So, I read either in The Game or some other Neil Strauss content that in order to be more intriguing to women, you need to be in a "tribe" that they either want to join, or want to visit. So you have to have a sort of persona that conveys who you are and it has to be interesting or exciting for the women.

Personally, I feel like a completely average dude. I am 28, I have a decent job but it sounds boring when I describe it. I drive a 10 year old car. I work out 4 few days a week, but only started doing that 4 months ago, so I am not buff by any means. I stay busy and try to do new/fun activities whenever I can, but I don't have any exciting hobbies that I am really dedicated to. So, since I see myself as entirely average, how do I figure out how to describe/position myself to sound exciting, or like I'm part of some specific "tribe" that would seem intriguing to a woman I just met?

Are there any good resources on how to do this? Or how to make incremental changes to yourself that will result in this?

Thanks for any advice.