It appears that the Red Pill and online Gurus on the internet claim "nice guys finish last". Personally, I'm not quite sure where that came from because I've been in happy relationships and I've been pretty nice to the women who I've dated.

I also work in retail and I see women in relationships with a good amount of guys who seem quite nice and happy. Personally, I've never been a dick but I've still gotten women.

I think it all came down to if they were biologically sexually attracted to me and I was their type and that was about it. :/

So whats the deal? Whats with this "Nice Guys Finish Last Phenomenon"? No exaggeration but sometimes I have to be mean to keep women away from me. I'm a musician by the way so it comes with the territory.

My take is that girls with really low self esteem and issues go for bad guys cause that's what they feel they deserve and maybe there's a lot of women like that in our society. Whats your take?