I k-closed the HB that I discussed in my last field report, the one who #-closed me in class. We met up for a study date this weekend for an upcoming test. It was 5 people including myself, 2 other girls, 1 other guy and HB. It was steady going for most of the hour we spent [trying] to study. I wasn't worried about the class because the midterm was relatively straight forward and something I could digest within a few hours of study. I could have dominated conversation if I wanted to but I decided to let the group conversate for themselves. I said a few sentences, mostly stuck to brief answers. I noticed the girl was totally not dressed for a study date - IOI #1. On a break, I poked through one of the holes in her sweater to initiate kino and said it looked comfortable, HB laughed and talked about where she bought it. Anyways nothing really happened until she mentioned she needed to go back to the library to return a book. I said I'd join her and we walked on the way just talking about various interests and things we were doing. I asked her whether she was going to return back home after returning the book, she said yes and I took the opportunity to invite her back to study with me in my apartment. She said yes immediately, IOI #2. We get to my apartment and I'm having escalation anxiety afraid to take it sexual. I then decide to make my move by playing the question game. I lightly tread first with simple get to know her questions, of course she follows my lead, then I make it sexual. I start to ask about her boyfriends, the most romantic thing someone's done for her, etc. Then I go for the k-line, take your pick gentleman, either go with, "would you like to kiss me?" or as I did, ask how good of a kisser she was rating up to 10. She says she didn't know, smirks and gets ready to be kissed, I go for it. We start making out, I quickly move her into my room and I take most of my clothes off but she says upfront that we are not having sex. I don't say anything to this, at least not aloud, I just keep making out, ripping out her clothes down to undies, I try to be dominant and teasing in bed to go all the way. I try a freeze out a half hour later, does not work. Anyways, after about a few hours of making out on my bed, my stomach reminds me that I am hungry and have not eaten for 8 hours since I skipped lunch. We go to dinner and I decide to set up a date later.

The 2nd approach was a daygame one where I walked up to a girl, who I originally thought was a cute Asian HB7 who helped me double check an answer from one of my class labs. I asked her if she was the cute chick from my math class and she wasn't so I went back to my seat. I realized about 2 minutes later I blew a perfect opportunity to initiate game with her regardless. Disappointing too, she smiled so brightly at me when I opened her. If I run into her again I'll re-initiate. I was feeling down on daygaming again before this interaction as I dealt with oneitis of the girl I k-closed but despite the fail it renewed my faith. I wasn't even embarassed just an old AFC habit I guess.

3rd approach was of an HB9, I told her I thought she was cute and that I wanted to meet her. She smiled and we conversed for a little bit about the basics - where she was from, what she was studying, career aspirations. I go for the #-close and I end up with an e-mail instead. No harm in sending one but really as a college student I'm pretty unaware of how to go about writing this e-mail and my only frame of reference for conversation e-mails is dontevenreply.com.

Last is an interaction with a girl I've been slowly trying to get through to very slowly in the past few weeks since I share several classes with her. I go into class with my bud who I discuss girls with every now and then, he notices how the girl says hi to me and notices how I am trying to get to know her. Girl decides to sit next to me in class and as she does it mentions how she says she should sit next to her 'only friend' in class. I joke and tell her, "whoa there, we're not friends," cue my friend laughing. I was just cocky-funny during the whole class. Girl asks me if we should start lab early, I tell her I don't need to be told what to do, friend laughs further. Girl asks me for help with some of the problem set, I help her and she complements me saying I'm a genius, I tell her that I know confidently, girl smiles and friend is close to losing it at this point. Anyways, I hurry up and finish and say good night to her. Friend laughs again and gives me props for my confidence. I fear I've blew it with her though, I # closed three weeks ago and she's expressed interest over text about wanting to study. I felt I was lacking rapport but I guess now is a good of time as any to go for it.

Anyways look forward to your guys feedback and can I get some opinions of direct openers? I feel like it's the best way to get results in school as otherwise my indirect openers get mistaken as being social and than going for a # close gets weird.