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| 2 | Just how bad did I handle this situation?It's salvageable. Keep gaming on and don't explain unless it comes up on the date. I would've went for the number at the latest when she asked someone to walk her to the car. | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 04:50 AM |
| 4 | WTF? Success at first try!Girls hand out number like candy. Congrats on the weight loss though, keep on approaching. | /r/seduction | 26/04/14 04:33 AM |
| 2 | How to piss off not 1 but 2 women at the same timeI think what you meant by your convoluted story and 'indirect speech' is don't take a woman's words at face value. There's some subcommunication going on. If you read Book of Pook and Models, both of these authors review subcommunication and what women actually mean when they say certain phrases. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 10:44 PM |
| 1 | It finally happened after 21 years, a girl said yes to a date.The average guy doesn't even get laid once a week or month. No one is here because they want to be average. | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 02:11 AM |
| 5 | It finally happened after 21 years, a girl said yes to a date.Nothing on this subreddit helped me because you guys think women are complicated games. Lol at you getting complacent after getting a single girl to say yes to go on a date with you. Not to be pessimistic, but who knows, she might flake. Seduction itself isn't so difficult to learn. You will get the hang of it the more you do it and realize it is a numbers game. Numbers that can improve with better skills and confidence. However, attracting high quality women is difficult. And attracting these t… | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How many failures are needed before a success?It's a numbers game. Which is why it's important that you be improving or fairly successful in other aspects of your life as well. Also don't get discouraged by daygame - it's harder when your sober but the difficulty definitely carries over. Also get used to getting tons of numbers and girls flaking, at least for a while. Girls give out numbers like candy. Good text game will take you farther and logistics are controllable but sometimes related to luck. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Just approached a girl. .I agree. It's not a post that deserves to be on the front page and have 700 upvotes. Hell, I can't remember the last time I saw a F-close FR on the front page of seddit. Quality's been dipping here for quite a while. Most things that get upvoted are blogs by unknown dating coaches looking to widen their clientele base or upsell product. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Just approached a girl. .I agree dude. This is a nice small victory, but that's it. It's certainly not a post that adds any type of value to the sub, especially doesn't warrant garnering 700 upvotes and front page status. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Just a story about success rising from failure.Technically you're still failing. But you're taking it in stride. Which is what successful people do. Keep on keeping on. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 05:14 AM |
| 1 | The book that helped me the mostI haven't been able to access it. Any chance you could upload it on dropbox or mega or something? thanks. | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 01:56 PM |
| 2 | My 6 month journey and how I've changedSome random blondie in the world has pictures of my dick, big deal. Will be a big deal when you become somebody. This is the kinda shit that bites you in the back. | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 02:35 AM |
| 4 | [FR]First EDR Concert. Fun yet still got a lot of work to doThis is going to sound mean but this isn't an FR. You made zero approaches. Also you literally put a girl on a pedestal, with you as the pedestal. Asking to carry a girl is not game dude. It's weak passive shit. At least you are able to have fun but no one cares about you going to a concert. Try having an actual conversation dude in an environment that isn't horny youth dancing. Also look up DiCarlo escalation model. | /r/seduction | 24/02/14 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Here's a really easy thing I accidentally picked up that makes girls way more receptive when you approach themAmazon link to it by any chance? | /r/seduction | 14/10/13 07:52 PM |
| 12 | More for all you DJs and Casanovas since seduction loved my last post (tinder game and text convo)Look dude this sub is whatever you want it to be but this community was born out of a desire to attract women. Not everyone is going to run Mark Manson type honest/vulnerable game all the way through. Don't judge this guy because he knows what he wants and his game doesn't conform to your ideals. Your post reeks of white knightedness dude. Not cool to rag on this guy for good game. | /r/seduction | 06/09/13 08:03 PM |
| 1 | A note to rising freshman in college: beware of the differences between college game and club/bar game.Yep, spot on. Some girls are fairly independent, but most cute girls are a part of one outgoing clique or multiple and attracting them requires a whole new level of social mastery. | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 01:48 PM |
| 3 | What would be a good movie to watch with a girl?Release your Kaiju! | /r/seduction | 19/07/13 02:24 AM |
| 18 | How do you take a rejection smoothly?Smile, say "It was nice to meet you." Walk away. | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 09:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Had my night comprehensively ruined, but a few positivesTo your other friends or any girl who asks really. | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 06:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Had my night comprehensively ruined, but a few positivesIf you know your friends a lighty do him a favor and say he has bloodwork or something being done in the morning and he can't drink. If not then tell him to man up and just tell the truth. | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 06:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First #-close from the dance floor; I'm interested in seddit's thoughts.Drinking's ovverrated, daygame is better for inner game. Try it. Nice dodge on fb shit test. Moar kino too! | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 09:28 AM |
| 3 | How do you not take rejection personally?Not to take away anything from your post but tl;dr: Stop giving a fuck, develop abundance mindset by meeting more girls, invest in yourself more than a relationship with girls, stop fantasizing about a girl it makes you more needy | /r/seduction | 30/04/13 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Any other minorities feel like Quasimoto after a harsh night of getting rejected over and over?AFC logic is a slippery slope, my friend. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 02:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] #-close at ex-boss' girlfriend's surprise birthday party.Used to do this during daygame all the time then wondered why some girls wouldn't text/call back. Numbers are pretty much like candy given out freely by girls. By leaving immediately after you just cheapen the conversation and give them a reason to think you are not genuine in everything else you talked about. It's I think symptomatic of weak inner game. Good start regardless and keep having fun. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 02:51 PM |
| 1 | What is the first thing you say to a girl you are attracted to after you introduce yourself?Direct game + this and immediate comfort building for me. I find this too be most time efficient way. Also once I have comfort I can tease a girl and be as sarcastic as I want without losing any rapport. I like to go indirect game in class because I can see a girl repeatedly over time and then go for a study date but day game is where I get best results. | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 11:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 30 seconds from approach to k-closeSaw her yesterday with one of her sisters (she's a sorority girl). She noticed me first and I was sitting outside near the middle of campus at a table enjoying my drink and scouting potential girls I want to approach. I haven't kept in contact because I'm busy with other things. She was checking me out and kind of dancing around. Seriously it looked like she was doing salsa or something, I was kind of impressed. She was checking me out and greeted me with a long drawn out "oh heyyyyyy." I said h… | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Before I spend a lot of cash, who's Day Game stuff is the best to look into?Replying here in case you or thepimpandthepriest finds it. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 05:27 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Another fuck up added to my belt.I agree. He seemed pretty incongruent. Girl wanted him to be genuine but he just came across as immature. Also OP you're creating a bunch of hoops to jump through for yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 07:01 AM |
| 0 | A different view on the way you use the things you learn from this sub.So what happen with you and the guy? | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 11:36 PM |
| 4 | Major sticking points. Buying temperature. College game.Hah yea. I've been there in my first tremors and body earthquakes early on while gaming. Just think of it like going back to the gym for the first time in a long time, afterwards your body is super sore and it hurts to just turn your body. You adjust to pain and your muscles develop as you keep going. Keep pushing and don't talk yourself out of escalating when you've already hooked a set. Train your mental muscles. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 04:34 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/22/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Keep escalating until you get a direct verbal rejection. Ask for her number next time. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 07:44 PM |
| 14 | Your first approachGTFO of here until you make at least 15 approaches. I believe in you, bro. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 07:39 PM |
| -1 | Some texting convo from last night. I wasn't even trying to game but thought you guys might like it.Yea fuck the down voters. People who downvote really need to read Models. OP is honest with himself and girl in his game because he is so lowly invested in her. Keep playing, playa. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Am I doing something right?First of all you're doing great just by trying! That you're seemingly naturally charismatic, charming and funny means you are doing well. Sounds like you should read up on IOIs because your friend B is right and she is definitely into you! Don't second guess on whether girls like you - remember always assume attraction. You seem to be doing well with push/pull and flirting in general. Keep it going and definitely keep escalating the next time you see her. The bar/club scene is perfect for that. … | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Fellow sedditors, what would you have done?Yup, the path to AMOGing these guys and getting the girl is befriending the obstacles. If you were too unsure if you could successfully handle the three guys, a difficult task especially in a restaurant, you should have direct opened when she was walking back from the restroom. Tell her you wanted to meet her and buy some time with her by joking if you were stealing her away from her boyfriend. Doing something is better than nothing. | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 07:45 AM |
| 3 | One-Itis, Self-Confidence, and why my game got better after I stopped reading /r/SeductionYep, initiative and the willingness to put yourself out there is such a DHV. This realization and the use of direct game is so money for me. I think if you've opened and cold approached at least 15 sets each, AA should not be a major issue anymore. I get recurring mild AA with super hot chicks but every time I talk to them I get reminded that they aren't different, though I do calibrate my game to show that I am though. | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 08:49 AM |
| 1 | One-Itis, Self-Confidence, and why my game got better after I stopped reading /r/SeductionRegarding oneitis - the swing of emotions on a girl you even mildly crush on Is such a thrill. That feel when you are finally over heartbreak and ready to conquer the world is something I can't adequately describe. About style - yep, find what works for you and keep doing it. There is no one size fits all technique. Also "winning" the game for some people isn't about leaving the community or even entering a monogamous relationship. Most of the people part of this sub are from western society whe… | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 07:44 AM |
| 1 | This has happened to me 3 times with different girls recently. how can i help this?You wouldn't happen to live in your frat house? | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Get over your fear of rejectionYep, definitely not your target audience in mind but I do have a favor to ask. Do you have an RSS feed for your page? Also are there any other PUA sources you might recommend? I'm trying to get a good PUA tab with 8-10 sources on my pulse news rss reader. Thanks for any help with this. | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Successful Number CloseNice. I like how that removes the pressure from you and makes you seem more mysterious but confident. Going to try that. | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Get over your fear of rejectionTLDR: Nothing you don't already know or have not heard. | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 02:30 AM |
| 7 | Successful Number CloseSome girls have called me a 6 on a ten scale. I'm not super fit but just average weight/size and a little skinny fat. I've gotten numbers with less or just as much. Sometimes you're in a hurry or you just want to FTC yourself before anxiety hits you, I've direct opened and said I thought the HB was cute and that I had to run to class but she should give me her number. At least for me in set, I feel that air of confidence, almost as if its tangible, but really I think I communicate that by my voi… | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 01:01 AM |
| 2 | For those of you who had vicious approach anxiety, what did you do to finally cold approach a girl?For me when I decided to make my first approach, that first step was the heaviest then as I continued I felt like I was on rails unable to go back or turn away now and focused my mind on approaching before succumbing to the fear of what might happen. When the result of the conversation was not even a direct rejection, just a conversation that went nowhere mostly due to my stuttering and arm twitching, I was able to move past and elevate my inner game after cringing for a little after that. Might… | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Need help, I hope this is the right placeYep, if you want, Keep it simple, stupid (KISS). | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Story about last night and how terrible I am at seductionI would just say shit like this for amusement. I like saying cheesy shit because it's funny and helps me stay/get into state. Really, if you've built rapport girls will laugh and love all the cheesy shit you say. You might get called out on it but really having fun is so important. | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Need help, I hope this is the right placeNext time you make eye contact, approach her. It gets creepy if you keep staring at girls and don't make a move. Talk to her about her day, relate to working at the same place, make eye contact and listen. If you are attracted to her, tell her she seems cool and tell her she should give you her number. | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 03:47 AM |
| -2 | Story about last night and how terrible I am at seductionPerfect opportunity to use the Tony Stark line. I would say something like, "I need my beauty sleep too, but I'm willing to lose a few hours with you." If she still resists, reschedule and act indifferent. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have advice about going out solo?I would say don't think just do. Roll with whatever happens. As long you're doing something concrete to improve your inner game. When you believe in yourself, your confidence around others should flow naturally. | /r/seduction | 14/02/13 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone have advice about going out solo?Studying material especially inner game and then gaming at least twice as much as a I studied. Become an approach bot. AA is nonexistent for me now because my body and my mind has dually accepted how irrational is the fear of rejection. At the beginning I knew it was irrational consciously, but I still subconsciously feared what would happen. When the worst thing that happened to me was "sorry, I have a boyfriend" or "you're really sweet, but not right now,'' I was able to just move on. I'm not … | /r/seduction | 12/02/13 12:27 AM |
| 14 | Does anyone have advice about going out solo?Day game. When I first started I was a trembling, stuttering fool now I can hold a decent conversation, hold eye contact and talk without fear of judgement. Also remove alcohol before you go out at night or cut down to just a few drinks. Work on your inner game. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 08:42 AM |
| 4 | Approached a girl today, found out she was a lesbian, greatest thing I've ever doneTake her pick up advice with a grain of salt. Don't try and insert too much insider info that she gives you about her friends into conversations. Let it flow naturally. Good job and keep approaching! | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 08:25 AM |
| 6 | How can I teach myself to speak slower?talk to yourself in the mirror. Anyone asks what your doing, say your practicing for an interview/speech. Get comfortable hearing yourself talk. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 02:05 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Used a great opener in library, had trouble transitioning and getting a number close.In a setting such as a library I wouldn't recommend anything but a direct opener. Girls aren't looking to talk and try to pick up that you're flirting with them when they're cramming for tests. When you go with a direct opener here, you have her immediate attention, which is no longer divided between her work and you. You can quickly set a time restraint making both you and her comfortable. | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with haters(especially close friends)Have you told them how you feel when they do this? Communicate, if they continue with undermining you in front of others it reflects some insecurity on their part and you may need to cut them out. Also sometimes your actions in pulling speak louder than words. My friend occasionally gave me shit for my lack of experience, not in front of others but he was quickly won over by my confidence, attitude and success when I started getting some results. Now he is inspired by my intrepid attitude in tal… | /r/seduction | 06/02/13 08:42 AM |
| 34 | [deleted by user]There's a lesson to be learned in respecting personal space and still escalating kino in a smooth consistent manner. That said, without more details I'm assuming these guys were drunk and belligerent. I don't think most PUAs are so brazen to open a set of 5+ and then just squeeze their way into the middle in a threatening manner. Anyone who's watched in-field pickup video should know there's a respectful way to hook a set and successfully open them by simply using a verbal hookpoint to catch the… | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 02:50 AM |
| 9 | Seduction Essentials: The Qualms of Being an Attractive GuySeriously, you can't move on and improve until you do that. Try to blow sets on purpose. "Confidence is not knowing that you will always win, but that you will always try" | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 03:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] K-close. E-close. More daygaming.Fair enough. Like minds and all that jazz. Feel free to PM me them too. Nothing better than being on /r/trees or /r/gameofthrones and seeing I have mail. | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 12:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] K-close. E-close. More daygaming.Lol are mine that boring? | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 04:07 AM |
| 10 | I have studied, read, and prepared. Tomorrow it's put to use.I'd like an FR regardless | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 07:57 AM |
| 2 | My[M20] experience of getting over AA. (A few ideas that might help other guys get over AA, especially in a college setting)Ha, at school, not getting blown out was one of the first major milestones I had yet to hit. I had girls who were interested and certainly aroused by my openness and interest, I just could go nowhere with it until I started getting rejected, whether on purpose, for lack of enough good game, or amusement. Even naturals or guys with good looks became impressed at my confidence because after the first dozen rejections, I was unfazed. | /r/seduction | 31/01/13 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Solo daygame beginner.Try throwing in direct openers during daygame, rejections are nothing to me now and shit tests are easy to recognize. The worst rejection I've got during daygame was from a girl with a boyfriend who said she was sorry but still happily chatted with me. I'm still waiting for some massive bitch to reject me, but I doubt it'll happen anytime soon while I'm daygaming. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Newbie problem with "qualification"You're overthinking and you need to go out and just socialize first. Regarding qualification - imagine I'm an HR recruiter and I'm interviewing you for say an administrative position, what type of questions would I ask you to ascertain whether you're the right fit or capable of being the right fit? Now put your mind in the state of a matchmaker. Who would you match yourself with? If you buttfumble here and don't think you know yourself as well as you should, imagine you're matchmaking for a frie… | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 11:24 AM |
| 7 | ITT: We post our best lines/moves/whateverIn case anyone was wondering. "Do you guys know much does a polar bear weighs?" You can probably wait for their response or you can interject,"enough to break the ice". Introduce yourself to the set as you deliver the punchline. It's popularized in some movie but it should work anyway. | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 08:07 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Daygaming, pushing boundaries, developing inner game.I'm a 6, based on what I've told by girls. Average height, skinny fat. Adorable cheeks (so I've been told in bed). I'm the type of guy that looks super nice and also friendly, usually a smile from me even when I'm caught checking out girls make them mimic my behavior. I guess you can say my type of look is advantageous and also disadvantageous. Girls might not expect much from me at first but this might also be why direct openers, confident frame, and kino work relatively easy and well. Also it … | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 10:06 PM |
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