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| 7 | How can one break away from this view of the world when it's been their exact reality?Having confidence, sorting your life out, taking care of yourself and chipping away at social events are the biggest things you can do. Even after a few months, you really start to feel a subtle change in how people treat you. I'm skinny-fat, have aspergers and am 5"10. I used to obsess over all these things until I decided to build social experience and hobbies to help myself become mentally well again. Whilst I haven't found anything long-term in about 2 years, I'm making a small social circle… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/23 12:00 AM |
| 8 | What turned you off of Red Pill?Manosphere and PUA types know where to meet wounded and insecure young men where they're at- all for the purposes of manipulating them into buying their courses. It's about creating/magnifying a problem and selling you a solution. So the goal for these manosphere gurus is to make you feel as though you are more worthless than you really are. On a deeper level, the followers join these pseudo-cults out of bitterness, entitlement, insecurity or the need for a community- or all of the above. When w… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/23 04:09 PM |
| 14 | What turned you off of Red Pill?In terms of his money, looks and follower count, he could absolutely be classed as a winner. However, he is also someone who is obviously terrified of losing these 3 things, because he sees himself as nothing without them. He optimises his entire life around making money and getting laid. Up until this year, he was becoming more egotistical, and was making more and more outlandish claims about men, women, relationships and masculinity just to stay constantly within relevance. He's a traumatised … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/23 12:05 PM |
| 16 | What turned you off of Red Pill?It was titled "Stop Letting Other Men Pipe Your Wife". The narrative was that life is a competitive, cutthroat race, with women and reproduction being the ultimate goal for men. He explains that every decision you make can either speed you up or slow you down in the race. The example he uses is that you're in the same place as another guy with a similar level of looks, status and money to you. You slow down to watch a 2-hour movie, and the other guy who you were going to beat has run past you. T… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/23 11:36 AM |
| 25 | What turned you off of Red Pill?After a messy breakup, I spent a few months watching Hamza after looking up the term "how to get over your ex." His ideas about women and masculinity slowly started to whittle down what was left of my self-esteem, to the point where I thought I was worthless if I didn't fit Hamza's exact definition of what a man is. I couldn't take rest days, I needed to make at least 6 figures, I couldn't play video games for any amount of time. If I ever slowed down in what Hamza called a competitive race, I'd… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/23 10:48 AM |
| 2 | What truly is a Redpiller?MGTOWer psychology is always something that's confused me. Why are so many of them so prideful about cutting themselves off from talking to women? It's one thing to stay single and focus on yourself for a little while, but it's quite another to publicly renounce all interactions with women and glorify it to others online. A video by Courtney Ryan had this one comment at the top saying "We did it, boys. We went our own way." with thousands of likes. Another common phrase directed at women by MGTO… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/10/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Self Improvement was making me depressedIt's cathartic to hear a Buddhist of all people tear down Monk Mode, AKA "Villain Arc" or "Comeback". It's one thing to work towards your goals. It's another thing to destructively isolate yourself from people and activities just to succeed in some way, fueled on nothing but self-loathing and feelings of inadequacy. Even worse, these content creators actively encourage this way of living. If only I had a nickel for every time I heard these creators use phrases such as "grind in the dark" or "I d… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/10/23 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Hamza and his untreated OCDI've come to realise that his general advice is mostly good (exercise more, sort out your headspace, get your finances and career together). This is all unfortunately wrapped in a warped and toxic worldview- "Only fit, rich, top-tier men can get girls. Women are hypergamous. Men should never open up to their significant other. If you don't keep improving, other men will sleep with your future wife" Mix in a good amount of narcissism and self-loathing, then remove from the oven. You have a guy wh… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/23 03:03 PM |
| -3 | This is my list of Redpill/MGTOW beliefs. I need help with challenging them- the world right now seems to confirm them.The one I'm most concerned about is the social, economic and dating markets becoming more and more skewed towards the top 10/20% of men. From a logical standpoint, a man or woman might as well go for the best they can get. They might as well turn down any guy or girl who isn't making an absurd amount of money, or who isn't shredded. Why would people give lower-tier guys a chance when there's always so many better options that are just a swipe away? Surely a woman is naturally inclined to seek ou… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm worried about the future of dating.How much do you think that apps will be prominent in dating? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/23 11:39 PM |
| 0 | I'm worried about the future of dating.It seems as though IRL meetings are becoming more scarce, especially since apps make it easy for certain people to find someone with little effort. What's more is that most IRL people tend to already be in relationships to begin with. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/23 11:33 PM |
| 2 | MGTOW is one of the biggest traps, if we are honest.I've had a good few crisis episodes regarding relationships and success, but I'm slowly working past a lot of my issues. I've been working out, eating clean, socialising more and taking my life more seriously as a whole. It'd obviously help for me to be shredded and rich when finding someone, but it would help much more if I could fix my lingering problems of insecurity and social awkwardness. This is something that a lot of people in online comments don't understand. Rather than acknowledging t… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/23 09:59 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW is one of the biggest traps, if we are honest."The juice ain't worth the squeeze anymore, fellas. Time to pursue excellence. Modern women like the one on "X Podcast" are everywhere." | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/23 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Heads-up! here are some people you should stay as far away from on YouTube and SM platforms as possible.Which videos did you find questionable from Cole? He has a lot of balanced takes, but I might have missed a video or two of his. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/23 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Heads-up! here are some people you should stay as far away from on YouTube and SM platforms as possible.A few channels have just occurred to me to put in the "Do not watch" category: -PsychHacks (RP channel disgused as a psych channel. His solution to have effortless relationships is to "be her best option". -FarFromWeak (RP channel disguised as a motivational channel, goes over common Redpill talking points) -FarFromAverage-Same story as above, different name. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Heads-up! here are some people you should stay as far away from on YouTube and SM platforms as possible.Which part of the list would Hamza be added to? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/23 06:48 PM |
| -2 | With "pretty privilege" being pushed more and more by society, should it be our responsibility to simply looksmax to fit in?I understand a lot of the points you're making. But it cannot be understated how important looks are when it comes to gaining attraction and respect. How many times have you seen an average-looking guy gain the kind of respect and desirability that the more typical "chad" get in many different scenarios? The fact is that myself and many other people have seen "chads" with boorish, dull personalities have effortless relationships. Their bad jokes are laughed at, and any bad behaviours are brushed… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/23 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Is Red Pill Finally Dying? 2016/17-2023First Tate, then Hamza and Sneako. Now Denmo is trying to fill the power vacuum. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/23 07:51 AM |
| 7 | Should a man show his emotions to a woman, especially if they are in a relationship?This is definitely a strong case against the manosphere rhetoric of "Women only want strong, stoic men. Even one whiff of vulnerability or weakness will cause your woman to leave you for a stronger, better man." Sneako and Hamza are especially guilty of parroting this rhetoric. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/23 11:34 PM |
| 7 | Why Tinder isn't going to get you a girlfriend: Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in Europe"Once you reach the top 20%, you can feel it. If you're the bottom 80%, you're a depressed, video game-playing, weak, submissive, feminine, undisciplined, unproductive, soy eating incel who'll be cheated on for a higher-value man". Once I distanced myself from the people who say these sorts of things, I felt much better about my chances. I'm hardly looking for an excuse not to put in hard work by separating myself from content that's only designed to keep you hooked by giving you a small hit of … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/23 03:25 PM |
| 49 | Why Tinder isn't going to get you a girlfriend: Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in EuropeA lot of RP/Manosphere content propagates this idea that only the top 20% of men will ever be desirable to 80% of women. This theory extrapolates heavily from statistics provided by apps like Tinder and OKCupid, and leads manosphere content creators to also state that the "dating market" is "cutthroat", where only the "high value men" with 6-pack abs and a boatload of money will ever get a chance to date anyone. People like Hamza in particular strongly draw lots of conclusions from this one stat… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/23 08:21 AM |
| 5 | Online dating ratio of men to womenDating apps, apart from anything, are overall a shallow and game-ified version of dating that artificially creates the Pareto Principle that many manosphere content creators won't shut up about. When you're judged almost entirely by how you look in a space already overpopulated by men, women are naturally going to pick the "best of the best", especially when a lot of the "lesser" men behave so desperately. This much is understandable. What isn't understandable is how RP content creators take dat… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/23 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Here to talk toI have two questions that have been present for around 8 or 9 months: Is the dating market really "cutthroat" and are the majority of men and women really getting pickier? I often hear lots about how social media and dating apps have fueled unrealistic expectations, but surely a woman doesn't have to look like a supermodel and a man doesn't have to have 6-pack abs and a ton of money just to get by? I sincerely hope that the future of how we date doesn't lie in dating apps, which are shallow, gam… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/22 10:20 AM |
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