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someone tell me why the fuck he built like a titan from attack on titan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:46 AM
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i wish ovarit had an app! i would donate heavily to fund a developer to create an app interface
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:37 AM
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@you.look.like.a.man almost lost their account for "misandry" but all the men whose comments they screenshot are allowed to continue being misogynistic scrotes that sexualise and put down female athletes. it's insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:24 AM
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because we remind them of their harsh, sad reality that they wish to be blind to source: used to be a libfem pickme just like her who got really jealous of all the successful, happy single women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:15 PM
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it doesn't look like me at all and i tried with three pictures :( might be cos i'm not caucasian?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 07:08 AM
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during my initial "weaning off" of porn i moved to reading erotica on reddit, with which i was so uncomfortable because of how misogynistic their portrayals of women were. things like normalising bdsm, huge age gaps, DDLG, "barely legal teens", etc. it's easy to write these off as "just fantasy" but when we consume it, we are directly supporting the creators' fucked up fantasies! and reading it made me feel so grossed out anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:26 PM
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me too, i was definitely porn addicted even when my SO didn't even watch porn (testament to how HV he is). for me, a move towards written erotica helped a bit. but most erotica tend to perpetuate negative and misogynistic stereotypes of women. i'm leaning towards homemade videos (that are only in my possession!) nowadays. if any other queen has any suggestions for ethical erotica, please share!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:23 PM
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claiming that fds wants the whole world to be our safe space when ahs literally spams ch*ld pr0n on any sub that they disagree with, in hopes of getting them banned, just to cultivate a "safe space" for their fucked up echo chamber tell me again how scrotes aren't just projecting with every claim they make of FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:55 AM
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that's because in "women's subs" the moderators are all if not mostly men :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 04:33 AM
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such a late reply sorry but that is so sweet! i would love to see the dress if you don't mind sharing. i can feel the love and dedication you two have for each other just from your words! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:26 PM
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late reply but yes 100%. men everywhere are entitled and i think the babying from our parents' generation doesn't help at all. plus, at least in my parents cultures, the male children are always prioritised so men have been so spoiled from young!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:25 PM
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this space is a privilege you got it damn right sis 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 this space is a privilege and we NEED to protect it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:12 PM
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this is so spot-on lol my pickme mum completely ignored all the red flags of my abusive ex and even embraced them!! • "oh he hit you? what did you do to anger him?" • "he doesn't let you out in crop tops? your apa does the same to me, it's because he loves you and wants to protect you!" i ended up staying with this cheating ZV scrote for 2 years... yeah nah now i know to tell her to fuck off with that nonsense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 07:45 PM
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i know how that (having no one to report him to) feels!! so fucking frustrating!! i hope you are able to avoid him forever. take care sis❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:27 AM
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i had close friendships turn into FWB situations. these scrotes would act so nice to me, care about my life, some even helped in my uni and eventual career. but they literally threw me aside and the friendship dissipated the moment we were done fucking, and i was never contacted again except for booty calls. it was not just one or two men but a whole ass pattern, mind you. when i tweeted about these, libfems only focused on how empowering it must be to be in charge of your sexuality! yes, it is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:36 AM
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the fact that i felt so happy that mainstream media published something in support of women's perspectives FOR ONCE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:33 AM
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yup, totally agree. i think this may be FDS's stance as well. in this stressful society it's really hard to not have a mental illness of sorts. most of my (few and vetted) male friends have diagnosed c-ptsd, depression or anxiety that they are actively managing with the help of a therapist, and they NEVER put the responsibility on their girlfriends to help with their issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:31 AM
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my abusive ex would tell me i'm the one who gave him the mental illness as though c-ptsd, narcissism and anger management issues appear overnight 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:29 AM
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in my home country (southeast asia so it's perpetual summer, i just moved back from the UK where i wore sweaters all day) the perverted old uncles don't say anything but they straight up STARE at you... and eye you up and down... this is regardless of what you wear. i've seen scrotes literally stop in their tracks and stare at me, moving their head up and down. it's fucking revolting. if they approach me or say something you bet your ass i am immediately shouting back or retaliating. but when it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:24 AM
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BABY BIRDING IN THIS CUP 🤡🤡🤡🤡 i can't with these fucking clowns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:22 AM
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in this day and age, it's easier to demonise what you dislike and warn others against reading the content for themselves, than to convince others with the misinformed judgment lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:14 AM
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real HVM don't feel threatened by our sub because they want to empathise with our experiences and be better allies to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:05 AM
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the whole point isn't to postpone the inequality until marriage, but to properly vet a man such that you will never be exposed to the inequality either via cohabiting or marriage. also, if you cohabit with a man, you are likely to become a forever girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:00 PM
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read the handbook, it's a really good starting point to understand the rationales :) but tldr: living together before or even after marriage often means inequality in domestic work division, and we don't want to play wifey to men who have not proposed to us. plus the lack of security in housing, if things turn sour for you and your man - who moves out where? would you be able to afford rent for a studio? how are you gonna move out at a moment's notice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:24 AM
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do you mind sending me an invite code for ovarit? (you can check my post history or dm me for some more confirmation!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:18 AM
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my need to be safe trumps their need to be a misogynist lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:17 AM
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men: you are oppressing me by oppressing my need to be a misogynist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:14 AM
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highly doubt i'm the only one but i chanced upon FDS when people (men and pickmeishas) were shit talking it on another sub. when i first came here i agreed with majority if not all of the posts! no other sub has helped me feel more (truly) empowered and confident as a woman. it has also helped my relationship a lot by allowing me to recognise the high-value behaviours of my fiance, and appreciating him for it. anyway, this vice article will probably do more good than harm. curious women will com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:12 AM
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STOP BEING EMOTIONAL, ARE YOU ON YOUR PERIOD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:01 AM
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this video made me tear up, not sure if it's because of the self-love and confidence she just exuberates, which is so fucking inspiring to me, or the message she's conveying that i (and many other little girls and grown women alike) have always needed to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:36 AM
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YOUR MEMORY IS POOR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:08 AM
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this is the one thing FDS preaches over and over again, and i particularly love that it gets the scrotes mad and threatened. because these LVM scrotes know that, if all women had these principles, they would become obsolete to womankind 😂😂😂😂 nobody needs to be dragged down by them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:51 AM
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HVM will value your effort and time cooking, and offer to pay for more if not all of the groceries. fuck LVMs and their entitlement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:15 PM
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all the scrotes on mainstream reddit always demonised FDS. when i had a peek out of curiosity, i was instantly hooked. this sub has given me so much confidence to take no shit from any relationship in my life. the female movements that men demonise, are usually demonised because they are right. us striving to do better and be better while thriving as independent women is a direct threat to the romantic and sexual needs of LVMs, who need to cultivate a dependent, submissive stock of women, as the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:58 AM
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the mental breakdown is so befitting of these scrotes too😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:50 AM
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me too. would chip in a quick £2 a month so she can get (half?) a cuppa :) so proud and happy that young ladies these days are daring to speak up against the mainstream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:18 AM
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bahahaha and it's factual cuz testosterone is linked to aggression
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:31 AM
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omg me too. 100% all of this incl the trauma response. i straight up say "you don't get to yell at me" or "stop being emotional" because i don't have the time to deal with your shitty unjustified anger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:31 AM
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i'm in my late 20s now and at your age, i definitely felt the influence from mainstream media pushing for women to put out. (i've since stopped consuming msm completely save for my country's news outlet, for factual and geographically relevant news.) i'm so glad more and more young women like yourself are opening their eyes to the reality of the situation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:46 AM
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having expectations wasn't good what in the fresh pickme hell is this i'm sorry you had such a fucked up therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:42 AM
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i'm so happy for you that it worked out! i think most libfems tend to sweep the correlations with their casual sex phase under the carpet, refusing to acknowledge the hand that mental health issues or poor life circumstances can play in encouraging such behaviour everytime we admit this to ourselves and others, we can save another woman from falling into the same trap we did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:13 AM
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tbh i fucked on my first date too (met my current SO in my regrettable libfem phase) and even though it worked out really well for me by pure chance as he turned out to be a HVM, i would NEVER encourage it to any of my sisters. i constantly tell them how i was in a really bad spot, full of insecurities that i put a band-aid over with 🤮casual sex🤮. and even though all my sisters know how happy i am rn, they understand where i am coming from as they know precisely the kind of person i was when in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:10 PM
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don't forget the /s in case people don't get it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:35 PM
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i feel like i'm losing male friends left and right too lol. tbh i wouldn't want to use the word "losing" cos there was nothing to gain from the friendship anyway. when they show their true colors you realise they have always been like this so you actually gain more from cutting them out. a certain religious group in my country was preaching about how women should dress more modestly to help their male counterparts avoid lust. cue all the ZVMs coming out of the woodworks to 1) play devil's advoca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:58 AM
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if that actually happened it would be much more central to the post rather than being added as an aside lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:04 PM
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thank you, he really spoils me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:09 PM
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in my country flowers are hella expensive. we're talking 80$S and upwards for a decent looking bouquet. but my HVM has bought me enough flowers (in the past 6 months!) to strike up a relationship with a florist that entitles him to discounts. also helped by the fact that his HV father has been going to this florist since he started dating his mum. when there's a will, there's a way. men will go the extra mile if they wish to. there are never excuses for LV behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:22 AM
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P.S. she's also an FDS-er and we love to discuss posts from here, so i hope she sees this! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:45 AM
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SG deffo needs more women on adopting FDS and radfem ideology especially with the plentiful LVMs running rampant !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:55 PM
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that's literally how we type to each other 24/7! she's the only one who can understand all my ridiculous typos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:31 AM
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i love to see fellow SG FDSers! hi queen! if you're interested i can send you a tele channel i use to source for flower makers :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 11:30 AM
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we're both based in singapore right now and this year is from flora fervour. i usually switch up florists every year & try to support local, female-owned shops 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:57 AM
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fair enough. we love a critical and detail-oriented queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:30 PM
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don't worry too much about it even if there's a study proving so, there are always anomalies to any correlation! hope you are and stay happy no matter what!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 03:26 PM
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i never did this for any man except for one, who expected me to do it for him. he would throw tantrums, ghost me for hours and even days, and get upset when i don't cater my life exactly to his demands. spoiler alert: it was the most abusive rs i've been in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:19 PM
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planning for children now so hope you don't mind me asking, whose surname comes first in the hyphenated surname?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:45 AM
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what an amazing comment 💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:06 AM
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i'm not even going to bother engaging because NVM like this are such a waste of time. this was a reply to me saying that feminism shouldn't need to center men and isn't about equality, but about achieving women's rights for women. the day men can carry babies to term, perform violent crime at the rates as women, have equal pay as women, and are born having to bleed out their vaginas for 70% of their entire lifetime is the day my feminism fights for equality. begging to be included in feminism & …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:13 PM
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you should totally check out @you.look.like.a.man on instagram. they have a lengthy curation of these incidences of the fragile male ego in play
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:13 AM
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my fiance and i are in our late 20s and literally him touching my boob once will get him going. and he doesn't last an unreasonable amt of time in bed to the point that it hurts. (i've dated men that literally just use me as a sex toy for like 20+ minutes, not caring if it hurts until they get to get off. it's so fucked that i was conditioned into thinking that was okay.) it's really the lack of porn that enables these very normal behaviours that my fiance has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 04:36 AM
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i've needed a radfem podcast since forever! drop the link when it's up queen, this sub will defo support you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:37 AM
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it's pretty interesting to hear everyone's lists but as someone who isn't very familiar with western pop culture, i'd also like to know what they've done to be HV!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:31 AM
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15 years ago, as a teen, i rejected one guy and was called a slut by my entire campus who didn't really understand the definition of "slut" if men want to slut shame you they will always find a way somehow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:58 AM
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i came to FDS because some scrotes were trash talking it on main subs, and i got curious. :")
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:56 AM
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i have flown across the atlantic ocean to see a man, but he 1) paid for my return flight ticket 2) booked all the hotels, cars and paid for them all (despite having his own room, he had a single bed and didn't want us to sleep separately) 3) planned a whole ass itinerary to bring me around his state. all this on a PhD student wage. travelling to meet a man is advisable only if he has proven to be a HVM and has exhibited high value behaviours not just leading up to, but also during the trip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:53 PM
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i don't ever get tired of rewatching this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:03 PM
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helped my abusive cheating ex pay off his PCL surgery in full....... my clown ass is cringing at this memory and at the thousands i threw down the drain 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:46 AM
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i am going to send this exact comment to him in an email. thank you for the words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:05 PM
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these same dumbfuck scrotes are the ones that go "but muh capitalism and free market!!1!1!1!1"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:34 AM
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sorry, disgressing here but i fucking love this sub and the women here who hold themselves to such high standards, endlessly empower other women, are anti-porn, anti-capitalism and intelligent as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 04:32 AM
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this would never happen because of the pickmes that just ruin feminism for all of us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:21 AM
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i know it's probably a diff shade but i spend £200+ a month maintaining my silver shade... like the other commenter said, silver makes you look so wise :) and i'm sure you will look great with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 08:15 AM
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this list is un-fucking-believable. why does he need a goddamn list to teach him how to behave like a normal polite functioning human being. so happy on your level up by ditching that useless scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:30 AM
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calling twitter slacktivism "feminism" is an insult to all women, especially the ones who fought for our rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:53 AM
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omg i didn't know about that, i don't think i've reached that part of the show yet!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:53 AM
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i rly skipped so many scenes cos i couldnt stand the sheer cringe (and the realisation that i used to act like that 🤮🤮🤮) hahahaa. also fuck her dad srsly i get so angry at all of his scenes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:29 AM
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i love cxg!! especially with the self-awareness of her pickmeness at times, it's so meta and reminds me of my pickmeisha moments in the past (love kernels made me cringe and laugh so hard). correct me if im wrong but i mean her pickmeisha traits could be 80% attributed to her personality disorder, and most of the traits got much less severe once she started managing her disorder and loving herself! i mean im at season 4 beginning only now so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:55 AM
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mic drop!! this is absolute queen shit. i love seeing powerful female politicians standing up against misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:50 AM
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my dad has 3 younger sisters and is an absolute LVM lol. that's also bc his mum (i love her, she's my popo, basically raised me) is an absolute pick-me for her NV husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:47 AM
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the only times i've travelled to see a man (my current fiance) he's paid for it 100% - the flight ticket, accomodation, and even vehicle rental. he checked my schedule to make sure i didn't have any deliverables or important client meetings. he picked me up at the airport in a rental car he paid for and booked an airbnb because he only had a single bed in his rental flat. this is all despite both of us earning similar wages (albeit in different countries). if men really wanted you there, they wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:38 AM
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what the actual fuck. i'm so, so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:32 AM
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i always clean up after parties bc the only parties i go to are hosted in my good friend's house and i like to make her life a bit easier. literally that's all. it ain't that deep. she gives back by being a bomb friend and being my plant mom while i've moved away temporarily lol. why would you give free labor to ppl don't appreciate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:51 AM
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as a teenager in singapore i've not been catcalled too often but i've definitely had men outright stare at me for like minutes on end. what the fuck right. i always felt so powerless because you know, it's just staring, it's not even anything outright you can take action about. but when i moved to the UK in my mid-teens, wow the racist catcalling. men can be so brazen honestly. i'm mixed so i mainly hear colorist shit but i've heard my chinese, korean and japanese friends getting the full range …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:50 PM
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singapore! sucks that it doesnt work in the UK cos im actually UK based but flew back for the pandemic when my company became remote work lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:50 PM
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this is how you know sexuality isn't a choice. women are so much more amazing at everything: better kissers, smells nice, always thoughtful, etc etc. and yet we still fall for scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:34 PM
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i love this so so much. it's just so powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:30 PM
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same. was abusive throughout my whole childhood too. made me such a pickme trying to please his stupid ass & caused me to be shackled to a 3.5-year long abusive rs in my teens cos i didn't know any better - i thought love was the way he treated my mum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:48 AM
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it works for my instagram tho, is it region specific?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:44 AM
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you know you're doing something right when depraved NVM dedicate hours of their lives stalking you and harassing you keep up the good work Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:41 AM
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"pretend feminists", the libfems call radfems oh so ironically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:42 PM
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this was posted on my country's subreddit and was gilded and upvoted heavily (for a post of this nature). testament to how low value the men here truly are. any discussion of women's rights also always gets drowned out by "if women wanted equal rights, they should serve NS!" (National Service or NS is mandatory 2 year conscription for males in singapore. this argument completely misses the point that there shouldn't be NS at all but whatever.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:22 PM
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maybe it's maybelline, but most probably it's filters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:54 PM
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i would think most of reddit alr knows that these incels actually relish in this. but what we need to bring to light (to everyone else outside of FDS) is that these very incels run the dominant feminist subs on this website. but tbh who would give a fuck? scrotes don't care. libfems love attention even negative attention from incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:49 PM
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guess what AskFeminists? your shitty oppressive and exploitative brand of libfem that panders to the male gaze shouldn't get to represent all of us real feminists and yet here you go controlling all of media. you brainwashed me into thinking being slutty is all good for empowerment and here i am, hurting from all the times i whored myself out to be the Cool Girl ™. destroying friendships, relationships just so i could feel empowered. guess what? this feeling of "empowerment" is what i wouldn't w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:14 AM
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omg preach sis!! this is what i mean when i say i wish to have the confidence of a mediocre white man lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:20 AM
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it doesn't bother me at all cos like OC said, the fact that scrotes hate her means she's doing something right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 05:12 AM
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this is an amazing comment, thanks much for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:43 AM
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everyday i'm re-inspired by the radical feminist words of this sub ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:22 AM
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as a fellow asian (who hasn't heard of the group before, but it's interesting since i live away from my home country) i want to say i'm glad you posted this for discussion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:41 PM
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i'm so enraged reading this i can't even formulate a reply more logical than "what the fuck". pickme libfems really ruining it for all of us women here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 01:09 AM
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so happy for you queen!! hopefully you can find some other HVW to be vulnerable with because women friendships > all else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:15 AM
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put yourself first always queen because you deserve it ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:14 AM
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these scrotes and their double standards. if they want us gone cos we're an incel sub, what about the true incel subs for men like mgtow etc? these outright objectify women. here we just demand that women are treated with respect. see the dissonant expectations? women are made to shut up for just wanting basic respect, while scrotes get away with goddamn anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:14 AM
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it looks absolutely gorgeous! absolute queen shit i love it x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:40 AM
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to liberals, freedom of speech is great so long as the freedom you are practising aligns with their liberal pov. rightwing thought? must be banned! radical feminist viewpoints? censor censor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:50 PM
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remember when reddit was misogynistic and would jump on the slightest hint of a woman doing a slightly "bad" thing just to villify her? i too was on this site when the entire ellen pao thing happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:34 PM
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for sure! i hope you are feeling much better from it, if you aren't totally over it yet. sending virtual hugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:32 PM
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if you don't mind, would you share a pic of the ring you got yourself? this is some queen shit & i bet it looks so lovely on you x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:28 PM
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you're in 2020 now, having learnt some lessons and are in this sub now! so i bet you are now on your way to queenhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:26 PM
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don't you love it with LVM straight up tell you their intentions of getting into a rs just to control a woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:24 PM
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OHH that makes perfect sense thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 03:45 AM
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wait im still confused could you explain??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:42 AM
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very haha depending on where, but it's really high stress and fast-paced, i'm really in a pressure cooker always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:53 PM
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there are so many! think my fav is "that's it, i'm a radfem now".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:05 PM
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love this breakdown. just wondering, do you happen to be from the consulting industry? :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:15 AM
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absolute queen shit 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:13 AM
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no, he doesn't anymore because a) i have addressed my trauma somewhat and have moved past it, thereby moving past my kink too and not requesting it anymore and b) he never enjoyed it in the first place, and was doing it only bc libfem me was brainwashed into liking it for the libfem brownie points 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:00 AM
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definitely. i was abused as a child and still have so much unprocessed trauma, so it was probably a way for me to "control" the trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:44 AM
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i'm so sorry about your rape. i have the same experience with my current SO. when we started seeing each other i was a dumb brainwashed libfem, i was so "into" kinky sex (but on hindsight it seemed like a very performative interest). before we even started dating we were already hooking up, and i'd ask him to choke me, hold me down, etc. he was very willing to do so but as time passed, our relationship progressed and flourished and he fell in love with me, he is much more hesistant to do so now.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:39 AM
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yes sis drop the block hammer, and drop this LVM!!! i hope you are able to process this hopefully thru therapy, it sounds so horrific. sending air hugs x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 07:34 AM
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i always tell the truth and his own best friends know and have witnessed the truth. yet they stand by him cos they are all NVM, abuse- and cheating-supporting trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:38 PM
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i could've written this entire title!!! sis it's ok we have taken the trash out and levelled the fuck out ourselves. fuck those NVM assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:37 PM
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of course these dumb scrotes have never understood why a slippery slope argument just doesn't fly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:08 AM
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i've repressed the hell out of mine. don't think i'd ever share, nor if anyone would even believe me as we were in a relationship at that time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:07 AM
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as usual, reddit only cares about men's rights and poor feewings and not actual harassment, assault nor threats to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:06 AM
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she sounds incredibly toxic but thanks for sharing this story. it's a timely warning to some of us with a tendency to overshare with everyone, ever. i'm so glad that you have cut her out of your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:08 AM
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Ok, red headed 40 year old out of shape man with ED, I set you free! The world will be your oyster! i snorted at this lmao. i hope (and believe) you are thriving without this mouldy bread of a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:44 AM
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i feel like this story is lowkey going to sound like "wow the bar for men truly is in hell" but i'm going to share it anyway. while playing a specific board/gambling game with his family at his place, i was losing extremely badly to his father, who made a tongue-in-cheek comment about how "it's fine, she always loses to me anyway." and some other rather offensive remark that's a bit hard to translate. i was already feeling very down about the loss as i thought i was progressing on this game rath…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:38 AM
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sis i straight up asked him this qn and he just ignored it -.-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:01 PM
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i just spent an entire night debating a LVM who was defending a 30+ yo celebrity in my country, dating a 21 yo who is still in college. he was all like "she's an adult who can consent! what about their personal choice!" ... never again. ended up blocking him which is what i should've just done from the start. the worst part is, we're in the 30s age range. i'm thinking about how he could excuse this behaviour prob because he is a predator himself. (gave a longer more detailed rant abt this LVM in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:13 AM
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we've been dating for 2 years and he's about to propose soon :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:10 AM
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just spent an hour trying to explain to a now ex-friend (and established LVM) about why a 30+ yo youtuber in our country having a 21 yo girlfriend (who, in our country, usually isnt even out of uni yet) is not right. i asked him "why cant he find someone his own age tho" and this LVM had the gall to reply "cos he cant find someone suitable in his age group." meanwhile he's like Age of Consent!1!1 She's An Adult!1!1!1 blah blah i shldve seen the signs...... this scrote used to like me and once ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:44 PM
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i love this list of green flags for HV friendships! thank you for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:10 PM
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sis thanks so much for this list!! my bf has been consistently showing HV behavior so far and this checklist has helped to solidify my thoughts on him being HV. will also send this to my bestie who is vetting a potentially HVM she has been dating for weeks now. (im a huge fan of him, as he suggested during a date that they postpone it, in favour of both of them helping one of her drunk close friends get out of a sketchy drunk situation.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 02:31 PM
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i dont wish to be making excuses for them, but libfem is usually teenage girls' introduction to feminism and womanhood. also, i doubt most teenagers are cognizant of people mistreating them. likely a self-esteem thing. granted, i was last a teenager 10 years ago, but i certainly went through the pick-me and Not All Men phase tho in smaller doses. and i was abused by my then-bf (absolute cheating nvm fker), and even exploited by my "best friends" then. of course i looked past those over and over …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:36 PM
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might as well get "PICK! ME!" and "internalised misogynist" tattooed on ur forehead luv xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:20 PM
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and you know most men wouldn't afford cos they would've gotten external help in the first place, if they could. now they just push the burden of the second shift to women, who, after working 9-5 same as men, have to come home to look after their ungrateful, depraved asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:19 PM
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what the actual fuck? i'm so glad you dumped him. men honestly have nothing but the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 09:51 AM
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this is also directly related to how capitalists frame productivity as dollar sign outputs above everything else. you're feeding your family, doing laundry, and taking good care of everyone? no $ tag means you are of no value. really irks me because household labour is so feminised. and then the misogynists come in and chime this same mantra that you've just articulated. uggggghhhhh. men wilfully ignore how the system is pitted against us because it benefits their lazy useless asses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:54 AM
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applies for lots, not just this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:51 AM
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yeah i agree, so maybe not randomised experiments but field and observational studies could work in this sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:16 AM
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this is highkey why i don't want to have a boy, on the off chance he turns out to be a misogynist, harassing POS but OTOH i don't want to have a girl either cos she would have to be exposed to such a misogynistic world...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:13 AM
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Halestorm - You Call Me A Bitch is a straight up anthem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:36 AM
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oh that's a pity. i've got no social media apart from reddit so idk lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:05 AM
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i bet her skin is this radiant from swerving low value men left and right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:17 PM
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men truly have nothing but the audacity. so delusional. glad you're out of that and doing so much better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:16 PM
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it's because they are projecting as fuck!! their depraved ass stares at any woman within 2m2 and think disgusting nasty thoughts so they assume every other man would do the same to their SO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:44 AM
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personally i have 1,000 over posts so it's a bit of a hassle to delete. nothing pda, only pics of us travelling or whatnot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:46 PM
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yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:31 PM
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no, i meant posts on your profile with your exes inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:30 PM
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job title is "influencer"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:33 AM
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i disagree with teachers, perhaps it's more pronounced in my asian hometown but most male teachers i know are heaps and bounds more caring, in tune with their emotions, and rarely display toxic masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:33 AM
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what do you lovely ladies feel about your current SO disliking posts of exes on your facebook or instagram feed? by feed i meant on your profile, sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:17 AM
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it's not just the effort he put in planning this, but also how he interacts with the children... he really, truly understands and loves and respects her! i'm tearing up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:05 PM
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maybe it's some pickmeisha behaviour, saying "my females" probably makes her feel more like one of the boys. typing this out is making me almost puke in my mouth again eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:47 AM
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"my females" made me throw up a bit in my mouth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:42 AM
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ah, men and evading responsibility they created for themselves. name a better duo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:38 AM
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as a radfem i don't hate men, i just hate men as a class. but it sure serves their interest in demonising us, to conflate the two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:40 AM
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she is this close to realising the truth of the matter jssjsjjss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:13 AM
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there's a facebook group called "so dystopian it's impossible to repackage as a feel-good story" which is so applicable here. what an amazing woman but the system truly failed her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:17 PM
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still don't understand why there are freaking mask deniers. of all things to deny! it protects both yourself and others but apparently covid, after your dear president trump has got it, is still a hoax innit? mask deniers are 10000% NVM imho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:43 PM
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i'm screaming bc i wear an engagement ring and i still have men coming up to me to say i'm gorgeous (in rather flattering, non-creepy ways). but yea ok. anything that contravenes libfem = we are ugly!1!1! and even if we were, it wouldn't be the end of the world. we are HVW not at all because of our looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:47 PM
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