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Well step 1 done: you're out there trying. I like the 'identify eye color' bit and I'm definitely going to use it on my self. I think the previous, rather negative comment is hitting on the idea that it seems you were rapid fire daygaming and it didn't really come to much. I wouldn't be too worried about it though as you are out there practicing, changing the way you deal with the anxiety. Nobody becomes James Bond in one day. I might suggest getting a little less direct and trying to find situa…
/r/seduction22/09/11 10:05 PM
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Escalation/close anxiety. I was always raised and conditioned that touching is bad and inappropriate, but I'm pretty outgoing. This results in my ability to converse pretty well and I'm even getting better at low level kino, but making the frame sexual throws me out of my depth. I'm not terribly worried as I'm new to the game and I just need to condition it away, but its definitely still an issue when you've made out with 3 girls in your life!
/r/seduction22/09/11 09:59 PM
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Yeah, as the previous comments have said you got some bad luck and might need to do some damage control. Maintaining the balance between aloof and clingy seems to be the key here. I think your foots still in the door though. Do some dq and keep at it.
/r/seduction22/09/11 09:52 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I wonder if it can help me out in my situation.
/r/seduction22/09/11 04:37 PM
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Yeah I was worried about that. Oh well. I was hoping for a home-run on my first at-bat. Guess not.
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:22 PM
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Good answer. Way to motivate!
/r/seduction22/09/11 02:30 AM
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I've never been opposed to a little cheating.
/r/seduction21/09/11 10:16 PM
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cookiem0nster has got it right. If she's a freshman in college she probably doesn't want to be tied to a relationship. This is pretty normal, at least from my experience. If you're having a good time, keep hooking up, but if it gets too personal, etc you might have to just drop it entirely. Use this time to build some more game. If you totally strike out you've got HB to rebuild your self-esteem!
/r/seduction21/09/11 08:49 PM
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This one is covered on the front page every day. Approach everyone. Day game and just talk to everybody you see. Walk down a street and start a conversation with at least 5 people before you reach your destination. Once you stop seeing women as obstacles to approach you'll start to see them as 'just another person'
/r/seduction21/09/11 08:45 PM
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Women want to prove that they're good enough for you?
/r/seduction21/09/11 04:21 AM
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Until one day... BAM! SEX! BAM BAM!
/r/seduction21/09/11 03:38 AM
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Go to a club or bar or something. Nothing makes a fun get together better than a little social lubricant.
/r/seduction21/09/11 01:20 AM
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Lounge! That would be... terrifying?
/r/seduction21/09/11 01:10 AM
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What I guess I'm asking is: how does this help? Particularly with the last example how does saying you're not interested in sex achieve... sex?
/r/seduction21/09/11 01:09 AM
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ok. This is more what I was looking for. Can you provide some examples of each?
/r/seduction20/09/11 09:09 PM
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can you provide an example of this?
/r/seduction20/09/11 08:36 PM
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Haha reading your comment I kept thinking "I'm pretty sure he's agreeing with me" and was terribly confused until your edit. +1
/r/seduction20/09/11 08:00 PM
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thanks for the advice
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:59 PM
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gftow
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:47 PM
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I have no qualms about being the guy in a ralph lauren polo if everyone else is wearing ed hardy t shirts
/r/seduction20/09/11 05:46 PM
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during class isn't an option. The room is a closet and we sit at a maximum of 7 feet from professor. Before is a possibility. Not sure if waking up 10 minutes earlier is worth it unless I can really close.
/r/seduction20/09/11 05:45 PM
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When you look out of step with everyone else (including the girls you're approaching), it's no good. That's what the article is saying though. Look in step with everyone else, but a step above them. If everyone is wearing graphic tees and express jeans you should wear a really interesting custom graphic tee and armani jeans. You have to be one step above
/r/seduction20/09/11 05:03 PM
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I figured a note would be kind of over-the-top silly to break any possible tension. It's a really small class so I'd have to ask her after class. No big deal but I'm a little worried about ASD from the AFC and other girls in the class (very.small.class.)
/r/seduction20/09/11 04:29 PM
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oh. good shit. Thanks I'll xpost there.
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:50 PM
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While a lot of people will say drop 'em, I'd probably agree with you and say follow the doctor's advice... however: kick life in the ass. Learn the extremely valuable skill of not-giving-a-fuck. Sounds like you've got to that point. I've built a lot of relationships on being the morose, cynical asshole who just doesn't care about all the zombies who surround him. Chicks dig it and if you neg a little people have the idea that they want you to like them. I was told by a friend that the first time…
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:49 PM
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Idk I'm kind of new to this still, but it seems like a couple bad luck moments got in your way. I'd say toss HB7, kind of sounds like a bitch. Perhaps keep up with HB7.5, but I wouldn't put too much stock in those first kino moments. Additionally I can see how kino at a pool would be turned down (more public place, bathing suit anxiety, etc) Maybe you could take a risk and approach HB7 with the idea "you want to wing for me? I'm into HB7.5 here" If she is one of those overly-gregarious, flirt wi…
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:42 PM
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first of all GFTOW. You're sounding a little oneitis on this one, but if I'm reading too much into that, think: What do I have to lose? If you are willing to lose a regular place to eat in exchange for a date then do it! I commented below with some more details on this.
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:37 PM
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Yeah you'll have to do some risk-assessment. If she shuts you down you'll probably have to find somewhere else to eat. Is the close worth the possible shut out? As someone who works in the service industry I'd be pretty amped if one of the regular girls that comes in showed some IOI so... think about your specific context and proceed at your own risk.
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:35 PM
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I think it's just a put-off/shit test. If he really comes back I'll decide if he's desperate or kind of cute play it cool and come back next time you actually need something. Make it seem coincidental, but try to remember the face. The idea that they didn't say fuck off, but "come back another time" means you've got at least a bit of a shot
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:32 PM
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hear the fapping waves I should probably go get some action : /
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:31 PM
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This. I've always got a plan for this contingency. A bottle of an accesible liquor and some accesible beer and a quirky movie (something she's probably not seen) as a gateway. "so what's going on after this?" is like saying "shall we go on to the next step before the f-close?"; the best invitation ever imo.
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:29 PM
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AI's all about the AI's
/r/seduction20/09/11 03:25 PM
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That's what I'm hoping rather than remembering it as "that time I totally and irreparably blew it"
/r/seduction20/09/11 01:41 PM
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Thanks for the assessment and the encouragement. What was worse was that I kind of saw the train wreck occurring and bitched out rather than bossing the situation and pushing through the slump. She kind of zzz'd out instantly (from the drinking I guess) and the dog slept between us so I got kind of frozen out there oh well. Next time!
/r/seduction20/09/11 01:39 PM
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You can do the stage 1 quasi-ironically too. Be overly-formal and make a joke out of it. class 2, as batshit_lazy said is a more protected part.
/r/seduction19/09/11 08:19 PM
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