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| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.I agree that my trans example was wrongly chosen, I wrote that without thinking. My thought process behind choosing the trans example was aimed at fetishisers who see trans people as sex objects, but refuse to see them as genuine people with a gender identity worth respecting; believe it or not, this is more common than you’d think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 12:22 PM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.Yes, we should all be gay 😈 /s In all seriousness, no. But if you refused to date a bi woman simply because she’s also into women, that would be discrimination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 12:07 PM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.No. First off, why’re you assuming only queer men are in lavender marriages? Second, I never said that, stop putting words in my mouth. Third, lavender marriages were usually between queer men and queer women LMAO straight women were rarely in lavender marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:54 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.I agree. I’m not particularly advocating for people to make dating a free for all, but to acknowledge that it can be brutal, and that “preferences”, valid as they are, can often arise from discrimination. Personal autonomy and consent triumphs all in dating, even morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:14 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.True, women don’t have to save them at all. Personal autonomy and consent triumphs all in dating. Regarding lavender marriages, a personal choice isn’t necessarily bigoted, but a societal stigma against it will feel like throwing queer people under the bus in a hostile society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:02 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.No, you’re a bigot for assuming all white people are unable to build a life with you, you’re generalising them all and attributing a negative characteristic (ignorance and wilful malice) onto them. You’re not a bigot for wanting to vet who enters your life. And as I said, personal autonomy and consent triumphs all in dating, bar nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:57 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.My apologies, I was in a rush (I’m going out with my parents), and I misread your point. It’s fine to prefer certain eye colours. Where it goes wrong is in deeming people with a specific eye colour generally unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:43 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.You prefer someone based on attributes they can’t control. It’s not a death sentence for someone’s moral character to be bigoted in dating, but that the basis is discrimination must be recognised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:38 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.I recognise that my point was taken to an extreme, and I concede that your argument is valid in the lens of an individual being. It’s your right to deny a lavender marriage. But in a society where homosexuality isn’t legal, a general, population wide distaste for lavender marriage can lead to increased danger against homosexual people, or even people suspected of homosexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:37 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.No. We need to make a society where people don’t have to be in constant competition to feel fulfilled. If we make a society where significant standing and acceptance is placed on arbitrary math skills, it is societal discrimination against those with subpar math skills. In our society, money is paramount, and this often leads to societal ostracisation of the poor. Even if people don’t willingly hate on the poor, perpetuating behaviour and structures that lead to this social ostracisation is bigo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:31 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.I agree that we need to find more fulfilling ways to live without making romantic love a paramount goal. My point is that bigotry doesn’t have to necessarily be on an individual level, and it can often be a statistical outcome of many inoffensive choices. Our society makes romantic love something we should all strive towards, and it places social standing on the ability to find a relationship. Women are called bitter cat ladies if they’re not married in their 30s. Men are called losers for not f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:28 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.It’s quite common to associate negative traits with less aesthetically pleasing people compared to more aesthetically pleasing people. It doesn’t have to be conscious, it often happens unknowingly. The halo effect is real. I’ve felt it myself, until I asked myself why I feel the way I did. My friend says she feels less safe around men who are balding or have bad skin and bad facial harmony, even if she doesn’t mean to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:19 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.On a social level, we do condemn those we see as “undeserving” to a life of increased loneliness and emotional suffering. If you subject someone to a negative experience based off immutable traits, it’s bigotry. As I said, the reason it’s acceptable is because personal autonomy supersedes fairness of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:17 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.Lavender relationships and marriages are done for sociopolitical reasons, it doesn’t involve genuine sexual attraction per se. It’s notable because it’s a carefully executed exception to the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:15 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.Mods here don’t allow posts on looks. But yes, lookism is bigoted, just acceptable. Ugly people aren’t undeserving of love because of their ugliness, but we often deny them these chances anyway. The reason it’s acceptable is because, within reasonable limits of social or bodily harm, personal autonomy supersedes fairness and equality/equity. Forcing someone to date an ugly person violates the former’s consent, and that’s a greater malice than the unfairness that ugly people face. However, lookis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:11 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.True. However, the first part is often implied. Suppose someone doesn’t want to date an individual of a certain race. It is imperative to ask why. “My family and culture won’t allow it.” Alright, but this now will require further introspection. “I just don’t like, for xyz reasons”, you’re imbuing them with stereotypical reasoning and projecting a personality onto them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:09 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.Agreed, my point wasn’t very clear, but it still stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:00 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:59 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.She chose to be promiscuous, presumably. If a woman was forced to do sex work to support her family out of destitution, I wouldn’t hold it against her, because she was essentially forced to be a sex worker due to the life she was forced to live. I think it’s bigotry to call this woman a slut, because it wasn’t the life she wanted to live, and you’ll be holding the actions of unwanted choices against her. Bonnie Blue, as far as I know, chose to be promiscuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:42 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.If you’re trying to play at semantics by saying you’ll never date homosexual men, this is a fruitless conversation. If you’re bigoted against bisexual men, I agree with your agreement. I will point out that being bigoted against bisexual men in the context of dating doesn’t make you a bad person (although I personally don’t think anyone is good or bad, but that’s not the point of the discussion), because you’re not bigoted against bisexual men in other avenues of life. It’s like different rungs … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:33 AM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.Well if by gay you mean bisexual/pansexual, then yes, you’re a bigot. Otherwise it’s just a tautology, a woman, by definition, can’t date a gay (homosexual) man. That’s fine, just own it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:26 AM |
| 3 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.Radical Tumblr brain rot and homophobia? More likely than you think. I’m a “man of colour”; I despise the moniker because I’m more than my skin, but whatever; I was raised upper-middle class in Singapore and my dad is rich, a poor white man is certainly less privileged than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 09:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about those dating behaviours.Statistically, I'm sure a lot more first dates go better than these. Ignoring that, you make the assumption that the only men who get first dates are Chads, which is a pathetic and most likely faulty idea. Unless we get clarification that the men on these dates are indeed 'Chads', we can't know that your point is valid. It's also so funny. 'Chads' when I was in school was a man who 'slayed' and could get the hottest women. Now it's apparently any man who can get a date. Good to know, I can now c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 09:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about those dating behaviours.? She's not doxxing anyone or singling anyone out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 09:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about those dating behaviours.Because why are you bringing a +1 to a date, let alone your fucking grandma? An older adult figure only comes along to a date when you're young and need a chaperone, I'm talking middle school. Either you're too immature to date as an adult, or you need family approval for a first date, both of which are red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 09:01 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about those dating behaviours.Yeah he's a dick. ??? That's just abnormal It's not inherently a red flag, but if this is American, I can see why this is something worth noticing. Lazy fuck lmao Either doing a bit, or he really, really loves his sunglasses. I'd ask him to take them off at least once; if I can see that it's part of a humorous shtick, I'd find it kinda endearing. Yeah that's dangerous af man lmfao, run away See point 6 This is horrifically absent-minded and ignorant at best, straight up malicious at worst. That'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 08:58 AM |
| 3 | What do you think about those dating behaviours.One can safely assume that none of these dates ended well. I've gone on first dates with multiple people, most don't see a second date, for a myriad of reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 08:55 AM |
| 8 | People who claim women are "happier single" have never spoken to a truly undesirable womanThis isn't a comment I can reply to in good faith, because it feels inflammatory, and because I don't know how to approach this; I don't have enough experience or information on the subject matter to make an observation. I will say though, that there is usually ore stigma against single moms than single dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 03:17 PM |
| 19 | People who claim women are "happier single" have never spoken to a truly undesirable womanTo be honest I think there's a difference between a recently single 28 year old and a divorced/widowed 55 year old. If you've spent a large portion of your life being with one person, and built a life with them, losing them is mentally and emotionally taxing, and sometimes it feels wrong or fatiguing to pick the pieces up and restart. It's easier when you're young and have more to gain from life. I'm single, and am open to dating again. If I was 50 with two kids and a dead wife, it'd be harder f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:39 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:36 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.It's not pathological to be uncomfortable with promiscuity. It's pathological to obsess over it, and be brain rotted about it. If all you can think of is how you compare to other men, you have issues. I'm not doing a rigorous collection of data, I'm operating on the lived experiences of me and people my age, across different countries (India, Singapore, America, and Australia), and different walks of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:35 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.You know what, if this is your reality, then I can't invalidate it. I can't know the absolute truth, and I can't speak for all men; and if you have had these experiences, I can't deny them. Furthermore, height is something I'm more black pilled on than average, if you're a man and below 5'5", you'll almost certainly have problems, but I don't think it's statistically impossible to find love or attraction. I still think it's not true that short men are all destined to be incels and khhv's, but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:32 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.I largely disagree with your opinions on this comment thread, but this is hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:30 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.This whole sub is a circlejerk. I'm a bit of a hypocrite, because I do enjoy engaging with this asylum of a sub at times. But every once in a while, I see such an atrocious, Iran-pilled, incel-like take on here that I close Reddit, go offline, go for a walk, and just say hi to people, it keeps me grounded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:29 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.Hallmark movies are incredibly popular. I'd be hard pressed to find women leaving their Corporate Big Shot husbands in droves and move from the Big City to Christmasville to settle down with the son of a widower father who runs a sleigh making business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:27 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.Assuming you're right, and that I'm unconsciously imagining my partner with other people, when I'm right with them, mind you, how would I even know? As far as I know, I have no complex about dating that is relevant to insecurity about my partner's past. I have rarely seen nuanced TRP or Black Pill takes on this sub. Incels are omnipresent here, and they're too far gone mentally to have a sound discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:26 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.The blackpill does indeed hold some truths. In the context of dating, yes, looks matter. Yes, short men are likely to have it somewhat harder. Yes, being autistic and ill-socialised will lead to some difficulties. Where it goes wrong is in hyperbolising these issues, and in causing hate. Short men are not destined to be khhv manlets. You don't need a Chad facial archetype to get laid. Trve Adams are the products of schizophrenic minds. LTNs, LTBs, HTNs, etc. are the results of trying to treat at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:24 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.Social media algorithms are designed to prioritise interactions and noise generation, so controversial and shitty takes are prioritised, which leads to more interaction with these posts, which leads to more relevance. People who live their lives chronically online, especially those who surround themselves with culture war takes, are more prone to equating algorithmic popularity with real world relevance. It's like that study that showed many Americans think around a fifth of the population is tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:18 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.Yes, people generally find fit, socially aware, and decently competent people attractive. Not only is this not impossible to achieve, it's not the same as needing to be a Trve Adam or a millionaire to find sex or love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:15 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.These are not normal because they're statistically not the norm. Most women don't go around fucking random men in the name of "finding themselves", the same applies to men. Dating and learning to be in a relationship and how you find and handle love is a valid, and necessary thing to do. Sometimes it works out with one or two people, sometimes it takes a bit more. Obviously if you're a serial dater, you have issues that need to be worked on, and maybe you won't end up in a loving, everlasting re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:14 PM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.The lion does indeed eat grass 💪🏾😛 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 10:14 AM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.Your comment will be deleted by mod because it doesn't challenge my main point. Top level comments (non-reply comments) need to disagree with the post in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 10:02 AM |
| – | A not insignificant number of takes and opinions on here (and a lot of other places) are formed by online opinions, imagined scenarios and ragebait, rendering them fundamentally useless to any productive discourse.trvth nvke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 09:43 AM |
| 1 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipAlso, I wanted to add on. I wasn’t raised in an environment where I believed that looks don’t matter. Attraction is amoral, all that matters for attraction is charm and looks. Now being in a relationship includes personality and character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 02:59 AM |
| 0 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipPersonality doesn’t pull, but it keeps people around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 12:31 AM |
| 2 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipMy whole high school life was filled with self-loathing at how fat I was and my shit skin. I vowed to have a glow up before I went off to uni, and it showed. I was always intelligent and could make good conversation, so it wasn't hard to find myself having game once I got a more decent physique and a sense of good fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 10:18 AM |
| 0 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationship🙏🏾 thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 09:13 AM |
| 2 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationship🙏🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 06:59 AM |
| 2 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipI take a somewhat academic interest in gender dynamics, so I'd appreciate if you can link some TRP material that isn't PUA. I do think TRP can have some good points, it's often clouded by hate and misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 06:57 AM |
| -1 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipI agree, many people, including "progressives" still tie intrinsic value to sexual success. However, I disagree that not being an RPers means being shy. I'm not into TRP, yet I don't see myself as shy. I don't go around seeking sex or relationships from random women, and I don't make my life revolve around increasing my appeal; but I'm not shy or socially awkward. I'm representing myself here, not all people who're not into TRP. There's a world between being socially awkward & shy and being an R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 06:56 AM |
| 2 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipSex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 06:52 AM |
| 2 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipI've been reading comments by RPers on this sub, and listening to people I know who're involved with TRP ideas. Maybe it's less something about TRP itself and more about the people it draws, but RPers tend to have a one-track mind about sex and gender dynamics, as if unable to comprehend much beyond that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 06:47 AM |
| 2 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipTrue. For what it's worth, I think many older "RPers" tend to be fairly well-adjusted, even if I disagree with their takes in many cases. It's usually younger RPers who are more maladjusted, and they seem like they're chasing sex at the expense of other goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 06:36 AM |
| 2 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipI agree that a lot of TRP views were, and in many cases still are, mainstream. My point isn't that, it's that a lot of people who adhere to TRP seem to design their lives and characters around sexual appeal, as if their lives are tools for sexual reputation and gratification. Perhaps this isn't something fundamental to TRP in theory, but in my experience, in practice, RPers end up as sex-obsessed people who can't imagine any driving force in life beyond that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 06:23 AM |
| 3 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipI agree that a lot of TRP views are actually quite mainstream. I personally disagree with quite a few of them, but I represent myself, not society at large. I think hypergamy is "ok" in the sense that it's good that women want to date socially respected, well-adjusted, independent men. For what it's worth, I think a lot of men have piss poor standards, and we too should be "hypergamous". My point here is that people who "identify" as RP often fall into a life that's focused mostly, if not solely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 06:13 AM |
| 2 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateI’m not a woman gang, but thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateI have no clue how much more specific you want me to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateIgnoring the independence of a person means you don't fundamentally see them as someone with their own life and personhood, and your view of them is through the lens of how they relate to you. My mother's identity isn't just as my mother. She's a retired lawyer, a yoga instructor, a mother, a sister, an aunt, and many more things. If I view her as just a mother, I fundamentally don't respect her for her achievements or who she is in her entirety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:31 PM |
| 2 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateBecause in the context of a romantic relationship, ignoring the independence of your partner leads to the following: - The idea that their primary identity is as your partner, anything outside of this identity is irrelevant or should be quashed. - The idea that you have control over their life. This is more serious and happens in specific cases, but it can be relevant depending on the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateIf you don't view a grown, mentally sound adult as their own independent being, you don't respect their autonomy, and you feel entitled to them, like their existence, in ways either gross or subtle, is centred around you. If I don't view my partner as an independent being, I implicitly think of their existence as centred around being my partner, I don't see them for who they are outside of a relationship. Since their primary identity, in my opinion, is tied to their connection to me, I can never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:03 PM |
| 3 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateWhat exactly do you need me to spell out? I don't understand how this isn't easily understood. If you want a partner, understand that your partner doesn't exist to serve your fantasy. They are their own person, and the first step of respect is in understanding that, and not reducing them to a stereotype or an object of a fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:44 PM |
| 1 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateIt's a polite-ish way of insinuating that the implicated person is either unattractive, too immature, or too unlikeable to find a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:40 PM |
| 5 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateI just fucking did. Buy an English textbook. If you don't get the gist, idolising and fetishising the state of being in a relationship is not the same as viewing your partner as their own fully-realised, independent, human being with their own life and character. Choose someone based on attractiveness, yes, but also who they are as people. See what your dealbreakers are, and learn to respect their personality and view them as their own being, not just as someone who'll take your loneliness away.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:37 PM |
| 3 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateBeing elated that someone at last has shown be some attention can blind me to how she is as an actual human being, with her own personality and traits. I may, and most likely will, end up idolising certain aspects of her, and most importantly, ignore anything about her that doesn't suit this fantasy relationship, and only highlight elements of her that I like. I'm fetishising her and our relationship, instead of seeing her for her whole person, and I'm not respecting who she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:30 PM |
| 7 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateWell, yes. This all operates on the idea that men are insatiable horndogs with no self control; an idea I thoroughly disagree with. But I think it's more effective to combat bullshit rhetoric by showing how asinine the ideas sound when the opposite is "equally valid". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:28 PM |
| 18 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateTrue. The point is that we shouldn't generalise all men or all women as the same, it's a fundamentally idiotic thing to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:24 PM |
| 4 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateA placeholder will never be respected as their own individual human. They will be idealised, and their partner will mentally morph them into something they're not. Showering someone with affection in the honeymoon phase isn't respecting, seeing, and truly loving someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:23 PM |
| 5 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateThere is a common sentiment on this sub that conventionally attractive people are bad partners because if they can cheat, they will cheat. I think that's bullshit. I was using a counter-argument, also a bad, shitty generalisation, that points out that baseless rhetoric is stupid and should't be held as truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:18 PM |
| 3 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateThe point is that retarded generalisations and adages are retarded. Look at the specific person you want to be with, and see if they're a good fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:16 PM |
| 5 | If a man with options will cheat because he can, a man with no options is only with you because he's desperateIf you're gonna go for anyone who comes first, you have no experience, and no self-respect and idea of what you want from a relationship. It's part of the reason why teenage/college relationships rarely work out, few people settle down with the first person they loved. If anyone who is moderately attractive will do, you're not looking for a person, just a chance to get rid of loneliness, your partner is a placeholder, not an actual person. This isn't to say all virgins are bad. I have a friend w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 02:15 PM |
| 5 | On “Financial Abortions” and Unequal Rights to “Walk Away” from Parental ObligationsYour analogy sucks, but I agree with your point that financial abortions are a dogshit idea. The courts act in favour of the kids, not the mother or the father, in principle. Whatever benefits the child must be considered, even if it harms the parent(s). An actual abortion, whether you agree with them or not, results in no foetus, no potential baby. A financial abortion still leaves a foetus, and therefore a potential baby behind. Your decision to financially abort the kid doesn’t mean the kid i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Women are denied the gift of failureI have enough self control to not beat someone or call someone denigrating names and insults when I’m angry. It’s called knowing how to be civil. Teasing someone mischievously isn’t the same as insulting someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:19 AM |
| 7 | Women are denied the gift of failureInsults can be pretty horrible. Thankfully I’m also mature enough to know how to convey anger or annoyance without bursting into insult and profanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:15 AM |
| 9 | Women are denied the gift of failureHell no lmao. If I beat up or abused my partner, I’d hope they left me. Like I would if they abused me. Abusing someone isn’t a mistake, mistakes aren’t as severe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Women are denied the gift of failureYeah, if I accepted the abuse and didn’t do anything about it, I was being complacent and weak. But a child facing abuse at the hands of a parent is never at fault for the abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:07 AM |
| 10 | Women are denied the gift of failureIf my parent made my life hell and abused me and an innocent kid, I don’t give a shit how bad their life was, I hope they burn in hell forever. If you’re being abused in your life, either make peace with it or fight your abusers, don’t dish out more of it to others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Women are denied the gift of failurePerhaps you can delude yourself into thinking abuse is justified. Sane people don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:01 AM |
| 5 | Women are denied the gift of failureWhat the fuck are you yapping about dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:00 AM |
| 5 | In a societal level, no one is going to grant you freedom from oppressive structures and roles. If you want clemency, fight for it.I’m not informed on this, but I’ll take your word for it. Any protest against genuinely beneficial movements for men, I consider them misandrist for sure. While we should point out the hypocrisy and hate, from a more intrinsic perspective, we should fight regardless of pushback. Fuck the haters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 04:00 AM |
| 1 | In a societal level, no one is going to grant you freedom from oppressive structures and roles. If you want clemency, fight for it.Fair enough. But regarding feminism, the thing is that the nagging was also a massive social upheaval. In post-industrial Western history, there has rarely been a mass movement for women’s suffrage and freedom at a large scale. Fights don’t always have to be with guns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:48 AM |
| 4 | In a societal level, no one is going to grant you freedom from oppressive structures and roles. If you want clemency, fight for it.We had quite a lot of simultaneous violent events and assassinations. One of the major figures of the independence movement conspired with the Japanese and Nazis and created the Azad Hind Fauj (Free India Army). I don’t morally agree with conspiring with such violent and evil empires, but I can see the “the enemy of my enemy is my friend” angle. Different groups had their own ideas for what an independent India should be like, so there was no unified war. But don’t confuse that with no movements… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:42 AM |
| – | What is the definition of a 'low-value man' from a women's POV?You sound insufferable dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:11 AM |
| – | Men, would you date a woman that’s expressed she’d never pay for anything?Naw. I enjoy playing the role of a provider, but if someone demands that from me, it’s a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 08:46 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyI am so, so happy that most men I meet in person aren’t like the men on here. It’s actually terrifying how many dudes here want to go back to the 1800s, this place is full of braindead takes. Universal suffrage was a mistake, we need an IQ and civics test for every person who applies to vote, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:19 PM |
| – | Women Demand Men To "Be Independent" and "Focus On Themselves" Then Throw Tantrums When Men Do Things They Don't Like On Their Own VolitionBeing independent also means not giving a damn about dogshit opinions of random people, women included. Just stop caring about whiny strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 02:20 AM |
| -1 | The manosphere doesn’t believe men should be putting effort into relationships.It's about ego for some people, about bragging rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 01:16 PM |
| 26 | What are your thoughts on promoting arranged marriages in the west?Even in India the government doesn't arrange marriages. What you're describing sounds like some kind of dystopia, where people are reduced to a bunch of variables. This is a profoundly bad idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Men who complain about women not being mature and worthy of relationships, yet keep appealing to the lowest common denominator are patheticThe men I hang out with irl do vet. A lot of men on this sub think vetting is a fool’s game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Men who complain about women not being mature and worthy of relationships, yet keep appealing to the lowest common denominator are patheticI’m a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Men who complain about women not being mature and worthy of relationships, yet keep appealing to the lowest common denominator are patheticHey, I’m (ethnically) Indian, don’t bring race into this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Men who complain about women not being mature and worthy of relationships, yet keep appealing to the lowest common denominator are patheticIn this language? no. Otherwise, my friends, my sister, and my housemates and I do talk about our opinions on relationships. And I've expressed this before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 05:42 AM |
| 7 | Men who complain about women not being mature and worthy of relationships, yet keep appealing to the lowest common denominator are patheticAs I said, I won't be stopping anyone from pursuing whomever they like. But I can criticise their moaning if they won't make an effort to change some of the inputs variables that lead to undesirable output values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 05:32 AM |
| 9 | Men who complain about women not being mature and worthy of relationships, yet keep appealing to the lowest common denominator are patheticHumans are social creatures, and we certainly need social networks and love in our lives to properly live, we want to thrive, not survive. But a relationship isn't like water. You don't need them to live, biochemically, at least not from a material perspective. We should give grace to people who're inexperienced, because it takes time to find self-love and understand what you want, what you're willing to live with, and what you don't want. But after a point, if you keep walking down a part of se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Men who complain about women not being mature and worthy of relationships, yet keep appealing to the lowest common denominator are patheticThe last question is a bit nonsensical, because it depends on the person. When you start feeling dissatisfied in general about dating maybe it's time to change some of the parameters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 05:03 AM |
| 9 | Men who complain about women not being mature and worthy of relationships, yet keep appealing to the lowest common denominator are patheticIf you feel so unfulfilled in your life that you will chase even the worst of women, who may adversely affect your own health and well-being, I can't endorse or condone your ideals. Obviously you're free to do as you wish (on a side note, I mean that kind of man in general, not you in particular), but you shouldn't expect society to cheer you on or validate you. Obviously love is important, but chasing sexual relief isn't love. On the one hand, I can understand why someone who comes from a backg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingr/amindiancanconfirm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 09:23 PM |
| – | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.That’s beautiful man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have.Well yeah, that’s known. This isn’t something to be debated, really, it’s just a fundamental truth of the world. You can make up for a deficiency in one area with strength in another area up to a certain extent. And in general, most people look perfectly fine, decidedly average, not ugly to be honest. Which is why most people end up finding love and attraction over their lives, and most people are average joes and janes, nothing wrong with that. Even with types, certain things reign supreme. A c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:39 AM |
| 17 | If misogynists want to create a fake narrative that number of women committing SA on men is higher or equal to men SA on women, then why don't men demand a seperate land away from women?While I do believe that most sexual abusers are men (note that this doesn’t mean most men are sexual abusers, but my point still stands), your argument is disingenuous. A lot of women face at least some sort of sexual harassment throughout their adolescence and adulthood, yet there’s no mass-scale movement supported by women to form their own country. I’m sure there are movements that advocate for it, and given the severity of incidents like rape, I can understand the want. But in general, women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 12:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men.I’m not mad, I’m astonished at how stupid you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 09:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anglosphere Here you go. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Francophonie This is the Francophone world. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hispanophone This is the Hispanophone world. Words have meanings, you know. Sure they can change, but likening Anglosphere to White majority countries is a braindead take, especially when Google is free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men.Anglosphere = Anglo + Sphere Anglo = English Anglosphere is the English Speaking World. I learned recently that this also includes Nigeria, cool. France is part of the Francophone World. Spain is part of the Hispanosphere. Scandinavia and the Netherlands, while having great proficiency in English, are not considered English speaking lands. In fact, part of the reason we think they speak amazing English is because they’re not Anglosphere countries. Despite not being native English speaking lands,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 08:35 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There are no laws or regulations in the civilised world that discriminate against women - but many that discriminate against men.Since when is Ukraine in the Anglosphere?? The First World Anglosphere includes America Australia Canada Britain Ireland New Zealand Reasonable Additions include: Singapore British Island Territories English speaking Pacific Islands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.I couldn’t give less of a fuck about strangers who have no effect on my life. I don’t even care about what my own parents think of my career and sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.Yes, because strangers on the internet are not my family. Are you unable to understand this or is your family just a collection of TikTok gender war influencers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.Remind Me! 10 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.I’m speaking for myself here, I’m working to not need a partner in my life. I’d like to have one, I wouldn’t break down if I couldn’t find one. That’s the whole point, learn to be at peace with yourself. If you’re a full glass, you’ll never chase water desperately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 12:06 PM |
| – | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.Yes, I care very much about a potential partner and their loved ones and their corresponding opinions. Because I may date them. Being a person’s partner is about as close as you can get to that person in many cases. That is not the same as random strangers. This cannot be that hard to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:56 AM |
| 0 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.I don’t date people randomly. Almost everyone I’ve been involved with in a sexual/romantic capacity has been in my social circle. I vet for their beliefs, and the beliefs of the people around them. If a girl I was interested in surrounds herself by people who height shame men, I just wouldn’t be interested in her anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:50 AM |
| 7 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.Red pillers are still stuck on ideas prescribed to them by others. They mould their lives to chase sexual validation and riches, not inner peace. They, by definition, can never be happy with themselves. Self improvement is good, self improvement for the sake of getting laid so you can pretend to be an alpha male is pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:48 AM |
| 4 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.I agree, AOC was wrong for height shaming Miller, he should be shamed for being a dickhead. I’ve shoved my fingers down my throat and puked everything I had eaten on that day, when I was in high school. Because I wanted to be attractive. I know guys who feel into the hard looksmaxing trap, I’m talking about shit like bonesmashing, because they wanted to be attractive. Because there is a societal image of what attractive men look like, and many of us try desperately to match that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.If people I come across on the street started hating on me specifically, I’d be curious at the very least. If a pink pill influencer on TikTok thinks men under 6’0” aren’t real men, I don’t give a shit. If a red pill influencer thinks I’m a beta male, I don’t give a shit. There’s nuance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.I do care about the opinions of some of my loved ones on certain issues. Your example is also a bad argument, no one’s loved ones hate them out of the blue overnight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:37 AM |
| 0 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.I’m learning to find peace by myself, because I don’t want to depend on someone else to feel good about myself. I’ve also found, and lost love. I’ve had people attracted to me because of my height, despite my height, and people who’re repulsed by my height. I’m learning to not take every rejection to heart, and I do think it’s working out for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:26 AM |
| 0 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.That’s great! I’m an extrovert, and I love socialising. I also have a few select friends whose advice and opinions I care about. But that doesn’t go hand in hand with letting society decide your life for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.I can’t speak for all men, but my angst started because I was insecure about myself and was paranoid about my own shortcomings. I was fat and socially awkward as a middle schooler, and my insecurities clouded my mind, and dragged me deeper into a pool of despair. I never actively hated any girl, but I constantly felt like they must’ve all secretly hated me, even though I never actually gave them a chance to let me know how they felt about me. It led to further resentment, and I almost feel down … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.True. It’s why red pill influencers are so dangerous, they push young boys by sharpening their anger and angst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:09 AM |
| 5 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.I think because there’s still a lingering idea that being the “good man” gets you the woman. And when this setup fails, it’s easier to blame the woman who you were “supposed to get”, instead of the deep rooted structure that pushed you to this point. This is exacerbated by the fact that there are “role models” who claim to have a solution, and who use this anger, and concentrate it. It’s why the red pill is so popular, men feel a pressure, and one group of people pick up in this and sharpen the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 11:08 AM |
| 0 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.The commenter above is being sarcastic and disingenuous. The way to fight that isn’t to also be disingenuous. Being a bitch to a bitch still makes you a bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 10:56 AM |
| 0 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.I agree that the outburst of suppressed dissatisfaction at women is wrong. But as a young guy myself, I’m extremely lucky to have mentor figures in my life who stopped me from going down the path or anger. It’s not ok for young men to shit on young women, but we do need people to guide us. It’s not fair to expect us to be mature all by ourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 10:54 AM |
| 7 | Chasing validation from society and conforming to arbitrary standards at the expense of your own peace will leave you forever unsatisfied and scarred.The vast majority of people have no effect on my life. If some stranger on the internet thinks I’m a manlet because I’m 5’8”, or they disapprove of my career choices, why does that affect me? I barely even give a shit about what half of my social network cares about me, I give absolutely not a singular fuck about randos online and their thoughts on my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 10:45 AM |
| 0 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseI don’t think people should listen to my takes seriously. This is a forum where people can speak about these issues, but no one is under any obligation to take anyone else seriously. I’m not claiming to have any solutions or tips or advice. I post my thoughts because I want to, regardless of how others perceive it. It’s not my job to influence anyone else, and I hope no one looks to me for influence in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 02:40 PM |
| 3 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.True, I agree. My post does seem sort of hand-wavey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.I think every child should be made to learn statistics, trigonometry, physics, biology, chemistry, and programming before they graduate, If left to governments, this will lead to a situation like India or China, with rote memorisation and student suicides. I can separate what I think is ideal and what should be done. I do think ESG should be scrapped, it can honestly be used more for shady financial abuse by corporations. I think a good example is Deutsche Bank their ESG fuckery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 01:09 PM |
| 7 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.I agree, a lot of kids aren't being well socialised these days, and it's hurting their development. The best way to manage this is to just make kids more social again. It's one of the major reasons I like the under 16 social media bans some countries are planning, make kids talk to each other again, let them flirt (as is appropriate for minors, of course), let them experience social success and failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 01:05 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.I don't think government mandated or corporate attempts of representation are good. But the point is that in areas where social decisions are made, it is good to consider the effects the decisions would have on all kinds of groups, and sometimes specific voices and perspectives can only be heard when people of the implicated communities are present in the decision-making room when the process is happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.I am trying to work on self reflection, because it is work that I will have to do for everything, throughout my life, it's a part of living. But there is a chance of randomness in a lot of things pertaining to attraction. A lot of the times, the context of where I was, when I was, and who I was with matter, you cannot isolate the inner workings of attraction to a two-body system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:58 PM |
| 6 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.I agree to an extent. I do think I was exaggerating a bit about the randomness. But the randomness isn't insignificant. And more importantly, the concept of "type" is a factor. Other times, a person's character and overall vibe elevate them or reduce them in ways that we cannot always work out. There are underlying reasons to everything, but they can be very nebulous to the average person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:55 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.It's not "just have representation". If, for example, I want to talk about the social effects of British Colonial rule on India; I cannot ignore the effects it had on caste structures, and how they reacted to each other. This isn't forced representation, it's a quest for the truth, and to not sideline a significant portion of the population, to not pretend like certain injustices never happened. I'm not sure what examples or canaries you're referring to in your other statements. What are you pay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.I'm not very familiar with UK politics, but from my skim over the page, I'm assuming it's about increasing the number of BAME minorities and women in specific industries. For what it's worth, I do think this is unnecessary at best, and malicious at worst. But I will say that increased emphasis on advertising specific career paths to women, given it doesn't specifically impede men, is a good goal. If half the population is female, we should expect parity in "general jobs", including blue collar w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:49 PM |
| 3 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.I'm going to respond to your last comment first, because caste and class are not the same. Casteism is vicious, barbaric, and borders on chattel slavery in certain examples. The reality of caste is that it is immutable, it's something you're born with, and you can't let it go, not socially. I was born upper caste, I have the privilege of not letting it define me. A Dalit boy in rural India, whose family is shunned from the rest of the population, and made to isolate in schools, hospitals, and go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:45 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.Can you point out some statistics that show that enough women get promoted via tantrums for it to be a significant issue? I'm sure there are definitely some examples, and maybe some high profile examples. But it is statistically significant enough for us to paint all women as whiny bitches? Your comment about the government is interesting, where do you live for this to be true? I do agree, there is a lot of work to be done regarding archaic and misandrist laws. As far as I'm aware, the UK still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:40 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.Representation is important for cultural issues, and making sure previously un-prioritised voices can be heard. For example, if you're going to make a documentary series on the history of American industry, you cannot just study from sources that primarily deal with White people. This does not mean that they are irrelevant, but that ignoring other voices can hide some significant ideas and facts, and paints a false narrative. For a less American example, the lionisation of Gandhi, amongst many f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseIn my personal experience, people are lot, a LOT more sane. Significantly so. And real life interactions have the aded security of knowing that they're real people with real opinions, not bots or people putting on an online persona. Whether or not the people you meet are shitty, they're real people. I'm explaining why I personally don't give a shit about social media opinions. Ok, fair. But not always. I'm not an influencer, and I don't go online and make videos about gender war bs or how "real … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:29 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.Once again, is the number of unqualified women demanding illustrious careers significant enough for us to claim that women are snatching away the good jobs from men who deserve them? And representation matters, obviously not at the expense of competence, but when we're talking about a set of people who're all more or less equally competent, representation can be an additional factor. Obviously not all the time, and we shouldn't tokenise people. Forced representation can go horribly wrong, and so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:26 PM |
| 6 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.I can see the appeal of dating apps, but the vast majority of women (and men) I know who're open to dating right now are off the apps. This isn't indicative of women on a more general level, but that my sample of known women don't really like dating apps. Real life social interactions and flirting are far more interactive, potentially charming, and penitentially tasteful compared to swiping. Apps are almost purely physical, meeting people in real life can give you a better feel of the person's v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:23 PM |
| 6 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.It's really not. One, you need a job to survive, given how economies are structured in most places around the world. It's getting more difficult for single-earner households to thrive, and financial independence is pretty much a necessity these days. And an employer/corporate entity's consent and bodily autonomy isn't violated by a woman finding employment. A woman being an consultant isn't violating McKinsey, a person demanding sexual and emotional access to another person is violating the latt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:21 PM |
| 11 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.The disappearance of free/cheap social spaces, the proliferation of online socialisation, and the increase in car-centric infrastructure in the West has actively worsened the loneliness crisis, in my opinion. We desperately need to make it easier for people to actually be social creatures again, the expectation of people to work 8-10 hours a day, commute for 1-3 hours a day, and break their backs while trying to live with rising costs of living is making us all cattle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:12 PM |
| 3 | A lot of people want some kind of cheat code to human attraction, when it rarely works that way.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 12:09 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseI'm not making influencer content giving people advice on how to live their lives. I base my opinions on social issues based on what I experience in real life. Whether or not I agree with someone online, their opinion is largely irrelevant to me. I don't give a shit about the gender war narrative in general, I ignore any and all opinion on it as much as I can. Man, woman, or otherwise, if you speak on the gender war, I disregard you. I meet people in real life with differing opinions to me, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 11:50 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseI’m not saying I believe everyone and take them for their word. I just haven’t had a lot of experiences of people genuinely not liking me for reasons that weren’t my fault. The only times people genuinely didn’t like me were: The one racist experience I had. I was at the club just dapping dudes up. This one breh approached me and asked me where I was from, and I said I was Singaporean of Indian descent. He told me he didn’t like Indians and walked away. It didn’t matter to me because I was there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 10:35 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseMaybe. I didn’t fully understand your argument, so I can’t engage with it. Perhaps I’m a bit slow, but I don’t get it. I was just elaborating on my experience with the discrepancies between the real world and online world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseIf establishment politicians cared about mass appeal and engaging with their voter base, corporate lobbying wouldn’t exist. As things are right now, your average politician should work for us, but they work for shareholders and corporate overlords. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseI don’t think politicians spend their days listening to asshats on twitter. They spend their days fellating lobbyists and corporate suits. And at the end of the day, it’s mostly out of my control, so I still don’t give a damn. I think you underestimate how offline people can be. A lot of my friends from Singapore are also in Sydney with me, I’ve met their other friends, and they all seem mostly chill, and most importantly, unconcerned about social media. It’s a common sentiment amongst my friend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseMy friend group and I were raised together, we’re still the primary source of camaraderie and friendship in each other’s lives. And for new friends we make in our lives, it’s not that different. In my experience, the average person isn’t that socially active. Maybe it’s because actively seek out people who aren’t on social media too much. I’m unironically the most online of any of my friends. Regarding “what affects me”, I was responding to your first paragraphs in your response. Maybe I misinte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseI’m not celebrating anything, I’m telling men to form opinions by living in the real world and interacting with people around them. Women should do the same, and stop caring about random asshole misogynists on Reddit or TikTok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseWho are you to tell me what affects me and what I should care about? And I know that, at least for my genuine close friends, we don’t bother too much because We don’t use a lot of social media in general. We do have lengthy talks regularly about our worldviews and opinions on social issues, and they seem unaffected by online fuckery. Not that we’re all fine and dandy, we just form opinions outside of social media. We were raised and educated to think critically about what we encounter, and to no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseHalf the people I know closely in the real world aren’t so important to me that I care about their opinion of me. I love my parents, and I still don’t give a shit about what they want me to pursue in college. Granted, I wanted to do maths/physics, they wanted me to do engineering, and they aren’t very different in a lot of ways; but at the end of the day, who cares what they have to say about my degree? They still rebuke the idea of me wanting to be an academic instead of getting a corporate job… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseI think you overestimate how old people need to be to have discovered peace and sanity away from online “hot takes”. Most of my friends, and we’re mostly in our late teens/early 20s, just don’t give a shit about online bullshit. We’ll learn about the world as we live, but letting the internet control you is pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseWith relation to Australia, it’s because a few days before I left for Sydney, there was a big anti-immigration rally in Melbourne, which is ok I have no issue with them exercising their right to free speech. There was also news of some immigrants getting verbally, and sometimes physically abused in different parts of the country. And generally, I feel down a rabbit hole of white supremacist radicalisation via memes on TikTok, shit like Agartha, Hyperborea, and Save Europe. Seeing people constant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:04 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseI would completely understand if you harbour resentment and some kind of ill will towards women, because your experience with them in real life has been hell. I’m not going to give unsolicited advice on how to deal with your grief because I’m not old enough to know how, and because it’s not my prerogative. But at the end of the day, your worldview stems from having lived. Whether or not your opinion of any group of people is good or bad, if it arose only from social media, it’s not a valid opini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 08:59 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseHey hey hey, women should do that too. Maybe everyone should stop being a baby back bitch and letting the internet get their panties in a bunch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 08:54 PM |
| -1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseThe ideal solution to this begins with better education and more exposure to people of different backgrounds. Not token diversity, actual conversation and cultural dynamism, to analyse and understand the pros and cons of different cultures and worldviews. The entire world needs to start heavily investing at least, like, 25% of national GDP to education. Make the kids learn language, science, and maths skills again. Make statistics a mandatory class, make sure kids learn to write critical essays.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseFair enough, I see your logic, although I still don’t take this sub for a debate sub. But to go back to the original point of contention, online radicalisation and doomerism is a bigger problem amongst men here, and in general, than it is for women. And I don’t have the experience of being a woman on the internet. Most women in my life don’t care about online opinions anyway. I can only reliably speak to other men about the social media experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 01:00 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseIf I could do a survey of the regular users here and measure if there is a discernible shift in opinion and belief over their time spent, I’m willing to bet that most people remain unchanged. The men complaining about hypergamy will likely still believe in hypergamy being a massive issue. The women complaining about men being pigs will likely still believe that men are pigs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 12:55 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseValid take, I agree to a large extent. But we can have both. From a social perspective, work to lessen the radicalisation online. In your personal life, learn to de-prioritise social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 12:52 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseA casual glance at this sub at any point of time will include Someone complaining that women aren’t honest with their intentions Someone complaining that women are hypergamous Someone complaining that men only want bangmaids. Someone complaining about height. Someone complaining about a minority of [insert demographic here]. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 12:49 PM |
| 0 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseIn an ideal world, I wholeheartedly agree. But as long as grifting and engagement algorithms rule, information flow isn’t really free or representative of the real world. Social media prioritises engagement because it brings in cash. Burn down social media, not the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 12:46 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseThis sub is an echo chamber for a bunch of common opinions. Few people here are actually debating. I’m speaking to men here, and I’ll specify here, because women here tend to be more well adjusted than men here. And I know that radicalisation via the internet is a bigger problem for men than women in my life, because I talk to men and women in my life. It is because I communicate with them that I know men are more vulnerable to this than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseMy solution to this would just be to burn the meta/twitter/reddit/tiktok servers to the ground. YouTube can stay because I use it to study. The only way to combat radicalisation in the information age is to either heavily censor information, which is iffy; or to reduce the rate of information flow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discoursePlease elaborate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 12:32 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseI’m a man, and I’ve lived through the gauntlet of shitty opinions and catering to said opinions. In my personal life, I find this to be a greater issue for men than women, a lot of men are too easily radicalised by the internet. Obviously the general sentiment also applies to women. I’m speaking to my fellow men here, because I see a lot more of this neuroticism amongst men here than women. Not that learning to not care shouldn’t apply to women, but on here it’s a bigger issue with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 12:29 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseI do agree, I think there’s a higher level of scrutiny applied to men’s actions and intentions on the mainstream internet, in my experience. I attribute this to the fact that there’s a lack of camaraderie amongst men to stand up to shitty women. But ultimately I think my point applies. Unless you’re surrounded by these kinds of people in real life, don’t give a shit. Ignore social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?There’s constant complaining about height preferences… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 09:06 PM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?Where I’m from, 5’4” is average for women, and 5’8” is average for men. More or less. If a 5’2” woman wants a 5’10” man, it’s not that strange. If a 5’0” woman wants men strictly 6’0” and above, that’s a double standard. 2 inches of deviation from the median makes sense to me, beyond that, it’s a double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 11:57 AM |
| – | Why do high-body-count women get the most offended when men prefer low body count?Many people do claim it to be a double standard. Most women are shorter than most men, unless it’s a woman (who’s short by women standards) wants a man who is notably above average height, it’s not necessarily a double standard. A woman who is not financially in the same ball park as the man she wants does have a double standard. Most men are stronger than most women. Overwhelmingly so, I’ve seen skinny dudes who’ve never lifted before easily bench a decently fit woman’s max PR, shit’s insane. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 10:37 AM |
| 1 | In the future, women will push the idea that guys who don’t let their girlfriends do onlyfans and fuck other guys are “insecure”.Latter Day Saints, the Mormons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:27 AM |
| – | If sex with Men degrades Women according to some Men ,then they should be ok with Women not having sex with men at all.It’s hilarious how a lot of the me here who bitch and man about misandry will also believe in the idea that sex with men will ruin women. Only sex with them is good, sex with other men is bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Do most guys never experience the "talk" with their parents about relationships?No. My parents raised me to be aware of boundaries and respect them, but everything else I learned from experience and testimony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵If you have fuck all social skills, little to no game, don’t have tangible goals in life; it’s no surprise the only thing you’d have to rely on is looks. You restrict yourself from being interesting in any perceivable way, and you bitch and moan about looks being paramount | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 09:57 PM |
| 14 | “Personally” is not a synonym for “nice meek pushover”This sub has a high number of men who’re generally bad at socialising, it’s not surprising they have a problem with understanding what an attractive personality is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵🫵🏾 Babypilled Milkmaxxer Nah but fr I agree, just plain milk goes hard, but only when cold. Warm milk is for babies and psychopaths | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:45 AM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵THAILAND MENTIONED 🇹🇭🇹🇭🇹🇭🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:44 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Sure. But tbh you usually do need a well-kept beard to rock the bald look. The hottest bald dudes I know all have great beards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:06 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Some people are beautiful. Most are average. It takes some real shit luck to actually be ugly. If you have: - Healthy skin - Healthy hair - A not-recessed chin - A nose that compliments your facial features You're pretty good looking in my book. I think a lot more folks are attractive than there are ugly people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:56 AM |
| 4 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapI ain't mad, bestie. You need therapy though :3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapRight. So you're a bigot. I don't know what dude hurt you, but don't take your anger out on others. Learn anger management. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:33 AM |
| – | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapNo, I don't defend "testosterone is a hell of a drug", I don't think hormones control everything. I'm not a whore, I don't go around fucking every ass I see. So what should I take accountability for? Your bigotry and stupidity? D1pshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:30 AM |
| – | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapHe won't reply, because he's a ret@rd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Why are you blue piller?"existential crisis"??? You're standoffish as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Why are you blue piller?Then we have a fundamental disagreement, and we can't change each other's opinions. Let's leave it at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:18 AM |
| – | Why are you blue piller?Do you believe human emotions and connections can be studied in the same framework as the material sciences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:13 AM |
| – | Why are you blue piller?You digressed when you first equated mathematics with human emotion, before your previous comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapSo you agree that you're a dumbass. Got it. Have a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapIn the 25 years since 2000, the number of women attracted to men and the number of men attracted to men have not equalised. Higher freedom to be out, and higher visibility due to the internet does not make the numbers equal. I hang out with a lot of men. Most of my friends are men. Of the dozens of men I'm friends with, I can count on one hand the number who're interested in dating men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapIf most fruits available were apples and not bananas, then yeah, they're likely to eat apples. Most men are straight. Most women are straight. If I want a partner, the number of women into men outnumbers the number of men into men. This is simple math. As I said, most bigots are stupid as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapThis is the kind of stuff that makes you realise bigots are just stupid as hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 12:33 AM |
| – | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapRight. Because all men are whores, or at least want to be whores. And only men have STDs. It’s ok to admit you’re a bigot, it’s in fashion now, no one’s gonna jump you for hating bi men. “be mad at biology” c*** | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 12:31 AM |
| 12 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapIt’s ok to not want to date a man who is also into men. It’s not ok to demonise us all as whores and sluts. Misandrist and homophobic, what a combination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 12:18 AM |
| 9 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapFemale bisexuality is fetishised, “maybe she’ll have a threesome with another chick”. Male bisexuality is demonised, “oh, he’s actually a f@ggot, he can’t really be into women; he’s fucked a man so he’s soiled now”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 12:16 AM |
| 8 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapStraight women are as bad at being patriarchal as straight men, sometimes worse in some ways, despite what many claim. They’re free to not date bi men, but my god they’re legitimately bigoted sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Why are you blue piller?I separate my interests and sources of knowledge. Human connection isn’t maths. I read through textbooks, research on my own, and consult those far make knowledgeable than me when I have any mathematical enquiries. The experiences of other people who I’m not very familiar with don’t affect how I choose to see people in my life, for the most part. Mathematics isn’t a good analogue to human connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 12:02 AM |
| 11 | Bisexuality should be considered a privilege rather than a handicapPlenty of straight women find me too gay for them. Plenty of gay men find me too straight for them. Both the women I’ve been with were queer themselves, and generally left leaning politically. The only man I’ve been with was closeted. At least gay men sympathise with my struggles in general because we’re all LGBT. Straight women are some of the most despicable homophobes I’ve ever met, I’m always just a teensy bit on edge around them. And before someone comes and says it, no I don’t think straig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Why are you blue piller?How is it morally bankrupt to base my opinions on real life experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Why are you blue piller?? Material sciences are a branch of physics and chemistry, I appreciate them very much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 09:48 PM |
| 5 | Why are you blue piller?Human emotions and life choices based on emotion are not a science, don't conflate opinion with proven fact. I'm not saying Blue Pill is necessarily the truth, I'm saying it's what I believe because it works for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 09:46 PM |
| 13 | Why are you blue piller?Most RPers are annoying and obnoxious to be around. Most Black Pillers are whiny and pathetic; RPers can be obnoxious but at least they’re not straight up incels. My real life experiences are good, not perfect, definitely not bad. I don’t see a reason to go all in on TRP or the black pill. Blue Pill to me is just accepting normie ideas, and so far being a normie has had no discernible negative effect on my life. I’m using the term incels for people who have fucked up, sociopathic views fuelled b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 12:04 PM |
| 1 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereFor me and nearly everyone I grew up with. It’s not a very common thing for Indian/Singaporean/Asian parents to educate their kids on sex. This has both benefits and drawbacks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereI agree, my comments about the steps a father should take were inadequate. I guess it comes from my own experience, my parents are very conservative and have never really talked to me about stuff like this, not even about sexual consent, sexual boundaries or basic sex ed, as you mentioned. They’re not bad people, it’s just not a thing in our culture. I had some good teachers, good older friends, and was raised to have a good sense of respect for boundaries and contact in general. My folks didn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 08:11 PM |
| 0 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereBeing active ensures they have a baseline level of physical attractiveness. I’d ensure they’re social and learn to make friends and connect with others early on. I’ll leave learning to seduce with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:55 AM |
| 0 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereCool. Good for them. What about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discrimination“The only reason to be nice to a woman is to get laid”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:18 AM |
| 2 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereMfw when Big Cock Autism Yaoi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:57 AM |
| 0 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereNot inherently. 90% of the population is A. An unrelated condition B affects 10% of the population. By simple statistics, since most of the population is A, most of B is likely to also be A. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:45 AM |
| -3 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereIdk man maybe it’s because the school I went to was well know for academics and because I had a solid friend group; your comment seems a bit alien to me. But your school experiences were shit then if they did that to you, that’s tough. Bullying should be cracked down upon far more heavily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereI’d say there’s a trivial correlation in white majority countries, simply because they’re the biggest segment of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:36 AM |
| -2 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereSometimes that also means letting them figure shit out by themselves. Helicopter parents make maladjusted kids. The first people to get blackout drunk in uni are those whose parents were incredibly anal about alcohol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereIdk man maybe it’s because the school I went to was well know for academics and because I had a solid friend group; your comment seems a bit alien to me. But your school experiences were shit then if they did that to you, that’s tough. Bullying should be cracked down upon far more heavily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:31 AM |
| 7 | Men shouldn’t be labelled as white-knights, or told they only care because they’re trying to “get with” a woman, when pointing out sexism or discriminationA lot of men don’t see a point in being kind and reasonable without expecting a reward, so they project that shit onto the rest of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:26 AM |
| 1 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereWhen people say women go for the top 1% I think they should exclusively talk about you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:22 AM |
| 0 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereThis comment will get deleted, but yeah Reddit isn’t a good place to seek genuine advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:18 AM |
| 9 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereEvery pill has its dickheads. Some RPers here are very level headed individuals. Some BPers here are very much not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:10 AM |
| 5 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereSome are, some aren’t. There’s also well adjusted men here, just like there are men here who aren’t. Don’t take this sub as a sample group for normality in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:08 AM |
| 7 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereIn general, niche areas of the internet are bad sampling pools for extrapolating behaviour onto the general population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:05 AM |
| -3 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereThat’s stuff like keeping them safe from danger and making sure they grow up with skills and a way to be accepted in society. Coddling them and giving them bad social advice isn’t part of that stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:04 AM |
| -2 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereIntelligence isn’t infodumping about war history. My intelligence has allowed me to be confident in myself and follow a lucrative career path. I’ve done undergrad research that has allowed me to form connections with people who value intelligence. I was well liked in school because I was approachable and was smart. Intelligence is about forming connections quickly and that helps with flirting and game. My ex found my passion for math attractive. Flirting in English and French interchangeably can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:02 AM |
| 2 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereYou shouldn’t trust anyone’s advice blindly. Follow your own lived experiences. Any woman who says men only need to be kind is either rare, or a liar. Any man who says all women are bitches or gold diggers is a liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:58 AM |
| 3 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereNo, that was a vent post about TRP. And besides, this whole sub is a bit of a circlejerk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:55 AM |
| 31 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereI have never seen this in real life tbh. The only place where the dorky guy gets the hot chick is Adam sandler movies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:54 AM |
| 0 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereSpecific neurodivergent and socially inept men on here are also unreasonably angry and have sociopathic views on life. I’m shitting on them, not all neurodivergent or socially inept men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:54 AM |
| 0 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereI don’t think that at all. I’m just saying your average dude can socialise with women fairly easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:51 AM |
| 4 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereMfw my autistic special focus is women and gender so I transition and become a woman. /joke This may be a joke in poor taste, no hate to the trans community, I love em and wish them the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:50 AM |
| 3 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereReally? Seems like a lot of men here need a refresher course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:46 AM |
| 1 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereI mean one could make the tangential argument that autistic people are more likely to be trans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereCall that autisdick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:39 AM |
| 2 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereThanks for the fun fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:32 AM |
| 2 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereMy folks had an arranged marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:11 AM |
| -1 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereA lot of posts on here are nothing but rants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:07 AM |
| 16 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereReddit, and social media in general, is a cesspool of rage bait and idiocy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:06 AM |
| 4 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereI don’t what world you live in where that’s average, but this isn’t remotely true. Making friends with women is as easy as making friends with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:04 AM |
| 5 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men herehttps://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/aJhawjMyqj The thread this comment is in has some stuff on this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:01 AM |
| -4 | This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men hereThey’re idiots for living life oblivious to reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:00 AM |
| 0 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.Once you’re 30, you’re generally fully mature and can navigate predatory behaviour. It’s common to see middle aged men dating women in this mid-30s and beyond. Once you’ve reached a base threshold of maturity, it’s fine. Below that is where the problem lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badPeople who haven’t had the experience of casual sex blow it way out of proportion, and think it’s the be all and end all. Most women have some casual sex in college infrequently. There are those who have it often, but most don’t meet a new partner every week. Your average college aged man has casual sex at about the same rate, very few have it often. Most men and most women pair up with similar sexual experience. You guys talk about casual sex like it’s the only thing that matters. And stop extr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:47 PM |
| 1 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.For the safety of said hypothetical daughters. If I said shit like you just said, I’d be shunned from my friends group, and if not, definitely not allowed near their future kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:42 PM |
| 1 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.Hah Hah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:40 PM |
| -1 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.No, but she would likely only have the maturity level of your daughter, and the person-to-person dynamics are awkward at best, predatory at worst. And if your daughter is beyond her mid-late 20s, then that’s not the age group I’m talking about. And middle-ages uncles moaning about “fertility and lack of kids” when justifying why they’re perving on college girls are weird. If you don’t already have kids, take a hint and realise you’re past that age. If you do have kids, why do you wanna be a new … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:40 PM |
| -1 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.Which dumbass out there in the world genuinely believes that being attractive doesn’t matter? I seriously think this is the biggest misconception people have about the blue pill. Many of us aren’t wholly disagreeing with everyone else, it’s just that the attached bullshit is repulsive. Who doesn’t think women like attractive men, and that you don’t need to be in shape, be charming, and not be a slob, to be attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:36 PM |
| 0 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.A mid 30s man starting out with a mid 20s man can be weird, but is usually fine. Where it gets bad is if the age gap crosses a decade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:34 PM |
| 2 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.Because the power dynamics and overall way we’d interact with each other would be incredibly unfair. I don’t think with my dick when I think about relationships, actually getting along matters too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:33 PM |
| 4 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.I hope your friends don’t have daughters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.Not different, worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:28 PM |
| 0 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.Because generally, the times when women weren’t allowed to work were pretty universally bad for them. With the freedom to work, shit got a lot better. “Who are you to say men should get vaccinated?” I’m no one special, but the times when men weren’t vaccinated were pretty universally bad for them. With mortality rates dropping, shit got a lot better. Society aims to make things better for people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:26 PM |
| 3 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.Don’t liken me to those creeps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 08:20 PM |
| 3 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.If a thief chooses not to rob you, do you congratulate them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:15 PM |
| 6 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.I'd hope not. I've seen creepy weirdo uncles make sexual comments about their own daughters' bodies. It's surreal how evil it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:14 PM |
| 4 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.If you're old enough to have raised someone from birth as an adult, they shouldn't be seen as sexual prospects. I can never see my friend's baby sister as a sexual prospect when she becomes an adult, I watched her grow up. Even if she's not my sister, I can't not think of a baby when I look at her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:58 PM |
| 3 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.My moral code is that grown adults shouldn't find youth young enough to be their kids attractive. A 40 year old woman eyeing a 20 year old college kid is fucking gross. A 50 year old uncle hitting on a 23 year old waitress is disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:45 PM |
| -1 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.There’s an overwhelming number of the idiots on this sub, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:13 PM |
| 2 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.I'd say the solution is re-education camps like the ones China has in Xinjiang. Brutally inhumane, but if your goal is to re-educate, boy do they work. It's almost funny. The British so thoroughly killed millions of Indians in famine not even 200 years ago, and they were too incapable of introducing the concept of high school in Afghanistan. Americans cleansed a whole continent of its native people, and they couldn’t do shit in the Middle East. It's like karma, they have to live knowing they wer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:02 PM |
| 3 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.I think it's pretty abnormal for 50 year old uncles to have the hots for girls their daughters' age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:56 PM |
| 2 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.Sometimes conquest is good. The colonisation of India was horrific on many, many fronts. It did stop a few barbaric acts from pre-colonial times. Overall, a net negative, but there were some positives. I'd also add the fact that India was catapulted into the age of industrial technology, even if it was used to slowly bleed India dry for the benefit of the British elites. We need to bring Afghanistan into 2025, however it may be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:55 PM |
| 7 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.Which sane, rational person unironically says attractiveness isn't important. When I was in school and fat, I knew exactly why I didn't get romantic/sexual attention. When I started getting a better physique and learned to flirt well, I was far more successful. That's not a groundbreaking revelation, that's common fucking sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:53 PM |
| 2 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.Maybe. I'm 20, for us, putting on muscle is as important as being lean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:49 PM |
| 4 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.The trillions spent were horribly inefficient. Someone needs to bring the Sahel and Afghanistan forcibly into the 21st century. We have 8 billion people. If over the course of two centuries that drops to 6 billion, and some ethnicities don't literally die out, there is no issue at all. I'm glad to know that India's population is falling, it'll make it easier to actually run the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:48 PM |
| 8 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.If you've been properly socialised as a kid, you'd have noticed that the popular kids were those who stood out in some way. I was fairly popular because I was intelligent. Athletic kids were usually well-liked. Nice girls who were cute were always popular. Rich kids had lots of friends, even if it was because they were rich. If you've lived your whole life thinking being nice gets you romantic/sexual success, you were either tuned out of reality or homeschooled. Being nice is like high fuel effi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.I agree, those women are idiots. It's supremely ironic how they use the "I'm just a girl song" for their "girl math" bs, without even listening to the very next damn lyric, "that's all you'll let me be". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:42 PM |
| 8 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals."Natural" TRP men are just successful men who have some problematic views. Which still isn't likeable, but they're not as fucking insufferable as those who had to turn to TRP to become unsuccessful larpers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:41 PM |
| 6 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.It honestly feels like a troll, I can't believe this is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:39 PM |
| -1 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.I wish religious zealots and misogynists would move to their desired utopias like Somalia or Iran and experience life there. Not to say Iran is highly fertile statistically, pretty sure they're below replacement rate, or at least close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:38 PM |
| 2 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.I, for one, think we should have less children. The world is too full, someone needs to tell the governments of Afghanistan and Chad to prioritise education and development. Having a century of managed depopulation is not a problem. India's already below replacement rate, in 30 years, India will start having a declining population. As someone of Indian origin, I desperately wish to have a more manageable population one a half fucking billion. Some countries like South Korea and Japan need to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:37 PM |
| 4 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals."Oh but my mum told me once that girls like nice guys so clearly I followed only that and had to ignore reality". It's always some woe is me bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:28 PM |
| 2 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals."Oh but you see, we're honest about our hypergamy (not really, there's always some justification as to why they're morally right), so it makes us better". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:14 PM |
| 2 | A lot of criticism against TRP isn't because of self-improvement advice, it's because many RPers (mostly men but there's also a lot of women) have dogshit morals.The only RPers I know in real life are those who have incredible difficulty finding people who want be around them in general, not just dating wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themI believe a tiered age of consent system should be introduced. A 19 year old and a 17 year old aren't as far apart in terms of maturity as a 19 year old and a 30 year old. Band 1: 17-21 Band 2: 21-26 Band 3: 26+ This is a general guideline more than a strict stratification, but you get my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 12:52 PM |
| – | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themI'm not doing shit, maybe you're just not a likeable person. You're a dumbass who can't understand basic definitions. By your logic, a gay man would say bisexuals and heterosexuals are the same. You see how that's a braindead take? Have a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 12:47 PM |
| 4 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themA 28 year old likely has an established career, has built up some material wealth, and likely lives a life with long term goals that are completely different to those of a 22 year old. Most 22 year olds have just graduated uni, that's basically the beginning of proper adult life. I'm not saying 28 year olds and 22 year olds can't click or that it's a spoiling of innocence, 22 year olds are old enough to make informed decisions. I just don't see why 28 year olds would choose to date a 22 year old… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 12:46 PM |
| – | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themCool, you don't like men. Want a cookie? "Bisexuality is homosexuality to me" you're an idiot dude, go read a book, preferably a dictionary. Don't assume you know me or that you understand how bisexuality works when you mix up basic definitions. Dickhead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 12:43 PM |
| 5 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themYou have no clue what type of people I like. Bisexuality doesn't mean attraction to androgyny. Bisexuality isn't a 50/50 split, it's a spectrum, and I lean more towards women than men. Even if I didn't, don't speak on bisexual attraction like you know it. By that logic, I can't speak on homosexual attraction either, since I'm not gay, I'm bi. Your freudian slip, or maybe intentional wording, suggests you ultimately see bisexuals as closeted gays. Weirdo. <image> The woman on the right is my type… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 12:26 PM |
| 7 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themI’m bisexual. If you can’t understand the difference, I have no reason to speak with you. And I wasn’t moralising anything, just stating that it isn’t universal amongst men to like women in their early 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 12:15 PM |
| 5 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themDepends on the age. I’m 20, it’s creepy to like high schoolers, let alone the fact that it’s illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:59 AM |
| 25 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themPlease speak for yourself. Not all men creep on the same age group of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:57 AM |
| 7 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.Every culture has its flaws. The point was that OP seems like they don’t know much about matrimony in non-individualistic cultures. India’s biggest problems are casteism, religious zealotry, and insane corruption. Indians raised well with access to good education who move abroad do well because they can avail first world opportunities and money. A two child policy is needed. Education sets a nation free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:53 AM |
| 110 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themThe only people who genuinely believe otherwise have had their brains rotted by porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:49 AM |
| – | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themThey can’t comprehend other men being normal about women because they assume every man is like them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:48 AM |
| 4 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want them“You don’t share my disgusting philosophy, clearly you’re lying for validation from internet strangers”. Do you hear yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:48 AM |
| 7 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.I swear, you are genuinely the first person I’ve come across to say this. People always say the grass is greener on the other side, but few people want arranged marriage culture, least of all women. This isn’t an insult, I’m just more surprised than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:00 AM |
| 1 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteThat's not the only thing I judge, it's the first thing I judge. My view of attractiveness isn't about how good of a fuck someone can be. When I used to live in Houston, I used to take the bus to uni, and I used to notice the people around me, their mannerisms, their clothing, their confidence and way they carried themselves, and tried to find attractive things about them. One example that lives with me is of a big latino dude, wearing well-fitted clothes and rocking a great beard. The aesthetic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:51 AM |
| 12 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.My family is ethnically Indian. We have a very non-individualistic culture. Arranged marriage is the norm in many places. My parents are an example. Of course, arranged marriages aren't as evil as some people believe it is, it's basically a family-approved dating app in real life. But the point is, relationships are about family compatibility and filial duty first, love and connection second. My parents worked out well. They click, and they genuinely care deeply for each other. I have friends wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:40 AM |
| 5 | What's your ideal world ?People aren't forced to conform to specific gendered ideas about how dating "should" be. Dating isn't paramount in society. Those who can't or don't want to date are given grace and dignity and aren't shamed. The point above is in conjunction with not having dating be the only worthwhile source of intimacy. Validation in life isn't sourced solely from sexual/romantic success. Freer love and intimacy is necessary, and people deserve to feel wanted and needed in society. You can't force relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:34 AM |
| 1 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteRecognising someone’s attractiveness isn’t the same as reducing someone to only their attractiveness. I don’t believe this any good looking man or woman on the street is good enough for just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:25 AM |
| 2 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteAI is a powerful tool, one that will indubitably shake some foundations of our modern society. We need it, and it’s the next step in progress, luddites are stupid. But we need good regulation, driven by shaping AI into a tool for growth, not trying to contain it. So of course most countries won’t give a shit about the chaos of AI, and those who do will likely just ban it in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:24 AM |
| 2 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteAgreed. But this subreddit is a bad example of men in real life. When I say bad example I mean in terms of sampling methodology, not in a moral sense. This subreddit has a higher than average number of neurotic, autistic, and angry men. You’ll find these men in real life, but they’re over represented here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:45 AM |
| 2 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteI implore you to not use this subreddit as a realistic sample of what average men are like irl. Whether or not your experiences with men in the outside world are good or bad, don’t rely on the internet to form your opinion. The same goes for any group of people. I was afraid most white people would be racist towards me in Sydney. I’ve met a racist or two, and I’m sure there’s many more, but most people are perfectly fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:38 AM |
| 3 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteI hate adults who give advice like this. If you go your whole life without relationship experience, you’ll never know how to find love. You can’t alienate sex and love and expect it to happen naturally, if you’re pursuing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:18 AM |
| 5 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteBusiness school is understandable. The thought of doctors who’re only in the game for money and hoes terrifies me. Medicine needs a moral assessment criteria. I suppose finance should as well, but I suspect the field tends to draw a certain kind of douche. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:13 AM |
| 0 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteAbsolute poetry bro damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteMaybe you don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:04 AM |
| 4 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteThere is no mass level incentive. If you're dissatisfied with society, and wish there was a change, you have an incentive. If you don't, continue as you are. My opinion is that there are problems, and if you're disgruntled, it may be time to do something about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 11:07 PM |
| – | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with haste"Humans are only good for baseline natural instincts, we are born to eat, fuck, and die." "Hey, no. The fact that advanced, sophisticated society exists is antithetical to your argument. Maybe you should go outside and interact with members of said society". "You're being emotional, lol. What a woman/sissy". ????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 11:01 PM |
| 3 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with haste"I like big tits. I find them sexy, and I'd like a woman with big tits". "The only good thing about women are big tits, when I see big tits, I ignore the woman they're on, I reduce a woman with big tits to an object of my sexual fantasies". The first is a preference. The second is objectification. And stop fucking moaning about testosterone; "oh you must think I'm so evil I have evil coursing through my body oh woe is me boo fucking hoo". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:59 PM |
| 3 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteAd hominem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:49 PM |
| 3 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hastePets can. Humans can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:30 PM |
| 1 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteIt's sad how they ignore one of the fundamental facets of humankind, the capacity to question and explore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:30 PM |
| 0 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteI find it very sad that you don't have a goal that pushes you beyond base animal instincts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:24 PM |
| 6 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteYes, I have sexual thoughts. I look at people and recognise who is attractive and who is not. I don't objectify people by only thinking of them sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:22 PM |
| -1 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteHundreds of thousands of years of evolution has led to humans having high capacity to store fat for the cold and protection against physical attack. Are people generally more attracted to fit people or fat people? And once again, society transcends animalistic instincts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:18 PM |
| 4 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteElaborate, this is a nothing statement. And once again, please speak for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:14 PM |
| -1 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteWe should play God as much as we can. That’s the ultimate goal of humanity in my opinion, we should try to master this planet, and look beyond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:06 PM |
| 10 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteI’d say the solution is to make a kinder society that doesn’t see people as subhuman for not having sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:05 PM |
| 5 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteSpeak for yourself dude, objectification isn’t universal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:00 PM |
| 2 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteSo does society just not exist for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 09:57 PM |
| 2 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteI’m a man. I’m bisexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteShit I’m sorry, I made a typo. I meant “not made to feel subhuman”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteI am religious. Although I disagree with you here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:50 PM |
| 0 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteIt’s fun, it’s like watching a train wreck. The point is to not take anything seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteAlleviating disease, famine, financial insecurity, and pointless wars (yeah yeah I get that it’s idealistic, sure). Building a society that doesn’t force people into moulds, and one that allows people to live with dignity regardless of their material conditions. The solution to sexlessness is to create a society where the sexless are not made to feel subhuman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:40 PM |
| 3 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteBecause fundamentally, we have the ability to move beyond animalistic instincts. Biologically, we’re animals. Philosophically, we’re not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:18 PM |
| 7 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteSex requiring effort isn’t the same as dedicating your whole life to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:16 PM |
| 14 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteThere are people in this comment section stating the strawman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:14 PM |
| 16 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteTo debate this ludicrous idea that the only reason men do anything for society is to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 08:03 PM |
| -3 | For too many men here, sex is the only priority to be fulfilled with hasteMale sexuality isn’t doing everything in life for the sole purpose of fucking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:53 PM |
| 5 | It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault.Then fund critical gender studies research and (through rigorous research), establish internalised misandry as a theory. If liberation is stopped by a lack of approval from others, it is no liberation. This is such a weak fucking mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:37 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomI’m not rich enough to not need to work. I’d much rather have my own source of income than to have to rely on my spouse’s income. How is this so hard to understand? Are you an idiot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 11:57 AM |
| 0 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomNo. But it would bother me to have to ask someone to pay my bills or put food on my table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:13 AM |
| -1 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomIs that worse than having to rely on someone else, who’s also a slave to the economy, to survive? You’re outsourcing the slavery and making yourself more reliant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:39 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomYour second paragraph, it states that most women get the ick from men not following gender roles. So a lot of men would be afraid of liberating themselves from shitty ideals out of fear that women wouldn’t want to be sexually involved with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:02 PM |
| 1 | There is some validity to the idea that women tend to date up consistently. But every once in a while an example comes up that hilariously refutes the insane generalisations on this sub.I’m not sure if you understood my sarcasm, or if you’re being sarcastic now and I’m too stupid to understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:59 PM |
| 7 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomTrue. In general, the need to do anything injurious to yourself just to survive is a horrifying reality that must be resolved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:58 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomLook up some of u / DiligentRope's recent comments of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:54 PM |
| 5 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomI'm a firm believer of society being a medium to defeat the basal nature of humankind. Not a tool to exaggerate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | There is some validity to the idea that women tend to date up consistently. But every once in a while an example comes up that hilariously refutes the insane generalisations on this sub.No you see, they only date thugs when they're in their "prime", and then betabuxx their way up the socioeconomic ladder when they're done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:51 PM |
| 6 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomI'm not trying to to set up an agenda. Let people find their own paths in life. As long as they're not harming anyone, what's the big deal? Why should every man in society follow an arbitrarily decided agenda? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:50 PM |
| 5 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomModern Western society in the last century is not equivalent to how societies across the West always used to function. Women in Medieval Europe were serfs just as much as their husbands were. The wives of slaves were just as much slaves as their husbands were. In the last century or so in the Western world, there was a push to emulate the upper classes and their gender norms. This isn't to say that gender norms didn't exist amongst the lower classes, but we specifically followed and remember the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:48 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomFear of losing access to sex is the greatest hurdle men have. Shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:41 PM |
| 7 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomYou seem to believe humans should devolve into creatures who live off their base instincts. I pity such a thought process. Society is about beating nature and creating a world we want to live in. Society is the antithesis of basal-instinct driven living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:40 PM |
| 6 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomWe had discrimination lawsuits when women were generally considered less qualified due to being women. As perception of competence achieves parity vis-à-vis gender, gender discrimination lawsuits will be less relevant. As long they're relevant, we need them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:38 PM |
| 7 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomI believe we need to rethink our economic principles. Infinite growth isn't possible. Financial insecurity persists in a times of unprecedented overall wealth. Yes, late stage capitalism absolutely incentivises lack of families. We need to move on from zero-sum thinking. It's easier to ban things than to address root causes. If you can't organically reduce solicitation of sex work, banning it will at least cause a few to not seek it. It's faulty logic, but it's the most realistic solutions we of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:37 PM |
| 7 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomIn a sense, I agree with you. If you have to work like a modern day serf just to live, your life sucks. It's not much better than what we used to be centuries ago. Achieving financial security for all is a noble and necessary goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:32 PM |
| 7 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomA lot of feminists despise sex work, and some consider sex workers to be antithetical to feminism. It's why it's controversial. The point is that sex workers shouldn't be seen as less than human for being sex workers. And safer, regulated sex work can remove a lot of the stigma around whoever solicits them. Patriarchal values that assign "respect" and "importance" to men based on sexual success leads to the shaming of those who seek sex workers simply out of loneliness. Yes, women can, and often… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:31 PM |
| 12 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomIt is better for us all to be liberated than to be shackled. If patriarchal society keeps men and women at -5 and -10 respectively, it's shitty for both of us. If a more liberated world keeps us both at 0, it's objectively better. Men who want to emulate gender roles should absolutely be free to do so. But don't force it on everyone; make it a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:27 PM |
| 12 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomMen who value gender roles should be allowed to pursue them. The point is that a choice must be offered, a way out for those who don't agree with these principles. If you don't want to be a "real man" the way society sees them, you should be free to not be arsed about it. If you want to fit those ideals, go right ahead. Give people the choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:25 PM |
| 8 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomThere are historical examples of women mining, farming, doing factory work, helping in family businesses. It was largely looked dow upon, they were seen as uppity. As I mentioned, for a specific time in the West, there was a desire to push women out of this and to emulate the upper classes, where men were the arbiters of all worldly accomplishments, and women were reduced to status symbols. Second wave feminism was about breaking this social illusion and allowing uniform progress. Your post was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:23 PM |
| 7 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomOn paper, I agree. The problem is that it commodifies a fundamental human right, and that has some very worrying ethical consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 10:50 AM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.To me, incels aren't people who can't get sex, they're people who foment sociopathic tendencies in themselves out of hate. A virgin isn't beneath me, a hateful person is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 10:49 AM |
| 8 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomI agree that women have gained a lot social freedoms compared to how things used to be. I don't agree that they intentionally keep men socially chained to gender roles in a conspiratorial way. The thing to remember is men or women, we aren't a hive mind; you'll still meet women today who aren't feminists and advocate for strict gender roles. People who support patriarchal values, which definitely includes a portion of women, keep men shackled to the mould of a "real man". But it's the job of us … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 10:47 AM |
| 15 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomI agree. A lot of men have been brought up by institutions that haven't changed with the times, and have instilled old values and thoughts in them that don't necessarily align with how reality is today. I think we need to raise men to be more free, and less burdened by norms and values that stifle them. We aren't a monolith, and that should be felt on a societal level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 10:43 AM |
| 0 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.I've struggled before with finding someone who wants me. I have friends who've suffered relationship issues. Opening up about issues and venting isn't wallowing in self pity. Reaching out to your friends and getting help isn't wallowing in self pity. Letting your anger fester to sociopathic levels, believing in hateful ideologies, and harbouring rage against women is wallowing in self pity. I'm not pushing men down. On the contrary, I'm claiming that most men aren't as sad as this sub claims men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 10:36 AM |
| – | Redditors are so ridiculous when it comes to age gap relationshipsI wouldn’t know, I don’t regularly converse about age gap relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 10:13 AM |
| – | Redditors are so ridiculous when it comes to age gap relationshipsGood point. I believe, that relationships not formed out of social need or some guarantee of security need genuine connection. This is my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 10:06 AM |
| – | Redditors are so ridiculous when it comes to age gap relationshipsSex? No Relationships? I'd wager that relationships not formed out of social need or some guarantee of security need genuine connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 10:04 AM |
| 7 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomI'd say it was more general, not really about "feminine culture". It was a mix of general anger against women and some idea of arbitrarily enforced parity of the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 09:59 AM |
| 14 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomI'm sure some women think this way. I think most criticism against sex work comes from a place of concern that it muddies the concept of consent, and that it gives rise to the idea that enough money can overpower bodily autonomy. I agree, as long as financial and wealth inequality persists, sex work will continue. It's degrading, but it's simple. Not easy, but simple. You can't make it go away by banning it, so it's better to regulate it so that sex workers and those who solicit them can have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 09:55 AM |
| 14 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomI disagree. There was a post recently about feminism, and there were quite an alarming number of comments claiming this principle. And you routinely find comments on here stating these ideas. Obviously not every man here is like that. And I'm not saying a majority are, but enough are to raise some eyebrows. Either way, a lot of men here hold some deep rooted anger, and take it out on women as if they're to blame for their ills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 09:52 AM |
| 1 | There is some validity to the idea that women tend to date up consistently. But every once in a while an example comes up that hilariously refutes the insane generalisations on this sub.🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 09:50 AM |
| – | Redditors are so ridiculous when it comes to age gap relationshipsI agree, your average Moroccon muslim doesn't have a lot in common with a Bavarian catholic. Given your choice of example, I'm assuming you mean that immigrants or descendants of immigrants in Europe don't have much in common with the native population. And I can agree if you're talking about immigrants in particular. But a descendant of a Moroccan muslim who has lived most of their life in the same vicinity as the Bavarian catholic will probably have a lot in common with said Bavarian. Of cours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 09:25 AM |
| – | Redditors are so ridiculous when it comes to age gap relationshipsAge gap relationships are considered weird not because of gold digging or anything, but because of a gap in maturity. I too find attractive women in their 40s hot. But they're twice my age. They've lived literally twice as long as I have. They're not at a position in life where they have much in common with me, and it'd likely lead to a lack of genuine connection. Yes, old souls exist. No, it's not impossible for younger and older people to be friends; but being someone's partner involves a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 09:15 AM |
| 2 | There is some validity to the idea that women tend to date up consistently. But every once in a while an example comes up that hilariously refutes the insane generalisations on this sub.To be honest research doesn't have to be academia. If anything, I was speaking more about corporate research, like semiconductors or quant finance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmI’d put it like this. Feminist ideals strive for equality and freedom from oppressive structures that permeate our society. Feminism, as it is a movement that has been started largely by women, focuses primarily on the battle for women’s liberation. While doing so, men are also inadvertently helped, as men too are chained by these structures. However, the primary goal of feminism was to analyse and tear down these ideas through a woman’s lens, by trying to free them. Feminism helps all, but was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 03:08 AM |
| 1 | There is some validity to the idea that women tend to date up consistently. But every once in a while an example comes up that hilariously refutes the insane generalisations on this sub.This is a great compliment, honestly. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:47 AM |
| 8 | Men should be douchebags to find love"she could talk trash about the whole block and I'll defend her" Boy you're either rage baiting real hard, or you have some insane issues. No one is worthy of that kind of crazed obsession. You seem to have very little self esteem, and will chase sex even if it hurts other aspects of yourself. I swear the inhabitants of this jail cell of a subreddit are entertaining, but too fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:44 AM |
| 4 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmLiberation doesn't mean oppression of others. If your liberation requires you to put down other people and demean them, and generally push for a harsher, more unbearable society, your goals should be criticised. Either you don't understand this or you're arguing in bad faith. Either way, I can't convince you, and I can't stand your thought process. Have a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:42 AM |
| 5 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmSure man. I think we need a kindler, gentler world. Figures like Andrew Tate actively work for a harsher world. Call it hippie bullshit if you will, but there's nothing wrong with being nicer, in fact, we need it more than ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:29 AM |
| 9 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmI don’t know, I don’t subscribe to a particular group of people or ideology. I think men should learn to love themselves and practice self-care and analyse who they are and why they feel the way they do. Then, practice whatever makes you feel liberated and happy, within reason. Reason includes not indulging in sociopathic behaviour or spreading hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:22 AM |
| 10 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmTate doesn’t advocate liberation, he advocates for sociopathic ideals and denigrates men, women, and everyone else he sees as “inferior”. He’s not a role model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:47 PM |
| 10 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmI don’t advise women in general, and I haven’t seen what you’re talking about, in real life. If a woman has issues with her husband, she should let him know, and see if a fruitful compromise can be achieved. I have never seen or heard of a husband being called a rapist for wanting sex. I have heard of husbands being called rapists for forcibly having sex with their wife when she stated that she didn’t want to; which is what rape is. Don’t hyperbolise genuine frustrations into felonies. It made s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:44 PM |
| 9 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmIf you don’t want to do something for your partner, let them know and see if you can reach a compromise. If you don’t want to do something for your family, let them know and see if you can reach a compromise. Statistically, is the number of “diversity hire” women significant enough to warrant women in general as incompetent? Or are most women genuinely qualified for their roles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:27 PM |
| 10 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmIn the First World, the modern interpretation of gender roles are essentially “get rich, even at the expense of others and yourself, and fuck as many women as you can, just to prove you’re ma enough”. I don’t watch Andrew Tate, but from the little I know about him, he exemplifies this. People oppose male-centric movements if they fight to bring back shitty expectations, force you to shut off your own emotions, and perceive the rest of society as adversarial. And yes, genuine liberation from gend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:23 PM |
| – | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmYou’re unreasonably angry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:53 PM |
| 5 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmLiking the company of women in your life ≠ seeking female validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigm“My point was that you do want female validation.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:38 PM |
| 8 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmEnjoying the company of women I like isn’t me wanting their validation. I don’t need them to sign off on my life choices or to make me feel like my life is worth something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:36 PM |
| 7 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmI want a partner too. My sense of self worth isn’t tied to having a partner. There’s a difference. I want sexual/romantic love from a specific woman of my choice, and I want the women in my life to appreciate me, the same way they want me to appreciate them. I’m not dependent on their validation, and certainly not from the entire population of women as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:32 PM |
| 8 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmIf your barrier to fighting for male liberation is female validation, then you must find a sense of self worth beyond romantic/sexual validation first. It isn’t easy to do, too many people suffer from this. But it requires personal will to overcome it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:28 PM |
| 11 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmI agree, many people, especially women, make this argument in bad faith. The point is to not care anyway. Advocate for freedom anyway, why do you want others to do the work for you? The argument when made in good faith, is that a lot of people, especially men, bring up men’s rights as a counterpoint to feminist goals, but not in a vacuum; in essence, men’s rights, as perceived by these people, is a cudgel intended to be used against feminism but not as a tool for male liberation in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:21 PM |
| 6 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmI agree. We need to make it safer for men to step out of these lines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:21 PM |
| 10 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmThose men are free to live their life as they wish. If they enjoy their roles, why should I stop them? I’m not here to force anyone, I’m here to advocate that anyone who doesn’t like their roles should have the freedom to move beyond them. I also like certain male gender roles, and I perform them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:18 PM |
| 11 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmSure, I agree. I was just stating that a lot of people are more welcoming to genuine, wholesome social change than many assume. Women are also less rigid with gender roles as times go by. Not all, not uniformly, not at significant enough level, but progress is happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:17 PM |
| 7 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmGood for them. I don’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:15 PM |
| 10 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmI think the cause is lack of economic freedom. The inability of people to live more freely largely stems from a fear of poverty. If we target financial insecurity, we’ll go a long way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:15 PM |
| 12 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmIn my school, me and a bunch of my guy friends started a club for men’s mental health and to support one another through toxic gender roles and social expectations, and of course a general place to vent and find support. Not a single girl was opposed. I think it’s wrong for me to always have to be stoic and ignore my own well being for the sake of “social harmony” or for someone else to not get the “ick”. Few people have opposed me for that. For anyone who does, have a day, but don’t bother me w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:14 PM |
| 13 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmThat stops you. Not everyone. I’m a man. I don’t like certain gender roles. I don’t perform those roles. I’m not being toxic to anyone in particular, I’m just not concerned with social stigma that holds me down for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:11 PM |
| 10 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigm“Feminism for all” is stated in the context of freeing people from the patriarchy, which harms everyone by trying to fit us into moulds. “Feminism for woman” is stated in the context of feminism being a movement primarily for women’s liberation, to ensure women aren’t chained by arbitrary, harmful stigma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:09 PM |
| 18 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmShould that stop you? Many women were, and still are against feminism. Male liberation has opponents of all genders and socioeconomic classes. The point is to not care and fight to make your life better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:07 PM |
| 17 | Society often tries to change men's behaviour regarding intersexual dynamics to fit a feminist paradigm, but doesn't attempt to change female behaviour to fit the same feminist paradigmThe goal of feminism is to help women break free of gender roles. There’s no obligation to maintain any sort of sexual parity. That’s the whole point, we get rid of arbitrary standards and requirements that keep us chained down. Wanna do sex work? Go for it if that’s what you like. It doesn’t define your worth as a human being. That’s not encouraging sex work, it’s trying to free a person from stereotyping. Agree or disagree with this as you like. There is no obligation for feminism to directly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Yes, I’m very emotionally open with my boys. I go to them for help, they come to me for help. We compliment each other all the time, and support each other through our struggles. I’m genuinely glad I found friends like them, they’ve helped me keep my head held high at some of my lowest points, and I’ve done the same for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:55 PM |
| 2 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Aw shucks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 03:05 PM |
| 2 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Egads! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 03:03 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Also, slight correction; I am Asian, but more specifically, I'm ethnically Indian. Call me p**pjeet or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Life is great actually :))) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 03:00 PM |
| -1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.:( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.:( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:53 PM |
| 5 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.It's like they don't think twice before speaking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:52 PM |
| 3 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Sham :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:50 PM |
| 2 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.More likely than you think! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:42 PM |
| 0 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Damn :(((( I can't believe I'll be 35 and hateful because some stranger I'd be. I can't believe my life would be finished because I won't be able to find a white gf. Or that I'll hate white people even though I have no problems with them, or like some of the closest people in my life are white :((((((( I'm privileged, nothing I can say will change that. But my god you're a salty fuck. It's almost too bad I don't use dating apps anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:41 PM |
| 4 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Maybe you don't belong in this century dawg. If Afghanistan isn't conservative enough for you, I'd suggest you invent a time machine for your medieval bullshit. I hope people with your mentality have less and less say on how society should function. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:38 PM |
| 6 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.I think it's fairly normal to reject a random stranger asking for sex. If a woman randomly propositioned me for sex, I'd have my guard up too, tf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.As I sad somewhere before, I fully believe the median national income for a man may very well be less than 40k. What I don't believe is that 35 year olds on average make less than 40k. National medians consider all age groups and type of work. I expect a 22 year old to do Uber Eats, not a 40 year old. And the CoL isn't uniform. 40k in LA is homelessness. 40k in rural Idaho could get you a lot further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Also factor in the number of single earner households. Oh, and the fact that middle income also stretches to 155k per household. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:24 PM |
| 3 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.I'm exactly 20. I meet women exclusively organically, I've stopped using dating apps. So do almost every other man I know in my age group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:20 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.~62% of Americans are white collar professionals. ~27% of Americans are blue collar workers. The national median income for the US in 2022 was 77.54k USD. As per OECD ratings, middle income in America is between 58.2k and 155k. In 2023, ~51% of Americans were middle income, as per OECD. So again, not all doom and gloom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:18 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.10-13% of Aussie workers are tradies. 36-39% of Aussie workers are white collar professionals. 64% of Aussies are currently employed, this is 64% of all ages, genders, regardless of health status. At least 46% of Aussies, therefore, are employed in gainful work that pays a solid living. As per OECD data, ~58% of Aussies can be considered middle income; middle income is 75-200% of the national median income. In 2022, the national median was 65k, so 58% of Aussies earned between 48.75k to 130k Cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:03 PM |
| -1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Of course I'm privileged. My paternal and maternal grandfathers were a ballistics engineer and rail administrator, respectively. My parents went to college and later grad school. My dad's an engineer and my mom's a lawyer. My parents moved us to Singapore from India to give me a chance at First World living. They can afford to educate me in Australia, where I can learn Physics and Maths just for the love of the game. In the grand scheme of things, I am extremely, extremely fortunate to be who I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:55 PM |
| 2 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Blue collar/tradie work includes carpenters, plumbers, electricians, roofers, foremen, linesmen, firefighters, the list goes on. These people play a significant part in keeping society going, and many of these people earn a solid living. I'm not saying they're rich, but your average electrician could probably buy a house in a suburb as an adult in their 30s. Cities like Sydney or LA are incredibly more fucked, I agree, but the idea that most Americans are broke is laughable. ~90% of Australia li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:50 PM |
| 2 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Where I'm from, 40% of school leavers attend uni. And that's not counting polytechnics or mature learners. The biggest industries where I'm from are finance, consulting, O&G, advanced electronics, urban planning, aviation, corporate services, and education. Where I'm from, my socioeconomic status isn't too far off from normal. And most major First World cities are similar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:44 PM |
| 6 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Once you get the wheel of higher education and holistic industrialisation turning, the aftermath arrives quick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:40 PM |
| 2 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.I live in Sydney. A significant number of solid middle class folk are tradies, it's good money here. A proper blue collar job that requires knowledge, expertise, and enterprise is just as hard, often harder, than an office job. My dad's an engineer at a desk now, but he used to work on oil rigs and ships. He says oil rig workers who've never been to school a day after Year 12 are incredibly knowledgeable and earn fat stacks. I believe him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:39 PM |
| 4 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.So what you're saying is happy and successful people are over-represented in real life. Which would give people to assume that those who aren't rotting their brains all day on the internet are actually well-adjusted people who're mostly living well? Colour me shocked. Yes, shut-ins exist. No, they're not large enough to be average, let alone the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.😭⁉️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:35 PM |
| 2 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.I agree with your second point. My question is, is the number of 35 year old Americans working gig jobs significant enough to make the average income in that specific age range ~36k a year? I'm not convinced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:32 PM |
| 5 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.True. It's really only Sub-Saharan Africa + Afghanistan that's still far above 2.1; even India's dipped below 2.1 now. In ~25 years, we're gonna have a decreasing population in India, like we're seeing now in China. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:31 PM |
| 5 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.I'd be willing to bet that the average 35 year old American man isn't making 36k a year. I'd be willing to bet they don't have only 3k in the bank. Sure, 36k income is average across the working age population. But specifically in the mid 30s age range? No way. Statistics can easily be used to lie. If we're talking ages, we need to use age-specific data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:21 PM |
| 6 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.India's TFR is also below 2.1 It is by no means a liberal society. And we already have 8 billion people. Maybe a bit of a controlled decrease in population (as on no random or malicious culling of people) is fine. I don't care if over the next century we go back down to 7 billion people or fewer. Why is constant growth a necessity? If anything, we need third worlders to procreate less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:18 PM |
| 6 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.You are free to try to convince people to emulate Somalia/Saudi Arabia/Iran/India/Nigeria/[insert country of your choice] if you wish. You can even move there if you'd like. But recognise the pitfalls that come with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:04 PM |
| 0 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Ong it's validating as shit sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 01:02 PM |
| 1 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.I live in Australia. Not the US, sure, but still in the Anglosphere. Sure, being upper middle class isn’t exactly average, but does America not have middle class engineer dads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:56 AM |
| 7 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.I never said exciting, I said something worth trying. My dad’s life is pretty boring, he’s your average upper middle class Singaporean engineer. He still has a great career and he’s had a stable family since he was in his early 30s. That’s something worth trying. I wanna be a physicist, it’s nothing exciting to most people, but it’s something worth trying. One should have goals in their life, drifting around aimlessly is the antithesis to humanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:50 AM |
| 7 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.That’s a valid point. I still have reason to believe incels aren’t statistically significant enough to have a notable impact on who’s considered average, but you definitely have a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:22 AM |
| 6 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Historically, there was far more incentive for women to get married. Increased financial freedom begets less desperation for a partner as a reliable source of income. Women have greatly transformed their self image in society, opposing the idea that their self worth was determined by how well they pair up with a man. Men have been less successful in revolutionising their roles, or to break free from them, rather. A lot of men persist in reclaiming what used to be by trying to enforce the conditi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:12 AM |
| 2 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.I agree with you in a sense. Religion is a great way to form community, a fall in religiousness across society has led to somewhat of a collapse of that social structure. Unironically do turn to whichever God(s) you believe in if you’re lonely and out of ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:04 AM |
| 10 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.“None of us said the average man is exactly as you outlined, despite multiple posts every week moaning about how the average man is struggling in the aforementioned aspects of life”. Yes, not every man here says this. But enough of them do to assume the “average r/PPD man” fits the archetype I’ve described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:01 AM |
| 7 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.The internet over-represents repressed loners. As I said, they definitely exist. But the internet can’t be a good barometer for the state of the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:55 AM |
| 8 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Grinded complex analysis and vector calculus all day from 8am after a workout and a shower. I’m about to eat dinner and watch some Top Gear. Thanks for asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:52 AM |
| 4 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Such men exist, and they’re not a tiny sliver of the world. But they’re not the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:46 AM |
| 6 | The only criteria to loving a man.Look at Stamina Steve here guys, says he can last a whole five minutes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:25 AM |
| 12 | The only criteria to loving a man.Get out of here, this place is a prison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:24 AM |
| 3 | The only criteria to loving a man.Being on this sub makes you realise that there’s a whole world of people out there that you’ve (thankfully) never met. A lot of the opinions of (usually) men here will make your head explode in confusion. You don’t meet such men in the real world very often (in my experience. Maybe I’ve been blessed with decent friends). This post is a logical conclusion of some of those opinions; I’m just glad the only people I know with these opinions are redditors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:29 AM |
| 3 | There is some validity to the idea that women tend to date up consistently. But every once in a while an example comes up that hilariously refutes the insane generalisations on this sub.True, I mostly made this post because the juxtaposition of Dufrene and this sub is funny as shit to me. But I also genuinely think a lot of men on here are lost in their insanity. The idea that every women secretly wants only the rich, tall, model millionaire is so out of touch with reality I seriously wonder if they socialise properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:14 AM |
| 2 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Queensland does sound great. Sydney’s too fucking expensive, Brisbane sounds far better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 09:52 PM |
| 3 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.You’re the most based man on this sub dude. Broletariat fr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 09:48 AM |
| 2 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Call me George the way I be handling that W Bush. /sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.I think you're too caught up in your own anxiety and need to look around you more often. Yes, there will obviously be some restraints, but you're constricting yourself way too hard here. I've gone jogging in public shirtless, it was fine. I've worn leggings under loose short shorts and a tank top on leg day, it was fine. Co-ed gym, men and women around me. Seriously, unless you act creepy, no one genuinely cares. People are far more apathetic than they are harmful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 12:25 AM |
| 5 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.I also don't see men wearing suits in a gym or compression shirts at work. Different venues require different garments, this is obvious. But within the context of a specific venue, there is more freedom available than you think. Not everyone wears basketball shirts and athleisure tees to the gym all the time. If anything, that's home clothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 12:22 AM |
| 5 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Leggings underneath shorts on leg day is some real shit though. I ain't confident enough to flaunt an ass, but they help so much with mobility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 12:18 AM |
| 3 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Valid point. But I also don't think I've seen straight/bi/pan men be judged too harshly, and certainly not told to leave while wearing such clothes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 12:15 AM |
| 2 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.WE (as in YOU and ME and EVERY OTHER MAN ON EARTH) are rocking that EVERY TIME we go to the gym homie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 10:31 PM |
| 2 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Rugby Tropical climate Queenslander? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 09:41 PM |
| 12 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.We should censor women’s nipples on TV by replacing them with men’s nipples. On women’s breasts. Would be peak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 09:10 PM |
| 17 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Preach, king | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 08:40 PM |
| 15 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Compression shirts are a thing. Going shirtless kind of bypasses skin-tight clothing doesn’t it? Nothing’s legally stopping men from wearing what they like. I can wear booty shorts and an oversized tee at the gym if I want to, I just don’t want to. Legally, nothing’s keeping me from that. And I agree, we need society to be less stuck up about clothing, let people wear what they want to wear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 08:29 PM |
| 41 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.I’ve seen dudes in the gym with a low cut tank top and short shorts on. No one gave a shit. I’ve seen dudes wearing only underwear and grey sweatpants, shirtless. If it’s allowed by the gym, no one gives a shit. Seeing as female breasts are sexualised far more than male breasts are, we have more freedom in clothing than them. This is the most puzzling rant I’ve come across, what gyms do you go to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 08:21 PM |
| – | CMV: Western men need to take accountability for the terrible behavior of many western womenDon’t bother. ShitTake McGee here can’t comprehend that his inability to find a woman who wants to be in his life isn’t society’s problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 07:53 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Western men need to take accountability for the terrible behavior of many western womenBirth rates for third world countries aren’t too far behind. India’s already below replacement rate, in 20 years they’ll have a shrinking population, which is where China is now. And furthermore, it’s a lot, a LOT easier to increase birth rates in Europe than South Korea even without immigration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 07:49 PM |
| 20 | CMV: Western men need to take accountability for the terrible behavior of many western womenEven if we accept the premise that Western women are all harlots who’re destroying society, why should Western men take the blame? And furthermore, what should we do? Women cannot be both powerless against men and have the power to destabilise society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 07:46 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Western men need to take accountability for the terrible behavior of many western womenHorrible work life balance that leads to worker suicides. Seriously, this country has out Japan-ed Japan. Horrible gender relations that exacerbate the fact that they’re literally dying out because no one can stand each other enough to have kids, and because no one has the time or money to do so. Yeah sure man, we should wanna be like South Korea. Personally, I think Italy or France have the best lifestyles, it’s much better to live there than in most other places in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 07:44 PM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"Then you should realise that dating and female companionship in general will be harder for you. You’re not likeable enough for a friendship, let alone a relationship. You’re not attractive enough for a hook up. There’s not much else for you to do. Sure, you were dealt a shitty hand, but you make things actively worse for yourself. By the looks of it, you don’t deserve companionship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 07:36 PM |
| – | How do you distinguish between a woman you fall in love with and and an attractive women you’re close to?I do think one way to do it is just to date around and see what I like in a person. But I’m also afraid I’ll be seen as someone who only sees women as potential dates and doesn’t have standards. I’ve been on a few dates each with a bunch of women consecutively for a few months, and I’ve heard one call me too easy and desperate. That kinda sucked. Thanks about the love bit, it clarifies things a little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:58 AM |
| 1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?If someone vented to me that the current dating climate is toxic or made them dissatisfied I wouldn’t assume they were an incel. Assuming they were comfortable with it, I’d ask some questions to see if I could be any help. If I see a deep-rooted anger at women simply for being women I’d assume they were an incel yes. But if it was just a frustrated rant about a particular woman or type of woman I’d raise an eyebrow but chalk it up to frustration. And a lot of incels aren’t too far gone yet. I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:55 AM |
| – | How do you distinguish between a woman you fall in love with and and an attractive women you’re close to?That’s the thing, I’m not entirely sure what I’d like. I do see myself being a dad if things go right. I can form a basic list of principles I’d have if I was a a dad, but I can’t imagine what I want the mother of my kids to be like. There are some clues, I like someone sarcastic and slightly mean in a playful way. I want someone smart who works in a research-focused career; ideally we’d both be academics. I want to be someone who makes good money so I can take care of my wife and kids myself fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Why Shame and Social Pressure Aren’t Always Bad ThingsI’m Singaporean of Indian origin, I’m too familiar with the eastern cultures you speak of. Yes, the emphasis on social harmony and rigidity has certain benefits; but it’s too much harm for too little reward. I’ve seen my peers get lost in addiction, go no contact with their families, and lose control of their lives due to extreme discipline. Let the world chill, there’s already too much pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:21 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I like maths and physics, so I want to spend my life doing it, just for the love of the game. I’m sure my priorities will change as I get older, but this is what motivates me now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 11:19 AM |
| 1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?You’d be surprised how many people in my life assumed I relate to women’s issues with sex and relationships because I’m “part gay”. They’re not bad people, they just don’t understand that being attracted to men doesn’t lead uniform experiences across the board. Even gay men and straight women differ in their dynamics with men, forget about bi people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 07:20 AM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?Who cares? If doing nothing keeps him insecure and paranoid, this can be seen as an upgrade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?Social suicide for you, camaraderie for me. If my ex was slandering me for no reason, I’d use my social connections to fuck with her, that’s a perk of having friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?I said that no woman I know in real life, the key is “I know”. And friends who support you and care about you won’t give a shit about that, let it be known that your ex is a bitch. If I had valid reasons to hate my ex, my homeboys would hate her too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:11 AM |
| 1 | There is no guarantee that the ugly autistic man would be a good husband/fatherYou have no idea what kind of person I am. Sure, I don’t know much about you, but your views seem so cynical and defeated I hope to not be like you. You may not be a bad person, but your outlook on life is full of doom. Have a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | There is no guarantee that the ugly autistic man would be a good husband/fatherI hope to not grow up to be someone like you lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:04 AM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?Then let your social circle know your ex is a cunt and try to ruin her social standing 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:04 AM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?Great. Then you should practice those if it makes you feel more secure in yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:02 AM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?Alright so? I’m 5’8”, I don’t give a shit about my height because I can’t change it. Are you willing to get surgery to get a bigger penis? If not, why do you care about things you can’t change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 02:58 AM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?No woman I know in real life has shamed small penises. No man I know in real life has shamed a flat ass. Get off the internet and talk to people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 02:50 AM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?Sick burn bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 02:39 AM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?The length of my penis has never been crossed my mind as a source of concern. If you’re average, you’re fine. Sure, some women may like bigger sizes, but who cares? There’s nothing you can do, why worry? Being good at sex has a lot to do with non-penile stuff too. And if you’re so insecure about your dick that you have to ask strangers on the internet for validation, you’re too far gone, no answer will be enough for you. And if you’re a child asking this, please get the fuck off this sub, and st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 02:37 AM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?You cannot be older than 15 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 02:34 AM |
| – | Is it true that women view average-sized guys as small?Notice how you asked women for their opinion and only emotionally connected with the response of a man? You don’t want to know the answer, you want a confirmation of your fears. If 99 women said no but 1 said yes, you’d claim that the 99 are liars. More importantly, who the fuck cares. You can’t change the length of your dick, why worry about it. Can you do anything about it? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?Casual sex? No. Relationships? Yeah. I’m sure someone will call it AF/BB or something. I’m 20. I’m talking about people in their early to mid 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 10:27 PM |
| 4 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?I’ve been accused of “playing hard to get”, “not committing” and “playing with my emotions”. I don’t feel good about that, but this comment feels kinda validating somehow😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?Class action 🥳 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 10:14 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?Hell yeah go for it. Even an accusation can tank a career, if he still has one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 10:11 PM |
| -1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ls0uEkCixe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 10:10 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?I know you’ve probably heard this; if you have any documentation, why not file a lawsuit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 10:07 PM |
| 2 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?I think viewing social interactions as a contest of manipulation is incredibly cynical. I’m sure there’s an element of it, but I’ll be shocked if a sizeable number of people genuinely thought of it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 10:06 PM |
| 6 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?Data can be extremely well manipulated. Especially for matters as complex as human emotions. I trust life experience and anecdotes far more than data in such matters. Like the 80/20 like ratio stat on OLD; that’s pretty much the gender ratio on there as well. It’s like that one article claiming Indians and Chinese love hair colouring more than other people. They evaluated data in absolute numbers, not per capita. No fucking shit dude, India and China together form a little more than a third of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:59 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?That sucks about your counselor dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:57 PM |
| 13 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?The average person understands that ugly people have a hard time dating, that doesn’t make them a bad person. Being frustrated about it doesn’t make them a bad person. Letting your hate rot your brain and turn you sociopathic and batshit insane makes you a bad person When I was ugly and frustrated, no one called me an incel loser, guy, girl, or otherwise; because I don’t generalise people and didn’t turn to full time hating of women or “Chad” in a sociopathic way. I was still nice and respectful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:57 PM |
| 3 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?I won’t disagree with that. My housemates are somewhat misogynistic, not cartoonishly bad, but in your lowkey frat bro way. They’re quite socially and romantically successful. I think it’s because they genuinely just give less of a shit about rejection or women not liking them. I’m not tryna learn their shitty takes, but their confidence is inspiring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:53 PM |
| 3 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?Saying you know a “Chad” and like them isn’t the same as trying to paint a group of people with obvious questionable intention through poorly sampled data. Data can lie very, very well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:51 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?🤷🏾♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:48 PM |
| 2 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?I won’t invalidate your experiences, you’ve seen some shitty stuff, even if I haven’t. That’s tough man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?Probably because I have a bisexual heart on my profile, and a f*g is “basically a woman sexually”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:43 PM |
| 5 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?People can change a lot; they rarely do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:41 PM |
| 2 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?I agree with you than confidence comes from within. I’m not morally better than an ugly man. I do think I’m morally better than a hateful incel, those guys are insane. In my experience, cockiness is quite obvious, and it’s not like women can’t tell. Guys who were unreasonably cocky weren’t called Chads or hot, they were called mean and few people wanted to be with them. I don’t know what kind of life you’ve led, but cocky men tend to be disliked quite quickly. A good looking guy in our school, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:40 PM |
| 3 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?I swear some people think life is a video game or a shitty movie. The advent of the internet hasn’t helped those ideas. We really do need to live offline more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:37 PM |
| 5 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?That’s the same confidence I see in a lot of people, actual cockiness isn’t as easily conflated with confidence. Socially confident men can be douchebags, but believing in yourself and putting yourself out there, flirting and trying game isn’t cocky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:33 PM |
| 5 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?I’ve been unattractive and I’ve been decently good looking. Attractive men in my life have rarely treated me like shit before and well after. Those who treated me like shit continued to do so; those who’re nice to me now have always been nice to me. And this is the experience of almost everyone I know in my life. Life isn’t a high school movie dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:32 PM |
| 3 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?Define the difference between cockiness and confidence as you see it. I agree, they’re not the same, but too many men see any sociable, confident man as cocky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:30 PM |
| 3 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?I’m sure that if I have the avenue to dedicate my time to maths and physics, I can be a respected member of academia globally. Maybe I won’t, but I believe I have the potential to be. I’m not comparing myself to others, just hyping myself up. Because if I don’t, no one else will. Is that cockiness or confidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:29 PM |
| -1 | What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person?My whole life, the Mean Girls trope or Jackass Jock trope has never existed. Socially and romantically successfully people tended to be more well adjusted and friendly. Ironically, I realised I was more of a dickhead to them than they were to me because of self hate and resentment. That doesn’t mean ugly people are bad people, I’ve met some wonderful people who aren’t conventionally attractive. “Social capital theory” cuts both ways, and in my person experience, it’s more often than not that lac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:26 PM |
| 2 | There is no guarantee that the ugly autistic man would be a good husband/fatherYou have been so burned by life you’ve lost your grip on reality. Please seek help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 09:16 PM |
| 5 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?You can, and do need to self study a lot in fields like maths, but you need guidance. A good professor doesn't spoon-feed you information, they help you find your own path. 100 years ago, the 4 Year Bachelor's Degree existed as a reality; Einstein had to get a PhD too. Formal university education as we know isn't an extremely new concept, the democratisation of it is. The days of listening to a guy in a hall are far gone. More importantly, 2025 != 1925. A lot of new maths and physics has been di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 04:05 AM |
| 8 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?We're gonna optimise our lives to hell. At some point we're gonna do a cost/benefit analysis of letting poor people live, because what's there to life other than increasing shareholder value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:49 AM |
| 4 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?Most fields of study have high barriers of entry for research. you need to be throughly educated in the basics first. I can't do research in maths unless I'm well trained in maths. The "time value of knowledge" doesn't matter unless you have a baseline understanding of the subject. I'm not aiming to be in the corporate world. I'll go if I have to, but it's a good thing I'm not planning my life around it. Besides, some corporate jobs need advanced degrees; have you ever looked up jobs in Quant Re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 03:30 AM |
| 13 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?Higher education isn't the only way. But unless you live in a pre-industrial part of the world (or in a poverty-ridden bubble), higher education unlocks doors to more advanced jobs. Try working as a lawyer or chemical engineer without a uni degree. You'd need at least a PhD in the field I wanna work in. Even barbers have barber schools these days. And a proper tradie apprenticeship is just as intensive as a college degree. Think of the biggest industries in the First World; Banking, Tech, Advanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 01:53 AM |
| 12 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?Depends. 70 years ago, the world wasn’t as advanced as it is today. The notion of a global banking industry or tech industry wasn’t as prevalent in the 50s. We have so much more advanced technology, like semiconductors, mass produced pharmaceuticals, industrial scale engineering, big corpo consulting, and the likes; a simple high school diploma isn’t enough. We need researchers in fields like biochemistry and electrical engineering more than ever. And some of us to go to uni for the love of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 01:38 AM |
| 9 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?Considering the wording of the comment, the overall conservative nature of the red-pill, and the over-representation of neurodivergent people in this sub; there's a good chance it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 01:27 AM |
| 7 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?You can’t separate politics and gender dynamics… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 01:04 AM |
| 20 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?I’m asking this because I genuinely have to know, are you diagnosed with any mental illness? Maybe neuroticism or sociopathy? I know some hardcore conservatives in my family who aren’t as batshit insane as you are. Alternatively, you could always move to Saudi Arabia/India/Pakistan or anywhere similar to live in your preferred gender utopia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 12:47 AM |
| 12 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?Any modern Western/First World conservative who feels like this is a good idea should just move to Saudi Arabia or the likes. You can always leave for your utopia instead of trying to turn back time to the 1930s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ?That’s tough. You’re under no obligation to care too much about the problems of people if they refuse help or they view you with hostility. Not much else to say 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Why would I, as a woman, take any of your complaints seriously ?I want to preface this by saying that your emotional troubles aren’t invalid, and that the online world and offline world aren’t wholly separate. But if your statements and feelings stem from seeing nasty opinions on gender dynamics online, maybe you should take some time off social media. Stop internalising shitty online opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 08:01 PM |
| 3 | People can, and should have high standards. Arbitrary reasons regarding a personal idea of social stability or a perceived sense of fairness are not valid reasons to get into a relationshipDo you think any man who is romantically or sexually successful is a scumbag? I have an ex, pretty sure I’m not a scumbag. Fairly smart too, at least I think so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 02:48 AM |
| 5 | People can, and should have high standards. Arbitrary reasons regarding a personal idea of social stability or a perceived sense of fairness are not valid reasons to get into a relationshipFunctionally, how does this play out? Do you expect people to date anyone who shows interest in them at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 12:21 AM |
| 2 | People can, and should have high standards. Arbitrary reasons regarding a personal idea of social stability or a perceived sense of fairness are not valid reasons to get into a relationshipFair enough, agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:14 PM |
| 5 | People can, and should have high standards. Arbitrary reasons regarding a personal idea of social stability or a perceived sense of fairness are not valid reasons to get into a relationshipThere’s a difference between wanting to meet someone who adds to your life and be with them, and searching for anyone to fill a hole in your life. I should’ve specified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:11 PM |
| 5 | People can, and should have high standards. Arbitrary reasons regarding a personal idea of social stability or a perceived sense of fairness are not valid reasons to get into a relationshipTrue. Society is shaped in a way that many people don’t receive critical validation when it’s most needed. Advocating for higher standards should come with a way to help those who may not find validation in such world, emotionally and otherwise. A more positive society, less entrenched in gender dynamics, is necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:05 PM |
| 4 | People can, and should have high standards. Arbitrary reasons regarding a personal idea of social stability or a perceived sense of fairness are not valid reasons to get into a relationshipIt’s not binary. I engage in this sub because it’s enjoyable, even though I disagree with a lot of what’s said here. But I don’t internalise the opinions here, or anywhere else on the internet, and live my life based on my experience in real life. Online vs offline isn’t an either/or choice. It’s like a vector, there’s different components, what matters is the value of each component. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:59 PM |
| 9 | People can, and should have high standards. Arbitrary reasons regarding a personal idea of social stability or a perceived sense of fairness are not valid reasons to get into a relationshipAbsolutely. A more positive social climate, one where sexual or romantic success doesn’t determine someone’s worth, or part of it, is necessary. And a society which alleviates poverty and financial strain should be sought regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:55 PM |
| 0 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.You’re right. I wasn’t really fully aware of the context he answered in, and I jumped to shitty conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:49 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people underestimate how big of a role alcohol and a general lack of inhibition play in hookup culture. Sober people (man, woman, or anyone else) do not commonly make out or hook up easily all the time.Fair enough, a sober man when drunk is fundamentally the same man after all. I can see why a random hookup can be the best sex someone’s had. I can’t internalise that feeling but I can understand the reasoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:48 PM |
| 6 | People can, and should have high standards. Arbitrary reasons regarding a personal idea of social stability or a perceived sense of fairness are not valid reasons to get into a relationshipComplaining is part of progress. The other part is those who take the initiative to solve an issue. It’s easy to be a critic. Critiquing a theory is easy, but taking on the effort to go through the scientific method to come up with a new idea is the hard part. And I live my life offline and don’t let online opinions shape my life. More people should try that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:45 PM |
| 11 | People can, and should have high standards. Arbitrary reasons regarding a personal idea of social stability or a perceived sense of fairness are not valid reasons to get into a relationshipMen who’re perpetually angry aren’t angry that women don’t choose “better”, they’re angry that they aren’t chosen. If you don’t go for “good men”, you’re a hoe. And when you do, you’re lying to him and betabuxing him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:38 PM |
| 8 | People can, and should have high standards. Arbitrary reasons regarding a personal idea of social stability or a perceived sense of fairness are not valid reasons to get into a relationshipThe point is to be happy with yourself first. If you learn to love yourself and not attach your sense of self worth to how much other people want to be in a relationship with you, having high standards won’t matter. And every person has their own criteria and standards. Who am I to tell someone they’re dating wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people underestimate how big of a role alcohol and a general lack of inhibition play in hookup culture. Sober people (man, woman, or anyone else) do not commonly make out or hook up easily all the time.Most people are more social and friendly than many of us may realise, but being drunk and in a club just turns it up to 11. And for what it’s worth, clubbing is fun as hell. I wasn’t insulting clubbing, I like it. I think drunk hookups will obviously involve passion of some type. But I think it has more to do with inhibition and lack of self control than a genuine desire to be with someone. I’ve had tipsy hookup sex before, it’s never as good as doing it with someone you love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.No one is hating. Literally the point is that he made up for a mid or somewhat above mid (which isn’t to say that he’s ugly) face with other aspects of himself. I’ll find a link, gimme a minute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:19 PM |
| 3 | A lot of people underestimate how big of a role alcohol and a general lack of inhibition play in hookup culture. Sober people (man, woman, or anyone else) do not commonly make out or hook up easily all the time.Yeah the flip side of uninhibited hook up culture is shit like this. I’m not surprised at all that Gen Z is turning away from party culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:18 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people underestimate how big of a role alcohol and a general lack of inhibition play in hookup culture. Sober people (man, woman, or anyone else) do not commonly make out or hook up easily all the time.I’ve never met anyone who drinks who waited until they were legal age. Having your older friends buy you alcohol was so common, I’m honestly surprised non-sober people waited at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.It is often the opposite. Look at reddit threads of his GQ photoshoot LMFAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:14 PM |
| 4 | A lot of people underestimate how big of a role alcohol and a general lack of inhibition play in hookup culture. Sober people (man, woman, or anyone else) do not commonly make out or hook up easily all the time.I don’t blame them (I’m Gen Z myself). I liked the clubbing, but seeing all those people after the club is kinda sad. Made me realise that maybe I don’t like whole package of clubbing as a whole. I’m not saying I met bad people, but seeing people pissing on the street, holding their heads because they’re hungover or just straight up look dead inside because the high was over felt incredibly uncomfortable. I’m just glad I went with my housemates, and Europeans are fun as hell. Thankfully I didn’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:06 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people underestimate how big of a role alcohol and a general lack of inhibition play in hookup culture. Sober people (man, woman, or anyone else) do not commonly make out or hook up easily all the time.Hey I’m Indian, although I do agree, the cultural difference very much exists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.You’re right, I shouldn’t generalise. But Tom Holland also exists. He’s not ugly, but he’s not known for having a striking face. Everything else about him, including his physique, makes him a 9 at least. Different people like different things 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:12 AM |
| 0 | Would you be more comfortable in a world where strict social and gender norms, roles, and hierarchies exist over a world where there’s more freedom from gender roles for all people?You accept social facts that arise out of a lack of will to change as a fundamental reality of our lives. There were tonnes of women-centric reforms that seemed impossible before they were passed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:43 AM |
| 1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.Poorly fitted clothes can make someone look like an out of shape slob. A well curated wardrobe ensures you can highlight the best parts of yourself. And physique is significantly more important than you give it credit for. A handsome face on a lanky, hunched body is worse than an average face on a well-formed, upright body. Your physical representation is a reflection of your confidence. Seriously, there are so many women who’re attracted to a defined, toned body, and it can make up for not havi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:41 AM |
| 1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.Having toned muscles makes clothes look better on you. Having outfits that tastefully show off parts of your body is sexy. I like wearing a well-tailored button down (tucked into a pair of trousers) with rolled up sleeves. The shirt shows off my torso musculature without being grotesque and my forearms are shown too. Good proportions can show off your physical strong points and hide your weak points. Understanding how to accessorise yourself without being gaudy gets attention. A think man who wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.A lot of people have such a crippling fear of rejection they shut down any possible chances they have. Going to the gym can help your looks. Losing weight gives you more facial definition and confidence in your physique and stature. And fashion helps curate how you present yourself. Wearing basketball shorts and graphic tees everyday isn’t attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:50 AM |
| 5 | Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignity“Is it me? Am I the problem? No, reality must be wrong!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignityThe concept of a performative male is literally to make fun of men who try too hard to appeal to feminine temperament, men who pretend to care and be non-toxic, but are actually dickheads. And this is nothing new, this archetype of man has always existed. Perhaps you're talking about men who actually aren't performative at all, they're genuinely just better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 01:10 AM |
| 4 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.I can’t even begin to explain how shit of a take this is. This that old school misogyny damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.True. I should’ve specified in my post that I was talking about a particular type of man and woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 01:30 AM |
| 1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.Did you read anything after that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.You’re either unaware of how language works or you’re trolling. I’ve called my homeboys handsome. I haven’t called them handsome and awesome and cool in the same sentence. I haven’t said that if I was a girl, I’d date someone like them. Except that last bit, none of the individual parts are gay, but a system is more than a sum of its parts. Also I don’t know what argument I’m running away from? He said he’d date someone like his homeboys. Ok, he wouldn’t he hypergamous then. There’s nothing for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:52 AM |
| -1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.Me pointing out that his wording sounded gay wasn’t a rebuttal to anything, it’s just an observation. You’re looking too hard for something that doesn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:45 AM |
| 2 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.Bros ARE the hoes hell yeah But yeah plastic surgery is cooked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:41 AM |
| -1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.“i would date somebody who is like 5’9 and handsome and awesome and cool(my homeboys).” This is the gay part. I’ve hyped up my homeboys to girls they like before. I compliment regularly. But this is something I’ve never said, that’s just hella gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:40 AM |
| -1 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.No one said that. I don’t know if my standards are above or below average, but I have them. Look at dating like a function. Instead of considering the whole domain, where the value of the output values can be all over the place, you want to find the maximum value of the function, and then find which domain value gives that maximum. You shouldn’t be trying to catch as many fish as you can, just one that you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:37 AM |
| 2 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.Height is something you can’t change. So there’s no point beating yourself up over it. It is what it is. Get a good physique, groom yourself well, learn to dress, and just go out and socialise. Maintain respectful conversation, but don’t be afraid to compliment and flirt. Go to social venues where there’s less chance of fallout. And just do it. Don’t think. Take that leap of faith. Crying over a girl you never tried talking to is sad. If you like someone, flirt a bit. If there’s reciprocation, k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:35 AM |
| 2 | A shit tonne of men who spend too much time online have very little confidence in themselves, not just romantically or sexually, but also in other aspects of lifeY O C H I C O everyone wants Chico 😛 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:31 AM |
| -3 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.I’ve seen straight girls hype up their girlfriends, but this is weird. I hype up my homeboys too, but I wouldn’t talk about them like that. There’s a difference between complimenting someone and saying what you said I’m not saying you’re gay, I meant my previous comment as a joke. But you definitely have some self esteem issues dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:30 AM |
| -2 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.Good point, I need to edit my post. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:29 AM |
| -5 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.It’s 2025 my brother you can come out. I don’t know of any straight man who thinks like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:27 AM |
| -2 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.So you have no standards at all? Do you have any self esteem? If you don’t, you have bigger problems than getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:27 AM |
| -2 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.You’re either trolling or you need therapy. If my future wife was in bed with someone else right now, given I don’t even know who my future wife is, I wouldn’t care. People have relationships before they’re married, it’s not a big deal. And I don’t think about my partners or potential partners fucking other people. If you do, you’re either paranoid, a cuck, or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | A shit tonne of men who spend too much time online have very little confidence in themselves, not just romantically or sexually, but also in other aspects of lifeWhat the fuck? What’re you asking? I don’t have their bone measurements dude. I don’t know mine either, the hell? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:24 AM |
| 2 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.True, the internet has rotted a generation of brains. Most people who live more in the real world than online have regular lives and attitudes. My point was more pertinent to incels who are obsessed with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:23 AM |
| 3 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.I meant that you can see this weirdo online behaviour exhibited in the real world too. My wording was bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | A shit tonne of men who spend too much time online have very little confidence in themselves, not just romantically or sexually, but also in other aspects of lifeMy ex is 5’7” One of my hook ups was 5’4” One was 5’6” I’ve been on a few dates with a 5’1” woman. I’m 5’8” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:18 AM |
| 2 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.My point is that no well adjusted man I know spends time hating on women because they have easier access to sex. It’s just not a thing; the only people I know who genuinely care about that are incels or guys who are young and are getting brain rotted by the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:16 AM |
| 2 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.I’m not following? Isn’t penis envy a Freudian theory that girls experience envy at not having a penis? Also, man Freud was so fucking weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:07 AM |
| 0 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.Based and well adjusted-pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:05 AM |
| 2 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.If you were the woman of your dreams, would you date yourself as you are now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 12:04 AM |
| – | Some (and I’d like to reiterate some) men on here aren’t looking for a debate, they have cop out answers for every valid point you bring up; this sub is a pity party for them, a place to find temporary solace.The ideas I’m criticising are shit you can see all over the sub all the time. It’s everywhere, there’s a serious doomerism amongst the men here, it’s sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | A shit tonne of men who spend too much time online have very little confidence in themselves, not just romantically or sexually, but also in other aspects of lifeLmao no. I just mentioned I had exes, didn’t give any details. I wasn’t trying to flex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | A shit tonne of men who spend too much time online have very little confidence in themselves, not just romantically or sexually, but also in other aspects of lifeI don’t like talking about my exes like this online, especially since I don’t have anything to prove to strangers online. But yeah, they had normal physiques. One was a bit skinny, another a bit on the chubbier side. Most had normal BMI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | A shit tonne of men who spend too much time online have very little confidence in themselves, not just romantically or sexually, but also in other aspects of lifeI knew what he was asking, but it’s a useless question. What do you want me to say? “Yeah my exes were fit and young and had healthy physiques” feels kinda gross to say online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 03:10 PM |
| – | Some (and I’d like to reiterate some) men on here aren’t looking for a debate, they have cop out answers for every valid point you bring up; this sub is a pity party for them, a place to find temporary solace.On a fundamental level, everyone has things they’re good at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 02:22 PM |
| – | Some (and I’d like to reiterate some) men on here aren’t looking for a debate, they have cop out answers for every valid point you bring up; this sub is a pity party for them, a place to find temporary solace.I used to be a fatass with shit skin and horrible self esteem. I had body dysmorphia in middle school because of self hate. I’m barely average height (5’8”) and I’m Indian. Being Indian doesn’t make me ugly, but I can tell people see my race as inferior or unworthy of love. Whatever. I can’t make panties drop with a look, but I’m not so pathetic as to give up all hope. I learned to get and maintain a good physique. I groom myself well. I forced myself to learn good social skills. I’m lucky to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 02:16 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?“logical beatings” and it’s a person explaining why sex work, especially in our society, can be far more degrading than regular employment. You’re either arguing in bad faith or are unable to understand the concept of scale. If I paid you 30 dollars an hour to fix my roof, is that the same as me asking you to suck my dick for 100 dollars an hour? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 02:11 PM |
| -1 | A shit tonne of men who spend too much time online have very little confidence in themselves, not just romantically or sexually, but also in other aspects of lifeI’ve had a long term girlfriend (now ex), she’s my age. I’ve had a few hookups with some women in my college. I’ve gone on some dates with women in my hobby spaces and clubs. Every woman I've been involved with takes care of their health, if that's what you're asking. And "land whales" is hella insulting, tf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 08:24 PM |
| -2 | A shit tonne of men who spend too much time online have very little confidence in themselves, not just romantically or sexually, but also in other aspects of lifeIt really isn’t. I’m no one special looks wise, yet I’ve had ample success. A lot of men here are just fucking miserable and love to wallow in self pity. They’d rather whine at home than to even conceive of putting themselves out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 08:02 PM |
| 0 | A shit tonne of men who spend too much time online have very little confidence in themselves, not just romantically or sexually, but also in other aspects of life“Social skills don’t matter because if you’re Chad women will approach you anyway, and if you’re not Chad you’ll always be a virgin or be cucked”. Online dating advice and just being on the internet in general fucks people mentally. Yes, being handsome helps, no one denies that. But unless you’re genuinely ugly, romance isn’t a Herculean task. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 02:12 AM |
| 19 | The worst thing about modern expectations is that women roles and social duties have been eased while men roles and social duties have increased or stayed sameWomen worked to free themselves of gender roles. There wasn’t a mass clemency given to them by men, no one said “here you go, you’re free now”. I’m a man. I don’t like certain gender roles. I don’t perform those roles. Most people don’t give a shit, and I don’t care about those who do. Only you can set yourself free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 07:27 AM |
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