I’m 19M, 6’2 and decently attractive. I just got back to university... I’m not used to this at all.

Over the summer I got to practice charisma and socializing a ton at my country club job, so I was really ready for college and felt prepared to make a lot of friends, which is unusual for me because usually I’m socially anxious/ insecure. But this year has been different. I’ve been getting wayyyyyy more attention from girls than I’ve ever gotten in my life. Girls waving at me driving past, filling the whole booth of mine at a bar and coming home with us, approaching me and asking to dance or take their snapchat, smoking drinking and making out with me and cuddling every night building a ton of tension, it’s all so insane to me how it’s happening all at once like never before.

I’ve had a couple girls tell me that I make them feel safe and not creepy at all, which might be part of why I’m having success. I used to be so awkward that I probably came off creepy, but now I just talk with everyone super relaxed and authentic without caring about how I’m perceived by others. I think a big realization I’ve had lately is that women really desire to feel comfortable being themselves and appreciated for who they are, and I’ve gotten a better handle in making them feel that way.

I appreciate all the advice from this subreddit for helping me become more confident and competent with women! Anyone have any college experiences or tips they’d like to share?