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Chuckwagon1645/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:21 AM
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That video blew my mind last night. Stayed up a bit too late to finish it too. Completely worth. I always feel like discussions on religion are too polarized but this guy cut right to that juicy middle where the good stuff is. I haven't had a video effect me this way in a LONG time. 10/10. For the rest of you cucks reading, just go watch it.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 07:58 PM
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Therefore the males that were lucky to be born with the arbitrary set of attractrive features that females find desirable get a monopoly on prime pussy, even if those features are highly undesirable for society in general. Arbitrary? Nonsense. You just need masculine features. Work on displaying those to the best of your ability and chances are there will at least be SOME females that will give you a go. Sure, they may not be the ones you want but they will be what YOUR SMV can naturally acquire…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 06:50 PM
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Never mind. I googled it. Ketogenic diet. Looks like it makes sense. Thank you for that.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 11:02 PM
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This concept can apply to all women. You get more of what you subsidize as they say in economics. Don't want shitty women? Stop validating them.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 06:52 PM
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Oh it's REALLY bad in the military where I'm at. It's sooooo hard not to tell guys I work with that their wives are fucking whores and they're being drained and played. Just have to smile and nod my head like nothing is fucked up. I've already successfully predicted the cheating of one wife I knew. Her husband came to work and straight up told me and another guy we work with that we were right and she was cheating. It was sad but priceless.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:33 PM
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The military is an overlooked option for young guys with no options to get on their feet. Just don't get married before or during your enlistment and you'll be fine if your not retarded. Use their tuition assistance and take classes before you get out for free. Then use your GI bill to supplement your income while you either do more college or learn a trade. Pretty sweet deal if you're from bum fuck nowhere with no connections. Just avoid the politics and don't rank up to supervision positions.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 03:29 AM
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Social media is feminine as fuck in my opinion. It's basically you entering society's frame. If people care to keep in contact with you, they will call you or come visit.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 05:36 PM
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I was doing this since the beginning of October. I'm already on the wagon. Lol. Feel better than ever. Also add constant hydration to that and no breads/sugars outside of fruit.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 10:10 PM
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Kids have the most potential to change things too. Why some men are perfectly fine abandoning their kids I'll never know. They're literally handing over the control of the future to their slut ex's and BP society.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 05:02 PM
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At first I was going to disagree but then I realized where you were taking the comment and relaxed. Lol. Nobody loves unconditionally except maybe parents. Just the way it is.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 10:10 PM
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Never missing you simply being you. Do you miss women simply being themselves? Or do you value the oxytocin/dopamine they're presence releases in your brain? The first question is starting to sound more and more incoherent and ultimately the same as the second.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 05:17 PM
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I always get slightly irritated when people boast about doing "whatever the fuck they wanna do". The thing is even when you do what you want, it doesn't change the fact that some things are going to be better or worse for your life depending on wether you value short term or long term success. The wall is a perfect example of this. The partying thing will only bring a certain kind of satisfaction to certain kinds of people. If procreation and well raised children are a priority, the strategy wil…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 12:37 PM
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Nah man. No need to wish. What happened was all that could have happened given the circumstances. It was the only thing that was going to turn you into what you are now.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 06:33 PM
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Hmm. Good points. My problem with accepting religion stems from not being able to accept theism or any supernatural ideologies on a philosophical basis. I have no problem accepting certain aspects of religions like the family values bits. I think there are many of us on here that feel the same. The best friends I've ever had were Christians. It's just a bummer that religion MUST come as a package deal and people be forced to accept incoherent bullshit along with the good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 03:39 PM
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So what if that is "all of their value"? It may seem like a small part of what it means to be a valuable human being if you are expecting the productivity and rationality of men from them. The sex related stuff is what they bring to the table that men can't. That's why we value it. It sounds like you're dismissing those things as inferior with no justification. All of these things have their place. They're supposed to be complimentary.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 09:10 PM
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Not one single man alive believes his partner to be his equal and we need to help these men know it's ok and natural to feel this way and more importantly to act upon it and to verbalize it and shut these mouthy western cunts up once and for all. I think the entire phrasing of this is weird. For two things to be equal, they must be the same in value. Value depends on context. Men are valuable for different reasons than women are. When you start comparing men and women based on a single context o…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:20 PM
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why does your entitlement to a wife trump a woman's right to have a career and sexual freedom? TRP doesn't believe they are entitled to a wife. Are you even being sincere with this post? And since when is a career and sexual freedom mutually exclusive with marriage? If a woman decides to get married to a particular man and only have sex with him, isn't that her freely choosing to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 03:29 PM
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I certainly don't. Every fantasy I've ever had involved a chick that REALLY wanted it. Can't see how the other way is more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 03:00 PM
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I have. I just take the good AND bad experiences into consideration when I'm determining what I should expect out of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 06:04 PM
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I refuse to let that poison my views of the entire world. I don't understand this mindset. On one hand, you've had some rough experiences with some people yet you refuse to let those experiences shape your views. I think that is an unhealthy mindset in the long run. My views of people are directly tied to what my experiences of them have been. New experiences can always change that of course but I'll wait for the evidence instead of naively hoping it all really "isn't like that".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:22 PM
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Well then we agree. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 04:10 PM
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a smart enough person can detect negative qualities and counter-act their instinct. You can't negotiate attraction. You may be able to tell yourself no on pursuing a bad apple that you had the hots for but that doesn't change what you instinctively find attractive. The point the above poster was trying to make is that you can't truly rationalize yourself into finding certain things physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 03:11 PM
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I'm personally not a fan of make-up because it can have an ego-inflating effect on some women that would otherwise be more down-to-earth about their own value. The way they look in make-up can be pleasing at first but it makes me question what they look like with it off and further WHY they feel the need to wear it to begin with. If TRP wanted to be as objective as possible with judging female SMV, they would consider only the woman's body completely naked and without cosmetics on. Make-up can b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/16 07:43 PM
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I'm just now finishing my 8th year of active duty in the Air Force and I know EXACTLY what you're talking about. The spouse groups on facebook do nothing but constantly bitch and complain as if their opinions have merit. I think the NCO's and officers really get fed up dealing with spouse drama but are forced to remain silent most of the time because feelz. They've definitely noticed the trends of cheating wives and the problems these women bring to the work centers when everyone gets involved w…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 04:38 PM
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Awesome post man. I had some thoughts very similar to this recently and I came to the conclusion that narratives were the root cause of every dysfunctional mindset in humans. We're too idealized with media shoved in our faces 24/7. Taking a step away from all of it is what we're all really needing. We developed technology too fast and our biology is struggling to adapt.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 03:39 PM
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Say what you will about LTR's but I've never learned so much about social dynamics from any other decision. Most of the motivation to better ourselves stems directly from shitty LTR experiences. They are surprisingly loaded with deeper issues to understand and learn how to cope with. Issues that you just won't find in hook-ups.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 03:36 PM
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"Equal" is such a loaded term. I always blanked when people talked about being "equals" in a relationship. Like what the fuck was that supposed to really mean? You treat each other the exact same? That has to be the most boring fucking relationship. It's basically you giving them permission to treat you like another woman while you give them permission to act like a man.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 01:00 AM
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This is why I always repeat to myself "there is no such thing as a free lunch" on a daily basis. If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. I've known so many guys that thought they had this perfect scenario with a chick lined up. She had X,Y, Z qualities. Turned out to be sluts. Every. Fucking. Time.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 01:29 AM
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If you really want to vet a woman for marriage, find one that willingly takes her head out of the social media asshole. Not an easy task but it means you might have something to work with. Guys today are dating/wifeing up instagram/facebook whores that need make-up plastered to their faces to feel normal then wondering why it tanked. It was doomed from the start. Start looking for humility if you want it to last. Just don't be afraid to pull the plug when you need to.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 01:23 AM
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The obesity epidemic is due to the abundance of processed breads and sugars in everything. Not really meat to my knowledge. It is true though that most of our diet should be produce.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 04:35 PM
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I learned this one in the military myself. Ended up being forced to "self-admit" to their AA program. Wasn't half bad. They made us watch some shitty James Woods movie. My biggest beef with alcohol is just how much it clouds my head after consecutive use. I don't mind having a Guiness with a burger while out or something but sipping on scotch every night started to mess with my sleep eventually. Now I just put back water and black coffee all week and I feel waaaaaaaaaay better. Workouts feel bet…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 10:26 AM
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Can confirm. When I first began reading this sub around a year or two ago, it had me so pissed and anxious I could barely sleep after reading the stories. Then over time I calmed down because I realized that I was in full control over how much power I gave women over my life.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 03:30 AM
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Yeah I get the boner part. She's hot but...not someone I can see being a wife. For me personally, I won't consider a chick LTR worthy unless her demeanor and habits have HUMILITY written all over them. Someone who isn't full of themselves. Bitches like that are just so damn cocky it's obvious.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:26 AM
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This hit the nail on the head. Thank you. I consider myself somewhat attractive but I cannot stand the idea of fucking random sluts just be "alpha". It has nothing to do with my SMV. I could cash in on my SMV any time I wanted. I'm in shape, no debt, have my own shit. I would rather jack off into the Jesus T-shirt in my night stand than validate some vapid cunt and contribute to the things I hate about modern women. There I said it.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:16 AM
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I'm a bit curious as to how you didn't take one look at her and know she was bad news. Her demeanor screams "I'm going to eat your soul". Nothing pleasant or motherly about her. Maybe it's the paint-on face. I'm still unsure.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 05:58 AM
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And I'm willing to bet most people will have forgotten much much sooner than that. None of it matters. I don't agree with this sentiment. Never have. The implication is that anything that isn't memorialized in stone is irrelevant and void of all meaning. I think things we do still matter. They just matter in ways that aren't always surface level and to varying degrees. The ways you influence people can actually go a long way even if you're not aware of it. That's what the whole "male role models…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:02 PM
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Isn't this where all the fucked up kids are coming from?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 05:04 AM
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He has to accept the past of his girlfriend, he has to accept her keeping contact with male "friends", accept her going out in places that people go to fuck (bars, clubs...) without you... etc. If you go against all of the bullshit you are a controlling, jealous, asshole. That is all one massive shit test. One that I have personally failed. It's basically your social circle challenging your SMV versus hers. Everyone will take her side for the chance of getting a bit for themselves. If you meet a…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 03:23 AM
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Speaking of. I remember hearing a Three Days Grace song come out recently that sounded extremely beta. It was called "Last To Know(she found chad)"
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 07:17 AM
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I don't think TRP describes women as used up just because they've had a large amount of sex. You can stay with one person and have more sex than someone who's had multiple partners. At least as far as your body is concerned. What makes people "used up" are the mentalities and attitudes they develop due to their sexual exposure that present a significant risk when considering a LTR. Men and women both do this. It just seems to impact women a bit differently than men because they don't compartment…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/16 09:10 AM
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Yep. Been using tuition assistance while in the USAF. Still have that fat GI bill when I get out next year too. Awesome for poor guys but shitty for guys that have options and can go to college. Just don't wife up a dorm slut and take classes while you're in and you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 02:12 AM
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She was getting a lot of male attention and opening the relationship would mean she would bang 10 guys for every girl I could bang. I see dudes doing this a lot. They pay no mind to the social circle that she is getting all of this attention from or the social circle they found her in. The quality and quantity of people you hang out with will provide plenty of red flags for this shit pre-marriage. It's like some dudes just marry any sexually healthy/available chick that wants to "live it up" and…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 05:45 PM
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My largest take-away from reading TRP was the idea of sexual market value. The idea that the desirability of a person isn't always completely arbitrary or subjective has been helpful to me. It cleared up much of my confusion about the contradictory way people in my life behaved versus the things they professed to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 06:30 AM
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Well people fail at vetting for loyalty all the time so it seems obvious that we CAN not vet for it. I think what happens is we start assuming loyalty because we're young or something rather than trusting but verifying. It's considered rude to be that way these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 07:16 PM
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They talk about how women lack loyalty yet they are the ones not vetting for loyalty as a trait in an LTR. This one is a bit tricky because people are notorious for starting relationships with every intention of being faithful yet becoming unfaithful over time. So it's not that easy to vet for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 09:49 AM
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It's similar to how religions get some stuff right but can totally miss the mark in some ways. It's context dependent. TRP applies mostly to modern men interested in plating women. Some of it applies to relationships and marriage but not quite as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 09:25 AM
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Speaking as a father of two girls, I have been excited about both of them because I always wanted to be a big family man like my grandfather. That being said, I wanted at least one boy because I believe boys to be less likely to betray the values of their families. Boys are less likely to change their values once their minds are set where as girls tend to kind of just go with whatever social scene they're involved with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 08:01 AM
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I think God is an amazingly useful concept for the record. I respect the idea of God. I think God was conceived the moment humans could grasp the idea of perfection and we've been slowly trying to edge ourselves toward it. That's why religions have slowly evolved over time from polytheistic sun/moon deities to more complex monotheisms like the abrahamic religions.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 09:24 PM
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That could very well be it. It's not like the universe or God as you will call it, owes us a happy ending. That doesn't necessarily mean there can't be any point to living. My personal motivation for living is that I would rather live than be dead. This idea that the universe cares for us is the byproduct of ancient people projecting human qualities on the universe as a whole. In my view, we created God. In the grand scheme of things, I don't care if I'm rotten and forgotten. I'll participate in…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 11:02 PM
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I don't see how personally. Have you ever noticed how vague and poorly defined God concepts are? How would you define the deity you believe in? Is it an actual thing or just some version of a disembodied mind?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 09:13 PM
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Nothing honestly. Accept that you may naturally be low SMV in some permanent ways. Fix what you can. Find a humble, low-SMV female and see what you can make of it. They'll just be happy someone wants them for the time being. Apply TRP principles as usual.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 04:22 PM
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I see what you mean but don't you think there is a way to extract the useful part of beliefs without believing things that make no sense? I mean...how can nonsensical beliefs be useful anyways. I think a belief has to cohere to reality in some way to be useful.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 08:24 PM
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Yep. Terrible argument. It assumes you're in the clear by sticking to a single belief system. It's just fear mongering. The argument tries to exploit our fear of what happens when we die. It could very well be nothing. If so, that is a terrible way to waste your life time living in accordance with the wishes of he ultimate AMOG. It's just another way society wants men to submit.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 07:03 PM
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By being open to a possibility, you become open to a possible experience. If you are not open to it, you likely won't experience whatever it is even if it does occur. On the other hand, there are people who have been open to these experiences for years and it never happens like they're told it will. I grew up heavily religious. Got prayed through at altars all the time. The most that I would experience was an adrenaline rush and wishy-washy feelings of comfort because I was doing something that …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:18 PM
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I grew up in a Pentecostal family so I truly understand what you mean. The new age shit was a half-baked knee jerk reaction at best. I think there is a very reasonable middle ground here that I would guess most intelligent men eventually arrive at. The utility of traditional social attitudes coupled with modern scientific knowledge. Use what works. Discard the rest. It's not like we have to accept beliefs as sets anyways. We can mix and match.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:54 AM
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There is an entire generation of women growing up in environments that are damaging them so much that it is going to take YEARS for them to find themselves. Exactly. This is why nobody wins in the long-term when dudes ditch their kids. If men don't raise children to respect boundaries and have some fucking self-esteem, nobody does. Shit rolls down hill.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:31 AM
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I'm surprised there are religious red pill guys to be honest. Spiritual beliefs are almost always defended on the basis of some wish-thinking or appeal to emotion. That's why you always hear religious people say things like "you just gotta have faith" or "there has to be something more out there".
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:21 AM
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I think they just like it when you can do shit they can't.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:13 AM
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Eh...someone always wants a woman. Make no mistake about that. They don't end up alone. Some do but not most. Women just don't always end up with what they wanted and they regret not locking in a good deal. They don't regret the chads. They just regret not keeping it hidden.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 09:17 AM
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There are a good number of people who are poor because they get used to blowing their money on whatever they want and struggle to change that habit once they get a small family going. You'd be surprised how cheap you can live if you give it some serious effort. We don't need TVs, internet, smartphones, gaming mice, etc. That's all extra shit. Cut out things like that and watch how much money you begin to save. That money USED to go towards children. You can't say our spending habits have nothing…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 07:20 PM
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I really feel for you Christian RP'ers. I was raised in a Pentecostal family. Sexuality is only awkward from a religious angle today because it's being coupled with the modern idea of being much older when you marry and start a family. It wasn't always that way. It used to be normal to get married at like 15-18 and start popping out kids ASAP. That is when our bodies are ready to begin this stuff. Modern western society has created an environment that encourages people to hold off on progressing…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 09:21 PM
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And by definition, solipsism doesn't care about the distinction between fact and opinion. Solipsism can't care about anything...it's just a concept. Lol. If we consider the implications of solipsism, we can conclude that IF solipsism is true, then the only fact we can establish is the self. I'm not a philosophy student and I only have surface knowledge on this topic so I cant argue much further than this. I'm not either but I can't make heads or tails of some of the shit you've said here.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 11:05 PM
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"philosophical solipsism" is, by definition, an oxymoron How so? And solipsism isn't a good platform to debate about how language does or does not influence the direction of a mutual conversation. What the fuck does that even mean? We weren't even talking about how language influences conversation. We were talking about how solipsism shapes the way we could perceive facts versus opinions.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 09:18 PM
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Did you purposefully not address philosophical solipsism or metaphysical assumptions?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 04:34 PM
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It irritates me to no end when people keep saying "well that's just your opinion" in conversation though. It rarely adds anything to the discussion and it's basically someone admitting that they have no counter argument or don't know exactly why they "feel" your argument is bad. They just don't like it so they highlight the fact that it's an opinion. I might be wrong on this but aren't "facts" just extremely well supported opinions agreed upon by almost everyone when you factor in metaphysical a…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 09:22 AM
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It is set and forget. If she is disobeying the rules she is gone. This is the main point and I strongly agree. You shouldn't have to manually control a woman. When they actually WANT a LTR, they'll control themselves. They'll do it for you.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 03:02 PM
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He could have not...ltr'd a slut. Lol. So there WAS something.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 02:44 PM
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Sluthood doesn't start with a number. It starts when a female has a defective mate filter. The number is usually the result. Not the cause.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 06:11 PM
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I get his point and concern. The problem is that God was just a placeholder concept until humanity reached a point in philosophy and scientific understanding. It needed to be replaced with a more up to date idea. We're struggling to do that at the moment. Because when religions dissolve, people do in fact get more animal-like and hedonistic. Societies do require control. But self-control perferably. Not dictated from an authority figure. Otherwise you end up with unproductive, dysfunction like w…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 05:31 PM
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Noted. Thanks for the insight. Honestly, TRP is more useful for being a father than it is for being a boyfriend or husband.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 11:25 PM
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Same. I have a daughter and another on the way and I'm still mentally preparing for how I'm going to handle their bullshit as they grow. I don't want to push them into covert sluthood by being a controlling dick but I also know that they'll take a mile when you give them an inch. A balance is needed I guess.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 10:11 AM
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Women will not sacrifice themselves for you No and they're not supposed to. That is for their children. women will not be loyal to you, Ones that actually need you and are afraid of losing you will. a woman doesnt even have to love you or like you to fuck you. Can say the same for men honestly. Are these expectations even realistic now? Women feel no empathy for men. She will never ever appreciate the things you do for her. Sure they do. Only men they care about. Sure she will. When you do what …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 07:11 AM
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In my opinion, it's you that hasn't swallowed the whole thing because you're projecting how men love on women and saying they can't love as a result. They can love. They just love in a more emotionally-based way. It's not the sacrificial kind you see from some men. So should we really be expecting women to love that way in the first place? I think not.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 06:27 AM
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Your entire preceding argument is based on a belief, not on rationality. Dude. You're just throwing words together and calling it philosophy. Every argument is based on a belief. Even your own. Beliefs can either be rational or irrational depending on the evidence for them and how coherent they are. Beliefs aren't mutually exclusive with "rationality". You are profoundly confused and seem to be thinking you're some deeply philosophical person or something. You have an entry level understanding o…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 05:47 PM
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You claim there is a fundamental illogical nature to our existence. I don't see the illogical part you're talking about. Every thought, desire, drive, etc. is biological as in it occurs in the body(the brain mostly). I wouldn't necessarily say programmed because these thoughts can vary depending on our environment/conditions. There is a subconscious part of the mind that is heavily influenced by our biology but still...I don't see how you get from "we are purely biological things" to "therefore …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:16 AM
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ab·surd: wildly unreasonable, illogical, or inappropriate. What is so absurd about believing some people have good reasons for wanting to stay alive? I said SOME optimism might be reasonable. I should further elaborate that I believe this is context dependent. It isn't for every situation. You claim not to be a pessimist but then claimed that people have taken a leap of faith of some sort if they HAVEN'T put a bullet in their brain. I'm trying to understand you but that was seriously contradicti…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 05:10 PM
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No I don't have any belief that there is necessarily more to life than we know or can know. I don't require that life be anything other than what it is to be satisfied. I accept a belief if it seems to reflect reality and will be useful for decision making. We aren't necessarily in an "absurd" condition. That is another leap you have taken. I'm not taking those leaps.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 06:15 AM
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Faith as in trust or faith as in belief held with little or no empirical evidence? I would think that despair comes from having a kind of "faith" that everything is inevitably going to shit with there being nothing humans can do about it. Since we are uncertain of the future, some optimism is reasonable it seems to me.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 06:15 PM
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Hmm. What would you say is "true despair" and why would it take a leap of faith to overcome?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 06:05 AM
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Depends on where that leap of faith takes you. You just might leap into more despair. I respectfully disagree with Kierkegaard. Nietzsche's take on Nihilism makes much more sense in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 07:24 PM
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I found out that my mom actually branch swung on her ex-husband to land my dad. Both men were in the army. She was a military whore more or less. I love her and all but when I figured out the nature of how my family formed, I lost some respect for her AND my dad. She actually admitted to revenge fucking some random guy in my dad's hometown while he was visiting brothels in Germany. That was the day TRP really hit home.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 07:13 PM
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Maybe it will teach the other guy why you don't try to wife up obvious branch swingers. He had this coming to him.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 07:06 PM
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Funny how people call it "the" club instead of "a" club.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 07:02 PM
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The Legend of Dragoon was better...;)
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 06:52 AM
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Become the guy who feeds the betas and materialistic chumps shit that hey don't need nor really want. You're not going to do the world any favors this way. It's pointless. If you're not a part of the solution, then you're a part of the problem.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 06:48 AM
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You lose the game if you have to manually hide a woman yourself. A woman who wants to keep her man will hide herself from the world to avoid problems. All out of respect. It's called modesty. Females in mass lost it when the big culture changes settled in. It sounds shitty to call it "hiding" but essentially that is what it boils down to. Bad women will constantly try to reach maximum display in the market place. Good ones will be happy with little to no display if they are happy with their purc…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 04:46 PM
4

Is being a married couple with children THAT much more advantageous than just cohabitating and having children?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 08:05 AM
1

Right?! This new need for "smart, respectable" women is retarded. The only respectable things a woman can do that relate to men are raise the children well and control their hypergamy. Neither of which they need any kind of education for. Everything else is just shit to improve their own resale value if things don't work out. My brother is a perfect example. Always used to brag about how smart his wife was. She was going to school to be a paralegal or something. Started branch swinging on his as…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 10:26 PM
1

That is an interesting idea. I will definitely do more reading. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 05:16 PM
0

So is the Torah not the written history and will of the Hebrew deity? I'm not sure if I understand how calling it a "documentation of Natural Laws" addresses this point. I get how it can be interpreted as an early attempt at describing productive sexual dynamics between male and female homo sapiens but the extra bits about deities, heaven, hell, etc. seem like an attempt to sell this "product" to masses of ignorant people afraid of death.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 05:30 AM
1

Did they not believe in a deity? Mainly Yahweh after the shift to monotheism. Before that, I've read that they worshiped an entire pantheon of deities. El Elohim, Ashirah, Baal, etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 07:16 PM
2

Yeah, religions had some valuable wisdom that we have been all too eager to forget. The Achilles heel of religions was always their reliance on the supernatural. In an age of science, it sticks out like the end of a thread in a finely-knit sweater. It makes it easy to criticize and disregard on philosophical grounds. I preferred not to throw the baby out with the bath water myself and keep the ethical/social bits that worked for me.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 06:32 PM
1

Science can't satisfy man's need for meaning and purpose. Indeed, humanity's deepest desires and motivations don’t manifest as concrete objects that can be collected and tested under laboratory conditions. This inability to reduce humans to pure materiality seems to be evidence for Man being “special” and different from the rest of the universe. I don't think this part is necessarily true. It was never the purpose of the scientific method to answer strictly philosophical questions. Human desires…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 06:27 PM
2

You've been cheated on and want badly to stay with the chick. I can tell by the way you wrote this. I have been in the same boat buddy. I SEENT IT! (lol). I feel for you. I truly do. You need to cut your losses if no kids are involved. It's just not worth the climb over THAT big of a shit mountain.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 07:02 PM
10

My favorite hobby is outing promiscuous sluts to their whole social circle. Just grab some popcorn and watch the hamster hit warp speed. Sometimes, if they're lazy with their technique, they start outing each other out of spite. That's when it gets HILARIOUS.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 04:53 PM
3

Not an argument. At the end of the day, it was you bitching about the experience on reddit. She's probably got a younger chad balls deep in her by now. One that didn't have to go for low hanging fruit to succeed.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 03:22 PM
1

25 for me personally. Adult brains are fully developed by then on average.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 03:18 PM
4

You might see this a different way if you had a daughter. I'm not saying she's innocent by any means but compared to how "aware" you are of what is going on versus her, it's no contest. She probably intuitively understood that by the shit you were doing and got freaked out. Instead of hamstering her away as some "prude" afraid of sexuality you should think about how interesting it was that a chick demonstrated some self-control and good decision making for once.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 06:37 AM
0

The dude posted it here so criticism is fair game. I didn't claim the chick was innocent. I never said "pedo" either. I can judge whatever the fuck I want.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 06:32 AM
-7

I'm not saying you shouldn't go for younger women but come on...19 when you're 30? The maturity and life experience gap is just too huge for that to be fair game. She's a kid. Her frontal lobes aren't even fully developed.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 05:10 AM
0

Alpha compassion may not expect immediate returns but all human behavior is purposeful to some end and thus the sharing of wealth is intended to inspire others with the reward of other people being happier with themselves and less likely to try and drag you down. So there kind of IS a reward if you think about it on a macro scale.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 05:33 PM
63

This was...unexpected. TRP is shit testing me...
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 06:02 PM
1

It's not that life is necessarily meaningless but rather that you weren't satisfied with the realization that life doesn't have one single all-encompassing meaning for everyone. Life can have whatever meaning you give it.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 02:20 PM
1

The concept still stands. It's fine that people sometimes get emotional. The issue is in promoting emotional vulnerability to men when it is often something that people will subconsciously hold against them and be repulsed by. Societies just don't like emotionally weak men. Especially when it comes to leadership. Rightly so. Emotional people are shitty leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 10:11 PM
1

Toxic masculinity is a straw man. People aren't telling men they HAVE to be strong in the way feminists are claiming. Less in-shape men just don't like the discomfort of not being as sexually/socially successful as the men that work their asses off in a gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 09:31 PM
2

I think loyalty ultimately correlates with risk and opportunity for both men and women. Economically, there are more incentives for women to divorce than ever before, so they do. Nothing surprising. Yet when we look at the highest value males, we see a similar phenomenon. High value men generally pump and dump women like there is no tomorrow. They have more opportunity and incentive than ever before with dating apps. We are just too social these days for the average relationship to stand a decen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 08:53 PM
2

Usually it's a little of both with most people not addressing the moral side of it. I think it's a terribly irresponsible choice that leaves society worse off after the fact. But that's just me speaking. TRP is often described as a toolset. How we use it is up to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 09:45 AM
2

That's the thing. There is no "grand wizard". It's just a series of notes and advice. Mostly from observation. The side bar material even has a link about how "amoral" this advice is. It's called "sexual strategy is amoral". The material isn't inherently moral or immoral. That's up to the readers to decide for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:20 AM
3

Regardless, moral opinions aren't specifically advocated for on the TRP. That is a common misconception. Just because some guy in the anger phase is ranting away doesn't mean that TRP itself endorses what he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 06:11 AM
23

He's not alone in that either. It's the primary reason I'm separating from the military myself. Had a "best friend" I was stationed with betray me the exact same way. Military bases are cesspools of hypergamy. I've actually witnessed enlisted females going from unit to unit fucking their way up the chain of command. They talk so much about "professionalism" but it's just a giant front for publicity.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 04:40 AM
1

Well the important thing to note is if you have to conceal things about yourself to include things you've done with other people in order to save your reputation or image, you're being deceptive. Just own what you've done like an adult. If someone wants to know, tell them. Anything else is dishonest and you deserve whatever damage you do to the relationship because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 03:41 AM
1

Here is the thing with that, just because someone convinces themselves they have a need, that doesn't mean it's rational or reasonable. Many women today simply fall on their own sword by being validation whores and creating the problems they complain about. It sometimes has very little to do with the man they are with. Men don't start out perfect. There needs to be room for mistakes and learning from them for any LTR to work. The current social habits of young people simply doesn't allow for tha…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:12 PM
-1

To each his own. You won't understand until you hold your own newborn in your hands.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 07:16 AM
0

Because there is something priceless about watching a tiny human you create learn how to be an adult. If you do your job right, they'll end up taking care of you when you're old. Especially the girls. Otherwise, enjoy the nursing home.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:00 AM
2

Could you slightly elaborate on Child Support Laws? I've never done much reading on them but it always seemed like the idea was fair. Maybe not the implementation. It's a sad thing to watch a man ditch a kid he created. I'm starting to think that's where all these BP guys are coming from.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 04:03 PM
0

I'm not finding any mention of a bill. Please enlighten me. :)
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 05:15 PM
-1

I take it you didn't have to pay for anything. If so you just used taxpayer money to bail you out of the consequences of your own decisions. Hope you feel happy.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 07:56 AM
1

Try not to confuse atheists with philosophical naturalists. They aren't the same. Physical reality does exist. That much we know. The rest is based on appeals to ignorance and wishful thinking.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 02:03 PM
2

Health benefits in the military are a no-go if you aren't married. I have done my fair share of reading on here and want a legal divorce more than anything but my wife has had some serious medical bills due to an unexpected pulmonary embolism that resulted from giving birth to my daughter. She deserves the benefits so I remain married to her for the time being. I think it is reasonable. It's either a legal divorce or a postnuptial at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 07:53 AM
4

Logical doesn't equal emotionless. Responsibly dealing with our emotions in a productive way is a logical thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 08:13 PM
1

Let me guess...so she can dump the guy later when it's convenient? This is Briffault's Law in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 04:30 AM
1

No choice? Like you can't end the relationship? Its interesting to me that controlling behavior is always claimed after the fact of a failed relationship instead of it being a deal breaker during.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 02:09 AM
1

Have you ever seen these women cry about abuse or "controlling" behavior then turn around and cheat on their men? I've seen plenty of that in the military. Just because a woman FEELS abused doesn't mean she is. Nowadays, women feel "controlled" just because a boyfriend or husband expresses disapproval of them going clubbing or dressing like a slut everywhere they go. Nobody should be controlling anyone I agree. But at the same time, you can't expect a man not to have boundaries. Too many cases o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 01:56 AM
6

It doesn't take much effort to treat women like shit in all honesty. Just act as if they're job is to keep you instead of it being your job to keep them.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 04:21 PM
3

A girl that WANTS to be a particular guy's "girl" isn't going to be going out to bars alone with other men. You can see this shit coming a mile away sometimes. Girls that have certain lifestyles just aren't dating material or worth the investment. The percentage might be high but that's just the state of affairs after feminism 2.0.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 05:43 PM
2

That won't save you from them fabricating a reason to justify getting their fix.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 05:38 PM
3

These kinds of posts are refreshing when most of the talk about meaning or purpose happens to dip into religious or supernatural bullshit. I see spirituality as the ultimate blue pill. The comfy illusion of a happy ending or eternal life in some form. Reality does not owe us a happy existence. We are likely just going to die and that's it. For me, that has always been enough to be satisfied. The rest is emotionally charged nonsense. Being upset that we might not get an afterlife is like being up…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 10:56 PM
3

DBZ definitely had a positive effect on me as a kid. I never could get really into the softer shows like Pokemon. My dad absolutely hated coming home and finding me and my brother watching DBZ. Partly because he realized that he didn't really put in the effort to instill masculinity into us.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 04:55 AM
0

Well if you want to be held to the standards of women then go for it. All it does in the long run is dig the hole deeper. Giving them more ammo against men
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 09:21 AM
6

Let's try the same statements but reverse the sexes. "She banged some Chad so what? Shes a woman, its natural for her to be the hypergamist, and him to be the opposite."
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:40 AM
6

Honestly, not keeping promises and losing control are beta qualities. Cheating is breaking a promise.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 03:24 AM
11

The way I see it, Valentine's day is a cultural shit test. Because the hive mind believes that if you don't do something "special" on the designated day, then you don't really care about/love the person you're with. Participating in Valentine's day perpetuates the feminine narrative by socially stigmatizing people who don't do anything.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 07:33 PM
3

I consider birth control a red flag. Not only does it allow a woman to avoid the consequences of cuckolding, it spikes their hormone levels. Club skanks might need it but it has no place in a serious LTR.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 02:43 AM
1

In my experience, every group gets a bad rep from the vocal extremists within them. From my perspective, I rarely encounter a Christian that actually understands the theory of evolution or basic philosophical concepts.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 07:25 PM
31

I'm in the same boat at 25. My perspective on it has improved recently when I recognized that many Christian men are red pill men naturally. While I don't agree with them on the spiritual shit, I always find common ground with them in their hobbies. They make for some of the safest friends. Years ago I made the mistake of always being in the company of liberal, hipster minded people my own age because they tended to agree with me about religion but for different reasons. Mainly being that they d…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:29 PM
1

I honestly don't see the issue with threads like these. This post addressed a very big "elephant" in the room of this sub. I guess the beautiful thing is at least guys of every kind of view are somewhat agreeing on the nature of women after a bit of experience with them.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 09:59 PM
1

Gnosticism is about your degree of certainty. Not what you believe.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 03:12 PM
2

Shhh. Just learn to love it. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 03:03 PM
2

I've had similar realizations about religious teachings myself. I respect the teachings a great deal but every one I have examined requires a spiritual catalyst to become accepted by the masses. This is the element of religion I find disturbing and counterproductive to intellectual growth. The moral bits are all on point but the supernatural bullshit that is stapled to it is nonsense when you fully analyze it in depth.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:29 PM
1

There might be higher quality out there somewhere but what are the odds of actually finding it? Probably pretty slim depending on where OP is from.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:25 PM
2

I can understand feminism but secularism? Come on. Religion is the ultimate blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 04:28 AM
1

Hey Milo! I sense a subtle link between RP ideas and religious conservatism. I've spent a good deal of time studying philosophical concepts and examining religious arguments myself and I completely understand the motivations for being religious. However, I notice that the religious motivations become an easy point of criticism for left feminist types. My question to you is do you think that the men's rights movement would benefit from not using religious arguments against the left? I'm of the op…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 12:05 AM
2

So does childcare in a scenario like this involve daycare or other people spending most of the day with your children? That doesn't sit well with me. I see nothing wrong with the female committing to full motherhood as long as she doesn't get lethargic and instead finds useful hobbies like gardening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/15 09:02 PM
4

Oh man that reminds me. If you do join the military DO NOT start fucking the chicks you work with. They're batshit insane and entitled out the ass because they get constant attention from male peers.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:49 PM
4

Can definitely confirm. Living proof. Married my "unicorn" from high school. I was with her for 3 or 4 years before I left. Get stationed somewhere new. I decide to bring her along. She gets a taste of the world and an actual social life. What do I get in return? Wife starts banging a guy from my shop on the opposite shift. Hamsters it away as I was just being "too mean". Don't do what I did and buy into that whole "guys and girls can be friends" bullshit. They almost always cannot because of th…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:12 PM
0

When I decided to ditch religion, I somewhat threw the "baby out with the bath water". I tried to completely go the other way which was right into the progressive/feminist narrative. I learned that lesson quick though. The social values that come from religion can be discerned with common sense and a little experience. It just sucks that it commonly gets packaged in with supernatural bullshit like organized religion.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 05:56 AM
13

Those "valid" defenses usually boil down to emotional tirades or appeals to ignorance. That may cut it for some but I personally can't be that intellectually lazy and feel okay about it. When people I know personally defend the idea of god, I can't help but think they are just personifying their ignorance of the universe to give themselves a sense of hope and comfort.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 09:10 AM
2

I see a lot of men trying to wife up sluts in their youth. Especially in the military. Younger guys pick women out to marry like they would a new motorcycle. They find the sleekest one with the coolest paint job. You can tell that their attraction is entirely superficial yet they'll make up reasons in their head for why she's smart, funny, etc. She usually turns out to be nothing particularly special. They want an arm trophy. Women do this too but my god is it painfully obvious when men are doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/15 03:28 PM
2

Right. I'm not saying we should hope to stop the tingles. The tingles are useful. It's to make them as aware as possible to the idea of how women get played by dark triad men.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 07:55 AM
2

That's the job of a good father. To teach his daughter about that dynamic and to encourage her to avoid it by showing her real life examples.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 07:12 AM
-3

That sounds an awful lot like a male hamster to me. Is that the only justification you can find for it? The world isn't a fairy tale? Sounds like an excuse for shitty male behavior to me.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:33 AM
2

A different reaction? Why? Surely a daughter deserves the same treatment for being a female no?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 03:31 AM
-6

This the most ironic mindset some here have. They don't want the female to have any real power in a relationship but feel fine abusing their own power. Is this how you'd want someone treating your daughter if you had one?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:21 AM
5

Woah there little guy. Go easy on the assumptions will ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 06:36 AM
2

You're confusing basic reasoning with logic. Logic is the practice of correct reasoning. There are rules to logic. People are usually because they don't examine their beliefs deeply enough.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 05:51 AM
5

Alright then. Sorry to bother you Dr. Banner.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 10:28 PM
163

At around 48:30, Stephan pins her down on what she's really after. She's already got long time "friends" in mind. I'll bet my left nut she's already got this shit going. She's just trying to rationalize it and get him to go along with it so she can ease that conscience. LOL.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:44 AM
8

That's really the thing successful relationships get right. If you can avoid all of the situations that lead to affairs, that is half the battle. People like to pretend they are more in control of themselves than they really are. Especially young women. Can't tell you how many times I've heard a chick say "I could never do that to him" just to be caught cheating later because she kept putting herself in situations for it. Play with fire enough times and you get burned. Mate guarding shouldn't be…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 12:49 AM
1

That's just the thing though. IF he finds out. From my experience, people only find out when the chick in question is sloppy about hiding it. Just imagine all of the LTRs that are still going just because the guy hasn't found out yet. I think the only viable options are to screen hard for a marriage worthy woman(90% won't cut it) or just avoid LTRs altogether. Having to control a girlfriend or wife just means that they don't give a shit about your boundaries and they're really looking for someth…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 12:32 AM
2

Because I'm not that solipsistic and I actually care about the state of the dating/marriage market. I'm interested in working to find solutions to these problems instead of throwing my hands up and pretending nothing about other people's problems will ever effect me.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 06:02 PM
5

And, plus, it's just distasteful to me to play with people's life goals and aspirations for your own benefit. You think they actually know what their "goals" are really going to be in 10+ years? Fuck no. It amuses me anytime someone tries to have a serious relationship with a "career" woman. They're trying to be men for the most part. You have already lost if you attempt such a thing. You guys can claim "abundance" as the answer all you want but some of us don't want to go around fucking these u…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 03:40 AM
4

Yeah I bought into it hook line and sinker myself. Wanted nothing to do with "traditionalism" because I associated all of the ideas with religion. Then I read a sweet quote by Bruce Lee and it changed my mind about "worldviews" and what kind of values I was "supposed" to have. It went something like: “Absorb what is useful, discard what is useless and add what is specifically your own”.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 05:14 PM
11

Be super careful how you detach from religion. Keep in mind that while the supernatural bits may be bullshit, the social values it promotes are still valuable today. I have been there with my own family and I think it may be best not to even mention it to them. Causes more problems than it solves. I honestly think that religions are the ultimate blue pill mentality. They are collections of things we believe as a species to make ourselves feel better about the certainty of death in an indifferent…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 09:18 PM
4

IT'S NOT FUCKING SAYING ALL WOMEN ARE THIS WAY. IT'S SAYING ALL WOMEN CAN BE THIS WAY GIVEN THE RIGHT CIRCUMSTANCES. HOLY SHIT. STOP GETTING BUTTHURT THAT PEOPLE CAN BE PREDICTABLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 06:47 AM
6

Do you have the same attitude towards groups of women that belittle and disrespect men? It seems culturally acceptable to belittle men but not the opposite. Most of what pops up in subs like TRP is the "equalizing" of this double standard. It is currently taboo to speak of the shortcomings of women. That is why they do it so heavily in that sub. As far as TRP is concerned, respect should only go to those who deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 06:39 AM
1

I can definitely relate. I was really into MMOs at one point until I realized they require too much time to excel at. Between work and trying to knock out college courses, I really only have time for matchmaking style games like MOBAs.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 02:11 AM
1

Agreed. Faith needs to stop being peddled as a virtue though. It's really just gullibility.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 10:31 PM
1

You may have misunderstood what I meant. Belief is just the acceptance of something as at LEAST somewhat true. You either have beliefs or you don't. Certainty may not be binary but belief seems to be as far as I can tell.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 10:30 PM
1

Well it's also a huge risk when an LTR is going through a rough patch. They could have no real intention to cheat but still end up doing it because an orbiter recently increased his SMV for example. Any LTR scene is constantly changing. An orbiter yesterday can turn into a chad tomorrow if the circumstances are right. They become a dick in a glass to break in case of emergency. Too much risk IMO. At least if you're married. With just plates or girlfriends it's probably not that big a deal becaus…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:43 PM
1

I think I'm in agreement with you for the most part except for the whole possibility of intelligent design part. We should always leave room for doubt but I still think possibility is a claim that needs justification. We can say things like a Bigfoot are possible because we have reason to suspect that creatures like that can exist. We have no solid definition to work with when it comes to deities. Every definition of a deity I've ever heard is too vague to investigate or is logically incoherent …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:18 PM
1

Gnosticism and theism address two different questions though. They aren't necessarily mutually exclusive. Gnosticism deals with knowledge(certainty) or if something is knowable. Theism deals with belief. So to me, agnosticism is often used as a copout to the question of what people believe or do not believe about deities. Just my personal pet peeve.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:10 PM
1

I'm still reading up on it. I'm unsure what fields are more promising. I'm currently working as an avionics tech in the military but I want to get some education behind me that I can use on the outside.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:02 PM
2

Right. It's a top down approach that only goes in circles because it starts with faulty assumptions. Garbage in garbage out. What I can say for most monotheistic religions is that some of their social values are pretty spot on. Especially their views of women. I've noticed that it is these values that often keep people believing there is something that just feels "right" about religion. Many people see it as a package deal. Anyone who claims to be an atheist or feminist is automatically assumed …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 05:31 PM
1

What was making you decide to get away from IT? I'm considering it myself.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 05:22 PM
4

It would help if things like religion weren't actively discouraging critical thought. It's truly sad.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 06:27 AM
3

No it isn't. At best, it's a temporary gain to a minority of men at the expense of the rest. Not to mention the fucked up children and cesspools of STDs and dysfunction that result from it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 08:52 PM
2

She's in her early 20's dude...just wait. She's still fairly inexperienced with the social "game" that gets played on young women. If she ever gains a new social group that has any sluts in it, she will be tested. Even well brought up "conservative" girls will crave the attention it brings.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 05:56 PM
1

That sounds more like a soft reset. I'm talking about hard ones where they completely rid themselves of social groups that facilitated/encouraged the shit they did. But it sounds like your dad framed it right. Make it known that if THEY want to keep the thing they claim they care about, they have to do the work to keep it. Not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 07:19 PM
2

They weren't exceptions to AWALT by any means or they wouldn't have been trying to slut it up to begin with. All of the girls in question were in "happy relationships" as they exclaimed on facebook every week or so.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 03:48 AM
2

I think it is the most rational response in most cases. I've also seen cases where the guys were able to reframe the whole relationship by doing a "social reset". It only worked because the girl in question was low partner count, young, and willing to drop friends and change habits. Outside of a scenario like that, it's fucked and there is most likely nothing to salvage.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 02:23 AM
2

I could write an entire post about how I see religion as the ultimate blue pill fantasy. The context is just swapped from sexual strategy to humanity's inability to cope with the finality of death. I'm completely on board with the social effectiveness of organized religions, I just hate how it comes coupled with bullshit claims of souls and afterlives. The point behind claims like these is to give people hope in the face of looming death. Something that has never been easily dealt with given the…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 07:54 AM
1

Keep in mind that messing with female tubes can cause hormone problems. Vasectomies don't.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/15 09:44 PM
3

My parents did yeah. As a result, I'm one of the only people in my high school social group to own a home. I don't consider myself in any redpill cult. I take a Bruce Lee approach to all "advice". If it works, use it. If it doesn't, ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 09:20 PM
3

I remember people with parents like that in high school. They're addicted to drugs now. Their parents just thought they would figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 08:17 PM
1

So you feel it is best to stay ignorant of these things to stay happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 10:57 PM
3

Being from a religious household as a kid, this comment interests me a good bit. When I actively started to disbelieve in God concepts, I encountered my first identity crisis. Luckily I came out of it still socially conservative after I carefully reasoned out why I wanted to keep the values I was taught. I don't believe the higher power concept is necessary but I do understand how simple it is to instill in children. I think it often has the effect of hindering their critic thinking skills by te…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 07:57 PM
5

Vasectomies don't effect testosterone production. It's not the same as being neutered. They just sterilize the sperm. You still ejaculate and stay just as masculine. That is a common misconception about it. My grandpa was the most RP man I know and he got one so my grandma didn't have to get her tubes tied which is a much more complicated and risky process.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/15 08:54 PM
1

This is an interesting topic for sure. I got married for safe sex and to have at least one child. I originally didn't want children because I was concerned with overpopulation but one replacing two would still be a net loss. Maybe the kid will take care of me when I'm old so I don't have to die in a nursing home. I hate those. Granted this was done before I did any research on relationship statistics and dynamics but interestingly enough, I haven't had to deal with too much shit I see drag down …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/15 08:31 PM
1

"Funny how shit works out" -Billy Bob Thorton
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 06:36 AM
1

He not only got off scot-free, he had our boss on his side and I was transferred to another unit to avoid conflict. Guys like that are everywhere in the military. The same ones that get up and give briefings about "doing the right thing" or "having integrity".
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 05:38 AM
1

You could say I learned it the hard way. I hadn't discovered TRP back then. I had no idea how to handle any of it. The military family culture is absolute garbage indeed. Bases are breeding grounds for cuckolding and hypergamy. The mental help clinic is NEVER empty. Literally half of the gas station on base is a fucking liquor store.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 05:31 AM
1

Couldn't prove it. Trust me I tried. I pulled up deleted messages with third part software and shit. Wasn't enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 05:22 AM
1

A kid isn't an adult though. They require a different approach. My dad beat my ass when I acted up. If anything it made me more assertive as an adult because I know what real aggression is and why it is effective.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 01:12 AM
1

As for the story, it happened as followed: Wife and me move to new city together from high school. Got our own place. My new social group being in the military was full of beta married men and covert whores. I was redpillish being from the south with a mix of beta qualities so I had no idea what was going on. Thought it could never happen to me. Wife was a unicorn in my eyes. We were each other's firsts. Had been together several years before marriage. She started with the clubbing with girl fri…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 11:52 PM
2

Just be weary that all of the "exploring" won't necessarily have a magic barrier that prevents it from going too far. Once it goes too far it's usually too late. She might as well be a lesbian if you aren't enough. Setups like that always tend to inflate their egos to a point that they think "all these people want me so I must be really something". That's the mentality that will cause them to cheat. Especially if it wasn't communicated to you prior to the act. It means she has very little respec…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 11:30 PM
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She's possibly already been with men too dude. That was how I found out about my situation. The trickle started with just fooling around with female friends then found out she had been fucking one of my male friends. Wait for some more bits of the truth as time passes. Fucking AWALT. Oh and please realize that this relationship is probably over unless she is willing to do a HARD social reset. I'm talking about her dropping friends, hobbies, whatever put her in those situations needs to be cut fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 06:27 PM
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Undergarments keep you guys limp? Jesus fucking Christ no wonder marriage is so fucked these days. My wife can literally sneeze and my dick gets hard. I'm always ready to lay pipe like there is no tomorrow. Don't be like them and make a fuss over meaningless shit. Pajamas can come off. Nothing should look better than a birthday suit anyways.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 01:42 AM
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You let that nasty cunt touch your dick? God you handled that like a bitch. I'd have smacked her and claimed sexual assault.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 11:47 PM
1

Okay then enjoy your time on the cock carousel. Try not to choke to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 04:55 PM
1

So the word All doesn't actually mean All, correct? Wrong. It does. It means ALL of them have the capacity for that behavior because it is socially and biologically ingrained. All men have the capacity for shitty behavior as well. Should I explain that one more time for good measure? So what about when Tpers say "Women are like children," It's a generalization based on an observed pattern. Women tend to make decisions based on their feelings instead of reasons. To the majority of women, how they…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 08:34 PM
1

"All Women Are Like That" does not mean "All Women DO That". There is a difference. It means they have the potential for it. Not that they will always act on it. Some are shamed out of it when they realize it makes no logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 06:45 AM
1

Yes as a matter of fact. It is happening to my brother. My brother agreed to an open relationship with his wife who had a kid by another man prior to marrying him. She wasn't satisfied with the first man so she ended up with my brother. Got tired of my brother. Asked for the open relationship after a series of nights out clubbing(interestingly enough). Later confirmed she already had man #3 lined up prior to asking. She has had a child with my brother as well. This woman has NEVER been completel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 06:40 AM
1

There will always be a better partner. That's the whole point. You'll end up chasing a constantly shifting goal post. It's like how someone doesn't have to try every drug out there to understand it's probably best for their sanity and health to avoid hard drugs altogether. Because AFTER the fact is pretty much too late. If I'm going to invest my time in another person, I'm going to be damn sure to get the best of their time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 06:28 AM
2

It's not exactly JUST a matter of taste though. Reproductive health is risked by having more casual sex lives. I agree we shouldn't necessarily be angry at women who choose to be that way but you gotta admit it DOES create a culture that is toxic to married life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 06:21 AM
1

Well it all depends on what the guy in question is trying to achieve with his sex life. Does he want a stable marriage or does he just want to get his dick wet? Does he want something in between? Different strategies are required for different goals. I would argue that a monogamous long term relationship benefits most from low partner counts. Pair bonds are strongest when you don't have much to compare another person to. The whole "ignorance is bliss" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 06:17 AM
1

I personally think it should. At least that approach wouldn't validate promiscuity in the process. Most RP men just don't care that much because they think its a lost cause. They see the sexual market as completely fucked until some cultural reset happens. The irritating part is that women don't generally prefer men who are equally inexperienced. There is no solid incentive for men to be as selective or exclusive. They're looked at as pussies or betas if they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 07:50 PM
1

That's the thing though. It's not completely either/or with being an adult vs being a child. There are many "adults" who are nothing but grown children. It's more like a continuum. Physical force is pointless after a certain age anyways. Many people make the mistake of overlooking childish behavior when they form relationships. It's easy to do with women because it's considered "normal" for a good portion of the female population to continue acting childish in adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 07:08 PM
2

You're talking about cherry picked bits where some angry guy that got cuckolded was venting. Positions like that aren't something that TRP sub actually endorses as a whole. You're overreacting to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 05:49 PM
1

i.e. women are inferior, women have less cognitive reasoning ability, women are hypergamous and that's she'll leave you when a guy with bigger arms and a fatter wallet comes along because she's a slave to her vagina, and so on. That shit happens. They're not saying ALL WOMEN do this. They are saying these are general behavior patterns. You seem to be doing a good bit of cherry picking yourself. Go ask TRP if most of them think women are actually inferior. You will find most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 05:28 PM
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That's because it's ABOUT self improvement in the context of sexual strategy for men. Cool it with the straw-men. It never claimed to be the authority on self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 03:33 PM
1

Are you unaware that studies like this have been done on humans? You almost sound paranoid that maybe there are general truths to people's mating strategies...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 03:31 PM
3

It's probably possible to find a confident AND inexperienced guy to fuck but not probable. True confidence would have gotten him laid by the time he meets most of the women he's going to meet in his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 03:11 PM
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They're people, not animals. What? People ARE animals too. We like to think we're not and that we must be special because of our ego. This is another aspect of TRP. You CAN study human behavior just like you can animal behavior. It will be more complex but certain characteristics remain the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 03:05 PM
3

It's a problem for women because it demonstrates a lack in her ability to properly pair bond. Multiple casual sex partners means she can easily get over most men in her life. She doesn't feel attached to any of them. It really just depends on the kind of relationships the people in question are after but from the perspective of seeking an exclusive long term relationship with a female, this is a big red flag. For people comfortable with more casual hook up type stuff, it really isn't a big deal.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/15 02:44 PM
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I wasn't suggesting to pedestalize them. I'm just pointing out that it is stupid for men to complain about whorish women when they're the ones selecting those types and expecting LTR quality women.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 10:57 PM
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Damn straight. It means men need to straighten the fuck up with their expectations. You can't have whores AND good women for relationships at the same time. So in a way, some men have entitlement complexes.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 09:22 PM
3

The biggest mistakes I see married people make is trying to live outside their means and not being transparent with each other. People damn near live separate lives from their spouses and wonder why it happens. Well no fucking shit, there is no real bond. I'm not saying that will prevent everything but it is a start. You can tell when a woman WANTS to be your first mate. If not then NEEEEEEXT!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 08:50 PM
2

Yet you're bothered to type out meaningless shit like that? Keep pretending you make sense. It's hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 11:48 PM
1

Both sides assert that only their view is correct and neither side can conclusively prove their point. Well I guess you found a way to look smarter than all of them! The existence of something is a specific claim that can be investigated. Either a thing exists or not. That is what we call a true dichotomy. If you have a problem with the scientific method or rationality, then that is your problem. Religions are fundamentally different in that they assert truths that they cannot demonstrate. Ideas…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 07:02 AM
3

A single book and a few doctors is not a scientific consensus.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:15 PM
8

Sorry for shitting in your oatmeal here but to suggest consciousness survives death is fucking retarded. That makes no sense. When brains die they stop functioning.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 01:27 AM
2

I wish that was more common. I've always tried to emulate my grandfather who did the same. The women you're talking about are damn near extinct. It takes an extremely well raised woman to fit that bill. It's one of the reasons I think the "plate spinning" thing might be doing more harm than good. Everything the common male is doing to combat hypergamy is taking more and more women with potential off the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 07:18 PM
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Yeah. I've noticed it. I also notice that most of the proponents of this kind of lifestyle are usually beta males that gave up trying to get respect from their wives or men who know they can get most women they want and won't even attempt commitment. It's considered smarter because there is less of a risk of disappointment. It is a lifestyle that has become viable because of technology and abundant resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 04:07 AM
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This makes me wonder if the RP mindset is generally that this new sexual market situation is not recoverable. Are we collectively just playing the game to get more sex or are we interested in pulling it back to a more beneficial state for more men? Some would argue it's already fucked so who cares but I wonder if it is indeed salvageable.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 05:44 PM
2

If a chick had said that in front of me, it would have been an instant no-go no matter how bad I needed to get my dick wet. I would have called that shit out quick. You almost encouraged her to act like an entitled little cunt. To each their own I guess but that is just gross behavior to me.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 05:14 PM
2

I discovered the red pill at 24. Luckily for me, the military mandates a lot of red pill concepts so I was forced to keep clean and lean since I was 18.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 01:08 AM
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The problem with experienced women is they are usually much more entitled and difficult to please. You avoid the shit storm of ex drama if you go for low count women who have some self respect. Because when another alpha guy ends a relationship with a chick that had mad tingles for him, she usually doesn't really let go for years to come. And she'll sneak off to see the guy if he's ever around and willing. You will be 2nd place in her mind but she'll never say it.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 10:17 PM
1

Do dark enlightenment ideas generally hold that theism is a viable view or does that have nothing to do with it? From what I gather, it affirms the effectiveness of religion but doesn't necessarily call it true.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 02:35 AM
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From my experience, no. It's like weeds. Don't let them get out of hand.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 09:13 PM
15

No. People that can't keep their promises need to just stay out of marriage in general. Don't waste someone else's life time lying to them. That is the rudest fucking thing you could ever do to someone.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 05:36 PM
1

Explains why so many women are religious...
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 06:50 AM
2

So...this is some uppity boys only club where another opinion is suddenly invalidated because it came out of the mouth of someone with ovaries? Jeez dude get the pencil out of your pussy.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 05:29 PM
1

Hawt damn I went through almost the exact same thing. Air Force though and it was with a beta dude I worked with that pulled the whole "shoulder to cry on" thing. THAT was a shit show worth getting popcorn for. Especially after supervision got involved. Ended up staying married but I demanded std tests, paternity test, and a post nup. I had been with her since I was a sophomore in high school. I honestly couldn't stay angry after it brought me to TRP. Having answers for that shit calmed me down …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 12:38 AM
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You're quite possibly fucked. Look for evidence of infidelity. Your LTR is in the sweet spot for that shit especially since she's already lost respect. If not, you need to get control fast or it is going to collapse on you. Women don't act like that to men they appreciate. Since she works then you have to pull your weight even after working. Sucks but that's what dual income setups are about.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 12:09 AM
1

Well you're basically saying if she isn't fixed then she's not fixable. I think it depends on the chick/situation but most of the time there is a laundry load of mental issues someone has to sift through to uncover what makes some women act that way. It just isn't worth it 99% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 05:46 PM
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Temple? I guess that's the religious way to say it. Either way I think the important thing is if we value our health, we won't be too willing to risk it on random sloots.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 08:12 PM
2

Without getting the shit beat out of you by a swarm of them? In the south, that is a death sentence.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 12:50 AM
1

She works. That's the problem. Women will always go elsewhere given enough time spent with other people. They're too ingrained into their social lives to really commit. Some men do that too. Humans are social creatures but these days we are waaaaay too social for long term relationships to work. The options are too tempting. Just end it. If you don't want kids, it's pointless.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 11:02 PM
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I think this is what led me to TRP in the first place. When I divorce dreaded my wife, she came back to get some stuff after I kicked her out and was immediately the most submissive/cockhungry thing I'd ever seen. I know it's all a game but that was the best sex I'd ever had.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 07:43 AM
1

Sure. Human limits. I agree. Not sure how someone would propose to bypass those limits. You seem to be asserting that other views don't have the same limits. I would argue that the scientific method is the most reliable way for humans to determine truth. I would love to hear about a more reliable method if you've got one.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 08:07 PM
1

No, faith is trust. We trust many things for which conclusive evidence is not available. No. Trust is trust. Faith is a type of trust. A type of trust given with no empirical support. No, science is a way of human's knowing. 1/2 to 2/3 of all scientific conclusions have been overturned by subsequent science. Arrogance is the irrational belief that what we know NOW is going to stay true, unlike all that OTHER science that we've since disproven. Science is not facts. Science is human understanding…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 09:22 AM
1

The idea that something (the universe) appeared out of nothing, and that the order we see is mere coincidence and consciousness is an illusion, I don't think is true. That is not atheism. Atheism is just the position of not believing in a deity(for most). It has nothing to do with the origins of the universe so thus it makes no claim. I'm curious how you think the idea of a god solves the problem of creation ex nihilo (from nothing). Didn't god create the universe from literally nothing? You are…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 08:06 AM
1

I'm curious. Are you religious?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 07:05 AM
1

You would probably enjoy Sam Harris's "the moral landscape. He argues in favor of morality being based in the well being of conscious creatures. It has its problems but he made a damn good attempt. I personally find utilitarianism to be the most sensible position on ethics.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 09:34 PM
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I look at it this way: If you deny someone the truth about something, you are stealing their opportunity to make an informed decision about someone who's in a position to effect their life. It's the most selfish thing you can do.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 04:58 PM
1

Well to me, nothing is worse than a slut. Sluts can wreck entire families. The socially awkward losers still have vaginas at the end of the night and possibly won't be socially awkward beneath the sheets. To each his own I guess. I personally don't care much for attention whore types. Popular girls are constantly drowned with attention and are the worst LTR prospects. Depends on what you want I guess.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 06:51 PM
5

Not true. Look in small communities. They're usually away from the crowds. Women with huge social circles are a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 09:50 AM
1

This response confuses me. That is only IF you find out what she did. Women WILL cheat on their alpha. Make no mistake about that. If they're spending a good amount of time away from you, chances are they will run into another alpha eventually. It's all about who's the alpha in her moment of weakness. You can't be perfect. I know several couples where both were about equal SMV and cheating still occurred. Women with huge social circles and into partying cheat more than anyone. You shouldn't have…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 09:48 AM
2

Oh god yes. You almost expect that shit. I know in the Air Force, maintenance has it bad. Dudes from the same shops banging their "wingman's" wife when he's working a different shift. Leaders can't do much because it's all hearsay when it gets discovered. Just brutal because the guys going through it usually have to still come in for work.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 12:35 AM
2

I think everyone stands to lose something of value when there is infidelity in the picture. It kind of makes being in a LTR pointless.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 07:08 PM
2

And it's a breath of fresh air in the south not to be obsessed with having a family. We have enough fucking people. People are having babies as a fashion statement these days.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:14 PM
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I have a friend like that in the Navy that I believe is obsessed with the sexual novelty his career brings. He even got married not too long ago then couldn't "stop himself" from sleeping with an ex when she showed up at his house and I guess forced herself on him. What's interesting is the way he tries to hamster his cheating as okay because it meant "nothing".
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 04:02 PM
5

I can't help but notice this is the feminine equivalent of our disdain of hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:04 PM
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In a short term view maybe. In the broader scope, she's taking up a job that could go to a suitable male who would be more suitable for a job like that.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 09:31 AM
2

I think I understand exactly where you're coming from here. I was raised in a Christian family and eventually stopped believing all but the bits about morality. I think it was because the moral systems in many religions are actually pretty good. Denying instant gratification for long-term happiness for not only yourself but your family after you and stuff like that. Those concepts actually make really good sense logically speaking. Cultivate a life you can live comfortably in. I think this is wh…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 01:39 AM
1

Fellow married TRP here. The only thing needed that would resemble oneitis should be an ounce of respect for the fact that they're not slutting it up on the weekends and bringing home something the shower won't wash off. Other than that be standard redpill with them. If they earn your attention then give it as required but never stop treating them like the oldest kid in the house. You can lose frame with them really fast if you tolerate bullshit. I'd recommend getting a post nup if you can get h…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 09:35 PM
0

Even from a utilitarian perspective, the social contract theory of justice makes pretty good sense if you don't want to contribute to a society that encourages betrayal and corruption. It may have short term benefits for key people but I can't recall an instance where it benefitted the society as a whole in the long term. It is a mark of maturity to be able to restrain your drive for short term pleasure seeking in order to cultivate long term success. This applies to ethics as well I think.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 08:07 PM
3

Aircraft maintainer here. It happens everywhere. Women get moved to program managing positions real fast in the Air Force because they can't do shit on the flight line. They're just a hindrance to the work.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 01:42 AM
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This sounds exactly like my relationship with my wife. Be aware that she may mean well but being dumb is a liability. There are ways to keep it in check but she may resent you for saying or thinking that. Explain everything you've said here to her. She'll either agree and listen to you and let you guide her or she'll secretly hate you for it and start drama behind your back about it. Don't make the mistake of trying to get a perfect woman. Be happy she's nice and submissive. The rest comes with …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 08:46 PM
2

You forgot "getting tattoos".
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 10:55 AM
0

Nah its not just to you. It happens all the time here.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 02:03 AM
0

This sub is really bad about using woman/women incorrectly. WOMAN IS SINGULAR. WOMEN IS PLURAL. Get it? Got it? Good.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:50 AM
1

Can confirm. Air Force BMT was like that too. The women would constantly bicker with each other and couldn't work together for shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:58 AM
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Honestly dude if you want a LTR to stand a chance, get out of the party scene. Entitled club princesses will never cut it. Find you a chick with some humility and self respect. There are some. Hard to find because they are usually introverted or socially isolated.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:37 PM
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Oh shit. This happened to me. Married my high school girlfriend. Started out great. Then she started wanting things like tattoos. Next came the clubbing. Then the affairs. Thought "oh don't want to be controlling asshole" so I eased up. That's just what they say so they can do whatever they want. Either you take back control or watch her ruin it herself. That is always how it starts. Small things.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 12:21 PM
1

Yeah because we can all determine exactly how a person will be in the future with 100% accuracy. Guy's fault no matter what. Sure. Hey at least you agree with feminists on something.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 02:37 AM
1

You don't have to even put up with it. My wife has never even tried that shit. She knows I don't play that game. We can discuss things in a constructive way but if it has to come to insults or rhetoric I end the conversation.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 01:53 AM
2

To each their own. Would you be fine with not getting that kind of attention? It won't last forever you know.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 12:59 AM
3

Most women today, especially young ones, dress for sex appeal subconsciously. Dressing for comfort and cleanliness is a sign of maturity in my book. That is how I worded it to my wife. It's fine to dress for cleanliness and comfort but slutty is a different thing that sends the signal you're not really content with your situation. My wife usually wears pajama pants/t-shirts(mine actually lol). I used to ask my wife "who are you trying to impress?". That usually got the point across.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/15 12:21 AM
1

I'm not saying don't expect it to happen occasionally. Just that it's completely the kid's fault for being a fucking thief. You can't go your whole life not trusting anyone with anything. It's not someone's fault that they are deceived by manipulative little fucks that they had good reasons for trusting.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 10:45 PM
1

Unless you're skilled with a crystal ball then how the fuck will you know who will or will not fuck up? You can correct some failed relationships believe it or not. You'll run out of options quick if your criteria is "You can never fuck up". It all depends on the fuck up of course but some women have to learn the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 09:46 PM
1

You can avoid that by just establishing hard boundaries from day 1. If they give you shit. Next them. Decent women rarely need to be controlled. I'm talking nuclear family type shit. This is all easier to pull off when you get out of the party/hookup culture. If someone is trying to make a LTR work while also trying to enjoy the club scene, they will likely fail.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 09:42 PM
1

No I'm saying that if that's how it really is then it shouldn't be circular. I agree with what you said but that shouldn't equate to relationship failures being entirely the fault of a male. Sometimes relationships fail entirely because of the female. You can be as alpha as they come and still lose a woman. There are some aspects of a relationship that you can't control. The primary one being their thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 09:24 PM
1

I admit you have to have a bit of circular logic sometimes to understand it as well. Not sure if that is a good thing. That usually means something isn't right about an idea.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 07:31 PM
5

Would you expect a child to do the same? No? Then don't expect that of a woman. There are things I expect out of children too such as not stealing my shit when they're in my house. Women are capable rational thought. Even children sometimes have rational thoughts. Let's be honest here. If it implodes it is more than likely your fault somehow. But you admit there is a chance that some are fully at fault?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 07:27 PM
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It's up to you to make sure she knows that you are in control and making all the decisions Well that's kind of the thing. A first mate is still trusted not to bust a hole in the hull with an axe while the captain is sleeping. They can know you're in control and eventually learn to resent you for that too. You can't prevent that. It will either happen or not. As much as we value control, we have to admit that there is a limit to it. Holding them accountable for that end is appropriate from what I…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 03:18 PM
20

all relationship failures are failures on the part of the men That directly contradicts the concept of holding them accountable for their fuck ups. Sometimes women are the cause of a shitty relationship. I think many of the issues that wreck relationships stem from issues with both partners but it's not always a 50/50 either.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 02:03 PM
3

It has to be confronted. She'll keep what happened in the back of her mind and use it as an excuse to do it again. I've seen this shit before. "I already did it so might as well do it again" is what she'll say NEXT time. He needs to get tested. Get her tested. Get a post nup (real thing. I did it) Confront her. Wreck her reputation by telling everyone she knows. Make her tell her parents even. Everything. Make her suffer the social consequences. She also has to stop clubbing, partying, etc. Anyt…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 11:45 PM
1

I know it sucks to be balding in your early 20s in the military. I'm probably just going to cut everything here soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 04:40 PM
1

That's what I did pretty much. Family was pentacostal growing up. Joined the military. Learned about different cultures and what makes people believe certain things. Ditched religion all together. Family freaked out but eventually had to accept it. Never looked back. With traditions I prefer to take the Bruce Lee approach. Accept what is useful and discard the rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 04:38 PM
1

I always told my wife I preferred her to maintain the house and not worry about the rest. Used to get called "old fashioned" but boy am I glad I did that now.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 10:29 AM
1

From what I could tell, I think coming out as no longer a member of a faith your spouse is a part of will make them see you as weak or weird. It happened with me and my wife. As soon as I mentioned I didn't care to be a Christian anymore, the bullshit began.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/15 10:21 AM
2

What gives with the "independent woman" thing? An independent woman is a time bomb. I roll my eyes anytime I hear people brag about a woman being smart or independent. Not worth it in my experience. They're usually just book nerd "smart" but emotional/ethical children.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 12:29 AM
1

Demonstrate it first and show her the benefits. Spearhead the change you want to see. Start lifting or do something observable so she notices a change. It might inspire her to join you in the process. That's the one thing I think married redpillers should look to do. You CAN change women regardless of what some here may believe. It's not too common but it does happen. I'd say it's worth an attempt if it saves you a divorce rape and another batshit crazy ex wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 03:22 PM
3

This is where having a huge social circle can backfire. It becomes a hell when it turns against you. Nobody has more of an ability to turn your social circle against you than a girl you're trying to have a monogamous relationship with. Staying partially isolated is preferred in my experience. At least when it comes to friends you hang out with alone.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 12:44 AM
-1

I sometimes wonder if some men are over demanding when it comes to sex. They should be putting out on a regular basis sure but to get it EVERY SINGLE TIME you want it THEN AND THERE is a bit much. I might be the only guy in my social circle I know of that watches porn WITH their spouse. It's actually really fun. It can help you figure out what they like faster.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 10:57 PM
2

So the girl from #1 wasn't smart enough? Sounds odd to me. If you MUST have a smart chick then good luck but I think it's not a realistic standard for most. I think it's loyalty and charm that matter more. Sounds like a good thing you had going. Careful not to set the bar too high. If so then you'll be no better than entitled feminists demanding perfect men.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:48 PM
3

You're already fighting an uphill battle if it has to be like that. It usually results in an affair or drunken "whoopsie" night. Friends that are trying to get in on her will try to convince her that you're abusive when you're not around. And it will eventually work when she's upset with you. She'll find a reason to cheat behind your back and then blame it on you. Been there.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:33 AM
3

I guess that's the sad part. Women are easy to appreciate when you're not legally tied to one and forced to figure out their problems and resolve them. God knows they won't. I discovered TRP while married. I'm getting a post nup as soon as I can afford it. Even got the little lady to agree with it. I'll feel much better after that.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 06:38 PM
1

As a lurker approaching the birth of his first daughter, I sincerely enjoyed this post. It hit on most of the shit that's been rattling off in my head after reading some of the sidebar material. I was contemplating how to approach the attraction to faggoty-douchebags issue.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:08 PM
3

I think having them while you still have some youth left isn't a bad idea. I've always found it weird for kids to have parents that look like their grandparents. They always seemed so distant from the kids because they were so different or something.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:34 PM
1

It may not effect their ability to stay committed as much but for some reason the promiscuous men I've met seem to have more issues WANTING to commit at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:00 PM
1

Yeah that's kinda how I'm seeing it I guess. If promiscuity is your thing then own it but don't take that mindset into LTRs. Too many party scene people trying to have stable relationships is what makes it worse for everyone else. It's like when that one kid pisses in the pool.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 07:59 PM
2

What is the general RP consensus on the implications of male promiscuity? Is it not as much of an issue or just not an area this sub focuses on? I've personally witnessed the effects of a promiscuous father. Never could stay faithful to my mother. I literally watched it turn her into a psychotic bitch. It was just gross. I believe some men deserve some of this backlash we are seeing from the female end.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:16 PM
5

If you want to keep a woman you're gonna have to be their best option. Simple as that. Nobody can stay the best option no matter how hard they try. This seems to shift all of the responsibility onto the male to sustain the relationship. That is just an endless circle of validation. It doesn't work in practice. It's all about how much control you can leverage. The trick is to be sneaky about it. Shame them into the dirt for every fuck up. This is why women from conservative families make better r…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 08:27 AM
3

One of the most common blue pill ideas is the idea of an all-encompassing purpose. A "meaning" for existing. There doesn't have to be a single one. I don't think you can even argue for one logically. But people take that as depressing. It's actually pretty cool. We are free to construct our own purposes. Some can be more impactful than others. They won't all be good either. Some will be unnecessarily destructive. This existential depression is the core motivation behind religion as I see it. Rel…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 10:25 PM
12

Have you ever known one to be sincerely remorseful after cheating? Like they just didn't understand boundaries or something?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 11:32 PM
18

I've learned to just stay away from anime fans in general. There is something strange about most of them. The scene is flooded with thirsty beta white knights ready to fire off their validation cannons for a lady in distress. There may be a few red pill anime fans but I've never encountered one. Anime in general seems to really drive the powerful female/nerdy beta theme.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:42 PM
1

I've experienced quite the opposite. I think people are always able to be stolen. It just takes the right combination of people and circumstances. Men and women alike. More so women because they seem to be more confused in general about what it is they're truly after.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 01:10 AM
8

What is with the obsession to be remembered? I could personally care less. Most people will die trying rather than achieve it because it is inherently reserved for those that stand out from the masses. If more people achieved it, it would lose the significance. I do what I do for myself. I don't give a fuck who remembers it because sooner or later we are all dirt again anyways.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:32 AM
2

When I read those comments, all I can visualize is some neck beard foaming at the mouth gawking at those photos. "Golly what I would give to fuck her right in the pussy!" The whole thing reeks of desperation.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 09:09 AM
1

Once a woman is demoted they are incapable of redemption and honestly learning a lesson or is it just safer to assume it isn't likely to happen?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:27 AM
0

If you could have a completely faithful perfect housewife, and a mistress with no hurt feelings or issues in that dynamic, wouldn't you? Nah. Not really. I honestly don't much care for spending that much time on women. The way it realistically plays out is you give up some of your own time/energy on another relationship and it usually always detracts from the primary. Not to mention you risk catching something even IF you use a condom. It's just not worth the investment to me.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 12:06 AM
1

His wife is completely supportive and actually looks up to him because of his ability to be a good husband, and have an affair. I don't understand this personally. What is so impressive about being able to juggle an affair with family life? An affair is deception by definition. She seems almost proud of the fact that she can't trust the guy. The hamsters in the room weren't helping at all but they are right about the situation being fucked up for the woman. The guy is basically getting his cake …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 11:19 PM
1

I have an extremely blue pill brother who has said kind of the same thing about his wife...wanted a "challenge" from a woman. Didn't want a submissive wife. She ended up attempting a branch swing on him after a few years and a kid. He is still under the impression she truly loves him and is just "challenging" him with competition from another male...I face palm daily.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 09:11 PM
66

Oh how the hamster must have went ape shit in that bar afterwards. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 01:02 PM
5

I'd just like to highlight that being "redpill" doesn't require you to spin plates. It's just a way of looking at situations. A set of hidden truths. You can apply them to all situations regarding women whatever that may be. ONSs, LTRs, etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 10:29 PM
2

The gifts are a mistake. Especially since she's under performing. I don't see things getting any better until you two calm your schedules. I'm surprised you are both working/doing school when you have a child. I guess it could work for some. I've never seen it pulled off successfully without some long term negative effects. Her "going out with friends" is another red flag for me. I've learned that it's usually an excuse for them to do something that they wouldn't do if you were around. If she's …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 09:59 PM
2

She also knows that I have OTHER options too. I believe this combination is vital to the recipe for female appreciation to a commitment. How do you go about demonstrating these options? Do you text/talk to other women in subtly suggestive ways in front of her?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:21 PM
-7

The guy cheated on her though. Couldn't have been a shining star by any means.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:38 AM
1

It's just risky is all. The problem is that our reproductive prime is around this time and it needs to be tempered with maturity. Most people mature much slower than they used to. My grandpa had a family at 17 and was working as a janitor for the school he JUST graduated from. It worked out because people back then weren't so entitled and wishy washy about what they expected. There wasn't all this mysterious "figuring themselves out" shit you get now.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/15 04:23 PM
2

You wouldn't happen to be a Christian would you? Porn/Sex can be a hit or miss just depending on how you approach it. Too much of anything can be harmful. Moderation and cleanliness is key for me. I don't see myself as addicted to porn either. It is a means to an end. Would I pass up real sex for a fap session? No way in hell.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 10:22 PM
8

It seems to have had the opposite effect on me. I stopped obsessing over pussy when I started watching porn. It demystified it for me I guess.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 06:26 PM
1

I'm going to use what happened to my brother as a fine example here. When we were both dating around in high school, he constantly attempted to point out that his girlfriend was smarter, more mature, etc. than mine. We're identical twins so the competitive thing was a real problem then. He was right in some sense because she already had a kid and had to be a mother at an early age. But that definitely didn't mean she was smarter by any stretch. This carries over into his eventual marriage to thi…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 07:00 PM
1

We should create the type of society we want. Why not just take the good ideas from religion and ditch the bullshit? Instantly improves the system and frees up your Sundays. Win win.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:23 PM
1

I just recognize that it's better to live in a religious society. What can religion achieve that secular ethics or humanism can't?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:24 AM
1

You have to have a thing to define your life, lest you descend into mindless hedonism. Some people can't cope with not having that thing dictated to them from authority. So they find a thing and they latch on to it. What you're saying is we HAVE to lie to people to get them to behave themselves. Yet we have secular ethics and humanism that can EASILY be put in place of religious faith without the negative side effects. Abortion clinic bombings, people killing in the name of their god, etc. It do…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:11 AM
1

Yes but gaming seems to bring it out very easily. It's one of the most common channels for it. I'm not saying don't game. I am an avid LoL player.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/15 08:46 PM
1

No...it's better to not believe things for good reasons versus believing things for bad reasons. Otherwise you end up believing just about anything with no filter.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 01:47 AM
1

You're just begging the question though. You can probably demonstrate experiencing your own will but I don't see how you can say it is "free". If we can't make any authoritative claims about free will then why are so many people asserting it's coherence and existence in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 12:54 AM
3

Well that renders the label of "god" meaningless. We could just say "universe" and not be misleading.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 12:47 AM
1

Atheism is a position of rejecting religion, but failing to replace humanity's innate need to believe in something. No atheism is generally the position of not believing in deities. That's it. Just because people feel a "need" to believe in the supernatural doesn't mean it's justified. Atheism isn't about filling that "void" to begin with. They substitute family and community and God with a few or all of the following: work, money, sex, partying, video gaming, and alcohol and Mary Jane. I know w…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 12:46 AM
2

Dammit. I didn't think to bring that up sooner. Glad you mentioned it.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 11:45 PM
1

Our "choices" are a natural force. I'm not arguing that we don't have a will that we refine and shape. The problem I have is labeling it "free". It's misleading at best. There really isn't any room for a "ghost in the system" that we like to call "the self".
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 11:43 PM
1

Sorry I should have elaborated on that. They are coming from "me" technically. They just aren't always completely conscious. Our minds are capable of making decisions before we're consciously aware of them. To a certain extent.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 10:57 PM
1

No. I can choose to do "otherwise". But that desire to do something different has a cause of it's own. My choices are the result of several factors. Biology, social conditioning, etc. But I cannot honestly say I am freely authoring my own thoughts and desires. The desire to do so is almost subconscious. I do it because I recognize the benefit of carefully considering what I believe. Why do I prefer this benefit? I seem to prefer comfort over discomfort. Ignorance is uncomfortable. Why? I guess b…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 10:32 PM
1

We don't have to commit to any of those beliefs. If something is not provable then how can someone actually be justified in BELIEVING it? Shouldn't we just withhold belief? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJ6ruM7Muo8
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:39 PM
1

I experience a will. I cannot really call it free in any meaningful way.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:30 PM
1

Saying something is not an impossibility doesn't mean it's coherent either. Life after death seems like a contradiction to my ears. Every characteristic that defines life as we know it is absent upon death. What is there left to live? You have to push the envelope with these questions.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:27 PM
1

I think the more important point here is that we shouldn't actively BELIEVE in such things until sufficient evidence is found for said beliefs. That's the proper way to develop accurate beliefs about the world. Pragmatically speaking. There is a burden of proof that we must meet before we are justified in believing things. The burden of proof always accompanies the person making the claim. There is no burden of proof required for simply NOT believing in things. That is how we start from birth af…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:24 PM
4

Atheism isn't about disproving god. It's simply the position of not believing in one. It's kind of a silly word because we don't have words for non-golfers. See my point? I don't identify as an "Aleprechaunist". Not believing something is true is not the same as actively believing it ISN'T true. To say otherwise is to eliminate the difference between belief and nonbelief. Everyone starts from a default position of nonbelief on all things. That doesn't mean that's the preferable position but it I…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 09:20 PM
3

The emotional aspect is probably what always turned me off of religious ideas. For the same reason I have not been able to believe in any concept of free will either. I think that one is a bit harder to swallow for some. Even men.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 01:34 PM
1

Just a word of caution on the whole gaming together thing. It can be awesome and wonderful but it can open up a hole for shit to come between you two. I say this as a person who's been through it. I've seen guilds get torn apart over issues with "couples". There is an inherent conflict of interest if one of you is a guild leader for example. Other dudes that play games often try to white knight on females they play games with as well. It starts very subtly so you may not notice. Don't involve ot…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/15 01:19 PM
13

Other than laying it out logically, the only productive thing to do is either cut her access to the money or force her to go refund every bit of it. She'll get sick of the extra trips and hopefully cut the shit out.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:13 PM
2

I'd just like to point out that just because I don't believe something exists, doesn't mean I'm making the claim that it DOESN'T exist. Two different things mate.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:36 AM
2

I think religion is inherently BP as a concept. It's designed to comfort people against the idea of an indifferent universe.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 04:59 PM
-5

Yet he bought into the "higher power" bullshit. He already opened the door. With some proper reasoning, she could still guilt trip him into going to church. He'd be able to stay out of the whole thing if he just said "I don't believe in any of that". None. Nothing. Nada. Zilch.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 04:56 PM
2

Relationships aren't static. They have dips and climaxes. All it takes for the whole thing to fall apart is an opportunity during a dip coupled with a person who is either ignorant or has a shitty outlook about the whole situation. It's pretty common for people to get blindsided by affairs. They never had a clue their SO had those characteristics. That's why the whole SMV thing matters in the grand scheme. People have an innate sense of their "value" and subconsciously compare themselves with po…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/15 11:45 AM
14

I have been with my wife since I was a sophomore in high school. I'm 24 now. I started to develop the same feelings about her as I was going through basic military training and tech school. It will become a serious problem later on down the road IMO. Those types of chicks are the kind that have no clue what they want or will want in the near future. They aren't necessarily out to ruin you but they are too naive and gullible. Don't ever think she won't cheat either. You might be able to get throu…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 07:03 AM
14

The girl to the far right looks very much like Sjokz. She's a European shout caster for league of legends. The "higher quality" women aren't showing anything. This really does drip RP truths.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 12:28 AM
1

I appreciate the honesty. As long as you fully own up to fucking it up is all that matters. I cringe when people try to justify cheating. If a marriage is in the hole, cheating is the worst thing you can do when it's all said and done.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 10:09 PM
1

Was the bedroom dead before you began cheating? Excuse my probing. Just curious.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:21 PM
2

Oh god...those. It's a disaster. SOOO many guilds and gaming groups turned into shit over e-whores getting into a power/attention struggle.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 03:43 AM
1

The only issue I had with waiting that long for LTRs is I didn't want to get used to a lifestyle I'd have to stop once I settled down. I just wanted to get straight to it and date around for wife material. Yeah it's stupid to do that in your twenties but I knew what I wanted from a young age by watching other people chase flings and hookups and seeing my dad go through a gross mid life crisis of his own. I was disgusted by everyone's uncertainty. And it was happening at two different age bracket…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 05:44 PM
6

I've heard it said before and I think it applies here. "The universe does not owe us a happy ending".
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 12:16 PM
3

Right? It bugs me every time people try to squirm on this topic. It's like there is this major discomfort in the idea that everything we think or desire could potentially be understood and calculated. It may be discomforting but that won't stop it from being the truth.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 12:14 PM
35

The video where he went on some talk show to defend his views against an audience of angry black cunts was disgusting. One of them basically just resorted to explaining that she had no kids and had a career as if that in some way invalidates what he was saying. A second simply said some rhetoric bullshit about having nothing much to choose from if men are like him. Fucking gross. The hamsters were so loud my head would have popped off.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 11:15 PM
1

Why would you knowingly mess with married women? Why not just tell the poor fucks married to those cunts? If you contribute to CC riders, you're not really helping anything but yourself. And around and around it will go.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 06:20 PM
2

Jeez that sounds hella difficult. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 02:55 AM
1

What do you mean by "hypergamectomy"?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 11:05 PM
1

Couldn't agree more. My wife is exactly that way. Only way to avoid slip ups is to remain extremely vigilant. Weed out orbiters or don't let them into the scene at all. Tricky part is trying to convince her you aren't being "controlling and jealous". Which you are but its for reasons she can't comprehend. Her hamster will not like the idea that she is emotionally vulnerable and incapable of being completely untouchable. I personally feel this is where you could use an affair to your advantage. Y…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:42 PM
2

It is rewarded almost exclusively. Dude...go crawl back into your cave. Fag is spelled with one "g". Get enlightened.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 12:34 AM
3

Make sure she understands that you aren't going to tolerate the orbiter shit anymore. Like if she tries to defend any male friends that try to white knight you in front of her, drop the hammer. Tell her to cut that mother fucker out of her life or you will next her ass. Especially if you're in a LTR. Orbiters are a no-no. I have learned this the hard way too. Never making that mistake again.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 09:35 PM
4

After your 'roid rage subsides, consider the fact that believing things for no good reason is counter productive if you care about being as accurate as possible with your opinions. Religion is the mother load of bad ideas. Spiritual "woo woo" nonsense is part of many people's problem. Especially women.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 05:46 PM
-3

It's only scoundrels and pussy whipped dudes that will Try to salvage something after being cheated on. I disagree. It honestly depends on the circumstances. If certain criteria are met, I think some relationships actually can be salvaged. It may require therapy or something dramatic but it's certainly possible. To deny that would be a "black and white" mentality. Granted many people forgive and trust way too quickly and for horrible reasons but if you are careful with it and honestly look for t…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:20 AM
1

It's been several months. That happened back in June I think. She's aware of where she's going if she is caught being dishonest about ANYTHING from this point on. I only discovered that the affair happened 2 years ago. I didn't catch her in the middle of one. I feel like it was enough of a "rattle" for her to not want to go through that drama again just on a basic level. If things were different and she had a social life/career where potential repeats could happen I probably wouldn't still be wi…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:10 AM
7

I consider it a mistake to tell a woman what you'll do if they cheat. It only encouraged my wife to hide it because she was convinced it was the axe and still wanted to stay.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 02:22 AM
3

I responded with mostly rage and hypervigilance. I let it marinate in her mind for a few weeks after her mom came and got her and all her stuff. I kept the things of "hers" I wanted and thwarted every snarky comment from her mom with cold resolve. I was pissing her mom off but I could tell her mom knew I was justified because she kept saying shit like "but you are a son to me". I like...exploded inside with alphaness. It was intense. Basically I drilled it in that "YOU DONT FUCKING DO THIS SHIT …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 07:15 AM
2

She's just been extremely passive and humble really. It was kinda cool. I expect I'll have to monitor that and watch for shit tests but I don't see it changing easily unless it's all an act to buy time. Which I doubt considering how intertwined our families have become. I was her "high school sweetheart" and all that bullshit and she realizes that she won't get that same dynamic with random fucks elsewhere. I discovered this subreddit after being extremely let down and frustrated at our marriage…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:54 AM
3

I can relate. I married young and ended up deciding to deal with the post-affair bullshit. I wish I hadn't have dramatized it so much with family and friends although it was thoroughly enjoyable watching her describe to her family what she did. It included another woman and they are all conservative Christians. That was a requirement before I let her move back in. The way I saw it, I could use the situation as a chance to leverage full control of the relationship. She would no longer be involved…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:35 AM
1

But...uh...erm...damn. Got me. I'll get back to my corner now.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 05:31 AM
1

Wait...weren't you the guy in another thread defending his Christianity? Nice choice of words. I'm sure Jesus would say the same.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 05:16 AM
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