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Red Pill ExampleBrocccooli/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:26 PM
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Don't abbreviate it. You aren't some illiterate scrub right? "No big deal." is fine.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 11:23 PM
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"Made ya look" Fun and playful. Then set up a meeting for drinks.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 11:20 PM
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Answering with just an "Ok.", to me, comes off as pissy and she'll assume you're mad anyway. "Not a problem (name)". Using her name makes the text more personal, she'll unconsciously appreciate it. That's it, it's a bit more wordy, but it really exemplifies outcome independence and lets her know that you really AREN'T angry. She'll also realize that, whether she wants to hang or not, you're fine either way (OI). Don't say ANYTHING after that, if she's really interested, she'll let you know.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 11:05 PM
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Are you looking for an LTR? If you are, then continue the pursuit while keeping your options open. Do you not want an LTR and just want her for the lay? Stop wasting your time because you both want different things. It's hard for me to believe that her n count is 1 when she's getting freaky with you in public places, just saying.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 11:07 PM
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Do you want to go to her suggested place? Is it a place a few blocks from the original place? Is it around the same time? As long as it isn't outrageously out of left field and YOU want to do it, then fine. Be comfortable making your OWN decisions, and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP08/12/14 11:02 PM
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You're fine. /r/thanktrp
/r/askTRP08/12/14 10:58 PM
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Call her up on her bullshit? Like: "So, I see on fb you're sad since we're not dating anymore?" Do not do this. Women want fun, this isn't fun, this is childish. If you want to see her, then see her, it's simple. Ask her out for drinks and do your thing. The point is, is be confident in YOU. If you want to see her, see her, if you don't, then don't. If you bring her out somewhere, you brought her along because you thought she would enrich your experience, not because you needed her there. You wo…
/r/askTRP08/12/14 10:53 PM
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Shit tests are named appropriately. They are there to test your shit. If a girl thinks your SMV is significantly higher than hers, the shit tests will be less. She'll start to shit test once you start slipping.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 11:07 PM
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The people bashing the "be yourself" advice, are taking some things a little too far. The reason "be yourself" is looked down on in the TRP community is because it is usually in the context of female advice. A women will give advice to a man to "just be yourself". This is terrible advice, because we know what women are looking for. We know most women don't admire video games, anime, or other nerdy things. We know they enjoy confidence, mystery, and positive masculinity. Instead of exuding our "n…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 11:34 PM
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I don't think you realize how terrible you'll look if it ever does come out. It will, by the way, you're in college. Either the roommate who saw, or the girlfriend, is gonna get incredibly wasted one night and make a mistake (holy shit didn't this kind of happen already?). When it does come out, you're going to be shunned by the rest of the house, even the guy who saw, because HE doesn't want to be seen as some snake either. Now, the alternative, is to be a fucking man, go up to your roommate, a…
/r/askTRP20/11/14 01:23 PM
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Sexual strategy is amoral. Not sex. Also, I'm not apposed to fucking some dude's girlfriend. It's when that guy is someone other than some schmuck you've heard through the mouth of some girl, that it becomes a problem.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 03:53 AM
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"I'd fuck him"
/r/askTRP20/11/14 12:04 AM
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Jesus christ these RP subreddits are going straight to shit with all the new subs. You're the uber douche, let's get that out of the way right now. You really fucked up, made an incredibly bad move. Regardless of whether or not you know what happened, you know you were closer to this girl than what is socially acceptable. Man the fuck up, tell your roommate what you did, and that mistakes were made. Tell him that, if you were him, you'd break up with his girlfriend right now, as she's incapable …
/r/askTRP19/11/14 11:59 PM
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Is this the shit that gets upvoted on this subreddit now? Jesus christ...
/r/askTRP19/11/14 09:54 PM
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genuine ignorance You've got a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 11:28 PM
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It has NOTHING to do with AWALT. Did you read the article? You don't have a relationship. An LDR lacks literally EVERYTHING there that qualifies for a relationship, besides maybe very basic communication. Rollo would tell you it's a crutch because you're worried that you can't get any tail closer to you, so you hang onto this LDR because its "guaranteed" sex when you DO see her. But look at you, you're getting upset about a women that is miles away and you never see. You're watching opportunitie…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 11:25 PM
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Are you making an excuse as to why your LDR is different? I hope not....
/r/askTRP18/11/14 07:42 PM
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The very idea of an LDR is "beta". Take a look at this post by Rollo and be enlightened. Stop the LDR right now, that is the only sound advice you will receive on this board. Anyone telling you to continue to try hasn't been here long. Let go of your invisible friend
/r/askTRP18/11/14 07:25 PM
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First off, dread game should be passive and at all times. Having to actively enforce dread game means you are doing something wrong. By just being yourself and going about your day to day business should imply dread right from the get go. It pisses me off when people say "I was thinking about using dread game". Dread should be a constant, subtle feeling she always has. Second, if you were HER alpha, she wouldn't entertain the idea of going to a party with a bunch of drunk horny guys, because you…
/r/askTRP18/11/14 07:19 PM
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"He must not have been wearing his glasses" with a smirk.
/r/askTRP12/11/14 07:17 PM
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Mind elaborating? Some of your actions from prior weren't exactly alpha. She figured she could get away with rejecting the escalation because of your previous actions and could pin you as an orbiter or BB. What more can I do to avoid this? Well if what you said was true, about the # closes and the one night stands, than that's good. Just make sure you don't get really hung up on this chick. In my opinion, having a girl to shoot for isn't bad, however, when it becomes part of your every day thoug…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 10:00 PM
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You've invested a lot in this chick. Something that I don't really advise, but you seem to have your heart set on this. First off, good job on the initial soft-next, it was pretty crucial if you wanted your value to go up at all. However, after reading your story I've seen some pitfalls. Some may disagree, so take it with a grain of salt. Here we go. Another text comes along the lines of "I miss you, let's hang out." I say, "apologize." How long after was this? Almost a month or so and you seem …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 02:58 PM
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She's a plate, she's free to do what she likes in her free time, as are you. No, you shouldn't be bothered. HOWEVER, you could look at it as a reason to improve. If your SMV is high and your game is on point, she won't even bother seeking the attention of other men.
/r/askTRP06/11/14 11:14 PM
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That's what I'm saying. From your story, I don't think you did anything wrong. Sometimes it just doesn't work out. You play the game perfect, but she just doesn't want it. Shit happens.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 02:34 PM
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Why is that scary? It's not a big deal, she just didn't want you. Rejection happens man, and it'll happen even more. You're a fool if you think you're gonna snag any girl you want. Sometimes you play it perfect, and it still doesn't work out. I don't see why you're so caught up on this. No big deal, move on.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 02:22 PM
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Did you even bother to read the linked post? Think of each plate as a separate woman you are pursuing "oldredder"...right You can't just decides which girls WILL fuck you any more than you can pick winning lottery tickets. Exactly why they are prospects. You see them, think "Hey, she's attractive, let's chat" and begin there. She's a plate from then on (assuming you build some kind of rapport and she interacts with you on a semi regular basis). Judging from your post history you seem like a pret…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 01:57 PM
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I agree with you, just correcting your diction. A lot of TRP vocabulary is horribly misused.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 08:31 PM
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Has there been sexual tension in these texts? You say you've known her for years, but never anything sexual, this is no good. The way you're framing it, it seems like she thinks you guys are good friends, and possibly just using you to see the sites of a foreign country.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 06:54 PM
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A plate is not a solely a woman you are having sex with. A plate is a woman in your life who is either: A future sexual prospect. Currently having sex with you. You don't have sex with every plate you ever spin. Check out Rollo's post on plates.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 06:52 PM
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There was zero rapport. You had no way of judging whether she was into you or not and kinda just said "fuck it, gonna ask her anyway." Me: And that's all the Spanish I know... Conversation pretty much dies here. "It's my second language." or "I'm even better than you." is more playful and fun. Me:What do you want to be then? So boring. How many times has she heard that from prospective guys? I'll bet a lot. Overall, you went in too quick and came off as needy. Let the conversation flow naturally…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:08 AM
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I suppose it depends on the context. Specifically age.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 07:43 PM
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I haven't seen any red flags Single mom Seriously?
/r/askTRP21/10/14 06:04 PM
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The concepts aren't mutually exclusive. I would say agree and amplify is a subset of amused mastery
/r/askTRP17/10/14 04:18 PM
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Women do love you. They just don't love you in the ways you expect them too. A woman can love a man very much, and a man can love a woman as well. Their reference frame for love is just different. There's nothing wrong with this, it's just how it works.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 05:11 PM
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You can frame the acceptance in a different way. "I can do Friday." You're going Friday because YOU can, not because she wants to. She said probably, because she might have been thinking about going after her own dinner plans, so she suggested Friday as something more definite. This is not a shit test, just normal conversation/planning. Handling it the correct way is important, which OP did. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 05:07 PM
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"does it annoy you when I speak about/get with other guys" Idk I like to use some Amuse Mastery in these situations. "Yes, so much, it actually keeps me up at night." With a shit eating grin. No, it shouldn't bother you though.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 03:55 PM
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Women communicate covertly. The Medium Is The Message
/r/askTRP15/10/14 09:11 PM
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He never said he made it clear through his words. He just said he made his intentions clear.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 09:09 PM
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Nope. Why would I care anyway? Literally worthless.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 08:54 PM
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TRP did not start with this subreddit. TRP is a lifestyle that evolved out of the PUA community of the early 90's. /u/Opiodus touched on this. TRP is a culmination of in-field research by men and exchanging of ideas for over 10 years. The revelation of the internet has helped the manosphere grow in ways no one would have imagined in the early 90's/late 80's. There has been many groups that have helped developed the things you read in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 01:23 AM
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Be aware that as soon as you get back in a relationship, I will bet dollars to donuts that you will instantly revert back to beta you. If this is something you want, then do it. However, everyone here will advise against it, including me. In this situation, I would talk to her, and let her know that as of right now a relationship is off the table. If she'd like to hang around and have some fun, than she is by all means welcome to. Do this if you can handle just sleeping with her and having a goo…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 10:27 PM
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When you see her, be cordial. Act like nothing happened. "Hey [name], how ya been?" Remember, you aren't upset about this, in fact you aren't phased. At least that's how she should see it. You've seen her flaws and you aren't happy with them, so you moved on. It's no skin off your nose. This is the mentality you need to have. You won't be faking it after a while.
/r/askTRP14/10/14 08:40 PM
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Feeling not in control for once, shit sucks. But you were in control. She pushed for commitment, you stuck to your guns because you didn't want it. You had to see this coming. "I won't be waiting around, but call me when you get bored of him?" Don't do this. Don't do anything. She's in an exclusive relationship now, which means she's off the table (at least that's how you seem to perceive it). So just forget about her and find a replacement.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:54 PM
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She's got every right to be upset. You made a pact to be exclusive, then when another girl propositioned you, you did nothing to blow her off. If you wanted to fuck multiple women, you let her know you don't want anything serious. You need to figure out what you want as a person. Do you want to sleep exclusively with her and no one else? Or do you want to keep her around to fuck while you sleep with other women? Either one, you have to choose. If you want to sleep around, you let her know that, …
/r/askTRP09/10/14 07:32 PM
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There is nothing wrong with a women that has a high notch count. She made her own decisions and that's fine. TRP advises against having a relationship/marrying these kinds of women. There is no reason a man cannot have his fun with this kind of woman. Take her out, go places, fuck like rabbits, etc. TRP just states that you shouldn't get attached or try to get into an LTR with a woman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/14 11:14 PM
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What was the situation? Were you actually wrong? Need more details. The idea that you are reluctant to provide any, tells me that you feel you may be in the wrong.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 05:16 PM
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I usually go to a bar. No pressure, easy place to kino. Weed's a no go if you want to be on your game. Even drinking too much is a no go. I'm all for the green, but not when you're trying to close a chick.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 05:04 PM
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Can you legally drink where you are? If so, ask her out for drinks, it's the easiest one. If not, something "fun" like bowling, mini-golf, or something active is good. You can always do food too. Doesn't really matter. The fact is that if she's willing to be isolated with you, than that's a good sign and you can escalate from there.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 04:57 PM
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When she starts blowing you, just finish in her mouth, give her a kiss and say "Thanks babe." But really, just follow /u/recoveringdeleted's advice
/r/askTRP08/10/14 04:45 PM
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You say you lack empathy, and that you're DT. Yet you hesitate to approach some nobody. You aren't DT. You're an edgy high-school kid. Anyway, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see she's into you. Ask her out somewhere, you need to isolate. If she accepts, than attempt to escalate on the date (read sidebar). If she declines with no counter-offer, she isn't interested and you drop her. It's easy, really.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 04:36 PM
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Take it as an opportunity to practice gaming a group. I wouldn't expect much out of the situation, but it's a good time to practice. Who knows, while you're practicing, maybe one of these women are gonna start to crave your cock. Putting too much emphasis on it, is a bad idea. It's just a group of women whom happen to have daughters as well.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 04:32 PM
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So I've been talking to this girl for a minute. I only saw her as a friend from the beginning, but one night we had some drinks and we had sex. Good shit. Me and her have been almost inseparable ever since, Doesn't sound like a FWB to me. Sounds to me like you've latched onto this chick because you had sex with her. So I'm giving her hours of my time listening to her bitch and gripe etc. Don't do that. Just because you fucked this chick, doesn't mean you're obligated to listen to her problems. S…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 04:23 PM
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First off, no such thing as a unicorn. Second, even if there was, she would have to start spinning before anything else happens. It's the starting point. How else would you even know she was a "unicorn". I'm not sure what you're getting at.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 11:50 AM
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Always up to the guys judgement. If he thinks she's worth extra dates, than that's his choice. There aren't any STRICT rules for this, only guidelines. Edit, this also implies that this "quality woman" even gets nexted. If she's quality, than I would imagine a man should recognize that.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 05:02 AM
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A girl that makes you wait until the 3rd date is a respectable girl. Someone who doesn't put out easy. The article mentions this. A girl who is overtly making you wait for sex, that is the sex that isn't worth the wait. Did you read the article?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 03:57 AM
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This needs to be stickied or side-barred.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 09:58 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. This is the 5th time I've posted this link somewhere on the RP subreddits.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:50 PM
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Let me know if anything interesting happens.
/r/askTRP05/10/14 03:56 PM
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If she's going to cheat, she's going to do it regardless. The only decision you have to make is if it is with you or not. I digress. This could go either way to be honest. I don't know the ins and outs of this entire situation. If she's as flirty as you say she is, I say just be straight up and ask her to lunch or something. I guess you could add in the possibility of a "double date" or "a group get together", but to me this just delays the outcome. I feel like the situation would be the same wh…
/r/askTRP04/10/14 05:33 AM
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I'm going to interpret this slightly different than the other replies in this thread. Take it with a grain of salt. Me: "Hi! I'm convinced you are a wolf in sheeps clothing. Luckily I like to live dangerously. How does your week look? -unmitigatedbadassery" (During the cut we had somehow gotten into how innocent she is or something like it and I suggested she might be a wolf in sheeps clothing. My comment on it was to jog her memory of who I am.) Her: "Hi! You are, are you that's good haha;p I a…
/r/askTRP03/10/14 07:27 PM
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"I have enough friends, come get drinks with me at x" Immediately decline the LJBF, then ask her out to drinks. This let's her know your intentions and there's no beating around the bush. She'll respect the boldness. If she declines with no offer to reschedule or doesn't suggest another time, she isn't interested and you move on. Plates fall all the time man, there'll be others.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 07:09 PM
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You need to drop her. Cut all contact, she really isn't worth it. You've totally emasculated yourself with the crying and freak outs. It'd take a HUGE play, something that is probably impossible, for her to see you in a different light other than "the guy I call up to fuck when no one else is around". This chick isn't worth it. I promise you dude. You're SMV is already higher than average being a division 1 athlete. You could pull an incredible amount of tail with the stuff you'll find on all th…
/r/askTRP03/10/14 06:59 PM
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but sluts turn me off tbh Why? They're a ton of fun. That nice girl that declines you and says we should be friends is the same chick who fucked the dude on spring break after meeting him an hour before. All girls can be slutty, you just need to be the guy to bring it out in them. (Almost a direct quote from Rollo, too lazy to find the post.) "Sorry to disappoint you." and kind of rolled my eyes and made a head gesture to give off that like I should care if you disapprove. You come off kind of p…
/r/askTRP03/10/14 06:49 PM
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A woman who wants to fuck you, will find ways to fuck you. She will hop trains, crawl through mud and under barbwire just to get some from an alpha that she thinks is worthy. If you've asked her out before and she makes excuses without a suggestion for another time, she isn't interested. Just move on, it's not a big deal, I promise.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 05:20 PM
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She is at the end of her rope here. A women will fight tooth and nail to not play in your frame. Her apologizing is just that, submitting to your frame. I wouldn't have even responded to the "hey", but since you did I suppose there's some more we can do here. And im hurt and I'm right and I'm stubborn. This is interesting. She knows she's wrong. She just can't admit it, you really don't want to be with a girl like this. "If u wanna talk its over Thai food on your dime case closed. Perhaps with a…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 04:55 PM
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Np man. Just remember that whatever knowledge I impart onto you, is a result of my own experiences. The most important part is to draw your own conclusions. PMing me is fine.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 06:24 PM
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she kept insisting she be the one to make things official. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. Men are the gatekeepers to relationships. The fact that you even gave her the power to make things official lets me know that you were playing in her frame the whole time. Seems like you have a lot invested in this girl, which is poor strategy. I'm going to assume you're about my age (23). If this is the case, your time is better spent talking to other women, hanging with your friends, advancing your car…
/r/trpGAME01/10/14 03:54 PM
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Women are covert communicators. Odds are she won't be blunt about it, but she's not going to keep you guessing if she IS interested. Her asking you to go out somewhere with her, inviting you to a party or bringing up the idea of lunch again are all signs she COULD be interested. Judge her reaction when you start to keep it professional. Is she going crazy? Is the flirting intensifying? If so, keep doing it. A women who wants to fuck you, will find a way to fuck you. She will fly across the count…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 03:45 PM
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Oh stop.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 02:30 PM
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Keep it cold right now. Light flirting, but overall just keep it professional. Sounds to me like she just likes the attention.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 12:52 PM
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Has she brought up the fact you asked her out to lunch? Has she even acknowledged it? Has she tried to make other plans? If not, cut contact. Work on the project and keep it light.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 02:13 AM
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She didn't accept or decline when I asked and instead let the question hang for a few Not a bad sign. I would take it as a no. A woman who is interested in you will NOT make you guess. If her interest level was high, she wouldn't hesitate to accept. Cut contact for now and see what happens. When you see her in class, be cordial and not as flirty. Or tone down the flirty. It's push pull here.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 12:58 AM
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"Well you should skip work and come get food with me instead" Yea, no good. "Come with me for drinks/food at x at y time". Short and simple You have a few outcomes: She declines and doesn't suggest another time. How unfortunate. Not a problem. Cut contact for a few weeks and see what happens. If she doesn't get back to you, consider the plate dropped. They fall all the time. She declines but suggests another time. Take this time if it's good for you, if not tell her so and that you'll get back t…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 12:29 AM
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I'm gonna be REAL honest. She's a plate, you don't care what she did in the past. She's there for your enjoyment as it is right now. You shouldn't care about what she does when she isn't with you. TBH you sound like a whiny little shit. As long as when she's with you, she's with you, and not distracted/on her phone, I don't see a problem with who she fucks on the side and what she chooses to do when she isn't with you. She's hamstering by implying she isn't a whore by saying "you make me feel li…
/r/askTRP30/09/14 10:09 PM
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Either way, you got the in with the two other chicks. I'd experiment and see where it goes, if you're into them
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:59 PM
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I'm downvoting you, but oh god I laughed really hard.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:58 PM
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"No." It's a stupid question, don't entertain it with a legitimate answer.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:57 PM
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The guy hates you because he is jealous. He's an AFC who is pissed you were able to get pussy from a chick who's already taken, it's typical BP behavior. The girls on the other hand, that's awesome. They HAVE to act that way to save face. They would NEVER condone cheating, if they did, it would put them in a bad light, and that's a no no. IMO, you could fuck the other two girls if you wanted to. You already have preselection from sleeping with the one girl, the other two are wondering what's so …
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:53 PM
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She gets pissed and asks if I would hook up with her. "Come over." Anything other than an "Ok. coming" deserves no answer and you cut contact until she gets back in contact with you. How should I casually bring up the notion of us hooking up? You don't bring it up, you just do it. Ask her out for drinks, kino, escalate, analyze IOIs and if it's good, tell her to head back to your place.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:48 PM
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Indicators of Interest (IOIs) Playing with her hair Licking her lips Looking at your lips Fidgeting with her hands (could be good or bad) Smiles Laughing Physical touching Shit tests There's a lot.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:41 PM
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She's obviously bored with what she has and is looking for some excitement. The question is, are you the one that is going to give it to her, or is she going to find it somewhere else? She could always just be looking for an orbiter or stringing you along, but there's no way to find out unless you play the game. I say go for it, if you don't know the boyfriend.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 09:35 PM
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I've been focusing on what you mentioned already these past weeks, and will continue to do so. Have I given you advice before? Sorry I don't really pay attention to usernames. No problem though, glad I could help. Keep on keeping on man. You're doing fantastic.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:45 PM
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But I'm a foot taller and athletic. I have complete control for the entire "fight", but she's tenacious, and we roll around on the floor for over an hour. Dude, that was your in right there. (Aside: Yea, I get it. Goddamn pockets full of spaghetti. So many opportunities to make a move.) So much spaghetti. For the next couple weeks, were texting and calling each other everyday in addition to spending practically all of our free time together. Stop this, like right now. If you want her to have sex…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:28 PM
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I want this woman BAD. Your first mistake. She'll sense the thirst, I'm telling you. If she's easy, than it shouldn't be difficult. Just ask her out for drinks somewhere and see how things go. If she's wit it, the kino is good, and she's showing IOI's, ask her to go somewhere private and lay the pipe. If she's not interested, than oh well, there'll be more. Wish her a good one and move on. Cougars are way easier than any pre-wall girl.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 07:10 PM
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Sounds like you're negotiating desire at this point. She should WANT to hug you and give you these things you need. The rape and father story is bullshit. I don't doubt the rape has mentally scarred her, or her relationship with her father has an impact, I doubt that she's consciously aware of how it's affecting her. If she was as sexually interested in you as you want, you wouldn't need to tell her these things. Just a heads up.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:14 PM
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Make out for a bit longer but she's clearly uncomfortable and leaves. That's fine, not a problem really. Something just might have thrown her off. I wouldn't have made contact until she did going forward. At a party later I make a drunken move that she rejects. Should have been cordial at the party. Acknowledge she's there, but you have better things to do tn. Get other women, have a good time with your buddies, etc. She's cool, so I figure we can be friends anyway. She's down and we go out as w…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 04:23 AM
5

Details would help. How'd you guys leave off? What's your history? What did she say to try to re-initiate contact?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:50 AM
8

They’ll avoid hanging out with you in a place where sex could happen—namely your place or hers. I would argue, that if she's even doing this, you are already an orbiter in her mind. A woman who wants to fuck you will NOT make it a mystery. You stop being an orbiter by being physical and sexual right from the start. If she's making excuses to not hang out with you alone, she doesn't want to fuck you and you should cut contact. If she re-initiates contact, than maybe there's hope.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:28 PM
1

This post is ridiculous. How old is the woman that was looking for a seat? 50? 60? Are you gonna fuck this woman? I would assume not. She's obviously fairly older than you are, giving up your seat and moving to a seat fairly adjacent to where you were wouldn't have been "beta" it would have been polite. Who cares if they act entitled, they are of literally NO VALUE to you. If anything, you look at her and firmly ask "Would you like to sit down with your friends?", when she answers in what you wo…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 04:48 PM
1

Just seems like a strange discussion to have. I'm chill, no worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/14 02:54 AM
1

Question. How do you have casual discussion about becoming FWB? Sounds pussy as shit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 07:55 PM
1

I'm very interested in you answering this question for me. How often do you get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 07:53 PM
1

Do you identify as RP, non-RP, Purple Pill, Blue Pill, human? RP Do you have female friends? This could be a person you would call if you had to move or a person you could kick it with over a beer/wine/whiskey/iced tea and it not be awkward, but a genuine time well spent. Could be a person you talk shit with or a person with whom you discuss politics, philosophy, and/or the general state of things. Could be a woman on your local intramural co-ed Rugby team. Etc... I have many women I know that I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 03:49 PM
1

Read my second post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/14 01:34 PM
3

Refer to both of my posts in a topic posted recently that is pretty much the same as yours. Post 1. Explaining the "biggest child in the house" metaphor Post 2. Giving my take on why it's such In short, TRP says that women will make their decisions based mostly on emotions, their motive is solipsistic (thinking only of themselves). This isn't a bad thing, it just says that women, more often than not, only think of a situation in reference to themselves, they do not tend to think of another perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/14 09:31 PM
1

Most women don't offer much more than their body, that's when you just keep them at plate status. The ones that offer more, are the ones you start to look at for potential LTRs. Though, if you're in your 20's, I wouldn't suggest any kind of LTR.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 06:01 PM
1

The anger phase, in my opinion, is crap. To be fair, this phase isn't part of TRP, but rather, a part of transitioning TO TRP. Once you're there, the anger and emotion in that sense is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/14 02:51 PM
0

namely accuracy. Accuracy is the difference. What you say is inaccurate, thousands of men and 10+ years of theory and applied research say otherwise. Riiiight.. It's true. Hate to shatter your ego invested hatred of TRP and the manosphere, but it isn't around to hate on women. Some of it's members take it too far and do so, but that's not the reason it's around. You fail to really address any of the points I made, and rather, stoop to name calling a sad and misguided attempt at making a meaningf…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 11:16 PM
1

Not sexual dynamics. Intergender dynamics, the interactions between genders. Whether this be in the workplace, at the club, or in the family. These dynamics are engrained into our psyche through millions of years of evolution. At least that's TRPs take on the situation. To think that we as a humans are better than the instincts that got us to this point, as a species, is arrogant. It is pointless to talk about TRP outside of intergender relations, as it has no application there. TRP is an attemp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 09:48 PM
2

we have our own version of the hamster, which is undoubtedly distinct from the female version. But just like the female hamster, it gets men into trouble more often than not. This is known, any TRPer that disagrees with you is wrong. I think that expanding TRP in an attempt to create some anthropological Unified Field Theory is pointless. I disagree with you here. There is nothing wrong with striving for perfection. Even if it's a broad application, to unify women into SOME sort of theory, if it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 09:04 PM
0

Perhaps your view stems from the fact that many men find TRP in times of turmoil. It is a fairly common occurence for a man to find TRP and the manosphere after a particularly hard breakup (myself included). Many times, these are the men who are venting publicly. They feel as though they are understood, that the place they've found is a place for venting. Which it is, to an extent, but they'll soon learn that positive masculinity and the manosphere is not about women-hate, but rather acceptance …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 07:52 PM
1

TRP does not advocate lack of emotional intelligence. It advocates not allowing women to see your emotional outbursts, not letting them get the best of you, which they inevitably will attempt to do. I would even argue, that TRP strives to get men to INCREASE their emotional intelligence, by observing the way they feel at the time, relaxing, and taking the situation into their own hands. In a calm, rational way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 07:16 PM
0

What bothers you about this oversimplification? Simplification is often the best way to look at things. It allows you to ignore the noise and focus on the things of value. For RP, we choose to focus on natural tendencies and evolutionary psychology. Why does this bother you? It's what you guys deserve after debasing half the fucking human race. You seem to have the same view of RP as most people do. TRP and positive masculinity DO NOT debase females. Do some of the users hate women? Yes. Do some…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 07:04 PM
0

What you're stating is PART of TRP theory. Self-confidence and being a better you. In fact, that is the CORE of TRP. Do you not know what TRP is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 06:56 PM
2

Dating a sociopath is probably at the top of my list. I'm better for it though. I'd thank her every day if I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 04:39 PM
1

Most of the answers you are going to get are anecdotal, and I'm sure any responses you do get with some kind of scientific citation are going to be dismissed in some way or another. The fact is, is that the manosphere and the idea of positive masculinity has been around for 10+ years. With the explosion of the internet, this has brought the ability for men of all backgrounds to come together and share their experiences. The subreddit /r/theredpill is only a tiny part of this much bigger whole, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/14 03:16 PM
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Women are very much adults. "The most responsible teenager in the house" metaphor is used to describe the tendency of women to act on emotion, rather than logic. TRP argues that women are the emotional creatures, and men are the logical ones. The two exist in harmony in a good, decent, RP relationship. One is no more worse or better than the other. In fact, each have their flaws and advantages. RP attempts to teach men how to deal with the emotional side of women without getting dragged into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/14 10:06 PM
1

Keep on keeping on. Good work man.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 06:28 PM
1

Wait wait. How EXACTLY are you an orbiter? She's put out in the past, correct? Is there a reason you don't think she will now? If not, I honestly don't see your problem. You're making mountains out of mole hills. This woman WANTS to fuck you, and you're hesitant becauuuuusseee? Sounds like your insecure with yourself. Like this woman that wants to adamantly fuck you must have something wrong with her, or she's a control freak that just likes you for sex. Who gives a shit? You're getting what you…
/r/askTRP22/09/14 06:05 PM
1

Desire is non-negotiable. I was able to (really easy to do so) convince her that we both have needs and that sex is good for us. The fact that you had to convince her is a bad sign. A woman who wants to fuck you, will find a way to fuck you. Next her and move on.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 06:00 PM
1

Than you've answered your own question. If you're willing to put in the effort, than do so. Just make sure you're doing it for the right reasons.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:50 PM
1

This is going to be the 3rd time I post this link somewhere on one of the red pill subreddits. Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. EDIT: For those of you that might take that the wrong way. This does NOT mean you SHOULDN'T wait for it. If you really like the girl and think she's LTR material, than by all means, go for it. If you're only in it for the sex, just move on now.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:34 PM
2

First off, drop the term hamster from your vocabulary. Learn what it is first. Second, she's realized that her investment of sex is not going to pay off in any kind of real relationship. Essentially, you aren't giving her anything back for the sex she is providing you. It's give and take here bud. My advice is to next her. Abundance mentality man. There will ALWAYS be others.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 08:45 PM
1

At its core, positive masculinity and TRP does claim victim status. However, the goal of TRP is to acknowledge that you're the victim and BE OK with that. It advocates to move past the victim status and take control of your own life. This is why they say the pill is tough to swallow. Acknowledging that you're the victim, that all your ego invested ideologies you've been brought up to think were correct are in fact wrong, is really tough to face or even accept. The subreddit that is TRP is a smal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 05:14 PM
1

but I've seen that basic kind of thing all over TRP too in less extreme ways. I would venture to say that the users who claim these kinds of things, have not fully grasped an RP mindset. In fact, I would venture to guess they haven't even read the sidebar. Your job and income is only part of what makes a man valuable, at least in terms of RP. Having a good job and lacking in other areas will do you no good. TRP advocates a well-rounded individual; in careers, hobbies, physicality, and sexuality …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 05:06 PM
2

First off, I don't think AWALT means what you think it means. If you take it at it's most shallow form "All Women Are Like That" than yes, I could see where you're coming from. However, AWALT arose as a means to describe a certain "nature" that all women could potentially possess. AWALT is there for the men who say "I can't believe she cheated on me, after all I did for her." or "I can't believe she divorced me because I lost my job." AWALT, in its correct term, is an acronym used to remind men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/14 05:01 PM
4

Amused Mastery. Thanks...I guess.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 02:29 PM
1

Meh, the point is that its just something to let her know that you were thinking about her in some way. Like I said, there's no cookbook for this stuff. Do what you think is appropriate. A message here and there is NOT going to make or break any chances you have with her. If you keep an abundance mentality, there is no way you are going to come off as needy and/or desperate.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 01:03 AM
1

The Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 - Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. A million times this. Read the post.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 04:24 PM
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I really don't see a problem with texting a plate every once in a while just for conversation, just don't be the one to start it. If she texts you about your day or something, just respond with some short answers, ask her how hers is. The bare minimum, pretty much. If you feel like interest is going down for her, then shoot her a text out of the blue, something about the weather, don't matter, just don't respond within seconds and don't try to keep the conversation going. Just something small to…
/r/askTRP17/09/14 04:13 PM
1

Unplugging is hard work. Your best bet is to lead by example, not ever mentioning anything RP wise. Just let them see that it works, and never in an overt manner, keep it covert and don't let them know you're trying to push anything onto them. When you sense that they may be seeing the world in a different light, start introducing them to concepts. Outright telling someone RP truths will get you nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:58 PM
3

She wants to ride the cock carousel. She was bored.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:42 PM
2

"I want to cover you in peanut butter and see how much I can lick off before my peanut allergy kills me." I don't think I've ever had a girl ignore this one on Tinder. I found it somewhere else, but it's fucking gold.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 05:02 PM
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Fucking NEEDED this post right now. Good shit brotha.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:59 PM
1

When would you ever engage a women emotionally?
/r/askTRP11/09/14 07:58 PM
2

"Let's take a break" is code for "I want my alpha fucks". Take her back and spin it. Nothing exclusive.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 05:22 PM
1

This isn't difficult The Rational Male - Amused Mastery
/r/trpGAME10/09/14 10:46 PM
1

What are you wasting your time for? I'd next her and move on. IMO, the fact she talks about this dude she's fucking, and you haven't even fucked her yet, is straight up disrespectful. She is literally toying with you. I told her if she took her shirt off while she waited for the cab, she could leave. She laughed and did it. This is bargaining at it's finest. She was laughing AT you, not with you. "What a pathetic little shit." The Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 - Any woman who makes you wait for sex, o…
/r/trpGAME10/09/14 10:41 PM
1

Just did a quick search of The Rational Male and couldn't find anything, but I think I remember seeing something along those lines. Have a look for yourself, it's a good blog.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 09:13 PM
1

No problem, happy reading!
/r/askTRP09/09/14 07:16 PM
1

I don't see anything wrong with a second date in a place that's public (as some other users have disagreed with). A date at a bar is low-key, easy, and fun. There's nothing wrong with that. Add in the alcohol and you've got a pretty good setup, first date or not. My guess is that you're probably escalating much too slowly. Most women know what they want at the first date, ESPECIALLY if they agree to meet up for drinks. I think you just have to be a bit more forward. I've f-closed the last 3 girl…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 05:22 PM
2

I didn't read your post. I've found that, if you need to ask yourself "Should I next or keep trying?", the answer is always "next". Edit: After reading your post I still stand by my decision. She isn't interested, and that's quite alright. There will be others. Just next her and continue improving you.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 05:13 PM
4

The other people in this thread have it pretty down-pat, but I'd like to clarify what a "plate" is, as you don't seem to know. A plate is ANY woman you are currently interacting with on a semi regular basis. They do NOT have to be women you are currently fucking / hooking up with, they are simply women that are in your lives that are either a. sexually active with you or b. potential future sexual prospects. Spinning plates fall all the damn time, and that's fine. Abundance mentality allows you …
/r/askTRP09/09/14 05:03 PM
3

"you know, I decide when I see you. you know it's true." "Yea, I'm at your beck and call" with a sarcastic tone and a smirk on your face. Amused Mastery is your friend in this situation. Treat her like you would a 5 year old trying to convince you the sky is green.
/r/trpGAME08/09/14 10:13 PM
2

"Hi, it's Tom. I'm free tonight. [Meeting place] at 9?" Why did you frame it as a question? This GIVES her an opportunity to just say "No." I have no clue why you didn't just use what you said in the OP "Hey X, it's Tom. Meet me at the SU Bar tonight at 9," This was fine. You never want to ask a girl to do something. You TELL them what to do, whether or not they join you is their own decision, and if they don't you'll still go out and have a good time (Outcome independence).
/r/trpGAME08/09/14 10:10 PM
1

"I like your style [name]" This is my go to line for a lot of things. For your situation, it lets her know you enjoy the sexual tension, and it also confirms to her that you know what's up. When she replies with something along the lines of "Thank you", it's a good segway into asking her something else about her "good girl" personality or just expanding on what you're going for. Also gives her a little bit of validation, which every girl worth her weight in shit needs a bit of.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 09:57 PM
1

You don't get mad at a dog for being a dog, do you? Don't get mad at a woman for being a woman.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 09:07 PM
2

Eh, fuck it. I enjoy the tune and the sound of the song. The emotion within it is good too. I really like it, and sing along if it comes on the radio. Doesn't mean I agree with it.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:38 PM
1

Didn't you say you nexted her? Why do you care who she fucks or what she does? You sound jealous of the guy to be honest.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 05:05 PM
1

Girls who aren't going to have sex with you, don't feel the need to bring it up at all. The fact that she even brought it up in conversation means she was ALREADY thinking about having some kind of physical relationship with him. This isn't a bad sign, is all I'm saying.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 06:36 AM
5

As I said in one of my replies, you have a serious case of ONEitis. AWALT man. I have a much higher SMV than him. Who says? You? She obviously doesn't think so. If your SMV was as high as you say, she wouldn't entertain the idea of even remotely upsetting you by going to an ex's going away party. She respects me No she doesn't he's nothing more than a close friend. Show me ONE girl who has EVER said this about a guy who she hasn't ended up fucking. Seriously man, the oneitis is strong, and it ti…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 10:28 PM
3

You have a SERIOUS case of Oneitis. You've ignored every post in here giving you the proper advice, haven't even acknowledged them. If your girl respected you and thought you had as high an SMV as you THINK you do, she wouldn't even go to this kids party, let alone entertain the idea of her going ALONE to it. You're in denial man, she's fucking him when she goes, just drop her.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 10:24 PM
3

No, not at all. This shows how needy you are, not to mention how thirsty as well. This kind of response shows that you're only in it for the sex. Even if you are, a woman doesn't want to know that.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 10:19 PM
1

Why wouldn't it? You're quickly putting everything on them, "who said we were having sex, get your mind out of the gutter." It puts her on the defensive now because SHE was the one that brought up sex.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 10:16 PM
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You still need to be fun and stimulating. It takes some practice I suppose. You should be focusing on yourself and your own self improvement. That is what The Red Pill is. The women just happen to be a happy by-product of your own self improvement and self acceptance. If you mix in some PUA stuff with a red pill lifestyle, you should be good.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 10:09 PM
1

Keep at it brotha. Good work so far!
/r/trpGAME26/08/14 07:58 PM
1

Texting is strictly for logistics. Get the number, text her right away or a day later (depending on interest level), tell her it's you and that you'll get back to her with plans. When you have free time and want to make plans, text her again and tell her your plans and where to meet you, that's it. Texting should be used for nothing more than meeting up and getting to see her in person.
/r/trpGAME26/08/14 07:43 PM
3

What was she expecting to happen here? Don't entertain her bullshit. She's looking for sympathy and you gave it to her. I wouldn't have touched it and made some kind of joke about her being a baby. I told her I was joking she looked great. Broke frame so fucking hard. Who gives a shit if she scowled? Stick to your guns. Read more sidebar and check out The First Year of The Rational Male
/r/trpGAME26/08/14 07:39 PM
1

Plausible deniability. "Omg we were at his house and it just happened!" No woman wants to think she's that easy.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:48 PM
2

I think that if you answer truthfully at this point, she may appreciate your honesty and it can even be seen as confident, putting your cards on the table like that. No matter what they say, women NEVER want full disclosure. There is nothing more satisfying for a women than for them to think they've finally figured out a man through her feminine intellect. Whatever you do with this question, DO NOT ANSWER HONESTLY. The top comment is good, anything witty is good. Do not take this question seriou…
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:25 PM
1

Nench?
/r/askTRP25/08/14 09:25 PM
1

A woman who wants to have sex with you will never make you guess. I'm a big advocate of TRM. Check out this post
/r/trpGAME25/08/14 05:20 PM
2

Rollo explains it best. Frame and what it is The female hamster can best be summed up as her imagination. What goes through her mind when you maintain frame and "mysteriousness". The hamster is also responsible for what men see as the complete irrationality of female reasoning. See all the x-posts from /r/relationships about women cheating and their justifications. That's the hamster at work.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 05:08 PM
2

Whenever I'm out and I see her she says that she'll be too tired after work to come over. A girl who wants to fuck you, will not make it difficult. You're her little validation on the side while she fucks her boyfriend.
/r/trpGAME20/08/14 05:35 PM
7

are you ever gonna chill with me? You sound like a little bitch. "Please hang out with meeeeeeeeeee." Forget about her, keep an abundance mentality. There'll be others. Seriously, stop being a whiny little shit and drop her, you're better off. I think its time to delete a number but I was wondering if anyone could give me any pointers. If you wanted to delete her number you would have. You say this because you think it's what we (/r/asktrp) want to hear. In reality, you want us to tell you a mag…
/r/trpGAME20/08/14 05:22 PM
2

Very little percieved effort though, it's fine.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 05:36 PM
2

That's getting into DT territory. It's a pretty large split in the community to use DT methods, if at all. To each his own.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:24 PM
4

No No, you miss the point. Sexual strategy is amoral, that is correct. This means that your strategy for attracting mates is not inherently good or bad. Meaning, whether you choose to be Red Pill, Beta, or any other mating strategy there is, there is nothing wrong with any of them. However, what you choose to do after your strategy works is not part of this, and can still be constrained to morals. Read more sidebar/Roosh/Rollo/etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:55 PM
1

I can never stop laughing when I read posts like this. The hamster is real fellas. The hoops that thing has to jump through.....
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 03:12 PM
-1

Your argument hangs on the fact that there is a previous assumption that this girl is "different". Every girl wants to ride the CC, and every decently attractive girl will. If you believe a girl when she says she hasn't or that her partner count is low, you're a fool. This should be tagged rant, not RPT.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 03:04 PM
2

Remember man Judge a woman on her actions, not by her words.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 09:20 PM
2

"I'm feeling you but i dont do ONS and i don't want you to spend the money on a hotel room to let your hopes up" This was a shit test. Plausible deniability. "Omg it just happened!!". If she didn't want to fuck, she wouldn't have taken the ride to the hotel. I would have just said "ok." and gotten out of the car and started walking to check in. We were my parking lot in the rain with the lights on in her car and it just seemed like it wasnt going to escalate Why not just say "Come inside."? A ch…
/r/askTRP07/08/14 05:09 PM
2

This reminds me of the blog by Rollo. Explaining Alpha by context. Essentially, this high-school science teacher who is a loser when compared objectively to everyone else, pulls this hot as fuck 18 y/o tail, leaves his wife and kids for this chick. Even though, objectively, this guy was a loser. In his context, as a teacher, his SMV rose in that isolated environment. Here's the post
/r/askTRP07/08/14 05:03 PM
1

Take a look at this blog post by Rollo. It explains the Sexual Market Place and was actually aimed at kids your age. It's quite enlightening. The guys telling you it's just as easy at 18 y/o are blowing smoke. It get's easier the older you get.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 04:59 PM
1

"Tied down? I'm not into bondage."
/r/trpGAME06/08/14 07:01 PM
1

Me: well you're lapping it up either way Too much here, I would have just ended there and said "Ok see you then." After that you kind of went overboard on an otherwise well versed conversation. Me: Well I'm doing shit anyway so I'll just wait for five minutes and if you're not there, it's cool. This is good, outcome independence. Her: Are you being serious!x Me: Serious about what Just say yes. No need to play games. Her:I'll let you know x Let her text you at this point.
/r/trpGAME06/08/14 06:50 PM
1

Dude relax. She isn't going to do anything. You're freaking out like a child.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 05:23 PM
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I know probably every guy thinks they know their girlfriend and what they're capable of, that said, she's very open and honest about things Sounds like ONEitis broman. AWALT
/r/askTRP05/08/14 05:12 PM
6

This could be considered one of the most important parts of swallowing the pill. It cannot be stressed enough. My old attitude towards life and my depression, which I previously thought to be medical, has all but disappeared since I have "trimmed the fat". I'm the happiest I have been in years.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 07:16 PM
1

Dude..
/r/askTRP31/07/14 10:25 PM
2

Still plugged in man. She's either already cheating on you, or wants to, simple as that. Her bringing it up to you is her way of gauging your reaction to such acts. You mention that she has a slutty group of friends, but she's the outlier. Sounds like a SERIOUS case of oneitis bro. IMO, downgrade to plate.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 10:21 PM
1

Validation can also be explaining yourself to a girl. Her: "Why are you being a jerk?" You: "Oh I'm sorry, I didn't mean it, I was just joking."
/r/askTRP31/07/14 10:16 PM
2

Just stop talking to her like you said you were going to. You're fine. Like /u/WishIHadMyOldUsernam said, you answered your own question.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 10:13 PM
8

Computer Science ~$70k/year 1 year out of school. Best decision I ever made.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:53 PM
2

"So needy"
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:09 PM
1

Good behavior is relative. Does it please you? It's good behavior. There is no spreadsheet on this. If she does something that makes you happy, or you think deserves a reward, than reward her.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:04 PM
2

Two days in a row? Are you looking for to LTR this chick or just plate spin? Two days in a row seems excessive for a potential plate (who isn't even putting out.) IMO just cut contact. She isn't worth the effort you're putting in. Your energy is better spent on other women or yourself.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:02 PM
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I'll usually just smirk and change the subject. Amused Mastery.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 04:56 PM
3

Say what you will. I find chicks with tattoos and piercings hot as hell.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:09 PM
1

Jane follows but then quickly says: "No way, I'm not dancing with you" Maybe just turn around, slyly smile, shrug and say "Ok". Then start dancing with some other chick.
/r/trpGAME29/07/14 10:32 PM
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"All the cute ones love it." Get that hamster spinning.
/r/trpGAME29/07/14 10:18 PM
1

Just gotta kill it man. There's no sure-fire way of getting a chick back to your place. I can't give you a step by step guide on shit-tests, conversations, kino, etc. The only advice I do have for you though, is that when the time comes and you're feeling she's into you. DO NOT HESITATE. Confidently tell her "Let's head back to my place." Most girls will feel better if there is a pretext to the situation, plausible deniability and all that. So, if possible, try to bring stuff up in conversation …
/r/trpGAME29/07/14 10:11 PM
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not sure if you forgot the /s tag
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