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| 3 | The double standards a lot of these feminists have are crazyOoh the sassy one ☝️ | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/23 04:46 PM |
| 9 | The double standards a lot of these feminists have are crazyWhich dissociated identity am I speaking with right now? | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/23 04:41 PM |
| 7 | The double standards a lot of these feminists have are crazyWell aren't you a little snowflake? It's nice to know you are an outlier... But overall, the claim is still true. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/23 04:14 PM |
| 12 | The double standards a lot of these feminists have are crazyWomen do give a fuck. Women just lie to themselves about it and publicly, to not look hypocritically judgmental. If women truly didn't give a fuck, short guys wouldn't have a reason to be insecure. That insecurity stems from reality. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/01/23 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Why is it so hard to believe women can willingly date shitty men ?every woman (what some people on this sub say) No they don't. No one says that. You just interpret it that way. People speak in absolutes when generality is inherently implied. Why do these spaces conglomerate with people who can't figure out this simple, common, basic, communication feature of language? "Women like tall men" - OMG Not ALLLL women are like that reeeee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 03:20 PM |
| 7 | reverse uno card,nb the real issue here is sexist child custody laws of ecuador favouring womenThis is Ecuador... Not some soft western state overran by wokeness. This shit is already being mocked | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/01/23 09:16 AM |
| 16 | Soo... Female Genital Mutilation is considered a crime against humanity but somehow this isn't?It doesn't by default mean it's not true. Just because they dishonestly frame things, doesn't mean they are making shit up out of whole cloth with literally everything. I mean, they include video of the kid and interviews. Just google "Jeff Younger" and you can find countless sources on it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/01/23 10:58 PM |
| 14 | It's okay to have an affair ~ But only for women.I was absolutely floored when I found out that there are 100 million+ Zoloft prescriptions in this country. And we wonder why things like autism is off the charts. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/01/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.That's nice. But in general we talk about the bulk in the bell curve. Not really the tail of the curve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Unmarried parents are incredibly likely to separate. Like off the charts likely. Most people who have kids out of wed;OkC either get married or separate within a few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.It’s an issue for children. Statistically it’s very sub optimal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Of course... But women are the gate keepers to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.I'm actually a liberal progressive... And it's wild to see how ignorant of this they've become. It's like they want to avoid admitting maybe conservatives can ever be even remotely right in some arenas... And in this case, it was liberals over corrected and it led to the breakdown of the family a bit by trying to destigmatizing everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Well hopefully you learned a lesson. If you want to make a point. Make it. Find a way to do it like an adult without personally attacking people and destroying any sense of intellectual credibility you had. It completely nullifies any argument you could have had. If you have a solid point, and it's good. Stick to the argument and make a good point. If you start using logical fallacies it just highlights the lack of confidence in your own argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Absolutely... It was part of traditional partnering. Women had to be FAR more selective with who they partnered up with as the risk of having a child with a shitty father was high, and if it happened, it's a massive detriment to her and the child. I mean obviously nothing exists in a vacuum and there are multiple moving parts... But generally, this was a significant contributor to social stability and less single mothers. Women were far less likely to take on the risks associated with sex before… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Don't worry... I lost any potential respect I could have had for you soon as you started going for the personal attacks. It says all I need to know about you. Cheers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Okay, yeah, awesome. Yeah of course someone should take care of their kid no matter what. Whats your point? Children with dual biological parents together in a relationship still do way better than separated. If you want what's best for you child, find a partner who will be around long term. The issue is single motherhood is statistically a terrible thing for children, no matter how much the father is involved. It's a bad thing for society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:50 PM |
| 2 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Well if there is a single motherhood problem women have ALL THE POWER to stop it. Literally. It's entirely within their own power to stop it entirely. They don't have to rely on men even 1% to solve the problem. Back in the day women massively vetted men before sleeping with them, because the risks were so high. Women understood the power they had to control pregnancy, and acted accordingly. This benefited everyone. Women were far less likely to become single mothers, and men were pressured to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:48 PM |
| 0 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.You know, I was about to engage and write up an interesting, more nuanced good faithed take in response to your valid points. Then you poisoned any respect I had for you once you started personally attacking me. Thank you for preventing me from wasting my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:45 PM |
| -3 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Women absolutely are more responsible than men. Sure, it takes two to tango, but women ultimately bear the burden. The woman is the gatekeeper. Sure, you the person entering the gate plays a role, but at the end of the day, the ultimate decision maker and person bearing the burden (forced to carry the child and have birth) is the woman... Thus it's more of her responsibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Single parent = parent outside of marriage. People are having children outside of marriage and separating. People who have children inside of marriage are FAR less likely to divorce and raise kids separately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:43 PM |
| -1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Okay? I don't see your point here. The point is women are gatekeepers of sex... They burden the responsibility of creating life. Thus, society judges the sexuality of women differently than men. But many people argue that this double standard is no longer fair, because women can control birth and pregnancy... However, clearly, even though they can control it, they still fail at it. If women were actually responsible enough to be trusted to control pregnancy, then having children outside of marri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:34 PM |
| 2 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Yes, but if we have birth control, the issue of single parenthood shouldn't be a problem. The whole point is that women no longer have the responsibility of protecting their reproduction gifts because the pill cancels that. So for instance, you know, saying a guy who sleeps around with many women is a good thing, and a woman who sleeps around is a bad thing... Based on the biological differences of men and women... Is no longer true due to the pill. Since the origin of concern about promiscuous … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:32 PM |
| 0 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.Of course, therefor the argument people try to use that "the pill" changes the game and allows for women to sleep around without risk. That men being worried about women who sleep around is archaic, because the effects the pill has... Is not actually a good argument. The pill actually made sex outside of marriage more common, more risky, and detrimental to the structure of the family than an aid to the structure of the family. The casual sex lifestyle the pill created, also contributed to a mass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.What's there to reconcile. The argument was that the pill nullifies male concerns with female promescuity. That since birth and having children can be controlled, the male instinct to select against women who sleep around, is no longer needed. However, clearly the pill has not eliminated any of these biological concerns. Women, with the pill, are still shown to be unreliable guarding their reproductive responsibility, thus, men still have valid concerns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | The pill doesn't nullify female reproductive responsibility. If anything, it's increased the responsibility and concerns surrounding it.That's the point. The argument people make is that "judging sexual promiscuity" is a dated concept before the pill was invented. That male concern about paternity, cheating, and other risks, is just archaic and unnecessary. Yet, single motherhood is at record highs. So these feelings are still valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Don’t find older women attractive as they age? You’re a pedo!LOL, this chick is going to hit the wall so hard. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/12/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | fucking hypocrites with double standardsWhat? Criticizing speech you don't like, is literally part of free speech. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/12/22 11:03 AM |
| 1 | If I have to earn all the money, pay all the bills, and do all the housework...WHY the fuck would I keep her around?How common is the traditional setup like this though? Today, 41% of mothers make more than the father in married households. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/12/22 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How dare you, as a man, have standards?It’s fake. It’s too well written in a cartoonish way that hits all the tropes. It’s fake. It’s designed to be as hypocritical as possible to trigger you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/12/22 12:10 PM |
| 0 | Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge thisWtf are you talking about that there is no way to know what you’re getting into. There absolutely is a way to know. People are just idiots who ignore obvious red flags everyone around them sees, because losers value themselves so low with such low self esteem they allow themselves in shitty situations out of desperation. But if you don’t know the person you’re marrying is actually a vindictive cunt, that’s on you and you being a fucking idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Attempted Paternity FraudThe system cares more about a child not being raised in poverty and growing up to be a shithead. Even a non biological stand in father is better than none at all | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/12/22 01:45 AM |
| -1 | Attempted Paternity FraudNo. You’re paying child support. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/12/22 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Attempted Paternity FraudI studied enough family law classes to get a decent idea of this process. I know plenty about how the system is screwed and unfair for men... I know all about it. But this is not one of them. It wouldn't mean a damn thing in court -- okay maybe some outliers I'm unfamiliar with, but I digress. The test that's used is establishing whether or not the father assumed parental responsibility for some arbitrary amount of time determined by the judge. The actual signing of that document is not going to… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/12/22 12:05 AM |
| -9 | Attempted Paternity FraudNo it isn't. It's a misnomer that's spread around as if it's true, when it's not. Most certificates don't even have a spot for the father to sign. At best they just ask to put the name of the presumed father. There is no "signature". The woman can just put your name on there. It means nothing in court. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/12/22 11:55 PM |
| -14 | Attempted Paternity FraudTheir names being on it has nothing to do with it. Assuming the parental role is what does. The name being on the birth certificate is irrelevant to the determining factor "Assuming the parental role" | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/12/22 11:49 PM |
| -2 | How dare you, as a man, have standards?This is so fake, it made Santa Clause real. How do people fucking believe these obvious virtue signal panders so easily? It's so ridiculous. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/12/22 10:51 PM |
| -16 | Attempted Paternity FraudSigning it isn’t a contract lol. Often guys don’t even sign it. It’s the biggest misconception of the Mano sphere | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/12/22 09:05 PM |
| 9 | Men taking no for an answerI don't think "they" wanted this. There is a reason why feminism is still something only a minority of women claim to support. | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/12/22 07:13 PM |
| 67 | Shout out to OP for making the right perfect decision of his own personal choices. What a true Chad he wasIf not fucking him yet, she's literally one degree from it. 100% chance she's already cheating in the sense she's talking to another dude and she's ready to fuck. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/12/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.That's accurate. There is a spectrum between anarcho left and authoritarian left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 09:26 PM |
| 7 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leagueWhy are you posting them if it isn't for praise and adoration? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 02:40 AM |
| 7 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leagueWhy are you posting them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Women tell men to stick to their league, but women are attracted to one type of men - those out of their leagueExpecting that sort of change is pointless. It's as pointless as telling people if we want to stop climate change we just have to all collectively agree to buy only electric vehicles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 01:51 AM |
| 32 | poor simpThis is why cults work so well... I can promise you he is in a deep echochamber with people who only share his ideology, and can't get normal realistic advice because he's convinced anyone outside his cultish circle are fascist assholes | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/11/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Even 4chan exposed westerner women hypocrisyI don’t want any women on the battlefield anyways. Seems rationale. Equal rights doesn’t mean equal capacity | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/11/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Nothing worse than a male feministWe do... Labor Day and Veterans Day. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/11/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive.Meh, I guess... Do whatever you want. Personally, I don't find it as a problem. I just make sure the first date is casual, and after that if it's something nice I want to do, I don't expect her to pay for half. She often likes it and finds it impressive, and in return I get to go to a nice place I've been wanting to drop into. It's just something I've never had to worry about. If it's a problem for some guys, that sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 06:06 PM |
| 3 | If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive.Of course... I think this is a reasonable concern. But at the same time, it's sort of up to the guy to do a better job at figuring out the trash from the not. I think it's a universal recommendation to not go on a first date anywhere other than super cheap specifically to avoid this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive.I think most men don't mind paying for meals, so long as they feel like it's genuine. I dunno why, but a lot of dudes are paranoid of being taken advantage of. But if a guy genuinely likes a chick and believes it's genuine in return, I think most men have no problem paying for the meal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 05:36 PM |
| 7 | If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive.Well I think that's the whole point - being special. Isn't a partner supposed to be special? It's ego, and it's the guy feeling devalued and not appreciated. For instance, if she makes an exception for you and sleeps with you fast, it validates her attraction towards you. That it's legitimate and you're not just another schmuck she's settling with, but sexually craves and wants to be with you. It makes the guy feel like in her eyes, he is her Chad and not just some other random dude she's sort o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 04:39 PM |
| 8 | They always gonna blame someone elseBeing a cuck is a different kind of pathetic. It's not just a kink... Being into pegging, feet, or being smacked around is a kink. Other dude's fucking your wife, is just fucking sad. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/11/22 04:21 PM |
| 7 | They always gonna blame someone elseSome are quality simps. Destiny is a rich streamer who's wife has an insane amount of partners and still fucks other men while married | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/11/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | If you complain about “high n count slutty girls are no good for commitment”, it’s stupid to also complain about girls who dont fuck until the relationship is exclusive.I think most guys wouldn't see the countradiction. A girl sleeping with a guy fast means she really likes him, and he's hoping the feelings are mutual. However, if a chick is CONSTANTLY doing this, it clearly means it's not quick because of passion but either because she just has a lot of casual sex, or she's a hoe dudes keep exploiting for easy sex. Both of which aren't okay. However, meeting a guy, sleeping with him fast, and moving to dating, I think is generally considered okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Yes, many women overwhelmingly do not like it when "beta males" attempt to succeed, improve themselves, or learn to stand up for themselves .People who “get it” are just like everyone else. Hang out with guys who are amazing at game and you’ll notice they also have routines and tricks and stuff they constantly do because they’ve learned what worked. They learned just like everyone else but they aren’t as vocal about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Feminism, not even once. Stock standard racism, sexism, antitrans, strawmen, and made up bullshit. Upvoted and awarded.Subs like that always baffle me... They frame the world like it's just harrowing and threatening everywhere they go. That life is just awful oppression and shitty. I'm starting to get the sense that these people are just losers looking to blame their shortcomings on others rather than work on themselves. I know endless women who don't fear being sexually harassed wherever they go, feel that men are making unfairly more than them, raise children and are successful... Instead of bitching about thi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/04/22 01:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI agree. But you have to make a decision on how you want to be perceived. Actions have consequences. People are categorized based on their actions. Do you want to be viewed as the girl a guy hits up for just sex? If you just want sex and no relationship than it’s not an issue. But if you want a relationship, it’s going to be an issue. You can’t sit on the fence and play both sides. You need to pick one. If you just want casual sex, great. No shame. But just understand that you’re in that categor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 05:20 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?Well yeah of course that’s just life though. I do the same change in cautiousness based on who approaches me as well. Even sketchy homeless have varying degrees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:49 PM |
| 5 | What's wrong with being cautious in a world where you're on your own?The only people I ever hear talk about feeling constant threats as being a woman, are exclusively on the internet. Same with men who are upset that they can't cry. You're talking about a very niche subset of the population that needs to be ignored | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?Most women say that because they experience it with younger men who are inexperienced. That’s why as you get older women get more and more open abo their preference as men get more experienced and learn how to use it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?I’m talking from experience. Guys will get laid by a bunch of girls once it comes out he’s hung. I’ve heard what women say when they drink and can get honest. Most girls are “okay” with a normal dick. Sort of like if I’m hungry, pizza is fine and satisfying. But most girls prefer larger than average which is why in women circles it’s something they literally talk about. It’s it t a deal breaker to be normal, but a bonus to be a little larger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?Do you not realize how far off the bell curve your exceptional scenario is? It’s absolutely on the fringes and make up a tiny portion of the population. What isn’t rare - not like your situation - is women preferring taller men. The amount of tall girls preferring short guys are more like unicorns where girls in general liking tall guys is the standard. I’m a tall guy and realize this reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 01:49 AM |
| – | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?Lol this post is like when a woman says she prefers smaller dicks. Something you never find in real life but online it’ll be upvoted by the hopeful every single time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 04:22 PM |
| 0 | What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle?Yeah because women have a lot to offer? Oh I must be just some dude with nothing to offer because I'm not into dating chicks who sleep around using fucking apps and getting fat thinking they are hot shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotBeing brutally honest, I'm 6'2 and also filter out tall women. For me, it's about liking to be able to pick up and throw around her. When she's tall, she's usually heavy, making things as simple as putting her on my shoulders at a concert or moving her around in bed, a chore. It's especially the case since I am so tall, I'm so used to being able to do that. So when a chick comes in at 5'11'' it ruins everything I'm familiar and comfortable with So women aren't entirely wrong to be insecure here.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 07:04 PM |
| 4 | The most attractive women I know tend to be the nicest and most groundedI agree... Having an easy life where everyone is friendly and basically you're living on easy mode, tend to grow people to be very friendly and positive. Less struggle and hardship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestNo one consciously thinks that way. It's just the reality. When kids could add value to the home, people are much more willing to have children as it's less of a burden. But when kids will drain resources on the home, people are more cautious and careful to prepare before having a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockOkay, and you're still missing the point. I literally don't even know how your point ties into what we are discussing. It's like you're just running some AI bot to generate some random strings that resemble some sort of conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockOf course, but he's saying EVEN those with huge muscles have no problem. He's using the exaggerated version as an outlier to make a point that even those dudes do fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockOkay... Yeah, but you're missing the point. This is just more snowflake bs guys here complain about. Yes we get it, not everyone is a robot who's all identical. No shit. But we can still talk in general terms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockI'm not excluding them directly. When talking about social contexts, it goes without saying "Not literally everyone is like that." It's a trueism. It is inferred before the conversation even begins. No one wants to get into tiring long and unnecessary adding of language that should go without saying. When guys say "Women like a man who's confident" OBVIOUSLY, every person without autism, knows some women really like a shy guy, but for the most part women like confidence. When people say, "Women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 02:07 AM |
| 0 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockI'm sure it happens, obviously there are people outside the general bellcurve. That goes without saying. But it's not that common unless the guy offsets it with security like finances. In which case, she still probably doesn't find him attractive, but is willing to look past it for the other benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:25 AM |
| 0 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockOf course it's not literally every woman's type... JFC, we aren't autistic. People are talking in general on the bell curve. In general, a fit attractive guy is going to be able to find plenty of attractive women to date. A dad bod skinny fat dude, is going to have a hard time finding an attractive woman to fuck him. There aren't many attractive women out there who prefer fat dudes. Period, end of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:22 AM |
| 0 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockSo the findings are, that the more overweight a woman is, the more likely she is to find other overweight men attractive. This makes perfect sense. I even argued this in another comment. It's for the same reason you never find a traditionally attractive guy into fat chicks. If you yourself are fat, you're going to rationalize and justify why you find equals "your ideal type" because you understand the reality that a more traditionally attractive guy/girl isn't an option. So just like how it's al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:16 AM |
| 0 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockMeh... I see it like guys who say they are into fat chicks. 99% or those guys are into fat chicks because they themselves aren't attractive so they are setting standards. I've yet to find a really attractive dude into fat chicks... It's always unnatractive men. So, I suspect the women saying their into that unfit dad-bod, themselves aren't really able to pull in much, so they rationalize why they date the type of guys they are stuck with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:09 AM |
| 0 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockOh please just relax... Men, unlike women, understand this and don't have to repeat it, because it goes without saying. Men are talking in general about women, and are aware people outside the bell curve exist. I know, women are shocked to learn men have common sense. Men who work out and are in good shape will always get way more women than some dad bod skinny fat unfit dude. It's natural to be attracted to fitness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Motherfucker, don't make me repeat myself. Olympic powerlifter or bust. No exceptions. I'll make a new Olympics if I must. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.Olympian powerlifters or bust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:57 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestI disssagree with you're last part. The population trend declining has nothing to do with women specifically. Back in the day, having a kid was literally considered a valuable asset. You made money by having a kid, because they would soon become a helping hand in the family. If a woman died during childbirth, the husband would immediately find another woman, say who's husband died in war or a factory, marry her, and have more kids. It was economically smart to have as many kids as possible for m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Most sluts are average/underaverageIn my experience as someone who’s been around, a but wiser in their 30s, most sluts are looking for a guy. They may come off or convince themselves they aren’t by keeping guys at arms reach, but they do want a guy. It’s why they sleep around with so many different dudes. It’s because they are batting outside their league hoping that casual sex turns into something more, but since she tells herself that she’s just having fun, it’s easier to cope with the idea that guys just pump and move on. Are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Most sluts are average/underaverageYou don’t have to like a guy you see as a slut. No one is forcing you. If you don’t like it, you don’t like it. Who cares what other people think? And is it manipulation? This chick sleeps with tons and tons of men all the time… letting her have a shot with me and getting her short term feeling of intimacy seems consensual. I filled a hole daddy left, and she feels happy. I’m not obligated to date her. Stop being sexist and act like women are entitled to boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Most sluts are average/underaverageWell I have. Most sluts would date me if I left it open. Hence why they are jumping another guy every week, hoping that intimacy they get with men will turn long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 12:49 AM |
| 10 | Most sluts are average/underaverageAlmost every single slut I’ve ever fucked would have dated me if I went for it. Almost every one. Guys know this, as it’s how we get them to sleep with us with ease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 12:32 AM |
| -9 | Found this on tiktokI've still never seen any girl ever on a dating app say she has a height requirement. I'm sure they have it, but they don't publicize it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about the closing of asktrp?Man, sometimes what blows me away is dissagreeing with an echochamber, but not even in a hostile way. But like, literally being friendly, open, while providing undeniable facts and evidence contrary to whatever they are going on about. And they'll downvote it to hell. It's so weird, because it's not like it's just something they dissagree with, but it's something that's just factually correcting or informing people of an objective truth. And they'll downvote it to hell as if they just want to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 01:05 AM |
| 3 | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.I don't have data on it. No one does. There is no such data... Hence why we have to simply go off of life experience and wisdom we've gained throughout life. That's it. You don't have any data to the counter that women care, because again, no such data exists. We just have to go off of our experiences. But in my experience a guy who sleeps around does so because he can. Women WANT to fuck that guy, which is WHY he fucks so much. He has charm, looks, charisma, etc... All these things women like, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.Well if men do that, and women want to be pissed off about it fine. I don't see your point. I think it's fucked up when women do it. It's wrong. If you think it's fucked up when men do it, then fine. You're allowed to see that as fucked up if you want. This isn't a game where you can't be pissed off by certain actions. If something pisses you off and you view it as wrong, you're completely valid to feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 2 | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.People here talk in general terms and bell curves. We don't care that there is a subset of the population who are swingers or into cuckoldery neither. We are speaking in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about the closing of asktrp?Of course. But they are a bunch of brainwashed unemployed losers who lack purpose in life so they are full time activists dominating the conversation. Ignoring or trying to explain their stupidness doesn’t solve the problem. They are cancer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 06:12 PM |
| 2 | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.No I’m saying you can’t get mad at them for doing what you should know men just want easy sex. Women need to take responsibility and not keep walking into fire wondering why it keeps burning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about the closing of asktrp?Well the other side is vastly worse. So I’m stuck with the lesser evil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.Don't fallacy fallacy. Not everything is a fallacy. No one is saying an LTR without sex. Who's saying that? I'm saying women put out well before it's even a relationship. Date one or two and they are putting out... Wait at least 3 or 4 dates ffs... You don't have to wait for marriage, just don't put out so early. Especially not off these dating apps like it's adult friend finder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 12:26 PM |
| – | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.If she fucks me on the first or second, I just assume she does that for every guy she comes across. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 12:24 PM |
| 5 | What do you guys think about the closing of asktrp?Nah it was just overran by political activist mods who see the best way to push their ideological goals is to just don’t allow people with opposing ideas. Many of these mods are literally treating it like a full time volunteer job to push their ideology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 12:20 PM |
| – | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.Because if they were men wouldn’t get easy sex they are looking for. It’s the woman’s responsibility to wisen up and defend themselves against these guys. Don’t blame men for trying to get easy sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 06:03 AM |
| 11 | What do you guys think about the closing of asktrp?Yeah, I'm a lefty, and I remember when you'd bump into a libertarian, and you'd just argue over politics, debate, or something, and then move on. But today, someone sees someone with a different politic, and suddenly it's "OMG remove this evil criminal from the site! Mods! Ban them!" People got along even if they didn't agree... It's so sad to see what it's all become. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 02:25 AM |
| 12 | What is your honest opinions on subs such as r/dating, r/dating_advice, and r/seduction?Relationship subs on this site are CLEARLY kids. You can tell because the advice reads not like wisdom and experience, but like some law review. Someone sitting at a chair giving idealistic advice on how things should be, like they read it out of a book or something. They also treat relationships like HS relationships where soon as there is one roadbump, just dump the person. Nevermind the 5 years of investment, financial ties, familia bonds, etc... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 02:23 AM |
| – | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.Those women were definitely batting outside their league. I guarantee you that if they did sleep with the guy, he may have stuck around a little for the free and easy hookup sex, but he'd still be on the market until he found a girl he actually wanted to date. This is why so many women become hoes, because they are batting outside their league and can't get guys they want to settle with them, so they resort to sex, which helps build short term interest that they otherwise can not get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 02:16 AM |
| – | If you wouldn't commit to a woman that had a high n-count, you cannot complain when women "withold" sex before commitment.Yeah, if she usually makes guys wait, all is fine. But man I can't help but feel angry when I see the white knights jump in to defend women when I hear some stories. Like the other day some guy was pissed that a girl he was seeing for a month without any sexual contact, but never technically had "the talk" ended up getting drunk one night and fucking some random guy she met while away for work at a bar. He didn't find out until like a year later. And everyone was like "Buhhhh you weren't officia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | what's your advice for a below-average male who has tried self-improvement but found little success?95% of the time it's your energy.I see it all the time. Usually the guy just doesn't have game and only knows how to give off friend energy, or the dude is so forward that it's awkward. Usually the guy is either just too nice and needy, or kind of goofy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | UNO Reverse CardBe nice. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/01/22 06:50 PM |
| 39 | UNO Reverse CardNot really. When 70% of women are overweight, it’s a pretty low bar | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/01/22 01:48 PM |
| 435 | UNO Reverse CardHe can, but what are you going to get out of a 19 year old mediocre looking thot? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/01/22 01:15 PM |
| 10 | Those Who Complain About OnlyFan/Instathots... What Would You Actually Like Them To Do Instead?I mean, I use a drug dealer to buy drugs, but I wouldn't like my daughter or girlfriend to have that career... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realTalking about cultural evolution, not biological. So reproduction is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realNo not the same amount. It comes more naturally to men and more needed in men. We shouldn’t burden women with the same mental challenges on women if we don’t have to. Any ways you’re right it’s ran it’s course. Cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realYes, but this subject has nothing to do with reproduction... Like at all. The lack of reproduction is a seperate byproduct and issue all together. If decreasing a population size is good, then that society will have an advantage, if it turns out to be bad, then it will lose an advantage. That said, I still think expecting men to practice more self control and different expectations due to their biological differences, is still a reasonable and advantageous trait... hence why literally most of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realYeah, I think we are in agreement. I don't see what the problem is here. Rape is illegal... However we live in a common law society where courts take into account all context possible before making a ruling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realIt's not just bruteness. Resilience, able to handle tough situations, emotional control, stoicism, grit, etc... There are a lot of things that require a tough inner frame to be able to fight a way. I'm not talking about being able to take a hit, but to be able to take on extreme challenges. You can't have soft men to do that. Your average woke femboy you see on college campuses would absolutely fall apart in a battle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realThere absolutely are differences between the genders. Only dumbfuck radfems think otherwise. But rights, are still universal, and should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realHuh? What does the birth rate have to do with anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 02:59 AM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realA long lost vestigial concept? We just got out of a world war 80 years ago. It’s not a vestigial concept. It’s very much needed when it’s needed. You don’t bread out these traits because they aren’t needed in the moment. It’s like removing your home security system because it hasn’t been used all year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realRemove the selection that kills moths by flames and the moths will cease to exist. Clearly there is an evolutionary advantage else it would have been selected out by now. So in a similar respect, the stoicism and toughness that society needs from men… the byproduct of that, much like the moth towards a flame, is men have to learn how to deal with 100 pound weak girls attacking them and understanding it’s not the same as a 220 pound man attacking them. And be content with the two actions not bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 01:34 AM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realThat obviously isn't a relevant social trait, is it? It's been shown to be a negative, thus society has selected that out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realIf there were two 12 year olds, and one was one of those crazy growers who's like 6ft at 12, I'm sure he'd get more punishment than the smaller one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 11:03 PM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realNo it's not that people don't see it, it's that people like myself understand its purpose. It serves an evolutionary purpose that is responsible for our ability to strive and survive. These social constructs also came through social evolution, where the societies who had the most advantageous social systems, had their social genetics spread So these things people are complaining about, aren't necessarily bad, since they exist for a herd survival reason. If treating a man's slap on the ass just a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 10:57 PM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realSame with shark attacks. What’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 07:51 PM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realNo, it doesn't happen that often, and when it does happen, the capacity for serious violence is minimal. What is female abuse? Throwing some plates, giving your chin an infamously weak girl punch? That's nothing compared to male violence which hits and hurts and literally puts people in fear of their actual life. You don't see many men being killed by their wives in physical altercations because it doesn't happen. It's just biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 05:34 PM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realHow many of these men having plates thrown at them are ending up in the hospital? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 05:32 PM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realNo it’s not a cultural narrative. Men can defend themselves and beat the shit out of 99% of women. That’s why you don’t hear about it. Usually if a man gets hit it’s because he’s practicing restraint and controlling himself to not hit back and level her. And yes, if labia was cut off off, it would be similar to male circumcision. I imagine society would care far less, and if it wasn’t for growing until after puberty we probably would for the same aesthetic reasons. Not saying any of this is okay… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 04:53 PM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realWe don't have to deflect and minimize them. They are already minimized because they are minimal problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 04:35 PM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realI don't think this gender gap is inherently wrong, regardless of what MRAs and feminists want to say. The reason being, is men have much greater capacity for damage, and statistically are proven to display this. This is why a woman grabbing a man's ass isn't seen as that taboo. When a woman does it, the man feels 0 fear for his safety. When a man does it, the woman has real legitimate concern that something bad can happen. If you were to pay me 1 million dollars to fight to the near death with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Women who struggle with men only wanting casual sex are shooting out of their leagueI don't think they are complaining about not getting casual sex. It's interesting to see people how they completely interpret things in a way to suit their bias, because I don't see that at all, yet you see men complaining about dating apps as men complaining about not getting laid. When I hear men complain, it's about how they can't even get dates. It has nothing to do with sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewDating apps are wild for good looking men.... Seriously it's crazy. Literally apps just to have sex. They used to advertise these things on pornsites and they were all scams lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewDamn, seems like you have a lot of sex from these apps. Just out of curiosity, how many people have you slept with from them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 01:08 AM |
| 1 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?Oh got you. I don’t know if that’s set in stone. Just generally guys want to do that but many want a long term relationship. Either way, my point stands. Dudes love sluts for short terms not for long terms. Hence why the slut is in a constant cycle of pump and dumps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?Huh? What does that have to do with anything? We are talking about dating chicks seriously... Most guys don't want to seriously date a former slut. This topic has been covered to death; I don't want to debate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?Real rape is much more common though... It's also much more damaging, and taken far more serious. Though I'll admit in the US it IS overblown beyond proportion when they muddy statistics... But I'm just saying fake accusations in real life are just rare and nothing guys need to be worried about. If you want to worry about it, and refuse to date because of it... Fine, whatever IDC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?I know as a matter of fact. Most women who have OF's, especially early on, would openly tell people. Once they realized they can't just put their nudes up online and get subs, they'd tell people to try and get subs. Plus, no point in hiding it because once you get to know them, it's impossible to hide the fact that you have your butthole all over the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 0 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?Not a lot of sex, a lot of different partners. How does it affect me? I'm not sure. It's a visceral reaction... The thought of dating someone who used to easily sleep with men and was that chick guys would call up only when they were drunk, grosses me out. Maybe it's because I know how I treated sluts and how I viewed them when I was going around, that I wouldn't want my current partner be "that type of girl guys viewed as a slut". It's a different type of person I don't see partner preference i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?The issue is they have a BF who's about to find out she cheated. It's damage control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?yeah, that's usually the mix... Rich kids, and sex workers (including sugar babies, but that's a sex worker imo). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?I studied family law. I'd actually argue that false rape claims are much more common than people realize, because they don't see the justice process. But a lot of these cases fall apart under scrutiny, and always seem to have a thread of jaded ex lover or a girl who just so happens to have a long term partner when the act happens. That said, it still doesn't happen often as people make it out to be. Even when it does happen, it rarely ever makes it past the social environment because everyone kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:54 PM |
| 3 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?Yeah, I think the media and engagement algorithms really caught onto the fact that things that elicit a negative feeling triggers a sort of fear response... And fear responses create engagement because it requires a sense of urgency... Whereas happy feelings, mean everything is fine so urgency isn't needed. I genuinely think this is why so much shit is off the wall in so many cases. This sort of engagement just works so well. Like I remember during Trump's administration so many people online we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?I mean, I've seen false rape claims a few times. Every single time, it was the girl getting drunk and fucking some guy that made her gina tingle... Then covered it up by crying rape. But every single time, everyone just rolled their eyes. At worse some chick would try to claim that it's rape just because she was drunk, and then people would just laugh at her because everyone that had sex that night was drunk. That stupid shit doesn't work in real life, and when it does, that's why we see it in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?I've actually met quite a few OF chicks. I live in luxury apartments so there are a lot of attractive chicks here who clearly aren't salespeople or in upper management somewhere. Just in my building, I've probably met 5 girls who do OF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 3 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?I agree... Simps are a social sickness. It ruins a healthy community when guys are doing this. It's like, yeah I don't care if you're a druggy, as that's your choice, but I am also going to recognize that it's a very poor lifestyle and poor life path. When that many men are being simps, it's a symptom of a greater issue, and the symptoms are just making other illnesses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 5 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?I don't think it's men wanting virgins, but not wanting the college slut that was banging a new dude every party or being a bro-ho (screwing all the guys in a group). I think it's sluts most guys here want to avoid, and not necessarily looking for virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:01 PM |
| 14 | What are things people in this community constantly complain about that has zero effect on them?People here act like false rape claims are a normal and common tactic used by women... It's wild how many guys here -- at least seemingly -- fear that a woman will cry rape after regret sex. Like where the fuck are these people being socialized? Far right message boards? I've seen false rape cries in real life too, but it's still fucking rare and usually everyone picks up on the bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Wtf is wrong with this woman , all woman's deserve rights but she doesn'tSo the selfishness is me taking a younger chick out of the dating pool? Meh, I don't really see that as selfish. That's just the game IMO. Guys date downward in age. 25 year olds can still date their age or lower too. I just don't find much sexual attraction with someone who's been fucked by 50 dudes, overweight, and with a bunch of baggage. I have no obligation towards society to "keep women in the dating pool for the younger guys". | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/12/21 12:37 PM |
| 6 | Wtf is wrong with this woman , all woman's deserve rights but she doesn'tI just don't see how that's selfish. Maybe I'm just getting caught up on a word. But I don't feel like I'm obligated to date someone my age. It's not like I'm being selfish by keeping myself from some 33 year old, as if there is an expectation that she should be able to have me. There is no obligation for me to date someone my age... So how is it selfish to go "Nope, not into 33 year old chicks on the sexual decline sagging all over". That's a preference. It's no more selfish than a chick saying… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/12/21 12:12 PM |
| 10 | Wtf is wrong with this woman , all woman's deserve rights but she doesn'tHow’s it selfish? Or what isn’t selfish? I want to date what I like and find attractive. A 33 year old is just not wise enough to offset the massive depreciation in looks. That’s the age when so many women start packing on the pounds so it’s just all down hill. Hard pass. Younger chicks are more attractive and easier to deal with. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/12/21 11:04 AM |
| 7 | Wtf is wrong with this woman , all woman's deserve rights but she doesn'tI mean I date younger women for the same reason the second poster says. They are just better looking. Their body is firmer and perkier than some 30+ year old who’s tits are sagging and just starts looking old. The body count issue is an issue, but looks are more of the driving reason. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/12/21 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Do women find alternative men attractive?It can still be pulled off when you're older, but you have to modify it adequately. Having style as you age is still a thing. Many of these people don't, pull it off for their age though. They'll see some hip 22 black kid, and just mirror their style, and it looks silly. I'm sure you look great with the tail coats lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 09:07 PM |
| 8 | Do women find alternative men attractive?As someone from the area, that's what ALWAYS freaked me out about LA culture. Seeing full blown adults 40+ wearing niche trendy youth attire never felt right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 07:56 PM |
| 16 | Why should Women work hard? Lipstick and High heels would do the jobIf women were so smart, why weren't they able to oppress an entire gender? Get your shit together women. If you wanna be equal, get equal results. We got oppressing we need to do! | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/12/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Yeah, but that's not my point. My point is, in a monogamous relationship, you never really get the guy saying he suddenly wants to open it up to where his GF can also fuck other guys. It just doesn't happen. It's always the woman trying to make monogamy go poly -- with the exception of the guy trying to bring in more women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:53 PM |
| 29 | $325,000 salary for "dismantling systems of oppression" through "mindfulness breathing"Shit like this is why tuition keeps going up. My college was filled with them. It's ENTIRELY a grift. She's going to make one thousand dollars a day, hardly doing anything beyond coordinating events and going to meetings, just so the university can say they have someone like this. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/12/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Of course... but it still never "initiates" with the guy saying "Yeah I want to open the relationship to other people and I'm okay with you having sex." If the guy ever initiates it, it's "You can have sex with other women if you like." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.I’ve only been to two swinger type events. Both times there was a disproportionate amount of dudes with larger than average dicks and size queens. Ymmv though I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Lol yeah I noticed it as well. Seems like it’s always filled with loser guys using the “don’t shame kink” tactic to get close to broken women out of their league to engage in sexual “play”. Bdsm is filled with weird dudes who use the exotic and dark nature of it to get to women looking to explore that. Swinger parties are loaded with dudes with big dicks but creepy personalities going after women who just want sex with a big dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Dems aren’t much different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Living the dream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Well first off, it's true, people aren't going to work as hard as Americans, because they don't have to. And that's a good thing. America is unique in the idea that we shouldn't take vacation days, and work our asses to the bone. That's great for the employer class like myself, but not for the working class. It's true that they don't work as brutally hard to survive, because they don't have to. That's a GOOD thing. That's the problem with American society, just to survive we have to work like cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Huh? That's definitely not what I experienced both times I was there. Sure you aren't getting 60 hour work weeks out of anyone except the most motivated, but there are still plenty of engineers. The issue I found was they simply don't want to pay enough. It's not that waiters make so much with the social programs, but that employers want to pay 2,000 euro to some grad sales rep, and 2,500 for a programer. But last I was there, everything has been radically changing. I am now actively being recru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 08:32 PM |
| 18 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Absolutely ingenious and fucked up... There is a reason why there is only a certain specific kind of guy who falls for this. Dudes that clearly have no self solidified frame and identity are the ones who would fall for this. A normal guy who knows what he wants and values isn't going to fall for a tactic like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?The problem is a lot of people are human and just want to live and get by comfortable. America is designed for the overachiever, sure... But if you're just a regular person, you're getting fucked over. People shouldn't expect to have to be exceptional just to have a comfortable and thriving middle class life. This is where Europe does excel, because I lived there too. While it's true it's much harder to get a startup going and make a ton of cash since there isn't a shared 350m person market that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 07:50 PM |
| 73 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Oh God... Imagine being cucked that hard. I want to say that's a troll... But after seeing so many posts just like this, it becomes clear it's not. One thread I notice in a lot of this, is how "insecurity" and "jealousy" is the primary gaslight they use to shame these cucks into submission. You can tell it's drilled into them that if they feel any negative way about this, then it's because of these bad negative feelings of jealousy and insecurity, so man up and figure out how to get through thos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?NO of course not. Neither party gives a shit about the middle class. I'm just saying, that even Republicans are giving out pandering talking points over the issue. Not that they'll ever in 100 years give a shit about working people who aren't rich working people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 07:33 PM |
| 9 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?I like capitalism. It’s great and amazing. We should keep it. But we have to also admit that capitalism isn’t perfect and would benefit from fine tuning. But ever since Reagan we’ve tilted the entire system towards the wealthy at a disproportional rate. This is why there is so much economic frustration today. But sadly, any attempt at creating a healthier capitalist economy is labeled communism via propaganda from the elites who enjoy the rigged game, you’re going to eventually get frustrated pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Whenever you watch those "Cheaters" videos, you'll notice a stark difference between the sexes. The men always want to know "Did you fuck him" and the women want to know "Do you love her"? Women are to emotional relationships as men are to sexual relationships when it comes to cheating. This is why most women can forgive a man much easier if he just fucked some random slut, versus him sneaking out on dates, buying her stuff, even if they never had sex. Vis versa, a guy is much more likely to for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:23 PM |
| 12 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.The men who initiate it, are just looking for a harem without having to hide it. Never have I ever met a dude who's into poly, who said he wanted to do it and is fine with his girl fucking other men. If you ever read the subreddit, every single guy... And I mean EVERY ONE, will talk about how it was his GF's idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:19 PM |
| 78 | Every single polyamorous couple I've interracted with was instigated by the female party.Go to the poly subreddit. It's pretty much always like this. You'll get the rare exception where it's not, but in over half those rare exceptions where it's not, it's a Chad totally fine with his girlfriend claiming poly if that means she brings in another chick to fuck. But again, go to the sub, and it's exactly what you pointed out. Usually a not hot chick, but just "yeah I'd fuck her" type who's very nerdy, with extremely beta dudes who never saw a gym in their life. It's wild how repetitive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:18 PM |
| 13 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Huh? I'll literally never understand the thinking of your types. You act like any modification to the post Reaganomics form of capitalism is somehow communism. You sound like a boomer where so much as getting a subsidy on an electric car is seen as communism. BTW, we already have 2 classes, the ruling elites and everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 04:13 PM |
| 9 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?America needs babies... And babies need dual parent households. Americans like money. This seems like the obvious solution. It's not like the government cares about making a robust and prosperous middle class as much as they are making an amazing upper class for the stock market to thrive under. So UBI is inevitable regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:57 PM |
| 11 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?Interestingly enough, Republicans are trying to reverse this, and may be the ones to actual institute UBI over the issue. To encourage families, one idea going around is that married couples with a child under 18, will get 1k a month. If they instituted that policy, I guarantee you, people would rush to marriage and making babies. Though, it would only be a matter of time before that policy is extended to everyone... But those 5-10 early years will be seeing a huge uptick in marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.Again, you're just doing that thing where you find a single thread to support your position. Sure, you'll find people like that. You'll find all sorts. It's like when wokies come into a sub and see some random comment thread, downvoted down to the abyss with a bunch of racist comments then crying, "OMG this sub is racist! Look at these racist conversations!" It's just not fair. You have to look at the general zeitgeist... The general zeitgeist here seems to be that they want a decently looking g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.Those tears just turn me on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 08:14 PM |
| 12 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.We know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 08:09 PM |
| -1 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.You can find anyone say anything if you go looking for it. But overall the general idea in the incel community is they could get bottom of the barrel women but they gross them out so they wouldn’t be able to have sex if they tried. It’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.They don’t claim it’s impossible but they just admit that they will get sex from chicks they don’t want and getting the chicks they want requires more effort than they are willing to put in. Most are aware they can fuck some ugly fat if they wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 07:55 PM |
| 10 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.It’s really just because they are used to inhaling food so it’s more of a natural skill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Is marriage worth it in today’s era?No, if you look at it entirely as an economic quantitative deal, then marriage isn't a good idea. But it has qualitative advantages if you value symbolic and cultural significances behind bringing a relationship to it's final form. Without marriage you're still essentially forever dating rather than making that final "single entity" leap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 01:51 PM |
| 2 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateNo I understand the context, and like I said... I don't find anything wrong with it. Meeting someone new? Probably going to suck... But sitting around at a coffee shop also sucks. May as well eat something I enjoy while I go through this likely shit interview. I don't care if the chick thinks she's hot shit getting wings from BDubs. I want wings, and 20 bucks for a meal aint shit, so who cares? I can afford to make the first date thing less miserable, so I'm going to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 02:52 AM |
| 1 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateNo, this isn't about being a gentleman, or any of that. I got no return. She received an immediate return. But that's the problem with the mentality. Who cares? If you're buying lunch and paying for her... You're doing it because YOU want to do it, not because you think this is some required courtship, or because you think it's fair. Same as if you aren't paying. If you don't want to pay for anything, don't do it because you think it's unfair to you. Do whatever you want to do. If I want oysters… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 02:44 AM |
| 2 | There’s nothing wrong with a coffee/walking date as the first dateYeah, that's only relevant if you can predict the future. Don't feel bad spending money. I don't get this RP idea that spending money is a chode move. It is if you're spending money to impress someone, or doing it to try and get her to you. But if you want something to eat and not some shitty coffee shop roll, do it. If it's not big deal to pay for her shit, who cares? You should be showing how you're a man of abundance, and this shit is just whatever. You aren't trying to impress her, but you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 02:25 AM |
| 17 | What's the best dating advice for womenI always find it wild how it's okay to dunk on male simps, but not okay to dunk on "sluts" or chicks who are the female equivalent of a simp (women use men for stuff and support, men use women for sex). Girls that keep getting pumped and dumped, are literally like men who keep getting friendzoned after constantly paying for everything. It's the same exact thing, just with a different gendered robe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 05:00 PM |
| 8 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyIt’s the most annoying thing these people do. I don’t know how many times I have had to explain this, yet here I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 12:55 AM |
| 10 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyconsidering how many men claim it's only women who are hypergamous. No. Everything is discussed in bell curve terms. Women are just MORE hypergamous, on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.That doesn’t make it alpha. Alpha just means the top of the social pecking order. Manosphere reconginizimg how the dark triad is successful isn’t saying “to get women, become a sociopath.” If that’s how you’re interpreting it you’re doing it all wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Romance novels, including the romanticized abuse one, show the opposite of what the Manosphere claims. The male love interests are very attractive simps and beta males, not alpha males.You don’t have to be an asshole to be an alpha. What do you think is an alpha? Obama was a god tier alpha and probably the nicest guy in politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarYes generalizations are useful though. As they are accurate more times than not. If I generalize something about you, it just sets my default to assume certain things, but those presumptions are subject to change. If we don’t generalize then every encounter will be completely wild as we make no presumption… it is highly inefficient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | If social norms regarding lawful romantic preferences are your current prison, you will never know future happiness.I agree. Reddit in general tends to upvote only the positive feel good virtue stuff. It creates such a warped perspective. That’s why the advice is always bad. I cringe whenever someone says something like “if I learned anything from this X sub it’s that so and so don’t care about that!” Because they are listening to a feel good echo chamber. Like according to Reddit a very sizable amount of women actually prefer small 4 inch penises and an even larger amount of women detest anything larger than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarYes, that's the whole point of TRP... So yes we all know that women like that... Some people TRP calls BP, will push back against that, and RP explains why. Further, people know women like a tall guy with a big dick and good money, but again, TRP is just delving into "why". You have to understand the perspective TRP comes from. It grew up out of the pickup community which was all about breaking down tactics and strategies that work with picking up women... And most importatly, WHY it worked. TRP… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarI do not think RP is as absolute as you think it is. They speak in absolutes, sure. But that’s just the culture. It goes without saying, that it’s stupidly obvious that literally social dynamics have absolutes. But it’s just a way to discuss things without getting bogged down in constant “most people are like this, but some are not, but generally this is a good frame to have.” It just saves time to say “women like men with money” rather than constantly wager with gradual nuance every time it’s m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 21 | woman doxxes and contacts employer over making a tiktok about wiping women's eyebrows offYou absolutely know she gets off on this. She loves the attention she gets from "haters". You should see her follow up video where she justifies this. She says it's not doxxing, because once again they are doing this redefinition thing, but "holding him accountable with publicly available information". You know the typical justifications, that he CHOSE to put this stuff online, and she just used the available information to let his employer know what type of guy he is... That he did this to hims… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/11/21 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarI don't fully understand what you're trying to say... Yes, this stuff IS common knowledge, that's the point. The whole point of TRP is to actually analyze these well understood, long talked about concepts, and break them down into a more structural way... Instead of just saying "Women like this, men like this, believe me", you instead break down the WHY things are like that, and why those ideas hold true. It's making more critical sense of something that was traditionally vague, and reframing it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 02:14 PM |
| 13 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarWhich is absolutely ridiculous. The main reason for human success is our ability to stereotype gives us a massive edge by being able to predict accurately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 11:33 AM |
| 51 | Two PHD's Discuss How Human's Select and Keep Romantic Partners: Pretty Much Confirms Red Pill Logic So FarTo this day I’ve yet to see these anti RP people present a blue pill alternative to gender dynamics. There is a reason why trp type understandings are so popular and BP are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 12:41 AM |
| 4 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Lol never said they were... I'm just saying. Everyone is unfuckable, but I'd argue women are even more unfuckable. They are both at 26 BMI which is bordering obese. I just don't know how the species is expected to continue when everyone is so unfuckable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 03:53 PM |
| 4 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Exactly my point... I grew up in a more "posh" part of the country where most people were attractive and fit by default. Not because everyone was a gym junky but because people were just naturally active and ate healthy. TONS more casual sex than other places I've been to. When everyone isn't attractive, no one wants to fuck each other. At least women aren't as visual as men. I literally couldn't fuck a fatty if I tried... I couldn't even "settle" because without baseline looks, it's dead in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 03:48 PM |
| 6 | How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large?Probably because they are so damn depressed and lonely so they are just rationalizing it. When the average woman is 170 pounds, it's not like they have many qualified suitors running towards them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 03:34 PM |
| 1 | “Womansplaining doesn’t exist” lmaoThe maturity of a teenager lol | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/11/21 11:56 PM |
| 5 | “Womansplaining doesn’t exist” lmaoEasy now.... You need to string together your insults in a coherent manner. I'd give you a D, but you get a passing C- for effort. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/11/21 03:04 PM |
| 12 | “Womansplaining doesn’t exist” lmaoWhy do motherfuckers go through all this work of getting a link for things that are common knowledge? | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/11/21 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to prefer to have traditional gender roles?This is a common fallacy. Everyone experiences it. We notice the headwinds of ourselves and tail winds of others. But ignore the tailwinds of ourselves and headwinds of others. People do the same to argue racism doesn’t exist “wtf are you talking about racism? Black people can get into college easier and get financial aid! A black guy just got off for killing a cop! Racism is not real!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/21 11:34 AM |
| 2 | What’s the average experience for unattractive women?It's all 5-6.5 - The current top post people went as high as 7-7.5 and it's locked because she's literally a professional model... Like fuck, how hot do you need to be? But then at the same time, I've seen 6's in the same day be vastly different... Like a chubby, crazy haired, "meh, maybe if I was drunk" and a "Wow you can easily be a celebrity" rated exactly the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 10:46 PM |
| 6 | What’s the average experience for unattractive women?yeah, you can look for yourself it's /r/truerateme It just seems so out of whack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 18 | What’s the average experience for unattractive women?Yeah, and that chart is bullshit. Women that I'd consider some of the hottest "I'd marry without knowing her name" are given 6.5 which they consider high. But then comes around some chick who looks like a natural version of a plastic surgery thot, is getting crazy high marks. It just doesn't feel consistent. Their chart they made must be made by some dude who has a specific taste | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/21 04:37 PM |
| 0 | Q4W of PPD: What is your personal happiness level, and why is general female happiness low?I get your point, but men are still being pussified quite a bit these days. Testosterone levels are stupid low and their activities are decreasing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Women have taught men to pump and dump them and not commit etc…In the black community it's literally openly talked about having a side bitch and shit. Really good looking guys in general, will settle down, but A LOT who are wealthy, attractive, and outgoing, tend to date around and have a lot of "FWB"s -- Most of these girls also use the "we're just friends" sort of thing, to also keep up the plausible deniability. But they are no doubt hoping it will lead to something more. but since they keep this plausible deniability and sense of distance, they don't ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Women have taught men to pump and dump them and not commit etc…Unnnggggg.... That feeling when you create a permaculture perennial farm that is self sustaining and biologically intertwined creating a perfectly balanced microbiome right there on your land that can pass down generationally with little actual effort to maintain it.... unnngggg that's the sweet spot right there. Throw in some solar panels and a Starlink, and you will get all the tradwifes coming over to knit with your natural ecologically sustainable homegrown hemp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 05:08 PM |
| -3 | Military draft suddenly becomes forceful when women are included, otherwise it's alright.💁🏻♂️I mean, women make terrible soldiers... But the draft is retarded regardless, because it's pointless. We likely wont ever need a draft until shit really hits the fan. In which case, even if women are equally enrolled in it, they'll just specify drafting men first. And they don't even need you to "register" for the draft. It's not the 1920s before computers where they needed a large filing cabinet to keep track of people of fighting age which they can pull from. So even if there wasn't a draft re… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Do womens level of intelligence mean nothing?I think there is a higher emphasis and value places on men having it, because women seek men who display competence in the wild we live in. Intelligence is an important variable for male competence, for women, less so, as emotional support and raising children is what the hindbrain cares more about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?Bezos is the biggest fucking dork beta cuck in the world. The definition of how money can't solve a frame. Sure, he is able to walk through life doing whatever the fuck he wants, and never encounter a slice of resistance, but he still screams total fucking dork with weak lame ass frame. Whenever I see a video of him in social situations, it just makes me uncomfortable. He reminds me of a dorky hall monitor gone CEO. Like even his own woman, who's with the richest man in the world, doesn't respec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?Yeah, but if he was dating a 25 year old, you'd probably be like "Yeah she's just there for money". But if he was actually attractive, it would have less of an impact. For instance, Elon is a decent looking guy, especially when compared to the billionaire class, so when he was banging Grimes it didn't feel creepy even though he's almost 50. But if Bezos was banging Grimes, everyone would roll their eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Are relationships with large financial, physical, or status gaps as creepy as relationships with large age gaps?I think the "creep" factor comes in from the fact that they clearly aren't a match. If the guy is older but really good looking, people care less. It only gets weird when the dude is obviously not in her league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/21 01:39 AM |
| 2 | If 80% of women are going after the top 20% of men, what are the remaining 20% of women doing?Well the 80% of men are competing for those 20% of women. But considering just how many more men use OLD, that must be incredibly overwhelming. Statistically, insanity if you're the lower 80% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 04:46 PM |
| 6 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Everyone is absolutely capable of learning the game. Not only is it learnable, but it transfer over in a lot of areas of life. It's something every guy should learn rather than resign to copying and pasting OLD messages hoping to strike gold . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 06:48 AM |
| 7 | What's the hardest you have ever seen a women Simp for a guy she wasn't seeing/dating?It's just an edgy trope every 19 year old has. It gets annoying to hear as you get older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Latest stats on sexlessnessMore fat chicks from the COVID 15, yet the amount of whale hunters remains the same. This makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/21 12:44 AM |
| 10 | In your experience, what are some things different about women in the real world compared to FDS/PPD/Internet women?Reddit women seem to all have extreme anxiety where men are just constantly harassing them. They freak out online when you mention most women don’t see an endemic and don’t feel under threat whenever a guy approaches them. These Reddit women seem to live in a reality where they are constantly harassed wherever they go. But my understanding of the Reddit demographic leads me to believe this probably isn’t true and they probably have mental health issues. Also guys in real life are way too nervous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 10:46 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Red Pill advice would be perfect if all the women in the world had Borderline Personality DisorderI think TRP does teach the GOOD mainstream dating advice you can find elsewhere. They just do it in a more direct way, while getting uncomfortably deep into the psychology of things. Most of this dating advice, which is seriously the same shit men have been giving for ages, usually just gives the advice, but not the why. The "why" is what makes people uncomfortable, and the abrasiveness makes it worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Go to any of the many "adult" subs where girls post themselves naked... And are asking for men to be brutally honest. And a girl will be not attractive at all, and the brutal honest truth, is just fucking mean and would hurt her -- especially when it's clear she has her ego tied to this. Very very very rarely will a guy waste his time saying she's ugly. It's just a mean thing to do knowing it's going to hurt her self esteem. Instead all the comments are from people willing to post "brutal honest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?What does she gain from not making people feel insecure and uncomfortable? I dunno... Being a good person? Regardless of what you think about the fringes of Reddit, most people are good people, and don't just enjoy having people feel bad if they can avoid it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 12:32 AM |
| 1 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Women do say it on the internet all the time though. Some women genuinely don’t care, but others lie because they are just nice people and don’t like to make others feel insecure, even if they don’t know the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Because it would still make men around them uncomfortable and insecure, and could even get back to men she may be interested in dating. Women aren’t trying to just make men feel insecure. Again, there is no benefit to being honest and only downsides to it. So it’s logical to lie about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?No…. they were saying the reason why men today have average sized penises is because it’s easier to rape with average sized penises. That we evolved where women had little ability to select based on penis size, and men were selected on penis sizes that were easier to rape with. But as time when on, rape decreased, women started having a say, and then began selecting larger than average. This is why we have larger sized members with high variance. It’s the evolutionary selection process transferr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:56 PM |
| 2 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Because women don’t want their own BFs to feel insecure? Women all have stories about how they’ve had insecure boyfriends over size. Being even more honest about it, would make things compounded and worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:43 PM |
| 7 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Exactly what I thought. Most women will say size doesn’t matter, that TOO big is bad. But that’s just a smoke screen. It’s that they do like big, but not too big. And that big is above average. Almost every woman would describe a preferred penis like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:32 PM |
| 4 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?It still shows trend lines. It may not mean women will cheat necessarily but adds evidence that it matters more than the claim “it literally doesn’t matter and only guys care” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?I’m guessing he’s larger? Women rarely, if ever, fawn like that over a penis that’s average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:19 PM |
| 3 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Most women who orgasm from PIV do so with larger partners. So when a majority of men aren’t large enough, expect most women not to get PIV orgasms. That’s just basic logic. Of course only a minority of women consistently orgasm with PIV when only a minority have larger partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:09 PM |
| 6 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Because it’s visual. The guy is arguing, To visually have the length of the 6.4 that the girls are selecting, he’d need around 7 inches due to part of the shaft being covered. The model is inherently non bone pressed. It’s not like the models included a base that covered over half an inch of the model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:08 PM |
| 2 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Right? Billions of years of evolution is going to incentivize the method that leads to reproduction. I’m sure very very very few women don’t like penetrative sex. It’s like saying “some men just don’t like vaginal sex.” Like yeah I’m sure some…. But it’s so small it’s not even worth mentioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:05 PM |
| 2 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?I’m sure the intensity is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Evolution shows women do select for larger as humans have some of the disproportionately larger penises out of all the animals, and top the chain when it comes to variance. This shows selection is happening when women have choice. Smaller and average was originally selected due to the vast amount of rape which selected out larger guys as it made rape more difficult but todays average more easy. But now that women can be more selective and get warmed up instead of forced, they are starting to sel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:59 PM |
| 4 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?That’s not the point he’s making. He’s saying that women have affairs with him specifically because the value his dick has. So this idea that it’s irrelevant and girls don’t care obviously isn’t entirely truthful when women do actively show preference either directly or indirectly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:56 PM |
| 2 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Women lie about it because they know men are super insecure about it and statistically the guys around her don’t have it, including her BF. Women have only negatives to deal with by being honest about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:54 PM |
| 9 | QFW: Does penis size is taken into account for judging a man to be HVM or not?Babe. It’s just good genetics. Evolutionarily it’s a benefit because I can go to battle with my axe and am less likely to injure it. Jeeesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 06:52 PM |
| 16 | Wow guess im a bad peraon for asking a simple questionThe confuse "rights" with "Having a utopian life". They think that life just isn't supposed to have any struggles, problems, challenges, or anything. Soon as they encounter something that requires precaution, it FEELS like their rights are being violated. It's so baffling. Like men rarely ever feel the need to jump in with their hardships (and when they do they are attacked). Like you could reply back to these people with the struggles men have, not that it's a competition, but you could. But me… | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/11/21 03:51 PM |
| -1 | Have you ever been in love before?Again, incels can be feminist. Just because he ended up killing a bunch of chicks out of sexual frustration doesn't mean he didn't participate in the feminist ecosphere and advocate for feminism. He was a frustrated chump. If he waited it out 4 more years, he would have just become trans to get closer to women while still being "feminist". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been in love before?He spent a ton of time in pro feminist spaces. They did a whole doxxing on the guy when they tried to align him with TRP early in the culture war before "woke" and SJW was even a thing. Only to find out he was a huge pro feminist advocate, hated men and their misogyny, especially TRP. He spent all his time tearing down how awful TRP was for women. Incels come in all shapes and sizes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been in love before?LOL, such a funny case. Feminists tried to call him a "red piller" even though he dedicated most of his time hating TRP... Turns out he was a total soyboy feminist who also just hated women. Go figure, another sexually frustrated soyboy feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 02:55 AM |
| 3 | How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is realYou just gotta be that guy she feels is out of her league and couldn't possibly go any higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Men and Women are not nearly as evil towards each other as you people insinuateThis is literally the only relationship adjecent sub I go to. Things like that major relationship sub is SOOOO bad... I feal literally bad for people who ask questions there. It's so disconnected and bad practical advice. "Let's ask a bunch of nerds with terrible social skills, about complex nuances of relationships." The whole things reads like someone who read an MMA book once trying to give advice to a UFC fighter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:08 PM |
| 5 | Men and Women are not nearly as evil towards each other as you people insinuateIt just baffles me how this isn't blatantly obvious. Either they legitimately lack basic social skills, or just want to argue and get defensive. There is no way a good faith, rational person, would be coming here concerned with pointing out how literally not every person is XYZ Like wtf would even be the point of a subreddit designed around discussing genders and sexuality, if literally every reply is "Everyone is different. Cant speak in generalities." Like, okay, i guess we should just delete … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Men and Women are not nearly as evil towards each other as you people insinuateThen it's literally impossible to talk about anything human related... "Everyone is different, we can't infer any general trends, or share any experience. It's all just random!" It would literally make discussing any social dynamics impossible. I don't even know why you're here if that's the case, as the only absolute that can be discussed is men are XY chromosome and women are XX. After that, social things? It's all general bell curves and matters of opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Men and Women are not nearly as evil towards each other as you people insinuateMost humans are not special little snowflakes who rolled a completely random character like it's a video game where the stats are just random. Most people DO bunch of with things. Women DO tend to act one way in general, and like things in general. This idea that people want to feel like this 100% autonomous unique special snowflake is teenager thinking. Most people tend to exist on different bell curves bunched up in similar things. So pointing out, "But everyone is so different! You can't gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Men and Women are not nearly as evil towards each other as you people insinuateMaybe once you realize people aren't as unique as you think they are, you'll realize there is more to understand. People aren't just NPC's where you roll random stats for everything, but instead, people tend to lump up into general bell curves... That's what people are discussing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 04:10 PM |
| 13 | Men and Women are not nearly as evil towards each other as you people insinuateYet, every, god, damn, post... There is someone bitching about how everyone is different blah blah blah... Heaven forbid you speak in absolutes as an easy way to avoid saying, "Most women, but not all, as humans are unique and into different things" and just assume everyone else doesn't have autism and understand it's general speaking by default. I swear, some people will freak out if you say something like, "Woman like a successful man" and of course some woman will jump in, "OMG How dare you! … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltYou literally just said men start treating you like shit once they find out your small sexual history So what is it? It’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltMaybe you’re the outlier variable here. You should question what about you leads to being around guys like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 03:15 PM |
| 3 | I think most men know their league of who is too hot for them. But do women just NOT have an awareness of who is too attractive for them?This is why men don't like sluts. Because that's what they think when they keep banging dudes who otherwise would pay no attention to them if it wasn't for sex, thinking they can use it as an "in" and win him over. I think the male equivilent would be the simp who gets women way out of his league because he showers him with gifts. She doesn't really want him if it wasn't for the fact he pays all her bills. It's just a matter of time before it's over though. Other women who have self respect see … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 02:27 PM |
| 5 | If 40 percent of the American population is obese and makes less than 50k a year, is really hard for men to get women?70% of women are overweight --- Just a bunch of fatties not wanting to fuck fatties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with?This is why guys see "sluts" as a huge red flag. Women routinely getting passed around tend to view sex as some sort of way to get emotionally close to a guy and make her stand out above the competition. Then they use "I just really enjoy sex!" as the rationalization they use instead of confronting the reality that they are just using sex and failing to pick up men outside their league. Men see this behavior as a MASSIVE red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with?You think it's self esteem issues or just people wanting to have sex with incredibly hot people? I don't have many self esteem issues, but I'd gladly sleep with Gal Gadot no matter how low she thought of me. She's smoking hot. Her opinion of me matters nothing compared to how much I want that body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Feminism and wokeness has completely neutered and crippled many men, afraid to be seen as a "bad guy" for having any spine at all in their relationshipYeah, different strokes for different folks. I just think as a man, there are things I inherently can't offer, much less want to offer. But some things are literally impossible because offering some things, negates the other things I do offer. For instance, being extremely sensitive and emotional would contradict the aspects of being a "stable rock" with emotional fortitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Feminism and wokeness has completely neutered and crippled many men, afraid to be seen as a "bad guy" for having any spine at all in their relationshipI don't see other women as a threat to my role. Men and women are different. I'm not concerned with a feminine being entering the scene, as she's not a challenge to the masculine element of the ying and yang. Another man, on the other hand, can be a direct challenge... She can develop feelings for him, prefer him, enjoy his dick, and get attached with another man in ways that another woman will not. Personally, I have no problem if my GF wants to sleep with other women even when I'm not around. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 09:54 PM |
| 5 | Reasons why online dating sucks for both men and womenNah dude... Don't listen to these idiots. You can still hit on chicks at work. Just don't be a creep or aspie. Obviously don't go in hot, but getting to know a chick and feeling off each other's vibes happens all the time. It's just a slower escellation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 06:44 PM |
| 12 | Reasons why online dating sucks for both men and womenI've argued it's bad for women, because they think they can climb higher than they should, but then keep getting treated like a bicycle by these out of their league guys so no one commits to them. So they keep getting dates, but just keep getting pumped and dumped. Sucks for everyone except the top guys who LOVE it. It's adult friend finder realized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Do men who want to have sexual and/or dating abundance are better off leaving the Anglosphere?I think you don't see it, because men and women know better than to actually say anything about it. Instead they keep their opinions to themselves as English people HATE confrontation and friction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 04:57 PM |
| 11 | Feminism and wokeness has completely neutered and crippled many men, afraid to be seen as a "bad guy" for having any spine at all in their relationshipYou don’t think shaming of male masculinity, demonizing them, and making them insecure isn’t play a role in how secure men feel about setting boundaries? That maybe it causes some confusion in the types who don’t want to be seen negatively? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Feminism and wokeness has completely neutered and crippled many men, afraid to be seen as a "bad guy" for having any spine at all in their relationshipWhere do you think he got the idea that he'd be controlling her body and it's wrong, if it wasn't for feminism? I don't hear anything like that coming from moderate and conservative spaces. You'll never hear a southerner let his wife fuck other people out of fear of being controlling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 04:01 PM |
| 4 | Feminism and wokeness has completely neutered and crippled many men, afraid to be seen as a "bad guy" for having any spine at all in their relationshipWhere do you think he got the idea that it's wrong to tell a woman no because that equates to "controlling her body"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 03:52 PM |
| 5 | More or less for the Red Pill Men: How long is too long without sex in a relationship and will you seek it elsewhere?Huh? I mean, I guess I'll seek it elsewhere once the relationship is over. I'm not going to start having affairs just because I can't get laid. If it's a relationship, and I'm still sticking in it, there is likely a good reason for her not wanting to have sex, and I'm not some sex addict who absolutely needs else I lose my mind. Men shouldn't let sex control their identity and mission in life - and especially not so controlling of me that it poisons my role as being a faithful partner. If there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltYeah every time I see one of these women claim that they experience it ALL THE TIME, like it's some sort of constant occurance, all I can think is "Really? Is it really as often as you make it sound? You're CONSTANTLY being called a slut in all aspects of life?" Either you're just writing internet fanfic, playing up your victim BPD worldview, or.... You have to figure out why the fuck you're such an outlier. Because most women do not experience that all the time. So you really need to ask yourse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 12:06 AM |
| 24 | The constant hypocrisy is nutsWhat trap? Dudes aren't going to suddenly start dating fat chicks just because some fat chick wrote some angry article trying to shame men into fucking them. No amount of lecturing is going to suddenly get men to find her fat ass hot... So yeah, there really isn't a trap is no one exists to trap. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/11/21 05:19 AM |
| 11 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?Every human being is different. yes. everyone knows. What's this sub's obsession with being a snowflake and pointing out truisms like it makes a difference? I feel stupid even have to remind people of this: People here talk in general terms. All social dynamics have no absolutes, so it's naturally assumed people are speaking generally. JFC... Every single post has a snowflake reminding people there aren't absolutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:50 PM |
| 20 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?Is months really a thing? I'm more of the camp that thinks smart women should wait a bit to make sure the guy isn't just trying to pump and dump... But months seems absolutely ridiculous. Do people actually do that? I feel like after 3-5 dates it's clear your in a relationship or not. I can't imagine going on date after date and still not knowing where you stand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”?Personally, if I'm not "into" the chick for long term, I'm still going to try and get laid. So I think it's smart for chicks to hold back a bit to see if I'm really into her, or if not, I'll just give up because more dates isn't worth it just to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 05:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI mean women are pretty open about that in real life. I’d say a better example is women “fearful of men” whenever they leave the house is something you hear online and not the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltNo, because the genders are different. It would only be hypocritical if I was a WOMAN saying other women aren't attractive if they sleep around a lot. But men aren't women. Men are men. It would only be hypocritical for MEN if women had the same standard men put on women, and then men complained about it. But men don't complain about it. If a woman doesn't want to marry a guy for being a huge man-whore, no man complains. Fine, they can have their standards. It always baffles me how much women ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:15 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltSaying a woman is a sex object if she is horny I never said that. I repeated over and over, her being horny has nothing to do with it. Her coming to a place specifically offering sex inherently makes her objectified for sex, the same way a model on a runway is objectified for looks. That's the purpose. If a bunch of people invite you over, with the obvious intention that she's being invited because people want to fuck her... And she goes, with the intention of fucking someone... Her purpose as a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 03:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltYou're inferring a lot. Who said they are unworthy of humanity? Are supermodels unworthy just because people are treating them like beautiful objects when they are on the runway? Just because a slut is being viewed and treated as a sexual person offering sexual value, doesn't mean they are less of a person? They are just being treated as they present themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltYou can be a horny woman and not sleep with a bunch of random people... FFS... If you're going out to specifically fuck some practical stranger, you are literally condensed to just your sexuality. That's what you're offering wherever you go. The same as a model offering her looks on the runway. Their purpose is to be sexualized or admired. A woman going out to fuck, isn't going out for companionship, friendship, conversation, etc... She's going out for sex, and is going to be treated like someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIt’s called a fucking analogy. Stop it. Fine. If you’re going out explicitly looking to fuck which is sexual in nature, don’t be shocked when people treat you like a person who’s there to get fucked. You’re not going out to have deep conversations or tell funny jokes. You’re there to fuck. So people will treat you a person who’s there to fuck. What don’t you understand? I a | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:55 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIf they are horny and showing up to places explicitly to get laid by a new guy, she is literally acting as a sex object in that moment. She literally is going out to go fuck a new person. That’s literally what she’s doing. I don’t get offended if I go repair a roof and then people expect me to be a roofer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltOf course. Not wanting to date someone long term doesn’t mean you don’t respect them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIt’s not up to ME to determine which values people hold as priorities. If a woman doesn’t like a guy for having a high N count, fine. That’s her choice. I’m not going to stomp around saying it’s unfair. I can’t control, and nor can she, what she finds important in a partner. If that’s what she finds important, fine. If a guy finds low N counts important, fine, if not, also fine. Who cares? It’s their choice to decide what they like and don’t like, not mine or yours. I genuinely don’t understand … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilthttps://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/qljbls/cmv_men_dont_actually_slut_shame_in_real_life/hj7qh8h/ I literally just touched on this. Absolutely. Deep down they know they are using sex to get men above their league, and are upset when it doesn't work out. So they try to shame men for judging her long term potential negatively when men don't want to associate with a woman who uses her sex to climb up. Maybe deep down it triggers in a man's gut that she wants higher status men than YO… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIt absolutely is that, for sure. Women that say "Men only want sex" have to do some reflection and think, "Why is it that men seem to only want sex from you?" It's because they don't offer anything valuable other than sex. Men only want sex from THEM particularly, and are rejecting the rest of their personality. So they defensively blame men. I think deep down they know, the only reason this guy was talking to you was for sex, that he actually doesn't see her as a long term partner at all... Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI think that's a matter of opinion on how much of the population agrees on something. Your subjective experience, isn't reflective of the majority of the population. As others have posted here, the data is on MY side, not yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltNo, it's fucked up pervy behavior which should be illegal. But it's not designed to "shame" women. It's men getting off to pornography of someone they know. The intent isn't to make women feel "ashamed" so they don't do it anymore. The intent isn't to try and control women to stop sharing nudes -- that may be an arbitrary outcome. The intent is just to share porn of someone they know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltDeep down, I think it's attempts at control by ironically trying to shame MEN into acceptable behavior that THEY prefer. The reality is, men don't shame women as much as women do, as women do it strategically... But women do know men have a negative preference with "slutty" women. Not negative as a person, just that men don't like to date sluts in long term dating. This isn't a "bad thing". It's no different than how women don't want to date men for a variety of different reasons... And generall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltUmmmm yeah, I guess.... If that's what you took out of it sure. I'm not sure what point you're trying to make though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIn my experience, they seem much more likely to want to branch swing and go from partner to partner. That once things get rough, they are already used to seeking out other men, so they have no problem just finding the next best thing and jumping ship. It's just a "type of girl" who knows the reason guys are always inviting her around is because they want to fuck her, and she's okay with that, and continues to go around a bunch of men who secret see her as a sexual object they just want to fuck (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltBecause when talking about social dynamics, it literally goes without saying that everything is being spoken in general terms. The majority of society understands this and doesn't need to be clarified. NOTHING is absolute in when it comes to social constructs. Reminding people of this is a useless and pointless waste of time. It's a trueism. If some people are autistic and don't understand that, then it's on them to learn that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltYes, it obviously happens. There are no absolutes. But I'm talking about the overall bell curve. Men slut shame far less than women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIt's irrelevant. It's a null question. I'm not trying to date men long term, so whether it's favorable or not favorable in men is not answerable, because I have no interest in men. That's up to women to decide. But from the looks of it, it seems like women don't mind as much as men mind when it comes to women... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI dunno... That's up to women to decide. Does it affect his character? That's a personal value judgement. I can't make that judgement, because I'm not trying to date men, so it's irrelevant to me. It only matters to people who are considering dating them long term. I can't make that for you. If it does, then fine, if it doesn't, also fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIt's not something we look for in long term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltNeither does yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIt follows a general personality trend IMO... General bell curves which correlate. Personally, I find the type of girl guys are always bringing around because they think they can fuck her, are different than the type of girl guys bring around because she's cool to hang out with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltNo having lots of casual sex is great, especially for guys looking to have casual sex. It just tends to not be a trait guys like in long term partners. I was using women’s preferences to show how not preferring a trait doesn’t = bad. It just means people aren’t interested in certain traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltNo not at all. If a woman doesn’t want to long term date a guy because he had a lot of casual sex, fine. Her standards are hers and no one should try to shame her for having her preferences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltWe treat people differently based on all sorts of factors.it doesn’t mean they are being “shamed”. I don’t like women who do body building. I’m not shaming them for it, I’m just not into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltOh for sure... But that's more about him being pissed off going for something he thinks will sting back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltWell they'd definitely be less likely to marry her, for sure... But that's not slut shaming. That's standards. Don't women fuck hot dudes who are kind of dumb and "not marriage material"? Women are allowed to discount guys as marriage material for any reason, but men aren't allowed to have their own set of standards? Do men need women to approve male standards? When do men start getting to approve women's standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltAgain, it's about the COMMODIFICATION of sex. It's about using sex as thing to sell... We as a society don't find high value in people who commodify such intimate aspects of humanity like that. Men, or women, are held in low regard because we see making a living off something couples treasure, is low. Do you think it's okay for a 15 year old to be a sex worker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltyes, I think that's true. I'll admit the extent of male slut shaming is "Hoes don't make housewives." I think universially, if men know their friend is dating a slue, they'll "warn" him, as guys intuitively know they are meant for fun and partying, not investment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI also wouldn't mind my 16 year old daughter working a blue collar job. If my teen son was working as a male escort at 16 I'd be devastated.. But working an oil rig? I'd think it builds character and is a good job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 03:12 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIf you're commodified your sexuality, yeah, I'd agree... You are pretty dirty. That's gross. It's low miscreant behavior. Stop trying to act working in a brothel is the same as working a normal sales or engineering gig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltThat has nothing to do with partners, but the commodification of sex. If it's an industry you wouldn't want your 15 year old working in, it's probably not a good industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltNot just size queens... Most women wont admit in real life that they prefer larger penises... But they'll admit it more freely online when they know there are no peers to judge them for admitting a 7 incher is better than a 5.5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI think murderers target them because by and large they are the bottom of the social totem pole, transient, and little connections. They are perfect targets because 1) the guy can get them alone in a vulnerable environment and 2) rarely does anyone come looking for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:51 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI just posted this elsewhere but men will hook up with a fit tall guy who’s a bit of a jerk and think “yeah we are hooking up but I will NEVER have kids with a guy like that. He’s not husband material.” You don’t hear men crying about how that’s not fair and fuck boy jocks deserve to be able to marry and have children with any woman they want. Blah blah blah. If a girl thinks a guy isn’t a good daddy material literally no guy complains and cries about it. Maybe it’s just because men understand a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 12:02 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI don't understand. This isn't slut shaming. How is preferences a slut shame? Is it slut shaming when girls date a "bad boy" for a little because it's fun? They aren't saying the guy is a slut, it's just that those type of guys aren't long term relationship material, but fun while young and dumb just looking to have sex. No guy in the world thinks you're "shaming" the hot fit dumb bro because you want to fuck him but wouldn't think about having kids with him. EDIT: Also which podcast is this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltSome men will share nudes... And it's nudes of anyone. It has nothing to do with "being a slut" but more to do with "holy shit I have porn of a woman we both know". The slutiness has nothing to do with it. It could be a virgin, it wouldn't matter. Some dudes are just pervs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltHow is sharing nudes in any way slut shaming? That's just fucked up behavior of kids sharing porn o people they personally know. It has nothing to do with being a "slut". The slut at school still probably gets invited to parties... The leaked nudes is a separate issue all together. I'm sure dudes sharing their dicks, if it got out, would also be shared around. It wouldn't be "slut shaming" when people made fun of his dick. Why do women see any version of friction as some sort of hostility and sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:42 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilthow many men said that women enjoying sex makes them sluts Women enjoying sex doesn't make them a slut though. I think you're interpreting things in a way that you want to read it as rather than what's said. That entire thread is basically what I'm saying "I have no problem with sluts. I just don't want a relationship with a chick who has so much casual sex like that." Round and round we go... Men are now "shaming" women for having any sort of preference or standard. Let me guess, it's "fat sham… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:35 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltThey don't see these women as humans and don't grant them basic human respect. Imagine actually believing this, unironically. You must live in some shitty interpretation of the world that really sucks. Luckily most women don't view the world as men not viewing women as human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:31 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltThat doesn't sound like slut shaming to me... That sounds like angry dudes upset you didn't give them your number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 11:04 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI think you’re defining anything negative men say about women as slut shaming. Slut shaming is saying negative things, and placing low moral value, on a woman sleeping around. A dude rating a girl from 1 to 10 isn’t slut shaming. That’s objectification and everyone dire that to everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 10:35 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIt’s not saying she’s not worthy of a relationship. Where the fuck do you get this idea? All it means is I personally don’t want a relationship with her. That’s a preference. Also how’s it hypocritical? No one gets mad at women for not wanting to date fuckboys. If she doesn’t want to date man whores, that’s fine too. Whatever floats her boat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 10:27 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI think that’s just asserting preferences. Is it height shaming when a woman wants a tall guy? Is it intelligence shaming when a women prefers an educated guy? Not wanting to date a slut isn’t slut shaming. It’s just a preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 03:23 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltIt’s the internet. You can find a confirmation bias or anything because everything is said. If the internet is to believed, based on what women say, every man with a normal penis should be extremely insecure from the things I hear women say online. But luckily the internet isn’t real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:49 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltHow often do you think those conversations happen? Rarely, if ever. Dudes just aren’t into dating that girl. They don’t go around saying they won’t date her because she sleeps around. You only hear women spread rumors she’s a slut and tell men they shouldn’t date her because she’s a slut. It’s women bringing in the knives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:45 AM |
| 14 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltYeah I literally said that. It’s not slut shaming for a guy to not want to date girls that is the type of girl that guys invite over for easy sex. But some guys are into those girls. Stop shaming men for having preferences in who they want relationships with. Men aren’t obligated to want to date you just because you slept with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:43 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltThe internet is a poor reflection of reality. It’s literally the worst place for advice and insight into the real world as it’s a bunch of anonymous people who can say and do anything with the most extreme cultures and ideas creating the most engagement. If I took the internet serious, I’d think there are Nazis all over the streets and the biggest issue in America is micro aggressions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:40 AM |
| 12 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltDid you not read my post? The internet isn’t real life. For all you know you’re just talking to a bunch of pissed off 13 year olds. Real life is what is relevant. Not internet comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:32 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltAnd I specifically pointed out the internet isn't real life. And I'm not going to play word games. Slut is an easy word we all know what means. I don't want to have to type out pointless "soft" ways of saying it like "women with many sexual partners" or "women who like to have lots of casual sex." Just say slut. It's a 4 letter word that gets to the point. Find an easy word that gets to the point, and I'll use it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:27 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltThe internet isn't the real world. It's not a place. It's a bunch of strangers. What matters is real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:20 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltHow are we being dehumanizing? If a woman wants to be treated as a sexual object and use her sexuality for her own gain, and then men recognize this is what she is doing and appreciate it, it's dehumanizing? It's like saying it's dehumanizing or men to ogle at supermodels for "seeing them as just beautiful objects to ogled at." Like yeah, that's literally what their job is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:19 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltBecause online people are specifically asking for candid honest conversations behind the deeper subjects that we normally don't get in real life. For instance, you wont see a single chick IRL talk about how bigger dicks are great, but online women have no problem being more candid... But even then, online, it's still hardly men talking about how sluts are bad. Ask any guy here, if they threw a party, would they want 5 sluts or 5 "good girls" and 95% of guys would say "sluts all day errry dayyy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:11 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI had to google it. It's far prettier and majestic than that ugly fish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:02 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltAgain. That's the internet. You can find anything if you're looking for it. There are subs dedicated to women literally hating men thinking they are quite literally trying to kill every woman they encounter. Crazy outliers of all types exist everywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 02:00 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltI mean, I still do mind... But it's just among dating. I just don't like dating a chick who's okay with being the type of girl people invite over to places specifically to try and fuck, rather than invite over to places because they enjoy her as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:59 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltReally? Because in highschool all I remember is being stoked to find out some party I was at had some sluts. It meant I had a higher chance of getting laid. They were always the first to be invited to parties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:49 AM |
| 13 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltWhere are these men shaming women for being sluts? I’ve never seen them. Maybe on the internet for sure, but guess what, the internet isn’t a real place. Outside is. And outside men are actively trying to befriend and invite sluts over. Men love them. If we could we’d have parties with nothing but our buddies and 100 sluts. This idea that men are shaming women is just women feeling some internal guilt about realizing men are finding their value as a person to be sexual rather than personal. And … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | CMV: You (men) resent today’s embracing of authentic female sexuality because it’s no longer being done on YOUR terms and in ways that are convenient for you.There isn't a single independent feminist on a sinking ship. Not one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?You're point is meaningless though. The point is, men ASPIRE to be like the guy who can sleep around, and the minority of men who are just born like that, well they aspire to be like that too, and women want that guy regardless. The point is, no one aspires to be a slut. It's no different than aspiring to sitting around eating junk food all day. There is nothing positively exceptional about it. It's nothing to want to strive for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?I'm not laying value of good or bad. I'm arguing what I look for in a partner and why I personally don't like women who are sluts.... And probably why other men do. Women can fuck around all they want, but just understand that many men don't like it. Men are allowed to have standards and like what they like and not what they don't. Women can prefer alpha males, who are tall, funny, good family, good career, etc... So what's wrong with men preferring a less promiscuous woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:46 PM |
| 2 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?give into their urges. Men aren't able to just "give into their urges". Men want sex BAD, and only a few are able to get it as much as they want it with as many women as they want. Being able to give into those urges is a rare thing... It's sort of like being rich. It's not easy getting there. Women giving into those urges is EASY. It's like being able to eat junk food all day and get fat. It's easy to get there and do that. There is nothing admirable or any sense of accomplishment to be able to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Well in my experience, women in general don't care, and in fact can often be a benefit for a guy. I don't consider redditors a good litmus test of the general population. Sure there are some chicks who avoid fuckboys etc etc... But overall, my experience is it's no big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Well I'm explaining the male angle... Other women tend not to care either, as most people know. Again, BECAUSE it's hard for men to be promiscuous, it signals a value. Sure they may not really like a sleazy guy, but women tend not to mind a guy who slept with a ton of women. Because it signals the same exact thing: Social proof. He's able to achieve something that's hard for most men, so "what about him has other women willing to sleep with him so frequently? He must be higher value than regular… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 10:05 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?What???? Dude, these women you think are like this are not. I dated many latina's and eastern european. They are absolutely not subservient. Sure they like strong masculine energy, and want you to lead, but they absolutely push back. This idea that Russian women are just pretty things that listen and obey is complete fantasy. Yeah, they STFU and obey when you shower them with stuff, but if they don't like something they let you know. Latina's are slightly different where they are VERY emotional … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?True in theory but it’s still admirable. Guys are going to look at a guy who gets easy sex (because many good looking guys still suck at it) and see a guy who’s successful in dating and fucking. A hard thing to do. Something they strive for themselves. Women don’t look at other women fucking a bunch of people and think “man, I wish I could be more like her one day.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 09:37 PM |
| 2 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?It’s not an unfair thing. This argument has been beaten to death. A man who’s able to achieve being able to sleep with many women is an accomplishment. It shows a level of success and reflects a character that’s able to achieve exceptional things. A guy who can get many women tends to be highly social competent and successful in general. It reflects being able to achieve a hard path very few men accomplish. It reflects positive traits. A woman doing it reflects doing something hedonistically eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?We don’t agree. My world view isn’t inaccurate. If I’ve experienced life and learned a trend that sluts make bad partners, that’s not inaccurate to go forward and assume the next slut is likely a bad partner unless proven otherwise. It just says “the default places you here because that’s likely where you sit. If I’m wrong, you just have to prove your an exception”. No one lives life assuming people are the exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 05:42 PM |
| 6 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?This is exactly the correct argument and everyone here makes it all the time. I just didn’t want to have to do it again. But yes that’s exactly why it’s different. What sleeping around represents and symbolizes is inherently different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?What? What makes you think I start and immediately assume someone is a slut? Obviously I have to get to know them first. But will I eventually start making assumptions based off my experiences? Yes of course. That’s a human strength to identity trends and patterns. I don’t have time to do a full thorough background check on every person I ever meet. Limited time and energy requires making probability assumptions for the sake of efficiency. If I see a skinhead walking down the street with a swast… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?I mean, I don't know their EXACT N count, but after knowing someone a few months, I can confidently asses the general area of where they sit on the scale between super conservative no sex at all, and mega slut banging new dudes every week. You can pick up just on what they do, talk about, and activities. If a girl goes clubbing every weekend and stays over at a new "friends" house all the time... It goes without saying she a hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Okay, that's fine. But I know there are SIGNIFICANT differences, and all variables need to be considered when making judgement. I know if a woman hits me, my amount of fear is close to 0% -- for the most part. But if a dude comes up and hits me, it's closer to 90% -- it means something is wrong, and genuine danger that puts me at significant risk is actively in my environment. A woman hitting me doesn't trigger the same level of anxiety and genuine fear and concern for my well being. A man hitti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Yes it does. When talking about social dynamics it's ALWAYS assumed for any not autistic that it's being discussed in general terms, because it's inherently general. There are no absolute 100% certainties like it's fundamental math, when it comes to social dynamics. If I say, "Men don't like to have their dicks chopped off" that is assumed a general statement, even though we know there are dudes out there who cut off their own dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 05:03 PM |
| 0 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Huh? Do you not have friends? People talk about their personal lives. These things are easy to tell... Because they literally talk about it. If they sleep around, they probably are talking to tons of dudes, or know tons of dudes, or have tons of dudes hitting them up. You'll go out and run into guys she's "briefly dated". She'll openly talk about her sexual past. She will be into all sorts of kinks and talk about who she's been with. You're acting like people just fuck in complete secrecy and ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 05:01 PM |
| 4 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Outliers exist. It goes without saying I'm talking in general terms. I shouldn't have to remind you of this. Obviously if Rhondda Rousey goes fucking up soyboys, that's fucked up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:57 PM |
| 4 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Do you also judge a 10 year old hitting a 30 year old the same? I don't. Again, because there is less potential. And okay, I guess let's just disagree. I'll use another argument. I don't think it's "wrong" for women to think men should be obligated to go to war and defend the nation in a time of crisis... but not expect women to do the same. I think men are just built for it and better at it, and it makes sense to create a different standard for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?What's wrong with that? Ever date a submissive woman? The only guys I can imagine into this are dudes who have frame control issues. I've dated submissive women and it's no fun. This is supposed to be a life partner, and they offer no growth. I don't need someone just blindly agreeing and following me around. It's empty. Also you think men want the lower 10% in terms of sex partners? I dunno if the general population is that strict. I'd like a woman who's had boyfriends and relationship experien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:55 PM |
| 5 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?How do I know? Uhhh... You get to know the person? You obviously can't tell a good portion the first time you met someone, but it becomes apparent after a while. If you're looking for a long term relationship this stuff also comes out eventually. Like, I really don't understand your question. How do you know someone sleeps around? It's such an odd question. How do you know someone works a lot? How do you know someone has travelled a lot? How do you know someone is into books? These things are pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:53 PM |
| 0 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?I never said it was okay. I’m saying I have a different degree of value placed on those two situations. I find it far more wrong for a man to do it because of the other contributing variables. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:50 PM |
| 0 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Cool, good for them. That's awesome! I'm explaining why some people aren't comfortable with it (most of society). I've found the type of women who sleep around generally carry personality traits and baggage I don't feel comfortable with in a partner. End of story. If you're fine with someone who's had sex with a new guy every week, and is known by a group of guys out there as a mega slut who screwed half the frat... Fine. I don't care. But I do, and so do many other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:42 PM |
| -4 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?And I refuted that premise. So I don't understand your point. The variables between genders are different. I think it's wrong for a man to slap a woman, but far less wrong for a woman to slap a man... Why? Because the variables are different. A guy can beat the ever living crap out of a woman and there isn't anything she can do, whereas a woman can hit a man and he can easily fight back and defend himself. The differences between the genders, create a different framework to judge the actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:40 PM |
| 0 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?It's not a moral failing, it's a character failing. I don't really want to rehash all these same arguments for the 100th time though. But yes, if it's easy for a woman to get sex, it shows more about her character and ability to withold hedonistic short term pleasure be refraining from using Adult Friend Finder every weekend to fuck some new guy to use her as an orgasm object of the week. It just shows the type of character who wants easy low hanging pleasure... It shows she's fine with going fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:37 PM |
| 3 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?This is a really difficult one to unwind... So I dunno... Is it cheating? Is it character? I dunno... For me personally, I just notice the trend of women with high N counts and the personality traits and baggage they bring with them. Women with a lot of partners create some insecurity for sure, because they are so good and normalized flirting with men, and engaging sexually... They also tend to be far more willing to branch swing from one guy to the next, which is why they have such a high N cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:33 PM |
| 3 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Well general society doesn't... You can be an outlier and exception, but most of society understands this is what women think, and are biologically incentivized to think, for good reasons. We as a society understand the differences between men and women, thus emphasize the importance of developing their strengths to create balanced partnerships. Since men tend to be more agile and willing to be a "warrior" in life and economics, we expect them to succeed in these areas. Since they have a natural… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?That's fair, but we default to assuming people are talking in general terms. Outliers and exceptions don't really add much value to the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:26 PM |
| -3 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?I think it's a poor reflection of a woman's character for a woman to sleep around because of how easy it is, and how she allows men to exploit her eagerness for sex... I can't possibly engage in this, though, because my circumstances are different. For starters, I'm not a woman, so the social and political implications are entirely different. If I sleep around, it's not because I'm just loading up an app and setting up easy sex every weekend night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?That's ridiculous and this sub has covered it many times... First off, I am not trying to date men long term, so I don't care about what they do. But if women want to extend the standard to men, then fine. No guys are going to complain... But for whatever reason, women tend not to extend that to men as much as men to women. That's up to each person to decide... But generally men seem to care more about it, and for whatever reasons, women don't. Further, what's wrong with having different standar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair?Some guys also think having a completely submissive woman that worships and never challenges him is ideal. There are outliers, but generally that's not the case. However, generally men don't like sluts, and that number varies through the ages, but typically guys like long term partners to be the lower 30% in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Women have several options to appear more attrctive and arousing towards their spouses, what options do men have?Get a large cock sleeve and design it to ejaculate diamonds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others?I'm pretty transparent with the fact that if my partner isn't sexually attractive in a physical sense, it's hard to remain attracted emotionally. I can't logic and override the biological monkey brain part when it comes to sex. But luckily, it's a pretty broad window for women to be attractive. Just don't be fat, and you're probably golden. Everything after that is just a bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Debunking the narrative that men leave their sick spouse more than women.If you have a list of anything around this subject, you spend too much time on this subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 12:32 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Is mental illness in a partner an immediate dealbreaker for you?Depends how hot she is... I hate to say it, but that's reality, at least for a few years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 02:36 PM |
| -1 | You should put out at least within the first few dates but also have a low body count?It's not manipulation. YOU do the same shit, you just don't realize it. These are biologically ingrained in all humans. It's instinctual. When I sleep with a chick on the first date, I'm not thinking "Oh boy, she failed the test... Shame." I just instinctively find her less attractive for dating. Most people keep it just at that. They don't need to unwind or explore "why". They just slept with a chick on the first date, and suddenly lost a lot of interest, and move on with their lives. Spaces li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:22 PM |
| -2 | You should put out at least within the first few dates but also have a low body count?...and you don't think that's manipulative and fucking mental? It's a shit test. It's not manipulative, it's how people select mates. Women do the same shit. It's not nefarious and manipulative, it's testing someone's character to see where they are at. When women do it, it's not because "eerr women evil" but they are testing to see if a guy is actually quality or if he's prone to breaking. Men doing it to women is the same thing. The best way to genuinely figure out if her character is the type… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:04 PM |
| -1 | You should put out at least within the first few dates but also have a low body count?Not really... It's the male's version of a shit test. We will push hard for sex and try to get you to break, and give in... We win by getting sex, but also learning that you can be broken so it's likely you've had tons of other men get sex from you early on too... So it shows you aren't wife material. There is nuance though, because if a chick is known for putting out early, but DOESN'T with you, then it also pisses the guy off, because what she's communicating is basically that you don't make h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 11:51 AM |
| 11 | There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy.Google is absolutely trash and worthless these days. EVERYTHING related to political or cultural issues, is completely dominated by big SEO businesses. Google is MSM's way of recapturing narrative control. I can't stand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 10:27 AM |
| 1 | I get banned from because a feminist breaks the rulesI started noticing getting a LOT of replies to my comment through my phone. But whenever I went to go read it, the comment was gone. Turns out, this power mod was getting admins to delete any comment that mentioned his past as someone who beat his family, and refuses to pay child support. People eventually just started messaging me, a good dozen or so... If you add .com to the end of his name, they have a whole site dedicated to him lol | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/10/21 09:17 PM |
| 8 | I get banned from because a feminist breaks the rulesThese activist mods can be literally crazy. There is a dude named bardfinn, who's TWICE on directed novel length comments towards two different accounts I have in the mod sub, got involved with random conversations I've had (usually involving things like being careful about creating echochambers) and quoted things I've said literally YEARS ago. The dude literally mods hundreds of subs and spends ALL DAY being an activist mod, banning anyone he deems "A nazi who wants him not to exist". Like he'l… | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/10/21 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Husbands’ lack of full-time employment is associated with higher risk of divorce, but neither wives’ full-time employment nor wives’ share of household labor is associated with divorce risk.I'll admit, once a woman gets fat, she loses a LOT of sexual appeal, so I can easily see men cheating more later in marriages once she's "let go" and basically lost all sexual value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | 26 years old. Making big changes in my life. Never had GF, Sex or Kiss. But that’s changing. Should I tell women about my lack of experience ?NO, why the fuck would you tell her that? | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 03:09 AM |
| 4 | That went downhill way too fastIt wasn't just because of that though. The founders made it very clear that the elites should run the country, as the madness of the masses could lead to self destructive policies. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/10/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys should stop feeling like they have to rationally justify their wants and preferences.Yeah it’s definitely what I remember. I don’t hear a lot of chicks ooohing and awwwing over a thick 5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys should stop feeling like they have to rationally justify their wants and preferences.I don’t know many women exclaiming how great a 5 dick was, but I know a ton who love to talk about a 7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 02:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Guys should stop feeling like they have to rationally justify their wants and preferences.That’s significantly larger than average on the bell curve. That’s entering porn status | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/20 08:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Guys should stop feeling like they have to rationally justify their wants and preferences.Well a guy ramming his dick on your cervix is another issue all together. But women like larger dicks. Especially girth but that’s part of being larger. Most chicks who get a guy who’s larger than average love it. A few dont but most do. There is a reason why girls in just about every hookup online personal ad request a guy who’s hung. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Let’s try a gender swap experiment in datingI think her "insight" mainly came from being in male circles, and witnessing first hand how men are candidly, their problems, etc... I believe she was part of like men's only bowling leagues, therapy groups, etc... Which is where she got a more intimate insight into their struggles and problems they faced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 01:10 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Guys should stop feeling like they have to rationally justify their wants and preferences.I think there is a nuanced difference though. Like women will say "size doesn't matter" in public, but in private they all know that's a lie and bullshit. But a guy could say "vagina tightness is all the same" and then in private still fight for that reality to be true. There is some weird social double play happening that's hard to explain. But since men are the ones trying to adapt to figure out how to get women, they will take on women's claims and fight for them, and even convince themselves… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 01:04 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Guys should stop feeling like they have to rationally justify their wants and preferences.none of my ex girlfriends explicitly said anything about it, therefore it doesn't matter I hear dudes who try to defend the magical vagina that doesn't prefer larger dicks... It's always some guy who says "I mean, I've been with like 30 women and never once have they complained!" Meanwhile, if a chick does complain, suddenly everyone is like, "OMG, even if that's true, why would you tell him that?!" It's clear women aren't honest about things which hurt men's egos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 12:52 AM |
| 12 | Anyone else who wants to keep TRP a secret?Really? I found the opposite. I found its internet people who always flipped their shit over the concepts because I’m real life most TRP concepts are well understood by non losers. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?That’s exactly what tipped me off. He clearly senses he’s out of place and doesn’t know how to deal with it. Like a sales rep being launched into upper management realizing he isn’t entirely confident in his capacity. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?Just to play devils advocate and look at things differently (always good to circle around things for insight) Are you sure you’re not just coming off as an arrogant dick? I know a lot of guys can become insufferable douches because they come off arrogant and kind of a dick all of a sudden as they haven’t yet learned how to stand up for themselves in a cordial and confident manner. This is my alt for a Vanguard btw... I see it with a lot of guys early on kind of being dicks. One friend I had to c… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do people deny the red pill so much?Ego and self defense. People don’t want to admit these realties to themselves. So they have to deny it. You’ll notice the bulk of the people who are actively against red pill concepts are also those who would be considered social failures. They are usually ugly, weird, and going nowhere in life. I’m sure there are exceptions but by and large most people agree with red pill, it’s just the losers who hate it because it exposes their flaws. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 05:40 PM |
| 8 | Was it exceptionally hard to have casual sex in the late 80s and early 90s?It’s more about girls who don’t take care of themselves, slobs, and not really that good looking, getting hit up by tons of guys on dating apps making them think they are more in demand than they are. A solid four thinks she deserves a solid 7 man. Then you have the quality girls who aren’t sleeping around, good personalities, not so,e crazy SJW, and are good looking... they know they are in much less supply so they are more picky and require higher investment. Look at home videos from the 80s. … | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Teen accused college football players of rape. They lost their scholarships and were expelled. Now the "victim" admits she made it all up.It’s rare in the broad sense but not in the specific sense of the Greek system which is littered with regretful hookups. And yes it is still possible she was raped but after seeing the same pattern play out over and over I find it unlikely that was the case. They just so coincidentally happen to be raped whenever they slut it up one night and either embarrass themselves or their boyfriend finds out. It’s like clockwork. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/05/18 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Teen accused college football players of rape. They lost their scholarships and were expelled. Now the "victim" admits she made it all up.I used to be in a frat and I know of a LOT of factually false rape claims. It got to the point, where I'd demand real proof before believing a claim from a random chick. It was just reality. I know it happens, and false ones are rare, but I was in a unique situation. 9x out of 10 if someone within the greek system got accused it was because she was cheating and got caught drunkenly hooking up with some guy... "Oh Becky says Steve raped her? Haven't they been hooking up secretly for weeks now? Sh… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/05/18 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Biology hits fast and hardJust look up "pre diabetes". It's super common... Like 30% of the US is prediabetic. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/08/17 03:07 PM |
| 2 | 5 Women, 1 JobNobody is saying that... WTF, how come when one side is criticized, it has to be a game of "Whatabout!?" Obviously both genders have their pros and cons in society. No one is saying that since women get a lot of benefits and passes in one field, doesn't mean men don't have benefits in others... It's not a victim game race to the bottom | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/07/17 03:52 AM |
| 1 | 5 Women, 1 JobThere is tons of research into this, it's not a mystery, but honestly I'm on mobile and not really in the mood to go crawling through google to find them for you. But it's been pretty established that the income divide for women doesn't start happening until child rearing years, because they opt to focus more on family than career in relations to men. But that's besides the point. Just for the sake of argument, let's say you're right. So what? You're just saying whataboutisms which frustrates me… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/17 08:59 PM |
| 3 | 5 Women, 1 JobI'm willing to bet you wouldn't consider men to have a "dick pass" despite the fact that men are considered over women for many jobs and opportunities. That's simply not true... There are vast amounts of evidence showing the opposite. When all things are equal, and the only difference is sex, women actually get the edge... Men get more opportunities because of different lifestyle choices that men take than women take... Again, because the inherent difference in men and women, going back to dispo… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/17 06:23 PM |
| 3 | 5 Women, 1 JobI'm sorry. But again, if you don't believe that family law greatly benefits women, false rape accusations are rarely taken seriously, that women getting almost half the time men do for the same crime, and women rarely ever getting into serious trouble for fucking their students isn't a problem and a general pass simply because oh you can find a few outlier cases? Well I don't know what to tell you. Men are disposable in society thus don't get these passes that women are inherently born with. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/17 04:56 PM |
| 7 | 5 Women, 1 JobI'm sorry but if you don't immediately understand in communication that when someone says "women have a pass" they don't mean literally every single one and literally not a single man gets away with anything, then you're completely socially incompetent and I'm not going to drastically change how I communicate to an inefficient way for the occasional autism. People with the most basic social intelligence already understand there are no social absolutes and there are always outliers and exceptions… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/17 04:33 PM |
| 8 | 5 Women, 1 JobJesus Christ dude. Not everything is a brigade conspiracy when things happen like this. It's on the front page. It's not a coordinated effort to manipulate the comments. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/17 03:06 PM |
| – | 5 Women, 1 JobWhat? You don't think women have a pass? Any reasonable person will admit women get a pass just for being female. You don't have to be some red pill person to look at the data to show how women get treated with kids gloves when it comes to the law and violence. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/07/17 03:04 PM |
| 8 | Teen accused college football players of rape. They lost their scholarships and were expelled. Now the "victim" admits she made it all up.I think by "sympathy" she meant, "She liked this guy, but also wanted to bang these two testosterone loaded football players at the same time" but since everyone knew and saw, it would come out that she's unable to control her desires and will now look like trash to the guy she likes. So to cover her ass she claims rape, to gain sympathy instead of disgusted pity. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 23/02/17 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Cop slams the pussy pass out of her! Brutal!So odd that this happened. Suffolk County is usually the bastion of cultural progress | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/08/16 10:35 PM |
| -3 | Girl admits she lied about rape, man still charged. Now he's back in jail for going to a job interview while on probation for a false conviction.A few months before my 18th birthday, I had sex with a HS Freshman, so she must have been 13-14ish... No one thought it was weird at all. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/15 03:58 AM |
| 4 | Increasing SMV if you're a fat guyThat's some fat logic right there. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/15 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Bitch can't stand it when fed her own medicine (from /r/fatpeoplehate)Personally, they gross me out. The same way heroine addiction makes my skin crawl. I get it, they have a problem, and they need help. But for fucks sake, why is food addiction treated so softly, while other addictions aren't? I want no social softness, or acceptance of being fat, as much as I don't want social acceptance of being addicted to crack. They deserve no pitty or kindness. They need to stop being fucking idiots and stop destroying their body | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/05/15 04:58 AM |
| 34 | Bitch can't stand it when fed her own medicine (from /r/fatpeoplehate)Found the butter huffer. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/05/15 03:55 AM |
| 0 | Bitch can't stand it when fed her own medicine (from /r/fatpeoplehate)Sure it works... I never said it doesn't. But I was trying to highlight FPH is more concerned about killing the disease via nuclear bombing, while FL is more concerned about therapy and anti-depressants. Cancer is cancer. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/05/15 03:25 AM |
| 159 | Bitch can't stand it when fed her own medicine (from /r/fatpeoplehate)Na... Fat logic is more of a place where current fatties, former fatties, and nice guys, go to make fun of their shitty logic while offering encouraging words. The real fun is in /r/fatpeoplehate where it's specifically meant for making fun of them for being so fucking disgusting. Fat logic is more like anti-depressants, hoping that it will help solve their problem. FPH is more like chemotherapy, hoping to just get rid of it as aggressively and quickly as possible. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/05/15 03:06 AM |
| 0 | #YesAllCats is taking off on Twitter. Shitstorm ImminentYou come to a male space concerned with male problems and expect us to deal with feminist issues? The definition of solipsism. You can fuck yourself right on off out of here. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/14 02:39 AM |
| 13 | #YesAllCats is taking off on Twitter. Shitstorm ImminentYou got hate for it because you have a brand new account and we get a lot of trolls around here. So it's hard to discern between a genuine question, vs a feminist leading question. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/14 05:22 PM |
| 3 | #YesAllCats is taking off on Twitter. Shitstorm ImminentPut enough retards in a room with paint, eventually one of them is bound to come out with something brilliant. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/14 04:03 PM |
| 19 | #YesAllCats is taking off on Twitter. Shitstorm Imminent"Don't teach women not to get wasted drunk and hang over all sorts of men then go walk home alone. Instead we need to teach men not to rape." The argument is stupid because it's assuming we need to teach all men to not rape as if somehow they don't already know it's bad. It's like saying we need to teach men not to steal, or be drug addicts, or whatever. There will always be theirs and addicts regardless of how much we teach them not to be, so in the meantime play it safe and learn how not to pu… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/14 04:01 PM |
| 24 | Are women taught how to abuse the system?I've watched enough Dr. Phil to notice that the women who are in the wrong generally play victim and deflect their bad actions onto being pressured by someone else. Ie, I know I did this, but I'm just a victim. This MAN drove me to do this. Or, I was mentally ill, I'm a great person and I just need help... Why won't any one help me?! It's hard to explain but it's pretty clear when you see it. I suspect they do this because they know this is how they can get away with things. They want to trigger… | /r/PussyPass | 14/05/14 10:08 AM |
| 1 | After sharing a Feminist conducted study, I am attacked for presenting "manipulated...trash" in order to further the MRA agenda. Make that does sense?Seems like it got deleted, because I can't find it in your post history. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/14 08:34 PM |
| -1 | Is bodyfat% just as important for men as it is women?Actually, it doesn't require any work to lose weight. It literally requires lack of action. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/14 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Single and Educated: China's "Leftover" womenI guess I think people like myself look at education as a barometer of other attributes. A women with an education is less likely to have grown up in a trailer park with an abusive alcoholic father. Chicks with educations just tend to come from better families, thus are generally more balanced. I don't really give two shits what type of education it is, so long as it's nothing something retarded like film or gender studies. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Single and Educated: China's "Leftover" womenJust out of curiosity, I'm so culturally removed from Asian culture that I have a hard time relating to most of them: but what do men find valuable in Chinese women? I know in the west most men ideally want looks and education, but in the east is education completely irrelevant? How would a poor attractive daughter of a farmer marry a wealthy Chinese millionaire? I'm being serious. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/14 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Conflict between my world view and RPHow old are you if you don't mind me asking? I've learned a lot of this "who I am" elements of a person really aren't "them". A lot of these characteristics a person self identifies with are actually often just insecurities the mind has internalized as a self defense mechanism to cope with their failures. For instance, look at highly anti-social groups such as punk and goth kids from HS. They internalize, "Hey I'm like this because that's who I am. I'm a rebel against the system, etc etc..." but… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/14 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Conflict between my world view and RPIt's important to understand that these traits are traits you will prefer to have. Often, people here say, "Act this way, or do this. It doesn't matter if it's against your natural ethos. Your natural behaviors have what got you to this point to begin with." See, these behaviors are behaviors of successful people. They aren't successful because they act this way, but they act this way because they are successful. If you want to be appreciated as a sexual being by someone you desire, you have to … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/14 08:25 AM |
| 9 | Conflict between my world view and RPListen, TRP has improved on my life greatly. I've always been alpha-ish, but just value in re-framing is tremendous. You need to understand one element of this space -- take what you can. This place is extreme to make a point. No one can possibly be "on" all the time, especially with TRP. No one is a following TRP to the T. In fact, doing so would probably make you a shit-fuck no one would like, including yourself. I've met actual real TRP guys in real life, several of them since I live in a maj… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/14 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Had a new shit test today that completely caught me off guard: I don't feel safe with you.That doesn't even make any sense. I enjoy fighting as a hobby and passion, but I don't enjoy using my physical strength and skill to push people around and force my dominance. I have absolutely no problem fighting. Doesn't matter if it's in the ring or on the street. However, I'm going to use it as a last measure on the street because that shit is weak because it's literally your last option. It should never get to that point. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/13 03:40 AM |
| 9 | Had a new shit test today that completely caught me off guard: I don't feel safe with you.I'm pretty certain it was more of an emotional attack. She was in the wrong and losing the argument, so she had to figure out something to pin on me. In this case she went with that, but I was still thrown out of frame. Mainly because what you said. I do want to be a protector. I'm physically in shape and turning my athletic build into more of a threat than a benefit, shook me up a bit. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/13 02:08 AM |
| -5 | Why is Roosh, of all people, in the sidebar?It's more like, if someone is bad at basketball, instead of going on the court and pretending to be the best player around, they should instead learn how to be a better basketball player. Instead of pretending to know how to shoot fieldgoals, actually understand that the reason I'm bad at field goals is because I have bad form, and I should probably correct that. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/13 12:33 AM |
| -2 | Why is Roosh, of all people, in the sidebar?Hey, I agree. I have no personal problem with the guy. C'est la vie. If he wants to live his life the way he chooses, and also teaches others to follow that path, then fine. There are definitely much better alternatives though. I was mainly just trying to point out that just because he fucks women and people pay him to learn how, doesn't mean he's any better than the standard PUA -- except maybe that he knows how to run a business. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/13 12:30 AM |
| -5 | Why is Roosh, of all people, in the sidebar?So fucking what? It's not hard to bang chicks. Nor is it hard to get really frustrated guys to pay you money to help them. Heck, I offer advice for free, yet some guys try to insist I take there money. Yeah, he can get laid. Congradulations. I too have fucked women all over the world, but I was able to do it without having to lie and make a fake persona for myself. See that's the problem, getting laid isn't hard. Yeah, Roosh can teach guys how to get laid by manipulating them, but so what? At th… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/13 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Ending LTR, advice pleaseWell you could leave on bad terms with her resenting you, feeling insecure, and with commitment problems. You want her to go out and say good things about you. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/13 08:57 PM |
| -3 | Ending LTR, advice pleaseJust make sure you leave her better off than before she met you. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/13 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Just more feminism double standards"Valued more highly by people" is more like it. What I said above still holds true for men as well. Who's granting the man his power position? Why are other's kissing the ass of the good looking guy in the office? This is some pretty sexist BS assuming women in today's world aren't capable of making their own decisions. So when a woman makes a decision, apparently it's because of patriarchy influencing her? But when a man makes one, it's because of what? Magic? Woman on woman relationships are j… | /r/MensRights | 04/08/13 12:44 PM |
| 6 | Just more feminism double standardsAmongst each other as well... I worked as the only male in an office of ~25 woman, as the IT guy. Trust me, they are more critical with each other. Absolutely cut throat. And for the most part, there were 2 types of power woman: The really aggressive "bitch" that saw only black and white with every issue. And the very attractive woman, that everyone liked. The attractive woman could even be bitchy, but people would still kiss her ass. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/13 03:39 AM |
| 12 | Just more feminism double standardsYes, I am saying that. I'm not saying it's right, but that's how it is. The more attractive a woman is, the more attention she gets from others, more people listen to her, the more the halo effect applies, and the more men are willing to give them stuff. I'd also say, that masculine, strong, influential, is more attractive for men to have. While sexy and feminine, tend to favor woman. While there is some positive overlap between the two, the attributes are dominate different based on the polariz… | /r/MensRights | 03/08/13 09:25 PM |
| 40 | Just more feminism double standardsBecause attractive women have a lot more power in society than not attractive women. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/13 08:21 PM |
| 7 | Man watches his wife get nailed by an Alpha in a couple swap, can't deal. Never let another man in your bed.. ever.I feel bad for the situation... While I've never been there, I can total imagine how I'd feel. It almost is like getting cheated on right in front of your eyes when you aren't okay with it. Poor guy just wasn't expecting it to happen like this, nor feel this way. I wouldn't say he's BP because of it. However, he does seem like one of those overly emotional guys, in the way he describes how he felt, talked to Sally, and to his wife. How he dealt with it was very poor. But good for him on getting … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/13 03:17 AM |
| 4 | "Recent situation & some thinks & feels about sex", or "As a man, how I use feminism to feel smugly superior for being a wretched, submissive, self-hating doormat"If this wasn't an SRS post, would you all be shitting on him for being a beta orbiter? God yes.... I didn't even realize it was SRS until after I read it. The whole post is terrible Blue Pill logic | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/13 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Comedian versus Feminist: are rape jokes okay?That's exactly how I feel about a lot of the sensativity people try to place on racial, cultural, and even physical jokes. If you say, "You can't say X about this person because he is different than you," you are basically creating an "us and them" mentality which just reenforces the divide. You'll know racism is over when white people can openly joke about another skin color and not get dirty stares. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/13 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Comedian versus Feminist: are rape jokes okay?I hate this line of reasoning: Since X is so much worse than Y, trying to solve Y means you don't care enough about there world. There are plenty of people on this planet, some are interested in global hunger, others about rape jokes. Personally, don't care for either of them, and I'm more concerned with some relatively trivial issues. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/13 02:34 AM |
| 1 | I saw this show by Bill Burr, and he claimed something about the way women argue that hit home.Yeah, I'm sure many men do that, however, in general more women do this... Obviously, you'll easily be able to find exceptions with just about anything in life. But for the most part, this is how I've found women argue. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/13 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Guy takes girl to Rio for MMF threesome, now she wants more. Comments are even sadder.I honestly believe that a majority of things in life are not natural talents, but learned skills. No basketball player is just naturally a great athlete, they practice hard all the time. They are dedicated to becoming the best. However, I'm not saying you should become the best, nor would you want to. Though, I do believe you want to be a better person, right? Now, you can sit around all day hoping you were a better you, or you can get up and start practicing. All those things you talked about c… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/13 06:18 AM |
| 4 | Guy takes girl to Rio for MMF threesome, now she wants more. Comments are even sadder.You have that "caring" style because, again, you're beta as hell. You don't know how to get aggressive and take charge. You don't have to perform, you just have to look deep and take charge. Try having sex with her without trying to impress her... Just go there and fuck her. Don't worry about her for a chance. Be a man, and be in control. Grab her hair, slap her ass, get angry, and when she looks you in the eyes, don't give her the love eyes, give her the focused dirty man eyes and don't fucking… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/13 02:56 AM |
| 8 | Guy takes girl to Rio for MMF threesome, now she wants more. Comments are even sadder.Dude, you are beta as shit... Your girl wants a man, not a passive bitch that she can walk all over. She's keeping you around because you are safe and emotionally there for her. You are so beta, you just agreed to let her fuck another dude AGAIN..! This is your decision as much as it is hers. Don't just let her walk all over you because she wants this. I mean, spend time learning how to sexually satisfy her, instead of letting some other dude do it. Sex is the most intimate possible action two h… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/13 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Guy takes girl to Rio for MMF threesome, now she wants more. Comments are even sadder.Sometimes I find this sub is too far extreme in the desire to behave like an Alpha... As much as I agree with you, that guy was being beta as shit. Passively asking for permission, and guidance. However, your attitude of "MAKE HER want to comply consensually" is not consensual. If you are forcing someone to say or behave a way, it's not consensual, at the very least it's coercion. I wouldn't say make her do anything, however, don't be a beta asking for permission. - It shouldn't be, "Is this som… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/13 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Go out tonight!It's so weird, because once you turn 21, really, most of your activities involve drinking at night. It's so strange. Most humans are like this. It dawned on me when my friend told me he doesn't want to go out, because he doesn't drink. Then I realized, "Holy shit, there isn't anything to do besides go to a pub!" I mean, you can go do some night activities, sure, but nothing really social. I mean what is there to do? Go watch a movie by yourself? That's awesome and all, but again, it's not social… | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 07:51 AM |
| 53 | Useful seduction facts.You marry her. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 10:22 AM |
| 0 | I come across as gay a lot of the time, what's up?Do you want to fuck guys? Do you look at guys and get sexual feelings? If you answered yes, then you're gay. "Gay" character traits are learned social attributes. You unfortunately, have some of those things as well, but weren't forced. However, just as the gays adapted to acting a new way, so can you. Break it down, every little "gay" thing you're doing. Run like a sissy? Go running. Pay attention to what you're doing, that comes off as sissy like, and start working on making it normal. One at … | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 12:57 PM |
| 10 | Science Explains Why Some People Are Attracted to JerksWorked for Hitler. | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 11:23 PM |
| 2 | How to Form a Sexual FrameDeclaration of Intent - Conveying sexual intent early on to avoid being friendzoned, making flirty remarks, etc This is very important. Even if I don't want the girl, I make it very clear I will not be freindzoned, ever. I've had good friends I have no sexual desire to be with, but if they try to say, "Oh you're just like my brother" I will stop them right there and say I am brother to only one girl on the planet and unless you were secretly adopted, I'm nothing like being your brother. Also, ag… | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 07:43 PM |
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