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Canadianjoe1986/r/Divorce_Men01/10/17 03:35 AM
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Same salary, married for 9 years. 3 kids I pay an absolute ridiculous amount
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 12:14 AM
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Legit painless. Balls were a bit sore for afew days. Sure stds were a concern, but I was more concerned about knocking someone up. And honestly I don't want to have anymore kids, I'm convinced my girlfriend is the love of my life and the person I'm meant to be with. I'm grateful that I was snipped before I started dating because it was on the table that more kids was not an option and just made everything easier. I had afew women at the beginning turn me away after they found out I had a vasecto…
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/22 06:25 PM
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3 kids with my ex wife. Got the snip after we split. Best post divorce decision I made. Painless and stress free. Been with my girlfriend now for 3 years. Having more kids never really comes up because the fact that I was snipped was on the table when we started dating.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 03:40 PM
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3 kids, and I have a good salary. She also got the house and half of the values of my shares in my company. I live in Alberta.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 07:27 PM
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6744 a month
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 04:13 PM
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We are still Men, and we still have to do what is right. Your son will see that and be a better man for it. My kids are all very young and I know they will see how a man is supposed to act
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/20 03:18 AM
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This man is right on the money. I was exactly where you are. You will come out of the darkness my friend. You must soldier on, chin up and keep looking to the future. Make small goals and reward yourself for accomplishing them.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/20 02:49 AM
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First thing is to move out bro. You need that space. Find a friend or family member that will take you in. Give the lawyer some time ( you may not need one, if you both can agree on what to split, and save some money). Talk lots with friends and family, then start looking for a place of your own, something more permanent. Everything else will fall into place. In sorry you have to go through this
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/20 03:16 PM
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Bro your looking at this all wrong! I'm 3 years into exactly the same situation your in. Your kids will flourish with two parents that are happy and healthy apart, then miserable and hating their home lives together. In the long run you will see, I promise. Chin up soldier on, it's what dad's do best.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/20 04:56 PM
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I've recently left my wife of 12 years. I understand what your saying about your identity, and I am battling that as well. I know it's hard to be positive when you are so hurt. But try to focus on all the possibilities for change and personal growth that could come out of this. Maybe you will become the happiest version of yourself, someone you didn't know even existed anymore. Marriage is hard, and it's a struggle, try to take this as an opportunity to turn the page on a new chapter in your lif…
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/17 02:22 AM
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Hey man. I'm sorry to hear that. This hurts to read. You will move past this. You will be better for it. Now you have a chance to truly do some things that make you happy
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/17 12:12 AM
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Thanks for that man. Sometime i wish she would have just done something like that. Make it easier. But it's definitely better for the kids this way. They are still young enough where it isn't going to traumatize them.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/17 02:26 AM
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Yeah my wife has really shut herself in. I know she is gonna throw a lot at me when she has the chance. I've been working up to this for a long time. It's pretty sudden for her. I wish it was more amicable and mutual, just have to take it one day at a time I guess
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/17 03:36 PM
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Let me know if you want to talk or vent.
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/17 11:13 PM
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Thanks for the advice
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/17 04:17 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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