Boundaries

Gambit12345 · 2021-01-01T23:00:33+00:00

“Go with the flow” aka “looking for someone to let me fuck with no expectations”

shakethat_milkshake · 2021-01-01T23:26:26+00:00

I have a little screenshot gallery of my OLD hall of shame and there’s one hinge profile that answers the prompt “swipe right if...” with: “you’re trying to have fun and not take things too seriously. But still open to more serious connections.”

lol. It’s my favorite.

Breesasha · 2021-01-01T22:47:53+00:00

Right! I wouldn't waste my time on someone who's first comment is "go with the flow". I had a guy tell me that 2 years ago pre- FDS when I was very much a pickmeshia and I entertained it for far too long. After the flow didn't progress into any sort of commitment then I promptly ghosted him. Go with the flow is code for a permanent FWB situation.

Twolipz_78 · 2021-01-01T22:19:44+00:00

She’s going with the flow, of course!

warinmymind94 · 2021-01-01T22:23:03+00:00

Yes girl, walk out / block and delete. Pro tip: dont put that you want a serious relationship in your OLD bio and when you match with a man you need to be the one to first ask him "what are you looking for?" Other wise he will copy your answer so he can have his shot.

When you ask him "what are you looking for" red flags are ambitious answers. If he doesn't know, just is looking to see what happens, just wants to vibe, or hangout, if he wants a cuddle / gamer buddy, if hes just looking for a plus one for some fancy event... just walk out and block. A grown man needs to know what he wants

Chillody · 2021-01-01T22:36:40+00:00

I like this meme. This is a wholesome meme. 😊😊

posprov · 2021-01-01T23:37:05+00:00

She went with the flow, of her own path

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2021-01-02T02:27:35+00:00

Yes! And no more “I’m looking for a relationship ideally, but only if it’s right” BS. That’s just a way for them to test drive you, and once your newness have worn off, tell you “it’s not working”

suspended_animation_ · 2021-01-02T02:30:10+00:00

He did say that he didn't want a relationship... She was giving him what he asked for by walking away

Georgerobertfrancis · 2021-01-02T02:35:03+00:00

Except if you tell him you want a relationship he’ll totally lie and agree to get what he wants and then just not do it.

Sad trombone.

fairywakes · 2021-01-02T03:50:06+00:00

“I’m deliberately ignoring your wants and needs and still tryna lay pipe.”

😷

AmazonArtemis · 2021-01-01T23:20:48+00:00

Saving this as a reminder!!

GoldandGlowing · 2021-01-01T23:47:57+00:00

These memes are killing me lol

2021-01-02T01:32:13+00:00

Boy bye. Never hesitate to use the block button.

uselesssdata · 2021-01-02T00:36:46+00:00

Where are these drawings coming from? I see them everywhere lately.

millionssomething · 2021-01-02T04:31:23+00:00

"I'm here for a good time not a long time"

ceramicunicorn · 2021-01-02T06:20:36+00:00

I’ll never understand this myopic bullshit. If a guy tells me he’s just up for “fun and frolics” (I’ve actually gotten that one on OLD), I don’t try to convince him to do it my way and consider a relationship, I unmatch.

spicyspa · 2021-01-02T04:18:56+00:00

Why she is going with the flow. And this means flowing off and away.

Mysterious_Midnight7 · 2021-01-02T02:24:12+00:00

I just wanted to say I love these!

StrainingMyNeurons · 2021-01-02T03:21:24+00:00

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ivy176 · 2021-01-02T01:51:47+00:00

Yep, no games..

That dude looks like he has microcephaly 😂😕

Wkndwhorechata · 2021-01-02T06:53:00+00:00

Floating away now. Bye.

glittersparkles212 · 2021-01-02T08:39:43+00:00

Flowing away from your bs

IAteTheDragon · 2021-01-02T09:07:52+00:00

Haha, I love how this girl is on her way out of the screen in every meme😄 Queen AF. We should seriously get her a name for this move.

Astral_weaver · 2021-01-02T11:52:41+00:00

Them: "Where are you going?" You: "I'm going with the flow. Away from you."

Title	Boundaries
Author	of-mind-and-adventur
Upvotes	3586
Comments	54
Date	January 1, 2021 10:17 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kokfo1/boundaries/
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