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Go to your lawyer...take her to court. It's not complicated. That is the only solution.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 06:50 PM
5

A man's power lies in his ability to cut someone out of his life without emotion. You are on the right track. She needs to be on the outside of the perimeter wall and be kept there.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 03:14 PM
6

Nobody can kick you out of a home with your name on it or one purchased during the marriage. Why did you allow that? Go home...take the police...explain to them that you LIVE THERE and show proof. They will explain it to her or you can just break in and go back to living where you have a right to live.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/24 06:27 PM
1

Court is about what can be proven via evidence. Be transparent to the court...and open/honest with the judge. Describer her delusions as delusional...and demand she prove her accusations via evidence. Demand receipts, proof, and documentation for everything she says.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 04:10 PM
2

Get a lawyer and file. Stand up and defend yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 03:58 PM
1

Eject now. This woman is a user and is cold. DO NOT STAY FOR YEARS...that benefits her and hurts you. ​ Think about what she is asking...to use you as a wage slave...while she is off with her affair partner. Why in the world would you stay for that?
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/23 05:41 PM
8

You did a lot of that to yourself by being emotional and immature. STOP contact with her. Zero contact. Zero drugs/alcohol. No social media at all...why do you even have TikTok? Delete it all and never post anything about your life. Do not talk to strangers.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/23 09:35 PM
39

Do you want her to teach you twice? It sounds like you need to be taught twice...
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 10:02 PM
3

Fight back. Seriously. Use your lawyer for what you pay them for...
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 04:40 PM
10

Never make a woman the center of your world. You are the center of your world and she comes into your frame- not the other way around. Find your center of gravity and make it what it should be. Gym, health, routine, schedule, organization, finance, vehicle, future plans, hobby, clothes, and so on.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/23 04:21 PM
2

Hate is a valid and useful emotion, so long as you keep it in its lane and don't let it bleed over into other parts of your life. Hate defends you. It makes you aware that someone is wronging you. Don't get rid of it...keep it in its lane.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 03:17 PM
8

Hard truth you need to understand- Women stick together, no matter how wrong or evil one of them is. A woman will not abandon or fail to support another woman unless she is in competition with her for a man or job. Your daughters are no exception to that rule.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 03:15 PM
3

Get a lawyer, go hard, be stoic...grey rock her and focus on the legal process and your kids. Turn off emotion. Build your future.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 03:09 PM
5

She is not a "great person" who made bad choices. ​ She is a POS that lied, manipulated, and 100% failed to honor her vows. She had an obligation to speak to you and discuss if she was having issues. She CHOSE every action she took and didn't take. ​ STOP pretending she is a "great person" and live in reality. ​ Plus, that story smells a lot like she was cheating. Women don't just wake up one day and all of a sudden decide that they want a divorce out of nowhere. She had a plan every step of the…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 03:02 PM
1

The pick me dance is humiliation. Stop. ​ Stop trying to nice someone back that overtly hates you. She isn't feeling guilty...she feels that you are less of a man than she deserves. She is humiliating you and you are asking how you can better be humiliated by her. Seriously stop. Walk away and find someone that respects you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 05:42 PM
8

You can't be friends. That's a river of pain flowing your way. Dam it off and refuse to accept it. Cut contact to all things except kids. Block/remove to the max degree. Set HARD boundaries with her and tell her specifically that you will not share holidays, events, or similar...you are separate by her choice and separate is what you will be. After age 18 (for te kids), you will have zero further contact with her for life. ​ You keeping her as a "friend" and being publicly friendly to her, absol…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 05:36 PM
1

You can find anyone...hire a PI and have her served. Its not that hard. You can get her address from a credit report or cell phone bill...all of which is on her credit report. The courts and a PI can find it.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 04:40 PM
2

If she can't refi...she has to sell.
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/23 05:23 PM
1

LAWYER.....
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 09:42 PM
3

Your ex is abusing her and is watching to enforce that your daughter doesn't tell you about the abuse. She is showing your daughter that there is a penalty if she doesn't keep the secret. ​ You need to get your daughter alone and have a very specific conversation that she is safe, loved, and free to tell you anything and that you will love her no matter what. Then, find out what that secret is.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 09:30 PM
2

Its not about you doing more around the house. Choreplay doesn't work and is never a solution. The issue is something else. She doesn't respect you, doesn't value you, and has told you that you are disposable. That is damn near impossible to fix. ​ You have to be willing to lose it to fix it...if it is fixable. Call her bluff. Tell her exactly how she ended the marriage by being 100% mom and 0% wife. Tell her she failed as a wife and rejected marriage by choice. Tell her that the divorce is on h…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 05:50 PM
2

You are getting a life lesson in women and getting it cheap. Learn from this...walk away...leave the trash in the street where she belongs. Be thankful that you learned so cheap and so young. Life is long and you are on the way to winning. It starts with indifference towards the trash. Block her on all things. have your lawyer handle it. Be gone from that life.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 04:29 PM
1

You are getting scammed. ​ STOP. Get your own appraisal and require a realtor that is new to both of you, not a friend. ​ You know better than this...don't wait. Act now. Refuse all sale docs and do not cooperate.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 04:22 PM
1

Tell her to get a job. Assuming she is at least basically competent to work, make her do it. Cut her off financially. ​ Then, document her capability to work and file for divorce. The court, assuming you have a good lawyer, can be advised that her unemployment is VOLUNTARY and that she is willfully refusing to earn a living. ​ This impacts how much child support you might pay. Either way, you can't stay in that. Divorce is the option. You just need to do it smart. ​ PS- Counseling won't work. Do…
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 04:00 PM
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I know this sounds hard, but the solution is as simple as it is difficult- Stop caring and walk away, emotionally and physically. Burn that life and walk out on the ashes. Vanquish it from your thoughts and beat the memories out of your psyche. Focus on the now, then the future. Build routines and schedules that drive you and leave you tired at the end of the day. Get up early, have meal plans for healthy food, and go to the gym. Live life at full speed without drinking or drugs. Ignore women un…
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 03:49 PM
1

You never leave your home...never. It shows abandonment of the child and leads to problems in court. You stay and video her if she tries to talk to you.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 08:16 PM
6

Why would you discuss anything with some random on the internet? Get mature real quick...and learn to live a private life.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 04:23 PM
1

Move and let it fall apart...seriously WTF. Not your circus, not your monkeys. ​ Run
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 09:47 PM
4

The hard truth is that a lot of people just got the short end of the DNA stick. Intelligence, beauty, health...it adds up. IQ is directly corelated to natural curiosity and imagination. ​ Someone with a relatively high IQ is going to have a drive to explore and experience along with the vision and foresight to plan and execute. Someone who is below that number will be satiated with more basic pleasures like the dopamine hit via watching reality TV, drinking, and "chilling" on a beach. ​ You soun…
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 09:43 PM
5

Learn to say no, speak via your lawyer, and follow the law. You are entitled to EQUAL custody. Have your lawyer demand it, enforce it, and ignore her. SPeak only via lawyers.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 09:38 PM
2

Why do you care what they think? They only have the power that you give them. Learn the power of saying no and ignoring people that are not part of your chosen circle. ​ You are entitled to support, child support, alimony, and similar. GET IT. She would...
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 09:37 PM
1

Find the money to pay for a lawyer...or you will sit in jail forever. Seriously.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 02:50 PM
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Many of us have been where you are. Start by cutting things from your life and mind...cut everything that doesn't make you better, happier, wealthier, and more capable. ​ You are going to look back at right now and see that it was the hardest, but also the time that made you the strongest. You have nowhere to go but up and your future is 100% what you make it. You own it...nobody else. Everyone has shown you who they are...believe them, cut them out, build you into the best you...and it starts w…
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 04:02 PM
2

No...she sees you as her ATM machine and she expects her ATM machine to do what it has always done...pay her. You trained her to believe it was so. Now, you get to teach her who you are.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/23 07:15 PM
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She does that because it shows the world that you are not mad at her and therefore, it was mutual...she is a good person because you validate her goodness via group activities. It is why they want to be "friends"...it shows the world that they are good people and not abusers who destroyed the relationship. Don't validate her.
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/23 03:44 PM
1

Get a DNA test of amazon and know for sure. It's not hard.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 06:33 PM
1

Personal accountability and responsibility for what you allow in your life is a big part of coming out the other side stronger. Good luck. We have been there too.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 10:00 PM
0

Boundaries you failed to enforce... You taught her how to treat you and she treated you like you would take the abuse because you took the abuse. Next relationship, teach your GF how to treat you and enforce boundaries.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 01:51 PM
1

You sound like a "nice guy". ​ How exactly does anyone have the authority to tell you to move out...or in...or anywhere? You give them that authority over you because you are a "nice guy". ​ She sees herself as dominant and you as submissive. ​ You might want to fix that ASAP as it tends to follow you through life. ​ Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/23 10:21 PM
1

The world is not privileged for men. The opposite is true. Women who believe that should be removed from your life immediately. Across almost all metrics (homeless population, injuries at work, poverty, healthcare, education), men are worse off than women and suffer vastly more inequality. You are seeing red flags for a good reason...her world view is wrong and will destroy you if you entangle yourself into it. She will blame you while destroying you. ​ Run.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 05:56 PM
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GTFO of that house...no matter what. ​ Seriously. Your situation is not survivable. She is absolutely going to bring a dude home and you know it. She will blame you for being offended about it and mock you with him standing there. ​ She is your Ex. File bankruptcy if you have to...but WALK AWAY RIGHT NOW. Go live anywhere else...
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/23 09:22 PM
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DB is a sub full of people that embrace the DB lifestyle and shun anyone that tells them to man up and take action. If you read past the whining and crying, they are where they choose to be and are living the consequences of their failure to handle their lives and relationships. They attack anyone that points this out because they want empathy from people who also see themselves as victims. ​ Victim identity is a pathway to a sad life. They chose it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 03:15 PM
2

AFTER she has custody, she will demand support...it is a trap.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 06:11 PM
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p sailed. She asked for the divorce "family" activities are over. We are "Co-Parents" now. I don't understand why she thinks we would just do stuff together like before. They say that because they want you to reinforce to them that they are not evil or wrong... ​ It's a way to avoid responsibility for their destruction of the marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 08:21 PM
1

Feminism was always based on hate, envy, greed, jealousy, and avoidance of personal responsibility. It was simply wrapped in pretty paper that they called "rights"...but it was an illusion.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 08:07 PM
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Why would you allow anyone to make you sleep anywhere? Grown men sleep where they choose...not where women tell them to sleep. Perhaps she is becoming masculine because she sees you as being too feminine? Never allow her to order you around. It's seriously unattractive to women when they can boss a man around like he is a child.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 09:52 PM
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Modern feminism is toxic man hating insanity. It is 100% about absolving women from any accountability, responsibility, or adulting while enabling them to behave like sociopaths with no regard to anyone or the destruction they cause. It appeals to women who are sociopaths who want to cause damage but feel justified in doing so. Run away.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 09:50 PM
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That thing that has taken over is modern feminism. It has nothing to do with equality or even fairness. It is abusive misandry that removes all accountability, responsibility, and consequences...while blaming men for everything.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 07:54 PM
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She is fishing to make sure you are willing to take her back and be her backup plan if her new single life doesn't work out. She wants you to beg her to stay, tell her that you will always love her, and that you will take her back. ​ Don't give it to her. Grey rock her...emotionless...all business...no words, just action. ​ She has no intention of staying and is using you as a backup plan. She doesn't care that it hurts you.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 08:46 PM
1

The part where you ask about how much drinking is drinking...instead of simply not drinking.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/23 05:34 PM
1

Why was the Rosetta Stone important? It allowed people to understand other languages...to read and understand...to learn and know...to apply knowledge. Same deal.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 08:26 PM
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If alcohol is more important than your kids (and it looks like it is), then you will lose in court. If your kids are important, stop drinking and get it all out of your house. ​ Pick one.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 03:48 PM
1

What actions have you taken to fix this? Has your lawyer filed for Divorce and custody?
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 08:16 PM
1

She is blatantly telling you that she is checked out, gone, and doesn't care about you or your kids.... ​ STOP trying to force her to be a wife and mom. She said no and you will end up hating the wife and mom she shows you if you try to force her. ​ Accept the terms (that are amazingly good) and move on. She doesn't want you or the kids...accept it and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 07:02 PM
3

You need a lawyer. Flat out...it is the only safe option. It's cheaper to hire the lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/23 08:06 PM
1

How much do you drink and why is it something you feel is missing? ​ Maybe she is a homebody? Why is that wrong? What exactly are you seeking out there that is somehow more valuable than a faithful wife? ​ It seems like there is more to this story.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 09:53 PM
1

No. Do you like being plan B...the ATM machine that she begrudgingly accepts because life without it is hard... ​ That's not even a choice. Eject.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 09:49 PM
1

Guns aren't registered in America. There is an actual law prohibiting a firearms registry. Where are you? The police would absolutely arrest someone for pointing a gun at another person...
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 09:40 PM
1

Get a restraining order.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/23 06:03 PM
5

Hire a PI. Get documentation (photos) of her doing physical activity. Report her to Social Security for disability fraud.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 04:30 PM
1

File a lawsuit for wrongful termination on the grounds. Find grounds.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/22 05:43 PM
1

Nobody can make you do those things. You let her abuse you because you choose to. Stop. Go talk to your command. Then to to legal services and explain that you are going to need a divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 04:18 PM
6

You need to get aggressive. Seriously...demand full custody. Your lawyers needs to actually FIGHT!!! Stop accepting this. Make it rain legal motions. Sue for custody.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 08:13 PM
5

2 kinds of problems. ​ Yours. ​ Not Yours. ​ This is the second kind.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 06:21 PM
2

You are doing the pick me dance. It is not attractive ad makes you look weak. ​ She already chose another man over you and you know it. ​ Grab some self respect and move on with your life. There are plenty of women out there who won't cheat, devalue, insult, and hurt you. Go find one.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 05:29 PM
1

It keeps going as long as you keep taking the abuse. You are the one with the power to stop it anytime...and she has clearly said she doesn't care if you do. So, you either like the abuse or simply are unwilling to get out. ​ That's your call...
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 07:55 PM
5

Arguably, giving women the right to vote was ethically correct and pragmatically wrong. Women overwhelmingly vote for bigger government, more social spending programs, and taxes that are paid primarily by men. They are, as a group, parasitic by proxy and use the legislature to extract money and resources from men, by force of government. ​ Giving them power to do this was a mistake. ​ Voting should be limited to net taxpayers and landowners.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/22 06:56 PM
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Women are surrounded by what they see as options...thirsty men will promise them the world and women simply delude themselves to believe what they want to be true. When it implodes, they can't understand why it failed...and blame others...because most women also lack the ability to look introspectively. So, they destroy their marriages over and over.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 02:49 PM
3

You mistakenly thought she was yours when it was just your turn. Don't do that again. ​ Hard lessons are best learned once, not twice.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/22 09:12 PM
7

Defend yourself and call 911. Press charges, get a TRO, and divorce. Never let someone abuse you...it's like a bully and your lunch money.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/22 09:08 PM
1

Get what proof you can and be cold. Factual, direct, honest, and without emotion... ​ Don't play games with her. Don't give open ended "whatever you want" statements. Set and enforce boundaries and timelines. Drive the boat to where you want it to be. ​ If the M is over, put it in the grave and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/22 08:54 PM
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Being Gay is not an excuse to lie to a woman, marry her under a pretense that is not true, have babies under that same lie...and then just decide to burn down their life because he decided to not lie anymore. It has nothing to do with being gay...it is that he lied to everyone about it and hurt children in the process. Not ok...regardless of whether he is gay or not.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 03:32 PM
1

He knew he was gay. He chose to marry a woman, did not tell her he was gay, and brought children into the world that are now going to be damaged by the lies he has hidden. If you can't get that...then It's on you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 03:31 PM
3

How can you expect a woman to stay married to a gay man? Exactly how do you think that works for her? Be serious...that's blatantly unfair to her.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 03:29 PM
1

She doesn't sound kind at all...maybe you are projecting a bit...
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 03:28 PM
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Hurting people who you swore to love, honor, and protect...is not cool. Moreso when they are your own kids. If that's a stretch for you...that's you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 03:27 PM
2

Why are you so kind to someone that is so blatantly unkind to you? It being tortured your fetish?
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 08:00 PM
-1

While you have to be honest with her...its impossible to have sympathy for you. What you did is exceptionally cruel to her and your kids. You knew and you brought all these lives into your world, only to have then crushed when they find out that it was all a big bright shining lie. That's not the kind of thing a good husband, father, or man does.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/22 07:55 PM
2

Say no...take charge of your own actions and never allow her to dictate to you. You are giving her power over you.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/22 06:49 PM
2

Why would you want for someone to attack you when you know its coming? Attack first. ​ Your biggest enemy isn't her...it is your refusal to accept reality as real and take action.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/22 06:47 PM
10

This is not complicated- When someone says "don't get a lawyer"...you should RUN and get a good lawyer. Seriously...you aren't even getting 50/50 and if she makes more $$$$, she owes you alimony. Half of all earned income, assets from the marriage, and equal parenting time...that is your standard.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/22 06:29 PM
1

If you stay married to someone that you know is seriously mentally unwell...expect them to do mentally unwell things to you. You see who she is. You know what she is. Do you choose to stay with that, knowing what is coming?
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/22 06:23 PM
1

So...refuse to accept it instead of talking to strangers on the internet about how bad it went.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/22 09:27 PM
3

You go to court and solve it there. Stop playing games and go hard in court. Take control and drive it to the conclusion.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 03:02 PM
1

Leaving your house is a big mistake.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/22 07:39 PM
1

Why would you agree to that financial split? If the deal is suicidal, don't sign it.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/22 03:25 PM
1

Call her and ask her directly.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 05:57 PM
1

Voluntary impoverishment is not a defense...she is able to earn that amount, she should be held to that amount. That is how it was ruled in the past. If you have to walk away from mediation, do so.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/22 05:34 PM
9

Yes, you are not supposed to pay that. Clothing is supposed to funded from child support.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 05:04 PM
1

Simple- Demand that she write a full, written, detailed confession of what she did, with whom, when, content, and when the last time she was in contact with them. ​ Tell her there will be a polygraph to verify. ​ If she refuses, tell her you will be having her served with D papers shortly and walk away. This is not a threat. You should actually follow through. This is a test to see if she is truly sorry or sorry she got caught. Any resistance means she isn't truly sorry.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/22 06:00 PM
2

Women stick together. They will side with another woman against their own son. ​ Hard red pill truth- AWALT includes your mom. Your mom is showing you that AWALT.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/22 09:24 PM
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Those women are nuts...flat out. There is no fixing it. They didn't reason, fact, or logic their way into their position...and no reason, fact, or logic will get them out of it. Don't date a feminist...ever.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 07:48 PM
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You know what you need to do here...don't make people draw it in crayon for you. Only you love you. It's clear which team she is on...and it isn't your team.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 06:46 PM
1

The phrase you need to use is "Voluntary impoverishment" when talking about her choices. ​ Fight it in court.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 03:25 PM
2

She doesn't want you. She wants your validation of her, that she is good enough, pretty, and a catch...as you showed her that she was none of those things. Don't validate her.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 04:48 PM
1

Reddit is largely policed by angry women and their beta orbiters.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 03:12 PM
3

If it was said by a hot guy, it would be a compliment...if said by a guy they don't find attractive...it's an insult. How dare that unattractive man think he can speak to me...
/r/AntiFeminists01/04/22 08:43 PM
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The matrix doesn't like it when the slaves learn to read. They might see the game as it truly is...and we can't have that.
/r/AntiFeminists01/04/22 07:20 PM
1

Don't agree to anything...enforce the divorce decree...keep doing this. Do not sign a travel authorization. Period.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/21 08:20 PM
2

Look, what you did is wrong...bad wrong. Your wife deserves a man that is faithful and true. Your job, as a husband, is to put your time, effort, and energy into your marriage/family...not towards another woman. When you put your time towards another woman, you are stealing from your actual wife. You did wrong. Go make it right or give her a peaceful divorce. That's on you.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/21 08:14 PM
2

A man's first experience with love is that of his mother. It is warm, kind, responsive to his needs, soothing, encouraging, and most of all- Unconditional. Even prisoners in jail have mothers that love them. This is a love he will use to define love. Women he meets can't and won't love him that way. It is impossible as they can only love their children like that. Their love for him will be conditional and replaceable if needed, to direct towards other men who meet the required conditions. What w…
/r/RedPillWives09/12/20 06:39 PM
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Hypergamy isn't good or bad. It just is. It serves a purpose, early in life. It can induce failure if you don't know when to turn it off. Know when to turn it off. Know when to ignore it. Know when to tell it to STFU.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 02:00 AM
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Honest answer that may not be what you want to hear- When people that really care about one another, break up...and one partner (especially the female) has sex with multiple men in the interim, reunion is usually impossible. Sex is still possible...as the attraction will remain and the cravings will be there...but in the afterglow, the thoughts of the past will creep in and the anger, pain, frustration, and bitterness will take hold. People can break up and get back together. When they have sex …
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/18 05:27 AM
2

As people age, friction of life becomes harder. That friction can take many forms...and the more different two people are, the more friction that they tend to find. It's funny, when you are young...the differences seem interesting and fun. When you are older, the differences seem frustrating and annoying.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/18 05:20 AM
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This is true, ugly truth...but true.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/18 02:19 AM
4

Every layer of friction that you add to a given relationship, whether it is race, culture, religion, goals, education, and similar...will make life harder and increase the risk of failure. People do it...but why? There are so many people in this world, why not find one that shares your views and culture? It avoids so many problems. YMMV.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/18 02:18 AM
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Men are not friends with women. Beta orbiters pretend to be friends.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/18 07:03 AM
1

While the book is good, I disagree that there are 5. There is 1 love language- Sex. The rest are like languages. Anything you can do with a friend is not a love language.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 03:17 AM
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Reality is real. It's a harsh teacher. Ugly lessons are often learned in pain. At least you learned it and won't repeat it. That'a a huge step in itself.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 06:36 AM
1

While style is always something to be looked at...substance is what matters. If a critique has to focus on style, it is usually that the person doing the critique hates the substance, but can't logically address it. Winning at life tends to happen when people get into the substance and ignore the noise of style. YMMV.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 06:26 AM
1

When a man truly loves a women, he will die to protect her...without hesitation. If that doesn't qualify him to be the meaning of your life...frankly...perhaps he would want to find someone who would make him the meaning of her life. Why would a man go fully into a relationship after a woman tells him that he will always be second? That's a mood killer and a half.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 06:06 AM
1

Depends on what you think those men "need"... What is she bringing to the table that they "need"? Beauty...yep...sex...yep...kids...yep...wifey...yep. What does he already have plenty of and not really need from a woman? money... So which one is he going to "need"? Men can earn more than enough money without a wife. Having a wife that brings more of something you already have plenty of...isn't that great of a deal.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 06:03 AM
1

Most men I work with in the top 1% don't marry...they date...a lot. Women chase them constantly. The ones that marry are brilliant at business and horrible at life. They end up divorced and paying an Ex to be their Ex.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 05:59 AM
2

It's pretty clear when you distill it down. A woman with a specialized education considers herself a VERY high value woman. She isn't going to date down. She will have high expectations for a mate. She is likely ruling out 95% of men based on education (must be equal or better), job, money, looks, personality, height, race, and so on. Take all those factors and how many men are left? Now add in geography...how many are within 50 miles of her? We are now down to what...less than .5% of the male p…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/18 02:26 AM
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Boomers happened. The pill happened...which lead to the sexual revolution...which ended the concept of monogamy and killed traditional marriage. Abortion on demand finished it off. Sex became currency and a weapon. Kids became a burden which meant people didn't have them, so they stopped caring about the future as they had no investment in it. The entrance of women into the job market promised freedom to have money and sex...but in reality the hidden truth was that it doubled the # of workers wh…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/18 02:18 AM
2

Marriage is hard. Don't make it harder by adding layer upon layer of life friction. Marry what you want to happen...IE Religion, Money, Kids, Geographic Area, Goals, and so on. Be absolutely 100% specific. You should be able to look your spouse in the eye and say out loud "I want to live in X in a house that looks like Y and do Z work for A dollars with B kids at home raided in C schools by D faith. We will vacation E times per year and visit family F on holidays. Finances will be G. Church will…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/18 02:13 AM
3

Are unicorn's desirable?
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 05:52 AM
2

Figure out the things that matter to the man you want to attract and radiate those things outwardly. What are the things that matter to him (not the things you think should matter to men). That's the answer, however it works out.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 05:50 AM
2

I don't disagree. I find that people almost universally have tells. We all have our mannerisms and quirks. They tend to correlate with the things we do when nobody is watching. Most people, both men and women, lack the awareness to read them, but the tells are always there. Women are generally better at reading them than men and can usually size up another woman quicker than a man...but in comes out in the wash. Direct questions are usually the worst way to get to truth as people almost always l…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 06:57 AM
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The motto of "Women need men like a fish needs a bicycle" came directly from feminism... Feminism started with noble goals. It became something toxic, focused on destruction of the family and making enemies of men and women who dared question why the family was a bad thing. It its current form, it is not about women...it is just an attack on traditional families and the men/women who want to have them.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 06:35 AM
3

Not at all. Subtle truth always plays out in its own way. Body language speaks when people are quiet. It can start with the basics, where you are from, how you got to where you are, and where you landed along the way...with some open ended "that's interesting, tell me more about..." and the truth works its way out. Conversation has a purpose. Getting to know someone tends to bear out which areas of their life they like to talk about and which ones they are nervous about. All in all, someone with…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 06:21 AM
1

Bad relationships are contagious as the people in them often seek to bond with other people via gossip and crashing their relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 06:14 AM
1

Nature teaches a lot of good lessons. Balance- Systems work best when they achieve balance. Relationships are similar in that a strongly feminine woman can be balanced by an equally masculine male and the scales will be at equilibrium with substantive weight on each end to keep it stable. When one end is not strong or cedes control of it's responsibility, the system goes out of balance. It is similar to energy- a strong feminine energy will attract a strongly masculine energy...so if your wish i…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 06:12 AM
3

Sexual past is the clearest indicator of sexual future. Any man or woman with basic situational awareness, can size up someone's past from a dinner conversation. The poser above is correct- If a partner assess that you willingly gave it up to strangers, they likely will expect the same and will be offended if strangers got something quickly that the new partner was forced to wait for. It isn't a pretty reality...but it is real. It's part of the whole "don't start a promiscuous lifestyle, as it i…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 06:02 AM
1

When you are happy with yourself, confident in yourself, and are basing your life on truth, you are never lonely...even when alone.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 05:56 AM
2

When there is doubt, there is no doubt.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 05:55 AM
1

Seriously...stop with the sexuality. Maybe a bit of time off from the sex/dating market to figure yourself out and then go back to that world. You won't find yourself by looking in other people. You will just take yourself further from your own truth.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 03:40 AM
3

If I had all the money I spent on alcohol...and had put it in a basic investment acct...it would be a serious pile of cash by now. One of those lessons I wish I could go back and teach my younger self.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 03:37 AM
5

The Bible is absolutely RP if read in totality. People sometimes like to cherry pick portions of it and ignore the rest, in order to support their personal world view...but it is meant to be read in total, not in part.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 01:32 AM
1

Always/Never is a big word. There is a core point to it. Living together, unmarried...is likely sub optimal. But, there is also the reality of the modern world where people aren't getting married at 16 anymore. But, there is real risk as well...serial monogamy isn't monogamy and as that N count goes up, the likelihood of future success goes down. There is a reason the term "married without papers" was historically linked to trailer park dwelling low class people. In specific terms, women general…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 12:07 AM
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Honest answer...in my sample of 1...I was bad at it for years. My wife cried the last time I went to Iraq because I had zero interest in sex for days before I left. I was in work mode, despite still being home. It's a difficult problem. On the one hand, I had a number of women that told me flat out, that they were attracted to me because of my personality and lifestyle. Thus...the uber type A personality worked...but it is also dangerous as it burns you out inside. It's a hard realization for a …
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 12:00 AM
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Honest answer....Sluts are intoxicating. Understand the word intoxicating. Sluts push the right buttons. They trigger the perfect feelings and motivate men to literally forget the world around them while focusing their attention like a laser on said slutty girl. It is toxic, soul destroying, and amazing. It is the moth and the flame. It is Icarus and the sun. You want to touch the sun...but you know you will be burned. In the end, men hopefully grow out of it and become unimpressed by it...but f…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 07:59 AM
2

He isn't talking about love. He is talking about respect. Women will find it largely impossible to love a man they don't respect and they struggle to respect a man who is weak. In RP world, there is a saying- Men love while women respect. It's about 99% true when you understand the definitions of love are different between men and women. It's about a 3 layer conversation that I am oversimplifying badly...but the gist is how men want to be loved (unconditionally, as women love children and how he…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 07:55 AM
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My perspective, as someone with a hyper aggressive career...men need a clear mental and physical transition phase between home and work. In my personal case, if I am still dressed and equipped from work, I am still in work mode. Every man is different and I have had this conversation with a lot of guys who do dangerous things for a living...there must be a transition phase. For some guys, it is the drive home. They have a ritual and routine to switch mindsets from being a cop to being a husband.…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 07:51 AM
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Harassment must be unwanted, unwelcome, and continuing. If you spoke up and asked that it stop and it didn't stop, it is on your management to fix it. You can always tell someone to stop. If you do so, and they don't...you tell your HR. It's pretty clear. In your case, your management could legally have him no trespassed and arrested. If they didn't, then that is not harassment...it is stalking which again, has a definition. "Safety" has a clear meaning. Sexual harassment is not a safety issue. …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 05:06 AM
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It's true...but the hard reality is that a lot of people like the power of double standards when it comes to the rules around sexual harassment at work. Selective enforcement based solely on the feelz of the recipient are a powerful weapon...one that is never gender blind. I've seen it personally with HR techs actually saying "you should be flattered, she is XYZ beautiful/smart/funny/rich" while crushing the pudgy guy who asked out a woman that was out of his league. HR is weaponized third wave …
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 04:26 AM
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Yes they do...constantly. There are even singles groups at many companies.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 04:22 AM
1

When she does this, she will become a pariah. None of the remaining workers will want to be near her out of fear that she is overly sensitive and will report them as well. She will end up isolated and complain about the opposite problem...that nobody will pay attention to her. Seen it over and over...
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 04:21 AM
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Don't use the word safe. Safe has a meaning. Nobody is threatening violence. The cheapening of words is causing a massive level of gendered drama in the world...IE words like Rape being used to describe a verbal disagreement...because "safety"... Words have meanings. Don't use words that aren't accurate. There is nothing unsafe. Uncomfortable...yes...but not unsafe. The very first step is always to tell the person to stop...until that happens, there isn't much to be done.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 04:19 AM
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Speak up and tell him to stop. Harassment has to be 3 things- Unwanted, Unwelcome, and Continuing. This requires you to directly advise the person that you do not want it, it is unwelcome, and they need to stop. Only if they don't stop, is it harassment. So...tell that person it's not funny and to stop.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 04:17 AM
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Hard Truth...get a piece of paper. Write your total debt load and all of the things you think are wrong in your life on it. Take off all your clothes and stand in the bathroom, looking in the mirror holding that piece of paper while naked. Would you marry that person? Who would? Now figure out whether you are "settling" or not. It may be a good news answer...or it may be a reality check.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 04:09 AM
1

Once you have had truly great wine, the stuff in the box will never do. You may buy the box...you may even drink it...but it will never truly compare. You will always remember what perfection tastes like and you will always judge based on perfection. That's the concept. Beta in a box still fills the glass...but it's still beta.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 02:10 AM
1

The end result of that will still be a crash. Nobody is "the man" forever. Every man and every woman will age...they will get slower, fatter, have a time where the lose and the world crushes their hopes and dreams. If a woman is with him because he is the "alpha"...there will come a time where he isn't. If he is with her because she has awesome tits and loves sex...there will come a point where there are women with better tits who love sex more. The contest is for losers...even the winners will …
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 04:53 AM
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Compatibility is just as important as looks or anything else. If you aren't compatible, break up.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 06:33 AM
2

The feminist drive to import a legitimate rape culture will do this quite well. Sweedenstan is getting a full dose of it now and those same feminists told the rape victims to "shut up and don't report it to the police, for the sake of diversity".... Give it time. Feminism will be self correcting via a true violent patriarchy that will put them in burkahs.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 06:31 AM
2

They try to paint him as right wing, whatever... He is not right wing or even conservative. He is just logical, in the sense that a mathematician will tell you your math is wrong. He is functionally a societal mathematician telling people that their math doesn't work. They look for ways to tell him he is wrong...but they can't argue the math...so they call him names. It's blatantly obvious that he knows what he is talking about, so arguing fact with him won't work...thus, emotive insults. "You j…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 06:29 AM
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Jackie O wrote once, that a woman's true power was in the bedroom. I think she was correct. Sex is love for men. It is love combined with validation, trust, acceptance, and desire. It is a literal single point of failure that can both save and destroy. A wise woman can OWN her man in the bedroom, if she is wise enough to grasp the concept and make it happen. The right words, the proper touch, and he is hers. Or...she can not. It is her power to use or throw away.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 06:45 AM
1

If your value is based on physical beauty and sex, yes...age will crush those things. If your value is based on traditional femininity with the cascading levels of value in that you are the cornerstone of a home, a family, and the primary carer for children that are the center of his universe...then your value is not tied to simply beauty and sex. The concept of women age like milk is only true if the value of that woman is limited to beauty and sex. Be more than that.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 06:37 AM
1

Yet, we have women in the Infantry...IE the place where you play a contact sport with the goal of violently killing your opponent. What could possibly go wrong...
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 06:33 AM
1

Compelled Speech. Those words should be the most horrifying thing you read on the internet. With the concept of compelled speech, you don't even have the most basic right- the right to Remain Silent...IE you can't even sit there and do nothing. That is what started the issues Peterson is talking about. He was forced, at literal gunpoint, by Police- under penalty of death or imprisonment (by law) if he refuses, to say words that he did not wish to say. The government has no right to compel speech…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 06:31 AM
1

Hypergamy is female ladder climbing. I don't think it has a direct male equal reaction although you could theorize that it is somewhat tied to the the reality of the top 10% of men who have always had their pick of female attention. The top 10% of men have historically done the majority of the "dating" in history. The bottom 80% are generally invisible to most women when those women were in their prime. Some of those men become more visible as SMV decreases...but it is relative to perspective an…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 06:19 AM
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The current generation of men describes marrying a single mother as "Playing someone else's saved game"... I don't think that is a compliment in their eyes and from the guys I know in the dating game, they tend to be harshly savage to their peers who date women with kids. The level of ridicule guys are willing to dish out towards their peers seems a lot rougher than in previous generations but maybe it is in response to the generations of beta providers they saw. Either way, it seems like it is …
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 06:15 AM
1

Seriously...go to pre-marital counseling. It is worth every penny and then some. A neutral person to ask hard questions to both of you. Money.... Babies... Health issues... Lifestyle... Religion...now and for the kids... Family plans...who take primacy... Cars... Student debt... Any debt... Food... Hobbies... Priority of time and work/vacations... Retirement...we all get there eventually... Death of a spouse, kids, raising them... Long term chronic illness...what will happen to you and the kids?…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 06:58 AM
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I think you just explained why birth control pills killed society in terms of mate selection no longer being a big decision....IE...the captain selection process was replaced by sex without babies or consequences...in theory.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 06:55 AM
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Define love. The way men define love...no, women do not love men. Men want to be loved in the way that women love their children. That is impossible. There is a saying, men love women while women respect men and love children. It's fairly accurate once you get past the new puppy stage of a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 06:50 AM
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Self awareness, both of the good and the bad. Awareness of the opposite sex and their tendencies, both good and bad. The willingness to call bullshit when it happens. Reality vs Disney.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 06:47 AM
2

You make a lot of assumptions- First...why do you assume that the man needs to "grow"...is he not a grown man? "Open minded"...ok...most successful men are pretty strong willed and closed minded (certain creative areas of interest exempted)...weak men are often vastly more "open" to new ideas as they are followers rather than leaders. Strong men know how they like their coffee, their women, their house, their car, their food, and their sleep. That's just reality...it may not be a good fit for a …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:44 AM
1

Value is relative to what you want to spend that value on? Value in terms of how other women view you vs how men view you vs how men may wish to quantify it as marriage material? If you are looking at it from a RMV point of view...it is pretty low on the list.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:34 AM
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That’s the most true RP point in this topic. The overarching reality is this- How bad do both the man and woman want to be in the relationship? For many men, being denied something that an ex got will be a red line triggering termination of the relationship as it’s a clear sign that she values him less than the ex...regardless of whether this assessment is correct. The other side of it is equally complex as plenty of men will eject if they find out their partner’s sexual history crossed a certai…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 07:43 AM
1

Fully agree. In this specific instance, circumstances matter greatly. If it was forced, that is horrible and vastly different than something given freely.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 07:24 AM
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I'm going to chime in here...and I mean all of the below in the nicest way possible, so please forgive me if linguistically it sounds harsh. Women are infinitely more adaptable than men. From an evolutionary standpoint, adaptability is one of the strongest female survival traits. From a societal standpoint, you see it as "in group loyalty" in the sense that men are uber strong "in group" while women are often more capable of floating between groups, hobbies, teams, and similar. In the way back m…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 07:32 AM
1

What I said is exactly true. You are not being objective...rather, you are projecting your perception of her interpretation of her husband's behavior. There is nothing "red" pill about denial of truth. Truth stands on it's own. If it is wrong...people see it and judge it wrong...but it isn't as you won't let people see it. You censor what you dislike but can't refute. Feels over reelz. You do her no favors in that regard. Nobody should be protected from facts, truth, or math. Truth isn't rude...…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 05:48 AM
1

You aborted his child...as in recently... I'm going to be frank here...there are very few family oriented men who are cool with women who kill their kids. A woman who is willing to murder her own child is not high on a family oriented man's wish list. Men who like to fuck...they love women like that. Men who want to be a dad...no. If your husband is cool with it, he doesn't want you or the kids. He's not in family mode and that's the answer. I know this will be unpopular on here, but it is true.…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 05:01 AM
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You wanted to be a strong, independent woman "no man tells me what to do"...and you got it. It's like a dog chasing a car...what to do when you catch it. Good luck. I never saw it end well, but there is always a first time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 04:14 AM
1

Caves are for cave men. Men need a study. There is a world of difference.
/r/RedPillWives17/10/17 04:10 AM
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Currently, there is a very high birth rate in Africa and in Muslim countries, the average total fertility rate is 4 in Africa and 3,1 in Muslim countries. Africa is projected to have 4 billion people, and MENA 1 billion people. Nigeria alone is projected to have 400 million people in 2050. In most Latino countries, there is a positive birth rate, with the exception of Brasil. Birth rate is positive in India as well. On the other hand, white female TFR in the US is 1.75, in Europe 1.5, in Canada …
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/17 09:40 PM
2

While it's not popular, as it forces people to take a hard look in the mirror...TRP is a whole of person reality. You can use the tricks to get laid...but that's BS pickup artist childish nonsense. When someone swallows the pill, they end up having phases where reality is going to slap them in the face starting with their dating/relationship...moving into their job/career...and likely ending up with a person having to confront their political ideology, triggered by their friends spouting some pa…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/17 09:34 PM
1

A man's wall depends on how he lived his life and what he acomplished. The "most interesting man in the world" has a very different SMV than say, a bus driver...regardless of both men's age. As the person below says, men are at the wall when they are born. Men's walls require climbing. Some do, some don't. This defines their SMV.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 09:30 PM
2

From your dad.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 10:08 PM
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Feel free not to answer...but cheated how? Like PIV cheated...or got a lap dance cheated? Either way, that is a horrible thing to have happened to you. Sad that he wouldn't value his relationship more than that. Best bet IMO is to logically define your desired end state and then figure out what points of performance will get you there. When that's done, have a frank no BS conversation about it and be willing to walk out. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 07:06 AM
1

Does refusing to accept personal responsibility for behavior solve the issue?
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 12:42 AM
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Consider who said it... She was functionally a prostitute, albeit a prostitute with high social status and money...a purveyor of sex and sexuality for money who used sex to climb the ladder of power and influence all the way to the President. She willingly seduced married men (JFK) and exchanged sex for power, money, and status.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 11:49 PM
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What? You mean doubling the supply of labor would drive down the value or that labor? No way...it's like economics is real...supply and demand actually exists...despite what the feminist professors said. It must be the patriarchy suppressing wages! I say...welcome to the hell of working for a check instead of the love of your children. Enjoy your hell, the one feminists asked for along with the perks of dying younger, getting sick more often, having a higher rate of your kids using drugs, gettin…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 11:37 PM
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Feminism was never about helping women. It was politics...money, power, and status...for a select group. All political movements are about those 3 things. They use "useful idiots" to further their goals by believing they are saving women, baby whales, the rain forest, or whatever...when really, it is about money, power, and status for the politicians. Feminists loved Bill Clinton...who is blatantly a rapist...serial cheater...liar...horrible human being...and feminists love him. Why is that? Bec…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 11:28 PM
2

When 6.5% of the population is responsible for 52% of the murders and almost 70% of the violent crimes against people...as well as a massive % of the rapes...people are going to notice and talk. The OP is correct. That's a culture problem, not a race problem. You can argue that the two are linked but that's a whole other topic. Until we all address that reality...that there is some full on broken culture there...nothing will improve.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/17 11:18 PM
1

That's some serious red red red pill truth right there...so red people likely won't want to hear it. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 08:01 AM
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Maybe, maybe not. Sexual subjects are often things that guys will "test the waters" with before coming out and asking directly...you can't walk back a direct question as easily as you can with a gift..."it was just a joke"... YMMV. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 04:28 AM
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Harsh truth... Men love women. Women respect men. It's different... Women will naturally have difficulty respecting men who they view as beneath them in any category...earnings, social skills, education, and so on. Once that "he is less than me" dragon enters your head, it grows and grows until it burns your relationship. It's just reality. There is no fix for it. It's a foundational rule for female hypergamy...and yes, I know that's a bad word on RPW, but in this case it is true.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/17 11:07 PM
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Maybe he is hinting around that he wants you to broaden your horizons, sexually...as in, he thinks you would benefit from exploring some new things. It's a polite way of asking you to step up your bedroom game...
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/17 11:00 PM
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Maybe a pointed question...but here is a quick way to figure this out- Are you having sex with both of them? If the answer is yes...guess who is going to go their own way when they become aware...
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 12:16 AM
1

Rights and value are different topics. We all have equal rights under the law, as in the Bill of Rights...although anyone who has been inside the legal system will tell you that money and political connections are often the driving force behind "justice" or the lack of Justice. Value is an interesting topic and in reality...no. It's rough to say it and not a happy topic...but one Einstein is worth more than me or even several of me. It comes down to emotion vs logic. If we are emotive thinkers, …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/17 11:54 PM
1

Just be yourself... Horrid advice. Always be a better version of yourself. Always improve. If you are not getting better, you are getting worse...and every day is selection.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/17 12:14 AM
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In general terms- Equality is a myth. It is a fantasy. Nothing and nobody is equal. Nothing in nature is equal. Nothing in society is equal. Equality, under the law, is a noble goal. Equality of access to public services, education, healthcare...noble goals...but anyone who thinks full equality is real is delusional. No person is equal to another person. I will never be as smart as Einstein. I will never paint as well as Picasso. I will never be as fast as Bolt. That's not fair...but it's realit…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/17 12:08 AM
1

There is a reason they call it "feminism" and not equality...it's not an equality movement. That can only end badly.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/17 10:55 PM
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There is a reason they call it "feminism" and not equality...it's not an equality movement. That can only end badly.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/17 10:54 PM
3

What kinds of "educated" conversations are you trying to have on dates? Dating conversations tend to work best when they are kept light and positive...so politics, religion, and similar...might go badly until you know one another well. As you said, there is a point where you have to ask yourself some straight forward questions... What do you want? What does success look like, in specific terms? What do you bring to this situation? Is what you bring to the table, what is needed to get you to wher…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/17 01:18 AM
2

I don't think hate is the best word. It's likely better to describe it as disloyal and highly competitive. Women have a higher reasoning ability that allows a high degree of rationalization relative to their feelings rather than the facts. Functionally...she can tell a lie that is truth to her. It's why you can get different answers to the same question from the same woman and have her truly believe them to be accurate. Ask about N count...you get a "well, that didn't count because..." Rationali…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/17 05:29 AM
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Women can't love someone that they see as lesser than themselves in life. Status touches a part of the brain that you can't touch by being nice, funny, or smart. You see it in pre-selection and how it influences attractiveness. Respect is integral to love from women. Respect is the outward sign that a man has passed the selection criteria to move into possible relationship territory...and it's hard to respect someone that you perceive as lesser in some way. He learned a hard lesson. Sad deal, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 04:39 AM
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Yes, quite happily.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 05:34 AM
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Sorry I didn't sugar coat the truth enough to protect your fragility. Do you not see the irony in being part of a sub focused on RP values...AKA truth and reality...and then complaining about the truth being harsh? Seriously? Orwell said something about this...“The choice for mankind lies between freedom and happiness and for the great bulk of mankind, happiness is better.” You can get your feels and be happy by being told comfortable lies...or you can swallow that bitter red pill of truth and b…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 01:10 AM
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You want me to wrap it in a bow and throw in a free puppy to make it feelz better? Seriously? How RP of you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 12:07 AM
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Side chick...not a real relationship. Sorry if that hurts, but it's true. You can't go from being the side chick to being his woman. It just doesn't work that way. Accept reality, cut ties, move on. Sorry if that's not what you want to hear.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/17 11:17 PM
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Alpha men are hard to keep. Every day is selection...fail and you are out. That shit gets old. It gets old as the man as well...having a female that regularly wants to function check you and see if you are willing to put her in her place. It's cool in your 20s. In your 30s, you start wanting some peace in your life and you start to realize the physical side isn't worth the effort required to get there. YMMV.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/17 11:13 PM
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There are a lot of men who don't want kids. There is another side to those men though...and I'm a man, so I will say this honestly- Most of those men use women as place holders. They view women, even wives, as replaceable items that have value as a wife...but little else, and that position can be replaced with wife 2.0 A friend who is in that situation explained it like this- "Marriage is like a contract...if she breaks the contract by getting fat, not having sex, not working, she is fired". Tha…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/17 11:04 PM
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It is fashionable and cool to spout the "I'm free, don't need kids, they are dreamkillers, I live my life and don't have time"...and so on. It is promoted by hollywood, the media and feminism. In reality, 99% of the things promoted by hollywood and the media end up being pretty crappy for those of us living on main street USA. Kids rock. My kids are spectacular and are, by far, the best part of my life. I wish we had more and we would, except we waited until 32 to start having them and it got mu…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 01:25 AM
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Sex is not just sex for men. It is validation, connection, truth, and the culmination of the overall relationship. Good men are winners. Winners are wanted, desired, chosen, and rewarded. Good men, the winners, they get sex. Women want to have sex with them. Women want good men. When a partner tells their husband that they don't want to have sex...they are invalidating all of the above...he is not wanted, not worthy, not a winner, and not a good man...he is not worth the time and effort. Sex is …
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/17 02:34 AM
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Good men, worthy men-Winners....get sex. They are desired, sought after, loved, and laid. No sex means the man is not worthy...not a winner...he is a placeholder until a better man comes along. If you want to keep a winner, treat him like a winner.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/17 12:40 AM
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The pill has been more destructive to relationships than any other single item in the West...including online porn. It is the divorce of actions and consequences...the theory that you can have your cake and eat it too... The reality is far different and we see that with rampant STDs, "oops" pregnancies, unwed motherhood at all-time highs, men who use women for sex without concern of relationships or marriage, and kids who grew up thinking all that was normal. The pill enabled all of that...under…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 11:39 PM
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Perhaps, something along these lines- http://www.dailywire.com/news/16850/study-weak-men-more-likely-be-socialists-amanda-prestigiacomo Generally, people who look to others for support/security are likely to be leftists. It's just the nature of their system. Delegation of tasks and responsibility is a core leftist value...including delegation of responsibilities to the state...like raising your children, defending your home, etc. People who are more confident, able to truly stand alone, speak cl…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 11:14 PM
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Loyalty is a male value. The word does not exist in a female vocabulary in the same sense that it exists in a male vocabulary. The questions is Loyal To What... Figure out the "what" and you will see why it is different between the sexes.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 04:45 AM
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We are now 3 generations deep, in a world where "men" have been blasted with feminist ideals. Raised by single moms, taught what "right" looks like by single moms, taught how to be a "man" by single moms, taught how men are the devil, men caused the problems in her life...and most of all, how that single mom would have had it all, the dream job, the car, the house, the vacations...but for evil men. Men, being logical problem solvers...seek to learn from all that. What is the lesson- Stay at home…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 10:46 PM
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Laziness. Poor values. You can't fix a person's core values. If they are fundamentally dishonest, lazy, selfish, childish, unstable, weak...they always will be. It's just who they are. Remove yourself from them or they will drain you of your time, energy, and money. My grandmother once told me "Poor people have poor ways". She was right about that, and a lot of other things.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 03:13 AM
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That's pretty much true. Tasers, OC Spray, Batons...all have replaced much of the hand to hand skills training. Tools are safer than hands. Tasers are the least likely to cause permanent injury. Full speed hand to hand almost always ends up with both people getting an ambulance ride.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 04:04 AM
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How do you swim? You have to get in the water and let go...
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 06:23 AM
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While I agree in theory...be careful not to pretend that she is going to fight a grown man and win. I know...you saw it in a movie...reality, not so much. Even female law enforcement officers regularly get their ass handed to them in the street by male suspects. It's not a lack of spirit, it's just muscle mass and size. It applies to men too...small guys don't generally do well fighting big guys. Fight like hell...yes. Refuse to be a victim, great. Realize that if a generic female ends up going …
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 06:21 AM
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Real answer...full disclosure, I'm a Cop- Don't drink or use drugs...or hang out with people who do. The vast majority of bad shit that can happen to you, will start with the line "We were drinking and..." Use basic safety measures- Lock your doors, don't go to crappy parts of town, avoid dangerous situations. Yeah, it's lame, weak, whatever...but that art exhibit in the ghetto is not worth getting raped behind a dumpster by an AIDS infected crackhead. Fortify your residence. This is easy...just…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 06:11 AM
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I had a former GF that did that for me. Honestly, it was better than awesome. It was better than anything in the history of the world. It was like a wave washing over me when I was around her, a wave that would drown out every problem, every distraction, every other thought than her and how much she truly loved me. When she cooked, it wasn't a meal...it was love. When she did anything, it was done in a way that showed love above and beyond the act itself. Then I was seduced by a mistress called …
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 07:13 AM
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Demand his phone. Check text messages and e-mail. Your answer will be in his reaction.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/17 12:05 AM
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Intense exercise and reading...seriously. Those two things give you physical health/strength and mental health/strength as you have knowledge. Personally, James Dobson has some great books...even if you aren't religious, they can untangle a lot of the how/why of life, love, and relationships. Building your knowledge is just as important as building your body. Both matter. You can't win if you just build one.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 02:50 AM
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Dread game does not work on men. It is pure relationship failure. It brings in doubt and thoughts of cheating. It will end badly. Just have his T checked. LL is almost always from low T. A trip to the doc, some T cream, solved.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 01:02 AM
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Western feminism can only exist in a protected and privileged society where actions are largely divorced from consequences. Feminism doesn't exist in the third world or similar countries because failure there results in things like starvation. It is functionally the same reason that Atheists target Western Christians rather than go to say...Saudi and target Sunni Muslims. One results in a Youtube video...and one would result in violent death.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 04:27 AM
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When there are equal coal miners, garbage men, iron workers, crab fishermen, sewer technicians, and similar...we can talk about equality in shit jobs. Truly shitty manual labor jobs are virtually 100% male. Farming isn't dangerous unless you are stupid and I say that as an Ag major and third generation farmer. It can be physical...but unless you cut corners and do stupid things, you aren't getting hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 02:34 AM
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Ok...this has to be a first...a guy who wished is gf had smaller breasts. That has to be a joke. Frankly...a fit/skinny girl with natural large breasts is like finding a unicorn. He is a fool if he doesn't embrace that. He will never find that again. He should realize how lucky he is and live the dream.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 12:35 AM
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The thing with that article...she figured it out...and then she chose not to accept the reality she discovered. The author still identifies with the concepts of "democratic" socialism and far left politics, she just didn't like the reality of it at street level, so she chooses not to go back into the street. That is vastly different from realizing that socialism is a pathway to communism which is a pathway to genocide...and rejecting the entire thing in favor of individualism and natural human r…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 12:27 AM
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Books on things you are not good at...how to be what you want to be. You are not alone. Even in social organizations like Fraternities and Sororities, they have to have full on classes to teach behavior, etiquette, how to dress, how to converse, and similar. If that's your only problem, you can solve it via learning and practice. Read...and practice.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 03:08 AM
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Mindset. The mind is the filter, by which you perceive the world. With the proper mindset, you can be happy almost anywhere. Mindset drives life. It sets activity in motion and defines goals. It motivates you to get off the couch and in the fight. Having said all that...mindset is unique to each person and you need a teacher that speaks your language, metaphorically speaking. I learned mindset through history, but I also enjoy the history of people and how/why they lived. If you are interested i…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 07:48 AM
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Yeah, what would I know, having lived in the third world countries that those "men" are running away from. You assume that you are talking to western men in this conversation. That isn't accurate. They live in a third world country because their cultural values created that country. It didn't just happen by itself. Bring those values into your counrty and it will recreate itself. There isn't magic dirt in first world countries that just happens to create successful nations. It is culture. Their …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 02:07 AM
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Wow...that almost sounds like a troll post...either that or Hypergamy in action with some AWALT thrown in. Either way, hypergamy is real. The world needs all types and women who are happy to be plates can be useful to those who spin plates. Some women like being a plate...more power to them...just wouldn't want to put a ring on it...ever. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 01:58 AM
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None so blind, as those who refuse to see.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 01:55 AM
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Or, maybe it is perfectly rational to not want third world savages raping your wives, daughters, and scamming welfare. What value do the savages bring to successful nations?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 10:52 PM
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34 It was too late, frankly. We make it work...but you don't have the energy and it takes a lot longer to recover, compared to my 20s. Health issues happened... We will likely not get to spend a lot of healthy time with our grandkids (once my kids get married, not there yet) compared to people who had kids in their 20s. If I could talk to my younger self, I would say to have kids much earlier. The money didn't matter. It couldn't fix health issues and it can't buy years that I won't get with my …
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 10:45 PM
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Wash it. Shampoo it when you shampoo your hair...every day. Keep it trimmed and shaped correctly. Use beard products as needed to keep it conditioned and groomed. Taylor of Old Bond Street, Trumper's, and similar are good brands of men's grooming products and are are sold on Amazon.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 10:42 PM
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Betas will gladly suffer for the possibility of sex. They will give their labor, their money, and their future...and most women will look at them in disgust, as they should. There is no shortage of men willing to get married. There is a serious shortage of quality men willing to get married. Thank those who wrote current divorce laws for that reality.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 10:38 PM
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Why should they not be left destitute? Serious question, what gives that person the moral authority to seize the assets and future labor of another person, under penalty of death or imprisonment? Because they would be poor? So what...how is that the responsibility of someone else? Slavery is defined as the seizure/force of another person's labor, maintained through violence. That is the clear definition of Alimony. Pay or go to jail. Resist going to jail and you die. No person is entitled to the…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 10:34 PM
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Honest answer- Men will look at past performance as the first and best indicator of future performance. It would be hard to get past that from a "do I want this person to teach my daughter how to be a woman" standpoint. If you have changed, move...move far away where nobody knows you or knows anyone who knows you. Otherwise, "old friends" bring you to your past. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 11:57 PM
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Alimony is slavery. If you refuse to be a slave, you go to debtors prison. It is wrong all day, every day. Alimony, and onerous child support that never reaches the children, is why the MGTOW movement exists. Men are walking off the plantation. The sad thing is that it's the good women that get hurt as high value men, who are smart enough to see the courts for what they are, will refuse to get married as they see the slavery in the system. Low quality men will still chain themselves to the plow …
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 11:31 PM
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Honest answer- This isn't something a woman can fix. Women can treat the symptoms, but he is the problem. He lacks a male role model in his life and it sounds like he needs a man friend to give him the "harden the fuck up and handle your business" talk. It's painful to hear it and men usually get it about the time they are 16...but it sounds like he never had that talk, Man to Man. There is nothing a woman can do to make that happen. It is a switch that has to be flipped internally and women don…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 10:22 PM
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Dread doesn't work on men. It just pisses them off. Pissed off is not attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 10:03 PM
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Cool story bro. Needs more tight t-shirts and energy drinks though.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 09:56 PM
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You ever notice that when someone wants to get down in the weeds and discuss some uber technical nuance, that the nuance is often irrelevant to the point that world events pass it by? Yet...there are always people who obsess about being the exception to rule...the special case...that "nuance" that they just can't get everyone to see how brilliant it is? Exceptions don't define the norm. Odds are, none of us are the exception. You can search and search for that unicorn that hollywood told you is …
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 07:22 AM
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I don't think you are understanding much of what is said in this thread. Reality just is. We all get a lesson in it, eventually. Age isn't the issue. Good luck to you and your hamster.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 06:48 AM
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As if that false dichotomy you just created is the only option...or even the topic of conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 06:45 AM
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TRP is chaos because it is where broken men land when the world has crushed them. They are in pieces by the time the reach TRP. It is literally Genesis for men to become Men. There is pain in that process. It is a site for men. Women will not comprehend the process of creation. It is an ugly, violent, painful process where hard truths violently assault decades of lies that those men have believed as gospel. Literally, those men have to create an entirely new world view and re-learn every one of …
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 06:39 AM
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No guy...ever.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 06:34 AM
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Improvement? Or...to be patted on the back and given your participation trophy? Conflicting views are not insulting. They distill truth and illuminate false realities. If your reality is proving false, it does you no favor when people pat you on the back and cheer you along.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 06:32 AM
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Truth is often painful when comfortable lies have been told to you for your entire life. Seeing for the first time will hurt your eyes. Still, it is better to see.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 06:26 AM
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The funny thing about standards is that they don't care about your intentions or what you want. Life has a way of sorting people out. Hopes and dreams in one pile...reality in the other. I think reality may hit you very very hard one of these days. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 06:22 AM
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She hit the wall. The wall is real.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 09:49 PM
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Depends on a lot of things...mostly why? The opposite could be equally worrisome. Say...a woman who had been in a string of LTRs and became functionally a serial monogamist. Not that different than riding the CC.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 04:02 AM
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They say there are 2 ways to fool yourself- Refuse to believe that reality is real. Force the substitution of your own reality in place of actual reality. There is plenty of both going on. TRP is reality. It isn't gift wrapped. It doesn't come with a pony and it could care less about your hopes, dreams, goals, and wishes. It is cold hard reality. The good side to it is that, with the Rosetta Stone, you can see the world as it actually is and adapt. The bad side is that the western world has made…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 03:58 AM
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It depends on your goals in life. If you want kids and a more traditional family, there is absolutely a time frame where that works better. If you don't care about any of those, the concept is different.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 11:55 PM
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You don't and can't know which of these groups OP is in, so why would you pressure her to take meds? Meds are not a first option. They are an easy option as it is simpler to pop pills than it is to make disciplined lifestyle changes and hold them long term. Meds are great and do great things for people with legitimate mental illness. They are also tempting to use as a quick fix rather than fix the actual issues in life.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 11:49 PM
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Human beings often thrive on competition and adversity. We are at our best when we have a goal to work towards and a risk of failure. Marriage often becomes that goal line and once we cross it, we stop putting in the same effort that got us to that point. This applies to both sexes. Sexauality/intimacy drops off in a big way. The sweatpants come out. Why put effort in when you now have a ring on it and are hitched for life...or at least hitched to half their stuff and 18 years of child support? …
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 11:43 PM
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Medication for depression often treats the symptoms more than the problems. Anti depressants are hugely over prescribed because it's easier to feel good than work to be good. They are also less stigmatized than simply drinking or smoking mj. Some people truly need Meds....but many use them as an easy route to feel better without fixing the cause of their problem.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/17 09:03 AM
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Feel what you feel...then get over it and fix what needs to be fixed. Feelings are great...but they also serve a purpose- to motivate you to fix something or do more of something that feels good. Often, people see things like sadness or certain levels of depression and they don't actually realize that it is their body telling them to fix what is causing the issue...not just medicate yourself into a stupor or fund your shrink's kids college. Perhaps, your feelings are a sign that you need to take…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/17 03:23 AM
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White men are the butt of constant jokes...the literal embodiment of modern stereotypical beta stupidness. It is a constant feature in TV, movies, advertisements...the bumbling dorky white guy... Go watch some generic TV...black men are featured as strong, suave, masculine...white men are featured as weak, bumbling, incompetent... Even ADT alarm company commercials had to change their generic burglar to a white guy because having him as black, hispanic, or similar was offensive...but not offensi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 02:51 AM
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A Sky Without Eagles. (A clear eyed view on why there are so many beta males in society today and how to fix it) The Warrior Ethos by Pressfield. (Understand how mindset and values shape and are shaped by peers and culture) Gates of Fire, same author. (Understand the history of Women who sent their men to war with the phrase "With your Shield or on it".) Mindset is the sum total of your life. It is your interface between your past and your future. It is your bridge. Mindset is hard. It hurts. It…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 11:50 PM
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Stereotypes exist because they are true. There are exceptions to # 1. If in doubt, see # 1.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 11:09 PM
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AFPJ may be blunt, but it is generally true... It wasn't said in a happy puppy voice...but it is truth just the same. Human beings will be as shitty as reality permits them to be without suffering negative consequences. It is just human nature. It is true of both men and women...but his point that men will get their ass kicked while women will often be given a pass is accurate.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 03:31 AM
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Modern feminism destroys the things that make women special and unique. It forces them into male behavior models where they are less valuable, as there is no shortage of men to fill historically male requirements. It creates a vacuum or shortage of femininity that further drives men away from marriage and family as there is little incentive for a man to seek out someone who only brings to the table, what he already has in abundance. Feminism masculinizes women. It destroys femininity. The result…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 03:27 AM
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Sin will always take you 1 step further than you intend to go.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 06:29 AM
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Weak people rely on group identity for self-worth. This is especially true with groups that require little to no measurable performance in the selection process IE groups based on race, gender, sexual orientation, and so on. Rugged individualism is a term that once had clear meaning. Today...group identity rules. We are not better for the change.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:53 PM
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We are all the sum total of our actions and results...not our intentions.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 12:01 AM
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Raw hypergamy is a bit like playing the stock market on the high risk side...you win big and then you win again...and again...until you don't. Then you crash hard. Unchecked hypergamy will end in a crash...a bad one with a string of destroyed people and step kids in the path.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 01:37 AM
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Because double standards are real, normal, rational, and exist for a reason. There are double standards for numerous points in life. They exist because they are generally logically correct.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 03:47 AM
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Gender integration has feminized American men. Schools are structured around females and their requirements/limitations/privacy/learning style/feelings. We have the most beta group of adult males in the history of our nation. Grown men are living with their parents and playing video games in record numbers... Yet...that SJW hamster is not going to let a lot of women correlate these two realities into one. We complain about the lack of a true "captain"...then we don't want to do the things requir…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 03:44 AM
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Language is not threatening. Weak people use phraseology like that to censor speech that they can't counter from a logical perspective. If you disagree, logic your way to a counterpoint...calling someone's words "threatening" is idiotic. It is the tactic of the social justice morons who can't form a complete sentence without emoting all over the topic.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 03:35 AM
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There was an interesting study a while back that sampled female college students who were majoring in Gender Studies. Of those who self identified as feminists, the most commonly reported sexual fantasy was...rape. They literally fantasized about rape. The psychology of that is warped...but not surprising. Feminism twists the male/female dynamic. It corrupts the balance of energy and responsibilities. The consequences are going to be things like that movie.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 11:09 PM
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Absolute truth...people don't want to accept reality as real, but this is 100% unvarnished truth. Traditional values work. They are the bedrock of a functional society. Kids need a good mom and a good dad. Then need solid standards and core values that are not wishy washy. Reality is not subjective. People try to make it subjective because they suck at life and want to feel better about themselves. Reality is exactly what you just said.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 02:02 AM
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This is going to largely depend on what "country" you are talking about. There is a world of difference in say...getting a job somewhere in the EU and getting a job in West Africa. Cross cultural relationships add layers of difficulty that can get better or worse with time. It isn't good or bad...it is just reality. Things like kids...which culture do they learn? It won't be both, at least not in reality. Which religion... Get divorced...which country do they end up in? What happens when mom/dad…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:40 AM
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"She makes me wait for what she gave freely to losers". Good luck with that. It is admirable that you have found your path. Reality is still real. You gave a precious set of experiences away...for free...to guys who obviously were not worthy. A worthy man will see this as reality and then see you deny him what you gave freely to lesser men. Does not compute... Not saying you are wrong...you are right to stop riding the CC...but it's a bit late and you are going to have a serious uphill battle. M…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:25 AM
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TRP is a roesetta stone. It is an interpreter, used primarily by men, to understand how men and women work and why. It has no more morality than a dictionary. What you do with what is interpreted...that is where morality comes into play.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:21 AM
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Weed out the No Go applicants early and often. Flat out, whether it is for a job, a sports team, a project...or in dating...get rid of the losers early and you will be much happier. Keeping a loser around will prevent you from finding a winner. They consume your attention and energy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 04:18 AM
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Do you think that "tight physique"...a clear humble brag to claim attractiveness...just might open some doors? Just maybe, that veiled "look how pretty I am" claim just might be a clear example of correlating attractiveness with success while trying to simultaneously infer that success was 100 merit and had nothing to do with being pretty? Come on. It's great to be pretty, healthy, in shape, well dressed...whatever. Don't act like doors don't get opened easier for men and women with a "tight phy…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 11:06 PM
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Frankly, that is impossible if you are interacting with men and women in the general public. There are doors opened for women that are simply not opened for men. There are EEO requirements for a given # of females...quotas and similar throughout the job market. Check out any gov contract. Points for every EEO category. There are huge numbers of educational programs (internships, scholarships, etc.) that are open only to females. To say that, in a world that is heavily weighted towards setting yo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 04:57 AM
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ng liberal heart, my wife is so compliant to me that I get quizzical looks in public and I'm casually solicited for dating advice pretty regularly. If my refusal to accept the current state of affairs (which is what brought me to TRP in the first place) is incompatible with TRP, how did I establish and maintain an RP relationship? There are plenty of leftists that are authoritarian in nature, and thus...somewhat akin to red pill. Heck, Smedly Butler won two medals of honor and ended his life as …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 03:29 AM
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This is true. No Porn. No Fap. Drugs...ED drugs build confidence and confidence solves the need for ED drugs. For many men, they need 30 days of Cialis and never need it again as their confidence is restored and their muscle memory has shifted from porn to real women. Beyond that, foreplay...lots. Man muscles need to be exercised. You can't bring it out once a month and expect peak performance. Just like you jog a few times a week...use it or lose it. Plus, find his/her buttons...lady in the str…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 04:51 AM
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I think it really started to swing post Gamer-Gate, when the white knights started getting shamed publicly. Nowdays, "white knight" is an insult and the beta orbiters who try to white knight are shamed loudly and publicly by other men. That is eye opening... Men, more so young men, are awake to the BS. TRP or whatever it is...has had real impact.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 04:42 AM
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The best advice I ever got on married sex is to say yes. If at all possible, say yes. Your partner is committed to you and only you. They have nowhere else to go and they are coming to you for affection. Rejection in that realm can be crushing. Motivation is relative. Sometimes there is motivation, then action. Sometimes, there is action...and then motivation.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 10:44 PM
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Men are built to endure. They are made from the ground up, to suffer. The construction of the male body and brain gives them the ability to buckle down and fight through problems. From an evolutionary standpoint, this was needed as the men had to work like a trojan slave, fight off savages, and come home alive. This evolutionary trait is still there, despite not being as needed. Unfortunately, it can leave men sitting in bad situations that they endure and endure and endure. Their brain keeps te…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 10:11 PM
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Anybody that is undecided on politics, at this point in the game, is either lazy or stupid. It as clear as TRP's theory on dating, which team does what. You would have to self delude to think the political left is good for men...or pretty much anyone else. There are shitbirds on all sides...but damn...this is pretty basic. Politics isn't rocket science. Pick a team...the one that is best for you, your family, your country. Done.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 02:19 AM
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He doesn't care about your career. Frankly, it is as close to the last thing on his list as possible. He cares about you, your relationship with him, and your future together. If your career gets in the way of any of those things that he actually cares about, he will have a big problem with it. Separate your identity from your job/education. Later in life, the things that you think matter...won't matter. The things that will matter are your husband, your family, and your relationships. Your care…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 11:59 PM
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Hmmm... That's a dangerous path. Never use sex as a weapon or a motivational tool. It is not a reward or a gift. It is an expression of love and desire. Anything else...bad ending. Sex comes in two forms- Validational and Transactional. Validating sex is like crack for a man's brain. It is fuel for his life. He is the king of the world when he gets it. Transactional sex is the "ok, but be quick, I'm tired" sex...or the "well, he did something nice for me today" sex... It is the end of the relati…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 06:44 AM
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There is a lot of hard truth in that post. Sometimes, I think men learn early that not everyone gets to be an astronaut and adjust accordingly. There are a lot of young people these days that don't comprehend that they need to adjust their expectations or make serious changes to themselves. Men figure this out, often after rejection or infidelity. It's the gateway to TRP. The thing is....after TRP, they often have long memories and zero interest in American women beyond sex. Some very interestin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 02:18 AM
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While that is one answer, the fundamental problem is this- The highest goal of a follower of Islam is to emulate Mohamed. He is the perfect muslim, yes? So, lets look at what all he did to see what we should do in our lives- Slaves...yes, lots of them. Killed men, captured their wives, made them sex slaves for himself and his men, killed their kids, and so on. Murdered men, women, children....yep. For reasons like being another religion, having a pretty wife that he wanted...things like that. Ra…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 05:00 AM
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Go to the gym. Cardio and lift. Eat right. Perfect sleep hygiene. Limit screen time to 45 min a day max. Perfect multiple crafts from making perfect coffe to building a proper men's wardrobe. Read the Commandants reading list, starting with Gates of Fire and The Warrior Ethos. Shop for fresh food and understand what it is. Open a brokerage account and learn to invest. Feel the rewards and the risk. Go live in the woods for a month with you, your thoughts, and your gear. Find your center and live…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 08:40 AM
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Seeing as Sweden has imported an actual real world rape culture and is now the rape capital of the western world, increasing their rate of sexual assault by about 1200% over the last decade...yeah, they have a legitimate reason to march. The women who was raped on livestream facebook a few days ago in Sweden by military aged male refugees would likely agree. No need to assume anything as math doesn't lie and you can watch the video of her being raped by multiple "refugees" via google. Yet...thos…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 01:40 AM
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So...what is the point? Exactly what is the goal? A social event? Great that people got together and got some exercise...to what end and for what purpose?
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 01:36 AM
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You use words like "right"...perhaps without understanding the definition of a right. It is tempting to call things that you like, "Rights"...but you might want to follow a narrow definition of that word as it will get used to do the opposite of what you like when the pendulum swings the other way. Empowering government to create "rights" that you like, also empowers them to create "rights" that you don't like or to take "rights" away from you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 01:34 AM
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She is directly connected to militant Islamic organizations that actively subjugate women, gays, and minorities. She is $$$ for her work. It's not altruistic.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 07:13 AM
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Disagreeing with you doesn't invalidate my opinion. Neither does pointing out the illogical nature and timing of this circus. See, this is my issue with third wave feminism...you can't question them without being labeled as sexist, homophobic, racist, or whatever. It's like they run on some strange emotional cocktail of exuberant victimhood where credibility is based on theoretical oppression points rather than fact. Cross continent? What does that even mean? Quantify it in specific terms and sh…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 07:10 AM
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What are you trying to say? The entire point is that there was no point...your point is equally unclear. Validity for what? Were women not allowed to vote in the Presidential election? Were they not allowed to speak in public or engage in their enumerated rights, as per the Constitution?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 04:03 AM
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It seems ironic, that they are marching in a country where women actually are equal...when there are so many countries where women are treated like cattle. Yet, one of their primary organizers supports Sharia and similar, which is the exact opposite of empowering for women. Where is the march for the women that had her rape livestreamed on facebook last week in Sweeden? Where is the march through the no go sections of Paris, London, and similar? Women are not safe in those places. Women are abus…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 01:15 AM
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improving will take before he feels more confident. But I know as a person I need accountability. Reading what Laura Doyle says, to not bring up the Surrendered Wife. I don't want to tell him about my improvement. But because I am not any time at risk of losing him, I am ashamed to say that I do not have much accountability. (This concerns exercise, pleasing him, food, gifts/cards, and planning time together.) How do I get myself to serve him like he deserves? How do I create an environment that…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 01:06 AM
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Nothing from nothing...maybe english is your second language...but that sounds like bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 09:24 PM
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Yes and no. Generally speaking...it depends on large part on the man you seek to be with. What does your career or activism bring to the relationship in real terms? Does it add stress or remove stress? Is it in competition for your time/energy? What does "winning" look like for you vs your future husband and what would constitute failure?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 04:43 AM
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