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I'm guessing calling women "bitch" and having that attitude doesn't help
/r/seduction10/02/24 04:29 AM
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Do what you wanna do. You have the right to be as picky or not picky as you want to be. However, I have a opinion that's counter to popular beliefs. My wife and I have had sexual partners before we met each other. We have both been divorced and had some experiences with people outside of marriage. I have a hard time (occasionally) with knowing she's had other men inside her in various ways. Ive been learning the value of having sex only with the person you marry. I'm not trying to force anyone i…
/r/seduction14/07/23 02:07 PM
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Rejection will happen. Being told no won't kill you. It'll probably hurt though
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:03 PM
2

Be you. Being like everyone else is boring. Sex isn't everything. It's way better when it's with someone you care about, also makes even "vanilla sex" pretty fantastic. Treat women with respect. Don't be afraid to show you care. You will get hurt. You will get rejected.
/r/seduction07/04/22 08:13 PM
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I do. 29, 10+ partners. Five of those years I was in a committed relationship that resulted in marriage and a divorce. Two partners since divorce in the last 6 months. One is my current gf of 3 months.
/r/seduction07/04/22 04:30 PM
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Probs my favorite response. People don't realize just how much of the nation is obese. By working out at all and trying to put in effort to care for yourself, it's way ahead of most. Not to say you shouldn't go for a lean body. Just that as far as dating goes, be in ok shape, have some muscle mass, and you're way ahead of the game.
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:08 PM
1

Are you really worried that "I'm so good at getting hot girls that guys will try to ruin me"? I don't think any of em care as much as you think they do or even really notice.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:56 PM
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Mostly cuz I have it all locked away on a different account/location cuz I don't wanna deal at all with looking at anything of her or our dog. There's 0 point in going through any of it when I can just lock it away and forget about it like it doesn't exist.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:50 PM
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Oh haha. Tone is hard with text lol
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:30 PM
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Why would that have anything to do with it? A nude isn't just a picture. It's trust thats been shared to you and it's trust you won't burn them in one of the most private ways possible.
/r/seduction09/03/22 09:26 PM
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Ummmm cuz not all men share nudes? I had nudes of my abusive as fuck ex wife. Never once shared em. Before or after the divorce. Also, people don't tend to assume those they care about will hurt them.
/r/seduction09/03/22 06:15 PM
1

Pretty much the day before or day of my girlfriend and I are going out.
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:52 PM
11

I've watched interviews of escorts and some have mentioned they have plenty of clients who don't want sex, they just want a friend. Sad really. Some people are so cut off or feel they have to hide who they are to everyone they know, to the point that paying for a companion is the way to go for them.
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:12 PM
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I mean I guess if you're ok with knowing your potentional partner is sleeping with who knows how many guys, go for it. If you can't be cool and accepting of it, steer clear. Don't go out with her hoping to talk her out of having sex for money. You should never date someone in hopes of changing them. It would be one thing if ya'll were dating then she decided she wants to be a escort.
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:09 PM
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man that's just who you are. there's no need to change who you are. I can't be that hard dude either. Very very few situations in which anyone would ever see that happen. Be the best version of yourself you can be, don't change your personality. Work on what you have and who you are.
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:26 PM
1

One perk of "older" (30 isn't old and neither is my lady at 33) women is they have less drama and bs in their lives. Or in theory at least
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:02 PM
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lol I was considering grad schools for a while and I developed preferences based on the dating potential. Then schools weeded them out for me via rejections haha. But damn I was hoping for a state school cuz there'd be more women than at a private one. Number wise, not ratio.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:23 PM
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my guess is then that's he's good at talking. I don't have the same ball busting issues I see expressed with OLD. That's how I met my girlfriend. We talked about OLD and I told her that I wasn't sure I understood why it's so hard for many people. She said "because you know how to talk." My guess is your friend is either lying or is good at talking.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:19 PM
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that's assuming the guy even realizes she hit on him haha.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:11 PM
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I'd say I fit into the description you provided and it still takes effort. The kind of effort is different though. I am not fearless about talking to strangers, but I act like I'm not phased. I get rejections all the time. I tend to not let others know if it bothers me, so people seem to assume rejection hurts. Despite the fact that a two date experience with someone I was really into was painful and I took a month or two before trying again. I think people are more likely to assume that it's ea…
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:10 PM
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I get carded by people thinking I'm 21. I'm 29. Idk if I should be flattered or just accept it haha
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:47 PM
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Well if anyone sets peramiters on the age of their potential partner, it always reduces the options. I'm 29M. Never had a easier time dating. I ended up going on about 8 dates in two months. I'm in a relationship with a 33F. I never thought I'd date older. But here I am and she's pretty great. I think with age comes some assumption of having your shit together. Which is pretty attractive to someone who might be new to the adult world or fearful of it. You would have potential to be seen as a exp…
/r/seduction21/02/22 01:46 PM
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People want to have a good time. If you are laughing with someone, odds are you are going to want to be around them. Ambition and drive is also pretty hot. I imagine Pete has career and life goals that he pursues. People want to be a part of growth.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:01 PM
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It's an important part of a healthy life, but the main part of a unsatisfactory life.
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:57 PM
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In my opinion, people are attracted to happy people. If you are enjoying life and are a positive person, odds are people will find you attractive. Least that's why my girl fell for me and I feel like I have easy time getting dates and all that on apps when I was looking for dates.
/r/seduction16/02/22 08:41 PM
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Could be for 1. It's possible the guy is her bf but who knows
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:50 PM
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see there's not some formula that works for everyone. If either of them were interested in you, they would have said yes or kept themselves available. I imagine a cruise can be tricky since everyone knows its temporary and unless they want a hookup (probably hard since I imagine most share a room with someone) it's probably a no. People might be there with current romantic partners as well as family. Unless you're on a singles cruise?
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:28 PM
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Holy cow that worked??? Lol
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:51 AM
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You're a treasure of a human
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:14 AM
2

But you let her blow you. How is that cool if she's not attractive enough?
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:49 AM
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Damn lol
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:16 AM
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They mostly sound like immature a holes. Every guy (I imagine girls get rejected too) gets rejected. I had a whole strategy based around the assumption of being rejected at one point. I'd find a group of women while I was at a club and decide which one I really wanted a dance with. Then I'd ask every one of her friends to a dance assuming they'd say no and ask the girl I hoped would say yes last. Usually she said yes, I assume out of pity. Anyone who makes fun of people for being rejected either…
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:03 PM
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Could be. It's definitely his call to say no at any point and I'm all for that. The way he phrases it though has got holier than thou vibes which is my whole issue
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:00 PM
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That's pretty much the only reason I don't think this guy's a decent guy and this is a honest misunderstanding. Also, who the hell snuggles with someone they don't find attractive in some way? Seems like he led her on.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:57 PM
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There's nothing to suggest that he changed his mind. If that's the case then thats his choice. The way he presents it reads as she's not good enough for her pussy to get my dick.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:48 PM
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I don't believe in using people regardless of gender.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:44 PM
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I'd say the same thing.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:43 PM
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No, my lady is out of my league
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:30 PM
1

The whole reasoning part of why he told her no is what's wild. Really led her on.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:01 PM
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I guess lol. Even for a hookup, I'm not going to turn down someone who did something for me. Sure as hell ain't cuddling with someone I don't find attractive. I think she's out of his league based on the interaction he described.
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:56 PM
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I guess I wanna know why she's "good enough" to blow you but not to get sex? What high horse are you on to be down to cuddle and essentially be serviced but not do anything back to her. It doesn't sound to me like you changed your mind about wanting sex, more like you have some threshold for entry.
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:48 PM
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Don't have to be gay.... Just dedicated
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:43 AM
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Pop some popcorn, then pull up a chair and some lube. They'll either get more into it or stop. Either way... You win
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:43 AM
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I can attest to this. I've been dating someone close to a month. I didn't do anything that was clearly sexual till we had established a connection. Even then, I started gentle flirting. Now we are to more overt stuff. I'm seeing her this weekend and I worked in "I think we should make sure you spend some time on your back when I see you to help you out with x issue". She likes it. I've yet to drop something like "I'm thinking about your soaked pussy" cuz I don't need to. The flirting we do gets …
/r/seduction09/02/22 02:43 PM
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I don't think making a move is a bad idea.
/r/seduction08/02/22 03:20 PM
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"I had a lot of fun, hopefully I hear from you soon." If I wanna kiss her, I ask if it's ok if I kiss you. Maybe it's lame to ask my permission, my current dating relationship thought it was really cute and liked it.
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:54 PM
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In my feed, the post above yours was a guy talking about casual sex being overrated on a different sub. I would agree with you. Sex is way better in a relationship. I've done casual sex. It was fun the first several times. With a person that you're in a relationship is where it's at.
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:08 PM
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get your own place my man! or a hotel
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:51 PM
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It depends. Is this "hot pic" nudity? Cuz that's way different than someone being very happy with how they look in a picture and posting it. If it's not nudity, I don't care. If the intent she has is to seek attention, especially sexual attention, I'd probably ask her what's up.
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:59 PM
1

I just ask. I asked the woman I've been seeing the last month within a few hours of us talking.
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:10 PM
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Neither lol. I'm a smiley and happy dude who owns being cute. I'm just me and I don't try to be like anyone else
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:57 PM
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Yup. I expressed romantic interest off the bat, but I didn't send her anything about what I wanted to do to her. She actually brought it up more directly as something she wanted. We are going out tonight and she wants to get it on. Which is great cuz so do I haha
/r/seduction28/01/22 08:11 PM
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Overt is obvious and usually crude. Such as "do you deepthroat." Covert would be things like touching her back or arms and telling her she cute. Eye contact is pretty hot as well. Do shit that says "I wanna fuck" without telling her "I wanna fuck."
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:29 PM
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The girl I'm dating now told me she's used to guys being physical at first then they got to know each other. She said she really likes I'm doing it the other way around. Don't underestimate the value of ol fashioned.
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:25 PM
1

I guess that's assuming she's not texting everyone else once a day. Idk man, be you. If she likes you, she will talk to you. Otherwise, bounce.
/r/seduction28/01/22 05:17 PM
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Trial and error man. Some guys are just naturally more prone to it if their personality happens to be more desirable. Otherwise, you just try stuff out. For me, I learned to just lean into my personality. It's different from the norm, but here's the thing. Why would I want to blend into the masses? I wanna stand out baby!
/r/seduction28/01/22 03:09 PM
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Someone else suggested that and idk why it didn't occur to either one of us. I found one that's fairly cheap and told her that I had a different idea than my car. Seems we will go the motel route should we wanna get down.
/r/seduction28/01/22 02:26 PM
1

If it wasn't Iowa and 10 degrees outside lol
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:23 AM
1

Thanks mate! If we do it, it'll be interesting haha
/r/seduction28/01/22 07:22 AM
1

That's a great point. So definitely avoid a neighborhood. We live in Iowa. Might take a short drive but we could probably find a country road
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:18 AM
1

Oh Chevy Malibu
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:17 AM
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I think you attract shows who you are as a person.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:59 PM
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Pffft yeah it's this bizzare idea. The male is inside the female and they lie there. They have a 3rd party jumps on the bed to make them move in and out till orgasm and they think it doesn't count as sex.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:47 PM
8

Bend over and say "take me"
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:18 PM
0

I would say that if you wait for them to be in between a set or moving to a different exercise, it's ok to to up to them to say hi. Also, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Go for it dude!
/r/seduction19/01/22 09:05 PM
1

Wear boxer briefs if you're that worried. It will make your erection less obvious without completely hiding it. Girls like knowing they have that affect. Least if they like you.
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:51 PM
1

Eskimo Bros
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:52 AM
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To me that sounds like she's a good person to date and maybe more.
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:58 PM
6

Why don't you wanna date her? She sounds fun
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:54 PM
6

Hell no! Kiss around her thighs and hips first and slowly work your way in to her labia. Kiss around there a bit and some gentle licks and occasionally hint towards her clit, then yoink away. Once she's thrusting some and starting to moan start to do more clit stuff. Once she's clearly into that, go for it.
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:37 PM
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Tbh I don't get the distinction between all the other forms of sex yall do other than piv. Is it a religious thing? If so, does she really believe her deity is like "oh ok, his fingers and mouth were there but not his d... She's still a virgin!" Otherwise, suck it up buttercup. Women take longer to finish and it seems like a more passionate experience since my legs never shake but hers do.
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:35 PM
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My guess is you're trying too hard. People can sense that. Idk why but it's a turn off at the start
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:27 PM
3

I would too!
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:11 PM
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Omg that's hilarious 😂 I feel bad for em but man that's funny to picture
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:09 PM
1

You sound fun haha
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:59 PM
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Yeah that sounds horrific
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:52 PM
0

So that's what I've been doing wrong haha. Trying so hard to not blow my load that I've been quiet!
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:06 AM
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Practice makes perfect
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:25 AM
2

Thanks!
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:42 AM
3

I would have thought there would be more to a bad one than use of teeth haha. Is that all someone needs for a good one?
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:47 AM
1

How does one ask a woman for one? Say I'm making out and stuff, do I directly ask?
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:01 AM
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If it's with your girlfriend, if y'all have expressed wanting that stuff then sure. If you mean for a generic ONS I dude. I'm a M and there's no way I'd wanna ask someone to use toys that she has no idea who all else has used or assume I clean them well enough. Hookups don't need toys imo.
/r/seduction09/01/22 02:04 PM
1

Lol bruh you're 17. You're barely alive mate haha. It'll happen. If you force you'll end up marrying this first girl to touch you and end up with a high chance of a divorce
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:52 AM
1

That exact scenario is why I don't try to schedule more than one date in a day. I'll do a few in a week. But I don't want to have to cut something short cuz of another girl. To me, I know I'd feel disrespected and invalidated if she did that me so why would I do that to her?
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:09 PM
5

Pfft take the W and go out
/r/seduction28/12/21 05:28 PM
1

I don't notice anything cuz I'm lost in her eyes
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:37 PM
1

Very. If my orgasm matters to her it matters to me..
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:25 PM
1

No. No are is too late
/r/seduction22/12/21 05:48 AM
1

You're welcome! Believe me, I'm not a player. I've just failed enough times to know what doesn't work. Eventually I'll have so few options left that something will work
/r/seduction20/12/21 03:39 PM
1

Oh then just practice to make sure you know the jokes and won't say em wrong or something
/r/seduction20/12/21 11:27 AM
8

Practice practice practice. Get a few jokes you can pull out of your pocket and not stutter. Go to bars and try initiating talks with people . Then before you know it, talking to that wild woman in nbd
/r/seduction19/12/21 10:30 PM
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With kids it all be wild and hard to make time. If you're serious about her, schedule another date. If she can't make it, being the date to her. Get a pizza and a kids movie and hang out. Or, do a lunch date during her work lunch. Like Ted Mosby. She has that lunch break and you'll have to cram the date into a short time. After ask her if you can keep seeing her and you'd be up for taking dates to her home when or if the babysitter cancels.
/r/seduction18/12/21 07:46 PM
1

Say thanks and tell her something back you like. Unless there's nothing then smile and say thanks.
/r/seduction17/12/21 03:31 AM
1

I think I'd travel. Id definitely get a motorcycle and be one of those guys. I'm not into cars so while I'd like a good sporty car, I wouldn't know much about it. Someone could be like "ooo that's baby has 13 cylinders and 85oz headlight fluid" and I'd just tell em that doesn't sound right.
/r/seduction09/12/21 11:16 PM
1

That's tough. But not impossible. Try to be like the Dos Equis guy, the most interesting man in the world
/r/seduction07/12/21 02:32 PM
2

Depends. Are you also 19? Cuz that seems like a worse situation than 42.
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:33 AM
2

"ok."
/r/seduction02/12/21 12:35 PM
1

That can happen sure. Confidence can be learned again. There's also the possibility of a woman being more confident and approaching the guy. That doesn't seem common but it happens
/r/seduction28/11/21 06:50 PM
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Teenage years vary. Teens are very hormonal and curious. I'm not sure that looking virginity as a teen is necessarily any more significant than in ones 20s. But what they all tend to have in common is self confidence. Confident enough to talk to a woman. Confident enough to go for it. Confident enough to be on with being rejected. Confident enough to at least not show they're value is determined by someone else. You'll miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
/r/seduction26/11/21 08:44 PM
1

Rookie mistake. Sorry man.
/r/seduction26/11/21 03:38 PM
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My number one advice is to act like you don't care. Which is tricky to do when you ask someone out. It here's what I do and so far, it seems to work really well. I like to ask girls to a date that I tell em is a meet and greet. The idea is to go out and do something fun like bowling and the expectation is nothing beyond the one date. I've been having more of the girls I go out with trying to sell me on them and their personality than girls not doing that. So the conversation goes something like …
/r/seduction22/11/21 04:09 AM
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Yeah man women don't meet many men who can talk to em. There's women in my friend circle that automatically thinking I'm attracted to em and hitting on them because I'm not scared to have a conversation and it's a normal one. I tell em being married before takes away the fear of talking cuz I had the opportunity to be around a woman enough to know their people just like me haha. But yeah. Dating apps and in person, if you can communicate, have goals in life and are a good dude you're set.
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:04 PM
1

Well good for you! Perhaps look into why it seems you feel you need to compare or compete with others so much. I'm not saying that to be mean, just a genuine observation for ya.
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:28 AM
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Why is it about numbers? If I recall your in your early 30s and was a virgin till then. Why do you care about a body count? I'd much rather have sex with someone I've connected with since thats more fire than hookups. I'd take a few romantic partners that I dated over two years than 8 partners in two months.
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:22 AM
5

Hey your method is my experience minus how much sex you say you're having. Just the way you presented it sounds like you're gonna sell something like a video series lol
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:50 AM
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Doesn't that sound like he's going to try and sell something 😂? Sure I'll take his word for it however: I may have been born during the day but it wasn't yesterday
/r/seduction19/11/21 01:21 AM
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Sounds like a dude trying to sell a upcoming video series lol
/r/seduction18/11/21 09:52 PM
1

I'd say just tell him. Sure some find a gal asking them out to be a bit bold, but I don't think it's worth waiting for him on
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:41 PM
1

I don't know how people do open relationships tbh. I sure couldn't be ok knowing my girlfriend is doing something with others while with me that is very personal and intimate to me. Fair warning, it does seem that open relationships have their challenges. Y'all do what makes you happy. If you want this, who am I to tell you what to do or not do. As for this guy, you could just tell him. I know I'd want to know. Few pains were worse than doing something with a girl then she drops "btw my boyfrien…
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:25 PM
1

I mean does it matter? Is someone a different person after you learn how many they were with than before you knew? It really shouldn't matter. But I'm 28 M, I've had about 8 partners. But again, it shouldn't matter
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:48 PM
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My guess is many women assume we want sex. So if they have a boundary with it, they may feel they need to tell you. I wouldn't read a ton into. Perhaps look at the way you phrase things and body language if it bothers you enough to evaluate how you present yourself.
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:29 PM
2

You're welcome my man.
/r/seduction18/10/21 08:04 PM
1

Good luck!
/r/seduction18/10/21 07:19 PM
1

Find a way to be unavailable. I'm going through a divorce and in the span of a few months, told multiple women no. I have no interest in dating right now, so of course I've got options. Odds are that once I start looking all those options will disappear.
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:48 PM
2

Dude that's her just moving on. She isn't interested. If she was she would have gone home with you or told you her plans changed. There's not really advice here to change that. You can't and shouldn't try to control people. Do you really want a hook up to be because you forced it instead of she wanted it?
/r/seduction18/10/21 06:03 PM
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Idk, I'm 6'4" in shoes and it's pretty much impossible to find folks close to my height. Sure it's works well since many gals seem to like tall dudes but I can't avoid that awkward imbalance.
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:06 PM
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