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| 2 | How to look at women and not think sexual thoughts?You may get some great advice by learning how people with intrusive ocd manage their intrusive thoughts. I have intrusive ocd and had constant intrusive unwanted thoughts of sexually harming women in every situation I was in with them regardless of if they were family friends etc. It caused me such pain suffering and despair as my mother is a child sex trafficking survivor and I am 100% all about consent and a sexual abuse survivor myself and could never imagine doing what I thought to anyone. S… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 6 | I want to tell a current redpill that I am tired, what to expect?Look up the following. Triangulation. Trauma bonding Co-Dependant Avoidant Attachment Insecure Attachment (Relationship dynamics of both) The negative effects of operant conditioning. And why people end up loving and staying with abusive partners. Also with your true love comment, is the reason you crave this deeply because perhaps on some subconscious or concious like em you feel like you la k this in yourself; feel like you don’t deserve love, or feel you are too flawed to be loved? Just some … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 10:14 AM |
| 6 | Andrew tate is a complete utter jokeYou’d probably get more traction if you don’t apologize for your lack of skill. I say this as I was interested until you said that and then my mind kept telling me why the video might not be good; worth my time etc. But I’m watching it anyway. Ps. Andrew has had a few interactions with Hassan I believe. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is everything about being so primal?We are a primitive species at best and absolutely barbaric at worst. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/22 12:01 AM |
| 2 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?Personally, having someone love and value you because of superficiality and not actual you would be the worst because attention is only healthy when it’s genuine and earned. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 10:27 AM |
| 2 | I feel like the redpill made me a misogynistYou are not your thoughts. As somone with an intrusive thought disorder who has thought many times of harming murdering and treating everyone badly include my own kids, I realized very early on that you can’t control how you think, just like you can’t control how you feel. Beliefs However are a different story as they are thoughts solidified into one’s reality being real and are much more likely to act on. Same goes with actions. Now thoughts can and often do influence actions but only if one be… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?If your bf watches cult like content view his behaviour as a result of the cult and not the result of him. In fact look at the content and behaviour as a drug that is making him sick. Write a list of pros and cons of you leaving for yourself and also a list of cause and effect. If you do leave, craft your exit strategy do you can safely remove yourself from the situation. Ask questions like, What’s my plan to leave. Once I leave how will I stay left? Try to do worst case scenario and work backwa… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Dangerous Black Pill YouTubersWait grace is black pill now? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 10:09 PM |
| -1 | The advice I tell all my female friends when they ask me where all the good men have gone.Well you are free to think what you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 01:14 PM |
| 0 | The advice I tell all my female friends when they ask me where all the good men have gone.How is the post blaming women? Almost every women I talk to in my age when hearing this actually see what I mean. Of course in person you can explain the concepts more. I also tell men a similar thing. People can’t find good people because for the most part they feel under serving of it. Abd that undeserving ness tends to stem from deep negative experiences usually when young. When you live yourself fully subconsciously and consciously you will have no issues in love as the reality of live is it… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | What I was like when I entered the red pill community as a female teenagerI have some questions if you don’t mind asking. 1: At your age would say that the rooms a fringe minority or you see more people follow it? 2: Why did you seek out the community? 3: If you could tell women and men one vital lesson about your experience what would it be. Thank you for sharing. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Sister dating a dark triad scared for her lifeSome other resources I recommend you look into is read the 48 laws of power which is basically a Manuel on understanding dark triad. Then read how to influence friends which is actually a catchy title and the opposite of 48 laws of power. But the summary of why your sister is doing this is because she is she is subconsciously addicted to abuse. When women are abused especially sexually their body in most cases will actually produces orgasms/oxytocin to protect themselves and bond to their lovers… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Sister dating a dark triad scared for her lifeThe difference between a psychopath and a sociopath is one is born and tends to have an extremely high iq. The other is made and tends to have an extremely low iq. This persons seems to be more sociopathic and they tend to be more dangerous. Your sister appears to be suffering from stockholme syndrome. She does not love her boyfriend. Her brain is making her think it so because it is one of the ways the brain copes with abuse as it cannot cope being abused without extreme justification. This is … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | What Viewing Porn Does to Your Brain || CanopyI don’t do that anymore. I did. But I’m also a genius and managed to still get an honours degree with an average mark of 80. But it did cause me to lose a lot of financial opportunities. I think I did it because I was mostly bored and had a super libido. (Still do) On top of all that I still had a bustling social and sex life and it did slowly became unnecessary. I eventually got engaged to my partner at the time but we broke it off because I wanted to stay in Toronto to go to my dream school an… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Ex-redpiller but still MGTOW?Never dating women again is a pretty big statement. I’m sorry you have had some very negative experiences. I’m very much in the camp of MGTOW not with women but with society gov especially gov. I can’t stand gov yet I work for them cause keep your enemies closer. Working for gov in tax centre has taught me a lot about how money truly works; how government and its child organizations truly work and how everyone is essentially being played by the most unethical; gluttonous, self sentenced, siniste… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking showing vulnerability? Even with my girlfriend?The only time stuff like this comes off is needy is if you show needy intent not desire intent. Needy means you need, desire needs you want. You don’t need it or are not obligated to but you want to because she means a lot to you and has earned it. And that’s key. People love being rewarded for earning the love of those they love. This is the power of positive reinforcement which is one of the best tools to strengthen relationships repot trauma relating to not feeling love etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 05:18 AM |
| 0 | Am I overthinking showing vulnerability? Even with my girlfriend?Bonus points if you hint at something you are going to do then make her guess causing her to think about you the whole time. Women love imagination anticipation and feeling special and messages like this hit all three. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Am I overthinking showing vulnerability? Even with my girlfriend?Say this. Well I am glad we are on the same page. It just means the next time we see each other which will be (insert date here) at (insert place here) is going to be even more memorable than last time. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Question for mods/admins: Jordan Peterson?Ummm as a future psychologist myself in Canada who is learning about some of JP’s works in the profession, I’m going to have to say a hard no there. His self authoring programs alone heavily discredit this as it is one of the greatest therapeutic tools ever made in regards to goal setting; taking accountability and understanding trauma. But if you can prove me wrong I’ll listen. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to escorts.If you want to chat pm me. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to escorts.That’s a huge all or nothing statement. I know plenty of men who care deeply for the women they hire. Some view it as essentially as their way of dating and go to great lengths to please their escorts. And some escorts have even reported falling in love with their clients. I have friends who are escorts too and they confirmed this. Escorts don’t put up with the bs night workers do as they have way more options and standards. Many also see it as helping men who have difficulty finding live; who l… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 04:49 AM |
| 19 | Does your dating options really decrease past your 30s male or female?For short term hookups no and they may increase. For long term yes and they should especially if you healed any attachment issues you have. So though your pool gets smaller it actually gets better, unless you continue to be “a hot mess” and not heal from whatever negative experiences you had in childhood. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/22 12:31 AM |
| 0 | What Viewing Porn Does to Your Brain || CanopyThis link is the best doc I seen on this subject. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=hzPylqS01qU Here is the best series on it https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=i6gk4lW1hPo It is of my opinion that pornography will be age restricted once digital is comes out. The modern science is very clear that pornography is not only the highest type of dopamine producing behaviour (second is social media scrolling use) but also the most mentally damaging as it requires your brain; changes your neuro pathways and due … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | I’m a young female in her early 20s who discovered the red pillIf you struggle with self esteem it most likely correlated to either abuse; dis functional relationships, negative experiences that resulted in you feeling you are worthless, flawed or unloveable maybe even not deserving of love. If any of these are the case I’d recommend a therapist who specializes in attachment theory and building interpersonal relationships. Attachment therapy will heal your self esteem, while interpersonal therapy and skills will make you attractive to securely attached peop… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Real reason women divorce most men (sources in the post)Exactly. That was the original reason for inventing vibrators and some great plays where made out of this. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What are they leading?The people who do this tend to have avoidant attachment issues and want control because they never had their needs met and or when they did it was via oppression. Thus they learned if I have control I have my needs met. It is a very common trait amongst dark triad people especially people in the rp. So to is objectification. In fact I’d argue to be in dark triad you must see everything as an object and everyone as a manipulator thus it makes sense in their mind that they want total control and s… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 10:18 PM |
| 7 | What are they leading?I feel for you both. That is very troubling experiences to go through, especially from people who are supposed to care respect and love you. Hopefully your dating life improved and both of you healed from this. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Real reason women divorce most men (sources in the post)I can also attest I used to be very promiscuous even with a life partner. Yet the more I bond with my children the more that goes away. I do not feel the need for other partners even when my partner gets involved in the sex activities. And she’s also the same way. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Real reason women divorce most men (sources in the post)According to Dr. Smith that very rarely happens as both parents are bonding with their children and not jeopardizing that bond, the couple stays together because the hyper gaming and other short term mating genes and needs permanently switch off. See society nuclear family view is in fact part of the issue because both parents must be both caregiver and provider. If this does not occur problems in the relationship arise and if not solved and the kids get worse divorce will happen. This is what t… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 02:50 PM |
| 3 | It is just your turn but…Everything you said is true but that’s not what my post was attempting to show. It was showing how to make peace with the fact that the only thing we own is ourselves and even then that could be debated on. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 06:23 PM |
| 2 | It is just your turn but…Any work by Neale Donald Walsh is good. Also Don Miguel Ruiz And some dialectical behaviour therapy concepts like radical acceptance etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | It is just your turn but…Everything you said here is quite true. I’ve got great resources on how to do this if you like. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 01:55 PM |
| 6 | It is just your turn but…Yes but why focus on what others get if you have no control over it? Why not cherish what you do get? From what I know it’s because many people are addicted to the beauty we see in media etc for two reasons. Porn addiction and societies addiction. But really there is no difference of a person who is beautiful or a person who was. According to media my life partner was very beautiful. After having 4 kids in a row according to media not soo much. But in my eyes her beauty has increased because she… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill.Is it just your height? Do you think your looks are bad or do you feel like a Manley? Also have you ever looked into body dysmorphia? We all have it on some level unless we over came it. Some things to consider because an illness can warp your perception to the point where you’ll only use confirmation bias. After considering all these consider this radical thought. What if when you die, you meet whatever end you think it is and if this end involves a god or talk with your soul you realize as par… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Sam Vaknin debunking redpill shiteYou have an effective idea and insight. Keep challenging yourself by listening to opposing maybe even conflicting views and you won’t even recognize who you are. This is the essence of inversion thinking. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Ladies of r/exredpill what inspires you to help and advice men here?I read your story it touched my heart and so I wanted to help you. And yes I did feel a sense of vasopressin right now lol. But I live everyone in the world or at least try to. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Ladies of r/exredpill what inspires you to help and advice men here?Guys do not fully bond through intimacy via sex physical touch and emotional stimulations like women do. Guys bond via vasopressin and stress release. Also guys have two main mating styles as do women. Guys Short term mating styles is men see women as a sexual release and if they are addicted to sex and essentially a masterbatory outlet. Recent brain studies of porn addicts and short term sec partners reveal the part of the brain men associate with tools lights up during these acts (Sources, Dr.… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 12:46 AM |
| 2 | I hate that Red Pill has made me feel ashamed of attracting men that make a lot of money. I now have a strong desire to reject them solely based on their income to avoid being seen as a "gold digger" even though I know I'm not one just to continue to "prove" myself. I'm over it.Wanting money is not a bad thing. The more money you have the more freedom you have and the easier it is to raise your kids. Take it from a guy who has four kids and whose households make 120k a year half of it gov funding (so not the most reliable) you want money. Shit just to get your kids out of public school indoctrination into private school you’d need a crap ton of money but it is worth it. Smaller class sizes; better graduation connections, etc. You could always home school which if you a… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 12:26 AM |
| 1 | The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is…Since you wanted scientific evidence the above video is a psychotherapist who discusses how men pair bond. It’s a great channel btw. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 12:18 AM |
| 0 | The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is…https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=1Llz-GR-HWY&t=32s | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Just another guy realizing he can be better.It takes two people to make a relationship and two people to end it. No one is perfect because we are not designed t be. Thus imperfection is perfection. Don’t be too hard on yourself. You are taking accountability and moving to be better. That is enough. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 06:36 PM |
| 0 | The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is…Also I do do my own research. I am a psychologist in training. Everything I say is backed by psychology. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 02:57 PM |
| 0 | The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is…You mean actual psychological specialists? And their own research? Oh abd my actual psychology textbook? Last I checked psychology is not a hack field. But if you like to disagree with real science go right ahead. Simple google scholar search pulls up tons of articles in this. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 02:55 PM |
| 0 | The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is…Do you not think maybe you are denying an entire field of science exists here? It is very true that we come into this world preprogrammed with humanities past in it in the form of our genome which contrary to what society conditions us is made up of all the same parts. The differences is experienced which switch genes on and on and those experiences start in the womb. See people think evo psych is merely history of humanity not knowing that evo psych stems from genetics and the working of our br… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on betatization?So yes it is gas lighting. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on betatization?No gas lighting is any instance where you do or say something that questions someone’s reality in an attempt to make you feel sane and they feel crazy. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | For those who are actively monitoring the content creators…Tinder swindler? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | I want to share a couple of youtube channels that i think they can really help a lot of confused and hopeless menCan you give me the cliff notes of this. I watch healthy gamer constantly as he is well respected in the psychology field which is the field I study. People are quick to point out mistakes as “unethical practice” without actually taking into account that we are all human and make mistakes and when you essentially document much of your practice via video you are bound to make some. This is why Dr. k himself included in this anyone worth their credibility in the profession will make it clear they … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/22 12:38 AM |
| -3 | The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is…Oxytocin is produced in spades in orgasm and deep emotional physical and intimate sexual connections. It is not sex or orgasms itself that produce oxytocin, it is the whole thing combined. It is also the same hormone that is resleased in spades via child labour with many women even reporting having multiple orgasms during labour. Mon top of it being called the love hormone it is also called the pair bonding hormone where mens pair bonding and love hormone is vasopressin.l which is created throug… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 07:47 PM |
| -3 | The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is…It is not just orgasms. It is emotional and intimacy bonding. Things like physical touch, sharing of each other’s hardships experiences, expressing emotion and feeling a deep closeness/oneness with Simone. The more the emotional and intimate part is checked off the more it is easier for women to feel safe secure and the more they tend to orgasm etc, as a women orgasming is actually a faster way to reproduce a child then one who does not. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | My life partner and I went to family court due to Covid despite still being together and in love, officially separated in the process, became worst enemies shortly after, realized what was going on, and now back to lovers and life partners and have 50/50 custody. Ask me anything.That’s a great question. I am a male yes. Personally I try to live life in the Christ mindset so treat and love everyone equally regardless of what they do. As such I view those I interact with romantically as life partners. I try not to develop a hierarchy with them, but from a biological viewpoint she is technically top dog as she is the only one I can have kids with and I am the same as well as we are both fixed and have 4 children. But we are allowed to have other partners and are allowed to… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | My Red Pilled/MGTOW Ex-Friends and Their Friends Knowingly Set Me Up: Part 1You had me up into the last part. The last part contradicts the first, especially Yungs quote as he was all about merging the shadow into your life not by hiding it but embracing it; making peace with it and live it for what it truly is, which is the tool to understand who and what is not of you but of others. The shadow grows because of others and how we perceive their actions to be. If we perceive others as untrustworthy manipulative etc (which all dark triad people do to some degree) we have … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 03:44 PM |
| 3 | My life partner and I went to family court due to Covid despite still being together and in love, officially separated in the process, became worst enemies shortly after, realized what was going on, and now back to lovers and life partners and have 50/50 custody. Ask me anything.I was never trp. I found trp actually in 2016 when I realized my borderline personality disorder was the main issue holding my relationship potential back and googled how to heal toxicity for men and found trp that way. Prior to that I found pua in college for a paper I did comparing that type of dating style to acting and auditioning for a role. After I found these male spaces I became fascinated with the psyche of them (in training to be an I-o psych) and decided to research them further from … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 10 | My life partner and I went to family court due to Covid despite still being together and in love, officially separated in the process, became worst enemies shortly after, realized what was going on, and now back to lovers and life partners and have 50/50 custody. Ask me anything.We realized that are lawyers and court law were trying to make us more combative using fear tactics. On top of that once we did separate for real temporarily we allowed family members and the court to get inside our head play on our fears etc and make things seem much worse than they really are. Once we saw this we cut off family friends and are lawyers from doing this. We don’t think the lawyers did it deliberately rather than it simply being the nature of the system and how it is designed to g… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | My life partner and I went to family court due to Covid despite still being together and in love, officially separated in the process, became worst enemies shortly after, realized what was going on, and now back to lovers and life partners and have 50/50 custody. Ask me anything.We thought because of Covid and I live in another town for work to see the kids on my visits with my family we would have to have a legal court document of some kind so we came up with going to court to get a separation agreement that way she can still travel to drop the kids off at my mothers. We are very much heavily family oriented but we both need breaks and she has the kids all week. We cannot live together due to child services not understanding intrusive ocd thus we have to appear delegat… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Single Mothers yay or nay, Are they damaged goods?If you are asking this question you are not ready to date someone with children. It is one of those things you have to be 100% sure you are committed to do. It’s essentially marriage without a ring. But if you ever are 100% commuted being a parent even a step parent can be an amazing experience provide you heavily screen for red flags and know the legalities of what you are getting into. Thus as with anything plan ahead for any major probable possible outcome. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree or disagree with Jordan Peterson's view of MGTOW and if so why ?Do you know the lore behind this rule? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | A new theory on desire live and attachment is now out and it’s a banger. Thank you Dr. Huberman.There are great notes of the entire podcast in the comments too. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/22 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Whose read this book Models? What were your thoughts on it? Good takeaways and bad takeaways.Have you read Dr. glovers latest book? Dating Essentials for men? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 10 | What your opinion on Robert Kiyoaski becoming a red piller?He is not rp. If you watch his video he had Rollo on he actually controlled the conversation and talked most about protecting your financial power from unhealthy individuals in a romantic context. Every time Rollo would try to go off he’d change the conversation or bring it back to his main focus of financial asset protection. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Personal perspective on modern society dating from an average looking young manLook into the work of Carl Yung/shadow integration. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 05:25 PM |
| 3 | On The Tinder SwindlerHaving sex even with more than one partner, making money, partying in celebration of what you created are not bad things. A thing is clinically decided as bad if it leaves one’s life to ruin, that is when it can be considered an addiction. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Personal perspective on modern society dating from an average looking young manIf you play by societies rules and indoctrination your going to have a rough time. Make your own rules. Make peace with those rules. And play by those. Preferably try not to harm anyone so make sure you find a way to merge the good parts of your shadow self into who you are. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | So uh… What do women want again?Stop focussing on women. In fact just fuck all people and focus on yourself. When you do that, the right women comes along. The idea that we have to revolve our life and existence around someone other than ourself even our own children is horse shit fed to us by people more fucked up than we were. This does not mean to be an asshole but really doing things for the happiness likeness or attraction of another is probably the worst thing you can do. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 01:01 AM |
| 14 | Forrest Gump is the bane of the Redpill CommunityJennie is a complete contrast to Gump. Both had messed up beginning circumstances. One chose the path to recovery the other coping with addiction and pleasure seeking. The reason why the film is arguably one of the best films ever was because it showed a realistic portrayal of what the potential of those two pathways (recovering and dopamine coping) occur as many disabled people achieve great things. The ending though bitter sweet is also a testament to something we as a society have forgotten i… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Save yourself from the fear tactics used in marketing.Sad but very true and the APA has shit the bed with men over the last few years. Hopefully this changes. I have tried to provide a space for men in the black pill incel community but it seems they are all focused on not getting women not on wanting to live or improve their life. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/22 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Save yourself from the fear tactics used in marketing.If a person still has traumatic issues the last thing they need is a relationship. The first thing they need is a therapist. When I encounter women who have traumatic issues I view them only as friends and or love from afar until they get their trauma sorted out. And yes I even tell them this. Personally, I did not waste my time doing a fuck ton of therapy and working on myself only to be with someone who has not done that yet. Everyone has their own view on this but that’s how I see it. And I o… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/22 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threateningWhy do you care soo much about what others think? When you find the answer to that question then life will become much easier because it appears to me that you put much focus in how others perceive you but not much in hoe you perceive yourself. Who cares what others think. If Someone does not want to be with you cause they prefer dominant men and you only want to be dominant for them and not because it’s who you are naturally then don’t change for another. Many people don’t understand what being… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/22 05:04 PM |
| -1 | Love it when old manosphere content creators see the light and escape the tunnel.I guess you don’t know how marketing works? Or reframing? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/22 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Love it when old manosphere content creators see the light and escape the tunnel.Yup. You get it. I work with John personally. He is the most balanced when it comes to dating from that space. He helped me overcome my dark triad traits from my bpd traits and get back my entire family by earning their respect trust etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | I lose respect for girls with high bodycounts.We are at our human core a very young primitive at best barbaric and sadonistic at worst. The progression of the planet according to spiral dynamics is so slow that you cannot fault people for acting like animals. Especially when you factor in the fact the more need deficient you are the more you are likely to act in such ways as an subconscious need for survival especially if you have not healed your dark side of yourself (all negative traits behavior patterns and toxic conditioning found in th… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | What is some good advice on "salesmanship" for neuro-atypical people?Think salesmanship is just a relationship but you replace sex with selling you something to add value to your life or take value away if it’s fraudulent or faulty. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 05:18 AM |
| 2 | What are good techniques to improve humor?Take an improv class. Take a class on humour. Humour for the most part is all about how you say something not what you say and who you say it too as well as adopting the mindset that you are funny. A great example of this are the comedians who are masters of dark humour (taboo subjects) My view on humour like these guys and gals is if you can take the piss out of something you give it no effect in your life. It id very powerful tool for healing trauma if used effectively. Good luck hope this hel… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/22 07:39 AM |
| 0 | An new alpha male and a new rp tactic?I did. And I got the kids I want. It’s possible you just need to look for quality not quantity. I am very selective of the people I have in my life long term and permanently (life partner; business partners, etc) And yes it was meant to be cringe. Once I get better equipment editor etc the parodies will be more high quality. Thank you for your input. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | The easy no bs guide to vetting partners.I agree. I did not create the image. I changed it in my lessons to a young Yang thing. Top is white (positive energy) bottom is black (negative energy) Thanks to you and all others who commented making my content better. My main point is in any area of life you want people with the top traits and Preferably no people with bottom unless they absolutely need it. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | I wanna have a stance on this from you guys. Something that redpill never talks about. I’ll link the video down there and my question next to it.If you have something valuable throw it away, if it comes back it’s worth keeping. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | The easy no bs guide to vetting partners.I did not make the photo. The point is too traits great. Bottom traits not soo much. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | So what if I want a career oriented women??I was born poor. I got out of poverty. Everyone around me who was poor used their extra money to buy takeout, items etc that made their situation worse. Yes some had no money but they also had no job and if they did it was illegal or minimum wage. So they were not reaching their potential. Same with those who had money but were poor due to drugs alcohol paying for sex, When I have helped them out including giving someone 8600 which could literally change their life, they not only foolishly used … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | So what if I want a career oriented women??Which study would you like to see? I can provide you many. Need deficient people tend to correlate to high emotions decisions and rough upbringing. When your needs are not fulfilled you become needy desperate irrational impulsive mainly back to a primitive survivor state. I can also prove this is well. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | So what if I want a career oriented women??Why not do both. There are many good rich who contribute to society. They just don’t throw money at a poor person because it’s like throwing cocaine at a drug addict. And this is coming from someone who lived below the poverty line. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/22 04:38 AM |
| 0 | So what if I want a career oriented women??Who do you think runs the machines? The industries who pumped in billions of dollars to allow a pandemic to continue for two years (gov) Or… The wealthy not tied to industries designed and meant to keep the machine going? (Education; entertainment, medical, etc) | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | So what if I want a career oriented women??If you didn’t maybe you should have watched that video I posted at 6min mark 🤔🤔 | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | So what if I want a career oriented women??Yes. I am. Are you aware of how you can a get a multi million dollar 10x unit property and not pay a dime on it in taxes by bypassing said marginal tax rate because you bought it through low interest rate loan and thus balances out your additional income with an expense? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else looking at content here and redpill at the same time?You have one of the most valuable traits anyone can have which is called inversion thinking. It is also a trait that relates to many of the great peace keepers spiritual people as you try to look at things from all angles. Personally it is the highest form of critical thinking to think objectively instead of subjectively first then think subjectively. But to master inversion thinking you must not be fully tied emotionally to one idea via trauma as trauma abd emotion will cloud your perspective. … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Looking for positive self improvement outletsFinance look to the top finance people in their field. Therapy watch healthy gamer psychology in Seattle Spirituality you could check Neale Donald Walsch mainly his conversations with god books (no it’s not traditional god) If you want to make a YouTube channel and capitalize on the best way to learn aside from fully doing or simulating (teaching) what I am doing in all things I’m learning then Think Media is your way to go. So is VID IQ Understanding neuroscience and your brain watch Huberman L… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | So what if I want a career oriented women??No I wrote what I suggested and I wrote how buddy and his wife could achieve his goals but my comment got deleted. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | So what if I want a career oriented women??That man is a multi millionaire investor who has a degree in economics and made most his money literally off trading and collecting collectible magic the gathering cards. (Cardboard) He can make the points I am trying to make better than anyone else. But since you want me to explain it to you, here it is. The rich and smart upper middle class (5-6 figure earners like myself) don’t work for money or work for very little. Thus because we don’t have a salary we don’t pay income tax and we don’t pay… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 05:20 PM |
| -4 | So what if I want a career oriented women??Watch at 6 minute mark. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 07:27 AM |
| -4 | So what if I want a career oriented women??https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MX_JYpp5lCA&t=227s | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 07:24 AM |
| 0 | Is there any MGTOW or Man-O-Sphere subreddit that doesn't talk about women and only self-improvement stuff?I don’t think do but you can always make one or even start a blog. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 06:55 AM |
| -1 | So what if I want a career oriented women??Not babe name. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 06:54 AM |
| -9 | So what if I want a career oriented women??Do you know your tax laws? Do you know if you make more money as a couple you pay more taxes? Do you know the more you make the more they take unless you start a profitable side hustle get incorporated and possibly make money come tax time? Are your spending and budgeting habits rock solid? These are the things you should be looking into. If you think you can simply earn and save money and retire and travel the world, as someone who works in a tax centre I can tell you you may want to rethink th… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/22 06:53 AM |
| 7 | Did it even exist?If you want to understand an era, read it’s creative literature especially plays. Tennessee Williams arguably one of the greatest playwrights of that time wrote very realistic portrayals of people in the 50s. Another playwright and whose wife actually taught me in Theatre school was David French’s plays specifically his Mercer play leaving home which is another realistic portrayal of 1950’s only in Canada. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/22 07:54 AM |
| 0 | The easy no bs guide to vetting partners.I think you are focusing too much on the original author content and not my message. That the above traits are ideal and the more the better. The below traits are not ideal and even one could lead your life to ruin especially if it is a patterned behaviour and they refuse to change. Personally I agree with you. There are now men and women traits. The picture does do a good job at highlighting negative and positive traits the human condition possesses. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/22 11:02 PM |
| -1 | The easy no bs guide to vetting partners.Well ask the author of the original post not me. My main point was the top traits are healthy the bottom are not and even just one of those can wreck your life tremendously. And it is rooted in science you just have to connect the dots. 1: We are made of energy. Two we all have the same genes just some are turned on and off at the start and based on what experiences and conditioning we went through. This is the study of epigenetics and genealogy. Thus you can say we possess the ability to have a… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/22 09:46 AM |
| 0 | The easy no bs guide to vetting partners.For some reason article did not post. This is another article talking about a similar concept. https://www.thelist.com/282626/heres-the-difference-between-the-divine-feminine-and-the-divine-masculine/ | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/22 12:08 AM |
| -3 | The easy no bs guide to vetting partners.The main post the pic is from explains we have a the ability to possess all traits on both sides. It talks about how we have human and divine energy at the core of who we are (pure energy) As we move through life some of the divine energy traits turn into wounded divine energy or what we call the human condition. It is a modern spiritual concept but makes sense scientifically as in everything we do we either emit or contain this energy. Surrender means you fully plunge into what you do without f… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/22 12:06 AM |
| -7 | Theses are the red pillers. Old men trying to radicalize the younger generation.Coach Greg Adams talks more about the negative aspects of both men and women. I have listen to him criticize both sexes including but not limited to gold diggers; cheaters, pua, alpha males, pump and dump, young money, gang bag are, abusive people, Etc. He is one of the more balanced. I think he is pivoting to different content soon or trying to. Recently his money Mindset and his streams on the future have been very well done. And I work with Bulldog Mindset personally. In fact he has given me … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Best advice I ever received when it comes to women from my therapistYou actually attract people who have the same recurring thought patterns as you which are your limiting or freeing beliefs. That’s what self esteem is. The total tally of what you think you are and are t capable of. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/22 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Being Beta is not bad.You don’t need to be anything but you. But you is not fear don’t or any negative trait. That’s human conditioning. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/22 10:10 AM |
| 1 | To the incels/black pill people.With attitudes like that you are right. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Dark Triad and RedPillI mean doctors do hide their programs behind education paywalls. Dr. David Burns for instance says you need masters levels to learn his advanced stuff. Other doctors those in dark triad also do the same. Not everything is going to be in the public eye. If some stuff were public especially newer discoveries people would lose their minds. Instead info like that is usually held and further studied before being released. In fact did you know the DSM was originally meant to be kept for practitioners … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Dark Triad and RedPillI mean there is an entire psychological field that I will be joining dedicated this. These disorders also get the most funding for research. But not all of the research makes it to the public. Some of it is locked behind a credential paywall same with therapeutic techniques tools etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/22 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Do you think that young adult books have an negative influence on teens on dating?There are legit resources. There is the tactical guide to dating women and one for dating men. There is dating essentials for men. All those are from psychologists. There is also countless evo psych books. And for understanding human nature Robert Greens books have wrote psychologically accurate depictions of human nature and they tactics people use especially in terms of gaining power status etc. To know everything works you just need to buy a psychology textbook. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand this situation as an exredpill manYou want to have sex with her because sex feels good and sex has the same properties as drugs that feel good. I would assume snorting a line off said chicks double da and burying it in her balls deep would also feel good but I would advise doing neither 🤣🤣 Jokes aside as a future psychologist who overcame two drastic mental health disorders suffered immense amount of depression and suicidal ideation let me paint a very real scientifically backed picture of what depressed people tend to go throug… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Help me understand this situation as an exredpill manShe is a game player and is currently deeply disturbed. If you go with her you should expect chaos emotional instability drama headaches. If you let her go, then you may lose your chance with her in the future. In these cases I adopt my live from afar method. I offer support friendship etc at a distance but if they want more they have to get their shit together. It’s not your responsibility to save anyone. Only people can save themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Healing the masculine and feminine energy cores within all us.None. If anything it is about capitalizing on your divine power that lives within us all and is a combination of both what society calls feminine and masculine energy. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | To the incels/black pill people.I been exactly where you where. Lost my business; job, house, family, kids. Though most of these were temporarily it did make me feel the way you did. It made me feel like nothing mattered. I let myself go abd dpiraled deeper than I ever been before. That was 6 years ago. Today most of what I lost has been recovered. I even gained more too. I’d like to help you. Please pm me and we can discuss. You are worth way more than your perception gives you credit for. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 01:25 AM |
| 6 | #1 REASON Women FIND Modern MEN UNATTRACTIVEMen it’s not rocket science. Do whatever you want. If Someone calls you out on it and you feel you need to be accountable and change, change. Show change with action not words etc. If you think you are in the right, stand your ground. Take the piss out of their criticism. Walk away. Live and let live buddy boyos. Do what you want. Be what you want. Say what you want. That’s really all confidence is. Just doing what you want to do and not letting anyone else’s view change you. Just don’t box or t… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill only talks about the extreme negative side of female nature.And the rp people I mentioned are the main ones running the movement. Unless you know others those are the ones terns young adults etc listen to and model. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 9 | Bad Boys Get All The Hotties - DEMOLISHED!Bad boys attract either bad women or serial abuse victims whom have been abused soo much they believe subconsciously that’s what they deserve and they can’t do any better. They essentially love their abusers. Ironically when bad boys get a taste of their own medicine is when they cry the victim. And usually that comes from a women who knows the bad boy game better or a victim who has been pushed to the edge soo much that they themselves retaliate at their abuser full force. It’s also when they t… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Tribecast.Link them? I’ll check it out? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill only talks about the extreme negative side of female nature.It is clear you have a lot of healing to do. In your post you say you are your partners partner but your words show it is actually the man speaking for most of this. Or maybe you are alternating. As for victim blaming there is no such thing as a victim unless buy into the illusion of victim hood. That term victim blaming was something created by mainstream society to control and oppress to make victims feel better about themselves and not get help and enable their suffering off the various types… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Falling back into RP again.Women have an easier time attracting short term dates partners and validation of existence then men. But the catch is much of the above is not the type they want; is not sustainable and can be just as addicting and life destroying as being forever alone. The catch for being forever alone is you don’t deal with much of peoples stupidity; bs and other negative traits of humanity and avoid much non self inflicted trauma. In terms of short term dating men tend to fare worse because in a value based … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill only talks about the extreme negative side of female nature.1: I am not absolving women for their actions. My view on divorce is simple. 50/50 custody. Parents must try to co parent and if not both should take parenting classes designed for single parents where you learn both the care giving and the discipline role. Child support should be split 50/50 but based on net income. Strict penalties for attempting to flee and or alienate children from the other parent including fines and prison time. For divorce to happen all parties are at fault and all partie… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill only talks about the extreme negative side of female nature.And for the record all movements are funded on your oppression. Meaning to exists they must have problems and lots of them. Lastly the issues you talk about the Manosphere only mentions as a smoke screen to get men in the door to their real agenda which women treat you like trash so treat them like trash first which btw they know will result in you coming back. Most of these men live double lives. They are married. They have kids. They most likely don’t practice what they preach because what the… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill only talks about the extreme negative side of female nature.Divorce is an extreme because it is a huge moment of crisis we’re people act off emotion not logic and are encouraged to by the court system so they can extract more money for them. Violence and sexual assault are also extreme. The rp movie has very little to do with the ro movement that is ran by people psychologists have even said have high traits if not full blown dark triad personalities. You can have freedom of speech yes. But freedom of speech is not freedom of consequence and this movemen… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Dread Game Is NonsenseWhat may seem like decrepit to you may in fact be a paradise to another. VR creates the possibility for anyone to be and do anything. My concern is while many are sucked into vr, what are those plugged into the physical reality doing to the planet. And when the shit really hits the fan, what will happen when those in the physical reality are offered an physical escape off this planet and onto a new one (Most likely Mars) when this one no longer becomes inhabitable due to the collective conscious… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Dread Game Is NonsenseThis will be the future. And the future is coming. They have already succeeded at creating artificial wombs. They have also suceeded at making walking talking sex boys. And within I’d say a few decades either money Mets and other vr augmented reality companies pump in as well as the conditioning to accept it as the new norm and as the planet slowly continues to decline in terms of human habitability the virtual world will become more common day then the use of our cell phones. It will be the ult… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Dread Game Is NonsenseWhat do you use to make your thumbnails? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 08:36 AM |
| 3 | Being Beta is not bad.Thank you for the compliment. It took us awhile to get to where we are to be honest. Both of us have BPD traits. We also went through more moments of crisis in our 7 year relationship then most cupolas including but not limited to losing our home having our children temporarily taken away losing our first child just to name a few. But that’s the thing. If everyone is willing to make it work it will work. A relationship is like a plant. Water it; nourish it, care for it, it grows. Don’t do these … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Being Beta is not bad.Very true. Why was using the term to get people to read the post and relate to people in this group. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Being Beta is not bad.People are going to mistreat you; not respect and or value you. And if you allow them to get away with it, they are not just going to mistreat you, they are going to see how much they can mistreat you and when you finally have enough they are going to blame you for what they did to you and gas light you into oblivion. Though some may hold accountability. There have been many experiments done in psychology that prove this fact. If a person can get away with something even if it is something heino… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/22 08:26 AM |
| -5 | Alpha Seed/Beta Need is bothering the hell out of me…That is very untrue statement based on very true scientific fact. Men and women tend to have switch mating strategies. That is their mating strategies are different for short term than long term. Dr. Andrew Huberman on Huberman Labs covered this greatly. You can look into it there. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Cost of mental therapy in the USI am a psychology student. As part of my goal to help others I offer free self help coaching for a period of 1-9months provided you do the work. I am third year advanced student. I probably could help you with some things. Pm me anytime. It might not be real therapy but I can guarantee you can get something out of it. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Positive action=potential attraction.We can agree to disagree. Just because you don’t do it does not mean others do not do it. In fact it is very common of both sexes to do this and is heavily recognized and practiced among many male and female dating coaches. Yet in doing just that they immediately show they most likely value what another gives them in a relationship as opposed to what they offer them and is usually a result of deep rooted insecurities low self worth and immaturity. A person who is confident secure and knows what … | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?Link your channel. I’ll check it out. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/21 05:45 AM |
| 3 | Could someone please give me a second opinion on this Youtube guru?He sounds like he is using spirituality as a smoke screen and scape goat to essentially tout the same bs pua dating coaches use etc. Just off the titles alone and a small video clip I can see that. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/21 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Can seduction be learned? a.k.a “Game”Attraction like stress; depression and other biological responses is all neurological. If you understand a persons neurology; behaviour patterns, drives and personality you can make them attracted to you in anyway. But that requires being present; active listening, empathy and other traits (many in the divine feminine energy) tend to naturally possess more than men which is why a majority of women are great at understanding social settings. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/21 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Make people like you for rejecting you and shatter your fear of rejection and low self worth forever.This is a twist I do on the go out and try and get rejected though you can actually combine both. Both are great this one to me is more fun due to my acting background and creative nature. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | A must watch scientific based podcast on dating dynamics came out.Prove it. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?Around 2 hour mark. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-rqCqfXwQOA&t=8777s | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Correlation between men who come from broken homes and the red pill community“Relationship between two variables” | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/21 02:48 AM |
| 4 | Correlation between men who come from broken homes and the red pill communityIt is correlated and the correlation is most likely strong but the golden rule of statistics and correlation research is correlation does not equal causation and is mostly used to see if their is a relationship which will then be tested experimentally to measure cause and effect results. Source: Essential Business Statistics 13 Ed. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What RP gets completely wrong about the Sub and Dom relationship.Well said. Some very great points here. And I learned some things. Thank you for your contributions. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/12/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Bitterness about my situationI already got it. I got 4 kids too. So I already did my genetic duty. 🤣🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 24/12/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?When someone tells me they are Alpha I say like Batman? When they say yes. I say… Riddle me this. How Alpha would you be if you walked up to a psychopath said you are the man and they pulled out a gun and shot you in the head? The answer none. You’d be dead. They usually then get upset and try and justify being Alpha to which I say. This is the risk you take when you subscribe human nature to animal behavioural logic. It’s the reason for all wars most conflict and many failed attempts at planeta… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | What to do if women treat me like confidante?What if I told you there is an energy frequency were self limiting beliefs like (I don’t get women because I am too nice and understanding) and intuition (as in a persons genuine feeling of energy auras) intertwine as in the negative thoughts you think about yourself are subconsciously or as I call supra consciously downloaded onto another sparking one’s intuition and making them get nice guy vibes off of you. Hence why how you perceive is what you receive and how you receive is how you will act… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Is the red pill different from The Matrix movie or is it based on the samething?The analogy of the red pill came from the matrix. But the original idea of the red pill actually came from the Bible in story of Adam and Eve. Eve getting both Adam and her to bite the apple and seeing reality for what it is really is not what they were told is the essence of what occurs when one sees something through a truthful lens and not the lens of a form of conditioning. In fact all truth is is the destruction of a prior false reality usually created by someone else or something else and … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone done the toxic productivity thingYou don’t do these things for others. You do it for you. Because it is what you want and live to do and you are an amazing person who deserves everything you want. We are already made perfect because perfection is imperfection. Thus we should only do what brings us joy pleasure peace and not what others want or think we have to do provided we aim to not harm another in this process. That is if we get others involved we look at it as how can I build with this person not fear them down. When doing… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?https://www.insider.com/why-women-retain-male-dna-2018-3?amp | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/21 07:40 PM |
| 6 | Most egregious/stupid thing you’ve heard a RPer or RP guru say?Yesterday I watched a video by Rollo Tomassi saying Dark triad traits are to be admired accepted and practically reasonable. He also went on to completely misrepresent empathy and how dark triad has no empathy which is actually false. They have psychopathic empathy that is to say they put themselves in others shoes not to empathize but to manipulate. As someone in recovery for bpd the fourth triad only more like the gateway between psychopathy and normalcy I can back this claim up 100. I would a… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/12/21 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What RP gets completely wrong about the Sub and Dom relationship.FDS? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/12/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | What RP gets completely wrong about the Sub and Dom relationship.Pm me I can help answer these questions. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/12/21 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Philosophical Criticisms of Red Pill StoicismGreat insights here. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/21 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Lately I’ve been trying to pin point specific things wrong with trp.We can always have a virtual one ☺️ | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Lately I’ve been trying to pin point specific things wrong with trp.Wise mind theory and growth mindset is all about that and the idea that we are all grey. I lol at it like this. We have two main conditions. The divine which pure being joy etc And the human condition which is pure fear. Thus in any moment we can either create or destroy. Hence the black and white. Though I’m a scientist do I think I’m scientist terms like positive and negative. My spirituality involves many practices and theories relating to letting go of subjective concepts like right wrong go… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | About Single mothersThey project their own traumatic experiences into single mothers as a form of generalizing trauma which is similar to generalizing in classical conditioning. That said single parents do have a harder time in life. And taking one as a partner has a ton more risks and not just financially. The biggest risk being single parents can’t fully be themselves as they tend to be more need deficient and as result act out of necessity not want and desire. But this is not the single parents sole fault. There… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Any ex-PUA followers interested in being interviewed about their experience?I did an essay comparing pus to acting auditions and I’d love to see your stuff when it is finished. Will you update us on it? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 03:55 AM |
| 2 | What the hell does being alpha even mean?It was not what solves do in the wild. The researcher noticed the alphas he was observing was actually parents of cubs who were displaying their traits to protect them. The researcher than tried everything to be accountable and remove his book and research for the rest of his life to no avail. Adam ruins everything from college humour did a video called the alpha male does not exist. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Buckle Up Peter Took The Red Pill (we’re talkin about it)I listened a bit is this your podcast? It was interesting. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Lately I’ve been trying to pin point specific things wrong with trp.The red pill teaches you that men and women's nature is animalistic and not much you can do. But fails to forget on top of our animalistic brain is the cortex which was designed to literally evolve us out of the animal kingdom. And with the 4D chess of the meta verse and is basically going to be living two lives (virtual and real) I would not be surprised if we see a fourth brain layer start to develop to adapt to that. There is a fascinating channel called riddle that actually talks a bit about… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is real but both sexes have it and it is not what rp says it is.I was not taught anything. I did not find the Manosphere via a traumatic event caused by women. I found it via an essay I wrote in school comparing pickup to acting auditions which made me fascinated with the psychology of the space. I read Rollo book but I guess I missed that part or said this man’s missing the point and filled in the blank. But I get your point. Men are only told they parts that serve the Mano business agenda. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Exactly How Long did you Follow the Red Pill?Btw hey Expose it’s blackpillmedicine. Lol I have a question. Min one of your comments in our interview you did it was all over the place? Was that my doing? If so any tips on how I could have improved the flow. Also hit me up when you make the new channel. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Exactly How Long did you Follow the Red Pill?I will always be studying the Manosphere as I have a son and daughters and clients in this space. I found the sphere because I did an essay back in theatre comparing pickup artistry to auditioning for a role. I got an A on that assignment and been fascinated with the space since. As a theatre maker future clinical psychodrama psychologist it makes sense to keep up with behavior trends. But I have a very high level of inversion thinking and always critically and objectively and have many practice… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Bitterness about my situationYou should read Dr Robert Glovers book dating essentials for men. You are suffering from many limiting beliefs which is making you subconsciously and kinosthetically unattractive to women. You are literally women repellent. I know cause I been there. Only I am considered highly attractive especially back in my day. Yet like you my problems were limiting beliefs caused by my upbringing and my pure o mainly harm ocd in the realm of intrusive thoughts of harming women. Only once I faced those limit… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/21 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is real but both sexes have it and it is not what rp says it is.Only when you don’t have the people in front of you. People are very predictable and easy to understand when you know how all the parts operate and they tell on themselves all the time. But I do agree with you we don’t know everything but we can know what is needed to understand them via empathy foresight critical thinking testing out theories etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is real but both sexes have it and it is not what rp says it is.Hmm I did not know this. I thought it was simply womens desire to trade for a higher man. So I included mens desire and then actually said it’s both sexed that if they feel the need or I could even add in the self centred and self realm of personality will trade up given the opportunity. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is real but both sexes have it and it is not what rp says it is.Evo psych is a science. In fact as a future scientist and psychologist myself I predict neuroscience will align very closely if not identically to how evo psychology says the baseline in relationships/attraction is… And the creator of this Reddit actually has many posts in the detox section showing Dr. David Buss work who is the pioneer and one of the most well known psychologists in his field as he deals in what I will mainly be dealing in experimental designs meaning cause and effect. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | About Single mothersThere are great single parent people out there and not great single parent people out there. It depends who you are attracting and how much you have observed or know of their situation. I know some great single parents and I also know some who need to have their children put in foster care as they clearly only have their own interest or their partners not their child. And that’s the main point to consider because how someone treats their children is a reflection of how they treat you. My ex and … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/21 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Are therapists aware of red pill / black pill theory?Yes they and their students (myself) are. In fact I have a channel helping men in the black pill and later manosphere and have been featured in an interview with expose. Essentially as a future therapist you should be aware of everything to be honest. This is why we have to always continue learning to keep practicing. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | If red pill is not the answer what is?Evolutionary psychology especially Dr. Like Dr. David Buss who is an experimental evo psychologist who specializes in sexual dynamics. But with any psycholgy it only provides a baseline. The brain is not a computer. It id a highly complex machine and you simply cannot put in any equation to find the truth. But the theory I am working on as a future clinical psycho drama psychologist says that the attraction response is similar to the stress response or emotional depression suicidal response and … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | A must watch scientific based podcast on dating dynamics came out.I thought we can’t post links https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HXzTbCEqCJc&t=3916s Tons of great videos on there btw. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Which books or youtube channels would you recommend for exRedpillers that need to learn about dating and forming healthy relationships?Dating Essentials for Men Dr. Robert Glover. Evolutionary Psychology Dr. David Buss You may also want to look into neuroscience as attraction is a neurological response to the release of several chemicals that is released differently depending on the individual. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you actually stop or prevent becoming a simp?1: Do not tolerate disrespect of any kind. The more disrespect you tolerate the more your brain becomes hard wired to fall in love with it. Disrespect is subjective and based on experience temperament character and virtue. State your boundaries and consequences for disrespect and act accordingly by showing people how you want to be treated. 2: Do not tolerate any abuse of any kind. Emotional; physical, verbal, sexual. See above reason. First offends should be the last offends although emotional … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 04:20 AM |
| 3 | My boyfriend is a Red Piller and it’s ruining our relationship.There are two things the brain cannot comprehend without extreme justification. The first is harming one self The second is harming another. Harming one self is justified by thinking we deserve it. Harming another is justified by saying they deserve it. On the surface we may say things like I can change them or it will get better or they truly care deep down they are just hurting. But what the subconscious is doing is actually making you fall in live with your abuser as a way to protect yourself… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about youtuber/incel colttaineI think you should take the fact that 30% of men are living in a world where they can’t get the one need (and it is a need) met that is constantly shoved in men’s faces daily not met as a very serious issue. Especially considering feminist women are even trying to ban the future use of sex dolls/sex robots and say they have rights because of that were to get past, you think you seem incels shootings and rampages now? You have not seen anything yet. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about youtuber/incel colttaineSomeone who uses one sided real world data is hiding part of the picture. The whole point of a persuasive piece should be to include the other side and counter it. This is persuasive essay 101. Any piece that does not do this is bias bs and in the science world bias bs is not an accurate representation of something. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/21 08:24 PM |
| 3 | A GIRL'S COMMENT ABOUT THE MGTOW THAT NO MGTOW KNEW ANSWER.Well here's my answer. Why do you care so much what people think of you' your choices, preferences, views, characteristics, etc. Why do you care if people judge you and then act accordingly to those judgements? The reality is there is always going to be someone who has the ability to mistreat you; use you, manipulate you, etc. We are far from living in a world that does not condone this. To remove this fact from the world alone we would need to remove the following. Competiveness; Justice, insuf… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.I had someone cancel a date cause they were having a bad day and also thought that was a bullshit excuse, to which I replied, mental health is never a bullshit excuse. Truth be told I was gonna cancel on you cause I wasn’t feeling the greatest but I also know being a person who sticks by the word of I did that it make it worse. Bottom line if someone thinks mental health issues or events that can lead to them is a red flag they are not for you and are projecting high levels of insecurity. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 07:20 AM |
| 2 | exredpill youtube channelI think everyone should have a YouTube channel. I’m personally in the process of making one for my self help/therapy business about living life on the highest frequency possible and will do various spins on popular YouTube gimmicks. One is actually writing scenes for scripts similar to SSM in which I break down both sides in the style of forensic files and intervene to offer my double sided opinion rooted in relationship therapy techniques. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/21 03:01 AM |
| 1 | If you really want lots of sexual encounters and partners.Depends on what you mean by good. What are you interested in? Give specifics and I can help more. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | If you really want lots of sexual encounters and partners.I love it in Canada. Especially in bigger cities like Toronto. Though my dream area is BC. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/21 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Have it all?The short answer is yes. The long answer is more complex and should start with, “Can a parent have a career with children?” to which I would say it depends on what your idea of career is. If your idea is 40+hours a week and think you can maintain that without your kids suffering or shipping them off somewhere? Well it’s going to be quite hard. Same if you are in a high position or if you are in a career that demands a lot of extra time outside your work. But to simply say oh you can have it all … | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | If you really want lots of sexual encounters and partners.No. Plenty of attractive women there. But I am in Canada so obesity is not that high, where as someone was saying 70% of us population has a weight issue, though I find that hard to believe. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/21 11:24 AM |
| 6 | Here's an example of mentally ill red pillSome do some don’t do and others do worse. But to fully change so robe that is quite negative takes a lot of therapy and focussed effort and relapse is always an issue. It’s all about the mindset and how one perceived their life. Learn to change those positively then you most likely get positivity back. Learn not to and stay the same you’ll either stay the same (not likely) or get worse and really lose your shit. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who work in retail or the public how would you feel if someone commented on your appearanceI’ve experienced similar in many ways. I think the reason guys get downplayed a lot with things like this is because society makes men feel as though we should love and desire to be wanted while also showing women that that behaviour by men towards them is creepy unwanted. When reality is if you like it, you like it. You don’t you don’t. You do you and fucken anyone else that tells you otherwise. I know women who love to be objectified constantly, especially as if they were platters of meat. Thi… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/21 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Dread Game: Making Others Insecure So I Feel SafeThe issue is not the content, it is the presentation and generalization of it as well as teaching it to many people who simply don’t have a clue about social interactions or how it works. There understanding of social context and the fact everything in social dynamics is contextual makes this type of material very difficult to teach as it is. Add on a business model that is rooted in finding gullible vulnerable or very damaged men or men that simply despise women and you literally have a glass p… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/21 03:46 AM |
| 11 | Here's an example of mentally ill red pillAs a mental health professional, watching videos like these ones truly breaks my heart. People see anger and hatred and think he’s deranged mental etc. Most likely so. But it takes a lot of negative events for someone to get there. I remember when I first listened to Elliott Rodgers entire manifesto I felt quite similar. Different people different circumstances and obviously actions I’d never condone or want happen. But when you understand and view people not as themselves now but as damaged inn… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/21 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Nice Guys Finish Last?People who allow people to use them and treat them like trash and still after being treated badly stick with them tend to get the short end of the stick. People who also do things for others for the soul purpose of trying to get something from them, such as tm nice guys trying to use niceness and giving as a currency for sexual relationships also get used and treated badly, though these ones tend to based on actions deserve it more than others. That is where it comes from and most to Men were fo… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/21 03:32 AM |
| 0 | Dread Game: Making Others Insecure So I Feel SafeWhat is dread game? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Real Red Pill happened this week.You never watched the matrix? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | "Holding frame" is dehumanising.I didn’t ignore it I explained where I believe the original idea emanated from regarding negative emotions in my first point. Then explained how I view emotions etc. I agree crying is great but like everything have moderation abs regulation. Als for RP. All RP is is common sense warped and one sided. Common sense: Don’t chase people and or revolve your life around someone, focus on yourself and invite others in. RP logic; You are the prize. Common sense: If people don’t get what they want they w… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/21 07:19 PM |
| 1 | "Holding frame" is dehumanising.For starters if you want someone you disagree with to hear your side or point of view, it would be highly effective if you do not start out by calling that point of view moronic. For most people it discredits your point of view makes them feel attacked abs lash out by calling you moronic thus getting nowhere. Society is very much like this today especially in the west. Yet I am not most people and will gladly give further reason for why it’s not moronic based on my experience and the experience … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | "Holding frame" is dehumanising.Where I think RP is trying to come from on this is the following. When a moment of crisis occurs, especially one that involves the high potential for negative emotional responses (crying being the only emotion both positive and negative) it is of mine and many other mental health workers opinions that one adult in the household needs to remain as emotionally centered as possible. For it is a heavily proven fact that emotion does not solve problems effectively as that is not what it is designed t… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/21 03:39 PM |
| 4 | need answers1: If money status power is important to you for your purpose it is great things to aspire to. If it is just to get women, you are basically doing the alpha nice guy strategy, getting to get. Thus you will attract like minded partners who view relationships as a transaction mot a compliment to someone’s life. 2: If you still view people as archetypes you are generalizing. Start viewing people as individuals instead. 3: Masculine frame again is doing things to get things from women using the illu… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do people believe Coach Red Pill and how does he have any validity?The irony is that he was a prior novelist filmmaker screenwriter. His real name is Gonzalez Lira. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/01/21 03:50 AM |
| 1 | sex in relationshipsDo be careful with drugs. They are according to my doctor, meant to be temporary but some doctors say permanent because they get money from selling them. Also let your doc know ASAP any changes especially if they don’t work or make you worse. I overcame bpd and ocd with little drug interference. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?That’s contextual question I can’t awnser for you. It depends if you are taking yoga for personal or professional reasons. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?I think you are starting to see the theme here. Rp teaches you how to get short term relationships or sex with very vulnerable women. Either they are drunk, or they are under 25 (which 25 is the age your brain stops developing and loses most neuroplasticity unless you help it) Or their perception of women opens the flood gates for them to receive abusive manipulative or highly damaged women, thus creating a personal echo chamber to validate rp concepts. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/01/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | sex in relationshipsYou can pm me if you like. I overcame my bpd. Though mine was not much dissociation I experienced. More so emotional regulation especially with anger and rage. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 06:51 PM |
| 7 | An interesting title.Any person is like this. Not only men. Any women who don’t heal would be toxic transgender non binary. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | sex in relationshipsreading love languages may be good but personally I think your best bet is reading attachment theory and figuring out what your attachment style is and how it relates to you feeling like you need sex to feel security in a relationship. You may also have some borderline personality disorder traits which would align with my first point as dissociation is a big BPD signal. So is feelings of abandonment which can arise from rejection of any kind. Your past begging now actions that align with people … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this.Depends. There are a lot of reasons why. Some regard kids (a ineffective reason in my opinion) others they don’t feel they can find someone else or someone better. They may even feel it be someone worse. Some have made peace with their life and are content just going through the motions. Others in denial. The human mind has many ways to justify a given circumstance. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on this.Stockholm’s syndrome is a real thing. The name was literally named after the event that caused it to be real and there is tons of evidence proving this. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?That said I do not think charisma in command is RP. There advice on many things is highly useful. Also the reason why it works is cause they are attracting very specific types of women which tend to be very damaged and or very toxic because that’s the mindset they have. Most if not all healthy women will run from you like the plague. My best advice stop trying to get women learn what is truly true to you and go from there. Or use there tactics but don’t complain when your shit gets lit on fire. … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | What are alternatives to learning social skills or talking to women?Enrol in an acting class, especially an accredited one and ask to play confident/lover roles. 1: You learn about physical perception in relation to your audience 2: You learn about the psychology behind confidence and how to create it on stage 3: Depending on your scene partners comfort level you get physical experience 4: You learn about tonality tempo rhythm sound of voice 5: You learn about the essence of all human interaction and conflict 6: You learn about tension push pull give and take pr… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/21 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.The second one is what I am getting at which is similar to the first. Also a lot of reason the law of attraction seems to not work with people is that they think by simply believing and doing the work it will get you there. But you also need to trust the process and you also need to remove yourself from the wanting aspect. If you want something you simply produce the wanting of that thing because you are telling your subconscious that and your subconscious tends to produce what you tell it. So y… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/21 12:11 PM |
| 6 | What's are the pros and the cons of showing your S/LTR on social media? Is that a DHV?Personally, I think it depends what your sexuality type is. If you are non monogamous (like me) then you are probably ok with posting photos of those you love or saying you love care about them on social media. Basically free to do what you want. If you are a monogamous person one big thing people like about monogamy is this idea of ownership. This is my man. This is my girl. They’ll post pictures add statuses especially if they view themselves as an item or exclusive couple. It’s not my cup of … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.We are just going to have to agree to disagree. And you may say you are the biggest non victim person here but I can see your mindset and the words you use and you still have a lot of areas of negative (guided as a realist) thinking in my opinion that relate to being a victim. The fact that you had to mention that you aren’t one proves to me this as well. You are clearly projecting. The fact that you try to project your own views on what is right wrong, ass backwards is a good proof to this. The… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/21 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.Well you may be on to something here then. What would you call it? Abs why? Is it cause LOA has been warped to mean what it isn’t? A lot of people also think on LOA believing is enough. It’s not, you ha e to put the proper work in by learning what worked for others and emulating it. It’s still lots of work and hard work for that matter. But I am curious what you would call it? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.I’m pretty sure Spudd Webb was around your height. He wasn’t your size though so you may have a claim there. But if you lost the weight and did what is required you could do it. Assuming your quite young. And again starving children in Africa is not what LOA is about. When a child becomes old enough to get out of the situations that they were brought up in (And yes many have done that, even starving in third world) then they can create the reality they choose. LOA is not wishful thinking. You st… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.I’m not sure it’s so astrology based considering nearly every single elite person on this planet follows this mindset and has experienced success. Plus science has proven your perception of something is also a big factor of success. There are even concepts that we believe are accurate and follow this. The idea of rose coloured glasses. The idea of growth mindset. The fact that you feel the way you think and you project what you feel. These are all scientifically backed claims. The growth mindset… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | I know this sub disagrees with a lot of stuff on theredpill but does this not seem like great advice?It is like any tool. Moderation is key, especially in a society filled with abs growing up on easy access abs abundance. Internet is great. It has given us the ability and opportunity to be as smart as we want as social as we want. The downside is, due to huge releases in dopamine people become addicted and the companies of social media are proven to feed their addictions by using algorithms to bring up content that hooks you. That is where most people dwell in. Time wasting, procrastinating, ne… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.Some very good points here. I was speaking more of people like rp minded or bo minded. Basically reverse extreme feminism etc. The ones heavily rooted in the victim mindset. And yes there is scientific evidence that the brain or responses to it is effected by mental illness/personality disorders. I for one have ocd and bpd and I overcame both of those in 2 sessions of 6 month dbt therapy and 4 years of expanding on it and learning about it. Thus I know people with ocd tend to have bigger amygdal… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.From one of my textbooks. Psychology professor Dr. Martin Seligman developed the theory of learned optimism, which evolved from his study of how individuals react to adversity—the inevitable setbacks and failures that everyone experiences in life. His research illustrates how optimistic and pessimistic world views affect the ability to persist and succeed:24 Reactions to bad things follow the ABCs: Adversity happens, and your thoughts about it create Beliefs, which give rise to Consequences—what… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.What well based scientific evidence am I dismissing? I did not dismiss anything? If you are talking about things relating to the victim mindset, I said I disagree with it , but I understand why people have it. Especially in the shit show that is society today. And I did not say being a victim is someone's fault. It's not your fault for what bad shit life throws at you... BUT IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AND YOURS ALONE to get the help. No amount of justice, or vengeance is going to heal whatever ba… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.It’s only those things if you perceive it is. And that is the point. Pain suffering victim hood is all a matter of perception and lasts as long as YOU want it to. Change your perception and you change your view of those things. I been through a lot of shit, enough to consider me being a victim but I’m not. In fact I detest the ideas of victim hood or victim mindset. I understand it but I do not agree with it. Cause I been there at one point. And realized all the things I’m saying did it abs it w… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.It’s quite simple. You have an event. If you have not had a similar event you generate emotions and thoughts images relating to this event. If you have had a similar event, you relate back to those thoughts feelings emotions and images you had the first time you experienced it.if you continue to have similar events you continue to have the same emotional memory of the events. This is your perception. Once you have a perception you tend to develop a mind set (meaning your mind is literally set on… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 03:55 PM |
| -4 | Your mindset is EVERYTHING when it comes to dating.Dr. Andrew Huberman from Huberman labs along with other Dr. Have proven it. Look at their research. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Why Maslow was semi right.Well I overcame that type of ocd.I also had high bpd traits but overcame those as well. My biggest tool for doing them is reframing and flipping the thought. So say I get a thought about harming someone. I flip it and say Thank you ocd for letting me know that I should note harm this person. Also thank you for letting me know a big fear this person may have with interacting with me as well. I love it when you help me with my life ocd. You are such a good thing to have keep it up. I know it sound… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Why Maslow was semi right.Oh wow that is quite interesting. One of my goals in psychology is to understand the negative side of humanity, especially because of my intrusive thought related ocd. I always wanted to figure out how people could do the things I feared the most in my own mind. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Why Maslow was semi right.I had no idea Forensics had Psychiatry. Ever cool. Btw did you watch all of forensic files. My mother and I love that show. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Why Maslow was semi right.Are you in the field as well? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Why Maslow was semi right.Oh no I have other interests in psychology. My three main areas I have high interest in are clinical, child abs criminal, though relationships would be a good 4th one but I already do some of that on the side. But yeah I did not know that the hierarchy take situations into account. I’ll have to look into it more. Thank you. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 04:08 AM |
| 2 | If you all reverted back tomorrow with zero dating or sexual experience how do you think you would fair?Well as someone who was quite popular with the popular boys and used grey rock theory with the popular girls because of my ocd and fear I will act out my intrusive thoughts, I never hid my virginity. Even in the last year of it at 23. I also was not worried about being a virgin cause I bought a sex you at 18 and used it and porn where women got off along with a shit ton of sexual education as tools to learn. And like anything else in life practice does make perfect. (I made a more elaborate long… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | How to communicate weakness or vulnerability to womenRead it to find out but TLDR is what you find triggering to you is based on you. She did not see it in the way you are seeing it. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | First step to sexual freedom, figure out your sexuality and relationship style.Most is not all. There are some people who truly believe and thrive in only having one partner and it is not because society parents or other indoctrination institutions we engage in taught them that. Some people (though much rarer today) believe firmly in the one to the core of their soul. And we can’t fault or shame or criticize people for doing that just cause it rarely works out for others. It’s their life and their choice. Certainly do teach the pros and cons of each type of relationship st… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/21 12:58 PM |
| 0 | How to communicate weakness or vulnerability to womenIf you think it is then so will it be. But if you think it is I would not say it to you because you are the type of person to view it that way and view it quite hurtful. And I try my best not to hurt people which is why I have a high level of understanding of human behaviour and how we operate. But this person was not you. She thought it was hilarious and loved it. We are still good friends today because we made a great connection and had many great moments in life. And this is my point. Everyth… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/21 06:58 PM |
| 3 | First step to sexual freedom, figure out your sexuality and relationship style.It’s only sex addiction if you think it is. And if you think it is than it is not your lifestyle and that is ok, you do you. But I’m not going to have you or anyone else try and project and tell me what I am and why I am that way and try and get me to Shane or judge myself for it. I am who I am and I love and accept it. You have a problem with that, find a way to cope with it cause nothing you say or do is going to change my view of my sexuality. My sexuality my choice. Even if laws are put in p… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/21 03:53 AM |
| -1 | How to communicate weakness or vulnerability to womenI don’t. Where did I say I did? I was relating an experience I had with one of my girlfriends when she was working out at home. My lord do people actually do this at the gym? 🤦♂️ I don’t cold approach unless I am networking and advertising my theatre company and trying to gain interest sell tickets get more research in it. And I make that known from the start. And I only approach women when doing this and not men because women bring in the men so why would I waste my time pitching to an audienc… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Someone explained demisexuals to meThank you for your feedback and perspective on my view on this. I got a lot of casonova friends from back in my school days and some I tell this to always say, Nah you got to be spontaneous and just go for it and take her. Like alpha style. And I try and explain you are going to do that once with sec assault survivor and be put in a very bad predicament. And being 1/4 are victims of this it won’t take long. They don’t understand that by telling a women what you will do to her later on in a confi… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How to communicate weakness or vulnerability to womenLastly if a women says oh you being insecure you being weird you being something that she perceived is weak, I actually say I am what I am embrace the weakness and actually encourage her to do the same. What? Simple, when people criticize they are actually pointing out things they tend to criticize in themselves. When someone says something is weak it’s 9/10 times because they were told by someone they valued that behaviour was weak in themselves and are not ok with it. So to prevent it or thems… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/21 10:49 PM |
| -2 | How to communicate weakness or vulnerability to womenOf course there are positive reinforcement examples do. Here are some. When I see a women I find attractive working out I’ll say, Babe I love the fact that you are getting in better shape and improving yourself each and everyday. It turns me on knowing I have a partner that values taken care of themselves as much as you do. I can’t lie either. It also makes me want to create our own version of this workout porn I saw. You keep this up I might drop my pants and start stroking and grab you from be… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 3 | How to communicate weakness or vulnerability to womenVulnerability and emotions are not weakness, they are part of the human condition which is normal and healthy to express, in amounts in context to the situation. Vulnerability is simply the ability to open up and communicate the pats of yourself you may not be ok with or think others will judge you for. Emotion is a tool your brain uses to move you into action. It is in the name e-motion. Sadly too many people see the level of emotion in film other media and feel that is an appropriate amount of… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/21 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Someone explained demisexuals to meThe key for women to take it well is to understand her and the key to understanding any women at any time is to put yourself in her shoes as an individual and stop viewing women as a separate category but rather an individual as the concept of having a self, is problematic at best and destructive at worse. We are all people with our own wants needs desires. Biology plays a role but very small unless a person has needs deficiencies for long periods of time or for major needs, in which case the br… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Someone explained demisexuals to meWomen have every right to have their guard up. Men also have the same. Thus it would be very beneficial that to achieve all we want in life we operate through transparency and authenticity. I tell women everything I’m going to do to them to make them feel safe and comfortable around me so they’ll fully be themselves. But it’s not boring or predictable because of how I do it. Like kiss test, here’s mine. If I’m feeling her. “I am having such a great time. You keep this up and I’m going to kiss yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/21 03:31 PM |
| -10 | Someone explained demisexuals to meFuck what others think, unless they are helping you on your way. Do you. Last time a girl laughed at me when I told her my sexuality (non monogamous) and she said “Oh so you are a man whore who prefers quantity over quality) I said, Well I guess you won’t see how effective it is to share my love with all people in the bedroom. I then got up walked away and she came back and said she was kidding and the rest is history. A lot of women laugh to test your character. Others are being playful and oth… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/21 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Testing and vetting.It’s almost as if once you cross a certain line of conducting horrible behaviour on others not only do you not go back but tend to go further into it. Possibly the brain thinks, I am already in the thick of it so why not go deeper. Science has proven especially with sex trafficking that the body and mind can only handle so much until it starts to develop unorthodox ways of protecting itself like Stockholm syndrome dissociation etc. So it would make sense the same truth is found in abusers as wel… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about Red Pillers or guys in general who say that women are and should be submissive?A lot of people don’t understand submissiveness. People confuse it with control abd if a person does not want to be controlled but loves you they will go along until they get oppressed depressed let themselves go or if they were originally confident they will run with you until they feel kicked like a dog a d they will attack you in some way. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/21 02:27 AM |
| 1 | My post was put unauthorized onto mgtow, check out the comment sectionAge is only an issue if you believe you only have one life to live. When you realize or change your belief to you have all life to live you realize you’ll be young again one day. You may even be the opposite sex. Embrace your age. Embrace the qualities that come with it. You are only the way you are as you last perceived yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Testing and vetting.Well trauma and bad experiences are only as traumatic, hurtful and negatively life altering as you choose them to be. Working towards becoming a therapist has taught me that. Wish I would have known it a long time ago though for sure. But then would I know it now and have the amazing life I have if I didn’t have those experiences? Would I be better off in ways that are superficial to me instead of ways that are fruitful perhaps. But like spilt milk we should probably not cry over cartons. As for… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Testing and vetting.Thank you for the response. With regards to women, I’m not like many of any other red pill men to be honest. I have been very blessed in my life to have tons of amazing women. My closest role models in my life have been my grandmothers all who have passed who have given me tremendous amount of love. My mother has also been a top caring women in my life. Despite also being by far the most toxic women in my life. How can she be both? Simple, she is diagnosed with borderline personality disorder an… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/21 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Yes, the RedPill is fake. But...If you have any doubt negative feelings or any part of you that feels you are not a monogamous person than I’d say 99.9% of the time you aren’t. And that is ok. It’s perfectly fine. Society and others may see differently but it’s not their life to live. If you are interested further hit up the bdsm/alternative relationship communities in your area. You may find some awnsers you seek there. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Yes, the RedPill is fake. But...If you are a monogamous person (which I am mot) and are healthy then yes you can find someone and live happily ever after. If you are not a monogamous person you may feel Oppressed and get depressed and let yourself go like I did because that is not your sexuality. You may also be like me in the sense that you temporarily date monogamous people while making it known from the start that you are not monogamous and that no one will most likely change you into being so but you still enjoy the compan… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Testing and vetting.Some very good points here. I don’t think I mean testing the way they mean it because for starters I always see value in someone where as they don’t. I also do not judge people or view people as bad or good or any other label. I view actions as the root of all problems and the act of thinking is very big action we need to work on more. And like physical actions you can have very negative one concept thinking. I also always give someone a trial period so to speak but I don’t say “do this don’t do… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Testing and vetting.There is a difference between being a therapist and being a partner. I very much am on the same wave length with you on that. I only offer actual therapeutic help to people if they ask for it. If the needy person says they are fine being needy etc when they point it out I agree they are fine. There is nothing wrong with neediness. I simply don’t work well in a romantic setting with needy people and rather be their friend then to try make it work, eventually get pissed when the neediness escalate… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Testing and vetting.Is evaluation not testing? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 05:02 PM |
| -1 | Testing and vetting.Hmm some good points and observations here. I will have to reflect on this and figure out a different way to get my intentions across in a healthy manner. As for the psychology aspect, modern psychology actually promotes healthy pushing and testing people through reframing and giving people other perspectives and options to try. Especially behavioural and clinical psychology. Perhaps a better way is if I see neediness point it out see where it comes from and then offer what the neediness is look… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 04:58 PM |
| -5 | Testing and vetting.Appreciate your feedback. However It would probably do you a great service in life that when you offer advice not to start with telling someone what to do. And then later saying grow out of it. That said, perhaps clarity is needed. For neediness, If someone shows lots of signs of neediness I am going to temporarily cut contact to see how they respond. I do this for a few reasons. First, I distance myself because I need to know that despite their neediness or clinginess they will be ok without me… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Testing and vetting.Why is testing people wrong? Why are tactics wrong? Perhaps clarity is needed. This article does a good example of what I am trying to say here. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201109/why-dating-often-fails-and-how-you-can-succeed | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Testing and vetting.Well if you have ever dated an abuser, this would be a good thing to have. See people think abusers and people who value themselves and have standards and preferences etc are They really are not. One does it from a place of self love value and and protection. The other as manipulation and control of the other. Same tactics different reason and it is the reason that can be problematic not the tactics. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Letting go of hatredYou are probably writing this to confess to realize to understand that in the past you did some bad things, but that’s ok. It is normal. It is human nature to do bad things. What is not ok is after realizing it to continue doing so. It not only harms others, but it harms yourself because you know better but keep doing it. So aim for change but also realize change has relapse almost all the time. That said, the comment about women having anxiety more than men can be true, and is from this persons… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Testing and vetting.Lying: It would do you a great service to look up how professional bullshit seekers operate to find the bullshit so that the minute you think someone is lying you can spot the lies. If someone fails this test in my opinion I point it out to them to see why. If it’s for a genuine reason, etc, I accept it and I say though I don’t appreciate being lied to I understand, however if lying continues it’s going to cause issues for me most likely leading to the end of the relationship maybe even friendsh… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Testing and vetting.Id live to, but it rarely works especially during the testing and vetting phase of the relationship because people lie some better than others and so people’s words in the beginning (especially if you have valid facts to believe them) are worthless. It’s not wasting time if you meet someone and it does not work out. It is a conflict of interest. Also I make it very clear what I’m looking for in the beginning by communicating my interest and my boundaries personal preferences. Plus I never fully … | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Former MGTOWs how did you snap out of it?CGA preaches free agent lifestyle. No cohabitation, no marriage no long term relationships and I’ve added personally, you can have multiple short term relationships and that’s different then playing the field because most players lie or hide, I don’t. I tell my partners straight up first convo these are my wants and if you are still interested that is great. If you are not, that’s great we can still be friends. And when partners stay and they give me the relationship vibe, I tell them again, you… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Former MGTOWs how did you snap out of it?Thank you for responding. Some great points here. First for law, how’s this then. All marriages will have a marriage contract as usual only each marriage decides what the terms in case of divorce are inside it. And this contract can’t be thrown out of court because it will be done in front of witness who will write a testimonial stating no “duress” was had. Also no alimony but rather a 50/50 split at the time of separation. This does not include pension or any income that was earned after or bef… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Looking at the red pill message in a clear lens using the power of inversion thinking.The first step is the essence of red pill the main message, what is the overall theme? Well It’s women have a very dark nature and if given the chance can hurt you use you etc, but not if you are or are insert whatever masculine dating strategy you want. A pretty harmful message. Definitely. Let’s clear it up. First let’s take women out and put people in. What does it say? People have a very dark nature and can... Well people don’t. We are born out of love. But people do change and if they exper… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 05:26 AM |
| 4 | Former MGTOWs how did you snap out of it?Are you trying to scrap the entire philosophy out? Or just specific parts? Is there any good or lessons or anything to take away from what they are saying? And if so, how can you turn it into a positive thing. Example, no cohabitation or marriage because women are—- becomes, no cohabitation or marriage until the government and law removes itself from them. Overweight women have red flags, no value, etc becomes,a women that does not value their health is a conflict of interest in dating but still… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend broke up with me. Randomly ghosts me for a week then sends me this. Says she still wants to be friends. Did she find someone hotter and is just keeping me on the backburner or is this real.Do you have any evidence in your relationship to prove that what she is saying is accurate or inaccurate based on the facts? This is now the time to reflect and try to put the pieces together. Pm me, I will help if you like. That said, give her space, live your life and when you find you do not need her the most, she’ll probably come back. Ironically that is how the universal law of attraction works. Want money, give what you can away and appreciate it and do not expect for anything in return an… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Part 2: Best Thing of RedpillSome very good points here. Going to have to reflect on this as what I wanted to say did not come across well. I was talking more like a collective conscious and the very real evidence that in a higher realm we are all one, but you made some | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 04:13 AM |
| 1 | The difference between effective long term relationships and ineffective ones.The law of attraction is simple but miraculous. If you want something be thankful for what you currently have, then practice not “needing” the thing you want and it or something similar will come back to you. And it works with anything. I was having hand issues with possible carpel tunnel. I started fearing it and my symptoms increased. Finally I said you know what I’m perfectly healthy and have the power to heal myself. And if I had carpel tunnel it’s ok. (This is why I only get sick about a da… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/20 01:52 AM |
| 2 | I don't know if I'll ever stop being misogynisticThat’s because there is no such thing called self or even personality. There are personality traits but they don’t make a self. The bhudda said it best. “If you find you have a self, you’d probably do well without having one so get rid of it” You are a person like anyone else built in a biological sex of male and or female wrapped in some DNA but constantly evolving in a ton based on how you perceive, interpret what you perceive, and then act on. This is evident in the truth that how you see you… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/20 02:00 AM |
| 1 | I think im relapsingAs someone learning to be a therapist, unless you have an extreme will power I would not recommend quitting something addictive fully. Like any addiction you have to ween off it and transfer your addiction into a healthy habit. Relapse is the goal not the pre enticing is something therapists say because you will most likely relapse when trying to change. It’s what you do after said relapse that counts. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Fitness RP Youtuber Slammed on TikTokThe idea is accurate, the delivery is piss poor. So many people need to learn how powerful language can be in terms of what you say and how others will perceive it. The idea that if people waste your time or do anything you don’t like or you refuse to put up with or might be a deal breaker/conflict of interest in your life (wasting time for me is pretty much number one in the beginning of courtship)then yes, you should make that known as well as what are the reprecautions will be if they continu… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about Corey Wayne?I don’t think he is RP or at least the toxic part of it. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about Corey Wayne?His book is pretty straight forward. Part one is all about dating and part two is all about keeping your partner (I say partner and not women because when reading dating material I try and see if the material’s advice works for other people and his does. In dating it is more effective to listen with skepticism and test what you think is inauthentic. It is also good to make note of red flags and also find out if they were a past red flag or current one. If they broke up with an ex for instance, h… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Feminism Addresses Many Insecurities TRP ManipulatesI don’t think all societies would collapse to be honest. If everyone realized that in various ways we are all one and when we shift are way of thinking we can accomplish great feats some that have been done before. Money controls most of us because the people who have it fear losing what they have because the have nots are constantly bashing them and wanting their governments to get on board to take more from them. But the universe has specific laws in place and taking to give does nothing work.… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | The Reality of sole single parents in needs deficient mindsets.So a new planet collective consciousness? Agreed. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/20 01:37 AM |
| -6 | Feminism Addresses Many Insecurities TRP ManipulatesWell your first problem is you believe world leaders actually run the world and yet we live in a capitalism society. Government, all government is a joke for the most part of history. A veil to disguise who really influences and runs the world which are industries. If this is true why then when new parties enter the ring and get elected very little change is made and if so it’s usually followed by an assasin action or removal of the person in office, especially if they go after big business? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/20 01:28 AM |
| -2 | Feminism Addresses Many Insecurities TRP ManipulatesAnd so does the gynocracy. But the one that influences everyone the most is the richiarchy in my opinion. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/20 01:18 AM |
| -9 | Feminism Addresses Many Insecurities TRP ManipulatesThere is no patriarchy. There is a richiarchy though. And it’s been this way since industrialization era. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | The Reality of sole single parents in needs deficient mindsets.It is only better (though I’d say the more effective word here than better is effective” to have a single parent whom can play both roles. But even then the kids will feel abandonment and other issues with only having one parent. In most cases two parents are better. The reality is people do need to pick better people to mate with from a parent perspective and until the capitalism stage if you can’t afford children or are considered financially unstable it be wise to not have any or move to a pa… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/20 11:19 PM |
| 5 | THE PICK UP AUTISTWell there’s nothing wrong with being a sigma male, or someone who follows their own path and don’t care what others think of it. Also making fun of the autistic community on a self help sub Reddit is not really good thing to do. Plus you are also making fun of people who have no looks no skills with women. Major point here is if you are posting things like this you are simply doing the things you hate about RP people to RP people. So why do it? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/20 10:46 AM |
| 2 | THE PICK UP AUTISTCan we not make another sub? One that is more monitored? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/20 10:41 AM |
| 2 | The Reality of sole single parents in needs deficient mindsets.Very much so Indeed. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/20 10:39 AM |
| 1 | The Reality of sole single parents in needs deficient mindsets.I think that is a very effective thing too and something single parents have a harder time to do then a couple more so on the children’s part for various developmental reasons. Personally I think more in care giving providing roles which is hard for children to have in a single parent because children have a hard time differentiating between the roles we play as parents especially if they are opposites like discipline care. Hence the creation of triple p parenting. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | The Reality of sole single parents in needs deficient mindsets.Well thank you for your honesty. If you need clarity on something let me know and I will do so. As for children are you saying here that people should stay in relationships for children’s sake and relationships become mandatory instead of complimentary? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/20 03:44 AM |
| 1 | The Reality of sole single parents in needs deficient mindsets.I personally try to not categorize people as good or bad. More so in this case effective at complimenting your life as appose to Ineffective as the essence of a relationship is the merging of two into one in a way that provides and compliments your life not revolves around it. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/20 02:26 AM |
| 1 | How an exredpilled handle compliments?I was not replying to your comment but op original post. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/20 09:19 PM |
| 0 | The Reality of sole single parents in needs deficient mindsets.If you had food consistently and shelter consistently without fear of losing those or your parents having to do more than what is normally needed to maintain those needs then your family would not be in a need deficiency. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How an exredpilled handle compliments?Look up positive reinforcement psychology, if you want to continue getting rewards and increase in quality and quality Tory of them. (compliments, etc) | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | The Reality of sole single parents in needs deficient mindsets.That’s great to hear. Curious, would you say you Grew up above, below or just under the family poverty line? Because if your father was well off had resources loved their job life, etc then it is a much less toll on the body physically mentally and spiritually then say a father with needs deficiencies. Also if you are the only child then again it’s much easier. I could watch one kid no problem. But you start adding more than one the difficulty increases by two then four then six. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | The Reality of sole single parents in needs deficient mindsets.That’s true also a lot of things not mentioned too. Some I may not know or remember at the time posting this. But I view my posts as dialogues were people are encouraged to contribute. So thank you for contributing. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | First timer surprisedWhy do you feel the need to make fun of this person? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Promiscuity can be a problematic trait in people.Not just avoidance of self but usually to cope with abuse or not being able to accept yourself or your actions. A lot of reasons why people do this but it almost always stems from some fear of some kind as all negative emotion stems from fear either realized unrealized or imagined. A lot of promiscuity of people with low self worth tends to come down to fear of losing love or being rejected so they will usually do something they’ll regret later to keep someone etc. That’s just one of many exampl… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Promiscuity can be a problematic trait in people.Just because something is harder does not mean it has the same effect. As someone who has been best friends and regarded some ladies men like my brothers I can tell you the effect of sleeping with a lot of people (unless it is an expression of your love and sexuality) has the same effect on a man as a women. There is no difference. The quantity of partners might be higher but both react the same way. There are certain clear laws of cause and effect in the world. It would do you a very big servic… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Why women like "bad boys" ?!Well that’s usually what a nice guy is. Everyone has a specific dating strategy and a way to get their needs met. A lot of it has to do with attachment theory and the type of one of 5 attachment styles you have. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/12/20 11:49 PM |
| 3 | What’s your thoughts on Twitch Banning the words Simp, Incel and Virgin?Simple they did it to keep making money. If they really wanted to protect men they would implement donation caps/daily limits and remove non gaming content period. But that would severely harm their bottom line. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/20 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Why women like "bad boys" ?!A nice guy is the worser of two evils because nice guys base their personality on what others want not themselves. Bad boys have a bad personality but they actually have one unlike nice guys. Most healthy people will never pass up on a good man. Someone who is a mix between nice and bad without the harming traits But lots of unhealthy people will pass up on quality people either through self sabotage or feelings of not being good enough for them etc. Bottom line if you are trying to figure out h… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Do redpillers/incels lurk here?Tfl/ta? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Is there a WGTOW Women going there own wayAh ok. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Is there a WGTOW Women going there own wayJesus the terminology is getting a bit out of hand. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 3 | "Be someone you'd want to date" is just manipulated in TRPStep one remove your self worth from others view of you. Step two remove yourself worth from yourself and learn to love and appreciate the journey you are on. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/20 06:24 PM |
| 2 | The Duality of love and Fear and the Myth of Unconditional Love.Look at Andrew Huberman’s work. Love can be quite complex I agree. We may be both right on some level depending on our definitions of unconditional love which to me is the essence of creation because that is the highest form of it. Either way curious to see what theories you have in the future. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Is there a WGTOW Women going there own wayYou don’t like what? My question? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | A rant on a weird MGTOW/TERPER user I discoveredWhat is a terper? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Is there a WGTOW Women going there own wayTerfs and swerfs meaning? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Is there a WGTOW Women going there own wayKnow where I can start in that community? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Post: The Best thing About The Red Pill and It Is Not What You Think.I never considered sociology. I’m in psychology right now. And loving it. Especially studying the darker side of personality. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/20 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Are there any aspects of TRP that have stuck with you, or were ultimately beneficial?The problem is not the message but the delivery and context of it. The context of what they talk about are people who are unhealthy and have a lot of traits you should t consider being friends with let alone in relationship or dating. But they are not just women. Men other genders do it too. Depending on the situation everyone can be like that. Everyone can use, manipulate, lie abuse, steal, murder, rape, pillage, etc etc etc. If the given circumstances are called to do so. Their theories align … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/20 04:13 AM |
| 1 | The Duality of love and Fear and the Myth of Unconditional Love.Do you have scientific proof to this? This theory is based in science specifically Psychology and neuroscience. Both fields have proven the link to fear and love and how out of one can breed another. Just like how each one can motivate you. You can be motivated out of fear or love. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/12/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | The Reality of Hypergamy in people.Every breakup I’ve had I seen it coming so spot on there. It’s funny though some even after breaking up are still quite connected to us like my ex who is the mother of my four children. We just met up this weekend for some fun and it’s like nothing was between us. We just aren’t the greatest as a couple (very toxic and incompatible for some reason) but make great co parenting parents sexual partners. And we been to court for custody child support and I don’t pay table. All things RP people would… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/20 03:13 AM |
| 2 | "Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering." -YodaYes, however another factor that people forget that RP tend to use to counter is "What about the hot guy at the foam cannon party and the loving wife who does him everyway from Sunday" To which I have a very accurate answer in science. The brain cannot differentiate the difference between one need severely lacking over a long period of time. This is why I have a hard time with the idea of settling for someone and that eventually you will fall madly in love. Though it does happen, usually when it… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | "Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering." -YodaWell from my research study and experience (Working towards becoming a Psychologist) Negative traits are actually hard wired in biology/human nature and in the realm of fear. One of my biggest experiments or theories I want to prove is that love (the opposite of fear) is actually the traits associated more with a higher realm of consciousness (what some call super subconscious, metaphysical, the zone, matters closest to our heart or truly make us feel we are doing or being who we are etc) and re… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/20 10:52 PM |
| 6 | "Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering." -YodaIt starts before fear. It starts as worry and even then it starts as a limiting belief put into your head by someone else or your environment. So the full cycle is you do something you feel is your true self, you get a thought or get a criticism by someone else, you worry that this criticism of yours is true, you then somehow believe it is and become fearful, you act out of fear to avoid or confront it, or control it and you usually fail as your thought process becomes a self fulfilling prophecy… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How overcome a Redpill Man?I have. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Part 1: The Traits in highly attractive and successful individuals.It’s not that they are good at it. It’s that they are good at displaying it to people who view or act as victims or people who lack in the self confidence self worth self efficacy department. Also because people tend show their best self in 90 days of relationships people tend go into them with rose colour glasses and putting them on pedestals etc. When you know what to ask and tests to use to fish out potential abusers they stick out just like any other person with a ton of red flags or problem… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/20 03:37 AM |
| 1 | How overcome a Redpill Man?Are you looking for advice or are you looking to have a back and forth dialogue to explore the reasons why this person has effected you so much or perhaps both? I’m a first year Psychology student studying to be a clinical psychologist and would love to help regardless of what you are looking for. PM if you like. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/20 03:23 AM |
| 1 | I know I said I’d be posting everyday.I’m not sure how you got that from my posts. I never been red pilled. I’m on here to gain insight and research and am actually learning to become a Psychologist. Not sure how my posts relate to being victimized? If it’s cause I speak about my past or about my flaws that’s nothing to do with victim hood but factulisation. But if it is coming across like I’m a victim I’m curious why that is as it would be something I’d like to change. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/20 03:11 AM |
| 7 | How did you get your life back and fully undo the negative effects of following trp?The same way you got into it is how you get out of it? Slowly disprove the theories and slowly implement thoughts that replace those beliefs. Example, all women are trash. Seek out proof of women who aren’t next time you think all women are trash implement not all but some. Continue until you feel free. For more detail on this read the four agreements. It explains how to deprogram and reprogram yourself and is a very good read. It’s also a big part of my studies as a Psychologist as all negative… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | How to Never Get Friend Zoned Again (4 Rules You Need to Follow). | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the worst mistruths spread by redpillers, particularly ones that would be useful to share with someone who is "redpilled"?If you take care of your body you’ll age like water. If you don’t, you’ll age like milk. And if your realize you are aging like milk you can reverse aging by doing the opposite and being grateful of the process. Look up ex Mob Boss Michael Francheze if you don’t believe me. (Especially age 30 and 70 something) | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/20 06:10 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the worst mistruths spread by redpillers, particularly ones that would be useful to share with someone who is "redpilled"?Yes I see this now. I’m new to Reddit not sure of all it’s functions. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/20 06:07 AM |
| 5 | What is the red pillTylenol Extra Strength. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/12/20 01:48 AM |
| 2 | What are some of the worst mistruths spread by redpillers, particularly ones that would be useful to share with someone who is "redpilled"?How can you see post history? Inquiring for my book regarding my posts. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 8 | What are some of the worst mistruths spread by redpillers, particularly ones that would be useful to share with someone who is "redpilled"?Walls exist. I have four in bedroom. 🤣🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | NSFW: The myth of last minute resistance and ways to make consent hella sexy.Nor have you provided any evidence showing how you formed this opinion, possibly because you had success yet you are on this forum for what reason? To call the rest of us Cucks and feel more manly? To discuss your experience? To prove you are better? To act in another way out of fear you have of being wrong on the matter or to help? Or to discredit my words because they triggered you and possibly made you guilty for believing in this concept and using it? Which if so it is understandable you’d f… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | NSFW: The myth of last minute resistance and ways to make consent hella sexy.So you are judging me and my ability to Understand women and consent based on my current professional goal and not knowing any of my experience with woman nor experience with understanding human nature by through actual physical experiences and behavioural studies such as being in a top tier acting program and engaging socially and physically with women (sometimes intimately on a daily basis, nor understanding that lived with various women who were sexually asssulted and confirmed these findings… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/20 07:33 PM |
| 3 | NSFW: The myth of last minute resistance and ways to make consent hella sexy.Well that is your perspective of what I wrote based on your experiences. I have a different one based on mine. And perhaps it is different scenarios but some men (Especially in the Manosphere) have no clue on how to attract women or how to see clear signs that consent is not given. I see it all the time and hear it from other women I help with dealing with this, including women I have had relations in the passed. Plus I been studying behaviour for over 10 years in the for of acting and just rece… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/20 11:12 AM |
| 1 | NSFW: The myth of last minute resistance and ways to make consent hella sexy.My mother is sex trafficking survivor. I have also been abused this way. The last thing I’d ever want to do is harm another like this. But I understand d your concern and fear for sure and apologize if I indirectly caused you some trauma which can happen with sensitive subjects. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/20 05:00 AM |
| 2 | NSFW: The myth of last minute resistance and ways to make consent hella sexy.Now I know what you are thinking, you said make consent sexy. Well here are some ways too. Consent games. Like a date should be fun you should aim for fun sex. Even the roughest sex is fun. (I should know I’m into bdsm) Here are some great back and forth games to play. (A little graphic detail coming up) Kiss contest: see how long you can move each other’s faces closest together and not kiss or who kisses first loses. (Bonus points if they have e to do something) Body kissing contest. … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/20 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Part 1: The Traits in highly attractive and successful individuals.For sure. That one is in part 2. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Part 1: The Traits in highly attractive and successful individuals.Oh thank you for the compliment. I will try to post daily on here until I get into a habit and will then create a blog and move into a vlog then YouTube channel and so forth. A lot of my posts will be showing the red pill concepts and how on the surface they seem to make sense (especially if you recently been a victim of an ex etc) but when you dig deeper a lot of why they are what they are is circumstantial as people tend to become more biological in nature not because of biology or evolution, … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Part 1: The Traits in highly attractive and successful individuals.Oh I see. I agree accept the unconditionally part just because I still can’t grasp how some people can love others who consistently harm them or others they truly care about and fully be by their side, even if they been harmed that or a similar way themselves despite understanding why they do that. At that point if I lived someone like that I tend to love them from afar. I recently experienced that with my mother who is child sex trafficking survivor who only escaped by killing her captor. And t… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Part 1: The Traits in highly attractive and successful individuals.I didn’t think you are rude. I rarely find people rude to be honest. I genuinely wanted to hear your reasoning behind I guess and quite curious why you don’t think having a healthy relationship or supporting your partners purpose is not a purpose? My purpose for instance is to help others, or share a different perspective of how people see the world.l, which is why I’m a life coach and becoming a certified Psychologist. It’s only when we unhealthily serve others or do so to get something out of … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 5 | Part 1: The Traits in highly attractive and successful individuals.I’m simply sharing what’s really worked and been working for me. If you have a different experience view etc I’d love to hear it. You may even teach me or someone else a thing or to or show a different perspective on concepts relating to being an attractive individual. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on conversation?Actually you should be very logical when consuming content, especially content you disagree with. That is not Red Pill but common sense. Emotions are simply meant to motivate and move you to action. It is not meant the society shows it in movies television etc. It is not meant to overindulged in. Crying lightly and experiencing light emotion should be the goal of anyone. The scientific and Psychological facts to emotions proves this. People who are overly emotional and actually seek to be so in … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Redpill seems to ignore the concept of "gender" completely.I think from my perspective of what you are talking about here is more of an individualist approach to life in the sense that we all do things and develop things based on how we perceive and cope with others and our environment doing things back to us. To me, Gender is mostly a society concept by design and it is meant to control and dictate the mass population by the powers that be that really own and govern this planet by trying to hijack and warp our basic needs to serve their purpose. The ge… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Are we being fed a myth in toxic masculinity and femininity?But to understand women you have to be extremely empathetic and you also have to fully understand some concepts you may not fully understand unless you were a women in a past life sbd even then that time period is much different to today. But the best start to doing that is simply saying (especially with concepts you disagree with) if I was this person. Had their biology, their exact upbringing and coping to all their trauma etc how would I justify doing and being this way which is something I d… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Are we being fed a myth in toxic masculinity and femininity?Some very good points here and I agree with most of them especially the first one. My message was trying to not discredit the toxic masculinity veil but rather show it for what it is and I did not get that point across which means it is something I have to work on so I appreciate you for pointing that out. I have yet to find anyone to tell people what toxic genderism is fully nor have a healthy debate on this, which I’m thoroughly enjoying now. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.No it’s not ok to cheat. But you should understand why people do it then radically accept cheating happening to you so that you can effectively cope with that trauma, fully heal from it and move on. Because the reality is eventually someone will come into your life one way or another and fuck shit up wether you like it or not. And if they don’t, your environment or moments of life’s bullshit will because... The essence of life is transferring suffering into happiness and how you cope with it is … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 07:22 PM |
| -2 | Are we being fed a myth in toxic masculinity and femininity?No I think only you think everyone thinks this way. And how can you even say that? Are you God? Do you know what everyone thinks? It’s your perception that is relating this all or nothing thinking of no one thinks this way when in fact from my perspective and experience a lot of people do think this way and some even think worse because some people are very sadonistic in nature and want everyone to burn in a lake of fire for their enjoyment. But yes I agree. No one should treat others like piece… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 07:17 PM |
| -6 | Post of woman who went through a devastating break up, because her husband left her for a younger woman. Proof that hypergamy is stupid, and toxic people exist in both genders.It makes sense because if a person is unhappy they will seek happiness by either finding an out (moving on, branch seining, cutting ties) or creating one through dissociation of self, delusion (fantasizing about life with others) or acceptance of the status quo also known as living on auto pilot or letting yourself go. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 07:04 PM |
| -2 | Are we being fed a myth in toxic masculinity and femininity?No I read it. But I am saying a similar thing or trying to. Im saying what if the script was flipped? What if society treated men the way it treats women and women the way it treats men? Societies view of toxic femininity in women would be the same as their view of men’s now. And that is my point. Society wants you to think and believe it’s about toxicity of gender when that is the surface. The veil if you will that has been placed on society to control us in a way are rulers (and no it’s not go… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 06:59 PM |
| -2 | Are we being fed a myth in toxic masculinity and femininity?Well you can’t just say no. You need examples. Otherwise I’m going to disagree with you and think your opinion is not valid. Not to mention you are talking to someone who does not believe in right or wrong because those are subjective concepts based on your own perception and not rooted in reality. That said, so what about men is toxic? And if it is toxic and a female had those same traits how would it not be toxic to men? Shit how would it not be equal in the sense of true equality which is sim… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | What forums/sites/subreddits do you use for dating questions/advice?I’m currently making something like that right now and developing a YouTube channel that does everything the other dating YouTube channels do but from an individual perspective. I personally don’t see people as sex or gender. I see each person as their own individual and though biology and evolution does play a role it is only the surface. I will discuss how biology and evolution work especially in relation to nurture and nature and what we do to cope with it. I’m also working to become a licens… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | The Real Red Pill.We’re as Sadonists love to watch others suffer. They get joy out of it. Yes Bundt abd Dhalmer are perfect examples of Sadonists people. They go out of their way to harm others simply cause they want to not cause they did anything to them. While narcassist is only harm and hurt the ones that challenge their superiority just like borderlines only attack those who think they are going to abandon them. 3 different disorders, same situation same reaction but different reasoning for why they do it. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 05:50 PM |
| 2 | The Real Red Pill.Take Joe Erotic for example. Joe hated Carol but not because he wanted Carol to suffer cause he likes causing suffering. He hated her cause she kept challenging his veil of superiority. That’s were the hate and enjoyment comes from. You tried to find me out so I’m going to make you suffer because of it. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | The Real Red Pill.No that’s not narcissism that is sadonistic behaviour. Only Sandonists get pleasure from harming others. Also everyone has some abuse or traumatic traits towards their partners wether indirectly or directly. If they didn’t they would both be exactly the same. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | The Real Red Pill.Yes but all humans do this. All Humans that have unchecked high emotional responses to things that trigger them will do these things. All these things you mentioned for instance can be found in people who get triggered in politics for instance. What do people who hate trump call trump supporters? Racists, Bigots, etc. These are names, labels and in some ways put downs. The silent treatment is found people who have avoidant attachment and passive aggressiveness. In NPD It is usually a self defenc… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | The Real Red Pill.Give me one sadistic trait of narcissism and from personally studying these individuals and mentally helping them I will show you how it’s not sadistic and why they do it? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 05:29 PM |
| 2 | The Real Red Pill.See there is one thing believing in no one can love you unconditionally but yourself and no one will always be there for no matter what you do for yourself and at the end of the day you need to put yourself first (reality) and believing because of this you are the best in the world and everyone else is below you (delusion and the disorder part of NPD) I believe the first part but I don’t believe the second. I have flaws and am good in some areas and horrible in others, however I also believe any… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | The Real Red Pill.Narcissistic traits sure. But as someone who studies narcissistic personality disorder there is a lot of very harmful stigmatic and problematic viewpoints thinking of these very trauma ridden individuals. The whole point of the disorder is these people did not get their needs met and learned from a very young age that they can never rely on themselves and trust others so they need to feel superior and have a veil of superiority to themselves in order to protect themselves. They tend to be in the… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The Real Red Pill.I’ll check it out for sure. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | The Real Red Pill.No I have not watched it at all. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | The Reality of Hypergamy in people.But I also understand people are human, make mistakes and can change so I never fully discard someone. I give people second chances but only if they earn it and prove to me that they have changed. I do this through a 3 strike rule. I give someone 3 strikes to improve what I feel is bad disrespectful behaviour, if by 3 strikes they have not made any effort to improve or change the behaviour then I will consider the possibility of ending the relationship and making it a friendship etc. If they hav… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | The Reality of Hypergamy in people.If I was in this situation (which I have been) again than I would have already told my partner that if they cheat then it is an automatic open relationship with a very rare chance of it ever being closed (with that option only happening if they have done therapy) and if they do not like that then they are free to leave. If they do so and comeback then it will be restart over not right back to where we were. Though I understand how Hypergamy works I put the necessary barriers/boundaries in place … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | The Reality of Hypergamy in people.It’s not matter of living by these principles. it’s about understanding them and radically accepting them as part of life so when things like this happen you do t become more traumatized/hurt than you need to. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Just Wondering, Why Are You On This Subreddit?I am becoming a Psychologist and working on my own interpersonal relationship theory one that is rooted in individuality and actions rather than gender. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/20 07:09 PM |
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