tech. dishonest) positive reinforcement has showed me that the worst thing that will happen is she will pass on me (her loss) but what is statistically more likely to happen is she DIGS it and me and we end up having some fun
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:32 AM
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then do what I did (had a pretty shitty childhood that had drugs and abuse- etc) learn what NOT to do from it use it as motivation to actually live life and develop an evolved belief system then pass the good shit on to others if you can :)
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:28 AM
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I'm not worried Don't think it will ever been mainstream, and never as mainstream as it being on VH1 unless THE GAME ever gets made into a movie... but even then, as long as not using some cliche line, nothing to worry about all PUAs do is model behaviour that women are attracted to and other guys who ARE successful with women, do even IF you got "busted" all you need is a canned line to deal with it, or just own up to it and plow -Ive done that on 1on1s with students who are REALLY scared about…
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:25 AM
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not a big fan of talking to minors about sex, over the internet ;) but look up my post where I talked about LITTLE MISS SUNSHINE improv and canned how would a comedian be more improv than canned? the same techniques and drills they use, we can use one of my favorite ways is just using whatever they have to say to steer back to any other topic I want I call this CONVERSATION STEERING, and is something I teach hit me up when you are 18 ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:17 AM
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don't worry about this ONE date in the big picture it wont matter, even if you end up marrying her but find a few DHV dates that are fucking awesome and take the focus and pressure off you like Shabu Shabu or Korean BBQ then the date becomes a cool activity, you can do it again and again with each girl, until you have it down and are confident on all of the future dates thats really the goal not to get this one girl not to have a good date this week but to figure this shit out so all of them fro…
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:12 AM
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dont think THE GAME a LOT into the think that is 1 guys rule (Mystery) who then worked with Style so it became their rule and is mentioned in the book since I've been around them and worked for Style for years- think I know why he things like that. would rather play it slow and NOT deal with an issue that could cause some blowback whereas I would rather NOT miss out on an awesome opprotunity because I took too long to pull the trigger one way you risk missing your window, the other you can get b…
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:09 AM
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find something to do that helps me cheer up, even if it is just eating pizza and watching American Movie with my friend then I pick a day to quit being a bitch and move on then I follow thru
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:05 AM
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just saw Owen (tyler) in La a few weeks ago at a seminar we were speaking at. Yelled at him down the escalator how I dug his last few youtube vids I've hung with Manwhore and have seen him pick up, and literally pick up and walk away with chicks. Jeffy's talk at the same seminar last year was AWESOME What I have seen I like, I just have only seen a little bit -and I have bumped into TD a few times, once years ago at a whole foods, and he's always been VERY nice- even when I am pretty sure he had…
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:03 AM
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thanks man! shit that took YEARS of practice I have been teaching on stage since 2001 I have done improv drills and exercises, I have had to be on camera and TV before- watched myself and found things to work on I did 4 years of drama in HS I also quit giving a fuck and worked on my storytelling and joke telling abilities so basically I practiced :)
/r/seduction23/10/13 01:00 AM
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if you really felt that, then please do at least for a little bit don't just let it roll off your back and choose to stay where you are at
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:47 AM
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never crossed paths with any of them but if I was to try to come up with a game plan from watching that movie drugs lots of drugs ;)
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:44 AM
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didn't say lose his faith just was getting at how he should go out and live life, experience things for himself, THEN make an EDUCATED decision if LDS is for him. NOT to just be that because his parents decided to raise him that way. Have you watched the movie Devils Playground? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Devil%27s_Playground_(2002_film)
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:23 AM
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shit happens and can fuck up your flow best to not let it phase you and just roll with it "wow that is fucked, but what about when you REALLY like a guy and he touches you in a way that makes you feel electric...crazy how one type of touch can be awesome but another can be such a turn off....anyways...-stack forward" I like to just deal with anything awkward that happens, then move on BJJ- I started back in 99, saw the first UFC on pay per view. A few pics of me in a cage on my FB page from YEAR…
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:21 AM
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it's always the guys with the LEAST amount of exp who are the fucking pickest get out there and get laid it's amazing how much better life gets when you have a hot chick who loves milking your cock "I have no social value" = fuck social value you have value because you are YOU, YOU need to be the most important person in your life you worked hard, got a glimpse of the top of the hill, then quit climbing and then fell off why the fuck would you let 1 attempt prevent you from trying again if you y…
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:16 AM
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as soon as I hit send, I think I might have guess who you were talking about only JUST saw her in person, she was dressed CRAZY and only heard her ramble on about something INSANE for a few seconds before I couldnt take anymore!
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:12 AM
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thanks brother! I try... hot blonde? as far as I know there isn't a hot blonde in the PUA world! never met a fPUA who I felt gave ANY good advice, unless they were just regurgitating someone else's shit I've met a few GFs of PUAs who I thought might be able to give some tips. But every fPUA I have met seems to be seeking attention from guys, wants to be surrounded by white knights, and is trying to make as much $$$ as they can. So basically everything I am against :)
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:11 AM
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how to become wittier take comedy classes how to deal with resistance :by Bravo meet force with force -if you are stronger you will win, but be ready for them to fight back and escalate redirect -move it somewhere else preemptive -before it ever comes up deal with it, or don't let it build up in the first place since you really didnt give me an EXAMPLE, but instead touched upon the entire situation I can't give a break down and example on how to use each so will just use #3 as example tell the p…
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:08 AM
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1.why 2.dont 3.be superficial too
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:58 PM
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Little Miss Sunshine http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AloNERbBXcc Grandpa: Can I give you some advice? Dwayne: [shakes head "no"] Grandpa: Well, I'm going to give it to you, anyway. I don't want you making the same mistakes I made when I was young. Dwayne, that's your name, right? Dwayne? Listen to me, this is the voice of experience talking. Are you listening? Fuck a lot of women, Dwayne. Richard: Dad! Grandpa: I got no reason to lie to you kid, fuck a lotta women. Not just one, a lot. So are you…
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:52 PM
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make sure you get some legit and professional help for Apsy if you need it then start approaching and take it slow I gave myself 1 year to practice before I would self assess at the results because I know it can take a long time to learn something- esp. if I have been doing it wrong for 20+ years all the best on your journey brother
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:51 PM
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copy 1st need an example to break things down, then will show how to deal with resistance from AMOGs or anywhere else it's easy once you know the 3 ways :)
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:45 PM
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;) this is what I do!
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:43 PM
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22 downvotes? happy to discuss/explain anything I am saying you don't like IMO 90-95% of PUA stuff is BS and/or negative so totally understand why so many are not fans of it but I have my nice litte corner and have a pretty awesome group of guys on my site and a handful of other coaches I am friends with. So for anyone who wants to LEGIT discuss anything heavy like that- happy to Not many guys who have been around the block like I have and are honest about it...and are as stand up as I (seriousl…
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:40 PM
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and that is what I give away for FREE!!! :D there is a reason I have the rep that I do and have some pretty solid things written about me on my ABOUT PAGE http://bravopua.com/blog/about/ from other teachers and lots of students -I am just a little more low key so many haven't heard of me
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:34 PM
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I look at situations from LEGIT experience. Once I started hearing crazy sex stories from girls, learning about their bodies (how they are designed to be able to orgasm without penetration and multiple times), realized the sex toy industry for women is INSANE but small for guys (we like porn but not toys for most part) that women didn't just own 1 vibrator, but multiple ones that girls were masturbating as children just like us- many times BEFORE us how many chicks figured out how to use the sho…
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:32 PM
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kinda covered that already here http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1oztde/bravo_here_and_i_am_a_mpua_ask_me_anything_d/ccxdyfe let me know if you need more intel
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:19 PM
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you didn't answer my question and thru off the flow of my next response! you aren't psychic so what then is telling you that these bad things are going to happen?? your imagination YOUR imagination is FUCKING YOU OVER why are you allowing this to happen? -last point is, the few seconds of awkwardness is WAY better than the HOURS of regret you feel from NOT approaching APPROACHING is less painful than NOT APPROACHING in the big picture- once I got that (and that AA is you trying to avoid the awkw…
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:16 PM
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I've only done the Halloween thing a few times but best success was a fun costume that gives chicks an excuse to talk to you, and excuse for you to play around with them and something that transitions into a DHV about your life smoothly also make it fun
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:01 PM
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oh my God- what a loser he's actually HITTING ON A GIRL!!! reality= many of them don't care or are jealous that you have more confidence than them you are also choosing to WHAT IF negative outcomes- why don't you choose to WHAT IF a positive outcome like= WHAT IF her and all her hot friends want an orgy with me, or even what if this girl turns out to be an amazing GF same amount of brain power- but for some reason you are choosing the shitty door, I am choosing the awesome door 2nd don't live in…
/r/seduction22/10/13 11:00 PM
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every time I go out, I either get the girl, learn something, or get a funny story the funniest stories are always the most embarrassing!
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:56 PM
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need examples for me to help what are you scared is going to happen if you approach?
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:43 PM
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;)
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:42 PM
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you are playing it safe and waiting for the girl to give you a green light to approach then you are missing a LOT of opportunities I never wait for that but if I get one= GAME FUCKING ON! how to approach a group of girls- you walk up to them and talk to them work on being able to do that first
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:41 PM
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I read THE GAME in 3 days on day 1 when I was a 1/3 of the way thru it, I was out trying it out. like I said already, don't be a perfect preparer many AFCs try to get good at pick up like they got good at other things (esp. school) by studying but that is also their ego trying to play it safe action is better than inaction something is better than nothing so go out and start opening focus on small areas while still approaching- this month I am focusing on fashion- this one fitness once you level…
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:40 PM
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Do you like to go dancing? I dont 4 questions and each one could take a bit- but all together= My goal is to go out and have fun by enjoying myself, and maybe meeting some cool attractive women along the way and to seduce them. I don't do that by going up and doing something OTHER than my goal- eg. by going and dancing with them and then you have a wing who isn't good in that environment? go to some chill bars/lounges and practice approaching and talking to women in a spot where they can actuall…
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:32 PM
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;)
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:26 PM
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If I feel like saying it I do however, I don't want to be like allllll the other guys eg. a recent 1on1, at the mall in the Hugo BOSS store- told the chick working there WOW you have fucking awesome style and I love it! she lit up and told me that is the BEST compliment she has ever gotten. great way to practice this- posted this on my FB page a little bit ago LINK "Next time you are talking to a girl and something comes up that you think would make a clever joke. Instead of saying it, ask her h…
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:21 PM
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I scanned that yesterday "Me- Excuse me, I know this sounds really random, but you're really cute and I had to come talk to you." that is HORRIBLE! think about WHY you felt the need to say excuse me and that it sounded really random YOU had to add those modifiers to your opener because YOU felt uncomfortable doing what you did, so added those to make it better for you when really all it did was make it worse and convey you are weak better way- just saw Wow you are really cute and I had to come t…
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:18 PM
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work the goals I laid out in the order I laid out each week move to the next one
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:52 PM
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different tactics why isolate? most of the time I don't want to or need to just "mini isolate" just like a waiter taking an order from a BIG table people at the end can't hear and usually don't care If I can't lock down the date in person- which is usually the way I operate, then number close and lock down on the phone or thru text mixed groups= guys in groups are generally cool unless you are hitting on THEIR girl ( or a girl they like) they feel like you disrespected them (kind of like prison)…
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:46 PM
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thanks for the plug and support brother! how to get your brown? as a purple start helping other guys where and when you can, give advice an encouragement when possible walk the walk be LEGIT as a PUA and as a man when you get a brown belt on my forum, you are then a Jr. Coach you get invited to come teach at my events you are my brother and when in town can crash at my place we call each other and bullshit at night so you need to be the type of guy that me and others want to do all that with AND…
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:37 PM
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You already fucked yourself by pussing out and NOT approaching her. Maybe you never see her again, maybe she has a BF by then, maybe that window of opportunity will close and never re-open because you hesitated. What do you do in that situation? Talk to her What would you do if it was a friend you haven't seen in years? What if it was your Best Friend or your mom? you would have done what you needed to do to so do that
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:30 PM
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easiest way to think about it my way is more like MMA or JKD I have my personal expression of Pick Up. The right move at the right time, even if the RIGHT move might be something that others think is wrong. Having too much structure will prevent me from spreading my wings and being the beautiful butterfly I was born to be!!!!! But seriously, think about what you know about those guys, their background, their life. Mine= I was already a confident guy in OTHER areas of my life, had good friends, d…
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:28 PM
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LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:18 PM
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I had only shot a gun twice in my life started working at at the gun range when I was 19 I am REALLY good with a handgun How did I get good by shooting it but practice doesnt make perfect, practice just makes permanent I got good because I practiced the right way I knew what the right way was by learning from those better than me, by actually training with them, by taking classes and spending money. How good would I have gotten if I just read some online forums, read some books and magazines and…
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:16 PM
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PM me a link to your profile- every guy who says his pics are good has been wrong and their pics are shit coaching and prices- please go to my website and click the coaching button if you are serious dont even want to link to it here because I am NOT doing this to make $ crazy sexual escalation opening like that= I can and have it has more to do with taking BOLD action and know that most guys are too big of pussies to try it, and girls FANTASIZE about shit that would blow you away so I just real…
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:12 PM
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thanks for coming here to support me brother!
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:09 PM
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throwing around a lot of terms and fluff bottom line low on cash is never an excuse- like I said already I drank water for months at bars just set a goal and do what it takes to reach it each night I would set a different goal open 20 sets get 5 phone numbers get 3 dates locked down get 1 infield makeout JUST by having goals that I can work towards and hold myself accountable was HUGE also, by having different goals I never fell into the approach junkie trap- guys who have to ALWAYS approach and…
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:08 PM
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lets zoom out and look at the big picture ultimately I am trying to convey the awesome parts of myself to someone, let them know how cool I am, and that they are a FOOL not to recognize this- and let them realize that it would be wise to have me in their life if they don't their loss routines are fine if you need them, but using routines that aren't yours- that aren't honest is where the dark side of this stuff can happen I want a girl that likes me- FOR ME So, if you need to, start working on y…
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:03 PM
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Hey brother! never good with those soundbites or # rules lists but will post this up which is on my blog The Warrior Creed by Robert L. Humphrey “Wherever I go, everyone is a little bit safer because I am there. Wherever I am, anyone in need has a friend. Whenever I return home, everyone is happy I am there.” BLOG LINK
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:54 PM
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what does practicing the basics quite a bit- actually mean? what you think, what others think, and what I think are the basics are VERY different asking about how to turn a semi-interested girl into a sure thing- is a bad question I can't trust your calibration on her interest level because more than likely you are reading it wrong how do I know this? because you asked a question like that that is like a salesman asking- how do I turn a semi-interested customer into a buyer. SO many x factors...…
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:52 PM
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if you asking me how to raise your confidence than you have trouble with MORE than just AA so how do you raise your confidence at anything? by doing it then by doing it well AA- what are you scared of- what is the WORST thing that will happen if you approach (and will go VERY in depth on this if you respond and follow up) the way I teach beating AA is pretty cool and never seen it covered like this by anyone else.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:49 PM
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I got so many waters at the places I sarged at, that last night was in Az before I moved to Hollywood to work for Style- I asked the hot waitress I was now friends with for some whiskey she said no -what..why not "youve been so good dont quit now" turned out her and the other chicks that worked there all thought I was an alcoholic and was sober they all laughed when I told them that I didn't drink because at the time I was poor, couldnt afford it, and didnt want to cloud my game by being drunk
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:46 PM
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didn't say DONT PREPARE said dont be a perfect preparer -so sidenote, think about why you took what I said as that your AFC mindset is clouding your brain you follow up question again shows me your mindset forget that it is pick up for a min, and you want to learn something like playing the guitar or brazilian jiu-jitsu how would you go about learning it and improving?
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:44 PM
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"wow, you are fucking sexy" love saying confident and direct stuff like that CLEARLY conveys my intentions, most guys dont have the balls to say it, and most women dont get told that enough it's one of the SOI lines I have my students practice.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:41 PM
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my wingman making a girl cry he was in set, I come over to chat, he invites me in and asks me to do a magic trick (been into magic since I was a kid and after reading THE GAME thought that was the best way to pick up chicks.....haven't done it for years but part of the story) I do one, she loves it then my wing goes to NEG her (again...we had no clue back then) and tells her she looks like a "slightly less attractive Julia Roberts" she says WHAT??? why would you say that??? "well of course you a…
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:40 PM
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ZERO luck online first off, this isn't luck. What we do is a skillset. Remember that Your pics probably suck and your about me is probably lame. Can't help you make a profile here (would take too long) but if you REALLY want that level of help- hit me up for some legit coaching on my site. However, like I said already= "Online Game- that one is huge and one of my fav ways to meet women. I sell a program that covers a lot about that- but here is my free 1+hour long vid I did at the 21 convention-…
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:28 PM
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Just picked up THE GAME don't go around asking who lies more or is kissing cheating not because they have been overplayed....just because they are dumb also start going out you don't get good at riding a motorcycle by reading about it, you get good by DOING IT. DONT BE A PERFECT PREPARER Has anything changed? Nothing you have to worry about Online Game- that one is huge and one of my fav ways to meet women. I sell a program that covers a lot about that- but here is my free 1+hour long vid I did …
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:20 PM
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fav place to kino- as in on her body or location? simplest way to teach/think about kino =as much as you can, as fast as you can, as sexual as you can, WITHOUT creeping her out 2.Hot to game in ridiculously loud places= I don't Hearing damage makes it even more impossible for me to hear there, don't enjoy those places anyways, not into the type of girl that goes to those spots, and if I am going to...let's say spend an hour sarging why would I go somewhere were SO many cards are stacked against …
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:16 PM
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;)
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:12 PM
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don't apologize for asking your question and don't call it SHITTY! you asked a question which is something you struggle with and took that time to type out it's important to you, so it's important to me :) 2nd- when I first started out, I couldn't afford to go out to the bars 3-4 times a week, drink, and pay a cover so I went to places that were free and just drank water! 2nd- the bars and clubs are like batting cages. Lots of traffic and easy to practice your swing but...I am not really a bar a…
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:11 PM
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I never got into that kind of stuff. If I was down, need a boost or a kick in the ass- I would just put on some awesome rock music. But because of the martial arts, gun, etc stuff I have done for years- think I just knew that sitting around WHAT IFing things (especially negative possibilities) was a waste of time. And after my divorce My motivation was SO strong that I never needed that stuff, for me, there was no other option. "Positive change will only come from inspiration or desperation." To…
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:04 PM
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LEGO!!! are you still in Australia? Hows the GF? I have had some shitty jobs, and have been broke and poor. (you know about that) as long as I got a bed to sleep in, and food in my belly I am happy. Right now I got a pretty cool place, but was actually happier in my LAST place which was WAY smaller and 1/2 the rent. Years from now I won't care that the clothes I bought were from an outlet mall, or the car I drove wasn't a brand new BMW, etc... What I will care about is the life I lead and how ha…
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:00 PM
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I've been a professional firearms and tactical instructor since 2000 I could talk about pick up and gun/tactical type stuff for days glad you dug it :)
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:56 PM
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Hey man, "to work with nice girls" = that is such a bad way to look at them/this my first GF after my divorce was a 19 year old mormon who had only french kissed 1 guy before me...after a few hours she was in my bed giving me an HJ. She later asked me to take her virginity. Such a great GF and was so happy dating her! Girls are girls, they want cock just as much if not MORE than we want pussy (whether you believe in intelligent design or evolution). The sex toy industry for women is a multi-BILL…
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:53 PM
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that was my FAVORITE way to sarge when I was starting out you are there with friends so easy to go back to them social proof (again there with friends) my tactic= I would break off and do a walkaround, see a girl I thought was attractive and approach. Usually 10-15 mins later my friends would be passing thru and see me in set which made me look awesome, and then I would introduce them to my new friend. Worst case I would do a few approaches then hang with my friends, best case I would disappear …
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:42 PM
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good to see you here brother! best reminder? =it works why would I want to do anything else -does that make sense?
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:38 PM
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don't rush into relationships, don't be so desperate looking for "love" that you compromise your beliefs and morals when there are red flags with a chick PAY ATTENTION TO THEM! -going off the relationship dating side of life...but really I don't have any regrets the things I regretted so much, are all things that led me to where I am and who I am now which are both pretty awesome ;) edit to add the things I REALLY regret are not stepping up and swinging at some awesome opportunities I had covere…
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:35 PM
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My F kino escalation LRs, posted on my forum Where I have had a girl walk into my place, another my hotel room, and one I walked into her apartment- and the very first touch we shared was home base. These weren't escorts, these weren't "crazy" girls, they were just every day women that met, turned on enough, and then made the plan.
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:32 PM
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I was using zombie examples back in my pistol classes back in...2003-2004! Old school, Dawn of the Dead blue zombies will always be my fav. Now I can barely even watch anything with them because they just piss me off (Rick not wanting to carry a gun anymore...pussy) but I digress- I would joke about the zombie apocalypse, but it really is a great example of shit hitting the fan and how you should react. The majority of people don't understand how long it takes the GOV to get into gear and start …
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:27 PM
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I think that has more to do with marketing than anything else. The way I break down pick up is like comedy. Some guys are improv comedians and others have canned performances, and routines are training wheels if you need them (and once you DON'T need them will hold you back) Is one better than the other? or is it personal preference... Becoming a confident, cool, awesome, funny, seductive man is always attractive and feel like many guys just have different paths to reach that. Internet marketers…
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:13 PM
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I am here- http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1oztde/bravo_here_and_i_am_a_mpua_ask_me_anything_d/
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:03 PM
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The ole rainbow cliche!
/r/seduction22/10/13 04:24 PM
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and -a good line I heard Hypnotica say Steve P's seminar imagine pushing in on an inflated balloon with your finger the hard you push, the more it is going to push back then the microsecond before it pops, right before it blows up and there is no more resistance at all, is when you feel the most resistance loved it cool way of describing the old cliche's like always darkest before the dawn or have to put up with the rain if you want a rainbow -edit for cleanup
/r/seduction22/10/13 01:43 AM
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How much do I drink when going out. 1-3 drinks. Depending on how long and how much I want to feel it. How much do I drink while out (when sarging, assuming this is in regards to sarging) When I first started out NO drinking. Alcohol is a crutch and never wated to NEED it to approach ( can't do a shot before I hit on a hottie at the mall) I couldn't afford to drink 3-4 times a week. I also looked at all of this as learning a skillset. I wouldn't drink before a gun class or guitar lesson. Why woul…
/r/seduction21/10/13 02:43 PM
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Malls are where I take my students to work on Day Game We start with girls working in stores, then move on to any girl that is attractive. Ultimately you just need to get OUT of the house, either doing activities you enjoy (if you don't have any yet find some) or just go to places there are people....and some of those people are women. Then when you see a girl you think is attractive, talk to her. It REALLY is that simple. Kind of why I got the domain RealLifePickUp.c__ a bit ago. That is what g…
/r/seduction16/10/13 10:29 PM
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good stuff! Think better than the ones my wingman and I came up with when we FIRST started out...back in '06 I DHV MY BROTHER, I NEVER DLV I AM CONFIDENT, I TAKE UP SPACE, I AM THE ALPHA MALE I JUMP THROUGH NO ONE’S HOOPS I AM ALWAYS IN CONTROL OF MY INNER & OUTER SELF I OPEN THE SET = I OWN THE SET I SMILE WHEN I ENTER & WHEN I THROW A NEG I NEVER APOLOGIZE, NO APPROVAL DO I SEEK I LEAD MEN, I PROTECT LOVED ONES, I SLEEP WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN! I AM THE EXCEPTION I AM THE PRIZE -this was mostly m…
/r/seduction15/10/13 04:09 PM
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"altough on the night club my game is good" it's clearly not when I was first getting into Pick Up, I had a crazy high flake rate too. this is where my "Bravo number close" came from, not the BEST number close, but a good test to gauge her interest level -wow, this has been really cool meeting you, and we CAN'T let this cool vibe end here. We have GOT to figure out a way to keep this going....any ideas on how we can? her responses are basically 3 things I am sure we will bump into each other/ I …
/r/seduction30/09/13 01:56 AM
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Gareth is solid and one of the few PUA's that is cool (and not creepy like 95%) have fun brother!
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