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Ride the benefits your youth affords you over older women. Become an activist when you're on the decline.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 07:26 PM
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Let's be realistic here, who the fuck wants to hang with anyone who dumps all their problems on you the first time you even meet them? That's never a good sign for anyone.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 07:24 PM
1

Could be ego too. Girl lets a dude raw dog, he might feel special, "She's letting me raw dog her because of how into me she is..." Naw man, she just lets most guys raw dog her. Even if she doesn't, what's the harm in assuming that?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 06:14 AM
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I'd say it has more to do with the fact that many people who come here are or have been in bad spots after fucking their lives up in a multitude of ways. Sales happens to be one of those careers available to anyone who can perform (low barrier of entry), where someone can potentially make a lot of money without a lot of prerequisites. Sales jobs are plentiful, most guys are chumps. That's why Sales is cutthroat, low barrier of entry means tons of chumps out there grinding it out, but you have to…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 08:57 PM
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I'm not even sure that morals come into play at that point, her BF was cheating on her, not really much of a relationship at that point. She's attempting to cheat on him, now you either want to fuck or don't because if it ain't you it's someone else, you can believe that. I can understand a man not wanting to get involved in all that shit, but making her feel better...yeah. Not gonna roast OP though, he does clearly know where he fucked up and that it's a BP example. Sometimes it happens. Just a…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 08:25 AM
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Well you know he's really going to be in trouble now. Not even sure what was said, dude up and deleted his account. I've never really understood why people do that, like do they get so embarrassed they just delete a whole fucking account?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 08:22 AM
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I don't think they have witnessed little miss girl next door fuck some greasy punk the first night she met him at a local bar. I never did anything too too bad, and fortunately I was stubborn so I never became a cuck, but I'll never forget the jealousy I didn't know I harbored in my worst BP days. Being smart enough to see something, but not knowing how to reconcile it with what you're told. The jealousy is why is dealing with women such a tiring hassle, but it seems like some guys just have it …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 08:16 AM
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The medium is the message is probably the most impacting article he wrote for me. I won't say it's the best, or even my favorite, but in terms of sheer obviousness, practicality, and simplicity of it was relieving. It's harsh, but relieving. Guys want to believe in mixed signals because it keeps them in the game, if you just look at overall how a woman speaks to you and reacts to you, then it's very simple and clear she's either trying to closer to you or not. No use wasting time otherwise. Do w…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 08:08 AM
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Body dysmorphia in the fitness community is very real, among dudes too. Can really happen to anyone, it starts innocuously enough as just a little delusion from looking at yourself too much everyday. You stop seeing the whole, you only start focusing on the lines. Basically being hyper critical.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 06:46 AM
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I don't think his advice was bad, but it only works in places where you're already going to be. You should--as the top comment suggests, be going to places that will help you going forward. For example, reading OP's post had me thinking of the way I socialize at my gym. Nothing fancy, but if you go somewhere 4-5x a week you should at least get to know the staff, the regulars. You don't need to waste time, but some hi's and hello's over a year or two really add up. You don't do it for the benefit…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 06:39 AM
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Don't have to look, just marry her. You'll get your progressive overload.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 06:31 AM
1

Pretty much what I was thinking. I get that archetypes are useful for discussion, but when he asked what makes someone a Sigma the only thing I thought was that you had to spec out as one when you're in the character select screen.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 06:08 AM
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It's not an on or off switch. Most people are not totally introverted or extroverted. It very much is a spectrum and as such most people fall along the median. You can incline toward one or another slightly. I'm quite introverted but even I get very antsy if I can't get my social energy out. I think this is why many people mistake some introverts for extroverts, because the only time they see you is when you're charged up and ready to go, but when they don't you're just really low key.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 06:03 AM
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AKA that phenomenon almost all men know of where they can't seem to get the girl they like to do shit, and hang on every word she says and every word they craft to her. Meanwhile they all have girls (subpar, but girls nonetheless) who are giving them IOI's and making shit super smooth around them and they get baffled. I know I'm always amazed by it. Work with some girls I'm not interested in but they're surely interested in me, and it never ceases to amaze me how HARD it is to NOT game them. Lik…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 09:04 AM
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Porn is in that category for me. It's not bad for you and it's not good for you particularly. It's just meh. Sometimes it gives a good release, most of the time it's just...negligible. It's one dimensional and fake.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 08:46 AM
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This may be why people are more content going somewhere rather than getting there.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 09:11 PM
7

Glad to see I'm not the only one thinking about the place of gaming in society. I really think it will transcend to something immensely huge in 50-100 years. It will be ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 09:10 PM
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It's almost like people have different values and interests or something. Some of us are intrinsically interested in the medium itself, much like how some people are utterly captured by cinema. You're cluelessly projecting your own interests onto other people. I could give less of a fuck about chasing more money than I need. You're thinking about games that you can beat, which is usually the tell tale sign of someone who has casually played but took little interest. The most captivating games of…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 09:08 PM
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Always a touchy topic there. Gotta be in charge of your life, that's all I can say. Love me some video games, but they're best enjoyed after work well done. People love to scapegoat shit, but you should always blame the user. I play games with my friends and we have a great time, that's not a waste of time to me. That's the backbone of life, enjoying your relationships. That being said, you can't just shirk the shit you need to do to have fun doing something that will make you miserable later. I…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 09:02 PM
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PUA's are not successful though. They spend an immense amount of time memorizing routines and subroutines and distilling it down to a "science". The amount of time the average PUA who starts to reap benefits is completely relevant to how much time you would need to get yourself started on something worthwhile that adds value to your life such as an education of some sort or learning some skills. PUA's love obsessing over women, it's in the nature of the beast. They're far more focused on the gam…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 08:51 PM
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Can't tell if he has forsaken society or if he has impenetrable frame. What a fucking reversal. I'm fucking cracking up.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 08:46 PM
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Glad I incognito this bitch. Don't need that shit showing up;YOU RECOMMEND TOO MUCH AMAZON.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 08:45 PM
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I don't consider JBP to be selling religion though, I haven't seen at any point him telling people to be religious or Christian for that matter. He's saying that the stories whether true or not have incredibly poignant insights into human behavior--which is why they have survived as long. He is far more interested in the archetypal stories for their value in what they exemplify rather than religion as a thing you do. Basically they are some of the rawest and earliest accords of how we perceive t…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:26 AM
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I don't mean to reduce what he says because there's a lot to it, but to me: He's generally traipsing along the lines of neo-marxist postmodernism is bullshit because it says there are no universal values or truths, and that there are an infinite manner of interpretations upon reality. This is patently untrue because suffering is as real as it gets, and human beings universally suffer in certain ways. So it stands to reason that if we look at history, we can see that time and time again, certain …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:22 AM
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My bad red pill, didn't realize I wasn't allowed to see other people. I agree, Jordan Peterson is not your friend. He never said he was. Anybody who blindly listens to and follows anybody is not thinking for themselves. There's plenty of stuff on this sub that is horseshit, not even gonna bother arguing about that. I'll just take what I need and use what I think is valuable. Same with JBP, maybe I won't get married. Maybe I will, it won't be because JBP, or TRP. It will be because of me. That be…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 05:14 AM
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I'd like to add the sentiment both of you are saying is true both ways. There are true outliers who who need high to tremendous calories to gain. Most "skinny" guys are just dudes with poor diet and weak appetite. Appetite can be built, and depression/stress highly affects appetite. I'm not a stress eater, nor is my appetite huge. My family does not eat a whole lot either, so through all these factors I never had a huge appetite either. Eating is partly social. Make friends with fat fucks and ha…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:57 PM
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Probably a scale tbh. You're not huge at 150 but you can have a good outline if you have a small frame, but that ain't gonna part crowds. He's probably getting a reasonable response because he looks in shape, which feels like parting people vs being an invisible weakling. If you're treated poorly, then any response which denotes a little respect will come across as big. Ask any formerly fat person who became "normal", it's night and day. Must be unreal to quickly go from being invisible to being…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:45 PM
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Impressions can be changed with some people, but they have to be willing to engage you. For example if you hit on a girl that goes to your gym and you fuck it up and act all awkward and weird, it's going to be very hard to get out of that, and the more you try, the bigger the hole you dig yourself in. This is especially true of younger girls who are not very socially experienced or tactful. If you keep trying to change someone's mind, they will instinctively resist you just to resist you. They'l…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:40 PM
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God it sucks, especially if you want to bang a particular girl you might not have come across well with at first. Just gotta let that shit go. Way easier to form new impressions with others and gain social momentum vs trying to win over some people who are judging you wrong because of an off day or misunderstanding.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:33 PM
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I'm pretty cautious not to get too soft in giving people excuses for shit like appearances or disorders. That being said body dysmorphia is a VERY real thing, it goes both ways. I've seen guys who are fackin huge and they obsessively think they're not big enough. It's a mental disorder--a problem in perception. Conversely, I've seen tiny ass dudes who get a small bump on their bicep and they think they're huge, meanwhile they're like 120 lbs. Nobody is huge at 120lbs. I had the same issue for aw…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:32 PM
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Just ask yourself, what would Otacon do?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:22 PM
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Letting yourself play beta might be one of the most impressive displays of being secure with yourself that you can do. If you can't do it, then it means you're too obsessed with your own persona and not at all focused on the outcome. In short, being the alpha is a validation fantasy for you and that is more important than getting laid and getting out.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 11:21 PM
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You don’t need ANY kind of skin care routine to get laid Eh. Yeah and no. Having good skin is one of those things you just have. Girls react to things without realizing you've been putting effort there the whole time. I used to have a fairly high maintenance spiky hairstyle, it was very stylistic and appealed to a lot of the more punk chick types. It was just natural looking enough in places that I could tell women who asked me how I did it that I just put wax in it and that's it. Appearing effo…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 09:11 PM
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Guess I got lucky, studied English (and yes I am fruitfully employed and not a barista) and had some great teachers who didn't shove that shit down my throat. In fact, I suspect they were careful to neither endorse nor reject it. Smart people who want to keep their jobs, I suppose. That's okay though, I laid into this bullshit in my own essays and discussions in class though, and surprisingly my grades were fine. Super grateful for that.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 09:01 PM
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Seriously. Electives...FOR WHAT?! I thought that's what the fucking A.A was for, general studies. Wait...I thought that's what High School was for, general studies. What a bloated and useless system.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 08:59 PM
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Occasionally there's that older (late 20's, 30's), well put together dude who's going back to school because tech is more profitable than his current job. I've seen a couple dudes like that always come to school looking sharp and prepared, half the time they're not even interested in girls. They're actually there to just get a degree and make cash.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 08:57 PM
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Really depends where you are I guess, my experience with a lot of Indian dudes--especially those born here, is that they have half their foot in their parents home and the other half out in "American culture". They tend to groom and dress VERY well in that GQ sort of way, but they lack the masculinity more often than not to go along with that. So they just come across as nicely dressed young men, sort of metrosexual.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 08:33 PM
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Not attracted to them, never have been. Grew up in a pretty diverse place ethnically speaking, and have never gotten along with most Indian dudes either. General rule of thumb I've had and have generally seen between Indian dudes who don't fit the stereotype, is that we could be with Indian girls but choose to pursue other options because we can. Not only this, but the way I see it is that any Indian girl attractive enough for me to be interested is usually attractive enough for her to explore h…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 08:26 PM
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No matter what your stance is on porn consumption, it's obviously a big point of contention for men these days. Really interesting how this is such a common and heated topic of discussion. I've experimented a lot, with no fap, fapping all the time, fapping some of the time. Fapping with or without porn over the course of my life. There's really so many angles there's no one size fits all solution. Libido varies, there is hyper sexual imagery everywhere in society, it's hard to avoid. Men have va…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 08:12 PM
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Too true. Including myself, it's very easy to look at someone's friends and get a good picture of who they are as far as society goes. Society doesn't care about your "potential", it only care about what you are right now and what you offer. You might have the heart and mind to do something great, but if I look at your friends and all you do is waste time with losers then that is more or less who you are. The older I get, the more I realize just how important environment is to the growth of a pe…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 02:08 AM
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Perhaps you're viewing it wrong. Do you ever get over attachment? Or do you learn to accept that the attachment itself will cause you to experience a negative emotion like sadness. Through accepting this is inevitable (this cannot be willed by the way) you do not have the subsequent reaction to the reaction. You won't feel hurt or anxious or sad about feeling hurt or anxious or sad about someone leaving you. Attachment is a thing that happens regardless of what you want, so in a sense it is an o…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 09:15 AM
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I've never been in OP's situation but my take on it is that it is possible regardless of whether it is true here. The reality is that this phenomenon happens everywhere in life. There are things you crave or desire in which your want for them so desperately intrudes on your ability to get them. It consumes you. Yet, there is a strange momentum to it all. Let's take it out of the sexual realm and move somewhere more relatable for anyone. Suppose you have no friends, making friends is difficult. B…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 09:40 PM
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It's pretty insidious because most people see that it's all bullshit but we just accept that this is what needs to be done in order to pass and graduate. Many people are not interested in making moral or intellectual stands in the classroom because ultimately they're not interested in questioning the system, they want the carrot that's being dangled in front of them. If a kid questioned the question in class (which I HAVE seen, usually the spergy kid that doesn't get it), most of the students ro…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 11:00 PM
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Jesus, that's fucked. Pretty much uses the most simple loophole most people have--narcissism or maybe more accurately, believing yourself to be different, honest or true than the "outside" world. Make a man say or do something at your request and he'll resist. Make a man believe it was his own idea, and well...there you go.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 10:55 PM
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Good luck convincing people here that. The reality is that marriage is a mistake only if you are unawares of how lopsided a deal it is. If you know, and choose to proceed then at the very least that is a conscious choice. It is when men get blindsided that I'll choose to say that they were fools. Really, it just depends on how badly you want kids. I can't say for sure, but if I ever get married i'll definitely be going in knowing pretty much anything can happen.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 09:44 AM
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Yup. The minute you realize your parents are just ordinary people that grew older (to get older is to realize "old" is not really that old, or special), is the minute your problems become your own. I could blame my dad for a lot of shit, his immaturity, lack of frame, never taught me shit, stole my competence by never letting me handle my own problems thus leading to dependence and self confidence issues down the road, etc. He's basically a product of his era, his home country and his own parent…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 09:38 AM
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I can't tell if those creepy indian dudes are helping me or hurting me as an Indian dude.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 05:51 AM
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it seems like gamers and beach bums don't care about how they dress. Not quite true, gamers are a pretty diverse demographic, but I get who exactly you're talking about. Enough people play games that there's even hierarchies there. It's not unusual to find the odd gamer chad here and there, or at least a good looking, well dressed dude in the mix. The social gaming sphere continues to fascinate me as it evolves. Weird place. On a somewhat irrelevant note, I always thought it was unusual how I me…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 05:28 AM
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Weird how they say guys will do anything to get laid. Women will literally be anyone to get what they want out of you too.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 07:18 PM
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I think that's why the feminine mystique even exists as a concept. Women largely operate on a feelz level and that includes their innate abilities for manipulation. This makes them very efficient and proficient at it, but I think ultimately the more procedural and systematic learning of that behavior that men typically use (actually breaking it down into principles) lends itself to a higher "end game" we'll call it. It means men are less proficient at it, but if learned well, can become better a…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 07:15 PM
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Honestly, guys in here are disproportionately uh...susceptible to feeling irritated at an uber Chad. Nobody here wants to hear this due to the nature of this sub, but is getting laid all the time really the only thing in life? Like is there really nothing more to life for some of these dudes? I get it, I'm not downplaying needing to get laid, or wanting it. But how often is enough? I think that number varies man to man. If you wanna chase good looking pussy as a life goal then go for it, but I s…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 06:58 PM
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Ditto, also makes you think of Third Eye by Tool right after.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 06:47 PM
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Women can accept blame to varying degrees. The simplest answer is they don't have to, so they don't.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 05:33 AM
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It is innate, ask yourself how long does it take for you to size up a woman's attractiveness to you, assuming she isn't be obscured by baggy clothing or something. It probably takes a second or less of just looking, your eyes immediately glance over and check general shape, face, ass, legs and breasts with incredibly efficient speed. I'd imagine women can do the same looking at a guy.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 02:45 AM
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Placebo. Nofap is an overreaction for guys who had a problem with jerking off too much to porn. You can literally just cut the porn and jerk off normally and you'll be fine. Without the extra porn stimulus you'll pretty much only masturbate when you really need to. Problem with porn is that you can go the extra mile even though you're not really all that aroused, the stimulus is just strong enough to allow it so you burn yourself out. I will agree that learning to discipline yourself and not min…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 09:15 PM
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5-10 minutes a day and you'll see immediate benefits just due to how overactive most people's minds are. After that initial obvious benefit you're only sabotaging yourself meditating for benefits. Practice is simple, but not easy. You'll continually fuck up by having expectations or desire for gain. Like everything else regarding meditation...it's full of dualities. You know you receive benefit from meditation, but you cannot meditate FOR the benefits. Put it simply, you can't do it desiring ben…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 09:05 PM
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Agreed, except if she's a feminist she can keep her fucking clothes on. It's no joke. Self identified feminist is an automatic DQ for me. I also agree on standing your ground, I've been in this situation more than a few times and eventually learned I had to temper my tendency to be intentionally inflammatory in how I state things. I just stick to my guns in a casual way. To me, the key is not coming across as resentful or butthurt about it. You never want to make it seem like your belief is sole…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 07:45 PM
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I've said this before, but we don't need to do anything. In fact, the superficial aspects of RP game as you know it is dying and will just be rebirthed in another form. You see, what's going to and already is happening is that the dogmatic people who clung to TBP--roughly speaking, are just going to join the growing edgy memelord internet crowd and cannibalize the name and game. The underlying RP principles will still be true, but how they are presented through game will change. To be blunt, all…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 04:28 AM
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Without getting into idealism and my personal opinions of "how" any of us should be, I gotta give you credit, it really is a trap in itself. If we see women as selfish and wanting to have their cake and eat it too, I'd say a lot of guys dream of cake--and then an opportunity for getting cake shows up but they don't take it because it's the wrong fucking cake. So they fuck off back to their fantasy, and it turns out insulating yourself and fantasizing about cake is merely dangling a carrot in fro…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 06:32 AM
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You do realize a good barber/stylist can cut the bulk out of it in the right spots with thinning shears yeah?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 06:16 AM
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It seems to me that feminists think that all men experience masculinity and lifestyle the way top 10% men do. I'm not really even fond of that phrase either, top 10% man. I wouldn't look at Weinstein and think "top 10% man". There's no linear metric.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 07:15 PM
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Easy, women use other women to gauge a mans smv. Following that if she sees you with a woman that SHE believes to be on par with her or greater (her subjective evaluation of your current dates smv) then she will recalibrate and possibly reengage you because of the classic FOMO (fear of missing out). You cant make solid rules on this because MM MF and FF smv evaluations are highly subjective. A woman can and often do branch swing to worse men in your eyes, but she could believe he is better.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 12:00 AM
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There it is, had to scroll down to find this sentiment. In a world in which most men in the corresponding age group and even higher do not possess a backbone and all that goes with it, women are left with assholes as the only men who act in an attractive manner even if only for the wrong reasons. I still honestly believe that women who love to be mistreated are simply sexually dysfunctional, if it came down to choosing a man who was powerful and possessed self respect, but was benevolent, versus…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 12:30 AM
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Yeah it's fucking disgusting. unzips So anyways what'd you do yesterday?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 12:22 AM
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Oh she looks wonderful, I can see the whites above and below her eyes and she has an unflinching gaze not unlike that of a soldier who has come back from war...
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 12:16 AM
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It is a reasonable story, life is stranger than fiction sometimes, but the problem with the net is that just because a story sounds reasonable and IS possible, does not mean that it is real. So then we get into a weird place of discussing a situation that may not have happened in a hypothetical and abstract space which assumes that if it did, X wisdom can be gleaned out of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 12:11 AM
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While I don't usually recommend violence due to the legal implications and inconvenience/risk, if there was going to be a situation you had to whoop a guys ass it would be that. He crossed the line not when he informed OP's plates of each other--which is of course, petty and wrong, but rather when he said OP is essentially a rapist. It's also a curious psychological aspect of white knights and severe BP guys, their concept of sexuality is so fucked up that they think any guy who can lay women ou…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 12:08 AM
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I agree it was overkill and its really not a big deal to ignore someone, he took a risky action. I greatly feel like if I wanted her to stop I should just do something retarded as fuck that would surely make her think less of me or at least dry the attraction up. So I'd just probably look at her and make a retarded face squinting my eyes and making beaver teeth kinda like that racist chinese stereotype of a character in old cartoons. But fuck me it'd make her more interested knowing how shit wor…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 10:44 PM
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I've never related to the you are the prize mentality. You are the prize is the equivalent for low value males as "you are beautiful as you are" for fat women. It seeks to provide antithetical feelings to remedy the ails you feel from the root problem. If you are looked over and possess little to no social or career value, then you naturally feel shitty as a result. There's nothing dysfunctional about that. Most people are fairly aware if even subconsciously about their standing in hierarchies, …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 10:38 PM
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lmao username checks out. OP should have done a low effort escalation, those turn out the best anyways.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 07:44 PM
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Yup. It's risky and almost stupid to hit on girls at the gym, this is a place you go to do business 3-6 times a week, you don't want to fuck that up for a shot at pussy. It's a social thing and all it takes is the wrong woman to file a complaint and it looks terrible on you regardless of how true it is. If I talk to a girl at the gym I'll be sure to be seen talking to many other people too, best to look like you're just social. Hell, you should get to know your gym regulars anyways.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 07:42 PM
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Important to consider. Most people actually have zero fuckin' idea what's happening on the net. Online, everything is magnified and you think it's a fucking world crisis--it's not, though still important. Most people don't even know what an SJW is. You can consider internet culture as the progenitor to the attitudes and behaviors of normies, and I don't say that in a good or bad way. It just is. Consider how snowflake used to be a thing we called sensitive SJW type liberals...now look at how it …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 07:31 PM
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As far as I'm concerned, the only question to ask yourself when you think about this dilemma is, "how much pussy is enough?"
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 04:53 AM
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I agree with this. Women ARE attracted to objectively successful and ambitious men who possess disinterest/distance due to their abundance...however... Women are also attracted to Chad the barista who works at Starbucks. Chad doesn't feel self conscious about working making shit money as a barista, he has fun and is fulfilled enough socially that he has abundance mentality. He isn't some god, it's not that he never feels dissatisfied, it's just that when it comes to women and friends he's probab…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 06:44 PM
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I noticed that too, and I'll continue to consider it. I guess it's nothing new, there's that stereotype of the ditzy bimbo blonde that flirts with everyone but doesn't put out as much as you think. Attention and sex are pretty closely weighted for women, but some women love the attention far more than sex when it comes to most dudes, and so you should be careful not to feed those. So what do you think, girls who actually like you are not quite reserved, conservative or intimidated, yet give off …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 05:45 AM
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Pretty much what I was thinking, not just in terms of women but in everything. He already had it in the bag, but this seems to happen to a lot of people in many different things. Things are going well, and that excites you. That excitement causes you to pile more actions on to the situation which actually work and surprise you further, now--this is where you should stop because no more is needed. Now, you're just being egotistical trying to see how much more you can do and get away with and you …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 05:40 AM
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Lifting heavy is great, but also misunderstood and pretty much hyped up for the wrong reasons ever since powerlifting got back into the spotlight through IG and Youtube. In terms of building muscle, using a rep scheme of 8-12 is way better, the problem is that most people waste their fucking time with this. Everyone is different, and there is no right way to do it because of that and people have different goals. If you're a beginner though, it's really important to build a solid base of strength…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 05:27 AM
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Because they're not actually teaching you anything in Karate McDojos?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 06:51 PM
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I did bitch, fight me for royalties.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 06:49 PM
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What in the actual fuck did I just read? I've always liked reading/writing and grammar stuff in school, but fuck if I care if people aren't trying to be perfect about it in texts...that being said, you'd have to be trying to type that poorly. Seriously, we didn't even sound that retarded with T9 texting, hell if anything it made us more concise.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 06:47 PM
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How can I say this...for the most part, anything goes in attraction so long as you don't project an insecurity of it. Of course reality isn't determined in your head, but the belief of it is what warps peoples perceptions of you. If you're self conscious about some aspect of you, and then you act awkward when that aspect is shown in public, it makes people cringe. However, if you show that you do not care by actually letting it go, people ease up. They don't care that you feel awkward about it, …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 04:40 AM
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It might actually be one of the most transparent RP examples of female behavior that is covered in mainstream entertainment. It's practically an episode that writes itself for most sitcoms, the only difference is they try to do it both ways depending on the show. Either a male interest turning out to be a scumbag, or a female interest turning out to be a manipulative sloot. As for the OP, I'd also forgive him the first time, but I'd be lying if I was saying I didn't remember it or I wasn't regar…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 04:21 AM
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unattainable cruel chads I think you just accidentally discovered one of the best indie band names ever.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 04:14 AM
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More or less. I took the effort to radically rethink my beliefs over many years and it has changed me in certain ways. As someone who had major anxiety and over thought everything, stuck in my head as it were, keeping it simple for me is the next level. Because for me, keeping it simple by my standard of over stimulation is actually just right, while another man might find he needs to actually think more or consider things. There's a saying I've been telling myself to remind myself whenever I'm …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 08:25 AM
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That's a hard lesson, you can't save people that want to drown more than they want to live, they choose without realizing it. They choose every day, half asleep, to do the things they do. I tried to lift when I was a teen, my workouts were janky and disorganized, I didn't have the will to get my diet in order, to stop eating junk, to stop drinking soda. Every little minor victory was just permission for me to indulge just the same but without guilt. Nothing changed...until one day, I had enough,…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 04:01 AM
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Hah, I read the first two sentences of your post and thought "oh boy, nothing did it for you? Michael's story panged in my heart", and that is literally your next sentence. I never got LJBF'd, nor did I get rejected as much, but I wasn't successful back then, I was just gone, isolated by own deep dissatisfaction and sheer dissonance of trying to understand what society was telling me vs what I was sensing and seeing.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 03:57 AM
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Intentionally confusing how?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:41 PM
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No, continue to workout but consider that working out for an hour a day a few times a week is not going to undo the extreme sedentary lifestyle most people have nowadays. It's so normalized but it's not natural, it is an extreme lifestyle compared to what our bodies are meant to do in terms of movement and activity. See my reply to the other guy under this same thread.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:30 PM
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It's not about boosting testosterone, it's about being mobile and active as you're intended to be. Think about what sitting in a chair all day does to you. You waste away, your blood flows slower, your posture degenerates, your muscles atrophy since they are not lightly active and your bones grow weaker because you are not putting that minimal stress on them. I hate to go all woo woo on you too, but there is definitely a mind body connection in the simplest terms in which if you are sitting all …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:28 PM
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"Anhydrous dextrose, brown sugar, cane crystals, cane sugar, corn sweetener, corn syrup, corn syrup solids, crystal dextrose, evaporated cane juice, fructose sweetener, fruit juice concentrates, high-fructose corn syrup, honey, liquid fructose, malt syrup, maple syrup, molasses, pancake syrup, raw sugar, sugar, syrup and white sugar" AKA sugar.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:58 AM
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Not exactly. You can't compare the burst of exercise combo'd with relative sedentary activity that many people call being in shape. The truth is that low impact activity throughout the day makes a huge difference to your health. What is better, to be active and walk/run throughout the day, or to cram it all into an hour? Exercise is good, but it does not and cannot replace living an active and mobile life. That is the unfortunate part, we can all make changes but the modern world is not so compa…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:56 AM
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Experience itself is the actualization of knowledge. In meditation the concept of insight is much like that. You see something over, and over, and over and over again, until at one point it just clicks and something inside of you shifts what seems like permanently. You are changed. How you act now is in line with that change without you even trying, it is now part of your reality. Reading TRP will never do this for you, only experience will. Words are like sign posts that can send you in the rig…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:48 AM
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I'd wager it has always been more along those lines than not. Women have always like sex on the rough side I imagine. As for the Twilight or 50 shades thing, harlequin romances have always featured characters along those archetypes so it's nothing new.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:34 AM
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I'm not particularly in any situations with minors like volunteer work or anything, more like if you go to any place locally where anybody can hang out there are bound to be high school kids, such as the mall, coffee shops, book stores, etc. My nieces and nephews are in High School and have a lot of friends and I'm close with them so I meet a ton of kids from there. Even apart from that I just get really strong IOI's from roughly 15-19 year old girls in public because they think I'm in High Scho…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:30 AM
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Yup, I knew that didn't seem right when I said it. Glad you got what I was saying though, rather that the increased occurrence of obesity in the US has made it much more likely for women to be fat, and that as a result non overweight women have better options. As for mismatched relationships, I'm not talking about high SMV guys and average girls, I'm talking about really good looking guys who seem to have their shit together getting with girls who are overweight or just not at all attractive in …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 07:20 AM
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How old are we talking here? I was what you'd call a late starter (not puberty wise, just game wise), I'm in my upper twenties and while I do okay with women my own age, a strange thing is happening to me where I'm unfortunately very popular with roughly High School age girls or slightly above. That's a bit unnerving for me since most of them are minors and I'm never going to go there, but it is also incredibly frustrating because I'm wondering how the fuck my charm is basically 8-10 years behin…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 08:26 PM
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Yup. Fatties inflated the price of pussy. So many fat fucks everywhere that just being an average and slender girl knocks your options upwards quite a bit. Given that there is a ceiling on rough attractiveness...everything is pushed down for men. I have seen some well groomed and attractive dudes dating uggos, I'm sorry but what the fuck? I hate saying shit like this because I'm pretty empathetic for people in general even though I won't admit it IRL. I've met some very kind but unattractive peo…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 08:21 PM
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Marriage was doomed when it lost the consequence of divorce or the social stigma. You pull religion and scary god vengeance stories out from under marriage and leave it without that stuff...nobody gives a fuck about it anymore. There is little seriousness left to it beside the financial disaster for men. It's not about whether those things are true, but that they are a good sounding board for seriousness. If everyone believes those things to be true, they would not commit without real faith in t…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 08:09 PM
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I don't think you'll totally ever eliminate a certain level of scarcity, but you can definitely get it down to controllable levels. For example, I just made a post in this thread about liking girls with great legs, I know pretty precisely what I like and am looking for, and so even if I'm in abundance, there will always be women who embody my exact preference who will be a cut above all others in terms of my ideal of beauty. Those are the women you must watch yourself closely for. Some men are n…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 05:53 PM
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Everyone likes tits, but I think most guys have a necessity for one of those three you mentioned being good. Personally, I'm all about the legs. I'm so particular about them it sort of cracks me up. I'm not totally insane with specificity, but a girl I'm into definitely has to have great legs. Decent profile to them, some quads but not too much, an appreciable amount of calves but not bulging, and slender ankles. No kankles for me fuck that. I'm not insanely specific to one type of shape, as lon…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 05:50 PM
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This is a great place to state an observation I've had over the years as someone who is extremely knowledgeable about gaming culture and online gaming. Gaming online is probably the best place to observe this tit effect in action. The reason being is that many men can be in a server playing a game and act natural as they see fit. Then, a woman will suddenly speak up and now we know that x player is a woman. We all believed it was all men until a woman spoke and now we know there is a woman in th…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 05:45 PM
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It means that for a man to have a high partner count is a truer estimate of his SMV than it is for a woman. Guys will fuck down a lot which is highly correlated to how convenient it is for them. Regardless, any man with a high partner count very likely has something going for him of worth. Women do not require much of anything beyond what they are born with to have access to sex. For women, access to sex is a given, it is the question whether they can get the type of man they want, not if they c…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 09:10 PM
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It's a total mindfuck and I almost hate it, but that's just how it is. Strength is related to size, but not necessary. There are some small dudes pulling huge numbers, because lifting heavy ass shit 1-3 times is more of a physical skill than it is a necessity of muscularity. General endurance is what creates size, people argue the fuck out of this but it cannot be any more obvious in real life. A bigger muscle is a stronger one (potentially) and there's all sorts of circle jerks about how muscle…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 08:33 PM
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That's cool. We all totally use it like that in 2017, for sure. Especially in these circles.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 08:23 PM
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I feel that types are not discussed here very well. There's a lot of discussion about SMV, but not much giving credence to the fact that women have types even though it's not set in stone. I think it's important to ask yourself what type you portray yourself as. You're doing it even if you aren't cognizant of it.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 04:04 AM
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I wonder how a pressure flip would have worked. I feel a "I dunno, do YOU think you're easy?" would have been really fun. Almost by default she'd probably have to say no, and then I'd test the waters with a "Okay then, shut the fuck up". Totally unsure how it'd pan out but that's my instinct.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 04:00 AM
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I mean, generally speaking (hopefully), the more in shape you are the more your own standards should go up. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy lifting as an activity itself, but make no mistake I'm not busting my ass here just to date some fatty who can't bother to keep in shape.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:56 AM
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lolwut? You srs? Nah man, natty = natural. Did you think if people questioning if someone was natty meant that their dreads weren't...wait what? What if they didn't have dreads?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:14 AM
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I also wanna jump on this because I've been going through this recently. Look, if you wanna do high volume hypertrophy routines and get big, it's gonna take awhile. The reasoning to lift heavy and focus on strength is because THAT is very practical but unfortunately not as satisfying in terms of looking good naked. It's IMO the best path though for the average dude. If you do not have a foundation of strength and you're weak as fuck how yoked do you think you're going to get repping some measly …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:01 AM
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Nope, he's just leaner or at the very least very lean and the lighting does a lot to accentuate that. OP probably looks really yoked in a tshirt because his delts are fucking popping out. You don't really get 3d delts like that unless you're on the gear.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 02:52 AM
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Weirdly enough, both of you are right. I've seen both examples in action. There ARE 14 year old girls who know that they are out to play with a little fire and do something dangerous, and /u/quasarFeline is correct in that they're not totally cognizant of just what exactly it is that they are playing with. They understand that it is inappropriate, but they do not understand the level to which it is because they're still children. Their conception of consequence is still in the minor leagues. It'…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 02:38 AM
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Stop being a little bitch, that's just one user decrying you and you act like the entire sub is against you. This shit frame you have is exactly why the situation blew up in your face. Support you? Nobody here is going to support you for hitting on a 14 year old, you'll get support that it was an honest mistake and could happen to anybody, but that's about it. Most of the advice I've seen here is good: it crumbled because you got weird about the situation when she told you her age. It's understa…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 02:27 AM
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Lmao I'm dying, I re-read the part you highlighted and had the same laugh, then I looked at the gif only to be met with literally how I reacted. 10/10 gif usage. OP just mad he got bamboozled by mother nature. I'm actually pretty impressed though, a lot of the replies are pretty sensible saying how OP should not let it get to him and that she's just a dumbass 14 year old. OP is acting like some sinister incarnation of evil is lurking in that 14 year old, meanwhile he's just flustered and scared …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 02:22 AM
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You misunderstand. It's not enjoyable to me, but it is also further detrimental to my public image which will in familiar circles slightly hurt my chances with more attractive women--thus, causing me undue suffering. It's not that I want to do it but don't because of others, it is that I don't want to AND it's also working against me if we consider what others think. Not caring what others think does not mean being oblivious to how their thoughts affect you. Also, TRP is not about "getting rid o…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 02:09 AM
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Sometimes habits amaze me. I love going to the gym, I get a bit depressed when I can't go because I really like pumping some iron and letting out some pent up energy. I noticed that when I get sick or take vacations and I'm away from the gym for a week or so, the next week the first day is a bit of a drag to go. The laziness starts to mount even on something I genuinely enjoy doing and rarely skip. That's some food for thought right there. Momentum is everything, and once you understand that you…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:55 AM
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They are, just not in the way people make them seem. They won't really increase your T and if they do it's marginal at best. The benefit is the discipline, actual increased cold tolerance, and personally I can attest to their ability to reduce or cut away at some anxiety and depression in non-medication needing individuals. Also, they really, really help in reducing soreness or any minor aches in pains from hard workouts. I usually take a cold one in the morning and a hot one at night. Don't be …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:49 AM
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It's something I struggled very heavily with, that conundrum. I came to a similar conclusion, but ironically being nothing allows you to be everything that you are and more. Do we have temperament, habits, tendencies, patterns and traits? Sure, can we change some of those? Sure. When you view yourself as unknown and a bit foreign--like viewing yourself as an outsider, you find that many of your ideas about yourself fall by the wayside. You don't discourage yourself nearly as much from doing some…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:44 AM
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There's that really successful Cracked article 6 Harsh Truths That Will Make You A Better Person, or something like that. It really was a damn fine article for the modern male malaise. One of the best and simplest ideas it put forth was that your self esteem is low because you don't do anything. You don't provide any value for anyone, so why would anyone bother with you when there are others just like you but also doing shit in their lives? Value is not just money or tangible benefits, but reall…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:33 AM
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It does depend on the individual. I wouldn't want to fuck any girl I wasn't comfortable other people knew I fucked her. Simple as that. It's not so much about the opinions of others as it is that it's not enjoyable to me and it will hurt my rep a bit. You don't want to be known as a guy that fucks fatties or uggos. If women see that you only bang attractive or at least decently cute girls, then it helps them along in getting with you if they feel it will prove them to be just as much if not more…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 01:15 AM
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IMO the fundamental premise of a religion is to make people believe in and feel that there is something outside of themselves that defies explanation yet provides it. Anywhere there are people, it is only a matter of time before religion pops up. We tend to focus on the worst parts of religion (I'm not at all religious btw), but we seldom remember what it did for people too. Science is the new religion, and it's absolutely shit at the job. Look at the way people worship statistics and "studies" …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 07:09 PM
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The best answer to LMR in most cases for me is to just peace the fuck out. It's very important you don't act butthurt about it, I'd even go so far as to say you shouldn't be butthurt about it. It can be frustrating to escalate throughout the night and then you hit a snag like that, but if you act with an abundance mentality this should be no big deal to you. I used to think just peacing the fuck out in such a situation would be mean or manipulative, but now I realize it's nothing of the sort. As…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 06:56 PM
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LOL. You'd be surprised what alphas and betas do. Sometimes they're even the same person.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 04:05 AM
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You're wrong. The neckbeard/fedora jokes were in before the inception of this sub, so it doesn't really pin anything on him. In fact they had nothing to do with PUA or manosphere content. Fedoras and neckbeards became associated due to an unmistakable trend of neckbeards having no fashion sense then just throwing a fedora on thinking they've suddenly become cool. The neckbeard term and idea dates back to around 2005 or so and gained popularity from thereon. The identity of the neckbeard then bec…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 03:57 AM
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It's funny you mention that, I've sometimes imagined what it would be like for me to be a father, and the end result is asking what kind of father would I be to my kid, to myself? It helps me understand my own father, but it also helps me understand the pain of insufficiency. I don't ever want to be in a position where I can't teach my kid shit or I'm useless, or even worse--that my kid succeeds and I'm a bit jealous because I never succeeded at that age. Of course, that is just a worst case sce…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 02:04 AM
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Best case scenario is she'll cringe at you breaking the fourth wall. Oof. Now that is pithy. High School me was guilty of this. I was a lot of things, beta, anxious, socially undeveloped, terribly depressed, delusional and invested in personal ideals that were out of touch with reality. However I did understand people on the instinctual level of the manipulator. I was acutely aware of how manipulative people were but instead of just using that to my advantage I did the opposite--I controlled mys…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 08:14 PM
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I really enjoyed your post, and I think this first paragraph stood out to me the most as something ill expressed here on this sub in most cases. Man wants happiness. To achieve it he'll enlist in his life the greatest number of conditions that give rise to the greatest quality versions of it. Each man will seek some unique variety of those conditions, partially due to individuation of personality among different men and partially due to some being able to recognize certain conditions for happine…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 06:10 PM
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This is what I was thinking. In the case of sex, it makes little difference. Assuming Guy B was a chump who wasn't getting any, going from that to getting laid reasonably often with mostly average or sometimes above average girls is a hell of a lot better than being an incel. Even if Guy A learns some game and now fucks with all kinds of babes, I mean what do you care about that if you're Guy B? So what if Guy A gets twice the lays and more often than not they are better than yours, that is a po…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 01:32 AM
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AHAHAHAHA holy shit that reminds me of this
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 03:34 AM
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I always wondered if there was any ways around it. I question do these guys own cars or do they bike everywhere, when do they ride? Do bikes appeal to people who are more likely to do risky things and thus die? I'm aware that when riding a bike it's more often than not someone else who is going to get you killed, but still. I've wanted one, but I question if there is ever a time where you can just go for a joyride as a hobby instead of transportation and be on the safer side for it--as in just r…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 11:55 PM
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(one is her mom. lol). What the fuck, why is it that when there are prostitutes there is always somewhere a mother daughter combo in the mix.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:47 AM
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Hate to break it to ya mate, but once mainstream media covers (admits to) something as dubious as that that's when you know it's really proliferated. It's the technology man, it just gives people a level of covertness and discretion that we've never ever had before. Stealth and secrecy used to be an artform, now it's just a DM and a password blocked account for most people lmao.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:46 AM
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You gotta take a step back and look at it. I had the same thought for a sec too, but it's an easy way of thinking to fall back into. If he messaged her before, it means he wanted to smash. Now that she hits him up later, he gets all skeptical and feels like it's not worth it--I can respect that, nothing wrong there. But why on earth would you bother replying? He could have easily ghosted and never replied to her if he had no intent to smash. He wasted time communicating because he wanted the ple…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:42 AM
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That post is gold, Rollo does a really good job of delineating how Corey is a fucking dumbass you should not necessarily aspire to be, but his zen like alphaness is undeniable--if even only for just the context he is alpha in. I agree with you that you should not underestimate women, their ability to fluidly and convincingly change how they act to suit a situation can be pretty impressive. I'd wager many if not most men have this preoccupation with a "real self", some really rigid mental ideal t…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 06:06 AM
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I wrote something similar to this in that what they do have is difficult for many men to see or understand, but when you do the jig is up and it becomes their worst weakness considering women will do everything to absolve themselves of any notion that their mythical intuition could be so easily manipulated and tricked. I suspect this is why women so often reach out to other women to gauge men, it's like they're all trying to connect to one another and access a big databank of social knowledge ga…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 05:59 AM
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This always cracks me up so much, it HAS TO, otherwise it's infuriating. It's like when you play a game and some component of it pisses you the fuck off, but you know it's just how the game is and you have to play around it. Likewise, women get to be the sexual selectors, so while it does irritate me that girls get to hang back and choose while also being totally garbage at it--that's just the nature of it. It's probably for the best, a woman with actual game--charm, is a scary thing. Most men a…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 07:13 AM
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A knife is a horrible, loathsome weapon. It's really no joke. It is amazing how much people are completely deluded by the massive amount of media they've consumed--myself included. You'll find yourself trusting your gut on your opinion because something "seems like it'd be that way" when you imagine it. If you investigate the gut feeling and take it apart it almost always has no basis in what you've personally seen or what is substantiated. It's almost always some horseshit you thought was somet…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 06:35 AM
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It's always a bit frightening. I typically like girls that have that cute petite look like she does; looks can be deceiving. Nobody is ever terribly surprised when that girl who has that really sexually appealing look (big bust, fat ass, provocative etc) turns out to be promiscuous. But when you find out the really cute innocent looking girl is getting her pussy beat up on a weekly basis it really flips a switch in your head. I'm somewhat indifferent to Trump, but his quote from Art of the Comeb…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 01:02 AM
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PDA always irked me, I'm not saying you should be totally hands off, but something about it always seemed very unmanly to me. Exceptions being slapping a girls ass. I guess it's just dependent on location and the particular action. Never understood those couples that wait in line at a fast food joint or something and are fucking stuck together making out or hugging the whole time. Always seemed kind of weak to me.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 12:58 AM
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Basically, yes. Not just his SMV, his lifestyle. If you look at any woman who is--at the moment, really attracted to a guy and in an LTR with him, she will basically...become him. She will like the same shit as him, get involved in his hobbies, root herself into his social circle. One of the most important understandings about women that I got from the manosphere is that women are by far WAY more interested than men in social positioning. There are plenty of introverted or slightly anti-social m…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 06:54 AM
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The concept of no game is an old one, it's ancient and across many disciplines. You are correct in saying that it's basically the JBY bluepill advice. JBY is actually great advice...if you've been also busting your ass to improve and will continue to do so. No game is the end of the road, something you are capable of in a given task after spending a great amount of time and effort consciously ingraining the reactions until they are no longer conscious. Video games are a very simple example of th…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/17 05:33 AM
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If you're talking about that line in particular or ones like it, they work because they're inherently condescending or have a non-serious tone. "You're gorgeous, what's your name" is a lot different then "Hey, sweetie. You're adorable" The first is shitty beta pick up, the second is the lingo of a guy who is--or is trying to sound like a player. Adorable is in itself a sly neg, it means you don't take her seriously. Fucking cats and babies are adorable, your little kid sister is adorable. Everyo…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 05:38 AM
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I think OP's advice could work as long as you didn't lay it on thick. The problem is that it is a roundabout method. If you overtly state you like a girl, then it typically shows you lack game because you're not stating it subtextually where all the fun is had for women. It's roundabout because it requires you to display that you truly don't give a shit about rejection and just say what's on your mind. That is hard to prove to someone you've just met, because typically words seldom prove shit li…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 05:30 AM
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I agree, while I think porn isn't the worst thing ever, and most people are probably okay, it's just one of those things that you're better off without. Don't worry about whether porn should be allowed or not, or whether anyone should watch it. It should be good enough for you to know that you shouldn't and won't. Personally, I'm of the opinion that if you stop watching/jerking off to porn, and limit your masturbation ONLY to your imagination (and no thinking of porn you've watched), then your h…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 05:10 AM
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The only time Nofap makes sense in the way it is portrayed is for guys who have an extreme addiction to PMO (porn masturbation orgasm). These guys are tugging themselves a couple times a day and watching a ton of porn until they become physically and emotionally desensitized. So I can see why they preach nofap so much, but they project too much. They had a specific problem and solved it, and then think that everyone has that problem. I have my own vices, porn is not one of them. Maybe as you get…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 08:39 PM
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I always wondered about that. Looks can get you in the door, but poor game dries panties.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 05:40 PM
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Don't see why this is such a big deal. Once a week or once every couple of days. Stop obsessing about jerking off or not jerking off. It's a fucking placebo for bigger problems. Guys who talk about how they felt drained after blowing a load and how all their cosmic energy was lost are jackasses. You simply created a cycle of associations. You believe that blowing your load makes you lose some quintessential masculine essence, and so when you do that you make yourself feel guilty and that you're …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 05:29 PM
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Pretty much. That's the red pill in a nutshell for me. It's all about odds, opportunity and probability. AWALT; all women CAN cheat. Question is if it will be worth it for them. The better you are, the less worth it. The BP mindset will blind you to sexual dynamics, that's the TLDR of it. It blinds you from the ruthless selection process and how no option is ever really permanent. People come and go. Culture also warps the rules of this process. ALTHOUGH, it's not always that clear cut. Many bit…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 05:14 PM
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Agreed. I thought the whole point of "she's not yours, it's just your turn" was that you should let go of control of such behaviors. It's also not tremendously great for your reputation. I think it's fine to put your foot down and draw the line of what is or is not acceptable, but that's just a modus operandi, not really practical if you want an LTR--and that's where the issue lies. Having a "real" LTR is sketchy at best. It obviously requires trust, and if you've been here long enough that noti…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 05:08 PM
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While I don't doubt the message of hypergamy and AWALT, what is happening here is a bit more than that. It's really a case of ego validation. You see, women grow up having something valuable that the world wants in some parts greater or lesser depending on her looks--the vagina. Imagine if you were born with such a thing, you'd have a hard time finding other qualities that could trump the inherent value that your vagina already has. My point is that it isn't just hypergamy at work here, it's abo…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 05:03 PM
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For sure, I've seen some straight up golems get more dick than the equivalent male. I really have to ask too, who is fucking these broads? I'd say my standards are decently high but definitely reasonable, so I've never related to guys who'd fuck anything. It seems like a really negative sexual experience would be way worse than just jerking off. Even when I was an incel and could've gone for those girls I didn't, because I didn't want to be associated with them because I intuitively knew that it…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 06:31 AM
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It's a known fact that the inability for many people to restrain their tongues has done so little as started drama or as much as ended lives. For whatever reason, it is a very difficult thing to balance. People either can't speak well/are inhibited, or can't shut the fuck up and ramble on. People who consider themselves smart or are involved in "intellectual" matters are often like this, because they mistake complexity for quality. I was like that for a time, rambling on. The truth is that the m…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 06:45 AM
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This is true. I have used silence to great effect before, but recently in an approach I used silence for a brief moment hoping to put some pressure on the girl to invest in the conversation a bit (I had already initiated and started conversing), but I think it was too preemptive. As a result...it was just unnecessarily awkward. Not sure what I was thinking, on any other day it'd seem like a bad idea, but ah well, at least I learned something. I think it's best to employ silence only after you sh…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 06:41 AM
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The most frightening thing about this philosophy that most people turn away from is that it means that what you do every day MATTERS. It means most of all that there is one precious commodity you have been wasting--time. Time is what is needed. If everything is developed over the small day to day things, then it stands to reason that days are needed. You need time to burn. People don't want to believe this, instead they believe in people who have overnight miracles or that success is something t…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 06:31 AM
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That's interesting. It seems to me that the people who care most fervently about not getting laid are the ones who care deeply about it. This applies to anything. The more energy you invest into a particular idea or concept--regardless of positive or negative polarity, the more you care about it. Simple as that. This is why MGTOW is a questionable path to me. Any real MGTOW isn't a MGTOW, he doesn't question his avoidance or lack of involvement with women. You can further break that doing into "…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 09:23 PM
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It is very clear that as this community has grown it has become diluted and is losing its original purpose as people try to redefine what being Red Pilled means. The reason for this is because anytime a culture is spawned off of a group, people start flocking in because they are attracted to the culture and the label and not really what it originally represented. I can't see any issue in this as it happens to pretty much any community, it's expected. Given this, now you have guys coming in here …
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 08:58 PM
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This is a pretty sensible post. On one hand, I think many guys lose options because they simply don't try enough. On the other hand you're saying the line for unfuckable is very low, while yeah...that's true...I mean, who are we talking about fucking here? Saying most guys can get laid if they just try is sort of bypassing the question of "by who?" I mean what do these women look like? I've known a lot of guys who were sexually frustrated and you could easily divide them up by guys who wanted to…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 05:24 AM
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I play guitar, piano and saxophone and I play them well There you go, was waiting for something like that. Skills to pay the bills my friend. Playing instruments alone is incredibly attractive to women for whatever reason. I can't help but notice that women are really attracted to feats of dexterity even outside of sports. Haha, good luck explaining to bitches how fast you can 1tap in CSGO though. Hahahaha.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:55 AM
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Lol. You're not wrong that social media should be treated as your marketing page. Really though, you have a bomb ass social media page and you'll primarily attract people who...care about stupid shit like that. Look, it's not a bad idea to clean your pages up and take good pics and all that stuff, but people who spend so much time trying to have an amazing social media account are so unbelievably out of touch with reality. These are the same cunts who will record a cool thing they're doing inste…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:38 AM
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Well, I think most guys can evaluate with good accuracy an 8+ chick, but personal preference can play huge role in adding or subtracting points. Certain looks for girls can increase or decrease their personal SMV with you. So a girl might objectively be average or a little above average, but if you happen to find her style and features particularly attractive to you, then you're gaming what you believe to be a 7 or 8 but is generally considered a 5 or 6. The HB scale is fun, but obviously incred…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 02:18 AM
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Maybe I'm being arrogant, but in this story it seems pretty cut and dry here. If you're 30 stop asking for fucking hand outs from your parents for bullshit like a boob job. Like, who the fuck asks their parent for something like that? The line is that tying your parental affection to material gifts is bad. Sure, you should give your children what you can, but you should not be an atm for your kids barring the necessities. The truth is that as a parent (I imagine) you can't ever do anything to gu…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 02:06 AM
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The girls that obsessed about you probably got a really good first impression. You were killing it at a party, had everyone listening to your stories, brought a really good vibe. Everybody can think of one bitch they didn't really like that much that liked them and they just couldn't NOT be attractive to her. You literally don't try, attempt to say nothing or say little, be very curt with your conversations and avoid eye contact, but you sense this very real force at work by virtue of being so d…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 01:47 AM
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Yup. I've often made a joke about that to other guys to see how open they are to broaching taboo topics or having the balls to admit that there's plenty of perceptual grey zones when it comes to morality, especially morality that is rooted in legal matters and not anything else. Fucking a 16 year old in Europe = legal. Fucking a 16 year old in most of USA = pedophile. Truthfully I think its gross for an older man to get with most 16 year olds simply by virtue that the body is mature but her emot…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 01:40 AM
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Uhh nope. That sounds like some feminist shit honestly. Nobody deserves shit in terms of superfluous things like pussy. Having a dick and balls doesn't mean shit, and most people are exceedingly ordinary because that's how average works. The "you're the prize" stuff is just meant to illustrate that you should take control of your own life and start being proactive about what you do. You think from YOUR perspective, not focusing deeply on the other person/people. Control the frame of interactions…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 01:21 AM
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I figure this is a good place to write this. I've been meditating for about 3 years now, was someone who was very anxious and always stuck in my head. I am very introverted and also tend to overthink a ton. Let me say that meditation is being commercialized and whored out like Yoga has been. There is great benefit in developing concentration through awareness of the breath, but "mindfulness" meditation (which is just a meaningless catch all term now) originally was referring more to a traditiona…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 01:01 AM
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Because lifting is the default way to build a masculine physique. Does it have to be the only exercise you do? No. But for looking sexually appealing, lifting is the go to and most direct way and also the most time efficient. You can play ball if you want, but that requires people to play with as well as good weather as most courts are outdoor. The gist of it is that in terms of getting girls, lifting to acquire a muscular physique is the top activity. It's not about physical fitness because wha…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 11:07 PM
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Never really understood the anti-lifting rhetoric. I share his stance that gaming is fine, but I won't advocate not lifting. In fact, being a gamer who lifts is awesome, one of those contradictions that make you a bit interesting. Not only that, but I love lifting and going to the gym itself, I'm in it for life. I'm not the only one, more and more of the guys who are paid pros in competitive games have taken to lifting to improve their public image and counteract desk time I imagine. There's som…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 10:47 PM
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Gaming is FAR too multifaceted to attribute anything about it in the sense of addiction. People play for many, many different reasons. Some the stories, some the competition, some the single player fantasy. Gaming coincidentally blew up when competitiveness met a social scene in terms of multiplayer gaming, and so it's no surprise that in a lonely technologically isolating society that multiplayer gaming became huge because it fills certain needs for players. Whether anyone want to quit gaming o…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 10:31 PM
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That was honestly the worst advice. Most people can't fake positivity, they just look like dopey fools. You should be about as positive as you feel, if you're not feeling very positive then don't fake it. The difference--for my moping friends, is that you have to find within you some basic joy of life to balance the negativity. I'm a very negative person in my vibe and demeanor, but I'm also fairly talkative when given the chance and I joke a lot and am quite good at making people laugh. What we…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 06:29 PM
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That said, don't bank on deriving pleasure from anybodies misery, that is an unhealthy approach to the world. Pretty much that. That's why I think overall that forgetting the revenge fantasy is a good idea. Waste of time, energy and you're just sitting around trying to--again, base your happiness on someone else's mood. Michael's story is actually what drew me into TRP, and I think there's two aspects to that story. Someone will either read the story and feel so utterly wronged by the world that…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 06:20 PM
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Guys like that get used, and the only reason it works for him is because he's enjoying himself--which is good. Here's what I mean; a guy like that is like a whirlwind, he's a force of destruction (self destruction in many cases--assumptions being made here). People like that tend to have others flock to them because while they are questionable they are fun to be around. It's like how most big groups have an asshole that creates note worthy drama that mostly just creates entertainment for the oth…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 07:34 PM
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So no, they will not suffer consequences or retribution. Get it out of your head sooner rather than later. No, the Widows of the Alpha Kind will not enjoy fucking their BBs, but that’s not the point. OP already mentioned that it won't be enough, but the other guy was not necessarily right. Everyone suffers, men and women alike. Men have no safety net though, women do. Their suffering is that of a spoiled person who has always had options, they just have reached the upper limit of what they can d…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:53 PM
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Exactly, nobody gives a shit about you. OP made a great point about doing instead of thinking or being stuck in your head. There's a similar concept of insight in meditation in which observing something from a detached perspective without any value judgments or grasping will inevitably lead to you internalizing some truth. This attainment is far different than intellectual understanding. It is truth from observing action, your awareness "gets it". When you read out of a book, many times--unless …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 07:11 AM
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IF only seems works for people who have favorable calorie partitioning. If you're starting off in a bad spot like skinny fat or close to that, it's not great because you'll essentially be better primed to burn muscle in a deficit and gain weight in a surplus.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:53 AM
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I won't lie to you there, it's unfortunate, but I think I could've been a good athlete in my school days if I had the mindset I do now back then. Oh well. I'm looking into Muay Thai right now.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:41 AM
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But for women, again, it's not normal, it's uncomfortable, it's unpleasant to have that physical sensation, not know Ditto. Cept I found this place searching the web to see if anybody felt all fucked up and suspicious of reality. Turns out, there was. Michael's story really encapsulated how I felt emotionally about women, and while I was a beta I was never the type of beta to take shit from women, thus I got zero contact with them. Not willing to validate and be friend zoned, yet sabotaging myse…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:07 AM
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All humans have a hole in their heart that will always fuel dissatisfaction to some degree. It's what keeps us going, searching and moving forward (potentially). Women typically think that hole can be filled by men (no pun intended), that there is some magical prince that will make everything okay for them. Men often think it is a woman who can do this, but they very much so approach other things in the same manner. For most men they believe some kind of power will do this too, which can be a da…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 06:06 PM
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I didn't really even crave the soda, it was just a really good complement to many meals. Since I like salty food, the sweetness was even better. I didn't even finish the can in many cases since it was so readily available in my home growing up. That's not to say I didn't drink too much though.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 06:19 AM
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I'm quite introverted but I do like socializing...selectively. It does put a drain on me, but being in solitude can eventually dull you out too.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 06:17 AM
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If you truly understand how bad soda is for you of all things, and stop drinking it entirely, you'll see how many months down the line you can't imagine how you drank that shit. I accidentally cut out soda, because with that shit there is no moderation. One can is bad, and in my case one can a week is long enough to keep the want of it there...fuck it...just let it go. Having not drank soda for years now I remember being at a music festival where they were handing out free cans and I was running…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 02:52 AM
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I'm probably never going to stop gaming, but that's because I game for the games themselves. I was never an achievement focused gamer, which is why MMO's and other progression systems never appealed to me. You are very, very correct (and this is how I know you struggled with it) in assuming that you are attempting to satisfy some urge with gaming, for you it was achievement. For me, it was "skill". Skill based games appealed to me heavily, so naturally FPS games really appealed to me. I really e…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 07:21 PM
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That was quite succinct. Introverts do tend to get stuck in their head and not get out and practice. The opposite being true for extroverts. Those are all loose descriptions anyways. But as you said, being introverted does not say anything about your social skills, it's sort of a pet peeve of mine. I'm a really huge introvert and most people wouldn't know it by my words, they could only see it by my actions.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 07:14 PM
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Never met a guy who did his own wisdom tooth surgery.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 07:10 PM
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Sounds like hell pal, but you're pretty smart for realizing this at 19. It's very difficult to really see your family situation for what it is when you're younger. My father didn't treat me poorly, but he is for sure a created narcissist with a savior complex. Basically took me out of the game of life and never taught me shit because he did everything for me to feel good about himself. My life--I realized was a complete prison much like yours and I don't even live in the woods. I was stuck at my…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 06:56 PM
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Absolutely. You're not the only one too. Some of my friends eat completely different than I, their bodies respond best to more meat/protein and fats. They're not huge into bread or carbs and see them as like side dishes. As long as your tastes and attitudes toward food haven't been too perverted, I think our bodies know to some extent what they need/like.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 06:24 PM
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Yeah, I think that plenty of diets work, but it's an incredibly individual thing. There isn't going to be a one size fits all and the best diet anybody can follow is the one that they can follow for the rest of their life, not just a few weeks or months. The problem in America is that not only do people eat a lot of carbs and then do nothing with that amazing energy source but lounge around, but many of those carbs come from straight up soda and other garbage.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 06:18 PM
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I'm 5'7, 145 lb's currently very slowly reaching up to 150ish. Bench 205 Squat 195 (I know...) DL 240 OHP 135-140 on a good day for a 1rm. I started off very skinny fat so unfortunately I had to slowly bulk and inch on muscle mass while keeping fat gain very minimal. It's a very frustrating experience tbh. My calories seem very low because it's only a 1-200 calorie surplus and I'm ramping up my metbolism so to speak over time. Before I started lifting--about maybe 2 or so years ago I was in a re…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 06:10 PM
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Not a big fan of a ketogenic diet, undoubtedly it works to lose weight but I don't see it as a practical long term diet for certain people. Nothing personal to you OP, but the circle jerk for the keto diet (especially on Joe Rogans podcast) is a bit irritating. Carbs are not bad. Just as fats were demonized people now demonize carbs. I don't know why a high fat and low carb diet does not work for me, but I never transition out of feeling like shit. Contrary to that, carbs make me feel fucking am…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 06:11 PM
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This is a really good guide http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/events/gamergate I linked you to that because it is a good but simple comprehensive source. Gamergate is initially about a girl who was making an indie game called Depression Quest (Zoe Quinn) and allegations were made against her that she was sleeping around with many people who just happen to be editors and writers at review websites and such. Additionally it came to be known that many of these guys were donating to her patreon quite fr…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:32 AM
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You're right, I do know him, but I appreciate you giving me the heads up anyways because he's absolutely worth the listen to anyone reading this.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:20 AM
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Ouch, that sounds rough. Let's just say I'm very interested in fond of words as a writer, but additionally as a writer I know just how worthless they really are without the right context. Look at reddit, plenty of people post paragraphs that look and read great but ultimately don't say shit. They're all flash. I don't think this post is that. Maybe because it resonated with something I have been contemplating for awhile about the role of verbal game when it comes to women. Sounds to me like your…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:48 PM
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I play CSGO too, whenever I get queued with a party of dudes with a girl in it I know I'm in for a rough ride. There was one game where it was 3 dudes and one chick and she started just assumed the role of the in game leader when literally her orbiters were 10x better than her. I was the only one who didn't give a fuck, I said nothing and up until the last few rounds she tried to get testy with me since I ignored her the whole game and then she rallied her orbiters to vote kick me. They all agre…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:24 PM
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What did she say? I love to game and have never been ashamed of it, but unlike most gamers I've learned how important it is to be active in the real world and have other hobbies that aid in making moves in the social world. I can see why chicks don't like it because their interests and wants don't align with what guys who game can typically provide, unless you're one of those dudes with a huge social following through gaming like a big twitch streamer or youtube content creator. Go figure when g…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:11 PM
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Sad part is so many people would kill for a job at Nintendo. It's not easy to get into those prestigious game companies, they're highly coveted by name alone and there's typically no direct path in.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:04 PM
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Men act that way because they don't want to believe the alternative. Guys don't see girls as people, they conceptualize them too much. Given that men are prone to becoming ideologues due to their desire to fashion their own worldview, it's no surprise that they see women symbolically. There's plenty of reasons and nothing I stated is revolutionary, but I think that for men sex is such a powerful motivator and "thing" that is an ever present want and urge in our minds, and so it's odd that someth…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:57 PM
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I don't even know how I can articulate it, but growing up in "that" environment, being familiar with internet nerd culture and seeing it grow from the early 2000's to where it is now is insane. Gamer nerds are a funny and hard to pin down demographic. Gamergate was so entertaining for that reason, you can't pick on people who have got nothing to lose and have never been in the public's favor since their creation. Not saying gamers are alpha as fuck, but they certainly don't give a fuck. Gamer ga…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:42 PM
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Yeah that's why I got into sprinting, it's very enjoyable to me. I love the time efficiency of it and the feeling of speed and movement. Best of all it's very complementary to lifting. Sprinting will improve your squat and DL, and doing those lifts will conversely improve your sprinting power and speed.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:27 PM
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I think lifting can be your athletic outlet, but generally it's nice to do stuff with your new found fitness. Also, I cut some of my leg volume to add in sprints a few times a week into my workouts so I can get some good cardio in, it feels good. Lifting does increase your heartrate but it's not the same as cardio. Lifting does not make you "in shape", I know guys who can lift big but still get winded running up some stairs. Their conditioning sucks. Don't neglect your cardiovascular health, a l…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:39 AM
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Should've told middle school me that. Was slaving over a hot kazaa for that porn. Who the fuck knows why we even watched it.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 06:34 AM
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lol, do you live in reality? There typically are no hard and fast blue pill or red pillers. It's all context. Your alpha CEO seldom exists, he might be a badass in the boardroom but there's just as many of those who are wrapped around their wives' fingers.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:06 PM
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Sorry bro, I think Russian Bear is already a brand that makes mass gainers.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 05:41 PM
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Yeah, life may not be all I want it to be yet but when I first found TRP I was pretty relieved. I had a lot of the puzzle pieces and I just needed a few more. I didn't come out of it hating women or being completely angry--though at times I was. It's like looking at the world one way assuming the basic rules of interaction are one way, but your perspective gets tilted just a bit and all of a sudden you see what was considered normal was really somewhat inverted. Ironically studying English in Un…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 05:22 PM
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Oh whoops, that's my bad. Should've read that more closely. Still, OP should've sprouted wings and flew over there. The bitch.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 06:20 PM
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Kindness is not bad, but mostly when it's coming from someone who chooses to be kind but has power. If someone is weak and needy and is kind, it's just by necessity. They have no teeth. Kindness can be self sabotage because people can have martyrdom complexes which means they will not take care of themselves and give everything they have for others, but they eventually collapse and down the road become resentful and bitter at others for not doing the same for them--which is unreasonable. It's fa…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 06:14 PM
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People often start to get attached at very young ages, where the idea of responsobility is still very vague and underdeveloped. At this point it's on the parents to be vigilant and responsible for the direction their child is heading. That's also why it's so incredibly important to have responsible and (mentally) healthy parents. Just 'caring' is not enough. I can relate, my parents did everything for me and let me just indulge in all sorts of junk food and constant TV and games when I was a kid…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 06:00 PM
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If that's true this bitch stared at OP for ten seconds and he didn't do anything. You'll rarely ever get such a come and talk to me signal. Girls don't stare at guys they think are creeps, women who don't like you will intentionally avoid your gaze. Ever had a girl you thought was repulsive crush on you and stares at you all the time? You know she's doing it, and you make every effort to not look at her, which ironically makes the situation worse.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 07:01 PM
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That paradoxical notion is something that really unraveled me throughout much of my youth. It was something that pricked at me so intensely. It's a difficult idea to internalize, because one will likely just attempt to play opposites just to get what he wants, which is not fulfilling the idea properly. You really have to internalize a sense of distance and degree of detachment to say--women or social validation in order to have those things come into your life with some ease. The real crushing a…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 01:39 AM
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Now you know why feminism is popular, whatever women want, businesses and marketing follows. Women are the consumers, women spend the money, not just their money but also the dudes money. Dudes spend money for chicks too. For most women, their idea of doing ANYTHING involves spending money. To be fair, on this one it's for many men as well. People increasingly have less hobbies and social groups for those. For most people the idea of socializing almost always involves going out to eat, for drink…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 09:15 PM
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Sort of cracks me up too because if you've ever seen Indian television almost all the main male characters in melodramas are lean and jacked and handsome. Don't even get me started on the parents thing. Parental narcissism is at an all time high in this culture--at least those are my colorful experiences. An Indian guy beating the brainwashing, the odds and the constant emotional guilting and leveraging and having a frame good enough to pass through those filters and develop himself for his own …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 08:20 PM
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It's a lot of things. I see many Indian dudes, especially those who grow up here get sleek haircuts, many of them go for the GQ style. The issue is that they almost never break out of the Indian circle. If they go to Uni they drop into a frat typically full of Indians and Asians depending on where they live.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 08:17 PM
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Training for "looks" which is often equated to hypertrophy style training, or similarly bodybuilding style training IS training endurance. When people cry about functional muscle vs show muscle they miss the point and are just being elitist about one style. Ask yourself what fitness means to you, because there's no one definition. You'll look the best doing hypertrophy style training, and your endurance will be better too. Is that not functional? There's also significant overlap in hypertrophy a…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 05:56 PM
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It's a shame what the humanities has become, because a lot of the cultural climate and social circumstances we see today can easily be traced back a couple decades to the fiction and surrounding critical theory and theorists/critics. Literature is valuable not only as an indicator of emerging cultural trends but as a progenitor of them.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 05:36 PM
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I know, but it depends on what you do in the first place. A girl calling you an asshole is almost always--as OP and many others have already said, a product of you not doing something for free or for others without gain. Women love that because it shows self respect. Asshole banter is a bit different as it's usually about push and negs (however slight or severe). I usually avoid hard negs because they're easy to overdo unless you know the person well and understand their true insecurities. You w…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 05:01 PM
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Paranoia is a double edged sword. It can make your daily life a bit uncomfortable, but it could potentially save your life too. Whenever I hear about a new shooting at a place like a mall or something, I'm always thinking: I bet these people are totally shocked that something violent could happen somewhere they go all the time. That it happened. I've never been in such a situation, but from what I understand you never know how you'll react in a life or death situation until you're in one. Some p…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 06:13 AM
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I like that one. Being called an asshole by a woman is easily the best green light to just keep doing what you're doing.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 06:02 AM
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I'm not saying that you'll stagnate on any given program just by running it for any period of time. I am saying however that I've found a groove that seems to work for me. I actually hate 5x5, I don't think it's a bad program at all, but that particular intensity and rep scheme doesn't jive with me at all. I can go heavier or I can go with more volume, but I hate the middle ground. I was doing N-Suns 531 variation and it worked out pretty well. It's basically a strength program that mitigates th…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 05:51 AM
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I'd like to add that intentionally cycling plans can help for fitness. I run a more strength oriented routine for about 6-8 weeks and I'll eventually start to feel a bit stagnant or that I need too much food to continue to make less gains (diminishing returns). I'll transition then into a volume phase where I do higher reps and less intensity. Not only does this keep me interested, but it seems to work. It's nothing new or novel, just your basic building mass then peaking strength with that new …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 11:14 PM
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Also, I think some people in general put more or less stock into traits and reality. I'm pretty delusional about plenty of shit, but when I see a person with a bad trait I can see exactly what that is and it sort of ruins it for me. I imagine for other people it just doesn't click the same way sometimes. For example, for me--with money, it's just fucking numbers to me. I'm not so great at making the real life connection of numbers. 6 dollars here, 8 dollars there, 10 dollars here why not? Workin…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 10:59 PM
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You get it. It's beta / white knighting that's at fault. Playing the victim card gets them attention and triggers the male rescuing instinct. They're literally playing out the princess trapped in the tower, waiting for her (white) knight to come along and rescue her. It's pathetic and so are the men who believe it. They're enabling and encouraging that shit. Quite a vicious cycle we've stepped into. It's men's fault that this shit is out of control. Women then have made it hard for men to see th…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 10:54 PM
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Depends on how manipulative the woman is, but I agree. I try not to involve myself unless it's a good friend. A buddy of mine was rooming with that chick in the story along with another dude, so they all knew something was up. I told him not to say anything to the guy she was cheating on because there was a possibility that she would just turn it around by spinning a story that he was only slandering her because he came on to her and she rejected him, thus causing him to become salty. Which woul…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 08:03 PM
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Oh no, don't get me wrong. It's not a good idea depending on what business you are involved in, but when it comes to newer, more youth oriented environments like Youtube, it's definitely a win win IMO. You don't have to do it, but those places thrive on content--and as of late, drama. Your popularity will only increase by being involved with someone, especially once the break up inevitably comes. The catch is that you have to be seen as a separate entity. What is more important is power disparit…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 07:54 PM
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The only time you should LTR a girl with a sizeable online following is if you are in the same community and with a similar following. Mutually beneficial relationship, small time version of what celebrities do I imagine.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 06:07 AM
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Recording is a great idea if legal of course, telling the fiance would be a waste of time. Some friends and I knew this chick who one of our mates banged while she was dating this other dude who we have met, she was really ho'ing it up and this dude had no clue. She became more overt with it over time and he still couldn't see, she sort of treated us a bit shady too. Anyways, the point I wanted to make was she could've easily--by disrespecting us pushed us to rat her ass out to her fiance, but I…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 05:59 AM
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I had a sort of hilarious image in my head that if I was in your situation I would try to at least take my anger out on them by being super disrespectful during sex, "I'll grab her by the face and stick my dick in her mouth", "I'll blow a load on that stupid bitches face"...then I remembered that would have the opposite effect. I mean what could you do? Just get 5 pumps in and blow a really quick selfish load, go "oops" and then dip out?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 05:51 AM
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This is important. AWALT is about the potential to cheat, AWALT. It means it could happen to anyone. The problem with the state of open hypergamy as is that it is legally enforced and culturally encouraged.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 05:40 AM
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Pretty much this. There is a race reality in terms of culture and geography, the real--and most important thing for anyone to consider is that it's nothing to cry over. You merely just adjust. Neither cry nor brainwash yourself of the reality. This place is about sexual strategy, and right now we're discussing strategy. Can a brown or Asian guy get laid in NYC? Yeah of course, of course he can. But is there definitely a bias against them? For sure, especially when considering running game in rea…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 05:31 AM
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It's amazing how you've been on this forum surrounded by such creative and intelligent people and that's all you could come up with.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 06:30 PM
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Yeah, I said the same thing in an above post, but you nailed it more concisely. For every fetish or attraction there are degrees of interest. Hell, look at serial killers, Dahmer was fascinated by biology and limbs/innards. The issue was that he was sort of a freak perfect storm of extreme obsessions and the ability to act on them. If you consider that same obsession but to a less powerful degree, he could've easily funneled it into a profession that allowed him to dissect things or be a coroner…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 08:31 AM
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Except we already knew that women are attracted to bad boys. Naturally some will take it to the extreme. Women worship various forms of celebrity anyways far more than men, serial killer is just another. My post was about moral grey zones and how bodily feelings don't necessarily equate to psychological congruence. The comparison wasn't saying they have equal significance. Your original post says nobody is posting on female orgasm during rape, but we already know that women enjoy rough sex, and …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 08:21 AM
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It's a dangerous truth. It IS true because it happens, but that doesn't mean shit because bodily reality and psychological reality are two different things in this case. I would wager the opposite of that for men is that there are less than legal girls who look a bit older than they should that are physically attractive to men despite their only being 15 or 16 or whatever. A male's bodily reality would say there is physical attraction there, but psychologically you know it's not right and probab…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 12:35 AM
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It's actually the opposite for me. I'm Indian and my family is vegetarian, but I started eating meat once in awhile and found it to be beneficial, but I'm pretty convinced that a part of that is placebo in originally thinking meat was giving me more strength. If I looked at my diet I would say I'm really more like a vegetarian that eats meat once in awhile. Old habits die hard after all. I'm at a point where I can eat meat once in awhile for enjoyment or convenience or just because I can, or I c…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 12:24 AM
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One thing really stuck out about this post, you said you became a vegetarian. Usually you don't hear much about that on this sub, what was your reasoning, how do you like it? Is lifting 5 days a week on a vegetarian diet difficult?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 10:33 PM
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India has worse cultural problems than Sunny Leone, if anything she is indicative of a country that needs to alter it's outlook on sexuality. I'm not saying it should be open season hypergamy as it is here, but Indian men have a terrible madonna whore complex. They reserve their beliefs of purity and holiness for their women, but offset their lust on to western women, which basically makes many of them to act like creepy fucking weirdos. A gripe I've always had as an Indian dude is that there's …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 10:14 PM
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I knew a guy who had a sister that was extremely popular and attractive in the same vein. I felt bad for the dude since he was clearly a timid beta and not so successful with women or having much in the way of even a fraction of that kind of popularity or social life. That's gotta suck, guess it's just fuel for the fire. I feel like that happens so much more than the other way around. Rarely do I see a guy who is attractive and successful at a young age with a homely and unpopular sister.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:43 PM
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OP explained it poorly. Kegels are just a way of working your pelvic floor. It's not really necessary, but doing it undeniably has benefits. It has nothing to do with shitting either. The truth is that many guys have an imbalanced pelvic floor, this is not an issue per se, if you have a strong pelvic floor you can flex your dick hard, but doing this while engaging in sexual behavior will typically make you ejaculate faster. Many men who have non-psychological issues with premature ejaculation ty…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:35 PM
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Not sure what you mean by forcing your shit out. In terms of using the muscle to shit, I do that, but I'm not straining. I eat relatively enough fiber and I never strain on the toilet. I just sort of lean forward (because this puts pressure on the lower abdomen and it becomes easy to shit, a third world squat naturally puts you in this position too. You get the urge to shit and then you go and sit down and gently push it out, is there any alternative? I guess I'm asking, were you straining becau…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 09:24 PM
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I've said this before but... Part of beta behavior in men is the oneitis a guy has for a girl and the subsequent pussy footing around and lack of escalation as well. A man in a scarcity mentality will not only do these things with a girl he likes, but also will drag out EVERY aspect of the encounter as long as possible. One reason is to savor the moment, as he internally believes he isn't worthy and cannot keep her, and is lucky to even have her. The other is that it is almost as if he doesn't w…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 09:41 PM
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This was a bitter pill for me to swallow some time ago. I don't particularly believe this belief has much to do with feminism and associated ideologies (for once) but rather it is and always has been a social red pill to swallow that people once understood naturally. However, live in a comfortable society where it isn't immediately apparent that shit needs to be done, and this happens. People forget that it's only natural that those who provide some value or use are more pragmatic to associate w…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 09:18 PM
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Masturbating once in awhile is utility, any more and it's definitely erring on the side of too much indulgence. YMMV. All based on mood, sometimes it's ok to just enjoy a good wank, nothin wrong with that. But many times you're just doing it because you're bored or looking to extract some pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 07:37 AM
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There you go. I like to say it a lot, but most BP guys who come here just traded one dogma for another. The fundamental lack of deciding for yourself what you believe is the core problem. A lot of what is here is true in certain context of the times we live in, but believing that it is always true as we perceive it is dumb. For example, AWALT is true, a lot of the core RP shit is true, but how that is expressed in reality and how often WILL vary as time goes on and the "meta" changes, so to spea…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 09:51 PM
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When it comes to sex, you'll get better results erring on the side of instinct than you will by trusting in intellect Absolutely, I'd wager this is even amplified by the fact that overt masculine behavior is rarer to see so that in order to create contrast you almost necessarily have to exaggerate in the other direction. But I get the feeling TRP has and is being ripped off wholesale and with this era of internet savvy shitlords and edgelords who are aware of TRP or even remotely similar communi…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 09:37 PM
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I think it's one of those things where it's foolish to obsessively explain everything through evo-psych and pretend we cannot defy those things, and it is also foolish to pretend those things are not there at all. The truth is somewhere in the middle for this one. The more intelligent someone becomes, the more their intelligence potentially warps those instincts. This can be a good thing or bad thing. Most people vary with how in tune with their animal instincts they are. The important thing is …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 09:24 PM
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At least you didn't pop off like the guy in Finally Free by Dream Theater.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 09:15 PM
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Agreed. How you handle women has potentially little to do with how you handle other aspects of your life, can't tell you how many barista Chad's I've seen slay more tail than ultra successful people. Hell, there's a point of success where women will be more encouraged to pretend to be snowflakes and be difficult with you to project "worth". Women are kryptonite to many men in some way or another. That's the balance, they hold some power over us that we cannot rely on our feelings alone to guide …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 09:04 AM
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Most people don't stand behind it. It's just one of many public narratives throughout the course of history that defines the social "game" we play. Everybody decides "Okay, so we're all going to believe this now, anybody who doesn't publicly believe this is clearly stupid and we should smother him into the ground for not understanding the game" People so publicly believe this horseshit but they're all full of it, because even if they themselves start to believe it, their actions say otherwise. Y…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 08:58 AM
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Okay, disregarding what you think of Milo--because that will lead into all sorts of discussions about his role and goal as a "journalist", that doesn't change the fact that the certain brand of liberals that we're all too enthused to poke fun at these days (rightfully so) DO view minorities as their little pets. It might be an extreme comparison, but it is truth IMO. It's like a little pet project in virtue signalling and social justice. Just think about the term social justice itself. The conce…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 05:26 AM
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The real question is what are white women? I see plenty of white women, some look like the farmers daughter, some look tanner and have more olive like complexions and darker hair and eyes, but they're from a "white" family. Sometimes I see the bleach blonde chicks, but that's not exactly natural is it? Are they originally from Europe or what, do Jews count? There's a lot of pretty white looking Jews, and despite the anti-semitism you see from time to time most people generally look at Jewish as …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 05:12 AM
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Not sure why Indian guys have white girl fever, I feel like it's the more fobby dudes who pedestalize white girls because their outsider perspective. Growing up here, sure white girls are hot...but so are most women...when they're hot. I lean far more towards hispanic/spanish girls, and as I said elsewhere, they tend to be more receptive to me. I sort of wish I was more attracted to Indian girls...but I'm not. Finding an attractive Indian girl is a feat. I think the lord blessed/cursed me with t…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 07:04 PM
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Depends all on location IMO. You're right in that many liberal people are actually pretty racist. Much like how Milo put it, they think minorities are their precious pets. In my experience many conservative type folk who would get the flak for being racists are actually quite approving IF you have similar values and show that. They care more about your values then your race, especially in the South. Another aspect of location is demographic, I'm a light skinned Indian dude, and I live in an area…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 06:15 AM
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Well, it's tough. I don't know you so I can't say how you're coming across. All I know is that I do carry a more serious air with me even though I'm pretty joking when people get to know me. All I can tell you is make sure you're not angry, it's easy to overcompensate and be too damn serious--even more than you actually are. It's tiring. Make sure you're coming across as more neutral, and let people say shit like "is anything wrong? you seem upset" (hate that one). When they do, just shrug it of…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 06:00 AM
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You may be right. My posture isn't terrible, I fixed my pelvic tilt and my shoulder aren't too bad and I don't have a hard time keeping my chest up. I also don't have forward head posture anymore (fuckin' video games). However, my t-spine is pretty damn rigid. I don't have a problem with bending back, but going forward (think cat pose yoga) is very difficult. I guess I'll work on that and work on some spinal twists. I'm not a fan of shrugs, but I started doing farmers walks and those hit my trap…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 05:53 AM
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Honestly, that goes for anybody. If you present yourself a certain way to people and then suddenly 180 then it doesn't go over well in many cases. I used to put on a really clownish exterior but in reality I was actually pretty negative and introverted and analytical. Whenever I got tired and those qualities came out it put people off. It scares the shit out of people to show so clearly how they misperceived you.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 05:44 AM
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It wasn't on the sidebar because he stole them all and bolded them in his post.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 05:42 AM
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His view of TRP is not entirely accurate, because he's unwilling to separate and put under a microscope lots of the observations. But I agree there are a lot of try hards, over investors, hyper-insecure users on here. Disagree, I think Manson is or is at least close to RP, I could be wrong--he did get married recently and that might be a deal breaker for a lot of guys here. Remember the business route he took and where he is, he can't afford to go full RP. A lot of people are like that, they bor…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 08:48 PM
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I've had an interesting duality with charm. I am charming and not charming. I dug myself out of some deep holes I was in and have--looking back on it, come a long way from my insecurities. The last vestige I noticed was that my hyperactive mind that gets out of my control at times always sabotaged me, I had too much mental energy and it wore people out probably even if I wasn't being annoying. It was just too much (lack of an outlet I guess) I accidentally came upon an interesting observation, t…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 08:41 PM
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I'm not sure why I find this all so damn interesting, but I do. Also Welcome to the NHK really managed to do some of these issues a lot of justice.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 07:31 AM
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I don't know if he came up with it, but one of the smartest things I've heard Mark Manson say is that the best thing about a culture is often also the worst thing about that culture.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 07:28 AM
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Dude that is the funniest fucking thing I have read all week. What a character. You sound like you're the real deal though, Japan is an interesting place to me given the strange contradictions in culture and stereotypes. However, I do agree that the stereotypes that the west has about Japan are incorrect. It's mostly just ignorance of how their society and culture work. The whole Japanese are betas thing is funny as fuck, because that's exactly what they'd want you to think. The entire honorific…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 07:20 AM
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I used to be obsessed with DBZ when I was in middle school, it's one of the anime that was the gateway for most people to get into more shit. Honestly it's not really my favorite anymore, but I have respect for it a classic that had a huge impact. It is still pretty much the anime that people who don't really watch anime know about. There are many anime out there that have a lot of awesome shit like DBZ, but different spins on it. They're not copy cats, but what DBZ only fans don't realize is th…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 07:11 AM
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Really? I still watch a shit ton of it, more of it than TV shows and movies. I don't really buy into the vicariousness of escapism as much as I believe that the chief purpose of art of any sort is to complement your life and give you some perspective. The moment your life is in service of a particular thing instead of it in service of you is when you should evaluate. Anime, games, movies, TV, any sort of media you should always question how it improves or augments reality. In the case of gaming,…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 07:02 AM
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I appreciate that link. Coincidentally, I suspect that I have a weak neck and I was wondering the best way to go about strengthening it since my neck seems to always be so damn tight after I bench.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 04:45 AM
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DING DING DING. That's the answer that I've come to see as well having read a little bit about it. It seems to me that Japan DOES still have a sense of gender roles and femininity, but it's different than what you'd expect. Dudes are still cucked behind the scenes as the woman is the one who controls the household while the guy is basically a beta provider. The problem was that the burden of performance that all men face, is extremely high in this country. So high, and couple that with how women…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 01:39 AM
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I think I might have this problem. When I start to hit those last sets and things get tough, I noticed a pain in what seems to be my sartorius muscle in the right thigh. Equally I've had issues in the past with my right side low back, I thought it was SI but maybe not. Reading your post it's probably just poor loading. Funny thing about lifting and imbalances is that you have to dial it back. Even if you can lift a certain amount of weight, you have to understand that weight was only accomplishe…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 12:55 AM
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Yeah...it's all about fat distribution. In terms of leanness many people will look straight at the gut, but some people don't predominantly store fat there, they store in their arms, legs etc. If you store mostly in the chest and gut then you're sort of fucked for having a six pack. Sure, you can get one, but you'll have to be leaner than most.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 12:29 AM
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Just depends. You can absolutely be lean and look muscular in clothes, maybe that's not how you see it though. Let's be real though, many people in the lifting world have terrible body dysmorphia issues. They're never big enough, the standards always slide up. The reality is that most girls on average would rather have a lean and muscular guy--something like a swimmer's body or a gymnast. Sure preferences vary, but you don't need to be HYOOGE. Most guys get too caught up in the lifting game, the…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 12:21 AM
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I really enjoy clementines, really simple to peel and eat. It's funny how people think about oranges for vitamin C, when you can get your necessary vitamin c from many vegetables. Just goes to show you how marketing impacts perceptions.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 12:03 AM
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It really is man. Same story, a shit ton of sugar hitting your system all at once without any fiber to slow it down or anything. Consider also that most "fruit juices" you buy in stores are not even full fruit juice. I think fruit juice is a silly concept, it's a lot better to just blend the god damned thing and drink it like a juice, but get the full benefit of the fruit depending on what it is. Consider also that a lot of nutrients are contained in the skins of many fruits. Another thing about…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 11:59 PM
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I'm not doing that crazy shit, but I like to also have some very simple carbs post workout and it works great for me just off of feeling alone. Normally if I have something fibrous or fatty I don't feel too hot and I feel sloppy since I'm already tired and a lot of my energy is going to digestion on top of that. I've been eating a big ass bowl of salted white rice (normally I go for brown) PWO along with a protein shake and some fruits and veggies. Simple and effective.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 11:55 PM
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I'm sure there's definitely an endorphin aspect to it, but the runners high is also partially from the tedium of running. When you become sort of numb for a time to the exertion and you're merely just focused on doing the damn thing, it becomes a meditative state in a way because you're just focused on the act and nothing else. I fucking hate moderate/low intensity steady state cardio though. I jump rope because it's low impact but a good workout, and I sprint for the high intensity work because…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 08:39 AM
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The me from 8 years ago would be shocked to hear I love working out, and I wasn't even obese. Just poorly out of shape. Hard to say, obviously we enjoy tough things if they are good for us, because it's that feeling of improvement that we tie to the hard work that makes us enjoy it. I'd wager if beer didn't get you buzzed people wouldn't "acquire" a taste for it. It's the association. Honestly, working out to improve at the max rate you can is pretty different than working out for fitness. If I …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 08:36 AM
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This is good advice. But OP's post and the general belief I see about this topic I see here is absolutely idiotic. Listen up faggots: by nature there has to be more consumers than producers. Also, stop thinking so one dimensionally, you can be both a consumer and a producer. In fact, to be a good producer you must be a good consumer to some extent. OP is a producer of music, but he's a consumer of pretty much everything else in life correct? Does he grow and make his own food? Is he completely s…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 12:12 AM
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This post is underrated I think. It is as you say, if the superficial aspects of your SMV are high then straight up day gaming by just rolling up can work, and in general it can work if you do it enough (as for who is receptive to those is another story...your approach will automatically vet girls in ways you don't know). However I'd like to think that women hate PUA tactics and game "techniques" because A, it allows non-naturals to appear as such thus fooling women's perceptions of guys who "ju…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:58 PM
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Eh, it doesn't happen here as much. But it's a pretty known phenomenon on similar stomping grounds. There was one dude who would just remake the same thread on different accounts to cry. Asian/Indian dude cries about being a skinny beta with no social skills and is attributing his lack of success to racism. Asians and Indians (mostly americanized) show up and tell him to stfu and man up because he's giving us a bad rap. There is some racial disadvantage depending on how you look, but not nearly …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:11 AM
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For real, it's actually really easy to over train forearms when you do direct work. Less is more, especially if you play teh videogames like I do. Doing too many wrist rollers then trying to type on a keyboard is a fucking torture exercise.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:03 AM
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Contradictions make people interesting. Not in the hypocritical sense, but rather identity wise. It really just boils down to being different and standing out. It's like if you were a tan skinned person with naturally blue eyes, that'd be a real boon in and of itself.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:00 AM
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You either game girls or you don't. The truth is that some guys don't want to actually get what they want. Sounds weird, but it's true. I've been there, you spend a lot of timing almost worshiping this idea of getting pussy or a girlfriend or whatever, you think about it in the background of your mind all the time. You maybe pay too much attention to couples. If you ask yourself when looking at another man's girl, I envy him, but do I want her? Could I settle on her? The answer was always no for…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 11:56 PM
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Just reminds me that the freakiest kids were always in band in high school. Lmao, maybe I've seen too many movies, but it feels true. I guess it's probably because they always had their own huge group and own room and events, so it's natural for a lot of promiscuity and resulting drama to be going around.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 07:55 PM
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I think your post is a good example to say: that's fine. My guess is that most people care more than they think they do--to varying levels. If you truly don't care, it's best that you stick to that. There's really no use in people being forced to do shit they don't believe in ya know? I'll choose to react differently, but my point is that it's not a sacrificial play for me, it's just what I'm most comfortable with. Enjoy yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 06:00 PM
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I'd say only a handful of people could "enjoy the decline". TRP is useful as hell, and I'll never regret I found this place. But I'd imagine there's a lot of guys here trying to live some TRP lifestyle that doesn't exist and doesn't suit them either. To me, TRP has no form, it's just a way of seeing things and you have to approach your life in your own way after that. Similarly, if you aren't constantly evaluating and nurturing your own beliefs, then you never changed since your BP days, you jus…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:55 PM
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Could be, can't do anything about that right? That's why I advocate just enjoying your life and passing on what you can in whatever form that may be. Some people fall deep into hedonism at any cost and say that's what they enjoy, but I'm skeptical of that for most people. Hedonism feels really good at first, but ultimately destroys you if done too excessively. Those aren't even my words, there's just hundreds of years of similar experiences expressed, it just seems to be one of those truths repe…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:50 PM
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I understand that, which is why I said I wouldn't really blame anybody for not marrying and consequentially (in most cases) not having kids. The climate for this stuff sucks right now, and I can't really make any judgments about other people's choices in that matter. Which is why I don't proselytize for "doing the right thing", I don't know what the right thing is for everyone else. Only for myself.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:46 PM
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I get what you're saying, but I think you misunderstood me a bit. I'm not really trying to make the world a better place as a goal. I believe that the most anyone can do is just do what they can in their own life, you don't do it for a greater whole, you do it for yourself, for your family, for your friends. People try to focus too much on making big changes in the world--which is still admirable, but you can't do that if your own life is fucked up. Build a good base. My goals are small. I'll en…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:43 PM
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I can understand that, and in no way am I saying anybody should be getting married in the legal sense of the word. Rather, I'm saying that marriage is just a means for me to have a child, I don't really see it as a primarily romantic concept. Sure, if I get married I'll find the best woman possible, but I'm going in knowing I'll probably take a hit to gamble on the future of my lineage. I'll definitely look into alternative options, I'm not going to try to save the world, I'm just not going to i…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:35 PM
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I don't know about you, but I really don't care for the whole "enjoy the decline" sentiment around here. I get it, it means don't fret it and focus on yourself. But it has a self destructive tone to it that I really don't buy into. Focus on yourself, make yourself number one, handle your needs, you can do those things without trying to let society burn. Don't take it all on your back, just do what needs to be done for you and let whatever terrible shit that has to go down occur. If you don't wan…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:52 AM
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I can't disagree the baby boomers did a lot of that shit. But a lot of that shit sounded amazing at the time on paper, so what the fuck are you going to do? Start beating the shit out of the elderly? I'm talking about the culture stuff by the way, the financial aspect is really worse because people had to have known that they were taking temporary measures for their benefit with long term issues they wouldn't have to contend with. It might be a shitty time to be a man, but conversely was there a…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:47 AM
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For him or for you? Hopefully both.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:38 AM
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Not sure how old you are, but I wouldn't sweat it too much, honestly it's easy to assume everyone else is doing kinda okay but it's usually not the case. Developing social skills with a lot of kids to adults up to 30 (even a lot of adults are socially retarded or a bit awkward) or so is sometimes difficult because you can't get feedback because they're about as retarded as you are. Sometimes the socially retarded kids actually just got lucky or just ended up in a decent social group to be with, …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 02:24 AM
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The child analogy is good because if you look at children and why people so fondly miss childhood it is because they'll never again be in a frame of mind to so completely be out of touch with the struggles of reality. They are free to just explore their own space and enjoy their visceral lives. It's partly why children are able to so thoroughly immerse themselves in things, they know that mom and dad take care of everything, they just gotta show up. Similarly when you see the really sad moments …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 07:19 PM
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Agreed, I can't tell you how many guys I've seen who have good gym gains and outwardly look good, but are still the socially awkward kid they were 2 years ago before all that, it's pretty weird to see a dude who is FAR more jacked than you who still makes awkward eye contact and behaves a bit shaky. Looks like a goddamned man, acts like a goddamned girl. Learning how to converse is important, not in the Dale Carnegie sense of that hollow business style horseshit of being familiar with everyone w…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 07:07 PM
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Nowhere in your bio does it say you also play Minecraft. I think these are good tips though, and I love number 4 because it's my go to--no not stealing bananas although that was a good one because I understand that there's something fundamentally hilarious about bananas, hence why people always buy that FUCKING BANANA COSTUME. It always comes down to JBY (Just Be Yourself) which is simultaneously the fuckin' worst advice and also the best advice. Basically, learn good social skills and be well a…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 06:22 PM
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I dunno what the fuck you're talking about. DBZ is racially ambiguous and takes place in a different world. Death Note is more grounded in our world with supernatural elements. Light Yagami from Death Note is definitely Japanese, he dresses it, and for the most part looks it. L is NOT Japanese, not even in the show. He is an orphan and from another country so...not sure where you were going with that. Code Geass is also in a completely fictional world where Japan is occupied by "Brittania" and L…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 06:05 PM
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Racist no, uneducated and lazy yes, don't go for the low hanging fruit. It's okay if you don't know, can't be an expert in everything, but basically anime characters having large eyes has WAY more to do with the initial inspiration that popular western cartoons had on Japanese animators many decades ago and the advantage of expression they offer in cartoons. Looking at anime and manga you'll see each author/studio has their own style with their own proportions. Some extremely popular creators li…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 05:51 PM
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That's what I'm talkin' about, I fuckin love shonen anime. Bitches I know are either down or can turn a blind eye.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 05:40 PM
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As usual, I think it's varied and case by case. You can make the argument that for marketing reasons and for appeasing investors that being able to market an already famous white actor for a role that has an Asian character is a smart choice, and I agree. But for relatively new or unknown intellectual properties it makes absolutely zero sense to me why you would cast a white person for an obviously Asian role for an already obscure movie. Like who the fuck was gonna see Dragonball Evolution but …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 05:34 PM
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He said that under 5'6 it's useless. Something magical must happen between 5'5 and 5'6.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 03:30 PM
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Lmao, didn't you know? Evo psych explains everything. Everything. It's true, we can't deny we are animals still somewhere. But you can't discount the power of the cerebral too, especially on human sexuality. As a wise man once said: "That's my fetish yo!"
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 03:27 PM
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Yup. Am 5'7, out of all the insecurities I had growing up, height was never one of them. Never felt short, never thought about it, doesn't bother me. Hell, women who like you will hamster your height. I remember once I objectively said--with no intention of self deprecation that I was short compared to the average height of 5'9 in the US, and some girls who viewed me favorably all said "what, you're not short!". I was sort of amazed, they vehemently denied it immediately, probably figuring a guy…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 03:21 PM
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It's a great bit more complicated than that, in fact you can't compare the two stances. OP's definition of "power" is different than what Peterson is talking about. I studied English so I read up on a lot of the different critical lenses. People shit on the humanities so much, but if you have the mind for it you can definitely understand why the fuck our culture is the way it is and how art/literature effects the rest of the world if you don't skip out on doing the hard thinking and self reflect…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:57 PM
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That's something of a poor comparison. The adaptations that sports players have are NOT natural postural modes of being. You ever see a baseball players body? The dominant side is so overwhelmingly powerful compared to the other that they often get completely fucked up due to the asymmetry. A great distinciton is that a rugby players internal rotation is still operating at a greater overall strength level. Their backs aren't weak, it's just that their anterior side is stronger. Whereas someone s…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:15 PM
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buttergolems I love it. I really wonder if I say shit like ham planet or butter golem in real life if it can be traced back to here, probably if I was doing the sleuthing.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:08 PM
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Sometimes you get flat out rejected, but overall I prefer to see it as my approach being shot down in most cases rather than me being rejected. How can someone who hasn't even known me for more than 10 minutes reject me? It going to take my whole life to know me. OP's point was retarded, it's basically no different than the guy who gets shot down then says something like "yeah whatever I didn't like that bitch anyways, she's actually kind of ugly"
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 02:06 AM
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Not really double edged at all, nothing wrong with being a little cocky, a little egotistical at that level of success, it's sort of expected. However, don't mistake that for being a good quality. It's only acceptable when your level of ability allows you to behave in such a manner, it is compensation. If you're at that level of success and accomplishment and you're still worried about AMOG'ing your mates, you're a fucking idiot. It's really no gamble, not sure how being a bit insufferable on pu…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 08:00 PM
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It's crazy, but if you look at his face you can clearly see the potential to what he currently looks like. Braces + skin care + clean haircut.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 07:31 PM
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Did it in college too. I gotta be real with you, that was a game changer for me. I was always insecure about that shit, and being insecure about expressing happiness (smiling) can really fuck you up. I have so much more to do, but looking back on it so much changed at once, got braces finally, and found TRP about the same time...Jesus. Honestly nobody gave a fuck that I had braces, not even chicks. In fact, just getting them on was enough for my confidence knowing that shit was getting fixed day…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 07:28 PM
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That's about it, I'd imagine that's entirely how his mind works. You got motherfuckers coming to TRP spending hours reading about how to fuck girls and then they make fun of Elon Musk for being clueless about women even though he probably spends all his time being consumed by his life's work. Who the fuck cares what his attitude about women is, understandably it's going to be lacking. The qualities that make a good engineer are typically not those conducive to dealing with flighty bitches.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 07:17 PM
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You don't have to be sorry about it. She is funny, I can't really stand most female comedians but her special was okay. It's mostly a gross out moment because the persona she puts out (or maybe she IS like that) is unnerving and disgusting to see it all out in the open. Yet, in many ways she is airing women's dirty laundry, which is basically a cardinal sin for womankind. You can be a bitch and do whatever, but you never sell out the dirty secrets of your own kind and give example/expose just ho…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 06:20 AM
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It was funny, and I don't really like female comedians because most of them are just unfunny or completely not to my taste. Vulgarity isn't necessary to be funny, but it takes good taste to know when to dial it back and when to go all in. I couldn't help but feel that her tangents were too parallel with TRP and manosphere work, so much so that I wonder just who exactly reads this sub :)
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 06:06 AM
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Fashion is interesting, especially considering many guys think it's gay to be fashionable. I think they misunderstand and believe that being fashionable or dressing well means looking like a metrosexual. The most important part of dressing well is understanding what is a suitable look for you.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 04:27 AM
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Bishes love League brah, you know it and I know it. Ever go to a con? Jee-Zus. There's a niche waiting to be filled, pun intended. For real though, I noticed a lot of girls play League. Jokes aside, if you don't have a major internal weakness to gaming, just love the shit out of it and let it enhance your life, just give yourself diversity outside of gaming too. People really are different, I've played games my whole life, and am super analytical about games, consume a lot of gaming media. So I'…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:15 PM
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The whole quit gaming thing is like nofap to me, just another gimmick to blame something else for your problems. I love games, been playing them my whole life. Yeah they fucked me up earlier, but I got it under control. I was fucked up, not games. I, myself, as a person had problems that caused other problems. If I quit gaming then and called myself a new man, I'd just be a piece of shit who found something else to waste time on LOL. You don't need to quit gaming, what you need is perspective, d…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 06:56 PM
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Video Games > TV esp PC gaming cuz it forces you to use good posture and burn more calories than plopping up on the couch and watching TV. Uhhh, no. Hand eye coordination and mental faculties depending on the game yeah, but not calories.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 06:50 PM
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Great summary. This is how I see it as well, I think it's a simplification (of course), and that it's not the only reason, but it's a major one for sure--one that is less sinister too. Also, I believe that men tend to be more idealistic and open minded, and we all decided let's give this feminism thing a shot, and it snowballed from there. The true nature of men and women is much more easily seen in times of struggle. We live in an age of unequaled peace in the west at the moment, and so we have…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 06:44 PM
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If you have a routine with others, it's hard to resist the temptation to just "give in" to the routine. It's the path of least resistance, the thoughtless path. You have to deny the entire option for a time to do it, because it's easy to use your friends to procrastinate.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 09:58 PM
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She sleeps with him because it makes her feel good about herself to be wanted by an attractive male who could have other women This is why I don't bang fatties or uggos. Don't cheapen your brand for a convenient nut not all that better than doing it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 09:47 PM
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Yup. I realized I can't be mad at other people for being satisfied with whatever they already have--but I'm not. And so I have to part ways and distance myself, which is only natural. I realized the only way to have interesting and ambitious friends is to be interesting and ambitious in your own pursuits.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 09:35 PM
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There isn't much truth to nofap as a concept beyond common sense. It's such a ridiculous point of discussion now, but I'll say it quickly: I stopped fapping to porn long before nofap took traction, and I didn't need the internet to tell me to do it. It just made sense, one day I thought about how I was jerking off to other people having sex and it felt awkward after that to ALWAYS do that. I experimented from anywhere from a few days to not fapping for a month. Stop watching porn (and if you can…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 09:32 PM
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What a concise summary, shit. Maybe if he continues to not fap even more eventually his dick will learn to relay to his brain the right response to that scenario. Primal instincts my ass. His "degenerate porn brain" would've told him to fuck her on the spot to reenact some of those scenes.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 05:29 AM
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One of the hardest lessons I've been learning in my life. I always tried SO damn hard to be consistent across people, but I realize it is incredibly difficult and even unnatural. It's only natural that different people bring out different sides of yourself, and people tend to like those that make them feel most like "themselves" (whatever image that is). And so...when you hang around people that only blunt your sharp ends, you twist and contort to match them to make the relationship easier. This…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 05:22 AM
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I'm not one to talk, but I think that it helps to consider that you're not always trying to be friends with other people, so much as that--especially in business, you build a relationship that makes you easy to deal with. People should have confidence when conducting affairs with you.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 05:13 AM
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Hell, anytime a bunch of men have a clear cut group that they roll with it draws attention from women. Obviously it can't be a gang of neckbeards, but you get the point. I'll never forget the time I had been invited along to hang with a friend and his cousin (who has a large following on the net as an e-celebrity) as well as his cousin's friends. Naturally these people (the cousin's friends) were all fairly well connected and popular and it showed in how they projected themselves. Needless to sa…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 05:09 AM
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Yeah...you don't just get to mandate how much sleep everyone needs across the board. Sleep needs vary greatly, some small percentage of the population are fine with 6 hours, everyone thinks that's them but it's not. Most people need anywhere from 7-9 hours. I fall into the 8.5 range. If I shave an hour off everyday, by one week I'm feeling the sleep debt. That being said you CAN get away with 7.5 hours, it's just not optimal, especially if you lift heavy and run sprints. People just don't realiz…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 07:15 PM
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See my reply and post further down.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 07:10 PM
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I was not being serious. The joke is that guys dream all day and visualize all day about getting that girl but it never happens. People are lost in their dreams but can't actualize them. Only those who can connect their wants with their method can achieve them. Made a post further down about positive visualization. The Law of Attraction is still New Age horseshit, and I'm saying that as a fairly spiritual person (non-religious). If you have a method to achieve your goal, THEN can you visualize i…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 07:08 PM
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I wouldn't say I'm a realist, I'm pretty delusional and have always let how I want things to be get in the way of how they are. In the case of this idea though, you could easily say it's mostly true (as in an effective tactic). But it's mostly that we have a lot of subconscious or barely conscious actions we take that are a product of thoughts we have. If we have self defeating thoughts then it is likely we will act out those things because of our expectations. And so, when you visualize the goa…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 07:29 AM
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I believe firmly in positive and negative visualization but...that Law of Attraction sounds like the horseshit the secret was selling. Believe me buddy, when I was a beta I was using the law of attraction for my oneitis the whole time! Nothing came of it. I get the essence of what you're saying though. Positive visualization along with effort and skill.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 04:54 PM
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Sure bro, I'm no expert but I can give you some beginner friendly tips based off my own trial and error. I'm unsure what your reason is for not being able to lift now, but if it's "posture" then get your ass inside a gym ASAP. My post is saying to be careful, not to avoid going if you have poor posture, just modulate your exercises based on that.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 04:51 PM
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They say that it's important to develop will power. Some people also say will power is not endless and it's best to keep yourself out of situations that require it if you can help it. Not sure how you'd balance that.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:40 PM
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I also think about positive feedback loops. When the ratio is this skewed and severe, it's just a rich get richer poor get poorer scenario. There are guys who are too inexperienced to get experience, and there are guys so experienced that they clean up everything. Women want good dick and don't give a fuck about you so naturally they just keep making the rich richer. Once you understand the situation as just that, it becomes a bit easier to know as a man you work and claw out of that hole, but o…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 06:36 PM
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I'm Indian and I didn't even know who that was. U gay for Ranveer Singh bro?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 06:26 PM
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For sure, I think he's getting a little bit of crap by some really short sighted people here who think anyone who doesn't immediately somehow think like they do = beta cuck. It's a pretty remarkably rare ability--the ability to coldly analyze your entire paradigm of thought, way of living you've probably been inundated with since childhood is merely a function of culture and then being able to put it aside without attachment is an incredibly high sign of intelligence and emotional enlightenment.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 06:19 PM
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I'm surprised I'm seeing as many people disagree with GLO's post as I do especially considering that I felt it was pretty accurate to my experience. After years of gaming, sedentary living and poor eating, my posture, and strength were shit, and after trying to get rid of skinny fatness in an unskilled manner I became a smaller skinny fat person through too much caloric deficiency--which in turn made me even more injury prone through nutritional deficiency. My point is that GLO is correct, there…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 06:02 PM
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It should. You probably don't hate your parents even if they've fucked with you and don't even realize how badly at that. They likely have no idea what it's like to grow up not belonging fully to one culture or the other. The fact is that life is too different and changing ever faster, if it isn't you that changes it will be your kid, and you'll look at him with envy wishing you did the same. Why shape your life around the outdated, impractical choices and beliefs of people who will be sooner or…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 10:53 PM
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One of the biggest things I learned is that there are parts of your body and mind you are NOT in control of, there are processes that are affected by certain actions/reactions. And so things like depression can kick in even if you feel you are superficially in control of your mind, and even more so confidence, diligence and skill are influenced strongly by momentum. Have those mini-successes to boost your confidence and build momentum. The more you build yourself up, the better your minimal effo…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 10:43 PM
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Jesus, thank you. I'm Indian, but I love America and grew up here, one thing I don't understand about minorities is they hilariously try to live in a bubble and insulate themselves off from the culture. Like seriously? Don't fuckin' move here, not understand shit about the culture, slam it then continue to live here. Straight ego. At least absorb the culture, understand it then embrace your own, but don't just be an ignorant twat and try to isolate yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 10:24 PM
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Both. Men are biologically wired to be manipulated by women. So predictably do young boys all the way to grown men share similar values about women. The white knight instinct is in most dudes unless weeded out by experience. The women are wonderful effect, etc. Even funnier, every dumbass dude drowning in BP culture thinks he is the underdog with his romantic values and is self obsessed with his own romantic misery and denial of the "mainstream" culture. Little does he know he IS the mainstream …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 10:19 PM
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Untrue, most Indians don't rebel against culture, simply because they grow up in their own matrix. The parents often discourage hanging out with people of another race consistently subtle ways. They overreact, and guilt you by holding you responsible for their health. They shame you into line, make you feel guilty. They find ways to become dependent on them, their ways and the big "support" group of Indians. So breaking out becomes difficult, because it's all or nothing. You can try the double l…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 10:12 PM
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As someone who has seen a lot of this situation, I can assure you the father is a complete anomaly as far as I'm concerned. Despite being sort of a chump in terms of putting his foot down, he's a hell of a lot more well spoken and understanding of the situation. Not saying that it's acceptable, but he seems rather practical. One of those "you can't go home, but you can't stay here" situations.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 10:01 PM
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I agree with ya there, I'm not saying it's preventing men from learning, but rather it IS a hindrance. Not because of fear of jail time, but there's less space to move/fuck up. Approaching becomes a "thing", a molehill to be made a mountain of for many guys because it is no longer seen as the natural course for men to take. TLDR more of the usual shaming of masculine ways and encouraging feminine behavior.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:11 AM
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South FL. I guess when you grow up in it, it just becomes reality. I always noticed that social circles were super important here, everything is extremely clique-y but I just assumed it was like that everywhere. Unless you have an "Excuse" or an in to talk to a certain group or person it's easy to get hard-exempted out unless you're very savvy.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:08 AM
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The original post seems very US-centric to me. The idea that you have to start uni/college/career immediately after high school is a pretty narrow view. Oh boy, a huge fury inducing idea to me. Living in the US, you're basically told to believe that there's only about 5 fuckin' jobs out there and that if you don't major in STEM or Business then you're fuckin' donzo. You'd better know exactly what you want out of the next 65 years of your life right when you're 16 otherwise you're fucked buddy. A…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 01:58 AM
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I agree with both dawnlander and your posts, in that everything in society is delayed. People are experiencing a delayed coming of age, delayed adolescence, delayed maturity. Society as a whole has lost a sense of streamlining a normal life. College and universities are rapidly falling apart in their purpose or existence, and more and more people are questioning college or finding themselves at odds with the system and graduating later and later, many just for the sake of "getting a degree". The…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 01:49 AM
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How would you say social circles play a big role? What is Florida culture to you? Ive lived in FL my whole life and don't have much experience outaide of it, its hard for me to distinguish what is distinct about FL
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 10:56 AM
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I agree with you here, the TLDR is that men have NO leeway in learning how to be men in regards to approaching women. The cost of fucking up is too high and so men try to approach without approaching. Approaching without intent to escalate is why men have funded the PUA and self help industry, they treat women like Rubik's cubes because they think there is some trick, some INPUT and order, some combination to magically change reality--akin to entering the right password. I don't believe they fea…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 12:32 AM
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And sometimes wolves are unaware that they're actually sheep. If the sheep are the ones who can put you in jail or severely set you back, then who is really the wolf? Simple analogies don't cut it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 12:27 AM
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I can see why girls flip straight into screening mode - there's no investment for me, no rejection possible (worst case: she tried and gave up and walked away) and it all becomes a fun game that you can't lose. Absolutely true. I remember I was once in a super market and some guy (couldn't tell if gay or was trying to lead me into some sort of pitch, usually one of those recruitment scams) cold approached me and started chatting me up, and I instantly went into screening mode, it was quite insig…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 12:24 AM
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The only reason that works nowadays in movies is because the romcoms (for women, not the ones secretly for men where the main character is a fucking nerd loser) involve a male love interest who is by all accounts typically successful and good looking, but becomes rather subservient or attentive to the womans interests by merit of her being "special" in some way (usually for no reason, because if there actually was a reason then you couldn't fantasize it was you...hence bland ass Kristin Stewart/…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 12:06 AM
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There's really nothing about a "Life Coach" that isn't insanely obnoxious and sketchy. It's like...I wanna pop off on a rant about it, but there's just no point, it's just gross. If your whole life is just telling other people how to live life, then chances are you don't know anything about what the fuck is going on about anything.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 10:05 AM
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Once it's business... the true colors will always shine. You can try to fake it, but you will always be what you are and look stale against a natural Underrated comment. There's so much fake it till you make it shit out there, and I won't fault that, it DOES work to an extent and depending on the person. We like to shit on the Just Be Yourself advice and deny that people have a set in stone personality. I agree plenty things can be changed for the better about yourself with work, but people take…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 09:52 AM
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I've always been pretty cynical even in my BP days, but I agree that this is just a particularly extreme example. Shit, it always is when you have a woman who's trying to gain citizenship and using a man for it. The fact is most people engage in relationships out of convenience and mutual benefit. We live in a stale society, it is relatively safe and most people will never have to be put through a trial of fire with someone else, and so it is nigh impossible to really fully tell how far others a…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 08:47 PM
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People were a lot more willing to accept gay than all else. Only for the fact that historically speaking, the attitudes toward "Gay" behavior was largely varying depending on locale and time and context. The trans thing is just a society wide cultural phenomenon that IMO is indicative of a greater symptom of alienation and isolation from "life". The tech we have, the incredibly safe times we live in and many other factors such as reduced socializing have produced this nonsense. I can understand …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 08:09 PM
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She probably has more test than a lot of guys I've seen.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 08:03 PM
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Because they don't actually want to compete against difficult opponents or people out of their league, to feel that desperation and need to become better or be mediocre. Hell, even games are being developed to be competitively viable these days, the irony about competitive gaming is that males are still overwhelmingly dominant even in 100% equal playing field where physical biology matters little. I recall there is some push by female gamers (why must there be a distinction even?) and people who…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 08:00 PM
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There are some, but they can fail due to change because they don't realize what made them succesful. Also, alpha is contextual. What makes a man an alpha in one area, is not overlapping necessarily to others. You can be a boss at work and a chump in bed. Women also believe in the fantasy of a man who just "is that way", because they have and never will know the burden of performance that all men have, (perform or be worthless), they cannot understand or appreciate that a man makes himself, and i…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:31 PM
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Much like it's good to have a variety of perspectives in your life, I come here because I get a concentrated dose of this mostly opposite, differing view point from most of social pop culture. It's just plain not good to be surrounded by the same horse shit all day long (BP), even if you don't believe in it.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:25 PM
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What the fuck? What's the point of that when it's not real? I mean what happens when you take that shit off when you get a girl back to your place? You just say "HAHA ITS TOO LATE NOW BITCH!"?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 07:37 AM
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I appreciated this comment
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 07:36 AM
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And this is why boys clubs rarely allowed females. Even one female would affect the dynamics of the group. And it still does, playing vidya games online will show you that. Buncha guys in the chat, girl joins, shit gets different immediately. Some guys won't stfu, other guys get mad.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 03:00 AM
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It's the simple things. I used to beat myself up over it too, that's especially the con of being too analytical, you wear yourself down and don't know how to just appreciate things. For instance a small mundane example is, "damn I should be more consistent brushing my teeth before bed instead of just in the AM". Many highly critical people might say damn, I'm this type of guy who doesn't brush his teeth at night, what the fuck? You begin to associate not brushing your teeth with who you are. Ins…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 09:19 AM
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Simple contradiction people beat their heads against the wall with: How can I improve myself yet accept who I am? Stop considering it improving "you" and start making the distinction that you are improving upon your bad habits. If you see yourself as flawed and needing to be fixed, then you'll always be damning yourself and stressing yourself out. Because it's never enough. Now, on the other hand if you consider improving a certain habit or behavior you have as a form of self love (acceptance), …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 12:36 AM
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Your post is actually right on the money. The most popular kids were usually the ones who were okay with being a bit uncomfortable with someone unfamiliar. Typically these people were also coincidentally also the types to never really be too specific with their beliefs or ideas. Because of that, they are able to easily get along with most people because they are or appear to be non-judgmental. If you're too attached to your beliefs to the point to where you dislike or have an unpleasant time wit…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:53 PM
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Careful, they'll also be the first ones to turn on your ass too. You basically have a group of people that are pretending to be one way and their identity/whole way of living and social life hang perilously in the balance depending on if they appear to align with those beliefs (all the virtue signalling and etc). If a situation should arise in which they are made to look obviously bad or contrary to those beliefs by their actions with you, well...yeah. Not necessarily a huge chance, but somethin…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:22 PM
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Yeah, but that's usually because the bum ass dudes have a good social circle with other mostly bum ass dudes, but they can ride that out for a few years while everyone is still young. Young girls just want to have fun, they don't give a fuck about other stuff until it's wall time, and even then they can just "outgrow" that old circle and find a nice wallet to settle down with.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 07:41 AM
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Maybe not top 1%, but don't underestimate just how much a low BF% contributes to looking shredded. You'd be surprised, guys who seem jacked are actually just sorta muscular but have a very lean physique. 10-15lbs of muscle is a lot more than people think, so it stands to reason that your first few years of lifting can net you an appreciable amount of muscle mass that you can shred down to.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 06:28 AM
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It's to the point to where you should just assume there's no unicorns. In reality there probably are a few, but knowing them would be such a time, place, context and luck sort of thing. It's completely out of your control, and there's no telling until it's too late and you've committed. But guys are fucking retards too, once they hear that there's some out there instead of none they'll all get whisked away into their dumbass fantasy land believing that THEY found a good one, that the whole divor…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 08:07 PM
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This is a very poignant but factual post. She's not yours, it's only your turn is probably one of the first things you "learn" here, but it is one of the last and most difficult things to internalize because it has only a fraction to do with women and a hell of a lot to do with existence. That phrase is the counter to the heart of the BP fantasy. All humans have holes in their hearts that they try to fill in various ways. For men, instead of coming to this harsh reality that love is not uncondit…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 08:02 PM
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Maybe your example works if we consider masturbation an addiction. Addicts have a hard time understanding the detachment non-addicts have. For example, quitting masturbation is a lot easier to me than limiting video game time. If you obsess over something it comes to the point of making the beast that tames you. Your attachment and created stigma toward the object begins to snowball and grow to be a big issue in your mind. You also have to understand the state of mind you're in. No fap is a gimm…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 07:45 PM
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Seems like your father had major issues, but despite all that he came from worse, so his version of giving you the better life was not beating your ass silly. Not saying you should forgive him, but it's funny how the older we get the more we realize our parents are just flawed little people who are passing on their fucked uppedness but hopefully a little less this time, and the next, and the next. One thing I had a difficult time with was coming to terms with the fact that my father was whittled…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 06:40 AM
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You got downvoted hard, and for actually good reasons. What in the fuck are you talking about? Making music is beta? Is eating a grilled cheese sandwich beta? Stop applying these already generic terms to incredibly specific things and forcing them into some stupid dichotomy. These sorts of arbitrary distinctions are literally how people become elitists to appease their own ego and artificially separate themselves from others. "I'm better than him, that faggot likes his eggs sunny side up, I like…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 02:28 AM
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I agree. I think on paper MGTOW sounds great, hell if you decide not to get married and focus on your work I think that's sort of a MGTOW move. The issue is that the label becomes a honeypot for losers who want to preserve their ego and justify their failures. Honestly most dudes don't need to be a millionaire pussy slaying machine. You just need to find what matters in your life, be game aware and fuck some girls every now and again. Accept your limitations, work to break them reasonably and fe…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 11:43 PM
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Every time I see this guy post he says the dumbest shit. What the fuck are you people looking for a god damn step by step manifesto on how to fuck women? You're right bro, there's so many procedures and rules you need to know about before you can even make your first baby step. It's not like there's plenty of clueless delusional people out there having sex right now who've never heard of these rules. Everything you need is on the sidebar, the rest of this sub is just icing on the cake and restat…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 11:26 PM
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These types of topics are a fucking vortex. Eventually so much energy is being put into considering if you should jerk off or if you should not. What the fuck.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 11:16 PM
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Because it doesn't do that, no fap only gives you those "benefits" if you're terribly addicted to porn or watch it a shit ton and jerk off so much even if you don't really feel like it. These kids were pounding their meat so often and hard to hardcore porn that it burned em out. Overall it's just a gimmick and a placebo, but there is some grain of truth to it too. Once they get the wise idea to get off the porn and stop jerking off as much, miraculously they recover. It's not the porn, and it's …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 11:13 PM
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As someone who got a Fleshlight I can highly recommend it. For two reasons: For those who jerk off too much and have the death grip problem, the encompassing and much more subtle sensations of a fleshlight are going to retrain how sensitive you are. The second is that you'll actually start to enjoy using it once in awhile and for that reason if you can stick to only Fleshlight masturbation then you'll probably masturbate less than you already do. The reason for this is that while it doesn't take…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 11:12 PM
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Not really, it's not some insidious insult aimed at humanity. There's so much shit out there, you never know what you like until it's there before you. That's why people who come up with these things on a grand scale are called visionaries, because they've caught a glimpse of something others can't see. Selling something to someone is predicated on this idea, you are resistant or indifferent to something, then someone shows you otherwise, sleight of hand or not. You're an arrogant fool if you th…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 04:19 AM
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I get what you're saying, but it's up to you to fill in the blanks in terms of nuance and context. Nobody has time to delineate every single contingency. Use your head. I do agree, not everyone can be sold. Some people WILL not be sold for reasons outside of your control. The most important point OP is making is that the MARGIN to which people are actually available to you is FAR greater than what most men believe. Persistency is important because much like consumer oriented business, people don…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 07:48 PM
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Honestly, no. I don't have a particularly deep voice either, but I used to subconsciously--and then consciously attempt to make it deeper. The results were poor. I'd often have a weaker voice by the end of the day because it's not sustainable in the slightest. It will take some retraining, but speak from your mask (the area around your nose and sinuses). Speaking from their is where your natural voice lies, you will know it because your mask will vibrate and tingle. A good way to find this is to…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 07:08 PM
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You're probably right, I'm definitely paranoid. I guess I wouldn't want to rub salt in the wound though. If you had a pretty terrible HS experience then I think it would make sense that revisiting that scene would be an unpleasant experience. Hell, I got the vibe from some of my teachers that they overly disliked certain kids, probably because those same types gave 'em a rough time when they were young. Some people never drop the grudge.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 06:44 PM
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I definitely feel like I missed out on that, but I'll get over it. Real talk though, a humorous reason why despite believing that I could possibly enjoy it, I would never go into teaching High School. For all the shit that I hated about it, going back to it for a career with an exponentially higher SMV in terms of looks and game/frame, it would be some kind of shitty nightmare of a joke to get a ton of female attention from young girls that by all accounts I had no access to when I was that age.…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 09:57 AM
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If you're in a happy and fulfilling LTR then I'm not sure why you're back here telling us about it. Yeah...I've seen that before.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 06:16 AM
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Early experience with girls made him grow much faster than guys who didn't have that benefit, and the years he had show. Plus, teenage girls are much easier to get to than adult ones, which is probably why we even have laws about not sexxing up teenage girls as an adult in the first place. You couldn't be more correct. As someone who had a pretty bad start, I know exactly where it goes right for kids and where it doesn't. It's not even about social skills, popular kids actually have FUCK ALL peo…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 12:00 AM
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There's definitely a spectrum. I've seen some thicker girls that I'd give a shot, but you have to keep in mind I'm a pretty slim dude and have consequently always liked girls that were proportionally shaped like myself. Everyones definition of fat is different, mine is pretty strict. I've seen some "thick" girls who were in shape (as in they're naturally thick because stomach wise they're fairly lean). I do wonder because I've seen some girls that have a nice face and skin but are bit too thick …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 11:51 PM
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Nobody type that acronym into google, you'll thank me.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 11:47 PM
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I've learned that speaking in your natural voice is infinitely better than using some even slightly fake voice. It's not a question of if people catch on, so much as it is a question of vibrancy and resonance. Your voice is effortlessly stronger when its in its natural range and it always sounds more expressive than when you put an act on. I do agree America in particular values the extrovert over the introvert, however after much experimentation I can tell you that for every 10 "extroverts" (ev…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 11:38 PM
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You were definitely thinking of Ethan from H3H3
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 08:12 AM
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I'd also like to add there's a specific sub-section of low self esteem individuals who like to dwell in the infantile phases of romance because of a deep seated fear of actually getting: A. What they want and dream about (sex) B. A low sense of self worth/competence. If they never get there, they can never have their ego destroyed/fail. This is sort of like the guy (for example) who has been at his job for 10 years in the same position he started in and is a god like pro at doing that basic job,…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 01:25 AM
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I'd say that's very accurate. People tend to say things like "that's just how it happened", but its funny how that's always how it seems to happen. When women are allowed to be passive and always have a fall back defense and benefit of the doubt, it opens up a lot of doors for them to manipulate semi-consciously. It reminds me of when I was a kid and I wanted to call out of school sick or when I wanted to manipulate my parents to buy me something, I would in a sense, become the lie. The lie for …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:56 AM
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That's interesting, wonder if its a "use it or lose it" type of situation.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 07:13 AM
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You really have to wonder when someone says that they have a "complete absence of ego", if that is the ego talking. Maybe. Maybe not.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 02:19 AM
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Agreed, the "issue" if you can call it that is most people just go into the humanities to coast, schooling and degrees aren't worth shit themselves, you only get what you put in to it. And majors/programs don't make you good, they can only stimulate what you're already bringing to the table. Majoring in the humanities is incredibly impractical because you only learn soft skills. This isn't a problem if you have a sense of self direction and know where you can market yourself and apply yourself t…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 08:59 PM
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You know, the whole thing about that "sexual assault" that irritates me is that he said NOTHING of the sort and none of what he actually said was incorrect. They accuse him of bragging about sexual assault, but all he said was that if you're a superstar (or rockstar was it?) that they'll let you do anything, they'll even let you grab em by the pussy. Why don't we ask ol' Mick Jagger if that's true, he's probably been with so many girls that voraciously presented themselves to him--an actual rock…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 07:41 AM
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I think it's more of an honest approach It's not a more honest approach, it's a more practical approach that was geared for a time when marriage was completely expected and women (in their countries) were shamed for sleeping around/getting divorced. A marriage was strictly about the match, the person had to be from a "good family" and roughly the same socioeconomic status or higher. You say push their boys to be smart and make a lot of money, but that's beating around the bush. They wanted their…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:38 PM
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Slightly off topic but: I love me some anime, but I think it's hilarious when mother fuckers think Japan is even remotely like anime or dramas. That's like if Japanese people watched Saved by the Bell and thought America was like that. There's plenty of hot girls here already, I don't know why you'd want to go to Japan and hook up with some bat shit crazy gaijin lover.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:30 PM
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If your ambition is to be the greatest shoemaker the world over, I don't think you need to worry about getting plugged.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 04:42 AM
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If it's one thing I've learned from Reddit is just how many people are fucking off at work on Reddit. A lot of these office jobs are just pretending to be busy.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 04:38 AM
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Doesn't matter, gonna start pissing on toilet seats. Passive aggressive or diabolical mastermind?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:16 AM
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Right you are. I'm pretty adamant about keeping people accountable even when things are tough, but I will say the food industry is fucked up, and it's no wonder that Americans are fucking fat when a guy like me had to go online and read and research for HOURS to begin to understand and undue the horseshit that we were all taught passively. All this garbage food, even neglecting that the quality is poor and the "vitamins" that are in it are typically fortified and not readily absorbed in some cas…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:13 AM
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Aquinas also didn't live in an age of hyper sexual stimulation like we do. Makes a difference, we see more sexualized images in a week than these dudes saw in their lives. Counting out porn, even in the various forms of media it's all pretty much there--comparatively speaking.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 05:53 AM
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Exactly, this is about as fucking retarded as no fap. No fap is stupid as shit, bunch of dudes sitting around rearranging their entire lives around jerking off or not jerking off. For every person, there is a different addiction or cause of addiction. I watched porn for most of my formative years up until my early 20's and jerked off 1-2 times a day AT LEAST. Going two days without was quite an accomplishment. Then, either by being depressed enough or just by virtue of thinking over shit a lot, …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 06:36 AM
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I agree, mostly in that when I found this place I had to search some specific things around 2 and some years ago to find it. I had to seek, had to indulge those naggings feelings that something just didn't add up, that I had most of the pieces, just had to have a few more. It doesn't do any good to be discussing TRP stuff with people who aren't already close to thinking like that or are open to it. Intellectual masturbation doesn't count for shit when you don't have experiences giving substance …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 09:15 AM
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It really is a bunch of horse shit. The gym is not an intimidating place, people just stereotype too much and live inside their fucking heads. They don't realize their insecurity is not reality. Most regulars at the gym are either swell dudes who'll help you or guys who won't think twice about you and don't care whether you bench 225+ or just the bar. If I see a weak kid coming to the gym 3 or more times a week and is consistent, I can respect the grind. The only lifts that matter are yours, nev…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 09:36 PM
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Because 9/10 thats exactly what it is. This isn't so much a criticism as it is reality. Humans are creatures of necessity, guys innately know they have to do shit to be anyone or have value (though due to being told otherwise we're having huge issues there aren't we?). Women don't need to do shit to have value in society, so they don't. There are a plethora of anti-social men who are vigorously interested in a particular topic all on their own, without reinforcement of any sort. They'd rather be…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 09:29 PM
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Cringe is net lingo that's spawned from mostly self aware internet geeks who feel excessive fear and cringe from watching others engage in similar behavior that they'd likely do as well. Since they hide on the net, when they see it there they cringe. Example: watching the Worlds League of Legends tournament, a player gets interviewed and is not totally fumbling, but is a bit awkward/uncomfortable in his posture being interviewed by someone live with over 100k people watching. Said nerd will obse…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:52 PM
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Urban environments are rather anxiety provoking... it's the "Rat Cage" problem of overcrowding that causes anxiety. They really are. As much as I like the idea of a big city, as they say it can swallow you whole too. If you've ever been to Miami, it also has such a nasty aura to it. I think only certain people really pick up on it, it's nothing supernatural so much as an implicit understanding that you know for a FACT that there is in the area you are approaching a high concentration of murder, …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 08:12 AM
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The one two punch of OP's comment and this one is so amazing. I'm glad he said it, we're all the better for it. I want to live in a world where a man can casually explain to me that the atmosphere was thick with evil, so he had trouble staying asleep for 8 hours straight or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 08:02 AM
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I'm looking to get into copywriting and direct response is interesting to me. How did you get into it? Not necessarily how did you become successful, but how did you begin?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 08:01 PM
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The first thing I thought was, this is how people snap and murder someone. Feminine behavior is destructive. When you convince men to be passive like women that eventually turns to passive aggression instead of a healthy expression of that need to overtly press on. This is why betas always have two faces, the nice guy and the angry as fuck out of nowhere guy. They're removed of the tools to help themselves, and taught how to form unhealthy reliance on others. Parasitic relationships. Everything …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 08:20 PM
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I look at all this and think: something's gotta give. It's really hard to say where it will go. TRP is--rightfully so, a cesspit of negativity to this topic and fear mongering. Don't take that as a polemic though, it's merely how things balance because there are very few places to discuss this stuff. So naturally we accumulate a lot of the disdain in one place. I have faith in men, and in our biology to overcome. Law 38, "Think as you like but behave like others" has never been more relevant in …
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 08:11 PM
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Yup. More proof of "toxic masculinity", I'm sure these boys committed suicide because they live in a culture where they are unable to express their emotions due to negative male gender norms.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 07:54 PM
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Never read Brave New World have you?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 07:49 PM
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How the fuck you American men are able to keep yourselves from going on shooting rampages boggles my mind Well, if we take a look at the news, we aren't.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 07:47 PM
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Adding to that. I'm really tired of seeing this. Anybody reading this, ask yourself this question: How much pussy do I really want? There's so many niches and cultures/sub cultures in this huge world, stop fucking worrying about who you're turning away by being the man you want to be. I fucking guarantee that if you have strong boundaries, self respect, and of course be successful in your own right then there's going to be a category of bitches waiting to fuck you. Sure, some "personas" are goin…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 05:48 AM
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I don't even know if this is legit or not, because women still have it pretty easy finding a guy to marry You never know, but career women have it the worst in this aspect. As we know, women only date up. The more successful they become career wise, the smaller that pool becomes. Suddenly, if she's making good money, a man who makes the often sought after 100k marker isn't really all that impressive is it? Depending on the woman, they either wise up sooner or later and marry some chump and abuse…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:08 AM
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Effeminate, non-aggressive losers are killing themselves because they can't get laid, suck socially and have trouble networking professionally and making friends, and they're lonely and feel like failures. It has nothing to do with some arbitrary ideal of what is or isn't a real man. They're not killing themselves over definitions of a word and whether they meet that definition. They're killing themselves because their lives suck. Yes, and even more so they were robbed of the tools to help thems…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 07:28 PM
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Lmao what the fuck is this horseshit. You see? Even little rat lookin girls will have some kinda attitude and entitlement like that. If she's anything like that in real life that's exactly the kind of girl that eats up negs like catnip. The shyer ones you have to be a bit more subtle and low key, this is the kind of girl you can probably tell to shut the fuck up outright.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 06:18 AM
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What was the thing? Ski ball?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 07:52 PM
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I'd also argue that because you're each limited to few words and lack of description, everything has to be stripped of extraneous bullshit or very concise. Less is more as they say, and when you speak with less, there's always ALWAYS more to the imagination. And we all know that nothing can ever beat imagination.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 07:51 PM
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Pretty much this. A lot of guys feel like they want to contribute to help "end" feminism or make people aware of the shit we discuss here, but that's stupid as fuck. People are too hooked into their pretty words and comforting BP ideas, you just have to let it run its course like anything else. People won't learn until they really start getting the short end of the stick and have no choice but to call a spade a spade. By all means help your closest buddies if they show some vigor to helping them…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:03 PM
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Weaboos are not weaboos because they like anime. The genres are so diverse that tons of different people like it. What makes someone a weaboo is an enthusiastic that in some cringey way wants to be Japanese. So they pick up some easy terms they hear repeated on subs and use them irl. They think Japan is amazing meanwhile knowing shit about it but through their anime exposure. Most of them are too stupid to even realize that being an otaku in Japan has just as bad of a stigma as it is here, but t…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 10:55 PM
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Good summary. It really is just a matter of practice and just shooting for it. Most guys think too much and DQ themselves for the girl before they even approach. There's also a more slightly insidious truth to explain dry spells or lack of success over a long period of time. There's a good chance, no matter how much time you spent thinking about it drooling over it...you didn't want it--at least not as you think you do or for the right reasons.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 05:41 AM
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I'm not one to talk, but I'm thinking along the lines that you should keep some passions in mind, but also don't sabotage yourself or be dramatic in pursuing them. Be practical as well, if you keep an open mind and don't get wrapped up in making a big fuss then chances are you'll grow to like the things you do as more time passes. We tend to start enjoying things that are good to us and we invest in over time.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 02:48 AM
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As long as it's not Astro Glide. That garbage ass shit made my pee pee hole burn for an hour.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 02:36 AM
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Lol. You do realize a Japanese person can't be a weaboo right? Most people just say weaboo these days and they don't even know what it means.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 02:25 AM
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I just find a lot of the dudes at my school to be lame AF and super beta or in omega territory. Most of them play pokemon or some other video game, watch anime, or some other childish shit. Hm. Then if there are dudes into cool shit, they just have this super pretentious whack vibe about them like they think they're better than you or something. I hope you see what I'm getting at here.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 02:19 AM
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Precisely, I'm all for helping a guy get on his feet if he really shows initiative, but some men are just absolutely begging to be exploited. Almost all men learn from their mistakes, it just varies how many times it has to happen for them to learn. For some, all it takes is one. For most, a few times. There's a rare man out there (becoming increasingly common even?) that will never learn.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 08:23 PM
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I agree that unless you possess a genius level talent for acting and putting on a facade--this is a very valuable and rare skill, for someone to so wholeheartedly embody the persona they wish to, it is wise to understand that what happens within you in even the subtlest ways can manifest itself in external ways. Pre-TRP the one concept that seemed to me most important even in my earliest beta days was a fascination with how absence and unavailability affected others. Even in the smallest of ways…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 08:10 PM
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Men did this for themselves and for mankind. And women loved them for it The world at that point was in love with heroics, with honor, and men largely had all the control in terms of perception and politics, and most of them reinforced the idea of being a good men. The notions of brotherhood, etc. You simply cannot compare "then" and now. Essentially it was widely socially acceptable and even encouraged to be that type of man, and unto that type of man that demonstrated such honorable feats of h…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:27 AM
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More or less. Getting shit tested is always a good sign. Girls don't really shit test guys they aren't interested in or have some type of attraction to.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 11:28 PM
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Its not a bad post but it essentially says don't get stuck in analysis paralysis because knowing is an illusion and you'll learn quicker by doing than thinking. Additionally you can't be afraid to make mistakes because if you are you're just hamstering the fear of hurting your weak ego because youve built up a godlike image of yourself that you cant live up to if you actually do shit and realize you suck. Be confident yet humble about your humanity and ignorance
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 08:52 PM
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In some ways, all the fucks ups and failures I had in High School at trying to be funny (some hits, lots of misses) really primed me to just say whatever the fuck I want to say and genuinely give off the vibe that I don't care whether they laugh or think it's interesting. I used to think I was naturally funny (because I am funny as fuck now), and maybe I do have some detached affinity for it...however, I then realized how much I'd been practicing this skill all along my whole life. The reason I …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:49 AM
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Lowering my standards to me is poking a relatively attractive girl who's got an intolerable personality or a butter face. Seriously OP, that situation was pure loss and no gain, BUY A FLESHLIGHT for these situations because it's a hell of a lot better than your hand or a smelly fat rank pussy with more baggage than an airport.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 07:44 PM
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Good, concise points. Additionally, to anyone reading this: everything is contextual. The alpha in one scenario is the fucking loser in another. You can be an alpha with women and be a total beta bitch at work. Beta is also not a bad thing. In reality there are just people, the labels are just convenient. Don't make the mistake of using them to get some sort of sense of superiority or accomplishment. Plenty of good men are "betas", it isn't an insult even though it is used as one in terms of sex…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 07:56 PM
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Not sure what is the difference. Concentration meditation (which goes hand in hand with Vipassana) can get you into states of strong concentration where you may experience bliss then eventually calm detachment and pleasantness from the release. Mindfulness is peddled everywhere to the point to where the word really doesn't mean much anymore in common usage. When I think of mindfulness meditation it's simply concentration meditation. Training your concentration to let go of distractions and be fu…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 05:46 PM
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If that's how you feel I can't change that, but do remember this is just a tiny slice of the net. Additionally, TRP is amoral not immoral, don't confuse the two to be the same. Also, consider how many people are silently subbed, taking what they need and getting on with life vs how many also stay here everyday to chit chat and say nasty shit as you claim? Despite what you say I think there's a difference between how people "act" online and IRL. There's a lot of good dudes here.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 04:38 PM
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Except that it isn't. This sub has quite a few different outlooks, just because some are more obvious than others doesn't mean everyone is out for the same things. The most vocal people are typically new and or vehement about replacing their BP beliefs with TRP "beliefs" or what they believe this place believes. The only thing that this place is absolutely is a sexual strategy sub, from there on other members are free to contribute knowledge they feel helps that goal, in the process we see a lot…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:00 AM
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It's sort of the irony behind revenge fantasies and made up scenarios, when you're not close to having it you think it'll be amazing and fantasize about it. When it's right there in front of you and you've made the journey and progress to where it is a side effect occurring, not the goal, by then you've lost the taste for it due to the growth you've experienced. This isn't always the case of course. You see this all the time with other shit too. I gave up certain junk foods a long time ago, and …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 07:05 AM
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To an extent yes but unchecked + attention from 100s of betas literally ruins them If you think about it, it's funny how changes in modern society that seem like they would have no impact on a particular thing end up absolutely rearranging the fuck out of it--like highspeed internet and smart phones.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 07:02 AM
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I think the toxins released from that event happening enmasse in one location would harm the atmosphere greatly.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 06:55 AM
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I've seen Asians with black dudes, the catch is that they're typically the dance crew types. As another poster said, many times they were Filipino. AFAIK it's a yay or nay thing, not much in between. However, this sort of thing can very quite dramatically based on region and income.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 06:50 AM
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We can talk about the theoretical ego vs self-esteem vs. egolessness later - you're not ready for that discussion until you establish a strong worldly (i.e. rooted in reality) pride first. Bolded what I think is pretty damn important. There is definitely something to be said about contentment and the gradual annihilation of the ego, but while you work on that, try to understand it's not about thinking you're dogshit and calling it humble. It's more about not even thinking of yourself, you just g…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 04:43 AM
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How do you know these things? That's not STEM, FAKER!
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 05:35 AM
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It is sort of cringey once you see it, but you have to understand that these are people who thought to look online to solve their problems, it attracts a certain kind of methodical crowd in many cases. When you have no intuition or inner sense on how to behave, you have to take words at face value with no understanding of nuance. When you become more experienced, is when you start to organically act and think, the knowledge is internalized. This isn't unusual really, quite natural.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 05:28 AM
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I wonder if women, in the same way BP men who became enraged internally when they see a girl they like go for a traditionally masculine guy, will become enraged when feminine women become even scarcer and guys they like will drool over the rare feminine girl. They'd probably hate the bitch with an even greater passion than how women already hate each other. Women ironically already are aware that part of femininity in the past was a sham and an act, but they think that men were the ones who forc…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 08:45 PM
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What's the deal with CH? What is his story? For a time I was reading CH and was really impressed by his writing and voice, enough to feel curious about what he did IRL for a living. Since I was reading his stuff largely after a good archive was built, I jumped from old and new frequently. I noticed that he at once seemed pretty educated and open with his advice yet also gave the impression that he was a white supremacist. Couldn't tell how much he was exaggerating and how much he was serious abo…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 01:19 AM
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Fuck yes. I had slowly begun to realize this both consciously and unconsciously since my early teens and it's not a glamorous understanding in the least. Quite frankly, I can honestly say it was a great gift and an immense curse. Realizing that most things are scripted and fake, and that most people are so blissfully unaware of what they think they know is merely the aura of what they saw on television or in other collective media. This forms a bank of largely false information. When people thin…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 11:16 PM
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Wrong, even low SMV women are capable of such things in a society that feeds their egos so greatly. You're still thinking of it in terms of trying to find some magic trick to keep the girl, this is counterintuitive to everything that TRP suggests is true. You can't keep the girl, as they say, "it's just your turn". You need to get to a point to where you can enjoy being with her, but you don't need her, and that is the bitterest pill for most people. To clarify, it's not true that they WILL chea…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 06:10 PM
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It's more complicated than that, there's only so much individuals can do to escape poor conditioning. This is a dangerous territory because part of it isn't totally their fault, but you have to make people take responsibility somewhere. It's almost a cliche about children playing in shit in some crap country and being happy because it's all they know, this is true and also untrue. It is as you say, desire and attachment cause suffering, and the more advanced a society becomes the more desire and…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 06:07 PM
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I'd take that a step further, to me, meditation and mindfulness are a journey to simplicity. The more you progress, the simpler things become. Funny how that works. In this case, it isn't just as OP suggests to be apathetic or unemotional, this is VERY big pitfall as it echoes the sentiment many people share in trying to "not give a fuck" all the time. People are even starting to admire psychopathy (which to an extent is understandable). But the truth is that fucks are given, you will feel emoti…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 03:17 AM
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Just be yourself IS good advice, but only when you're of sound mind and perspective. JBY for myself 4 years ago would have been fucking terrible. After the years of hard and grueling introspection and disassembling myself, I have naturally progressed to a more resolved person after going through my own trials. JBY is now great advice for me because I have gone through the trouble of uprooting most of my shit conditioning and instincts. Though, I do agree the JBY most people offer up is pretty du…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 05:31 PM
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That's interesting, what is the difference in education? Or rather, how much more education do you need to be a RD?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 02:43 AM
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Adult Swim has had a lot of shows like this.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 06:25 AM
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Carlin's earlier stuff was more humorous in terms of straight stand up, and his later works were mixed between some serious shit and then a punchline to ease it up. I still remember listening to stuff like Complaints and Grievances before school at like 4am in bed in the dark and feeling like he was taking me on a silly adventure. Really wish I could've seen him live.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 06:24 AM
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The whole alpha beta thing has been around longer than that. Picking up the lingo doesn't mean shit anyways. It's just like nerdy kids calling other people cucks. If you understand the internet though, you see it for what it all is. The real Red Pill is nuanced, and you have to think for yourself. I think a cartoonish Red Pill is going to emerge and the overtly pseudo-alpha behaviors will become even cringier than they are now as tons of copy cats looking to cash in without hard work of developi…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 06:19 AM
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Yes. Yes. Really. Yes. Stay out of her Netherlands! It's better there! FTFY
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 06:02 AM
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Because people don't truly know what they want to do with their time. Freedom is the greatest privilege and at once a great burden. It's a lot easier to chase phantoms then to acknowledge that life is devoid of meaning or purpose, and that one has to find the strength within himself to direct his own purpose, affirm his own life, validate his own existence. This is difficult, undoubtedly. It isn't an on or off switch, there are many levels of acknowledging this. Being in the pilots seat is terri…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 05:57 AM
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Yup. Look at the fool character in any Shakespeare play and you'll see he's the one who gets away with criticizing the king or whomever is in power under the guise of being the jester. This is really prevalent in King Lear.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 05:52 AM
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"Don't fret precious I'm here, step away from the window Go back to sleep Safe from pain and truth and choice and other poison devils, See, they don't give a fuck about you, like I do. Count the bodies like sheep Count the bodies like sheep Counting bodies like sheep To the rhythm of the war drums" --A Perfect Circle. I can understand that feeling, I was in a similar position and felt completely isolated and pounded into the ground with immense negativity from prior bad experiences and feeling l…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 02:25 AM
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Definitely true. It doesn't take much to get to the top 20%, that last 10-20 % of skill tier is on another level entirely. I still play CS from time to time for fun, but I've no intention of competing in any form or playing seriously. What did you replace it with if you don't mind me asking?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 02:21 AM
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Question is what made you play, what were you drawn to? Some people enjoy the "social" aspect of playing on a team, playing with others. Some people enjoy the competitiveness and beating other players. And there are people who simply want something stimulating and distracting to escape into and competitive games offer a level of depth and strategy to get lost in. Incoming slightly irrelevant tangent: I have some very complicated feelings about gaming, I do not see it as a bad activity as most do…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:14 PM
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Nah, I don't get like that, and those were just examples. My point is that everyone develops a type of persona around gaming and it hyper stimulates you in various ways that aren't necessarily real, you're just going through the motions.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 06:10 AM
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One time I almost quit playing competitive games, I was already at a peak point of dissatisfaction. Meditation, along with a lot of contemplation and understanding of what I want had already dismantled my ability to binge anywhere close to what I used to do. I wanted to quit those types of games because they suck you in the most IMO while not even being unwinding. But I didn't quit. Why? Because I didn't want that to become my cigarettes, I didn't want that to become my drug, that to some extent…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 10:21 PM
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Just talking out of my ass, but it could have something to do with the bad stigma around rote memorization in schooling now. Some of that is warranted, but memorization is still an important skill, but when that goes out the window so does a lot of that type of work. Or at the very least they teach it but since it isn't required to remember it kids just say fuck it, I know I would have. Let's face it, most of school is studying for the test, not the material itself.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:39 AM
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Yup. Sounds like he's already under the spell. Truthfully, it's not as sinister as you make it sound. It is more that characteristics that we find adorable in children are pitiful and disgusting in adults, and of course the stakes are higher. Little Amanda isn't putting you under in order to try to get an animal cracker from your ass, now it's your whole house. That's why there's the whole "most responsible teenager in the house" bit here. When you consider you're dealing with a child and to adj…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:34 AM
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Never gonna have big calves crew. Feels bad. Too bad most people judge if you skip "leg day" (what the fuck is leg day? You use your legs once a week?) based on how big calves are and not quads.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:30 AM
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I dunno I've seen some dudes at my gym that look mighty big standing in front of a counter. Then they come out around the side and you realize a good breeze could tip them over.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:25 AM
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True. I've seen plenty of popular guys who really actually don't even know why girls like them or what the fuck girls even like. They're too close to it to see it.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 09:28 PM
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I won't do a workout if I can't fit some sprinting in there. That being said, the sprint athlete bit is misleading. Sprinters may do a shit ton of that, but they also squat big ass weights because it improves their sprinting. Those two exercises complement each other greatly. Also, anytime somebody gives the whole you don't want to get too bulky bit, I'd like to see them fucking try. Most people are never gonna have tree trunk legs like Alan Thrall on YT, even if they are comparably strong. I wi…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 09:25 PM
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Consider also that most men are programmed to be weak to women. Despite all the salacious bullshit about toxic masculinity, most men have the white knight instinct. Most men have a protector instinct for women and this often manifests itself in ways that make the man beholden to her. And most women...well you know. Not sure you can blame biology so much as you can blame the systems of monogamy we've tried to place on ourselves as we evolve as rational beings. Even then, it is because these thing…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 06:48 AM
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See, I don't understand that. At that level of wealth and opportunity, you could literally just impregnate a bitch and skip all the marriage nonsense and pay for children up front.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 06:44 AM
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Granted it's not what I would say, but it might have been or might not have been terrible or awkward. Funny thing about "awkwardness", a lot of it is internal. Things you think are incredibly awkward may not be as bad depending on how much social anxiety you have or used to have. You can get rid of the anxiety, but sometimes the perceptions stay. Having been meditating for over a year now I realized that there are still days I feel sort of uncomfortable and tense in public for no reason and ther…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 06:33 AM
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It's even worse if you have no preexisting social circle and go to a commuter college.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 06:27 PM
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I have some ideas, but what do you think those redeeming qualities that they possessed in the past are? I figure society has enabled the worst behavior with no consequences, effectively raising spoiled human beings. Spoiled human beings are the worst because they lack any sort of appreciation or understanding gained through hardship or humbling limitation. If they weren't spoiled so much, they'd turn out fairly level. Sure, hypergamy and AWALT would still exist, but to less intense degrees.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 05:49 PM
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"nice guys" and the like are not harmless I agree, but that's because their conditional nice guy behavior and passive aggressiveness will all build until they blow their top and go overboard. This typically doesn't manifest in violence, more like complaining and yelling or some type of backstabbing manipulation. Once they cool down they go back to nice guy land and apologize then feel a sense of gratitude to the person who forgave them.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 06:35 PM
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lol. Autism confirmed, and I rarely use that like all the memel0rds these days tend to do. Look man, it's easy to get frustrated with all the lame ass terminology, but anybody here with half a brain knows that when we refer to beta and alpha it is not from a frame of absolutism. You can have a group such as this where plenty of members looking for a new religion will make everything black and white, but intelligent people will find a way to understand the concept and infer the nuances themselves…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 06:29 PM
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When I started eating "right" my calorie consumption looked about like this. I'd hit 1700-1800 calories and feel like I ate enough...but it's not enough. Being 5'7 and much skinnier at the time (120 lb srs, ended up becoming a skeleton trying to kill skinny fatness 113lb 113LB FOR GODS SAKES), your idea of a lot of food is distorted. I was at one point eating like 1400-1500 calories a day and my metabolism was just wrecked. I've worked up slowly to about 2200 calories a day as maintenance and an…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 06:18 PM
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That's a trap. It's true you won't gain weight by going under maintenance and eating a lot of fruits, but that doesn't mean that much sugar is good for you in the long run. Go ahead, have a banana, mango, apple etc. They're great for you, but don't be that person eating an extra 80 grams of sugar from fruit alone thinking it is okay. This is why people love smoothies, they just load up the sweetest fruits and fill the whole cup up with them, a solid 90 grams of sugar packed into a drink.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:55 PM
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LOL. We all wish 3.5 billion women looked even remotely that good. I get what you're saying though. When your goal is fucking instead of all the mushy or contextual masturbation that comes with getting with girls (especially in the BP mindset), it's a lot easier to just move on if one prospect isn't working out.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:02 PM
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I see what you mean. Yup, I do look like a pussy though much less every month. Guess I'll just continue to bust ass, continue to slowly ramp up calories and foam roll and stretch a shit ton and see where it takes me on 5x5's higher workload.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:34 AM
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Speaking of slow progression, I'm a beginner and when I decided to get serious and get a real program instead of doing random bullshit I ended up going with 531 because it seems simple to program for and I could fit in some accessories to be vain, I'm pleased with how far I've come and got the basics down for the major lifts, but the progression is pretty damn slow (because it is an intermediate program of course). My question is if I do 5x5, I'm guessing this is going to be heavy percentages an…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:58 AM
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I agree with much of what you say, and don't misunderstand, I'm not saying that what I explained is the sole reason and excuse to rationalize poor grades or poor habits or lack of focus. Now, in tertiary education, the habits built from secondary school have paid dividends - I'm able to study over 6-8 hours a day, consistently, when required. It's so much more about what the individual/family values than it is about some innate force we evolved to possess. You misunderstand. Maybe you've never e…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 08:18 PM
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This is going to be disastrous and fucking hilarious at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 05:58 PM
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That's because the workplace and school system are increasingly feminized. I always had a theory, one that would never fly IRL but it's so simple, stuff we already know. Apart from the testosterone thing, we know that women have better capacity to memorize things and that their intelligence is typically geared toward this type of archiving. Meanwhile men are all over the fucking place in terms of diversity. What is school but memorization? Men may not be as good at memorizing and regurgitating i…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 05:47 PM
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I disagree with most of the post, but I agree with this. If you have no issues being unambitious, great. Just don't complain. But people will complain, it's just noise. Most people are just fine following the times, doing the routine.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 12:50 AM
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As far as I'm concerned, this mental retardation about creators and consumers is a full blown trend on TRP. Jesus christ, do some of you feel amazing dividing up the world into arbitrary dichotomies that make you feel part of some in group or something? Yes, yes of COURSE! The creator is some fucking arch wizard maestro dastardly creating products that enslaves his victims to hum and skip to his tune while he fucks the world, what a powerful masculine man he is! As I've said plenty of times, you…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 12:46 AM
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The positives of writing by hand are also the negatives. I've been typing on computers for a very long time, so it's essentially just an extension of my own hand at this point. Regardless: I think typing is a superior way for me to get my thoughts down. Because not only is it quicker, but since my thoughts tend to be...wordy, being able to type, quickly delete and retype and format is comforting. You're correct in saying that writing stuff down by hand is more deliberate and the benefits that co…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 07:26 PM
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Yeesh. I've heard more insidious doomsday warnings about marriage, but it's the plain down to the ground shit like this that really just screams "DON'T FUCKING GET MARRIED"
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 09:42 PM
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We can't go back to the way shit used to be, nor would I want to. The whole thing was just a sham that worked for society as a whole, and as we collectively experience more of a certain type of freedom in society, these bindings become unhinged and people are unleashed. Women are unleashed. Not sure you can say men had it great back in the day either as much as people like to fantasize about it, but an average guy has more opportunity to improve his standing and fuck tons of girls for nothing th…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 09:35 PM
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I feel like a lot of pro gamers or twitch streamers tend to have asian girlfriends, wonder whats up with the prevalence of asian women in gaming, could be my imagination. If your story is true, sounds like you really crushed him because its also involving a girl streamer which nerds pretty much die inside over. That was the extra detail. But, I agree that its harsh but needed and if he's strong enough it will help him.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 06:21 AM
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Literally got the same vibes childhood me got from Goosebumps novels. That whole "WE'RE STILL IN THE NIGHTMARE" feel.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 06:09 AM
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Yeah but most guys use aloofness to bypass the fact that they're not attractive. They think there's some switch they can flip in their mind and all of a sudden the world changes. Then they go on to completely ignore girls they clearly have strong interest in and probably are like "yeah I ignored that bitch so hard yeah, fuck yeah". Meanwhile the girl has so many more options that unless the dudes SMV is sky high (it's not) she'll just go elsewhere where she doesn't have to put in work. The most …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 12:21 AM
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Don't play the aloofness game, nobody wins. More often than not guys trying to come across as aloof care with the intensity of a thousand suns. If you like a girl just go fucking talk to her and then if she's showing some ioi's then start selectively withdrawing your attention if you want.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:21 PM
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Someone negged you, I have no idea why, that shit was fucking funny.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:16 PM
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I just see it as a mixture of probability and circumstance. People can be special, but not the only ones. Out of x amount of people who possess certain traits that predispose them to certain behaviors that are valuable or enabling to create a certain outcome in a scenario that is only possible to progress if the individual acts on those qualities against the odds of influence can be pretty slim even if there's more than a few candidates. People aren't static, and outside influences are at once o…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 06:29 AM
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There's a specific mindset on Tinder that I don't believe is representative of reality in certain aspects. Being able to swipe is a minor feeling of power most people use. Fatties aren't going to admit that the best they can get is so far below what they idolize, much less do it so overtly on a dating app. Reality can obscure, feelings can interfere, people can seem better than they are. But when it's just a cold swipe left or right people practically disassociate from reality and only swipe rig…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 03:53 AM
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I think this is a great post, if I could summarize what I got out of this, it's this: Assertiveness is a combination of presence (as in being present) and imposition of will. It carries with it an implication that all the typical things about a situation that people either react passively, passive-aggressively, or aggressively to are typically subjective emotional reactions. The assertive route is one that only someone who has complete control over himself can utilize, because it bypasses the em…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 02:23 AM
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lmao what the fuck. Well that was candid. So you fucked a fatty to get rid of your v card, but why did you stick around after that to be beholden to some fat sex torture gauntlet?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 01:39 AM
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Broke up with her man, either he did or she did, regardless, broke up. Looking for post break up validation to check if she's still got it. You went in, she's got it. Ghost her.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 01:36 AM
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Ditto. I didn't know what a cuckold was until I saw it in one the Dark Tower novels by Stephen King when I was younger.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 01:18 AM
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That's what I was thinking. Abyss? We're talking about girls, not the nature of the self.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 06:16 PM
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Except that the first line is a disclaimer that it's a blog post he didn't write?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 06:12 PM
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Great, let's turn this into an anime. EDIT: also that fucking Kefka reference outta nowhere what the fuck.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 05:30 PM
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This is important, it's always important to have a healthy dose of skepticism about this shit. It's not that it can't happen, but that doesn't mean you should just take it as true. A lot of people really just enjoy stirring the pot these days regardless of what "side" you're on. Not to mention some of those pro-cuck posts just seem unreal, I'm sure--again, that there are guys out there, but I trust that on the net there's some 10/10 trolls who write shit like that because it is hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 05:12 PM
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I'd like to put the emphasis on the fact that she discovered cuck porn. OP's description of a cuckold is also completely incorrect as it has been with the resurgence of usage with the word. A cuckold is simply a man who's wife has slept with another man, or an action in which a man sleeps with another mans wife thus cuckolding him. There were probably historical implications of shame, but it's not like cuck porn where the dude in many cases enjoys it which is what all these 16 year olds who call…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 05:10 PM
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Hmm I've definitely considered copyrighting and technical writing, but the other suggestions are good places to look too. I appreciate the response.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 12:56 AM
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What the fuck? No. How the fuck you gonna come on this sub where everybody jerks off Machiavelli and so much of game relies on understanding subtextual communication, yet you're going to claim that when women use it that it isn't actually power? Women have power alright, and that power is men. Most men have an innate biological weakness toward women, we all should know that. You're learning how to resist that through ideology and developing a type of discipline.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 06:10 AM
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What kind of freelancing work do you know of that someone can make use of their ability to write really well? I'm not particularly good at programming or the like and don't enjoy it at all, so I'm looking for alternatives.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:37 AM
1

Wonder how many Indians are doing stuff involving writing like Copywriting on Upwork.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:35 AM
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Nerds are typically socially isolated, but there's a gamut of individuals in the nerd category. Interestingly enough it's the "beta" nerds that basically said FUCK YOU to PC culture and feminism when it tried to step out of line and fuck with video games. Gamergate started a lot of shit on the internet that spilled over into reality.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 10:06 PM
3

Are you implying that girls with highlighted hair vary based on the color?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 09:58 PM
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Clearly not otherwise I'd just go into the gym and do a shit ton of hypertrophy work on my arms and shoulders to look swole but be imbalanced as fuck. Doesn't mean I'm going to sit here and lie that looking good isn't a nice perk to lifting. But like I said, I'm in it for the long haul.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 04:27 AM
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It's not that I'm undereating, so much as that I'm eating just barely above maintenance. Thinking about it, I believe it's because what used to be my surplus is now becoming my maintenance from the increase in weight, muscle and activity. So I'm just going to have to eat an extra 3-400 calories.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 01:40 AM
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Yes. You increase the lift totals every 3-4 weeks which is slow, but the volume is more than enough for me (I do accessory sets of the main lifts) and I increase the lifts by more than the basic amount every new cycle because I'm still a beginner so I can make those leaps. Additionally I'm sprinting hills twice a week. How would a weekly progression compare? I don't know much about that.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 01:36 AM
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Do you end up telling them what it actually is?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:17 AM
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It's definitely a really slow process. I started at such a shit low level and my lifts have been increasing every week since I started 531 and also doing the boring but big for accessory work. I feel like I should be eating more to pack on more size, but then I think "have my lifts stalled?" "no", so I don't. It is frustrating though, there's these skinny dudes that come into the gym and after a month they've got bigger arms than I do, what the fuck? I'd like to think I'm building a bigger found…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:01 AM
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He's saying we get FR's here that--while impressive, are by now means impossible. But, you get some extremely low SMV guys who use their own standards of eventfulness to determine whether something can happen or not. They think just because it's not happening to them that it can't happen.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:43 PM
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I had a thought that when this group was harder to find (as in less popular) it attracted a higher caliber of people as they could have only found this place by already being in the mindset of asking "WHAT THE FUCK is happening with my life?" and they started searching for answers. Along with the infamy gained, we get subs here everyday from people who weren't looking but have found it anyways now that we're the official Reddit den of misogyny. Some of these people will stay and read, but they w…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:41 PM
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Minor incidents. I'm just hoping some story of some girl getting abducted while playing Go doesn't break out because that's going to make approaching a bit more awkward as all these people are going to get a bit paranoid and defensive for no reason.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:35 PM
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Yup. I was also in 4th and 5th, the impact was INSANE. Motherfucking kiosks in the mall everywhere selling those garbage ass booster decks for $20-30 and the bathroom in my elementary was in a small hallway that linked two classes together. That dark space became a den of ill repute where shady pokemon dealings were had. Shit was nuts, they'd confiscate our stuff if we were found to have it. You weren't allowed to bring those cards to school.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 12:30 AM
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As another commenter said, Ingress is the foundation for many of the portals in the game that are tied to IRL locations. I know the head devs of Niantic have their credentials in working on Google Maps since it's inception, so that is a big reason why this works so well. Another reason is that Pokemon was and still IS a cultural phenomenon, but I'm having serious flashbacks with GO from when the OG pokemon came to the west from Japan, that's the level of impact I'm feeling atm which is nostalgic…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 12:20 AM
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What sort of places have you been going to? I've tried a few places and opened some groups which was really fun in general, but I noticed most of the girls I'm running into seem like at best they may be 18 or 19 which is a tricky field to navigate because if you're wrong well...yeah.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 12:12 AM
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No joke. I was able to open a group of 5 people (only one guy there) with little resistance compared to normal day gaming, it's like day gaming on easy mode because this whole socially awkward generation now has an excuse to socialize (as if we ever needed one). Unfortunately I thinking I was treading into jailbait territory so I didn't go for any of em.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 12:07 AM
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The social aspect of gaming has always been the draw in the past 10 years. It's only now that people are starting to see it in tangible forms. I'm a bit disappointed because gaming gets shit on by so many shortsighted people on TRP. Understandably this has some obvious benefits (pokemon go) compared to plopping down all day in front of a screen, but when something like this comes along everyone is all on board acting like they haven't been calling it the devil all along. But I get it, it either …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 09:53 PM
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Depends. Everybody has ways to cover shit up, some are obvious, some are subtle. If you're looking to close that hole, then you never will. If you accept that it's there, it will cease to bother you. You can't trick yourself either, you really do have to make peace with it. The simplest one is talking. Most people talk all the fucking time, they blabber on. I've met some naturally chatty people, and that is one thing. But there are many talkative people who are simple talking because they can't …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:41 AM
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Yup. Love that recent string of actresses who suddenly got interested in feminism when the wall was approaching or had arrived.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 05:56 PM
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No, men age considerably better IF, they have taken care of themselves for most of that time. Eat well, exercise, etc. Women look so much shittier in that 5-6 year gap from 24-30 because they don't do that. A lot of these girls rely on their metabolism or eating like birds while drinking and partying. A woman will surely not look better when 30 compared to earlier, but how well you care for yourself will slow that deterioration down a lot.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 05:53 PM
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That's not bad, but I see it a bit differently. To me, it's more like you should strive to live a personally meaningful life. No matter what you consume, it should have some bearing or relativity to your own interests and affinities. It shouldn't be used as a distraction or a time kill, you should have some real productive interest in it. It should speak to you. It takes all kinds of people to make a world, so everybody being told to pursue the same cliched shit is annoying. It's okay here becau…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 05:48 PM
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That's how a lot of those guys are. PM is a fascinating phenomenon in that the world itself has become very postmodern, but the economics of capitalism have a part to play in that too. Postmodernism is simply a continuation of modernism that doesn't actually depart from the principles of modernism, it cannot exist without something to rebel against, to deconstruct. Many people consider it coming to an end, and I think that this is correct as the times suggest many are getting utterly tired of th…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 05:38 PM
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This is a good yet poor attitude to take. Like most things, the balance is what is important. People these days are thoroughly defined by their consumer habits, and that is what you allude to and rightly so. It's important to produce something, anything, to be useful in some way to some niche or field. It's okay to be a consumer, it's not inherently bad (thought WHAT you consume is another matter), but you should also look to be a producer or distinguish your investments in some manner. You can'…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 04:56 AM
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I'm not sure what to think of you calling Foucault a faggot while simultaneously quoting him.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 09:26 PM
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Being relatively good shape and trying to get cut is a physiological challenge. Losing weight when you're fat as fuck is a mental challenge because the first half of that poundage is going to fucking DROP at a drastic change in diet and exercise (for the better). The more body fat you have, the easier it is to lose it. You've got fat fuckers losing weight just by taking up walking and not cramming shit down their throats.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 06:13 AM
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Whenever I read shit like this (OP's post not yours) I can't help but think just shut the fuck up and shower. Jesus Christ, you don't need to put this much thought into bathing. If the hot water is drying your skin out too much then alternate between cold and hot showers every other day.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 06:13 PM
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That was pre TRP when I saw that movie, and it still rubbed me the wrong way that her character was "helping out" that one gang member who she said was a "sweet guy" or whatever. Shit, that part wasn't wrong about sexual preferences. It's fiction so it doesn't matter, but for the sake of it I think it wasn't all that innacurate. On one hand he pulled some ultra beta shit pretending to be gay, but on the other hand he's some ballsy motherfucker to dress up in a suit and go out fighting crime. It'…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 05:09 AM
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I don't think that being nice is automatically drying pussies up. It's more of the fact that being nice has become almost inseparable from the sneaky beta sexual strategy where nice guys aren't really nice guys. They just use underhanded and creepy ways to get sex like they're smuggling goods. They have no identity and would give it away for a sniff of someone's butthole, which is inherently unattractive. What is really attractive is having a strong frame and boundaries and outcome independence.…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 04:59 AM
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True, but I think that's because barring childhood, men bond far more over hobbies or activities than just because. Your childhood is the bond, and that is a very special bond in many cases. Someone who knew you as a child has probably got some intimate knowledge of you as the adult of that child. Bonds are formed over experience, and rarely at that. That is fine. However today we only have a mockery of friendship, these are merely playmates in most cases, not friends. Acquaintances and playmate…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 01:20 AM
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As usual, balance is needed and most difficult. This notion of self-criticism being too much is something I realized in the past that really helped me as an insight. I was funny, witty, intelligent, yet I always felt damn near subconsciously (it was so ever present I couldn't even see it) that I didn't deserve lovers or friends or attention. It wasn't some permeating negative emotion, but rather this one faulty assumption that you need to have some talent, status or quality or circumstance about…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 01:09 AM
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Women don't know what the fuck they like, they buy into a lot of bullshit just like guys do in the BP paradigm. That is a fantasy sold to women. First, establish an alpha male character who has either fame, fortune and talent, or all three. Next, have him fall in love with some ordinary bitch. Then, give the ordinary bitch power over him and have the guy for some reason bring himself down to an ordinary orbiter level because she's different somehow. The fantasy in this is that women are getting …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 12:56 AM
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How'd you go about that? I'm always interested to hear this because I always wanted to do it when I was a bit younger (thankfully things have turned around), but I was too chicken/paranoid. I live in the US and I feel like trying to get an escort is either risky or a one way ticket to getting arrested somehow.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 02:19 AM
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Absolutely correct, you must learn the rules before you break them. The creativity to change the mode or form of something always comes after being intimately familiar with what you wish to change.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 02:12 AM
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They're removing the mirrors that are already supposed to be flattering? That's a new level of fat.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 02:04 AM
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I'd say these women would be FAR more intimidated by the fit chicks you see at the gym instead of the machines.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 02:03 AM
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When I first heard of PF they got on my nerves, but then I realized that they're just a business catering to a certain demographic like any other, and take advantage of people's insecurities and stupidity to make money. If anyone is serious at all about lifting then they have no business being at PF, it's not for them. PF is for the people that have no fucking idea what they're doing and just want brownie points for going to the gym. The type of cunts that check themselves in on FB at the gym EV…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 02:01 AM
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Women are incredibly convincing at creating plausible deniability due to their ability to believe their own lie. I also had this ability too, in middle school when I dreaded going to school so much that I was constantly calling my folks up to excuse me for the day. Oh yeah, I believed my own shit up until I achieved my end, even started to develop symptoms that mysteriously disappeared after I got the okay.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 01:13 AM
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It's not. But I can't say I don't understand. The race trolls were at such an all time high at one point in the manosphere that the topic has become just an annoyance because it always predictable devolves into an issue of race and whether it is in fact a negative or positive when in reality what you need to do is the same regardless of whether that is true. I dislike a lot of other indian guys, but only because they aren't true to themselves. Even to this day I hear the bullshit from relatives …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 08:04 PM
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Pretty much this. People can say oh IDGAF, but in reality someone who locks eyes with another person then looks away quickly is more often than not socially awkward or has weak frame. Sometimes you really don't care, but it can come off this way regardless, so guys do the down nod. You meet eyes with another guy in your path and instead of doing some gay shit like smiling at each other you just give the nod--which basically says something like: "carry on".
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 02:58 AM
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Fucking hilarious. Just once I'd like to tell a mate he's getting cheated on by doing some spy level deepthroat shit. Give him a call with a voice masker on and leave him cryptic hints to decode.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 06:22 PM
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You don't even have to treat her like shit. Being an asshole, treating her like shit are all warped from their actual meanings. Being an asshole to a girl means not being a pussy and getting stepped all over/having boundaries and enforcing them. Treating her like shit is basically just withdrawing attention. You can treat her like shit if you want, many are really into it. But all you really have to do is treat her like she doesn't matter. The problem is most guys go too aloof and they just aren…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 05:08 AM
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That's why MRA's piss me off, not only do they stain the importance of the issues by being whiny neckbeards, but they are complaining about how being a man is hard from the perspective of a bunch of little boys who want to get hugs from their mommies. They don't want resolution they want someone to throw them a bone. For people that are supposed to represent men and mens rights, they are the male equivalent to feminists. They're undesirable, socially maladjusted individuals, often times unattrac…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 11:21 PM
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Yeah man, IN PACKS. Seriously though, this. OP: you probably have it the easiest, I'm not gonna go macking on high school chicks so I can't do this, but you're in high school. What do high schoolers do in most towns? They fucking loiter. Go to a movie theater and you'll see tons of kids just loitering around on the weekend. Chances are you guys go to the same school if it's in the area, it's an easy open. If you've never done it before, then it probably won't go smooth. If they reject you for so…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 03:50 AM
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That was great articulation of the concept. I believe that he is alluding to the notion that you have to relinquish control--or at least a specific kind of neurotic control to allow your body and instincts do what they do better than your rational mind can do. In many ways the rational mind is overused in day to day life and not enough value is placed on visceral and bodily intelligence. This is seen most evidently in the "choke factor" in competitive games or sports etc, anything where your per…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 01:05 AM
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You can't out alpha someone. Trying to constantly one up people by seeing who can feign indifference best is the trap most people fall into. It's the same reason that someone who tries to be cool can't ever truly be cool. One of the harshest truths of life is that by the time you can effortlessly get something you'll almost guaranteed not want it by then. Barring special circumstances, by the time you can get immense social validation, you've grown to not need it. By the time you can get sex on …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 07:42 PM
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I think in his case, sometimes women, depending on how much they want to keep a particular orbiter. After all, even in the world of orbiting some orbiters are better than others. A girl would want to keep a Chad orbiter as a source of validation more than some neckbeard. I've seen girls throw out pity fucks if they think they'll lose their orbiter. Unless you just want to fuck her and don't care if she's really into it at all, you're better off just moving on OP even if she offers sex. No good c…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 07:39 PM
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You were so candid about what irritates you. What a nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 07:23 AM
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Most of them are honestly not even above average. That was probably my first dose of TRP before I even knew it. Even when I was BP as fuck, I knew that girls sucked ass at games.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 07:19 AM
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Just look for signs of primary experiences being replaced by shittier second tier ones. Instead of socializing themselves and making friends, they watch people do Lets Plays (which are essentially selling friendship). LP's are just a way people vicariously experience couch gaming with buddies. Although, I will say there is something more to the concept as entertainment based on who does it. Same with twitch streams, instead of socializing or PLAYING the games themselves, they watch others play w…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 07:15 AM
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Ain't nobody gonna step up to me in my own Manor. Fuck outta here.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:36 PM
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Great post, this encapsulates why TRP affirmed what I had suspected for so long. It had less to do with women and more to do with my schema of the world. I used to let this invasive concept of behaving and seeing in accordance how shit SHOULD be vs how it actually was. Simple really. It's called being out of touch with reality. I think that is why meditation gets such a huge plug around here, because it teaches you to discard labels (which are conditioned and affect thought) and detach yourself …
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:33 PM
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It's true that STEM is where the money is at right now, but most people are actually not suited to any of those fields. They'd make money, and that's great, but they'd never have the drive, affinity or skill to become more than mediocre.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:16 PM
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While it's true that women enable and bring on these things, it's also true that if they didn't do anything that it would happen anyways. Back in my XBL days I knew this girl that would pretty much get free MS points (online currency for anyone who doesn't know) for nothing. She never sent the guy anything, did anything etc. These guys just do this shit, they love buttering up women or serving them. The new version of this is these girls who have figured out you can make some extra cash streamin…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:13 PM
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Agreed. Like anything else, women don't give a fuck what it is as long as you embody it and live that belief in your lifestyle/are congruent. Whatever the shit that you're peddling is, you have to represent the persona/idealized version of that thing. If you're a social loser talkin about all bitches are hoes and spinning plates, people will just see you and think you're bitter. It won't be seen as cute/charming.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 11:07 PM
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I've done this before, I think as long as you don't position yourself as trying to convince the other person, it's pretty entertaining seeing the dumbstruck faces, like cogs being jammed up somewhere. You gummed up the fucking works.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 04:49 AM
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Stallone is a poor example, he juices. None the less it is very possible to stay fit into your old age, the earlier you do it, the easier it is to maintain. EDIT: You guys should make the distinction that I said nothing about whether steroid use is good or bad, simply that he juices. When we're discussing aesthetics, juicing is an important factor for natty's to understand. Too many people simply don't understand what is possible natty and what is not, and for that matter how LONG it takes. Almo…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 04:45 AM
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Good advice, you can't truly know something until you experience it, and most overthinkers dismiss things before they can just see it through. Best advice is to just let go, let shit happen, it doesn't have to be meaningful, most things arent, hence why those that are...are. Talk to the girl, let shit happen. Over and over, everything moves on.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 04:37 AM
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It is. If you don't masturbate or have sex for a week, your T is pretty much the same except for on the 7th day you have an increased amount of T just about for that day, then you tank. But this isn't really something significant enough to be concerned about it for bodybuilding. Some of my best lifting sessions were right after I beat one out and went to the gym. No fap is mostly bullshit. They're just desperate to divorce themselves from porn, which is good. But really, if you can jerk off with…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 04:33 AM
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Well put. I believe this is part of why being so thoroughly involved in your own personal mission is so attractive, you're not looking to gain anything out of the woman so you never waste time trying to get her to understand you. My way of seeing it is that betas and AFC's lack any sort of ambition or personally invested drive outside of getting laid. Since they have nothing to apply themselves to for their own sake, they sublimate their natural masculine desire to progress and accomplish things…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 07:47 AM
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That's pretty fucking gross. Never had that happen to me, but I can honestly say a Fleshlight would be more enthusiastic than that.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 07:31 AM
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I don't feel that there is a truthful reconciliation, you're either in or out. If you alpha up you tend to break out of that whole thing, and if you buckle you get stuck in the Indian circles. Breaking out of it almost automatically makes you "self loathing" according to others. I enjoy that one. It's no secret I'm not attracted to Indian women in the least, I can't understand how such a huge country produces some of the ugliest women I've seen, although the American born ones tend to look consi…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 03:25 AM
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I see the point you're making, but I'm not so sure it's as crazy as it seems. It's not unusual for Indians to want to come to the USA (Indians over there seem to think if you live here then you're just automatically rich). The thing with many Indian and Asian people is that they insulate themselves from the primary culture and stick to only their social groups. It's the same story all over again, just in a different place. Indians will come here, do what it takes--and for what it's worth I know …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 02:01 AM
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Well said. Indian. Growing up, never blamed my race (although I blamed other things), you're right about these guys having this shit attitude that stops them from doing anything. I'm naturally against being told what to do, and am stubborn and have always been rebellious in certain things, EVEN despite that my parents royally fucked me in so many ways (you learn to just let it go and get on with it). You made most of the points I'd make regarding location, confidence and having to have a thick s…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 12:38 AM
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Or he is commercially successful and wants to keep it that way. Read between the lines. I'm pretty confident Manson is more "RP" than he puts off, but who can say where to draw the line. His advice is miles ahead of the other bullshit. Just because he doesn't go on a angry tirade about how women are evil doesn't mean you can't interject your own values with his advice. The dude is trying to sell a book. If you take his advice, and play cautious like this place advises, you'll be fine (mostly).
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 05:50 PM
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I'm seeing this everywhere already. This is why 6's and 7's have the worst attitudes. They are considered by guys as the more approachable ones compared to an 8 or 9 and therefore they get a disproportionate amount of attention due to a false sense of accessibility. The price of slim women is being driven up due to these ham planets and competition is ridiculous. The 6 and 7's are getting with guys who they could ordinarily never get with causing dudes who have even above average SMV to be shit …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 09:48 PM
1

Should've told that bitch that your metabolism was a result of the patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 09:41 PM
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Did her mom know she was a psychopath?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 06:55 PM
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After I posted that I decided to take a glimpse at it and ended up reading about a third of it. It's so incredibly succinct and articulate. Unlike this sub, which is focused on sexual strategy, Vilar focuses more on women as being useless with the exception of egging men on, and men as slaves that don't want to be free, so they intrinsically tie themselves to women. I mean, we all fucking knew it, but for her to put it the way she does makes the concept a lot more cohesive and less emotional but…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 04:48 PM
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I think any time you take something and make the process inorganic then people have trouble coping with the real world when they adapt to the fake circumstances. Simple case of use it or lose it. In an increasingly online world, social skills are going to become even more valuable. People underestimate how much their social skills are getting fucked because of how much of an excuse social media offers them.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 07:02 AM
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Depends on the person, my story isn't dissimilar to his, but I suppose my ego and pride kept me alive. My incel status went on longer than his too. He lost his virginity at 17, meanwhile it was a lot longer before I got out of my own self limiting cerebral hell. Knowing what sex is like and then going dry is a lot better than not knowing at all for so long. There's only two types of incels, those who try and cant succeed. And those who self sabotage due to some erroneous belief.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 06:54 AM
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Been two years since I found TRP, I'd say I've internalized a lot of things pretty well. Would it still be worth it to read?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:31 AM
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You know it's bad when you realize how everyone could achieve a level of fitness that is desirable without all THAT much hard work. Sometimes I see dudes where I just look at them--especially lean ectomorphs with great insertions and think...you have no idea, you could literally just lift 3-4 times a week, less than an hour in the gym and look a lot better.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 12:12 AM
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It is foolish for your body to spend energy building and maintaining unused muscle, so it's natural state when a sedentary guy is skinny fat. Very true. The most important realization of my fitness journey is that your body reflects your lifestyle. Your body ain't gonna do shit it doesn't need to do. Muscle is expensive, and it's the first to go if your body doesn't think you need it. You'd better make it believe you do. That's why getting jacked and lean is so hard, you're essentially trying to…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 12:10 AM
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I understand where you're coming from, and it's not that I condone a "moderation" mindset, because that shit never worked for me either. What I'm trying to get across in my post is that when you change the root mentality of what your problem is, the thing itself ceases to be a problem. A more clean cut example would be my own: Binged on games, never had limits. It fucked me in a lot of ways, but only once I started to regret it. I thought long and hard about what I wanted, and realized games--no…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 11:56 PM
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5x5 is not a shit program. It's just that if you want to get big, hypertrophy training is going to get some more immediate results. Strength and hypertrophy overlap significantly though, you can't view them as separate. If you can 1rep 260 on the bench you can do 10 reps of a lower weight. Suppose you never strength trained and only did hypertrophy, so your bench is really only like 170 that you rep out for 8-10 reps. That's fine, but if you could lift a lot more weight in the 3-5 rep range then…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:56 AM
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I agree with your points, but what does postmodernism have to do with this?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:50 AM
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I'll just comment here. Anytime I see a thread like this, I think the person is so far removed from achieving or realizing their goals that they go into some over compensating mindset where anything that is leisurely or fun is the damn devil. The world is moving forward, entertainment is moving forward. People had the same reactions to just about god damn everything that we consider to be entertaining nowadays. Video games get shit on, and kids get told to read. When people were leisurely readin…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:49 AM
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Pretty much this. If you go from being a slave to just not giving a flying fuck overnight some serious alarm bells are gonna go off. Make sure this sites not on your browsing history. Don't give her shit to blame your recent change in behavior. Give her no reason at all, it'll drive her nuts. Never offer a reason, or anything.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 06:31 PM
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Above all else, never care more about anyone or anything (this will include your own children, your own family.) more than you care about yourself. I used to think this was terrible, but now I'm understanding the power of selfish generosity. Positive selfishness. Society indoctrinates you into the sacrificial mindset, to always give more than you receive. In your relationships, to always place unwarranted and blind trust based off of obligation. A false naturalness. Now I realize that in every g…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 06:22 PM
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I agree, any good actor might not personally have good game, internally speaking. But it would be possible for them to emulate it successfully. That is what most guys do to some extent anyways.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 10:03 PM
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It happens all the time...outside of marriage, and it isn't permanent. Upvoted for using the word transmute, that is fucking hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 07:39 PM
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You're right, he could have just not worked out, not had game, not have been witty and confident, and he'd have been just fine. Not have done anything at all. He just came here to TRP tell us all about it. That asshole.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 07:38 PM
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I think you misunderstand. Alpha is just a useful term, nobody is alpha. Everyone is on a spectrum, of mixed beta and alpha traits. Beta has a bad rap around here, but nothing is inherently bad about being beta. It's just that when you're mostly beta and have zero alpha qualities...time to swallow the pill. There are some constants that are ALWAYS attractive, but what is considered to be alpha is merely distilled into having boundaries, everything else is culturally crafted. The alpha of today i…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 07:35 PM
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Look at that mans fucking nose.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 07:32 PM
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Yeah but how safe is prostitution in the US? It seems like if I could find a place easily that advertises shit like that, so could the police.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 01:17 AM
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Funnily enough, you'll get roasted for "exoticizing" and "fetishizing" Asian women for doing that, meanwhile your phone is getting blown up by these girls in Asia. I'm sure it must be your personality.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 01:12 AM
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I'd wager to say that it is precisely that which makes them more dangerous. At least over here there' so much freedom to say what you want as a woman that you can quickly identify who you should be nexting without a second thought. Hypergamy couldn't be any more transparent IMO than it is right now. Not referring to Eastern Europe now, but to be fair, while AWALT across the board is true, the superficial dating culture can be a lot more pleasurable outside the US. I hear a lot of good things abo…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 01:10 AM
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More like society stopped putting the squeeze on them. Men and women are creatures of need. No need = no results.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 01:06 AM
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I still wonder how the fuck this sub is even here still.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 12:48 AM
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I understand what you're saying, but for the context of what I was explaining it's something I didn't want to get into. Remember, you can be a part of more than one group, and yes, there is a baseline for the type of people you're hanging out with. But the responsibility to filter who you associate with you is directly related to your ability to gather a certain quality of people. So then, the group you're gathering is in this example, relative to how skilled and charismatic you actually are in …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 12:44 AM
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To counter your story, I know a "creep" in one of my circles. This circle is one of ex coworkers so we all knew each other from work. This guy was always invited to shit, he's just that dude we all sorta kept around because he's part of the original group. Anyways, this guy always hit on the new girls at work and always tried to take them out, got touchy with them and was always failing. He did it all the time and was never successful that I know of.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 08:43 PM
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After a long and tedious journey through primary and secondary education, fraught with F's and barely passing, fraught with the anxiety and shame of always being a poor student who just somehow couldn't muster any fucks to give beyond the kick in the ass of not getting left behind a grade, I ended up almost dropping out of college because I was so alienated to the system and disinterested. But because my folks would want me to get a degree just to say I did, I decided to just say fuck it and stu…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 08:37 PM
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The fuck the system story is pretty useful if you're trying to do anything outside of the most stereotypical shit everyone decides you should be doing. Like studying comp sci, engineering, anything medical, or some business stuff like accounting. College is worthwhile, almost necessary for STEM related things. Clearly there's a problem when millions of kids attend college and can't choose a major because they feel like there's only four of them that count for anything.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 08:19 PM
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There is no one way. The way I see it is, you either need to have a good social circle that does fun stuff that you can include girls in, or you possess some distinguishing skill or talent that either nets you status or money or both. Those are ideal, but in reality you don't need either. If you have game and have your own situation sorted out, then you can run game on girls and be successful too. You might not be a top tier Chad but you'll be at least banging some girls. Even that isn't necessa…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 07:51 AM
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Seems like everyone in our generation hates everyone else of our generation. I think that is nonsense. Nothing is isolated. We have a dumbfuck gen for sure, but that is for a lot of reasons. I will state that regardless of what excuses there are: these kids are gonna have to learn to suck it up and make something of it--myself included. This generation is a product of the generation before it, and so on and so forth. This is also the first generation as OP said to grow up with things nobody in t…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:36 PM
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It is one of those systems where the rich get richer. The best way to get a lot of pussy is to get a lot of pussy. I think of it like building a YT channel, which I dabbled in some years ago for fun. The first 100 subs are going to be the fucking hardest. You have absolutely no exposure in the search listings and you're buried and mixed in with all the amateur garbage that over saturates YT. After you manage to get a hundred, which can take a LONG time, the next 10-100 will be a bit easier, and …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:25 PM
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Fuck no fap. Just lay off the porn long enough to where you can reset so to speak. Then, allow yourself to masturbate once every week. Your t levels peak on the 7th day of abstinence and then dip the next, it's a good idea to bust a nut on that 7th day, added points for the religious significance as well. Try to make it a Sunday as I do and you'll feel a newfound sense of importance when you blow your load. Really though, I think no fap is bullshit, but I get the idea behind it. I think one to t…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 06:33 AM
2

I was under the impression that if your SMV was too far high above landwhales--especially post wall ones, then it'd just be resentment as opposed to them dancing for you.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 12:56 AM
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One the major cornerstones to BP flirting is that any guy who just up and comes on to a girl is considered to be creepy. Hilarious, if a guy starts hitting on a girl in a store or some place, then other BP guys will shame him and say he's cringey. Now, some times this IS true. I've seen plenty of guys hit on girls and it IS cringey. But I always applaud them for at least trying, at least having the balls to approach, which most of these no nuts losers wouldn't ever do. They might make a peep aft…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 06:52 PM
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That's not feminism. That is business. In fact, if feminism wasn't so god damned good for business, it wouldn't have gone anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 06:49 PM
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Very much so. I like to think of it as a collection of puzzle pieces forming the whole picture. Everyone, even your average beta schlub might have a piece or two, and some men had just enough to know something was not as it seemed, but not enough to make the picture out quite yet. I was such a person. I ruminated in my early teens and twenties endlessly about these strange relations, but I didn't think of it from a gendered perspective. I considered it from the good 'ol egalitarian perspective, …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 01:06 AM
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Even before TRP, body language was something I was acutely aware of, even paranoid of in my worst years. One thing I want to mention is that OP makes good points, but you should be careful as to how you take your body language forward. It is important to have good posture, and generally avoid any awkward slouching or nervous fidgeting. HOWEVER, I'd wager to say the next level of body language is congruence. You should also display a body language that matches your own persona as well. I did the …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 06:42 PM
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I think that is because race and culture are or at least were in the past almost completely overlapped and almost one in the same. So when speaking of race you essentially were thinking about culture as well. Nowadays it is still important but the two are more separate. For example, if you're an asian male growing up in the US and have never been back to Japan or Korea or whatever, you're more or less within the spectrum of American culture, regardless of how "counter culture" you might even be.…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 12:39 AM
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What the fuck is this Skyrim?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 12:36 AM
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Well she's all machismo'd out from the weekend brah, gotta be more considerate to other people's feelings.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 12:29 AM
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Are you sure? It seems to have some serious physiological effects on the female body as well.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 11:37 PM
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I get what he thinks he's trying to say, the form of sorry that really translates closer to: "excuse me?" Which I like a lot better because if you need to you can still maintain a polite tone while at the same time getting confrontational as fuck depending on how you say it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 11:34 PM
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It is certainly interesting. The diversity of the medium can cater to the worst time wasting bullshit or to some very interesting stuff. It is easy for a lot of people to blame gaming for their lack of X, but the truth is it is never the tool, always the person. If people didn't waste their time gaming, they'd just waste it doing something else. Books can easily be wastes of time too, everything you'll ever do is a waste of time. Life is simply about finding the best way to kill your time until …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 11:21 PM
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Hilarious. You can't learn how to not give a fuck, if you give a fuck, all you can do is pretend and learn how to act like you don't give a fuck. And anyone doing this almost always fucks up and says as a presupposition to something, "I don't give a fuck, but...". The only way to stop giving a fuck is to give all the fucks you have until you reach a state of accumulated experience to where you only see the different outcomes and are patiently observing which way the situation will go. At that po…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 01:41 AM
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I think the mentality is the most important. You move beyond the symbolism of simple actions as to whether initiating is chasing or not, only beginners have to worry about that because the threat of relapse is high. At the end of the day, women don't want to have much effect you on, they don't actually want to mean shit to you in terms of influence. Because if they did, then it's a form of responsibility. We can observe this between both genders, it's the difference between a friend who is highl…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 06:01 PM
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The vultures have swooped down and have bogged it all down with new agey bullshit to sell product. Meditation is amazing, but the issue is that people can't stop saying how good it is and even ascribe ridiculous things to it. The truth about meditation is that the surface benefits are great, but the more you practice, the more shit will bubble up. Eventually most intermediate meditators will hit a point to where they're going to feel bad, some people, VERY bad. This is a part of the path and is …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:54 PM
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I do Vipassana meditation, and coincidentally, was learning more about strict concentration meditation a moment ago before I tuned in here and saw this. I have a lot of varying thoughts on this, just sentiments, but one I will say is that: concentration is a currency, attention is currency. I like to think of it simplistically, almost like an old school RPG. You need a pre-requisite amount of concentration/focus before you can do a certain task. To build that concentration opens a lot of doors f…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:31 PM
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The most complicated things (or what we once thought was complicated) are hilariously possible to be distilled down into something simple. Most guys here probably don't care about banging 100+ women or some shit, even if they think they do. They'll be most happy just being able to pick and choose, have a little bit more power, a little bit more choice than they thought they ever could have, and that is enough to satiate them to focus on other things in their lives (which ironically yield more pu…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:12 PM
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He's probably dead you know. Likely eaten.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 06:47 PM
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I bet you were the best toilet fixer-upper she knew. You fixed the shit outta that toilet didn't you? That's a bitch though, until you can make it work for you and then you're chad. But everyone is different, in my case, by the time I reach Chadhood I'll have finished a process that will make me disinterested in the benefits of Chadhood.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 04:46 AM
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True. I think the diet part is most people now, not just women. Even people in my family getting all crab bucket like when I make my own shit with less intense levels of sodium and with better ingredients instead of garbage processed stuff. In fatty fuck America, the very act of handling your shit and holding a good diet down makes other people very uncomfortable. You make them feel bad for doing what they want to do but can't do right in their faces.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 06:22 AM
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This, and fuckin' 50lbs is a shit ton of weight. I wonder if she shot that up or this dude thought he was set and started slammin the cheesburgers instead of his wife's pussy.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 06:21 AM
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You mean the one I used in my own comment?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 06:09 AM
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I will NEVER, even despite finding TRP feel sorry for guys like this. Even when I was at my most beta, and I cringe thinking about it now, I was nowhere near this level of spinelessness. The problem with beta indoctrination is that it isn't just limited to turning men into pussies, it's that we're told somehow women are special and apart from everything else. You could be an aggressive fuck with strong boundaries but when it comes to women be varying levels of beta.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 02:27 AM
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Definitely. Sports have many more advantages. It can seem like it, but my comment isn't advocating or rejecting comp gaming in general, because I have my own likes and dislikes about it. But rather the trend is interesting. Like you said, kids already are making crazy money from tournies and sponsorships. What is even more astounding is that there have typically been tournies run by different leagues that gather the prize pools, but lately devs have been finding ways to crowdfund the tournies th…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 11:26 PM
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I disagree in some sense, I'm in my mid twenties and I noticed almost all attractive girls have some kind of boyfriend or are not "single" but we all know how that goes. So yes, most younger girls don't care for any real commitment, but they still want the LTR status. They would never admit to it but they don't get into relationships thinking it'll be long term, more like I'll just hold onto this one while looking for a branch swing if need be. That's why we see so many mini LTR's and women neve…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 11:20 PM
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Gamings only getting shit on because it's still in its infancy. I think in 100 years when gaming and sports have collided with technology enough to create some fucking future sport that has its origins in what's beginning to stir up now motherfuckers will look back on this time at people who got involved early completely differently than how we see it as it is happening. Understandably on here it gets shit on for a lot of reasons, much of them are well warranted for the obvious time sink reasons…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 06:30 AM
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Gaming is a difficult topic. Competitive gaming is something you should be incredibly wary and cautious of, and remind yourself that whatever time you spend on there should be for the sake of it. Competitive gamers play long after the immediate gratification wears off, they actually go through the tedium stages of learning where the game is no longer immediately enjoyable from the exposure, but they begin to endure the matches over and over not only to distract themselves but to also become good…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 06:21 AM
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Yeah, but it's pretty incomparable. Growing up there must be something else in terms of betahood. There must be a lot of nuanced factors that contribute to the whole "herbivore men" phenomenon.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:49 AM
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This is true, but from what I've seen most of the Japanese girls stay slim, but they're often skinny fat slim, not toned slim. But that's just from what is popular and on the surface, so what the hell do I know. You can't really compare the conventional television and film/model hotness of a country to what it's normal citizens look like. I find girls on the street here in the US that look way better than a lot of these Hollywood actresses IMO.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:46 AM
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I don't see how, I'd consider myself a noob at lifting because I spent my first year in the gym recovering and balancing some nagging injuries and other stuff. After bumming around some compounds without a full plan, I took up 531 and I'd say it's pretty awesome for especially beginners. You can grab an excel spreadsheet, pop in your numbers and you're set for 4 weeks. Just get in the gym and hit those reps. Then you just choose an accessory style and off you go.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:44 AM
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I'm on my third cycle of 531 and I love it, it's so simple and I can easily sub in any accessories for things I want to improve. I like it a lot more than SS and SL personally. The weight percentages for 531 are on point.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 07:50 PM
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(the average japanese guy is pretty good looking, so that's saying something) Care to explain that one? Never heard that before. I've no opinion on average Japanese male aesthetics, but I definitely haven't considered it. I wouldn't have imagined that anyone would say that the average Japanese dude is good looking, that's a bold statement for any race.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 07:43 PM
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I also heard that being a white tourist in Japan is a lot different than being a gaijin living in Japan.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 07:41 PM
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Yall are gay as fuck. ...and absolutely correct. Never followed football, but I've heard this dudes name and only now just looked him up because you guys. No kidding, this guy's SMV must be insane, plus all the shit about surrogacy and his abundance mentality is pretty interesting to say the least. Interesting to see how people react to it and how it pans out for the guy. As usual, you can always tell more by what someone does than anything, and surrogacy is the ultimate red flag for women.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 10:23 PM
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Never seen that before. Honestly...she probably enjoys getting handled like that. Not even kidding, that's definitely a breath of fresh air for her.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:46 PM
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Hilarious how that conversation to elect who goes in the tower would go. "Okay, who's the most attractive woman here?" And then despite, you know...beauty being on the inside, and how all women are beautiful and that conventional beauty is just a social construct...they still manage to stick the "stereotypical" babe in the tower. If there was some blue haired fatty with them volunteering they might have told that bitch to get back to work.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:43 PM
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Not to mention that dude who kills himself over some girl he just met. Pretty sure that happened. I guess you could say that's pretty realistic, there are a ton of guys who would find it in themselves to do it, it's in our DNA unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:38 PM
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Video games have always been a target as a new medium. As well as that, this is a medium that allows men to escape into more immersive and interactive fantasy worlds than movies or books. Anytime there's a group of people who want to recede from society, society finds a way to stigmatize them because they're essentially going MGTOW, if albeit unknowingly and for different reasons. In essence, that's X amount of people who are not working for the machine that benefits the elites. I'm not really i…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:32 PM
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It really makes me think back to all the sitcoms I watched as a kid and how the manly thing to do was let the girl win or just take the hit in a situation for absolutely no gain except "being the better man". Jesus, talk about brainwashing. Being the better mans all good if that's what you actually believe and you're just doing your own thing, but usually it's people telling one dude to just suck it up and be the scapegoat in a situation, and anytime you go against that you're being an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:27 PM
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wearing an apron in the kitchen and cooking dinner for Supergirl and her friends. Of all the women on the fucking show who could have been cooking and they had to emasculate a fan favorite by delegating him to a feminine role. Always find it hilarious when the full feminist propaganda involves reversing the gender roles as opposed to some "equality" shit. Ironic how women want to BE the patriarchy. They shame masculine behavior then emulate it.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:24 PM
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I remember when I was in middle school I was so miserable about the whole thing. I hated school, I just wanted to escape from the idiotic system that I felt no resonance to and just fuck off to some fantasy world in games or anime or the internet. I really hated it. As a result every week I'd call my parents up faking sick in the morning and tell them to call the school to excuse my absence. I'd want to get out of it so bad that I (before accomplishing my objective) would actually start to feel …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 09:06 PM
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Intelligence seldom overrides hypergamy. Instead, hypergamy has a better tool in the heightened intelligence in order to be more effectively hypergamous. The only time hypergamy is blunted is when society--through culture and law discourage it. When it becomes socially unacceptable to do so, it is disincentivized and thus curbed. Women always act in their best interests, just so happens that back in the "golden days" or whatever the fuck, it was more advantageous to not be a slut than it was to …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 09:02 PM
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Like, she has this cute movie in her head where things must happen so and so, and progress at this pace, and kissing in the first encounter doesn't happen in this movie of hers. Yup, not just AFBB, but women want to act out the fantasies that have been sold to them just as much as anyone. I really do believe that a lot of fun in life comes from the culmination of culture and established meanings being role played through certain events or facades that we're all aware of. Women, in this case, wan…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:37 PM
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Most of the time I just assume marriages at that level are for show or political reasons, putting on a facade. Sometimes not though. The only real reason I could see for getting married for me personally is to have kids. If you have THAT much money, there's definitely a way to get around the marriage part.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:30 PM
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Agreed. Being passive is what got most guys into incel territory in the first place. Most men ARE invested in getting pussy, and are in fact invested in the few options they have to spit game at. That's why they're told to approach frequently, because then you get more shots at "the game". The more shots you have at playing the game, the better you get at it. Compare it to being only able to play basketball once a week vs being able to play 4-5 times a week. You'd improve so much quicker from th…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 12:01 AM
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OP has some enormous balls for just discovering TRP and already throwing himself into the line of fire like that. Good shit OP, you'll learn so much more in one night of rejections supplemented with reading than a hundred nights of reading supplemented with some experience.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 10:43 PM
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Absolutely, and you're keying in on one of my favorite things Robert Green talks about in Mastery which are primal inclinations. The idea that the shit that resonates with you the most is often times most easily observed in childhood when you were more in touch with what interested you and you gave absolutely zero fucks about societal expectations or anything else. You only cared about amusing yourself so your internal compass is on point. You don't get stupid thoughts like, "should I really be …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 08:12 PM
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Yup. I've been seeing a LOT of Feminism/SJW/PC culture bashing on YT these days. It's great. As for how that will transition into the public realm I don't know. Flame retardant people such as Milo are going to have to take the heat and say shit that other people can't but want to in order to open the public discourse.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 07:43 PM
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This guy is hilarious. I'm not sure what the requirements for this interview was or what were the conditions or if there were things he had to add or leave out but... Maybe one day I’ll be in a regular relationship. I think the person who eventually tames me won’t be a girl – she’ll be a strong woman, someone who stands up to me and says: ‘I don’t agree with this, it’s got to stop.’ I need to meet my match. That is a hilarious statement that completely stands at odds with the fact that he's bedd…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 08:05 PM
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Apart from the fact that the very first thing on this post is a link to the actual article on his blog?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 11:27 PM
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Girls will cheat for a number of reasons. Not all of them make sense because you'd have to understand their internal world. Women reside in a realm of feels. The answer is to avoid investment to where her actions won't affect you drastically. I won't say don't care, because mental logic seldom supersedes embedded emotional responses. Dont show it though, but always acknowledge it to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 01:09 AM
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Dirty secrets: Gesticulate your own pauses. Make it obvious you paused to think by exaggerating it with a comic undertone.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 01:06 AM
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He could have went white knight when I negged her. True, but you have to admit, he did make you look good.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 11:57 PM
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but my biggest struggles were always escalating after being shown interest. Something inside me said "no no, startingoveRP, you're a good guy don't try to kiss her." Thanks, beta programming. Thanks female friends telling me "only douches do ______." It took me a long time to realize: Beta guys don't have a good inner sense for escalation because they don't actually want sex. What they want is validation. They sublimate their desire for esteem and accomplishment onto women instead of a skill or …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 07:43 PM
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Which is why it's a shame young boys are getting medicated the fuck up at such young ages. The time before puberty is the easiest time for a boy to discover something that he might spend his life working towards or for.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 10:21 PM
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You make some good points. I disagree about the sleep one. Sleep is personally one of my highest priorities. Even missing an hour a night for 3 nights snowballs me bad. I need that fucking sleep. Not getting sleep is the worst. Lack of sleep. Feel sluggish and shitty, mind is not sharp. You are more prone to depression or any shit you're holding down can bubble up. Your risk of injury sky rockets for lifting weights or any physical activity. Etc. This varies greatly from person to person. My bud…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 07:18 AM
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Pretty much. Absolutely historically congruous. The problem with the state of criticism in the past few decades is that we've had a poor tendency to apply modern critical lenses (postcolonial, marxist (this is of course a bit older), feminist (this is the worst for reasons besides TRP), etc). Academia is an interesting place, but when you have kids writing theses on feminist or gender/queer readings of X novel written in 1850 or some shit, gtfo of here you dumb fucks. No shit women are treated d…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 07:07 AM
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That makes a lot of sense. In the end, we're all on a solitary journey, and we occasionally meet people who walk a path parallel to ours for a time until the road forks. That's how I see friends and lovers.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 01:22 AM
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Just looked that up, is that Western Martial Arts and Historic European Martial Arts? What/why do you mean most people in my position end up obsessing over that?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 11:48 PM
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Being nice randomly is pretty powerful actually, but you absolutely have to establish that you can be a total "asshole" and give zero fucks about her. That way she knows if you act nice in any manner it's purely choice and not obligation or fuckery. When I say nice, I don't mean some grandstanding beta proclamation of love or gifts, I mean a subtle shift in tone.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 03:19 AM
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I hate to say it because generally it's a shitty thing, but he is correct. What they were discussing resonated with me. I'm not even part of that world, neither is my family. We're just middle class folks. However, recently, I've finally begun to understood why my father is the way he is. His father was a self made badass who was very stoic and dealt with a lot of shit in another country, and he made it on his own strength. Consequently my dad--in that country, grew up quite well off comparative…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:56 PM
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That's really interesting, I never thought about it quite like that, but I guess I had an idea. My thought was that at home, they wanted their family to be their soft spot, their inner sanctum. I guess that's the same thing. I remember reading that a lot of powerful men are super into being humiliated and abused by prostitutes and dominatrixes.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:29 PM
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I'm a bit fascinated by how he said that he thought we were all losers at first. This seems to be a common denial response but for some reason...they always stick around. No fault to OP of course, but it just goes to show you that indoctrination, no matter how deep, cannot erase that feeling somewhere deep inside us when we know something is wrong. Something doesn't make sense. It nags at us. Manifests itself in weird ways.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:26 PM
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I'd like to think that is because there are so many pushover guys out there these days that going out of your way to fuck with a girl by being slightly rude or playfully abrasive is a quick way to let the girl know you don't give a fuck about what she thinks, and she'd have it no other way no matter what she says. One of my favorite things to do is to be a total jackass and feed my comedic impulse for my type of humor, and either a girl will in good nature go with your flow, or you'll get a stif…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:17 PM
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Definitely, I honestly think gamers might be some of the first of the younger generation who are picking up on it. All the tumblr memes, making fun of SJW's, etc. Hell, now I even can reliably look at videos on Youtube and I'll see a lot of comments shitting on PC culture, feminism, women in general (where relevant). People are now jumping to call this shit out on the net. It's pretty refreshing drink amidst the turd whirlwind we've occupied since the social media age. Funny how that works. Thro…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 03:27 AM
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For sure. OHP is my favorite upper body lift. It's a very difficult lift to add weight on to IMO. Most people need that lift more than they think. A lot of these bench press shoulder injuries are because of muscle imbalances and weak shoulders. Fucking anterior delts are too damn strong and their lateral and posterior delts aren't up to snuff.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 03:19 AM
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I'm not so sure. I think more and more guys are catching on, at least to the most basic ridiculousness of it all. The thing about Reddit is that all the most upvoted content bubbles to the top by default. So naturally in a lot of subs the most commonly accepted opinion will be most heard. It lends itself well to a hivemind depending on the topic of the sub. When you have a sub like TwoX that is such an immense circle jerk from the get go (fuckin subs name even), you have to be a little surprised…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 05:36 AM
5

That always seems to be a misconception, that if you date down a few points that there's no way anything bad could happen to you because she'd be so happy to have you. ... Nope.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:49 PM
1

For sure, Muay Thai is actually what I was leaning toward. What is it like?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:33 PM
1

That's interesting, nobody in this subthread mentioned Muay Thai yet, but it is the art that I'm leaning toward the most at the moment. Hah, when I was really young I actually did sign up for Karate, even 11 year old me knew a McDojo when he saw one. I quit that shit because it was a waste of time and money and you pay to break weakened boards on Saturdays.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:29 PM
1

That's great to hear man, good to know you're kicking ass into your 50's. Besides the great workout I'm going to get from it, I honestly just want to be in a place where I can meet some cool dudes. I've pretty much cut most ties with my beta friends (some even did it for me) and I'm just trying to meet some young guys who won't drag me down in terms of activities.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:24 PM
2

I agree. When I say situations I'm forced to, I really mean forced to. As in, I cannot even run away. There's too many variables in a street fight. I'm not in the mood to get seriously injured just for a stupid fight, and the last thing I need is to knock someone down and they hit their head and fucking die and then I go to jail for defending myself. As you say as well, fighting IRL is a completely different beast. I'm of the opinion that if you want to learn how to fight on the streets then the…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:21 PM
1

Thanks, thats really what I'm looking for then as my main turn off to grappling is that it is impractical in a situation where there is more than one person. I'm not training necessarily to learn how to fight others, but it is something different than just going to the gym. I enjoy the movement and the process of refining a style, it is just calming to me. It's a unique connection to your body.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:18 PM
1

What martial art do you practice?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 04:24 PM
4

Will do. How's Krav Maga compared to MMA gyms? Would you say it has utility? There's plenty of Krav Maga places around me as well as MMA gyms like American Top Team, so it seems like those are the prominent choices.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 04:23 PM
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When did you or anyone else reading start practicing a combat sport? I'm in my mid twenties and I'm just starting to realize that a fighting discipline might be what I've been looking for all along. I've always had a boner for technique, agility and finesse. Unknowingly, I used competitive video games as a placebo for that because they offer a small version of that. Now I just feel like I'm too old to get into that shit and I might just end up getting fucked up. I don't have any delusions of a p…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 05:47 AM
3

There was only one post I contemplated writing recently here, but I think you've said just about what I wanted to. Most BP guys or mixed up dudes come here at some point because they're lost but know something is wrong. Generally, a lot of these guys divorce themselves from the BP fantasy only to take on an RP fantasy. TRP has a lot of useful information, and the schema of what it is trying to convey is essentially true. But, there is a LOT, and I mean a lot of fuckery and deviation between cont…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 11:19 PM
1

I was tempted to try a retreat, but when I did a brief search in my area, some of them charged quite a bit of money, like 500+ dollars for a 10 day retreat. Should I avoid these types of places, are there many reputable donation/volunteer based retreats?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 10:33 PM
1

I think we're all focusing too much on the stupidity of the idea and not focusing enough on the stupidity that such an idea works. Crowdfunding, kickstarters etc are nothing new. If they work they work. Not saying it's impressive, but it is what it is. You might be mildly successful for a bit, but you won't get any respect from anybody who actually is worth a fuck. The irritating part is all the you go girl fucks who are going to attribute qualities to the situation that don't exist.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:33 AM
2

Not a bad strategy. One economical fuck is all it takes to ignite the hopes of thousand betas. One whiff of possibility and afc and betas are running on fuel that lasts centuries.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:30 AM
3

Obviously a scripted video, but you know it's real at some point or another.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:26 AM
2

lmao you got downvoted for that shit. Here's an upvote. That shits so funny. The situation. Like some guy trying to be your friend because you're wearing a similar shirt. Either that or it looks like you have two accounts and you're just giving yourself a tug. You cunt you.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:23 AM
1

It honestly doesn't even matter if you completely fabricated it, it COULD happen and the point isn't some feel good story about the long haul but that you're showing the fickleness of social status. I know this because I learned the hard way that if you improve over a period of time drastically, but if you have no social backing or some sort of lifestyle you cultivated through the development of a skill, then you're nobody. I joined a club at school and was treated more or less like a loser, des…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:14 AM
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Well, at the very least if you were in good shape before all this happened, then you have the advantage of regaining muscle much more easily than someone in your position who would be trying to build it for the first time. Muscle memory gains are incredible.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 06:39 AM
2

Oh okay, haven't heard it used that way. Are you in the US or somewhere else? If you don't mind me asking.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 09:01 PM
1

God damn. Do you on the night of the 6th day contemplate tomorrow as being "the last day until...until the stretch..."?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 06:34 AM
1

What do you mean cashed out on you? Usually when someone cashes out they are taking what they got and pulling out of the game. But in your case you're saying they cashed out but YOU dumped them? If they cashed out on you wouldn't that mean they took you for what you had and left you high and dry?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 06:11 AM
1

I'd wager the nature of AF BB changed with time. I'd say a couple hundred years ago the idea of an AF was completely different.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 04:50 AM
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I'm not worried about the state of affairs staying as is or getting worse for men. I'm worried about the open mindedness of men that largely are going to get suckered into the female ploy of renouncing feminism or becoming anti-feminist, "she gets it". Once the so called pendulum swings back toward a better equilibrium women will change their tunes and radical feminism will be scapegoated and women will chalk it all up to a few wackos (blame shifting) and the platitudes of denial will come. Iron…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 04:49 AM
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Seems strong but anytime you have to say how you are it means you aren't conveying it.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 12:17 AM
4

I remember when vlogs used to stand for video logs.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 11:52 PM
1

I've found that porn in moderation isnt too bad, but its unnecessary. After getting off porn I went back to it a few times after about two years of not watching porn, just to experiment. I was totally reset, just watching porn got my head buzzing from stimulation. And I realized that porn has a small pasting effect, like a flash of porn in your mind like some kind of jackoff ptsd hahaha. It's like a voice telling you to watch more porn, jack off more. Essentially porn is just mentally disruptive…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 11:13 PM
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I always wondered about these random bitch boys hanging around hotties. I just assumed that the cost of being permitted into that group was a sacrifice of ego and reputation. Youre allowed to be around only for the sheer fact that you have to show yourself to be a total pushover niceguy. Girls are more defensive With guys that give them tingles and often don't let you do friendship type stuff because they've categorized you as something different.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 09:46 PM
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Hahaha I know a couple Patels, whats the deal with those guys?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 09:42 PM
1

Yup, women have that ability--they are time lords. Oh, excuse my misogyny, I meant Time Ladies--oh...excuse my misogyny, the whole gender specific labels are just so non-egalitarian, I meant women are time.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 11:02 PM
1

Women essentially want to inhabit your lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 11:00 PM
0

That was a pretty defensive reaction for someone who is trying to explain mindfulness.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 01:25 AM
2

Mindfulness, and meditation as a whole is a very beneficial skill for guys who are extremely analytical and in their head too much, which I'd wager is many guys here. Though you don't need to preach the benefits of meditation here, many of TRP's users are already on that train.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 04:06 AM
3

You got a no 330 times in a row? What was your approach strategy?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 04:06 AM
2

This is another reason why i never even entered the anger phase. TRP just instantly clicked and practically explained my entire life. Pretty much the same with me. I didn't have an anger phase with TRP despite having every reason to. An incel at the time, never did shit with a girl, and my brain damn near exploded after years of internally holding pieces of the TRP mindset in dissonance with the desire for meeting a unicorn who could make things better. Pfft. The realizations I intuited made me …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 03:56 AM
2

It is a shame, but from my limited understanding I guess there's just too many legal pitfalls and too much money involved in the pharmaceutical business for it to be corrected there. There's so much money in it that very powerful people are going to protect their interests there. The onus will have to be on the people to wise up and figure out some more sensible ways to decide when they do and do not need medication. Depression is an interesting one. I can say for sure that I was near chronicall…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:09 AM
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Social and emotional intelligence are completely different beasts. There are many incredibly rational and logically intelligent men out there, but without social savvy you're missing out on the edge you could have. Typically, guys with social skills and slightly lesser technical skills end up more successful than guys who are all in on technical skills and have poor social ability. Hence why Robert Greene is such a favorite around here.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 07:13 PM
3

That aspect of women's sexuality was what always got me off, even when I was fully BP. Even more so now, because it speaks volumes about how women really are and want to be. You can have a strong indpndnt wymn who then completely wets herself on the thought of a guy choking, slapping and tossing her around in bed. Women go along with this narrative, but almost all of them want to be dominated and be submissive to a dominant man. Dominance can come in different forms, but it is always dominance i…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 07:04 PM
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Yeah, yeah you did. The hilarious part is that all it took for these losers to blog up a shit storm is for you to make a terse comment with your eyes practically glazed over with disinterest (feigned or not). Congratulations on also stirring up your own hate circle jerk on the TPB, I've never been there until today when I googled "trickle down media whore" and it listed in the top 5 or so, but those guys are apparently all feeling the tingles of affirmation that you're not a big scary alpha, not…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 01:10 AM
5

The micro rejections are a funny little thing that destroys guys still entrenched in the BP mindset. "What, you mean she doesn't mean what she says?!"
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 12:00 AM
1

True, but I think everyone has different problems. Self reflection and reevaluation of values can be damaging if you did it as intensely as I did, to where days of culling my own thoughts and taking myself apart with analysis left me incredibly drained and gave me an upset stomach and a bad headache...but I came to some great conclusions too, guess there's also a trade off. The way I like to see it, always leave room for improvement, but other than that, you're gonna fuck up. You are you, regard…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 07:36 AM
5

No, you continually associate with someone like that you killed yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:16 PM
1

That's probably one of my higher fears, a small town cult like that. Shit reminds me of the opening of Resident Evil 4. Nothing shady about this shit, nope. Guy commanding a whole town through devious mind control, doesn't even have a full name, nope, what the fuck? Like did anyone know this mans name? Mr. W? That's some fucking bad guy shit right there. Also, I'm incredibly amazed that you can go from where you did, to instantly reading about TRP? Most people who grew up "normally", BP or other…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:13 PM
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I really like that quote "Never attribute to malice what which can be attributed to stupidity", and all the like quotes surrounding that idea. There isn't some malicious brainwashing occurring, but rather that there's some easy money to be made out of people's need to eat up that feel good shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:07 PM
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"Be wary of who you associate with. Despite having your guard up, eventually, their standards become your standards" That's what I came up with after thinking long and hard about too frequently being in touch with your friends that don't do shit. Standards in a group function like averages, and their shitty numbers pull your high standards down. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 07:25 PM
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It's all in degrees, everyone will do this to some extent, and that is natural and okay. It's only when you have people who do nothing but that and scapegoat all their problems on some external intangible bullshit that you should just forget them. They are emotionally attached to misery, I know, I was one.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 07:22 PM
1

I'm not exactly a pussy slayer myself, I've been improving, but even when I was a beta incel I was that way, which honestly probably hurt more than it helped. Can't help it though, sometimes you just like what you like, others have some more fluid boundaries. I guess that even when I was an absolute loser I was indignant haha. I can't imagine how many girls I've probably unintentionally insulted that way. "I know I'm a low SMV loser but I still won't fuck your fat ass" is an attitude that might …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 07:42 AM
2

"Euros cary it in their abdomen to protect their organs from cold" You think about it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 07:38 AM
2

You're saying introverted alphas--or at least some of them tend to be way more successful than extroverted alphas, but that is incorrect. You're equating alphaness with success, which isn't right. You don't need to be alpha to be successful, and you don't need to be successful to be alpha. This is the problem with alpha too, everyone has personal definitions. In the context of the sub, alpha is the guy slaying pussy. In the context of the world, or your trade, hobby, job, etc, it becomes differe…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 07:28 AM
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It's cool to speculate about different archetypes because they help tidy up and set some soft boundaries for what we more closely resemble. But I think the Sigma one tends to be the most "dangerous", in that every beta thinks he is a sigma somehow. Not only that, but the definitions of Sigma, like Alpha seem to vary quite a bit. This is the danger in archetypes, they become easy categories to cling to and compartmentalize yourself. Just look at how much the archetypes for bodies fuck people up, …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 07:18 AM
2

I dunno bro, India is pretty hot and those guys are the skinny fat champions.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 09:08 PM
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Yours and the post I just replied to above has got me thinking about why it is I'm never tempted to fuck fatties even when I'm wasted. I wonder if it's because I absolutely can't go for girls who don't have nice legs, that's my thing. Hypothetically if a guy gets off more on tits and a nice face vs lower body, he'd be more prone to fatty fucking because sometimes there's those fatties that have nice hair and faces but are chubby elsewhere. Whereas fatties never have nice, well shaped legs.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 08:20 PM
3

That's hilarious. I never have to deal with that. Even when I'm near blackout levels of drunk (which rarely happens) I'd wager there's only a point reduction of 1.5-2 MAX. I don't get beer goggles really.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 08:17 PM
1

That's interesting, I can relate on a lot of levels, I asked because of that actually. The circumstances were not the same, but the outcome was. In a lot of ways I swallowed aspects of the pill just due to a high level of self awareness and emotional intelligence growing up. I had an innate understanding of the superficiality of most people's behavior, and how hypocritical things were based on context. This drew me to watch a lot of stand up comedy when I was younger because I related to the soc…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 08:00 PM
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Just think about that, it took 5 years for that overwhelmingly intellectual response to stop drying up her vagina and then she sucked your cock in the park. Well, I thought it was funny, but the first thing I learned when I came here was that women just don't typically enjoy that kind of shit and it turns them off because rationality and logic kills the fee fees.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 11:59 PM
1

In what way were they self imposed and prophetic?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 11:49 PM
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You have a typo at, "I didn’t become the man I am today because I had an easy live". Hey IM, this is probably my favorite article from you because it hits close to home for me, and these are things that I've begun to realize already, so that's the final nail in the coffin of my old way of seeing things. Crabs in the bucket is one thing, but I realized that losers that don't cause you any trouble can be awful as well, because their mediocrity invites an atmosphere of pure consumption and little t…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 09:41 PM
2

That's probably a real thing. When you're sleep deprived your ego defenses are lower, and your sense of inhibition is too, it's basically an artificially induced state of not giving a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 02:57 AM
3

No thanks, I don't want a good gathering to turn into something similar to a post punch Heaven's Gate party where everyone dies of alcohol poisoning.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 02:42 AM
2

I don't follow politics at all. Is it true that the media horribly skews what Trump's policies and beliefs to be more sensationalist? I've never really given a fuck as to who got elected, but the idea of this whole trend of identity politics in western culture and the strictest sense of egalitarianism no matter how impractical, and the ever growing disdain for being PC seems to have a lot of people rooting for him, and more doing it discreetly I imagine. It ironically has become the PC thing to …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 02:39 AM
1

BBB is the accessory portion of 531 right? What kind of accessory work did you do to complement 531? I'm seriously considering starting it because it seems to be what I want and my routine is just amateur. It seems to me that 531 is great because those are the lifts I'm interested in, but that it's lacking a bit on working the back, with the exception of the DL. I'm guessing that's where accessory work comes in.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:53 PM
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That's true. Not to mention it's typically a different mentality. A lot of people who come here illegally simply just don't give a fuck to even adapt to the culture or even learn the language. Especially in places with high concentrations of a particular type of minority, they can just go on and...just not know fucking anything. They'll just pretend their city is like mini-wherever the fuck they came from. And you've got all these dumb fucks crying about how you need to let everyone in and how A…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:46 AM
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While I agree those things are hard to come by in moderation instead of excess, I don't really buy into that mentality that everyone should be living practical lives pursuing the same shit. Technology is changing fast, and we aren't changing as fast as it is, I think what we're seeing now is people being overwhelmed by the amount of content and entertainment is out there. I wonder where the future will go, will these things be absorbed into our cultural consciousness and we end up with some Ghos…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:41 AM
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Anime is incredibly varied, it can be some seriously redpill shit or it can be some really beta shit. Death Note is a seriously RP anime. The main character is pretty much a psychopath and his ability to manipulate people--especially women is incredibly dark triad. Not only that, but Misa Amane's character just goes to show you how a woman can be in demand, relatively intelligent if she puts herself up to it, but also at the same time ABSOLUTELY batshit crazy if she becomes infatuated with a man…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:33 AM
1

That's a great summary. I wonder how much of what she said is true, hope not much. Would be pretty pathetic to see someone who won so much, loses once badly and gets so discouraged to the point of suicide. That's how spoiled people act.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 02:15 AM
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That's because most new TRP'ers are poor BP guys who are just looking to switch one bad dogma for one that is getting great reviews. One thing I've realized is that the IDGAF attitude is something that drenches pussy...if you have preselection and or a known social status. But showing that you care in an alpha way is something that betas in reform are absolutely shit at. The same as telling an alcoholic that one drink is okay. That's the reason why TRP has so many strict terms and concepts like …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 01:54 AM
2

So what's the deal with Heartiste? I've read quite a few of his posts on his site, and I have to say...his advice for game is pretty spot on, although I've seen differences of opinion in the manosphere on some small things. One thing that really strikes me is that he's such a peculiar figure. He's incredibly eloquent, humorous and clever, but his writing is also...quite good, unusually so. Does anyone know what he does IRL? I came for the articles on game and women, but then there's all that whi…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:40 AM
0

"No way dude, that's emotional abuse!" Is exactly what I need to learn how to say without absolutely dying on the outside. I gotta up my poker face game so I parrot the narrative...at least while I'm in school. Can't say I've been doing a good job. Just the other day I was having a bit too much fun disregarding other people's opinions saying X was just a social construct.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 02:06 AM
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"I wouldn't fuck her with a stolen dick" - George Carlin.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 12:26 AM
11

That is succinct and true. The reason why mindfulness meditation seems to have (at least initially) a calming effect is because when you manage to reach that point where you are completely in the moment for the first time, you instantly become calm because you are not thinking of past or future anxieties or dilemmas, you only are seeing what is transpiring right in front of you, focusing on the act of what is happening and not the symbolic meaning. I like to remind myself when I'm having difficu…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 01:05 AM
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I didn't know Bill was into the chocolate. He could do better, assuming she doesn't provide some mystical intangible quality us outsiders can't judge. Who the fuck knows. It really doesn't matter, I respect the hell outta Bill Burr as a comedian. It should be enough to find TRP and use it for yourself, dont obsess over who's "alpha" and who is "beta". Bill makes light of women in some of his bits, nowhere does he say he's going to go MGTOW or some shit. Who can say for sure what's what, consider…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:55 AM
5

It's interesting to say the least. Eliot Rodgers was definitely a product of feminism. I'd say betas are more likely to do such a thing than an "alpha". Alphas commit plenty of crimes, sure, but not typically those kinds. If they do, they're often motivated by other things. But the specific type of shooting, the sort lately where men feel boxed in, rejected, feeling at a loss because the codes they were taught to believe would net them some reciprocal gain for their slaving away and being used l…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 07:25 PM
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No, he's absolutely right. The gesture is meaningless, publicity is good in terms of business. He is not running a business. Unless he opens up a fucking flower shop he just made a grand beta gesture. It's at the best maladjusted kindness. The action of giving flowers to a valentine is utterly meaningless, to do it on a grand scale is even more so. This is the egalitarian bullshit at it's finest. Let's make everyone equal and everyone gets flowers! Well, now it lost any significance it had. He d…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 07:12 PM
1

Yeah, and he didn't even know about Doritos.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 04:56 PM
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Probably lack of incentive. Shit, getting married is starting to sound a lot like communism. What's the point in working hard when your wife will eventually divorce you and the government will come to take most of your shit. A clean slate is a powerful motivator.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 04:46 PM
1

I'd be careful with veganism. It's not that it can't work, it's just that it's extraordinarily hard to consistently get proper nutrition without too big of a gap that non vegan foods would easily give. Vegetarianism is a bit better in that regard. Same thing with the juice fast, I don't think that's so good for you if that is what I think it is. Juicing is all fine and well, but it's important to keep your calories up and if you're going to cut to lose weight I'd recommend to not cut too far bel…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:42 AM
2

Reminds me of this clip where the talk show host flips the script. Who can say what his real agenda there was but it's better than nothing. I find it funny that he rebukes the crowd and they go pin silent and then clap? I'm sure not everybody laughed but I think it's hilarious that there were likely people who laughed, go told to stfu basically and then clapped like a bunch of brown nosers who want to avoid confrontation.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:33 AM
1

I will NEVER stop getting annoyed this aspect of TPB. Even when I was at my most cringey beta self I always saw through bullshit like this. In fact, my betahood relied so heavily on "equality" that shit like this ticked me off to no end because of how hypocritical it was. I guess in a sense I was already part of the way there to TRP. There's limits. There's many men on here that have done things they regret and the shit they went through caused them to find TRP and swallow the pill. But there's …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:25 AM
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Yeah, I won't pretend to understand it but from what I can see because it is such a huge country, there is a lot of divisiveness on culture and behaviors, and a lot of violent clashing of beliefs. There's even big differences between the people of each region both culturally and even physically in terms of skin color. Like other Asian countries, being fair skinned over there elevates your social status.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:03 AM
1

lol...and what's the proper response?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:00 AM
1

I appreciate the insight. I don't believe starting my own business (whatever that may be) right off the bat or ASAP is the best decision. If my business is something that I can get a feel for by working for an already established business, I would lean towards doing that to gain more knowledge on how things work and whats valued. I'm not sure if I'd even run a business, it all depends on what is most advantageous. Sure, if I found a good company that compensated me well and I enjoyed the work an…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 02:32 AM
1

I intend to do as much research as possible when the time comes, but just how easy is it to start a business? One thing I've realized as I've worked shit part time jobs while in school is that I have very little tolerance for the day in day out type jobs. Everybody says they want to be their own boss, but I don't believe that. Most people don't, they just want to take orders, gtfo and do what they want in their off time. It isn't necessarily about being my own boss, but rather investing in somet…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 01:16 AM
1

Lived in FL, didn't know UM was like that. Good lord it's good for a brown man down there though, didn't know how rough some had it in different parts of the US. I never considered the geographical impact of SMV across the US until I came to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 07:42 AM
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No. He outlined two separate things because they are two separate things. Preselection requires other people because OTHER (presumably high value just by looking at them) people are hanging with you therefore their status is conferred upon you. You don't have to do anything and most will assume due to innate knowledge of how hierarchy works that because these people accept you that you must also be high value. The halo effect in this situation is just the tendency for others to confer good quali…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 03:16 AM
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Without even looking at this clip and the hint of Bond Films on the comment below...I'm gonna guess it's the beginning of Goldfinger by the pool side. I remember seeing this clip in class, and a lot of people just either got silent and awkward or some even snorted in snobbery. Meanwhile I was just having an internal dialogue, "see that...? Aspire to that..."
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 01:06 AM
4

If you haven't heard that shit test there's only two reasons. A) She's not hot enough to be in disbelief that you aren't succumbing to her every will. This is the less likely and weaker reason (as most bitches have an overinflated sense of SMV so anyone above a 5 will shit test you this way) B) The more likely reason, you're not being enough of an "asshole", AKA having boundaries and not budging an inch for any remotely selfish demand without equal compensation.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 03:42 AM
2

All the while destroying themselves with their own batshit craziness. I knew something was up and this confirms it though, can't remember what it was, but I was searching something unrelated to TRP but in the realm of gender relations and RoK was the third listing. Needless to say I was surprised considering when I found the manosphere 1.5 years back I was digging deep.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 03:13 AM
1

Nah bro you read TRP, you're Alpha as fuck. Do it right. I'm going to give you a gift for your ass
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:20 AM
2

But she was on TV... You're American, you understand the importance of that, don't you?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:19 AM
5

I've played enough MW2 to know that Favela and MW2 are bad.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:17 AM
1

A little bit of both. If you think about it, the progression of consumer tech has exploded since the 90's, exponentially. We went from having shitty CPU's and dial up to high speed internet and smart phones with the same capabilities in a matter of 15 years. Social media and tech aren't themselves stunting people, or social development and how deep we bond. Rather it's still pretty new and we are still seeing the impacts of such things on a test generation or two basically lol. It all depends on…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:15 AM
3

Because most people come here trying to lose one dogma and find another, I think this lends itself to some very black and white thinking on the matter, it lacks nuance. Most people misattribute losing frame with getting emotional. The underlying implication is that they correlate emotions with reality still. The reality is that showing or allowing yourself to feel your emotions isn't beta and isn't loss of frame, letting those emotions dictate your subsequent actions is. Additionally, there seem…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 12:15 AM
1

That woman is quite impressive.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 01:06 AM
0

I'm sorry, hold on... Your sister is a known maniac and you bought her a fucking karambit as a gift? You stupid fuck! Anyways, everything else is pretty bat shit crazy, and it must be surreal to have that level of denial about what happened to you and your dad in the home. As everyone else said, it's time to go, people have left for less.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 12:56 AM
3

Why's it gotta be about you bitch. Perhaps you just have an eye for girls with fucked up problems. It's totally possible, because honestly, that's some psycho shit right there. Your frame was tight enough that the only shit test to break you would be something levelled at you to gauge your humanness--or humanity, or perhaps sympathetic capabilities. It's almost like a psychopath filter...except they're trying to filter out everyone except people with psychopathic qualities. Or at the very least …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 11:45 PM
3

Yeah, kind of like the burst shot on a camera. I was always a panoramic guy myself. We gon' fuck shit up tonight
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 06:43 AM
4

In todays age, sex and relationships in general (whether friendships with other people or sexual relationships with women) are like money--the more you have of it the easier it is to get. Not saying there isn't a skill element to it, but to play the game at it's basic level you need some chips to wager. When you don't have anything, playing at all is the hardest part. You're not in the running yet. The hardest part is the beginning where you have to make a steep climb to the peak of the mountain…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 02:41 AM
3

So much this. You have to prove you're different, and once you do you get bonus points for being different.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:42 PM
3

Hows that? I'm Indian but i've never fucked any Indian girls. Never felt interested in that avenue. I also have never been interested in the white blond thing either. I didn't even know Indian and Asians had a thing for those types until I came here. I have never been told this, but I suspect most Indian guys disqualify my opinion because I am light skinned and can pass for Spanish more often than not. This works well for me in terms of game since I live in an area with a lot of Spanish people. …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:07 PM
2

Idc about the marriage, but a son is what I would be willing to pay for. But it's all up in the air. Imagine getting a daughter, imagine getting a son that no matter how you raise turns out to be a god damn pussy because when he's not with you he's out there in the shit. Then again, so were we.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 07:32 AM
3

You mean Trump? Pretty sure he's got his own blog at heartiste.wordpress
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 07:25 AM
1

Well, it wasn't all that short, but compared to many I've met, yes short I suppose. I'm finishing up school and I'll be getting the fuck out as soon as possible. That being said, anybody in retail who doesn't want to die there could always swap to some shitty call center job or some sharky commission based place. It might not be easy and it will be stressful, but it pays better compared to retail and if you can survive you can actually move up pretty quick to a management position. There is lite…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 07:20 AM
1

Everybody has raised some very interesting points above. I remember Mark Manson saying that the best part about a culture is usually the worst thing about it too. I find that to be pretty true. A lot of people are impressed by the Japanese politeness and discipline towards custom and the cultural expectations. Those things are impressive in a lot of ways, especially when you live in the multicultural US where there is an increasing lack of any sort of community cohesion. Japanese homogeneity is …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 07:13 AM
0

No, they won't. In fact, if you lift hard, train hard in general, carbs are your best friend. Brown rice is the best. Everyone responds to carbs differently though, but they are effective none the less.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 06:57 AM
2

Whole wheat bread is alright, I much prefer brown rice. It all depends on your view of carbs in general. I came to this sub and found out women don't truly love the way we want them to...but carbs do.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 08:23 PM
2

Just look at the way it was written, it's like they're upset that they had to report something that was objectively true just because it left a bad taste in their mouths. "The researchers' unavoidable—and unpalatable—conclusion" They're making excuses and justifications as to why they'd report something that was true. "Don't throw me in jail, it was an unavoidable and unpalatable conclusion, but we just couldn't spin it another way, I'm innocent, I swear!"
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 12:47 AM
2

It really is an immense problem. It's not entirely the individuals fault, it is quite difficult to understand WHY much of the stuff sold in stores is garbage, even the "healthy" stuff. Companies do such a great job marketing and confusing the consumer that a large amount of initial research has to be done on your own because nobody teaches you this shit. a good example is trying to switch from white bread to wheat. Most companies sell some garbage ass white wheat or "wheat" bread which is mostly…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:54 AM
2

I don't know man, 10lbs is quite a bit of weight on someone who only weighs 110 or so.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:50 AM
3

"and my life would be a complete romantic comedy about two kids who fell in love beside a stack of on-sale toilet paper" Damn bro, really pulling out all the stops here. This is probably the cornerstone of beta attraction, it has no basis in reality. Betas (including myself in high school) are well too stuck into their heads. They have all these intense emotions about someone they hardly know because of how strongly they think about them and fantasize about them in every scenario that could come…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:40 AM
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"To be so upfront with that power is so disrespectful" I disagree with that, I can understand that women are naturally manipulative and that is how they operate. However, it isn't the transparency of that power that is the issue, it's the fact that it's not even being used for utility or gain. When someone makes a power play and gets something, that's the game, you might not like it, but it's a move. When someone fucks you over for NO FUCKING reason other than to #wastehistime2016, it's probably…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 11:57 PM
1

No surprise. There are always cunning, aggressive and ruthless people no matter the culture. When you have a culture that makes submissiveness the norm for women, naturally the most cutthroat ones will be good at playing both.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:41 AM
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Indians too, extreme beta culture. I think this is why Indian guys and Asian guys are usually friends. I always see that friend couple, they have the same fucked up problems. The culture is in many ways similar too.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:39 AM
6

The day I get told that by some other Indian people is the day I feel just that much more accomplished. In my best experience, when other Indian people play you down for something, you're doing it right. I noticed spanish girls are pretty receptive to Indian guys, as long as you're not some dorky fob. It's not really that you want to avoid other indian people, but rather that you want to avoid the huge groups of them. When that many brown people gather into an ecosystem (like a college group) it…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:37 AM
14

Working retail sucked, but looking back I think it made my ability to chat up random strangers much better than it would have been without. Old people were the best honestly, not only are they more willing to small talk with you, but it's very clear that their ability to have a conversation is WELL above most younger people. The younger people (let's say...people 30 and below), tended to compartmentalize conversations, they worry too much about artificial casualness. Everybody--even socially out…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 08:34 PM
2

Yeah, that last bit was all me a long time ago. I wanted my cake, and I wanted to eat it, and I also wanted it sliced a certain way, and I also wanted it to be kept at exactly 24.5 degrees below room temp, and it should've been made on a sunday. Also, the person making it should have trimmed nails, excluding the ring finger.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:29 PM
1

The lessons are adequate. When it comes to the way our society is with sexual interactions...there are and will be victims. It's uncomfortable, but it's true. Anybody reading this, just be happy you found this place, whether it was by luck, or like many of us--felt something was wrong and started snooping, and the bread crumbs led to here. I was already on the cusp of a breakthrough and had most of the pieces, and then I found this place, and read Michael's story and I was just like...that's it.…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 07:26 PM
6

Not necessarily. There are people that are naturals that repress their instincts or abilities because they don't mesh with their belief systems or world view. These people know there is a hole in the wall that they could use, but they want to try to get in through the front gate anyways because that's the "right" thing to do. This applies to any type of mindset or skill. That's why some guys can come on TRP and just shift their whole mind just a bit in certain places and all of a sudden all thei…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:02 PM
2

Great post. After working on game, work/school priorities and lifting, it is up to each man to decide what is best for himself. Everyone's path is different, so be sure to then contemplate what activities are best for you or not. For some guys, doing extra reading is going to help them a ton, because they need it and if they have a topic in mind that is relevant to their life it is applicable. For guys like me, I already do plenty of reading, and realize it's a rabbit hole. Inhaling books left a…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 07:59 PM
3

Reminds me of that line from Macbeth where Macduff learns that Macbeth has killed his whole family and becomes stricken with anger and grief. MACDUFF - My children too? ROSS -Wife, children, servants, all That could be found. MACDUFF - And I must be from thence! My wife kill'd too? ROSS - I have said. MALCOLM - Be comforted: Let's make us medicines of our great revenge, To cure this deadly grief. MACDUFF - He has no children. All my pretty ones? Did you say all? O hell-kite! All? What, all my pr…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 01:56 AM
2

I feel like fat chicks always seem to know hot chicks. Maybe infiltrate your way into some fat chick's circle and make friends with her friends.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 08:38 AM
0

Even before that for some of us. Gotta love that. Before they even teach you how sex works fully they're already working on telling you how your dick is going to fall off.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 08:30 AM
1

Yeah I've heard that CR is quite safe, I'm not surprised. It seems like a lot of younger people go there nowadays so perhaps it's become something of a tourist location. I appreciate the info.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 06:30 AM
1

Some pals of mine are trying to get a trip going to central america, we're college students. They're thinking Costa Rica. What is a good place in Central America to pick up on spanish babes and not get murdered? Or even better than chicks, has the best natural scenery.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 08:54 PM
3

Undoubtedly, this happens in many foreign countries. In a lot of Asian countries, marriages are arranged for cash just so they can come over and obtain citizenship, then they divorce. I'm not sure if some laws have been put in place to stop that, but I do know it used to happen. Not that I would feel sorry for her, but you can't really blame her for trying. Obviously it ain't just for the kid, nor is it even necessarily at ALL for the kid, but this is what female sexual politics is all about. Th…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 08:49 PM
7

I agree mostly. There's a distinction. Men are logical based on an attempted objective view of reality and their place in it. This leads men to philosophize about their own principals and how they believe the world should work. Men are idealistic. They will do things based on trying to prove, validate or ascertain some "greater" truth that is bigger than them. This is how men are corrupted and manipulated. They are deluded into believing that whatever actions they take are serving some greater t…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 08:22 PM
6

I've been thinking on this recently too. I believe there is a subconscious element too. People respect you more if you demand something in return and don't do shit for free. Not just because you have a spine and therefore anything you do has more value, but also because the other person is relieved of "owing one". Most people will abuse a spineless person, but despite doing it, some will feel a subtle unease about it. Kind of like that guy who says he'll pay you back, and he thinks he means it, …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 07:38 AM
2

In retrospect, this was my biggest issue in the past. I never meant to philosophize or try to stir up intellectual banter, I just think about ideas naturally. It doesn't even have to be topical, it can even be stupid shit for fun, taken to a technical level for humor (which there is a fine line for looking like a cunt and making comedy) I don't know what the fuck OP is talking about, sounds like he's refuting shit tests based on a verbal technicality involving agency. Shit tests exist, we should…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 07:33 AM
8

I think people--especially gamers are starting to see. They might be too pussy to change anything IRL, but on the internet where they are lvl 99 wizards and shit, they speak up. I've noticed in a lot of comment sections on Youtube gamers are jumping at the chance to point out the inconsistencies they see. There was a video of this guy vlogging about leaving a certain popular gaming channel and he happens to be a tall well built guy, some pink haired chick basically said she didn't hear shit he s…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 07:23 AM
3

Isn't it sort of dangerous to suddenly 180 and go insanely beta on a girl? I mean, wouldn't you run the small risk of a girl being so repulsed that you must have sexually abused her?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 07:19 AM
6

I was thinking the same thing. Some guy out there is probably fucking a chick with a back tattoo of her ex. That's probably the gayest not gay thing I've heard recently.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 07:07 AM
5

"My god...it does exist...sweet."
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 10:05 PM
2

I get what you're saying. I see it more like our true natures are a sort of emptiness, and emotions are induced and ordinarily would pass through us after making us feel their effects. The less you are able to separate yourself from your emotions, the more they linger and possess you. Like when you get angry, you start to feel a burning in your chest, flushed in the face. As soon as it happens, if you think, "okay, I'm starting to feel angry because I feel X and I'm realizing it as it happens", …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 09:56 PM
4

An amoral world, chaos, more or less. I've begun to see meditation as increasing the buffer of receiving the stimulus of phenomena, and interpreting it. The more you meditate, the more you increase that buffer space where information is obtained, but not yet interpreted--thus allowing you to be completely outside your mindset before you decide what to do with the information.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:33 PM
7

I feel like this is where I'm at, and I'm not sure how to proceed. I've never had many friends in my life and the ones I did have all eventually moved away due to circumstances when I was young. All I have ever run into after that is so-so people that failed to have any direction or the level of self awareness I had. I pretty much have no friends at this point as some of my last acquaintances have been dissipated (which is for the best, they were just distractions). I don't at all feel intereste…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:28 PM
1

I'm glad I discovered Carlin and Hicks when I did.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 11:38 PM
1

I don't agree with Aang, but AWALT is AWALT. It doesn't mean you can't be in an LTR, and it doesn't mean you can't find a woman you like more than a plate. It does mean that you're not in the BP paradigm, and that you realize that no matter how she presents herself, what you've seen or heard, and what you feel, know that she is capable of what all women are capable of. Swinging to another branch. Men are romantic, women are opportunistic. Their love is not your love. That's what TRP is useful fo…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:49 AM
1

Water. That's water you're hearing my boy. It takes every single form except that of a marriageable woman.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:32 AM
3

Mine was sarcasm, yours is just a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 02:39 AM
4

This board, despite what you may see sometimes from users that are new and in the anger stage (they found this place because they were probably fucked over or sensed something deeply wrong), most of the sub doesn't believe in equality as a concept on the whole. It is not about taking a stance, but rather we don't even operate on that useless paradigm. As redpillschool has pointed out, it is a meaningless term that signifies an impossible ideal that goes against all of our biology and common sens…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 02:25 AM
1

Yup. It's not that the asshole character is what people like, it's more or less that they know what is and is not genuine. The asshole is not afraid under any circumstances to say no, so when he does say yes or do you a favor it is much more likely to be genuine, or self interested--in which you don't feel like you owe them then. One of the reasons women don't like nice guys is because they sense that the nice guy is just a big pussy who can't demand things outright and has to manipulate in lowl…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:10 PM
7

Well duh, it's a fraternity. He would have been raped by six hooded Chads in a seedy back room. Don't you watch the news?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:06 PM
1

As others have said, this is incredibly spot on and resonant. When TRP tells you to never engage in logical argument with a girl, or in other words try to win an argument with words, you will ALWAYS lose. Even if you win you lose. This is why critiquing Feminism has been largely useless. When you argue with a feminist (and you never should, because fuck all if you don't have something better to do), you're never trying to convince her (or god forbid him), you're always targeting the folks witnes…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:41 AM
2

Section 1 Nah, they all know about each other. (be vague as shit, don't answer the following incoming question). Only to the ones I think are worth it, although there's always...disappointments. (look at her) Yeah, it's depressing to think some women just won't get to meet me. What a terrible world we live in... In which timezone? I see everyone, I'm seeing you, although you're starting to make me regret that. Intermediate No, but trust me, it probably won't make a difference in your case. Yeah,…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 09:26 PM
1

Start with samatha which is just focusing on the breath. This basically builds your concentration power. No matter what thoughts occur, just focus on your breathing. Once you can observe your breath without letting other thoughts pull you in to thinking about them for a decent amount of time, you're ready to try out insight meditation. Insight meditation is similar except you can focus on anything. The key is to observe reality without imparting a bias on it. You observe the arising and passing …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 10:14 PM
3

It took me a long time to learn this, just because you're the wittiest, funniest fucker there doesn't mean you should just be on full blast barraging people with your wit. People don't necessarily appreciate what you do in the same way. Additionally, regardless of how stupid people may seem when being able to analyze or pick up on subtext, never underestimate how most people can sense something is off even if they themselves don't realize the feeling. It influences them unconsciously. I'm genuin…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 10:01 PM
5

10 dollars says you went to Boca Raton, or close.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 09:48 PM
12

Even though it gets mentioned around here, I'll mention it anyways. Meditation has done more for me in a year than anything else. Not just being able to focus better, but being able to handle anxiety, being able to handle disappointment, getting out of my own poisoned head space for a bit and looking at life outside my own desires so that when I come back in I can see what the difference is. In relevance to OP's post as well: what meditation has been teaching me (and still is since I'm just a be…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:40 AM
16

If only there was a physical manifestation of it, fuck solar energy. One single mom could power a whole city block.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:25 AM
6

I'm curious if that's because Indian stereotypes are sort of inconsistent. You're either a fucking motel/711/Dunkin Donuts worker/owner, or you're a fucking doctor or engineer. Talk about one end to the other. Indeed there's many high SMV Indian men out there (high SMV in the career sense mostly), who also dress well. Mostly the crux of Indian guys tends to fall on game or not lifting. Lack of game, no lifting + good ass career and money = prime beta bux candidate. Not to mention the culture.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 02:08 AM
15

Yup. Girl likes only 6 foot plus guys? Preference. Guy likes mainly Asian girls? Gross Asian fetishist. Never mind the "preference" for white guys that Asian girls have.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 05:31 AM
2

Should be called "I wished my boyfriend browsed MFA". Also, women don't give a fuck if you dress this way if you don't have something to back it up. In fact, you try dressing this way in college and you'll just look like a try hard if you don't do it right or overdo it.. Subtlety and context are important in fashion. Always dress for the occasion.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:56 AM
-1

This documentary cannot and will not change a damn thing. Men will never have the sympathy they deserve simply because most people are too embedded in the narrative. They simply cannot see the level at which things have become warped. It's simply a matter of action vs intellectualizing. People have been intellectualizing these issues for quite awhile now, gender issues. Nothing teaches people faster than direct action. Just gonna have to ride out this current feminism until we hit a line of dete…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 06:20 AM
1

Except that I'm not a skilled coder and I don't want to be. If I move to bumfuckistan I'm going to be SOL and take up bridge building so I can make bridges that homeless people gather under and fuck.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 06:16 AM
1

If this film got out to the wider public and not just a niche audience, it would be smart to distance yourself as much as possible in public from this place and it's terminologies. As it stands, you could be a redpiller and someone could find out, and it wouldn't be THAT bad depending on context, many even risk using similar terminology to debate shit IRL as it stands. But if they're going to interview the MRA guys and call it Redpill than I personally would want to stay away from that image as …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 06:01 AM
1

If you owe child support and you end up dipping the fuck out to another country, are you protected by the border? As in, in they can only arrest you in the country you owe the child support?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:18 AM
6

Don't go to Teavana--EVER. They're sharks. They sell over priced bullshit IMO, and I hear there's a lot of sketchiness with the potency of their portions vs in store samples, IE: in store samples are brewed with much higher concentrations and portions of tea to give them flavor and the amount you buy that counts as one serving is not as good. They're owned by Starbucks now I think.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:48 PM
1

I'm sort of laughing at the coincidence of this post as lately I've been seriously considering starting to collect tea. I think it would be an interesting thing because it's interactive unlike most items people collect and it's great to have a huge selection for when guests come over. Plus, I've been drinking a home made chai (which I'm aware that at it's base is black tea with spices) for several years now and I can honestly say it's not just the caffeine but I love having something subtly rela…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:44 PM
2

"Sorry that they sent me a guy who doesn't understand English apparently" Yup, that'll work out perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:03 AM
3

True, but lets be real--by default, most people are going to be producers for others. That's just how the world is, you can't be the boss if there aren't people who want to be the followers. Hell, most people think they want to be the boss, but they really don't and aren't even capable of being the boss. They'd much rather just do whatever someone tells them to and gtfo, then have their segmented free time. No need for them to take charge, just handle your shit and enjoy your time off. In doing …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:55 AM
10

You don't understand, he was the best.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:51 AM
2

Well, it's not exactly the good guy thing to do, but it's equally risky too. You can give the guy a shit deal and if he's naive enough to accept it without researching the avg price for such a thing that's his own fault. That being said, I feel that it would hurt your reputation and your business can be easily undercut by others who don't want to be dicks no?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:48 AM
1

Wish I never saw that, truly. I agree with GLO's point about MRA's needing to stop representing men as pussies. Additionally, I think that it is hilarious that the 4 minutes of footage of MRA's discussing their issues leads up to just a single shot of the feminist chick making it all about convincing her. The frame of it all was just centered right around whether SHE believed it (thus deciding whether it is real or not). Then there's the feminist afterwards saying we live in the most patriarchal…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:42 AM
1

Damn this is a good ass post we need to exchange numbers.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:22 PM
2

I haven't put a great deal of thought into this post, however I can't help but feel that we live in a section of the world that is for most people quite removed from immediate danger or any sort of situation that could place them in the real world mentally. Society has to believe in a frame, or some order that there is some lens of fairness they can apply to everything to equalize the harsh truths of reality that they don't want to confront. Just because someone is fucking ugly doesn't mean they…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:12 PM
67

Murder? What are you talking about? The man was always busy at work and she never took it upon herself to take her car into the shop regularly for maintenance check ups, that's why the brakes failed on that sharp curve by the mountainside.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:48 PM
1

10 dollars? You out of your mind bitch? That shit was 6 something a bowl. I always ask for extra rice because sometimes they scoop like I eat 500 calories a day. Extra brown, black beans, chicken, cheese and romaine will total to about 8-850 calories. That's a good meal. I'd gladly precook this shit at home if it wasn't for temporary circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 12:39 AM
1

I disagree in the meaning part. Meditating enough you'll eventually understand there is no meaning. Most people look away from that because it is disturbing on a very visceral level. If you accept it and let it take a hold of you, it will be much more freeing in the end. You'll no longer feel the need to panic to find meaning and label things constantly to fit into your narrow frame of the world. You simply observe and live in the moment as much as possible and this opens you up to the world in …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 08:14 PM
2

Knew I wasn't the only one. I live like 3 miles away from my gym and about a mile away from a Chipotle...and the Chipotle is on the way back to my house...this is a real good set up. I eat there like 4 times a week.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 05:01 AM
4

This, shit tests are almost never to be taken seriously, that is in fact the pitfall for most intelligent men. You'll want to naturally debate the facts, and you feel you're not being hostile but want to defend your opinion. It's a manly quality to engage in that type of discussion with other men, with women...it's futile. Pre-TRP it was my greatest weakness and it wrecked me, AND I already had an affinity for cocky humor and teasing, and that couldn't even salvage a failed shit test by arguing …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 04:46 AM
2

Abso-fuckin-lutely. I can't stress enough how correct that is. I'm also a pretty skinny jointed guy, and I've suffered a decent amount of aches and pains and distress from having my shit fucked up from going too hard too fast--even in amounts that normal people would probably get off okay. The issue is sedentary living and tight muscles. If you're going to start squatting I also recommend doing goblet squats as they teach you proper form and by nature of the exercise you learn to keep your back …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 05:31 AM
2

Yeah...can't tell if trolling, but if not: Don't tell girls you lift, if they ask it's best to avoid it if possible but generally say the minimum. You should come across as effortlessly in shape. Men value hard work, women detest it. They never care about the process, only the superficial end result. Never think of a DHV as something you have to tell people to bring light to it, it should be able to be inferred by the other person.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 11:25 PM
10

These are some cliche's I can live with.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 05:56 AM
17

One thing that held me back for many of my younger years was this too. "What if she has a boyfriend?", "Yo, what's-got a boyfriend? Ok, oh you too, and you?" Girls just don't really stay single these days, and if they do we're talking small margins of time. I don't fuck with married women intentionally, but anything beneath that unless circumstances are unique (a friends SO or some such thing) I usually don't care. It would be difficult to get laid if you just tried to go for single girls only--…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 06:42 AM
10

Jesus is that the kid from Up?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 02:15 AM
1

Yup. All the Bond books are like that. They aren't always so explicit and overt about the subject as that passage, but it's mainly to show that Bond is incredibly frustrated that all his efforts are spoiled by one stupid amateur mistake by the weakest link, which was Vesper whom he didn't want for a partner because he knows he doesn't need her for that.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 02:12 AM
8

Annnd...compare that to Casino Royale when James meets Vesper and is immediately rude to her when the idea of her being his partner for the mission comes up. Later, when she falls for a fake note that lures her out to get kidnapped it reads: "This was just what he had been afraid of. These blithering women who thought they could do a man's work. Why the hell couldn't they stay at home and mind their pots and pans and stick to their frocks and gossip and leave men's work to the men. And now for t…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 04:06 AM
2

Literally the first thing that popped up into my head when I read the title. It really is that one sided, that people can see shit like that and think nothing of it but the reverse would be attacked relentlessly. Oh you want to teach men how to be men? Gotcha, lemme go open up my own seminar and I could grab one of your best betas and maybe he can teach you how to cook or some shit. Liked that? Read more by buying my book "How to Quickly Ostracize Yourself From Public Society"
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:35 AM
2

Buying well fitting clothing is expensive. Just remember to factor in workout gains. I've spent some coin I didn't want to recently buying new pants and shirts and am curious as to how long THOSE will last too.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 06:42 AM
6

This has much to do with innate masculine traits of honor, principle, working within commonly accepted codes. Physical violence is completely punishable in the slightest but emotional violence goes unchecked these days (one sided as well). Men express themselves physically, it is only natural. When I was much younger I got into a scuffle with a friend as things got heated. We were cool again a week later--hell, we had understood each other more. With such a concerted effort to suppress masculini…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 05:12 AM
1

The rape hysteria is amazing. You can read shit like Mein Kampf but Roosh's book is a war against humanity apparently.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 01:47 AM
20

TRP is amoral information, never forget that. Just because you know the rules of the game and better social dynamics doesn't mean you have to full out abuse them for personal gain. You can still be the man you want to be, hell, with TRP you have more freedom than you ever had to be the man you want to be. The issue for most is that they cannot be that man anymore after learning the truth. I don't know your story but remember kindness is not weakness but it must come from a position of power. Man…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:19 AM
5

1st step to good body language is to be relaxed. 1st step to relaxing is to breathe properly. Everything starts with the breath, keep yourself in shape and breathe from your diaphragm not your chest. Also, you'd be surprised how your clothing can be getting in the way of doing all that. See, most Americans are fat as fuck, and somewhere inside--they know it. In return, they unlearn proper breathing and start sucking in their guts when they're in public which causes them to habitually breathe fro…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:10 AM
8

Ego is creating an identity out of your own success; when you do not meet this expectation of success, you cannot adjust accordingly and only end up coddling your wounded identity. Ego IS your shield if you want it to be. This is something of a contradiction that I struggled with in my meditation practice which typically deals with eliminating ego. When you learn your ego inside out and understand how it formed, why it formed and what it protects you from, you understand how to manipulate it. Be…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 09:59 PM
1

If I were the last human alive; fuck goals. This is comes across as a cutesy way to say live in the moment xoxo. If all your goals are biological I have to assume your goals are to just live for the sake of living, which is what all of us should be doing. It's really only when we're in an abundance of the basic needs to survive like food, water, safety that we get bored enough to start contemplating our legacies apart from children and doing something "meaningful". I've dug myself into an existe…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:56 AM
1

I've always wondered about that, I've never seen it though. How the fuck does that happen? Seems to me that in order for someone to exist and be that way they'd probably have to have even worse game than some losers just by virtue of the fact that being attractive still nets you more leeway and random approaches from girls from time to time. You'd have to be that much more denser than everyone else to be losing with a strong advantage.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:44 AM
3

See that all the time near where I live, wealthy fathers and the moms look almost as good as the daughters because all they do is workout, buy the best products, get the best services and eat the best food.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:17 PM
7

HIS SO MAKES 30K WAGE GAP CONFIRMED. It's true though, if you make 600k you'd probably have to really fucking TRY hard to hide the fact that you're wealthy. There are just things that come with that sort of income that are flags of wealth. People might not know you make 600k, but if you make that much I'd wager it's probably going to be easy to assume based off lifestyle and looks that you make 200k+, unless you're one of those lifestyle fucks that lives out in the desert in a fucking hut with n…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:15 PM
3

It's not the wrong way around. You're being passively aggressive. Meaning not overtly but covertly. Aggressive passive would be being aggressively passive...which would make for an amazing comedy sketch. "Jim was so pissed off he decided to withdraw to the corner of the room and glare at the rest of us. When asked why he was giving us the evil eye he just said he was looking at the wall and that he was super sorry for the misunderstanding" Anyways, passive aggressive men in the work place are a …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 06:50 PM
1

Everything is context specific. Being neutral at the right moments is incredibly powerful. Neutrality doesn't breed mediocrity, mediocrity under the guise of neutrality does. How is outcome independence (for all that it is boasted about here) any different than neutrality? The power of outcome independence is rooted directly in being indifferent to any outcome which means neither has sway over your actions.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 07:52 PM
13

Contemplated this in the past many times with much success. What many even consider to be "ruthless" typically amounts to putting yourself clear and above others in terms of benefits and priorities. This is not necessarily being ruthless, but we live in a "nice guy" society so it seems so, much like how being an "asshole" these days is just going for what you want and having strict boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:34 PM
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You gotta love it when exercising the freedom of choice is now considered coercion. She had no choice but to marry him of course, I mean what else was she going to do?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:21 PM
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I think for most people "Do something and find a way to love it...or die" is much more practical.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 07:18 PM
1

If you're incredibly good at a sport, and you've won many events, would you be trying to assert your dominance on some kid at the mall who says he could beat your ass at it? If you deny that challenge are you hamstering away the dominance of the 17 year old kid who works at Auntie Annie's Pretzels? Aw man some kid stole my manhood because I had big boy things to do.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 05:05 AM
1

I hope you know this whole eye contact thing works two ways.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 04:44 AM
4

I think there's a bit of confusion as to what I meant. I'm not saying women aren't complicit in this behavior, I'm saying that in any type of movement there is a core and then there is the outer edge, which is usually a very large amount of people who have been swept up by the storm--so to speak. It isn't that they aren't responsible, but rather these are the same people that could get scooped up by anything. Basically, in the world there is always going to be a certain amount of weak and easily…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 03:19 AM
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It really is insane. It's like none of these people have ever had a natural sexual encounter. The whole thing damn near rides on tension, ambiguity and levels of uncertainty. This isn't going to make women happier either. All men under these types of rules will get punished eventually. Eventually most guys--if it got bad enough, and laws like this became the norm and not just a few Universities, would cease to be the aggressors and cease to initiate contact. Women don't want to be the aggressors…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 06:09 PM
2

I won't deny that, I even thought of it. Having fair skin is an SMV boost even in India from what I know. However, you're missing the point. The point isn't to say race is inconsequential, that is silly. Being white will ALWAYS be an advantage in our world due to many historical factors. The point is to stop crying about it like a jackass. True, your South Indian friend probably doesn't stand a chance in that situation, which is a really unusual situation to begin with. It really isn't fair, but…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:13 AM
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Pretty interesting how you're getting attacked for what generally is true (although I do believe this is changing ever so slightly as time progresses). AS AN INDIAN MALE <--- Credentials established. I can say for sure that what he says is mostly true. However I'd be ill at ease stating that there is a definite bottom to the race SMV list. I would say that it swaps out frequently depending on locale and particular information. For instance, I'm a pretty light skinned Indian AND I live in a place…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 01:38 AM
3

A lot of folks have a hard time getting past the self pity of doing things alone.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 05:28 AM
40

Let's be fucking real here. Whenever a new piece of tech comes out, generally early adopters get a raw deal. A newer model quickly replaces the first, the price gets cut, they have to deal with all the kinks and issues in the software that are unforeseen. Fuck, that's just something like a new phone too, I'm not letting them touch my balls with this fucking voodoo until we get this shit going for awhile.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 05:23 AM
1

I hear about Meditations a lot, I got ahold of it and read a bit of it, but I've been reading a lot of other things too. What do you feel you got out of reading it?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 05:14 AM
1

Well, it's important not to get what I'm saying mixed up. It's not necessarily a mindless pursuit of money that I'm discussing. Rather, it is the idea that many guys have a point to where they are satisfied, they are content. This bar is set at different levels for people. If your goal is to bang as many women of the highest quality...well, amassing a large amount of money would probably be a damn good start since acquiring some sort of elevated status like being a celebrity is going to be much …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 05:05 AM
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This is how it is in general, if it wasn't video games it would be something else. This isn't directed at you, and I'm likely to go off topic, but posts similar to OP's are a bit silly to me, why do people think everyone wants to and can become a leader/boss instead of a follower/worker? Most people--whether they know it or not, don't want that responsibility. They don't have that ambition or desire to back up the discipline that is needed to survive in that type of endeavor. A lot of people bit…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 06:02 PM
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I think it's more correct to assume that by "letting go", people really think marriage is the end of the game, that you can stop playing. Not necessarily letting yourself go physically (which does happen anyways because people get complacent thinking "this is it") No. Always keep yourself in shape, if you live long enough you'll thank yourself. I've seen a lot of old timers, a lot of em are all fucked up and can't even tie their shoes without running out of breath (more women than men I should a…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 05:39 PM
2

That makes sense, nowadays many women probably get to experience both annually.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 05:35 PM
31

No kidding. I once overheard someone making fun of people who are extremely in shape. They said something like "What do you even need all that muscle for these days, it's not like you're out there in the wilderness trying to survive" People say dumb shit all the time, the best thing any passionate, idealistic young man can do is understand that it's not their job to convince others of anything that they can't begin to help themselves with first. Meditation has also helped me with this, when you …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 05:31 PM
5

I'm a bit relieved with the idea of PAT. When I was a teenager I'd masturbate 1-2 times a day, going more than one day without was considered long to me. As I grew older I realized on my own that I should learn to cut back just out of principle of not becoming too attached to anything/showing some will power to myself. Eventually I decided the concept of porn was actually kind of fucking weird but more than that I actually got better releases the odd times NOT watching porn. Even back when I was…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 10:01 PM
1

I fail to see why anybody cares what an actor says about this sort of topic. Having a good public image is an indispensable part of his career, he could have said this with a straight face and then went into a private room to have a good twenty minute laugh at what he just said and we'd be none the wiser.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:29 AM
1

That's insane, but I'd believe it. If I ever have children I fear for them. The whole thing is really just a huge filter, the only kids who are going to get through without getting too fucked up are the ones who are innately alpha, or at least possess traits that will give them some staying power. For me, I was just stubborn as hell, for all I was chastised for it, being stubborn payed off for me.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:51 AM
4

Hope that mugger was a dropout or I'm getting mugged by a guy who knows special forces type shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:45 AM
3

I'm not a teacher but I hear there is a lot of "mandatory" bullshit teachers have to cover and test on when it comes to the curriculum. Education is a business, so it would seem to me that practicality is completely out of the window, it only needs to LOOK like the students are learning via results of standardized test scores (which is basically regurgitating bullshit, not actually coming up with it or understanding it's interconnections). I was a terrible student, I was always failing courses a…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:34 AM
1

I've never understood where to place myself and others such as myself on these types of things. Many strategies and moves that machs employ to get what they want, I've used at some point or another in my life. Even in terms of subtextual communication and reading between the lines, for some reason or another, I've had an innate talent at identifying manipulative people. When I was a little bit younger, I was even highly proud of the fact that I was pretty adept at manipulating and reading people…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 07:00 AM
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Is that even fucking possible? I mean how? How can that be? Baffling.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:40 AM
5

He's right, all it takes is one upset cunt to snip whatever he was saying into a 10-30 second bit without context and cry outrage. Social criticism and comedy go hand in hand. I don't think I would have been as socially aware when I was younger of subtle and indirect manipulation in our society if it wasn't for George Carlin.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:30 AM
3

This, I don't see how others don't see it. If a man is expected to have multiple partners and spread his seed wherever he can, how the fuck is that gonna happen in a traditional relationship? Men ultimately want sex, everything else they can do or get on their own. Women hate sluts because they essentially give for very little what most women try to inflate the price of: pussy. It's too bad, I think sluts get a bad rap in society. Hell, I think in a lot of ways sluts have probably held up societ…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 07:01 AM
4

I've been pondering this for some time now. The advent of twitch streamers and popular Let's Players that essentially make their living off the burgeoning voyeuristic tendencies of people who live vicariously through some recorded friendship. I see the popularity of Let's Plays and Twitch streams as a serious sign of a greater social issue caused by the things we discuss here on TRP and technology as well. The feminine imperative and the demonization of masculinity, along with the fact that tech…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:26 AM
4

Can't blame someone for using what they got to get ahead and get more. It is as simple as that. Getting dolled up and getting in front of a cam and playing video games is about the most mild form of prostitution if you even want to call it that. These lads ought to just save their cash and buy an actual prostitute instead of donating money to some chick that is often times terrible at what she is playing anyways.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:22 AM
9

Pretty much this. I was talking to a friend about this earlier when he was fawning over some pictures of hot cosplay chicks on some website. I told him that these super attractive girls that cosplay nerdy video game stuff are just as hard if not harder to get than your average HB whatever. They think that just because the girl is into the same nerdy things they are that it is the basis of some "connection" they'll share and indulge in together, and that they have a chance. The reality is for mos…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:18 AM
1

Upvoted for the positive vibes. But really, you gotta stop that brother shit. Pretty soon we'll all be wearing robes.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 04:44 AM
6

S'like buying some software from some small time, obscure developers. Then, they hit it big somehow and are too busy blowing all the dough they thought they'd never have instead of rolling out patches to fix all the broken shit.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 04:30 AM
2

If people came wandering into TRP because others told them "stay away from that place, it's nothing but a bunch of neckbeard misogynistic bigots". I wonder how many more people will stumble upon TRP and the greater manosphere if this sub gets shut down. Heh.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:56 AM
1

I was making a mild jab at women, saying that in studying sexual strategy here we are in essence learning about what makes women psychotic in terms of their attractions. It's an exaggeration of course--although that also isn't to say that there aren't some seriously looney bitches out there. I don't think I have to back that statement here.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 06:18 PM
1

I wouldn't go that far, even though it is just rampant mockery, some of it is understood and well founded given the practicality and employment opportunities/pay for STEM majors. In my time as a CS major before switching, I always thought it was funny the level of status it brought you outside of school. Some older folks would ask me, "what are you studying?" "Computer Science" "Oh, well then! Good for you! That's good" As an English Major: "What are you studying?" "English" "Oh...what are you--…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 09:16 PM
1

I thought TRP was learning about the history of psychos.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 09:10 PM
1

Thanks for the insight, it's pretty interesting to me. I agree, "majoring in humanities" and "being a prominent author" is a weak parallel I didn't necessarily intend to make. This is because one can be a prominent author in many different fields that may not relate to anything regarding the humanities. As far as your argument: You seem to be saying that technology is inescapable if you wish to be on the cutting edge of your field. Undoubtedly this is true in most cases but not all. For the sake…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 09:06 PM
2

The redefinition of rape is incredible. Compare the rape of women in places that have been conquered by an opposing military force to the "rape" that's happening today. Tell these people to go learn about The Rape of Nanking. Rape by surprise, get the fuck outta here.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 08:26 PM
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Ridiculous, the hypocrisy is palpable. Normally this shit has long since surprised me enough to bother me, but god damn is 342 an astounding number. Right there, in black and white is the complete opposite of what is hailed as truth. To be fair, there are stupid people out there regardless of gender who would do questionable things for sex, but 342 women...now that's a number.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 08:18 PM
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lol, pretty much this. Much of the world has a STEM superiority complex. It's true, STEM subjects do advance technology which advances our lifestyles and standards of living (for better or worse). It also is where a lot of good, stable jobs are at right now, but I'd shotgun my own dick off before being in any of those fields. Why is it that when you want to kill a culture you need to burn it's books, or when dictators try to stifle a rebellion they hunt and execute the most prominent authors? Su…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 06:37 AM
1

I always wondered what it was about Indian people that made them so prone to being skinny fat. Either Indian kids are incredibly skinny and have the ecto frame, or they're chubsters. I always felt like it was the diet and culture.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 09:33 PM
15

I've reaffirmed a lot of personal things through TRP, relearned a lot of behaviors I had over many years beat out of me by the crabs in the bucket. The one thing I learned from here that is the most useful for me is that "you can't negotiate desire". Plain and simple. It either is or isn't. Other people's emotional states are not your problem, women AND men.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 08:25 PM
10

I can understand how one might be a bit put off when the mood suddenly switches up like he says in his blog post--that the crew was being completely respectful and fair to him and then suddenly within a moment turned into vicious hiveminded demons ready to flay him alive. It just seems a bit unlikely that everybody would be in on it it in such a way that they play their parts accordingly, like some Shutter Island shit. As for his frame on the show...it seems to me that while I wouldn't say he fa…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 08:13 PM
3

This is what I ALWAYS say to my friends about the rare moderate to attractive girl who plays video games. I've met a few of these and they have 9/10 times gotten into the scene/hobby by way of an ex or current bf. Hot chicks who play video games crack me up to see, guys all think they have a chance with her by virtue of a common hobby, but that's often the last thing she wants.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 01:56 AM
71

"Hey try not to suck any dick on the way through the parking lot!"
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:59 AM
32

It's funny for me to see this today, I was thinking about sexual dimorphism and hunter gatherer societies earlier in the day. Hunter gatherer societies worked because they're simple and nobody is confused about what they should be doing and why. If in a hypothetical situation we could take our current citizens and place them in that context, a lot of them would shut the fuck up about this gender "equality" nonsense. Okay ladies, how many of you want to risk your life hunting a wild animal, or wo…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 08:11 PM
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In Plato's Symposium, Aristophanes also has a speech that tells of the creation of our genders descended from an originally all male, all female, and androgynous gender that was split by Zeus. Pretty humorous story.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 07:55 PM
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I'd say BP dad. Swallowing TRP was not hard for me, hardly an anger phase even. Coming to the realization at how deeply BP my father is, and where and how his "kindness" tremendously hurt my budding positive qualities throughout my youth and adolescence is much more difficult. It's frustrating to understand my fathers arrogant kindheartedness without resenting him too much. The resentment is there, but to resent someone who nonetheless put a roof over your head and fed you and asked little to no…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:40 AM
2

Definitely. I was a pretty damn beta kid and teenager, nothing to be proud of. I definitely instinctively harbored some "RP" ideas, like negging, withdrawing attention or not giving time for nothing. Those things alone, even done halfassedly were the only chances I had at anything, but folks harangued me when I said they felt right, or fair, or were even effective. That crabs in the bucket analogy is spot on. You'll always receive the things you desire most, when you can muster the power to no l…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 03:01 AM
12

"Our frame is the way we present ourselves. Different people may maintain and present their frame differently" This was perhaps the biggest takeaway for me. If it's one thing I've learned, it's that your frame is highly dependent on your personality. I feel that many people when considering frame, think about being that hardy stoic, but it's really more about consistency, at the least way I perceive it. I struggled with it for some time, trying to find the right balance of letting my nature flow…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 03:15 AM
7

The follow up lesson should be: Teaching men how to not engage in violent murder. I think I'll lie in anticipation of that one, that day. The day where someone has the nerve to say to or in front of me that men need to be taught not to rape. That's going to be a day that tests my frame more than any other stupid shit test.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:07 PM
1

Rowe speaks the truth. We're all told to follow our dreams and passions, of the millions of people who follow their passions, only a few are prepared to die for them, and of those-- some do. The one's that don't are (depending on the passion) lucky or skilled, sometimes both. In my case, comp sci was getting me nowhere, especially since I think so heavily in semantics; was time to switch majors, best thing I ever did. Thanks Mike Rowe, you splendid bastard you.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:40 PM
3

As an Indian guy, I've never realized until coming on here just how many Indian guys have a thing for white blonde chicks.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 01:14 AM
3

I remember my BP ass (with weird Alpha sprinkles) in high school had enough one day in my class. This VERY butch black girl always fucked with me (but you know, you can't do shit back because she's a girl!). She always hit me on the back of the head, or pinched my tricep extremely hard. I kept telliing her to knock it off, but she always just started up the next day. So one day, I seriously tell her to fucking cut it out, and she does it again and looks at me. I look right back at her, while che…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 02:55 AM
1

No surprise there, anytime something is felt so strongly about, it becomes polarizing. People no longer care for the side they fall on, just what the fuss is about. I think I found TRP through google, some old posts that matched my keywords.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:55 PM
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