need answers

Mh882130 · 2021-01-26T04:02:24+00:00

1: If money status power is important to you for your purpose it is great things to aspire to. If it is just to get women, you are basically doing the alpha nice guy strategy, getting to get. Thus you will attract like minded partners who view relationships as a transaction mot a compliment to someone’s life.

2: If you still view people as archetypes you are generalizing. Start viewing people as individuals instead.

3: Masculine frame again is doing things to get things from women using the illusion of power dominance etc. The thing is most powerful dominant people never have to be. Because they know You’d be much better off simply setting up and reinforcing boundaries with consequences which will show people how you want to be treated and earn you respect unless they don’t care about you, then it saves you a future headache.

4: To find your purpose create a mission statement, similar to that as a business statement. Think of it as if I woke up today snd had the ability to do and be anything what would it be. To truly do this you have to be true to yourself and know what you want for you. Thus you may need to be unplugged from society other people and your current and past environmental bs.

If a partner only cares about themselves then give them a mirror tell them that is their perfect and feature partner abs walk away or love from afar as people can change.

6: There are heavily flawed people in all genders abs all walks of life. Also there are people who aren’t like this but can do things similar to them and some people can turn into this type of people.

cvntcvntcvnt · 2021-01-26T05:59:15+00:00

Yo if you really wanna go life on hard mode, try not arguing against it anymore and instead connect with who you want to be as a person.

Ask yourself: “if I had all the women, money, status, friends, approval, etc, in the world, what would I do and how would I do it?”

Then realize that you can do all of those things right now.

Let go of being “right”, and let go of having (I.e. having girls, money, etc) and instead use what you really want to be as your guide.

This is the way. If you are ex red pill merely because other communities/theories have a better theoretical structure, you will lose that battle. It’s gotta come from something deeper.

Just my two cents, I wish you luck.

Stargazer1919 · 2021-01-27T19:07:42+00:00

Maybe you don't understand those things because they inherently don't make sense?

Oh wait, that's because the list of things you mentioned are all bullshit! That's good news, it means you don't have to worry about any of it.

Ukman_44 · 2021-02-03T12:30:23+00:00

The only item on your list that matters is #4. Forget about the rest, worrying about them is a waste of time.

Title	need answers
Author	zeroicemaze
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	January 26, 2021 3:11 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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