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Bro nuclear war is possible. Alien invasion is possible. Anything is possible. Will you? If you work towards it. I once had a woman ask me to continue the conversation in her house then she asked to suck my dick. I was blindsided.
/r/seduction09/07/26 07:49 AM
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Ask someone how your breath is. You'd be surprised how bad breath can turn people off. It's a possibility otherwise we really don't know. You could also be a bad kisser for instance or she wanted more and you made excuses she's not interested in. I'd ghost a woman too if I couldn't sleep with her.
/r/seduction09/07/26 05:01 AM
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Send me some of your good photos. Maybe I can offer feedback, but also your mindset is out of whack. You say more people are meeting on dating apps as if you can't just meet a woman at a grocery store still. Just go outside and talk to the pretty woman at the market. Online shopping hasn't gotten everyone.
/r/seduction20/06/26 02:20 PM
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An absolute mad lad!
/r/seduction18/06/26 11:09 PM
1

Women want to be controlled Strawman but surely women want men to lead. If they are capable. Just as men want capable men to lead and why we're pissed at the orange man. Women want to feel "owned" This is just nonsense. If you pretend like you don't own your woman, she'll feel unappreciated. If you tell her she can sleep with any man because she's free, she'll think you don't love her. This is coming from a man who says that shit. Women don't know what they want / can't explain what they want It…
/r/seduction15/06/26 01:09 PM
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Bro practices what he preaches. He's the master of small talk and unsolicited observations. Bless his heart.
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:54 AM
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Sounds like you're the woman and she's the man. She took your number for dating and fucking. Text plans mostly. Not your thesis on how many days the ancient Roman empire lasted.
/r/seduction15/06/26 07:28 AM
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Haha do you think every comment is directed to you?! Good post though. Also excellent progress. I was just joking that a man who doesn't want women probably also can do a lot of one handed pull ups based on your... They probably masturbate a lot or more explicitly they probably exercise that one forearm alot.
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:06 AM
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Not you bro. I appreciate your reply.
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:05 AM
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Yeah and strong forearms. What are you up to 20 one handed pull-ups?
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:58 AM
1

Why are you in this subreddit?
/r/seduction15/06/26 05:57 AM
2

I like big butts and I can not lie. That said. Yeah. Every man does.
/r/seduction15/06/26 02:26 AM
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Same reason men agree to go into mines.... Money
/r/seduction13/06/26 08:37 AM
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Maybe type a bunch of randos on Reddit. But really you want to slide her hand on her body slowly and touch her hands often. The slowness and the hand touching communicates that she can stop you anytime. You can even whisper, "you can stop me anytime" and then touch her all over. Be careful though, if she's DTF you may end up having to fuck her. If you're not sure how far to escalate, tell her "you can touch me too.". It's all about body language.
/r/seduction13/06/26 05:27 AM
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Glad it works for you, but I'd rather text. Maybe my memory is bad but random texts out of nowhere won't allow me to recall anyone.
/r/seduction11/06/26 05:15 AM
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Sounds like you had a corny approach and you're unattractive (at least to them.) Why are you asking them how they are? Are you a doctor? I open with an indirect question to drop their guard down, then I go with some relationship questions to announce my intentions. I never just ask a stranger "How are you?". Wtf am I to ask that? A random woman asks you "How are you?". "I'm fine" then keep it moving A random woman asks you "Where's the KFC?..." Guide her, then she asks, "Do you have a wife, you'…
/r/seduction07/06/26 08:05 PM
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Answered bro.
/r/seduction01/06/26 12:38 PM
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Because it communicates intent and you can pivot toward sexual topics like ... "So you must get really horny" or "you might be really tight now." The point is you're expressing romantic interest but in an indirect and safe way. Hasn't a woman interested in you asked about your relationship history? Like if I am doing day game, I ask if the woman's married. Not to back off but to express my interest in fucking her. I'm not talking about politics but her availability.
/r/seduction01/06/26 12:38 PM
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The three topics: Dating, sex and relationship status. Not: Hi I'm John and I like pickleball. Have you ever played? But: Hi I'm John. What are you looking for in a man? When was your last boyfriend?
/r/seduction01/06/26 11:46 AM
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And now starts the ad hominems. She wanted dick and I blueballed her. She then ghosted me. If that's a problem to you, cool but in the real world it's well deserved.
/r/seduction31/05/26 12:06 PM
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Exactly. You get it.
/r/seduction31/05/26 12:04 PM
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Because why did I show up and why did I deny her after she gave me the greenlight?
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:59 AM
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Yeah bro. It's common sense. You wouldn't ghost a woman for denying you sex in your own home?
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:58 AM
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I guess great is subjective but maybe you're thinking good health? I'm saying musculature isn't reserved for bad men. A well muscled build is attractive in men. Particularly toning and some volume. Not excessive.
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:51 AM
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Ok bro. I don't think you're understanding why she invited me to her house, but do you.
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:25 AM
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Yeah being in great shape isn't bad boy. But obviously a woman prefers a man in good shape over a man in bad shape; just as we men prefer a woman in good shape over a woman in bad shape. I give off zero badness except maybe women think I'm a lady's man, a figurative lady killer 😭
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:14 AM
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No bro. That's the point. I showed up, drank her wine, waxed philosophy about literature and left her in heat. I was the asshole.
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:09 AM
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Get in good shape to increase your endurance, use deeply penetrating positions when you're ready to ejaculate, let her ride you when you aren't ready to ejaculate and go for two rounds minimum (urinate after the first.)
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:05 AM
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Yeah but if you show up, show out. That's the point. I regret showing up, drinking her wine, avoiding her face and just getting kicked out talking about politics and literature. This is where a lot of men are. This is why we're reading the subreddit.
/r/seduction31/05/26 11:04 AM
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Pretty sure the subtext of that advice is to acknowledge consent and encourage handling rejection. There are men who you can advise that it isn't a numbers game and "she mustn't necessarily like you" and they become stalkers, rapists or incels. In other words, don't break down a fence unless you know what it's up for. We tell our brothers no one bats 1,000 so that they don't commit crimes and don't get upset.
/r/seduction31/05/26 05:47 AM
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To put it shortly, the topics you talk to women about are sex, her relationship status and her dating preferences. Your objective is to communicate interest (in her) and communicate intent. To be a bit more blunt, Gilgamesh? Religion? Let's do a simple roleplay, I'm a guy interested in you (another guy.). I come up to you and say, "When's the last time you've been with a handsome well endowed man?" And top it off with "Do you like to be a bottom or top?". What do you think I want to do? Now let'…
/r/seduction30/05/26 08:12 AM
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It's a combination of looks, style, mannerisms and understanding. Your grammar sucks though, but if you're trying to get laid more and you can write coherently, you can DM me.
/r/seduction25/05/26 04:34 AM
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Honestly just open up like you did here. "I really want to keep you around. But I've never really had a serious relationship and I'm really unsure as to how to go about with this and keep you entertained and excited. I'm worried that once this honeymoon phase ends, you'll get bored and think I'm a pussy and leave me." You say that and she'll basically work extra hard to be your girl.
/r/seduction24/05/26 08:33 AM
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Go with option upfront. Say you can handle both. If she says na, then whatever. You dodged a 6. If she says yeah then you have a willing 3sum. Your idea has its flaws, they can cancel or her friend can cock block you or leave. If you say you can handle both, only negative is if the friend dips or the 6 dips, which isn't really a negative depending on what you want.
/r/seduction20/05/26 07:59 PM
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I don't cut women loose if I've been investing in them, even though it no longer profits me. It's my weakness.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:25 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy. Thanks. That fucks me up so much.
/r/seduction19/05/26 12:22 PM
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A man would like desparate as you describe it. The only undesirable desperation is when you continue to talk with him after he asks you not to, or if you're typing him mindless paragraphs without pause. But simply talking to a guy because you want to talk is not bad and actually can be rewarding for him and you. Throw rules out except for the rules on harassment.
/r/seduction16/05/26 01:57 PM
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Damn that's a good curse to have. Whatcha need help with exactly?
/r/seduction14/05/26 11:07 AM
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If you want to succeed in cold openers, dress nice, smell nice and ask a question with a smile. Once a stranger answers your question with their own smile, you're in for an extended conversation. Then you close with an excuse to have her number. Now before you even get there you can do escalating techniques like touching, complimenting or asking her for her availability. But the big point is dress nice, smell nice, smile and ask a question, then move into compliments and touching. The question c…
/r/seduction13/05/26 06:57 AM
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DM me.
/r/seduction13/05/26 12:54 AM
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Bro it's like you made the observation but misinterpreted. You do that "self-subdue" because it's a code: you're safe with me. The reality is the world is unsafe especially for women. She gets in the car with the wrong man and by next week her limbs are in three different cities. So how do you invite her into your car despite that context? You code your behavior. You apologize and don't tread like a psychopath because psychopaths exist. It's the same reason why we as men acknowledge one another …
/r/seduction11/05/26 05:38 AM
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I'm not sexual. Why don't women want to have sex with me? I friendzone myself and they treat me like a friend. What's my problem?
/r/seduction10/05/26 04:31 PM
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Bro every woman like every man is available. Not saying you won't find a loyal person but all of this seduction shit is about hormones and hormone activation. If you master the techniques, you master women. Doesn't hurt to have some money too though. 🤣. But even without...
/r/seduction10/05/26 02:17 PM
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Bro. I've fucked several married women. This is all bonkers.
/r/seduction10/05/26 01:11 PM
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There you go my guy. Women like gifts and money. Not saying to simp but the accomplishment of free pussy is overrated. Pussy is better than no pussy.
/r/seduction09/05/26 07:09 PM
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As a guy with 60+ bodies, yeah cold approaching is worth it. Tf you mean?
/r/seduction09/05/26 07:07 PM
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Bro is delulu. Number is goal.
/r/seduction09/05/26 07:06 PM
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Lmao. She flipped you the bird? Bruh. You sound unpredictable. Your story doesn't add up.
/r/seduction09/05/26 06:44 PM
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I know it wasn't me. The point is you can't in any of your experiences remember a time where you could not withdraw your consent and I don't have any experience where women and I weren't in physical communication. Sure we can imagine some gargantuan man who can incapacitate women but from her own testimony, he asked her if she wanted to continue, she consented, then she assumed the next position. There's no position where a woman can't breathe during sex outside of physical choking, and she does…
/r/seduction04/05/26 10:48 PM
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Bruh.. I've slept with 50+ women multiple times, I've never had one incapacitated. The position you're both describing isn't exactly physically realistic. How is he impairing her breathing? She's clearly trolling us (remember this is a seduction subreddit). I mean courtesy text afterwards? I'll assume you're a woman. Have you ever been in a sexual position where you were breathing impaired (not including voluntary choking)? The only four possibilities are she had her face planted in the bed ( wh…
/r/seduction04/05/26 09:07 PM
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Which is what? What was he doing? I fuck my wife every day from behind and I have a big dick. Granted I'm not fucking for 30 minutes but come on, what exactly could this man have done to make her unable to even slightly protest? Sounds like she was high and is misremembering. I say that not to dismiss her but as a guy with a big dick, I'm constantly told not slow down with something as simple as an open palm pushing against my waist. She did nothing but somehow he's a criminal? Come on.
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:39 PM
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Sweetie. It's not sexual assault. You have every excuse for not resisting or communicating, but you can't go accusing people days later after they ghost you that they in fact sexually assaulted you. It didn't happen. You consented to sex and they obliged. Sexual assault is when you don't consent and someone penetrates you anyway. You're "sore" then switch positions and lay there like a fish. Sorry but that's not illegal. Just take it easy next time. He doesn't have a good dick. Good riddance. Bu…
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:27 PM
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Not SA, just sex. Sounds like you didn't enjoy and maybe he didn't either. Next time speak or, idk, push him off of you. But if you consent to a position and don't actually reject him, he's not assaulting you. He's just trying to enjoy your body and trying to make you enjoy. You allege that you didn't enjoy but you want to talk with him. He obviously didn't enjoy if he's ghosting you. So you both just had bad sex. Next time just communicate.
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:21 PM
0

So you think you're not socially inept?
/r/seduction04/05/26 03:01 PM
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Bro you sound socially inept. She gave you her name and it was your invitation to express interest, you didn't so she, realizing you're uninterested, has to drop her interest in you. Question is why didn't you capitalize when she was interested? Why do you want interest after you show her you're not interested?
/r/seduction04/05/26 02:57 PM
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What do you think fan is short for? Also it's another joke.
/r/seduction03/05/26 09:11 PM
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She typed "I've never been on a bike before" and you interpreted it as change of plan because she's reluctant. That was lame. Bike then dinner was your ace. Should have doubled down. Right now you just have to wait but you pretty much shot yourself in the foot. Things were pretty good day one. You misread something. Things went downhill. Happens.
/r/seduction03/05/26 04:39 PM
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My guy it's 2026. You want this to work or do you want this to work like it's the 80s? Her bio says...full stop. It's tinder. You're an older guy. She matched you. She's dtf. She filled out that bio months ago so to not seem too generic but she's 25 my guy, she's generic. Where do you take her? You take her to your hotel after some sort of setup that isn't related to her profile. I want to hit you with another perspective and maybe it'll be more didactic because you're an older gentleman so you …
/r/seduction03/05/26 04:02 PM
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My guy just ask for her number. You're kinda cool but also kinda corny. You're just going to text her on tinder all day? She's 20 years younger, just dick her down and maybe hand her some pocket change. What are you on? Animal rescue. Come on my guy. You're calling her boring but you want to take her to an animal rescue and you're old enough to be her dad. Brah.
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:47 PM
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Bruh nice and short, you wanna communicate interests, this is how: You try to touch, you try to get somewhere private, you try to set future plans. Nice conversation isn't anything. You and I can have a nice conversation. Doesn't mean shit. If I touch you, you understand. If I say let's meet in the bathroom, my hotel, a dinner, you understand. If I say let's get together sometime. You understand. I want to know what you texted because you probably fumbled with continued nice conversation. Sure b…
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:34 PM
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I forgot to offer a text analysis via text but yeah bro "good energy" means jackshit if you're not with her. It's common damn sense. Woman compliments your shirt then spends the rest of the day being a social butterfly, does she want to smash you or is she just a social butterfly. Your problem is you don't understand why you're performing and you don't understand how to communicate interest. If you just stayed around her and made her feel special, she'd think... Oh this guy really likes me. But …
/r/seduction03/05/26 03:24 PM
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As another commentator pointed out, you're giving LDE instead of BDE (Big Dick Energy.) Women want BDE. It's that simple. If you don't have BDE, you won't have 96% of women. There are women who don't care for BDE... But I mean you went to a club so.... Maybe try a library or museum?
/r/seduction03/05/26 02:34 PM
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It's 2026, why would anyone be a Seinfeld fanatic. Read a calendar.
/r/seduction03/05/26 10:46 AM
7

How did it piss you off and are you a cop? Your instructions were ass.
/r/seduction03/05/26 10:43 AM
1

Great advice?
/r/seduction03/05/26 10:40 AM
4

Bro this is a seduction subreddit, i.e. how to behave to get laid. If bro wants to do a crusade against political correctness or wokeness or Idiocracy or whatever, then this isn't the subreddit for it. Dude wants to not come off as an asshole so he can come off in an asshole. Also my response is exactly consistent with my advice. Just state your piece then move on. Because again, the focus is to use people to get what you want.
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:16 PM
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The logical thing is to realize people are tools and play them like a videogame. Gold diggers like money and will blow you if you let them believe you will enrich them, so move that way. Why do you care if some idiot thinks Corporal Punishment is good? Do you have kids? Bro I tell you I like to eat my feces, do you care? Just take note not to eat with me and guess what, you never will. Most of those issues you're talking about are things that have no bearing on your life. No one can go back to a…
/r/seduction02/05/26 01:46 PM
1

I have a YouTube playlist just for this if you're interested DM me.
/r/seduction01/05/26 09:26 PM
3

No disrespect, but what the loser?
/r/seduction26/04/26 11:07 PM
1

Oxymoron.
/r/seduction24/04/26 03:32 PM
4

Bruh this just sounds like you're getting bullied.
/r/seduction23/04/26 07:04 PM
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Lack of confidence gets you nowhere Chief. You can play it safe or you can play the game but you can't do both.
/r/seduction23/04/26 05:44 AM
4

Bro stop playing. Girl said she wants casual and sex was great. Homie is in. She don't want lovey dovey, how are you, come to the pizzeria bullshit--she only wants dick so give her dick.
/r/seduction23/04/26 04:37 AM
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Bruh you're in.. just text her "You up?" Late at night.
/r/seduction22/04/26 04:11 PM
1

Is let's catch-up some type of a question? Bro dm me three examples. From what I can tell you're chumping and getting chumped back. You can easily say, "You're really easy to talk with, can you grab a drink Friday?*. Or "I'm enjoying this conversation, want to get some dinner Saturday." But you appear to write "Let's catch up" which doesn't even make sense. It actually sounds like.... Stop talking and let's talk much later because how is texting different from catching up? If I'm texting someone…
/r/seduction21/04/26 12:58 PM
2

Bruh. Your title skills are ass.
/r/seduction19/04/26 12:01 PM
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All women are easy. That's the point of seduction. If you're asking whether they are capable of loyalty too. Capable, yes. Will she be turning down billionaires for you, possibly, but that's just life.
/r/seduction19/04/26 04:33 AM
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I'd move on temporarily and get some practice. There's no sense playing in the big league when you haven't hit training. Go be able to command conversations, trying again with this woman right now would just be like hitting a brick wall. You can try but there's a 95% chance you'd just fail and freeze again. Alternatively, get some practice under your belt and you can speak with her again with smoothness and suaveness, you can probably get her number. Based on your description, no one, especially…
/r/seduction19/04/26 04:28 AM
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Nice work chief. Need to approach. Update next week.
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:41 PM
2

You rejected yourself but the key to carrying a conversation is asking open ended or directed, veiled questions. You asked yes or no questions then tuned out. No one would want to converse with someone who does that. "Do you play GTA... I'm walking away now.". What do you expect? You act awkward. If you need some tips, lmk. But basically she didn't reject you, you just acted like a weirdo.
/r/seduction18/04/26 01:32 PM
2

Bro is 6'3" and can't pull baddies. That's wild. Sure DM screenshots
/r/seduction14/04/26 05:25 PM
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How could we know? We're not in the bed with you. If I had to guess, you're dating below your weight and the women want to snatch you. Date at your weight level and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction11/04/26 02:37 PM
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That's rich. No pun intended.
/r/seduction10/04/26 05:46 PM
1

It's as simple as "Create interest. Get number.". How do you create interest? Same way women do: Fashion, Physique, Passion. Game isn't complicated. We men who know it do get more women and maybe there's value in selling the code but the code is simple and the dudes overcomplicating it are just confusing themselves. Your fashion sucks, your physique is trash and you have no passion outside of reddit, yeah you're a virgin.
/r/seduction10/04/26 01:26 PM
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Welcome to the real world where reality doesn't match fantasy.
/r/seduction10/04/26 10:43 AM
2

The backpack and school ID are a dead giveaway Epstein
/r/seduction07/04/26 01:32 PM
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Lol wut?
/r/seduction06/04/26 03:11 AM
1

Bro what? We don't care about your social media habits.
/r/seduction04/04/26 05:03 PM
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That's the dumbest thing I've read this year and I'm following a costly war.
/r/seduction04/04/26 08:54 AM
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Bro, right call. Physical attraction is utmost and there are millions of women out there. I married a stunning woman, great at sex and great personality. They are out there. Remember she's not supposed to be perfect, she's supposed to be perfect for you. Keep looking!
/r/seduction04/04/26 08:48 AM
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You gotta show some excitement so she gets the impression it's going to be fun and sexual. If you're silent, sorry but the guy showing more interest is going to be more entertained.
/r/seduction03/04/26 10:06 AM
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Needy? You're asking her to meet you on Saturday a third of a month before then you only check on her after nine days. You overestimated your first impression. Instead of seeming needy you seem careless, calculating and weird (not saying you are these things but anyone who goes silent then says.. remember last month when... Yeah no I don't, get lost.)
/r/seduction03/04/26 09:55 AM
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Yeah bro if you go quiet for ten days, she'll think you're just an asocial loser. You can talk somewhat in between. Good morning. How's your day. Super busy type shit type shit. Obviously radio silence won't get you a date. You're clearly a player, ghoster, stranger.. in her mind. Not that those are bad but you likely won't get a date from that impression.
/r/seduction03/04/26 08:59 AM
1

You shouldn't have any problems. Just keep cold approaching and if you want DM me. Updating your style is a no brainer.
/r/seduction01/04/26 11:58 AM
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No disrespect, you just sound ugly. If you're not ugly and you're still creeping women out, then maybe you're a creep and should just embrace that. Either way, if you want to be less creepy, here's a valid summary: https://youtu.be/vquiHLVY2qI Tldr, approach women from the front and with permission. Don't sneak up on women and wait for a welcome and don't overstay it. You know what's a welcoming sign already: she does eye contact and looks to be in a good mood. If she has resting bitch face then…
/r/seduction01/04/26 11:03 AM
2

Bro you're supposed to say "I like red flags" or some shit, but also if she's really a red flag, what are you moping about? You want your house set on fire or something.
/r/seduction31/03/26 10:48 AM
1

Great job but what the chatgpt was that paragraph? Is it glitching or were you?
/r/seduction30/03/26 11:06 AM
2

Bro is eating the whole McDonald's.
/r/seduction30/03/26 11:05 AM
2

But do Lobsters go good with butter... Nevermind.
/r/seduction23/03/26 03:28 PM
2

Respectfully, watch this. https://youtu.be/3-son3EJTrU
/r/seduction20/03/26 01:52 PM
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Cause what you wrote was stupid. Like bro. If you want women to want you, you have to know what they want and more particularly what they want from you. You have a big dick? Maybe they want that. You have a big wallet? Pretty sure they want that. You have a nice body? They probably want that. So you engage them on what they want. Not on your opinions of Israel and Ukraine. You want their pussy, they want your ___. Talk around that.
/r/seduction20/03/26 01:38 PM
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If nothing else you're hilarious. As for "how to fake not being a douche?". What might help you is to respect yourself enough to not argue with women.
/r/seduction20/03/26 01:30 PM
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Need to guide the conversation to meeting, compliments and sexual banter.
/r/seduction18/03/26 02:53 PM
3

That's with everything. School can teach you physics but actually being a physicist can't be taught.
/r/seduction16/03/26 10:28 AM
4

I wouldn't say 5 years of male guidance can't reach you as much as 5 brief encounters with women. That's nonsense. Though I think 5 weeks of guidance is overkill. If the advice is be good looking, be rich and be that guy then you're ready. Otherwise you're a fish out of water no matter how many women you approach, if you even approach any.
/r/seduction16/03/26 09:43 AM
1

You're wild boss but it's a good observation.
/r/seduction15/03/26 07:39 PM
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Women don't like men ghosting them just like we don't like women ghosting us; but, I guess the predominant male narrative doesn't even consider men who ghost women -- we kinda say they are the top 10% when women just see them as dicks -- no pun intended.
/r/seduction15/03/26 07:23 PM
1

Truth.
/r/seduction15/03/26 05:38 PM
0

What are you doing wrong? You're dating old women and 6s. On the dating apps only swipe right for women in your league. An old unmarried woman is very likely not a woman any guy wants to marry. Common sense is common sense.
/r/seduction15/03/26 10:56 AM
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It's only over if you want it to be over. The truth is that women are easy. You just need to understand them and interact with them through your understanding. Right now, you approach women like a loser. "I'm 5'5, a virgin at 30 and I'll never be with an attractive woman" what does a woman gain from being with a loser? Loss. Come to terms with this reality: there's no human being that can read another's mind. From there realize the art of projecting gain. Make her say, "Despite being 5'5", this …
/r/seduction15/03/26 02:30 AM
0

Wrong subreddit.
/r/seduction14/03/26 10:15 AM
4

Shiiit I actually just went to bed like a mook. But in fairness I was pretty wack that one day. Had her over playing Cyberpunk 2077. 🫣
/r/seduction14/03/26 09:00 AM
27

Washing your ass apparently.
/r/seduction14/03/26 08:59 AM
1

Well you have less uncertainty now. Either she doesn't want to spend time with you or she's too busy to spend time with you, though I don't know why you'd communicate how you're too busy to spend time with her at your house. And see no harm loss and no stupid movie tickets purchased. Open the door for another woman.
/r/seduction13/03/26 03:45 AM
1

Oh you're crazy? You're really going two feet into an unlikely hypothetical case you somehow managed to claim predates the OP. Bro. You're being ridiculous and I'm just giving advice that can work. If you don't like it, don't do it.
/r/seduction13/03/26 03:42 AM
1

He's not an employee or did you miss that? You're just an extreme pessimist. I don't know why you find it okay to spread your negativity without solicitation. If she doesn't return the interest, then it's whatever. If she does, bro is in. The whole goal is for bro to be in.
/r/seduction13/03/26 12:01 AM
1

You give up too quick. You propose the other time. You're the man. Ask, "When are you free then?"
/r/seduction12/03/26 11:55 PM
1

Bruh. Who cares if she likes you? You're the man. So if you like her you grab her attention. Your issue is you're too passive. "Should I observe and calculate?" Instead of going for what you want.
/r/seduction12/03/26 08:37 PM
1

What can go wrong? She's staring at you, so you ask if she likes what she sees.
/r/seduction12/03/26 07:43 PM
1

Just ask her if she likes what she sees. If she does ask her name and tell her you like what you see. Get the number. Go for it.
/r/seduction12/03/26 06:38 PM
4

Bruh invite her to your place after 8 PM, put on a movie, make out and then fuck her. What I mean is if she comes to your place after 8 PM she's DTF (down to fuck) and all you need to do is escalate. If she turns down the invite, just leave her alone. It sounds like she wants you to be a man.
/r/seduction12/03/26 05:09 AM
2

Meanwhile the richest people in the world are also, if not the evilest, pretty damn close to the evilest. Karma is just new age bullshit. As if the universe gives a damn about humans.
/r/seduction10/03/26 06:49 PM
2

Karma isn't real. Stop with that pseudoscience bullshit.
/r/seduction10/03/26 06:41 PM
3

Hookup. Don't worry about the future and just don't get caught.
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:58 PM
2

You just explain it. I can't stop thinking of you. Wtf bro. She either says yes or no and if she says yes you can rawdog her, if she says no. Who cares?
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:45 PM
4

So add her, fuck her, fuck her again. You got this.
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:36 PM
2

Adding her to fuck her or just to add her?
/r/seduction10/03/26 02:19 PM
1

Guy wants to know if he should fuck a married woman. I say yes. You complain. Where exactly is the bad advice? Should I have said no?
/r/seduction10/03/26 10:59 AM
0

Bro. Fuck her. It's usually not good to fuck a married woman but do it anyway.
/r/seduction10/03/26 09:35 AM
6

Bruh she wants to climb cocks not climb rocks. What are you even thinking? I'd ghost you too.
/r/seduction10/03/26 05:12 AM
1

Bro screenshot the texts. You didn't slip in some weak shit right? Also was your third date platonic? You didn't mention any touching on the second date. Tbh I once had three great dates with a woman and she did me a favor of pointing out how I needed to escalate or she's leaving me there. Were you escalating?
/r/seduction09/03/26 03:38 AM
1

Bro. What are you typing these women and why is this nsfw?
/r/seduction09/03/26 03:34 AM
1

What country? I went looking around a village before, a lot are married young but more importantly a lot have easy transportation to town. You can go town and meet a lot of women.
/r/seduction08/03/26 05:26 AM
1

Going against the grain, you should have continued. The fact that she's talking with you is proof enough that she's interested. It's not great what she's talking but as long as you're not that sort, don't let it hold you back.
/r/seduction07/03/26 07:01 PM
2

Best thing is to think you are the prize. Kinda how you looked at that 6'3" guy. You pretty much need to think you're bringing to the table because you are. A woman wants you because you can ABC. Like me, I'm confident in my sex and my money. I don't move like I'm nothing anymore.
/r/seduction07/03/26 01:48 PM
1

Bruh. I was reading this wondering wtf is wrong with you. Even so mate, just get their number. Just say, "Can I write you?" And that's it my guy. Like bro. I feel you but also. Damn. FBI couldn't get this confession out of me.
/r/seduction07/03/26 09:17 AM
4

Great advice!
/r/seduction06/03/26 08:37 PM
7

Watch this video: https://youtu.be/0rSb_QD08vw Tldr, stop talking like a friend. Start talking like a lover.
/r/seduction06/03/26 08:31 AM
7

Women do approach good looking guys and rich guys too. What do you mean? You think no woman approached Donald Trump, Usher, Justin Timberlake, Bill Gates, Justin Bieber, so on. Rich, handsome, heck sure integrity or local fame... Yeah women will approach you. They don't approach most of us because most of us aren't that rich, handsome or famous.
/r/seduction06/03/26 07:17 AM
1

It's obviously too late if she's leaving the country today, but you screwed up. Watch this video, it's one of the best damn videos on YouTube. https://youtu.be/0rSb_QD08vw Tldr, you put yourself in the friend zone being a friendly. Like bro, you'd give me a free tour of your city, what is even sexy about that? You even said you weren't attracted to her. Like bro. Watch the video then ask yourself, what did I do that even suggested I'd dick her down? I meet a woman, I'm texting her about hookups …
/r/seduction05/03/26 07:00 AM
3

A million?
/r/seduction05/03/26 06:23 AM
10

She's 38, she has mileage, just text her "You up?" at 9:30 PM. She'll know what that means. If she's yeah just propose coming over or invite her over. You're making the simple complicated.
/r/seduction05/03/26 05:56 AM
9

How to get laid; a 10 step program.. Step 1: If you're a woman, get laid. Step 2: If you're a gay man, get laid. Step 3: If you're neither, here's 8 steps towards... Seriously, men are easy. Just ask him if he wants to come over at a late hour. He'll understand.
/r/seduction03/03/26 07:22 PM
18

They can be lying to you but also a lot of women don't like the hookup scene and would prefer to just scratch that itch with someone safe than risk everything for a one night stand. They likely have a rotation and nothing serious or they're just open for a better guy to come around. But I've known women who 1/month is good enough. And yeah I was judging them even with that so they could be trying not to be judged by you or get any questions.... Do you wear protections... Is he bigger... Is he be…
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:03 AM
2

You slept with her but didn't have sex? Sounds like she's your sister. I'd say call it off.
/r/seduction25/02/26 07:17 AM
10

Fair though this guy seems to need some work.
/r/seduction23/02/26 10:03 PM
11

I just said, set it up. You have a place for her to meet? Or you looking to go to her place? Or is there a cheap hotel nearby? Bring condoms.
/r/seduction23/02/26 08:08 PM
42

Just type "Let's meet up now." If she says yes, set it up. If she says no but later, set it up. If she doesn't say either then just block her and move on.
/r/seduction23/02/26 07:50 PM
1

Dog barks.
/r/seduction22/02/26 06:33 AM
9

Go on dates that are more in line with casual sex. Suppose you're a lady, guy A says "I want to take you to Restaurant Super Rich", guy B says "I want to walk the promenade with you and pick up ice cream" and guy C says "Let's go to the bar (near my house) and grab drinks.". For shits and giggles, guy D says "I want to spank you in your bedroom." Which of these guys do you think will be going to expensive restaurant? Which of them will be super fun creative dates? Which of them is getting her at…
/r/seduction09/11/25 01:45 PM
4

Maybe you don't kiss too well when high.
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:51 PM
2

I'm kind of lost. Did she not have pants? I think your cuddling is cute and all but you should look to seize the moment. Like do you have a phone? I'll call it. Or keep in touch, I'd like to hear that you are doing ok. It's not always about getting the number, especially if you're doing a genuinely nice deed but the thing with strangers in a city, especially an adjacent city, is you rarely see them again unless you get the #. So make it a priority. You did something she can appreciate. So get he…
/r/seduction28/10/19 05:06 AM
1

Israel.
/r/seduction28/10/19 04:39 AM
1

Neither of us could say. Women tend to be down to earth. But I'm also assuming you pursue some type of physical fitness, general hygeine and a type of style. The truth is women tend to pursue these more than men so we think it's their high standards when in fact we're the female equivalent to the fat girl in sweatpants who always smells and says weird things. If you're a guy who grooms himself and did a pushup every week, you're eligible. Most of us aren't this guy so we ask why the woman who at…
/r/seduction24/09/19 04:18 PM
0

The thing is you can make them into you. Op came across a woman heavy in Harry Potter lore and he's a man just as heavy. It worked in his favor. But what if he wasn't heavy in the lore? Then what? That's where game comes in. His example is good for him but not standard game. It's more two nerds with physical needs meeting up.
/r/seduction23/09/19 03:14 PM
1

It's a matter of not being repulsive. Most women will see you as an eligible man just as you'd see most women as eligible women. It's more a case of not being hideous which 9/10 we aren't. What op did was catch a Harry Potter reference which tells us she's a nerd of sorts. She also has a friend she took out to get out. It means she's a homebody looking for excitement. The dude provided excitement (of her variety) and he wasn't hideous. He's in. Those good at game also read the woman. Op may have…
/r/seduction23/09/19 03:13 PM
2

Cringy? Yes. Successful? Yes. Worth? Yes. Good work.
/r/seduction23/09/19 03:02 PM
2

Noice!
/r/seduction13/01/18 03:51 AM
17

Yeah but sometimes people are just complimenting you and it's not really an invitation to be social. She probably noticed you were depressed and sulky and just wanted to make your day feel better. Doesn't mean she wanted to jump on your body--but it also doesn't mean she didn't. You could be like "Are you flirting with me?" and if she says "No" then say "Darn" comically and tell her to have a great day. If she says "Maybe" then say "Oh, I'm not good with social cues" and start to walk away. Then…
/r/seduction12/12/17 10:11 PM
2

Straight for the number? And you want to give her your number? No mate. Good confidence but you should get her number and maybe give her a reason to give you her number beside from the idea that your train is on the way and you think she's cute.
/r/seduction18/11/17 02:43 PM
1

Then open a porn site . . ..
/r/seduction11/11/17 12:43 PM
20

DANGGGGGGGG. But how?
/r/PussyPass30/10/17 05:47 PM
1

Bullshit. Getting a number is better than sex? What are you nuts?
/r/seduction29/09/17 01:10 PM
8

Good night, sweet dreams, many kisses, sound like gay talk. I wouldn't' sweat it.
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:54 PM
5

All the time. You problem is you think that if you meet a woman, get her number, then leave, you made a great impression. That's a horrible impression. You basically said, "Here's what a date is like . . . I'll meet you somewhere and provide no entertainment but expect you to entertain yourself and then I'll swing around later like I own you." That's ridiculous. You meet her and you show her a good time. With different suggestions on how to make the event better. It could even just be you joking…
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:21 PM
1

It means he's lying about his age.
/r/seduction30/08/17 02:07 AM
0

"Young guys have a lot of energy." This line of thought worked for me. Some engagements later--when I said I was tired (cause it was like 3 AM) she told me "I thought young guys had a lot of energy?" To which I asked if she remembered that and she said she did. And I asked if that was a good line and pretty much it was what got me in her bedroom.
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:13 PM
2

What song is this? Seems familiar.
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:10 PM
31

Ice cream.
/r/seduction27/08/17 07:19 PM
0

This isn't seduction. Also, what if she committed suicide after you spoke with her? Not saying that would happen but maybe you're connecting unrelated events? I don't doubt that you should have went for it. But you may be adding more meaning to your transaction than necessary. Although you do remind me to treat some women better.
/r/seduction23/08/17 02:03 PM
2

Have someone take some candid photos of you--i.e. when you're out looking at women. Post them here. Also, it can be how you are dressed. I'm guessing you think you're in the Matrix?
/r/seduction16/08/17 05:33 PM
2

It might be the women who can't get good dates regularly and the men who can't get dates regularly. I met this last woman I have on a bus. Few guys are using the bus, bus stops, trains, or train stops for picking up. Few of the players of the app world are picking up in person.
/r/seduction13/08/17 04:55 PM
124

I feel like online dating is for crazies. Met one woman and she was batshit. Talking about 'inches and yards don't exist.' I get you prefer the 'metric system' but good grief woman I'm trying to get laid.
/r/seduction12/08/17 03:08 PM
1

r/whoosh
/r/seduction21/07/17 02:49 PM
1

What's your source?
/r/seduction21/07/17 01:03 PM
1

Ok. Tell me when he schedules a date (although you can hint at one too!) and tell me about it too! Feel free to PM me as well. And don't leave out any details. You never know if I can learn something for my lady friend. :)
/r/seduction10/07/17 09:32 PM
1

Hey. What's happening now? If you want to type a man, type him. If you want to log onto FB to contact him, log onto FB. But tell me. There's a lot to this that you may not be doing. But for instance, I started a relationship with a woman and well, if I don't say Good Morning, she'll point it out. Either way, I think you are fine by now. Right?
/r/seduction09/07/17 08:30 PM
1

Doh! I read the last sentence too late. Am Catholic. :'(
/r/seduction07/07/17 12:33 AM
9

Haven't had sex in ten years? Recently divorced. Checks out! From a soon-to-be divorcee to a recent divorcee: enjoy life!
/r/seduction26/06/17 11:31 PM
3

listen and silence both have the same letters in them) Do they? SMH. You meant 'silent.' But good post. I skipped a lot of it since you said FR; but good post.
/r/seduction23/06/17 09:37 PM
3

Hold on . . . I'm putting the finishing touches on my blog. /s
/r/seduction23/06/17 09:32 PM
1

Talk more about free food, kthx.
/r/seduction21/06/17 10:26 AM
1

Nice. Useless tangent on cigs though. Many more stories bruh.
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:39 PM
2

I'll try to remember that...it's genuinely something I haven't really thought of yet. Even though I don't consider myself particularly interesting. Man. Last night. I was at a club. Danced with this woman. Thought I could close. Couldn't even make out. I'm a stranger so I must date her in the future. SMH. But we sat outside together. And TBH it was boring. Sitting quietly. Small chatting. Later, on my way home, some MILF flirts with me. Those 10 minutes were more exciting and fun than the two ho…
/r/seduction18/06/17 04:52 PM
1

Of course you did mate. That was on a silver platter. You just asked where you went wrong and I'm thinking that was it. I.e. you didn't go wrong you just made a complicated reference.
/r/seduction18/06/17 01:03 AM
2

Yeah you would. I'm here and I can get a kiss. This isn't a pathetic hangout or anything. It's where people get together and try to get a greater understanding of how to 'seduce' women. Your problem is you're not getting the key word is "SEDUCE." You're not seducing women by standing by the side feeling like you're the Hulk. There was another post here that had a super aggressive guy who would seem like a creep. That's not you. And if it is--then improve yourself. That's the point. But even if y…
/r/seduction18/06/17 12:30 AM
1

Ok. Your jokes are a bit complex--maybe they are more simple in an Australian context--but maybe she wasn't a native Australian? Or maybe she had a math background? But word to the wise--set up your punch lines better. It can be a r/whoosh.
/r/seduction18/06/17 12:23 AM
3

Lol dude. Good show. Can explain the sigh of relief bit?
/r/seduction17/06/17 08:37 PM
3

Dude you're wayyyyyyy tooooo aggreessssiiiivvveeeee and waaayyyyyyy tooooo desperate. Like wtf man. You pressure women WAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYY too much. You're not even making them comfortable. You come off as a creep/rapist/stalker. I mean--come on bruh. Come on! This is SEDUCTION. Do you think you are SEDUCING a woman by pressuring/tricking/potentially-raping? COME ON MAN!!! Shit! Edit (Advice): Be a lot more chill. And DO NOT stress over women. You're getting too stressed and don't even notice it.…
/r/seduction17/06/17 08:32 PM
2

And so on and so forth. You get the idea. This isn't something I just pulled out of thing air. I didn't suspect you pulled it out of thin air. Well, I sort of did. But come on man--you're going to believe everything you read on the internet (he types ironically?) Look man--it's all in how you approach. But part of approaching with a 'creep radar' in mind will likely lead to you being creepier than otherwise. If that makes sense. I.e. your subconscious will leak into your interaction. Be casual, …
/r/seduction17/06/17 08:15 PM
1

Bruh your joke was TOO complex. I didn't get it even with the syntax. I don't think she understood it. I think she thought you were being creative with your scale--not so much that you were asking for her number. It's clever--but TOO complex. I think she missed it. And you messed up with not just closing--i.e. "We're making progress" was when you should have invited her for tequilla. And when she said "What are you doing tonight?" was when you should have invited her for tequilla. You made a cle…
/r/seduction17/06/17 07:54 PM
4

Nice bruh. Mad you didn't close. Don't think I spent $125 on even five dates. LOL.
/r/seduction17/06/17 07:47 PM
1

Wouldn't call this a random approach since you bought her a drink, but good on you. When you say triangle gaze works but you didn't kiss--what does that mean? I thought triangle gaze was for kiss?
/r/seduction17/06/17 07:39 PM
2

Women like attractive men, surely? Duh. But physical attraction isn't the end-all-be-all especially not with women (or men either.) Granted, being 'fugly' is one thing; but even 'fugly' can get a woman with emotional and spiritual attractiveness. And hey, money can help too. Look at the president. He can grab models by the pussy. I'm neither particularly fit and I'm actually a bit smaller than most men. But whenever I read about men being creepy or why women may react harshly to approaches, I al…
/r/seduction17/06/17 07:31 PM
8

There is no age. You know there are some people who are virgins religiously, right?
/r/seduction17/06/17 02:37 AM
1

Yo, dude. Nice! NICE! NICE!!!!! The involve friends is something I totally forget. Thanks for the reminder. About to meet with a woman tomorrow.
/r/seduction17/06/17 02:29 AM
1

Can a PUA guide by completely comprehensive period? There's no such thing as a comprehensive guide in PUA, let alone a completely comprehensive guide in PUA. Would in-field footage be a plus? Sure. But words can be more comprehensive than footage; of course a picture is worth a thousand words, yet there's a limit to cameras still. So yes. But I've found 'footage' helpful.
/r/seduction17/06/17 02:22 AM
2

Yeah. I noticed this too. But you should have capitalized. Fuck her and her beta husband.
/r/seduction17/06/17 02:19 AM
1

Take the bus for an hour to downtown and try out the different bars. Approach the women there. Or go to school library and approach the women there. Basically, approach women where they are.
/r/seduction17/06/17 02:14 AM
3

Wow either you said the same thing someone else wrote or this is dejavu. But dude... approach casually and confidently. The reality is this: Women like Men. The creepy part is when you approach like a boy and/or stalker. But like--for instance--my friend invited me to a bar. Music was playing. She told me to drink. Moments later she's dancing on me. I invited my friend to a bar. Music was playing. She barely had a drink. I wanted her to dance. She felt pressured and didn't. Same people. One inte…
/r/seduction17/06/17 02:12 AM
5

Never stress Bruh. Stressing out is UGLY. I lost a few women by STRESSING THE FUCK OUT. Do not ever, ever, ever stress. Sometimes the friend is there to block you. And it's your loss. You should have brought a wing to busy the friend. But realistically speaking the woman will kind of let you know. But many times, it's a ploy of the woman's to get rid of you politely. It's whatever man. You didn't make that great an impact if she turned around and did this. But as others say, normally, you'd wait…
/r/seduction17/06/17 02:00 AM
2

Well, don't overdo it. It's just a sign of whether you are invested in him or not. But think of it like this. You do not want to show too much investment--and of course you want him to show investment. I think the problem comes when the man shows investment and then women choose to act incredibly uninvested. Give you an example. Met a really cute woman the other day. Initially we text back and forth, and so forth. But I want to meet up. So I don't text until two days before our plans. It's part …
/r/seduction16/06/17 01:25 PM
19

Cool. But HB12 should come with a pic or something. I mean a 12/10 is insane.
/r/seduction12/06/17 02:48 PM
2

People find social media easier than texting. Particularly if they always have to initiate or if it is time consuming. Social media is deceptively time consuming, i.e. you feel like you are doing something; whereas text is more waiting and chatting and waiting. The reality is that you're having him do everything but unless you communicate appreciation, it's a big whatever. E.g. I asked a woman out. She wrote me but declined. Now what do I do? Write her again? Wait? She's given me no indication t…
/r/seduction10/06/17 02:55 AM
3

Women can surprise you. Also consider the approach as more of an assessment than a marriage proposal. Ex. in night game, you can be a gentleman and attempt to converse with women and be politely declined or possibly get engaged and a dance. Or you can be a cad and dance behind her and get politely declined or possibly a dance. Either method you use, your approach is an assessment of the woman. You can walk up to a woman as if you're on drugs, then she may engage you as if she's on drugs, make yo…
/r/seduction09/06/17 11:00 AM
4

Cold approach women you genuinely* find attractive. IMHO there's a chance the attraction is mutual. *Not generic sexy but uniquely attractive.
/r/seduction09/06/17 05:07 AM
1

Not bad. A lot of it will be being ready for the shit tests. But otherwise you saw that the worse thing of common negatives isn't that bad. You didn't get the paranoid girl. That's the positive side to it.
/r/seduction09/06/17 05:03 AM
2

Yeah but you don't seem to be reciprocating too much. Granted he writes you daily and you respond in time, but that's about all that you have going for you. I think he knows you are interested in him--but he also knows that long distance text is limited. As long as you guys continue to talk about meeting up and meeting up isn't too far away, I think you'll be in the clear for 'something more.' Otherwise, though, assuming that he'll always be long distance, he should start to lose interest and so…
/r/seduction08/06/17 07:42 PM
1

Specify middle age.
/r/seduction08/06/17 04:31 AM
3

Uh do you guys plan on meeting up? If not, then I think he's bound to lose interest eventually unless you're really discussing something so fascinating that it requires daily communication. But I mean--if he finds a woman or you a man, do you still expect to text one another? On that topic as well? So yeah--he's losing interest or he's trying to keep your interest for when you meet up. But that's hard in and of itself.
/r/seduction08/06/17 03:42 AM
2

Depends how you lock eyes, but you can use your eyes to communicate interest. If you're trying to invite him over, as others say, smile, maybe wink--if he's clueless, but yeah you can lock eyes to invite a man over. If not interested in him, however, then probably best not to.
/r/seduction07/06/17 01:47 PM
0

Yeah I tried to sleep with one of my students once upon a time. Didn't work out. Ah well.
/r/seduction06/06/17 12:44 AM
2

Yeah I tried to sleep with one of my students once upon a time. Didn't work out. Ah well.
/r/seduction06/06/17 12:44 AM
1

Well, sounds like your at risk for getting a D. Or maybe he's at risk for getting an A? Or are you both getting an F? I'm confused.
/r/seduction06/06/17 12:39 AM
4

He changed his address. I can PM it. You can come over go there and if his roommate greets you, just use your sexual energy on him. Thanks. See you later. Seriously, it could be that you're really distant/demanding and you're not giving him any time to play videogames and/or be alone. But more so he might not be THAT interested in you or he's just seeing other people. I.e. he doesn't see your relationship as serious as you probably do. OR you're distant and demanding too much without reciprocati…
/r/seduction05/06/17 08:24 PM
1

Yeah, no. You don't dance with her friends lol. Wow, I'm a fool. To my defense, I've been in a homebody LTR as long as I was old enough to club. This whole thing is new to me. But geez, I'm thinking, "Dance with friend" and now that I think of it I don't know why. SMH. Thanks so much! Sometimes you just need to hear things to actually think about it. You have to make your way slowly to the door. So dance with her some more. Hook up. Do whatever. Eventually as the night winds down and you already…
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:44 PM
1

Do you not have male friends? They'd ask you how do you approach a woman on the street. WTF. You walk up.
/r/seduction05/06/17 02:04 PM
1

laugh with her friends etc... Ha, random gold I overlooked. But you're also saying don't dance with her friends if I am reading this correctly? Part of me doesn't want to project weakness or cowardice; i.e. standing around like I got lucky. But then I also can see how I'm not projecting desire or seriousness if I'm dancing with the waitress and trying to get her # too. Oh and one last thing, if you want to take her home, you HAVE to be able to do it in person and leave with her. How do you selec…
/r/seduction05/06/17 11:07 AM
-1

Talk to her. Flirt with her. Either kiss her or invite her to go out with you. Get number either way.
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:49 AM
4

Ok. Alright. Let's put it this way, "Wanna come over" is WEAK. "Half a movie" is TOO non-innuendo to be an innuendo. "Hey" is kind of lame too. So for your movie example--though not saying it'll 100% work.. "I have XYZ DVD. Come watch with me after class." Only issue is DVDs tend to be long. Granted you don't plan on watching it--duh--BUT you give people a way out if you ask them to commit to a 2 hour video. That's why I said wine. You can also say, "I read a new recipe. Need your help!" or "I r…
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:46 AM
4

No. Not half. But "I have a bottle of wine here. Come drink after work."
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:38 AM
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Don't know how to write a nice comment here. But SMH. Look up "Netflix and Chill." She was DTF (Down to Fuck) and you--SMH.
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:06 AM
1

Congrats man.
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:02 AM
4

Why are you trying to grab drinks? Just invite her to wherever you fucked. If it was her place, bring drinks to her. Also, try calling.
/r/seduction05/06/17 04:02 AM
3

Sorry but your story is so funny in the sense of how virgin-y it is. Lol. Cumming from a thrust grind. I never did that but I remember being a 20+-year virgin and yeah haha. Except, I didn't lie about being a virgin. You really shouldn't lie about it. But congratulations. Keep this and look back at it when you're more experienced. It'll be a good laugh. Keep fucking her!
/r/seduction05/06/17 03:43 AM
2

Lol. Had a similar situation. Chat her up and compliment her dancing. Make her laugh. But also dance well and grind well. But remember some women are dancing for FUN and some women are dancing to FUCK. You should find out which one is doing which. The FUN is a waste of your time. Just have FUN and move on to the next. Basically though, you're dancing with the FUN girls and don't realize that you're wasting time. UNLESS you can turn her into a FUCK (which would require some sweet talking) just MO…
/r/seduction05/06/17 03:21 AM
1

Uh--so you call her? If she picks up, have a cool conversation that draws on to the point where you have to ask her for drinks. (Which I'm guessing you didn't ask her to do before?) If she doesn't pick up then you try again in a week or two. Not complicated.
/r/seduction03/06/17 05:08 AM
1

Call her.
/r/seduction03/06/17 05:00 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pr6kydHvzRc
/r/seduction02/06/17 08:05 PM
1

I mean I've found if she responds well to shoulder bump she's usually DTF. I don't see this as slow as you make it out to be. Maybe I should verbally shoulder bump earlier though. I guess I usually wait until it's safe, until at least we've spent a couple hours together (fewer if intoxicated) or she's shown an obvious IoI to act. Ha are you drunk? None of this makes sense. I wouldn't read a shoulder bump as a sign of DTF, as much as a sign to do more than shoulder bump. Also, verbally shoulder b…
/r/seduction30/05/17 04:21 AM
15

My man!
/r/seduction30/05/17 02:57 AM
1

lol, does my writing come across as that autistic that you think it's more plausible I'm using an out of 8 scale? I'm not too familiar with autism to say. But 7/8 looks like 7 out of 8 to me. I suppose it can mean 7 or 8. I just don't use '/' with numbers like that. Walking out with her seems more difficult to me, and I feel like eventually it would be obvious that I did it to get in an extra minute with her, not that it's a bad thing, though generally I avoid things like this until there's an o…
/r/seduction30/05/17 02:51 AM
1

Also out of 10, 7 or 8 out of 10. The out of 8 had me thinking you really strive to be different in an iamverysmart style. Glad to see you're not that bad. What do you think would've been the correct move? Nothing about correct. But waiting for her to say 'hi' seems a bit odd. Granted, I wasn't there. But maybe not jumping out and saying "Hey Harvard (or her real name)! Come join us." She responds, "Oh I can't, I'm heading to the grocery store." You say, "I'll join you, I'm going that way too," …
/r/seduction30/05/17 12:05 AM
4

Originally I thought you were saying you feel very smart because you are Asian. But I had to reread it. Too many parenthesis, side-talk and transition. I'd second the whole "Maybe you're not 'very smart'" It seems you test well on 'aptitude tests' but I'm sure you know 'iamverysmart' is a joke. I.e. the people featured are bonafide idiots. Either way, that's not why you typed up all of this. Maybe you have some insecurities and maybe you feel inadequate, but you're not interested in psychoanalys…
/r/seduction29/05/17 01:51 PM
1

I feel like you might have been a victim of the same poor mentality I had. I.e. not understanding the goals of the first date. I wrote a question recently asking if "three dates to kiss" was archaic and most people didn't understand what "three dates to kiss" was. I'm guessing you know what it is? Either way, it's archaic. You don't go on a date to get a second date. You go on a date to get sex. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6cwp4t/so_is_third_date_kiss_archaic_now/ I do not know w…
/r/seduction29/05/17 01:22 PM
1

Initially I was under the impression that you thought it was dumb for men to ignore text; but seeing that you meant women, I have to agree and disagree with you. Obviously, I do not like to be on the receiving end of 'being ignored.' YET 'being ignored' is a subtle sign of a lack of interest on her part. And that much should be appreciated. You underestimate the value in 'silence.' As others point out, it's the same as if a woman didn't pick up her phone after you called her. The idea that she'd…
/r/seduction29/05/17 01:02 PM
1

Yes, but the game tactics are what makes him appear as a rare balance, no? I.e. the game tactics give you space but also, through game, he remains an equal? Separately, 'chemistry' and 'dealing with you as an alpha' are all part of the PUA's repertoire. Maybe you see it, but it may be that you are actually attracted to the Pick Up Artistry more than you let on. Kind of like how you might want to see a magic trick that you've already seen explained. "She's not really being cut in half!" you'd say…
/r/seduction28/05/17 02:26 PM
4

Well, I'm not white either, but I also don't go into nightlife where I'm the minority. It seems that, that isn't an option for you. Because of that the deck is stacked against you. I'm personally not into white girls like that. A few get wasted and wanna mess with me, but when I decline I'm not rude about it. Still some people will be rude; especially if circumstances allow. Either way, if I were to be rejected as a person in a minority situation, I wouldn't sweat it more than if I were rejected…
/r/seduction28/05/17 12:16 PM
3

If it isn't broken why fix it? His "Game" if it is "Game" is working. It has a woman with a boyfriend writing online about how she wants to date him and her saying she'll patiently wait to date him. If that's not proof as to why he should CONTINUE then I don't know what is. What if he just disappeared after you said you had a BF like a normal person. Then he'd be at home fapping or something. Instead, he can land a date particularly because he didn't cut the bullshit. IMO you're affirming his ta…
/r/seduction28/05/17 02:03 AM
2

You're taking too long. A couple of weeks and you haven't made out means you're not even trying to make out. Just isolate her and let her have the kisses. Then escalate from there.
/r/seduction27/05/17 01:32 AM
1

Thanks. What was your paradigm shift? Also--just between us--am I supposed to be buying dinner or is that archaic as well?
/r/seduction24/05/17 01:59 PM
1

Yeah I linked it and the original song in the OP. It's much older than Family Guy but apparently it's largely forgotten. :'(
/r/seduction24/05/17 12:03 PM
1

Yeah. I started to notice this. I just didn't realize a common practice in the 60s (or earlier) had been completely forgotten. Sometimes you're unaware that practices have been abandoned. I'm guessing men don't buy women dinner anymore. :-\
/r/seduction24/05/17 11:22 AM
1

A friend asked me if I grew up in a bubble. This almost confirms it. Thanks for the clarity. Given the video I linked, particularly from "Music Man" in 1962 the third date kiss was a thing; but it seems 1962 standards are dated and, worse, forgotten. I likely messed up a few relationships thinking I was doing the right thing while doing the worst things. Thanks though.
/r/seduction24/05/17 11:18 AM
1

Thanks. The '3rd date rule' is actually just a rule of thumb from the 50s. I thought it was common practice today. It's not really PUA as much as what "Gentleman" and "Ladies" did. But I didn't realize that time flew pass it so thoroughly. It's kind of like "Give a woman your coat to walk on," or "Give a woman your coat if she's cold," or "Open the door for a woman." The only surviving tendency from 'the old days' seems to be opening a door for a woman.
/r/seduction24/05/17 12:11 AM
0

Well at least someone has heard of it. DARN. I thought that was the date standard. No wonder I'm fucking up. :'(
/r/seduction23/05/17 10:22 PM
1

Yeah thanks. I'm beginning to get an idea of why my last few dates weren't repeated. :(
/r/seduction23/05/17 09:52 PM
1

Thanks. I'm just feeling dumb because I've been under the premise that third date kiss was the norm--anything short of that was possibly perverted. FUCK. FML.
/r/seduction23/05/17 09:51 PM
2

You guys are making me feel so stupid. :'(
/r/seduction23/05/17 09:31 PM
0

Yeah. The song I linked is from 1962. I thought it was the zeitgeist when I was growing up. Particularly before the internet and cellphones. But to find out it's been forgotten kind of makes me feel like a fool now. Thanks for the comment. I mean I don't expect it to be in Australia but I'm surprised no one has heard of it. :(
/r/seduction23/05/17 09:30 PM
1

Thanks. I'm just feeling so stupid. Because while I'm thinking I'm a gentleman for following the third date kiss rule; these women are probably thinking I'm missing a few brain cells. :(
/r/seduction23/05/17 09:28 PM
1

I just find it so strange that no one has heard of this. Now I realize how backward I grew up. For the record, there's a song in 1962 called Shipoopi where the singer talks about a first date kisser is a hussy but a third date is the girl you want: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Jj622vbrrU But I'm not trying to be rude--I just thought this was common knowledge. Kind of like saying you never heard of "Romeo and Juliet."
/r/seduction23/05/17 09:27 PM
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3rd date kiss sounds ridiculous as a rule. I've never even heard of this. Are you kidding? What country are you in? How old are you? 3rd date kiss was like common knowledge as I was growing up. But really, I'm just wondering how other people are looking at it. I'm surprised that you never heard of 3rd date kiss. Which kind of makes me wonder how many women haven't heard of it (assuming you're in proximity to me.)
/r/seduction23/05/17 07:18 PM
1

If she stopped replying it's probably because you said the wrong thing which is the risk you take by texting too much. Also, she's probably moved on to the more interesting offer. The one who knows she wants D and will give it to her.
/r/seduction23/05/17 06:55 PM
2

It's common man. I had that twice. I can't recommend any reading because I read some good things but haven't put them into practice. But if you're like me, you're not LEADING and you're half EXPECTING women to LEAD. But that's not to be expected from women--at least not for us. If we were celebrities/models/well-known, sure. But if we're just regular Joe Schmoes, we have to Man-Up because other Men are. Just be DIRECT. Not "I wanna fuck you" direct but "I'll walk you" direct. I.e. it's indirect …
/r/seduction23/05/17 01:57 PM
2

Anything really. Or "I'll walk you" or "I'm hungry too. Have extras?" Anything. Whether it works--it's better than 'good bye,' especially after kino. I was at a bar with a woman who promised to give me her #. I got the number and was rubbing her leg--she was like why am I doing that. TBH I didn't know why. Thought it was Kino but I messed up. Anyway, I went and told her "It's because you're sexy." I think she cringed. Dunno. Bear in mind though, this woman was grinding on me an hour earlier--so …
/r/seduction23/05/17 03:19 AM
1

Invite her directly--not indirectly. When she's there. Try to make out/smash. I.e. have conversation but keep relocating her nearer a good private location.
/r/seduction23/05/17 03:15 AM
12

I wish I were 18. :-| (not really, but 18 isn't old at all.)
/r/seduction23/05/17 03:09 AM
2

Quite the adventure. A bit boring at times, but interesting. By the way, probably should have went home with Ann.
/r/seduction23/05/17 03:03 AM
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Dude... I'm like ten years your senior and there are not a bunch of horny girls just hanging around at my age and competency level that I see daily in an unregulated social setting. I.e. your advice is for HIGH SCHOOL not REAL LIFE. Might be helpful for other 17 year olds, but come on . . .. Just say "Here's how to get laid in H.S." It's good information. BUT don't act like it's general information.
/r/seduction17/05/17 04:16 PM
1

Brah!
/r/seduction16/05/17 08:12 PM
2

The clickbait is real. Expected a young woman boasting about bleeding after an intense masturbation session. Was going to say pics or it isn't real that's not seduction . . . that's why I clicked . . . to say it isn't seduction.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:22 PM
1

DO NOT WAIT!
/r/seduction15/05/17 07:10 PM
1

Not a great write up. Stream of consciousness made it confusing. Didn't know you were talking with the woman with the bf until way too late. Also your use of 'hook up' is incorrect. A 'hook up' implies sex. You were 'making out' and I'm guessing 'fingering.' Seems more like you took advantage of an intoxicated woman while sober than, say, seducing her. Also, you should be careful with that because you could get in big trouble for 'rape' or 'sexual assault.' Either way, I'd mirror the other advic…
/r/seduction13/05/17 09:54 PM
1

Hey man... with the sport, I was more thinking billiards. But regarding sports, you can just play them. It's kind of like saying rock climbing. And it's more like "My friends and I are going to play some volleyball, you in?" Or "Volleyball 1v1?" As to comedy club--I wasn't suggesting you be the comedy club guy, but that you go to a comedy club--where amateur or guest comedians do comedy (not audience members.) That would be open mic (technically) but I understood what you meant by you are funny …
/r/seduction07/05/17 07:26 PM
1

Darn was looking for answers. But as others suggest--if you're good at any sports, go for that. Billiards, Basketball, etc. As to being funny, you can go to a comedy club or a stand up or even an open mic.
/r/seduction07/05/17 06:44 PM
7

gg
/r/seduction07/05/17 06:06 PM
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I'm sitting on 14 gig. No thanks. But I can try one day a week. Monday a good day since I go out weekends.
/r/seduction04/05/17 01:54 AM
1

Ok real example... Though this was text--but obviously could be in person... {don't do text} Her: Did you threaten me? Me: No.. I don't threaten women. Her: Oh so you're some fancy type. Me: Do you want me to threaten you? Her: No.. I respect that a lot. Me: Oh cause I can be rough. Her: Sit down. Actually . . . Me: You want rough? You can see it's sexual i.e. the use of rough... but it's indirect in the sense that I'm plausibly talking about violence. Of course this is better in person with bod…
/r/seduction29/04/17 07:43 PM
1

Never be the third wheel. Either get in the conversation or don't bother going. You don't appear more attractive by being outside of everything.
/r/seduction29/04/17 06:28 PM
2

You played your cards wrong. Should have been bolder and more interesting. Fact is you spent the whole day establishing yourself as an a-social friend who seemed to have waited until the last second to compliment a scarf she had on the whole day. Which do you think is better, her saying 'nice pants' when she first sees them or three hours later? She might have been interested, but you weren't interesting. Your attitude to the conversation seemed more third wheel. You blew it IMO. Can you salvage…
/r/seduction29/04/17 05:27 PM
1

Read her body language. Like the other user is saying--lead don't chase. When her body says no--disengage.
/r/seduction29/04/17 03:05 PM
2

Flirting is indirect sexual propositions. Do comedy if you want women to laugh. Sure can have funny flirting--"I once had a woman moaning so much she started squirting on my bed thinking she was peeing, Hahaha!"
/r/seduction29/04/17 03:05 PM
2

I'd probably use that last one though.
/r/seduction29/04/17 01:27 PM
1

As others are saying, "Indirect sexual propositions."
/r/seduction29/04/17 01:26 PM
1

When women are not interested disengage. It's really not complicated. Too many other women you can engage on. And if you want her to think you're attractive, maybe attract another woman right in front of her face.
/r/seduction29/04/17 01:20 PM
2

Bruh dinner, documentary, billiards, anything... all of them can lead into a variety of things. But if she's DTF which I'm guessing she was then maybe don't just say dinner. You can say "Dinner and a dicking but we can skip the dinner?" or "Dinner at my place" (which is innuendo) or "Dinner then whatever?" But "Dinner" is getting the wrong message. You already hooked up with her. You are already in constant contact with her. She already kissed you. Why are you sitting in a restaurant with her? A…
/r/seduction29/04/17 01:17 PM
1

By flirting normally. Flirting is positive for a conversation. If you're not flirting why are you conversing?
/r/seduction29/04/17 01:12 PM
1

Because she's looking for sex and you're offering dinner. Come on man. She wants one thing and you offer another--why would she stick to it? If you go to a store and they say "We don't have what you came in for but we have something totally unrelated" do you still purchase the unrelated product? It's classic NOT PAYING ATTENTION.
/r/seduction29/04/17 01:09 PM
1

I wouldn't not approach. And delaying--while looking over or stalking--can be a bad impression... some call it Beta--or hovering. Granted it's hard to approach, but just do it or chalk it up as a defeat. But your confidence is in your body language, your voice, the things you say, and how you handle shit tests. E.g. You spot a group and you, A) walk over and acknowledge them. "What are you ladies looking for in the mall? Maybe I can help." (We're just walking around) "Oh, I thought you were look…
/r/seduction29/04/17 01:06 PM
0

Did he mention his age?
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:40 AM
1

Uhh--dude--get wingmen. Your wing is there to distract the women you're not interested in. Otherwise, you're going to need to isolate whoever you're trying to talk to. I.e. "Wanna go talk over there?" If you're trying to pick up a woman from a group of women (or in your case girls)--well let's just say if you know you aren't ready then don't try it. Get you a male friend who can help you isolate your target--and you can return the favor whenever.
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:37 AM
1

Ok so you should have mentioned that you are in an all-boy's school. But pretty much just get two friends and go to the mall. Teenage girls are at the mall. And with your two friends, either go to food court and chill--approaching girls as a solo, duo or trio (depending on the girl you're looking for) OR go to the clothing outlets and wander around. Only problem with that is you may get kicked out of the store. But yeah--dude--go to the Mall. If there's no Mall then go to the Library.
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:34 AM
2

35 year old checking in. I . . . just . . . oh wait Chris Hanson is at the door.
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:32 AM
1

I feel like you're pretty liberal with that dick blur. I mean--I don't need proof. But it seemed pretty generous. LOL. Otherwise, you obviously need to register it.... ALSO--I thought Tinder was a DTF app? Why are people surprised that women are DTF on Tinder?
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:28 AM
1

I've seen it a few times (from start to finish). Although I think it's pretty common but unnoticeable. Sometimes you'll see a man and woman chatting and think they know each other--then he gets her phone number or says 'have a nice day.' Pretty much anytime you see a man and woman talking* it's a daygame approach--since--let's be honest--when are guys and girls really talking? *All fun and jokes aside, if you pay attention to his body language you can probably tell that they aren't a couple--i.e…
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:23 AM
1

Openers aren't that important but that one also wasn't great, particularly if she didn't look familiar. The other day it was kind of raining and kind of cold but I saw a woman in shorts and short sleeves, so I said, "You thought it was going to be warmer?" She laughed. Then I started chatting and she started asking me questions. Got her number even after she insisted on an email. Your problem is your number acquisition is too fast. And your approach is kind of silly and irrelevant--and a lie and…
/r/seduction27/04/17 11:20 PM
3

You lost it after you lost the Oval Office man...
/r/seduction26/04/17 01:52 AM
4

Don't. Although live your life. Maybe things will rekindle naturally but not necessarily with your pressuring her. It's over. Giver her space. Get away from over her neck. Get laid. Live your life. But really, really, don't.
/r/seduction24/04/17 11:30 PM
1

I did some research and it turns out feminists may have had a hand in the popularity of coffee and also shut the fuck up.
/r/seduction24/04/17 11:28 PM
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Ok.. well, you'd say it in your vernacular. I.e. I had a good conversation with a woman to where she invited me to the bar she was at. I asked what was there. She made a joke and I said "Bye [her name.]" She then asked me, "Lol, what happened. Did I say something wrong?" and I repeated the bye. She then chased with a "Nope, my turn to be annoying." I don't know if 'bye' is an appropriate vernacular for you. But as you can see, the vernacular can be effective to let her chase you. To me, taking a…
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:22 PM
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Uhhh... when she says something stupid say "I don't have time for this." She'll either chase or you'll be relieved of her. Either way, eventually just tell her you'll be at so and so bar later that night and tell her she can meet you there. Make it a bar that you'd actually be at--or that you'd be close to in case she doesn't confirm she'll be there [or go with friends.] If she shows up--escalate sexually and remind her "this is way better than texts." If you have sex with her--then you can go b…
/r/seduction23/04/17 03:58 PM
1

WTF are you me? I had the same night. Except I had one drink. What I tend to do is order one drink. But not knowing alcohol well, I think it's hard liquor. So usually what I do is order the house whiskey. Then I patronized the bar AND I have alcohol in my system. I mean unless you're rehabilitating, I'd suggest just doing one hard drink. Otherwise, if you insist on being sober, it's really as you put it, just practice. Walk over with a deep compliment and an invitation to dance. The good thing a…
/r/seduction23/04/17 12:01 AM
9

NO. Text convo only good if she's around 15 minutes away. Otherwise you turn on an oven for another man's meatloaf.
/r/seduction22/04/17 08:33 PM
9

If he's Dad why am I paying child-support?
/r/seduction21/04/17 10:46 PM
1

In all fairness, you have more options than most. Yeah don't beg for pussy, but not everyone has that abundance. Sure--abundance is better. And being needy is beta. But sometimes women play hard to get and it's not necessarily a LATER! But I'll give you credit, that certainly is a good way to go about with it. Just--if you have nothing better to do--get rejected again IMO. no, not 5,10,not even 3. But really another rejection isn't horrible. I see you on 'legal' but that might be a bit extreme. …
/r/seduction21/04/17 05:23 PM
1

Well, there's many ways to go about with it. But I'd try to set up the next date in her house--and escalate into sex. If she wants you in her house, chances are she wants sex. OBVIOUSLY it's not 100% and if she doesn't, doesn't, doesn't want sex, just next her. But chances are if you're sneaking into her place after 9 PM, you're not her friend. I MEAN COME ON MAN--WHY DID SHE TELL YOU TO SNEAK INTO HER HOUSE IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO HAVE SEX? HAVE YOU EVER TOLD ANYONE TO SNEAK INTO YOUR HOUSE THAT…
/r/seduction21/04/17 04:07 PM
2

Woujo, you're the man and you have great advice all the times so not really looking to be at odds with you. I suppose I didn't give context--but she'd kiss him back. It's about tone and body language. A deep look in her eyes while his arms are around her waist and a lean forward--then it's not 'sexual assault.' Hard to narrate but as long as the body language is there--the sequence of events follows. It's different if he has her arms around her and she pushes them off. Or if he's like "Me too" a…
/r/seduction21/04/17 04:04 PM
5

Dang man. That's hard to prepare for. Yeah I think it was a shit test and you failed it miserably. Easy answer I could imagine would be, "I just want to be friends." "Me too. (and kiss her.)" Or even, "Cool, it's a good thing that friends fuck too." Then take her upstairs. The problem with your response is it's so beta and almost like you're begging for sex which is a big NO NO. "I just want to be friends." "But you like me and we spent so much time together and I was clear about my intentions!"…
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:20 PM
23

Or let me do it.
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:09 PM
1

1
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:08 PM
23

Unless you're looking for jail sex.
/r/seduction18/04/17 10:05 PM
8

You don't. Escalating over the Internet is pointless since you can't finish. She's just be hot for the man after.
/r/seduction15/04/17 07:59 PM
1

Coke the drink? Dude--all you need to do is open with a woman and get her number. It's not complicated. As for cool hobbies--WHO CARES IF YOU DO NO KNOW HOW TO TALK ABOUT YOUR HOBBIES. E.g. here's an example of me last night told in a non-interesting and an interesting way: "I went to a club with a friend. Danced with a woman. Bragged about it to my friend. He later danced with a woman. We left the club." THAT'S BORING. Same story, embellished and more fleshed out: "My friend was visiting from o…
/r/seduction15/04/17 01:51 PM
1

I missed it. Are you suggesting this as a theoretical framework or is this something you've actually done?
/r/seduction15/04/17 01:42 PM
2

Had that problem last night. Was with a friend--he kept whispering they look young but I notice the woman has a college reference. So I'm just wasting my time reasoning with him that she has to be in college. Lo and behold, I approach, find out her age, it's younger than me, but it's legal and--well--I got dick for legal women. So yeah approach and get the number. Like I was telling my bad wing, IF she's too young, DO NOT CALL HER. It's that simple. You don't need to call a woman whose too young…
/r/seduction15/04/17 01:32 PM
1

Few female friends is OK. The point was how much to text and the point is you'll have less to converse with if your texting more often. I.e. if you see something on social media you think she'll like, send her in person.
/r/seduction14/04/17 03:07 PM
1

It's not nuanced. Unless you're lying, you're sabotaging yourself. You can have fun with women but instead you choose to troll other men who want you to have fun with women. Come on. It's not nuanced. It's self-sabotage.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:34 PM
1

Lucky him. Prison is no joke.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:33 PM
1

Few female friends is OK. The point was how much to text and the point is you'll have less to converse with if your texting more often. I.e. if you see something on social media you think she'll like, send her in person.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:25 PM
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Ok. Be bold. Be Bold.
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:26 AM
1

If you think that's fun than who knows. If you're just joking then that's on you. But yeah I just came off of a date where we just sat around listening to music and touching each other. It's not absurd to just sit around, chat, listen to music, and touch each other. Just sell it better. But if you just want to joke around then it's your loss man. Not like I'm not going on dates or something.
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:26 AM
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Who cares what it is--just make it sound fun and get a woman there. I.e. what you just wrote doesn't sound like fun. You can say it's a rap. Say you're a rapper. An aspiring rapper. Maybe some woman would take an interest. But also emphasize how you're not serious about rap. And you want to be more nuanced.
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:24 AM
1

Ok well. If you think a guy is flirting with you, it's because he's flirting with you. No such thing as an accidental flirt on a man's part. Maybe not even on a woman's part TBH. Especially not some 42 year old.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:49 AM
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Uhh what? Dude. Attractive guys are in a league of their own. If you mean MODELS. But you become ATTRACTIVE when you at least try to ATTRACT. If you don't try to ATTRACT then you'll likely not be ATTRACTIVE.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:48 AM
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Dude... I just ruined a date because she liked music much more than I did. Just talk passionately about music from now on. Then invite a woman to hear vibes with you. Simple as that. or you can go the poet/writer's route. Just talk passionately about your writing while on a date-then read her up your work. If you're any good? Or read her the works of good writers.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:47 AM
1

Do what? Have fun with you? What do you do for fun?
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:43 AM
3

Dude. "I like you like I want to take you out and get to know you better." Type that.
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:41 AM
5

And then afford to date another woman at that! I don't know about the whole hit me all you want but I understand. Too many men sitting in prison for something stupid like a pointless fight. Did your friend get any time?
/r/seduction14/04/17 02:00 AM
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The video on the friendzone was pretty helpful. Check it out. Your issue is that you're putting yourself in the friendzone then wondering why women keep you in the friendzone. First off, she hasn't seen you in five years. You can approach her as if you're a new man. She's not holding that five years against you. You also have a perfect excuse for getting to know her. Uhh--we knew each other five years ago and lost touch--let's catch up. EASY. But look man it's all in how you behave with women an…
/r/seduction14/04/17 01:04 AM
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Well explain to her what you mean. But be careful. Taking the cowardly route will not yield what courageous people get. I.e. be bold. Say you like her as in you'd want to take her out. But you're also cool with what you have now. BUT if you were to take her out you know it'd be amazing for both of you. THEN DELIVER.
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:56 AM
1

This was above and beyond. Thanks for the share!
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:53 AM
1

While experiences are important, it's also worth noting that your experience isn't a mirror of the experience in the video. I.e. how you describe it--"NUCLEAR OPTION" and ultimatum isn't the same as "I don't look at you as a friend." (which while not the best delivery isn't as bad as an ultimatum.) Ultimatums almost never work. That's a more true take-away from your experience. Seducing a friend by making her jealous and/or standing up for yourself is completely different and, I believe, workabl…
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:42 AM
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Uh--are you a woman? Or a man? Because that wasn't clear. But yeah he was flirting with you and yeah he's married. And no he won't likely leave his wife for you but he will likely have sex with you given the opportunity. And if you're uncool with that, then break it off with him. If you don't care, then give him the sex but don't expect him to break off with his wife for you. Also don't harass his wife over it. How you break it off is by asking "How's the wife?" How you get him to advance on you…
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:11 AM
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No risk no reward. Doesn't seem like you seduced her though. I also don't think "Hey wyd tonight?" will work. Since it's so random and she's likely not thinking about you right now. Probably better to get to know her. So--NO on the DM. But if you do it--who knows it might work? Unlikely to. But it might. I wouldn't.
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:08 AM
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OK better luck next time. Just keep the FUN mentality in mind. What is FUN to you. Then invite a woman to tag along. "Girls just want to have fun."
/r/seduction13/04/17 11:12 PM
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Ok dude. Key word: FUN. I.e. how can I have fun and how can I invite her to have fun? So just figure--what would be fun? Free concert? Philosophy Debate? Movie? Documentary? Then invite her to come along. Simple as that.
/r/seduction13/04/17 11:12 PM
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Good post. I don't know what I'm supposed to see in the photo. But yeah I think the main thing men miss out on is "FUN." If I ever go into the relationship counseling sctick I'll try to emphasize that. For reference, can you share what the exchange on the whisperapp was? Censored of course.
/r/seduction13/04/17 10:26 PM
1

Bigger question is what is an incel.
/r/seduction13/04/17 10:22 PM
3

Don't.
/r/seduction13/04/17 10:03 PM
1

You never got one? Or got on? Didn't you ask the girl out?
/r/seduction13/04/17 09:20 PM
1

How did date go?
/r/seduction13/04/17 09:17 PM
1

How did your date go?
/r/seduction13/04/17 09:16 PM
1

Text less than her. Simple as that. Unless you need to communicate something. But save good communications for the date. So you're not sitting around having exhausted your whole discussion bank. As to the question of 'making friends.' WHAT?!?!?!?!? If you and a girl are friends then you're not seducing her and you can straight up treat her like you would a dude. I.e. texting her whenever you feel like it about whatever you want. I do that with my married friend. It's cool. But clearly I'm not ge…
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:51 PM
1

Uh. Go to her place. But really your 'non-ideal situation' is more 'ideal' than you think. Unless you're some wild jackhammer--having sex on a bed is practical. What's more-why would you not have a small bed? Come on dude. You're good.
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:46 PM
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It's called DISCIPLINE. At least feign DISCIPLINE. Honestly, if a dude can't CONTROL himself then I don't see why a woman would let him in her place. That's like a recipe for disaster. If you lack self-discipline, work toward that. I don't have tips for that. The main tip is focus on that moreso than you focus on women right now.
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:43 PM
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DO NOT text her except to set up dates. Notice what she said to your friend "We aren't texting/talking enough." What does that mean? It means she wants to text/talk with you. IF SHE TEXTS you then sure TEXT BACK. BUT clearly you have a better shot at another DATE--where you can be making out--if she WANTS TO TEXT/TALK with you. Imagine the situation where you're both texting and talking with each other. Guess what? When you ask her out--she'll say--I'm busy BUDDY. Instead of "LET ME MAKE SOME TI…
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:41 PM
1

Great article. Thanks a lot!
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:15 PM
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Yeah hearing this threw me off one time. I was like--cool we're not having sex because I genuinely just wanted head. Then suddenly we're having sex and I'm like--Whoops.
/r/seduction13/04/17 06:48 PM
1

Think like a punk and you'll get punked. Scared... making a comment scares you? FOH!
/r/seduction05/04/17 05:10 PM
1

Because their pussy isn't ...?
/r/seduction05/04/17 05:09 PM
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I don't know what you mean. How about take a recording of your coffee date. Edit out names (if you need to) and post it as FR. Or just do a transcript with fake names. But don't see how you can expect to improve without a diagnostic. I.e. where you are going wrong.
/r/seduction05/04/17 03:48 PM
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Yeah. I said give an example of your own conversations. That way we can modify it. :-|
/r/seduction05/04/17 03:30 PM
1

A kid stopped you from responding? Was he half-orc?
/r/seduction05/04/17 03:30 PM
2

Again--give a play-by-play. It's about spicing up your conversation and your own situations. It's not some abstract.
/r/seduction05/04/17 03:06 PM
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First off.. if you're so rich then send me $1000 right now. Second, and less importantly, just keep conversing with her and flirt. I.e. make sexual humor with her, touch her, sexualize your conversation etc. IF she entertains it. You have a shot. IF she says it's inappropriate--push a bit further. But if she puts her foot down and avoids you, you lost a good friendship and unless you're willing to do a crime (which you ABSOLUTELY shouldn't) you messed up big time. In other words--you'll need to …
/r/seduction05/04/17 03:05 PM
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The jokes should be lightly sexual, dude. Everything--lightly sexual. For instance, woman told me her name meant "Pure," I said "Hopefully not too pure" and held her hand. I could have said, "Interesting" which is FRIENDZONE or I could have said, "You're not pure unless you're a virgin," A DICK THING TO SAY, or even "You don't seem pure" which could be a JOKE but it's no even remotely sexual. Point is--keep it SEXUAL even lightly so. And keep the kino. Don't joke all day. Have serious conversati…
/r/seduction05/04/17 02:50 PM
2

Touching her--kissing her.
/r/seduction05/04/17 01:28 PM
1

Try flirting. If you're not flirting you'll bore women--who prefer to be flirting.
/r/seduction05/04/17 01:22 PM
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Just slip it in dude. E.g. there was a piece of artwork near me that was pretty much a plate with designs on it to symbolize a vagina. So I asked the woman "Is that how yours looks?" and maybe later said at another plate, "I'll compare that with yours." Obviously very situational. But you probably get the drift. Another dude may have been like "Interesting plate" or "Are you familiar with the historical references here?" But you make it about seeing her. And you're good. Remember everything is s…
/r/seduction05/04/17 01:14 PM
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Heavy kino. LOL. Dude--I don't know if you already messed up or not. Basically, here's the example I remember from H.S. I had a friend who would go on dates with women by playing sports with them. What he'd do is PLAY SPORTS with them. I.e. land his 3-points, hit the ball in the corner pocket, make a homerun. That's FRIEND. He's supposed to get behind her and show her how to shoot, or how to hit the ball, or how to swing the bat. I don't know where you are with this woman. But really you DATE an…
/r/seduction05/04/17 01:04 PM
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No experience in K-Com, but maybe be a bit more subtle? Also--not care about being 'the guy who only care about fucking chicks?' I went to a night club. Dudes approached women--danced with women--wrapped their arms around women--and EVERYONE knew they were interested in fucking chicks but that's not shameful in the least. Sure, everyone shames it. But admit it, if some Korean guy comes in your community, flirts with a woman, she feigns coyness and he moves on to the next, you're thinking--Where …
/r/seduction05/04/17 12:51 PM
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Much better than "Hi, do you want to see my YugiOh collection." But seriously, start normally but shift it to her. "Hi, how are you? What's your name? Pretty name for a pretty woman" as opposed to "Hi, how are you? What's your name? OK, cool." That one compliment early in the conversation lets her know that you're not trying to just be friends. And let's her know to look at you as someone who wants to have sex with her and to now look at you as someone who she'll potentially have sex with. Makes…
/r/seduction05/04/17 12:15 PM
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Yeah but how was freshman year? I'm not saying that eventually things don't change--but freshman year is more "WTF is going on?" than "Let's clown." I'd guess you're more third, fourth or even fifth year, right?
/r/seduction05/04/17 12:13 PM
1

Cafeteria, Library and Dormitories.
/r/seduction05/04/17 05:07 AM
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NO NO NO! Don't make friends then choose one to be a GF. That's ridiculous. You don't choose from friends a GF. Your girl friends have boyfriends. And don't worry about attracting attention. That's the POINT. You know how many times I see guys approaching women and think WHAT THE FUCK IS HE DOING? Zero. Instead I think--YES YOU BRAVE SOUL! or DARN HE STRUCK FIRST. If you're tall--then that's good. WOMEN LOVE TALL MEN. Look--going to groups is hard, being busy isn't, the Bus Stop definitely isn't…
/r/seduction05/04/17 05:06 AM
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No tips needed. She said you can surprise kiss her--so just do that. In general you'd want a good area--but if I were you--I'd fake some emergency somewhere isolated and random--then make out in some dark, obscure space. It's not complicated at all. Ideally under bleachers--but I don't think those are common anymore.
/r/seduction05/04/17 04:53 AM
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Wow partway through I wanted to choke you. Why did you end the conversation so quickly and not get the number? Plus, dude, always try to bring the conversation back to her. Not her studies and how she enjoys it. That's not potential suitor. And it's confusing. Look--CLASSIC EXAMPLE. WRONG: Hey, do you have 5 minutes for a conversation? Why? Dunno Ok Where are you from? Turkey What year are you? 3rd I'm 1st. What do you study? Biology Do you like your Professors? Not really OK, bye! BETTER: Hey, …
/r/seduction05/04/17 04:48 AM
1

But it doesn't make sense.
/r/seduction05/04/17 04:39 AM
1

Death threat?
/r/seduction05/04/17 04:38 AM
1

Now that you mention it--it really is an ugly sweater. Almost feminine.
/r/seduction05/04/17 04:37 AM
1

Yeah so College ISN'T like the MOVIES. You don't capture rooms. You shift to your class, sit down somewhere and take notes or listen to lecturer. There's no socializing in class or out of class but very rarely. More socializing happens in social classes (which you likely won't take first year), the dorms/residences and cafeteria. You're not going to capture the cafeteria unless you're a super model or have a bad ass entourage--which I'm guessing neither apply. As to first impression--that's only…
/r/seduction05/04/17 04:32 AM
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Make your approach about her--and not things outside of her. And keep conversation on her--and not things outside of her. I.e. not her professor or the coffee she's drinking or the store she bought her outfit from. On her--and your potentiality as a sex partner.
/r/seduction05/04/17 03:50 AM
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I think you are mistaking "friend zone." "Friend zone" basically means the woman doesn't see you as a potential sex partner because you never approached her as a potential sex partner. I.e. "What classes are you taking next semester?" doesn't get the panties wet. Is it friendly? Absolutely. Did you dismiss yourself sexually? Most likely. You can be friends with women. But don't expect them to be sexually attracted to you if so.
/r/seduction05/04/17 02:14 AM
1

Uhh... yes.
/r/seduction05/04/17 01:42 AM
1

This.
/r/seduction05/04/17 01:41 AM
1

Don't ask and don't care. Unless he's in the room or something. Then gtfo.
/r/seduction05/04/17 01:35 AM
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You don't. You hit on her.
/r/seduction05/04/17 01:30 AM
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I'm not two-hours patient--but I am pretty patient. I need to stop tolerating these abuses.
/r/seduction03/04/17 09:31 PM
2

Hey man go for it. Get the most beautiful and ideal body type. I was with a woman last night and flunked but if I could pull out the dollars, I'd have no quibble. So many women are odd about sex. Like they are giving you a favor and you have to earn it. At least with an escort its clear what earning it is. Let me know deets. I'll probably follow your example!
/r/seduction18/03/17 01:09 PM
2

Should I be watching this show?
/r/seduction16/03/17 11:08 PM
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If you have the money, yeah. Particularly if you're sure that you can't pick up a woman. Problem with hooker is regular sex is better than one-time sex. if you could afford regular sex then a big yeah. But it's a waste of money since pussy should be free. But like others say--go for a woman who has great reviews and/or you suspect will have great sex. i.e. go for someone who might be athletic. Have her rock your world. Not too many women can have sex well. If your first experience is with a woma…
/r/seduction16/03/17 08:22 PM
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Don't get your panties in a bunch. I'm referring to a Howcast in 2008: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6wi81qEDo4
/r/seduction13/03/17 06:47 PM
1

Depends on the context. If you're on the train, you close ASAP. If it's early at the club/bar you close a little later. if she's looking to head out, you close ASAP. It seems like you are constantly moving and she's there with friends, obviously you close ASAP.
/r/seduction13/03/17 01:25 AM
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I'm not too sure about your pregame ramp up. But it's whatever. Did you have a question? Try to close earlier.
/r/seduction13/03/17 12:19 AM
1

"Ah shit this ain't sesame street" is either batshit crazy or straight up trolling. If you are seriously doing these things then yeah you may need to tone down the unintentional (?) insanity.
/r/seduction12/03/17 11:16 PM
1

Yeah she just robbed him of five bucks. He got distracted by the phone number. :-\
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:26 PM
2

I do not understand what you mean; but I agree with your latter sentiment.
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:24 PM
6

"How to get laid" for men and women are different. For men, it requires a whole subreddit with years of research and experience and a bevvy of reports and experts r/seduction . For women it requires a whole sentence: "get laid."
/r/seduction12/03/17 04:24 PM
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If this is a true story, you might come off as a troll in real life. But definitely try to get the number if you don't think you can get her to leave with you.
/r/seduction12/03/17 02:04 AM
2

No. Male wings or no wings. A female wing is not even remotely appropriate. And really, that seems like a friendzone kind of thing. I.e. the women who are winged by another woman will likely put you in the friendzone. Just "hey, how are you." Who cares if its unnatural or unnecessary. Not talking to women you find attractive is more unnatural and--well how is that necessary for you? You can evolve "Hey how are you" but start with basics for now.
/r/seduction12/03/17 01:36 AM
3

Take my upvote you dirty fucking dog.
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:16 AM
1

At first I thought what a horrible thing to hear. But you really pulled it off. Nice.
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:15 AM
2

Not much else to say. Your link on coquettes early tells you neediness is unattractive. The reality is you need to make her needy for you--if you want her long term--but unless you are Shakespeare or better, you're not doing that via text. So you're not doing it this vacation. Just relax. Women make fun of neediness and aren't attracted to it. As others said, she's not going to do your favorite communicative style. And who knows she might pursue another guy. But its up to you. Just wait for brea…
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:49 PM
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Explain coquette please. But far as I understand, if she's away for a week, then you don't need to contact her. She's away man. Maybe send her one message about how you'll get back together when she's back. But no point in contacting a woman whose away about nothing. You're not really doing anything in that way. Unless you're trying to tell her you are clingy and needy? Just be cool and don't sweat her. When she comes back ask her when you guys can hang. Then fuck her good bruh. In mean time--ke…
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:11 PM
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Touch her a little more, before asking the question. And keep moving to the music. Dancing is escalated. Think of it as a tier of a rung. If you were just 'verbal' with a woman, the 'physical' wouldn't translate. The example I like is imagine playing a videogame with a woman then she turns around and says, "I love you do you want to fuck?" It's awkward. Sure you'll say yes. But it's awkward and out of nowhere. I don't know what you were talking to her about--but let's pretend it was engineering.…
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:03 PM
1

Fake the confidence. And get out of your head.
/r/seduction09/03/17 10:05 PM
1

You can also wrap your arm around his or let him hold your hand when he's leading you places. Also brush up with him or go dancing with him and drink alcohol as a reason to touch him up. But as others point out co-workers can be trouble.
/r/seduction06/03/17 02:37 AM
0

Right? What kind of question is that?
/r/seduction04/03/17 02:44 AM
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Ya'll are fucked up.
/r/seduction03/03/17 07:29 PM
1

Your relative shouldn't be attracted to you. Also your relative shouldn't look at you the same as a suitor. So not really. I.e. you may be really confident around your aunt and explain your ambitions and adventures. So yeah you'd be attractive. BUT if you go to a suitor and seem to have no ambitions or be boring, then you'd be unattractive. A lot of this is skewed, because an ambitious and adventerous fuggo is still attractive--but if you're an unambitious and boring super model you can be unatt…
/r/seduction03/03/17 01:19 PM
1

Uhhh... yeah.
/r/seduction02/03/17 09:29 PM
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Dude. It's ok to disappoint me. Just don't disappoint yourself. Also I did physics too (maybe you got that from gedankenexperiment reference.) But yeah "the easiest way to overcome fear is to do the dang thing." That's my best recollection of the quote. So this whole "I can't step forward," is exactly what 'fear' what's you to think. Go for it. If no one is at museum it's OK. Either wait or go look for where you can get smoothies or vegetarian food. Use yelp or whatever.
/r/seduction02/03/17 07:50 PM
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FYI--I don't know the situation you are in--but something like Star Gazing or Eating in a Park or going to an Observatory--these are things I wouldn't know about--but can be practical for you. Like Star Gazing LOL. I don't even know what that is!
/r/seduction02/03/17 07:30 PM
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Sorry man, I didn't explain myself correctly: I am not one who goes around a lot and therefore I don't know many places in general (excluding my area, then I am a more knowledgeable, but "my area" is not very big to be frank) Chances are that she's in the same experience you are. In in a metropolitan area. So take my advice with a grain of salt. Like I can go on a train and end up in a world-class museum. But I can't go in a car and end up in a nice park anytime soon. So translate my advice to y…
/r/seduction02/03/17 07:17 PM
2

Vegan shop, smoothie place, free concert, on-campus lecture, even a political protest. It doesn't really mater. Just see where the conversation goes and relate it to what you know. I.e. if she likes live music, you can invite her to where there is live music. If she likes to eat healthy, you can invite her to a vegetarian place you wanted to check out. If she likes fried food, you can invite her to a Steak place. Museum is a good fall back. But there are so many places you can bring a woman. AND…
/r/seduction02/03/17 06:32 PM
2

But tell me: will it get easier after my very first cold approach? Or it will be this shitty for months? Easier, yes. Shitty for months, yes. Unless you're looking to be a veritable Pick Up Artist, it'll not be easy insofar as you'd just do it--not because it's easy as much as because you have the sense to do it. It's like your homework. You just try it. I went to Grad School. Grad School Homework is SOOOOO HARD. Not even funny how hard it is. A lot of my fellow students didn't even solve all of…
/r/seduction02/03/17 06:26 PM
1

It could be a completely separate situation but that isn't made clear to her. And it's not that you 'rescheduled'--it seems like your second invite is unrelated to your first. I'm just saying what it looks like. If she were studying your posts then maybe she'd get another impression. But from a cursory glance--you don't make it seem COMPLETELY separated and you don't reschedule. You just never clarified man.
/r/seduction02/03/17 06:18 PM
2

Are you just supposed to agree with them when they say this shit? Like 'yeah damn girl you look awful, outta my sight haha.' Obviously not. Good job though man. As others say, try to talk to more and try to do some interesting things. Don't sit around. Also you can always write her about teaching her or showcasing your musical skills. Anyway good luck!
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:46 PM
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Oh and it would help if you had an interesting place to invite these women to. Since you're already at a museum--you can talk about another and what's in it. "I.e. have you been to the Natural Museum of . . .? I have to take you." Or "I'm heading to a coffee shop next week, would like to see you there." It's a good transition to getting the number.
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:42 PM
2

Your advice is golden and I've been thinking a lot about this. Thankfully, I managed to get over the "oh god I don't know what I would say to a chick". The problem now lies in actually overcoming my anxiety... I have NO fear of being rejected, what actually scares me is beyond reason: I'm simply afraid of making the first step. That's it. We all experienced it. Nothing to it but to do it. Stop thinking about it and just go. I recently didn't go. It's worse than going, tbh. Is it possible to lear…
/r/seduction02/03/17 04:31 PM
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No disrespect, especially because it's the goddamn truth, you probably nailed exactly what kind of person I am. To be fair, you're more complicated than this. But I have a STEM friend who also counters and rebuts, but never experiences. You both think you know everything, when most men forgot more than you guys ever knew (when it comes to women.) It's like as a STEM major you may feel that you know a lot, but a STEM Professor knows a LOT MORE. Not to get off topic, but the little things I did we…
/r/seduction02/03/17 02:01 PM
0

Work multiple women and give them a month before you at least kiss. Chances are that if you're not having sex in a month, you're a 'friend.' Your problem is that you're not CLOSING though.
/r/seduction02/03/17 03:25 AM
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Of all my suggestions the Library is surely the worst. But give it a try--but also try the Park, particularly on the weekends (weather permitting.) The museum may be better. It's very easy to start a conversation on the art being looked at. Well not THAT easy, but maybe easier than the Library. Although bring up the book she's reading--and ask about it or why she's reading it. I.e. for class. But all in all, you're clearly resistant to experiences and married to theories. I suppose you are due t…
/r/seduction01/03/17 11:56 PM
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Search for "Bass Solos" on Youtube. View the ones with promising titles and/or many views. Good music is good music. Try the museum, park, art galleries, and/or grocery store. Also, wherever you don't think you're good enough to perform in, you should frequent. Chances are people who are good enough to perform will be in attendance and so would people who you can form a band with and/or who would appreciate you in a band. You tend to shoot down every suggestion without acting on any. Which is a …
/r/seduction01/03/17 10:10 PM
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I'd agree. BIMN gave you solid advice. But it seems like you're looking to sabotage yourself. So you can send her: "*tell" followed by: "*you're" To really double down on being a dick for no reason. By the way, an alternative to the apology route is to go straight into the bike conversation with minimal reference to your hiccup. But be pretty extravagant. "A friend lent me his bike for the week. Wanna go riding with me? BTW I was teasing--you're not nerdy." I don't know if this would work--maybe…
/r/seduction01/03/17 03:47 PM
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Uh.. you can either go to bars, discos or pubs and NOT drink or NOT drive. I.e. either don't drink heavily OR get a designated driver/taxi/driving service. It's not complicated. Also if you know crowded place and have the self-confidence, you can go there i.e. public transport, mall, eatery, even grocery store. As to like-minded, I don't really think there are women out there who don't listen to music, read or have an awareness of videogames. Are you like a hardcore gamer? The only rare thing is…
/r/seduction01/03/17 03:37 PM
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Have sex... then be distant and only available when she's begging/respectful or you really need to get some. But keep your options open with other women. Personally, I don't think you gave the context and it seems with her "I don't have time... today" it seems that contextually you might have been out of place, but I agree with the other posts here. You have some insecurities--and it's probably by the reasoning that you haven't had sex and you haven't established whose boss. Dude... have sex. Th…
/r/seduction01/03/17 12:24 PM
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You were talking about job/income figures. You can add $10,000. How would she know if it's not a serious relationship? From what I understand, people lie all the time. On all sorts of things. Even resumes. I don't encourage lying, but if your income isn't great and its not a serious relationship there's no harm in lying. She really shouldn't be asking. Just have some money in your pocket, don't ever ask her to buy you anything, you can occasionally buy her something or flash some bills you have,…
/r/seduction01/03/17 05:53 AM
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Noice. I might download Tinder.
/r/seduction28/02/17 07:12 PM
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Also, separately, you might have sabotaged yourself by seeming to be aimless and unbusy. The second invite seems aimless (like you have no plans in mind) but also characterizes you as someone who isn't doing anything but waiting for her to accept your invitation. Combined with the whole "I'm deleting my facebook," it seems like you'd be pushy, annoying and boring. And this isn't my opinion of you. Obviously. But I know some guys who when they get your number they text you frequently over their p…
/r/seduction28/02/17 02:21 PM
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We found the OP's secondary account!
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:26 PM
1

Is the example "I'm deleting my facebook so give me your number?" If so that's obviously not going to work. For one, it seems like a pathetic and extreme attempt to close. Secondly, it seems to be putting too much pressure. Third, it's not that engaging. I had a friend try the same thing on a woman. It's really something frustrated men do to get a number from a woman. And women can tell. It has a taint of 'I hate facebook because I'm not getting laid through it and/or people ignore me on it.' Yo…
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:25 PM
2

Lie? You're trying to get laid right?
/r/seduction28/02/17 07:21 AM
9

It's the cut-off shorts you wear and the leather vest.
/r/seduction28/02/17 07:20 AM
3

Wrong impression. Women, like men, could override their first impressions. It's like if she sees you in class then sees you walking a dog, if she's a dog person, she's not going to think, 'bleh all he does is study' as much as 'he likes dogs too.'
/r/seduction28/02/17 03:01 AM
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Uhhh.... Tell him he's kind of toxic and killing your mojo. Also that his stalking bit wasn't cool. But really maybe call him out in the moment--with a 'chill' or 'why did you ask if you wanted your answer' followed with a 'women wouldn't like that.'
/r/seduction28/02/17 02:58 AM
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I don't know how they dress in Puerto Rico. But the word I use is 'swanky.' I don't get to go out often enough... but I'm sure you noticed how the 'stylish' men are dressed. Just do how they do but better color coordination and with better grooming. I'm just saying you can be casual and sharp. But also remember it's more about your interaction with women than anything else. When you approach her with confidence, it doesn't matter if you're in a bathrobe*, you can close. *Exaggeration. Dress well…
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:46 AM
1

Why is it the past tense though?
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:39 AM
1

Give some examples. Seems like you're typing the wrong things but it's hard to tell without examples.
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:36 AM
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Don't talk about game acquire it. Talk about it when you are coaching or winging or 'with the guys.' Also, it kind of seems like your friendship just isn't at that level. Are these women telling you about the ways they get men? And how would you respond if they told you ways that seemed to go against the character you know them to be? I.e. if a woman said, "I don't joke as much if I am speaking to a hot guy." What would you think?
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:35 AM
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Dressing sharp in a casual dress environment can also mean dressing sharply casual.
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:30 AM
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I don't get it. Are you a guy impersonating a girl or are you a girl impersonating a guy impersonating a girl? You keep talking about guys in the third person as if you aren't one. And then you also flirted with a guy? I don't understand. :-|
/r/seduction28/02/17 01:08 AM
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You call those 'red flags?' Dude--that's beyond a 'red flag,' that's GTFO and don't look back.
/r/seduction27/02/17 11:34 PM
3

Wym by daygame? Didn't see it in glossary to the right.
/r/seduction27/02/17 08:47 PM
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No. Maybe a 5 into a 6.
/r/seduction27/02/17 07:53 PM
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Tall and Good Looking only get you so far--UNLESS you're a model. I mean its one thing if you're Horrible Looking, but I don't get the impression that the OP is that good looking. He's just saying that in the mileu of social confidence. He seems like if a woman rated him he'd be a 6, since otherwise he wouldn't be anxious around an 8. 6 is technically good looking, but it's not model material. I've met models. They don't get surprised that a 9 matches them. Really, the model I knew didn't even t…
/r/seduction27/02/17 01:10 PM
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WHAT?
/r/seduction27/02/17 01:08 PM
2

How much is a hooker where you are?
/r/seduction27/02/17 01:07 PM
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Yeah I didn't understand that either. They both sound young.
/r/seduction27/02/17 01:05 PM
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Yeah it's possible. Just say you don't drink coffee. But getting a drink while you're out isn't really 'buying pussy,' if that's what you're worried about. But it's not really an asshole thing to not buy her a drink--or buy yourself a drink. It's only an asshole thing if she's dehydrated.
/r/seduction25/02/17 12:52 AM
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I wouldn't know. I don't personally go that route. But social media and dating sites are basically hook up sites which exist too.
/r/seduction23/02/17 09:51 PM
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Oh--maybe you should get a friend to record you. But are your arms low or high? Also maybe you're a bit timid/reluctant and thus giving off signals that you want a handshake.
/r/seduction23/02/17 09:17 PM
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I've never heard of that, but I can see how it has its merit. I just think the OP was a bit weird. "Trolls" and "I don't like your shoes" can maybe be contextually alright. I.e. if they were in RenCon or the woman had excellent shoes on. But unless a woman was also wearing things from the floor, mentioning wearing things from the floor seems weird. And I think the real deal breaker was mentioning the guy she was talking to before. Mostly because it's clear that the guy was a stranger to the woma…
/r/seduction23/02/17 09:16 PM
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I think you are absolutely right to think she's a bit receptive. She may not necessarily be interested but that's OK IMO. Unless you're a model, celebrity or really obviously rich [think Trump], women will rarely be interested up front. That's not an obstacle. But if you speak weird or do weird things then you'd likely kill the reception or completely impede interest. I personally would commend you for having the gall to even approach as many people as you have. I just think your small talk--par…
/r/seduction23/02/17 09:10 PM
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Uh how do you know? Are they hugging everyone else but you? Are your clothes neat?
/r/seduction23/02/17 08:13 PM
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Social Media has always been "easy sex." I remember being in high school and people used a site called sconex to hook up. Yeah high school. And like a fool I resisted sconex/facebook/instagram . . . and I didn't get laid for a while. BUT, game hasn't changed and the traditional works. In both ways you have to put yourself out there. I.e. your facebook picture has to be of you/sexy--yadda yadda. You pretty much have a public player's profile for your family to see. BUT with traditional game, you …
/r/seduction23/02/17 08:00 PM
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Based on the transcript alone I would think you were joking. I don't see why you would tell someone you're wearing something from off the floor or why you would ask a woman about the guy who walked off. Obviously women don't really approach men too often--but imagine if a woman approached you asking about the woman who walked off--or even telling you about something she's wearing from off the floor. Not saying you should think of something in the parallel, but just trying to make clear that, tha…
/r/seduction23/02/17 07:48 PM
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Calm down. One unfortunate reality is that many men experience a sudden surge of interest by women when they are in relationships but a lack of interest when they are not--I'd deduce that it's because those men are just flatout calmer. I.e. a man that's not in a relationship wants to get laid and feels pressured to not screw it up because if he does--it's the hand. Meanwhile, the man who has a woman on speed dial knows that if he does screw up--at least he doesn't need to go to his hand. So--asi…
/r/seduction23/02/17 05:20 PM
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If you try to escalate it and she refuses then it's likely casual.
/r/seduction23/02/17 04:14 PM
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You're probably talking to the wrong women if you remain emotionally calm. But if you'd stay calm talking with a woman who you deem a ten then, IMO, you're just being you and you already have the confidence to get her. But for the record he defines the emotions differently. I.e. her getting horny is emotional. You getting horny is emotional. So unless you're not even getting stimulated or have no desire to stimulate her, I don't think 'emotional calmness' is applicable here.
/r/seduction23/02/17 01:50 PM
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