If it comes from a place of want and not a place of need obligation or other forms of fear.

I do a lot of so called beta things in my relationship.

I am caring.

I listen.

I am interpersonal.

I provide.

But I don’t do these things cause I have to or I am obligated too or need to.

I do them cause I want to and cause the person deserves it.

But if anyone critiques that as being Beta or being a negative thing then rest assured they got a rude awakening coming with their ass out the door faster then their mouth can say sorry.

Anyone who tells you beta is weak when it comes from a place of want and desire is simply someone who is not for you. They cannot understand why Simone can live Simone that way which means they most likely damaged and need therapy themselves.

Just live and let live.

Be who you want because it’s what you want to be. Not because you think you have to be it.

That’s what being true to yourself and having integrity is.