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Carlito_Brigante/r/seduction20/09/12 01:34 AM
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I'm 33 years old brother and have been doing pick up for a good while. I'll tell you that most of the times I roll solo and its fine. I have no issues picking up women younger than me and do so pretty often. It's really one of those things that will only bother you if you let it. I actually find I have more success going out solo because I'm not tied down worrying about where my friends are or what they're doing at the bar. I just go with the flow.
/r/seduction19/06/14 12:50 AM
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I didn't pick the term, but I agree. Sounds like dungeons n Dragons or something.
/r/seduction22/02/13 08:07 PM
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See you there
/r/seduction22/02/13 02:22 AM
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Yeah Miami needs a good lair.
/r/seduction19/02/13 11:38 PM
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The more the merrier. I don't think there's any criteria for being a sedditor except wanting to improve yourself. Come down to Foxhole, its a cool place, plenty of girls and no cover. Great place to start the night.
/r/seduction19/02/13 02:41 AM
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I don't think so.
/r/seduction19/02/13 02:37 AM
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I think there are some good lessons summarized in the first paragraph.
/r/seduction20/09/12 12:23 PM
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I don't really smoke. She got one off some AFC and gave it to me.
/r/seduction04/09/12 12:36 PM
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I've approached women regularly without pickup tactics for many years, but have been studying and practicing PUA for almost two years. Thanks, the funny thing is that four or five years ago I would have looked up to these guys. Honestly, you can look like a male model and still be an AFC. Each success builds on the next just remember to give value and learn that being alpha is more than just being the biggest loudest or most obnoxious. Oh and don't neg, women are familiar with it and many have s…
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:53 AM
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Any good resources you suggest for the types of cognitive behavioral therapy you mentioned?
/r/seduction04/09/12 03:43 AM
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No man, actually I am happy for OP. I'm just saying this really is not relevant to this forum at all. Believe me bro I've been there and done that.
/r/seduction08/08/12 09:18 PM
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This is not PUA this is just awkward white guy getting taken advantage of by SE Asia hoes. I saw way too much of this when I was in SEA, dudes think they're Don Juan when they go to a place like Vietnam/Thailand and all of a sudden they are attractive to girls whose families make the equivalent of $100 a month. If that's your thing I can't knock your hustle but that is not PUA. This is just being a big fish in a little pond and oftentimes borders on being a John. SEA is rife with guys like OP. I…
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:38 PM
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Yea man I had no idea those were your stomping grounds as I kind of took a hiatus from Seddit (but not pickup) a couple of months ago when the quality was going to shit. It seems like its really improved though. I had never been to SF before then but we hung out at some Irish Punch Bar that was alright very chill scene. Thanks for the appreciation, hopefully I'll get my shot at a some freaky three way action Tofu style. As far as State goes hanging out with my LA buddy who actually is interested…
/r/seduction19/03/12 12:48 AM
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This was dope all around. Reminds me of one of my first pickups which I'll have to get around to posting when I have time.
/r/seduction18/03/12 10:29 PM
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I don't even come onto this subreddit until I have an FR. Take action people.
/r/seduction22/12/11 12:56 AM
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yea I think pics in FRs are important for obvious reasons
/r/seduction11/12/11 11:07 PM
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Didn't watch 'em all, the Indian guy's body language was good, his delivery was kind of meh.
/r/seduction11/12/11 10:46 PM
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yea check my past field reports.
/r/seduction11/12/11 10:24 PM
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They just gave me lemons. So I made lemonade.
/r/seduction11/12/11 08:21 PM
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I would say something like. Really? We'll have to see. Sexualize the Convo but be subtle.
/r/seduction11/12/11 07:41 PM
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No Miami.
/r/seduction11/12/11 07:05 PM
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When did it become a bad thing to try to fuck girls? And when did it become an even worse thing to succeed? Who gives a fuck what the forever alone subreddit (of all places in the "goddamn" world) thinks of this subreddit? Like most things in life people will not change until they look inward and decide that they cannot live this way anymore. This is the first time I hear about a forever alone subreddit and really the thought repulses me. Why wallow in self pity and affirm that you will always f…
/r/seduction11/12/11 01:57 AM
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I'm an ethnic guy and probably have banged about 50+ chicks in my lifetime. Could easily have banged twice that if I was less selective. Having strong game is more important, I can't count how many times the stereotypical white guy in your post has gone home solo and choded himself out while I take a girl home. Looks are not as important as you think. EDIT: I've had the opposite experience I find it much easier to bag white girls than girls of my own ethnicity. I think a lot of times I get mista…
/r/seduction10/12/11 08:02 PM
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Yes when you go out and approach often you will start to sense which girls are ready to be opened if you hook then you can ramp up attraction from there. Not leaning in is a thing I picked up from RSD, with one caveat and that is once you have interest it is OK to lean in and whisper + some kino. You don't want to be distant for so long. Mix it with some freeze outs also as needed. Personally I think a freeze out is good especially when you get a lot of interest from a girl. Often what will happ…
/r/seduction09/12/11 01:04 PM
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Thanks man. Its true they can't, this phenomenon can pick up harder or easier depending on whether you make it work for you.
/r/seduction09/12/11 01:25 AM
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Damn right. The better u get, the more you will hear it from them.
/r/seduction07/12/11 04:03 AM
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Thanks bro. Success builds upon success and success leads to confidence. I remember how much my boys were razzing me about what I was wearing, calling me interview with the vampire and all kinds of shit. Didn't even register.
/r/seduction07/12/11 03:16 AM
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I am glad I'm not the only one who has been annoyed with all the Beta male bullshit posts. You have to get out there and get out of your comfort zone. I feel that this influx of whack ass Redditors is going to destroy this subreddit. Actually I knew it was when I see posts by women getting 100+ comments.
/r/seduction07/12/11 02:35 AM
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Yea he was fucking her right there. Bold move but he should've known better. Later I found out dude was handed over to the cops and booked for indecent exposure or some shit. If you are a guy don't pull your dick out in a nice club (unless you are some sort of celebrity). He could have just waited 30 minutes.
/r/seduction06/12/11 06:27 PM
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Sometimes suits work. [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/47wV9.jpg[/IMG]
/r/seduction28/11/11 05:57 PM
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I'm 32, I have to agree with what iznou said. The game doesn't change although it can get easier when you're older assuming you are also growing as a person. The art of picking up women has been around in one form or another for a very long time. The inner game stuff is good and important for building a good foundation. But, you have TO BE OUT IN THE FIELD. Don't just go to the gym and workout, and then expect women to just show up. You gotta be out there, hit on as many chicks as you can. Crash…
/r/seduction23/11/11 05:06 AM
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I don't open any specific way. My philosophy is that the first words are the hardest to say, so just say any bullshit, but say it well and with conviction. You're not going to be judged on what you say but how you say it. Once that's done I'll steer the conversation towards whatever, but keep good eye contact. One thing for conversation with women that I find really helpful is that when I was in college I studied a lot of existentialist literature. If you can weave some of this stuff into your c…
/r/seduction23/11/11 04:53 AM
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Well it depends on the situation. Without going too deep into it the best thing is to just go in for the kiss as early as you can. If she turns away, at first wait a while and do it again. The more you do this, the more you will get your timing right and eventually you'll be able to sense when she's warmed up.
/r/seduction23/11/11 04:47 AM
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Opening is easy. Eye contact strong voice don't lean in then u can say whatever you want and read the cues.
/r/seduction19/11/11 11:37 PM
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Thanks I will check it out.
/r/seduction19/11/11 11:33 PM
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Fucking gold man. Need to remember this shit in the heat of the moment. Counterintuitive but I think this is one place where I sometimes lose my way. I've incorporated Takeaways and freeze outs to great effect. Need to work on this. Much thanks.
/r/seduction19/11/11 09:29 PM
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Yea logistics are way solid. Live 5 mins away and have a sick bachelor pad.
/r/seduction19/11/11 07:30 PM
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Thanks man. Last night I think I ran into a bit of fool's mate and escalated too far too fast. I think I should have just grabbed her hand and walked her out but the chump in me didn't want to. Sometimes you're afraid of you're own success. I noticed that my style of game works great in the club, but I think I'm too high energy in bar settings and need to calibrate more. My day game is money, but lately haven't had much time to devote to it.
/r/seduction19/11/11 06:53 PM
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Hey you're entitled to your opinion. I'm not going to get into a pissing contest about what works or what doesn't. Why are you so mad? I'm looking for input from what I think is a pretty good community and you flame me because you don't like my terminology? Look if you don't feel like helping out just ignore the thread. There are so many posts here that just ooze bitterness, anger and frustration. I don't get it. The first rule is to have fun. Take it easy, bro.
/r/seduction19/11/11 06:50 PM
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What's up with the hate bro?
/r/seduction19/11/11 06:01 PM
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I think there is some truth to this comment in a different way. Speaking as someone who has studied PUA and become fairly successful at it. When you can go out on any given night (or day) and pick up a girl without much effort you realize that there is so much more to life. For months and months I would just find women and pick them up and had them pursuing me constantly. What did I learn? I learned how much of my self esteem had been intertwined in my ability to meet women. It was kind of like …
/r/seduction08/11/11 03:27 AM
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Axe essence. The deodorant by itself is enough and women like it.
/r/seduction12/08/11 12:50 AM
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Word, the field is not a sitcom and you are not Neil Patrick Harris.
/r/seduction10/08/11 01:56 PM
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Yea, in my mind most chicks are either getting into or getting out of a relationship, and if they are on a solo weekend HoCation in a place like Miami or Vegas, odds are at least one of them is contemplating leaving their relationship as women, much like men are always on the hunt for the next shiny thing. Anyway it makes for an easy cold read.
/r/seduction10/08/11 01:32 PM
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The best way to make them stop is to train yourself not to react to any of their jibes. In fact, revel in them. For example, if I get called a douchebag I own that shit, I fucking go out there and show them how awesome this is. After a while when your friends see that their jibes have no visible effect on you they will get frustrated and stop, or you will stop caring. tl;dr The problem is not so much that they're making fun of you, its that you are letting it affect your state. Take care of the …
/r/seduction10/08/11 01:28 PM
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Well played
/r/seduction10/08/11 01:35 AM
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This needs to be top comment.
/r/seduction09/08/11 09:28 PM
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Lots of demands like "hey come over here" or "you liked my friend better than me that's why you talked to her first." Just have to play like you didn't hear it, smile and let it roll off you.
/r/seduction09/08/11 09:21 PM
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This is right on. You can tell the difference vs a natural and a natural who has studied pickup. These guys are just lethal because they already have the confidence and can adapt PU to particular situations. Like curveball says, lots of guys are really good naturals but they can't close or have other sticking points. Honestly though its really hard to tell the difference between a PUA and a natural in the field as the whole point of PU is to make everything seem as natural as possible during the…
/r/seduction09/08/11 06:03 PM
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See, to me a comment like this reeks of nice guy/beta syndrome. Implicit in your statement is that ANY woman can be owned by a man and is not a fully formed human being capable of making her own decisions. Look, I'm the last one to look at PU as serious business. This is just fun, and we're all having fun. I don't know about the rest of you but there are no magical tricks to the Game and often times its more about approaching until you find a set that hooks and being smart enough to bring it hom…
/r/seduction09/08/11 01:06 PM
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Tons of practice. But also try lots of things and figure out what works. Everyone is different. The biggest thing I learned is that negging is often misused or not even needed. Personally I think the best way to neg is through nonverbal IODs (mystery style). Don't get discouraged you will get better and you'll do it much faster because you've made the decision to help yourself and are committing to studying this stuff. Did you watch his Foundations program? that stuff has great basic info that I…
/r/seduction09/08/11 04:52 AM
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No pickup, especially a single night pickup has ever gone smoothly for me. Shit is not going to go as planned and you have to think on your feet. The things you will learn on Seddit will allow you to pick up on these situations and figure out how you should react. After a while you start to pick up on subtle social cues and its like you start to see the matrix (cliche but true). What I do is treat it like a game where the goal is not so much to meet women but to see how good you can get at the G…
/r/seduction09/08/11 02:07 AM
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yep, dudes who do this end up just DLV'ing themselves. I just don't even react to it.
/r/seduction09/08/11 12:39 AM
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First, Thanks. Dude, by the time I found out this chick was married it was 2 am and one of my boys mentioned it in passing. One thing that I WILL tell you is do not be judgmental. Tyler Durden says this alot and its true. If you don't judge a woman for her sexual past/decisions you will really create attraction. Don't fall into that trap being of being worried about any girl cheating or being a slut etc. is just low value AFC behavior.
/r/seduction09/08/11 12:36 AM
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haha, believe me these two were on the prowl, as I told one of my buds, "she's gonna fuck someone tonight, the only question is who"
/r/seduction09/08/11 12:25 AM
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Ask her out she will say either yes or no. PU is not about how to get that 1 girl PU is about being better with women in general. It drives me nuts when I see these how do I get X girl posts. Honestly bro, you probably blew it when she approached you and you were too in your head to pick up on her IOI and go for it. But do it anyway you never know.
/r/seduction09/08/11 12:12 AM
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Best way to do this quick is take salsa lessons get good at that and you will have great success.
/r/seduction09/08/11 12:03 AM
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Read the Game
/r/seduction03/07/11 06:35 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction03/07/11 06:35 PM
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Dude. Honestly the lines are not important. Eg. I said "you have nice titties" obviously that will not work all the time. What's more important than lines is belief in your own frame and self it sounds abstract but when u feel it you will know its there. If you wanna do lines Ill give u one. I was staying at the W hotel . There was no pool there so I just went around asking chicks where the pool was and saying. "Trick question " sorry for the coherency of this post I am typing this from a seasid…
/r/seduction03/07/11 06:35 PM
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Dude. Honestly the lines are not important. Eg. I said "you have nice titties" obviously that will not work all the time. What's more important than lines is belief in your own frame and self it sounds abstract but when u feel it you will know its there. If you wanna do lines Ill give u one. I was staying at the W hotel . There was no pool there so I just went around asking chicks where the pool was and saying. "Trick question " sorry for the coherency of this post I am typing this from a seasid…
/r/seduction03/07/11 06:34 PM
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Yep. One of the dancers took it.
/r/seduction02/07/11 12:13 AM
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Its something I picked up from a post here on Seddit. Basically you kino her hand while explaining the meaning of a ring on each finger.
/r/seduction23/06/11 02:53 PM
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Sounds creepy and also like you are way too invested in the outcome. If she finds out you did that it will also be a turn off.
/r/seduction23/06/11 01:45 PM
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Yea I mean this is where I'm on the fence. I mean I am basically a good looking white Guy in that most people wouldn't guess my ethnicity unless I told them. If you take a look at the FRs I've posted here I'be done pretty well in Vegas and have no problems with HB 7s and 8s . I'm looking for some next level shit. So if anyone here feels like taking a look at my posts and letting me know if in their opinion its worth it, it would be much appreciated.
/r/seduction23/06/11 01:38 PM
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Thanks for the support. I got to put up some of my numerous failures because you guys are just too nice. and I need some constructive criticism! haha Anyway, I'm 30 but I can make myself look much older or younger depending on how I dress and my facial hair. As far as solo, yes I was completely solo. At my age most of my friends are either married or in LTRs and most dudes aren't into the Game when they go out and will blow your sets with AFC shit. This girl was about 24. Yuppie bars are like an…
/r/seduction21/06/11 11:59 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p3lY10mQmhg
/r/seduction21/06/11 11:37 PM
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Ok, it tends to be very situational but I'll give you a quick example. You are on a Day 2 with a girl, you see a woman with huge fake boobs walk by. Sometimes I will say WTF, is up with these giant beachballs women put on themselves. Don't they know that it feels like a skin covered beachball! I may go on and say something like, 'Its too bad women don't realize what looks good, isn't necessarily what feels good to a man." Another good one would be to bring up Anthony Weiner and the Kanye West so…
/r/seduction21/06/11 06:54 PM
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Thanks though my idea here was to take her to the liquor store where I knew the owner and had good rapport with him, so I let him pick the wine for us like it was no big thing, using the whole thing as another DHV.
/r/seduction21/06/11 06:47 PM
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I don't have any doubt you can get laid online. I've done it numerous times. Honestly, I think this hurts your game though if you are doing it because you are afraid to approach women IRL. If you can do it, by all means go for it but I think the quality of women will never be that of what you would get if you approached IRL. Frankly, I think that the for a woman to put herself online means that her Self Esteem or perceived value has become so low she's lost faith in being able attract a suitable…
/r/seduction21/06/11 06:45 PM
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Ok, cool hooking for me is the toughest. What I do is I just say anything that comes to mind but I say it with good voice and good eye contact, and slooowly. Also, something that is lethally good is to start qualifying HER, this is one of the greatest things I've learned on Seddit. Ask her if she's cool, tell her that you're into nerdy stuff and you're not sure that you'd get along. A good one I've found is ask her if she is anal/a neat freak whatever she says will put her in a qualifying mode. …
/r/seduction21/06/11 01:25 AM
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I used to screw up the push-pulls real bad by physically pushing too hard. What I found is that you make your touch work in like a dismissive/brush off kind of way. I think alot of it is body language, kind of rocking out. One thing I did was in the middle of this girl's convo about her being in med school, I grabbed a coaster, and just folded in half, like a paper football, and then cut her off and made her put her hands up and flicked it at her, then right after I hugged her and said something…
/r/seduction21/06/11 01:16 AM
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Go for it man. Sounds like you are on the right track.
/r/seduction20/06/11 11:47 PM
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Let me know if you want any more detail, or what questions you have. I'll be happy to fill you in. I've got like 3 or 4 more FRs I've been meaning to post here, just haven't got around to it.
/r/seduction20/06/11 11:16 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction26/05/11 09:35 PM
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Look, I totally agree with you. My point is that game is different depending on where you are. There is nothing wrong with recognizing the context and adjusting your game accordingly. I'm new to Seddit and I definitely have a lot to learn from you guys and look forward to it. However, I've been picking up chicks in places for across the globe for over 10 years (without PUA training). I'm just saying that's the way I see it. Maybe I'm mistaken. I will do some field testing this weekend and let yo…
/r/seduction20/05/11 12:59 PM
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Its not that "they could never do that" its just that it would take much more skill to do that in their home country versus a place where you are starting out with a high value just because of what you are. Look dude I am not hating, that shit sounds like a gold mine. I'm just saying that you have to take these FRs in context.
/r/seduction20/05/11 01:57 AM
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I have to agree, as someone who has lived, studied and worked in South America, you can't really take this as instructive. Even the most awkward gringo has value to these women for various reasons too numerous to get into. The point being that picking up chicks in a place like that is great fun and if you have even moderate social pickup skills you will take down so many bitches its not funny. However, I'm not sure what it will do for your game long term, as as soon as you come home you will hav…
/r/seduction19/05/11 11:59 PM
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Thanks dude
/r/seduction17/05/11 01:22 AM
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do you know how I can fix it?
/r/seduction13/05/11 01:38 PM
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It was strange. Frankly, the friend was doable but much less hot than the girl I targeted. I'm not sure what type of women you tend to meet but this is definitely not the first time I've been in a situation like that. I always find that if you can win the friend's approval, she WILL HELP YOU GET LAID, because she wants her friend to have a good time.
/r/seduction27/04/11 02:16 PM
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By that time I had opened a couple of sets and shit was rocking, I was flirting with the girls next to us. Eye contact is a great filter, a cocky stare at every girl will let you know who is down and who isn't. I just locked on to her for about ten seconds kept my body language loose and confident while I was walking up to her and just grabbed her like I knew her for years. What PUAs (I don't consider myself one) say on this board is true, training yourself to have good body language goes a long…
/r/seduction27/04/11 02:10 PM
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By that time I had opened a couple of sets and shit was rocking, I was flirting with the girls next to us. Eye contact is a great filter, a cocky stare at every girl will let you know who is down and who isn't. I just locked on to her for about ten seconds kept my body language loose and confident while I was walking up to her and just grabbed her like I knew her for years. What PUAs (I don't consider myself one) say on this board is true, training yourself to have good body language goes a long…
/r/seduction27/04/11 02:09 PM
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Thanks guys, I try to go by George Jung's motto in Blow; "knowing that my ambition far exceeded my talent." Seddit is getting to be an awesome place. Glad you guys enjoyed the report.
/r/seduction27/04/11 12:54 AM
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This is why, http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/22825753/ns/today-relationships/
/r/seduction25/04/11 12:59 PM
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