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| 1 | "Well, at least he's happy" - is mediocrity sin for man?Purpose is the sun in the masculine solar system. If you are on your purpose you will experience not just happiness but fulfillment. As men our function is to penetrate, overcome, organize, optimize the world in line wuth a greater vision. The process of struggling brings satisfaction within the confines of purpose. It's like penetrating a women; your working to bring the experience to a level of joy you'll both experience. There is work along the way but the effort is pleasurable. The word succ… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 02:50 PM |
| 9 | How to hold frame if you show signs of being nervousWell in the situation you outlined I wouldn't consider that a bad thing. When faced with danger we either go into to fight or flight mode. You fought. That's good. However, having these reactions "all the time" is not good. These are physiological reactions. You can control them as far as you can control your outlook on life and situations. The more you feel a sense of imminent danger the more you'll react on a visceral level. Quite frankly we lived in such a tamed society nothing is really that… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 02:33 PM |
| 20 | How to have abundance mentality during monk mode?Abundance in my experience is about being fulfilled. You don't need to have women to exude abundance. Success, purpose, and reaching goals can create abundance. What abundance looks like is if I approach a girl and she rejects me it's okay because I don't need anything from her to feel happy or complete. A matter of fact I approached her because I know I have something to offer. Being young you might not have everything figured out in terms of doing what really matters to you in life. At the ver… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Keep her interested or keep silent?Childish. Polarity creates attraction and interest - the more of a man she feels you are the more interested she'll be. Don't be a clown for her. We are not here to entertain these females we are here to lead them. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I need some help with other exercises that I want to do at the same time as stronglifts 5x5Depends on your goals. If you are trying to get strong don't worry too much about cardio. If you are cutting walk instead of doing HIIT. While cutting you wan't to maintain your strength - opt for low impact cardio so it doesn't affect your recovery. Also don't worry about extra ab work if you are doing the compound lifts correctly you will be working your abs pretty hard. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 02:08 PM |
| 8 | What should a red-pilled young male learn/know by their 20's ?I'm 22 and what I would say is that this time is the perfect time to figure out what your purpose is - what cause will you center all your actions around. Figuring out your values and principals. In general your focus should be on creating the foundation for your entire life. This comes mainly by trial and error, but you can't be afraid of failure. With that being said it is a time to test yourself and really get to understand who you are as a person. Experience a lot of things. Go to parties, j… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Sports or lifting, or everything at once?I currently Lift and Box and I use to play soccer. Lifting will help you significantly. But stick to the Olympic strength based lifts: Squats, Deadlifts, Bench Press, Overhead press, Rows. I run a program called Fierce 5. Check it out it works for me. If you do do all 3 at once make sure you really safeguard your recovery (sleep, food, hydration, etc). Make sure to dedicate time to stretching as well; dynamic stretching before lifting and static stretching at night + Foam rolling. Lifting can ma… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 02:36 PM |
| 3 | It really works, where to do go from here?You should explain your vision for the relationship. I'm not sure how this will work for LTR but with my plates whenever we have those "discussions" and I say my piece about what I expect and how I envision things I'll give her the option to move on if she can't take part in my vision.... They usually stay. But at the end of the day whats crucial is that you stay congruent with what you want and in doing that you have to be prepared to lose her completely. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 05:06 PM |
| 4 | What to do if finding a "mission" seems impossible?Personally through my research of people I respect and who've accomplished substantial things, everyone purpose is founded on the idea of servicing others. Especially as a man. I wrote this somewhere else, but in a tribal setting what separates boys from men is their ability to produce something that the whole tribe can consume. It's hard to find your mission in life and takes a lot of introspection. Read this post in which I answered a similar question. I prioritize self-care and self-developme… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 04:55 PM |
| 0 | Why so much focus on lifting?In my opinion lifting is simply what we were made to do. Heavy compound lifting aids in testosterone production. If I was to compare the times that I lift consistently to the times where I don't, I can note that I've had more focus, was more confident, and generally more masculine. Really, go read the benefits of heavy compound lifting on the brain. Also, I'd like to make that distinction. 3 hours of curls does not have the same effect. When I say lift I am not advocating bodybuilding per say. G… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 04:40 PM |
| 3 | You wake up one day and suddenly it’s the societal norm for woman to propose to men. Would you look at marriage differently?If marriage laws remain the same then it really makes no difference. However, I would love to be proposed to...I'll probably say no though lol. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 04:18 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with her neediness?I set boundaries especially if they verbally express their neediness. I actually had this conversation with a plate last week. She complained that I don't make the effort to hit her up and that she felt like I don't care about her etc. I told her that I'm a very busy man, If I didn't care you wouldn't be here right now (she was at my place), and if you can't handle me being distant at times then you might need to move on. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Lifting in a fasted state?I lift on an empty stomach. Personally I feel I have more energy first thing in the morning. If you are worried about loosing muscle take BCAA's before and after working out, but even when I didn't take BCAA's I didn't experience any muscle loss. It's always best to try things and document your results. Everyone's body is different. The only idea that is universal is calories in calories out. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 08:38 PM |
| 9 | What are some of your long term goals? How did you discover what motivates you/what you are passionate about?Figure out your strengths and interest and find a way to marry the two. Read the book called Mastery by Robert Green. There's something in your life that has attracted you. Continue to follow these things. If you have not had anything do that for you then you need to experience life more. Anything you have even an remote interest in pursue it and see if it speaks to you on a deeper level. Understand that the path to purpose is not linear. It's like peeling back an onion. You have to experience v… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 08:10 PM |
| 3 | How to transition into celibacy?This is sound advice. The righteous man falls seven times and the wicked once. It is a humbling experience. | /r/RPChristians | 14/03/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How to transition into celibacy?Celibate until marriage. | /r/RPChristians | 14/03/18 10:55 AM |
| 1 | How to transition into celibacy?I'm currently in college, doing academic research, I do boxing, Lift, etc. But it seems like all these activities just spike up my testosterone/sexual desire more. I may start fasting and avoid triggers like you said, but at that point I'm pretty much Christian MGTOW. And yeah I desire to get married and like you said that's God's intentions for us. I've always though about getting married in Church (Under God) only and living somewhere where Common Law Marriage doesn't apply. At least then she'… | /r/RPChristians | 14/03/18 01:21 AM |
| 4 | until you get there, what to doThe purpose of lifting is not just to have a six pack and be shredded. You need to lift heavy for strength and have a steady progression. The purpose is to constantly challenge your limits. Lifting also has other positive effects on the brain and one self-esteem and efficacy. So what do you do until you reach your goal ? Learn to enjoy the pain and subsequent growth from the process. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 12:59 AM |
| 2 | What Stage of the red pill am I on?I've been through this kind of depression before. There are some things to understand: 1) No one is going to save you. No one outside of yourself can do anything to help you. 2) You've earned everything you have in life. What your life is like has a direct correlation with all the actions or lack thereof you've taken in life. Death doesn't fix anything, being drunk all the time doesn't fix anything. We can't escape our problems. We have to face them head on. You are a man. You are a warrior. You… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Seems like this girl is trying to make me jealous, cant figure out why thoSlow claps builds to a thundering applause Modern Day Sherlock. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 03:08 PM |
| 16 | Where are women getting their understanding of "game" and "tactics/strategy" from?I remember my mom telling my older sister that she was stupid for paying for her meal on a date. One of my other sisters was interested in a guy and would spend a lot of time with him. My mom told her that she needs to pull back and make him chase her or else he'll think that he can get her (well isn't that the point if they both like each other). When I was bit younger (late high school/ early college) I hung around a lot of girls too...I was the not gay gay best-friend (I was use to being arou… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Where are women getting their understanding of "game" and "tactics/strategy" from?Just blatant manipulation...toying with emotions. Things of that nature . They really don't think their is anything wrong with it, they encourage it. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 07:01 PM |
| 12 | Where are women getting their understanding of "game" and "tactics/strategy" from?It's taught among Them. I grew up around women you should see how they talk among each other when it comes to men. I also think that there is an instinctual component. For many years women could not support themselves. So their livelihood was dependent upon their ability to get a man. They had no choice but to know the game. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 06:51 PM |
| 2 | What are RP men supposed to talk to women about to push things forward if feels are rightfully off-limits?If a woman is attracted to you she'll make the approach easy on you/less intimidating. One of the ways she does this is through eye contact. if she gives you eye contact and you don't approach...you just rejected her. Since she feels rejected she'll go out of her way to avoid you. The fix is to approach her. On another note you are an excellent writer...you should write poetry or some shit. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 06:45 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on veganism?Alpha behavior is doing what you want / what is best for you and not caring what others have to say. I'm vegan for my own personal reasons. Some women find it attractive...not because of veganism in itself but like you said because its strict and that I have remained committed to it. Personally I could care less about animals. Shit I'll cook up a good steak for you. I just feel that my body is at it's most optimal on a vegan diet and trust me I tried all the other shit too. All I ask from other … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 06:10 PM |
| 10 | Is approaching considered beta?Not inherently. Depends on your attitude. If you go to her palms sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy then you are sub-communicating that she is of higher value than you. If you are relaxed and comfortable in your approach you show the opposite - this comes from an abundance mindset. Edit: Also the act of approaching whether you are nervous or not also shows that you feel you deserve the girl on some kind of level, so even if you are clearly nervous you still get points for the approach. So don't … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 05:45 PM |
| 17 | Is approaching considered beta?False. You see something you want and you go for it. That's an "alpha"/masculine trait. This applies to all areas of your life. To be passive and wait for things to come to you is to be feminine. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 05:42 PM |
| 6 | Dating girls does not equal happinessI tried to do no fap. But I probably masturbated on average 1-2 times a month. What was really important to me was not using porn and in the 8 months I watched porn 3 times. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 01:34 PM |
| 4 | How do you cut without losing muscle mass?It's impossible. You will lose some muscle mass (Probably not that much in your case). To minimize this lost try using bcaa's before you train and up protein intake. Also don't cut more than 500 calories. As long as you continue lifting you'll be fine, there won't be any noticeable changes in muscle mass...at least it won't be noticeable to others. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Has anybody read both "The Slight Edge" and "The Compound Effect?"Read both. I see a lot of people asking if books are worth reading. If it catches your interest read it. Read multiple books in the same area where you see overlap is where you'll find the undeniable truth. Stop looking for the easy answers. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Can I build muscle with Coolcicada’s PPL?You can build muscle on any balanced program as long as you are consistent and at a caloric surplus. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Dating girls does not equal happinessI vehemently agree with self-improvement and goals won't make you happy in the long term. Especially as men. We are mission driven/goal oriented. That's why they say having a woman in your life is "icing on the cake." The actual cake consist of mission/purpose/goals. No matter what a man improving himself and attaining goals will be happier and more fulfilled long-term regardless of if he has a woman in his life or not. The only time I can see this not being the case is if he's setting the wrong… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Dating girls does not equal happinessCuckggestion? That's actually funny. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 09:18 PM |
| 6 | Dating girls does not equal happinessI can relate. I was raised by a single mother as well. In retrospect she tried her best to turn me into a beta - she practically raised me as a female. Smh. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Dating girls does not equal happinessNah, when a women allow herself to have sex with you she is yielding to your control. You are penetrating her. Whether the sex is "successful" is up to you. No matter how you cut it. If you judge sex being successful on whether she squirts on not. It would behoove you to learn how to a get a girl to that point. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 08:19 PM |
| 0 | Women seem to avoid eye contact/social interaction with me, and as such I'm beginning to feel like I'm ugly and will never get to experience a real relationshipYou need to get your confidence up bro. You have a mindset of scarcity. Women can smell that. When you're looking at a woman you are probably projecting your need for her and it makes her uncomfortable. You might have seen those "Work on yourself king" meme's. That shits real. You're not ugly. Even if you were I know ugly guys who get good looking women. It's all mindset and presentation. In my opinion it all starts with self-development. Go to the gym and lift, continue focusing on your hobbies… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Dating girls does not equal happinessI can see that. But then we have to define what it mean to be "successful with women". Before I went through my journey I wouldn't call myself successful by any stretch of the imagination. The little females I did manage to get dicked me around and took advantage of me. Emotionally I was in a place where I looked to women to validate me. I took this time off primarily to get better with women. I sacrificed 8 months for better years down the line. If you are an incel. Then that may be a different… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Is drinking milk/diary products lowering testosterone?I don't know the scientific studies all I know is that since becoming vegan my libido has been through the roof. I've become stronger and leaner. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Are those guys that walk around with their heads titled upwards looking like they are thinking "I am fucking incredible" rp'd?Go talk to em and find out. There is no way to really know, but due to my personal experience I'm inclined to say no. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Do women get satisfaction/kick out of emotionally draining men?It's about control. If you show weakness they will assume the dominant position in the way they know how (Emotional manipulation). It's not necessarily about getting satisfaction from it (although they probably do) it's just balance. Play your position as a grounded man and she'll gain satisfaction from being with you and submit. She'll never want to see you weak, but become weak and she'll weaken you further. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 02:36 PM |
| 0 | How would you guys handle this? Girl at my work situation.I'd avoid dating at the workplace... Trust me. It's not a good look. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 02:30 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this?Always have some kind of plan of action. That's a lesson that will become increasingly more valuable as you get older. It's good to cultivate that skill now. Propose a night in which you think she'll be available and that you are available (don't sacrifice anything for the sake of the date). Looks like it will most likely be a weeknight. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Don’t avoid art, boys.Art is cathartic. It allows people to live through unresolved conflict/emotions and provides a release. You appreciate art the most if you are in a mindset correlating with it. Consuming Art by nature is receiving feminine energy. The same way we deal with women is the way we deal with art (and life in general - the world is feminine). Appreciate it for what it is in the moment but never let it compromise your core. You'll appreciate depressing music more when you are depressed. It should be cat… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 01:55 PM |
| 2 | In retrospect, did I fuck up and accept a beta position?As much as you try to downplay her, you are still enthralled by her "Platinum Vagina." If you were to fuck her it would have been all worth it right? It's all good dude. She was an attention whore. They are like black holes, so you should be glad you got what you got out of it. For the sake of attention she could have made it difficult for you to connect with her dad. Attention whores/ flirts/ bullshitters are a pain to us all just take solace in the fact that she will continue to act like this … | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 01:33 PM |
| 202 | Dating girls does not equal happinessI went 8 months; no dating, no sex. Just goals, purpose, and self-development. Every man needs to go through a period like this. It should be a modern right of passage. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 01:17 PM |
| 5 | How to dress in your mid-twenties?Your personal style is derivative of your personality. We can't tell how to dress if we don't know who you are (or who you are trying to attract). As far as figuring out how to put things together look at websites like Fashionbeans. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Silence to figure out the truthYeah it's a good way to to see if a girl is genuinely interested in you and to create interest. If you feel she is leading you on I would wait until she contacts me. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How to text girls on social media? (mainly instagram)What's wrong with the girls around you in real life? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 05:15 AM |
| 1 | can be TRP more true for club whores..?I don't even understand what you are trying to say... | /r/askTRP | 04/03/18 04:48 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you fail a k-close on a first date?Personally I don't go for kisses on the first date unless I've gotten her back to my place and it's pretty clear we are going to have sex. In your case all is not lost. You can set up another date...give it some time though. I have a 3 date rule. If by the 3rd date you haven't reciprocated any sexual interest I'm going to keep it moving. I have to ask. Do you intend on having sex with her? She might have already friend zoned you because you failed to let your intentions be known/felt. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 08:25 PM |
| 5 | can be TRP more true for club whores..?She made him wait 2 weeks so she wouldn't feel like a slut/ so she could feel special. In all actuality she would have fucked him on the first night if she did not have these mental guards up. It is AWALT. The thing about your friend is that we don't know what kind of man he is/ how he runs his relationship. He might be able to create enough dread to keep her around. He might be a true alpha whom she has not been able to fully domesticate (he still carries an air of detachment). Despite womens n… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 08:10 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when you fail a k-close on a first date?"how about a hug instead" That's hilarious. But just act like nothing happened and keep it pushing. If you show you are rattled by that then you already lost. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Should i get back into social media?I deleted my social media in the 9th grade. I'm about to graduate college now. If framed right it can show a high SMV. When guys ask me why I don't have it I say that, "I leave that shit to the females." (Most people use social media to seek validation, so to me it is a feminine exercise). When women ask me I say, "I don't care what everyone else is doing and everyone doesn't need to know what I'm doing" it honestly adds to the mystery and peaks their interest. This is especially true if you com… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 07:48 PM |
| 5 | Boring apartment..The fact that you have a room to yourself is already a big deal especially in college. I remember my freshman year having 2 other roommate in the same room. Every time I would bring a girl over they would cock block one way or the other. However, you are the pulling force to your room. When you walk in your apartment with the girl lead her to your room. It's that simple. I wouldn't worry too much about how your room actually looks. Like I said you're fortunate to have a room to yourself. For you… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 06:54 PM |
| 4 | I am unhappy with my life and I need some help to changeMy upbringing was very similar to yours. I'm a Mechanical Engineering major as well. It's good that you are lifting - it's a good confidence boost and it get's that testosterone flowing through your system. I would say to focus on one thing at a time; that'll give you better results then trying to fix everything at once. Frame and Attention seeking will be solved once you've figured out how to be a Masculine Man. Social Interactions is a matter of practice. Put yourself in social situations and … | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 05:39 PM |
| 3 | What are some other red pills in life?For me it was that no one really care about you the way you think or would want. At the end of the day (especially as a man) you are all you have. No one will save or rescue you. No one owes you anything. You are only entitled to you actions not even the results of your actions. When I first learned this it was scary and saddening at first then it becomes empowering. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/18 03:11 PM |
| 2 | What really does a woman have to offer a man?I'm not alone all the time. I have guy friends and I have plates that I'm spinning. I just find myself less eager to deal with women. And I'm young. I haven't found many women that are that supportive. Hell most the women I've met don't even know how to cook. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 09:55 PM |
| 11 | What really does a woman have to offer a man?Actually men (strong men) have a lot to offer women or at the very least have the one thing they need in this day and age. Even if she is "independent" women naturally have a need for relationships; the need to be able to trust and man enough to allow him to lead and for her to be able to rest in her femininity while he is in his full masculine. Put simply to alleviate her from the responsibility of having to be in her masculine state, since most of the time it is not her natural/ preferred stat… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 09:42 PM |
| 5 | What really does a woman have to offer a man?Limitless is one of my all time favorite movies and Patrice O'Neal is one of my favorite comedians. I see what you are saying the pool of women that I have to pick from is not varied and there is not a lot of high quality women. Like I mentioned I'm in college, but I'm graduating soon. So once I graduate I'm sure that I'll be in a position to meet higher quality women with more to offer. yeah I noticed my post seemed a little MGTOW. I could never see myself going that far. Even if just for the s… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Your opinion on Mens BraceletsI'm inclined to say that if you like it it fits your style. How do you dress normally? unless you constantly dress like you are going to the gym or just got out of bed. Those bracelets from rose gold and black should be fine. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 08:41 PM |
| 2 | What really does a woman have to offer a man?I wouldn't say that I was MGTOW or anything like that. Even though re-reading what I wrote I could see how you could get those vibes. It's just that to me I only see women good for sex (release of tension). I have plates (3 at the moment) and I do the necessary self-improvement. It's just further I grow the smaller and smaller the womans role plays in my life. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 08:21 PM |
| 8 | What really does a woman have to offer a man?Companionship? That's where things get fuzzy for me...especially lately. Women; they don't make sense lol. They literally are like children, but then again I'm young and the women around me are young; my plates are 20-21. So I guess it's to be expected. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 08:21 PM |
| 2 | so youre at a social thing/house/bar/cafeI wouldn't say it's horrible advice. Like I said for your to say you are a virgin (whether it's true or not) depends on where you are mentally. All that don't reveal your n-count shit doesn't matter if you are just trying to fuck. Say it with confidence or don't say it at all. That's the key. No matter what you say. If you act like a guy who gets pussy (confident and sure). She'll fuck you. Like I said I personally tell girls that I'm a virgin just for fun. I've never ran across any issues, but … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 07:53 PM |
| 2 | so youre at a social thing/house/bar/cafeDoesn't matter what you say but how you say it. If you are a virgin and own that shit they might find it "cute" ( you have to be confident). You might also want to deflect because honestly it's none of her business. So you might just want to change the subject or redirect her attiention: Her: So, how many girls have you slept with? You: You trying to be the next one? That's something I would say but like I said earlier whats important is the presence you carry and the confidence you have. And yo… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Your opinion on Mens BraceletsDoesn't matter what you wear. What matters is how you wear it. Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and if you are anxious about dressing the way you want then you need to deal with that insecurity. I don't dress anything like any of the men I know. I always dress a bit more elevated and high-fashion. No one would dare call be gay because I carry myself like a man. If anything the men around me have begun to change their style up. I went to a wing place with my friends yesterday and one … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Conceal your intentions?Don't conceal your intentions with women. That's how you get into the friend zone. Make it know that you are sexually attracted to the girl and not trying to be her friend. When dealing with regular people I would advise to conceal your intentions even when dealing with women conceal your intentions in terms of your goals and aspirations but not your intentions with her. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 02:09 AM |
| 2 | How to find balance between fun and serious?The golden mean is to be charismatic / sexy. You can be funny but don't be a performer. You should maintain a masculine demeanor but that doesn't mean you can't make jokes or that you can't smile. The key is just being in control. You can't be overly expressive like a comedian but you also can't be a stick in the mud who take himself too seriously. But too be honestly if you were to be completely one or the other you might experience more success being too serious than too funny. Or better yet y… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Help me analyze my date pleaseIf your standards are so high that you won't kiss and fuck her, then you're going out with uggos. Get over it. I'm not saying that I won't kiss her or fuck her. I'm not forcing the kiss on the first date unless she's coming back to my place where I'll try to fuck her. If I invite her back to my place and she say's no and I drop her off at hers, I'm not going to be so pressed about a kiss. The second date I'm going to try to fuck though most definitely. All I was saying is that the purpose of the… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Help me analyze my date pleaseDude I'm 22 a decade ago I was 12. All I'm sharing is what has worked for me. Edit: I forgot my own age... Smh | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Help me analyze my date pleaseThat's not what I am saying. What you've described I've actually done. What I'm saying is like when you're nervous and you want to lean in for a kiss but don't because you are afraid (Think those corny teen movies). What you described is different because there is intention behind it, and a fundamental belief that the girl want's to kiss you, you are putting yourself out there which displays confidence) | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Help me analyze my date pleaseHoly shit, don't offer advice when you never go out with women. Please. I know it doesn't matter to you because you had sex last year, but this kid is actually trying and will mistakenly listen you your keyboard jockey bs There's more than one way to skin a cat my friend. Everything I outlined works for me. I'm offering my advice.And what I said is true especially if the girl does not have a high interest in him for the beginning. I don't kiss on the first day (I don't force it). If she come's b… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Help me analyze my date pleaseLike leaning in to kiss her; having your body language fixed to go in for a kiss, but you don't. If she can tell you want to kiss her (body language) but you don't then she's going to see you are being a pussy. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 02:23 AM |
| 1 | "Chad" meaning?Beat me to the punch | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Unprovoked shit testsWomen shit test to see if the perceived confidence you posses (eye contact) is genuine. The more confident you appear the more shit test you will receive....or you look creepy as fuck without knowing it. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Help me analyze my date pleaseOnly if you make it clear that you want to kiss her, but can't. This is my mindset with women. We are hanging out so I can get to know you; to see if you meet my standards. I've already assumed that she likes me moreover I'm not afraid to loose her. So I don't need to kiss you to see if you like me. When women sense this it increases their interest. A high value man with a lot of women and activities going on in his life is not going to be scared of loosing any woman. And is not going to be so q… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 12:55 AM |
| 8 | Girls and their pastIt doesn't matter where she acquired that knowledge. What does matter is that she want's to use that knowledge for your benefit. That's like if I want to get a certain job and I do the research needed to make sure I am a good candidate for the Job or I work at a different job with similar end goals and learned the in's and out's. The company that I want to work for is not going to be like, "I wonder where he learned this? what company did he use to work for?" Whats important is that you don't le… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 12:46 AM |
| -2 | Help me analyze my date pleaseI don't kiss on the first day. Don't give her the power to reject you, also it makes her wonder if you really like her or not which will increase her interest in you. Subconsciously we try to kiss on the first date to gauge if she likes us or not and women know this. You already said she seemed distracted and didn't make eye contact, so she might not be that interested in you. You probably met her minimum attraction standards and she was bored. I wouldn't contacted her for a couple of weeks then… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | The Alpha investment.I saw a dentist a while ago. Back in the day and he said that I'd have to additional hardware to pull my upper teeth back and down. He actually said my lower set of teeth were perfect. My top front teeth flair out. If they pointed straight down and were together I'd have perfect teeth. But even if id need jaw surgery It's whatever. My only fear is if it will make eating pussy painful lol | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/18 01:58 PM |
| 7 | The Alpha investment.Invest in your teeth. I can't wait to get braces. I have a gap and an overbite. I already do pretty well with women and other types of interactions. Once I get this out the way, I'll be unstoppable. I might be run for president who knows. Overall nice list man. I agree with everything...no so much the manners. I'd replace that with invest in a set of values. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Who determines who is the alpha of the group? Men or Women.I don't care about your validation. It's a genuine question. In principle is a man truly a leader if everyone doesn't cede to his leadership / trying to establish their own dominance. Because quite frankly as a men we do seek the respect of other men. Also, I don't base much on the opinion of women because they are shifty; the next time we all hang out I could not be in the same state and suddenly not the alpha leader. But men understand principles, which is why their respect would matter more. … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | How much protein do you need when bulking?Between .7-1 gram per lb if bulking. If you were cutting I'd recommend at least 1 gram. Don't buy too much into the excess protein thing. Remember the fitness industry is a money making machine. Of course they'll recommend you'll need obscene amounts of protein. Also as you get older you'll require less protein, because your body becomes more efficient at protein synthesis. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How do I learn to keep my opinions to myself?There's a fine line between saying what's on your mind because you're secure in who you are and don't give a fuck who agrees vs. saying what's on your mind because you feel the need to externally validate yourself. That is a very good point. And is something you have to reconcile within yourself. You just have to be self aware of the emotions you feel when you are saying these things. And there is no reason why you can't be a man who says whats on his mind and says what needs to be said. There i… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I learn to keep my opinions to myself?"Man, even though she was wrong, I lost in that conversation. I made the mistake of engaging a woman in debate, and I made the mistake of showing my hand in an environment I shouldn't have." This is not a good mindset to have in my opinion. It's not about winning in terms of a debate. What is important is that you stay true to your principles and values. All the other guys around you probably feel the same; however, they are unable to speak to that because of fear of being rejected by the female… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | For those who cleaned their diet by learning to cook, how did you learn to cook?If you know math you can cook. Find recipes. Follow said recipes. Eat. After a while you will get a feel for things; be able to cook things without looking at recipes. It's like any other skill. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Looking to move from hookups to a meaningful relationship...If she leave her boyfriend for you, you don't want her. She'll have no problem leaving you for someone she views as higher value. You say you are "looking for real love" if you've read the sidebar you'd know the issue with that. The masculine and feminine ideals of love are different. You're going down a dangerous slope my friend. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 07:03 PM |
| 4 | How can i fix my friend ?Can save someone who doesn't want to be saved....J.Cole said it best. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 03:48 PM |
| 2 | How is the average age to lose virginity for western men so low?I don't think that is inherently true. I'll look it up but even if it is true the reason I stated above is probably the cause of the correlation. Blacks in ghetto's; low poverty neighborhoods have sex sooner. I grew up in these neighborhoods, Whites, Blacks, Hispanics, Asians, they are all having sex almost as soon as they realize what it is. Me being in a pretty decent college now. I know black people (who seem well off) who are just now loosing their virginity. I also have a good friend of min… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 09:53 PM |
| 2 | How is the average age to lose virginity for western men so low?It's not an minority issue. That's retarded. It's family income that determines this. If both parent work full time jobs to get by and kids are left unsupervised they are going to fuck...especially with the influence of the internet and TV. Not to mention single parent households. Probably more than 50% of the population are Lower Middle class and fall under the poverty line. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble visualizing the man I want to be.Whats worst than making the wrong decision is making no decision. I'm assuming this path you are on is based on your interest, keep on the path and trust the process. Failure is always going to be a factor. My mom is an entrepreneur/business owner her first business was a failure is, she owned a boutique (Lasted about 4 months). Now she owns a beauty salon that is successful (going on 8 years). They are different businesses, but what she learned from her first failure she used in her second atte… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I escalate while not coming off as needy?See they were bullshitters. They were looking for orbiters not a sexual partner. They were probably bored and were texting you. Long story short you were on the fast track to the friend zone. When texting a female don't go back and forth. Only text to set up a meeting time and to confirm said meeting time. When meeting a girl and getting her phone number make sure you make it known you are attracted to her physically. This can be done through physical touch, eye contact, proximity, etc. Don't co… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Do beta males have their place in the universe, and if so is it wrong?The essence of The Red Pill is understanding the fundamental differences between the nature of men and women i.e. masculinity and femininity...so yeah you kind of breaking the mold on that one. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Do beta males have their place in the universe, and if so is it wrong?What do you get out of allowing your girl to fuck other guys? I could assert myself more but I'm not interested in competing. I get pleasure from experiencing and being caught up with alpha personalities. That's literally a female. You might just be gay bro. Not joke. Also it doesn't matter if he was around or not. it's the relationship; overbearing fathers can result in a man feeling it's natural to be subjected to other men. An absent father (works a lot) is almost the same as having no father… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Do beta males have their place in the universe, and if so is it wrong?I'm not sure if it's wrong but honestly it's hilarious. C' mon dude, I feel like you're trolling. Even Beta's wont LET someone fuck their woman...you're on some other stuff...might be gay. If you are serious there is an issue there, not just from an Alpha Beta standpoint. No man should be comfortable subjugating themselves to other men the way you are. It's a complete lack of self-respect and self-esteem. Like I said even Beta's want things for themselves. What is your relationship with your fat… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Why do women respond better to men who cold approach them?It still displays confidence. I've said, "to be honest, I'm kind of nervous" I've said, "I really don't know what to say, but I wanted to talk to you" And yeah these were in my earlier days of meeting women but it was still effective. At the end of the day the real courage lies in being honest. If you see a hot girl and you don't approach her you are not being honest with yourself because you know you want her. If you approach her and are not honest with your intentions (you don't have to be exp… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | How do I escalate while not coming off as needy?I think the key is the frame of mind. Probably when you escalate you begin to operate from a frame that communicates neediness. You have to escalate with the belief that she already wants you...to be honest that should be your default frame of mind. You won't feel compelled to do too much, but will do just enough to get her. If she is already your girlfriend would you really be stressing about escalation? Nope not at all. Be loose be fluid, enjoy yourself and the interaction. The moment you stre… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble visualizing the man I want to be.You know what you want we all do. The issues become 1) Trusting ourselves and 2) Overcoming the neurotic behaviors we've accumulated over the years that are holding us back. The path to purpose is not linear. You must follow your inclinations, either when you were a child or adult there has been things you encounter that inspire you that interest you; pursue these things. Be on a constant pursuit of those inclinations. Also you must take your strength and weaknesses into account. I can use mysel… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 03:14 PM |
| 6 | How long did it take you from beta bucks to alpha chad?It takes as long as you allow it too. How quick you increase your SMV is based on how much you work on yourself. The key is consistency as with everything. Trust in the process and internalize TRP theories. You're a man if you decide you want a LTR then pursue one. I will say that you should never seek women out for the sake of coping with loneliness, that dynamic will rarely work in your favor. Find hobbies, hang out with your guy friends. There is nothing wrong with being alone. Men grow throu… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Material for conversation and escalationI don't use tinder but when I talk to women. I often use what is around me or whatever comes to my mind. It might sound like some hippie bullshit but it's about staying in the moment and expressing how you feel. If you want to get sexual get sexual; establish physical contact, look her in the eyes like you wan't her, etc. Sexuality is more effectively conveyed through body language; its not what you say but how you say it so don't stress/ think too much about it. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Attention hoes at the gym?Call em out on their shit though. I consider that to be rude when I address someone and someone else speaks. And that's rude not only to me but to the person I addressed. Make it known that you don't like it or else they'll assume that you condone that behavior and continue doing it. I learned that the hard way. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Rsd says that i’m already enoughI am a fan of RSD's material but I believe a lot of what they say isn't well thought out or explained and pertains to a certain audience. A lot of the people they work with are incels, emotionally broken, etc. They have a fundamental belief that they cannot get women period. Intrinsically we are enough we have within us masculinity, confidence, etc. the issue becomes the insecurities and trauma that we bury it with. A lot of self development is the process of stripping the bullshit you picked up… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test or is she just disrespectful/abusive?Well said. Just a little update: I cut her off. I told her that I can't mess with her if she cant learn to be respectful. She tried to flip the script on me again asking why I was being mean/rude to her...I didn't entertain that notion. I saw her recently (we were in an elevator together) and she was very giddy; she was touching me, slapping my butt, I told her to chill out. She complimented my jacket. I didn't pay her any attention. Then she stepped on my shoes lmao. I guess that was her last a… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test or is she just disrespectful/abusive?The first time she hit me it wasn't a big deal it seemed kind of playful. The second time I could tell it was kind of malicious. Like I said after that I put a stop it it. Up until this point I've kind of thought of everything as a shit test and when I express disappointment in her actions she has a way of making me feel like I'm being sensitive/unreasonable. But I'm done with it all now smh. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Shit Test or is she just disrespectful/abusive?100% right. I honestly think she got in my head a little bit with making me feel like I'm being a bitch for not putting up with her. I don't know why I'm even really thinking about it this hard. She's not the only girl I'm dealing with either smh. Thank bro. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Any advice on how to build up confidence in everyday life?Confidence is literally defined as, "the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust." In the grand scheme of life confidence is a belief that we are able to handle the challenges that come with life, that we are appropriate to life. Every belief needs a reference the more references deeper the belief. So to build confidence you need to experience life and to accomplish things over and over. Lift weights and increase weight, read a book til the end, learn a new skill,… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 10:34 PM |
| 2 | When going thru a long monk mode without sex, how often should I masturbate?I don't agree. You just have to use that energy. I'm and engineering major, I'm involved in campus, I weightlift, I do boxing, I walk 1-2 miles a day, I wake up 5 am etc. By the time I go to bed I don't have enough energy to masturbate even if I wanted to...and I usually don't. When I do have sexual desires it's usually in the middle of my day and it passes with the next activity. There is no negative effects. If you don't do much with your day/time/energy of course your mind will be "dominated … | /r/askTRP | 09/12/17 07:48 AM |
| 2 | What study method/strategy should I use to get better grades in high school? Should I use mind maps? Do they work?Work= Intensity of focus X Time (Cal Newport - Deep Work) If you are studying but have the TV on, have YouTube, Reddit, and Facebook opened in the tabs. You are limiting your capacity to do a certain amount of work in that time period because you are limiting your focus. Block out time in your day just to study and have a separate environment just for studying. When you study remove all distractions and focus solely on your work. For Math and Science practice and repetition is key. Do a variety … | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 04:51 PM |
| 1 | I must not want pussy and new friends.you have to do some internal work. When we are growing up we are told a lot implicitly and explicitly and they feed into our subconscious. Perhaps you were sheltered and told that the world is dangerous. Or maybe you were ignored and neglected and told that the world doesn't care about what you have to say or maybe both. It doesn't matter if you force conversations. If you do so without this awareness you will never overcome it. It's like trying to find a solution without knowing the problem. Mo… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Getting insoles to gain height ?In my opinion it's best to come to peace with these things and not just put a band aid over your insecurities. It does not matter how many insoles you have you're still 5'6...that's reality and you're going to have to come to grips with that reality and accept it or always be controlled/ limited by it. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Classes for Improvement?I'd go with boxing over fencing...there is no practical application to fencing. If you and a guy get into a heated altercation he's not about to pull out a sabre and fucking yell "engarde." You only have to worry about brain damage if you get hit a lot. In general boxing technique classes you won't be getting hit at all. If you begin sparring you'll have protective headgear. If that's still not good enough then focus on your defensive maneuvers. Boxing to me has a better real life application th… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of joining the corporate rat race?We can't answer that question for you. Each man has his own set of values and beliefs and as men we must live by those values. If you love it you love it if you don't you won't. The battle becomes having enough self- awareness. It's good that you are questioning it now instead of when you actually start your job. I'd reccomend to look back to your childhood and think of the things you enjoyed and felt a visceral connecting to. That's where your mission is. Don't do anything just for the sake of … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with congruencyPersonally I'd just tell the truth...Simple. However, I'm this situation if you were to tell the truth you would have given off a vibe of shame. The issue then becomes why you believe it's bad or low value to chilling with the intentions of day gaming. You can come up with a self-amusing response that doesn't really answer her question but I believe the truth is more powerful especially when you're proud of it. That will communicate congruence and a belief in ones values while creating a strong … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Become Fun Again?You're upbringing sounds a little similar to mine. We had to grow up a little faster than those around us. I currently work and support myself. Even though I live back home with my mom. I usually buy my own groceries and help pay rent or whatever bill she is short on. But when kids are forced to grow up a little faster we often go under the impression that people don't care about us. Kids are ego-centered so when our parents are poor and have to work a lot and don't spend time with us forcing us… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 12:51 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is positive masculinity?Took the words right out of my mouth. /u/aguywholifts I suggest reading King, Warrior, Magician, Lover. It goes into how the different facets of masculinity can be dark and what positive masculinity consist of withing the confine of the 4 listed archetypes that often define men. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 09:49 PM |
| 4 | Are charismatic guys talkative?I wouldn't say talkative. More so they say the right things when it is their time to talk. Being charismatic is all about eliciting a certain vibes That can be done without saying anything. Simply the way you look and smile at someone while their speaking can make you charismatic and charming. In general I wouldn't advise being talkative as a man. I would consider that a feminine trait. To be talkative a lot of times mean talking about nonsense and things that don't matter in the moment. And peo… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 09:21 PM |
| 3 | How do I regain my self-esteem and confidence?You feel guilty about something. Maybe it's still that incident. Or maybe that incident taught you that being a man who wan't to have sex is a bad thing. As a result you're putting your masculinity to the side and behaving like a bitch. Try your best to think about the source of what you're feeling; meditate on. Once you find the source of the problem ou can build an action plan to fix it. Beyond that I would say you need to get back in touch with your masculine self. Go to the gym lift heavy we… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Why is this so hard?I'm black too. Honestly I'm not into white girls, however, I have had quite a few of them show interest in me. I think you might be psyching yourself out; you're already conscious of their perception so you are telling yourself they don't want you. I will admit we might have to work a little harder to make girls comfortable as opposed to exerting dominance, since we are already seen as such just based on stereotypes. But beyond that there shouldn't be that much adjustment to be done. To create m… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Career pathsThis... | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 08:39 PM |
| 2 | How do you get used to not fucking every dayI would suggest taking a break from women and finding some kind of concrete purpose/mission in life. It shouldn't be this deep. I don't have all the information, but from my experience guys I've known who have these same sentiments tend validate themselves through sex i.e. they don't feel like a man unless they are having sex with someone. That should never be the case. masculinity is validated through mission/experience. Women are should never be the mission. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How to build a bulletproof mindset?You can only obtain that by adventuring out into the world. Doing things that are hard and that scare you. Pretty much what you are asking is how to be confident. Nothing phases people like Connor because he knows he has what it takes to overcome it. That comes with experience and living close to your edge. If you can take a kick to the face there's not much in life you'll fear or that will make you feel uneasy. It's also a matter of focus and intent. having a focus and living intentionally drow… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 05:53 PM |
| 3 | How to stop getting angry all the timeSee yourself in other people. Everyone makes mistakes. I know you do...you can't be intolerant of others mistakes if you too make mistakes. When you see someone do something wrong try to put yourself in their shoes. You might have to look into your past and figure out how your upbringing is shaping you now. Why do you need to win? What messing is being sent to you when you loose and who is saying it? From first glance it might be your father telling you that you aren't enough or maybe that's the… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 03:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you pretend you are not hungry when starving?Do more with your life outside of women. Men are mission driven. If there are things you do everyday that you love doing and that requires your strength and attention. You're not going to be thinking of sex like that. These activities will also build you up and a man and make it easier to hold your frame. The feeling we crave is that of being depleted. When we nut that feeling afterwards is what feels great that overwhelming sense of relaxation. You can get that feeling with a lot of other thing… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Become Fun Again?In my experience you probably just see the emptiness in it all. You go out drink party then what? You do well in school and then what? you are involved as a student and then what? and for what? You might be a victim of doing what you are "suppose" to do instead of what you truly want. Other posters talked about Passion and that could be it but I don't like that word because of the connotation. The word passion comes from the root word pati which means to suffer. Passion is what you are willing t… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Once I become gentle she misbehaves...She want's to feel your masculine core. Women who constantly shit test and always need you to be domineering have some daddy issues. Maybe she had a weak father or an overbearing father who she want's you to be like. Or perhaps she's insecure and constantly needs to feel that you will provide for her, lead her and so one. Regardless of the issue. I would drop her you can't make her stop because that would require a therapist and her being willing to find out why shes the way she is. It's not wor… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 09:22 PM |
| 2 | The feeling of being lonelyYeah I was literally about to say everything said here while reading the OP's post. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 09:05 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop being funny, a clown and trying to make jokes and beign funny in class and just be serious as a teen?This all depends on why you are making jokes. You might have an issue with it because you are sensing that you makes jokes as a defense mechanism. What are you hiding that you are trying to draw everyone attention from? If that's not the case and you are genuinely a goofy guys there's nothing wrong with that as long as you are able to be serious when needed. Make sure that you are being goofy because that's you not because you are trying to illicit a reaction from people around you and use that … | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever just wanted to delete every person from your life to start fresh?I've done it and I didn't go anywhere. Managing the time and attention you give people grants the same effect. Also changing the dynamics of a relationship can help. People might have even more anger towards you but they will respect you. Like a someone said below old connections can prohibit growth because people will refuse to see you for what you are but what you were especially if you were of a lower status. Here's an example: a girl I use to know from high school hit me up to hang out. I ca… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 01:31 PM |
| 2 | The respect I receive kind of makes me feel uncomfortable.Exactly. I kind of see myself getting use to it. The first time I had a girl cook for me I was like lingering in the kitchen trying to help. At least now I can sit in a different room lol. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | The respect I receive kind of makes me feel uncomfortable.Yeah I have noticed that I am natural a lot more independent than my peers. My mom would call me lazy a lot while simultaneously requiring me to do and take in a lot for age. Which is why I don't like people doing stuff for me. I'm pretty much trying my best to fight the label lazy. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | The respect I receive kind of makes me feel uncomfortable.Very interesting. I'll read a bit more on it. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 07:17 PM |
| 1 | The respect I receive kind of makes me feel uncomfortable.I hear you and it is genuine respect people dont avoid me; there are people trying to befriend me. It's just my upbringing creating conflict with myself. It sounds crazy to me too. And you bring up the idea of worthiness and the issue might also be that I don't feel 100% worthy - I wasn't raised to think that, I was never treated like I am. To get to where I am I had to tell myself I'm worthy and prove it to myself it's different when other corroborate that idea simply because it's foreign to me… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Is game basically Acting?It's fake it til you make it. The goal is not to deceive but to show up as your best self and for a lot of us that takes effort because we have not actualized out best self. Personally I focused exclusively on myself and creating My frame; my values, principles, motivations etc. before even thinking about talking to women. In knowing who I am and doing things I'm proud of, being cocky was natural, being witty was natural, holding my frame was natural. There was still work involved but not as muc… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Natural supplements to optimise T levels?All nuts contain a aflatoxins which are carcinagenic, mutigenic, and immunosuppressive. Peanuts contain the most out of all the nuts. Peanuts are also the most sprayed in terms of pesticides. It contains anti-nutrients as well. Think why there are so many people with peanut allergies? | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 05:24 PM |
| 9 | Natural supplements to optimise T levels?Magnesium Zinc D3 Calcium Fish Oil Lifting HEAVY is probably the biggest factor in my experience there's no way around it. But also getting good sleep and meditating. Cortisol is a stress hormone inversely proportional to Testosterone. Therefore anything that increases stress in your life decreases testosterone. Some stresses are unavoidable like work and school. Make sure to rest when needed. Also look into stoicism. in my opinion this philosophy helps with ones ability to cope with stress. Als… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 08:04 PM |
| 2 | When i first meet a girl, i tend to treat her with respect and formality, and this leads me to having a hard time being funny and cocky. Any advice?You just need to learn to be a little dissagreeable at times to counter your nice nature. You can find humor in anything no matter how serious the topic (however this might not always go over well). If you find it hard to do so, you steer the topic in the direction you want it to go. This can be done by asking questions or weaving the boring topics with more entertaining ones. When when it comes to women it's pretty easy because they love to talk. You can literally ask them how they feel about b… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | About liftingHonestly forget a personal trainer. Go online and do research and find a program that fits your goals and preferred training styles. Or furthermore learn what makes a well balanced workout program and what methods are good for hypertrophy and/or strength gain and make your own routine. Strength programs are always a good foundation though. Programs such as Starting Strength. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Are there any apps or systems this sub would recommend to help improve your daily routine and track progress?I'm an old school guy. I have a small pocket sized moleskin that I track my daily habits and schedule with. Then I have a medium moleskin that as use as my commonplace book where I put book summaries, quotes, long term goals, ideas, Meeting notes, etc. It has a table of contents so everything is easy to find. The only app I use to track anything is myfitnesspal. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | What qualities should I look for in a women? | Green FlagsI learned the hard way when it comes to work. I'm in an awkward situation I was plating roommates who worked at my job. Now things are awkward. One of them still seems interested but I'm not going there. Also when I say school I mean college, is that still bad? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 05:53 PM |
| 0 | What qualities should I look for in a women? | Green FlagsI am spinning plates. That's what i mean by entertaining, it's my own terminology lol. And there's no one in particular that I'm looking at, so that's not the issue. I'm simply look9ng for a LTR. I'm in no rush though. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 04:43 PM |
| 0 | What qualities should I look for in a women? | Green FlagsLTR | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 02:22 PM |
| 1 | how do I overcome being self-conscious around 8/9 & 10s?Remember that they shit too. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 04:51 AM |
| 3 | I like women too much. How to fix it?Remember that they take shits too. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 06:09 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with "most guys are bad in bed" shit test?When it comes to the topic of sex I like to use a little self deprecation. I feel it works for me because I'm arrogant with everything else. Literally 2 days ago I told this girl I had a 3 in dick and she told me that it was sexy and that she wants to see it. Out comes my not 3 in dick I think I've had the, "most guys suck at sex." conversation. I use it as a way to just talk about sex. I'd ask why she felt that way then we'll talk about what most guys don't do right. I get to showcase my knowle… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 06:03 AM |
| 1 | I don't know what to look for in a woman...To be honest I've never really thought about my standards. I've put women to the side for a while until recently. I guess these are my standards based on my recent experiences: • Funny/goofy/likes to laugh • Doesn't take herself too seriously • Solid self esteem ( Dont Don't like girls who over extend themselves to others and neglect themselves) • Someone intelligent with some kind of interesting ideas to bring to the table • Someone who knows how to be a women and relax under my leadership • So… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 05:46 AM |
| 7 | how to respond to "Did you ever cheat on a gf?"With...the..truth? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Meditation vs ExerciseThe act of intentionally meditating trains you to control your mind and your thoughts better. It helps you become better with yourself because you have no external stimuli distracting you from yourself. Meditation is about relating with yourself and self awareness not just focus and mindfulness. It helps in understanding that you are not your thoughts and that you have control over them. Exercising is not necessarily going to do all that for you. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 03:45 PM |
| 2 | does being arrogant is good for game?I'm overtly arrogant. A lot of times I respond to compliments with more compliments to myself or saying, "I know." I always speak highly of myself, but it's natural for me because I know how much effort I put in being the man I am and crafting my life. I would imagine that there are some people who are insecure who are arrogant to compensate. The girl might be shit testing you when she said it's a sign of insecurity to pretty much see if it's genuine or she might not see why you are arrogant. At… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Monk Mode: Day 1Don't go into Monk Mode go into Warrior mode. You saying 'fuck this; just because your boss didn't give you a raise was a bad decision in my opinion. If he didn't give you a raise that means you didn't earn it in his eyes the next step would be to work harder for the sake of attaining what you feel you deserve. I don't have a car I was taking summer classes and working and my commute via bus and train was about the same. This is why i say warrior mode a lot of times we have to go through pain an… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Dominant womenI would argue that its worst to have a domineering father then to not have one ever. When I say abusive I mean physically, to my mother and to my siblings and I. We lived in fear. But that's besides the point really. Father or not you can't control it. It doesn't matter you act in spite of it. And I understand what you mean and I stand by what I said. You can be masculine and vulnerable. You can show you're weakness and emotions but you can't let them take you off your grounding. That's what mak… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 01:31 AM |
| 3 | My dick don’t workBeyond performance anxiety try to getting in touch with your masculine core do things that awaken that animal instinct. For whatever reason you might be disconnected with it. Take a cold shower, do some sprints, calistenics. If you are lifting lift heavy. Just do anything that takes you out your comfort zone. If you really are doing everything you say you are there could be some suppressed emotions and doubts. Feeling inept as a person can translate in the bedroom. There might be a area in your … | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Dominant womenI was raised by a single mother and I've had some of the same ideals as you. Stop fapping and watching porn everyone has said it and I'll say it again. Bein raised by a dominant single mother harms you mentally causes you to put your masculinity to the side to accommodate hers because she is providing for you like a masculine figure would. However this is not natural I've been depressed most of my life medicating myself through porn because I was living far from who I am at my core which is a st… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Got friendzoned, need adivce. details insideIf you really want her sexually you have to drop her as a friend for a while then reintroduce yourself as someone sexually interested in her; talk to her different, touch her different, look at her different. At that point she might pursue you If you're presenting yourself right. If she's still resistant at that point then forget her or try it again; create distance and reintroduce yourself. Often times we get friend zones because we fail to let our sexual desire for the girl be known and by the… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | "I don't kiss on the first date"If she bit my lip I would have kissed her anyways to be honest. If she gave me shit about it I would've been like "Well you can't tease me like that." Otherwise i would have played it cool like her biting me didn't satisfy me at all which I wouldn't because that's not what I wanted. But her doing that does show interest. Gotta make her play your game/ buy into your frame. I dont have time for games unless I like what's being played. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | I have a burning desire to eat much more food and become stronger and bigger in the gym. But I'm having a hard time suppressing the feeling of "I must be lean or girls wont like me" motto. I just want to do me and not compare myself but can't fucking decide.Do what's best for you and complies with your ideals. Im 5'8 too I was 183 with a little muscle. I lost 10lbs and increased my lifts. My concern is looking lean but being strong and I train to accomplish that. What's important to you? Strength, mass, being lean, performance, or do you just like the pump. Follow a protocol that highlights whatever it is you think is important and do that. Have an ideal look, strength or performance standards in mind and go for it. If you look better than average … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 06:37 PM |
| 2 | How to not feel so intimidated by other menLift definitely. But consider this male lions will be weary of other lions especially if they are bigger, so I guess its natural. However, when in the presents of other men physical conflicts isn't an eminent concern. Don't allow the physical to influence how you feel about yourself. You are a man, you are a leader no matter who is around. Solidify this idea within yourself continue to build yourself internally and really embody this idea and other men will be intimidated by you regardless of ho… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Introverted Alpha | Is it possible?Great breakdown and insight. I'm an INTP myself. In my earlier years I was very awkward and socially inept but through self development I built confidence and worked on my masculinity. I did engage in activities that went against my type; I was in leadership positions in some of my organizations, making efforts to be more social, was a panelist a did public speaking engagements(which I actually really enjoyed) but during this time is when I realized I didn't care for the social hierarchy/ positi… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Introverted Alpha | Is it possible?Yeah I understand I often feel silly saying shit like "alpha" "beta" but it does give context to behavior patterns. But thanks again and will do. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Introverted Alpha | Is it possible?Very true thanks for the reminder. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't shorchanging myself by refusing to be so readily social. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Introverted Alpha | Is it possible?Alpha, Beta, Sigma, Omega. Im I'm starting to believe there is a full spectrum of male identies spanning the alphabet. It's kinda funny to me. But As you guys explain what it means I don't mind the sigma/omega title as long as I'm masculine. Thanks for the input. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Introverted Alpha | Is it possible?Thanks I'll definitely look at the book. I'm not really "beating myself up about it." Im moreso curious about how being alpha relates to introversion. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Introverted Alpha | Is it possible?Interesting. So is being an omega bad? Something you think I need to correct? Like I said I can function socially I just don't desire it. As far as I can tell people respect me and my opinion but that's my percieption. For instance when I'm a mixed group of men and women I'm familiar with. Women will look to me for direction/make me leader. Some men will do the same while others will force themselves in that position. However I don't care to be leader nor will i force it, but will lead efficient… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Woman tell me I am a quiet personI'm the same. It all depends on how you feel about yourself as mentioned below. If you are quiet due to social deficiencies then try to work on it. If you have nothing to say then cool. It's part of the 48 Laws of power; don't talk too much and don't oversaturate people with your presents (Im paraphrasing). The think about being quiet is when you do speak and speak with sureness and authority people listen. A girl pointing out that you're quiet can be her way of trying to get to know you and sol… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 12:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you always get in the fun mode?To answer that question you need to analyze why you feel awkward. That aside you might be thinking too much and not in the moment. Meditation can fix that. And sometime you just might not be in the mood in those instances I sit back and take in everyone's else energy and over time it warms me up. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Should i drop a girl if i notice shes beginning to control my lifeIs she actively controlling your life or are you allowing her to through supplication | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Is anyone actually succesful in following a keto diet?If you want to bulk up with minimal fat gain do Leangains or something. Keto works to a certain extent but it is not sustainable especially if you are lifting heavy. I did it for a while and saw result but not anything significant as compared to me tracking my calories and eating clean. I also didn't see the brain benefits I feel a lot better the way I eat now. Keto macro split is 20/5/75 (P/C/F). What I found to be optimal for me is 35/30/35. Good for testosterone optimization based on my exper… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 07:31 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with this situation|She shows interest but is not interested?Like the feedback this is kind of where I was getting too. She acts like she wants to be a wingman but ultimately she gets jealous when I mention other girls. I think I'll just keep her as an aquantance. Ever since the me putting her on the couch situation I told her we are not friends - she probably thought I was kidding. As she jokes about it but that's really how go about things. I think she is just craving attention from me. However, when she way staying with me I would slap her ass and she … | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Observing a Natural Alpha AKA (Where am I going wrong)Pay attention to body language, the tone of his voice, micro expressions, etc. These things make a big difference in how much a woman invest. Its about creating a vibe/energy that women want to buy into. Appeal to emotion rather than logic and that can be done with little to no effort, it can literally just be the way you look a girl in the eyes that tells her you're masculine, that you did her attractive and want her. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Broke up LDR, she get's back. I can't...I guess I see where you are coming from. I also will give you another piece of advice. It would be beneficial to have female friends and to not limit the role a woman can play in your life, especially if you want to be good with women in general. Just something to think about. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 06:03 PM |
| 1 | My family is holding me back.Good to hear and not to say that everything has to have some deep metaphysical meaning. I know a lot of people who get tattoos for aesthetic purposes, but even then to it's about art and expression values in which they hold deep in their hearts. Also, you have to take in other life factors into account like potential job markets and so on. Good Luck to you. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Best way to present yourself on Tinder if you're handsome?Trolling? yes? no? Selfies are corny to me always have been. have someone take pictures of you, but not anything too over the top or too try hard (Kind of like " I'm walking and someone took a picture I wasn't expecting but it looks nice) . upload pictures of you doing something interesting, being somewhere interesting, of things that matter to you. Fuck being attractive lol there are a lot of attractive men who can't keep women. Surely you have more to offer than your looks so focus on those th… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Broke up LDR, she get's back. I can't...I don't think there was a Chad lol she broke up with you because you weren't validating her like she wanted you to. She came back however because it's easy to try to work with you to get that validation then to try to generate a whole new relationship to do so. Furthermore, she didn't want to flush 6 months down the drain. I will also say you never told her how you feel, what you wanted or didn't want from the relationship. You don't need a plan that takes a few months to tell someone that you a… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | My family is holding me back.I was in a similar place as you when I came to college I'm 21 now. I've struggled with my family holding me back most of my life especially as it pertains to me becoming a masculine male. My father was abusive so either overtly or covertly my two older sisters and my mom have been putting me down I feel, getting in my head, demonizing my masculinity, not really being supportive etc. So I understand where you're coming from and my honest opinion is to do what you want to do and forget what you're… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Girl shy or bitchy? (I'm very butthurt)That's up to you. Getting the lay from her would be a good learning experience. Talking to women is like solving math problems the nature of math is the same but for each situation you may need different tools focus on different aspects of the problem. This might be good experience for you even if you don't get the lay. If you want to get generally good with women don't think of having sex with them as the complete end goal. So if you can still talk with her and see if you can get her to open up… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Girl shy or bitchy? (I'm very butthurt)Yeah to the ,"I always say things wrong" comment does say quite a bit. Like I said it will probably take a lot to really get her to open up to you because she might think very little of herself so her fear would be saying or doing something wrong. To circumvent this you have to make her feel comfortable. The moment she feels uncomfortable is the moment she'll flee because its easier to run away. And her level of being comfortable is something you have to gauge. You have to be able to adapt; read… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 08:00 PM |
| 3 | What is the most alpha male career?Whatever you are passionate about. Being alpha is being yourself and forging your own path in life. There is no alpha careers there are alpha men who assume their career of interest. Working for yourself doesn't make you alpha (there are a lot of entrepreneurs who are beta who are still mentally children), so if that's why you want to reconsider. But if you truly want to you have to understand that you most likely will have to work under somebody unless you create a thriving app before graduatio… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Hot girls with ugly guysLike stated before, women don't care as much about physical appearance like men do. It's all about how you make a women feel and more specifically making a woman feel womanly and to do that you have to be masculine. And I will say that masculinity doesn't look the same everywhere there is no universal way that masculinity manifest but there are underlying principles. Principles such as confidence, decisiveness, and contrary to popular belief begin caring. Imagine a king; to be a good king you mu… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl shy or bitchy? (I'm very butthurt)Regardless of your intentions with a girl you have to make her feel comfortable and make a connection. If she's an introvert dial back your energy have a conversation in a way that prompts her to talk about herself and have some genuine interest in her. The fact that you're so boisterous might be a turn off for her regardless of the fact that she finds you physically attractive. Also you seem kind of like you're fishing for attention and you put too much focus on the things around you and how yo… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 06:41 PM |
| 6 | I just realized something important about smartphonesI dont have social media so Im not really in my phone like that. If I am, Im either talking to someone or on reddit lol. The issue imo isnt the phone itself but what we use it for, same with all technology. If we are using these devices to "check out" and indulge is weak forms of stimulation then yeah it's detrimental. And thats usually the case and since it is technology is not the blame but the user. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The difference between boys and menI would recommend you read the book King, Warrior, Lover, Magician. I read your post and I see a tyrant not a king which is the archetype of a mature masculine male. To you're points: No onee needs to please abd satisfy us because we cultivate pleasure and satisfaction internally and whether some one does right by us or not we still are content in our core. No one owes us anything. Just because some one puts themselves over you doesn't make them a rival it makes them human we all do it. Everyone… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/17 08:07 PM |
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