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| 165 | Social generosity: the concept that changed my life | Inner Game | Business-Purpose-724 | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 06:56 AM |
| 78 | Rejecting yourself will lead to rejection from women | Inner Game | Business-Purpose-724 | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 06:21 PM |
| 57 | Having tons of success! | Field Report | Business-Purpose-724 | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 04:28 AM |
| 39 | Step one of every man’s seduction journey | Fundamentals | Business-Purpose-724 | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 05:36 AM |
| 7 | First week of college. Here’s how it went | Field Report | Business-Purpose-724 | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 11:19 PM |
| 7 | Talking to girls sucks with masks | Field Report | Business-Purpose-724 | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 10:18 PM |
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| 2 | Step one of every man’s seduction journeyThat’s sick you can do that, but for me, I used to always hang onto the idea that “if only I had a stable source of sex/ love, only THEN would I be able to quit porn” This is so far from the truth for most people. Real sex and porn sex are two completely different things; in porn it’s just you and your shame or whatever baggage, in real sex you kinda gotta have your shit figured out to some degree. So for me when I got into a relationship, when the sex wasn’t as easy as just ripping a quick fap,… | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 11:42 AM |
| 3 | How to work on yourself and fix personality?Neville Goddard | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 05:45 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is more detrimental to game - porn or weed?It takes time for your brain to form solidified neural pathways | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 05:51 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is more detrimental to game - porn or weed?You don’t have sexual dysfunctions… yet… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 03:12 AM |
| 0 | So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you?Read Alabaster girl to understand how to gush to girls without overdoing it. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 05:10 AM |
| 3 | How do I get women?Woww, the audacity to say IM the one coping😂gold my friend. Good looks ≠ having a perfect childhood and no emotional baggage that would cause me to carry intense shame, thereby repelling all signs of female life. I personally know ugly guys that have tremendous success with women, and they don’t have wealth or status, so how do you explain that? Is it some kind of conspiracy where that guy is paying girls for appearances, girls are secretly out to get YOU but not other ugly low status guys, or w… | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:36 PM |
| 4 | How do I get women?Dude. I’m a good looking, tall guy. I’ve been creepy PLENTY and had terrible receptions, simply because I was so needy and hungry for validation. Your worldview is simply false, broad sweeping generalizations are usually an ideological mechanism to deflect responsibility. Its not “human logistics”, it’s basic attraction. An ugly but incredibly confident man can and does connect with beautiful women. A man who truly loves women is loved by women. This requires self love first. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Dated a 10/10 and I fucked it. Anyone else have this experience? How’d u move on?I’m a Zan bot too😂 he’s by far the best, worthy of spreading his good news lol | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Dated a 10/10 and I fucked it. Anyone else have this experience? How’d u move on?Is this from alabaster girl? | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’m a broke college student, pretty skinny, pretty average looking. Why do women flock to me? This is also psychologically an internal/external locus of control. You seem to be saying all factors that could affect your success with women lie in the external, not within yourself. That’s what I think isn’t true | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Excuses and resentment | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | If you get dumped and stay friends with your ex after the breakup, this is what will happen.I mean there’s a line, like she’s free to cheat on me but then she absolutely no longer has access to me or my life. “Idc if she did hook up with someone”, definitely came off wrong. While she’s my girlfriend she absolutely can’t just go fuck around 😂 That’s very different than being cucked. I trust a girl until she shows that she cannot be trusted. Anything other than that is paranoia, guilty until proven innocent type shit. I could also say it’s “beta male” logic to be so sexually scarce that … | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 07:05 AM |
| 4 | What are some of the best books for a man to learn about dating and flirting?The alabaster girl. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Stop self improvingWhat am I denying? | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Stop self improvingI think it can definitely mean different things to different people, and many guys on here should listen to what you’re talking about instead of advice on how to become something they’re not. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 03:13 PM |
| -2 | Stop self improvingI mean accepting myself the way I am is what I need to do to improve, but that may look different for others. I just think constantly trying to not be authentic isn’t the way to go, and that’s how I unknowingly looked at self improvement for a while. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 03:09 PM |
| 0 | If you get dumped and stay friends with your ex after the breakup, this is what will happen.This is so immature. Idc if she did hook up with someone, but she told me she’s been wanting to try a 2 year celibacy to create a “masculine shield” so she never needs sex from a man again. That’s not healthy for her own sake and clearly related to her fear of someone being able to “steal her energy” or having to forego respecting her own boundaries in order to please a man. Intimacy, sex and trust is exactly what she’s struggling with right now, but maybe you’re right and I should be deeply mis… | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 01:21 PM |
| 25 | If you get dumped and stay friends with your ex after the breakup, this is what will happen.My girlfriend just broke up with me a week ago; she said she felt like she wasn’t ready to be in a relationship, felt a deep desire for freedom, felt like something was required of her and that she couldn’t just be herself, but she had to be my girlfriend. I was sad at first, obviously. In the past, my usual response would be to take all blame. I am at fault, I am unworthy of love, I am broken and need fixing, she is above me: But instead of dwelling in that sadness, I started to ask myself, tru… | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It’s just a fact that they help, whether you wish they’d help or not. Obviously do a lot of research on the benefits and how to properly take them first | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 11:07 PM |
| 27 | [deleted by user]Taking shrooms. First trip, all social anxiety wiped away, abundant self love, huge success with women. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 07:52 AM |
| 1 | The exact moment when the chemistry shifted...That book is probably the Alabaster Girl? | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women?Or they’re smothering them from a place of lacking need and generosity | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | You need to be happy with yourselfAnd the way to be happy with yourself is to accept yourself unconditionally regardless of success or failure in all categories of life. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Fuck the gameThis is the crucial step to being hella successful with women. Don’t reject this mentality, fully embrace it; it doesn’t fucking matter. You don’t need success with women to be happy. Getting women is a byproduct of being happy within yourself. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | I need to stop feeling so desperateRead the Alabaster Girl | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 08:32 PM |
| 15 | What to do when girl is backing ass on me at clubs?With this mindset locked in, I’ll give you some practical actionable tips to use. The key though is having this mindset first. If she’s obviously bumping into me and grinding, before too much time has passed, I usually tap her arm to get her to look at me while we’re still both facing the same direction, and say something like “hey what’s your name?” with a playful and fun smile, like you’re in a candy store. Usually, before they can even answer the question of their name, I’ll go 😲holy shit you… | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 09:21 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]For sure, but during that whole experience I wasn’t jerking off so that wasn’t the variable. I think it’s bc you have a clean conscience and have peace and self love radiating off you. When you’re looking at everyone with love and adoration for their existence I think people can feel that, and there’s nothing needy or creepy about it | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 11:17 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]For a while I would make eye contact with every single hot girl I walked past on campus while it was busy between classes. To me it was experimenting with vibration and seeing if that concept is actually a real thing. I shit you not, some days every SINGLE girl looked at me. I felt their eyes and just softly gazed back, lacking intention and admiring beauty. I think that’s the key to not being creepy. And then on some days when I did feel low vibe, I would look around to see if the same thing wa… | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in the club?What? | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in the club?Thanks man. Your posts are based af btw | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 06:59 AM |
| 3 | How to approach girls in the club?In my experience, being real allows the people around you to be real as well. When I was insecure and had trouble being authentic, it was always around authentic people that I felt so at ease. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 06:56 AM |
| 100 | How to approach girls in the club?How do you act? Women have an exceptional radar for authenticity and will instantly be creeped out if they can tell you’re “acting”. This stems from not being transparent with your motives and is often the case with nice guys; having an outward persona of being super nice, when they know the guy really wants to have sex with them. Instead of trying to act, replace that with authenticity. Don’t hide your desires, wear them in your body language. You’re a man, she’s a woman, and that’s okay and aw… | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 2 | How to be a more interesting person and never run out of things to say.This. Pure authenticity > trying to craft a persona that will win you favor. It’s the difference between being fully present in the moment, perfectly content and abundant, and trying to fuel your ego by garnering a certain reaction from people. People know when you’re trying to use them to remedy your insecurity. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 04:23 AM |
| 12 | How to be a more interesting person and never run out of things to say.For example Honesty: “To be honest, notttt really feeling this burger (laugh) how’s your food?” Negativity: “This burger sucks. I hate this place” | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | First week of college. Here’s how it wentThe sole solution to beating this problem is giving that love and validation to yourself. It’s that simple, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Take shrooms Meditate every single day Read up on anxious attachment style Read up on abandonment anxiety Becoming aware of these sensations in your body and mind is probably 90% of healing them. Recognize them, reject them. Give the security and love to yourself. Take some time to be alone in life. Force yourself to learn to love being in your own presence… | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Calling it a day for once.I think maybe your life is a little more malleable than you give credit for. I don’t know your profession, feel free to share but your work ethic in your career doesn’t need to be mutually exclusive to working on other parts of yourself. In regards to your last few paragraphs, this makes me wonder if you work in a highly technical field? You seem very rational minded. That’s not a bad thing, but for me, I was stuck in a hyper logical and rational mindset for a long time and sucked with women. It… | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Calling it a day for once.This. OP seems attached to his current lifestyle. It sounds like he’s put himself out there and made some effort, but it still comes off as if he’s more of the victim of reality. That the truth is simply he’s unattractive, so he’s fucked. There’s a huge payoff to staying attached to this way of thinking: abdication of responsibility. As long as he believes the objective truth of reality is at fault for his lack of success with women, it’ll be a self fulfilling prophecy because that’s the opposit… | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | If all of this is “game” do you ever stop playing? Even after you get in a relationship do you still have to game?Yes. I think you’ll enjoy life a lot more being able to see the beauty song of women. It makes all of life just better | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What’s the fastest way to loose your virginityRead this book: Alabaster Girl I’m telling you dude, it’s the only seduction book you need and a lot of the books are suuuper scummy and manipulative. I hope you see my message bc I’m that confident it’ll change your life. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 09:50 PM |
| 8 | A trick I've found works great for getting womenSpoken like a true beta.... Get a cane dude. Go cut down a tree. Go fuck a woman. Walk into a bar, approach the toughest most alpha guy in the room and punch him square in the nose. Anything. Literally anything that isn’t cringe af and that’s alpha af. Then we’ll talk. Edit: I peacocked all over your mother last night. | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 10:10 PM |
| 8 | If all of this is “game” do you ever stop playing? Even after you get in a relationship do you still have to game?The book Alabaster girl is truly the fundamental reason behind why we should do game. It’s to appreciate and recognize the divine gift of feminine beauty and live in constant gratitude and enjoyment of the feminine energy. | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 10:03 PM |
| 4 | What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women?The Alabaster Girl is the book for that | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 04:37 PM |
| 65 | How does Russell Brand flirt so successfully?This. You can flirt in a sexual way if you aren’t hiding your true intentions. Girls know you’re being incongruous. If you aren’t ashamed of your sexual desire and aren’t ashamed to display it, the ball is truly in her court. | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 05:11 PM |
| 25 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Have you thought about prioritizing authenticity over trying to figure out the right tactics and strategies to attract anyone? You’re living in a mindset of fundamental scarcity. If you could see through the fog of sexual frustration and fear of being forever alone, you’d be attracted ONLY to people who are attracted to you. It sounds like you need to work on seeing through this fog before anything. Work on being in utter abundance while completely alone. If you were locked in a jail cell for th… | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Oh oops I didn’t see your other comment | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Care to specify? | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 02:10 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I appreciate that that’s really reassuring. I’ve been crushing it generally, so when I struck out two beauties in a row I started second guessing my “strategy” which definitely isn’t being authentic and real. Also there’s a victory in those losses. Immediately when I saw the girl give her friend “the look” like cringe smiling, I immediately cut my losses and told her to enjoy the rest of her night. That’s all there is to do at that point, id probably use to double down | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:04 AM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Wtf why would she cockblock like that? | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 07:58 PM |
| 130 | How to reply to this shit testSay I understand, and you’re still invited | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 05:37 PM |
| -1 | Where to learn some basic game?All the answers are in the book the Alabaster Girl. Easily the best book for you | /r/seduction | 06/10/21 02:57 PM |
| 20 | Unprotected sexYep | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]The Old Testament is tough! I’m in an ot class right now and it’s really challenging. If you ever need a break from the ot, definitely check out John! A lot of pastors I’ve known say to start at John, and then read the ot | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Heck yeah that’s awesome your boyfriend could beat it too. I didn’t beat it though, God beat it for me! I tried beating it on my own for YEARS before I finally called on Jesus to wipe it away | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Are you a nice guy? | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 04:44 PM |
| 30 | [deleted by user]I could do away with an individual woman in a heartbeat if need be. Idk why but this made me laugh lol. Definitely true though this isn’t simp shit | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 05:14 AM |
| 24 | [deleted by user]Yesss dude this is exactly how I feel after I stopped watching porn and healed from past humiliation/ bullying from women and it’s awesome! | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 05:12 AM |
| 1 | She mentioned this dude that she is datingDudes already conquered the 20 with this logic | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 02:37 AM |
| 2 | She mentioned this dude that she is datingI get where the other dudes are coming from saying you should still go for it, but if you’d been dating her for 7 months, would you want her to be treating other guys like she’s treating you right now? I liked this girl and didn’t care about her bf, but when she started physically escalating I realize she could never be my girlfriend. I wouldn’t ever want her to be like that with another dude. | /r/seduction | 04/10/21 02:34 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Thank you I’ll check it out! | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Bizarre weekend, two meetups and genuinely horrible first time... in a mental rut, where the hell do I goCheck my posts. It sounds like you haven’t started loving yourself yet and that’s why you’re so obsessed with pleasing others. That’s the key ingredient to it all | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 07:37 AM |
| 3 | The reason you’re having so much trouble finding a partner who likes youDuuude this was exactly where I was at for so long. For one, check out my posts. We seem to think similarly and I think my posts will help you. But also, the secret ingredient to destroy the need for validation and the need to “act” confident is unconditional self love. That’s literally it. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I’m too comfortable with my girlfriendJoe dispenza. Will change your life. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I’m too comfortable with my girlfriendThis right here. Look into Joe Dispenzas talks and his guided meditations backed by a ton of research, that’ll help you with exactly this | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to lead into doing the dirty with a woman in my room?How is this advice free? Brilliant! /s | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:45 PM |
| 3 | What’s the best way to lead into doing the dirty with a woman in my room?“It’s my sack” | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | How can I overcome my fear of coming off as a creep?Fire read dude. Exactly what I needed to hear | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Met an amazing girl at the bus stop after work today! (Should I ask her out)Stfu dude. Don’t you have anything better to do? | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Conversation quality drops after first dateBot. Stop copying and pasting | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 05:07 AM |
| 6 | What are some things men can do to show romantic/sexual interest in a girl?I’m about to make a post on this. Prospect theory baby | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 04:59 AM |
| 7 | What are some things men can do to show romantic/sexual interest in a girl?In the bar you can break the touch barrier fast by extending your hand for her to grab. This way, she’s the one breaking the barrier. This is only my personal experience, but if I follow this up in a short amount of time with a hand on the lower back, she dances on me or makes out with me. | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 04:58 AM |
| 2 | What are some things men can do to show romantic/sexual interest in a girl?This | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Remember: we don’t chase, we attractIndeed | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Remember: we don’t chase, we attractSounds like you’ve put yourself on a pedestal. We’re all just people, the power dynamic in your head most likely isn’t serving you irl. | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?I just say “I lost allll my friends” because most of the time, I literally do. Usually they are in the same boat. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 11:02 PM |
| 20 | [deleted by user]TLDR; watch every single Jordan Peterson lecture. What this guy said is the truth. Pay attention to it | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 10:27 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Dangerous Men by Lowell Seashore | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 10:25 PM |
| 2 | How many of you are virgins?Yeah pretty much, I just had so many opportunities to say no and if I’m fully honest with myself I can’t blame it all on her. I had a 20 minute walk to her place to think about it and I definitely made somewhat of a conscious decision even though I couldn’t technically consent | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are virgins?Like my dick was getting crushed, and then nothing. I was pretty fucked up, we barely did it. Condom was too small too | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are virgins?USA | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How many of you are virgins?Yes MN | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 07:33 PM |
| 6 | How many of you are virgins?18- was trying to stay celibate til marriage and only last week did a girl pressure me into sex while I was drunk. I wanna say I’m still kinda a virgin bc I didn’t want to do it and it was hardly sex. I’ve had plenty of opportunities just wanted to save it for a really special person | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.I have such confidence in every step of a cold approach except the very very first moment. Any suggestions or general frameworks for making the first statement to initiate the conversation? | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah you’re right | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]They’re kind of in my social circle so they’re not strangers, but you’re right | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 06:45 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Thanks for this, yeah I’ve felt an utter lack of desperation in general especially compared to how I used to be with girls, but I think that mindset manifested when I was faced with that decision and I didn’t stand my ground | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 05:22 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Or shrooms man And see what Jesus has to say | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Attraction happens when you're NOT trying...Try to serve women around you and provide what they need; don’t try to get your ego stroked and extract validation from your interactions with women | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 03:49 PM |
| 11 | It's about time you became the man women want you to beAt least you’re self aware enough to say that man. Check out my posts. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 01:36 AM |
| 8 | It's about time you became the man women want you to beAmen PissyBiatch! | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 01:35 AM |
| 2 | The 4 tiers of Openers from fear paralysis to optimizationThis is great. My new roommate is super cool and has been a great wingman at the bar, except one time when we competed for a girl. I was so pissed. At the end of the night after cuddling with me all night he said “you don’t have to walk them home bro you can do whatever you want, I got this” in front of this girl and her friends. I said no no I’ll come it’s no problem. We get to the lobby waiting for the Uber now, the girl starts saying goodbye to us and I started wrapping it up too. My roommate… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 06:58 PM |
| 2 | The 4 tiers of Openers from fear paralysis to optimizationI read all of it, and I’d love to read the full manual! Last night I went to two house parties; everyone knew each other there, my guy friends have a lot of friendgirls there and they introduced me. Everyone was nice. My problem I think was that I wasn’t being necessarily honest with myself and letting my libido dictate my vibe even with girls I knew were taken, simply because I found them attractive or thought that might be the best way to befriend them. In some cases I think I did a pretty goo… | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 06:51 PM |
| 3 | The 4 tiers of Openers from fear paralysis to optimizationWow I read this at such the right moment in my life. I was tier one for all my life, was at 2 during the summer and I’ve been at 3 for about a month. I can totally see how seeing everyone as a potential target was a blind spot with my newfound confidence. I’m excited to start thinking this way and keep my standards in mind | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Meeting people but them not remembering me?Based | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Having tons of success!You have to come at it from a place of independence. If you’re outgoing for the sake of getting others to validate your opinion of yourself, you won’t come off as authentic. When you truly love yourself and are independent I think that’s when things change a lot | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | First week of college. Here’s how it wentU of Minnesota | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 02:41 AM |
| 2 | First week of college. Here’s how it wentNo. I didn’t know anyone before this year | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 02:36 AM |
| 29 | So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc.^ how I got roped in | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 03:10 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Fake IDs and bar | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Having tons of success!All g | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Having tons of success!My formula for good small talk is ask an open ended question, comment on what they said and then disclose some personal info related to what they said, and deliver it with a huge smile. Then if they match that energy keep low key escalate the excitement vibe so they’re comfortable. This last week it’s been a lot of “are you a student here? How do you like ___(apartment building, major, classes, social life, etc” followed with one more question, then disclosing something personal and they’ll usua… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Having tons of success!I see people prefacing their messages with that info constantly on this sub My most sincere apologies Please forgive me | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Having tons of success!Thank you sir😎😎😎🤝🤝🤝 | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Having tons of success!Authenticity isn’t trying to be like yourself, act confident or smooth, or anything like that. The best way I can define it is instead of acting, you just are. In the context of interacting with a woman, that would manifest as being present, not self censoring, and acting like you’re around all of your lifelong best friends. Some mantras that have helped me is whenever I’m about to meet new people I think “everyone here is already my best friend” and then be in that place of comfort and peaceful… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Having tons of success!Kissing | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Having tons of success!hoping it isn’t just worsening my social anxiety It is. Weed reduces activity in your frontal lobe which is responsible for your personality. I’ve been chiefing a shit ton this week and I still don’t have social anxiety but I do notice how I feel a little less socially sharp, so even if it’s not making it worse, it’s actively preventing you from completely overcoming social anxiety. Hey maybe it’s a good thing you haven’t tripped yet, so you could know to set an intention going in! I highly reco… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Having tons of success!Ah yes, not a single short dude ever gets girls or has a wife or anything | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Having tons of success!How do you explain the fact that girls were no where in sight for years, despite being 6’2? | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Having tons of success!No I don’t know, but I do have an idea of how difficult it would be for a person to have any success with this mentality. You’re not just a short guy. You’re a lot more than that and if you want to stay having zero success with women, just keep assuming that trying is pointless bc you’re short. Even if it is difficult, this mindset will 100% sabotage you every time | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Having tons of success!Good point, although I don’t wanna believe that in the winter I won’t have any chances at a school with 30k students and in a big city lol, I bet there will still be opportunity throughout the year | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Having tons of success!Thanks! I don’t believe there’s such a thing as a bad trip, if you go into it with the mindset that whatever the trip turns out to be is what you needed, usually you won’t have anxiety that would spiral your thoughts in a bad direction. It’s definitely hard to meditate every day but it pays off! I’ve missed plenty of days but I’ve still seen improvement | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Having tons of success!This I’m always kinda sad to see height jealousy and I see it a fuck ton in this sub. I can only speak from experience as a tall guy, but I hope the shorties know it’s not like the golden ticket to getting girls, at least it hasn’t always been for me. I wonder how many guys self disqualify and come into a convo with a girl from a place of self rejection, just because of their height, and then when a girl rejects them it’s another data point to prove their own narrative that they’re doomed by the… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 12:47 PM |
| 11 | Having tons of success!The first huuuuge shift in charisma was through my first mushroom trip, where I set the intention to integrate my shadow (parts of my personality I’d repressed) and had an ego death. That’s when I first was able to love myself and detach from attachment/ abandonment anxiety, along with feeling lonely. Then I started meditating every day and becoming grounded in the present, which is huge. I heard on a podcast that the formula for charisma is presence, enthusiasm, and confidence, so once all thre… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Rejecting yourself will lead to rejection from womenMeditate | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 09:32 PM |
| -3 | How to permanently take girls off the pedestalOk... why do you say that? | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Rejecting yourself will lead to rejection from womenBro that means a lot! Thank you! Life has been really really really good since I’ve had this revelation and I feel like for the first time since a lot of my childhood trauma, I don’t project rejection onto everyone, have attachment/ abandonment anxiety, and I can bring my real loving self to every interaction. It’s the ultimate removal of the pedestal from everyone around me! | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | The idea that the fundamentals of attraction are based in non-needy behavior makes sense to me, but I'm really having trouble internalizing this concept. Any tips, quotes, reminders?The Bulletproof cure to neediness | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 05:41 AM |
| 5 | Rejecting yourself will lead to rejection from womenI was rejected and mocked every day for 11 years at school. | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Is it a bad idea to assure the girl I asked out that it's ok to say no instead of ghosting?That’s the right mindset! | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 12:18 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"Facts. I was high at work the other day and I was chatting it up, and I also wasn’t totally blasted | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 10:13 PM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"Broooooooo you just gave me a revelation Fuck weed for this exact reason! I didn’t even realize I was paranoid and that I thought everything I say can be used against me. This this this this this this this. I’ve been way more confident without smoking weed, and this paranoid mentality would stick around even days after I smoked. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Social generosity: the concept that changed my lifeNot sure. Definitely still have work to do to learn to trigger attraction specifically | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Social generosity: the concept that changed my lifeI really needed my ego taken down a couple notches, and I’m so thankful for shrooms helping with that. I was identifying myself with external things I was doing, or by the way I thought about myself, when in reality, the ego was only telling me alllll the ways I was different and unworthy of everyone else. We all have the same life force energy, and I have no need to exclude myself from everyone else anymore. Psychedelics are absolutely a gift from God and a powerful medicine | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Social generosity: the concept that changed my lifeI’m about to go back to college so we’ll see, but right now I work at a country club with a bunch of BEAUTIFUL women that used to intimidate the shit outta me. Now I feel like a fucking baller. I’ve given myself permission to be myself around them and I no longer feel like I have to earn their validation by acting a certain way, and that if I act like I would around my best friends they’d like that. And they do. I’ve had way better conversations with wayyyyy less social anxiety | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Masturbation addiction is a serious libido killer. It leaves me unmotivated to approach.In my case, I have an addiction to cheap easy dopamine releases when I’m fapping all the time instead of letting my “dopamine addiction” correctly motivate me to accomplish truly satisfying things. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 04:39 AM |
| 2 | i got a girls number in the most random way imagineableF | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Bar specific tips?Lol I’m just messing u sound intense af but it’s good advice | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Bar specific tips?Take a deep breath | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 06:01 AM |
| 2 | When you’re trying to be a know it all grammar Nazi and it backfires on youExactly it’s not even bad lmao | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/04/21 01:21 PM |
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