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If he really is a close good friend of yours and she knows then you just got confirmed what type of person she is. Regardless, you should move on yourself, focus on your life instead of others.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 05:21 PM
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Don don was hard to watch after he meet Scarlett Johanssons character, just the way she wanted him to change.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:01 PM
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Knowing TRP now and having looked back at my old self, watching that beta step in after and complimenting Joe just felt plain awful.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 12:03 AM
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I liked the fact he took notice of it fast and brought her own bs up to attention immediatly. This woman is all about patronising, the look me in the eyes, the hand on shoulder and the hand on face (I would have exploded there lol), but he handled it great.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 11:33 PM
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Great read, my problem is just I have trouble telling people my expections, boundaries etc without sounding like angry or bitter. Often it results in ppl just completely avoid me because I come on too strong.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 12:29 PM
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Oh boy I wish I had read this in my teenage years :) Very good sum-up, alot of truths.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 11:33 AM
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Theres calling ppl out on their bullshit and then theres not letting away with something that is not ok with you. Example bullshit: You and your colleagues sit and talk at lunch and someone says "People who take karate lessons are pussies" or some other crap. My former self would instantly jump up and try to prove this idiot wrong. But keeping your frame is just letting it go because you know what your own beliefs are so it doesnt matter to convince others of it anymore. Nod and smile, and let t…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 06:13 PM
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It's not worth it calling idiots out on their bullshit unless they are spreading bullshit about you. Keep your frame instead and just smile and nod.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 04:59 PM
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Keep it up m8. Number 3 could be tied with 5 a bit. Be direct on what you want and if that is not given then, eh no big deal, move on.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 02:58 PM
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Ive seen that before. I love how she stays dead cold on the answers but once she loses she starts tearing up. Make no mistake though. those arent about the stuff shes done, those are pure "i didnt win more" tears. Poor guy.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 02:48 PM
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What went wrong is she probably just enjoyed the attention she was getting from you and you let her continue baiting you. When she passed down a coffee meet-up (which basically is where you talk and find out what the person is like) I would just have said "Okay, that's too bad." and moved on. Learn from this and don't waste your time like this next time.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 11:49 AM
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The explanation part is a great test against your old beta self. Repeat after me: You don't owe anyone an explanation of your actions "but they.." No The first part of any change is fighting your own perception of what you think other ppl expects of you. Once you reached past that part, applying a new mind set gets alot easier. The week plan thing is a great way to work on the mindset of TRP. Something I know from personal experience is alot harder than the physical change. Good post OP
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 08:12 AM
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Fair enough. I understand your point behind making this, but correct me if im wrong, i am sensing this is partly also about you wanting to share the TRP wisdom aswell with fellow men yes? Like others have said before me, you cant introduce a person to something if he isnt ready and i just feel that the manifest would lead to people only getting a glimse of what TRP is about if such it would showed out of context. We who have found TRP know what its about and know its not something you can put do…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:01 PM
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How old are you? How long have you been unplugged? This seems like something a new person here would make to better help his transition from blue to red. You dont need to make a manifest (certainly not on my behalf), just get out there and improve yourself with your new knowledge, take life by the horns!
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 12:55 PM
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Same thing, why would you hang out with ppl who are that shallow? By accepting the invitation, even though you see the bigger picture, you would condole their behavior from their point of view.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:39 PM
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That first answer just makes me so angry. Firstly the person clears OPs girlfriend with "it's perfectly okay to have a crush on someone" (wtf?) then ends up giving absolutely no intelligent advice "have a talk with her" (gee you think? if OP chumped this far you think he will know what to say?) That place seems horrible for actual advice for guys.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:17 PM
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Are you saying your friends left you when you were fat? Because if they did, why exactly do you still want to be with friends like that? This is not about knowing the "game" or your SMV ( why would friends even care about that?) it's just ppl being crap.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:07 PM
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"You'll be happier as some guy who can't figure out why women don't like him." No you wont, you just tell yourself that to make defeat feel easier. Sounds like youre still on stage 1, what is it that you cant handle about the truth?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:05 PM
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Theres nothing more that builds a great first impression than a good and firm handshake. To men you show confidence, to women you show character and alpha behavior. Stand tall, extend your hand in an open invitation, keep a strong eye contact and introduce yourself. Its also a great way to create tension if its a women, hold her hand just that little longer etc.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 09:27 AM
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Let them, why care what strangers think? This sub gets a bad rep on reddit because people just take a look at some of the FR posts and think thats what the sub is about. Those who have been here for a while know what the sub is for. Just realize alot of ppl arent ready/dont want to be unplugged.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 09:12 AM
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Good news! Winter is even better for picking up some new skills. Join a cooking class, new language or pickup some guitar lessons. Summer is what i use to live and experience and winter is where i learn and reflect. Also, i have no idea where people get the idea that NoFapping is great for you, its perfectly healthy to polish the 8-ball once a while during the week, infact its proven to release endorphins which helps you relax and stress off. Just dont get hooked on porn.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:11 AM
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Nothing wrong in setting up a realistic plan. But dont use the plan as an excuse though to put off trying some of TRP material in practise. When you feel your SMV has improved enough you get out there m8. Its going to be glorious.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:56 AM
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I remember watching a video actually of interviews on a college where they asked girls if they thought their guy friends would want to have sex with them and allmost the girls said no were just friends, but when all the guys were interviewed it was yes ofc they would :) But I did say some women, not all. I'm sure lots of women are infact aware.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 12:40 AM
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Posts will give you fragments only. Once you read the material you will start to understand not just what went on in other peoples examples but in your own life aswell. And give you the foundament to do something about it. Welcome to TRP!
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 08:23 PM
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If there is something ive learned from real life experiences, it is that some women simply dont KNOW what guys goes through when they have accepted the "friend" deal. Lots of women geniuely think its an okay way of passing down interest from male affection. From their point of view they see nothing wrong because "he said yes to be friends, therefor he just sees me as a friend too right?" Newsflash, youre not her friend. Youre just an orbiting attention that can validate them when they need or be…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 08:02 PM
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In this case something like "Youre right, infact if we are going to continue any further than hugs im gonna need a permission slip from my parents!" Just anything that will make her test seem silly unless ofc he is like 10 and she is 20.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 08:03 AM
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You didnt handle the "test" because you didnt adress the test, which was the age thing. Infact you just confirmed for her that you are indeed less mature than her. "flood watch", really? Next time just use a simple Agree & Amplify or flip it, but dont put the ball on her court that soon, especially when you havent even gone to 2nd base.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 08:57 PM
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It's a great lesson for all of us, so good on you for posting this and keep up the work :)
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 08:25 AM
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This is just sad. Number 7 just sums up the cheesyness of the post.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:47 PM
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Great read :) Its scary how some women feel so entitled to get free stuff. I would have said she could get her own damn wine but your approach was definitely more entertaining :)
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:43 PM
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This is where I want to thank TRP for giving me the renewed strength to change my life into a better one. I used to lift but after a LTR I gave it up and couldn't understand why I wasn't picking up women anymore as I was before the LTR. After finding TRP earlier this year I now know why. My plan is simple for the remaining year of 2014: Start up my training again. I've started with an easy 12 week program called TRX which should build up my core to start heavy lifting again in the new year. Keep…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 11:16 AM
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You got the message through but could have handled it way better. Never threaten with you leaving to keep your frame. It's childish. Just keep it short and clear that such a behavior is not okay with you. No need to repeat it multiple times aswell, makes you look insecure. Big mistake mentioning you've been walked over before. No women will get tingles about a man complaining over his last relationship. It's pathetic. Forget your past, if you really are serious about becoming red pill, this is y…
/r/askTRP02/09/14 03:08 PM
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Simple advise? Stop thinking so much. You focused too much on your behavior that you forgot to relax. If you need some social conversation tips here's some good short points to read: http://autoanathema.wordpress.com/2014/06/22/
/r/askTRP02/09/14 01:20 PM
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If you don't address her behavior she will just walk all over you again. Depends on how interested you are but I would just straight up call her on her bs behavior and make it clear that it something you aren't okay with. Maybe she wakes up and realize she can't bs with you or maybe she just continues the same way but regardless I wouldn't chase her.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 11:01 AM
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Have you read any of the sidepanel of TRP? I think you're putting too much thought into a "clever" way to ask her out. If she lives nearby, next time you see her just walk up to her and talk to her. Read the shit tests 101. It's not as much what she will say, its the way you handle them. P.s Thinking getting straight A's should entitle you to her daughter is beta behavior m8
/r/askTRP02/09/14 08:56 AM
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That is a great analogy, Ned refused to acknowledge the real situation (red pill) and believe that he could play the game of throne his way (punching morpheus)
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 09:28 AM
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What I noticed is all the misconceptions of TRP, like this: What the red pull does is teach guys how to set boundariers...and then they blow past that with all the emotional manipulation and dehumanizing women. It makes me sad when I see abusive relationships How on earth does standing up for your self and not be a doormat get to manipulating women?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 12:07 AM
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Ive done Japanese Jiu Jitsu and Krav Maga. I think in essence the point that OP is trying to get across is that the ability to defend yourself in case a fight is unavoidable its a big boost to know you have that ability. Lifting is still a great thing to so though as building up muscle is good in practically any situation. Do what makes you feel confident.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 10:26 PM
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Wow, what a load of bs. First she asks you if you want to come and now SHES "decided" that it wouldnt be a great idea afterall. I bet she didnt plan on you saying yes and now shes just rationalizing an appropriate excuse to why she dont want you to come. This woman does not respect you. Like others have said, you can bet your ass that if you were going to a party with your ex alone, she would flip out. This is a great test to your frame. You need to call her out on her bs and tell her that this …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 07:14 PM
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Exactly, and it doesn't matter how the guy looks, your gf and another guy alone out together=no go. On the good news side though youve now witnessed first hand how a woman can rationalize, noticeable when you suggested to deliver the guy the pizza, she went from "it's just pizza" to suddenly it wasn't about the pizza afterall. Catch that shit early m8
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:27 PM
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Why do you want to game at work? I could be wrong here but sounds to me you've found a cute girl at work and now you want tips on gaming her even though you know it's not a good idea. Even if you're clear with your intentions with the girls they will start a rep on you and you're gonna get shut down or even worse loose your job. Why risk that over some tail?
/r/askTRP29/08/14 04:08 PM
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Why say yes to see how the guy looks?? That's a big insecurity sign and she already got you in the checkout line of seeing this guy/having her way. Should have been clear from the start that as long as she is in a relationship with you that is not something that is okay with you. If she then chooses to go anyway, next her, she ain't worth your time.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 01:59 PM
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Better yet, get the books, go out in a public place like parks etc.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 10:38 AM
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Hence why I suggested the sitdown instead of just dumping her on text etc. Keep your frame and the answers short. Don't mention you've not liked her for a while, just say it isn't working out for you (If she request a reason I'd say her insecurity is a major one) Just remember you don't owe her long explanations, it's not your job to fix her, but now at least you can't be blamed for being another "bad guy" and perhaps the damn girl will wake up to why guys are leaving her.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 01:54 PM
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You might not be a AFC anymore but thinking that you can't do something you want because of others feelings is very beta. If you really don't want to be with her anymore, do a sit-down and calmly explain you can't be with her anymore. I think you got plenty of reasons to choose from. Don't stall any longer thinking about her feelings. Oh and most importantly, remember this case next time you want to girlfriend someone.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 12:05 PM
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I think TRP is a good way for you to deal with some of those regrets you have, analyze the situations through what youve learned from TRP and try to see them as learning cases rather than defeat cases. Regret is the biggest inner evil voice that holds you back from attempting to better your situation. When ever it comes up in you, try to ignore it and focus on looking forward to what youre going to improve. In terms of applying TRP and game, i would first set up a plan where you cover your life …
/r/askTRP23/08/14 12:53 PM
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Its not clear how you have approached him with the game talk but doing it when you guys are out in a club would perhaps not be the best place. It seems to me that he is more focused on going to the clubs to score than just have fun, which ladies can pick up on from miles away. Try have a talk with him nice and slow and hold back on any attitude but just being a good friend. Edit: On the other hand, this post dont reek much of you wanting to be that good friend if then your post should have been …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 10:37 AM
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You left her hamster spinning and then you apologized. Don't.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:02 PM
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