| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 33 | Queens, what are your plans for NYE?Eat some good food, paint, and hopefully start a new book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 08:02 AM |
| 7 | I drew some more FDS profile pics!How cute! ^ ^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 05:27 PM |
| 20 | TW: sexual assault - So basically if they were the last two people on Earth, he's gonna assault her to reproduce. Most of the comments are just supporting his "point," and some are shaming the woman for not wanting to have sex with him.Oh, I just found more info. I couldn't last night. He goes by the name Speed, or IShowSpeed. He was on Omegle in that clip, so I don't think they know each other. I don't know the other guys that were reacting, but I assume they're Youtubers and/or just Tiktokers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:26 PM |
| 9 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?I decided a long time ago that I'm not gonna change my last name. I used to cringe at what my new name could be if I were to marry whatever scrote I was talking to at the time. It never felt right, so I'm sticking with mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 01:48 AM |
| 62 | What are your best tips for letting go of the IDEA you have a person?I can relate. What I did was write down every red flag and kept it, and read it until I was over the idea of him. I also kept telling myself "There's a reason why you can't be with him" when I caught myself fantasizing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 03:00 AM |
| 39 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..This was more of a situationshp but anyway... Our first "conversation" where he did all the talking, he told me about some girl he was trying to talk to in the past. Apparently she got somebody to sh--t him, and they got him in the head. But he said it so fast and I was disassociating so I didn't really react. And since I was a pickme back then, I still talked to him for 6 months 🤦🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️ never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:30 PM |
| 19 | Scrotes really think they are entitled to do whatever they want in public spaces no matter how annoying it is to everyone else.And then there are the ones who sing/rap loudly, dancing as if they're filming their own little music video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:02 AM |
| 87 | What was your moment of clarity?When he couldn't hold a conversation without flirting, and talking to him felt like a chore. When his Insta contained videos of him defending a famous guy (who was a serial r****t) he really admired. When his Insta contained multiple p**n jokes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 06:56 PM |
| 12 | Kim Jong-in aka Kai of the band EXO🎶Mmmh mmmh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:15 PM |
| 50 | Who knew?Yeah, that's what I thought it was too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Bangers! A long list of FDS AnthemsThanks for this list! I'm doing a mass deletion of songs, so this helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:28 PM |
| 45 | What advice would you give to your 20 year old (or generally younger) self?Don't let him get too close, as he'll start thinking that becoming friends with you is an easy feat. Don't pick up that damn phone. It's been months. If he wanted to, he would. Go ahead and delete the number. Don't remember it either. You deserve better. You may be lonely but he sure as hell ain't the one. You're about to get your degree. That's all you should focus on right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.Yep. As soon as some guy found out I was Christian, every other sentence had "Jesus" in it. Whether or not the topic was even about Jesus. And it never was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:06 PM |
| 4 | They so badly want to be victims 🙄Yeahh, I'm confused as well... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Has the FDS-mindset ruined (some) music for anyone else?Yep, but I'm eager to delete them and replace with better music | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)Either I'm keeping my last name or we're choosing/making a new one together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 09:08 PM |
| 5 | I am not your dream girl.Well shit, I like this energy 😲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:09 PM |
| 127 | BoundariesI like this meme. This is a wholesome meme. 😊😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 10:36 PM |
| 35 | The infamous Nth Room chatrooms. Over 60,000 men having no qualms about purchasing, distributing or consuming sexual content of unwilling participants including children.I remember this. I read one anonymous victim's story about her experience, and she said she has nightmares and is scared to go outside. Sometimes she was forced to do violent things as well. So sad. This was very disturbing to find out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Men talk too much....and why this can be a good thing 😈Yes! In my experience I never had to force information out of him. I take my time with relationships (therefore I've never been in one), so the impatient ones have told me their true intentions pretty quickly without even realizing it. One guy flat out told me he wanted to be "tied down," and his friends teased him for not having a GF. I took that as him not really wanting me, just wanting someone. They have tried to relate to me after knowing my beliefs when they were completely different the o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:18 PM |
| 3 | I know checklists are passé but I keep them and update red flags.I have a list, but I see I need to add tracking as well. Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:58 PM |
| 6 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't."But I'm a good guy! 👍😁" 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Ten behaviors of guys with impeccable class - The World Needs More Gentlemen And Fewer MenWow, this is really good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 12 | What are your dealbreakers?Porn addicted Mean to people in retail and hospitality, mean to people in general Racist Sexist Has an unpleasant, authoritative tone with me when he's mad Posts too dang much on social media, trying to be seen Spends too much time on social media Spends too much time gaming Goes through life without having a relationship with God Would rather try out physical things on me just to see if I'd allow it, even as simple as a hug, instead of asking me first Lack of hygiene and moisturizing Isn't work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Did you all know Junie B. Jones is one of the most banned or challenged books from the 2000s? All because they didn’t like a mouthy little girl. That “B” Stands for Boss-Ass-Bitch.I did hear about this actually. Junie B was my girl, as a kid I thought she was funny. I preferred her books over any other kid book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 08:48 PM |
| 5 | men already found a way to bypass pornhub deleted videos.Ughhhhh they're so fricking disgusting my God 😒😒😒😒 They literally turn my stomach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | anyone else get annoyed when guys ask you questions based on THEIR interests?Yes. It's a major turn off for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 22 | I'm getting flashbacks to every first date monologue a LVM put me through - Never again!Bruh. If this ain't the truth... and I'd literally put my earphone back in and they'd still be going like they're an Instagram influencer. And they love to repeat themselves, oh my g-- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:28 AM |
| 34 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Guys, I think he's mad 🤔 🙄🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:52 PM |
| 2 | "You should've crowned her, 'cause she's a goddess. You never got this." One of my favourite FDS anthems. Basically, I find most of Banks' lyrics very relevant and inspiring. Her music is an empowering story of a recovered pickme who became an unapologetic queen.Yesss this is my favorite by her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:45 PM |
| 4 | 21yo seeking advice--what would you tell your 21yo self?I'd tell her that he's not the one and she needs to focus on her senior year of college. If he was serious about her, he'd take initiative. Don't you frickin dare pick up the phone to get disappointed again. Don't pick up that phone at all. He thought you were gonna be an easy and quick target, probably because you're quiet. I'd tell her to remember how she was at 17, when she dropped that boy as her prom date for being controlling and feeling entitled, and to keep that same energy. You've been … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:32 PM |
| 21 | Yeah, by “missed out on so many games” you mean “be a minimally involved father by dedicating some more of my time to working and taking care of my wife and child as I should?”Two consoles? Two!? He sounds like he's about to play all these games he missed out on. What's that gonna do for anybody? Playing games should be a nice little hobby, not your way of life. Two consoles, though? Seriously? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | I believe there is some truth to it for sure. Any thoughts ?For me, it's true. Took him two months to reach out again, and after I responded he never replied. Then I reached out two months later, and we talked for a good two months. While all the while I knew it wasn't going anywhere. Apparently he's not a texter but would rather sit in silence over the phone, and only make conversation by... "flirting" 🙄. It's been almost two years since I dropped him and I'm glad I made that decision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Have any of you guys done/are going to do single motherhood by choice (smbc)?I've started thinking about it. I'm at a point in my life where I'm totally fine if I never get married. But I know I definitely want kids, and I'll get them one way or another. No longer putting that goal in a man's hands. I want to be mentally healthy and financially stable first, of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:59 PM |
| 24 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"I'm sorry she actually married him. How long has she been enduring this? And he's so f--king clueless it pisses me off. Always choose yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Tell me why you don't chase anyone anymore.Because it was a waste of time, and I felt like I should've known better. It was 8 months (we didn't date) of talking and not talking and what-ifs and me dragging my feet to drop him for good. I fell into his sob story trap and stayed around longer than I should have, because of his severe injury and how "people always leave" him, and I didn't want to be one of those people. But, he did the bare minimum to get to know me -- he only knew basic stuff like my favorite movie. Unless he was trying to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 03:33 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter