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Youre doing it wrong. Gotta remain dominant, don't let pussy eating backslide into making you appear submissive. Grab her thighs and hold on tight, put your hands all over her, shit grab her hair if you can manage that, all the same shit you should normally be doing. Act like a rabid animal going after wounded prey and she won't turn you down.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 11:42 AM
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I dunno, I won't claim to be any kind of expert on these matters, but last night I straight up told the gf that she's a filthy perverted basket case and I love it, and the cute giggle and swelling of pride that followed simultaneously made me proud of myself and lose a little more faith in humanity. Fuck it, there's no formula to this. Tell her yes she's a whore and it's a great ride. She either gets offended and goes away or, more than likely, will just bite her lip and giggle. Win-win either w…
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:03 AM
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I found my way here because I got cast aside while working two jobs to support someone. I was a depressed sack of crap and a fuck up for a while, but I still kept working and, most importantly, don't have kids to worry about. I find it hard to sympathize with a guy that lets his depreshuns get in the way of obligations he's made to other people. The wife is totally in the right on this one. Ride the damn bus and get a job at mcdonalds. It's awful but people do it every day, all it takes is a lit…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 02:13 AM
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Once you get fairly experienced with sex you'll realize that, as with anything else, everyone's wearing a mask. There are women out there with all sorts of "experience" but can't believe a couple consecutive orgasms is possible. Think of it like drug stories. It's mainly being played up by people who don't know what they're doing, and inversely not talked about much by the successful ones.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 02:00 AM
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My advice, bearing in mind I'm mostly blue collar and don't do office politics, is to just keep your head out of the drama and focus on work. Don't get angry, don't lash out, don't try to apply the same sort of game you would in a setting your livelihood doesn't depend on (bars, etc.), just do your job, stay professional, and if given a choice between saying something that could land you in hot water and saying nothing, say nothing. Believe it or not, having a reputation as the "kinda quiet guy …
/r/askTRP11/03/16 02:25 AM
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Be careful, thirsty betas can sneak up on you if she's in the right mood (grass is always greener). That's how I found my way here after all.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 12:39 AM
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Good stuff, but I'm thinking before we've even gotten to the "let's meet up" stage. Or is that a bad idea?
/r/askTRP02/03/16 02:44 AM
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| Ask the people who grow pot in Colorado, Washington and now Oregon. Same business only now the gub'mint taxes all the profit for themselves. Ahem, legal CO pot grower here. Yes the taxes are fairly steep, but on the flip side the revenue is insane, primarily going to education, you can get a quarter of some dank shit for about 30-40 bucks, I'm getting paid insanely well considering where I come from (food industry) and most importantly, human beings aren't being locked in cages for things that…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 07:29 PM
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She could just have a high sex drive. Even when I'm regularly getting laid I still find myself masturbating quite a bit, just gotta get it out one way or another.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 03:01 AM
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Yep. I'm also learning a lot about botany and horticulture, which I put in the nerdy-but-not -too - nerdy category. Just be passionate about something, or multiple somethings. Chicks dig a man with goals even if they're not fully realized yet.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 08:17 AM
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The truth. I grow cannabis (legal), cook part time for extra cash, and also build computers amd write as side hobbies (and hopefully someday they'll get me paid too). I make comfortable money doing things I enjoy, and that matters more to me than making fuck you money. Take it or leave it. Don't qualify yourself. You love what you do, you're good at it, and even if not you've got a better plan B in the pipeline (right? right)
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:02 AM
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My situation might be a little different since I live in a big city, but mainly through work. By which I don't mean just hang out with coworkers, but let them lead you to a wider social circle. E.g. I worked for a series of high end denver restaurants that have shared similar chefs. Managed a brewpub alongside a bartender with a roommate I hadn't met at the time, but who was cooking elsewhere. A year passes and I find myself working with a pastry chef who invites me out for dinner and drinks wit…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 10:50 AM
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I noticed a huge improvement when focusing on pictures that involve or at least imply other people. Main one is me driving with CO mountains in the background, my passenger (former plate lolzzbbb) having taken the pic, another is me with some horrific androgynous costume on that my (mostly female) coworkers demanded I wear....see a pattern? Oh and a couple pics of me with a ridiculously cute cat. Bitches love cats. And the other thing is local population density. The difference between rural ill…
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:51 AM
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I assume you know this guy well enough to get a sense of his approach to women and dating. Is he honestly head over heels in love and putting himself at risk of getting hurt, or his he realistic about her nature and just along for the ride? Some of my best flings have been with women like this. It's not shooting for the stars by any means, but low maintenance as long as your expectations are realistic.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 09:07 PM
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Depends on the compliment. I oscillate between, "goddamn right, don't ever forget it!" and just a very genuine, "well thank you." I know the former sounds suoer arrogant, but it always garners laughs. Trying to downplay, reject, or get all shy about compliments in the past has only resulted in people getting mad at me. As always, better to err on the side of arrogance.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:38 AM
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I know it doesn't necessarily relate to your issues, but the main thing that worries me about female roomates, especially young ones that party and don't grasp the hardships of working for a living, is that sooner or later, they're gonna bring home some dirt-bag wannabe alpha. That guy is gonna have access to your stuff and odds are, not above stealing. If you havent already, get anything illegal, expensive, and/or intrinsically valuable locked up tight.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 07:17 PM
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Since my (admittedly extremely goddamn beta) teen years til now, my expectations of a potential mate have gone from sharing interests/hobbies/etc., to, "for the love of god just don't be an evil cunt to me, my friends, and/or the person waiting on us", to "please just don't try to destroy my life and ability to make a living," to basically approaching every interaction with a female, however trivial, with an imaginary suit of armor on, ready to spar. There was a cool thread posted up a while ago…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 04:06 PM
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Oh I totally agree, and I did my best to frame the issue as, "hey, I'm not asking for a break, or special treatment, or time off except to deal with housing when that issue arises, in which case you'll get as much notice as possible." I wasn't working with customers at the time, but they still had that weird HR stress and happiness thing going on, so I just wanted to get the message across that I'm in no way angry about work, just dealing with a rough interim. I was fortunate enough to have the …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 09:28 PM
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This yet another one of those things that, in a perfect world, I'd like to see eye to eye with women on. But reality tells a different story. Just a few days ago, I got a career offer in another state and accepted, which meant breaking things off with my girlfriend of only a couple months. She freaks out, cries, tries to turn the local menstruation nation against me, etc. How could you just up and leave?! Why did you even bother with me?! I feel so used! ;_; All this despite the fact that she as…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 10:41 PM
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Music is one of the few bastions where men have some leeway to get a little whiny. It's the last refuge for not having an explosive heart attack before you reach age 50.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 01:39 AM
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Do not give out any personal info that can possibly be gossipified. I've learned the hard way that beta men are possibly more dangerous than women in this regard.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 08:53 AM
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A coffee-shop for dudebros, with protein coffee drinks and shit instead of lame ass frappuccinos. I work as a barista for side-cash and would love to seriously be a part of something like that. Just look at the sort of neandarthals that are getting attention right now, namely Kim Davis and Donald Trump. If they owned this thing outright they would hit mud for a while, and then eventually find their, "it's so refreshing to hear other people just tell it like it is", posse.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 04:40 AM
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I'm currently seeing a single mother (I know I know I know) who works a grand total of four jobs, and one of my good friends is in a similar spot, albeit married. They bust ass like few people I've met before, no excuses for the lazy ones.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:30 PM
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The grand joke is that you'll have all the external respect you could possibly want as soon as you stop caring whether or not others respect you. I know that sounds like a catch-22, and in many ways it is; I'd liken this to trying to get one of those "entry level" jobs that requires 2+ years of experience. Sounds impossible, right? For better or worse, you largely just have to fake it til you make it. Someone insulted, disrespected, or otherwise hurt you, and it cuts deep? Pretend it doesn't. Wh…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 04:31 AM
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Well the take home point is not to hate. It wasn't her fault, it was mine for being weak.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 04:48 PM
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With all due respect to Burr, "make me a sandwich" has become the gendered version of "hey how about those bad asian drivers amirite?" It's not so much offensive as it is old hat.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 03:47 AM
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I think I mentioned this previously, but I highly recommend trying out Dr. Bronners (orange bottle) as a catch-all bodywash, handsoap, and shampoo. YMMV, but I used to have a lot of problems with my skin and hair either being disgusting and greasy, or overly dry and itchy with no happy medium. The no-poo, infrequent washing worked to get rid of the itching, but was otherwise gross for obvious reasons. Since ditching pretty much all standard, cheap soaps in favor of Bronners and switching my laun…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:51 PM
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Honestly, if I were as famous as him and someone stuck a camera in my face and asked me what I thought, I'd probably parrot some bluepill/feminist lines. Gotta keep that money and fame safe. The thing about celebrities is that you so often hear about how debauched they are behind closed doors, especially when it comes to womanizing. As long as the money and fame gears keep turning, you can literally beat women to near death (not suggesting that's ok) and they'll keep showing up at your door. If …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 04:15 PM
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This is essentially what drove me here. I had been working two jobs for almost 5 years straight to keep me and my GF on our feet while she was busy getting her degree. Had also been supporting her emotionally, comforting her through bouts of turmoil while she dealt with the stress of college, moving cities, lack of $$$, etc. Towards the end of it, I had a bit of a meltdown from all the suppressed stress (didn't lose my job, mind you), and turned to her for comfort....she left. Rendered me homele…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 03:28 PM
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Eh, I wouldn't sweat it. If you're witty, do what the other guys are saying and treat it like a female shit test (since that's essentially what it is), agree and amplify. "Stop flirting!" "Oh sorry about him, Mike's been jealous ever since we had that bathroom fling. Real clinger, that one." There really is no worst case scenario here, since I can't imagine these guys aren't giving off desperation and insecurity vibes that any woman could smell through a mile long tunnel of rancid hyena farts. I…
/r/askTRP23/08/15 04:52 PM
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Indeed, tough lesson to learn. I actually walked out on a restaurant management gig back in march because my wingnut FOH manager had somehow convinced the gullible upper management that I was a flaming racist...after I hired a team of primarily black and hispanic dudes. Those guys were my goddamn heroes, and somehow this bitch figured out how to use them as pawns against me. Never underestimate the lengths people will go to to get ahead.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 05:24 AM
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not yet, but dude, they're old, it's not that kind of fight
/r/askTRP18/08/15 01:23 AM
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Oh trust me, I've already had enough with old people and their bullshit. That's why I came here for advice on something that isn't necessarily red pill oriented, though, navigating a culture that mindlessly reveres old people just for being old seems to mirror living in a culture that reveres women just because vagina (think as you like, do as others do). This bag has the dual-threat of being an old woman. I'm just wondering if there's a relatively polite way to apply principles like amused mast…
/r/askTRP17/08/15 08:02 PM
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Oh absolutely, I literally just need to get my car through, it could easily be anybody else (like, say, an ambulance if some shit was going down). Not to mention how many bags of dicks this is going to suck when its time to start moving in big furniture.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 07:54 PM
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Indeed, I'm leaning on stuff like that as a last resort. I'm wondering if there are any conversational techniques I can use to better diffuse this situation without either supplicating or going nuclear. Like I said, using the law on these people will start a war over who can be more immature and petty, and will lead to me getting busted over things I'm typically great at keeping quiet.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 06:35 PM
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Bill Burr on arguing with women.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 06:06 PM
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In retrospect, it should kinda go without saying, but I had to learn the hard way that when a person blatantly disrespects you, and your g/f thinks it's funny, it's fucking over. You're also stuck in a catch-22 where if you try to go alpha on him, you'll likely just make it worse by appearing desperate or jealous. End it. GTFO. Do not pass go, do not collect gonorrhea.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 05:56 PM
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Speaking as a guy who grew up rather wimpy and didn't start getting into more masculine pursuits until my early-mid 20s, I've been increasingly dumbfounded by this. Anything even mildly masculine, fighting, lifting, outdoorsy shit with other dudes, heavy metal, even goddamn video games = LOL GAY HOMO SEX LOL!!111bbbbbbbb And yet if my temper gets the best of me and I dare use "gay" or "fag" as an epithet, I'm a terrible human being and an oppressor. As someone that's always (well, previously, I'…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 05:49 AM
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Sorry if this is veering too off topic, but I'm seeing something similar occurring in the gaming community - and I'm not talking about the already widely discussed Gamergate. Immediately after the Doom 2015 demo was showcased, feminists (I believe Sarkeesian was leading the charge, go fucking figure) was decrying the fact that, "a room full of people were cheering for bodies getting ripped apart!" The natural response came, "dude....it's Doom." "It's Doom is not an excuse!" So now the charade is…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 05:34 AM
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Word. Growing up, I had to hide anxiety and depression because no one took them seriously. Now I brute force my way through them out of fear of being lumped in with the snowflakes. As much as I hate to say it....it's mostly worked. Learning how to navigate these problems by pretending they're not there has, over time, become a self fulfilling prophecy. I really feel for the folks that never found, or for whatever reason, can't find that strength from within. They're shambling corpses and it's no…
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:39 PM
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So she's upset that guys went out of their way to respect he fact that she was taken? Fuck, there's really no winning.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:50 PM
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Re: oily skin and hair, switching to Dr. Bronners (orange bottle) for bodywash/shampoo has been a tremendous game changer. No vaulting between being overly dry or oily, no need for conditioner, get to wash as often as I want without getting too dry, etc. And it comes with bonus crazy new age ramblings all over the bottle.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 05:48 PM
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I don't mean to sound like a dick, but this strikes me as a feminine way of thinking. "I have to have kids, I just have to because hormones and stuff!" No you don't. Rise above your biology.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 04:04 PM
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I'm aware my examples are mostly vices, it's the principle of men being controlled and allowing themselves to be controlled that im concerned about. Other examples include guys who get shit for playing golf, working out, engaging in combat sports, etc.
/r/askTRP03/08/15 09:46 PM
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I like the spirit behind punishing infidelity, but I can't see that turning out well, especially given the lopsided legal environment we're stuck in right now. Every guy who unknowingly sleeps with a married woman could easily wind up on the chopping block (I know that's not what you're advocating, but I can't help picturing it being the norm). It would be enough just to have infidelity punished on a social level and not constantly glorified in the media. We hardly even have that.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:35 PM
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Normally i would agree, but the thing is, its not us taking this seriously, its them. Check out the subreddit drama post on this; theyre patting themselves on the back for not just having a list, but manually following people around, digging into their history, somehow finding time in the day to keep track of all this shit. This forum literally saved my life in the wake of a horrific breakup. Its partly my fault for not doing a better job of anonymizing my internet identity, but im fairly visibl…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:24 PM
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Im not even mad, thats amazing
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:16 PM
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Considering how corrupt politicians can be, and how many of them eventually get caught messing around with other women, I would think their wives' looks are rather moot. They have the women that are convenient for forming political dynasties and elite alliances, much like the royal arranged marriages of yore, and they have their harems behind the scenes. If every single member of the elite stuck strictly to marrying young hotties, that would make the gears that drive the system way too transpare…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 06:50 AM
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I'll admit to being a guy who favors democracy in the political sense, but it makes no sense here. A subreddit is like a private brick and mortar company; for the most part, the leadership should do what it wants. If they're wrong, market forces will reflect that. That said, I've had 0 trouble here simply by prefacing posts with, "I'm no TRP expert, but I believe/have experienced _____." Whereas other subreddits will pay lip service to democratic ideals, but will happily pounce on someone specul…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 05:02 PM
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Stuff like this really frightens me, especially after coming out of my shell sexually, and inadvertently discovering how many women are into at least mildly kinky shit. To think someone might be out there claiming I've "pressured" them to do something they explicitly told me they're into gives me the heeby jeebies.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 03:16 PM
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It's funny that lesbians often get painted as "man haters" and the like. The ones I've know we're just like you described; not necessarily outright misogynists, but definitely weary of other women's shit. Hell, even a lot of gay dudes are similar, since they get to see a woman's reality from the perspective another woman would, as opposed to a straight male "friend".
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 06:27 AM
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A man who's been mislead to believe everything would be ok, and that women can be trusted. Yeah he was dumb, but that's the tunnel vision a lot of us have to live with. A never ending prisoner's dilemma that you're not allowed to call by its proper name.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 06:23 AM
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It's both curious and also painfully obvious that women pick the one of the most beta cross sections of society to go to war with. They could have any number of targets, football, cops, etc. but who do they pick? Gamers. They're not even trying to conceal the agenda.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 05:43 AM
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I'll readily admit to being a huge nerd. You say you don't want to give up your hobbies to improve your SMV, but isn't that a false dichotomy? Lifting, nutrition, and combat sports are very nerdy subjects at their core, and quite frankly I don't think I'd be able to keep up with them without using them as outlets to nerd out.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 06:18 AM
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I disagree with the others saying you should insinuate they're gay, since that has a strong chance of making you look insecure, especially to female company. If you're gonna go that route, better to insinuate you're gay. "Oh honey you know just where to put those big strong hands." Shit like that. You didn't specify if this is just friendly touching or full-on AMOG bullying. In either case, relaxed posture, shoulders back, manspread, big shit eating smile. Resist the urge to tense up or make you…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 06:02 AM
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Im no expert on how to fix this, but I've been like Stan (minus the hitting women part, although that was probably coming too). I'm still working my way out of it. It all started as the result of a nasty breakup, 6 years down the toilet. I hated women, TRP helped me detach but I detached too much, and I've left a number of tarnished friendships and job connections in my wake. Your brother is in pain and this is how he masks it, I can tell you that much. Counterintuitive as it may sound, approach…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 05:42 AM
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Being cheated on in a lovey dovey state of mind is hard enough. Being the other man is...hard to describe. Simultaneously gratifying and depressing. I can't say I'm jaded enough to keep it up, but it was certainly a learning experience, one that's impossible to come back from.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 06:45 PM
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This kind of a repeat of advice I just gave in another thread, but try to bring out Mr. Curious. "So what do you do for work? Oh cool, I've always wanted to learn about welding, how'd you get your start?..." I've only met a small handful of "intimidating dudes" that are actually as scary as they look, most get along just fine with Mr. Curious. If anything, betas are riskier (and then, only mildly so) since they're more prone to insecurity and dat betasnap. Just like with approaching hot girls, w…
/r/askTRP06/07/15 05:09 AM
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I'm no expert on socializing on that level, but when I'm out of my element, being Mr Curious (not to be confused with interview mode) seems to work. "So what so you do for fun? Oh rock climbing, awesome, I haven't been rock climbing in a while, I should get back into it. Holy crap you're from Brazil? I've always wanted to vacation there, what's it like?" So on and so forth. Worst case scenario, you leave people feeling good about themselves. Best case scenario, you dig up some really interesting…
/r/askTRP06/07/15 04:51 AM
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Crabs in a bucket. Watch from the sidelines as they keep pulling one another back into the bucket, and laugh.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 04:13 AM
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Don't be taken in by the veil of innocence, religiosity, or god forbid, nerdiness. This is the triple threat that women rely on to rope in chumps. Nerdy girls are absolutely fucking filthy. Perhaps worse than standard hot girls since they thrive that much more on validation from throngs of men. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 09:15 PM
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innocent No. 'thanks' Women lie. Feigned gratefulness is perhaps the most nefarious lie they throw around. she even offered me her phone to check her messages to verify her plans with her friend She baited you into revealing how insecure you are. Clever girl. You were done the second you gave a fuck about the contents of her phone.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 08:43 PM
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I don't even need to read what you posted to tell you you're massively, MASSIVELY over thinking this. You're dealing with a woman for fucks sake. Do you know what women do? They fuck strange men bareback that they met 5 minutes prior. They climb into vehicles owned by total strangers, get themselves pregnant by one man in order to lock down another. They throw decades of marriage in the gutter based on shit they saw in a crappy movie. Fuck, they'll offer their own children up as sacrificial offe…
/r/askTRP05/07/15 08:30 PM
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What I gleaned from being a stupid beta and watching girly movies with the gals is that there isn't a single piece of female - centric fiction that doesn't glorify infidelity. Promiscuity is one thing, but why the fuck does it have to be taken to that level of betrayal and destruction? Sluts wouldn't have to bear the weight of being "slut shamed" if they would just stop going out of their way to destroy lives.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 06:28 PM
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This is why I don't understand the average TRPers obsession with "good Christian girls." Dear god, just take how much women typically lie and multiply it by 100. The more a Christian woman barks about chastity, sobriety, etc. the filthier she is. At least sluts that aren't bound by morality tend to be a little more open and honest about it.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 06:17 PM
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Normally I would agree with your stance, but this woman is a living personification of everything TRP teaches. I'd bet my life savings she has key players on the board by the balls in some way or another. Probably fucked one or more of them and has a false rape claim locked and loaded.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 08:40 AM
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To be fair, I have a few female friends who I credit to saving my life when my unicorn decided to shit all over my heart, finances, and the home I built for her. These chicks came through for me at the 11th hour, gave me places to sleep, gave me rides/help with moving, bought me drinks/food, took me out to meet new people to take my mind off shit, one even threatened to adninister an ass beating for me (thanks but no thanks), etc. Of course, I have to wonder how that would've played out if I was…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 06:53 AM
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Indeed, woe be the man who actually yearns for commitment. Hell, he should just start showering her with flowers and shit and she'll leave him alone in no time.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:55 PM
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Jesus christ, time to take a break from reddit.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 09:05 AM
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Introversion isn't necessarily a hindrance. It made my life hell when I was a teenager, but I've since grown into it. As long as you can be comfortable and relaxed with your own introversion, you'll stand in stark contrast to people who reek of social desperation. That and you get to be all mysterious and shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 07:57 AM
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I've been through similar situations, and long story short, I'm not too confident a woman's ability to weather even a minor rainstorm. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:20 AM
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You're not wrong, but anecdotally, any sort of exercise in the AM is great for mood, especially if you're overweight, depressed, etc. Doesn't have to be heavy lifting, I usually reserve that time for bodyweight stuff or tabata.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:10 AM
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Engage them in banter that carries an air of amusement, while still highlighting how much they suck at life. I'm not even that quick on my feet and guys like this are easy pickings. I've even had instances where they start buying us shots.. "Oh trust me, you want to get into this girl's heart/pants? You'll need some [way more expensive liquor]."
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:07 AM
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Yep, this is one thing I'm exceedingly well qualified to comment on because I've bungled it so many times in the past. Don't express weakness, even to women who are confiding their own weakness in you (especially to them, they're looking for strength to lean on). Don't even make the mistake of airing a little weakness to someone you've been with for a while, there's simply no good time. If you're down, you'd be surprised how helpful and abundant bro - love is. The idea that men are unempathetic …
/r/askTRP23/06/15 04:56 PM
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Granted I'm new to this, but I'm 25, using tinder mainly, and am finding the 18-20 crowd easy to clean up. I'm in the prime of having both the good looks, energy, and danger aspect as well as the adult with his own place and money aspect locked down, and apparently it's like crack for these chicks. I see no reason this couldn't continue well into one's 30s if you take care of yourself. It's funny, when I was a fat, nerdy high schooler I hated how all the girls wanted older guys. Now I'm enjoying…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 04:00 AM
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You mean it doesn't make any sense to shout at non-psychopaths about how they need to teach psychopaths how to be less psychopathic? Next you'll try telling me I can't teach a grizzly bear to not do grizzly bear stuff. Fucking shit lords with your mansplainingcislogik.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 04:56 AM
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Very similar thing happened to me last year (6 year relationship, LTR'd way too young, made her my world, you know the drill), and while I didn't immediately rush to kill myself, I did go on a slow burn bender doing shit tons of benzos, booze, coke, amphetamines, and occasional opiates (yes all simultaneously when available). Lost a good few months there to blackouts, as well as a number of friends, tons of money, and a couple jobs, landed myself in some embarrassing situations, and could've wou…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 06:22 PM
6

I'll readily admit that my presence here carries a sort of sad irony, I'm sort of a self hating TRPer who otherwise subscribes to typically left wing values. But after letting myself get burned over and over again, I'm stuck either pretending I don't feel what I feel or continuing to bash my head against a brick wall. It sucks and I wish it didn't have to be this way, but it is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 04:19 PM
2

At the risk of sounding like a concern troll, I could swear I've seen more guys than usual (moreso on asktrp) talking about their exploits defending the trp name in other subreddits. It may not even be agent provocateurs you need to worry about, just guys who can't shed their need to pose as white knight for somebody.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:02 PM
1

I'm not really the guy to ask as I'm still closer to the bottom of the learning curve. All i can really say is that alphaing up is top priority, probably even moreso than being physically attractive.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 06:06 PM
4

Another aspect is that Latina women (and Latinos in general, speaking from working with then my entire career) expect a lot more consistent alphaness out of dudes than the current crop of whites. I dated a few in the midst of my transition, and while it was fantastic, it also went south really fast because I was dripping with beta tendencies. I employed a pretty typical trp strategy initially, but wound up catching feelz, and they were gone in no time. The irony is that these girls were actually…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 05:20 PM
2

Jesus christ man, you already served up a full rack of autism with a heaping side of fedora by ignoring her obvious lack of interest. Continuing to bitch about "woman logic" and having the gall to accuse her of mind fucking you is the kind of shit that only serves to further validate the notion that were a bunch of creepers. I know it's a tough pill to swallow, but I only say this because I've been that creeper myself in the past. If you're not capable of playing it cool and moving on from a rej…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 05:42 PM
44

Stefan Molyneux had a great anecdote about this exact issue. He's on a first date, and they're walking down the street, she's closest to the cars. The date ends up flatlining when she forcefully demands he walk on the other side, "because that's what men do!!!" If she would've simply said something to the effect of, "would you mind switching sides with me? I just feel uncomfortable being so close to oncoming traffic." He would've happily obliged. Much like with putting the toilet seat down, or a…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:10 PM
0

The sad thing about this attitude is that there are plenty of awesomely skilled women in the hardcore and metal scenes, as well as plenty of earnest listeners. Just like with good female comedians, or workers for that matter, they don't go on self-entitled bitch fests, and don't try to harass people into enjoying their work under the threat of being accused of misogyny if they don't. They simply get it done.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:38 PM
5

Seriously, what happened to social justice? Mocking people for allegedly being gay is an implicit accusation that being gay is wrong. If The Cathedral were run by an A.I. it would implode trying to parse out this issue.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:24 PM
2

I don't want or need to find out what happens to the boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 04:13 PM
2

Im ashamed to say I've been that white knight before. Spoiler alert: he doesn't get laid.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 09:02 AM
71

You know what? Fuck it. I was a "victim" of early teenage male on male rape. No therapy, no sympathy, nobody to give a shit; I've been hauling this "mattress" for the better part of my entire life and will continue to do so. This story, especially taken into context with a world that laughs about prison rape, would rather turn men away from crisis centers than give the police a couple less souped up chargers, shits on men who see shrinks, prefers to tell non-rapists that theyre responsible for t…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:44 AM
2

Eh, semantics. Even if you take the assumption that the alpha/beta dichotomy is wrong and run with it, we still need a workable tool for how women view us.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 03:40 AM
4

I would be way less fearful of feminism if they didn't stoop to the level of demanding that people either accept an ideological label or be doomed to be dismissed as creepers, sexists, and woman haters. In any other context, this would be seen by any sane person as a damningly lazy maneuver to avoid justifying one's worldview. If you're not a conservative you're a jobless welfare leech. If you're not a liberal you're a racist. If you're not a libertarian you hate freedom. If you're not a sociali…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 02:50 AM
1

Quitting weed is even easier than quitting sugar and grains. Min. 3 days, max. one week of being cranky, bored, and poor sleep, and you're home free.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 05:30 PM
17

No, never trust betas for the same reason you shouldn't white knight for a chick in an abusive situation. They're far more likely to turn on you than their partner. Gotta be discreet or not do it at all
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 02:36 PM
1

Wait a minute. Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but after taking a close look at the actual essay, it reads like a work of fiction. He's not describing his actual views on sexuality, he's writing an imaginary conversation between two specific people. I definitely wonder wtf he was thinking having this published in a newspaper, but still. If a woman had written this, it would be easily dismissed as a work of mental exploration and satire.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:15 PM
30

To add insult to injury, if you don't think she's funny, you're a misogynist.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 10:30 AM
8

It took me until 24-25 to start coming out of my shell, everyone has to start somewhere. I find comfort in thinking about all of the "natural alphas" I knew as a kid who've let themselves go, are popping out kids left and right, stuck in dead end jobs, and so on. There's a lot to be said for having to struggle and learn the hard way how to move in the other direction, as opposed to those who get lucky early and never have to learn. Give a man a fish, etc.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 04:51 PM
3

Eh, I'd give her props for at least going about this in a nondestructive manner. Sure beats the hell out of having a plate act scorned because you held up the no-relationship bargain to a T
/r/askTRP25/05/15 03:49 PM
12

Man, I wish I could go back in time and listen to my gut when my girlfriend started on this same track. Eerily similar story, except she was more into the waif - thin jobless hippy free spirit type. Same bullshit lines too, "you look so much better than when we first started dating, all my friends think you're hot, etc." Except, instead of doing what this guy did, I went full beta and tried to talk it out with and support her. Suddenly I'm blindsided with the non-married equivalent of a divorce-…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 05:05 AM
29

| "When I met you I didn't like you" Seriously. In a perfect world, first impressions wouldn't have to be everything. I've made the mistake of misjudging others, and had the same done to me. But a line like that would have knocked the wind out of me. Even if it's true, how dare you say that in front of all of our friends and family, after I just professed my undying love. Fucking cunt.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 04:04 PM
1

I'm down with fighting when absolutely necessary (and assuming you can get away without assault charges), but a baseball bat makes me cringe. Too much risk of causing an accidental death or severe injury. Don't get me wrong, fuck pedophiles, but still.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 01:36 AM
4

The good news: you won the prize. The bad news: the prize is 3 months of going on a booze-xanax bender while semi-homeless and stuck driving a moped to work in the middle of rainy season. Yeah, I don't blame anyone that swoops in and tells me I'm a fucking idiot. I was blinded by love like a typical beta. I really thought she would be the mother of my children, the woman holding my hand as I slip into death (or vice-versa), but nope. She got dat degree and suddenly needed to "think about us", co…
/r/askTRP21/04/15 10:55 PM
11

Run, this is the first of many red flags. I essentially put my ex through college - she worked 10-15 hours a week at whole foods, daddy paid for college, I worked 70+ hour weeks between two jobs to cover all of our living expenses and then some. I did this all under the assumption that we would swap places, she'd be making more money with her degree, I'd drop my hours and go to school full time. Anyone want to guess what happened when she finished her degree?
/r/askTRP21/04/15 06:22 PM
1

not hard to reseason. I'm a chef and we have to wash all out cast iron, as much as it makes my heart hurt. Half the dishwasher's job is just reseasoning those things.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 05:59 AM
4

The counter intuitive thing about lifting (unless you REALLY overdo it or undereat) is that it actually gave me more energy. I'm waiting for some extra cash flow so I can sign up for the gym, but I'm already feeling the difference from basic tabata stuff at home. That period of not exercising led to depression and physical lethargy; it's a cycle up or down. Also, oddly enough, squatting and deadlifting make my back feel 100x better. Furthermore, just relax when it comes to things other than lift…
/r/askTRP12/04/15 05:01 AM
2

I usually just tell them straight up, "okay, I know that tone, something's bothering you." If that doesn't pan out, then fuck it, bail. I've also found this useful when dealing with women that are being unusually bitchy out of left field. This applies to relationships, friends, co-workers, etc. If they're freaking out and even if they're trying to make it about you, just pointedly ask, "What's really bothering you?" I'd say a good 7/10 times they break down and just admit something unrelated is …
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:14 AM
1

Yeah, dealing with career-homeless people like that is like dealing with trolls on the internet. Just avoid arguing, let them spew a bunch of shit, and 9 out of 10 onlookers will sympathize with you. The real confrontation comes when you meet one of these guys in a dark alley at 3am. Out in daylight with other people around, they don't mean shit. At the same time, I think it's helpful to just get out there in the city wilderness and learn to read the different "types" of homeless people. You hav…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 06:22 AM
1

Depends on if we're dealing with a feminist or a Feminist. I try not to let political/social/religious views get in the way of my relationships with other people (unless their ideas are just horrendously evil, like kill all the muslims), plus you have to bear in mind that a lot of women just claim the feminist label because A) they think it's just the default thing to do and B) hardline fems will bully them into claiming the label. I can think of two cases where I had to let a couple female frie…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 06:27 PM
14

Lol Tinder. Forget about the monetizing, they should just rename it "Free Drinks For Single Moms" regardless.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:07 PM
8

I'm probably a bit of an outlier in this sub in being a generally left-leaning atheist, but it's funny when you look at the parallels between hyper-evangelical religious folks and modern day feminism. Both have a similar, "don't confuse me with the facts" approach to things, and both are quick to reach for the guns of the state when they don't get their way.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 08:30 PM
1

This makes me absolutely sick to my stomach. I've been burned pretty bad, but not "swinging" while my husband of nearly a quarter century pays the bills and raises the kids bad. Fuck.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 05:50 PM
9

Yeah, wouldn't it be a shame if a particular age bracket of one particular gender weren't so hung up on looks and status. Golly gee wiz, that sure would be a nice world to live in, wouldn't it?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 08:35 AM
1

I'm also interested in how you get into the construction industry. I have several years of experience as a line cook, so I'm no stranger to moving fast, heavy lifting, getting my hands dirty, etc, but kitchens aren't worth the stress/pay ratio.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 07:20 AM
2

Never outshine the master, even if you catch him being blatantly incompetent. I haven't read the book, but I learned this one the hard way working my way up from dish dog to head chef. The master will take care of you if you help take stress off his back.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 04:51 AM
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"I know I suck lol. I'm selfish and bad at dating." Something about that makes my skin crawl. I've heard similar things from girls before and it's always a train-wreck. It's nice that she's somewhat owning up to her shit, but prefacing it with an "lol" is not a good sign.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 08:06 AM
1

Honestly man, speaking as an admitted beta and also having no experience as a parent (although plenty of experience spending 6 years tethered to a chick who almost ruined me)....your girlfriend doesn't sound that bad. The only really serious thing that stands out to me is that you claim she's always "yelling at your son." At the very least she needs some sort of help with stress and temper management; worst case scenario, she's going to seriously fuck him up. I have terrible anxiety issues due t…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:22 AM
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This is the love half of my love/hate relationship with my chef career. Hard, grueling, thankless work for shit pay. On the other hand, I've said all sorts of uncouth things to chicks and even straight up threatened to slice off waitress' fingers (when they're messing with tickets and mise en place), ain't no HR dept. for them to cry to, unless you work for a hotel. No wifey material to be found there, but plenty of detached fun to be had.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:06 AM
7

to be fair, he was a BP/narcissist-enabler
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 04:51 PM
3

Admittedly I'm ripping this off from a Nick Sparks presentation, but I like the idea of, instead of locking horns (unless absolutely necessary), be encouraging and something of a "cheerleader" for them. "Oh really, you used to work at the Waldorf? That's fuckin' awesome. Oh and tell me more about what Brazil was like, I'd kill to vacation there someday." It's walking a fine line between letting them steamroll over you (when it comes to opinions, I believe in holding the line come hell or high wa…
/r/becomeaman08/02/15 08:58 AM
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If your dad dies and leaves you a 25k life insurance payout, don't link it to your joint bank account (which you should also just not have to begin with). Do not use some of it to buy her nice things out of love, gratitude, and, "hey, sorry I haven't had the cash to do these kinds of things for you as often." Don't tempt Murphy's Law. Murphy is definitely a woman, and she's a merciless cunt.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 08:51 AM
1

Yep, trying to be a good male feminist ally is part of what drove me here. TRP ain't got shit on how harsh they are on dudes who honestly just want to help. It's insanity.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 08:59 AM
1

This right here is a textbook example of why I finally flipped the TRP switch after juggling so many conflicting feelings. Women will crush anyone, no notice, no warning, no apologies. They'll render you homeless or suicidal and have a complete and utter dearth of fucks to give. And as soon as their turn to get heartbroken is up, suddenly it's unfair and a reason to freak out. Fuck them. Fuck her. Tell her that she has to, at the very least, calm the fuck down and accept your terms or GTFO. Kind…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:49 AM
1

Thanks man. the silver lining is that it really turned me around. flipped the TRP switch once and for all for starters, I've upped my kill count from 2 to...well, better than 2, lost a shit ton of weight, and got an awesome job offer like 3 months after she dropped me. I'm no pickup god by any means, but having the x-ray vision into what they're capable of has made things so much smoother. Not just in the dating/plating game, but when it comes to workplace ordeals, making friends, you name it. S…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 11:57 PM
1

I opted for punching a hole in a wall (I swear I didn't realize it was dry wall and would cave in that fast) when no one was around, and now she gets to spin tales about how I was abusive. Oddly enough, a good chunk of our mutual chick friends and our bro weed dealer took my side, all her beta orbiters (who I invited into my home, treated as friends, cooked for, bought beers for, offered couches to sleep on in times of need, you name it) and a couple of the obvious sluts turned their backs on me…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 01:32 AM
3

Hmm, I wonder if there are any "marriages" out there like this that work. Is there anything stopping that from turning into a court system clusterfuck, though?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:29 PM
3

Yep, been there. 6 years spent working two jobs to pay for living expenses while my future-wifey worked on her degree and dicked around at Whole Foods 15 hours a week. What thanks do I get? Dumped and kicked out of the house the second she finishes her degree. We had originally agreed on doing a switcheroo - I would start working part time and going to school while she was the breadwinner. I was a dumbass. Don't be a dumbass. edit: and the best part is the way she waited to drop the bombshell on…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:22 PM
2

Even before trp came along, I always responded to this with, "yeah, I'd definitely let him pee on me/blow me behind a dumpster/insert grotesque sexual act here." I mean think about it. Instead of being butthurt and insecure, throw her a curveball by showing how comfortable you are talking about filthy shit. If you're the type of guy who's offended by gayness, just suck it up for a minute and pretend. Dont go completely over the top, but make references to the things you'd do to "him", and just a…
/r/askTRP13/01/15 07:43 PM
2

I totally feel where you're coming from, and again I appreciate the honest feedback. You're right, I was being a pussy, and I intend to do my best to correct that on the next date. I swear I was right on the edge of just grabbing her by the chin and going for it, and then Mr. Beta popped up on my right shoulder and shook his head. Next time he's gonna get his proverbial imaginary ass imaginarily whooped for trying to cockblock me. Another angle to consider: I noted her bitching a lot about hooku…
/r/askTRP25/12/14 07:32 PM
2

I figured as much, and intended to ramp up the escalation as much as possible on the next go-round. In fact I'm gonna shoot straight for f-close (or at the very least, b-close or something) on #2, but we'll see.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 06:51 PM
2

What part is the hamstering. "In theory I could've gone further"? or the "but...."? Just curious.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 03:56 PM
1

Goblet squats helped a lot for me, as well as strengthening the lats. Google Dan John
/r/askTRP25/11/14 05:06 AM
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Word. Plate was giving me shit, I delete everything and go quiet. Not two hours later she's back to texting like everything is fine. Not that great of a victory, but it was just, dude, they're like clockwork.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:59 AM
2

There's one potential problem with eggs, in that you can develop an allergy over time. But that's assuming you're eating them in crazy amounts, probably not an issue if you're cycling proteins.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:52 AM
1

Not directly, but in the form of subtle call outs. E.g. "seems like someone's got a little attitude tonight?" -"oh whatever you know you like it" Shit like that, don't go full autist and start spewing shit about the feminine imperative or whatever. Leave the Internet stuff on the Internet, just like the SJW/fem crowd should have done.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 03:51 AM
2

I didnt write the shitty language to this operating system, women did. It's useless for anything meaningful, so fuck it, im just gonna do my best to rig it up for basic functionality. I would happily go white - picket - fence blue pill all the way, if I thought it were safe to do so. I'm sure others feel the same way. But it's just...not. gotta deal.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 03:42 AM
1

I look at it like buying flowers or fancy dinners; it's the kind of thing you save for someone you've already built rapport with, has at the very least put out. Srsly. Read Sex God method, put it to use, leave her shaking like a car on bad gas, you know the drill. Then once you've established that paradigm, then you start whipping out the, "wow you look stunning, babe" type stuff (sparingly), and odds are she'll actually appreciate it. That's why beta approach sucks, it's essentially trying to w…
/r/askTRP16/11/14 09:42 PM
1

Post-orgasmic cuddling, walks in the park, cute dogs sometimes, pretty smells. Fuck em well, snag what glimmer of blue pill happy you can, and out. Also wing-women, and a lot of them have helped me get jobs and provided shoulders to lean on when life dumped on me. They're n it all evil, just tread lightly.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 02:14 AM
3

Learning how to verbally spar with AMOGs was a great starting point, I found (it boils down to the same principles as deflecting shit tests). Granted, I work in a blue collar industry so it's not hard to come by.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:43 PM
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As a male victim of molestation, shit like this actually gives me a glimmer of hope. Once feminism has dug itself a deep enough hole, both women and men who've actually experienced what it's like to be forcefully violated are going to start to get pissed about being trivialized and politicized like this. I foresee a mutiny brewing in the ranks.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 10:09 PM
1

I can feel my inner beta trying to claw his way out, though and dump his stupid feelz all over. Im gonna strangle the little bastard if I have to.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 11:43 PM
1

I've been very straightforward with her about her propensity for picking shitty guys and how I will not tolerate any douchery in my house, and am armed. She caved pretty easily to that stipulation, so we'll see what happens. It's also understood that her ex is 86'd under penalty of a beatdown, and she didn't seem to have any qualms with that.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 10:54 PM
1

Not an RP expert by any means, but im in a similar situation with a somewhat crazy girl (see my thread down the page). She wants a relationship, I dont, but we make a great team otherwise. Push and pull. Bring her back to your place, fuck her to orgasm, cuddle afterwards, and then go radio silent for a few days. We'll see what happens, but it seems to be working for me thus far.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 10:37 PM
1

Nothing too bad other than a lot of, "are you ok? Does that feel alright? Was that good for you?" (Protip: don't fucking do that shit) If anyone's read Sex God Method, im totally guilty of being the "tinkerer". Always fiddling with the clitoris and trying to work out the perfect orgasm formula while she lays there bored out of her mind. If you combine the better aspects of being a "tinkerer" with plain old sweaty, hair pulling, passionate animal fucking, you'll make girls happy, ime.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 08:47 PM
1

Assuming your last paragraph is true, I would just ignore it. Better yet, make a point of stretching out, yawning, putting your hands behind your head, and spreading your legs out a little; total IDGAF body language. (Assuming that doesn't hurt you're image in a business meeting) The fact that you're stressing over this might cause you to give off some involuntary body language cues. I know it's the, "don't think about a pink elephant" problem, but just do your best to ignore them and keep your …
/r/askTRP02/11/14 08:39 PM
3

Cheaters gon cheat. Now they just have a private superhighway to expedite the process. Fuck it, I say.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 06:16 PM
1

Here's the thing, I've told her straight up that if this happens, she has free reign to fuck anybody she wants and I won't get jealous. She seemed a bit sad whenbi said that. Im far more concerned about creeper/douches being brought into my pad and stealing shit.
/r/askTRP02/11/14 12:41 AM
1

Fwiw I appreciate you guys telling it like it is, I know im probably looking at this through rose tinted glasses and letting the inner beta get to me. Be harsh, let me have it, but more importantly I'd really like to hear stories from people who've actually been in the thick of this kind of situation before. The bottom line, really, is that im tired of living in a gross party house with four dudes, and the price and neighborhood are right. I'd be able to save some cash and build a nest egg witho…
/r/askTRP01/11/14 07:59 PM
1

The dude is most certainly not an alpha, unless juggalos and backwoods rednecks can be described as such. Can't hold a job, sucks at everything, broke, she's paying for 80% of everything because of him. Im not just taking her word on this, I've met the guy and seen it in action. He spends all day hanging out at the skate park trying to sell weed (in denver, no less!). Of course all of these things are major red flags, hence im holding her at arms length emotionally. As an FWB she's great, though…
/r/askTRP01/11/14 07:29 PM
1

If there's one benefit of having my heart torn to pieces, it's that I've developed rock solid frame, and a lack of emotional attachment to boot. I'd actually like to hear more about your friend and his situation if you don't nind. "Alpha Buddha" sounds interesting and hilarious.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 07:15 PM
1

I didn't seem to get much out of it other than a strange afterglow. As far as RP potentiating drugs go, I would suggest (with extreme caution) phenibut, etizolam, pyrazolam, and modafinil/adrafinil
/r/askTRP01/11/14 02:03 AM
1

Over time, I've come to respect guys that did with me, at least the true "leader" types, not just every wannabe alpha douche. As long as they can find a productive way to absorb the message, then you're effectively challenging them to grow and improve.
/r/askTRP28/10/14 11:57 PM
1

Wouldn't actually do it, just thinking out loud
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 11:02 AM
3

Honestly, one of the big things that turned me this way was my experience as a pink-flag waving male feminist. Part of me still wants to hold onto those ideals, but man, you get shit on way harder than a guy that just stays out of the fray entirely.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 01:16 AM
10

I've managed to work my way up to 3 while working 50+ hours in a busy kitchen, lifting, attending MMA sessions, seeing music & comedy shows, and having a decent amount of bro time. If a guy is less dependent on hours for his money and has the looks, I can see it working. Even assuming OP is fronting, those dudes still exist.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:55 PM
5

Depends. Honestly, I can see some sense in beating up a beta orbiter that's constantly trying to force himself into her life. Doesn't matter how much more alpha or good looking you are or how big your dick is, that guy will eventually find a crack in the walls and worm his way in for a minute. Some amog my girlfriend obviously just wanted to bone at first sight? Meh, not his fault. Next. It's really more the secrets than anything. And that beta guy is the ones who's more likely to uphold those s…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:50 PM
5

Some bitch got jealous and gave him more publicity.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 12:05 AM
13

This writer is a fuckhead, for sure, but I still have to agree with the sentiment of not being publicly butthurt about things like this. I made that mistake myself post - breakup and it's not a good look.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 11:55 PM
2

Harden your heart and pump the breaks on your affections. If i had a time machine, I would make it my mission to drill that message into teenage me's head. It would've saved me so much pain and time spent hanging on the brink of suicide.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 11:51 PM
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As sad as this story is, there's actually a really hilarious twist to it. If you read his letter all the way through, he talks a lot about having "certain tastes in the bedroom", bdsm, dominance, etc. I had no idea who this dude was, but apparently he's almost 50 and looks not a day over 35, lifts, presumably has some cash, and is known for being a successful media personality. He's pretty fuckin studly, to be blunt. And he just broadcasted to the entire world that he's also Christian Grey in th…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 11:43 PM
14

As a former fat-as-fuck, long-haired, gamer type, it's really amazing the difference in the level of respect you get from strangers. A trendy haircut, 30 lb weight drop, some muscle gain, and the right facial hair, and suddenly everything is different. Bums hassle me way less, women working in stores/restaurants/bars are always super helpful and nice, old people and little kids don't look at me like I'm going to eat them, men don't try to amog me constantly (and the ones that do tend to be tards…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 10:50 PM
2

Everything is a zero sum game. Instead of getting your dick wet, you helped strengthen a male bond (which is more important in the long run, imo). Just like if you had spent the night lifting or practicing guitar instead of getting laid, you still did something productive. I'm not claiming to be any kind of RP god, far from it, but I don't like seeing other guys get hung up on getting laid, since that's such a common pitfall.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 10:11 PM
1

I'd look at it kind of like being the designated sober driver for a night. As long as it's not a totally one sided thing all the time, then you were just being a solid bro. just tell him he owes you one next time
/r/askTRP26/10/14 09:00 PM
1

What? Behind the back shit talking is not alpha behavior, and at least where I work, women seem to detest seeing it in men. Women and alpha men respect direct confrontation, I feel like something is missing here. The chicks might appear to be participating in the gossip, but j don't see how that translates to them respecting the guys that are doing the bitching. Just focus on being a solid, dependable worker, deflect any direct confrontations with amused mastery, and just let the bitching slide.…
/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:47 PM
3

Oh god no. Not trying to project my shit onto you, but I had a unicorn for 6 years, and then one day she just went AWALT on me, did all the things you describe and more for six years straight. You never know.
/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:41 PM
9

I have to disagree with a lot of the posters here, stay the absolute fuck away from anything involving race, until you know beyond a shadow of a doubt he can take it. You'd be amazed at how quickly a so-called alpha will go bitching to HR, so watch that shit. Otherwise, just rely on amused mastery. I work in a field with a large Hispanic population, and had similar issues at first. As soon as I stopped letting it get to me and started firing back, they magically became my friends (and in turn I …
/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:28 PM
1

My most practiced example (I'm surrounded by wannabe alphas on the job, so homophobes abound), is if someone tried to insult you by calling you, "gay/faggot", offer to suck his dick better than any woman ever could. Whooosh, wind, sails, gone. That doesn't translate to banter with women, but the same principles apply. Take anything (and I mean anything, even something nuclear like small penis or pedophile), and wear it on your chest. e.g. "That chick just turned 19 and you're almost 30, what are…
/r/askTRP25/10/14 07:01 PM
2

I've been there man. I'll readily admit to previously being omega as fuck, and still have a long way to go to work out the kinks. Lift, eat right (don't skimp on protein, fat, and veggies), read read read. Most importantly, stop all communications with this chick, and anyone that ardently supports her. Best case scenario: you creeped her out hardcore, in which case there's simply nothing to recover. Let it go. I only say this because I've been that guy before that just won't take a hint, and got…
/r/askTRP25/10/14 06:55 PM
-2

Ok, admittedly I haven't finished the first season, so I'm sure I'm missing some info. However, I was under the impression that the marriage was "open" on Frank's side only (which would be a double-standard, sure). And there's something very hidden, guilty, and sinister about her thing with the other guy. She's not just fucking random men, she's honing in on this one guy as if he's her true "lover". Frank isn't BB, but he's filling that role moreso than the other guy.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 06:40 PM
-2

Spoiler alert: She's cheating on him with a guy who is arguably alpha/sigma, but much more liberal, artsy, sensitive, etc. He's there to fulfill her BB side when she occasionally gets bored with AF.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 03:27 PM
2

I highly recommend this one, and I use it weekly, if not almost daily. "Ooh that one wasn't half-bad! I'm almost proud of you." Best case scenario, it might inadvertently create attraction. Worst case, she gets butthurt and flustered.
/r/askTRP24/10/14 11:18 PM
1

As long as this topic is up, does anyone have any advice for a chef looking to jump careers? I have 0 construction experience, but know how to work my ass off under crazy pressure. Where do you go to get started?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 08:07 PM
1

I've had a pretty hard struggle with finding that divide between being "truly" alpha and just freaking out and being a dick. I fell into the latter a lot at first and it led to some shitty situations and embarrassment. The way I look at it now is basically this: are you a mountain or a volcano? Do you remain steady and immovable, or do you erupt under pressure? It was such a "duh" moment for me when the idea of Amused Mastery popped up, everything just clicked. It's not just women, you can prett…
/r/askTRP24/10/14 07:50 PM
1

Granted, this was after a few days of rapport building, dirty talk, etc. But I straight-up offered to trade a chick a good hard fucking for some of her xanax. Her response? "Lol wouldn't that be like prostitution?" And then she started pushing to hang out. They know what they're doing, shit works man.
/r/askTRP23/10/14 06:55 PM
2

Yeah but this is usually in a corporate work environment (and I don't deal with customers so it's not a job issue). I usually settle for a glassy, "don't fuck with me" stare before turning back to my work.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:07 PM
1

On the subject of smiling too much, how do you deal with, "you should smile more!" shit testing?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 06:51 PM
21

Men themselves being out of shape probably has a lot to do with it as well.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:11 PM
1

Honestly, I use supps and drugs. If you want, I'd recommend a basic stack of ALCAR/PLCAR + caffeine + l theanine + creatine. The creatine is not time dependent, but take the other 3 together pre-workout.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 09:00 AM
8

Eh, can we cut out the drowning and kidnapping part? Fuck it, I'll take a pedo charge to save a drowning child.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:44 PM
1

Yeah, you're not wrong about that. What about his public speaking, rhetorical, and conversational skills, though? I mean I've got the comfortable silence and mystery thing down, but the thought of holding court (with or without investments at stake) like he does makes me shit bricks.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 07:28 PM
1

It's all about how you play it. Me at 17: fat, long greasy hair, band shirts, WoW, introverted, quiet. Thus I was, "creepy, shy, future serial killer, etc." Me now: clean trendy haircut, better clothes, lifting, better posture. Still introverted, but I maintain comfortable body language, and have also learned to deepen and steady my voice. Now I'm, "a man of few words / dark and mysterious". Their words, not mine. Don Draper is a good character to study. Not an introvert, but he's comfortable wi…
/r/askTRP11/10/14 06:59 PM
2

Lifting is the skillset. There's just so much information to nerd out on and put into practice.
/r/askTRP11/10/14 06:42 PM
39

Decentralized warfare. Leaderless resistance. Let them show their hand, and do all the legwork plowing through resources trying to swat at some bogeyman. Straight out of the al qaeda playbook. Edit: Actually, come to think about it, the macro scale of this isn't any different from personal interactions with women and wannabe alphas. Don't freak out, don't get trapped in a debate. Just shrug, say, "meh, I'm gonna go hit the gym", and just let them seethe and freak out on their own time.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:59 PM
1

I've making sure to log plenty of eager dirty talk, both pre and post-lay. Is that a sufficient shield against such actions?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:45 PM
1

Honestly, this is one aspect of them I totally understand, as annoying as it can be. I'm pretty shameless about generalizing women, and happily take the risk of killing a few unicorns in the process, because quite frankly, I've had my fucking heart torn to pieces and I'm not letting one of them try it again. I would imagine women, having easier access to sex and dating, are more tuned into this feeling. I'd prefer to have peace with the neighboring tribe, but as long as they're granting asylum t…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 06:02 PM
2

For clarification, I only do shit like that in a bar with security, cops on route, at least a handful of patrons, etc. I'm banking on a combination of my friends, their friends, and whoever else helping to de-escalate before shit gets too real. Oh hell no I'd never do that shit just out on the street or alone in a bar with its own specific clientele, or whatever. It's more just like, "ok, go ahead and attack me with witnesses and enjoy your battery charge, I can take it." Truth be told I did som…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 07:56 PM
1

Disclaimer: im pretty new to this whole thing, and this post might come off like a bad case of bragplaining, but heres my 2c. I don't make much in terms of wage, but on the other hand I have valuable skills I can take anywhere, a network of former coworkers/bosses who will hire me on the spot, solid benefits, more hours than I even want, and near-immunity due to being such a fucking badass at my job. I'm the guy that gets more pay raises than promotions because management is terrified of what ha…
/r/askTRP04/10/14 07:45 PM
1

Admittedly, personal dealings with women aside, I still subscribe to a lot of progressive ideals (ideal being the key word here). Equality of opportunity, free speech, latitudinal authority structures, gay rights, religious freedom, and yeah, gender freedom. Problem is, part and parcel of my take on equality is an equal sharing of expectations, criticisms, etc. I would think that telling a woman she can be whatever and go wherever if she works for it would be, like, about as anti-sexist as it ge…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 06:42 PM
6

Yeah I successfully made it through the womyn-hate stage to the "holy shit this is actually getting me laid" stage. But if anything I'm more lonely than when I was a fat sack of sexual frustration and daydreams. I'm going in smooth as hell, focused on getting my dick wet, and holy crap it's really working. But know what? I still want that white picket fence dream, bedsore-inducing morning snuggles instead of taking off asap, I want to not have to stunt contact for the sake of keeping them curiou…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 03:42 PM
20

With the exception of really deadly serious topics (and even then... ), everything is humorous to me. If I make someone mad or annoyed, I make a game out of how much more I can get under their skin. If a woman comes shrieking at me acting like a cunt, or blatantly trying to manage her anxiety by making me freak out too, I just let my eyelids and jaw go slack a little, stare at them like I'm mildly retarded, and go, "yurp." Drives them absolutely fucking nuts and is just hilarious regardless of a…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 01:31 PM
3

Good fucking job man. And yeah, the tears and hand grabbing...bitches are fucking pure evil with that shit sometimes. There's a line by Anaal Nathrakh that I feel should be every red pillars motto. "NEVER. FUCKING. AGAIN."
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 01:08 PM
1

Thanks brother. Some seriously fucking salient points there. And on the verbal sparring note, I actually got pretty fucking mean with her when she mentioned that her strategies for dealing with guys she likes and guys she doesn't like are the same: makeup crap and play beta mind games. She got flustered, didn't talk to me for an hour, and then literally jumped for joy when I asked her on a date, suggested time and place, etc. As for the feisty one, yeah I feel you. But man she's so crazy DTF and…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 12:41 PM
2

I've been there man. I used to be a soft, fat, greasy, man-boobed fuck. It only took about a year of lifting for my beefy shoulder/upper arm/trap/lat region to become apparent. Even despite still having some fat to lose, it's completely changed the game for me, and has cranked up both the quantity and quality of female attention. So lift, focus mainly on heavy compounds like squats, overhead presses, rows, deadlifts, etc. Don't be afraid to branch out into accessory work, cardio, hiit, tabata, y…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 05:34 PM
1

It's not impossible to have some amount of bond with women. If anything, it boils down to the same principles as dealing with men: as long as you steer clear of beta, supplicating, orbiter (males have male orbiters too, like that nerdy guy that let's himself get bullied by the cool kids because he wants in), etc. behaviors, you'll be ok. I have a number of women in my life who I really value as friends. When I went through my nasty, red pill-inducing breakup, there were a handful who were there …
/r/askTRP22/09/14 07:37 PM
1

I thought I had a girl like this. Everything was dandy for 7 years, and then one day she decided to jam a red pill down my throat, render me homeless, take the car, cat, and house I paid for, and humiliate me in front of our friends. A-fucking-WALT.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:15 PM
2

Depending on how crowded the bar is, I like to just people-watch sometime. Worst case scenario, play with your phone and wait for something to unfold. I did this the other day and the bartender ended up knocking a bunch of water pitchers all over right in front of me, got all embarrassed and apologetic, and bam there was my opening to pull out some witty lines and give her shit (playfully, not mean). She blushed and got flustered, but sadly I pussed out past that point, but who knows what's goin…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 07:09 AM
3

Never play captain save a ho unless it's an absolute matter of life and death. Women chose to hang around guys they know damn well are bad news, and in this case it sounds like she goaded him into it. I've been there at times, they fuck around, push you to your limits, bait you into getting crazy emotional and then tell all they're friends you're a psycho. Whatever, not your problem. Unless there's some cut-and-dry case of, "help, this strange man won't stop following me!" or something, best to …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 04:55 AM
14

Assuming you're least somewhat overweight, keto diet + weight lifting. Squat, overhead press, row, deadlift.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:40 AM
1

It's happening right now. G/f of six years, met when we were 17 (24 now). She had been going to school for art ed. and doing internships and such, so I had to pull extra hours to help us make ends meet. I had been working up the ranks as a chef while also doing morning shifts at a cafe, to the tune of about 60-70 hours a week, for pretty much the entire last 3 years of her degree. The kicker is that she was offered a post-graduate internship that, while looking good on her resume, paid absolute …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 11:03 AM
1

What do you define as healthy eating? Make sure you're not skimping on saturated fat, red meat, whole eggs, etc. They won't necessarily send your T through the roof, but they'll help keep you naturally level.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 07:47 PM
2

I know a guy who's always trying to out-alpha and out-knowledge everybody at the table. I originally hated him and thought he was some kind of raging sociopath (blue pill goggles?), but as time went on I learned to compete on his turf and it's actually turned us into solid bros. I just pull the wind out of his sails here and there, he gets pouty for a second, and then we're cool. Sometimes bitches just need to be put in dey place. Plus, learning to verbally spar with dudes who fancy themselves a…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 12:08 AM
2

Not saying I would know exactly what to do if put in that situation for real, but I think you could stand to bro it up a little. "You want to get an assault & battery charge with tons of witnesses in a crowded place? Go ahead, hit me!"
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 08:22 AM
3

she doesn't afraid of anything
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 06:46 AM
2

some anecdotal experiences I've had: Squatting 3x a week made walking uphill at a steep incline feel like a breeze. If you really keep at it, you may develop J-Lo butt, butt fear not, chicks will like it. Back exercises like deadlifts and rows will help with back posture overall.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 07:55 AM
3

here's what you're going to do. lift all the things. I recommend stronglifts 5x5 but feel free to shop around. don't forget to work yo traps. bitches love traps. post-workout, blend up a giant shake consisting of oats, bananas, chocolate whole milk, peanut butter, 2 scoops of protein, chewy granola bars, and hempseeds. Shit maybe throw some protein bars in there for good measure. I'm not kidding. Drink. Then eat some red meat until your heart hurts. Poop. Repeat.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 11:51 PM
1

Word. As lame as women can be sometimes, having a positive (non-orbiter/labor mule/meal ticket) rep with a female social circle can be really rewarding. Speaking from personal experience, I date one chick, several months later I now have a city-wide network of women who all know I am an amazing cook, lift heavy things, hustle my ass off, make her orgasm every time, and have even expressed point blank to both of us they think I'm hot. One even went so far as to basically offer up a threesome, but…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 11:41 PM
2

Personally, I don't see what's wrong with having female friends just for the sake of opening up a social and/or professional circle. Hell, one such friend helped pull me out of a bad employment situation a few months ago, and pretty much handed me a good job with sweet benefits & pay. They're not necessarily all out to get you; just steer clear of any obvious beta traps and everything will be fine.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 11:25 PM
1

Speaking of bums, I've noticed that the more I work on "dominant" body language, the less they hassle me. The coolest part is occasionally one will start trying to talk to me, then once they've taken in my body language they just kinda sputter out and go "ah fuck it." They're hoping for beta-ized people who will cave easily.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:19 PM
3

Yep, I'm totally willing to concede NAWALT. The confounding variable is the risk of having your life left in tatters because you dared to search for a NAWALT in the AWALT-stack.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:13 PM
1

| Them: "Well you just need to be more confident." Him: "Is there a drug for that?" Several, actually...
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 08:07 PM
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