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#JustLVMThingsCoder-Cat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:43 AM
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RANTCoder-Cat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:30 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!Coder-Cat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:14 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMECoder-Cat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:07 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSCoder-Cat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:10 AM
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Coder-Cat/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:35 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTCoder-Cat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:04 PM
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REMINDER 👑Coder-Cat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 09:12 PM
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NAH, SISCoder-Cat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:37 AM
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DiscussionCoder-Cat/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:23 AM
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So this has never happened in all my almost 40 years to myself or any woman I know. But also, a woman who becomes “deformed” still looks for the same values in a man she had before whatever happened, happened. She’s not gonna be like “I’m scarred for life but Jimmy the Gamer who loves Furry Porn and steals his little brothers Adderall thought I was cute so maybe he’ll fuck me in return for whatever’s left over from whatever jobs he might be working this month” Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:15 AM
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Oh geez. Just say you don’t like women and move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:19 PM
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Sorry, I should have been more clear. Women 20-44. It’s #9. Just scroll down the link you sent. Here’s the homicide https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-021-03392-8
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:28 PM
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Pregnancy and childbirth is the one of the top teas leading causes of death for women in the United States. And that doesn’t include homicide, which is the leading cause of death for pregnant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:45 PM
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Pregnancy and childbirth is more dangerous for a woman than work is for a man. More men die at work because during any given time, more men are working then woman are pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:04 AM
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Every workday I brush my hair, put on lipgloss and dress in clothes I could wear into the office. I haven’t stepped foot in an office since 2018. My one morning standup is video optional. Wearing work clothes makes me feel ready for work even if no one else sees me. It’s a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:50 PM
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I mean, if you’re going on looks alone but women don’t judge men based solely off looks. Alcoholism - https://www.mayoclinicproceedings.org/article/S0025-6196(20)30926-5/fulltext Criminal population- https://fairpunishment.org/male-vs-female-incarceration-rates/ Heart disease - https://www.verywellhealth.com/heart-disease-men-vs-women-4126017 Type 2 diabetes - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27490920/ Also, give an overweight(not even obese) man over the age of 30 a drink and you know what he ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:24 PM
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The study was done by some undergrads at a private evangelical college in California.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:52 PM
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This so called “study” was done by some undergrads at AN EVANGELICAL CHRISTIAN COLLEGE. Ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:51 PM
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I did. Like a lot of women I recognized that it’s not a cult and not every rule applies to every situation. Some rules didn’t apply to me but the ones that did helped me develop healthy boundaries and put a vocabulary to why certain things made me uncomfortable. I’ve been with my current SO for over a year now and it’s the healthiest, most fulfilling relationship I’ve ever been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:44 AM
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It means that women value a man for more than just his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:48 AM
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I cannot believe I have to say this again. That “OKCupid” survey also found that while women rated most men as unattractive, they were still responded to or contacted by women on a pretty even bell curve. The bottom 5% of men were contacted by or had a response from 5% of the women on the site. Women, on the other hand, most men reached out to the top 25% of women while the bottom 5% were contacted by 0% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:11 AM
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It didn’t get banned, they left due to the harassment the mods were getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:30 AM
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I’ll pay half the bill when men start shaving their legs and armpits, dying their hair when it goes grey, wearing makeup, wearing high heals, plucking their eyebrows, moisturizing daily, waxing or bleaching anything, fearing for their safety every time they go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:38 PM
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Your doctor is wrong and you need to find a new one. The whole 35 yo cliff thing is nothing but a myth. It’s easier and safer when you’re younger, sure, but so is running a marathon. Your doctors an idiot. https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2021/apr/10/fertility-cliff-age-35-week-in-patriarchy Edit: I’ve got 6 nieces and nephews. Only one of them was born to a sister under 35, only one of them was in-vitro(then she got pregnant naturally at 40) and all of them are healthy. Ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:10 PM
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The worst is that they’re always correct until Joe Rogan says otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:15 AM
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“It’s OK to watch porn because those aren’t real women”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:00 PM
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Dating services aside, because they’re expensive, meeting a guy in the wild makes him no safer than meeting him online. He’s still a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:56 PM
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I don’t have kids, but I’ve always wanted them (goal is to be a foster mom in the next three years). I don’t say this to other women when they talk non stop about their babies, but it hurts a bit. With that being said, my response is to say “I have cats so I wouldn’t know anything about that” and shrug. After the fourth or fifth time they usually get the point that I don’t have kids and can contribute literally zero to the conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:27 PM
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Dorky introvert lady here. I could walk out out my front door wearing cat slippers and a Harry Potter bath robe and be pregnant by the time I reached my mailbox. I’m here because I’m sick of being treated like a cum dumpster and expected to be thankful because “he doesn’t beat you!!!” or “he doesn’t cheat!!!” because hygiene, goals and respect are a perk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:48 PM
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Dude, need to up your trolling game, I can’t even come up with a clever response to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:22 AM
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FDS changed my life. Also, PPD is a terrible place to ask this kind of question, most people who subscribe to this sub also subscribe to subs like TRP and MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 03:32 AM
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When I was in the Navy (so so so many years ago) I realized all woman were reduced to one of four categories that basically summed up why we (female sailors) were never going to have sex with them (random male sailor). Married- already being fcked by someone else. Lesbian- fcking woman. Btch - never going to fck you. Slut- f*cking everyone but you. It’s was a startling and sad lesson but I’m glad I learned it early in my adult life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:41 PM
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“I have a sarcastic sense of humor.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:46 PM
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WTF? Where’s this coming from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:20 AM
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Dogs love because they have to. Cats love because they want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 03:01 AM
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I was gonna laugh at this but then I realized, no, you’re serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:46 PM
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My sister and I have been working in male dominated fields as engineers our whole adult lives , the best advice I can give you for this job and everyone after - write everything down. Every single solitary thing he says and does that is of putting or weird, keep a daily journal of it. And then report him. They can ignore complaints, but they’ll be hard pressed to ignore a well documented and thorough history of behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:07 PM
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LOUDER!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:14 AM
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My ex wasn’t abusive, but holy hell he was the literal poster child for “LMV”. Porn addict, video game addict, no friends, no goals, LAZY AF, overweight, constantly blamed “ADHD” for his failures.... I left him while he was deployed. EVERYONE thought I was the bad guy because he was “So nice!”. Even my mom was mad at me. That was 6 years ago. I’ve tripled my salary and now make 6 figures because I did all the things I wanted to do that were too “risky” for him. I’ve bought and sold two houses, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:48 PM
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I’m in my late 30’s and I found FDS two years ago. For me, it was like coming home. I was actually in therapy at the time because one of the issues I’d been dealing with is coming to terms with the fact that I’ll likely never have a family. Instead of helping, both therapists I saw insisted I’d meet someone if I just got out more, kept my options open(lowered my standards), maybe joined a club!!! I couldn’t stress enough that meeting someone wasn’t an issue, it was the exhaustion of never being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:25 PM
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So, we can all agree that she is spot on. But also, that tank top❤️❤️❤️ its so cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:24 PM
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I don’t like talking about this, ESPECIALLY because of my ex, but after our divorce I went and got tested for learning disabilities due to, well, reasons. One of the three issues I was diagnosed was “a clear case of ADD”. If you look at the list of symptoms for ADD in woman, I could be the poster child, down to the bad hand writing and being the queen of hitting parked cars. Crazy thing is, my diagnosis made me work harder to correct the issues I’d been struggling with because I all of a sudden …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:31 PM
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Can confirm. I married to someone who was paralyzed with “I have ADHD!?!?!” and for someone who was diagnosed with a disorder that had the word “hyper” in it, he was the LAZIEST MF ON PLANET EARTH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:33 AM
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Can we add “pedophilia in books” to the list of disgusting plot devices that is overused? I don’t read much anymore but off the top of my head “The Kite Runner”, “City of Thieves” The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo”, “Beasts of No Nations” , “The Outsider”. I have never read a child rape scene and been like “this book was made better by this”. I get that it’s important for some plots, but a lot of the time it just seems gratuitous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:28 PM
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Lol. You’ve got it the wrong way, it’s actually FDS trolling the men who lurk there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:56 AM
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Ashley and Brit from the “Crime Junkies” or the ladies from “My Favorite Murder” . I would love to hear their perspectives of dating and personal safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:18 PM
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You should have heard how he whined and yelled when I told him “it’s not my job to manage your anxiety”. He thought all the audacity was mine that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:20 PM
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Put on a gd shirt that fits and doesn’t have a f-ing super hero on it. Please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:38 AM
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I dated a guy who had social anxiety. We couldn’t go out in public (unless we were doing exactly what he wanted to do) and then would yell at me when I spoke above a whisper because he “hAs AnXiEtY” and I guess he thought it was my job to manage it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:34 AM
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I once dated a “shy guy”. He had social anxiety and yelled at my in the car any time I spoke above a whisper in public. What an f-ing douche canoe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:09 PM
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:D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:29 AM
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We met on Bumble I’m pretty sure. I didn’t even think it would go anywhere because it turns out that stable and healthy men are kind of boring up front. Not in a bad way, but he didn’t need to tell me a bunch of funny or exciting stories to distract me from the fact that he’s really a terrible person. I was like “why does he keep asking me questions about myself? Doesn’t he have anything to say?” Lol. No, he’s actually really interesting and warm and funny, just didn’t show it off. And he’s youn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:26 AM
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My thumbs are tired but look man, every woman has her idea of an ideal mate. It’s disingenuous to go on there, list all the things every woman dislikes and says “See, look! They hate every man!!” The basic rules of FDS is an LMV is someone who abuses, is lazy, unhygienic, objectifies women and treats them like mothers. Not doing those things doesn’t make a man HV tho, it’s just the lowest bar. In order to be HV a man must respect woman enough to understand that they have more to lose in a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:00 AM
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If the only thing you get out of that sub is that ONE piece of advice that I’m not sure many woman even follow because have you even had sex with men lately(?!?!?), then don’t sweat it man. It’s not the type of woman you want to date, get over it and move on. I don’t care, FDS DEFINITELY doesn’t care so it’s not a big deal
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:49 AM
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There’s this crazy idea that FDS is only for hot women, that it only works for hot women and it drives me bonkers. Like, having boundaries and expecting men to respect them is only a gift afforded to the young and attractive, but if you’re not that WELLLL THENN you’re just LUCKY a man would even want you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:44 AM
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Yes, and of course in the eyes of these men women who are fat or old or ugly aren’t really women anyways so how dare they think they deserve respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:21 AM
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So what you’re saying is that woman over 30 shouldn’t expect to have standards and be respected and just get what she can because she’s over 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 03:06 AM
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She wants a tall, ripped, rich dude who’s willing to wait to have sex... Have you ever been to that sub? Most of the women on there complain about porn addicted, lazy, gaslighting d-bags who don’t do anything but play video games all day. Or some combination of that. It’s not FDS telling you you’re not good enough to be a man with high values. It’s not FDS telling you the only type of men who deserve women with high values are 6’ and rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:31 PM
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So unattractive men can’t be HMVs? I’m sorry but no. “High value” simply means they value theme selves, their communities, their health, their relationships, ect... Therefore they’ll value their future wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:56 PM
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A HVM gets a HVW. The WHOLE PURPOSE of that sub is to protect women from relationships with men who don’t really want to be with them. If you peruse that sub for longer than a few minutes you’ll realize that 90% of it is about vetting toxic and abusive men while leveling up personally (career, health, goals). If a man wants a woman who respects herself, takes care of her body and mind, has healthy interpersonal relationships, she’s going to expect the same from him. If he spends most his time pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:36 PM
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Sorry! I knew I couldn’t link the sub, I did t know mentioning it was also against the rules!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:20 AM
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Head on over to the , * see edit* sub to see many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many many more examples of this. *edit: Mentioning that sub anywhere else is against their rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:10 PM
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FDS hasn’t helped me find a good man, but it saved me from wasting months, if not years, on men who don’t really want to be with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:11 PM
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Ohhh, that reminds me, I had one marriage therapist tell me that I couldn’t change my ex, no one could, because I wanted him to manage his ADHD better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:55 AM
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I can’t believe this is an actual therapist giving advice. She’s literally advocating expecting as little as possible from someone who’s supposed to love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:16 PM
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Me toooooo. Asking someone to put forth effort is NOT asking them to change who they are as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:13 PM
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Dear Therapist, I'm in a loving, long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for three years, and long-distance for one. We’re both graduate students, and, for the most part, I think we have a healthy, caring, and respectful relationship. But over the three years we’ve been together, the same issue has come up consistently: I am an expressive and emotional person who loves affection and attention, and while he will tell me he loves me freely, he is a reserved person who is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:08 PM
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That was her next step, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:18 AM
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I’m in a long distance relationship with a man and I once mentioned that I regularly buy fresh flowers for myself, because I like them. He has sent me fresh flowers every two weeks since then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:28 PM
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When my LVM ex husband(who was a gamer) and I went to marriage counseling, the counselor told us that gaming had surpassed money as being the #1 problem in most marriages. This was 10 or so years ago and I’m assuming porn consumption is now tied for first with gaming. Edit: oh, I just popped over to the breakingmom sub and the first post I see is a mom with three daughters disgusted over finding out there her husband is having an online affair. His kink? Bratty teenagers. I could vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:50 PM
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This is one of the most important things I’ve seen written here. FDS is for all women because all women deserve respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:27 PM
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Oh. Just before I found FDS I dated a man who had social anxiety and would yell at me in the car if I talked to loud when we were out. Literally anything above a whisper was too loud. I’m embarrassed to say I didn’t block him after the first time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:46 PM
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A man thinks he’s in a woman’s league because he makes more than her and they’re both fat is pretty much what the word hypergamy means. It doesn’t matter if she’s dyes and cuts her hair every three weeks, washes it with special shampoo and conditioner, styles it regularly. Uses three or four different lotions and implements on her face to reduce wrinkles, washes it with special soap and wears makeup everyday. Keeps her nails tidy, clean from dirt and gets them done every month. Removes all her h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 08:56 AM
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Why can’t men just, idk, raise their level of self respect and values to meet the standards of women? It’s sad because a reoccurring theme in the “nice guy” realm is they are explicitly focused on women complaining about jerks and dudes countering that with “well I’m not a jerk! Why can’t I get any ladies?”. As if they don’t understand that hygiene, self respect, physical fitness, intelligence, cleverness, generosity, creativity, loyalty, and a myriad of other attributes make up a personality. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 04:06 AM
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I want to add to this and say the study also found that while men rate women on a pretty even curve, 75% of men messaged only women in the top 25% while women in the bottom 5% received no message at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:05 PM
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Naw, I’m cute and have my shit together and am old enough to be that wonderful girls mom. The responses from men and how shallow they are... that’s what usually makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:15 PM
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Is this gonna depress me?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:08 PM
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Man: “her hair is flawless, she dresses well, her makeup is spot on, she has a job she enjoys, she has good friends, she takes care of her skin, she has hobbies, she regularly works out. BUT SHES FAT so she’s a 5”. Man, also: “I haven’t trimmed my beard in 3 months, all my shirts are oversized graphic t’s, I hate my job, all my friends are online, all my hobbies are online, I have a weight bench in my basement I haven’t used in years. I’M ALSO FAT, so I must be a 5 as well!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:24 PM
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Two words: “Back Hair”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:47 PM
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Lol. I was just about to say I don’t have stray hairs on my chin. I think the point I’m trying to make is women do a fuck ton of maintenance even when we are just “casual”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:41 PM
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“Barely noticeable” are the key words. If they were noticeable, I bet you’d tweeze them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:35 PM
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We can’t let them know we’re adult mammals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:15 PM
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My feelings on this is caring about the way I look shows not only self respect but respect for the person I’m going to hang out with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:37 PM
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Just casual for women means we still have to: Remove most, if not all of our body hair from the neck down (including those black hairs around the nips). Shower using special shampoo, conditioner and exfoliating face wash. Moisturize our whole body. Special moisturizer for the face and eyes. Fuck with our eyebrows. Bleach the stach. Remove stray chin hairs. Touch up the nails. Minimal makeup? Whatever that means. A good mascara and lipgloss still sets you back 30-40$. Hair- it doesn’t matter if i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:34 PM
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I’ve never seen transformers or anything she does so I can’t say I was a fan but I never understood the hate she got. Like, some old potato sack of a face said she was a bitch or spoiled or something but there was a complete lack of evidence. With the press following her around all the time you think they’d caught something stuck up like messaging teenagers on IG super creepy pervy messages or pulling her pants down and masturbating in front of young comedians who looked up to her or forcing you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 04:21 AM
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And if I may be blunt myself, I feel like it's tasteless. Not only that, but you're blaming women for the problems porn has created. They're just symptom of the culture, not the cause. And making fun of them, especially like this, will only alienate them because you're forcing them to look away from you instead of seeing you as an example of how women should treat men who engage in unhealthy pornographic behavior. Porn is fucking awful, I agree. But these women need help, and they're never going…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:52 PM
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It's not the message, it's the way it's being presented.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:23 PM
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What does this have to do with dating respectable men? I’m so tired of seeing this shit everywhere. “This is who you should hate and this is why” is such a poisonous way to spread a message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:54 PM
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This is tasteless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:33 PM
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To clear something up here, women are “catty” and talk behind others back not because they love drama, but because it creates bonds with other women. When Jane says to Beth “OMG, did you see what Sarah was wearing today?!” She’s criticizing Sarah specifically to Beth because Jane sees Sarah as a threat and wants to affirm that Beth also sees Sarah as a threat, therefore, it unites them. And when I say threat I don’t mean “she’s going to kill us and steal our cars” but just in a “I’m afraid you’l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 04:27 AM
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It’s every third guy here. Makes me puke in my mouth a bit whenever I read that. I get that couples who’ve been together for years might want to spice things up a bit, but why on earth would you go INTO a relationship like “I’m already bored with our sex life.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:13 PM
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Many many years ago when online dating was still very new, the first couple to reach out to me I ended up communicating with because I was curious. BREAKING NEWS: The Boyfriend Talked the Girlfriend Into It!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 11:08 PM
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Oh! I forgot about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:15 PM
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“Just ask me anything!”= I take myself too seriously to fill this out. “No Drama!” = Drama follows me everywhere I go and I am the common factor. “Entrepreneur” = I’m an Uber driver and I’m ashamed to admit it. picture running a race = After my last breakup, I decided to run a race. One race. “I love to travel” = chicks seem to dig travel, so I’m putting it on my profile. “I’m 6’whatever, because I guess that matters” = I’m hoping my hight will make up for my lack of personality. *picture with a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:40 AM
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But you’re not addressing the why it makes sense. Most housework isn’t really that important compared to 100 years. You’re argument is that because a woman has time to cook a four course meal or keep the house spotless, she just should. But if she doesn’t care, then the only reason she’s doing it is because her husband cares. You’re advocating that a women do something she dislikes, for absolutely no reason except to make someone else happy. Now, I know what you’re going to say and that’s “he wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:04 AM
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I’m gonna go in a different direction here and say that “The Homemaker” as we know it is a myth anyways. Up until the last century “housework” was actual backbreaking labor that was necessary in order to keep a family alive. Wife had to haul and boil water, hand wash and carry loads of wet clothing, cook damned near everything from scratch or the family just didn’t eat, process any meat(sometimes starting from actually killing the animal), ensure the younger children didn’t get eaten by an anima…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 08:57 PM
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I approve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:33 AM
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Good news! There’s a sub specifically for men called r/ratemycock. It’s got 104k subscribers and it’s nothing but men and their dicks. The funny thing is, some of those guys actually think women frequent the sub 😂 We should all go there and start rating their dicks as detailed as they rate our bodies 🤔 Edit: never mind. Do not go there. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:25 AM
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Get outta here with that nonsense. Men don’t get a say because it’s not their lives at risk. If a woman wants to risk her life and health for a baby, have at it. If she doesn’t but still wants to enjoy sex, she’s got option. Men? It’s nothing but carefree fun for them and we’re supposed to boohoo because they’ve got to financial support a life that a woman risked hers to have? Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:55 AM
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“It won’t let me change my age and I don’t know why”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:29 AM
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The irony is a BIG RED FLAG of a LVM is a man who trashes women he doesn’t want to fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:17 AM
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I have so much sympathy for you because I’ve been dealing with the same exact feelings for a couple of years. “Is THIS IT!?!” waves arms in every direction It’s hard to describe my experiences with dating other than “how is this normal? How does anyone think this is ok?” I keep being told I have to “lower my standards” and I want to scream at the top of my lungs “THEY’RE NOT SKY HIGH TO BEGIN WITH!!!”. I’m about to start seeing a therapist just so I can wrap my mind and heart around the idea tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:05 PM
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The mods for this sub deserve a gd medal and I’ll buy y’all a coffee (or beer or shot or whatever) if I’m ever graced with your presence. Especially who ever came up with the word “scrotes” because, just because, sigh... f-ing scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:48 AM
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I’m not judging you, nor guys who are happy with less but are you sure you’re happy or are you just distracted?If you took away unfettered access to porn and video games, can you say you’re living the type of life you want to live? Having luxury and travel and assets or whatever isn’t just about the happy moments, it’s tangible evidence that someone made a goal and worked to achieve it. There’s learning and growing through the failures that often accompanies success and that makes for a more ful…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:17 PM
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From her whole post, I get the feeling that she thought his interest was genuine and justified his bad behavior for that reason. It’s not hard to see why either. People CONSTANTLY tell women to lower their expectations, be forgiving, be patients blah blah bleeeehh And also, no one wants to admit that they were naive and fell for someone’s lies, especially on this scale. She literally gave up her whole life to be a side chick and now she has to admit to herself that she continuously believed his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:02 PM
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Love can be one hell of a drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:55 AM
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Picky eaters are the worst because they act like it’s a disease or something that they don’t like beans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:30 PM
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I love my men bald so it’s funny to see so many against it. SEND THEM MY WAY PLEASE!!! I don’t care about much when it comes to looks except: Nopes: Does not dress like a man. At bare minimum, he should wear clothes that fit and do not have cartoons on them. (But if a guy shows up with nice jeans and a button up shirt swoon). Any ostentatious piercings are a no as well, but I’m older so I don’t run into that really. Long beards or long hair. I feel like too many men mistake these for having an a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:28 PM
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I was just rewatching “Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind”. When it first came out I thought it was weird that the receptionist Mary( played by 22 year old Kristen Dunst) would ever fall for such an old, potato shaped Dr. Howard( played by 57 yo Thomas Wilkinson) but I loved the movie regardless because the plot was romantic. Now that I’m older the whole thing makes me sick and I can barely watch it when they kiss. Not only that, but the relationship between Joel and Clementine is completely we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:55 AM
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I care more about how he talks about his history than how much history he has. If he refers to women he’s had flings with as whores or “slam pigs” or whatever, it’s disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:12 AM
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OR encourage men to be mature and honest with their intentions instead of excusing them when they make bad decisions due to their emotions. Sorry dude, I think better of men in general than to forgive them for lack of self control that you’re pretty much summing up as “men are children and can’t help it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 04:49 PM
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Welp, sorry dude. Maybe it’s time men rethink they’re position on lying about sex. It’s a terrible thing to say that half the population is so emotional and immature that they should be excused for lying to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 08:09 AM
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So, men have to be dishonest to get it? What this post boils down to is “men are dishonest and women should know this”. How about maybe men stop being dishonest? There are worse things in the world than not having “wet dick”. Lying to get “wet dick” is on that list. Edit: how about instead of making excuses for why men do it (“it feels good”) we hold them up to a higher standard. Just because something feels good, it doesn’t mean lying, cheating, stealing or doing any other dishonest thing to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:50 AM
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This is a copy and paste from another comment but it still applies. If that’s true then why don’t men just say it? If men were clear with their intentions, didn’t play all these weird mind games and were open and honest with what they wanted, things would be so much easier. Unless, of of course, their egos were so fragile that being turned down would mentally break them. Or playing “the game” and tricking/begging/persuading women to fuck them somehow validates their masculinity then, yeah, this …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 07:11 AM
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If that’s true then why don’t men just say it? If men were clear with their intentions, didn’t play all these weird mind games and were open and honest with what they wanted, things would be so much easier. Unless, of of course, their egos were so fragile that being turned down would mentally break them. Or playing “the game” and tricking/begging/persuading women to fuck them somehow validates their masculinity then, yeah, this makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:48 AM
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No, we don’t. A man might be pretty but as soon as he opens his mouth and turds fall out, he’s immediately downgraded to not very pretty. But what sounds like crap to me might be chocolate and diamonds to another women. Women judge men with an entirely different system than how men judge women. Sure, we have deal breakers and things we find conventionally attractive but we don’t lust after a man just because he’s hot or successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 04:28 PM
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I’m just gonna say this. There are no such thing as “Alpha” or “Betas”. Some dudes are trash but most are Ok or better than that. Women don’t rate men in this binary way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:57 PM
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Ohhhh this hit me kinda hard. 10ish years ago I went from a petit runner with a pixie cut to a chubby chick with an awkward haircut in the span of 3 months due to a back injury. My personality didn’t change, but damn if men didn’t start acting irrationally angry towards me. This one time I flirted with a guy AND OH MY GOD you would have thought I called his mom a whore. Another time, a guy was gawking at this women’s ass, he then looked at me and sneered, and then continued gawking at this ladie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:57 PM
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I love this because you put out so many facts that the average male subscriber can’t be like “nah, I don’t believe it because “Chads and fatties” “ or whatever. The sad part is anyone who should read this actually has to read it and take it into consideration but that would go against their actual world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:05 AM
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Again, you’re making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:53 PM
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Well, this is completely made up in every way. Since women live longer than men, are less likely to be alcoholics and are less likely to use tobacco, among other things, all the evidence point to women being healthier than men. But ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 10:24 PM
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You missed the part where 30% of men in America have a BMI that’s in the healthy* range vs the 40% of women. Being overweight is common and telling overweight people that they’re not desirable or sexy is detrimental to most of the population. https://www.kff.org/other/state-indicator/adult-overweightobesity-rate-by-gender/?currentTimeframe=0&sortModel=%7B%22colId%22:%22Location%22,%22sort%22:%22asc%22%7D
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 05:22 PM
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Lasting for 45 minutes does not make a man a good lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:26 AM
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We love it when it’s good. We hate it when it’s bad. The latter happens far more often than the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:59 AM
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If it was about “loneliness” then why is getting with a hooker so fucking taboo? A man can get sex whenever he wants and it’s not that much different from a women saying “I think I’ll hook up tonight”. It’s not like two boobs and a v-jay get you an all access pass to sexy sex with a hot dude. It takes a hell of a lot of time, money and effort to look good and getting turned down is still a real risk. And in the end, no matter who we go home with, it will still probably suck(and not in the fun wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:53 AM
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That’s the problem. It’s not “the starving” vs “stale bread”. It’s “the starving” vs “eating something that looks and taste like bread but really has no nutritional value and leaves me with the shits”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:22 AM
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laughs in plain girl Boy oh boy, let me tell you that “I learned how to sex from porn” transcends all classes of men from “chads” to “often get turned down by women like you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:13 AM
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Let me please introduce you to “The Internet”. The same place that brought you porn can also teach you how to not fuck like all’s you’ve ever done was watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:07 AM
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You don’t understand how bad bad sex can be for women. You’re saying “bad sex is better than no sex” but for women, that’s not the case. There’s a lot of number out there on the topic but the fact is, many men can achieve an orgasm most of the time during PIV sex. For women, the numbers range from 6-65% depending on the context. Imagine if you were horny but couldn’t get it up. Disappointing, right? Now imagine someone was still yanking on your dry flaccid dick repeatedly, how bad would that fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 05:03 AM
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I think for guys they think that sex is like pizza; even when it’s bad, it’s still pizza. They don’t realize that for a lot of women, bad sex isn’t just “meh”, it ranges from boring to embarrassing to downright painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:37 AM
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Thanks for your opinion!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:04 AM
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Woman are warned all the time not to have sex. All. The. Time. Also, your comparison is silly. It’s like saying “you broke your arm once, what’s the big deal if you break it again?”. Pregnancy and childbirth is painful and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:26 PM
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Getting pregnant and having children is not a punishment for having sex, nor should it ever be treated as one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 05:09 PM
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I won’t even argue that first point because access to abortion in America is abysmal. If you think otherwise, you’re not paying attention. Back to reproductive rights. I’ll repeat my last point, reproductive rights apply to reproductive organs. Men don’t have the choice to end a pregnancy early because they’re not the one with those types of reproductive organs. It’s not a “I don’t want kids” argument, it’s a “this is my body”. Terminating a pregnancy is as unique to women’s reproduction as a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:39 AM
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For rich white people, yes, medical science has dramatically reduced the risks associated with pregnancy and childbirth. For rich white women. Men have reproductive rights. They very easily can choose whether or not they want to father a child with someone and that’s the end of their reproductive ability. Reproductive rights pertain directly to reproductive organs. You can’t legally force a guy to jizz in a cup in order to impregnate someone any more than you can force a women to be pregnant if …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 08:37 PM
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A medical procedure is done for medical reasons. Having an abortion is a medical procedure done for medical reasons. If a women just “didn’t want a child” then it would be a simple choice of giving it up for adoption. But women don’t want to be pregnant and give birth because pregnancy and child birth are themselves physically hard on a woman’s body. This is unique to human women. No other primates nor most any other mammal have such a hard time with pregnancy or childbirth. (the hyena is one ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:58 PM
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Literally the reason abortion is legal is because it’s a women’s health issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:33 PM
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Its not hypocrisy because abortion isn’t about “I don’t want to be a parent”, it’s “having a baby is an often risky and sometimes deadly process that we shouldn’t force women to undergo”. These are two different arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:08 PM
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Your right, I did read it wrong. 1-2% of men suffer long term side effects after vasectomy. 31% of women suffer long term side effects after pregnancy and delivery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:02 PM
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You can choose the women you have children with!?!? You don’t actually have to have sex with women you don’t want children with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:53 PM
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Oh, I’m sorry, you’re right. When I compare risk of vasectomy complications to risk of pregnancy I see that 1%-2% of all patient suffer serious complications. Let’s see, hmm, let’s look at the complications from child birth... 31%. You have a wealth of knowledge at your fingertips. Use it to gain some empathy. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Complications_of_pregnancy https://www.auanet.org/guidelines/vasectomy-guideline
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:15 AM
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And it’s 176 members? 3x plus more women die a year from pregnancy related causes. Edit: in the US alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:40 AM
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r/badwomensanatomy r/badmensanatomy Getting a tubal ligation is an invasive procedure, as well as harvesting eggs. It takes 3-4 weeks of hormone injections just to ensure that enough viable eggs are able to be removed. The removal is a procedure in it of itself. The procedure can cost up to 6000$ without insurance. The recover time is about three weeks. Vasectomies on the other hand... To harvest sperm all’s it takes is a, well, ya know. Vasectomies cost half as much. Recovery time is half (1 to…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:37 AM
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I mean, if men don’t want babies than why not just, ya know “snip snip”. It seems like such an easy solution. It’s a one time procedure. Has less side effects than hormonal birth control, getting tubes tied, abortion and pregnancy. It’s WAY cheaper than child support and so is freezing sperm for later use, if the need arises. I just don’t understand why more men don’t do it when the risk of paying child support is so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:00 AM
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Wait, so hot people want to date other hot people? Did you also know that water is wet? I don’t know why this is so upsetting. Men will always get the prettiest girl he can get and bases this solely on a woman’s looks. A woman values a man for a a whole list of reasons. Looks is one of them but a 30 year old women isn’t going to date an 18 year old man who works as a barista just because he’s hot. No more than a 30 year old man is going to date a 30 year old women if he can get a hot 18 year old…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/19 11:57 AM
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I see posts like this and I feel like this needs to be pointed out because you all seem to be confused: Women are not as visually stimulated as men and “Hot” means totally different things. A hot woman is young, skinny, great skin, etc... A hot man is a mix of different things. He can be bald but really kind. He can be short but great with kids. He can have a great job but be older. He can be hot but be a dick. It’s more of a pros vs cons kind of a thing for women. A hot women is always going to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/08/19 03:42 AM
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