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| 1 | Field report : Pedestal removal made everything click.There's a strange cross over between doing something to validate yourself and doing something to validate others, you're right in thinking that I still try to validate myself, and that's something I still need to work on because it will remain a sticking point until I can learn that I don't have to. Everyone has insecurities, and no matter how hard you work on them, there will always be that sense of doubt in your mind about whether you're good enough or not, that's the self validation that ever… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/18 10:20 AM |
| 4 | Field report : Pedestal removal made everything click.Was apologizing for using unusual terminology, as it ultimately made the post more difficult to understand | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/18 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Field report : Pedestal removal made everything click.There's no shame in apologizing for anything you do, my man. The shame is when you don't apologize for something you definitely should. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/18 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Field report : Pedestal removal made everything click.Yeah, now that I am at least somewhat aware of what was going wrong, I should have more control over it, even if my mind does still race a million miles a minute. All the best to you :) | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Field report : Pedestal removal made everything click.Exactly, if you don't give a fuck then she mostly won't either. If she doesn't want it, she will make that clear, even if you get rejected, it's still a learning curve, and will help you with rejections in the future | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Field report : Pedestal removal made everything click.It's hurts to say it. But Netflix and too much chill. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Field report : Pedestal removal made everything click.Didn't even kiss them to get them back, literally just suggested that they come back to mine to watch Netflix. "I've got a projector in my room, let's go watch something" or something along those lines | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Field report : Pedestal removal made everything click.Sorry, pull in this context mean anything. And yeah it is hard to understand, they're in your bed, obviously they want you to do something, but my issue was not that they wanted me to do something, but instead that I kept having this mental battle with myself, they were in my bed yes, but they were on the pedestal now, they expected me to perform, and they expected me to be somewhat good. For some reason this whole thing freaked me the fuck out, and nothing ever happened, because I didn't take a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Field report : Pedestal removal made everything click.Sorry my man, will do in the future | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 03:56 PM |
| 11 | Field report : Pedestal removal made everything click.Agree with the guy above, You can read all you want about how to stop giving a fuck, but by actively trying to not give a fuck, you're giving a fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Learn from my mistake : escalation is everythingThat's really good advice, thank you. I definitely dwell on failure rather than success and find myself thinking "I wish I had hair like him" or similar | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.I have moved on, I'm currently talking to 3 girls and another asked me to fuck her | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Learn from my mistake : escalation is everythingI'm not ugly, but I'm not amazingly attractive I'm currently talking to 3 girls and another asked me to fuck her, so I'm not doing too bad. It's just this girl I'm particularly not okay with. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.First day I didn't kino, the two classes was very small amount of contact, waited until the next lunch, which was about 2 weeks after to attempt kino. After the initial meeting me it had been about 3-4 weeks, I waited too long to escalate | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.On the brightside, her dad likes me /s Stoooooop, this is a trap. There is no bright side here. Just kill the parasite before it grows anymore. It was sarcasm, but yeah, i'll cut off contact, keep her wondering | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.That's my main issue, I don't have any self-respect | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.She's a Virgin, but I get that I'm a beta orbiter and need to stop | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.Thanks, I'll just say I'm busy | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 02:47 PM |
| -7 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.I know, It's the holidays so I won't be seeing her anyway, afterwards I will stop hanging out with her and find some different girls instead. And if I do decide to see her again, I'll approach other girls in front of her to dread game her | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.Luckily it's the christmas holidays so I won't have the Friday lunches to see her anyway, when we go back i'll say that i have to focus on work, and will have to rearrange when it's more convenient. On the brightside, her dad likes me /s | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Learn from my mistake : escalation is everythingI have massive self-esteem issues, I know that when I go to say it I would just crumble. My inner game is incredibly weak, I'm not phased by rejection, but more phased by the idea that girls are actually interested in me at all. Any advice on fixing that? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Learn from my mistake : escalation is everythingCause i'm a pussy who can't strike up the courage to say "I don't want to be your friend, I want to fuck you til you beg for mercy twice" | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Learn from my mistake : escalation is everythingI never pay for anything for her, and she's only once used me as an emotional tampon. The rest of the time we go out, grab lunch, sit in the park and laugh and joke, I always make some form of sexual joke and she always rolls her eyes or punches me, but the whole time we're together we're laughing and having fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 01:29 PM |
| 6 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.She was talking about how she can never find a guy, and I went full beta and said "I'm here " to which she said "no, it's my job to friend zone you, I friend zone every guy I meet" which is just her way of finding an excuse A few weeks later she started complaining to me about the guy she likes and that he's a bad guy and that she keeps finding herself attracted to bad guys, and "but you're a good guy, and you shouldn't change that" I'm well aware she's not into me and have moved onto other girl… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 01:14 PM |
| -3 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.Because annoyingly she's one of the few people I genuinely always have fun with, even if I come out with a bad taste in my mouth afterwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 12:58 PM |
| 6 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.I had a similar and equally frustrating experience. So I met this girl on the train up to London, we started chatting and then ended up walking and talking and exploring London together for the next few hours before returning back to where we both attend college. I didn't try to escalate on the first time, but we planned to see each other a few days later as we were joining two separate classes together. The first class was perfect for kino as we were in a self defense class, so naturally we had… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 12:33 PM |
| 7 | About to lose my virginity, need advice15 minutes of kissing 15 minutes of teasing 15 minutes of squeezing and 15 minutes of blowing your top | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 09:20 PM |
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