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On the flipside, one could argue conservatives too easily equivocate wealth with diligence. As if a lottery winner is somehow a more moral person.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 05:34 PM
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Here's what I'm looking at (12.67 / (12.67+12.7)) * 100 = 49.94% One of those surveys is the 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, for which the Centers for Disease Control invented a category of sexual violence called “being made to penetrate.” This definition includes victims who were forced to penetrate someone else with their own body parts, either by physical force or coercion, or when the victim was drunk or high or otherwise unable to consent. When those cases were ta…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 02:24 PM
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I like it. Another one is to think of a word, such makes you think of another word, and another. And another. And then review if you can make a topic on any of those.
/r/seduction28/10/14 07:46 PM
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Here's what I'm looking at (12.67 / (12.67+12.7)) * 100 = 49.94% One of those surveys is the 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, for which the Centers for Disease Control invented a category of sexual violence called “being made to penetrate.” This definition includes victims who were forced to penetrate someone else with their own body parts, either by physical force or coercion, or when the victim was drunk or high or otherwise unable to consent. When those cases were ta…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 04:28 PM
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But the vast contingent of that is perceived to be men raping men. (I.e. women aren't to blame) Perhaps the more appropriate thing to say is that the government doesn't consider it legally possible for a woman to rape a man, unless pegging/sodomy is involved. However 49.99% of non-prison rapists would be women, if you used a sane definition of saying non-consensual sex preformed on a man is rape.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 06:24 AM
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I'd say the main problem with the current feminist movement is that the basic core of it's platform is based on a deliberate misunderstanding of statistics. Sorry if this breaks the fantasy necessary for righteous indignation : / (Then again, who are we kidding, you probably aren't going to read these sources) http://content.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2015274,00.html http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/08/gender_pay_gap_the_familiar_line_that_women_make_77_cents_to_eve…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 12:44 AM
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I'd say the major problem with the current feminist movement is that the basic core of it's platform is based on a deliberate misunderstanding of statistics. http://content.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2015274,00.html http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/08/gender_pay_gap_the_familiar_line_that_women_make_77_cents_to_every_man_s.html http://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 12:38 AM
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Borrow a dog to take with you.
/r/seduction26/10/14 04:26 PM
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Or maybe sizing him up for marriage.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 03:27 PM
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Haunted houses
/r/seduction13/10/14 10:11 PM
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You need Power to be abusive. This sub is about giving you Power. The implicit assumption is that men can't be trusted with excess Power in a relationship. (I.e. Feminism)
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 04:30 PM
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Depends. Share your weaknesses occasionally, but always have a plan to conquer them. Don't look to her to provide leadership in solving them. And of course, there's a balance of alpha and beta in an LTR relationship. Calibrate that balance yourself, but I'd suggest somewhere around 2/3rds Alpha, 1/3rd Beta. That said, for strategy on sharing weakness, Google for how you answer the interview question "What is your biggest weakness". But in general, you can show your struggles without showing fear…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 10:22 PM
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Google: reddit sex Then search in the subreddit for the word "rough".
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 10:18 PM
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Technically melatonin by itself doesn't make you sleepy. It just simulates the effect of decreasing sunlight. Similar to how reading a book before bed in a dimly lit room is better than reading an ipad in a brightly lit room.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 10:15 PM
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In case you are willing to try changing your brain chemistry via food: Google: "Keto Recipes Reddit" Certainly should help with that foggy brain aspect at least. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2769009/#__sec4title Well, assuming you get past the initial 2 week "keto flu", where your body is cycling it different hormones and building new mitochondria cells. Google: Reddit keto faq Also make sure to get plenty of salt, potassium (almonds), and water. Coconut oil helps too, because it …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:27 PM
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But that's just philosophy....
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 01:55 AM
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Cool story bro. But where's the empiricism?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 12:18 AM
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Reason being, because I like having functioning societies, and I reject the idea that there's no optimal middleground between total communism and total libertarianism. Name me even one functioning "total libertarian" society?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 11:59 PM
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What is spirituality though? A belief in ghosts? A belief that the brain is separate from the body?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 08:15 PM
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You have to admit. Developing unnecessary guilt over eating shellfish, and wearing clothes with two types of fabric, is a bit weird.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:52 PM
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Not really. I mostly just believe in Meritocracy, Evidence, and Fairness. A lot of feminism believes in affirmative action, deliberately misinterpreted statistics, and female supremacy. But I guess in a romantic sense, one could also argue that a man needs some form of dominance to keep a woman happy. That she wouldn't be happy with actual equality. But in a non-romantic scenario, I believe women deserve nothing more and nothing less than what an equivalent man would.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 02:30 PM
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Well, a woman is there to share closeness on the positive emotional experiences in your life. So that's something. But yeah, sharing your weakness and failures is dangerous. Because it can be a huge turn off. Her logical brain might be okay with it. But her subconscious/emotional brain won't. And at minimum, if you do share your troubles with a woman, have a solid plan to get through them. Don't look to her for leadership. An opinion at best.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 10:29 PM
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I'd say his book is a sanitized but incomplete version of redpill. It's missing the darker principles of Hypergamy and Dread.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 09:33 PM
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All about that Vin DiCarlo Escalation ladder, and the phrase "I don't want to do anything you're not comfortable with", then getting busy at whatever previous step you were on until she cracks. If you want it, and her animal brain wants it, all you have to do is get her so horny that your dominant personality, and her internal dialogue between her logical brain and her animal brain, makes it so her logical brain is overpowered.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:26 PM
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From close male friendships. You can confide in them, they can confide in you. Privately, you can show weakness to them, and get logical answers on how to get through it. "Steel sharpens steel"
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:14 PM
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Improv would probably be the best out of all of those.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:07 PM
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http://meetup.com Book: What every Body is saying Book: How to win friends and influence people Book: The charisma myth Book: Models by Mark Manson
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 05:05 PM
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Unconditional Love, is another way of saying "Taking your SO's affection for granted". Which actually sounds kinda ugly if you put it that way.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 04:39 PM
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The one insight I got was that "emotions" stem from her subconscious/animal brain. Women prefer that over using their logical brain.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:40 PM
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Think about it this way, what's more desirable Her wanting you for your body+ personality, or for your wallet. Become the Alpha Fucks. And then even if bad shit happens, you got plenty of options.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:23 PM
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If I was asked point blank, I'd say I believe in equal opportunity and rights for women. But that current day feminism as a movement appears to be asking for more than that. For special treatment. And that's the part I disagree with. So I'm more of an egalitarian, than a feminist, since honoring fairness is a strong part of my personality.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:18 PM
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Child support is an easy one. Man really has no legal freedom after a girl gets pregnant. Even if it's because she lied about forgetting to take her birth control. Other obvious one is how powerless a man is to refute a false rape/violence charge unless he has recorded evidence.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 06:20 AM
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Not just that. Bad boys are confident, dominant, leaders, charismatic, perfectly willing to use dread, and hold their frame like crazy. They also often have muscles, powerful vehicles, and no inhibitions about wanting raw sex. And most of all, they encourage women to be animalistic/emotional, instead of logical.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:38 AM
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Models by Mark Manson No More Mr Nice Guy by Glover These are basically sanitized versions of RP for the masses. Add to that lifting heavy weights. And they are most the way there to RP. If they are still having trouble after all that, then you can clue then in on the darker reality of things.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 10:56 PM
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LTRs can work. They are just redpill on hard mode. Just maintain that frame, amused mastery, agree and amplify, soft dread, and continually improve your SMV. Read Models by Mark Manson for the pickup Read No More Mr Nice Guy for the LTR
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 06:20 PM
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I'd disagree. Since a lot of the Ayn Rand type stuff doesn't give two fucks about equal opportunity. Just kind of a "I got mine, fuck you" approach. And the main problem with feminism is largely not their arguments, but their fundamental misunderstanding of statistics. (Deliberately for some). Equal pay for equal work is good. But they miss the part that it's not equal work. Economically if consider myself a Keynesian, with a moral approach that the market should be servicing society, not the ot…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 02:46 AM
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It's a question of Equal Opportunity, versus Affirmative Action. I can totally get in board with Equal Opportunity / Meritocracy.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 02:37 AM
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Well, there are women who aren't. But you should never put yourself in the dangerous position of assuming they aren't. So stay safe, assume AWALT. And be pleasantly surprised if she acts NAWALT.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:16 PM
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It can be negotiated. Just not through logic. Since the goal is to convince her subconscious animal brain, not her logic brain. Which can certainly be persuaded. Just with entirely different techniques, such as dread game and DHV's. Usually more showing than telling.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:35 PM
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I can understand a belief in gods. Universe is a complex place. Maybe something caused it to be that way on purpose. Deism makes sense. I just don't understand religion. It's way too specific, and essentially is saying of the other tens of thousands of "man made" religions, clearly your religion isn't. Or no matter what religion you pick, atleast 75% of the rest of the planet disagrees with you on which one is the not-fake religion.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:15 PM
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models by Mark Manson No more mr nice guy by ??? Glover Jim Jefferies stand-up Patrice Onneil Fight Club
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:36 PM
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This book covers that in high detail. Check out some of the reviews: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00C93Q5KK?pc_redir=1410779306&robot_redir=1 But yeah, unconditional love? No that's not possible. The only woman who will ever give you that is your mother.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:36 PM
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Hrmm. Basically approached the topic with men have social issues, and women do too, and that they both deserve recognition and to be fixed. Then got the, men's issues don't deserve to be discussed because women have more issues. Tried to point out the wage gap thing is misleading, she shut down the conversation, then started talking about false rape stats, even though I didn't even bring up the subject. After that point I moved on to talking to someone else.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:09 AM
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Models by Mark Manson covers this. Basically, it's the conundrum of how do you show desire/value without appearing needy.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:54 PM
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Meritocracy-Feminism = Good AffirmativeAction-Feminism = Bad Hire the best employees, regardless of gender. Say they want Equality, but what they really want is beneficial discrimination
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:13 PM
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I'm cool with Meritocracy-Feminism, I'm just not okay with AffirmativeAction-Feminism. I want actual Equality for women, but Feminism is largely just the deliberate misunderstanding of statistics for power-grab purposes.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 07:47 PM
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That's kinda what I realized. Romance from a man to a woman, is the act of influencing her subconscious in a way that makes her want you on an animalistic level. Trying to influence her logic-brain helps. But is often counter-productive. Since most people can't be animalistic and logical at the same time. But if you don't convince her animal-brain, shit ain't happening, unless it's for Beta reasons. A corollary to this. Is that actively romancing a woman is literally the act of subconscious mani…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:17 PM
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Wow. That's actually pretty profound.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:45 PM
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Agreed. A lot of the fertility data spouted off comes from studies in the 1600s. But I kinda like the misconception from women.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 04:55 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/wsF8w.jpg
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 03:24 PM
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Good to know. Facial scrub and keto dieting it is then.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:46 AM
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Practice at humour and story telling. Game. Picking up hobbies that are both interesting to yourself, and cool to show off to other people. Photography being an obvious example. Guitar Pool Mixology Or take an existing hobby, and make it highly social, and become a leader in your group.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:38 AM
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By having a beard, it extends your chin a bit. Suggest getting yourself a haircut trimmer, and shaving it to a specific length. Me personally, I use a #4 length razor cut to shave my beard.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:30 AM
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And if your chin isn't as defined as you want. Beard yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:17 AM
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Partially by getting your validation from either yourself, your family, or your close friends. (Or charity)
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 01:29 AM
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"Creepy" was a confusing term to me, until I realised it's just a code-word for "Unwanted sexual attention".
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 01:14 AM
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If say there's a difference between nice and kind. Or maybe supplicating and magnanimous would indicate the difference.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 12:31 AM
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Men communicate. Women sub-communicate. His problem is he needs to translate this message into sub-communication.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:26 PM
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It's actually a bit disconcerting that TitanFall and Destiny don't have splitscreen multiplayer :/ In a weird way, I'm looking towards Nintendo with the next Smash Brothers as the next 4 play brofest game. Online gaming in a way, is eliminating a necessary social excuse for men to physically hang out with each other. But who knows, maybe gaming laptops and cheap flatscreen TVs can help that.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 01:20 AM
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Undesired sexual attention = Definition of Creepy
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:15 AM
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Hot Body + Dominance = Sex Empathy + Equality = Just Friends or Deadbedroom
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 10:10 PM
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It's Tinder. She's not looking for a date. She's just looking for raw sex. Same girl on OKCupid or a Bar, she might be more susceptible to Game. But this is Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:40 PM
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It's actually kinda refreshing how honest she is. Most women want a man who is Dominant, with a hot Body. But confusingly, actually say they want a man who is their Equal, with an empathetic Personality. Which is why so many guys get stuck as "Just Friends", or deadbedroom husbands.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:16 PM
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Money is Freedom. Power is Physique/Personality (I.e. Hard power, and Soft power) Money can certainly make it easier, but you can also be a socially retarded fat engineer and earn tons of Money.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 06:49 PM
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I can understand a belief in a higher power. The universe is complex. Deism makes logical sense. I just can't understand a belief in religion. It's way too specific, and logically confusing because you're basically arguing that all the other tens of thousands of religions are man-made. But you somehow, with those odds, believe yours isn't?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:28 PM
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I find social circles need rituals. Religion, Sports, Shopping, Bars, etc That's the reason there's a billion versions of Halo, Call of Duty, Fifa, and Madden. It's a ritual. It's the modern day "Poker Night". And one of the few male spaces left.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:21 PM
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There's still plenty of juice, it's just 100% seedless.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:13 PM
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Dedicate yourself to Process, and the Results will come.
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:09 AM
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The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1591844568?pc_redir=1410152966&robot_redir=1
/r/seduction10/09/14 12:25 AM
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Says you I am Canadian legally living in the United States with a green card. I still work in Canada and have all my bank accounts in Canada because my employer will not deposit Canadian funds into U.S. Bank. My husband is a veteran American using his G.I. Bill going back to school i've been supporting him for three years plus years. He started shifting money around I found out about it and I'm not happy. If our marriage dissolves in the states but I entitled to half of everything in the states …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:42 PM
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Agreed. But what's confusing is that BB has redemption by becoming AF. If a girl who was a former CC Rider really wanted to, how could she "seek redemption" to become a quality LTR girl? Truly one of the cognitive dissonances I've gotten from TRP is that the only answer I've heard is "That's impossible".
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:59 PM
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Feminists want the benefits of being a man, the benefits of being a woman, and the downsides/obligations of neither. It appeals to the morality Equal Opportunity and Meritocracy, but uses the method of Affirmative Action and Special Treatment. Ultimately making it so that their "equality" is one where there's no benefit to being a man, only downsides.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 07:55 PM
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Let the anger pass. Women were largely born with a lot of the subconscious biological programming which causes attraction for them. Accept them for who they are. You on the otherhand have godlike powers in shaping your own life. My advice? Lift heavy weights, regularly. Upgrade your wardrobe. Learn to cook, tasty and healthy. Get a good job Strengthen your friendships and social circle (Suggested purchases: Whey, Creatine, and a blender bottle) http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ ketorecipes on reddit h…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:00 PM
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If you can show me a better model that fits reality of female attraction, I'd love to see it. So far, I haven't seen one. We are simply pointing out that there's a lot more residual "cave woman" biological programming going on in women's animalistic subconscious than people in polite company are willing to admit. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/cr/0061906085/ref=mw_dp_cr
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:21 PM
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Confidence, Arrogance, and Low Self Esteem are a spectrum of merely whether or not you are being objective in your value.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:35 PM
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I think that's largely why it's so difficult to lead people to RP thinking. They have to admit their thinking may be wrong, and be open to new ideas. Too bad though that this means we have a lot of men coming who initially feel like they have failed, and are therefore failures. The resulting guilt, anger, and shame of these broken men can make TRP a rather toxic place at times. But, the way I see it, successful chemists use toxic chemicals all the time. So be careful, but try to be objective, si…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:30 PM
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Second thought, you're just looking for hookups to get into parties. I'd suggest just googling/asking for local wingmen groups. Then from there, someone will know how to find your local dorm/house parties.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:31 AM
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That's too bad, I was part of a good group from meetup of 20-30 somethings that loves boardgames and cards against humanity. (Since migrated to Facebook) And I'm also in a meetup group that runs "pack 20 people in an apartment and play videogames" group, which is filed with 20 somethings. I'm the guy that brings these types of 4 player games on a laptop with xbox controllers. http://www.pccouchcoop.com Street Fighter vs Tekken is kinda awesome with 4 player simultaneous mode.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:04 AM
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http://meetup.com http://cardsagainsthumanity.com
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:53 AM
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Lose weight, maintain muscle. (Ketogains, SL5x5 looking to move to ICF, looking into some form of HIIT maybe Tabatas) Cook keto diet food Focus at work (android app called Self Control, typing detailed to-do lists) Trying to reduce my physical and data junk, while at the same time keeping things clean Soon on the list I gotta shrink my wardrobe
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:53 PM
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Cool to see MRM getting some mainstream legitimacy.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:23 PM
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Kinda yeah. But even more specific, invest in yourself. Most betas invest in a woman, and get pissed when the investment doesn't pay off. Also, you can invest in male friends as well. Since a lot of times, they pay back your kindness.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:21 AM
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In short, because sexual market value, and social skills are changeable. But desire is not changeable. It would be so much easier if guys were sexually content with dominant fat girls. It would be so much easier if girls were sexually content with submissive beta guys. But that darn subconscious brain biology just won't let things be easy.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 10:29 PM
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TRP is essentially, Thriving, among a sea of beta misery. The pessimism is primarily just "survivors guilt", and "disillusionment". But you know you'd still rather this uneasy feeling is better than the slow/sudden soul crushing experiences you'd have otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 12:16 AM
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Well I'd still say true egalitarianism has it's place. Women deserve Equal Opportunity, and Meritocracy in the workplace and in laws. Friendships are based on treating each other as Equals, and valuing them for their Personality. The catch is, if a man does not sexually objectify a woman, and does not treat her dominantly, then she won't treat you like a viable sexual partner. She'll treat you as "just a friend". And that is what I see as the main backlash we have towards feminism. (Well aside f…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 12:02 AM
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TRP Nirvana = Alpha Fucks + Alpha Bucks
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 11:55 PM
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Becoming someone you have a deep sense of respect for.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 09:57 PM
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Is the thing you read published in a peer reviewed science journal? If you don't understand what that means, you're probably wrong.
/r/seduction01/09/14 06:48 PM
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But here's a good general strategy: Lift heavy weights, regularly. Upgrade your wardrobe. Learn to cook, tasty and healthy. Get a good job Strengthen your friendships and social circle (Suggested purchases: Whey, Creatine, and a blender bottle) http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ http://ketorecipes.reddit.com http://sexystyleforjoe.com/ultimate-mans-guide-attractive/
/r/seduction01/09/14 05:18 AM
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Hook her up with your more thirsty bros.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 04:06 PM
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Well, it's not like you're having sex with her because if her healthy finances. If you find out she's broke later, cool. Then just don't marry her. But TRP would generally tell you marriage is a bad idea regardless.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 04:02 PM
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They have no savings? After my last break up, I moved back with parents for a while, and my savings rate doubled.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 03:51 PM
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Bench press helps as well. Pecs for girls are like natural implants.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 06:31 PM
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Depends. You can make some serious bank doing programming.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 05:39 PM
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Wouldn't necessarily say socialism or redistribution of wealth is inherently bad. Further, I wouldn't say alimony was such a bad idea. It's just that as women have lost a lot of the obligations of a marriage, men have maintained and increased their obligations. It's no longer a mutually beneficial deal.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 09:41 PM
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I'd argue it's extremely simple for women Be Kind Don't be obviously Crazy Lose weight Learn a little bit about makeup For guys on the other hand http://youtu.be/qbJOLq5wXwk http://youtu.be/5oyrG3PcgLk
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 11:30 PM
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Easier to beta up an Alpha. Than it is to alpha up a Beta.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 11:21 PM
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Women deserve nothing less, and nothing more than Meritocracy and Equal Opportunity. (Aside from special treatment for the whole baby making process.) So yeah, congrats.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 10:39 PM
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Shrug, I'm at 7.5, and one thing that occurred to me is that much more than 8 and you got yourself a cervix smasher if you attempt to go balls-deep. I actually feel kinda sad for the big dick guys on porno who are stuck just kinda guiding with their hands a wobbly dildo of a big dick in there.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 10:27 PM
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Mostly because the mental fortitude you need to build up for it is different. One involves engaging in intentional self focused recreation and relaxation, to build up those energy reserves. The other involves analyzing, and overcoming fears, and building mechanistic mental models that force action out of you.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 10:00 PM
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In general, social anxiety and introversion are different things. An introvert merely is running on a limited supply of emotional fuel. Since an introvert recharges emotionally by being alone. But social anxiety is a fear of social situations. Both types avoid socializing, but for different reasons.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:25 PM
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I'd argue, that the better alternative is to be Pound smart, and Penny foolish. Spend a proportional amount of time/stress/research on the relative financial/time risk.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 02:36 PM
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Well, I think a large part of that less respect aspect is that women tend to think more emotionally, which isn't restricted to dating. This emotional stigma extends to the potential of a woman implying the need for leniency from emotional mood swings from periods. Unless you plan on fundamentally changing female biology, I don't see that stigma going away. Especially at the higher levels of leadership that demand constant composure. And to flip that issue on it's head, men are often held to a hi…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 01:12 AM
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Hey there, I wonder if by chance you should be interested in this data related to the lack of a female pay gap. For an apples to apples comparison, women as a whole earn slightly less than men. http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/08/gender_pay_gap_the_familiar_line_that_women_make_77_cents_to_every_man_s.html And single childless unmarried women under 30 earn more than men. http://content.time.com/time/business/article/0,8599,2015274,00.html
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:54 PM
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Interesting. So basically Morality Exhibitionists. It's about conferring a positive moral perception on the speaker, not the actual issue itself.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:48 PM
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Or contact her good friend through whatever contact info you can scrounge up. Somebody who's shown a genuine interest in supporting her through bad times. And ideally someone who is nearby, with free-time to spend with her. BeenThere :/
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:34 PM
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Here ya go, guess it was the CDC, not the FBI. But it is still somewhat relevant since the FBI changed their definition of rape a bit. (12.67 / (12.67+12.7)) * 100 = 49.94% One of those surveys is the 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, for which the Centers for Disease Control invented a category of sexual violence called “being made to penetrate.” This definition includes victims who were forced to penetrate someone else with their own body parts, either by physical forc…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:53 AM
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One could also sign an entirely different contract. For instance, giving each other hospital privileges, equal visitation for any potential children in event they separate, and legally change your names. Could even have a fancy ceremony with guests and exchange rings if you want.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:22 AM
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According to FBI data, out of 25.37 million acts of reported "non-consensual sex" in 2010, 49.94% were perpetrated by women.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 12:25 AM
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You need to go to "church". http://www.reddit.com/r/swoleacceptance/comments/2ejahp/a_swolm_from_the_swoly_bible/
/r/seduction26/08/14 08:35 PM
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My opinion, women deserve equal protection under the law, and in the workplace, and access to abortions/contraception/maternity leave. In general, unless it's related to baby making, women deserve nothing more, and nothing less than meritocracy and equal opportunity. The problem with Feminism is that it usually asks for more.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 07:07 PM
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From a man's standpoint. Vulnerable to being denied sex, cheated on, her gaining a lot of weight, losing a large amount of your money (marriage, prenup, divorce, alimony), possibly losing any house or children, and emotional terrorism enabled because of the fear of all that coming true. Her vulnerability? Looking less hot as she ages. But ultimately this is largely within her own control to counteract with diet and exercise. And there's plenty of thirsty dudes out there to enable her later. High…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 05:39 PM
7

She wants the benefits of being a man, and the benefits of being a woman, with the downsides and accountability of neither. Win win win from her perspective.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 08:42 AM
3

Could also get yourself a deck of Cards Against Humanity. Super Fight is also pretty good. Dunno, maybe have beer brewing contests, and get yourself a grill.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 11:10 PM
1

That's something I realized. All women are neurotic. (Might even say all men as well) Maturity is largely, not a lack of neurosis, but understanding how to manage it in a way that you aren't constantly taking it out on other people.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 10:37 PM
1

Well another reason why the rating scale is objective. It's often a scale of how often this person gets approached by potential romantic partners. A girl who gets approached all the time, but is still single, is probably going to be a lot more difficult to romance than some girl who barely get approached at all.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 10:26 PM
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Well, its not just money. But it's adding emotional value. Granted a lot of this costs money. But you can add emotional value on the cheap as well. The main thing I realized is that if it's taken for granted, then it's not valued.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 10:22 PM
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Did you mix that up? The latter is a blatant lie, the former is true but misleading. For the former, Women earn less. Women also do less work, easier, less stressful, more flexible, more emotionally rewarding work than men. For an apples to apples comparison, women as a whole earn slightly less than men. http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/08/gender_pay_gap_the_familiar_line_that_women_make_77_cents_to_every_man_s.html And single childless unmarried women under 30 earn more than …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:34 PM
1

Perhaps. But there's also plenty of studies that show that crime rates drop when access to abortion goes up. Freakanomics covered one of them in their original book
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 02:07 PM
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Those stats are true, just represented in a misleading way. Women make unequal pay, for unequal work. It's only misleading when feminists imply that as a total demographic, that women do equal work as men. Which is blatantly untrue.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 02:03 PM
1

In a rock climbing analogy, use small talk to get a foothold to talk about loftier subjects. Which generally means feeling them out until you find something they are really interested in, and you know a little about.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 01:59 AM
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Friendzone is fair. If a guy is dumb enough to keep offering benefits that aren't going to reciprocated. On the flipside, a girl deciding to have sex with you doesn't automatically entitle her to all the benefits a man can offer. Oddly though, you'll have a harder time convincing girls that the FuckBuddy Zone is "fair".
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 10:44 PM
1

For sleep supplement Melatonin and ZMA. For fatigue, drink more water. The number 1 cause of fatigue is either lack of sleep or dehydration. Or a Ketogenic diet does a lot to fix adenosine regulation (i.e. the receptor caffeine interacts with), and is more efficient at providing the brain with ATP energy. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2769009/#__sec4title Another cause of lack of restful sleep is sleep apnea. Testing for this is expensive. Especially since, your only alternatives i…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 09:22 PM
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Women are better liars because men are worse at reading emotion from non-verbal queues. So it's not women being better liars, it's women having less difficulty getting caught in a lie. http://bodyodd.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/04/14/17748017-its-true-men-cant-read-womens-emotions-study-confirms
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 04:03 PM
6

The primitive hunter saved his woman from the tiger, only to be mortally wounded.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:10 PM
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Here's more bro science. In primitive societies, hunting was dangerous work. Something that could get a man killed, or severely wounded. But despite that, men were expected to hunt. And in colder climates, large parts of the year, hunting was the only form of nutrition one was expected to get. Agriculture certainly changed that a lot, but ultimately that's only been around for the past 10,000 years or so. Humans as a species have much older biological programminging than that. As such, men and w…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 10:54 PM
3

Sounds like sidebar material. Good work.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 10:10 PM
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What's interesting to me, is that it's almost like the beer allows social permission for men to open up to each other. Like suddenly it's not considered to be "unmanly" on that specific context. Also, camping with beer is interesting, because it's like a whole weekend of shooting the shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:00 PM
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And this is why it's so important to have good friends. Bros. Guys who allow you to relax, show vulnerability, and weakness. To put down the persona, and just be yourself. Or shell out a ton of money on therapists.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:40 PM
4

Every hot girl has taken constipated shits.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:27 PM
1

But in a man they are already attracted to. For a man they don't know yet, it's actually a turn off.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 08:14 PM
3

It is strategic, but it's not tactical.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 07:04 PM
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That's the difference between TRP, and MRA. Appreciate the hell out of successful MRAs. But I'm not going to burn myself out on MRA causes.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:33 PM
3

It's not so much a lack of desire towards alphas. It's a lack of desire from alphas. The story about not desiring alphas anymore is just "sour grapes".
/r/askTRP20/08/14 05:14 PM
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That fits the society reason. But on the TRP side of things, it seems more like we're gaming the system society has built. It's an unfair system, but we aren't looking to fix it, we're just looking to selfishly maximize our value out of it.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 04:54 PM
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Cause usually you have weird problems the first time you have sex, and screw something up and you got a shriveled boner. Having this as a backup helps a lot
/r/askTRP20/08/14 05:23 AM
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Google: Nina Hartley Eat Pussy Study this. Also probably look up a YouTube video on how to undo a bra strap. And buy a selection of condoms, find out which one fits you best. Me, I prefer Lifestyles UltraThins.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 01:10 AM
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Agreed. But most guys are stuck on step 1. Also she has to earn her commitment. Since a guy who gives up commitment just as easily as a slut gives up sex, isn't respected.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 12:17 AM
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Friendship is about Equality. Sex is about Dominance.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 12:06 AM
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Sadly. Be Selfish, and Indifferent to her emotions. Confident, Charismatic, Funny, and Sexually interested. Which largely just leaves you with being a suave arrogant ass who objectifies women. And they will love you for it...... Go figure
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 12:02 AM
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And the exact opposite of what men should be doing.... But they aren't doing it in a non-genuine manner, it works for them, and it's what they tell all their girl friends to do and they've had success. The worst part is that they are genuinely trying to help, and just happen to be horribly wrong.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:55 PM
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Well, I'm a geek. And I enjoy a good game the way some people enjoy a good book. I spin the status thing by being an organizer in a co-ed videogaming club that hosts packed parties regularly. But like said, I'm not about to give up gaming just for a girl. And if anything, the area I live in has a lot of powerful software companies, so being a geek isn't such a horrible thing to be in terms of status :)
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:48 PM
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Agreed, but if he's going that route, the correct answer is to get into female dominated social hobbies, like salsa dancing, yoga, and cooking classes. On the flip side, you need a strong social circle just to prove you "have a life", and such that you aren't using her as your sole source of external validation. Maybe he could pull off a "lone wolf" persona, but more likely it will be interpreted as "friendless loser". As shown by other posts, friends, and bros especially are often duty bound by…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:38 PM
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Me? Meetup.com, Boardgames, potlucks and 4 player videogames on a laptop bluetoothed to a bunch of xbox controllers.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:36 PM
1

Uhg..... I had to stop reading halfway through.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 04:50 PM
2

You familiar with Frank Luntz or Karl Rove? Spin doctoring isn't unique to any political party.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 04:16 PM
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Damn it. Science actually showing not only do women prefer Confidence and Charisma but actually legitimately prefer "Selfish Jerks". Y u do this biology?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 01:55 PM
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Alternate eyeballs then :) But either way, it probably just makes you gaze that much more impactful. And that's the whole purpose of eye contact.
/r/seduction19/08/14 12:49 AM
1

It's almost foolproof at that point. And even if she's still not quite there, after she's all warmed up from the massage, it's not like she's going to turn you down for eating her out. (Or just spread her legs a bit, work the inner thigh, and massage her back with one hand, and go for her clit with the other) Or if you want an even lower hurdle, you can also add shoulder and foot massages. (Both of which can escalate into making out, since you've already initiated grabbing her focus, getting phy…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:39 AM
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Naked oiled up full body massage, is a pretty damned effective form of foreplay if I ever did see one.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:07 AM
1

Similar, but I'd say just pick one eye, and look into that one.
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:55 PM
1

Well, "creepy", as far as I see it, really does boil down to unwelcome sexual advances. What makes a sexual advance unwelcome comes from a variety of factors. But most certainly, how attractive the guy making the advance is, is a huge part of it. Another part of the issue is that women are much better at reading non-verbal signals than men. So from her perspective, she's shooting off plain and obvious sub-communication of disinterest. Especially since she can read her own thoughts. From the Omeg…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 11:39 PM
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To tie together both of your statements. The main reason women are more nurturing is that they are "statistically" more in touch with their subconscious than men, and have more of a mental ability to perceive emotion from subtle non-verbal behavior than men. This makes them wonderful caretakers, particularly children,because they can realise the needs of others before they can articulate it themselves. On the flip side, you aren't going to "Logic" a woman into bed. You have to tap into her emoti…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:43 AM
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Make yourself sexier. Lead by example. And after you've achieved sexiness, if she isn't following, then use some dread game.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 05:24 PM
1

Similar, bit not really the same. It's like comparing a handjob to a blowjob. Easier compromise is you can get by, by just licking her clit with just your tongue, rather than drenching your whole face in her pussy. The better way I like to think about it is to aim to get her to cum with just your eating her out at least once, after that clean up a bit, ask for a blow job, and then slap on a condom. If you can't get hard? Eat her out until you do. Female sweat/urine is an aphrodisiac for men, fil…
/r/askTRP16/08/14 12:01 PM
2

The analogy I like to use is: Guys are like microwaves, girls are like ovens. Guys can get heated up faster and then they are done, but girls heat up slower but get much more heated up at maximum.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 11:56 AM
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Remember, the game is to convince her subconscious brain, not her logical brain. Just get to the gym and lift, and study how to get some fashionable clothes/hair. Maybe grow some facial hair if you can rock it. Study pickup game. And have a strong circle of friends that make it seem like you are "a well respected member of a tribe". And that's about it. And girls are often able to take a "future mechanical engineer" as status enough. She mostly just needs a story to tell her girlfriends that she…
/r/askTRP16/08/14 11:42 AM
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Especially because a lot of the purely monetary benefits, are kinda cancelled out by a wedding ceremony, divorce/alimony, and the money you end up spending on her due to the ever present threat of her withholding sex or divorcing or cheating on you if she's not happy Failing to see an up-side here : /
/r/askTRP15/08/14 06:50 PM
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Well, Canada is Canada. You guys have awesome tax incentives, healthcare, etc. But the way I look at it, I don't see the benefit for the US side of things. Especially since tax benefits for kids, are still there even if you aren't married.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 06:24 PM
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So basically, death, retirement, save a some cash on insurance and tax returns, and slightly more likely to have custody of children in the event of a divorce. Slim pickings if you ask me. Considering healthcare and retirement stuff only really is terribly important past 50 years old. What else, medical visitation and shared child custody. You could draw up some legal documents that allow for that and would have more standing in court.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 06:05 PM
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That's not an honest statistic. What you're showing is unequal pay for unequal work. I.e. Men work longer, harder, riskier than women, and therefore get paid more. Rightful so. Meritocracy in action. If you were to try to get closer to an actual wage gap number, using a true "equal work" comparison, it shrinks dramatically. http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/08/gender_pay_gap_the_familiar_line_that_women_make_77_cents_to_every_man_s.html And unmarried/childless/under30 women ear…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 08:09 AM
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Fantastic post. Thanks for giving us a years worth of cliffnotes :)
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 09:30 PM
1

What are some of your favorite guides?
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 09:09 PM
2

Women deserve equal treatment under the law. 14th Amendment Women deserve Equal Opportunity in the workplace and education etc Women deserve special treatment for pregnancies/abortions. Considering men can't shoulder this responsibility. Yet. The problem with Feminism is that it asks for more than that.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 08:18 PM
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Perhaps do a potluck + activity event, where you expect people to bring home cooked dishes. For instance, had one event where they had a bacon themed potluck. The triple bacon truffles were great. Not a big fan of the bacon vodka. There's also barbeque parties. Could maybe set the expectation that the meat people bring should be uniquely marinated. Maybe learn how to mix some basic cocktails. So you can be the authority on dispensing alcohol at the party. If you're okay with sometimes racist, an…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 07:18 PM
2

http://cgt411.tech.purdue.edu/covey/48_laws_of_power.htm
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:15 PM
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Game tells you What to do to get women. TRP tells you Why it works.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:12 PM
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BroGame: Altruism with expected future payback, trust, honesty, sarcastic insults, crude humor, shared activities Bros are crucial, because sometimes you need to honest clear feedback. Someone you can treat as an equal, and temporarily put down the burden of leadership. Someone you can show mental weakness to in confidence, without them holding it against you. You could pay a shrink for all this, but it wouldn't be nearly as fulfilling.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 06:08 PM
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Add to that, an average 60 hour workweek. And that dating is expected to be a much longer extended process before getting physical. What little previous free time guys get, they would have to lavishly pour it into an arduous process of extended dating. All for a girl who might not even reciprocate physically at all. Add to that, being a prestigious beta bucks is a more successful strategy, since the girls family will guilt her into getting the guy who is good on paper.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 05:48 PM
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To be honest, it's not that useful for picking up chicks directly. It's more about showing "social proof", that you got "a life" outside of her. That you can be a leader of men, by hosting gaming parties. Building out your circle of friends, such that your girlfriend isn't your sole source of external validation. As Mark Manson mentioned in his book, if you were too use a hobby to pick up chicks, it's best to pick one that is female dominated. Like Yoga, Salsa Dancing, or a Cooking class etc It'…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 01:36 PM
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Me, I like videogames. But I've shifted my focus from solo/online games to local coop games. It's a blast, and more fun than boardgames. BroForce, Starwhal, Towerfall, Nidhogg, Crawl, Octodad, Tiny Brains, Castle Crashers, BattleBlock Theater, SpeedRunners, Assault Android Cactus, Rayman Legends, Street Fighter x Tekken (4 player simultaneous mode), Sonic Racing Transformed. The main important part is finding something you can be passionate about, but is also social. Then be the guy making aweso…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:17 AM
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ChickFlicks are like Porn. In Porn, a high SMV girl is giving up enthusiastic Sex for next to nothing, to a usually average guy. In ChickFlicks, a high SMV man is giving up enthusiastic Commitment for next to nothing, to a usually average girl. Both are highly unrealistic fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 01:25 AM
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Yup, cut all contact, lift weights and upgrade wardrobe/job/friends/game/frame for six months, then check back with them. That's the only semi-reasonable way to actually have any success with these girls. And even if it fails, you're still Sexy as fuck, and can move onto some other girl.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 01:19 AM
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Until you see women regularly asking out guys of similar SMV, guys are going to have to one-sidely express sexual intent in public. Practically feels like they are saying male sexuality should be relegated to bars and websites, and nothing more. Which is greatly not in an average man's favor. Some have argued bars are almost a scam if you aren't hot. Or perhaps proposing that a guy doesn't express sexual interest until they've gotten to be really good "friends". Yeah, see how well that works out…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 01:03 AM
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If a rich man marries a rich woman splitting up half of their wealth isn't such a big deal, since both are independently wealthy.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 10:56 PM
2

Same bed, different blankets. Women are blanket thieves! :)
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:39 PM
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Agreed on it being a human thing. The catch being a guy is often more dutiful when it comes to honoring "sweat equity" in a relationship. There's also a greater social stigma for guys "using" a woman for sex and nexting whenever it suits him, than there is for a woman using a guy and nexting whenever something better comes along. The other part is a dynamic in a marriage where a man loses a ton of leverage, and can be divorced and economically savaged. Where as the woman is free to deny sex for …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:19 PM
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Not really, I'd say the issue is that Dread Game only works if she values your SMV. Passing shit tests, holding frame and exerting dominance is only accepted as truly dominant if you can reasonably convince her you're "better". Hard to pull that off if you look like a wimp. Game essentially is a modifier effect on your base level of SMV.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 05:55 PM
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Science :) http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/10/121010151422.htm
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 12:53 AM
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Far as I can figure bipolar is an altered gene expression of adenosine regulation in the brain. Usually treated with substances that lower intracellular sodium levels in the brain.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:50 PM
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A gun is amoral. Cold blooded murder with a gun is immoral. Self defense murder with a gun is moral, unless you could easily avoid it, which makes it immoral. It's situational. Me personally, I don't agree that cheating isn't immoral. It's fair. But just because something is fair doesn't mean it's not cruel. That said perhaps one of the more depressing aspects of game, is that the entire goal is influencing a woman's subconscious reasoning. Influencing someone's subconscious on your favor is "ma…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:30 PM
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If anything, the harsh language just drives more publicized out of context haters, which is free publicity, and one the major ways betas find their way over here.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:22 AM
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Radio silent, aka No Contact, if it's salvagable. Burn the bridge if it's not.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:00 AM
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Being able to respond to a shit test shows a level of confidence, self respect, and mental toughness. Girls like that.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:58 AM
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Ask her what her opinion of guys who will routinely have sex with an girl, and leads her on with the future possibility of a committed relationship to keep it going. If she thinks "SexZoning" is fair.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:40 AM
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But in general, for a guy to be an effective "social accessory" she wears, you have to be worth bragging about to her friends and family in some way. Which puts us back onto the cock/cash dichotomy.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:29 AM
2

A good follow up: Models by Mark Manson
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:01 PM
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Kind of an aha moment when I realized female romance comes from her subconscious, and then is rationalized to logic. When it comes to "negotiating desire", you aren't trying to convince her logical brain. You're trying to convince her subconscious brain. Do that, and her logical brain will bullshit whatever it can to rationalize her subconscious feelings. But yeah, influencing a girls subconscious, is classed as manipulation. So yeah, all effective romance is manipulation of some sort.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 08:18 PM
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Fair point. But then again that's probably difference between a guys version of chubby "decent but could lose a few", and a girls version of chubby "blatantly fat". But yeah, very good point. The main point I guess is to have an SMV head start on her, so you try to stay at least one point ahead of her. And he who controls the food, controls the weightloss :)
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:39 PM
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100 calories of protein takes more to process, resulting in about 70 net calories. But it's still not unlimited. http://www.precisionnutrition.com/digesting-whole-vs-processed-foods Also excess protein can turn into carbs via gluconeogenesis.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:35 PM
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Agreed. Keto Lowers insulin reducing fat storage, higher leptin/cck making you feel full, more efficient brain powering independent of how much you eat (beta-hydroxybyuterate provides ATP to the brain more efficiently than glucose), which means you will have the mental willpower to stick with it. Adenosine regulation also means better quality sleep, which is also crucial for fat loss and muscle gain. It even lowers intracellular sodium levels in the brain more effectly than medication, which has…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:34 PM
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Even on Keto. Calories still count. But Insulin also counts, and greatly affects the storage rate of calories. And Carbs create the largest insulin reactions. So by lowering calories AND lowering carbs, you are magnifying your calorie reduction. Keto also has "bonus" weightloss, because it burns off all your water weight. A temporary loss for however long you can keep the diet up. But cool to be able to drop 10 pounds in a week.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:18 PM
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Catch being, you have to be manipulative. (I.e. Causing action indirectly) Since you aren't trying to convince her logical brain into bed. If we were, we'd just be telling guys to make themselves into wallets with legs, and talk like Dr. Spock. That does not work on any girl except a faithless gold digger. You are trying to convince her subconscious. Furthermore, Negs are necessary, otherwise we'd be telling a guy to say he loves a girl on the first date. Negs are simply "Doing things you wouldn…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:18 PM
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I'm a big advocate of Models by Mark Manson. Mostly because I'm pathologically honest, and somewhat forgetful. So standard PUA tricks wouldn't work for me. It also seems to be a good way to be congruent, and maintain relationships after a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:08 PM
4

Do the things in life that make you happy.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:01 PM
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Especially if you can learn to cook tasty diet food like a chef, losing weight is no big deal. ketorecipes on reddit But altering a girls personality, even if she wanted to, is extremely difficult. To me, bare minimum I look for A cute face Kindness, even under stress Receptive towards your leadership Even if she's got a bit of chub, that can be fixed. But fixing any of the above ain't gonna happen.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 12:52 PM
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I like to tell myself my free time is worth ATLEAST minimum wage. I make a lot more than that. But it's a decent sanity check which you can explain to others.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:31 PM
1

Here ya go http://sexystyleforjoe.com/ultimate-mans-guide-attractive/
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 03:29 PM
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Guys who take feminists word at face value that they are about equal concern for both genders. When in reality, they are about as "Fair and Balanced" as FOX News.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 02:18 PM
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People treat you the way you allow them to treat you. Call it Pavlovian manipulation, or Dread Game, but ultimately it's demonstrating an obvious and healthy level of self respect, and not allowing the women in your life to extract value out of you without reciprocation.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 09:06 PM
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Well yeah, we are mostly in agreement. So most this is splitting hairs. But not even necessarily an agenda. A lot of the BP dating advice is taking women's dating strategy, and trying to apply it as a man. (I.e. Show empathy, Just be yourself, Just lose weight muscles are icky) Another aspect is the scarcity of beta traits in alpha men a girl is/was dating, and how she complains that she can't get them. (Partially political, partially ingrained, because the standard route is to turn an alpha int…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:51 PM
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Still too simplistic and vague to be useful. I'd break it down to, a man exhibiting: Lack of neediness Dominance / Leadership / Frame Charisma / Game / Humor Muscles / Low Body Fat / Clothing Style / Grooming Social status / Friends / Career . Which as far as I see it, is greatly simplified and targeted compared to the standard definition you receive from society.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 07:06 PM
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Dunno, I'd say the issue at hand is men are less emotional. Therefore more direct. We literally encode emotional memories into our amygdala with a different half of our brain. If a girl is physically attractive, and not an outright asshole. That's 90% of her work done right there. And that female attraction is more about pleasing her subconscious. That shits hard. Mostly because you are dealing with far more unknown and random factors. Women are also equipped with brain power to process far more…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:29 PM
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Lol, there's always an "other" in politics.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:25 PM
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I'm economically left. And while not a feminist, I'd say I'm more of an egalitarian or fairness advocate when it comes to gendered treatment under the law. Everyone deserves the thirteenth amendment, far as I see it. That's the fun part about freedom of speech. Say whatever you want, but don't expect to be respected for it. Lot of conservative stuff is pretty anti-TRP as well, mostly the religion aspect of it. No sex before marriage, anti divorce. And you'd have to be mentally retarded to think …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:22 AM
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Really liking this post.
/r/ThankTRP07/08/14 08:10 PM
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Want more mental energy, better sleep, and mood regulation? Eliminate carbs from your diet. It powers your brain differently to provide an excess amount of ATP (brain fuel). It tweaks with your adenosine receptors to provide better sleep. In addition to adenosine, which also has an effect on mood, it also lowers your brains extracellular sodium levels. An effect similar to the active mechanism of calming agents like Lithium. (It's been studied to be clinically effective for treating bipolar diso…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:04 PM
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My advice? Lift heavy weights, regularly. Upgrade your wardrobe. Learn to cook, tasty and healthy. Get a job. (Suggested purchases: Whey, Creatine, and a blender bottle) * http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ * http://ketorecipes.reddit.com * http://sexystyleforjoe.com/ultimate-mans-guide-attractive/ Other than that, car+secluded location. When I was in a similar situation, one gimmick I used was a bunch of movies on a tablet, then I mangled a spare tablet case, with Velcro, into something I could mount …
/r/seduction07/08/14 02:02 PM
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Could be he just reasoned that so many people mentioned that their sex lives went to shit after marriage.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:13 PM
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Growing mine out, but I still "trim"/prune it a little bit with a haircut shaver to keep it looking less bushy and more cohesive.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:01 PM
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That's amazing. I'll have to read through it all. Another one I've seen is this aspect (Which affected the baby boomers themselves) http://www.returnofkings.com/5597/your-parents-were-middle-class-because-of-the-soviet-union
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 10:25 PM
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Read / Listen to these two books and you will know: No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover Models by Mark Manson In general, it's by being less Needy, more truthful to yourself, and by getting validation from friends and yourself
/r/askTRP06/08/14 09:49 PM
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http://imgur.com/jptmrTA.jpg http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/13/just-be-yourself/
/r/seduction06/08/14 09:11 PM
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Models by Mark Manson is a good follow-up book, which takes a similar concept, and applies it to game.
/r/seduction06/08/14 09:01 PM
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Especially considering if you kill off a lot of men through war, then give them a bunch of money through the GI bill, and they come back sporting a lot of muscles from military training. Yeah, that's a substantially different scenario than you have today.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 08:03 PM
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Thought it was 50% divorce, and 20% unhappily still together. Leaving a nice shiny 30% likelyhood of a happy marriage.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:08 PM
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Agreed to an extent, could even toss in a good career into things. That said, videogames aren't entirely bad. I've been focusing myself on developing a library of 4 player "local coop" videogames. They are actually pretty solid to maintaining the group of friends I got. And Rockband with a full setup, can make for some awesome parties.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 12:30 AM
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Models by Mark Manson if they aren't in a relationship No More Mr Nice Guy if they are in a relationship. It's basically redpill advice with the more objectionable parts taken out, or reworded to sound more mainstream.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 11:30 PM
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It's even easier than that of they go low carb. Since it reduces fat storage rates due to less insulin, and reduces hunger by upping Leptin and CCK.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 10:22 PM
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If you find a better way, let me know.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:20 PM
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If you're worried about dishonesty, then read/listen to this. It's kind of amazing as far as pickup artist books go. It all boils down to Lack of neediness Dominance / Leadership Charisma / Game / Humor Muscles / Low Body Fat / Clothing Style / Grooming Social status / Friends http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00C93Q5KK?pc_redir=1406546541&robot_redir=1
/r/askTRP05/08/14 04:25 PM
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Chivalry is dead because a rich lord isn't pimping out his daughters virginity, sexual monopoly, eventual Lordship and huge piles of dowry money anymore. Chivalry was for impressing the father. First off, that's fucked up. Second off, Chivalry without any weird medieval scenario like that is still a fucked up concept.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 08:23 AM
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Sexual interest, then Sexual apathy/disinterest
/r/trpGAME05/08/14 01:15 AM
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Blunt? Okay sure. You have a goofy haircut. Reminds me of stuff I used to have. You should speak a bit more assertively It's hard to trust "Do this and get massive gains", if you have average looking arms If it weren't for the focus on peer reviewed studies I would have dismissed this entirely In this post it took you a long time to start talking about HIT, and it was buried in a wall of text Are there any more well-known HIT routines. For instance, maybe something by Jim Stoppani
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 08:51 PM
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Coworker, in a long term committed relationship. Years later, I change jobs, get back to being friends. They break up. I'm interested, she's not.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 07:26 PM
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Doubt it's so much against LTRs as it is selection bias. Guys in LTRs aren't nearly as active in dating advice forums, such as this one. TRP you often see the promotion of serial monogamy. (I.e. string of LTRs, but no marriage) Since the problem with marriage is that a guy gives up his leverage, where as a woman does not.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:23 PM
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Thank you. I think I needed that.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 04:14 PM
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Interesting. The reason I was thinking inward makes more sense is it feels a lot easier to help a girl get out her negative emotions, and help her deal with it, if she isn't trying to turn me into an opponent. I.e. We're on the same team. Am I being unrealistic?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 03:42 PM
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Well I guess it's more of a "she's gonna get emotionally torn up, such is the nature of women." But the main issue is being her to not aim that negativity at me. Said another way, a girl who errors on the side of aiming her negativity inward, rather than outward. Although a lot of that is largely my responsibility. Whether she views me as an emotional pushover or not. So point taken.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 03:23 PM
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Cool. Was mostly reconfirming my bare minimums to myself. Cute face Kindness under stress Sanity under stress. (Or worded another way, good at keeping her neurosis's in check. Since I'm not expecting zero of that.) Everything past that can mostly be improved upon if need be.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 03:05 PM
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Interesting. So while not a perfect defense, aiming to date girls who are relatively rational decision makers would move you away from sluts. I.e. Sanity, as a high value sexual quality.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:52 PM
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And you seem to be saying guys shouldn't have anywhere in public where it's deemed socially acceptable to openly express sexual interest to women. Which is kind of ridiculous. And in your own words "Extremely Sexist". To the express the view that male sexuality should be restricted to the point of near non-existence in public life. Simply because it would give you a bit of an ego boost. Thank you for demonstrating what it means to be a "True Feminist".
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:00 AM
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On the first bit, I was referring to this: One of those surveys is the 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, for which the Centers for Disease Control invented a category of sexual violence called “being made to penetrate.” This definition includes victims who were forced to penetrate someone else with their own body parts, either by physical force or coercion, or when the victim was drunk or high or otherwise unable to consent. When those cases were taken into account, the …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 04:44 PM
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Men are near equally likely to be sexually harassed. And equally likely to be victims of domestic violence. http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2014/04/male_rape_in_america_a_new_study_reveals_that_men_are_sexually_assaulted.html http://jezebel.com/5509717/domestic-violence-are-women-as-abusive-as-men Men are objectified on the basis of their body, AND wallet. (Flagrantly). Most of this subreddit is angled towards leveraging that fact to your advantage. Men are 3x more likely to be ki…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 07:17 PM
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What I ment to imply is that they are more perceptive of emotion http://bodyodd.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/04/14/17748017-its-true-men-cant-read-womens-emotions-study-confirms And suffer more emotional trauma, and in general lead more emotionally driven lives. For instance, women use a different half of their brain to even record emotional memories.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 11:05 PM
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Click on the anatomy and neurochemical sections: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuroscience_of_sex_differences 80% more receptors on the amygdala for men is a pretty big difference for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 10:10 PM
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The objective is such that holding frame, and being honest are synonymous. Specifically, in the book it defines Neediness as " Your willingness to alter/bend your thoughts/motivations/feelings for the benefit of others, and detriment of your personal truth." By not bending, you are holding frame. Same action, different lingo. Furthermore, women do have some pretty profound neurological differences. Ones that make them more empathic, but also more emotional (positively and negatively). I.e. Scien…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 08:27 PM
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So you got "You don't understand, you're just ignorant" fallacy. A "No true Scotsman" fallacy. Which ignore the actions taken by Feminists, and just restates their supposed intentions. But actions speak far louder than words. A "you disagree with femenism, that must mean you're a woman hater" fallacy. Seriously? That's a pathetic cop-out, and you know it. A refocus on girls in poor countries, even though virtually none of us are looking to date girls like that, so it's kind of irrelevant. As far…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 07:15 PM
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It's definitely oriented towards getting laid. It's just focused on "direct game", (I.e. I want you, but I don't need you) rather than "indirect game" of (i.e. I convinced you that you want me, more than I want you.) It's also focused very RedPill in that it advocates actually being high status, holding frame, lifting weights, powertalk. It even shows a lot of "soft dread" game. And quickly "nexting" girls who won't put out. Main reason I like it is that it's not an act. If you are genuine about…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 04:23 PM
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Bullshit. Nearly every feminist campaign I've seen is asking men to give "positive freedoms" to women. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Positive_liberty Previous first and second wave feminist movements were all about "negative freedoms". http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negative_liberty "Ban bossy" for instance. I.e. Be selectively nice to girls. I.e #YesAllWomen. Which practically treated all men with the hyperbole as potential serial killers. Despite the fact rape rarely happens to women by strangers…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:47 PM
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anything from feeling uncomfortable when a man catcalls you in the street, to feeling scared walking home alone at night in a secluded area – and are treated with love and respect by every man in your life That right there is the problem with modern Feminism. Poor girls in the third world, they need equal opportunity. Sure. If you say you want equal treatment, but then expect special treatment, you are a lying hypocrite. Men don't get any of that shit. So why should you? Trying to conflate the t…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:22 PM
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Correct on the sugar. But if anything people should eat more fat and salt, and less carbohydrates. http://m.today.com/health/ending-war-butter-are-fatty-foods-really-ok-eat-2D79795749 http://finance.yahoo.com/news/sweden-shifts-national-dietary-guidance-150000641.html
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:06 AM
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Girls are picky as they can afford to be. And considering how women can just half ass a profile on OKC or Tinder, and have plenty of offers.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 12:35 AM
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Build a stronger mental support structure If you're worried about a location, then tour the location when it's empty ahead of time Worried about friends/girls/job? Attract more, maintain the skills get new ones, and maintain the ones you have. If you could really screw yourself over by sleeping in too late for an exam. Then set two alarms to wake up. Rather than living your life hanging on by a string, build a sturdy rope. Be more resilient, and change won't scare you so much.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:19 PM
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That's really interesting to know, thanks
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 08:48 PM
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How do you turn it on? Showing a lack of neediness Dominance Social status / pre-selection I'd suggest you get off email, by asking her for her phone number. Email conversations are too slow and emotionless. After that, start dating other girls in the meantime. Nothing turns the oven on more than jealousy. But it also shows her "That I got options", and you aren't being too needy towards her. Also, do cool shit with friends, so you have something to talk about. Also, go lift weights at the gym "…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 02:57 PM
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Well, if there's any truth to this, lifting weights in the morning is a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 12:55 AM
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Any particular reason why you're focusing on magazine articles instead of peer reviewed physical science journals? Also, wanna take a guess what's different about the warming trend since around 1965? http://imgur.com/x6tETj2.jpg http://imgur.com/plzTOEC.jpg
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 07:29 PM
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I thought this subreddit was all about avoiding "Feelz before Realz". And taking a more empirical view about reality. http://data.giss.nasa.gov/gistemp/graphs_v3/ http://www.skepticalscience.com/ice-age-predictions-in-1970s-intermediate.htm http://www.skepticalscience.com/volcanoes-and-global-warming-intermediate.htm Really, if the Pentagon said they were 90% certain Iran was gonna launch a nuke at us, you'd be the one banking on the off-chance they were wrong?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:42 PM
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And there we have it. The conspiracy theorist unleashed :) Let the ignorance flow through you my son. All the academies of sciences around the world and largest military's agree, but clearly science is wrong because you're butthurt that it might cost something to fix it. Your "current cooling" is just a strong El Nino in 1998, and a strong La Nina in 2008. Two unrelated events that only last a few months at a time, that have to do with the oceans shuffling around heat, and have next to nothing t…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:51 PM
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Primarily was thinking various forms of solar thermal, usually based on mirror arrays, and heating fluid, including ones that can run at night due to heat storage in molten metal. High altitude wind has some promise, since jetstreams are nearly constant. But EGS Geothermal appears to be our best bet for baseload. Drill 1 mile deep anywhere on earth, grab a tiny tiny bit of the potential heat, pour some water down, pull the water up, and you got way more energy than the world could ever need. Ene…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:45 PM
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Not really. Low carb high fat is easy. But that's because it provides extra brainpower. And extra hunger controlling hormones. Low calorie on a normal diet, you need glucose to have the willpower to not eat glucose. It's a vicious cycle.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:45 AM
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You mean this? http://foxhoundstudio.com/blog/fitness-lifestyle/the-ideal-male-physique-%E2%80%94-what-girls-want-want-guys-want-to-be/
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:33 AM
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I'd love to see any solid evidence for why you would ever think tax cuts for the wealthy ever grew jobs. But so far it's just sounding like some Laffer curve non-sense. (Which only made any sense because they claimed social security funds from the baby boom generation as general fund revenue) You say it's not debatable that trickle down economics has solid evidence that it works. Where's the evidence? For greener energy sources, they'd be kicking all kinds of ass if we'd stop subsidizing coal so…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:19 AM
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Tax cuts for wealthy people during a time of low consumer demand does not encourage hiring more employees, they just hold onto their money and wait for consumer demand to pick back up again. (Aka tax cuts for the wealthy is retarded) Spending more yearly on military than the other next 15 developed countries, combined, isn't sustainable. Healthcare financing is a shit ton cheaper in other countries due to government involvement. On average they spend half per capita what we do, and get equal or …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:37 AM
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Just because conservatives may have social policy more in line with TRP doesn't mean I'm willing to jump off the deep end and start believing in trickle down economics. Generally I don't look to late night news for dating tips.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:57 AM
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Please please please, don't do crossfit. That's just signing yourself up for a sports injury and paying an overpriced trainer to give it to you. Focus on your form. Don't try to shoe-horn in a time pressure on it. Start light. Then lift heavy. Rather than flailing around without any sort of targeted goal.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:59 PM
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A scary concept. That not only is it AFBB. But even if you became a dutiful BB, that a woman still wouldn't be truly happy. To use a metaphor, it's like realizing if you kept going down the road you were headed, you would have run your car right off a cliff. Gives you a mix of relief, horror, and survivors guilt.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 05:57 PM
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I highly suggest this book, Models by Mark Manson. Pairs very nicely with no more mr nice guy. (Try reading some of the reviews) Main takeaway, a lack of neediness is one of the most attractive traits in a man. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00C93Q5KK?pc_redir=1405959619&robot_redir=1 And, Go lift heavy weights, regularly. (Suggested purchases: Whey, Creatine, and a blender bottle) * http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ * ketorecipes on reddit * http://sexystyleforjoe.com/ultimate-mans-guide-attractive/
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:13 PM
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Common sense often just translates to "common assumption". And given the dogmatic cultural focus on "Women are just as logical as men, and believe in unconditional true love and loyalty". It's a bit of a game changer to realize that's not true. To me, the biggest game changer was to realize what women really want is a guy with a hot body, social status, dominance, and a lack of neediness. When you hear girls complaining about how they want kindness, empathy, care-taking, and commitment. What the…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:18 PM
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Another takeaway. Get someone to take high quality DSLR photos of you. Pay a professional to do it if need be. Since if your photo is +90% of your impact on the website. The quality of it matters. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/dont-be-ugly-by-accident/
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 01:05 AM
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Yup http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/13/just-be-yourself/
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 08:30 PM
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"Just be yourself, and get out there!"
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 12:38 PM
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Well, I highly suggest this book's section on how to hold conversations http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00C93Q5KK?pc_redir=1405959619&robot_redir=1 Some simple rules I've seen to carry conversations, Try to be fun/engaging rather than funny (I.e. quality delivery is far more important than content) If you forget the perfect word to describe what you're talking about, then just keep going, and use 10 to 20 words to describe it, sometimes asking if the other person knows what you're talking about. …
/r/askTRP26/07/14 04:25 PM
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I've found that almost every time I find myself in a "This is almost perfect, but now I'm starting to worry if it's perfect, or if people won't like me if I express a unique opinion" I usually have been applying the "it's good enough" rule. One of the biggest problems as someone who is socially anxious is that you filter yourself too much. So you have to actively allow yourself to share your "somewhat unfiltered" self. As far as the social stuff, sign up an account for http://meetup.com Join a b…
/r/askTRP26/07/14 03:46 PM
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In general, the happiness studies I've seen are basically More accomplished than your peer group Hedonic Treadmill Avoiding shitty life decisions
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 06:35 AM
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Fair point. If that's the case, he should probably get Models by Mark Manson http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00C93Q5KK?pc_redir=1405373968&robot_redir=1
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:41 PM
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Way I've heard it described. Happiness isn't the goal, it's the byproduct of achieving your goals. Therefore, the only way to maintain happiness, is permanent challenge and achievement. Stop challenging yourself, and you'll ultimately stop being happy.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 08:00 PM
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Here's something I always felt was useful. Google: Nina Hartley Eat Pussy Pretty useful to have that technique ready. That way, even if you can't get it up, or prematurely cum, you can fallback on eating her out. Which is good by itself, but also usually by the time you've finished that, you've either had enough time for your dick/mind to recover, or you can totally ask for a blowjob with her feeling like she owes it to you. And from there, you got a rock hard dick, wet pussy, and a girl demandi…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 07:39 PM
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Agreed there. Also helps with your endurance in bed. But me, I'm still in the newbie-gains phase. And somewhat monk mode. I wanted some fat loss up front, looked at HIIT, Leangains, and Ketogenic Dieting. I chose the last one, because it matched my goals better. And because if you increase the calories, it goes from a cut to a bulk.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 05:47 PM
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Cardio would still be catabolic. Granted some people try to do HIIT in between lift days instead of standard cardio to lessen it's catabolic effect.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 05:03 PM
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Stronglifts 6 days a week? I'd be scared of the catabolism of my gains :/
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:54 PM
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If you can get them to listen to this, they'd be golden: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00C93Q5KK?pc_redir=1405373968&robot_redir=1
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:47 PM
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I'd say, talk about redpill, but in bluepill terms. Also, No More Mr Nice Guy, and Models are relatively good RP books, minus the RP lingo. With the core tenants of setting effective boundaries, and honesty respectively.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:38 PM
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Not only such a big deal. But why "All you guys think about is getting sex.... pathetic." Well yeah, because without that, it's just "really good friends". Not dating. A guy doesn't go on a dating site to find friends. He's looking for girls who want to fuck. The girl on the other hand just needs to spend 5 minutes on a tinder profile, make it really obvious she wants sex now, and have a selection of guys willing to take her up on the offer, that very same day.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 06:28 PM
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Simple answer. Become an 8 yourself. Go lift heavy weights, regularly. (Suggested purchases: Whey, Creatine, and a blender bottle) http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ http://ketorecipes.reddit.com/ http://sexystyleforjoe.com/ultimate-mans-guide-attractive/
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:15 PM
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I'd say it is manipulative. But doesn't need to be dishonest. Models is a really good book on Honest game.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 12:56 AM
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Lol, well that was entertaining. Seriously though, sexy gay guys are awesome. They build desire in women, but they aren't competition.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 12:50 AM
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Interesting. Almost sounds like it was a shit-test to see if she could break your frame, and you passed.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 12:33 AM
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Actually that was from the linked post. Some lady was bashing TRP, that it's manipulative. Well yeah. But so are women. It's an arms race, and you'd be a fool just to disarm yourself willingly.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 11:52 PM
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Reading through Models, and he kinda demystifies what "Creepy" means. It's basically unwanted sexual advances. Which is entirely subjective to what the girl finds to be wanted versus unwanted. So quite literally, the only ways to be "non-creepy" if you're making sexual advances are Be attractive Don't be unattractive
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:53 PM
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"Part of red pill beliefs is that the women in your life are trying to game you, and you shouldn't trust them." Yeah.... Pot. Kettle. Black.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 08:14 PM
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Sounds great, but for the life of me, I can't seem to get donotlink to work on android
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:38 PM
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Men's rights says the world is unfair to men, and so the world needs to change. TRP says the world is unfair to men, and so the individual man needs to change. TRP takes personal responsibility, and does something about it. MRA just complains, and feels self pity in inaction.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:41 PM
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I agree, but also there is a difference. A hallmark of BP is putting forward a big investment, and hoping she reciprocates. And how dare you feel "entitled" if you give a girl everything she wants, and still she says no. A prostitute, there's none of that. You are literally/legally entitled to sex. So not sure where this would fall. But TRP seems to focus on not continuing investing resources, if it's not going to be reciprocated with sex. And to do things in life that make you happy. So it's a …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:55 AM
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It's hard to drive to where you want to go, if you're reading the wrong map. And if you do get there, you "got lucky". And you're scared as hell about going back driving again if the place you got to actually sucks, because you only stumbled on it by luck in the first place. TRP provides a more accurate map of reality.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:37 AM
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Or force them to either reject you, or accept you. If they reject you, and still want to be friends, fine. But make it clear you are going to be more selfish with your time/energy/money resources, and that this is the reason why. Special treatment ends now.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:10 AM
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Generally, if you take physical/conversation risks, and she lets you get away with it. Or better yet if she obviously likes it.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:03 AM
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I would say "Communication" works, if it's from the girl to the guy. Guys think and speak directly. Bluntly. Factually. From the guy to the girl though, it needs to be Sub-Communication. And in particular, powerful Sub-Communication, such as Dread Game, Holding Frame, Avoiding Neediness, and anything classed as "PowerTalk". Implied.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 11:54 PM
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Why? Because women like to be in relationships with people they consider as equal or "better" than themselves. Because a lot of the qualities that make a man attractive, are really just a lack of neediness, dominance, and social status. Men's major role is to cause shit to happen. So they have to ask the girl out, start and guide conversations, plan out dates, escalate things sexually. Meanwhile women get be largely passive when it comes to beginning a relationships. Be available, pretty, happy,…
/r/askTRP22/07/14 11:22 PM
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Always was an interesting form of cognitive dissonance how people try to claim thoughts aren't connected to biology. As if we're remote controlling our body from another dimension or something.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 10:23 PM
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No it wouldn't be better. Part of the benefit of TRP is feeling like you have won the enthusiastic consent from women. They aren't obligated to be with you. They desire to be with you. Think of that scene from the movie "Coming to America", where this prince is down his bride who is completely obedient, but only on the basis of his status that he was born into. He didn't earn her compliance, so he didn't value it. If anything he was creeped out by it.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 06:20 PM
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Not so much TRP as traditionalist. There's a lot of overlap. But I'd say they are different.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 06:14 PM
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True, for guys, lift. But the complaint of the OP is that the girl should get to the gym. Me, I'd rather a girl cook tasty diet food and otherwise be a couch potato, rather than spending hours per week on a treadmill.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 06:02 PM
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I'd say the problem is that I fucks up the ratio when the amount of fit guys outnumbers the amount of fit girls.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 05:11 PM
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Agreed. If you want muscle, lift weights. And while appreciated on women for a "toned" look, is secondary. If you want to lose fat, 95% of that it's gonna be diet. When an hour on the treadmill is equivalent to one cookie. And running on a treadmill for an hour makes you hungry. You aren't going to have any meaningful fat loss from the gym unless it's backed by a rigid diet plan. As far as diets go, low carb seems the best (and tastiest) to me. Meat, cheese/cream, nuts, green veggies, berries, d…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 03:00 PM
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I've heard that. Tonguing her asshole by surprise after eating her out as an effective escalation into anal sex. But if she's not okay with it, it's a lot easier to de-escalate.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 02:38 PM
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You want to get an enthusiastic blowjob right? Well then you better get to work with your tongue on her first. A lot of girls can only come from clitoral stimulation, and fingers aren't nearly as effective as tongue. Also makes follow-up orgasms easier, and requires a lot less patience than other forms of foreplay. One could say, it's even more aggressive. Dominant. Mind blowing sex is key to "repeat customers".
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 02:32 PM
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Got an answer for ya Working my way through Models by Mark Manson. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1463750358?pc_redir=1404955194&robot_redir=1 http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00C93Q5KK?pc_redir=1405234050&robot_redir=1 It's focused on "Honest" game. It's actually pretty eye opening, and very in line with TRP. Essentially most PUA stuff is to give the illusion of high SMV. This book suggests you actually be high SMV, and leverage advantages you have in your personal niche demographics group.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 10:30 PM
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Just because a couple looks happy, doesn't mean they really are. There could be a severe lack of sex, domestic abuse, pussywhipped behavior or mental issues underneath the happy image a couple projects to the world.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 10:24 PM
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But is that causation, or correlation? Maybe women are more likely to initiate, and stay in a relationship with a guy who earns a lot of money. (And avoid / leave marriages where the man doesn't have a lot of money)
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 09:51 PM
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You don't need to be married to be roommates-with-benefits.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 08:57 PM
2

Here's a question. Let's say I'm into Asian/White girls, and not really into Latinas. (Geekier is a plus) Would I be better off with some other dance than salsa? Thinking different demographics of girls would be attractived to different styles. Swing dance for instance was what I was thinking might make more sense.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 08:19 PM
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Cooler full of beer, camp chairs around a fire, and a deck of cards against humanity. Good times.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 08:16 PM
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The way I've heard this described is that dating advice from women is often them projecting their own girl version of dating "game". Which primarily boils down to, be attractive, passive, and avoid showing any obvious signs of mental issues.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 08:06 PM
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Something to teach him how to actually study, and comprehend in the long run. Not just cram for tests, then forget it afterwards.
/r/becomeaman18/07/14 10:31 PM
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I think it's more like "All women are going to feel that feel, and their logical self may or may not be able to overcome, but also make sure you bring enough to the table that she actually has the opportunity to think"
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:20 PM
2

You forgot Michelle Malkin, for the "I can be super racist on TV, because I'm not white" angle. But yeah wow, didn't know it was that bad.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:14 PM
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It's a powerful form of Sub-Communication
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 11:31 PM
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Wow that was kinda trippy watching those 4 people in the same room, and way younger than I think if then now.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 08:21 PM
1

As nice as DoNotLink is, it didn't work for shit on Chrome with an android phone :/
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 05:58 PM
1

Sounds like AFBB to me. But what if the reason guys are "Jerks" is because they can afford to be. They don't need to pander, and they are used to getting what they want. They don't need to be in a relationship to get a steady supply of sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 05:34 PM
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To the last question, I'd say yes. The main problem is that divorce/custody/childsupport law hasn't kept pace with the spirit of actual equality. Add in the possible technological advancement of painless/cheap/reversible/safe male vasectomy. And that's certainly going to atleast even the playing field. How that actually affects a country though, has yet to be seen.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:31 PM
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Was BP as they come, tired to learn PUA but it seemed hollow, and my memory isn't fantastic, so it seemed too daunting. Seemed like trying to become something I'm not, to bang chicks I don't care about. Then I got into a relationship with a girl I settled for. Tried to make it work, but she was seriously neurotic. She wanted kids, but that got me to objectively look at what I'd want in a partner to raise kids. And she wasn't it. So I ended it. Also doesn't hurt that my sister is a divorce attorn…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 10:37 PM
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Not so much logical, as empirical. Logically girls behavior is confusing as fuck. It's a paradigm shift. Doesn't matter how much logic you apply, if you're applying it to a false mental map of reality.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 09:40 PM
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Well to reframe the whole discussion. Desire is sexy. Desperation/Neediness is not. If anything, Models by Mark Mason practically reframes the vast majority of a sexy personality, is desire without neediness. Almost all the negative BP traits we see on this sub, are an expression of Neediness.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 02:30 PM
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No idea how to help on an injury. But if you are looking for a cut / lean bulk approach to do in the meantime while your gains are stalling, I suggest learning low carb dieting. ketogains on reddit ketorecipes on reddit
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:01 AM
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Which is why I never understood nofap. Fapping but not finishing helps you last longer when you actually do the deed. Since you practice controlling your ability to avoid finishing. Probably gets a few kegels, ups semen production and testosterone boosts as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 11:52 PM
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Peasant no more :) I also like that when you adjust the weight, it does all the math for you on how heavy the plates you should be loading on each side of the bar. http://imgur.com/9gUmm3J.jpg
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 11:24 PM
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Shrug, I'm liberal, 32, I believe that the economic system should be for the greater good of supporting society, not the other way around. Women deserve equal opportunity, and rights under the law. Having money isn't necessarily equivalent to diligence. In fact, a lot of the way money is acquired at the high end nowadays is more about high stakes gambling, and lying rather than diligent meritocracy. Tax cuts for rich people don't create jobs. Food stamps are a fantastic investment in society. He…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:56 PM
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Very true, but like said, it's like a Wikipedia article. If it links back to a legit peer reviewed study, cool. Otherwise, don't take it at face value.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:27 PM
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Here's a variety of studies http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/08/gender_pay_gap_the_familiar_line_that_women_make_77_cents_to_every_man_s.html Elsewhere I've seen men earning higher bonuses and starting pay often attributed to men negotiating more often than not, where as women almost always don't.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:25 PM
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Then I suggest trying to hijack yourself into someone else's group of friends. Or just make events and invite as many acquaintances as possible. Gotta start somewhere, even if it's one coworker, or random stranger you had a good conversation with the other day.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:40 PM
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If only it wasn't supported by the American Enterprise Institute :( I really like objectivity, and they seem to be more focused on agenda, instead of facts. On that note, been finding I like works by Hannah Rossin. http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2013/08/gender_pay_gap_the_familiar_line_that_women_make_77_cents_to_every_man_s.html Oh well, I guess trust her stuff like Wikipedia articles. And go to the referred literature, instead of taking her word at face value.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 08:35 PM
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My main problem with feminism. If you want equal treatment? Sure, that's fair. (I.e. If you want to dish out ad hominem, you better be able to receive it right back.) But if you demand special treatment, under a banner of equal treatment, you drastically weaken the morality of your argument. If you want equal treatment, you better be prepared for not just the good parts of that deal, but the shitty parts as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 07:47 PM
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I find the StrongLifts android app to be really helpful.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 07:12 PM
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Well me, I compromised on that (Assuming you're in a relationship) Still do porn, masturbation. But, don't finish. And also, an open invitation that if there's ever a mixup, where I do finish, but she actually wanted it later, that you'd eat her out with a passion. (Usually because she didn't want period sex, but I'm not sure exactly when that's over) To me, lust is like hunger. Sure, you want to be "hungry" and ready for a big meal, but you don't want to be "starving" either.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:56 PM
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Far as I see it, car camping is awesome. Primarily for the fireside talks you get. Add beer, friends and people tend to be really uninhibited and honest in what they talk about. Cards Against Humanity helps too. But if you got a town where there's lot of empty space, then just build yourself a firepit, and get yourself a couple camping chairs. Boom, similar effect.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:43 PM
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Well then, time to start some shit yourself maybe. Me personally, I've invested in 4 player Steam games, a hdmi ready laptop, and 4 xbox controls. Or maybe try other group websites, like Yahoo groups, Google groups, Facebook groups There's gotta be something cool you could do out in the middle of nowhere. Maybe go camping, with a shared potluck, a cooler full of beers, a lot of firewood, and Cards Against Humanity (great game for getting even the most reserved people to come out of their shell) …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 05:08 PM
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http://meetup.com Find some interests, and go do stuff. And be prepared to make friends.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:38 PM
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Everyone knows that thin spaghetti sauce, and rich dark roasts of coffee are best. It's what people say they wanted. Problem is, that's not true in taste tests. http://youtu.be/iIiAAhUeR6Y I don't care what people say works, I care what actually works.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 11:16 PM
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Models by Mark Manson No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover http://stronglifts.com/5x5/ ketogains on reddit ketorecipes on reddit http://sexystyleforjoe.com/ultimate-mans-guide-attractive/ The top two books are related, since they refer to game/frame over the long haul, with authenticity. One the biggest issues I had with a lot of seduction/relationship books is they had you trying to become someone you're not, to bang girls you wouldn't enjoy hanging out with. Me, I'm a recovering "Nice Guy", bu…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 01:46 PM
1

According to a two year study that covered 16,000 peer reviewed science studies. Low Carb dieting is by far the most effective diet for weight loss. http://finance.yahoo.com/news/sweden-shifts-national-dietary-guidance-150000641.html;_ylt=A0SO8xtZQcFTQAoA85dx.9w4;_ylu=X3oDMTE0aGw1aWl1BHNlYwNzcgRwb3MDNgRjb2xvA2dxMQR2dGlkA01PVVMxOTBfMQ-- Especially if you have any significant degree of insulin resistance, which 1 in 3 American adults do. http://www.cdc.gov/diabetes/prevention/prediabetes.htm But I…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 01:42 PM
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Keto, calorie counting, intermittent fasting, preprepared meals, hiit, strong lifts 5x5
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 01:08 PM
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I would say that's my main problem with feminism. The extent that they are asking for equal treatment, versus special treatment. Equal opportunity, versus Affirmative action.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 09:03 PM
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Hell yes to Models. His perspective on the concept of Neediness practically feels like a unifying principle of attraction and pickup by which so many concepts can be judged. Negging, social circle, frame, creeps, jerks, friendzone, BP, Career Driven, Confidence, Dominance, Low Self Esteem, Arrogance, Leading. It all can be viewed through the lense of reduced "Neediness".
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 08:09 PM
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Read Models and No more Mr Nice Guy "Confidence" is largely just conflated with a lack of "Neediness". (I.e. You should be less Needy, than your the girl you're looking to get with) I.e. You willingness to alter/bend your thoughts/motivations/feelings for the benefit of others, and detriment of your personal truth. I.e. have a strong sense of self worth, and hold frame I.e. TRP in a nutshell
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 05:08 PM
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It's a bit of both. Partially because there's a lot of cash and prizes for women in divorce. A monetary incentive. Especially if she can upgrade in this department on the next guy. But it's also attraction based. Since as you mentioned, society has hyped up romantic qualities for men, while ignoring and shaming masculine qualities. So the answer is, both sides are right.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 03:28 PM
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Just gonna say Robert Glover - No More Mr Nice Guy Mark Manson - Models Is pretty eye opening on this subject. Mark practically narrowed it all down to a unifying theory that an Attractive personality to women is inversely correlated to Neediness. Neediness as defined by: "The degree you sacrifice/alter your own thoughts/feelings/motivations for someone else" And while zero Neediness is impossible, a man should always have less than the woman, or she will lose attraction.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:46 AM
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In short, women will always be able to offer sex as a relationship bargaining chip. So men will always need to be more impressive in some way than the woman. For a lot of guys, their counter offer is money. Some guys it's game/humor/storytelling. Some guys it's style. Some fitness/muscles. Cooking. Godly sex. Ignoring sex, guys have to have more self worth, or they are eliminated from the gene pool.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 10:29 PM
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"Don't lie with the facts, lie with the assumptions"
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 09:02 PM
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Depends. If the women are seeking an LTR, and you aren't, women would suffer. (But then again, sex doesn't entitle a girl to an LTR, any more than Friendzone would entitle a guy to sex) If women are seeking an LTR, and the guy is seeking an LTR, then it's mutually beneficial. (Especially considering women need to feel they are dating-up/hypergamy) So men having an advantage is necessary for a relationship to be healthy. Casual sex and casual sex? Mutually beneficial. If the women is just a gold …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 01:16 PM
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