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Next target: Single dads ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction18/08/24 04:06 PM
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If they won’t go out then that’s your filter… they are USING YOU for a nice dinner… filter them out. Propose a coffee or something cheap. If they say no. Drop the convo… If they say yes, then change it to a good dinner… now you’ve filtered out the women using you for free food. Stop going on useless dates. Maybe you need to go on 1/5 as many so your close ratio will be 1/3…
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:10 AM
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I've had a lot of friends slowly give up on relationships after a series of very bad ones. Despite dating difficult women, lots of fights, abuse, etc, a common factor was that the men refused to acknowledge that they were also part of the problem. Since they took no responsibility, they didn't learn anything, and would repeat the same mistakes until they wrote off all women. Also, "you attract what you are" is true. Well rounded, successful, level head, smart women don't want an average dude jus…
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:54 PM
11

He just realized that he now knows what he is missing. He wants to work on himself and get real women and relationships now
/r/seduction11/10/22 09:21 AM
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Go try to help people in the incel community and you’ll get actively attacked. Those people are committed to never changing a thing, other than blaming women and hating the world for things within their control which they refuse to take action on. Non-incels are often only 1 or 2 steps removed from that. Usually people spend more effort explaining why something won’t or can’t work rather than trying it. Most people are actually content being losers or never getting what they want as long as they…
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:23 PM
3

Definitely do Invisalign. Even if it seems expensive you’ll have great teeth for the next 50 yrs of your life. Mine weren’t that bad and I did it to make it better
/r/seduction01/09/22 07:47 PM
1

So no matter how hot the girl, you’re saying there’s still a chance I could become that ugly fat dude stat in her history ?
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:48 PM
3

It’s the lock analogy…. Locks are typically hard to open and they require a key. A key that can open most locks is considered a master key and is more valuable. A lock that can be opened with literally any key is not very desirable and no one wants that lock securing their house or car. When it comes to societal standards on sex, the women is seen as the lock and the guy the key. You can say it ain’t fair, but that’s how a lot of people see it.
/r/seduction29/07/22 06:06 PM
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I’m not saying average men are womanizers. I’m saying that even the average men, when they get rejected by women, often end up bothering the women about it. So the women try to brush men off lightly rather than being direct with them.
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:43 PM
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Your statement “Date better men.” “Be accountable on who you choose.” What you’re saying is that women should be highly selective on who they date because the average guy isn’t going to handle rejection well? That’s literary what I said… Besides I’m top 5%, both on income and quality or women I dated. I’m just saying why women at not direct with men, it’s because the men will press the issue and harass them if they are direct.
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:51 PM
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Not the reason. It’s because 80% of men can’t handle rejection and go total nuts on the women. The men want explanation. “Tell me WHY you aren’t attracted to me.” “Tell me what I did or said.” No dude. You’re weird and it’s not the girls job to explain to you why. Girls are conditioned to lie about this by the men that go crazy on them if they tell the truth
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:32 PM
22

walks into her house to find 6 other naked couples with yoga mats
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:17 PM
10

That’s why people are haters. Hate on anyone with any success. Success with women, or business, or in life.. It’s easier for 90% of men to blame the women or something outside of their control than themselves. Every friend I know that has horrible relations and horrible odds with women BLAME the women. Despite them being terrible at communicating, having bad tempers, not working on their appearance, not doing any self reflection. It’s like they are the Seymour skinner meme… “Am I really out of t…
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:37 PM
2

Ask the women... But I would say any man can either be undesirable or desirable. But most men are not naturally desirable to the most desirable women…. You want a top 10% woman you need to be a top 10% man. So you have to work on it. How you communicate, how you dress, how you care for yourself, how you live and set goals. Until you’ve put in the work, the “rules” help put some guard rails on the beginners…
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:56 PM
7

Yea... but for the "undesirable" males, they need to follow some structure to increase their odds.
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:36 PM
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Have you consumed all of the pickup and self improvement material to find out what makes men appealing? Go read books and watch 100 hours of YouTube instructions and then spend the next 2 years going out to bars and clubs 3x per week with other likeminded men that also want to meet women. I was antisocial, didn’t have a gf until my 20s I decide to change. So I did that and had hot gf within 6 months. Now I have an even hotter and successful wife.
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:39 PM
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No no. I will do none of that and continue to blame the women. -incels
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:37 PM
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This is the standard incel behavior. They say they want women while adamantly defending the choices that make them unappealing. It’s self-hate disguised as being a victim of a cruel society.
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:35 PM
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Your mindset is the primary problem and you sound like you’re set on it. Have you ever heard the statement “you attract that which you are?” Maybe there’s a 450lb antisocial woman out there that is cared for by her 75 yr old mother that might be Interested in you. Are you interested in a relationship with that woman?? Probably not. You want someone that is desirable and so do the women. If you awkward, creepy, overweight, dead end job, living with parents with no goals, then don’t expect any dec…
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:32 PM
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Yes, when on 123movies, look to the righthand column and click the blinking JPEG of an older women in lingerie, enter your credit card, and you’ll be admitted to the community
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:28 PM
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And in mom’s basement
/r/seduction05/07/22 11:33 AM
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4-6 months of amazing sex, 18 years of child support. You are paying a high price for sex, it’s just a deferred bill that you’ll only realize once it’s too late. Use this relationship as a confidence booster and learning experience and now go out and a quality relationship.
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:05 PM
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Yes. I didn’t meet her until I was 31. Spend your 20s increasing your skills and value. Set yourself goals for 2 yrs from now, 5 yrs from now. Always work towards them. They will continue to evolve but you will keep growing. Don’t stop learning. I suggest have a side hustle and a passion. Doing that will attract women that realize you are going places in life. Being goofy, funny, or social is entertaining for awhile but it doesn’t pay the bills.
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:02 AM
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I barely talked to a girl or had any friends until I was 21. Even then, my 20s mostly sucked as I was depressed and antisocial. I’m in my mid 30s now and my life is pretty amazing. I married a woman that is hotter and more successful than any of the girls my friends ever dated and I earn more money than any friend I have had in the past 20 yrs. Sure they had 25 girlfriends and I had 2, but my wife ended up hotter than all of them. Go for quality over quantity. If you focus on continual self impr…
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:50 AM
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He’s saying from the face/neck alone you cannot tell whether someone has a body structure that would be complementary to yours. If people are fit, they want fit people. If people are softer around the middle, then they don’t mind others that are similar. If people are really overweight, then they’re a better fit for other big people. If your pictures don’t show your size chest, torso, or waist, then most people with err on the side of caution and assume you are on the bigger side.
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:18 AM
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You are attractive and it’s not the freckles. There’s no smile on your lips or in your eyes in this pic. But the downward angle of your head gives you a bit of a “I’m upset/Im depressed/im annoyed” vibe.
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:13 AM
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This girls options: every man alive Your options: ? If that’s the type of woman you want to be with, then ask yourself “am I the type of man she would want to be with?” Most likely no. But that’s ok. You can change and become a yes. But not by stalking or needy behavior
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:41 PM
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I was always the one without a girlfriend, always less social. Everyone I knew had much more success. I focused on quality over quantity. Eventually I married a hot, successful woman that easily tops all of the women my friends ever dated, hands down. “You attract what you are.” Increase your own quality and you’ll increase the quality of those interested in you. Get in shape. Be active. Make it your goal to build a side business in something. Show people that you’re passionate and going places.…
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:01 PM
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but a 29 yr old still living with mom and walking dogs part time for a living might be behind the maturity level of an 18 yr old with a job.
/r/seduction19/06/22 04:31 AM
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Sounds like you have what you need. I don’t think a prostitute is the solution. Next time work on initiating and pushing things further along. If you are concerned about performance, spend more time on the front end being intimate, raising her arousal, rubbing, touching and foreplay without actual penetration. You’ll last longer and she’ll enjoy it more. Physical size should not be an issue with most women and if you are really concerned, just date petite women or Asian women where too much size…
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:34 PM
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How many dates have you been on with girls in your age range? How many of those have turned into a second or third date? How many relationships have you had that are more than 3 months long? Having sex with a prostitute won’t solve any of those above problems if your answer is 0. You could have literally no penis and the prostitute is going to do their job. It won’t truly build confidence. My advice is to lower your standards and go out on lots of dates. Some guys want to date only 9s and 10s wh…
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:08 PM
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Hey now, maybe mr 30 yr old is just super immature and hasn’t really figured their life out yet, in that case the 18-22 yr old might actually be older than them from a maturity standpoint.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:49 PM
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What jobs and learning have you had trouble with? My brother dropped out of college and absolutely was not a book leaner. But he learned welding and became very good and well paid. There are many people welding and doing high value construction/trade jobs that would score below average on an IQ test. Maybe try to explore those? Figure out what you struggle with and then figure out how to overcome it. Do you struggle understanding when someone explains something? Do you struggle remembering and h…
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:01 PM
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Everyone wants to date 9s/10s while not actually being in those tiers. The guys that are 5s/6s aren’t shooting for women that are 5s/6s… You need to focus on yourself and up your tier. If you aren’t fit and have some muscle, then a fit girl is not going to be into you. If you don’t dress and groom well, then a girl that does is not going to be into you. Your Purpose: Become that which you want to attract… Get fit. Clean up well. Dress well. Get a good job or get on track for one. Find a purpose …
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:46 PM
1

He’s in a position of weakness. There’s nothing more she could want from him, acknowledging the flop is a veiled “sorry I was bad”. I think the only way to project confidence is to flat out make a joke out of it to show that it didn’t bother or surprise him that he was bad. And to imply that she could expect more of it, and that’s OK because it could still be fun. People say don’t go “self deprecating” but there’s zero recovery here by projecting false confidence or regret. Comedians are hilario…
/r/seduction14/03/22 11:40 PM
1

Propose an alternative that you would find sexy given that he already performed as a beginner and she told him she isn’t interested. My advice is to acknowledge it and dismiss it. There’s not really a sexy way to handle it without presenting a false confidence that she already knows is false given the previous encounter…
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:59 PM
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I personally do not think he is in a position to play it confidently. Confidence works when you can back it up. He already flopped. So in my opinion he has to acknowledge the flop and reposition it not as a bad thing.
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:56 PM
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You don’t remember your own cousin’s name!? /s
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:06 PM
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Try to get some more experience with her… She already said she didn’t want to do it again so there’s zero downside. First, what did she like about you at first? Play off of that. But I’d text her something lighthearted and self depreciating but indicating you’re still interested in another go. And acknowledging that you’re cool and there’s no risk here. “Hey I was thinking about last weekend. I’m quite the masochist and could go for another round of semi abusive sexual embarrassment. Meanwhile I…
/r/seduction14/03/22 09:00 PM
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You need to be totally relaxed. If she wants to jump ship or cheat then it’s her loss, whatever. If you bring up any of that insecurity she will lose attraction for you
/r/seduction26/12/21 07:20 AM
1

You say “I totally understand. Take whatever time you need. Either way, it was great meeting you. Just reach out if you do want to go out again.” Then you ignore her and move on. You cannot force anyone to change their mind about you. The best signal you can send is that you enjoy her and want to see her, but that you understand her and are listening and that you’re not pushy or needy.
/r/seduction24/12/21 06:24 AM
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My wife is brown and from a cultural group close to India... I know first hand that cooking with a shit load of curry spices will make your whole house, clothes, and even body odor smell that way. Not every stereotype is racist...
/r/seduction25/11/21 11:52 PM
1

Don’t just believe it. Become it. Attractiveness is not just looks. It’s hygiene, fitness, clothing/dress and personality. Your drive, goals, ambitions add attractiveness even if your face doesn’t look like a model. You can immediately increase your attractiveness with those changes.
/r/seduction30/10/21 05:57 PM
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Misunderstood your post, but my comment does apply to his situation
/r/seduction22/10/21 09:09 PM
1

Statistically there is a small group of people having all the sex... the guy with a body count of 100 is also sleeping with the girl who is at 100 as well... most normal people don’t consistently go out for 1 night stands. And like the post says, these people are probably going for volume vs quality
/r/seduction22/10/21 08:47 PM
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If you have to sleep with people you find unattractive then spend time improving your attractiveness level. Who you can pull is 100% dependent on your own personal development.
/r/seduction22/10/21 08:45 PM
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You have to become and deserve that which you want to attract. Are you fit? Do you work out? Do you have goals? Drive? Focus? Passions? Why would this amazing girl that you want also want you back? You gotta build the life and lifestyle that they will be attracted to. Then they’ll show up and you’ll have options
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:58 AM
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Guaranteed he gets accused of rape at some point. And it’s possible he really does it if he’s getting a girl drunk so he can be pressuring her... i would tell him what others have observed and said and advise him to try a better approach
/r/seduction12/10/21 12:07 AM
2

“Will it make me laugh?”
/r/seduction07/10/21 05:17 PM
3

I agree you need a balance. But a very generic response along the lines of “sometimes I like to laugh, sometimes I like to be serious” is not that engaging. The question is not inviting a serious explanation. It is inviting more banter and wittiness. “Are you always this funny?” “No. That’s actually the funniest thing I’ve ever said. Our relationship is going to be quite dull. Mostly just me nodding while staring at your boobs.” “Im only funny, when sex is on the line... so before I answer, tell…
/r/seduction07/10/21 05:15 PM
5

Sounds too serious. She wants him to make her laugh again, not get a dry response.
/r/seduction07/10/21 03:06 PM
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Start working out. Get fit. Don’t set a goal of getting women. Set a goal of becoming the man that beautiful women want. Set a 2 yr goal to be fit, job, own place, etc. Forget the women. You achieve your goal and the women will be there waiting. Any woman that wants you now is not the type of woman you will be satisfied with when you become the man you’re meant to be... become that man first
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:32 AM
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6’2” he’s getting height reduction surgery since women only want men 6 feet tall
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:33 AM
2

Change enough tires and hope she changes her mind!
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:21 AM
1

Only as a friend
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:37 AM
3

There’s a quote I like... “Whether you think you CAN or you think you CAN’T, you’re right!” If basically means you will get the result that you believe is possible. I had zero friends and girlfriends into my 20s. Eventually I told myself “I will have a hot Gf within 2 years and I will do whatever it takes.” I got fit. New clothes. Went to meetups to make guy friends. Started going out to bars and approaching women with a wingman. I had a hot Gf within 6 months of setting out on my original goal.
/r/seduction03/09/21 07:22 PM
9

Send a butthole pic too... “I can’t wait for you to eat my ass” Gotta play it super dominant
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:20 AM
0

You called her sexy and said maybe we’ll be together in the future? That’s sappy. It’s not the way a mature older MAN that she wants to date would talk. You’re pursuing her and talking like you’re a kid. So she’ll see you as one... You’re giving the vibe of the guy waiting in the friend zone for her to change her mind “Maybe someday when I grow up you’ll see me a man, I’ll wait for you and hold out hope. “ You gotta show indifference. You gotta sound fun and act mature. Knock off telling her the…
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:23 PM
0

Ask the same woman out 20 times but change into taller shoe lifts each time. +1 for science.
/r/seduction04/08/21 12:26 AM
8

Would you date a 13 yr old? Most women want to date men, not kids. Youthful looks will be beneficial when you are 50+ yrs old but for now it may be a hindrance to attracting women.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:03 PM
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Would you date a 13 yr old? Most women want to date men, not kids. Youthful looks will be beneficial when you are 50+ yrs old but for now it may be a hindrance to attracting women.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:03 PM
1

Women want to date “men”, not “children”. If your appearance has you looking 5 to 8 years younger than you are, that may not be appealing to women who want to date someone that looks/acts/is older than them.
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:01 PM
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Me too, but for me the mom and daughter both stayed over together...
/r/seduction05/07/21 03:11 AM
5

build a business, or a side business, those can be a passion and make money. And if you build a business in something you find interesting, even better. You can be "creative" building a product or service offering. You don't have to draw or make music to be creative.
/r/seduction03/07/21 12:04 AM
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Be silent for 5 days is because you should be busy and not actually waiting on her. She should not be your priority
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:14 PM
1

You have to know when to push the right buttons given the interaction. She was independent and a business owner. So the situation was reversing the typical situation and telling her to pay for her own drink if she’s talking up her independence. All done with sarcasm and humor. You need to know how to neg, tease in the right context. You don’t pick a girl up by buying drinks and being nice, you pick them up with a fun interaction. People want a fun experience and unexpected outcomes are unique. E…
/r/seduction12/06/21 05:07 AM
1

I took her home that night and we had a great relationship. There’s a reason the “chads” get all the girls. Because they don’t placate and know what buttons to push. Typically downvotes come from celibate “nice guys” that want to tell the successful guys what they’re doing wrong...
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:57 AM
-5

I had a girlfriend I met in a bar/lounge. After some sarcastic banter I asked if she wanted anything to drink. She said yes so I called the waiter over. She ordered. When the waiter came back with the beer and said that will be $6. I pointed at her and said “it’s $6”. She was so thrown off by it! She paid for herself... we ended up dating for 3 years.
/r/seduction11/06/21 06:59 PM
1

Yes, then once more. Then one more time to tell her how nice you are. Then once to tell her she won’t get another chance with a good guy like you. Then once to warn her that she better reply. Then once to call her inappropriate names and tell her she’s not that attractive anyways. Then once a to tell her you’re blocking her and didn’t have any interest in her anyways. Then wait 3 days and text her that that was all a joke and you’re still interested. Repeat until you find someone new to give you…
/r/seduction05/06/21 11:27 PM
2

What is the experience level of everyone here saying dump her? The whole point of seduction is so 6s can attract 9s. Not so 9s can get 9s. You need to give her shit over that comment in a confident way that says “feel free to go bag a chad, it will be your loss if you dump me and I’ll have a 10 after you”. It’s a serious shit test on her part. Depending on how you take it, you show whether she was right or wrong. I would have said something like: “Yea but you’re not with me because of my looks, …
/r/seduction03/06/21 01:14 PM
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“Hey fatty, you should go on a diet.” Does that type of conflict lead to attraction? Cause my wife tells me that every day...
/r/seduction09/04/21 08:00 PM
1

Those are the two main points in the book but he backs it up with a lot more examples and details. I recommend it
/r/seduction30/12/20 01:34 AM
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My 2nd favorite book: The subtle art of not giving a fuck. He talks about 2 key ideas. 1. Put your problems into perspective. You will always have problems/challenges. Would you choose your problems or someone else’s? Compared to living in a 3rd world country with zero opportunity or being being one of the 100m people that have died from war or genocide in the last century, your problems are minuscule. In fact, there are probably 2-3Billion people that would gladly trade their situation/problems…
/r/seduction28/12/20 10:30 PM
1

Yea and once’s she’s ready to settle down and all the fuckboys have moved on to younger women she’ll wonder where all of those nice orbiters went!!
/r/seduction16/12/20 05:34 AM
6

I’ve found that if you have a drive to achieve or accomplish something, most of your friends will become a drag and you’ll want to spend less and less time with them...
/r/seduction31/10/20 06:30 PM
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Maybe they’re trying to gauge how much of a player you are or how confident you are based on your response.
/r/seduction11/10/20 02:20 PM
1

“Love yourself, you are awesome, be happy with who you are” is all terrible advice without an explanation for how to get there. You don’t go from hating yourself to loving yourself overnight. If someone sitting at home crying that they have a shitty job that pays $7/hr and haven’t had a raise or promotion in 5 years, you wouldn’t say “ just hang in there buddy, you’re worth it, you have value”... you would say “you need to actively work to increase your value, learn a useful skill, and build up …
/r/seduction08/10/20 09:02 PM
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What is this from? Seems vaguely familiar but I must have completely blocked it from my mind. Is it a movie?
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:25 AM
3

But you wouldn’t text first either if you received 600 matches per day and had 12,000 matches to follow up with!
/r/seduction07/09/20 06:12 PM
1

They are the real incels.
/r/seduction23/08/20 07:33 PM
2

Post this on a regular funny subreddit and get 70k votes instead of 700
/r/seduction23/08/20 03:16 PM
4

Don’t think about wanting a gf right now. Think about achieving your goals. Your goals can be to do the gym and workout consistently for 6-12 months. To go out and socialize with friends. To get a promotion at your job or start a side businesses or do well at your sports. Tell yourself that you will have an absolutely amazing gf in 2 years. 2 years is long enough away that you can achieve anything but not so far away that you lose sight of the goal. However, this year your priority now is to bec…
/r/seduction06/07/20 12:08 AM
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Cocky = confident. Bad boy = independent. Flirtatious, playboy, gets around = knows what he wants and goes for it. Women are attracted to the qualities on the right that get manifested as the behavior on the left. You can have all the qualities on the right and be nice to women. You just have to know how to indicate that you have them. Any guy that is too nice or a pushover is not signaling that he is nice / marriage worthy but is signaling that he lacks the qualities on the right. Most women to…
/r/seduction04/07/20 09:36 PM
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NOW make one making fun of fat people at the gym trying to get in shape and improve their lives!
/r/seduction24/06/20 12:57 PM
1

People are here to learn and grow regardless of what level they are at.
/r/seduction12/05/20 02:05 AM
5

The only logical next step is to launch into a week long tirade of vulgar insults and concluding with "I didn't want to sleep with you anyways" and blocking her.
/r/seduction25/06/19 04:46 PM
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Instructions unclear, got fired for sexual harassment at work.
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:13 AM
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Read the whole book, it makes multiple good points. ​ Also, if you read it, replace the word "responsible" with "in control". He says stuff like "you are responsible" which people read "you are at fault" and what he really meas is "you are in control".
/r/seduction17/03/19 04:55 AM
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For me it put things in context and gave perspective on how to deal with challenges in life. I would recommend it to anyone that gets anxiety or stressed by things they can't control.
/r/seduction16/03/19 08:07 PM
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Nice work. Take a few more steps to get over the neediness. ​ Read the following books that I recommend to everyone. ​ Subtle art of not giving a fuck How to be a 3% man The way of the superior man. ​ Read in that order. Take away the following Composure in face of adversity Communication with women Purpose. ​ Developing those 3 will kill neediness and insecurity. ​ I would also add the book "I hear you" if you want to know how to defuse any argument or tense situation with anyone you may have a…
/r/seduction16/03/19 06:39 PM
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You ended up reading them all? Nice job! Most people want quick fixes rather than to do some real self reflection and personal development work. On the book "subtle art of not giving a fuck" I always interpret the principal of "no matter what happens, you are responsible" to "no matter what happens, you are in control". Responsibility may imply fault, but control means that you decide how you act, or what you do next. ​ If you want any more in terms of personal development, I found these followi…
/r/seduction01/03/19 05:52 PM
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Can we address real problems here? ​ What do you do if, like me, you're in a relationship with a super hot girl, but you'd like 5 super hot girlfriends and not just one super hot one????
/r/seduction21/02/19 11:32 PM
2

lol That's like saying "I'm going to die someday, why not today!?"
/r/seduction21/02/19 12:56 AM
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Highly recommend reading the following books and in this order: ​ The subtle art of not giving a fuck How to be a 3% man The way of the superior man. ​ ​ The first one will give you some perspective on how to think about your problems, losses, challenges, how you approach life, and where you put your energy. ​ The second one will talk more about relationships/communicating and getting women to open up more. It will also make you a better listener. ​ The third one will tell you what makes a man a…
/r/seduction21/02/19 12:54 AM
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I stopped bothering to give dating advice to my friends, and even my brother. ​ I date hotter, more successful women than any of them ever have. I try to tell them specifically what they should be doing differently and they disagree with me as if it's just my opinion. ​ Seriously... if you were trying to start a business and having poor results, but a successful entrepreneur/business owner offered to give you free advice/coaching, would you really argue with him and say "you do it your way, ill …
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:17 AM
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Books: Break the habit of being yourself - Joe Dispenza ​ It's a book/meditation guide on how to reprogram personality traits and subconscious behaviors.
/r/seduction09/02/19 04:34 AM
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Read these 3 books. ​ subtle art of not giving a fuck. How to be a 3% man. The way of the superior man. ​ Read them in that order and internalize everything they say. You'll get a super hot gf in no time. Worked for me.
/r/seduction27/01/19 02:28 AM
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I think if you are doing something specifically because you are concerned about how the other person would respond if you don't do it, then you might be being mistreated.
/r/seduction23/01/19 05:10 PM
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My point is that you should take time to really reflect and analyze what went wrong. If you resolve the friend zone issue and find a good partner, but you don't resolve the underlying issues that lead to the divorce, then you'll repeat the cycle. For communicating, there is being a good communicator, and knowing how to elicit good communication from your partner. Personal drive, your life's purpose, and personal/mutual goals help mitigate complacency. A man trying to woo her during the whole rel…
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:32 PM
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Line up more dates through online dating. If you want more women around you don't have to do hours of approaching every week. If you're in your 30s and build a decent profile online, the women will come to you. If you line up 2-3 dates a week, you'll feel more abundance and that will carry over to other interactions.
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:51 AM
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Raise your standards. Ask qualifying questions. Weed them out before you go home with them. ​ Also, find out why your wife left. Did you get fat? Did you get lazy? Did she lose attraction? Did you have no drive/goals/purpose? ​ In many instances, if the woman cheated, the guy turned her off and lost her attraction long before she actually cheated. ​ ​
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:49 AM
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Ever since then we’ve just hung out and cuddled a little bit and watched movies together. Any advice for how I can save my chance with her and get out of the friend zone? ​ She said "I am not ready for a relationship" And your response was essentially "OK, I'm OK being your cuddle buddy and waiting for you in case you change your mind." That is low value and not going to win her over. You need to immediately put a stop to it. ​ Tell her your honest intentions. "I know you just got out of a relat…
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:39 AM
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I agree with this. Good book.
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:33 AM
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There's a big difference between serving out of compassion or a desire to help others, and being a door mat that people walk all over and take advantage of. Serving, helping, and giving to others is definitely a positive quality. The problem is that most nice guys fall into the door mat category. You do everything you think the woman wants, and she loses respect for you because of it. ​ You can continue to be someone that gives, and serves others out of compassion, BUT you need to know how to se…
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:18 AM
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If you find that info beneficial I recommend reading the following 3 books. ​ The subtle art of not giving a fuck. How to be a 3% Man The way of the superior man. ​ Those three books really expand on the 3 things I highlighted. Not being overly worried about what others think, communicating effectively (and communicating value), and finding/living your purpose/value. I propose you read them in the order I listed if you have not read any of them.
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:00 AM
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​ This advice is not really helpful for guys that fall into the nice-guy category. ​ The reason is that these behaviors are kind of like the comedian, or clown behaviors. If this is what you have to do to get attention of the women, then you are going to lose her attention as soon as you revert back to being yourself. ​ I believe that what nice-guys need to hear is that they have to change: personal standards (boundaries) self-confidence (know you are high value) where they get their value from …
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:02 PM
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If she cheated on you then it's something she is rationalizing as being acceptable, which means no one dating her is safe. She'll probably cheat on the new guy. ​ It's not PUA skills that you need. You need a personal sense of purpose and focus. You also need to know what behaviors turn women on and off and cause them to lose attraction over time. ​ Read the following books which will give you some perspective, focus, and the basic skills necessary to build and maintain attraction. You don't hav…
/r/seduction20/01/19 10:43 PM
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What killed the relationship? Was it her, or was it you? ​ If it was her, she won't be happy for long, because she'll likely repeat it with the next guy. ​ If it was you, you better figure out how to improve, because you'll likely repeat it with the next girl and be in this position all over again. ​ Very likely, it was you. Why do I say this? Because you want her back, which suggests she broke it off with you. If so, you likely could have taken steps to avoid/prevent if you were more aware of i…
/r/seduction20/01/19 06:36 AM
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A lot of people go with the rule: "The phone is ONLY for setting the next date." ​ There is nothing you can say over text message that will make her more attracted to you. All you're going to accomplish by texting too much is accidentally talking her out of meeting with you. ​ ​
/r/seduction20/01/19 06:28 AM
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I posted this on another thread where someone was asking for input, but it applies here also: ​ You need to read some books that give you perspective on male/female mindset, what women find attractive. ​ Read the following books: ) The subtle art of not giving a fuck - Mark Manson This one is not about women and relationships but is about being less high strung and worried about negative things that can happen in your life. You should to start with this one because it will help chill you out wit…
/r/seduction20/01/19 06:18 AM
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You need to read some books that give you perspective on male/female mindset, what women find attractive and why they lose interest. ​ If you can already get a girlfriend, then it's something specific that you doing later in the relationship that leads to them flaking out on you. ​ Read the following books: ) The subtle art of not giving a fuck - Mark Manson This one is not about women and relationships but is about being less high strung and worried about negative things that can happen in your…
/r/seduction20/01/19 05:59 AM
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Average guys don't want average girls, they want attractive girls. ​ I've met many guys that have minimum standards that are way out of their league. ​ Especially considering they don't want to do any personal development to improve themselves. ​ ​
/r/seduction18/01/19 07:59 PM
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There are a LOT of books out there that provide information on how to reprogram your thoughts and behaviors. ​ I am currently reading the book "Breaking the habit of being yourself" by Joe Dispenza. If you're not a reader, it can be a little much. But I am getting a lot from it. (He also wrote Evolve your brain, and becoming supernatural. I have not read those but breaking the habit is the 2nd in the series and has more actionable info than the first one. ) This one resonates with me because I h…
/r/seduction13/01/19 11:13 PM
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29 an no gf!? Where do you live? ​ You need to start down that path of personal development and getting some ladies! Sooner the better. It can take time but it's worth it.
/r/seduction13/01/19 08:50 PM
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I would say it is two different things. Women are bombarded with attention from shitheads that have to be weeded out. When the woman shit tests, it's to gauge his value, not to demonstrate her own, which is the purpose of qualifying by men.
/r/seduction08/12/18 08:59 PM
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I'm curious, how much of that is salary vs stock.
/r/seduction20/06/18 12:11 AM
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It's because women want a real man. A real man doesn't make a woman his purpose or the center of his attention. Once a man reveals to a woman that he's super interested in her, or will do anything for her, then he unintentionally communicates to the woman that he's not a real man, and the woman loses interest in him. Girls may like the attention from some men because it stokes their ego, but they would quickly lose interest in the man if he provided constant attention and availability.
/r/seduction15/06/18 02:55 AM
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Read the following books: Relationship/dating advice books: The way of the superior man. Models. The Game. General self-Improvement books: The Subtle art of not giving a fuck. Unlimited power – Tony Robbins Awaken the Giant within – Tony Robbins The essential Guide to NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) I like this guys youtube videos and his book How to be a 3% man. Lots of others don't like him because he's not really a pickup kind of guy. https://www.youtube.com/user/coachcoreywayne I also rea…
/r/seduction15/06/18 12:35 AM
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This is exactly what I've observed. Out of all of my guy friends, I'm the one dating the most attractive, most successful women, yet they actively challenge any advice that I give and argue that I don't know what I'm talking about.
/r/seduction11/06/18 10:46 PM
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You sound like my friend. "I can't take this content with a grain of salt and learn about the general principles because I disagree with how he's presenting the material." Oh well. His loss.
/r/seduction11/06/18 04:12 PM
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Oh Darn... I guess my friend can blame me for giving him the wrong book and therefore failing to make any progress over the last 2 years.
/r/seduction11/06/18 04:09 PM
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I gave my friend the book "How to Be a 3% Man" by Corey Wayne. I had a lot more books I wanted to give him. Unfortunately, that didn't happen because he stopped reading after the first chapter. He started criticizing the author and argued that Corey Wayne probably didn't know what he was talking about and just made everything up like all self help people do... the basis of his argument was that there were grammatical errors in the first chapter and that he "just couldn't bring myself to take the…
/r/seduction10/06/18 09:56 PM
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I recommend joining an RSD facebook group in your city. If you are in a large city there are people that go out every weekend and post on the facebook group looking for wingmen.
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:56 AM
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It may very well be a good opportunity. But the best thing you can do in the meantime is focus on your own self improvement. I would not hint that you hope for her relationship to fail so that you can have a chance with her. Unfortunately, IF she is someone that is willing to engage in a romantic relationship with someone else on the justification that she is ending her current relationship, that's not a great person to be engaged with. Only do that IF she has actually filed divorce paperwork. A…
/r/seduction05/06/18 03:52 AM
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You've answered your own question. Don't worry about it. Quality matters more than Quantity. You KNOW if you get with her she will enjoy it.
/r/seduction05/06/18 02:53 AM
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If it's going to take time, focus on improving yourself and meeting other women. IF she really does become available at some point in the future, she will let you know IF she has some interest in you. If she is not interested in you, she won't, and nothing you say or do will change that. The worst thing you can do is look like you are hanging around waiting for her. That will make you seem low value and not an upgrade from the guy she is with. You need to be focused on yourself and your own goal…
/r/seduction05/06/18 02:51 AM
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My girlfriend's friend. Attractive dentist, early 30s. Earns $300k+ and lives in a $1M house 5000 sqft house by herself with her pets. Can have any almost guy she wants. Who is she hung up on? The bartender that blew her off after their 2nd date.
/r/seduction16/05/18 06:48 PM
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Hopefully to pay for implants. Those front teeth are so distracting.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:11 PM
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"have a date set about a week in advance" Uhm. Nothing? You have a set date. Until you're dating consistently, why do you need to say anything? Go read "how to be a 3% man"
/r/seduction19/04/18 07:53 PM
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It's a shit test. The woman is testing him to see if he has confidence and if he is ok with his height. Tom cruise is 5'7, Kevin hart is 5'4. They are confident and ok with their height. Women would not say No to them because they are too short.
/r/seduction12/04/18 04:34 AM
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"Yes and my penis is the size of a baby carrot (while holding your pinky finger up in their face). It's really cute, do you want to see it later?" I think I remember Owen from RSD doing that in an in field video.
/r/seduction12/04/18 04:31 AM
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Dick pics. 4% of the time it works every time.
/r/seduction05/04/18 02:09 AM
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I don't think there is anything wrong with a weekend date. I wouldn't exclude weekends arbitrarily. If you're really busy and have a lot going on, then she should be aware of that, but if you're saying no to the weekends and then just playing video games, that might come back to bite you if she found out. The next thing you should read is "The way of the superior man" by david dieda. It talks about a man and his purpose. You follow that and the woman sees you are following your purpose, then she…
/r/seduction02/04/18 04:50 AM
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I followed almost exactly for a couple months. Other than calling to set a date, I don't think I initiated a text for 2-3 months into the dating. About 3-4 months in she brought up the "what are we" conversation about exclusivity or just fwb and we became exclusive. I had stopped seeing this 2nd girl a little while before that so I wasn't seeing anyone else and just agreed not to after that. It was actually better doing the "don't ever initiate" routine because by setting the precedent early on …
/r/seduction02/04/18 04:32 AM
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Would love to but won't put my gfs pics online on reddit.
/r/seduction02/04/18 04:20 AM
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I would say once you are in over a month and consistently sleeping together, then the rules get way more flexible. The rule is more to avoid scaring people off super early and appearing needy. It sounds like you've got it pretty well balanced. Just don't suggest a relationship or exclusivity. Remember to let her do that. That IS a Corey Wayne recommendation I would stick to closely.
/r/seduction02/04/18 04:13 AM
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My only disappointment was that after reading his book and applying his material, I got a smoking hot girlfriend so fast that I couldn't really work on applying it in more scenarios.
/r/seduction01/04/18 07:06 PM
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when you can contact her in non-needy ways with very little investment. Any contact is needy unless you're in a relationship. How many flirty snaps does Brad Pitt, Leo, or Jared Leto send? I imagine they don't because they are neck deep in hot women that would be all over them. How many low investment, non-needy messages does Elon Musk send to women he JUST met? I would imagine NONE because he has things 100x more important to focus on. Do what you're already doing but DON'T do ANY of it for her…
/r/seduction01/04/18 07:04 PM
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Only hurting yourself if you don't read it.
/r/seduction01/04/18 06:51 PM
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No one does this? No one spending time on these subs.
/r/seduction16/03/18 05:27 PM
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Step 1: Work out consistently. Lose any excess weight and put on some muscle tone. Getting down to a body fat under 20% will be good, but under 15% and you'll start knowing you look good. Step 2: Go get a good haircut and maintain it. A clean haircut can make you look a lot better. If you have long, shaggy, or unkempt hair, you might look like a hobo to most people around you. Step 3: Wear better clothes. Don't wear old hoodies, faded tshirts, dirty jeans and old tennis shoes. Too much to say on…
/r/seduction16/03/18 01:31 AM
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Any time I hear someone talking about their lay count, I immediately assume they are going for quantity over quality and I don't get impressed. Any guy that dates 10s doesn't need to talk about numbers. Anyone bragging about numbers is doing 6s or below. Why? Because you don't do 100 one night stands with 100 different 10s. You date them for awhile, which means you're not burning through women as frequently.
/r/seduction16/03/18 01:21 AM
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I hear you on that. I think I have a problem. I date someone hot, successful, that guys would kill to get with, and yet I'm getting bored.
/r/seduction07/03/18 04:22 AM
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If he's insecure about you earning more than him, just let that be a clue towards how compatible you really are. My GF earns 3x what I do.
/r/seduction20/02/18 05:16 AM
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Go read the book "how to be a 3% man." It summarizes all of this info, tells you HOW you should behave as a man, and why. NEVER bring up the relationship discussion. When she is in the mood for it, SHE will bring it up. Anything else and you'll scare her off.
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:36 AM
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simple art of not giving a fuck - also by mark mansion.
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:18 AM
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Up your standards for yourself. I believe in Karma. If you are knowingly seducing women and leading them to cheat, that's going to come around to bite you. "Now, I am really falling for someone, how do I know I can trust her?" I think this depends on the type of person she is. If she's cheated, she'll cheat eventually. Go read the books: how to be a 3% man. And The way of the superior man Both of those get at why women lose interest in men and ultimately divorce them or cheat on them. It's almos…
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:16 AM
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No problem. how to be a 3% man. I left off the %. Maybe start with that one. The book "the game" is more of the story of how some guys became pickup artists. One of the guys that's talked about negatively in the book is Tyler (his real name is Owen), who ended up later building the business RSD and he's been in pickup for 15 years and a coach/instructor for half of that time.
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:09 AM
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youtube "RSD tyler" Go to realsocialdynamics.com Watch their youtube material. Listen to Owen/RSD tyler. Read the following books: The game. How to be a 3 man. The way of the superior man. The Subtle Art of not Giving a Fuck. You'll cover more ground faster by reading all of that material and then coming back to this sub to ask specific questions.
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:02 AM
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I would say use multiple. I was going out with friends to meet women while also having a dating profile. Last girlfriend was picked up at a bar, current came from online dating. It's good to have multiple sources to get dates, but don't be dependent on only one.
/r/seduction03/02/18 02:56 AM
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Straight and to the point, but could be more constructive with the feedback.
/r/seduction03/02/18 02:53 AM
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Read self-improvement books. Simple Art of not giving a fuck. unlimited power Unleash the giant within ultimate guide to NLP You can learn more in a month than a therapist can teach you in a year if you put your mind to reading the material.
/r/seduction26/01/18 03:13 PM
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I agree across the board. Same journey for me, similar outcome. Lots of focus on personal development across the board not just for getting laid, and it pays off everywhere in life. Though I don't sleep with lots of women, I tend to go from one LTR relationship to another. And the women have consistently improved now I only date near the top. I wouldn't say super models and playmates, but I prefer the intelligent/driven/business minded ones. 9/10 Doctors, CPAs, business owners, etc is 10/10 in m…
/r/seduction26/01/18 05:40 AM
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Not sure if it's sold out. The hot seat is $300 full day seminar. https://www.rsdhotseat.com/
/r/seduction26/01/18 05:20 AM
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I think it is motivating to look at sexy women. But there's a whole key to vision boards that requires consistently (daily) visualizing exactly what you want, why you want it, and what you're going to do to acquire it. That helps align your mind/body with the actions required to get what you want. It's not just a wish list you build once and come back to a year later without thinking about it in between. Put some ripped dudes on the board also. Personally, I'll put a pic of Zac Efron from Baywat…
/r/seduction21/01/18 09:46 PM
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My experience: Her: "I don't do go home with people from the bar. Never have. Never will." Walking to next bar Her: "I'm not going anywhere without my friends." Walking her back to my friend's place downtown. Her: "I'll stay until I am sober enough to drive home." She's driving me back to her place. Her: "I do not do one night stands. Never have, Never will. All we're doing is going to sleep. " We're in her bed together. Her: "No sex. I told you." 2 Hours of making out, kissing, massages, but no…
/r/seduction20/01/18 04:04 AM
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Asking her that tells her that she made the right choice. If you don't know why she lost interest, then you are unaware of how you either came on too strongly, seemed too clingy, came across as a beta male, tried to suck up or be a pleaser, or you simply don't have enough going on to make you appealing to other women so that you're stuck thinking about her. Take your conversations, whether text or phone, and your interactions, and list them here and guys that know how girls behave will be able t…
/r/seduction19/01/18 02:16 AM
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Really true. I see people looking for relationship advice on shitty subs like r/relationship_advice. No one there has a fucking clue about women, attraction, masculine/feminine polarity, living your purpose, opening your partner up emotionally, communication, or self-improvement. I found my way into that material over the years due to this sub. I try to point people here regularly and often get downvoted. People want to continue to live in their miserable scarcity world and give others shitty ad…
/r/seduction15/01/18 02:10 AM
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Well, the assumption is that you've matched with someone and are looking for something to open with. If you can't get matched, the line won't help!
/r/seduction12/01/18 12:34 AM
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This is a double date? I personally would rather just go out on a date 1 on 1 rather than as a double date the first time you meet the person. That would make it hard to focus on them and get to know each other while at the same time trying to maintain a good dynamic in the group. If it was me, I'd just tell your friend "i'd rather just take them out one on one for the first date" and then just let it be a blind date that you were set up on. Get the number from your friends girlfriend and then t…
/r/seduction10/01/18 05:15 AM
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Did you follow up with the same line later in the night? "Beg me to come, and I’ll think about it."
/r/seduction09/01/18 01:50 AM
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That advice has turned my life around!
/r/seduction07/01/18 10:40 PM
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The average young person doesn't think of living in Charleston sc, or Minneapolis. Chicago and NYC have a high cost of living and frigid winters. Austin is the best. It was about 60 degrees today and partly sunny.
/r/seduction07/01/18 01:17 AM
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950 women, and working with a dating coach and 2 years. That's a lot of drive/dedication towards reaching your goal. So you're clearly motivated to accomplish getting good with women. What other areas of your life are you motivated to achieve and accomplish things? Put that same drive/motivation towards every area of your life. Your physical fitness, your career, building friends, family, starting a business, etc. You build your life in every area, and you'll be ahead of 90% of men in 5-10 years…
/r/seduction06/01/18 01:56 AM
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A fast way to cover a lot of ground is eventually get to "what you do for a living". What they do will tell you a lot about their personality, competence, work ethic, motivation, etc. I want someone on the same level as me, so simply hearing what they do for a living is a qualifier for me.
/r/seduction05/01/18 09:50 PM
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It's called a relationship!
/r/seduction05/01/18 05:27 AM
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I like my setup: GF: "Be at my place by 8, all the food will be served at 8:15" GF: "No no, you sit and relax, I will clean everything up." GF: "Here I packed everything in containers so you have lunch for tomorrow." And that's after she worked a 10 hour day.
/r/seduction05/01/18 05:26 AM
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Your logic is so backwards. She rejected sexual advances from some random guy on instagram that just followed her but that she doesn't know, so that means she's not allowed to sleep with anyone? This should indicate that she clearly was willing to sleep with someone, just not with you. Either due to how you approached her, what you communicated, how you behaved, or maybe just because you were one of hundreds of dudes soliciting for her hookups. Take that as an indication on things to improve.
/r/seduction05/01/18 05:18 AM
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It's going to be difficult because everyone is at a different level and moves at a different pace. Someone might cover 10 books or approach 100 women by the time someone else reads 1 book or talks to 5 women. Personally, I am trying to move as quickly as possible in all areas of personal development except picking up women.... because I have a steady girlfriend right now. I'm not going to do approaches or go game multiple nights a week while I am going to read books, develop my skills, focus on …
/r/seduction04/01/18 04:05 AM
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Yea that's totally up to you. Some people just don't enjoy that type of stuff. He explains things like exactly what causes depression, lack of motivation, lack of enjoyment in life, lack of time, and gives processes, behaviors and changes in mindset to overcome those. I personally find his material extremely beneficial. I want to achieve the most I can in every area of my life and his material lays out very clear systems and lines of thinking and acting that can help people do that.
/r/seduction02/01/18 12:44 AM
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Tony's material is dense. Much of his material is dispersed throughout many of those other books, and those other ones are easier to read. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck has a lot of the core philosophies that Tony teaches. You could try listening to tony's material. Go to youtube and type tony robbins. There are endless clips from his audio programs and seminars. I listen to those, aside from just music, in the car while driving, or on a treadmill at the gym.
/r/seduction01/01/18 08:24 PM
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Everyone is in it for themselves. Men don't need to interact with women with the goal of making the woman comfortable with men in general. A woman is not going to enjoy talking to you more because the last man she talked to was genuine and honest. However, she will enjoy talking to YOU if you are genuine and honest. There are 100x more deadbeat losers of men out there than good guys that know how to communicate, so she will always have to keep her guard up. She will stop playing games if you pas…
/r/seduction01/01/18 08:10 PM
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I always recommend to people that if you want to focus on getting good with women, why stop there? Focus on all areas of your life. It sounds somewhat like that is what you're planing to do. However, work on totally transforming yourself and figuring out what you want. Make 2018 your year, and focus on yourself exclusively. Sure, go on dates, but don't jump into another long term relationship in 2018. Why? Because if you really, truly transform yourself in 2018, then the quality of woman you wil…
/r/seduction01/01/18 07:58 PM
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"Hey, I think you're really cute and I'd like to take you out sometime. could I get your number?" Just ask that in the drive through. It's no big deal. But if she says no, then throw the coffee back at her and speed off! ... not really.
/r/seduction01/01/18 12:37 AM
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You only limit yourself by dismissing positive advice because of who it comes from.
/r/seduction01/01/18 12:34 AM
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Focus on making friends and improving yourself first. 3 months in, even if you successfully picked up an attractive woman and took her home with you, it likely would not solve your underlying problems that caused the relationship to fail. Lack of communication, lack of personal awareness, no goals, no focus, etc. Whatever it may be, your relationship failed because of something you did or didn't do at the appropriate times. Work on learning what went wrong and why, and growing from it, while kno…
/r/seduction31/12/17 07:31 PM
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How man individuals do you really care about? Most people only care about themselves. Who has time to worry about the wants, needs, concerns, dreams, fears, of anyone other than their closest partners? I regularly catch myself trying to give ideas/suggestions that have worked for me to other people. TWICE. TWICE after the age of 26 I have found myself with zero close friends or people to do things with. Twice I have rebuilt it and developed very good close friends. You've decided that it's impos…
/r/seduction28/12/17 08:19 PM
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What do you do in your down non-working hours? If you spend time watching tv, playing video games, or sitting around the house, then you could substitute that time with something social like meeting friends or going on dates. I had a period where I was doing 60-70hrs of work a week for several months. I would leave the house at 7am and come home at 10pm-midnight. 7 days a week. My life was work, and dates. That was it. You can make time for it. Do online dating and line the dates up to work with…
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:50 AM
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Because you are confessing your love for them. You can communicate sexual intent non-verbally and very quickly. Saying you like them and then pushing that direction is like you asking "will you sleep with me because it's the last time I'll see you." That isn't appealing. That's asking the women to make a logical choice to sleep with you. They want to just happen and be out of their control.
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:46 AM
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Are you in shape or overweight? Are you dressed well or poorly? Sneakers, tshirt or hoodie = poorly? Do you have visibly bad teeth or straight and white teeth? Do you wear glasses? If so, wear contacts. If people are turning away that fast consistently, I'd guess you don't appeal to them in some way or another or you are just weirding them out.
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:43 AM
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No no. Go to a bar. Become a regular. Tip the waitress or hot bartender extremely well. Show up 3 nights a week. After doing this for 3-4 months and she knows you by name and what beer you like, and gives you an occasional one on the house, then you ask her for your number. Get pissed off when she says she has a boyfriend because she led you on by being friendly and taking your tips without wanting the tip. Oh my bad, I'm giving advice on how to be one of my old friends. After you get pissed off…
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:30 AM
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Since it's all pretend, ask her to fly to your place.
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:27 AM
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Way of the superior man - david deida how to be a 3% man - corey wayne The rationale male Models - mark manson the subtle art of not giving a fuck - mark manson Personally, if you're going to really read all of those and your goal is to get good with women, then just get into tony robbins material and kick ass in all aspects of your life, not just women. unlimited power - tony robbins Awaken the giant within - tony robbins
/r/seduction28/12/17 06:07 AM
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I hear you. Someone shows up saying why they're alone, or unable to make friends, or can't get a girl because of xyz. You give them 20 ideas, and they ARGUE with you to say why it won't work, or that they've already tried everything. I feel like most of them don't want to be helped, they just want to vent and have someone say "it's ok sweetie, mommy know's you're a special boy, those girls just suck and don't see it"
/r/seduction28/12/17 05:57 AM
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Wow reading some of that garbage on inceltears. I'm all for freedom of speech and opinions, but opinions like that deserve a punch in the face and possibly jail time.
/r/seduction28/12/17 05:55 AM
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Read all the books on dating, relationships, and being masculine and grounded. Then go date and interact with women.
/r/seduction28/12/17 05:44 AM
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Go listen to Tony robbins' material on youtube. RPM: Results Purpose Massive Action Plan Know what you want. Know why you want it. Create a plan to go get it. THe key to the plan is to KEEP TRYING NO MATTER WHAT. And don't just do the same thing over and over. If you've tried 100 things without success, then you're not learning from your mistakes. You're not trying new things. And you're not paying attention to what works. Learn from people that know what they're doing. Hell, go to some of the o…
/r/seduction28/12/17 05:20 AM
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You may be doing that for a big event, but not for a date. The confirmation occurs on the day that they agree to the date. They say "yes" then follow up immediately with your text, "ok cool, see you Friday at 4pm at xyz bar". After that, don't say anything else to confirm. Anyone with authority, and confidence, and that is in demand doesn't check in with the attendees to say "are you really coming to the date we set?" That indicates that you don't value yourself or expect the other person to fol…
/r/seduction27/12/17 08:32 PM
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Yea. It is a big pain to move. But so is living an unfulfilling life. Any of the top 10 cities are going to have a lot of young professionals that want to socialize. Not just Austin. For people that are unhappy with their environment, then why not go for it? I meet people daily that just decided "i want a change" and they moved to Austin without knowing anyone. A lot of times they rent 1 room out for cheap to figure out the city for 3 months then settle in. And then they stay forever.
/r/seduction27/12/17 08:27 PM
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meetup.com or join a social sports league. In austin tx they have leagues of sports for people in their 20s and 30s to meet and drink. austinssc.com they tailgate the football games and schedule ski trips. All for random people who don't know each other and want to make new friends. Move to a big city and get involved in one of these.
/r/seduction27/12/17 03:23 PM
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"Dating apps have failed me" Have you tried dating websites. not just apps. Ones that you have to put up pictures AND a profile? Pictures + content about yourself. If you can't get a date out of that, you either take shitty pictures or have bad writing. Read all the guides online on how to construct a profile and say what you want...or just hire someone to help you with it.
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:55 AM
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Females have evolved biologically over millions of years for to fulfill one purpose: mate with high status males. Why would a woman mate with a low status male? RSDTyler says it best "Woman only have one purpose in life: to mate with an Alpha Male... however, there is only one thing that they worry about far more than mating with an Alpha Male... and that is getting tricked into mating with a beta male." Why wouldn't a woman be interested in money, education, social pizzazz? Are you saying that …
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:47 AM
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People don't make friends at 27. They make friendly acquaintances. That's not true. But you've already made up your mind. "If like me, you're 27 single and friendless, then its safe to say that you will most likely not develop any friends since making new friends as an adult is impossible.: You've already decided that you cannot make friends. You're looking to confirm that "fact" that you've decided for yourself. I'm 31. My best friend I met a year ago. We hike, bike, go to bars, watch football …
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:28 AM
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Don't forget, you can be 30s and still enjoy the 20s hookup culture. Use your drive and motivation to your advantage and kick as in all areas. Get good with game/approach/pickup. Being a bartender will not get you laid with hot women if your personality blows and you don't know how to socialize. Why would you give up your purpose/career/focus for women? Go read "the way of the superior man" and find your purpose/focus, it will get you more centered and further with women. Also, I personally love…
/r/seduction26/12/17 03:01 AM
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"What should I be trying to accomplish when I meet up with her?" Your only outcome is to have fun. Joke with her, and yourself, have a good time. The only thing you can guarantee is that you're going to enjoy yourself and be a fun guy to be around.
/r/seduction26/12/17 02:51 AM
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Don't lower your standards. Raise your standards for yourself and others. You are letting your disability impair your self-confidence and this is going to affect everything you do. How you interact with people and what you go after in life. "I don't really know how to implement the tips naturally if that makes sense?" This is why you practice. Try online dating or tinder even. Ways to meet up and go on dates and have 1 on 1 conversations. Get better at talking to women. "I also think that if I r…
/r/seduction09/12/17 11:04 PM
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You have to get to the bottom of why you feel that way. Even if 100 hot women said you're great looking, you wouldn't believe it. It feels great to have validation from others, but it is not a solution. How many celebrities overdose or kill themselves because they are horrible miserable inside? Despite getting love and validation from millions of people. DO work out. Exercising creates positive endorphins. I know if I am feeling depressed or back in my old state of self-pitty or being down on my…
/r/seduction07/12/17 06:10 AM
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So you've got your situation kind of opposite from myself. I was in your similar position. I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 20 and I met her online which made it even easier. And she was probably a 5/10. I loved her, cared about her, and was in that relationship for several years. Anyways, now I am 31, and dating a smoking hot doctor that lives in a million dollar condo downtown and spends her down time traveling around the world. Tony Robbins says that most people overestimate what they c…
/r/seduction07/12/17 05:31 AM
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Ok, so as a guy looking at another guy, you're not Brad Pitt or Jared Leto, but you're certainly not ugly. Your question "How bad do I look?" already implies very low self esteem. You clearly feel poorly about yourself. But you're here. You're 6'2 and a good size. And you're not ugly. At 6'2 you could put on 10-20 more lbs of muscle and build your confidence and focus on your mission/purpose and at 25 you'll be jacked and unstoppable. Or you can hate yourself and feel that you are the victim and…
/r/seduction07/12/17 04:04 AM
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appreciate the reply. however, part of that I believe is going to subside as a result of taking care of all of these other areas in your life. Read those books. Figure out your focus and your purpose.
/r/seduction05/12/17 11:39 PM
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Serious Questions: How many books on dating/pickup/game/relationships have you read? Based on your view of what women say they want, and how they behave, and what your opportunity is, it doesn't sound like you've ready any. You put in the hard work, time and effort to get good at your career. How much time are you putting in learning what works with women? Doing the wrong thing 1,000 times will not get you anywhere unless you've learned why it’s wrong. If you aren’t reading any books, or watchin…
/r/seduction05/12/17 10:42 PM
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Just carry a gun. You never get rejected. Though it will likely only work a few times before you end up in jail. But at least you can bat 1000 for awhile!
/r/seduction03/12/17 01:09 AM
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Have you read it, or are you trying to determine if it's something you should read?
/r/seduction30/11/17 11:21 PM
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Cheap book on Amazon: NLP The Essential Guide. I'm reading the kindle version on my phone. It is easy to follow but lengthy. I really recommend it. I read also "Manipulation, proven persuasion techniques to influence people with NLP" and it was a dud in my opinion. Not much substance. Didn't tell you how to learn NLP. Also, Tony Robbins uses NLP in a lot of his personal growth materials & seminars. His book Awaken The Giant Within touches on some of it, but is much more about transforming your w…
/r/seduction30/11/17 06:10 PM
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Be dismissive. "you have a million thoughts about what?" "everything. Just be patient. you'll see" "like what. like what. like what?" "I said you'll see. now which movie do you want to see. I'd prefer justice league, but I'm open to seeing thor again if you haven't." You didn't explain yourself. She is curious. And if she's wondering what thoughts, then she's thinking about you. Mission accomplished.
/r/seduction29/11/17 09:53 PM
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Only you can decide where the line is between enjoyment and over-indulging in an activity. That goes for everything. Eating, smoking, tv, video games, drugs. There's nothing wrong with playing and enjoying video games. But eventually I decided that I want more from my life than video games could provide. They could never provide growth, or contribution. They could not make me financially independent, or a millionaire, or pay for a family vacation. Eventually I started to value the other things i…
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:11 PM
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I would avoid texting at all costs. And don't initiate the texting. Why? Cause you're busy. You're cool. You've got a lot of stuff going on. You have more to do than get to know someone by text message. That's why you set a date. Finally, DON'T CONFIRM. Let her confirm. You confirming says to her "people flake on me regularly, and I want to make sure you're not going to do that." Would she flake on Brad Pitt? Or Jared Leto? Would they call to confirm that their fan is going to show up to dinner?…
/r/seduction29/11/17 05:57 AM
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Lots of self improvement ones as well as business related ones. Anything that I think is applicable to improving my personal performance, my thinking, my career or my relationships. My problem is that I keep finding more books faster than I can read them. For dating and also relationships: How to be a 3% Man Models The 5 love languages Personal improvement/business. All of Tony Robbin's books (still working on these). I highly recommend Awaken The Giant Within and Unlimited Power. The Miracle Mo…
/r/seduction29/11/17 05:47 AM
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Then you're doing it right.
/r/seduction28/11/17 06:21 PM
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You may be trolling but for anyone else with concerns of bad breath: Brush your teeth and thoroughly brush your tongue. Most bad breath smell is the bacteria on your tongue. If the back of your tongue is white, or has any color other than the pink fleshy color that you see at the tip of your tongue, it's bacteria growing there and that produces your bad breath. Stick your tongue out and brush the back of it until it's the same color all over your entire tongue. Brush, floss, and use mouth wash t…
/r/seduction28/11/17 05:28 PM
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My favorite response back in the day was to just be short and dismissive about it. One night in a bar my friends and I were talking to a group of girls. The hottest one in the bunch ended up beside me and casually asked "so what do you do." I put out my two index fingers pointed down and acted like I was typing one key at a time on a keyboard and responded "I work on a computer all day. It's reeeeaaaaally complicated and it might not make sense to you." Her response was "Reeeeaaaaally, well I'm …
/r/seduction28/11/17 05:18 PM
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Ok, assume you're one of the top 10,000 players in the world at Overwatch. You're not in the top 100 where you can make money doing it, but you're better than millions of other people. Mission accomplished. Now. In 2-3 years, does any of the thousands of hours you spent getting that good at Overwatch get you any further in life? Does it help you earn more in your job, become more sociable, have more friends, live in a bigger house, date hotter women? Not likely. What was the last game you got re…
/r/seduction27/11/17 10:10 PM
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Seriously. 100% agree on this. After playing video games an average of 1-2 hrs a day from ages 11-29, I cut it out completely about 18 months ago, followed with TV. Dropped computer games and TV and suddenly I have time to work out 10 hrs a week, read 30 minutes a day, work on my own business every evening and go out with friends regularly. I actually feel like I have far less time than I used to because I am no longer wasting so much of it. Time is the only resource you cannot get more of. You …
/r/seduction27/11/17 09:24 PM
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Why not skip texting and just use the phone to set up dates only.
/r/seduction27/11/17 05:27 AM
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"So, what do you do?" "I chew on my empty ball sack and eat cat poops out of the litter box."
/r/seduction27/11/17 05:24 AM
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Just call her tomorrow when you think she is free. Spend literally 3 min on the phone. "Hey, how's it going. I just wanted to follow up about seeing that movie. I'm free ____ night and ____" (Give her 2 days, that implies you are busy and have things going on on the other days.) If she is really busy, and wants to go with you, then ask her to propose a day that is after the 2nd day that you said you are free (you know, cause you're busy the other days.). Tell her the movie you want to see. Tell …
/r/seduction25/11/17 12:30 AM
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DO NOT get caught up and obsessed with getting girlfriends or getting laid at the expense of your grades/studies and personal goals.
/r/seduction25/11/17 12:14 AM
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Back when I did online dating, if I was bored and browsing profiles, I would just message the dumbest questions I could think of to attractive women. The more outrageous, the better the response and engagement. Then after 2-3 replies back and forth, ask for a number and then follow up with entertaining behavior on a phone call. Some of the ones I remember: Are you a cat person or dog person? I mean, if you had to choose, which would you eat first? I see you like traveling. I'm curious. If you we…
/r/seduction22/11/17 11:15 PM
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Yes, moving to a larger city would be a goal to set for yourself. If there are not enough people in your area, then either start applying to jobs in big cities, or save up some money and just move to a larger city and then find a job when you get there.
/r/seduction22/11/17 12:37 AM
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Corey Wayne, How to be a 3% man. Get his book. Find your purpose. Watch his youtube videos.
/r/seduction21/11/17 07:58 PM
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If you read books I'd recommend Tony Robbin's material. His two original books are 30 years old now, but still amazing content for changing your thinking and transforming your life: Unlimited Power Awaken the Giant within People live and make ANY and ALL choices in their life for 2 reasons only. To avoid pain, or to feel pleasure. Most people choose short term pleasure and in return experience long term pain. So their entire life is a cycle of indulging in short term pleasures while still hating…
/r/seduction21/11/17 07:52 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XYvUqYini9Q I'm just relaying what the pros say. Learn the principles about how women think and what texting/phones are for in a relationship. Without the principles, even if someone gives you the perfect reply, you won't know what to do at the next move.
/r/seduction21/11/17 04:16 AM
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watch the videos
/r/seduction21/11/17 04:11 AM
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Don't waste time texting. Set a date. When you have the date set, stick to it and avoid texting... You aren't going to text a girl into falling for you, you are only going to demonstrate neediness and convince her to bail on your date.
/r/seduction21/11/17 04:08 AM
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Focus on yourself and your classes. Get good grades and get a good job out of college. The average guy in 5-10 years is a loser. Don't be one yourself and you'll be way ahead of most other men. Failing classes because you're depressed and wanting to get laid is not attractive. How many hot women want to be with a guy that drops out of college because he failed everything. What are you doing with your spare time? Not studying. Playing lots of video games? Watching netflix? Focus on getting yourse…
/r/seduction21/11/17 04:05 AM
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www.meetup.com if you are in a city that is decent size, there are all kinds of meetups for any interest. Just search "singles" and you can find some that are juts a bunch of activities for singles to meet up. Or join a social sports club and drink beer while playing volleyball or kickball. Easy way to meet people.
/r/seduction21/11/17 03:58 AM
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"it's that they're straight up lying and saying they don't read just because they don't want to talk to me" What if they don't want to talk to you? Should they say "fuck off I don't want to talk to you?" or should they just say "no I don't read"? No one is obligated to talk to you. What if they don't find you attractive or they have a boyfriend, or husband? Are they supposed to humor you? Do you want them to talk to you for 20 minutes and then you try to escalate and they say "Sorry I have a boy…
/r/seduction15/11/17 07:38 PM
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Yea I agree on that. Nothing he said in his reply indicated that he is a great guy, or that the woman is missing out by not sleeping with him.
/r/seduction15/11/17 07:32 PM
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Just use a gun. That's guaranteed to lead the first date to sex. Though it will hurt your chances for a 2nd date.
/r/seduction15/11/17 04:49 AM
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Early 20s... Damn. Sounds like you've peaked and your life is over. Your peers are exceling in their given fields? Statistically, 60% of them are going to hate their lives, settle for unattractive women, and end up divorced by the time they are 40. So why are you assuming that the self-improvement work you are doing now is a waste of time? If you avoid those circumstances, you'll be way ahead of all of them in 15 years and they will be envious of you.
/r/seduction15/11/17 04:47 AM
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You approached them and used a pickup line that they didn't find appealing. Why do you need to get a snarky last word in? So you feel less rejection? If they don't show you the attention you want, and you want to put them down, then they're the fortunate ones for having turned you away. Your goal is to leave the woman thinking "what a douche-bag, I'm glad I blew him off"?
/r/seduction15/11/17 04:43 AM
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You are making a lot of excuses for why you are in the situation you have. You have social anxiety and feel awkward. You don't know how to make friends. You don't take social improvement classes because you procrastinate. You have self-help books but you don't read them. Change that. Read the books. Take class. Focus on self-improvement in all areas. This video was posted on this subreddit yesterday: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ETTiQUb5fNE Watch it, and start doing it. If you can't manage to…
/r/seduction15/11/17 04:37 AM
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Go to youtube and watch Corey Waynes channel. You will quickly see he knows what he is talking about.
/r/seduction09/11/17 01:25 AM
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Works well for me. I like to use an income cutoff. Between $50-75k depending on their age. That means they are a working professional and have a career and life of their own. Obviously you won't find a 24 year old with that. I am dating women in their late 20s or early 30s. Easy way to qualify someone is ask what they do in the course of the discussion.
/r/seduction07/11/17 11:00 PM
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"I keep seeing her as a brand new car and am happy that she isn’t any guys’ leftovers." What an odd way of thinking. Are you going to marry her? Or do you want her to be your leftovers? Or do you want to be her leftovers?
/r/seduction30/10/17 10:33 PM
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Your goal should be to start thinking more positively and optimistically. You said "these things don't fill your time like people on here suggest a goal does." Yea they do. Things you are interested in will fill your time. Cut out all TV and video games, and you will have a ton of time on your hands. Now spend that time working out, reading books (that actually help your grow your knowledge) and doing activities to meet people. You'll become a significantly more attractive and appealing to women…
/r/seduction23/10/17 03:51 AM
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Then you follow up with "Do you want to?"
/r/seduction19/10/17 03:57 AM
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That's not true. Tom force friended 300 Million people... Anyone old enough to remember myspace?
/r/seduction18/10/17 12:32 AM
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Keep this in mind. Don't chase her. https://understandingrelationships.com/7-principles-to-get-an-ex-back/17707 Read his book. Watch his youtube videos. Use this opportunity to work on yourself. If she dumped you, you did something wrong on an ongoing basis until she lost attraction to you. You may not be able to get her back, but it depends on your behavior going forward. Also you can always work on improving yourself and attracting even better people for you. (Obviously that doesn't help you f…
/r/seduction15/10/17 04:38 AM
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I haven't read models, but I didn't really consider Corey Wayne's book to be about attraction through tricks and tactics. What tricks and tactics are you talking about? Short, deflective answers? Waiting to call? Corey's method of attraction in my mind was based more on the psychology of how women think. You have to know what types of behaviors give a woman a subconscious reassurance of your masculinity, vs what actions and behaviors you do that tell them you are a beta male, or a pleaser. Corey…
/r/seduction12/10/17 04:37 AM
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You need to get refocused. Go to the gym 3 times per week minimum. Get a trainer if needed. Getting fit will automatically boost your confidence. If you need a simple routine, download the strong lifts 5x5 app. In 3 month's you'll have some tone/definition, this time next year you could be jacked. That will give you a boost in all areas. Set yourself some goals. You are focusing too much on getting laid. Did you really go to college solely to get laid? No. And if you got laid 100 times but flunk…
/r/seduction11/10/17 04:33 AM
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Like this guy says. Bald and skrawny is not nearly as appealing as bald and buff. I had a good friend who went bald at like 20. At 25 he was jacked, very confident and great with socializing and meeting women. Also, don't buzz it short. Shave it off. And did you lose your hair due to genetics? Or due to stress or something else? Rogaine will not work for stress induced hair loss, only genetics. In fact, it can cause even more hair loss if not used for the right kinds of hair loss.
/r/seduction11/10/17 04:25 AM
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No problem. If you get inspired to accomplish something, that really can create a drive to persevere. Find your purpose. Set big goals. The only thing preventing you from achieving it is your lack of determination, not your education. With books and the internet and enough drive, you literally can become an expert and the best in the world at anything not requiring physical talent. I have a few goals/purposes that I want to significantly over-achieve at and everything I do is aligned towards acc…
/r/seduction10/10/17 02:14 AM
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I agree to an extent. I do pick up a lot of interesting info on reddit. However, it's all over the place. The reddit info is great if I want to learn random trivia about a wide range of topics. Anything from science, to politics, to history. I always pick up something interesting. However, almost none of the info gained on reddit is within a common and actionable theme. The information gained rarely is applicable in my life in a way that a book is. So it's more of a focused learning when I read …
/r/seduction10/10/17 01:58 AM
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Just jump into online dating. Find a nice but average girl and date for awhile. Find out what you do and don't like about her. Keep focusing on personal development. After awhile, move on. If you are growing, you won't want to stay with your first girlfriend forever unless she is growing too. You have to date a bunch and determine the qualities you want in a life partner and the qualities that you don't. Therefore, you don't need a 10/10 as your first girlfriend. You're probably not a 10/10 your…
/r/seduction09/10/17 04:15 AM
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READ. You want to learn useful things to talk about, start reading more in your spare time. How do you read more? Stop wasting time on facebook, reddit, instagram, youtube, netflix etc. I downloaded the kindle app on my phone, and removed the reddit app. I download cheap books, and some months I pay for a kindle unlimited subscription and download a dozen books to skim. You can scroll reddit or facebook mindlessly for hours, or while you're on the toilet, or you can read 5-10 short pages of your…
/r/seduction09/10/17 03:52 AM
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My thought was "How attractive are these women?" Average dude can pull below average women. I'd rather be out with one 10/10 per month rather than ten 5's in a week.
/r/seduction29/09/17 05:21 AM
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It's funny. People with experience that know what they are doing (like you) tell other people what works. And their response is to knock it and say that it's wrong...based on their experience of doing things wrong. You can give people a step by step roadmap to success, and most people will laugh and say it's stupid... and continue doing what has not gotten them any success. I used to tell both my brother and my best friend the tips and techniques I was using to date attractive women. They repeat…
/r/seduction23/09/17 11:35 PM
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Only if you made a mediocre impression and she's not looking forward to speaking to you again.
/r/seduction23/09/17 11:29 PM
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I call every time. Sets you apart more than texting. If she doesn't answer I send her a followup text "Hey just tried to give you a call to see if we could make some plans. I'll try again later." If she's going to avoid your phone call, then it's even easier for her to avoid your text. If she's looking forward to hearing from you, a call works in your favor and she will make the effort to get back to you. There is no more downside to a call vs text, but there is a lot more upside.
/r/seduction23/09/17 11:27 PM
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Ultimate Success Formula - Know your outcome, model what works, take action, develop the sensory acuity to know what you're getting, and keep refining it until you get what you want. -Tony Robbins. Are you doing the "model what works" part? There are plenty of books as well as countless people before you that have gone from total losers to being able to get any woman they want. If someone did anything for years without success, my assumption is that they are not following the right strategy, or …
/r/seduction22/09/17 04:58 AM
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Google Corey Wayne. Watch all of his material. Buy his book on Amazon "How to be a 3% man". If you can get 1-3 dates, then you are doing ok on the first impression. But if you can't get past that, you are coming across as needy/insecure or trying to control them or lock them down. How much texting do you do between dates? A few tips I learned from Corey Wayne's material. A phone is for setting dates ONLY. ONLY ONLY. And you only use it to call primarily. Once you set a date a few days out, the O…
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:31 PM
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Number Four – Set Up The Date The Next Day Once you get a woman’s number text her the very next day and set up the date. The longer you wait to text her the quicker she is going to forget about you. Text her then and there so she will have your number and then when you text her the next day it’s just a continuation of the conversation you had with her. No. Don't text her. Call her. You will stand out immediately because 95% of men text. Literally 60% of the women I've called have SPECIFICALLY me…
/r/seduction20/09/17 04:37 AM
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What is consuming all of your time? Your success really depends on what you set as a priority. How much TV do you watch? Do you smoke pot? Do you play video games? If you spend more than 2 hrs a week doing any of those, you are putting that as a higher priority than getting a hot girlfriend. How many books do you read? Personally. I watch about 1 hr of tv per week, don't play video games, don't smoke pot. I read books at least an hour a day and exercise 4 times a week. I'll have my 80s to blow a…
/r/seduction20/09/17 04:28 AM
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If you guys are having this much consistent failure, there's something that needs improved. What kind of shape are you in? You don't have to be ripped, but if you're overweight at all, that's an area for immediate improvement. What kinds of clothing are you wearing? Are you going out in a jeans and a t-shirt? Google "Express look men" or "American Eagle Look Men" or "banana republic look men" Express, American eagle, banana republic are all clothing stores with good men's clothing that is reason…
/r/seduction20/09/17 04:21 AM
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I think white guys have that appeal in countries like bali or thailand because "white guy" almost always means "has money". If girls in the US could instantly tell by the way a guy looked that he earns 20-100x the average income of other men in the area, they would be all over that guy also.
/r/seduction17/09/17 06:06 PM
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nice work on the weight loss and fitness! Yea I would say I do contacts for the social part. Once you get the girlfriend they could care less if you wear glasses all the time. Contacts help when you do something outdoors and you can wear sunglasses, just makes you look cooler.
/r/seduction16/09/17 04:02 PM
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Nice job. You see yourself as an average dude. You were out in hoodies. You could add some nice clothes, and do a little bit of working out (you don't have to be a gym rat working out 7 days a week). Switch to contacts from glasses for going out. I personally wear glasses at work and after hours, but if I go out socially I wear contacts because I feel more confident/less nerdy in contacts (even though I wear glasses 90% of the time.) I think if you did those 3 rather low effort things: dress bet…
/r/seduction16/09/17 05:21 AM
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He was funny. He was confident. You could tell the way they looked at him. They thought "maybe I do want to but I'm not going to say yes or I'll seem slutty" Heck, half of them paused to think about their reply and their "no" sounded like "ask me in a different way that I can say yes to" He probably got 80/100 phone numbers if they were all single.
/r/seduction12/09/17 10:09 PM
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How many are you actually matching with out of the smoking hot group. I believe these apps show the hottest people in the area to everyone for the first several swipes, and then substitute in the ones that actually matched with you.
/r/seduction12/09/17 10:01 PM
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I'm a bit nervous then I should be I think, just want to keep conversations going. Absolutely not. Do not text. Once the date is set, the ONLY outcome of texting is going to be her flaking out on you. Do not text your way out of a date you already have set. And once you set the next date, don't text her at all. And don't text to confirm. Read the book. Setting definite plans is key. You are a man of your word. You make plans and keep them. You are busy. If she has uncertainty about the time for …
/r/seduction12/09/17 12:34 AM
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Youtube Corey Wayne and binge watch all of his material. Buy his book asap and read it. Don't come on too strong with the sexual innuendo. She may hit it back but too much of it can seem childish. Get his book, "How to be a 3% man" ASAP just download it on kindle and read the entire thing tonight. I got dumped, found his book, and within a month of applying it, I got in a relationship with a 10/10 smoking hot doctor. Been dating her almost 9 months. Never had an easier relationship. Don't do som…
/r/seduction12/09/17 12:29 AM
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Overweight is not a handicap if you have the personality, are funny, and outgoing. Sounds like you may lack that. Easier to lose 30 lbs than to develop something you've been without all your life. Go to a gym, get a trainer to give you a 4 day a week workout routine. Then eat right and start getting fit. I lost 30lbs in 4 months and got fit/toned. Some definition will do wonders for confidence. How many hot ladies are you checking out that have 40 extra lbs on them? On a scale of 1 to 10 for att…
/r/seduction30/05/16 04:13 AM
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I had no friends and no girlfriend and set out to get a hot girlfriend. I started working out, got in shape. Followed a 4 day a week routine and ate well. Lost 30 lbs in 4 months and put on muscle. During that time I joined a bunch of meetups. Go to meetup.com and look for 20s, 30s, singles, social, sports, anything. Just join all of them and then go to one every weekend. I started doing 20s meetups weekly. Ran into a lot of awkward people just like me that wanted to me other people. I did that …
/r/seduction30/05/16 03:41 AM
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If you are in a big city, skip the bootcamp and do 2 things. Workout/get fit, and socialize. Join a gym, get a trainer to give you four 1 hour workouts for upper/lower body, and just repeat 4 times a week. Eat right. If you're an average dude, you'll be toned in 6 months. If you're a fat guy, you'll be in solid shape in a year. In the meantime, Socialize. Join meetup.com and join a bunch of meetup groups and just meet new people. If you're a guy and not good at talking to girls, don't worry. Sta…
/r/seduction27/05/16 11:04 PM
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If you test this, don't do it from the PUA perspective. Do it from a body language & behavior perspective. Say you watched this TED talk and wanted to statistically measure the impact that your smile, or arm position, or tone of voice had on the response someone gave you to the exact same question. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rk_SMBIW1mg You would have to do some thinking. What qualifies as a positive response? What qualifies as a negative response? Can you get a positive response from a bad …
/r/seduction14/05/14 10:13 PM
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You should show up with a list of baby names and ask her to help you choose the top 5 boys & girls names to name your kids. And in which order you will name all 10 of them... Also, don't bring more than 100 with you. Tell her you started with a book and picked out your top 100 favorites. This will show her that you are willing to commit time to the relationship.
/r/seduction22/04/14 11:07 PM
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