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No, I don't think that. Wondering whether you have to "suspend rational thinking just to date women" is arrogant and full of it on its own. They're human adults who happen to be women, not kindergarteners. Okay, so that's two examples. First one - if that's what truly happened - maybe she just had a shitty day and changed her mind. But if she was just randomly rude like that - if - then, well, assholes exist. It's not great, but it happens. But tbh I'm not sure your story is unbiased, so I can't…
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 01:10 AM
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I just find the notion of tolerating it absurd but I also wonder if it's possible to find women who are more clear thinking. Generally, the nicest women I've met have also not liked accountability and facts. It turns them off completely. Uh... please reread what you wrote with that rational and logical brain of yours. You come across as snooty as fuck. "The nicest women I've met have also not liked accountability and facts?" What accountability? What facts? You listed a bunch of vague crap about…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 11:32 PM
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I mean yeah, it does suck. Untangling yourself from the mess in your head is hard. Doesn't mean you should just stop going. Find someone else you click better with (took me like 10 of them who finally managed to work with me effectively). But preaching on the exredpill subreddit about how you're a sigma male (pffft) is hardly gonna help. Have you stopped consuming red/blackpill content? They're a bunch of crabs in a bucket. That's a good step if you haven't done it yet. About the coke thing, tha…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 01:08 AM
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1: No such thing as a β-male. Also, your post reads like some culty bullshit, ngl. 2: You have some seriously fucked up ideas about women, life, and... well, pretty much everything. Also, just because your auntie says something stupid, it doesn't mean it's true. You need some serious help. Please go see a psych professional. You're only 23, don't waste your life on this mindset. Also: Brocels, remember it if you ascend with a marriage: you were never her first, second or third option. You're her…
/r/ExRedPill06/12/21 06:34 PM
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Just know that perceived weakness will be used against you. Can we not spread this bullshit as truth? Sure, some assholes might use your weaknesses against you but it's by no means a Thing That Will Happen If You Show Weakness, Period.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 11:54 PM
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Because it's a fundamentally harmful ideology that causes nothing but suffering and no one should be a part of that.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 07:26 AM
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I talked to some mental health professionals, but I was never open and honest with them. I mean... no matter what therapist you see (what's this about going "abroad" for help anyway?), they won't be able to help you without opening up and being honest. That is the fundamental foundation of therapy. A lot of the time, you have to "trial" a few therapists until you find the one you click with and that will be the person to help you. But no amount of professional chemistry will help if you refuse t…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/21 12:39 AM
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I saw RPD engaging with the guy so I figured it was mod-approved.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 03:01 AM
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Ex girlfriend was a virgin just like me at the same age and even still she still virgin shamed me. Me and her were the same age in both broke as she still seen me for being broke I dunno, man. Sounds like your ex was just a shitty hypocrite if she did that. An 18 year old girl is going to want a dude who has more than her. And it's probably why you see so many young women dating older men because they have all the things that they are attracted to 18 year old girls are gullible as shit. Their br…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 05:08 PM
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Wait, so you're been getting dates. What do you mean "measure of success"? This is not a race, this is about eventually finding the one who's right for you. would hate for a girl just to like me because I'm confident because that means she'll probably leave if I am upset or going through hard times No woman will ever like you just because you're confident. It's the entire package. Everything including your personality, your jokes, how you treat the people around you... confidence is what helps p…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 04:24 PM
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It does get even more frustrated when you do struggle and someone tells you that it must be because you lack confidence but obviously that is not true Yeah, that does sound very frustrating. No argument there. But your question was "are women really attracted to confidence?" and you said "but I don't think it really does anything when it really comes to attracting women but I'm an odd person so I'm not sure" in your post, which is why I'm confirming that yes, women are attracted to confidence. B…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 03:56 PM
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Every time you win or gain something new you realize there's something else you have to conquer or understand or improve on. Within that definition is impossible to be confident because you will lack the competence or experience within this understanding. That's odd logic. You can't be amazing at literally everything. Am I confident in my singing? Hell yeah, I spent a lot of money and effort training my voice. Am I confident in my coding? No, I only started it a few weeks ago and I'm struggling …
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 01:24 PM
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I mean... I'm not saying ban everyone who's still trying to get rid of red pill thinking because we're here to help and all, it's more like posts like this that I don't understand why they're still up. I mod a... questionable space myself (although on Discord, not on reddit) and something that isn't even trying to be anything but hate speech would go out the window pretty fast. Bro over there is literally gloating about how much he enjoys seeing women struggle. He just threw out a bunch of insul…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 09:53 PM
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Moderation isn't censorship though. There's a million ways for mods to let people know what they're thinking is not alright besides banning them. It's just that they don't even seem to give a fuck.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 02:22 PM
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It really doesn't help that most mods don't really mind pro-redpill stuff in general. Post that are straight up redpill propaganda go unchallenged, same for wildly delusional and hateful stuff... this place needs stricter moderation, forreals.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 12:35 PM
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You serious? Guys started openly catcalling and hitting on me when I was like... twelve? I reached my adult height very early (5'9" at 14ish) so I was pretty tall for a child already. Men going for younger, inexperienced women and girls is absolutely the norm.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/21 01:11 AM
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When I see women "shit test" I really think they're just trying to gage who you are because they know nothing about you. Exactly, and that's why it's silly to call "shit tests". I mean, if you met someone, you would want to know about their personal values? Their personalities? What they're really like? It's a relationship, not QA.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 01:40 PM
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"Uh, no I don't know" means what it means. It literally means that I don't know. A lot of redpillers are too far gone to get out of the mindset by themselves but won't consider therapy until it's pointed out to them. Also, I don't really feel like engaging after the whole "massive fucking dick" and "are you daft" thing so I'm going to step away. Good luck on your journey.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 06:41 PM
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Huh? I'm saying that if your thinking about women is so delusional, you could probably use professional psych help and that is not something reddit is necessarily able to provide. How is that victim blaming?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 06:20 PM
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It's hard, you know? Uh, no, I don't know. I have a pretty garbage family but I still understand that others aren't like mine. I'm so emotionally damaged by them that I will probably never be capable of truly loving someone because I can't place that kind of trust in them - abandonment issues are a bitch - plus, I'm 36 and strictly childfree, the odds of me finding anyone are... not great. If you genuinely think women are incapable of love, that's just straight up nonsense and you need someone a…
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 06:07 PM
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I mean we're not mind-readers lol. When you finish a post with "you really think women cannot love you because of your experiences with them", people are gonna respond to that. My mother wasn't the greatest either and we're mostly no-contact these days, doesn't mean women are incapable of love.
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 05:53 PM
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Uh... you just contradicted yourself. You do realise that, right?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 05:48 PM
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Well I'm terribly sorry I don't appreciate the nuance and diversity of you being turned off by real women with ~their own motivations~ lmao. Must be terrible, having to think of women as... human beings with their own emotions and lives. What a turn-off smh. Honestly, what kind of response did you expect when you said that? Either go see a psych professional or stick to fictional women is all I'm sayin'. That's all I have to say about that.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 06:17 PM
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The fact that real women have their own motivations is a turn-off. Hmmm I'm pretty sure that doesn't make you asexual... that makes you a psycho. Please make sure to stay away from women IRL. Thanks.
/r/ExRedPill24/09/21 05:50 PM
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Wait, so calling out obviously flawed thinking is "assuming you did this with ill intent"? I merely pointed out that your post is confusing because you're framing the critique of something that is essentially hate speech as something "feminists" do that makes you want to go back to RP and that you seem to agree with RP still. And I'm sorry you liked "the other poster" (whoever that is) better, but this is the internet. People are going to have different reactions to what you're writing, and they…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 04:40 AM
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It's not about judgment. I just don't understand why you post an article where someone - supposedly "a feminist" - posts an article where they gently criticise what is essentially the female version of redpill - because that what RPW/tradwives are, it's even in the name, and you think it's a "matriarchy"? Because humans aren't numbers, and women's only purpose isn't to be a glorified fuckhole? Also, I can't help but notice that you dodged the part where I pointed out that this is all very hatefu…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 03:55 AM
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I'm a little confused. This entire article is about RPW/Tradwives, which is a harmful, shallow mindset, just like redpill itself. How are "feminists" to blame here? Wanting to be a SAHM is fine. Assigning random values to yourself based on your... N-count or whatever is not very constructive. Sex is the main thing that men need from women. Therefore, it’s the prime value that a woman has. Each time she gives this value to a man, her value is diminished. Yeah this is straight up insulting and any…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 12:42 PM
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So stop calling it red pill...
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 06:18 PM
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Unfortunately, words mean things and red pill in its current form includes the manipulation of women. Self respect, morals and values have nothing to do with any sort of stupid pill bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 03:59 PM
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"Moderately red pilled" wrong subreddit to rec that, bucko
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 03:45 PM
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Do yourself a favour and find some self-improvement sources (books/courses/videos/whatever) that aren't redpill. You'll do much better in the world and you won't learn that treating women like crap is okay. Also, from what I see, that channel is literally just a collection of women saying stupid shit. Guess what, women are people too. Some of them are assholes. This channel picks out the assholes and pretends all women are like this - it's bullshit. Don't fall for it.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 01:52 PM
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Bro, this is exredpill. Can you get out of here with the blackpill bullshit unless you actually want out of that community and mindset? This is not the place for "blackpill truths".
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 01:38 PM
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Because that's what happens when you actually go outside instead of spending every waking hour shitposting about incel/blackpill/whatever garbage. You see that the real world has nothing to do with whatever they've made up in their heads.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 01:28 PM
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Some people live to eat, and others eat to live. I’m sure there are quite a few people (myself included) that would give up the joys of flavor if it meant never having to eat or be hungry again. Aw man imagine all the money I could save if I didn't have to waste it on food...
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 08:00 AM
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Absolutely yes. One less thing to worry about, one less "want" to take away my energy. I see no downsides to this.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 07:58 AM
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No idea. I don't watch redpill content so coming to an exredpill community without examples always seems a little odd to me.
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 02:11 AM
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I'm a woman - primarily here because I want to help guys escape this toxic mindset. That said, as soon as someone pulls evopsych or other bullshit on me or makes it clear they're not arguing in good faith, I'm out. I don't have the energy to talk to people who aren't interested in listening, and these ones aren't.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 04:40 PM
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Oh you're going into evo-psych mumbo-jumbo. Forget I ever engaged with you please lol
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 12:13 PM
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Well, as a woman - it is kind of dumb. You know what the women who have an active and varied sexual life are called by others? Sluts, easy, whores... the list goes on. It doesn't help that casual hookups are objectively more dangerous for women than they are for men. Once you're at his place, you're pretty much at his mercy - if it's not working, will he respect your "no" or will he just overpower you? What if you get stealthed? What if your BC fails? All in all, casual sex is way more risky for…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 12:00 PM
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That's a really dumb hypothesis tbh
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 05:07 AM
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Maybe try belonging to something that isn't a hate group?
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 05:01 AM
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Uh... what?
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 04:58 AM
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Uh.. I'm sorry, but what exactly is the point of this post besides putting yourself down in front of a bunch of internet strangers?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 04:13 PM
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That's a valid issue, but very different from your previous "I don't believe in therapy". Had you said that, my answer would have been very different. You sound like you're in a lot of pain, but you know what's not helping? Spending your time on reddit posting about how "ugly" you are etc. Unsubbing from any negative/blackpill/whatever content would be a great first step though.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 01:00 AM
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Yeah well I don't believe in cars but they still get you to where you want to go, right?
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:51 AM
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Yeah, you're getting the old "this is beyond reddit's pay grade" treatment. Seek out a therapist who specialises in something like this. Maybe a male psych would be better in your case.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 12:25 AM
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Ah, those sweet 12s as you get to listen to construction workers scream obscenities at you because you reached your adult height and build very early...
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 01:45 PM
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Yeah... push and pull, definitely not an emotional manipulation tactic eyeroll Again and again and again: there's nothing good in RP that you couldn't find in a decent self-help book. Leave that garbage alone and focus on actual self-improvement. That's the part that helps, not these misogynistic con artists.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 08:46 AM
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I really wish we had some sort of rule like menslib (I think that's the one) where you have to provide a short summary of the random video you linked... it really helps with starting a conversation. I have no idea who this dude is or what his ideas are and a quick recap before I possibly waste my time on it would be nice.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 11:56 AM
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I mean, yeah, I think the exredpill population will generally agree on the fact that TRP is garbage. I'm just a little confused because you posted this with a "this is the kind of shit that got me into TRP" caption so it's a little odd.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 02:15 PM
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Isn't having causal sex with a lot of women a major point when it comes to TRP? Wasn't the wingman just being "alpha" and doing what his manly manman nature was telling him to do by having sex with her? This is perfectly fine with TRP.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 02:05 PM
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It's how to have a discussion that won't turn into whining or a misogynistic circle jerk. I think the answer is moderation, moderation and more moderation. Outline the goals for the community clearly and enforce the rules. You just can't have a community like that without dedicated modding, it will always devolve into chaos, especially now that a lot of the redpill/incel subs have been banned (if we're talking about reddit) and a lot of those members are seeking out new subs. It's very hard to r…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 04:42 PM
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Okay, so I'm old enough to be your parent. Look. 16 is a difficult age, teenagers are a mess (I was one of them, your brain is still developing at that age and it does some pretty weird shit to you), and can be real assholes, but that will pass. That last paragraph though. It's a little worrying. Sounds like you do need therapy, but if you can't afford it right now, this is what you have to do to get the help you need: unsubscribe from all incel/redpill/blackpill/whateverpill content. Everything…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 05:12 PM
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Again, not a redpill truth, just general advice you can find in any decent self-help book.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 04:46 PM
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I accidentally voted wrong, but what on Earth is wrong with you? Do not manipulate people, especially not ones you know are already vulnerable. The fuck?
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 12:53 PM
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There's nothing in red pill books that you couldn't find in any decent self-help book. But you know, without the horrible misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 12:48 PM
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No. No sane woman would do that, stop fixating on this idea. But if you cold approach a woman, she will be perfectly aware that what you're interested in isn't a friendship, as the previous poster has said. It's not genuine and it's fucking annoying because it's like... "do you think I'm stupid enough to not realise you're just trying to act friendly during a cold approach just to get in my pants?" To make this easy: pretty much all cold approach attempts will be taken as pick-up attempts. That …
/r/ExRedPill17/07/21 11:14 AM
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See your main problem right here is that you don't immediately discard this dumb bullshit. Unsub from red/blackpill content, go out and start interacting with actual people.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/21 08:52 PM
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You lost or something?
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 08:28 AM
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I dunno, if you tried redpill tactics with me I'd yeet you out the window shrug
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 07:47 AM
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Lol I'm sure you do. (Also, "bimbos"? Really? Disrespectful much?)
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 07:38 AM
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Yeah seriously. "Hey, I treat women like shit but at least I can fuck the ones who have low enough self-esteem to actually fall for it!" What a psycho.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 07:13 AM
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No, no. All these women lining up begging to suck their dick are totally real. Trust me, I pinky promise!
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 03:12 PM
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Am I reading this right? You're considering breaking up with someone because she wants to go to concerts after a very long period of being stuck at home? You okay bro?
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 11:25 AM
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But i'm torn between the RP utilitarian part of myself You mean the toxic RP brainwashed one, right? I don't know, man. Why don't you just ignore that bullshit and listen to what your heart is telling you IRL? You're ruining a perfectly good thing over a conspiracy theory. This would be a perfectly good time to discuss this with your therapist because it'd be absolutely ridiculous to ruin something good because of culty bullshit. If you can't shake the RP thinking, then make up some excuse and b…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 11:21 AM
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Yes, you can recover. The first step is starting therapy which you did, now make sure to stay there long enough. Always keep in mind that the first psych professional you meet might or might not end up working out for you so do not give up on therapy if you don't feel like you can get what you need from them! As for this: Although I don't agree with feminists/constructivist beliefs on a spiritual level (because I believe in masculine and feminine energy), and I share the RP emphasis on being con…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/21 12:46 AM
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I mean... you didn't become this way overnight. You have to accept that working yourself back to a more normal baseline will take some time. No one says that you have to wait years until you can talk to someone, but right now, you're twisting people's words (who are legitimately trying to be supportive) left and right. You are simply not in a mental state where you can be in a relationship (neither am I fwiw, so I'm not talking out of my ass). According to you, you asked a girl out once but "you…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/21 10:26 AM
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Lmao I'm foreign, from a poorer country and let me tell you that you sound like a fucking asshole. I'm glad that your fellow Americans don't put up with your bullshit. With that attitude, no wonder local women don't want to touch you with a ten foot pole lol
/r/ExRedPill27/04/21 10:15 AM
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Ah, but I saw you mentioning in another comment that your vision of RP is the Rollo Tomassi one. You mean this guy, right? edit: actually, nevermind. As soon as I saw you mention following his ways I should have realised you're not worth the effort. Cheers, dude
/r/ExRedPill22/04/21 08:14 PM
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He just wants a civil and factual discussion about why being abusive towards women is actually a good thing! Very civil and factual.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/21 04:20 PM
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Fair enough. Seriously though, I hope OP talks to someone. This is no way to live.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 01:11 PM
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How does that invalidate what I'm saying in any way though? OP says she's suicidal and can't sleep at night because she's so afraid of getting older and everything that comes with it. Also, I'm a 35 year old woman. I know how it all goes, I know the pressure, I've been through it myself. People go for that shit hard, but if it's at this level, then maybe it's worth considering that you might need an expert to help you build up your self-confidence somewhat and detach yourself from the world's ex…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 12:13 PM
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It really hurts and literally makes me suicidal at times. I can’t even sleep at night because I’m already living in the future instead of the present with my thoughts. Uh... you might want to consider seeing a professional if it's that bad. That's way beyond having some anxiety about aging and death.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 05:41 PM
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I think there are some truths to RP, putting yourself first, lifting, etc. You do realise that has nothing to do with RP, right? That's advice you'll find in any self-help book and you don't even have to deal with the whole "women are subhuman" baggage.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 07:02 PM
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Anyone who'd cold approach me while I was minding my business getting shit done would be automatically rejected. It's rude. Try your luck with places that are for socialising when COVID ends, don't bother random women who are just trying to get some grocery shopping done.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 12:28 PM
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and I'm not saying that men aren't crazy and some men don't hunt down women or other men or rape or kidnap or anything like that but it is such a small statistic compared to what is. Here's the thing, right. Women don't know what they're dealing with when they meet a new person who is twice their size and could easily overpower them if they wanted. Does it suck to be thought of as a threat? Sure does. Is it fair? Hell no. Will it make the simple fact that most men are bigger and stronger than mo…
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 03:16 AM
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It's kind of hard to do that without devolving into stereotyping imo.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/21 03:04 AM
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You can absolutely talk about sex and make vulgar jokes around female friends fwiw, but the friendship has to be well-established and they have to know they can trust you not to be a creep about it. I'm an out lesbian (butch, tattoos, the works, I'm like a bad stereotype) and I've still had so many guys take discussion of sex as an invitation into my pants. It's better not to do it unless you've established yourself as a safe person to be around otherwise it's going to raise red flags.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/21 07:33 PM
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Creative writing practice for their class, probably
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 06:33 PM
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My two cents as a woman: I think you should move on. No answer means no and forcing it will make things awkward for both of you, especially since you go to the same gym. She probably didn't feel the spark during the date and has no idea what to say in case you run into each other at the gym. Just leave it be and focus on your workout.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/21 12:56 PM
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Are you lost, buddy?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/21 05:06 PM
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Ah, natural. Of course. How convenient for you!
/r/ExRedPill28/01/21 05:52 PM
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but I could see a lot of crazy things such as violence and rape dropping down because we can even out the approaching. ...what the actual fuck is wrong with you?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 09:17 AM
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Honestly, money is important and all, but only up to a certain point. Once you have enough for you to have your future secured, it's really not worth wasting your life on chasing for more. After all, how many sports cars does one need to make them happy? If it'd truly make you happy, you wouldn't have millionaire celebrities killing themselves or dying from drug overdoses. Male personalities alpha beta gamma etc Not really a thing. The whole "alpha wolf" thing started from a study of captive wol…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/21 09:12 AM
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Sure it can. Just check out what happened in Iran.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:41 PM
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Can you at least spell "feminism" correctly when you're discussing it? It really takes away from everything you're trying to say. The good points about MRA is worrying about male disposability (aka "war"), worrying about the draft, worrying about circumcision. These are valid points and shouldn't be kicked aside. What are you even talking about? Feminists generally oppose war, the draft and mutilating infants, unless they've been brainwashed by religion but that's a whole 'nother can of worms. N…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:36 PM
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"Nature" and "praxeology" my ass. TRP is absolutely an ideology, a hateful one at that. You can absolutely unlearn it. OP, go see a therapist if you can, it's gonna be helpful when it comes to untangling your issues that lead you to TRP in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/21 01:31 PM
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I mean... they probably would, but who gives a shit about what some random woman-hating echo chamber thinks? In real life, there are no pills. Be the best version of you, re-examine your views on things once in a while, be kind to others without being a doormat and you're all set. Seriously, that's all there is to it. There's nothing good TRP offers that you can't find in any decent self-help book (eat healthy, exercise, dress in clothes that flatter you etc).
/r/ExRedPill09/01/21 05:04 PM
2

Ah, fair enough. Here's a quick summary of this... "movement".
/r/ExRedPill09/01/21 04:46 PM
5

Serious question: you are aware that a misogynistic cult has completely co-opted the visual language of The Matrix, right?
/r/ExRedPill09/01/21 04:41 PM
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i would take the red pill why tho
/r/ExRedPill09/01/21 04:13 PM
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People - women included - do stupid things when they get the feels for someone. I know someone who left her partner of 10+ years at ~30 for a kid that was barely out of high school and the literal opposite of a Chad. We still don't understand what the hell happened. People are different, women are people, why is this so hard to understand?
/r/ExRedPill07/01/21 05:47 AM
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Well, I guess you're free to theorise whatever you want. I'll just politely disagree on this one.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/21 05:19 PM
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Does that really excuse joining a hate cult, though? I'm not denying that dealing with a mentally ill SO is hard, but there's venues for dealing with that after a break-up. Ones that do not include turning into abusers.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/21 05:14 PM
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I mean, sure. I just find it a little unfortunate that we have another approach that manages to blame women for RP dudes being the way they are, you know?
/r/ExRedPill01/01/21 05:08 PM
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Can we please stop armchair diagnosing women to excuse the shitty behaviour of RP dudes? Thanks. A bad relationship is a bad relationship, personality disorder or not, and it is not a good excuse to whine about AWALT. Why is it somehow always women's fault that men end up gobbling up RP?
/r/ExRedPill01/01/21 05:00 PM
5

I mean... most conservatives I've seen online are like "I want the government to stay out of people's business! Unless it's about a woman's uterus!" so are we really surprised?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 08:20 AM
8

Women treat me differently than they treat their female peers It's kind of funny. I'm a butch lesbian so I kind of fall in the middle when it comes to how men perceive me IRL - to most of them I'm "one of the guys" so I get much more included in traditionally "masculine" interests and we generally have an easier time connecting because my mannerisms are closer to what we deem "manly" and so are my interests. Then they get genuinely surprised because I have zero issues showing affection to them o…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/20 06:41 AM
1

Single, every homo in the city is already taken
/r/ExRedPill19/12/20 12:34 PM
2

Aka literally every single life coach's advice ever
/r/ExRedPill16/12/20 01:57 PM
1

I mean WAP is pretty big these days lol. I think it's funny as shit, but there's definitely some parts of the lyrics that I disagree with.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/20 04:54 AM
1

Well, let's just hope you'll have a healthier mindset by the time you have a gf.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/20 08:14 AM
1

Why are you asking us if you've already made up your mind then? Also, if she personally wouldn't want to be with you because you've been with a prostitute (I sure as hell wouldn't, it's not something I support) she should probably know. It's much worse if she finds out later. Also, based on your all the other comments you've left you're still pretty into redpill, so let's just hope the gf situation won't be relevant until you sort that out.
/r/ExRedPill14/12/20 06:04 AM
1

(if you’ve changed yourself for the better) I think this is the part most people in the thread have issues with tbh
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 12:10 PM
1

I dunno man, "smashing hookers because my manipulation tactics weren't getting me laid" is a bit of a turn-off. But you should tell her, just so she knows what she's getting herself into. I don't know about your body count though, are you a serial killer?
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 12:08 PM
3

Eh, as someone who saw it at the movies when it came out, I'll have to disagree somewhat. It was revolutionary for its time. It doesn't help that RP twisted its symbolism into something truly cringeworthy and now it's pretty hard to dissociate from that.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 11:54 AM
6

Oh god, Fight Club and its fans. Every time I meet a guy who's like TYLER DURDEN DURR HURR FIGHTING MANLY I die inside a little. Bro, you misunderstood the entire movie.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 11:51 AM
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Everyone tells me that I can't get extroverted. That's over for me as some people say. Everyone? Maybe you're just around the wrong people. Nothing wrong with being introverted at all. Redpill is a borderline cult that lures you in with something you'll find in any self-help book (exercise, take care of your body, dress better etc.) while introducing a bunch of sociopathic, toxic ideas. It has nothing to offer you that you can't get from other, healthier sources. What are your main goals for the…
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 11:46 AM
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However Ive been diagnosed with a small social phobia five years ago. I want to get extroverted and I need real friends. I think you're mixing two things that have nothing to do with each other. Introversion is not anxiety, it's about needing time alone to recharge your mental batteries, while extroverts get that from socialising with others. It's not something you can fundamentally change, but you can seek out new ways to connect with people. It's just somewhat difficult now due to the pandemic…
/r/ExRedPill11/12/20 11:24 AM
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I mean, the whole "alpha wolf" thing is a myth that emerged based on the study of captive wolves in zoos - when they started observing wolves in the wild, they realised they had it completely wrong, the packs are formed like families and the "leaders" are simply "mom and dad". The animal behaviourologist who wrote the book on the alpha/beta structure has been trying to retract it for ages now because he realised he accidentally spread misinformation.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/20 10:31 AM
4

Both were 19 and 20 yr old virgins before they finally got one singular girl to take interest in them And what is wrong with that, exactly? Also, I'm not sure what your point is with this post. If you're only interested in hook-ups, of course you're gonna get better results if you're very good-looking, but that goes both ways. You literally just said something about "lowering your standards". Or do you just want to have one-night stands with any woman that crosses your way, no matter what she lo…
/r/ExRedPill28/11/20 06:54 PM
6

Then there are my other friends. Not good looking.2 of them have girlfriends, and both lost their virginity to their girlfriends. Ones gf is better looking and one is worse. Neither has success with women. But they have girlfriends. 1: neither has success with women 2: they have girlfriends Hmmm it's almost as if those things contradict each other
/r/ExRedPill28/11/20 06:43 PM
3

Jesus, dude. Stop overthinking, stop self-sabotaging and go on the damn date. Whatever you do, DO NOT STOP TEXTING HER. She'll be confused and hurt. Man, fuck redpill. This is what you get from this garbage.
/r/ExRedPill26/11/20 09:28 AM
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Women are not a monolith and don't do the same things for the same reasons. You could try any approach with a woman and get rejected hard and try the same thing with another one and find the love of your life. Any book that states "all women are XY" is immediately wrong because, y'know, women are all individuals with their own personalities and goals.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/20 05:05 PM
11

True dat. I just find the whole concept of needing a "pill" to be weird af. Like... just be a normal person, not bluepill, not redpill, not pinkpill... actually, I think that's just Viagra for women. But you know what I mean. edit: my English is failing me
/r/ExRedPill25/11/20 04:54 PM
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1: The red pill doesn't give you "awareness", it just gives you a bunch of mental baggage. 2: What's up with all these pills? Why do we need a pill for everything? Can't you just be a decent human being trying to live a compassionate life without weird ideologies? 3: What does a strong family even mean?
/r/ExRedPill25/11/20 04:01 PM
5

Why the hell are you listening to the friggin' redpiller on the exredpill subreddit of all things?
/r/ExRedPill24/11/20 09:58 AM
2

The bropill sub is also pretty great!
/r/ExRedPill24/11/20 08:06 AM
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I do have a inherent hatred women subconsciously That's probably something you should be working out with a therapist. Hating 50% of the world's population isn't exactly a great way to live.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/20 04:04 PM
2

I mean... literally the entire concept of "alpha fucks, beta bux" is pretty damn unsupportive - you have to be a certain way, otherwise you're just a shitty beta. But if you're asking me if I have reddit threads bookmarked where redpillers shoot each other down, no, I do not, why would I? But I've never seen anyone truly open up and let their guard down like on, say, bropill. Just for shits and giggles, I scrolled the sub for a bit and found this post. Why the needless assholery? How could you p…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 05:00 PM
2

Yes, yes. It's totally real and complex. You know what's funny? That redpill/mgtow communities generally dismiss efforts that support the building of a "men supporting men" network. As in, real, emotional support, not just drinking buddies. Why is that?
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 04:38 PM
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Aren't you kind of forgetting about the "historical" fact that until recently, women had pretty much zero power and the only chance at a better life was a good marriage? They couldn't even open their own bank account without their husband's permission until 1974. Fucking 1974. And I am totally throwing men into the mix. It's 2020, and exactly zero of the women I know (coworkers, friends) married someone based on how much they make, how good-looking they are or what their status was. Sure, if you…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 04:35 PM
3

Bot, you are cramping my style
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 01:01 PM
3

RP's believe women are always looking for to move up regardless of it being financial or looks. Yeah I guess, but arguing against delusions is kind of hard. ¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 12:42 PM
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Hypergamy isn't real except for those people - people, not just women - whose main purpose is to gain higher status by marrying/dating someone rich. Gold digging is not an inherently feminine trait. As for "the sisterhood", I have no idea what you mean. RP doesn't have any "points" that any average self-help book wouldn't give you, and that would be without the misogynistic bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 06:48 AM
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Yeah, it's really fucking mindblowing how basic self-help advice is enough to pull people into this cult. You'd think that working out, working on your self-confidence etc. is self-explanatory without all the OMG REDPILLED I SEE THE WORLD HOW IT IS bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/20 06:43 AM
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Here's the thing. No one really knows or cares what you associate RP with - regardless of its origins, it is now a misogynistic movement that any woman should regard with suspicion. Why do we need all these "pills" anyway? Seriously, it's so weird. There's so many of them now. Redpill, blackpill, the purplepill sub, like... can't we all just be, you know, people without all this cringey faux-philosophical bullshit?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/20 11:19 AM
2

If you think of yourself as a repulsive, unlovable, disgusting and worthless piece of flesh, it will show and it will push people away from you. Go get yourself into therapy ASAP, you don't deserve to feel like this.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 05:02 PM
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While I'm sure your intentions with this advice are good, do not tell a woman that you respect Red Pill thinking for any reason. There is nothing in RP that could not be achieved with any generic self-help routine, and if she knows what RP is, this will be a good way to make her run screaming. I would immediately dissociate with anyone who is into RP in any way, shape or form. Seriously, OP. Do not say you respect RP. It's fucking scary if you're a woman.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 04:57 PM
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It's not an attention span thing, it's a "this video is 20 minutes long, I have no idea what it's about and I have shit to do" thing. Besides, how old are you anyway lol
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 07:47 AM
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It would really help if you posted a short summary of what the video is about instead of just slapping the link on there and expecting people to watch it with zero information. It's a good way to start a dialogue.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/20 06:44 AM
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Hmm... "Portuguese lesbian lovers 'murdered and beheaded hotel worker" article straight from the Daily Mail, Pussy Pass, AWALT, marriage is a female supremacist institution, "If Feminism didn't exist, I think women would hate each other more than men". Amber Heard and a Joker picture... how is this different from any other redpill/AWALT sub?
/r/ExRedPill12/11/20 02:31 PM
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I mean... if you can't tell that it's obviously bullshit, I'm not sure what to say. It's much easier to feel powerful when your wife can't vote, open her own bank account without your permission or work a proper job, it only makes sense that maladjusted men would want those times back.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/20 06:24 PM
24

Glad you're out of that shit, dude. Living life full of hate sucks.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/20 02:12 PM
4

So you had one ex who judged you for your hobby (not someone you should have been together with in the first place) and then you had... another woman who has been engaged for a while now. That's two out of... how many? There's a ridiculous amount of women in anime and hell, even video games, whatever. The only reason you'd think women don't play games, like, say, Rainbow Six is because we get harassed and teamkilled if people find out (maybe not as much so with the recent anti-TK patches but I q…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/20 05:57 AM
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Gotta admit, I'm kind of curious about the women you're trying to date. There's like a million of us female weebs out there (hell, I used to help with organising anime conventions) who would absolutely enjoy that sort of stuff with you. If you feel like you have to hide what you enjoy from your possible dates, you might not be looking in the right places.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/20 06:38 PM
3

Lol not sure if this is a serious question but it's Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pussy.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/20 02:30 AM
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Yeah I know, it's just unfortunate to come to the exredpill subreddit and call women "mediocre pussies", yanno?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/20 03:14 PM
10

You do realise what "simp" stands for, right?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/20 08:58 AM
7

Pills are dumb. Don't listen to random idiots on the internet.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/20 07:39 AM
3

I absolutely agree. Does this sub even have mods? Are they hibernating or dead? Why are they not doing anything about the people who obviously don't want to get away from redpill at all and only come here to insult others?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/20 10:45 AM
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Lmao alright my dude, whatever you say. The fuck are you even doing on this subreddit?
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 05:59 PM
3

I mean... you both obviously don't want the same things. She wants to go out and have casual sex, which is fine. What's not fine is stringing you along like that. I'd cut the cord on this one.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 04:27 PM
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I mean I'm not gonna waste my time and support someone like this by watching his crap, but your examples seem to be the typical redpiller bullshit. Also, what the hell is a "high quality" woman? Women are not objects, and "the less you need her the more she wants you" is a horrible dynamic in a relationship that's supposed to be equal.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/20 04:24 PM
1

Okay and this study about male titi monkeys proves... what about human women, exactly?
/r/ExRedPill18/06/20 03:16 PM
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No. Also, these communities are toxic af, stop reading them.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 05:55 PM
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Lmao what? Your "integrity"? Try actually interacting with people, you'll see a bunch of male/female friendships, I promise.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/20 10:52 AM
4

Lol that "non-existent virus the media thought up" really is the cherry on top of all these posts, isn't it?
/r/ExRedPill10/06/20 06:31 AM
8

Ah yes. When it starts with "females" and "men" you know it's a good one. GJ dude, you really have it figured out!
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 11:36 AM
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ok buddy
/r/ExRedPill25/05/20 09:57 AM
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You're on the wrong subreddit, friend
/r/ExRedPill19/05/20 07:35 AM
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Well, first of all, your views on girls are stupid and hateful and they can probably smell it a mile away and that's why they want nothing to do with you. Second, find a therapist and work it out with them. If you've already attempted suicide, you're probably deeply in need of one and reddit can't help you.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/20 07:10 AM
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So... basically, be a confident person who doesn't get upset when they're faced with conflict. Not sure why you need to call that a "frame", but you do you. Ah, redpill terminology. Idk man that's a really weird way of looking at friends. Are they good people? Yes? Then who cares if they're successful? Obviously don't hang out with criminals because they're generally not good people, but are the people you surround yourself with just tools for success or what?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/20 10:58 AM
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I mean... to be honest, that just sounds like self-confidence and not a "masculine frame". Also, if a woman criticises you on your first date, you should probably not have a second one anyway. Also, are you your own person who carries themselves with great pride and doesn't let anything affect that or are you who you hang out with?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/20 10:39 AM
5

What's a masculine frame? And what's wrong with having goofy people as friends?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/20 09:08 AM
5

Wait, so by sharing a last name with my father, I am taking on my father's "identity"? How the hell does that work?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/20 08:59 AM
2

And... what's that advice?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/20 08:53 AM
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Do you genuinely not understand the concept of "things were going fine until I unleashed my arsenal" or are you just being deliberately obtuse?
/r/ExRedPill22/04/20 02:59 PM
6

I mean... the relationship did go to shit when you started playing games instead of being yourself. Maybe you should give that some thought instead of this overwrought pseudo-philosophy?
/r/ExRedPill22/04/20 12:39 PM
2

Redpill is one hell of a drug
/r/ExRedPill22/04/20 05:23 AM
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you remove her privileges wait why are you dating 8 year olds
/r/ExRedPill21/04/20 07:29 PM
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This isn't Windows, yo
/r/ExRedPill21/04/20 03:33 PM
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You might want to explain the Iron Rule lingo if you try posting for advice next time. Not everyone is intimately familiar with this gamey crap, I had to google it to make sense of your post. Also, your post is odd. You paint a pretty accurate picture of what happened. You randomly met a woman you liked, decided to strike up a conversation, it turns out you both liked each other, and then... Then after a month or so, I start trying the Rational Male arsenal on her, and then... everything went wr…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/20 02:40 PM
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I'm not sure if you're actually a racist incel or not because the post was deleted, but you should definitely try therapy before you check out. If it doesn't work, you can still do it.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/20 03:15 AM
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Or maybe you should just not spam the sub with unrelated content, idk
/r/ExRedPill21/04/20 03:09 AM
3

Well, it seems like your mind is already made up. I don't think you actually want to stop thinking like an incel. Hopefully one day you'll realise how wrong you are. shrug
/r/ExRedPill17/04/20 04:54 PM
3

You're spewing incel lingo while posting about how you want to stop being an incel. Which is it? Also, what's wrong with women enjoying casual hookups?
/r/ExRedPill17/04/20 02:08 PM
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Stopping being aggressive towards people who just want to help you would be a good first step, fwiw.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/20 04:19 AM
1

I don't think I ever endorsed painting an angelic and moralistic view of women's sexuality. Women are also sexual beings and there's nothing wrong with acknowledging that. I do love how you didn't bother responding to me calling your ass-pull out though. Redpill at the very basic level is simply the fact that women are more selective than men and find much fewer men sexually attractive than vice versa. That's a hard disagree from me, sorry. Maybe on an online dating site where you only see pictu…
/r/ExRedPill11/04/20 11:06 PM
1

Can you point out where I said that in my post? You are literally responding to something that isn't there.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/20 10:33 PM
1

No, the last thing we need is redpill ideas in mainstream thought. We need to make society - including raising children - less sexist overall and make it easier to have access to mental health resources. That is how you create less incels.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/20 07:48 AM
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Well, that's two out of the... how many billions of women in the world? You should not base your opinion of an entire gender on two people, who honestly kinda sound like assholes if they did that. It's not about it being anyone's "fault". It sounds like you just need better boundaries. Being rejected hurts, and it hurts even more when the person who rejected you still wants to have you around and turns to you for emotional support. Here's the thing though. You have the power to make it stop. If …
/r/ExRedPill09/04/20 04:10 PM
3

So how exactly does that happen? edit Like... what are the actions of these women that you perceive as such?
/r/ExRedPill09/04/20 03:45 PM
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I will just provide them the attention and validation they want from average males like me. Women really don't care about attention and validation from random people. Are you someone they're interested in? Then yes, sure. Otherwise they don't give a shit about what you're doing or not doing.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/20 10:35 AM
1

Pfffft. You're a funny one, aren't you?
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 04:11 PM
4

Sounds like they're just racist assholes then.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 03:55 PM
2

Yes, yes, of course. You and your fellow redpillers are the only ones that know the true nature of the universe (and women!). Why the hell are you even here?
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 03:53 PM
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I'm not comfortable with white folks hating themselves or feeling like they have to bow down to black people What pisses me off is when I hear the racism getting switched over to another group such as Hispanic people by white people and sometimes I question if these white folks realize that they're repeating the same stuff they did to my people onto another one I don't think the people who hate themselves or feel like they have to bow down to black people are the same ones who turn the hate over…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/20 03:51 PM
2

That's a good starting point! So you know that objectively not all women are like that - that's something you can hold on to when you start getting intrusive thoughts about women always cheating, right?
/r/ExRedPill03/04/20 05:11 AM
1

she made it clear that she hated my optimism and humor Yeah, that's not someone you should be in a relationship with anyway. Your partners are supposed to lift you up, not tear you down. Sorry for commenting on your posts so much, something about your situation resonates with me and I'm not sure why. I'm a woman and while I'm not into guys, I have literally never heard any of my straight friends say shit like "ugh that guy is soooo optimistic and funny, I wish he was an aggressive thug instead!"…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/20 05:02 AM
3

OP, please don't listen to this person. Intensive in-person therapy and a supportive professional environment will help you much more that a random self-help book. Not to say they don't have their place, but I think you need more right now.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/20 04:56 AM
1

Yes, that would be helpful. Please go to rehab, you deserve to have a good life and have good relationships with the people around you. Best wishes from a random internet stranger.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/20 04:54 AM
4

Well, recognising that it's unhealthy is a good thing. Do you wanna do something about it?
/r/ExRedPill03/04/20 04:18 AM
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I mean, leaving the mgtow channels was a good first step. No one is telling you that you have to be in a relationship or marriage, either if you don't want to be - I'm 34 and I have zero energy or interest in that stuff. If you're happily single, there's nothing wrong with that, that's what mgtow should be about anyway, not the constant complaining about women. I will ask you one question though - do you not want a relationship because "awalt" and you think they're cheating or because you just d…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/20 08:03 AM
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So uh... wanna sum that up for us instead of just making us listen to a random person with one whole subscriber ramble for 22 minutes? Lol
/r/ExRedPill01/04/20 05:21 PM
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I agree. It's a little different here because the racism in my country is mostly directed at the Roma people but I see a disgusting amount of it both in feminist and LGBTQ circles (I'm basically a lesbian stereotype, which I get my fair share of shit for). I don't understand why people who are discriminated against perpetuate it towards others, not gonna lie. I know it doesn't mean much, but I'm sorry you have to deal with that. at the same time I shouldn't have to feel guilty or cringey because…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/20 05:13 PM
3

No we're not seen as weak, we're seen as strong to the point where we're supposed to be strong all the time and that's just not the case and it is insulting when someone comes at you for it because they reveal that's how they measure your worth is how strong you are. But... you realise that feminism is against that kind of mentality, right? I'm sorry that you've been called names by both men and women, but not all women are feminists. Internalised misogyny is huge. Obviously we have a long way t…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/20 04:53 PM
1

Not really, they're doing fine. Some of them are planning/have had kids, some of them are childfree by choice but they're all doing alright and have been doing alright for quite a while now.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/20 03:37 AM
1

I never said you were a bad person. I'm saying you come across as an asshole with the whole "manipulate and connive my way into some pussy" talk. And you probably do lack confidence, but garbage PUA tactics aren't the way to fix that. Seriously dude. Go see a therapist, I've read your replies in this thread and you sound miserable, I legit feel bad for you. Hook-ups won't fix your problems. Good luck. Anyway, I don't think you're listening to anything I'm saying, so I'll check out now. Cheers.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 05:03 PM
1

Yeah, that attitude towards standing up for yourself is dysfunctional as fuck and will probably make your life much harder than it needs to be. Just sayin'. I have to do my best to manipulate and connive my way into some pussy. Honestly, you just come off as an asshole at this point and the women you meet can tell. I don't know what your damage is, but consider getting help for it. If this is how you want to spend your life, it's your choice, but it doesn't have to be like that. Like I said. Juu…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 04:48 PM
1

Well, if you're walking up to random women to talk to them, you're already starting with a huge handicap. Getting approached out of nowhere when she's minding her own business is fucking annoying and there's a high chance of it being an automatic "no". Assertive =/= bosses you around though. It just means that you're not a doormat and you stand up for yourself when it's needed. Okay, so let's say we entertain your idea that there's a magical Chad out there who is immediately attractive to almost…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 04:28 PM
1

I think a lot of guys confuse "dickish" with "assertive". It's not the same thing, not even remotely. Having the confidence to walk up to a woman and flirt with her is one thing, being an asshole is another. Being a dick will not make a woman feel safe with you. There's no such thing as "women". Different women are attracted to different men. Some will find the classic "chiseled jaw + six-pack" look a turn off, some of them will go for the skinny band member with the guitar, it's all very differ…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 03:08 PM
1

Hookups are the way to see what women really want. Uh, no? A woman might hook up with someone but want nothing else to do with them. How does that tell you what "women really want"? Honestly, you just sound like you have some issues around women you need to sort out. Can't see you being super successful until you do. Not many women are willing to have sex with someone who doesn't make them feel safe (men are pretty much always stronger physically, you need to have trust that they won't hurt you,…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 02:39 PM
1

Tbh you sound pretty desperate (and like someone who only wants to be around women to fuck them). Most women can smell that from a mile away and will avoid you like hell. Try working on that self-confidence too, I know a bunch of ugly dudes who are happily married to average/good looking women.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/20 01:40 PM
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It's just kinda sad to see them ignore reality like this. I hope this poster eventually gets to the point where he asks for help and sees women as they are - normal people who are just as different from each other as men are, but my hopes aren't very high.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/20 01:14 PM
5

Not all women have motherly instincts. There are so many out there that never should have had children in the first place because they lack it, or ones that decided they will never have kids. Obviously they don't exist either? Either way, I'm sorry that you're stuck thinking like this. It must suck to live in a delusional world where you think half of the population are weak, manipulative, narcissistic children. Your mother must be embarrassed that you grew up to hate women this much but hey, a …
/r/ExRedPill20/03/20 07:48 PM
4

Nice generalisation there. Mine was emotionally abusive to the point where I don't really talk to my family anymore and there's a lot of other people like me. But wait... if your mother - who is a woman - loves you, doesn't that mean that women are capable of strong attachment and love? Hmmm...
/r/ExRedPill20/03/20 06:18 PM
3

Just checked that sub out and wow, that really is a bunch of toxic bullshit. (I'm a woman fwiw.)
/r/ExRedPill20/03/20 03:30 PM
1

Now in this situation you think the shorter guy has to push back otherwise he would be a b**** Um, nah. Tall guy is just an asshole. Escalating the situation by pushing back would just make matters worse by probably starting an actual physical fight. Short guy should just leave this asshole and get to work as soon as he can.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/20 03:25 PM
5

I only need me, my mother, and my bros. Uhhh... you know that your mother is a woman, right?
/r/ExRedPill20/03/20 03:21 PM
3

1: Talking to others about your problems is a good thing. 2: Are you accusing women of sugarcoating things to make the other guy look bad? You okay there buddy?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/20 12:00 PM
18

Can you define "tried"? Seeing a therapist is hard work, takes some time and you're not necessarily gonna click with the first one you find. I had to go through like 4-5 to finally end up with someone who could genuinely handle my issues.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/20 05:29 AM
4

What the hell, man? Is this how you talk about the kids you supposedly mentor? You sound like an asshole.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/20 01:34 PM
46

Oblige her, what the hell, lol. It's a trail walk, she didn't invite you to a strip club. Go have a nice walk with her, treat her like a human being, be flirty and see where you end up.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/20 08:25 PM
17

Or maybe just work on bettering yourself without the whole "red pill" ideology that comes with highly problematic views attached to it. Go see a counselor if you have confidence issues. Hit the gym. Go pick up a new hobby, be an interesting person people want to be around. None of this has anything to do with the red pill, it's just generic self-improvement.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/20 04:03 PM
4

I don't know, maybe stop screaming FUCK YOU at people whose advice you don't like. It helps a lot.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/19 07:42 PM
17

Oh. And here I thought you wanted constructive input. Keep up the self-pity then, and definitely don't try to change anything!
/r/ExRedPill29/12/19 03:33 PM
18

"I just want to be with someone hot" Hint: that's kinda cringy and desperate and women can probably smell it from a mile away. Maybe stop thinking about women like decorations and try seeing them as people instead.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/19 03:29 PM
2

That is not what you said at all. I would just quote your post but you deleted it, so that's that I guess. shrug
/r/ExRedPill20/11/19 04:37 PM
5

You sound like you're projecting due to your past trauma, to be honest. Most people on the street/campus/whatever give exactly zero fucks about you and won't even register your presence. i feel like the only way to end all of it is to become a bodybuilder (so theyre too intimidated to try to hurt me) so thats what im working on. No, you should be working with a professional to address your self-esteem issues and misconceptions of other people. Bodybuilding won't help with this shit.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/19 04:11 AM
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