Just be yourself. What the hell does that mean?

BravoPUA · 2015-12-16T15:01:35+00:00

Posted this last night, and getting some positive responses already, so thought I would share here as well, which I normally don't do.

Wish someone taught me this years ago...

Murfdigidy · 2015-12-16T15:54:39+00:00

I too myself struggled with this in my early years, it was so frustrating to hear because I had no idea what it really meant, but let me make this simple for everyone. I went from zero to hero with women and most of it came from truly being myself. It's hard to understand what being yourself is when you feel like you always are, but the reality is you aren't. Everyone puts up a front ...EVERYONE. the men who do this the least portray the largest amount of confidence.

Let me explain.....I have 2 doors down a hallway...one leads to my best friend, the other leads to a smoking hot girl I've never met before. Now if you can ACT EXACTLY the same way in front of the hot girl than you do in front of your best friend, then you my friend understand what it means to just be YOURSELF.

Just being yourself means you act NO different in front of your bf than you do a gorgeous girl. That's what being yourself means. Being comfortable with who you are, accepting that if you don't like who I am, that's on you not me

Factushima · 2015-12-16T16:02:42+00:00

Yes, that is the question: what is yourself?

Seekistguy · 2015-12-17T04:36:01+00:00

I think it means (at least for me), not having a filter for certain people. You talk to people all the same. Whether it's your friend or a girl, the same. I feel as if I'm doing that now.

Title	Just be yourself. What the hell does that mean?
Author	BravoPUA
Upvotes	8
Comments	8
Date	December 16, 2015 3:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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